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You don’t need to make great pics and looksmax because that’s superficial.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 04:00 PM
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Submit your profile and I’ll tell you why it’s not working. You’re also new in that new smaller city. There’s also more competition, but more available in big city, so it’s a give take.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 03:58 PM
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Successful players with attractive girls yes. There’s a bald chubby guy with a decent place getting a 5 girlfriend or dates whenever he wants. Online only wants to point at the guys with harems of pretty girls, which exist if you’re the top 1% of single men. Somehow other guys get action to, somebody has to be piping all these girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 02:04 PM
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Social media put us in a trend of hyper masculinity and hyper femininity, so we can stand out and be celebrities in our own world. Being tall, muscular, and overtly masculine with facial hair were not nearly as heavily desired by women 20 years ago. When you have these masculine strong qualities, she knows her picture with you on social media will make her look more feminine in comparison. Before this male trend being a clean shaven, sharply dressed metrosexual was popular, men were more flamboy…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 11:11 PM
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If you want a relationship you kind of need to put some focus on finding a girlfriend. I let dating consume my life for a few months, get a relationship and then bail. If you’re single or dating too long I’m not sure that’s living a best life, but for some perhaps.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 05:48 PM
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There’s 3 types of single women. Doesn’t put herself out there, no dates, alone. Hops easily from one ltr to next, not that hypergamous, has a keen eye for commitment oriented men. Actively dates top down on her best options, on dating apps, goes on dates a lot, love bombs and is passionate with men she desires. The active dater is bound to get used, but she also has the highest potential partner by putting herself out there. It’s tough because women don’t like to be rejected after being passion…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 03:06 PM
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How to be a beautiful woman in 2024: Lean to more Eurocentric facial phenotype Plump lips Dark golden to light cream skin Big eyes and eyelashes High cheekbones Long silky hair Small slender nose with tip and slight uptick Round butt Cleavage Flat stomach Nearly every single instagram model will match this. Every cosmetic procedure and makeup routine will try to address any of these listed beauty standards. The controversial one is Eurocentric facial phenotype, but it’s true.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 01:54 PM
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Once population growth goes below replacement likely governments will take away women’s rights until they are reliant on men to take care of them. Which is the norm throughout Middle East and parts of Africa where birth rates are higher. Capitalism basically requires population growth. Not saying I want this, but taking back away abortion rights is the start.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 08:04 PM
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Fair enough, I really don’t know, if I try this again I’m going to say forget about the 50% of women who have barely to no interest in dating, men, and prefer celibacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 06:39 PM
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I didn’t know this post would turn into happily celibate women chiming in. I kinda stated in the post twice now you really don’t apply to the type of girl that we’re mostly as guys going to end up on a date with. I haven’t been on a date in a decade, okay well yes these women exist, but we don’t take them on dates or realize they exist in that sense because they more happy being celibate.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 06:37 PM
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I’ll try the post again in a few months and clarify girls that you would meet on dating apps or at events or bars that have an active interest in a relationship. To me there’s 30% of single girls that don’t care about men and 30% who would like to have a relationship. The rest are just in between or not that active. If all women want to do is point out themselves who haven’t gone on a date for years or never put themselves out there for guys. Then you won the argument, it’s not really the point …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 06:30 PM
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I kind of wrongly assumed on this post we would talk about girls who date or desire a boyfriend. Not women that have basically made themselves exempt from the dating market. Reddit commenters are often mostly just interested in poking holes in your argument than considering what the regular single girl who wishes to have a relationship acts. Which is the point, clearly there are single women that don’t even think about getting a relationship. We’re not romantically considering them though.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 06:25 PM
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I think it’s too late to go back now on the post, wish I would’ve added, if you’re on a date with a girl. Obviously there’s a strong percentage of women that don’t have getting a boyfriend as one of their current goals.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 06:20 PM
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Im sectioning out single girls, not population.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 06:17 PM
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No I’m not aware of these men on social media. I didn’t know there was paying service of girls to pose with. Guys I know might post a story of them with a cool car but don’t say this is mine and lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 06:16 PM
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Would you place having a relationship as one of your top 3 wants in 2024?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 06:14 PM
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Let’s just say this is half of single women. Guys don’t know they exist, it’s not the girls we go on dates with or meet at events/bars because they don’t do that. If she’s gone years without sex guys might recognize her as a sexual being. The single girls we know that exist, I don’t think they would go 6 months.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 06:12 PM
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Every girl I’ve hung out with socially and their girlfriends. Girls on here are like just me, my cat, my vibrator that’s all I need for a decade. I don’t think they’re lying I just don’t interact with any of these girls to even know that would be the case. If that was their attitude I likely wouldn’t ask them out either.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 06:08 PM
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How do you go 4 years without some guy asking at least for drinks, do you just not put yourself out there like that at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 06:03 PM
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I would think it could be up to 35%.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 06:01 PM
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If your looksmatch with good job says let’s go bowling and you know he wants you, do you go?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 06:00 PM
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Yea I don’t really know any girls that are social and would accept a date from a guy that I think would go longer than 6 months. I know girls like this exist, but if they were just peachy with going years without a guy I very likely wouldn’t want them in the first place, nor would I know where to find them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 05:55 PM
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What percent of single girls in their 20s do you think have gone 6 months without kissing a guy and just happy with themselves and their vibrator.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 05:48 PM
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It’s hard for guys to quantify what part of the single market are girls that we don’t know exist. It’s a lot of girls, but we’re mostly meeting girls who go out and go on dates so it’s kind of irrelevant to talk about the girls that are okay going years without getting romantic affection from a guy. We don’t get exposure to these women or think about it because they’re not giving any choosing signals or posting their butt on gram for us to notice.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 05:46 PM
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To me attractive men is relative to their market. Chad or handsome man with Ferrari is usually 8+ girls. An above average guy with good career who’s smooth is 6-8/10 girls. Then there are obese ugly guys that got swag and hit up the femcels. When I think about the 80/20 rule I don’t think it’s all the same types of guys. It’s the 20% of guys that are satisfying the casual single girls market as a whole. They are attractive options to women in their range.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 05:33 PM
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These types of people are so hard to find in the singles world, because they are almost always taken. Escape the world of dating around. These girls that I know that hop from relationship to the next don’t sleep around much either. Seem to make for better partners from my perspective as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 05:27 PM
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Ha, if you met her on a dating app or at the club I would go under this same assumption.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 05:22 PM
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You’re going to have to explain this more, I know many guys that go long stretches without affection. If the girl is any type that would go on dates, she won’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 05:20 PM
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Unless she just really wanted to get with that particular guy and was fine with it being casual, I think women regret giving affection in hindsight or sometimes as it’s happening in the moment. Is this what you’re saying? I still don’t think most single women will go years without affection.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 05:17 PM
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Hug from friends is not romantic affection. I would call making out as 1st base affection.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 05:07 PM
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Sure but this is more about girls who would go on dates. Also, it’s not just about sex, about affection too. Girls that are very religious still get with guys, they just stop before sex, they get their affection desires met.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 05:05 PM
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Only because women chase men with options and can date men out of their league. They also hookup so often on dates because they want that man, and hope it leads to relationship. This is what men talk about with top 10% of men with the ladies, he’s so good with connecting with girls and successful pua, that is what turns a girl on. If he’s comparable to that guy, hasn’t got laid in 2 years and nervous, women will be turned off by him. Being attracted to smooth men is the foundation of women’s har…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 03:53 PM
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Guys don’t look at race as types in the way women do. Dating as many races as I have had little to do with preference I just wanted that girl. When I was dating a black girl I wasn’t saying this is my type, it’s just I thought she was hot, which can cause preferences, but usually not. Some women think a guy dates an Asian or marries one, well he fetishizes Asian women, whereas in most cases he just liked that girl, if it was any other race it would be the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 03:43 PM
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If he’s talking about being single and getting laid when you want like 80/20 thing, then it’s prob 10%. The fact it’s such a hassle to get laid is part of the reason men get into relationships. The top 10% of guys hang in the market for the easy access they have with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 03:36 PM
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This would help so much. Add in how many people are you currently having sex with and is one of them an ex.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 03:29 PM
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Moderators will lock and delete more half the posts people make on this sub, somehow sexual assault and bears in the woods passes all the filters.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 03:27 PM
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Farmers are the rich in Iowa what are you talking about. I come from small town, farmers kids were the ballers. Oh you downvote me because you’re a rich farmer’s daughter go it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 12:37 AM
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Most players and successful people are dark triad sociopaths. Not a big surprise that women are attracted to men that are emotionally manipulative and ruthless.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 12:17 AM
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Wth if this isn’t a joke and you’re at least a 5/10 and not fat, you’re going to slay.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 10:30 PM
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Your company got a website? Put owner of that company. Hopefully you got a LinkedIn. You got 6 cool pics with good backgrounds? Good grief if you’re a presentable guy and want a wife this should be shooting fish in a barrel. Hinge is good because you can put your exact location, girls know the good zip codes. Hinge also got the cute girls who want a family.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 10:17 PM
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Put it in your dating bio you’re looking to start a family, have 4 door vehicle, nice place. Women 31-36 esp start getting the biological urge to have a child. You put that in her head that your intentions are a wife on the women with that interest, they going to have preference to you. Players will implore on dating intentions to women, if she says she wants to be a wife and have a family soon, they just say they do too to get with her. I got a friend that was in his 40s he wanted a kid so bad …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 10:05 PM
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Yea you should have a cavalier chill attitude. All girls desire the same physical features, tall, broad frame, lantern jaw, hunter eyes, rectangular head. No girl desires weak features or small guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 09:56 PM
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When guys aren’t conventionally attractive and still pull cute girls and get girlfriends, they have some swag that can’t really be taught. The absolute best thing you can do for yourself to appeal to women is be as physically attractive as you can. Being proactive and social gets you girls, just focusing on yourself and being confident and not a pushover applies to anything in life. You want a girl you’re going to need to start talking to them somehow.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 09:38 PM
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The primary factor in any girl that got with and said why, girl said thought you were cute. When I got a beer gut no girl wanted me, I lost the gut then girls were attracted to me again. Unless you’re a beautiful man, you got to put yourself out there to girls sometimes. They’re not coming for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 09:25 PM
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Pretty general life advice for guys. Could work for attracting proximity girls at work or social circles, or maintaining attraction. Telling guys to look into dark triad narcissist behaviors prob not going to work unless they already are. Guys that are really focused on attraction looksmax and lifestylemax, and project to women their life is fun or interesting from a woman’s benefit perspective. Talking to women or having a social profile that says I travel a lot and stay in airbnbs, go to exclu…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 07:29 PM
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Anytime I’ve gotten in that situation they brush it off, lie, or just expect you to put up with it. It’s like no you can’t do single girl ho sht all night.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 05:01 PM
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There’s definitely that, if you really want her you might have to accept being an option while she sorts it out. Giving up the single girl lifestyle is an addiction to itself. Last girlfriend agreed, then year later she started going out with friends acting single, got too much and she wouldn’t quit so I broke up with her. Current girlfriend went kicking and screaming in a sense into a relationship with me. Her single friends pleading with her not to, demonizing me. She broke it off a couple tim…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 04:25 PM
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If the right opportunity arises for the okay looking girl to land a hot guy, even if it’s a quickie she might do it. Hot guys still trying to actually date around their looksmatch though. Chad still has to take girls on dates, or invite her to do something fun if he wants a girl in his looks league.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 04:06 PM
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I’ve asked some hot girls this question before, and why it’s gotten worse in social media era. What they say is attractive women can get elite fun sometimes anywhere. Invited to exclusive house parties, events, tables at club, on a party boat etc. Guys who host these things if they see a 5/10 girl with 2 8/10s the guy will tell the mid girl she can’t come on the boat, can’t go into club area where celebrity is etc. The 5/10 girl expects them to bail on the party for her, and they don’t and she g…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 04:01 PM
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Girls rate me 5-7/10. I lifestylemaxed my gram is reason, gets girls attention on apps. I tried to put regular pics up as a test and it don’t work. Girls on dates hook up with and willing to be your sex doll because they see you as boyfriend material. Being a chad is def better, that’s ultimate, but hardly any guy is a true model looking chiseled guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 03:06 PM
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Girls in 20s with no kids can pretty easily get 2 points out of their league, otherwise they likely to be a pump and dump which most women tend to avoid.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 02:14 PM
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Only 8s hot girls can get a 10 to take them out on a date. 10 guys aren’t going to seriously date an 8, maybe date for a bit if she lucky. Girls in 20s get to date out of their league, that’s their privilege, ends up being more like a curse for many of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 01:34 PM
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So you just travel the world hooking up with chicks, how do you most of them. Dating is better or worse likely per city as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 01:07 PM
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If you can get dating apps going with right pics and I got my instagram attached. Dating apps are the closest thing to magic I’ve ever experienced. A pretty girl will just show up where you want, have a couple drinks, likely come over and hop into bed with you. It’s so easy and convenient, I rarely even try to get a date in real life. I went on so many dates after my divorce, I was a kid in a candy store, dated all types of girls 20-40. Girls are usually fun, first dates aren’t awkward you’re ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 12:22 PM
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Don’t let a dating app define you at all, it’s just a digital nightclub.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 12:04 PM
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It’s really just about being attractive and fun to be around to get people wanting you. Sticking to your kind can help I suppose.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 03:44 AM
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Without working on an instagram for years there would be no chance I slept with 90 and got 3 girlfriends way out my looks league, being off on and on apps last 8 years after divorce. Instagram is the ultimate social online validation. If you got a cool fun gram profile, girls will go out. Aside from that I can’t stand the gram, just fake faceapp look at me nonsense, people selling some service, and tiktok reels. Girls that are addicted to it get a warped sense of reality. Reddit is addictive to …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 01:47 AM
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Too good lol, add in what Brads and normies do.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 08:42 PM
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Unless she’s known to be the town bicycle and carries that scarlet letter, I’m not sure how you’re going to know either way. I would not even flinch if I somehow knew a girl had 50. As long as she was doing just me and wanted just me, it’s irrelevant to me in particular. Every girl I’ve ever personally known has gone through a ho phase or 2, I’m not saying oh no that’s too many unless she’s a swinger or a prostitute, don’t think about it. The argument guys will make and based on any experience. …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 08:08 PM
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I’m not sure if it helps or makes it worse. If you care about dating and want to get the best partner or a harem of models then guys need to looksmax and lifestylemax and get practice. Women need to looksmax, be effervescent, and have a job. Anything else is just noise and theories. Dating can easily turn into an addictive rabbit hole of unhappiness if you stay in the world too long.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 08:02 PM
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It’s pointless to complain or come up with any theory, stats, or anecdotal evidence to support it. Natural instinct of polygamy vs hypergamy. Both sides want a dopamine rush, love, and security. That’s why it’s hard, so people going to complain.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 07:36 PM
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You got this wrong, what men complain about on this sub is that most 6+/10 women who are on the dating market refuse to date men in their league. They would much rather be part of a desirable man’s harem than date a guy that’s in her league. Once she hits her 30s and all the hot guys and rich handsome men have passed her around, she will go for the betabux option to try and settle. I don’t know what percentage of single dating women this is, but it appears to be most from my perspective. Guys ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 07:11 PM
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Yes. However, guys that I know that use prostitutes the most are rich and handsome. Girl I talked to at a party was gorgeous, 100k job. She told me she was dating this hot guy that would get girls off seeking arrangement with friends, and play sex games with them, and pass her around. Saying only losers use prostitutes is not true at all, anyone can be addicted to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 06:53 PM
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Guys care about looks and personality so much they will run through any red flag to get with her. If he gets into relationship he may later regret that decision. If you don’t think guys will do that I think you’re wrong, happens all the time. Just like girls ignore red flags for desirable men, they just want that guy, period.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 06:47 PM
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The guy that snaps fingers and gets who he wants, is the trait that evokes the most lust from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 06:43 PM
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That or she has 2 other situationships she hopes works out, if they fall apart she thinking you could be a solid backup. That happened in my current relationship. I’m kinda happy I got strung along then hit back up months later, let me know she doesn’t just do everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 06:13 PM
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In the late 90s and early 2000s you would be ridiculed for years by your friends taking a girl you don’t know on a date. You just asked girls to hang or go to some party or event. Most women before would be horrified if they got setup on a date with a guy. Now we summon drivers, food to our house, and date to show up where we want. Times and preferences change. Half the girls I know are much more comfortable online dating instead of being approached by random men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 06:09 PM
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Yep. Benjamin is her 3 star recruit redshirt freshman on the bench with potential.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 05:56 PM
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Your metaphors are gold, women searching for 5 star recruits is so true. If you don’t know much about the girl, I’m not sure how promiscuity goes into dating decisions. If you feel like she’s just been dating for 10 years then perhaps. That’s more she’s not relationship material or has a character flaw. A woman’s promiscuity is circumstantial to the situation and the guy. I have 3 friends and we were in stretches of dating, I would ask how many girls hookup the first date, range was 50-70%. Then…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 05:46 PM
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He’s so ridiculous, I’ll agree on cringe. He’s a funny guy with some real tips mixed in. Matching her energy to everything she does is gold one that has helped me a lot. Concept is if she takes a day to respond, you take a day to respond.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 05:31 PM
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That channel relevant to this sub, I like alpha male strategies for the crack up. He will also walk you through scenarios to make yourself appear not needy and more high value. How to manage your harem effectively, or get laid quicker. He doesn’t talk in scientific absolutes, interesting channel qoves but saddening about the human favoring condition.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 05:24 PM
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The concept that the dating market is just a bunch of guys looking for hookups is a fairytale women tell themselves to keep their current rate of self esteem. The biggest players I’ve ever known will try and lock down a girl and give up their options for her if he really wants her. Also, biggest players I know don’t just run around asking girls to hook up, they going for highest quality, and invite them out with their friends or a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 05:13 PM
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I find this list highly irrelevant for any girl that most guys would say is attractive, not just incels. 20lbs overweight but looking thiccy fine, weight not important. Has a kid, but is looking banging on instagram, he’ll love milfs. If you got no girls currently, this list will mean nothing to you for a girl you’re attracted to until you’re in a relationship. Then you may have buyers remorse.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 05:07 PM
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They are good videos, but I haven’t ran into anything I would classify as beneficial. More depressing on how things usually work out based on attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 05:03 PM
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There is so much variation on what high body count is or means. To me if it was 40 guys and she’s in her late 20s, and hasn’t had a ltr that might be average or non-consequential in my eyes. The reason is, if she’s a 7+ especially she has multiple chances to have sex everyday of her life. Sometimes I don’t think we give women enough credit for sleeping with as few guys as they do. If you flipped the opportunity for sex by gender, most guys would rack up 100s of partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 05:00 PM
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You can take whatever perspective. Girls will think they are settling because most have dated better men than who she will end up with. If the girl is rational she will realize she never had a realistic chance of marrying those guys, and settles for the guy who treats her better that she later falls in love with. If a guy can date in perpetuity he will go after the girl that really pushes his buttons and adores. Some guys can’t really do that so he settles for the girl that adores him.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 04:55 PM
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All guys know asking for basically a hookup is a very low percentage chance of getting laid. You get laid by taking a girl to a nice fun place for a few cocktails, get her talking about herself and be interested in her life. Guy doesn’t see you as worthy of that, so he just throws the hail mary want to hook up.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 04:38 PM
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Guys don’t ask girls for hookups that he sees as a potential real relationship. He takes her out and treats her like a real girlfriend. If he really likes her, he will ask her to be exclusive nearly immediately after couple dates to lock her down. I’m just explaining how dating men with options date. Women don’t swipe right on loser guys with bad profiles. Guys don’t just look for hookups from attractive women he sees as a potential partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 04:29 PM
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Most guys don’t understand anything about what it takes to “sell” women for dates. Guys assume you will rate their face and look at their body and give you a ranking. That will only work for the guys that are noticeably attractive. What guys should be working on is selling a specific social lifestyle that matches her interests. In your case you want husband material, a guy needs to craft a persona that he is a ready made husband. The problem is with this, is the guy set up the profile as a sales…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 04:27 PM
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Start swiping right on more guys, and you’ll get less men asking for a hookup, and more trying to take you on a date and ask you for a relationship. Guys with many dating options act much different than guys with little or none.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 04:19 PM
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Girls only chase guys with dating options. This is OP story she’s only swiping right on high value men with crafted pics. When the guy ask for hookups he doesn’t see her worthy to court, the fact that girls don’t understand this is so laughable to hear this over and over. If you’re a guy with dating options and you see a girl on your level or out of your league, he’s not asking for a hookup, he’s asking for a date, then a relationship. Guys with dating options (that all girls want) will try to p…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 04:05 PM
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Men regardless of age seem to prefer 22 yr old girls from sexual standpoint, they may not even want to date them, but that’s when a lot of attractive girls peak with looks. What gets talked about less is that women regardless of age want a 30 yr old man. Women in 40s and 50s if they got it together have a dual mating strategy of fit 30 yr olds or older men who are more successful than them. Physically women of any age want the 30 yr old.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 03:53 PM
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He married her so yes, unless she doesn’t love or want him anymore. Wife won’t see herself as mediocre, she has no reason to. My exwife (who divorced me) thinks I’m a sugar daddy, her brain can’t wrap her head around that I make 250k+, 6’1”, fit. She’s 180lbs in her late 30s with 2 kids. She thinks I should be dating someone like her. Instead I date younger attractive girls and she says I just pay them. My exwife thinks that way because when she divorced me her friends (who were also getting a d…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 03:45 PM
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Practically virgin guys don’t have dealbreakers like this. If she’s cute with decent body and no kids, they all going to look past all of these.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 03:37 PM
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There’s a part of the 80/20 rule that is some guys in the 80% have it all, height, high salary, social, I look at them and I think their pretty handsome. Some people friends with, known since college. There is something about them with the way they look and their personality that the female gaze does not like. These guys have high standards because going lower wouldn’t help them. The concept of a guy having 0 rizz, girls do not seem them as sexual beings, they seem great but they are forever alo…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 03:25 PM
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No question. I know guys it works for a bald guy who’s stocky and 2 Indian guys. I also changed my job title to general surgeon one day before I deleted my account on apps when got relationship, matched 5x better, girls were calling me hot, and asked me if I had time to get drinks tonight. If you have an online persona and can be verified to make higher six figure incomes you’ll get girls out of your league. I do now with my instagram that took me years to make.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 08:49 AM
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You’re either not doing your online persona or instagram right, specialist doctors can be verified online.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 03:39 AM
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The make at least 300k in cities, don’t think they can online verify that and it help a lot?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 03:17 AM
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Women are feeding themselves into the idea that their prince charming that will solve all her problems, take care of all her needs and wants, make her lust, and he’s just around the corner, another swipe, another party. It’s most all a mirage on instagram and dating apps. Guys are just guys, girls put too much on them. If the rare one does have the power to change your life. They’ll more likely use it against her for sex and temporary company. The dating world is fkn whack, any girl or guys who …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 10:29 PM
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All women lie about their body count. How you going to know? What’s too many?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 10:11 PM
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Don’t ask for studies get quoted study and say no. Do your own research lazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 10:08 PM
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There’s other studies that have examined it before, only thing OKCupid did is look at some message rates by some guy who worked there and said yea 80/20 applies here too. Then posted a blog about it. It started more as the concept of a study of showing men to women and rating guys as 80% of guys as “less than attractive.” They did the same thing to for guys and attractiveness for women was on a bell curve. Girls are more most are off the cliff of no attractive qualities with most men, then they …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 08:38 PM
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You need to let women know about this, 100% agree. The desirable men left on the market are low self esteem men that have a fully collapsed ability to pair bond. The real Chads and desirable men left the station, or only on the market temporarily so hard to catch him. The female whores on the market with the fried dopamine receptors are Stacy wannabes. The girls who had a glow up later and chase the men with low self esteem and act like they so cool on the gram.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 08:04 PM
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Yea I’ve had to go to court to fight for them, have cops called on me that when I picked them up I was drunk and abusive, had to sobriety test, she lied about abuse. Constant threats to take them and accusations. Before all this happened to me I was disgusted by deadbeat dads. Then I experienced what happens, and the woman doesn’t want the dad to have the kids in many cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 05:05 PM
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The fact that women are filing for 80% of the divorces and lesbians can’t stay together either says a lot about what women really feel about monogamy. The kids having to deal with split families and the affects them the women don’t care about. They think is for the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 05:00 PM
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Option 3A the mother hates the dad and he doesn’t want him to have the kids and goes to any lengths to get him to leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 04:57 PM
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Cad actually takes girls out on dates, buys them drinks, invites them to do fun things with friends. Then he gets lust from hotties. The taking them out back is just 2 dumb drunk people in the moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 04:49 PM
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Did you know that water freezes and is no longer wet, there’s actually 32% frozen water to 63% non frozen. Then there’s water vapor which is not wet, that’s a cloud. You can’t just say water is wet because that’s not true. Now tell me I can’t just say things and you need google proof with quoted stats. Then refuse to believe the links, it’s circumstantial and biased. That’s the Reddit “experience.”
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 04:23 PM
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You’ve gone to some crazy unnecessary lengths, if you’re rich and famous you can have whatever you want. You see that viral pic of 60 yr old Jeff Goldblum with 2 20 yr old hot blondes and one he’s choking in public. That’s so easy for him, and those girls wanted to be with him. You can simply be a hot guy with the motivation to sleep with women and do it literally whenever you want. A specialist doctor on a dating app that looks totally average can go on endless dates and have harems. Have a coo…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 04:10 PM
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I’m immune to the fact that it would take you 38 hours straight of going through the Hinge app as fast as you could to get through all the girls profiles. Im not even sure I’ve reached the end of hinge like bumble and tinder which also takes forever. As soon as you wake up a few hundred more girls will be there. Wait a few weeks there will be a few thousand. 80% of dudes can’t even get a date off a dating app, if you want to count those guys out, there’s way more girls than guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 04:03 PM
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Women don’t sit on them forever like guys, they will pop on, go on some dates, pop off delete. Try a different app, if you’re in a city there’s a freaking near infinite and constantly more girls always jumping on dating apps. The current active “ratio” is not reflective and not as relevant. The reality is the total number of guys and girls who use them is similar.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 03:51 PM
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There’s lots of girls that want to meet cute guys and get taken on a date, you say you think you’re in the minority. What women tell me about dating apps who I know and are honest, they say I found some of the best guys to date I ever did in my life. Getting access to all these single men in my area is exciting. I want to find a boyfriend I really enjoy who’s handsome and successful. These are universal feelings. This is not to say that some women it’s not for them, some got enough bad experienc…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 03:27 PM
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How you interpret everything is correct and insane. How people feel about women/men in general is intentional shock value. A guy saying all women are holes to them, they act charming to the girls they want. I do the same, I love women, I enjoy going on dates I think women are so fun. However, I say all women are sluts, if you met her and she on a date with you she’s probably a slut. The reason I say that is because people call all men sluts, women actually are too at about the same level. It’s j…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 02:11 PM
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Women who use dating apps generally enjoy going on a date and hooking up with a guy. You are too cool for school for the number one place now where people find relationships, got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 01:46 PM
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Women love those dating apps, they wan to meet and get with men it’s a total rush. It’s an addiction to attention, and they having a great self indulgent time with it sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 06:07 AM
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Women who want a guy to provide them with social status entertainment are going to not like you. Most girls got their own friends and don’t care near as much as you think. You’re making it your own hang up, don’t think your girlfriend is concerned about your social life to point she doesn’t like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 06:01 AM
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I know you don’t have anything to respond to me bc you just made a dumb shocking statement that has no application to real life, or has anything to do with guys who actually get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 12:55 AM
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I’m saying you’re not even making a real life argument about anything. It’s just a weird attack on guys that 99% of guys would not do. The 1% that might are going to be ignored or told to fk off by the girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 12:52 AM
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Yea that’s my point you’re being dramatic about “being masturbated with my body.” If you don’t know the guy and that’s his sole interest in that, he’s a creep that the girl will say get the hell away from me. Guys don’t even do that either, unless he’s just being a total dick for harassment.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 12:50 AM
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Most girls are not going to respond to any guy that just says you, me, poke. If a girl does that he’s horny and insane and likely going to be robbed. Guys take her out, at least acts like he likes her. These situations actually exist, just saying yo let’s f to a girl doesn’t work.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 12:43 AM
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So what’s the solution, just never have kiss or have sex ever unless he presents you with a ring and marriage date? No girl can do that. Both genders have to put yourself out there at some point with the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 12:37 AM
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It almost always is validating in the moment while it’s happening. Why would you let anyone just hop on you like you’re a flesh light, you wouldn’t. Your point about sexual attention if nothing happens is a nonstarter argument. Girls say well he just used me in hindsight. Then use guys temporarily and don’t think about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 12:33 AM
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You can be used by a girl for some food and drinks, sex, and a free hoodie as a guy. 30% of the girls I had sex with I didn’t really hear from again. I was used for some random affection and attention. How’s that any different?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 12:26 AM
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I get your point, there’s prob a lot of sex addicts that go to lengths to control it. If someone said I was a sex addict she said I had 20 partners I would laugh or maybe not believe it. A girl can enter mania and crave sex and rack up 20 guys in no time. How does a boyfriend handle it, would you just do it yourself when he didn’t want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 11:57 PM
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It helps a lot for men, it works incredibly well to be attractive. Tall, handsome, fit men get options for friends and relationships whenever. For women, I see a lot of hot chicks that I’ve met from and friends on Instagram. I work with 6 very hot girls that date around. My last 3 gfs friends had some friends that were hot. Occasionally it does seem fun, sometimes they can make life easier with a guy. Most of the time and with most of them, girls with pretty privilege seems like more of a curse …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 11:31 PM
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I’ve had 11 hoodies taken in the morning because they were “cold” and barely heard from the girls again. Guys can have an intense motivation to sleep with a cute girl then decides whether to date or be in relationship. Girls feel pressure to get with a guy who she perceives as having many dating options.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 11:25 PM
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Yea I still have to looksmax as best I can, 2 points more attractiveness about all you can reliably get. I know couple guys that are 5s just buying designer shoes and purses, saying they can stay with him. These girls are young and hot and they kinda use him, if he was a 7/10 he could land the girls legitimately. One of rich guys knows this and is getting cosmetic surgeries, working out, stopped drinking. He knows he needs to get more attractive to land hot girls or he’s just a total betabux.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 11:15 PM
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I know a bunch of girls that have been in threesomes a bunch, sometimes I believe the girls are really into it, guess it depends. Trying anal and video seems standard with relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 11:09 PM
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I stepped into a fight where this 250lb woman was clubbing in the face this 100lb girl. After the 15th hit I came up and pulled the big lady off her at the party. As soon as I did that I was clocked in the face by the big girl boyfriend and then kicked in that face by him. He said this isn’t your fight, unless you currently getting with me you girls are on your own with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 11:03 PM
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You can be needy sometimes then pull back and be distant. Being toxic and unpredictable really works with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 10:59 PM
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You had a sex addiction and you only had 20 partners. That’s low end for a girl in her 30s that has dated for awhile.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 10:58 PM
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What did you try you not end up liking?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 10:56 PM
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If you can get girls, you’ll get a girlfriend easy when you want. I’m not sure about this war thing haven’t kept up.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 10:50 PM
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I think if you can get a good approach game it can work in certain places. If a girl is checking you out go up and say hi. To just randomly go up to girls seems like a waste of time and energy. If you catch her looking, get her number or exchange instas and ask her out.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 10:09 PM
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Sure girls seem to enjoy getting with the biggest hoebag guys in the city that make new pussy their primary hobby in life and already have 2 placeholder girlfriends. Girls will brag to their friends about how they got this hot guy when everyone knows she was the 3rd girl that week. Guys don’t sit and brag that they got with a total slut that’s been with hundreds of guys, and she doesn’t want a relationship either, gross. You’d get laughed at by guys for doing what girls brag about. Ends up ruini…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 09:57 PM
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Girls have to turn down a lot of men out of their league or they’d get with 100s of guys and waste a lot of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 08:59 PM
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Most girls under the concept that most have higher smv and lower rmv. It would be the equivalent of a 6/10 man casually dating a bunch of hot 9 women. Then telling him in his 30s if he wants marriage and kids he has to marry a totally average 5/10. That’s going young hurt, girls that chase top guys all the time end up with the same fate.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 06:45 PM
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Getting love bombed is about a girl that really wants you as their boyfriend. She can have much hotter dudes to lust for if she wanted that, she wants a relationship. You don’t have to look or be any certain way, but she does have to see you as a total package that will make her happy in some sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 04:49 PM
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Yes having a good job is highly desirable quality for a girl to have. I’ve turned down hotter women for relationship I’d have to fully financially support.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 04:24 PM
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You don’t have to be that muscular to be a Chad, but if you got to gym I usually see at least 3 very hot guys. I know 3 guys, girls just trying to have sex with them all time. I’m traditional handsome 666 man with a nice place and fairly fit. 25% of my dates will be my sex slave all night or all weekend. They will do whatever you want, that’s not really lust like chads, more like love bombing so they can get a desirable bf though.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 04:21 PM
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Chad is a theory. I would say 1 in 200 guys are close enough to chads to get their ds sucked for hours and lusted over like crazy, about whenever they want by random girls. Dating apps/insta makes it easily possible for them now to keep the supply of girls going. I know guys like this, but you need it all face, height, muscles, d, looking like a male model. You can also be handsome and have a mansion and you’re higher than a chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 04:09 PM
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I have my own place and pay own bills. If they can keep their job and money and leverage you, that makes you a desirable option. I’m prob a 7 and if I wanted a gf to do that I would end up with an okay 7. Since that option of a bill free life is on the table, my gfs are 9s. I don’t give them money, they just get to keep their own, live rent free and eat my food. That’s how guys usually get to date of their looks league, but usually going to only be 2 points unless you give her everything and you…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 04:04 PM
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You don’t hate them, you just wish they would stop dating the top down the most desirable men that will take her out. Guys can’t do that so we jealous, even if we could it would be damaging to us like it is to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 03:59 PM
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If you don’t care about a girls money and just want a girl with a job, and don’t expect her to pay any of your bills if and when she moves in. You’re usually going to get way hotter chicks interested in you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 03:56 PM
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Some girls are into rough sex and physical domination. Pinning them down and using them gets them off. If they are requesting to be choked they may be into erotic asphyxiation. Other girls not into this, and if you do it you will freak them out. I would say most people are into some form of sex depravity.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 03:52 PM
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You explain this well, 20% of guys can evoke instant lust in women. You can build yourself up, but you need the genetics to pull it off. If you’re not 6ft+ with 6in+ with a handsome face it’s going to be hard to looksmax, and you may never get there. Girls lust for tall well built guys with big ds. They want to be his total sex doll, most guys don’t get this primal desire out from women. I can sometimes on dates because I have a few of these qualities and I’m boyfriend material, but not to level…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 03:40 PM
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High value men that are date around a lot, usually also cheat a lot in a relationship. Similar situation can be explained with girls who date a lot. It’s an addiction. Red pill content designed for men and women is telling to invest in a strategy that you will never be happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 03:36 PM
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They have super high standards for men to casually meet them on a date that they’ve never met before. If they keep dating off dating apps and instagram for only guys that are desirable by instagram standards. They end up feeling like other men aren’t worth her time, the men that are actually on her level for a real relationship. I’m not sure how many single dating girls this is, maybe 30%. A lot of times it’s girls we think look cute on instagram and dating apps. You have to keep trying and keep…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 02:57 PM
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Message me and you can follow my instagram, no one believes that guys get girls on Reddit. I got my past 2 gfs in my stories they hot as hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 01:34 AM
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Okay dooly noted
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 06:37 PM
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It’s like a friend but you get to hang out lot more, have sex, and fight. It’s fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 06:11 PM
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Haha touché
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 04:04 PM
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Just a bunch of sad whore women that will never land that handsome rich doctor they manifested for. Can’t even be pumped and dumped by Chad anymore to make themselves feel better. Let the babies have their bottle.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 02:58 PM
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What happens, I’ve prob been posted.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 02:46 PM
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Women pump and dump and ghost just as much as guys. When women pump and dump, they don’t think about it all. It’s their life, and they’re going to do whatever they want. Guys normally just say oh well at least I got laid. When girls get pumped and dumped after one or a few sex sessions and ghosted. The guy is an absolute soulless piece of shit fucbois, he’s sick, you don’t do that to people. All men just want to use women, be players, and are trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 01:54 PM
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I mean what you do really, people in my city go out and have brunch, go to party, gym, watch game, drink for a few hours, go home. Asking for a friend to just hang out is too boring now, people just rather watch a show or be on their phone. That’s why getting a relationship is such a nice thing to have these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 01:37 PM
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I’m not doing anything with it 99.999% of the time, you’re doing something fun or on a vacation you take some pictures. Pick the best put them on gram. Now you have a fun dating profile and insta to attach. Now whenever you want a pretty girl just shows up at the place you pick and most down to hook up. If you got that without an instagram then you’re socially rad in the way I’m not. That’s how I’m never lonely and it was just bit extra effort while I’m doing something I would do anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 01:09 PM
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2 answers op question. If you’re an above average 7 or 8 and you seek out the tallest, muscular, big d guys and that’s your situationships, it’s going to mess you up. If your other for boyfriends are handsome guys with lots of money, and you are willing to be his temp placeholder girlfriend in his harem, while he does whatever girl he wants while dating you. This is her normal, this is the new baseline of her expectations of a man. The girl will believe these top 1% guys are on her level, even t…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 12:55 PM
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It’s just some pics and vids of yourself. It’s like a business card of highlights of your life. I wouldn’t get dates with pretty girls whenever I want or met my beautiful girlfriend without it. I look at instagram stories of friends 2 mins a day, I don’t care about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 12:38 PM
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Guys do the same, you want to be a cool couple. You want to be accepted by society with open arms. You want to have the girl that other people think looks classy, fun, and beautiful. This is why looksmaxing and having some expendable income to do some fun stuff will net you the best partner. How other people perceive you as a couple is tied to your own self worth.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 12:31 PM
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Unless you’re in early 20s, hard to find great friends that are really supportive and hang out a lot. People do more event driven hanging out seems like. Last 15 years friends hang out 50% less. This is why for not just guys, girls too you get a relationship to stave off boredom and loneliness. Your girlfriend is always there for you, she enjoys life much more with you. Friendship can be great, a relationship is another level. For me, going through life with a girlfriend who lives with you makes…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 11:57 AM
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Do you go on dates?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 02:43 AM
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The more unattractive of a woman you are, the more likely you are to be married. The paradox of choice makes it harder for attractive women to pick a guy for ltr. When baseline attractive to hot women talk about men, they talk about men who get dates regularly and have options. We seem to agree online that’s up to 20% of guys. When guys talk about girls getting with Chads we’re talking about hot stacys and cute beckies, that can get a desirable man’s attention and date or at least sleep with the…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 10:48 PM
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I’ve used dating apps prob 2.5 years went on 150 dates, hooked up with 2/3. At first it’s like kid in candy store, then you realize that you’re sharing the same girls with a small percentage of guys. Any girl that would be recognized as any sort of catch like 7+ matches with all the guys that live in the exclusive zip codes, all the specialist doctors, every guy who works at a law firm. Anything verifiable online that he’s high status can get endless dates. Then they pick hot guys to hook up wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 10:27 PM
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Men can tell how much makeup is going on, doesn’t help that much and not at all past a first date, same with pic filters too. You can also detect facetune and filters pretty easy. Guys that say I was catfished put their blinders on and hoped most the time. Also, you don’t need to date clown chicks who need to spend a hour painting their face everyday. Let girls do things they want, if you think it’s dumb ignore it and them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 07:50 PM
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They would, guys have to go through too much to cheat. When I have options of some girl coming on, girl generally wants to break up our relationship and cause drama.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 06:09 PM
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Women online go into instant attack mode if you make any comment about women. If it isn’t anything than the most glowing 5 star review about how they act then its misogyny to them. Then they will jump on you to harass and shame you about it, in real life or online. Women cannot emotionally handle men making any references to female behavior. That’s why there’s no more red and black pill allowed on social media, anything, even if it’s obvious offends women, so it must be removed.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 04:31 PM
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Women physically cheat a lot more than men, it’s too easy for them, and can hide it better. They can leave their guy in their own head to pursue another guy without telling him. Then say with a straight face that’s not cheating. That’s why all the studies on google are wrong, when women cheat they don’t think it is. A woman will never see herself as a cheater. Also, especially if she’s out of town with girlfriends, finding a hot guy to cheat with is one of her hopes. Girls aren’t so much differe…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 04:09 PM
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Women try to make each other envious usually directly and sometimes indirectly. Women aren’t that supportive of other women in the workplace. Women judge a lot, slut shame. Mean girls movie most people see as an honest depiction of how awful girls treat each other. Men hate, bully, get jealous, and cut other men down too. Women do tend to get a bit more vicious about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 03:41 PM
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I know guys that bought 50k fake followers, have fake likes, act like they are the most important person ever. Gets attractive women all the time with it. I use mine as an occasional travel log, it looks so ridic, gets me dates anytime though, I’m so glad I did it. Instagram is the cringiest thing ever, you can’t look at barely anyone’s posts and not wince. It’s 70% heavily filtered edited women showing their butts or mewing, insane that it’s actually a big deal to some people.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 03:04 PM
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People get jealous envy of other people, so they hate on them and make excuses. Not gender specific.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 02:33 PM
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This seems to be an ongoing theme and my personal frustration with dating and how women view what their league is. Girls can easily get with a guy +2 out of their league, and most single girls think that’s their league. Guys can get -2 out of their league to get girls to casually date and hook up. The fact that girls don’t understand how this directly correlates to each other is why we call women delusional so much on this sub and real life. If a guy takes you in a date and you hook up and he’s …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 02:03 PM
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Anesthesiologist is more she can look him up on Google to verify and guarantee he makes a lot of money so I’ll hookup with him thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 12:09 PM
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I’m cool with it aside from the gym, girls with crack legging shorts and a strip top doing all sorts of glute exercises all around you. I got a girlfriend and she was just constantly upset at me thinking I was looking. I cancelled my membership and go to a gym with old conservative women now.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 12:11 AM
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If you can get your online persona figured out, it’s just endless hooking up. You’re sharing with all the same small percentage of guys and friends you know who also got dating apps figured so it gets weird quickly and not fun. Dating girls are deeply confused and get upset about dating and I say you’ve decided that only 5% of guys are worthy of a date, and those 5% of guys are just happy with rotating all of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 12:09 AM
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You can’t make an observation about women. Many girls basically 92% fully naked at this point, wearing an outfit that covers less than a bikini is the new normal. I’m not concerned do what you want ladies, you’re not under Sharia law feel free.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 11:53 PM
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I realize every girl needs a push up bra and at least 1/3 of their boobs out or they can’t be in their feminine energy. In Miami girls are in an arms race to see who can wear the most revealing scraps of clothing humanly possible. It’s not yoga pants anymore it’s crack leggings where it’s just a a paper thin fabric that goes all the way up your butt. Girls just wear straight up lingerie to bars and clubs. You’re right cleavage isn’t anything it’s more about the underboob now. At this point it ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 11:46 PM
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Yes heathen
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 10:32 PM
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Anything with your cleavage, underbutt, or midriff out. All 3 is the slutty trinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 10:18 PM
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The reason you don’t want more than 100 likes is girls would prefer you were less known locally. Makes you a safer date and hookup. If 100s off all the most popular people in city liking your posts she going to have her guard up about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 09:56 PM
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37-74 is the perfect amount of likes. I could go on for 20 minutes about how my instagram and a man’s instagram is the king of dating apps and the other apps are in its feudal system. For me it ends up being the end source of all my dates by researching girls and the cancellation of all dates. My insta has been scrutinized so much for just having some vacation pics up it’s insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 09:51 PM
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Oh man this gonna sound corny as hell. If I’m out of a relationship I’ll get more girls liking the posts, and girls coming from dating apps occasionally liking the posts. So I’ll show if out. If I’m in relationship and post then I don’t because very few girls will like it. The theory is girls will honestly go see who likes your posts when there is a count and you get less likes while in a relationship. Oh my goodness, I’m done, but girls seriously analyze your insta.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 09:38 PM
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Mods control that, I’m a disillusioned jerking bot designed for test schemes for more Reddit lurker comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 09:15 PM
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If you’re girl is above average looking she can go do just about anybody. If she’s unhappy at all with relationship she prob will get with Jared Leto. I’ve had 2 girls that I would say are hot give me open invitation for me to cheat with them and I politely declined. If it’s Margot Robbie and she just flat out offering no strings I guess, if you get caught it’s with an A list celebrity. I’m still not going to leave my girlfriend for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 06:52 PM
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All bark no bite you wussy, go back to wussyville copypasta queen
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 06:43 PM
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Come check out my gfs you don’t believe, one looks like Lana Rhoades and the other Salma Hayek. I want to be insta buddies, let’s do it…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 06:40 PM
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No it was directed at me, I give up chat me if you like. Tell me why I can’t get bigger and all my friends on T are jacked. Later.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 06:36 PM
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I’m a nerdy dad with a decent lifestyle and my chicas are fly as hell, my latest one will be the hottest chick you’ve seen in months. Just hit me up on chat bro, you called me a liar forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 06:28 PM
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I want to see these workout routines and your delts bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 06:16 PM
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I’ll show you my Instagram and what I had for dating profile. 🥱
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 06:11 PM
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It’s going to be insanely apparent they my girlfriends and my followers are real. Go live in your dream world where guys and girls don’t lust for each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 05:57 PM
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You don’t believe me, check out all the sexy girls that follow me and my last 2 girlfriends are in my stories. They really hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 05:48 PM
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You’re a loser and a pussy and an even a bad troll, prob ugly as hell and no girls talk to you. Bring the chat.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 05:45 PM
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You’re a pussy, you lift, you got a gram. Hit me a chat loser with your gram and I’ll send mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 05:37 PM
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If you want to share instagrams chat me and my 2 latest gfs in stories, if not have a good day.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 05:32 PM
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You got everything figured out, congrats.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 05:29 PM
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Dating is a game with terms, I’ll go cry myself to sleep on my girls perfect body tonight and question whether she’s real or not for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 05:25 PM
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Seems like a legit phenomenon. Harder to get the one girl prob because you’re trying to get laid mostly, she can smell the desperation on you. I’ve wondered how are the ways girls can tell you got no girls. Then you get a girl in your harem, now getting the second and third is easy, because those girls aren’t of any consequence to you whether it works or not. So girls are more attracted to you. Then you fumble your harem and get back to 0. Now first dates aren’t working like normal, then you sta…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 05:17 PM
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Have you read copypasta wth
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 05:07 PM
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When you’re on a date and you like a guy, you’re going to have to tell him you like him, but you don’t want to go over to his place. Then you should follow up with him over text, so he knows you’re not blowing him off. Wait at least 5 dates for any sex, if he makes it to that point, he likes you and likely a good dude with solid intentions. At some point you have to put yourself out there, but don’t act desperate or give yourself away too easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 05:04 PM
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I know it feels like magic when it works, a girl shows up, you buy her a few drinks, she comes back and hops in bed with you. Happens 2/3 of first date, 90% the second date. I’ve been on around 150 of them, it’s rad, and I thought college girls were easy. Have 3 friends that have done the same and we all checked out who we getting with, good times.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:55 PM
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I think your reality and what you choose to believe or not is funny that’s all. Everyone lives in a different reality, to you saying you hooked up with a bunch of cute chicks on first dates off dating apps you don’t want to believe, or you’re more likely just trolling.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:41 PM
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Getting a view into lives through other people’s lens is the primary draw of Reddit. You can get your memes and news anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:39 PM
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Not one girl hooks up off apps in nyc I just ready a study
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:37 PM
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There’s a basically endless supply if you live in a city of single girls that hook up with guys and go on dates all the time off apps and instagram. They also looking for a boyfriend they really want. If you don’t want to believe this then don’t. If you want to believe every guys story about their experience on dating apps is fake, then believe it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:31 PM
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Women antagonizing red and black pill guys and making fun of them in comments out of the blue is examples I’d post. I don’t know what that post even is, have your man eat you out, if he don’t care, he prob sucks as a partner, oh well you chose him.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:26 PM
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Ha, this is the funniest and corniest bluepill trolling I’ve ever had.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:21 PM
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You need to meet some guys who actually get dates dawg.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:18 PM
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Birds aren’t real, hot chicks are government plants, dating apps are spy tools used by the elites to control us.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:14 PM
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Most girls have met at least 5 girls from the gram that have a perceived dream life their man provides or a 10/10 boyfriend she poses with. She wants to escape reality and believe it’s possible for her. Whatever she needs to do to get and whatever blinders to put on necessary, is all part of her manifestation that it will happen for her too. Some girls somehow place a lot of hopes and dreams on desirable guys that cycle through women all the time these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:07 PM
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Hot girls that hook up with guys aren’t real, just like birds aren’t real. Fake and an illusion, you convinced me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 03:50 PM
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Okay me in 3 friend live in a fake reality where hooking up with dozens of pretty girls off apps never happened. My totally hot girlfriend the last year I got off Hinge who adores me is an ai hologram. Thanks for helping me, cheers.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 03:43 PM
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Women’s primary desire is to have an attractive guy, or a handsome successful one. Going on apps and to keep sleeping with all the players that match that desirable profile to get his attention I think is a pretty bad idea. Then combined with instagram fomo is why I think young women’s depression is skyrocketing. Social media is fake and they keep knowingly chasing the guys who cycle through women is terrible for your mental health and soul.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 03:41 PM
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That’s all time current number. The number of new relationships formed through apps is now the leader at 39%. Same sex couples is at 60%. I don’t know what percentage of single girls are actively hooking up, if they on a date off an app, I would say it’s alarmingly high based on me and 3 other friends experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 03:36 PM
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I don’t know what I’m deflecting girls get with guys, somebody gotta be giving it to them, I don’t know what else to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 03:24 PM
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Girls use dating apps to hookup with guys and get a boyfriend. Most girls under 30 have used dating apps. I live in a big city with tens of thousands of girls actively using dating apps, they are a big deal and multibillion dollar industry. Whatever reality you want to live where that’s not the case, go ahead.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 03:18 PM
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There’s enough guys it don’t work for you want to give them motivation so it does work. Dating apps are forming the most relationships. I go off and on last 8 years, used dating apps prob 2 years, slept with around 90 girls. You’re preselected by the girl, odds are you’ll hook up. I could’ve done way more, main goal is a girlfriend. You sleep with them to get their attention as much as they are with you, just how dating apps work.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 03:11 PM
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If you match well and want to spend 1/4 of your nights going on dates, 50 is no big deal, girls off dating apps are easy pickups. I keep a log of the really cute ones, if we dated I got pics of them naked, having sex. Winning in my own business is the only thing that gives me a bigger rush than a beautiful woman in my arms.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 02:57 PM
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Any detail of a lifting routine is not relevant to this sub at all. Saying I started lifting and did 50 girls is.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 02:40 PM
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Anyone that’s taking lifting very seriously is usually past the point of caring what benefit it gets from girls. That’s their hobby, which is cool. If you had sex with 50 girls in past year, pussy is your main hobby, which is fine too.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 02:34 PM
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Women seem to prefer a range of different types of sex, she’s the princess type that likes to be showered in direct affection which is pretty typical. Some girls like spontaneous rough sex where you pin them down and use them, some girls like to take control and use you etc. I don’t even get her post really, most guys pretty down to give their partner what they desire. Red pill can help guys if you’re proactive to change, most women don’t like RP because they don’t like to be judged for their be…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 02:24 PM
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What does lifting routines got to do with this sub? Red pill helps guys sometimes, it’s not really about let’s just hate on women for wanting to do hot guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 02:13 PM
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People on this sub would like to have more success with dating and relationships and understand why it’s not working out. If a guy worked out and got tons of girls that could motivate others. I go to gym, helps with chicks, my gf likes my big arms.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 02:05 PM
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Most people don’t care, most people on this sub do care and want to improve dummy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 01:57 PM
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There’s a lot more to it than getting in shape, you got to have a lot of desire to get with women and wherewithal. I was flipping through my photos and the 40 7+s I got with in my life, took a lot, I was in a zone, pretty chicks take some setup and finesse to get them wanting you. I always wanted a beautiful gf and get with chicks in spurts so it was worth it, most guys don’t care that much, which is fine. Some just want to say all you did was sluts or you lying to make them feel better.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 01:42 PM
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When people take Ls and hear about a turnaround W they can’t stand it, get upset at themselves. Someone wants to get in shape and get with a bunch of chicks cool, women on those apps be having a dopamine rush too.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 01:24 PM
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Love and support are the best thing to help heal. I also don’t like being alone, people say you need to learn to love yourself you should be happy alone. I don’t like being alone on my house, lot more fun when I got a girlfriend who loves me here. I’d rather have a relationship, you go be happy in silence and in a bed by yourself that’s not for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 01:18 PM
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I hate being alone to heal, forget that, what a crock.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 12:31 PM
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If a guy was pulling this off I’d give him a high 5, pretty funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 12:27 PM
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There’s definitely girls that date like this and proudly proclaim it’s only hot men with big ds or a rich boss. I don’t think it’s more than 5% of single girls. They get used a lot by the sluttiest men in the city, but they exist. They also get the dates and maybe a temp placeholder gf, but rarely in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 12:19 PM
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Who girls have had sex with and dated for a few weeks possibly is not what they going to end up with. You got to be at least a 7 with great sexual qualities to be dating rich handsome men or very hot men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 12:13 PM
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I don’t get why you’re being harassed for getting a great body and having girls attracted to you. The 12% of guys if that’s real 10% including myself have done a ton of stuff to make myself more appealing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 12:04 PM
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That line just means she wants to be taken on a date first, then she’ll hookup.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 11:56 AM
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When a dating app works it’s the closest thing to magic I’ve ever experienced. I’ve used them for 2 years off and on, it can be really fun and that’s how I get a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 11:54 AM
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I tend to agree, but it’s the high smv lower rmv girls can have the toughest time in a way. If a pro athlete, super chad, or guy with a yacht is inviting you on his boat and they all strongly desire you because you’re hot. It’s hard for the sexy girl with all the dating options to say I’m better off being in a real relationship with a cute guy that makes 90k/yr.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:57 AM
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It only makes sense to a certain degree sure any girl can give bjs to any guy but if he’s not going to reciprocate passion it’s not really that fun for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:53 AM
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The girl you love is the most special and you maintain desire for each other. The other is temporary lust. Girls can feel the same way for their average dude they love as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:22 AM
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I’m in my mid 40s and 4 times in my life I got the girl I’d been crushing so bad that I would melt in their presence. Got lucky and they were totally down to be my sex doll for the night. When you say I would wreck that girl that’s what you do, ridiculous making out, throat fking, eating out, keep going back to back for at least 3 hours every position I could put her in, then woke up and went again. Never forget those nights. Sex with somebody new is fun, but a real sexy girl you want so bad is …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:16 AM
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I sold my house and didn’t know how long I was going to be in it since it was on the market, unfortunately it was only for 6 months, I miss that side of the mountain place :/
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:08 AM
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More relationships are being formed from dating apps than by any other method now, and my last 5 relationships have came from dating apps, so I totally beg to differ.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 03:57 AM
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The similar scenario exists for guys, if a girl is a 5/10, she won’t get the same feeling and reaction from guys as the 8+ sexy girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 02:46 AM
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I’ve dated 20-45 never noticed much difference, perhaps younger early 20s girls slightly more apt to hookup.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 10:51 PM
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Alpha male is applied to situational leadership and dominance, there’s no such thing as an alpha or beta male. It’s just made up personality categories that online has turned into more like astrology for guys. For red pill, the only direct correlation they’ve found with your success with picking up girls is your level of testosterone, and how much you want and improve upon being able to pickup girls. Successful dating is mostly a practiced skill, there’s very few born Chads. So if you’re good at…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 10:01 PM
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Yea I was curious with this post if there was anything you can do on a dating app to get dates other than be hot, have status, or project lifestyle and I don’t think there is. Those are the only things any girl who dates will respond to.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 08:47 PM
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I’ve been friends with 3 girls that I would classify as hot, that specifically avoid hot men advances, and wouldn’t even swipe right on them. They say they arrogant and all they do is cheat. Also, when guys are jacked their hormones they put in their butt make them emotionally unstable, girls don’t like guys who cry a lot for no good reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 07:53 PM
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Your story is the purpose of the post and relatable, lot of girls think there isn’t viable boyfriends on apps, esp Tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 07:41 PM
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I think women do get harassed, occasionally. You’re suggesting that you avoid 95% of men on dating apps simply because they might harass you. I don’t think women match and just automatically assume they will be harassed, just happens sometimes, then you block them. There’s all sorts of ways to not even pay attention to the small percentage of men that go on dating apps specifically to harass women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 07:35 PM
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I didn’t say they wouldn’t. 20% of my dates end up being like that, I would assume it happens to all guys who date at some rate. This is unpopular opinion, but you have to ghost, girls take rejection horrible. If you give them an inch they’ll just show up at your house at the door telling you they need to talk to you. Then they just try and have sex with you again and won’t leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 07:27 PM
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I think around 5% of guys kill it on dating apps, 50 girls a year going on a 1-2 dates during the week is not uncommon when matching gets easy. Hooking up can’t get any easier too, the girls just show up where you want and come over after. Girls who use dating apps or look good on instagram, are having more fun and have more sexual partners than the average guy can possibly imagine.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 07:22 PM
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Some guys create vastly over exaggerated online personas. I know a guy that has a fake “how much is this person worth” site and says he’s worth $30 million when you google him. He has a decent place and drives a used Bentley so it still works for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 07:16 PM
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I don’t think this is why women on average only swipe right 1 in 20 times. I also think bad actors are reported and get their profile deleted quickly, apps go to great lengths to limit harassment and often can auto detect it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 07:12 PM
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Ha same, my last gf got me a back straightener off Amazon for $20, wore it 3 times a week and once a week to this day, it worked. My neck posture is still off and now I’m working on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 07:06 PM
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I got a girlfriend and was just messing around for a day, then I deleted the apps. I just wanted to see how I would match and how girls would act if my job title was General Surgeon, then I deleted. Thanks for the psa don’t report me to authorities lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 06:55 PM
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I don’t think this applies only to hot women. You need an online persona, she wants to know the things detailed in the post, then decide yes or no on the date. I just ask girls out immediately, they reply when or where, I reply. Then they get back to me later after they lookup my first name and business to find my LinkedIn and company websites. Which leads to Instagram, then they say yes. The way dating app girls research guys should be common knowledge at this point, but it’s a real dealbreaker…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 06:48 PM
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Anything a guy does to attract women is looked at as not being genuine or demonized by people as being deceptive. I say anything a guy uses as bait for girls is just a means to an end to get her attention, then appreciate and eventually love the real you. The guys I know that get the most girls are very social, above average looking (not hot), and have coke in their pocket.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 06:33 PM
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This is where guys get things wrong about dating apps and why it’s not working. You need an angle. The most generic angle that works is I’m buff and hot. You can show girls you have a great social life and lifestyle and they can be just as into you. I was flipping through a girl’s tinder recently and 90% of guys profiles are the same. Here’s me in a suit, me holding dog/fish, on hike, at the gym, having drinks with friends, selfie mewing with no context. If you’re hot, you got your shirt off at …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 06:27 PM
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I’ve spent 6 years working on an instagram I went from 4s and 5s dates to 8s and 9s. I’m a boring dad 97% of my life, my instagram looks like I’m a multinational GTA character, driving a boat, on a horse at the ocean, outside a helicopter etc. Just anywhere I was that looked cool I got pictures of me there. Put the best of the best pics on my gram and attached it to my dating profile.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 06:17 PM
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I believe most guys go on a dating app and have primary goal of finding a relationship. The guy with the perfectly crafted online persona and instagram, or jacked handsome guy with his shirt off are the guys getting most of the dates. Then girls match with the guys with the best advertising and say all men on dating apps want is easy sex. Then girls end up ignoring the 95% of guys that don’t go to all the effort necessary effort to make picking up girls as their primary hobby in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 06:12 PM
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I understand that ratios are a factor. I live in a big city and there is literally a seemingly infinite supply of women on dating apps. If you just want to argue it’s all about ratios then I guess stay off them and don’t try.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 06:05 PM
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I’ll just take out the top, super boring to argue stats. More curious if guys had advice. Unless she’s just always in a relationship most girls I’ve known have used dating apps, if you just want to talk about current ratios whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 05:58 PM
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I think those stats are misleading because I’ve observed a lot of friends who are girls who use it. They don’t have any problems getting matches and dates quick, girls just pop on when they want to go on dates, and off it when they don’t. Guys just stay on them just in case. I have no data to back this up just about a dozen girls I’ve known that have used dating apps never stay on them, just pop in and out.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 05:45 PM
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I actually like Tinder for perspective relationships over Bumble/Hinge. The hookup rate on any dating app is the same for me. Bumble just ticks me off trying to wait for a girl to say hey. Hinge has the dating mainstays who have stationed themselves there. Tinder people take themselves less seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 05:41 PM
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I think the stats can be misleading that women don’t sit on dating apps, matching and dates is easy enough for them they just pop on when they want to go on some dates. If you don’t want to believe that and the numbers are more similar in totals then fine. It’s 10% of the post if you want to rattle on it forever and not have any input that’s not very interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 05:38 PM
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I live about million dollar home and I think it helps a lot, it’s just a regular neighborhood though. I sold a home and temporarily moved into a $7 million dollar home with a city view on a mountain for 6 months, a friend was selling it so I got an incredible deal. I was single during that time and 22 out of 24 dates were in bed within a couple hours, I hit 13 dates in a row at one point. A 8k sqft luxury home/mansion is an automatic hookup dating glitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 05:25 PM
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Similar in total have used it ever, point noted though. People quote Tinder as being some wild 7 to 1 disparity and maybe that app is, but it’s not that great of a difference between gender that have used dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 05:21 PM
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I’ll update the reference omg, it’s similar. How about a comment on 95% of the rest or just want to point out one minor thing, point is women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 05:18 PM
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Here is more comprehensive view: https://www.pewresearch.org/internet/2023/02/02/the-who-where-and-why-of-online-dating-in-the-u-s/
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 05:17 PM
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My strategy and stats are similar. I pick a casual place right by my house to get the women over easier after.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 05:13 PM
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6’1” and I think my height is a great advantage. If I was 5’7” I don’t think I could get very many dates and girls would be less likely to hook up. You can overcome height, but I’m not jacked or handsome enough in the face to think my height doesn’t come into play.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 05:09 PM
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It does below and there are others that say it’s more than half for women under 35.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 05:07 PM
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Where do you go for most dates? What percent of your dates do you get back to your place at least making out on the first date? I have been in a situation with dates if I’m out with a 6/7 cute girl, I think I’m not good looking enough for them. Then if I’m on a date with hotter 8 or 9/10 they are more likely to get with me because they see me as well rounded boyfriend material. I would rate myself a 6/7.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 05:03 PM
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I go on a couple vacations a year, having pics of me in Italy, France, Egypt etc has vastly improved my matches.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 04:51 PM
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There was a couple of guys on this sub that commented they had a 90-95% first date hookup rate. Me and 2 other friends can get date and we are at 60-70% of getting the girl in your bed within a few hours off apps. It’s of my perception I would think many girls who use dating apps are hooking up on dates they go on regularly.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 04:50 PM
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No I don’t, and it happens in many parts of the world in the 21st century.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 01:59 PM
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Why are you such a troll, do you have ever have your own opinions, or just want to antagonize what others say because you think it’s cool somehow. Not a Muslim and not into sharia law.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 11:50 AM
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Yea it’s startling to see so much support for Palestine and Iran from western girls where they would literally kill you for what you post on instagram alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 12:15 AM
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Well a ton of chicks on Instagram seem to love to support hamas, I’m like head over there and support them, they going to stone you to death immediately under sharia law.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 12:11 AM
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Before women didn’t have equal rights they were dependent on men, so they just married one. In middle east your daughter or sister being too much of a ho you can kill her under honor killing. Sharia law etc. all designed to control women behavior. Now they free in western world, and if they on a dating app or can’t stop posting selfies, she’s probably addicted to dating. Just have to keep that in mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 12:06 AM
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I’ve gone on so many dates the last 8 years, I live in Miami if she’s dating and a 7+ I don’t even know how you would avoid a girl who’s not dating like this. There’s all different types of people who say otherwise, but that is my spectrum of reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 10:04 PM
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They are in a state of cognitive dissonance about it until they have to date for a real boyfriend or husband. If a hot or rich handsome guy is giving her attention, taking her out for drinks, inviting her to a party, and trying to get with her, she believes she is at his level. She doesn’t care how many girls he got at the same time, she believes she will be picked. Seriously a guy dropping all his hoes for her is the modern day Disney princess dream.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 09:46 PM
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Scarlet letters for women when she’s found dating 2 guys at the same time. You can’t stop it, women free to do what they want now. Dating girls got iuds, penicillin, and monistat, there isn’t enough downside for them to keep spinning the wheel of desirable men with all the options she desires. The cute girls on dating apps and instagram posting all time you see are addicted to dating and attention. They are in a cycle of lust and all the dreams a top man can provide. They want a trophy, a man th…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 09:41 PM
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Women say they don’t like slutty men, then turn around and date the sluttiest men they can willingly, chase them, then somehow brag to their friends at how they are non-exclusively dating a guy that’s been with 100s of women. Women chasing after men who’ve made new pussy their primary hobby in life somehow gets girls off. I don’t know if this has ever not been the case, unless we go back to putting scarlet letters on women, they aren’t going stop chasing men who have many options and sleep aroun…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 09:28 PM
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Women got their own problems with being played by the desirable men they’re attracted to. Guys never talk about the power you have by only being able to date in your own league because most men are okay with receiving just sexual attention. For women, sex from someone better looking than them is a give in whenever they want it. So it’s not a concern for them. If a guy can’t get laid that’s a laughable scenario for most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 06:28 PM
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If she isn’t all over you by the 5th date, you gotta bail. You’re getting used for company.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 06:23 PM
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Pay for date of couple drinks maybe an app. Going all out on nice dinner cab make you look like a simp. Kiss her outside, ask her over. I don’t know how splitting bill in some girl that’s likely not to be your girlfriend helps you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 04:56 PM
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Girls with high salaries set this precedent, then usually end up with a better looking guy that makes less and he ends up living with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 04:45 PM
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I kinda friends of friends with this guy who’s really hot and lives with mom. I know a girl who dated him, just says he’s moving out soon and coming into money with business deals. He gets girls like insane, multiple a week, hot girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 04:43 PM
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If you’re super hot, handsome with a mansion, or famous you live in a different world with women. I wrote a comment about my experience with getting a great rental deal in a mansion for 6 months. He was selling the place and let me live there for cheap temporarily. Dating and how girls react to you was a lot different.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 03:45 PM
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How rich and how handsome are you? If you’re tall handsome and have a mansion, you have the infinite pussy glitch like model chads too. After I sold my house I got this lucky rental deal on a 7 million dollar home with a city view for 6 months, I got on a streak and slept with 13 girls in a row after a few hours on a first date. When I moved back into a more regular neighborhood 1 million home that didn’t happen as easy with girls anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 02:21 PM
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Yes it’s so apparent when you’re just dating around I think it can down to the base of her subconscious smells other women’s pheromones on you. It’s interesting how you can have 5 dates where nothing is working out, then you go on 10 dates straight and every girl is all over you. To me more elements go into how you’re acting and being perceived by her than just not acting desperate. Your game can get totally on point for awhile. Your attitude is appealing and fun and you’re getting into girls he…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 05:08 PM
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There’s too many shared experiences, you can’t just say be yourself and just ask her out girls don’t care much about looks. This is stuff every person including women would say prior to the internet. Any pill other than blue which is just normie talk, its primary goal is to give you the knowledge of the situation. If you’re taking Ls there’s tons of other guys that are too, and here’s realistic ways to get over it. Meanwhile there’s female red pill that is just straight nonsense with some girl t…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 05:03 PM
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You can just take her out for a couple drinks, I’ve done dinners but just casual places. The way I get over this concept of paying is I pick the place by my house. If she says I’ll meet in middle or come closer to me, I’ll bail on the date, she don’t want me that bad. I pick dates I want to make out with, whether I want any form of relationship is determined later. Driving down the street to get the company of a pretty girl and she usually in my bed after, is definitely worth $30 to me. Plus you…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 03:55 PM
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Why do people want to talk to people their own age so bad. Think people want shared cultural experiences from the past. Talking to a younger person and their perspectives on anything can be a lot smarter and insightful than you think. Date who you want, college age girls have a fun energy to them if you ask me, super easy to talk to.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 03:37 PM
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It’s a cavalier attitude where her presence is good, but has no bearing on you. In dating you get one, then 2, now you’re juggling 4. Drop them all back to zero now you’re vibe off and girls see your desperation. Girls sense if you’ve already got chicks, and if you are they want you more.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 12:42 PM
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There’s categories too for sure. I was flipping the girls tinder with just same photos on repeat: at beach, at gym, suit at wedding, selfie mewing with no context, drinks with friends, holding a dog. I started with a boring one at first and couldn’t get any matches. So I worked on it, one is driving a boat, outside a helicopter, at the pyramids on a camel, on hood of my car with mountain backdrop, mew selfie but my nice kitchen in background, then I have a couple shirt off photos I use, because …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 12:28 PM
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Think she going to be clued in at these points, or if you’re overtly trying your get to her place. Some girls just get with the guy anyway if she wants him, even if she thinks he’s taken, she might be down for a steal or drama. A very small percentage of guys that are in relationships use dating apps, to say that they are getting most the dates too on them is a big reach.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 12:08 PM
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There are married and taken men on dating apps, it has barely any correlation between being successful on dating apps. Maybe if he is a guy that gets relationships off dating apps so he has previous experience. Married and taken men share a house, where is he going to take her to hook up after the date. I was flipping through a girls tinder last week and reason most men don’t get matches and dates is not because they’re ugly. There is nothing interesting in their profile, I couldn’t believe how …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 10:53 AM
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Go to a country like Colombia as a tall handsome American, girls will come up to you and hit on you, whereas that wouldn’t ever happen to him like that in US. Hooking up is a lot easier. If you’re short and ugly guy you get ignored by girls. Most cute girls around the world got standards, but the American label on a guy helps in some other countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 10:07 AM
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The top 5% of guys are just the most promiscuous and successful with women at the same time. 5% is smv they may be supplying different types of girls with different types of interests in guys, top 5% is not simply most physically attractive. Top 5% guys go on lots of dates and get with lots of women. That’s their main hobby is picking up girls. They I got a harem and successful pua guys. I believe in 80/20 rule, top 20% they are satisfying all types of the casual dating market interest for girls…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 08:33 PM
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I haven’t personally known a girl who hasn’t slept around at different parts of her life, so that’s fine. If she’s promiscuous in general you’re going to have to try to be in open relationship or be a swinger and wouldn’t want to do that. I really can’t wrap my head around if it was ugly dudes, seems the same, funny concept. Girls will care if you’re a slut with attractive or ugly girls a lot. So maybe that’s your point. If you hooked up with a ton of beautiful classy women she will likely find …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 07:23 PM
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There’s so many that take great enjoyment in manipulating and using others. Then they only cry foul when it happens to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 06:46 PM
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If you’re not focusing on the negativity and misogyny aspect of the red pill label. The straightforward advice that’s out there can help guys a lot. If you’re taking Ls and want to get a W that’s actually the goal of red pill. Not to sulk and hate on women that’s more mgtow. Red pill does some of that, more about motivation.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 06:18 PM
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Dating has always been like this, but phones and apps turned it into dating on super crack where people seek out dopamine from people. You have access to every man in a 50 mile radius and beyond. Maybe a relationship if you can stop yourself from being addicted to the next best thing that pops up. For guys being addicted to dating is too much work. For girls it’s saying yes and showing up to see if he can satisfy her desires. Even if it’s temporary, there’s always another guy in a big city that …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 06:00 PM
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It is all, as a person that owes insane amounts of alimony due to a business I made that my wife said I was stupid to start it sickens me the lavish lifestyle she has while sitting around and doing nothing bitching about how bad of a father she thinks I am. When all she cares about is stacking her money and hope I go broke as retribution that she stopped loving me. I dated another girl that dropped me like nothing, she was a sexy therapist with a business degree. She left me 3 times I gave up, a…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 05:43 PM
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Holy f my guy, yes. What I’ve wondered, is percentage of single girls have this mentality that are currently dating? If you meet them on dating apps or instagram it feels like a lot. As if they don’t even see men as people, more like lottery tickets to scratch off. Do you need to reach the level of attractiveness that basically every guy will take you on a date to get addicted like this? I got into a couple relationships with girls that got obsessed with the jackpot, they could just drop you lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 05:10 PM
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That’s what I’m trying to explain, the men are lying to her. Women have their own forms of manipulation and lead guys on, plays out a bit differently on how she handles her situationships based on the type of guy she’s dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 05:02 PM
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Sometimes they land the hot guys, girls who are 7s sometimes land Chads, especially if they don’t have much else going for them except being hot. I’ve read your comments, you are one the few based. You explain just the most obvious way in which the dating girl dates, and guys and girls call this a misogynist attitude stuck in the online manosphere. What you’re talking about is how most every girl I’ve met who’s dating and girls who I know who have dated. Other than avoiding hot players part of t…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 04:58 PM
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You’ve hit the nail on the head and this is what men don’t realize, but girls addicted to Instagram and dating apps are ADDICTED to dating, and all the attention that comes with it. Any person is going to get a hellified dopamine rush from dating around, getting affection, attention and sex. I got in a dating cycle after my divorce, and learned to pickup women later in college. I was an addict, the oxytocin dump from hooking up with a girl is better than any drug. Girls get the same rush, if you…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 04:43 PM
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Most guys don’t enjoy the process to get a girl, they don’t care about hooking up, or having harems of girls. They just want a relationship. The problem is, the player guys that want get with lots of girls go to great lengths to advertise themselves. They also go to many social gatherings where single women are. Single girls see the flashy advertising of him looking jacked and attractive, or see his fun social lifestyle he’s crafted on instagram and want part of his life. They hook up with those…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 04:15 PM
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Yea that’s what a normal person would do. If she has a handsome tall surgeon that’s saying let’s get some drinks, or a chubby short guy with a whatever job asking. The more attractive guy gets picked by the girl. Guys do the same, it’s not “red pill theory” it’s common sense. Then they have sex with him quickly to get his attention, because the attractive successful man has many options, plus the girl wants him too.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 04:04 PM
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There is this online concept that these girls are just getting “pumped and dumped” by Chad and that’s not usually what happens. The top guys who perpetually date will have 2-3 temporary placeholder girlfriends in his harem he cycles through. If he finds a girl he likes they date for a bit. Most of the time she’s hoping it’s heading towards an exclusive relationship. These guys lead girls on that he wants her for a girlfriend, but actually doesn’t have those intentions. He’s manipulating her to g…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 03:51 PM
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Okay so according to you women’s standards have not become inflated since social media and dating apps. That most girls under 30 have use dating apps, but they don’t hookup with the most desirable men that will take them out. You know girls only talk to their close friends about the guys they’re hooking up with right. I wouldn’t know why girls wouldn’t do this, they want affection and attractive men. Not red pill, just becomes very obvious once you start going on dates with a bunch of these sing…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 03:32 PM
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I’ve been on around 150 online first dates last 7 years off dating apps and instagram, others from out at events at bars. I’ve had 4 relationships, one girl I dated for 3 years. I also work with 6 girls that talk about who they dating all the time. My girlfriend has friends that come over and talk about men and drama in their lives. This isn’t online anything. This is my own assessment on meeting and knowing lots of single girls and going on lots of dates. I also have 2 other guy friends and we …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 03:15 PM
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If you're a girl and you're at least okay looking. You can satisfy your need for affection from any type of guy you want anytime you want. The only reason a girl can't find a boyfriend is because she will only settle for men that are significantly better than them financially, high social status, and attractive. Women have always been selective, but now they have access to every man around them the balance rapidly changed heavily to make them super selective. Leaving most young men with virtuall…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 02:43 PM
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Girls look for relationships at any age. If she’s out of college and just wants be a party girl and hookup every weekend, that would be a red flag and not normal. You want a chance to date around, then find your girlfriend. Then since she’s in her 20s, she will play the long game with you years, not be pressuring for marriage and kids. She will just be happy to be your boyfriend. This is where the girls in 20s have the advantage over 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 01:42 AM
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Looksmaxxing can do wonders
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 11:05 PM
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Zero baggage has no relation to she wants to leave you at some point in the relationship. If you asked her side, she’d say I messed up, not her fault and I should’ve took her back. No baggage usually means she comes to live with you and leaves her place, with nothing but her car and clothes, no bad debt, no kids, has her own job. If you give guys a choice that’s what type of girl usually want to be with. If you think they pretty too, they have the highest dating market value.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 10:33 PM
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I guess ya’ll are perfect people with perfect relationships. I loved being with her, she was stunningly beautiful and such fun and joyful personality, I don’t regret being with her. Sometimes things don’t work out like you hope. She got in her head she wanted to find her “husband” that was better than me, I told her she’s making a mistake. I can get a date and relationship whenever I want, because my qualifications aren’t ridiculous like some women’s have. She can non-exclusively date the hottes…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 10:13 PM
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Frozen pizza is a late night delicacy enjoyed by millions.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 09:40 PM
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She has zero baggage and she’s attractive, this is how guys usually get to date out of their looks league. Doesn’t mean she’s not a good girlfriend. The problem can become what the guy is talking about, you set her living standards to a certain level and now she wants more. I’m not with her anymore, she harasses me and my new girlfriend even after over a year. She can’t get me and what she had back, so she’s upset. So it’s not a big deal, once they go don’t take them back. Grass is greener menta…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 08:57 PM
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Because she’s no great additional cost to you, it ends up being the same or lower as your kids. The money she makes I don’t need, most girls happy with cheap food like frozen pizzas and carne asada fries take out. The problem is, they become dependent on you, total house bills are pricey.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 08:48 PM
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Lot of girls aren’t going to be in an exclusive relationship with a man if they can’t live with him for free and eat their food. Girl still works so they don’t ask guy for money and guy doesn’t buy them anything. If I was a pretty girl with options I’d try to find a man to do the same. Food used to be pretty cheap and he’s already paying the mortgage so the guy agrees. It’s still giving her too much, and girls can’t find these guys nearly as easily as they think they can, no matter how attractiv…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 08:34 PM
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I don’t know if game is that teachable, also most guys don’t care about getting harems and then choosing their pick of the litter. This is why I’m blackpill, either you’re charming or not, either you want to do what it takes to appear attractive and understand women or not. Can be learned but you need the reps. If girls will give you the reps, then you’re already attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 04:40 PM
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Guys get in friendzone because they are prone to get oneitis and think they can wear her down, or be available at the right time. Guys should never simp for girls like this, because girls enjoy the fact he cares about her and don’t reciprocate.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 04:27 PM
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Girls do the initial choosing, guys take initiative from there. She responds and judges you. If you pass her perspective boyfriend or desire material then she chooses you again. Now ball in your court and the guy is the gatekeeper to relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 04:23 PM
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Too many data points to consider in relationships, no one can talk to you or see how you act. Any story about a partner is one sided so they aren’t usually going to side with the other. Girls can be thoughtful with gifts, but if she’s emptying her bank account for you then your game is off the charts. Blue pill advice of just be yourself, focus on your goals bitches love goals, take a shower, respect women, just lift bro. You don’t know where they are in dating failure so if you just state the o…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 04:14 PM
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He’s funny, and turning the tables on girls when you get the chance actually works too. Deny her sex and then ask her for some help, you got her shes yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 04:05 PM
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Unless the guy has the infinite pussy glitch of Chad or rich handsome men, when people say just be confident this is concept what they’re talking about. Players at least present a side of themselves that is cavalier avoidant. The people that grew up with a lack of emotional support know how to play a tug game with women and they are seen as more safe option to express desire. When I think of my date style I show up in adidas sweatpants and a basic shirt and act very chill and a bit of a sweet sm…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 03:29 PM
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Mental illness is such a wild spectrum, some may have zero interest in sex. A bipolar may have bouts of mania where they are wildly promiscuous. I think Samantha from sex in the city is a real person and she is normal confident person. There are swingers who don’t have a mental disorder. Girls often have a girl in their friend group that’s higher libido and more promiscuous than the others. Those girls do hot guys or as desirable as they can get their hands on, and chase men. On the other hand, …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 10:49 AM
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Any girl 5-9/10 is about as difficult to land. It doesn’t seem like that because there are significantly more 5s than 9s. It’s harder to get the attention of the 9, but they’ll listen to what you got to say when you do. A 7/10 girl is typically concerned about what other people and her friends think. Any girl that’s very hot 9+ simply dates who she wants for any reason, she don’t care.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 02:13 AM
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I don’t think you’ve been observing high libido sluts in the wild and what they do, they mostly chase chads for sex. Other girls with high libido control promiscuity, and do their one boyfriend 3 times a day. That won’t be as fun as it seems after a few weeks. When you guys talk about women’s libido being such a problem. What you actually want is for girls to have low self esteem. Those girls settle. Both types exist, but I’ll bet dollars to donuts you’re going to have a much easier time getting…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 01:10 AM
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How attractive you are affects nearly every aspect of your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 12:49 AM
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It's one of the all time "be careful what you wish for" with men. If you're a guy that develops a knack for picking up women, it can turn into an inescapable addiction. Most guys will quit the game and understand the hollow feeling inside is their soul telling them to end the behavior. Some guys push through it and eventually their ability to pair bond is basically nonexistent.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 09:32 PM
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Tldr but I believe you. This is why people sharing studies and figures off google to prove anything is not a valid argument. Studies and articles are done to satisfy their side of the argument. The 63 to 34 concept to explain relationships in 1 sentence is done for clicks and sharing your make money. Anyone could deep dive and say it’s worse or not nearly that bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 07:46 PM
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Real reason she becomes a cat lady is their lack of desire for men that she views as lower than her. The other reason is she realizes she’s content with being a cat lady. Guys do this too, they’re hell bent on their own perceived smv value. They think they deserve a cute girl with no kids who is perpetually always at a higher value than he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 07:42 PM
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You asked if it’s 2 sides of the same coin. Guys who can go on dates with what girls they want > than girls who can. Mostly because there’s lot less of those guys on the market, girls chase those guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 07:10 PM
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This keeps getting worse and worse for poor Annie. Girls don't waste nights with guys they don't want for a free meal. She'd rather stay home and watch netflix and microwave a hot pocket. Being a player and getting the chance to pick the girlfriend you want is one of the greatest luxuries in the world. If Annie is a giga stacy and has rich handsome men on their knees proposing to her after 2 dates, then she's better.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 06:56 PM
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The guy won’t give up the money until he gets what he wants, going around trying to scam guys with money not going to work that well. Seeking arrangement girls are stepping into a hopefully reliable prostitution gig. Scamming once is not how you get the bag. Anyway, all of these scenarios usually suck for girls anyway. You want to be the attractive player by a mile.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 06:16 PM
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I didn't know all this, I thought she had sugar daddies or was in person taking advantage of guys. If she can get basically just an OF model situation of being a fake girlfriend to simps online that might be okay. Still can alter your perspectives on relationships and your mindset. Your local instagram model that's doing a bunch of stuff anywhere frequently is usually being a paid escort. There's all sorts of these opportunities if you're looking hot on the gram. My girlfriend was approached by …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 06:06 PM
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The attractive guy is in a way better position than the attractive girl and it's not close. The guy is in an cycle of ego validation and sex addiction. He can break free from it when he wants and get a girlfriend easily. There's also not a social stigma to being a player. Guys see pretty girls getting free stuff, trips, finding a sugar daddy as something they are entitled to and it's easy. It rarely works out for the girl like we think, and it's temporary to the guy providing it. They also have …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 05:49 PM
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They do handle it better, but women getting lonely is the primary reason women get into relationships. You get a date with a lonely girl, she needs company and she gives you the chance to snatch her. If women never got lonely many prob be okay chilling and always doing what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 05:37 PM
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People get addicted to dating and lust, creating envy, euphoria of any kind sparks addiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 04:53 PM
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Most guys don’t take the time to create a fun cool instagram and a polished linkedin showing what a great career you have. This is the more important element than your 6 pics to make the match. If she can’t find you online, she will assume you are hiding because you are married or have a girlfriend. The guys who understand how women use dating apps, work on the marketing of themselves to design implied desirability. I would say this is no more than 5% of guys on dating apps that are getting 90% …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 04:19 PM
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Goes both ways in genders. Oops I did it again is about a girl emotionally manipulating a simp. Trouble by swift is about being with a guy that cycles through harems, and making the girl believe she is the one when she’s not. In dating, some people enjoy taking advantage of others they see as weaker. Causes a lot of distress by the person who this is being done to. They probably see the signs, but don’t want to believe the person you’re dating will be like this because they desire them a lot. So…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 04:00 PM
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The first scenario where a girl rates her rmv over smv willingly. The guy that just has sex with her, doesn’t do much else, and doesn’t allow you to see his friends. Some girls will still do this if she think he’s hot, but she knows he doesn’t value her. The other situation is detailed in the swift song trouble. He treats her very well, they go on fun dates, he sees his friends. She stays over at his place. He gives her every indication he wants to be with her. He doesn’t really though, and he’s…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 02:01 PM
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I’m assuming she doesn’t want to go to sperm donor bank and would like to get a husband first. She don’t even have a boyfriend yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 01:01 AM
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Sure it’s more about finding a supportive partner that would like a baby. Ideally you don’t want your wait another 5 years for a guy to decide.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 12:59 AM
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Some girls that age just trying to get pregnant depending upon how bad they want a child. Getting a great guy you’re into to quickly commit to a family is not a good situation. If she don’t want a husband or kids, then it’s about the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 12:20 AM
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It’s all situational, some girls go all in, some pull back, some do both.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 12:18 AM
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35f if you want a family is tough situation. Am I missing something here.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 12:13 AM
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If you look good and have a good life age is not that relevant to most girls. I'm 44, fit, tall, okay handsome. Have my own place, make good money but don't have a rich lifestyle. Been on around 150 dates last 6 years, just in different spurts to find a girlfriend. Most dates were off dating apps Hinge/Tinder/Bumble. Half of girls I went on dates with were 19-26. Most girls in 20s or late 30s/40s hookup on first or second date. I have more trouble dating girls in their 30s to the point I've give…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 09:52 PM
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Most girls don't have any rules excluding men based on age. Exception being they are in serious mode for a husband and family. If she thinks you're attractive and she's 20 and guy is older, people just going to like what they like. I went to Vegas few months ago with my girlfriend and some others. Her friend who is 26 met this guy at chandelier bar who was maybe 50. She didn't ask what's your age, she just wanted him. She thought he was cool and in good shape, that's all that mattered. As far as…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 08:51 PM
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You’re hitting on things about the 80/20 that doesn’t get talked about. You have to want to make yourself desirable to women, only 2% of guys are born chads, the rest of 20% worked on it. If you just want to eat chips and play video games and you don’t care about dating women, that’s great. You actually want to get your soft harem of girls going and pick your girlfriend, you got to get some bait going and have a real strategy. Not going to happen overnight, takes effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 08:12 PM
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If you build up your life to above average and get in good shape, you’ll get options. Just hard to do that instantly in your 20s, got to work for it, unless you’re just noticeably attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 07:03 PM
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Most guys go through unwanted droughts of no girl interest. Happened to me different times in my life. Something no girl seems to understand and they make fun of guys for, like you’re doing here.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 07:01 PM
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Yea sure, he should’ve been working on his game finding the right thing, instead of falling for whatever girl that’s cute that latched to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 06:51 PM
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Certainly, you can’t change anything at scale. I got a friend that don’t get laid much, he’s smart fit looks good multimillionaire drives a new corvette. He gets into relationship and marries a girl that’s 37 with 2 baby daddies and decided to care of them. Before he married her I told him wtf are you doing?! He said I love her. I wasn’t invited to the wedding, and now they’re already going through a divorce. If he took the redpill or blackpill he would’ve understood this woman was not fixable, …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 06:31 PM
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I’m in my 40s, girls didn’t have access to every top guy around them, it’s a lot different now. The small percentage you talk about is now a large percentage. There still won’t be comeuppance for those chasing top men until their looks are fading behavior that is the norm for today. Except if you’re a guy like OP, let them do what they want, keep your nose to the grindstone. Your time will come. Let the simps take care of all the older dating girls that chased all the chads and rich handsome guy…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 06:10 PM
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Internet gave girls access to every high value man in a 50 mile radius. Then they got insta and facetune to make them all look more attractive than they are. What has that got them? Access to guys harems in the top 5%. There’s no changing it now. Go look at the stats women in their 20s are more depressed as ever. They keep trying to get with top men and keep getting cast aside. What you do is get in shape, keep striving in your career. In your 30s when your SMV is rising and theirs is going down…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 05:37 PM
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You’re not in the market for a generally desirable man. Girls just resign to the fact if you looks like an attractive man, he’s likely a player. Just can’t be an eliminating factor for girls in getting what they want. She may not sleep with that hot guy if she gets the wrong signals from him, but the fact he’s been with lots of girls won’t disqualify him.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 04:43 PM
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Men will not be impressed by high body counts unless they know them and also get girls. Normie guys didn’t personally inspect each one, so to make himself feel better he will assume most of girls he slept with were ugly sluts.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 04:36 PM
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The king of dating apps is Instagram. Get cool local guys and girls to follow you. Then have them like your posts. Then any girl that checks you out on gram, you meet irl or dating apps, gets social status validation by investigating your instagram profile. Being on a dating app is not enough, once you match and ask them out, girls now want to find your LinkedIn and Instagram to see if you’re worthy of her.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 04:16 PM
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Guys with high body counts don’t go around talking about it except to other players. 97% of people are going to think you’re a degenerate that sleeps with just total sluts when you say you’re body count is anything over 50. High body count men are associated with an addiction to girls and sex. All the guys I know in the 100s are very attractive charismatic guys and sleep with beautiful women of all ages. One guy likes to play mind games with girls, one gets a girlfriend and has threesomes all th…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 03:43 PM
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I think the girl that wants more out of you, if you love her you’ll do more. The problem is with that girl, she’s now never going to be fully happy with you. You’ve given her a reaffirming loop of she complains, hassles, and not happy about you reaching your full potential, you’ll just keep doing more. You’re not mad most of the time because she just wants you to look better and be more successful. The problem with this type of girl who keeps pushing you, if she doesn’t really do anything to imp…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 01:16 PM
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Cool argument
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 12:42 PM
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You’re just being obtuse and a troll. It happens immediately. You’re on a date with a girl you just met she starts doing this. If you start talking to a girl on a bar you never met before, she will start doing choosing signals. This isn’t even the whole list of them. You just step on this planet yesterday and not know how girls act to a guy they have immediate attraction to.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 06:33 AM
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I don't even know what you're arguing, google female mating choosing signals. It's biology and my personal experience with going on dates. Girls act a certain way and give body signals when they are attracted, girls don't even think about it, that's just what they do. Smiling at you Shooting short glances your way Darting her eyes away when you look at her Making prolonged eye contact with you Running fingers through her hair Licking her lips Exposing her neck Tilting her heads towards you Turni…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 06:21 AM
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The whole taken man thing is a game she plays to see what you'll do. Then something could end up happening because she played with fire. She may actually be trying to steal the man, or wants to fantasize about it. Taken men are seen as socially validated by another women and that sparks some girls interest. They want commitment more than sex from most guys. You're trying to directly correlate something that's usually more a circumstantial game she's playing with a guy she knows is taken. Guys do…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 06:15 AM
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I think the moment a girl lays eyes on you she puts you in the fuckzone or not. Her body language will change immediately, stroke her hair, look down at shoes. Look at you and look away. Laughing at you over dumb comments. Touching your arm. It all happens with her near immediately. If she does all this on a date, she's coming over and going to be all over you. If she positions her boday away, just kinda looks at you in no teasing way, it's over she's done. She decided on you in 3 seconds it was…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 05:59 AM
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It's because the girl finds you attractive or not and how available she is. That's really all it is. If you're 6'2" jacked and have a model face, she's going to be very flattered. If you're short and chubby she won't. That's why guys on here have so much problems if you don't cross a general attractiveness by society standards she's going to put off by your presence and want someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 05:50 AM
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Obviously cold approach unless she basically seeks you out is going to be major hit or miss. Talking first dates off dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 05:27 AM
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Models and ceos are in the top 0.3% of single guys and girls. Regular looking dudes that make 50k/yr can be in top 20%. You can just be attractive and be in top 20%.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 02:58 AM
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I see girls as lonely most of the time of their lives. Women’s egos can only be sky high for awhile, eventually girls want reliable love companionship. If you got your own place, you’re in shape, then you’re in the top 20% of the 80/20 and you’re in the game. Unless there’s something weird about you or too short.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 02:47 AM
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If you want the types of girls you want, there’s dating apps and Instagram. Then there’s bars/clubs/cold approach. Then you ask for dates, be chill, and ask them over after the date. The unfortunate thing apparently a lot of guys can’t get any of this casual dating going, or have pua desire or ability. So then you have opportunities with girls through social circles and work. Which I think isn’t nearly as good as hunting for your own girls. Trying to date with friends of friends or work is annoy…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 02:33 AM
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Maybe, I’m in a large conservative city, there’s very little discrimination going on. Me and particular I’m friends with this handsome European rich guy, his girlfriend looks like Stacey Dash, my other friend he’s handsome and successful hes dated this Ethiopian girl off and on. I’ve had a black girlfriend and Afro Latina, I thought they were hot. This girl has crossed the threshold of attractiveness I don’t think her race matters. Not to say some guys don’t want date a black girl, but I don’t p…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 10:45 PM
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Saw your profile l, think you’re being way harsh on your looks. You’re focusing on pretty girls with light skin, not average ones. You’re clearly above any girl that would be considered average looking. I would think you got a ton of good looking guys that want to get with you, and would take you on a date if you live in a city. I’m not sure how you do this, but you really want a relationship and not just dates, you need to seek out guys who have had black girlfriends before, and not just curiou…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 10:24 PM
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Pretty easy to be charming when you pass the eye test. If you don’t and her body language is not towards you, then you’re fighting upstream with her with a turd for a paddle. I tell guy friends don’t sweat a date, she’ll decide yay or nay the moment she lays eyes on you, nothing you can do that I know of if you don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 09:24 PM
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It’s a few second glance at the guy. A woman’s body language of her attraction gives her away. Then you can mess it up with her by doing or saying anything dumb to give her red flags or ick. You also have to act interested in her and get her talking, if you just talk her ear off she’ll get bored. After you’re intimate with each other, she’ll take her guard down and pursue a guy near immediately for relationship or not. This is dating and pick up game, a relationship via social circles and work a…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 08:56 PM
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You got to have something to offer, the guys I know that get the most sex from pretty girls and have social circles always got coke and k in their pocket. Guys on here that swear up and down they would never buy a pretty girl a drink and they half to go half. I’m like you’re seriously better than me I guess, if a pretty girl is willing to sit in front of me and give me a chance, sweet I’ll get her a few drinks no problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 06:51 PM
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I’m sure you got some decent points, I just can’t read text with 30 green checkmarks that’s all.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 05:51 PM
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Why do you have to stick your dick inside a vagina, on so many levels that’s risky behavior especially unprotected. Sometimes you need affection, control yourself, you don’t have to fuck though.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 05:07 PM
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Life can be fucked sometimes is a nonsense statement. This paragraph you just wrote is nonsense. Come to some logical point without checkmarks.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 05:03 PM
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You should stop with the checkmarks, it doesn’t make you seem smarter, does the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 04:56 PM
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Women have ridiculous expectations from men built from a composite of the most desirable men they temporarily dated. There’s no attractive woman with options that doesn’t want to use a guy for some benefit. This could be temporary lust if he’s hot. He could get her connected in a social scene. Or in my situation I have to pay this mortgage whether you’re here or not. Some girls are like, I don’t like my roommate and I’m not going to renew my lease, so maybe I can live with you. Just as long as y…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 04:28 PM
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Heart set on another guy is usually the case. The girls that are all in on you do not hold back, and stay around you as much as she can. The girls who f and leave, she has decided that she is being pulled in another way. Having sex with you was a temporary reprieve of what she really wants, which is usually some else.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 04:08 PM
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We’re talking about suicide and loneliness is usually a factor, but there is a much bigger perspective on it than just that. I think suicide is impulse combined with feeling of inadequacy and hopelessness. To your crazy point about male loneliness, I tend to agree. If you are lonely there are so many ways and things to cure that. They’re just not things or being around people that isn’t holding up to some standard or what you want to do. People search for types of friends to benefit their own id…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 04:01 PM
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You have to be at least be temporarily very depressed to want to impulsively kill yourself. No one wakes up feeling good about life and decides this is the time to end it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 03:51 PM
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Suicide is on the rise is for both men and women. The first factor is inflation has made just living and eating as expensive. We’re being priced gouged from all angles. I used to love Taco Bell, now my meal is $13 instead of $4, so I don’t even go anymore. The dating market and a relationship is an easy out from having to be social enough with friend groups to cure daily loneliness. If I didn’t have my girlfriend I would have to do a lot more things with my life with other people. My girlfriend …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 03:36 PM
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Nah she was a hot chick, sweet too, I messed up going to my ex. It’s not anecdotal, girls don’t see ages or even think about, they just think I would like to have him or not. The fact that a 30 yr old man is on average more attractive than a 40 yr old doesn’t mean 40 yr old guys and girls can’t be often. There’s 45 yr old cougars out there that can date whatever guy they want, in Miami they walking around everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 01:46 AM
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Yea I’ve done a lot of things in my 40s that I didn’t think to do before so I can remain attractive. I dated a 39 yr old girl for 5 months that, she was as hot as a hot girl in her 20s. You can try to be attractive as much as you can and you can easily be more attractive as you’ve ever been. Attractive people have better lives, they get more respect, fat ugly people face a lot of discrimination.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 01:36 AM
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My girlfriend works from home and makes me sandwich for lunch about everyday, she lives with me, she adores me like crazy. She has been attracted to me since the moment she laid eyes on me over a year ago. I’m 6’2” 200lbs, go to gym, and look good. I get hit on by girls of all ages. My gf is a dead ringer for a young Lana Rhoades and makes near 6 figures, she don’t need me. Being attractive is being attractive there’s no age associated with it, I’m better looking than prob 90% of guys in their 2…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 01:18 AM
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Just because there’s a most plausible outcome doesn’t mean that also has to be the most desired. There’s a solid percentage of young girls in Miami of all races and backgrounds if you asked them what you prefer, they would say I like and usually date men in their 40s. My last 4 girlfriends a couple that lasted years, and 70% of my dates off instagram and dating apps are girls in their early 20s. They like me more than 40+ year old women, because the average 40 year old woman still wants the 30 y…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 12:56 AM
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No you are, it’s simple, it’s just attraction. You could take 100 girls in early 20s you could say Captain America or Ironman. You can pick one for a date. Double digit percentage of girls would say Ironman, Robert Downey is hotter. You would say, but he’s 50 you’re supposed to want 30. Young girl says yea idc I just want him.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 12:33 AM
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I disagree. I don’t think women disqualify for age, they just may have a preference. It’s just is he attractive and does he have live a type of lifestyle I would like to be part of. If you’re hot and her buzzers are going off she wants him, you can be hot appealing guy at any age. If that lifestyle is him being 32 and just wanting to start a family, she may want him. If he’s a young party boy then that’s it. Age just happens to fit into what people are normally doing with their life. Generically…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 12:12 AM
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You can never give them money transfers because that will change the relationship dynamic, but if you will pay for a beauty routine like her nails, or get her a designer purse or a trip for her birthday they’ll love that. I hear guys say they wished girls cared about being romantic, but it’s pretty much dead with most girls and should be avoided.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 11:02 PM
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My current girlfriend is 23 and she will check out a handsome older man and ignore a young buff Chad. She’s not normal for that though. She has a couple friends that are in early 20s that also think their dream man would be early 40s fit and handsome guy. In miami and few other cities older men are more chased by younger girls. I occasionally get 18 and 19 year old girls asking me out on instagram or dating apps, that gets too young for me. These girls don’t ask you for anything, they just aren’…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 10:57 PM
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This is true, but also outdated. Girls don’t care about romance anymore, they care about you being useful and beneficial to her. Try being romantic with a modern young girl you’re dating and she’s just as likely to get the ick for looking like a simp. Guys are still into romance, girls like it when it suits their interests.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 10:40 PM
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I went through some actual ptsd with my last girlfriend of years, trying to break up with her and she wouldn’t accept it. She wouldn’t stop trying to monkey branch, but she needed me too. I said that’s enough, but she wouldn’t accept it. I tried to date after and I was not having fun, luckily a girl that I dated before said she wanted to be my girlfriend. It’s been a lot better I feel a lot better now, lot of it is thanks to my new girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 10:21 PM
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If she sees you as boyfriend material she stays. She keeps staying with you as much as you want for a relationship. I like it when the girl stays, in my experience at least half the time after first time they will. There’s a whole bunch of reasons why women leave after sex. Sometimes they just like to sleep alone in their own bed. Maybe she doesn’t want you to see her in the morning yet, or she snores. Maybe she didn’t like it, or she doesn’t want to take you seriously and has heart set on anoth…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 10:03 PM
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I haven’t dated dudes, so not sure what needy guys be like as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 09:30 PM
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Dang that girl in corner is going off, she’s right. If you see a girl that is cute with a presentable body. If she’s trying to look hot on gram, or on dating apps, or going out to bars/clubs. She immediately sleeps with and chases top 1% men and agrees to be in his harem for a hope of a relationship. You can never tell me different. There are exceptions, and girls don’t do it in perpetuity. Any guy who gets dates or girls a lot, immediately sleeps with most of them. Don’t matter the age, how att…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 08:53 PM
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When was this time that women wanted to get with 80% of men? As far as I’ve read with tribal and early agriculture, men hoarded women as much as they could. 8000 years ago the average guy who had children, knocked up 17 other women too. Most all guys got nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 08:31 PM
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Yes this is reason. Gets frustrating when women have double standards with how hard they try to protect her man and keep him from straying or abandoning her. Feels like some girlfriends would box you in a cage if they could.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 08:25 PM
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Girls try to date the best possible guys top down across all the apps on her phone, and every best guy she can get in front of across social circles. Women will do this until they want marriage and family. She keeps that same strategy, but isn’t likely work because she’s been dating out of her league by being a temporary placeholder girlfriend or in harems. When she has to date for real, her ego and actual dating options will hit her like a ton of bricks. Dating is fun and whatever when you don’…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 08:14 PM
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Unless they were oppressed and had rights taken away. Women have never in history have wanted to get with or have an attraction to average or below average guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 08:03 PM
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For sure any person that can go into a manic episode, usually seeks out random sex as part of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 07:18 PM
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I don’t believe in game, my game I call antigame and I think it works. If you’re a smooth charismatic person with lots of friends and talk to anyone easily, that’s game. Hard to teach that, I guess practice can make you better. You can be supportive and tell people what they may be doing wrong, or to be more social I suppose. The idea that a guy can perfect pua is ridiculous to me. Attractive people are good at being attractive and that’s what unattractive people are up against, no formula for i…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 06:34 PM
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Hard to tell the percentages, but it seems like by the time a girl hits 25 she will date at least 1 man 10+ years older. Some girls have strong preference to older men. I also tend to think girls don’t even think about age that much in general unless he’s under 23, if he’s good looking and got a fun life, then they go for him. Also there’s a lot of single young girls, if you want one bad enough you’ll probably do what it takes to get one. I live in a city where age gap relationships are so norma…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 05:53 PM
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Because we don’t care about science fiction worlds where women’s libidos act like men’s. There’s plenty of girls out there with very high libidos, go get yourself one.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 05:44 PM
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Why do we care about science fiction of women’s libidos transforming to being just like men? I’ve dated a couple girls with very high libidos, they didn’t change their standards with guys, they get a boyfriend and drain them dry. Women be having sex all the time, why is this an issue on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 05:39 PM
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If you use casual sex as a tool to land a relationship like women do, I think it’s fun and it works. If you’re just trying to rack up ons then that gets weird and feeling hollow, no interest in that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 04:17 PM
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I would add she posts your face on social media. You can be in a shadow relationship if she refuses.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 04:07 PM
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Yea happens to me as well. Older women like to look down on older men who date young women. I tell them, you older women my age don’t want me that bad, I’ve tried.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 03:49 AM
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I don’t have enough security or wealthy enough for a hot 40-45 year old around my age. The fact I look like I’m 10 years younger and I’m in shape is no benefit to older women. My looksmatch and successful match my age will go out with me, but doesn’t usually want me. I date girls 15-20 years younger than me. They are impressed by my fun lifestyle and looks. Girl in her mid 20s who likes older men has real desire. Also, younger girls don’t mind my kids at all, girls my age don’t like to date men …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 03:44 AM
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It’s not a curse, that’s how they get the successful 50+ man. If they are a milf they can play around with younger guys. If they got kids they are usually old enough to be a non factor. Attractive older women do well, they are just working in a different market now.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 03:27 AM
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The cougars casually date the fit 30 yr old men. The older women are now in the 50s man dating world. Most successful handsome 50+ men don’t want to date that young or can’t. The older men with options choose the girls in their late 30s or 40s with nice bodies and still pretty.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 03:03 AM
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This is true, but much more women get to date in the top 5% of men. In order for man to date any of the top 5% of women, you need to be in the top 5% of men. To date like a top 5% woman can, you need to be a top 0.5% man. This is what the men argue online, the jealousy of the dating options and world of the top 10% women with no kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 02:57 AM
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Good looking women in 30s and 40s date older men who are successful, or hot buff 30 yr old men who have service or blue collar jobs. They are much rarer than a 20 yr old girl who is cute, hold more smv value. They also can get into relationships easier if they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 02:22 AM
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Like big girls or ppd? I had a surgery after broken leg, don’t want to go out, got addicted to reddit but deleting soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 01:50 AM
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Just the fact you hook up with 70% of your dates in a few hours and it’s all ages and all types of girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 12:40 AM
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Once sex is of no consequence to you then you turn down girls no problem. Then girls usually want you more because you can deny them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 11:15 PM
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It’s not usually pump and dump, it’s guys that cycle through girls to keep their harems going. You’ll be a temporary non exclusive girlfriend to a desirable guy. Online dating for girls is going on thinking this time will be different. They collectively get with the same 15% of guys that are mainstays that are either hot or built an attractive online persona. They sleep around to try to land their favorites, get worn out and take a big hit to their ego. Then decide to pull back and do what you s…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 10:39 PM
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I agree with all that, but charisma cannot be taught, it’s an innate attractive quality. That helps with attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 09:56 PM
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I’ve known just a few girls into that red pill female content, and you’re 100% on the mentality too.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 09:53 PM
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For sure, these girls are like redpill in sense they can be a guys temporary fling for a bit, but can’t land the guy. So they seek out content to try and figure out why. Girl you’re dating players out of your league and not looking for love, you’re searching for status and a guy to solve all your problems. It’s a desperate look, guys with options see through it and play you as a placeholder nonexclusive girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 09:46 PM
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Unless the girl usually in relationship or has religious convictions. I just generally view most girls having slept with 30-70 men. Girls that keep saying they hate casual sex I want love, are often the same girls randomly blowing a guy and going home with him after they have a few drinks, or cycling men off dating apps. I never trust what a girl has to say about her own sexual activity.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 09:42 PM
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The chubby guys were cool charismatic guys, one was in friend group in college and a roommate after college. They are attractive appealing guys, they just don’t look chads. They not spending money on girls. With me compared to the other 2 guys similar who never get girls. It’s looks, you wouldn’t say I’m hot and they’re not. Maybe it’s my green slightly hooded eyes, a difference in face distribution, a few milliliters of bone facial structure. Now I catch female eyes and I’m in a positive feedba…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 09:38 PM
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Omg yes, that feminine energy pill is for the crazy girls that think they deserve to live in a mansion and be taken care of.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 09:30 PM
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They have feelings, even the most privileged people can be depressed. Any Elliot Roger type stance is not being a blackpill. I’m blackpill because I could not barely get girls into I was 20, so I’ve been an incel before, but now I’m different in some ways. Came down to how my genetics folded out I guess. I have this college roommate and this guy I grew up next to. We’re all tall, good build, intelligent, ended up with great careers. Since 20 Im either dating or randomly getting with pretty girls…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 08:35 PM
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Not at all, the goal of the black pill is ascension and to get a girlfriend. Don’t force it by talking to thousands of girls and increasing how much you bench and think that will change your fate. Doing things or buying a bunch of stuff you don’t want, thinking it will get girls is pathetic male behavior. Don’t be a simp, be yourself. Attracting women is mostly an innate quality that a guy possesses inherently. Red pill will have you believe that women act this way so act this way, do this so wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 07:46 PM
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Red pill is just non pc talk about how some single women are. Content made for clicks, views, and selling alpha male training courses. Most guys want to be successful, respected, and have a bevy of beautiful women on hand. Some guys have that so why not, so let’s dream and complain about women together with red pill. There’s also red pill style content for women on how to game rich handsome men, by being in your feminine energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 07:33 PM
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Incels and guys who have been players mostly take the black if they know about pills. All that Chad Stacy, 80/20, betabux, shortcel concepts have a ring to it once you’ve personally experienced both sides of the coin. I have friends having threesomes all the time and others that can’t get girls for years. They both have similar views on how girls act, there’s no reason to think girls can be gamed and you can just generate female attraction. Black pill says you are who you are, you might change, …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 07:01 PM
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Girls that make great money and are cute have a really difficult time finding a partner. Successful guys already got a house and can afford to feed a girl. A beautiful girl in a service or secretary job has a lack of total independence, that helps her pick a man for more security. The career woman wants to be rewarded in the dating world with high earning attractive men, she isn’t. They don’t care, most guys still want the most attractive girl he can get that has a decent job.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 06:29 PM
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You both realized you wanted each other back that’s the story. Now you’re like I make men beg, like okay girl sure calm down.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 06:13 PM
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Ha yea sure you go kween.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 06:10 PM
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Okay girl that doesn’t let men date multiple women. Let’s say you had an exboyfriend and you realize you messed up and you really wanted him back. However, you know he’s dating a beautiful woman. You talk to him, and he says I miss you so much, and he kicks that beautiful girl to the curb for you. You’re going to feel great, I guarantee it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 06:08 PM
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Common dating knowledge. For the dating girl to realize he saw those other girls as temporary, but her as long term. That’s a huge rush to the dating girl who landed the boyfriend. Girls assume guys are dating other girls. That’s a give in, if he’s a desirable man.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 06:04 PM
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What girls have done sometimes with guys they didn’t want that bad in first place, and what they actually did for guys they really wanted are different. If you have strong desire for the man these things can encourage you that he is a real catch, and you need to get these other girls out of the picture. Now you’re love bombing him and being in front of him as much as you can. Once he says yes to you for relationship and you know he tossed those other girls for you, that girl will love you even m…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 05:58 PM
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Girls know when you got other girls in your place. They know when you’re not available for text or call the whole night. They get in your bed and SMELL other women been there. They see other girls hairs around. The may know people you’ve slept with, if they were attractive women, you now have her social validation. The unavailable man is worthy of a chase. That’s why when you got 0 hoes, girls know it and they don’t want to solve your problem. If you got a few girls, getting more girls comes muc…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 05:52 PM
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I would like to see the girls not express desire for the desirable man with options. Usually appears to be the opposite, some players appear irresistible to most women. If you get girls, every guy understands the phenomenon of you have 0 girls and it’s a struggle. Then you get 1, now you got 2, now you got 5. Now 3 out 5 who see you as boyfriend material know they are in a competition and are trying to land you. It’s not just confidence, I truly do think girls smell the other girl pheromones on …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 05:38 PM
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Common with girls you meet and know on dating apps, I wouldn’t say it’s common with single women in general. If a girl had a hot side piece and a prospective boyfriend a few times, that’s fine, but some girls that’s how they date. Guys really don’t like girls that got different standards situationally. She’ll randomly do hot guys but make a beta guy wait a month, that behavior is sickening to guys. Dating girls do it though for obvious reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 05:32 PM
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You don’t need to be a giga chad or be wealthy to have sex all the time and rack up 100s of girls. What you do need is the motivation to accomplish that, and have a few attractive qualities. You could be tall and have the gift of gab and pull girls like crazy anywhere. I wish for their own sanity you could tell girls that players are never “high value.” What girls come to believe is when a man becomes high value he will be a player, which isn’t true.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 05:26 PM
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Absolutely not. I don’t like girls who juggle multiple men a lot though. Some dating girls participate in dual mating strategy, of doing hot and bad boy guys on the side in situationships, while pursuing a more suitable boyfriend. Once you come to find out the girl that expects you to take her on dates, also just shows up at chads house for dick and a hot body. You want to kick that girl to the street immediately.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 05:06 PM
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Basically no single guy turns down a beautiful woman for sex. This guys comment needs more nuance to be understood, I kind of get what he’s saying though. There’s slutty guys way into casual sex, then there’s guys that can get casual sex but don’t usually engage in it. Ugly guys get obsessed by something they can’t have, the power to meet a girl and have sex with her a hour later is an exciting concept they wish they could do. Either that or they to pretend most girls would never do that to make…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 05:00 PM
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If she’s on a dating app or at a bar/club, odds are she has casual sex. Women randomly fuck someone they want, even the normal ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 04:52 PM
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You still have to possess the “it” guy quality to get casual sex consistently from 2 or 3s. You just don’t necessarily have to be attractive to do it, but you need game. Big ugly girls got options for sex too, and there are plenty of guys available happily willing to give sex to an obese woman. When I think of the 80/20 rule, the top 1% are getting with very beautiful women, and the bottom of the 20% of those guys are getting with the 2s and 3s. I’m often surprised what a 3 girl can pull lookswi…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 04:43 PM
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Same. If you express genuine passion for girls they really like when you do that on a date. Then if you really like to spend time together too, you got a girlfriend. Continually sleeping through women without consideration of any relationship I think is degenerate behavior, only having casual sex makes you feel hollow.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 04:28 PM
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You should get yourself out there and get a social boyfriend. Improve your life, you’re living and doing good.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 07:01 AM
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In dating guys can separate emotional attachment, and spin plates until he finds the girl he really wants. Dating girls usually try to manage 2-3 situationships and go on new dates. This strategy greatly lessens there chances of a guy thinking she’s being serious with him. Girls think managing multiple guys at same time maximizes chances if commitment, but it does the opposite. For guys, get dates and be a gentleman and rock her in bed as best you can, and 1/4 of your dates will likely near inst…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 11:38 PM
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Red is just a label to talk about anything matter of factly about women, blue isn’t real just stuff normies say or think, black is you’re mostly a result of genetics and environment. That’s how I see the pills.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 07:05 PM
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Definitely, your net is so much bigger in 30s, early 20s it’s just about looks and what you do for fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 06:46 PM
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Ha I said stuff like go at night so you look better, make her come close to your house for couple drinks so easy to ask her over after. I just text one or 2 sentences on apps and just near immediately ask them out. People on this sub hate these concepts of how to pick up girls for dates. I was curious what people do, but I think too many people just struggle to get dates and get ticked off considering about what you actually do on the dates or strategy on how to land them. Maybe that’s more sedu…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 06:40 PM
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I deleted, one was what do you say or what do you message girls to land dates. One was what strategy to you have for a successful date and what do you do on the date. This sub hates any “game” talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 06:34 PM
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I’ve tried dating strategy and how to land dates posts. Most people hated it, one person called me an autist psychopath, another said I hope a girl ruins your life. People don’t like talking strategy to get dates and getting women into relationship. Defeatist dating attitude and how women have it so much better is all the rage on reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 06:10 PM
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Last year 2 friends and I we are in early 40s were single at same time and we went on dating apps hinge/tinder/bumble. We kept dating for 7 months and had an ongoing text thread of our dates and who we were hooking up with. We’d get 1-3 new hookups per week off dating apps, it turned into a competition of sorts. I look younger than the other guys I date girls in early 20s mostly, one guy likes late 20s girls, last guy more all over the board with girls 19 to 42. We counted up after 2 of us got g…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 05:21 PM
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I’m friends with a couple guys in the Miami club scene one is at 400+ partners and the other 600+ they are in their 40s so they’ve been going at it for awhile. They have house parties with cool people and sexy club chicks about every weekend. They are always getting with very hot girls. The guy at 400+ gets a girlfriend that’s down for threesomes, one time he claimed have more threesomes than regular sex. These guys are older but very fit, got money, and good looking. The first time that really …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 01:37 AM
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If you have a good job, guys recognize you as cute, and you're not fat, you're a highly desirable dating option. You're probably not getting a hot desk job guy, but you're likely to get a nice looking one. My experience is girls don't recognize who they're dating and they usually gravitate more towards players. Since they only notice very attractive or higher status men, they don't take into account how rare those men are. I got left by a girl I was dating for a couple years that's been a few ye…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 12:14 AM
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High smv people who don’t want to date are off the market.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 10:53 PM
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The only reason it's hard for attractive straight women is they can only be attracted to men in an instant casual way, to the men that are perceived as attractive and have a good career. The male bar for attractiveness is significantly higher than women and they refuse to recognize this. There's been studies that have shown that women find 85% of men as less than attractive. Then most attractive girls say they want 6ft tall, not fat, and 100k/yr that's there baseline. That's 0.4% of men 25-35. H…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 10:47 PM
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I don’t even know where to go with your statement. Yes attractive people can, high smv people can date endlessly if they live in a metropolis. Alternatively they can all but custom make the type of partner they want anytime they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 10:18 PM
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Yes it’s easy because I had the tools to get there. Then I put in a lot more effort to advertise myself and appear more attractive than guys who can’t. It’s a positive feedback loop of improvement. Then you get all the practice you need and you know how to act around a girl, then getting her into your bed quickly. How to act chill and confident to achieve that is all skills you’ve crafted. You don’t need to do this unless you genuinely care about sleeping with lots of beautiful women and having …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 10:02 PM
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Yes because you’re paying attention to the women that are attractive that got married and not the ugly ones. Just like guys do with pretty women who date. Research shows the more unattractive girl you are, the more likely you are to get married young.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 09:50 PM
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Yes, because of the paradox of choice. "abundance of options actually requires more effort to choose and can leave us feeling unsatisfied with our choice"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 08:48 PM
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Pretty girls in their 20s often become pretty girls in their 30s. Guys don’t fantasize or focus on the lives of kinda okay looking girls. A wise man once said, never trust a big butt and a smile.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 07:50 PM
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It’s all the girls banging the loudest, the most narcissistic look at me girls on Instagram, they flood dating apps looking for validatio, and seeking out men that create envy in other women. These girls are in an addictive cycle of ego they can’t break free from. If you start dating and get a chance to meet these girls with finely facetuned instagrams, posting stories of all their partying and club going, in mansion parties, on random vacation. You think that’s just normal girls, and they are n…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 07:37 PM
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There’s a lot of female trolls on this sub because blue/black/red pill, Chad/Stacy, alpha/sigma/beta are all male metaphors for men’s lives that we can relate to. Women don’t see the world or men like this and aren’t going to take the time to understand our made up male hierarchies internet theories. When a girl reads this it’s just laughable entertainment and they think we’re all incels. So they poke fun at anything that could be interpreted as misogyny, and their default response is, sorry wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 07:27 PM
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I think reddit is obsessed with hoeflation due to giving women who can easily get pregnant dates access to every desirable man in a 50 mile radius. Top 5% guys can just rack up as many girls as they want. If a girl is cute and dateable she can get dates from attractive men endlessly. Girls on dating apps are hooking up having fun and dating more than most dudes can comprehend. This last 15 years has pushed above average men in their 20s in a more difficult situation. Average guys always struggle…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 06:25 PM
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Women give you choosing signals to let you know to hit on them or to continue talking. You need to match with them first. They are first to respond to an actual advance. It’s mostly girls first, then it’s usually the guy after that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 06:19 PM
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Dating girls do way more than 1 Chad. They go on dating apps and go on endless dates with her most desirable options from top down. I don’t think guys have dated this girl in their 30s that been ran through every desirable guy without commitment. They bitter, they got 30 qualifying questions for you, they’re endorphins are too blown out to feel anything from a hookup. They say I’m done dating I’m looking for a husband and a baby, will you comply? You’re like holy shit girl chads and handsome suc…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 05:13 PM
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I don’t have issue with women, in the early part of the agricultural era the average guy who had kids, knocked up 17 different women. That dating culture sounds far worse. I got guy friends that have been with 100s of women and have threesomes all the time, then other guys that can’t get one girl to pay attention to them for years. Friends that are passport bros. If you’re not naturally gifted genetically to pull women, it’s like you have to do way too much to land one. Going on a dating app, sw…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 05:02 PM
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The problem is these girls live male fantasy, young pretty girls get to have more fun for free and have more sex with very desirable men than the average guy can comprehend. It’s annoying because these girls now represent a high percentage of the dating market that all seem to believe a handsome specialist doctor is her bare minimum consideration for marriage. Then eventually reality slaps them in there head like a ton of bricks and they realize that’s not happening and I’ve spent my 20s being p…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 04:54 PM
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If you’re consistently getting top tier to take you on dates and give you affection. You believe you’re right in with them and you just didn’t get chose. Meanwhile he’s been with 50 other girls this year and had 2 other girls when they were dating her. Girls don’t mind the competition at first, but after being top men’s temp placeholder girl repeatedly she has to wake up to fact that she’s always been an option, and a young attractive 7+ girl can sleep with a billionaire or the hottest Chad, but…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 04:42 PM
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I’ve been in a loveless marriage the last year, and been an incel a few years in my life. It sucks pretty bad, affection is a human need. My ability to gain affection from women and pick the type of girl lookswise and personality I want is one of my favorite aspects of life. The birth of your child and winning in your own business are the only things that feel better than affection from a pretty girl, they make you feel electric. Any person walking around with a vagina the concept of getting aff…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 04:28 PM
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How many countries do women have equal rights, half? Sure western world 21st century. I’m not suggesting that, but it’s an option. I’m tall fit handsome and successful, girls chase me, and hooking up on dating apps continually is easier than shooting fish in a barrel, I get bored with it and want a girlfriend. My last 3 girlfriends were in their 20s, it’s great, they just want love and your company. Girls in 40s like that too, just some girls in their 30s get bitter about men and devious with da…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 04:09 PM
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I say don’t worry about it and date girls in their 20s and 40s. Girls without kids in 30s that been cycle dating for 15 years are kinda nuts in general, I avoid them after been attempted to be trapped a few times and had to break it off. Most girls get a biological urge to procreate that starts to sink in the 30s. My girlfriend is 24, she don’t want nothing from me except my attention. Girls in their 20s and 40s are most fun to date because all they want is a boyfriend they desire that provides …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 04:03 PM
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Girls are going to want to have the most desirable men to them they can have until they can’t, or maybe tired of it, and want a real boyfriend. Girls can date up in looks and lifestyle. If you’re on a date with a handsome tall man with a Ferrari that hosts cool parties, you’re way more desirable than a guy sitting at home playing Xbox. Then as women get into 30s usually they want babies and more security. So they adjust their dating strategy from highest hot and lifestyle they can get. That’s th…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 03:54 PM
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You take away their rights and make them financially dependent on men or have an arranged marriage system, tried and true methods to get average guys in the game with 20 yr old girls. The thing that girls desire the most about guys is there ability to attract other women. Girls check me out sometimes or come up and flirt with me, and my girlfriend gets very territorial and turned on by it. One of girls big desire for men is his ability to sleep with many women, but decides to choose only her ins…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 03:49 PM
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For sure, I said what’s going on with certain percentage of female dating population, and how to avoid it in the future, they can lock the post now. Solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 06:53 AM
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Girls in their 30s like this has always existed, there’s just a growing tidal wave of it. Too many simps prob won’t matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 06:47 AM
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Because cute women in their 20s want to do fun shit and do hot guys and not date average men. That’s fine, but don’t be there for her instantly in her 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 04:15 AM
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No just because she says I’m looking for a husband and kids next couple years or starts pressuring you to marriage within a few months. You need to run. I dated a bunch of girls in their 30s like this. I got friends with kids they didn’t want to have because she trapped him. Women in their 30s start thinking more selfishly about themselves and start seeing what man she can exploit. This happens in the dating world a lot, don’t give me oh that’s not me argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 04:07 AM
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What I noticed with girls in their 30s that tell you they done dating and searching for a husband. You cannot give in just because she thinks she’s running out of time now, she spent her 20s dating and you’re now the guy to solve her situation. Her plans are to use and walk all over you. You have to make every girl play the long game, no shortcuts to make her happy, she needs to love you for years first. She wasted her 20s dating guys now she needs to wait for you too. The solution is do not mak…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 04:01 AM
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Yea I’m with all that. Comparison is the thief of joy. People also have a strong desire to spark envy in others on social media. These things don’t have anything to do with wanting a healthy supportive relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 02:39 AM
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If they're a 7+/10 girl they get more than casual sex. They get dates, invited to parties, clubs, maybe a trip. They would rather be temporary placeholder girlfriend to a high value men then date in her league. They get treated better in some ways than the above average guys would treat her, it just never lasts and she has to share him with other girls he's dating. The other problem is she doesn't want to believe he is controlling the situation and lying about his intentions with her. They think…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 02:28 AM
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Chad gets too many benefits for dating the girl lower looks than him. These hot guys live rent free and have bs jobs or none at all. She just has to put up with his cheating. Loser hot chads don’t get to seriously date their looksmatch, so they use women for their benefit instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 01:40 AM
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Eastern European and Russian women think dating a guy for his looks is a weakness, he should provide. I see chads in relationships with alright above average girls, the girls treat him like a princess. She gets the status of having a hot man. Then he usually cheats on her with prettier girls on the side.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 01:32 AM
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The modern dating girl fallacy is putting her emotional needs and love in the backseat. Continually putting on the blinders for guys that will satisfy her ego, dreams, or her lust instead. Guys don’t have this problem, if she’s on a date with you, prob 20% chance she’d near instantly be your girlfriend. If you can get dates you have power over the girls that are tired of the dating cycle and just want a relationship. Guys make bad decisions with the wrong girls too, that might take time to figur…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 01:13 AM
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There’s endless attractive options of girls on dating apps. Most girls who date use that as a primary tool to find men they want. When you get dates, most of the time she hooks up with you. I don’t know any guy who can date regularly including myself, that would ever complain about getting cute girls to show up for a date. One of the best feelings in the world is an attractive girl preselecting you and giving you a chance. To your point it gets confusing for girls with players, some will lie lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 12:52 AM
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Dating girls love bomb guys they want exclusive, I’ll take myself off market if I want them too. After a month or so, her true colors will come out on how much she really wants you. Sometimes she does really want you, if not you have to be disciplined dump her and go back to dating. This is the hard aspect for guys with girls in dating. I got caught up with a girl one time that could love bomb me for months, I thought our relationship was great. Then she would get bored I guess and cheat, we bre…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 12:42 AM
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All the junk food is really bad for them though. They keep eating it for the rush. Desirable smooth players make girls feel a certain way, that’s her drug. Healthy balanced meals now tastes bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 12:32 AM
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There are girls who just jump from one long term relationship to the next with ease. Then there’s girls that go on 100s of dates with the most desirable men they can, basically asking them out. These guys see them as desperate and not caring about them, just themselves and what a guy can give them. Then they get a guy, get grass is greener feeling and leave for the next best thing. Girls have all these social pressures and dreams associated with men. Guys just want a cute girl that’s into them a…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 12:12 AM
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That’s too much to still have a nice figure. If you love her, work out with her and diet together, and get her down to 170. People work with their partner to help make them more attractive. My last girlfriend did a lot for me to make me more presentable.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 11:56 PM
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Girls get miserable as hell with dating. They all upbeat at first, saying this time I’m getting my dream man. Then they get dates from their high value or hot men and lucky to be in his harem of a placeholder girlfriend for a few weeks. Guys think they want this, because they’d be happy with that. So we’re jealous of women, but we shouldn’t be. They have to continue to desire men, only to be left with feeling used nearly every go around. Then they try to date lower and still get played. Dating g…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 11:49 PM
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Is it cute face, big boobs, and fat, or just obese. The curvy chubby girls get chased like crazy, they got a whole fan base.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 11:37 PM
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If babies don't get regular affection it messes them up for life. If adult people rarely or never get affection, it also eventually affects them deeply. Affection and feelings of love is more of a need than a want. That's why guys get tired of girls about their complaints with dating men. At least women can satisfy a basic need of affection whenever they want. The last year of my marriage was loveless and I've been unable to get dates at different times in my life. I did whatever it took to get …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 11:24 PM
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"This is where the misconception start, it's not a losing game, people see them together and it boost women self esteem so much. And if they succeed, it's literally the best relationship they can imagine." It's a losing game in the sense there's not enough transform lifestyle, or get me connected to the social scene guys to go around. These guys date and get with the girls, but rarely if ever give the girls commitment. I'm an alright guy with a decent place. I can get dates, but I've found it su…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 11:00 PM
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I may have worded that wrong. Girls care a lot about great sex, tall fit bodies, and big dicks. Girls definitely want to experience lust. The difference is, they don't think about having a lack of affection in their lives like a lot single guys do.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 10:40 PM
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Girls keep going top down on their favorite dating options. They want the smooth cool guys to boost their own social profile. They keep playing a losing game being unrealistic about their expectations from a man. They don't care about sex and affection like guys do, to girls it's so readily available it's not a concern at all. Dating girls only care about hot men and trophy boyfriends that give her bragging rights. She sees he self of only deserving to be with the high value man. The problem is …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 10:26 PM
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It’s all cope and virtue signaling for guys because they can’t get girls casually. That’s the common blue pill stance is saying he gets all the girls, but they are whores, I have higher standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 09:37 PM
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This stuff is virtue signaling for guys for something they know they likely never to have. I’ve went out with onlyfans, strippers, and a girl that did a few porn shoots. I met them off a dating app, they told me their job during the first date. They looking for a boyfriend wasn’t a scam or nothing. They do have some insecurities about how some guys perceive them. Couple can’t get concept time is money out of their heads enough to maintain a regular boyfriend. I never caught any vd from any of th…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 09:23 PM
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The very hot girl can better understand what she’s got in her hand and appreciates you more than the 5-8. Very hot girl more successfully uses her sexual prowess to get it. I’ve prob been out with handful of 9s in my life, one didn’t want me, 4 became my girlfriend because I couldn’t resist them initially, and they take advantage of that. I feel like I’m dating a 7, she’s more concerned that I’m not rich or hot, and she thinks that another guy will boost her social profile. Head turning hot girl…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 08:46 PM
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Some guys do that, they want a sexy professional woman. Tend to think often than not, guys want someone ridiculously hot who is independent. Dan Bilzerian and Leo they going after the most prime looking women. If you’re a super 10 with youth and personality, that’s someone on any guys level.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 08:04 PM
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Yea well you have to run in the circles of super elite or be famous to accomplish such a thing. Your example is Andrew Tate, before his legal troubles I saw him with a respectable looking hot young blonde. That’s a great option for any guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 07:53 PM
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I started with six whatever pics after divorce, that netted 5s and 6s. Then over last 5 years I just kept trying to get cool pics. Now I’m at 7, 8 and occasional 9s. What’s interesting to me is I’m the same guy, and the likelihood of immediately hooking up with a 5 or a 9 is the same. The 9 is also more likely to appreciate you and lust for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 07:18 PM
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Just picked 4 pics at random? That’s ballzout, are you the type of guy that updates your social profile pic with the camera option too? Girls likely recognize you as generally attractive. You don’t need to be a smoke show with a six pack to get laid off apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 06:47 PM
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1-2% of single guys are hot, they don’t have time to do all single girls on market, they focused mainly on hot stacies. Half of dudes got a relationship already. According to internet theory 20% of single guys got some casual sex partners and dates. If you’re fit, got your own place, you’re prob already in top 20% of guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 06:36 PM
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Rich handsome guys almost exclusively want hot young fun babes with incredible bodies that’s not a total loser or whore. Either that or a hot career woman, if they have a high profile position in corporate world to keep up appearances. A classy aristocrat gf, wow. Talk about something that basically doesn’t exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 06:14 PM
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It’s a serious competition for casual access to fit young females with a job. Most guys do not much more than this, I posted 4 of the most basic photos in the world, one with me holding my dog, and no matches. I talked to 2 girls last week and they didn’t seem interested. Why is dating so hard?? You put in the bare minimum and got a crappy result. Even hot guys work to be hot, successful guys work hard and take risk. Guy with cool instagram with all the babes following him, crafted that social p…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 05:55 PM
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Good looking one in 30s, if the 40s guy was a 6 in decent shape then him.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 05:37 PM
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Do you date girls or have real friends that date? This is what dating girls say to their friends: Yea I’m dating again, I hook up with this guy because I like his chest and big dick. Check him out. Then I got 2 other guys I’m dating here’s his insta, I’m love bombing him like crazy, hopefully it works out. This is what dating girls do, they date and hookup with guys. I know because they all will hookup with me by the 3rd date, most time first date they just stay overnight. If you’ve gone on a co…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 03:24 PM
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Situationships are more often set by the man who’s dating multiple women. Girls sleep with the guy and be a placeholder girlfriend, she hopes to become exclusive with him. Sometimes girls do guys they don’t want ltr with. Girls see that more as a guy she hooks up with because she thinks he’s hot, but doesn’t have enough going for him to benefit her life.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 03:14 PM
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I get girls in early 20s by letting them live with me rent free and they can eat my food. If I didn’t offer that they would date me, but not settle down with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 02:25 PM
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Go on some exotic trips and take a ton of pictures. If you have a great kitchen or living room have someone take your picture in it. Whenever you’re in a picture the background should reflect a higher end lifestyle. Do not bling at all, do not designer at all, don’t take a girl you don’t know to a fancy dinner. These will not help you get laid or a gf, it will do the opposite. A great instagram and dating profile that shows you do some cool stuff in nice locations and you look as attractive as y…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 02:21 PM
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There is something girls see in some guys physically that we don’t see, that all women find unappealing. I met a couple guys in college and another in high school that could never find any girl unless she was dead ass drunk, and once they saw him sober in daylight they don’t want him. It’s been 20 years since college and these guys still got no girlfriend. These guys are successful, tall, look perfectly normal, in shape go to gym, literally no chicks nearly ever. They try sometimes and just fail…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 02:11 PM
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Whatever the minority is that’s who guys date, when you date you put yourself out there. Girls who date rack up some situationships trying to get a relationship. If you meet a girl online or real life she likes the way you look, does some research online about you. Then you go out. Almost never the girl hasn’t dated a guy in a year, she’s dating thats how you got the date. Then odds are by the first or third date she has sex with you nearly always. Guys rightly assume that most all the time with…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 01:55 PM
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Most girls you take on a date got a guy or 2 already. The fact that some girls go monk mode for awhile we are aware, but we also rarely ask these girls out because they not looking for men. When you change gears and start meeting some men you want, then maybe you don’t have sex with him right away, but you will eventually use sex to help secure the relationship with him and because you’re attracted. When girls are actively dating they usually have 1 or 2 other men they are vying for. Men realize…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 01:39 PM
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You do realize that we’re not meeting you girls and taking you out on dates, because you’re not actively dating. If we don’t know you personally and you’re not advertising yourself online somewhere you’re not the type of person guys find. When you do meet a girl actively dating, they are usually getting with at least one guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 01:20 PM
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You’re not going to know until at least the second date, she may hide them well months into relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 12:41 AM
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Women and men start their expiration at 50. The only reason we don’t think women age better is because their tendency to be overweight easier as they age and not allowed to have face wrinkles, which Imehy Botox so huge.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 12:22 AM
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Absolutely, you prob not be aware of these girls in the dating world. They date and leveraging men is their main social life. They get dates which leads to parties, club invites, meet lots of people via other men they dating social circles. It’s their own sex and the city show they’re playing out. Dating girls will go on multiple dates a day sometimes. If you’re going on more than 1 or sometimes 2 dates a week I think you’re a maniac. For girls on dating apps or active on instagram, that’s norma…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 09:51 PM
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Girls get dates easily, find it difficult to land a man that is desirable exclusive. Guys have opposite issue in landing the desirable dates. Some guys can’t get any dates at all and rely on other methods of interaction. Once you got the dates as a guy, you’re in the position of power of waiting for girls to chase you. Then deciding what to do and where to invest your attention. The fact girls date other men or still getting with an ex etc is just a factor that most people aren’t going to be lon…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 09:34 PM
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Why is stating an extreme somehow an intelligent argument to you? No one talked about ordering 20 men off the internet for an orgy. Most girls can do that though and don’t, so if that’s your point then sure. Single dating girls usually got some other things going on with other men, you have to become her top option to secure her for a relationship. That’s what makes dating hard and not an easy out, there’s other people in the mix she wants to consider and also has relations with.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 08:44 PM
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This is how you get a girlfriend while you’re dating. They usually dating other people, still getting with an ex, got friends with benefits, or other guys they’re waiting to go out with before committing to anyone. It’s always something with at least one other guy. If she’s dating and you’re the only dude she’s dated in months or year that would be weird, not the norm. If I could find these girls in dating world and they were honest, they would instantly be at the top of my queue, it’s annoying …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 08:26 PM
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Situationship is being a temporary placeholder partner in a non-exclusive relationship. Most of the time one side wants the ltr and the other doesn’t. The person who wants the ltr will hang on until they realize it’s not going anywhere and bails or one side gets bored. If both sides have no intentions of ever entering ltr then that’s fwb relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 08:17 PM
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Yes I referred to bad actors and cheaters playing the game outside the general rules. Your strategy is sound in the game and usually nets the best result. There’s also people that are addicted and don’t want to leave the game, or more aggressive players trying to maximize temporary matching. Since euphoria and hopes are in the game, playing too long can make you depressed. So it’s best to take a measured approach and avoid bad actors as much as you can.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 06:51 PM
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Dating is a matchmaking game with a bunch of players with a few different strategies. Scenarios will play out in the game before you pair your match and quit the game. There’s cheaters and bad actors in the game that can pitfall you. Most people’s default response to this is well that’s not me, you’re joking right. Girls aren’t like this. Well you’re not playing the game and have just maybe jumped in a few times. All I’m explaining is dating here, you don’t need a source to verify it. Just ask s…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 06:46 PM
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If you are on a date with a girl, she is dating and single. What would you think is going on, she’s trying to land a man and put herself out there. Girls don’t pop out of a vacuum seal and go on a date just for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 06:27 PM
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Dating involves situationships, unless you just get someone exclusive right away. Situationships are usually temporary less than few months, it’s different from fwbs. Guys refer to their situationships they got through dating as their harem. This is really called just dating, but because dates can come so easy now with the internet they have these terms.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 06:21 PM
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If you met them and they actively dating and out with you they probably do. Most girls don’t have situationships yes, but most girls you’ll take on a date will. Weird to assume you’re the only guy she been out with in long awhile unless she specifically says.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 06:14 PM
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“I’m not into casual sex,” how virtuous and obvious thing for every girl to say. It’s not she’s into casual sex, I don’t think hardly any girls have that as their hobby. Girls never say man I just really like do fuck a bunch of guys, even if they do, no girl says that. They express desire for men they want, and want exclusive. You may wait a dozen dates, but if you just act like a cold fish towards a guy with options, you’re not getting another date.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 05:50 PM
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Guys end up getting the dating girl who’s tired of the situationships with guys not emotionally fulfilling her. Girls that have already been dating and are through with all their top options. These girls get tired of feeling lonely and used and want a boyfriend. If you’re with a girl and she expresses a lot of desire for you, you can just ask her to be your exclusive girlfriend. Most girls think doing more hot guys would be passé, much rather be down to be your girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 05:40 PM
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Belly perhaps, guys with fat guts can’t get casual sex and dates. If a girl going out on a date with a muscled beautiful tall man, you’re doing that because you’d like to do him. Some girls are going to avoid him because they see him doing that often and don’t want part of it. Doesn’t mean they won’t do other guys for other reasons. Girls on dating apps, and girls who socialize a lot and party are a specific type of girl, acting that way temporarily. Those dating girls don’t represent what girls…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 05:30 PM
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There was a guy last week that was 6’3” muscles says 95% of first dates end in sex, he had his profile posted and was like yea I totally believe it. I also know guys that date and sleep around, as long as you don’t act weird odds are your date will happily hop into bed with you. You can believe there’s all types of girls being virgins or being whatever if that makes you feel better. I don’t know guys that date a lot that don’t sleep with half their dates, girls like to f, go figure, makes the wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 05:11 PM
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I can’t even tell you the last time I would’ve met a virgin that wasn’t very religious. It’s not that mixed of a bag, most girls have very similar dating strategy. Find a guy you want to be your boyfriend and love bomb him. Get him to dump all his oxytocin on you so you don’t have energy for other girls. That’s what most girls do and why you’re going to get laid by most your dates, they’ve preselected you already. They use sex and their attention to help get what they want, that guy to be exclus…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 04:59 PM
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Some guys are hedonist sluts to their core. They want a partner and to have sex with as many pretty girls as they possibly can in perpetuity. Most girls somehow can’t resist these guys that have racked up 100s of girls, because they usually fun and have a lot of attractive qualities. Normal guys who want exclusive relationships want a ho phase after a breakup. Their ego is bruised and they want to heal it by feeling affection and lust from other girls. You date and have your harems until you get…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 04:55 PM
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Why would I need a source when I dated a ton for years and I’m friends with girls who date. That’s my perception, dating girls sleep around and got situationships. Not all of them, but if you met her on a dating app or party odds are that she has dude or few she getting with already.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 04:49 PM
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Omfg Redditors and your sources, what kinda study would this be and how could they verify results. Just because you can google it and someone put down a few stats means nothing. The source is me going on a couple hundred dates over the course of 4 years, and cycling soft harems of single women. Then the handful of single girls I work with that always going on and off the dating apps and meeting dudes out or on gram. Then my previous 3 girlfriends all got friends, they talk, single girls almost a…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 04:35 PM
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It means the chick already got 2-3 casual situationships she’s willing to give up for you. Women sleep around with guys they may want as their boyfriend and think are hot. If there was a way to meet single girls being celebate and only date one guy at a time that would be a fantasy world that I’m not aware of.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 04:28 PM
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They do want love and a boyfriend but you’re asking a lot out of a girl you met off a dating app to not already having men she getting with. Girls get with guys to secure them and sometimes just for fun. They may take a few month break from guys sometimes, but not while she’s dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 04:22 PM
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If you’re meeting them on a dating app or club odds are she does. I’m not aware of normal cute girls that don’t have a few d on hand. They usually going to be better looking than you too, girls specifically go after the hottest situationships she can pull.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 03:47 PM
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This is why I don’t continue to date, every girl you go out with isn’t actually single. Girls don’t have the discipline to not usually have a few guys she uses for entertainment and sex. Single girls that you would want as your girlfriend has 1-2 situationships you’re going to have get her to give up for you. They get emotional attachments to these guys, so you ask them to be your girlfriend, they prob want to, but it’s a fight in her mind to give up her other men. The girls will though most of …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 03:44 PM
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This is the bare minimum you should do if you care about dating cute girls. You need places to go where single girls are to talk to or build a great dating profile to pull out the prize fishes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 03:39 PM
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We’re talking unicorns here, go come up with your Own
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 04:26 AM
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Yea it’s all obvious truths, the only ones who don’t in the end won’t give up own their own perceived smv being higher than it is. The problem comes in that a cute young girl can satisfy her sexual wants and date around very easily. 80% of single guys are usually out of the competitive casual female access market and they don’t like it. Which is understandable, but women are independent and have rights now so there is no controlling their sexual behavior anymore. So you have a bunch of guys on R…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 12:26 AM
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If you’re fit and got your own place that looks alright, decent neighborhood, odds are you’re in the top 20% of your age bracket. If you want no baggage girls with cute faces and swimsuit bodies, like 7+, you’re going to need to be in the top 5% to get those girls consistently. You’re going to likely need to be recognized as handsome and have some things going for you, or be very attractive and smooth.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 12:01 AM
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Young pretty women are riding a super high of narcissism and self indulgence due to social media and dating apps. Ironically this leaves girls a feeling more and more inadequate, frauds, unwanted, and depression. The toxic superiority towards guys they feel aren’t worthy to her for casual sex and dates is a coping mechanism for her own delusions. You really can’t think about these girls and just focus on the majority that are still sane.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 06:12 PM
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It’s just about not being desperate at all. You can be nice and simpy for your girl once she’s your exclusive girlfriend. Until then, don’t put her on a pedestal, don’t compliment about her physically, don’t look needy, just talk to her like it’s just everyday living. There is the concept of being dark triad that does work though. Which is having sociopathic tendencies draws some women into you. There’s lots of literature and study on why women find narcissistic men attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 05:17 PM
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Irresistible to you Only desires you Enjoy spending time together Incredible sex Makes her own money Zero baggage Hasn’t spent 5+ years on dating market single
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 05:00 PM
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I tend to think whatever your rating is for looks, it’s possible to date 2 points lookswise out of your league with girls. Most people don’t want to consider what that might take. That’s why self improvement for dating is not a popular topic, can take years. Telling guys to make 6 great photos for a dating app and a verifiable online persona is not something you can accomplish in couple months. Easier just to pontificate internet theories on why you don’t get girls to date. Seems like most every…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 02:15 PM
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I said in my post I was fat so I went to gym and then stated making an interesting fun gram over a few years after I saw a girls tinder and saw most guys profiles were boring and same. I have a girlfriend now, but for dating more in shape I got, and better the pics on my insta got that increased date attractiveness, been working on insta off and on for years. When I started dating apps they were bunk, got only 2 below average looking dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 10:22 AM
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Only famous men that are also attractive in small stretches. So no one. You could do 2-3 a week in perpetuity if very motivated and great looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 04:13 AM
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If you combine those 3 you get a guy in the top 2%, it’s like a parlay odds are one won’t hit. The 6ft, 6fig, 6in guy is in the top 1%.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 03:59 AM
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I’ve been an incel or in a loveless marriage half my life, if I try really hard I can get a ho phase and find a girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 03:48 AM
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Nonserious comment, I understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 01:53 AM
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20% of guys is still a ton of sharing men. I believe it is 80/20 because anything more gets to be a logistical time constraint, most girls require dick regularly. Only 5% of guys can’t satisfy most all of the single girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 01:22 AM
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Goth muscle mommy is pale so it’s an aesthetic. 10/10 comment
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 01:15 AM
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Dating apps perhaps, but I’d say it’s more 80/20 real life still. Girls got to be getting d somewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 01:04 AM
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Turning one match a day into consistent dates is a magic touch. Splitting checks and getting laid too, wow. You must have a real personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 12:49 AM
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The 5’3” sounds rough, but you still top 20% yourself by being part of a higher society, being smart and mindfucking girls. Recognizing types and choosing signals. You don’t some like anything like an average short guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 12:46 AM
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It’s interesting to me that people in this sub don’t get this basic concept. You do hot girls all the time mid girls won’t get you hard anymore. Because sex is so readily available to women it’s passe unless he’s boyfriend material or very attractive. What would happen if you raised women’s libidos? My guess more of the same, prob worse, they would crave tall muscular men with big dicks more than they do now.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 12:39 AM
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I know a guy that’s getting one, they told him 1.5 in circumference and length.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 11:51 PM
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Photofeeler 8.4 with no edits is very high. Solid work though.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 11:28 PM
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I got a gut one time drinking craft beer, no girl wanted to f me until it was mostly gone.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 11:26 PM
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Where you meeting girls, the gym?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 11:24 PM
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Where do you think you make it up? I do think being tall makes it all significantly easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 11:16 PM
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Since you’re only getting a match a day, you must’ve got some good text game. Can you give any insight on what works to say? Are you flirting on the texts?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 11:07 PM
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Got to have examples and what demos..
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 11:01 PM
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Social status and how much fun you have with other people I think is a very attractive quality to most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 10:59 PM
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What you just explained put you in the top 20%. Most guys don’t go to effort to do all this, think it’s all great advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 10:57 PM
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I went to Medellin once with friends and went out to clubs, only time in my life regular girls would approach me. I did notice the short stocky guy in our group wasn’t getting any love. The tall hot buff guy in our group picked up 2 girls at the same time and took them back to the Airbnb.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 10:53 PM
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Same, took me awhile to get great pics so it wasn’t mid girls for dates though. Once I got my insta really going it was all cuties and hotties after that. The phenomenon that most your first dates will have sex with you would be very surprising if I didn’t go to university. I also wonder how much my game would diminish or basically be nothing at all if I wasn’t 6ft.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 10:50 PM
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Then what do to get dates or find a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 10:43 PM
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Can you give 2 clear examples on what you would do to get dates from specific women. The only thing that comes to mind is the guys that always have coke and k on them when they are out.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 10:42 PM
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Where do you get your dates from?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 10:40 PM
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How much extra size did you get on the enlargement? Do you have your own place?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 10:38 PM
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There is a very attractive aspect to women of being a social person. that has their own fun friend group. Guys that knows bunch of other cool fun people. Sometimes those guys look average, not tall, don’t make much money. He gets girls seemingly because other girls want to leverage his social circles with him to have more fun. Which is all basically having high social status, which is in the pillars of attraction for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 10:36 PM
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This is the go to dating strategy for girls who want the guy as their boyfriend. “Lovebombing” him and drain him completely, and dump his oxytocin on her, so he doesn’t have the energy or desire to date other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 07:33 PM
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They showed up for the date so they want to like you, girls don’t waste night on guys they don’t think has potential. You’re not trying to please her, you’re not doing nothing than talking and having a drink, you think she’s cute so you want to get with her, and show you desire her when the moment arises when you get her alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 05:45 PM
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I’m trying to explain to you that you are operating in a scarcity mindset. You’re focusing on a girls ick meter, don’t give her that, problem solved. You’re saying I want one on one she wants equal, you’re again in a scarcity mindset. Just have fun with her and get her alone and desire her. Dates, gfs, and pussy are of no consequence to you because in your mind they are available as water. Once you’re in the abundance mindset, you were her third option and she has 2 situationships with guys that…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 05:25 PM
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Girls in your harem likely want you for ltr. Women are the gatekeepers of sex, men are the gatekeepers of a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 05:11 PM
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Modern dating for guys is getting dates, putting girls in your soft harem for fun and being your sex toy, getting dates on the side. You find a girl that really floats your boat in your harem, ask her to be your girlfriend. Once you’re in that abundance mindset your best dating option will pop up for ltr. Girls have nearly the same strategy but they are chasing men and getting put in harems. Guys with abundance mindset put her in a scarcity mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 05:06 PM
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She went on a date and wasted a night with you, if you’re her 3rd top option so what. You’re still a top option and she prob down to get with you, don’t fk it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 04:18 PM
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I only consider girls for ltr that are younger early 20s and have no other intentions than wanting to be my girlfriend. Either that or girls divorced in last year or 2 that haven’t spent their entire youth dating around. The reason is, those girls are more fun to date. Nobody wants a bitter woman that can’t settle on a guy. If everyone walked around with their body count you would be alarmed tattoos, piercings or not how many girls in their 30s that have been on a hundreds of dates and had 50+ p…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 04:17 PM
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I’m just trying to have fun and make out with a cute girl, then go from there. Why would I care about the future. I just don’t say anything about my life, my intentions in dating, or try to impress her. These can set off her ick and what you say can be interpreted any way she wants. Get her going on what she wants to talk about, and play off her. I just met the girl, she’s going to have to express passion for me to consider anything with her. I’m not chasing no woman that doesn’t really want me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 04:08 PM
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Most guys don’t want a girl in their 30s that has been dating for 15 years, and now wants a husband asap. We prefer younger girls that aren’t bitter about dating. Can’t impress most older women and they aren’t near as fun to date. Girls in their 30s call that guy a groomer to cope with the fact no high value man wants to instantly marry her.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 04:00 PM
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Why is this so true. Only reason I can come up with is dating girls don’t like to see other girls happy in a relationship, so they encourage and celebrate bad decisions. Also, girls also have a tendency to randomly do some outlier guy instead of a well balanced guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 03:46 PM
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Girls ick exist because basically every cute girl that is dating, she has her top options, and she is already getting sex. So she’s looking for an out, so don’t give it to her. I don’t take a first date seriously, I just be chill and charming, and then invite her over and get her in my bed. I picked the date because I was attracted to her, not because I believed she was my next girlfriend or wife. You do that by not setting off her ick meter by not saying much about yourself, being normal, and j…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 03:38 PM
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I really only see ick meters go off on first dates with girls you don’t know. If you are her top option and she is getting no dick currently she will likely not get any ick. That’s rarely going to happen. The reason girls get ick is because they have a top option that’s not you, and she has 1-2 situationships already. So instead of wanting to add you as another sexual partner, she’s more looking for something to set her off. Not messing the date up, and being the most normal charming man you can…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 02:35 PM
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Absolutely, 7s and 8s can be hard to date because they are insecure that you’re not the most attractive and cool guy they’ve been out with. 9+ girls date you because they want to, without the insecurity.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 11:25 PM
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Sounds like you have about 3 brain cells too.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 11:20 PM
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Let me guess you look nothing like Cavill or Alba and got offended that beauty standards exist. So your fragile ego resorted to incel calling and no woman likes me, loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 11:19 PM
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Good luck to you, hope taking your own insecurities in the protection of being online bullying, and making fun of others works out for you and gets you feeling whole. Haha loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 11:11 PM
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Go read your comments loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 09:59 PM
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I read your comments to me, unfortunately there’s a lot of losers online that are below any level of intelligence to make any relevant argument and resort to making fun and being a troll. Loser reddit user, go look in the mirror.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 09:44 PM
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That’s literally what you said, not projection. Cool secure people don’t go making fun of people they think are ugly and can’t get laid, that’s you, go look in the mirror and say you’re proud of yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 09:41 PM
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You literally asked if I was an incel, then said I had problems with women, and I should rate myself. You are a loser of life that harasses people online. The only people that do that are incredibly insecure.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 09:39 PM
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Go read your comments above, go harass someone else you think as an incel since it makes you feel so good, pathetic dumb troll.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 09:36 PM
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You’re the one that asked and assumed im an incel. Im not I almost always have a really hot girlfriend, if not I date and have a harem of cuties. You’re just a harassing troll that thinks making fun of celibate guys make you feel better, you’re likely a total loser of life. You kept harassing me and say I have trouble with women, I don’t at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 09:33 PM
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I’m pretty hot, tall big guy, my girlfriend is young and really hot, perfect body. I’m a 8, mg gf is a 9. My last gf of 4 years was also hot, prob about a 9, beautiful face, great body. Keep going on Reddit and trying to harass incels and being a troll you loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 09:28 PM
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Why do you want to know how attractive I think I am on a 10 point scale? We’re talking casual attraction, not why people get into relationships with other people not with their looksmatch.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 08:59 PM
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You’re right short weak men with no chin get all the pussy. There is no beauty standards, just a free for all out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 08:39 PM
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Actual facts on human beauty lol. If you don’t know inherently know that tall muscular men and women with high cheekbones and smaller waist to hip ratio are aspects of beauty. Then you’re not human, or have very low observational intelligence.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 08:34 PM
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Ha the source is beautiful people, go look at them. Henry Cavill Jessica Alba etc
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 08:24 PM
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Men is tall, wide frame, muscular, lantern jaw, hunter eyes, smooth good talker. Women beauty it varies more, generally youthful feminine and sexual features. Big hair, big eyes, wide hips, high cheekbones, slender with thickness in right areas.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 07:39 PM
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By proxy you get invited to the most exclusive events and parties that exist. Think about going on a yacht and heading to a mansion party on a date with Leo, girls want that more than the guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 07:10 PM
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Male celebrities have gatekeeping into another world of the highest status. Average women cannot compare.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 07:04 PM
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I’ve gotten a couple dimes, feels great, I’m above average, super hotties don’t do average guys. You know you’re more attractive than average and initiate casual attraction with women, most guys can’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 06:34 PM
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I’m blackpill, I saw a post from a guy on incel sub back when they were allowed years ago. This virgin guy got paired with a Chad in a dorm in college. He got with 5 hot girls in one week. He said, here I am starving to death and have to watch this guy eat juicy prime rib in my face everyday. I think most guys have had that feeling, and it’s why so many guys vent on Reddit about women and talk 80/20. OP post is blackpill fact. The enemy of the blackpiller is the simp. Which I agree, we have to a…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 05:56 PM
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$700k is what they could trace. You make 3mil and half goes to taxes. She must’ve had some very rich clientele, ha go crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 05:28 PM
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If you’re an average looking guy pulling dimes, you possess something that the other average guys don’t. It’s not just your attitude and charisma. Could be social currency, nice place, attractive features. You have to gain a form of societal leverage to get 4 points out of your league girls lookswise consistently dating you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 05:13 PM
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Pennies? That’s Ms Connecticut. She’s a 10 hopping on yachts and going to fancy homes, being tossed around by rich men for heap loads of cash.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 05:00 PM
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Middle of the bell curve is most people 5/10, end of the bell curve is very attractive people that others desire 9/10. The thing that rarely gets talked about is when people reference dating is they think about the top 10% of people that are good at it, and have very noticeable desirable qualities. Average looking guys with average jobs have never been players with harems. Average looking women don’t get to date chad thundercock, they get ignored by him. To most people having other attractive pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 04:44 PM
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I would say most of the time a girl has sex with a guy she’s just thinking he might be fun boyfriend, most the time girls are bored and lonely. They have lust and attraction too, but I’d say a potential relationship is what generally running in back of girls minds.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 04:20 PM
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It’s only couple hours a day she does this, makes 6 figs and doesn’t bother me for money, I don’t even think about it. The guys online get something out of it she’s not scamming them. She’s a ringer for young lana rhoades so she fits into some guys girlfriend fantasy. For her to get to live a free life from having a real job is a luxury, I’m happy for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 02:45 PM
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It doesn’t elude them, they subconsciously want to breed with men with many sexual options.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 02:33 PM
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Glass half empty Jordan Peterson here
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 02:21 PM
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Let’s say you’re an okay cute girl, natural rack. Every guy will take you out, and invite you to coolest parties in your area. These girls get much more than a pump and dump, guys that are 10s treat their 7s great, just not for more than couple months.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 06:26 AM
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Yea she’s a sweet chick she told me her friend showed her the game. I met her on hinge. In regards to simps, if every guy collectively said, I’m going to force girls to play the long game with me. Date me for years to fall in love without any guarantees. Then you’ll get far less women trying to be a very temporary placeholder situationship girlfriend to the top men, while he has other girls she’s competing with. The risk would be too high and she would run out of time and would be more willing t…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 04:31 AM
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Well I think this post is about how girls actually rely on simps to perpetuate the 80/20 dating strategy of girls chasing the top men. I think he makes a valid point. They see simps as a bailout safety net. My gf makes more than prob 95% of working people being a kinda fake gf to simps who can’t get a real relationship. She looks like an ideal american girlfriend and they pay her on social media to call and interact with them. I get the impression that they use her because dating for them is so …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 04:09 AM
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Mostly, but there’s red, black, and players that lurk and comment to trigger the normies. This is a good sub, cracks me up.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 03:02 AM
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Think positive to attract positive outcomes does not help women want to be in a relationship with you. Players have the most negative opinion of women usually and that somehow nets a better result. Getting a thick skin about female rejection and not giving a fuck, because women decide the moment they lay eyes on you whether they want you or not. That’s a real strategy to gain affection from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 02:53 AM
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This sub is not an echo chamber like most on reddit and internet, that’s what makes it good. Fun to make a post on here and see what people think and react to obvious observations.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 02:49 AM
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Unless you’re some ridiculous outlier in money or social status. 80% of what a guy needs to get women is looks, charisma, and security. Saying to a guy to be unique and some girls will appreciate it is a blue pill hollywood fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 02:34 AM
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You know who degrades women the most by far, calls them all sluts, believe that men are superior? Players with 3+ girls currently begging him to be his girlfriend, and always has multiple girls giving him all the sex he can handle. He’s hot though, so women keep trying to halo him.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 02:10 AM
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OP not attacking women or being misogynistic to me, he’s explaining why women have power in the dating/relationship market. He’s more putting women on a pedestal than tearing them down. Calling guys the loser simps. Why is every guy that has an opinion on women on Reddit automatically considered an autist incel? Every time I make a comment, every girl and white knight guy tells me, time to get off the internet sorry women don’t like you lol. I love women, doesn’t mean I don’t have some observati…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 02:01 AM
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Your uncle got it figured out, having a wife and side chicks is the best. Far superior to being single going on dates and having fwbs.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 01:46 AM
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Perception is reality. If I knew how to meet girls 6-8/10 in looks in the dating market were any different I would try or think it was different. I’ve dated off and on last 8 years. I date cute girls of all ages under 40, all cute chicks pretty much got the same dating strategy as far as I’ve seen. If you’re super hot or below average looking girl you probably don’t date like this. I’m not sure how it works because I’m rarely around super hot or ugly girls, so someone can enlighten me on how tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 01:30 AM
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It’s an online take about the current dating market because that’s what it is in real life. Guys that can date easily have soft harems of girls they cycle through. You get a date, especially on a dating app, most girls hook up with you within a few hours. Girls don’t call it a harem, they call it a situationship. They usually either cycle through 1 guy at a time or have multiple as well. Girls do this because they think it will maximize their chances to land the most high value man possible. I c…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 12:53 AM
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That would open her up to being rejected.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 12:30 AM
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Sure if you’re a 6+ girl 20-32, you’ve come to believe that every guy on your level and beneath you will worship you. So her focus is to continue to date and hook up with men out of your league through your 20s and hope one says yes to a relationship. She actually believes that even though the guy she’s sleeping with has 3 other girls, she will be picked, because she’s delusional. The cute girl keeps trying at the most desirable possible guy that will pay attention to her with limitless dating o…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 12:21 AM
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Girl don’t usually approach so that’s their go to move. The look down, then head turn.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 10:27 PM
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Who tf stares at members of the opposite sex they don’t know platonically? If I’m sitting somewhere publicly like a bar, and some girl keeps looking at me to get my attention, and when I look she looks away. Then she does it again. She wants me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 10:11 PM
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This is what girls usually do if she doesn’t know him. You get stared down by the girl and they look away. Then it’s up to you to approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 07:50 PM
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I’m in my late 30s and I try to explain how hard it is to date a pretty girl in her 30s that’s never been married. They’ve got with the hottest, most rich and handsome, athletes etc guys that would take them out. These girls weren’t being pumped and dumped, they were dating placeholders for the top 1% men and treated usually good during that time. The top 1% guys are more exciting to date. You meet these girls in 30s who been dating for 10 years straight, and they see you as some second rate guy…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 07:25 PM
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I have a masters degree and my business is content and marketing. I’m no master at English but dang, I don’t get what you’re looking for, chicks dong want you that bad are pains, tale as old as time.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 12:46 AM
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I’m sitting here bored at my daughter’s swim class and read the stories 4 times because you’re intentionally telling me how dumb I am. Those girls don’t want you bad enough, pull back, or better yet find some girls that can fully appreciate you and not give you a complex. 80% of dates I go on they don’t want me bad enough for one reason or more, no bigs, next.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 12:43 AM
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Those girls barely wanted you, you’re in double binds out the ying yang because of it. Get a girl that has the hots for you and things will be easy, and she’ll want to be in your face constantly and think you’re just peachy keen.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 12:36 AM
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All your girls had other guys, didn’t seem like they that interested, what’s so great about your stories?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 12:31 AM
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I told you the story, I guess you need more detail. My gf of six months wants me so bad, she seriously would hang by my side 97% all day every if she could, she would have sex with me until she was sore and completely chaffed. She cannot get enough. Only occasional exception is when hanging with friends. She works from home, I have an office. Sometimes I go to my office to get away from her, it’s like preemptively not making myself too available, so she misses me. It works, you can’t be too avai…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 12:26 AM
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Yea I told you every single story of what not being in double bind is like, and when you are. Not in bind she is hot for you. If she is saying too available or not, or whatever excuse she’s luke warm to cold. You failed to attract her appropriately, no stories are necessary move on to the next, and hope for best.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 12:11 AM
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I just told you every story of mine when I wasn’t in an availability double bind, means she wants ya. Then I’m not I’m boring and unwanted and said I’m too much or not enough of something to make her happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 12:06 AM
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Availability double binds aren’t real, if she wants you bad enough she will suck your cock for hours on end and tell you how beautiful you are, then when you leave she will cry. It’s called love bombing, then when they get bored with you eventually they go do it to someone else. If a girl wants you they crave you, your body, and your soul. I just told you every double bind guys are into where girls make excuses for not being obsessed with only you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 11:59 PM
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Who wants to tell a story about a chick you dated that decided she don’t want you that bad or came back and did, then she told you some lame ass excuse about why. For what purpose do we tell these stories?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 11:51 PM
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Why do you want stories? Girls who do this behavior are either addicted to dating and say and do whatever they need to justify it. They may want you for now, but don’t see you as ltr or husband material. Then they can change their minds on any position at any point in time, being a girl means you live life without logic or awareness of consequences. The big problem is the dating market is loaded with depressed sluts, men and women. They seek out temporary satisfaction and endorphin rushes. I cou…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 11:32 PM
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What you’re talking about is women’s whataboutisms to support their shitty hypergamous, I’m never going to be fully happy behavior. Girls date around and cheat and have some insane vision of a man that transforms her life into pure happiness. We gave girls every single guy dating option in a 50 mile radius. Now you have a bunch dating girls running around with chickens with their head cut off trying to get with the tallest muscle guys with the biggest dicks, party boys in a social scene, or the …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 10:24 PM
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Like you want a story? One time I was dating this chick, the weird part about this is she would stay over like multiple nights in a row. So we hanging outside and this dude breaks into my house comes storming into backyard, while my kids are there, screaming and crying, wanting to kick my ass, she runs away. That was her husband, I didn’t know she was married. I don’t end up hanging with her again, the end. Girls are nuts and cheaters dude, I could tell 30 more.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 09:55 PM
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It’s standard, nothing abnormal about your stories, every guy who dates got similar stories. My advice you can take it or leave it, is most guys who date around don’t care, they just want sexy harems, or they want a girlfriend and ask that to a girl who might want to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 09:40 PM
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If you date around you’re going to experience other chicks dating around. This sounds normal. Either don’t care like most guys and work on your harem or get yourself a girlfriend and get out.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 09:37 PM
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Sounds like all these girls were dating around and juggling men, which is standard. Makes chicks crazy and dating girls got their ego way up their butt. That’s the dating market for guys. Don’t tell any girls you’re dating about your relationships, how long you been single, last time you had sex, fell in love, when you want to get married, how many kids, nothing. She either thinks you fuck in her head or not, even let her guess on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 09:32 PM
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There is a difference between being a pickme girl and acting desperate. I see more I’m a “queen and I know my worth” type girls on the market, than pickmes that can make a decision on a boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 09:12 PM
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I just pick girls to go on dates I would like to see naked primarily. They could have the absolute worst personality and I know they aren’t gf material. I’m still just acting like the same normal chill guy that’s going to make a move on her. I’ve slept with girls and regretted it, but I’ve never seen a girl naked in my bed I’ve found physically attractive and had a bad time. You don’t have to have sex if you don’t want, I never even ask and if they do I usually say no. She agreed to the date, sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 08:57 PM
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If a girl I don’t really know or just met off a dating app is deciding to go out with me. I look at it as now it’s mine to fuck up or not. I’m so used to girls more than half the time jumping in bed within a few hours. So I act like the most normal, charming, sitting up straight, listening to what she gotta say and responding guy. I don’t really lie because I don’t really say any confirmed thing about myself on the first date. I’m normally in a relationship during my life. If I really want a par…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 08:33 PM
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I act all the time on the first date or first time out with her, trying to be a gentleman. I don’t act like a thirsty simp, but some point during the date usually when I get her more alone, I’m going to make a move and kiss her. If she pulls back or something like we’re in the “talking stage,” I chalk it up as a big fat L and go home. 3/4 of my first dates I’m making out with them at least. I’ve been few hundred first dates in my life, so that’s what I expect. I wouldn’t know how to navigate a g…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 07:24 PM
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Well I’m being downvoted of course. Apparently it’s impossible for some people to believe that some women don’t act overtly easy, and can still want you. That girls can have attraction to you and you can say one thing and lose it. They’ll do that to Chad too, players are smooth with girls, they know better than to say something dumb to turn her off.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 05:56 PM
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Someone had a post recently about this video from a guy called hoemath on YouTube. Of course everyone bashed the hell out of it and said get off the internet incel. I watched it and no one mapped the modern woman dating behavior so well. Girls work their best 2 or 3 options by accepting dates and immediately entering a desirable man’s harem, usually within a few hours of meeting him. Then do what they can to gain exclusivity usually by love bombing. This rarely works and one of them ends up endi…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 05:38 PM
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Unless you’re a smooth chad, you can’t be living with mom. If you have a multimillion dollar home with a city view you’re going to drop panties like crazy. Your location and living arrangements are paramount in getting laid and finding a girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 05:28 PM
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90% of the time being a passport bro means I can’t date girls out of my league here lookswise. So I satisfy this with a girl from another country, who just wants a guy to take care of her and has low standards for her own life. Passportbros often times have major deficiencies in dating that they don’t want to address and see this as an out. What happens to a lot of these guys is they are married until they get their green card, and your wife goes out and is willing to cheat on you with any guy t…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 04:22 PM
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Having your own place in the area she wants to live in, that she can possibly move into if you start a relationship. Is the number one quality outside yourself that gets you girls. If you got an amazing place in the part of town she wants to be, that will get you laid immediately. Where and how nice your place is every a guys ace card in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 04:03 PM
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You’re explaining the modern day dating girl juggling men, while still going on new dates. If you want to multiple women at same time and have harems, then don’t over analyze them. If you want a real relationship, you have to wait for the girls that appear really into you, love bombing you, or just keep hitting you up. You say let’s be exclusive together, no more dating, I want to be with just you. If she’s on the dating circuit she prob has 1 or 2 other guys and few other dates planned. If she …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 03:51 PM
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It’s her visceral reaction to have to give up her 2 situationships, and her 3 other dates she already has planned. If you just had sex with her for the 5th time and it’s your 3rd date and she doesn’t immediately say yes to giving a real relationship a chance, pull back on her, she’s for the streets.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 03:42 PM
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You’re right. I would say the majority of girls who like a guy don’t act like giggly, touching your arm, stroking her hair pickmes. If she’s on the date and not being distant or rude, she prob still wants you though. Girls that see themselves as shy, cool, or queens are not so outward in their attraction to guys they desire. These types of girls don’t want to give themselves away and look easy. If you’re getting dates and you’re turning a girls attraction off it’s because her red flag and ick me…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 02:51 PM
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It clearly makes it harder. You can’t stop people from messing around. If you really want her as exclusive girlfriend, tell her that by 3rd date. People date multiple people you got to tell her to stop and focus just on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 12:52 AM
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I don’t really look at it as being slutty, love bombing becomes her go to strategy to get the boyfriend you really want. The problem is for girls you keep love bombing guys over and over and it has a high failure rate for a relationship, so you end up feeling unwanted and used, ruins girls self esteem. When girls say they hate dating apps it’s not because of the weirdos like they say, it was their inability to land the men she wanted to take her in a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 04:19 PM
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I’ve been on a lot of online dates about 150, I match well, and hookup most of the time on a first date. I dated girls 20-45. Most girls under have used a dating app. I would characterize most of them as promiscuous. You get a date, odds are you get action. Way more girls than you think are being promiscuous because that’s how they get a boyfriend who is desirable. Girls sleep with him immediately to get added to his harem. Girls know top guys get lots of girls, they hope by being in a situation…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 03:23 PM
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Girls don’t understand that if you take a 7/10 girl with a basic office job, she literally can have sex with every man she wants, and get a very attractive date anytime she wants. If you made her a guy, now she’s just some okay looking dude with bs job. The male version of her would basically never get a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 03:11 PM
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I’ve been couple hundred dates 70% were great. I like cute girls with good careers or cool girls, I mostly date hot girls. My gf last year is a ringer for Lana Rhoades, she’s the best. I don’t care about buying a girl some drinks and some food, no bigs to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 03:47 AM
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You don’t have to, I just strongly believe it will increase your chances she finds you desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 02:13 AM
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My ego cares if she wants me first, then I’ll decide what I want to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 02:09 AM
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The 80/20 Rule Pareto Principle applied to dating says that 80% of the women are chasing 20% of the men. When women are shown men to rate in a study, they rate 80% of men as “less than attractive.” The reason it’s referenced so much on Reddit, is there was an analysis of OKCupid app data by the company itself. Based on women’s likes and messages to men, it supported the 80/20 rule of dating as well. OKCupid published their data, and online it’s the go to explanation of why most men struggle with…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 02:00 AM
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The goal of the date is to get her to want you. I pay for her couple drinks and appetizer or salad, or maybe I split a meal, you don't want to gorge on food on a date. You think that's a bad move don't do it. I've been a couple hundred dates in my 25 years of being an adult. I go to a casual chill place and I pay. More than half the time the girl on the first date is trying to fuck me. She went on the date, so she probably would like some affection from you. I'm not potentially messing it up ove…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 11:39 PM
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You should not be trying for casual sex if you think you want her as your girlfriend. Don't give yourself away or look easy to her. Get her talking and let her try to impress you. Then give her the opportunity, if she wants you, she's going to try to express passion for you. You got to get her chasing you to some degree, just trying to jump her bones is never the best move.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 11:30 PM
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Yep that's what guys do. This is why most girls on a first date are going to clam up on you if you try to 50/50 a bill under $100. She should, you asked her on the date, she presumes he picked a place he can easily afford. She knows that guy wouldn't ask to split a few drinks if he thought she was hot. This is the reverse date situation is for guy. You take a girl out and she don't want to come to your place after. You know full well if she had the hots for another guy, she would go over to his …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 11:02 PM
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So you're on a dating app or you meet a girl, you say hey you want to get a drink together? She says yes, spend a hour to get ready, drives to where you want to. Then you say you need to split the bill. I'm telling you don't buy her gifts, don't buy her flowers, don't take her to fancy restaurant. It's a couple of drinks and an appetizer, I don't even think about it. I got $30, I asked her out, she's cute, it's cool. I think she will appreciate your small gesture. If you think that helps or you'…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 10:44 PM
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If you take girl on date or invite out with friends, and she doesn't want to at least make out with you the first time. Then she will want to for some other guy she's attracted to, she don't want you that bad. Make your move quickly or you can lose her interest. When you actually have sex is not important, verifying as soon as your alone that she has passion for you is though. You don't waste time with girls who don't want you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 10:19 PM
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The men who get laid the most do coke and look average, ha so true. 20% of the time girls just do guys because you're there and available, considers it just a fling. 80% of the time casual sex occurs is she's doing it because you're boyfriend material and she knows you got options. She's happily willing to be your toy to see if she can get you in an exclusive relationship. She wants to have sex as well and find you attractive, but she's intentionally love bombing you too in hopes to lock you dow…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 09:59 PM
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If you can do a euro trip once a year for a week, then tropical trip for a week and 2-3 other weekend vacations per year. You will fully satisfy any girl who wants to make her instagram look cool. I have a business where I get 5x points and I travel like this a few weeks out of the year with my hot girlfriend, and we go to Vegas or California with friends some weekends. She's happy as a clam about it, I'm going to travel like this a couple times a year even if I don't have her and she's no great…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 09:16 PM
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Most all women don't demand to live an influencer lifestyle no matter how hot or obsessed with instagram they are. However, all girls would like to do it a few weekends, and couple weeks out of the year, to travel and do some fun activities. You're probably going to need to make 100k+ to accomplish this. Girls with options are going to avoid you for a ltr if you don't appear to ever have any exclusive type fun. Girls do have strong preference to have a boyfriend that can provide this at least so…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 08:42 PM
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Yea I do know these guys, they been players half their lives and they in their 40s. You don’t want to be them because girls and pussy is their primary hobby. Just talk to girls wherever that you think are cute, ask them out, be a chill dude, say let’s be in relationship if you want her. Want to make it harder on yourself? Tell her you won’t pay for couple drinks. Girls are easy, most single women are lonely and want a boyfriend. Don’t let anyone tell you different.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 07:06 PM
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Yea I’m just investing a few hours and a few drinks, she drove by my house to see me, best I can do is give her a nice date. I like to kiss and touch pretty girls and try to find a girlfriend, I think it’s fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 07:02 PM
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Yea you ask a girl if she’d like to go out for a few drinks, you buy her a few drinks, get her talking about her life, hopefully you enjoy her company. ask her over and she’s usually happily to at least make out because girls love affection. If you like her enough, you ask her to be your girlfriend. It’s a fantasy land that according to the internet theory 20% of men enjoy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 06:53 PM
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I’ve done more than 100 girls that’s just my estimate for dates. Some guys I know into 500 and 1000, they older guys though. Picking up girls is easy, she wants to go on a date with you she likely want to have sex with you too, buy her a couple drinks and an appetizer and she’ll think you’re a gentleman.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 06:30 PM
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I’m just on a first date, I think she’s cute, want to hold and kiss her. Want to have a fun time, have some company, and have a laugh together. Why would I be thinking that?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 06:28 PM
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I’ve gone on at least 200 dates in my life, i probably slept with more than 100 of them the first date, 7 of the 200 have become my girlfriend, so I’m not even thinking relationship, I’m thinking about how adorable she is. I would say most were 7-9/10 in looks. If I could give you one piece of advice just go ahead and buy her a couple drinks. If you want to prove your point up front that you cheap then do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 06:01 PM
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That’s the only explanation I can think of the compatible view that I will only go 50/50 needs to be established up front. I buy a girl I’m attracted to a couple drinks because I want to make out with her and splitting check might turn her off. I don’t go on a first date thinking I need to establish this fact that I’m cheap and I never buy girls drinks, I just want to her arms around me and I’ll figure all that relationship stuff maybe later.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 05:40 PM
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I guess your game better than mine. I’m so happy with my girlfriends and hookups I didn’t even think twice about buying a girl a couple of drinks. I want to make out with the hot chick in front of me, if she wants a couple drinks and appetizer more than happy to buy it for her. Yes, you buy a girl a $12 salad her passion is much more likely to increase than decrease. It’s like guys never heard that some girls don’t like it when a guy being cheap. What the hell is $30 to you guys, I’ve sat at a b…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 05:36 PM
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If $30 is technically to you prostitution and it helps me get that hot chick to give me a blowjob for half hour after our little meetup. Count me in, she could charge a thousand if she wanted. You pay the $30 for the 2 drinks because you will look cheap if you don’t. Girls don’t like cheap guys. She’s not using you, I make the girl show up a block from my house, she may have spent $10 on gas to get there and wasted half hour driving, fair trade.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 05:30 PM
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If you want to make out with your dates on first date at the highest percentage possible then buy her 2 drinks, if she wants an appetizer or salad, do that. If she wants the $90 steak, make her split it, she’s prob using you. I’ve been on 160 online first dates, you’re preselected by her and can get the majority of them over to your house and jump into bed with you. I pick my dates primarily on how attractive I think they are so I would like to make out with them and decide ltr later. If you don…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 04:59 PM
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Yea because most girls don’t want a guy that doesn’t want to buy her a couple drinks. It’s a huge turnoff for them, if you’re trying to get laid pony up the $30, if you just want a potential future relationship to set the precedence of splitting bills then do that, more pussy for the guys that will.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 04:52 PM
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I think majority of girls say no unless he’s famous, especially the pretty ones that have every guy option on the table.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 04:48 PM
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If I could give men one piece of dating advice it would be give up the concept of splitting the bill on the first date. What are you going on a date for, you should be thinking about fun. I REALLY don’t believe any guy when he says if your dream girl is asking you, “when are you taking me on a date handsome?” You’re actually going to reply let’s go, but I’m not buying you 2 drinks and an appetizer, you’re paying for that yourself. If you’re doing that you don’t want pretty girls. Just pay for a …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 04:23 PM
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Satisfying sexual fantasy and fetish, now that we have everyone available in 50 mile radius, is a cornerstone of the dating market. You see this a lot, couples get together because their desires align. I’m in my mid 40s and I date girls 20+ years younger, it’s the difference between being love bombed and lusted over, the young girl who wants the older man has sexualized him, he fully satisfies her sexual urges. I think there is online pornography influence to this as well. On the flip side, the …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 01:32 PM
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This is the rarely well thought out post with originality.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 04:16 AM
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There can be a fine line between girls checking you out, getting dates, getting laid, and nothing. It’s 90% how attractive you look. It’s either you’ve crossed that imaginary line of attractiveness or not. In my 40s I lost my gut, go to gym, dye my hair, got Invisalign, improved my clothes, use skin treatment, got a back straightener to improve my posture. Once I completed it I’m getting the most attractive girls I’ve ever got. In my 20s I could pickup girls. Mid 30s no girl wanted me, because I…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 12:53 AM
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If you’re an attractive girl, isn’t hardly no man they can’t get out and trying to get with them. They choose the guys that can do the same, that’s who they see as their dating peers. It’s wrong way for them think, and he’s the rarer one for being able to do that. Most pretty girls still going to think that way and keep trying with top men she can get until they can’t do it anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 06:43 PM
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High value attractive men with tons of dating options are trophies to the dating girl. If she bags a hot guy for fwb, she will brag extensively about it to her friends. If he’s tall, handsome, successful, then she will all the benefits she gets that her peer’s don’t. Dating girl will take whatever measures are necessary to prove how high value and desired she is. Guys will do the same behavior, he’s trying to prove to he’s the biggest alpha of guys and can sleep with the most women. That he can …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 05:24 PM
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You face equal or likely greater hostility when you reject women. People really don’t like to be told they’re not good enough for a romantic relationship when they think they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 05:13 PM
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Toxic women make men addicted to their toxic behavior. The push/pull, hot/cold she delivers at her whim keeps the guy interested. Guys can do the same things to girls, when guys do it it’s called mind games, drives women nuts for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 05:09 PM
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There’s really just a line of having a good sales pitch and being attractive for a guy. You either got it, or you don’t, most guys don’t so their dating options are less appealing than they want. That’s just in general, your specific examples don’t hold up, when the girl actually wants the guy. You’re not setting yourself up for failure if a girl wants to be with you. I’m in my mid 40s and because I look good, have a nice lifestyle, and sell myself well in dating app pics. You get all types of g…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 05:04 PM
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Same type of girl that employs these strategies will also have situationships currently going with other guys she slept with first date. The theoretical girl that always plays hard to get isn’t real. Either she has passion for you and desires you or not, playing hard to get, implies she doesn’t want you until conditions that benefit her are met, she don’t want you that bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 04:38 PM
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A guy dealing with in the friendzone of a girl is the saddest thing in dating scene. Just be her acquaintance, don’t give her that kind of attention. If you want her just as a friend and have zero romantic feelings, that’s different. You are unable to initiate her attraction, you have to try with other girls. A friendzone is almost always a guy trying to get a girl that’s out of his league. He thinks if he just keeps hanging around and being nice, he’ll get the relationship. Pathetic, expect bet…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 04:35 PM
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Last 2 paragraphs hit me hard, girls get addicted to what men have to offer, and they want their options. They keep spinning the wheel of dating and having casual sex, it’s a gamblers high and they keep losing because they keep trying to get with the biggest players in your city.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 03:40 PM
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I thinks she’s 100% on this, not sure why it isn’t common knowledge by now.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 03:29 PM
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If I’m on a first date there’s a 15% chance we get along great and want each other for a relationship. You’re preselected by the girl for the date odds are she’s attracted to you and sees you as a possible partner. If people just in hookup mode that’s what they going to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 05:20 AM
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No it won’t and you don’t have any idea of why ChatGpt is worth hundreds of billions in first year of release, it could simulate a real girlfriend now and it’s basically brand new. My live in gf the past year makes $15k/mo+ being a fake girlfriend to guy on snap. Just acting like the girlfriend, talking to them for $10/min. Do I think AI girlfriends are coming soon for practice and comfort. Abso fucking lutely.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 08:19 PM
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Depends upon how good the ai is, have you used ChatGPT?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 07:44 PM
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It is of my impression that most guys go with strategy just tell her what she wants to hear, say anything you need to get laid. I don’t do that, but a lot of guys do.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 06:11 PM
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It goes both ways, girls express romantic interest and then decide it’s not for them. You have to display passion to a potential partner in order to land a partner it’s part of putting yourself out there, makes you vulnerable. If you’re a guy you can lay it down that you don’t do ltr. If you’re a cool dude that benefits socially from being with you or a hot guy they employ this method. I just don’t tell any girl what my intentions are, because I don’t really know. So I give a vague response, I d…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 05:55 PM
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I was thinking I had a couple high school gfs, hooked up in college a bunch, worked on cold approach, been married, been on 150+ online dates. My experience with women is a lot of why I get girls pretty easy, it’s second nature at this point. If you’re way behind on this, you don’t have the tools to pickup women. Practice gfs with ai chatgpt integration is prob going to be a real thing pretty soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 05:02 PM
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What caused this gender swap? 20 years ago it wasn’t like this, social media and dating apps?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 03:34 PM
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Yea I can do the same, because of dating apps and having a good instagram. You don’t seem aware that lot of young girls want daddies. Not sugar daddy, that’s their actual preference for a boyfriend. I’m in my mid 40s and I date usually 20-25, that age wants me the most. Girls I get now are best looking I ever got, 8s and 9s. My live in girlfriend makes living being fake gf for simps on snapchat, makes usually 10k/mo working hour or so a day, she gets to do that because she’s young and hot with p…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 01:36 PM
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For Chad it’s a lot easier. Also, chads often look for a relationship that benefits them. Biggest player I know hasn’t worked in 15 years. The 2nd is married to a rich woman 10 years older than him, he was a bartender and now he doesn’t work and cheats on his girl all the time. Before that he scammed girls for a living, he was a 10 rated by all girls that ever met him. You won’t ever hit a wall as a guy, it’s just the girls you get now won’t be the same in the future. I’m 44 and get the best loo…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 05:18 AM
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That and some girls are masochists.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 03:02 AM
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You are totally right about this. I see girls get lost in the sauce trying to chase men that can have 6 hot girlfriends at the same time. This girl exists and is doing some stupid shit to keep dating and getting passed around. However, what percentage of single girls is this? Could be 20% not sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 02:50 AM
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The guy who says dating is broken is clueless. He expects an above average girl with 100s of dating options to pick him. Gets mad and says girls only f Chads. Chad is focused on hotties, not above average chicks. He never actually worked on making some good pics for his dating profile. He swipes right like crazy and says apps are just broken and bots. Doesn’t approach girls in real life. Refuses to offer to buy a girl a few drinks for a date. Do something productive if you want a girlfriend to g…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 02:45 AM
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I live in Miami, if you’re pretty hot you can get dates from any guy you want. They date top 1% desirable guys with tons of dating options, could be millionaire, $250k/yr handsome, super hot guys, whatever the hot girls want really. Just ends up being bunch of dating because those guys rarely settle for one girl. When you do land one he expects you to have threesomes and open relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 02:19 AM
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If a guy is under 40 and rich, Reddit is going to be the most used.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 02:06 AM
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Correct way to view the situation. I would add one caveat that some girls enjoy asshole man behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 01:11 AM
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It’s a fallacy to say life is easy mode for pretty girls. It’s brought on by instagram with attractive girls occasionally doing fun exclusive things. Then the trophy wife that does nothing but work out and go on trips. It’s a tiny percentage of women we point to that life is so much better, and most of those girls aren’t even that happy. There’s so few girls making a living on onlyfans it’s not even worth talking about. Most all attractive girls have struggles the same as everyone, the big diffe…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 11:31 PM
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99% of the time a woman says “I don’t need a man,” they really do and they talk about them all the time. There is a percentage of men and women that don’t need the other gender, and those people are gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 10:59 PM
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It’s the difference between motivations in the girls. If you’re a hot dude you can better separate girls by their level of interest. Also, he’s hot, girls just say I want something beautiful, if he is a good lay, I’ll get a f buddy. The difference with me is I’m more just all around guy, I don’t have any great desirable quality, I’m handsome but not hot, well off but not rich, fit but not muscular. So if a girl says in her in mind, I may want him as a boyfriend, then they fuck or at least come b…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 08:49 PM
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I live in Miami, beautiful women are everywhere, makes it possible. Built a good instagram over many years. You attach it to your dating profile, I’m also tall and fairly handsome. Getting dates and girls back to your place is easy, all dating apps are hookup apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 05:58 PM
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Oh hell yea, do the harem if you got a chance, it’s really fun for awhile. I had a big run of girls after my divorce for a year. I was playing a Pokémon game trying to get every single type of hot girl. Statuesque platinum blonde with big tits, spicy Latina with big fat ass, black ford model, sexy persian etc. I would set my sights on something I hadn’t yet, and toss her in my harem. Never got any girl I’d classify as a 10, 8s and 9s. Now if I’m out of relationship, I don’t want to bother with a…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 05:41 PM
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Harems are taxing mentally and tiring to the point you don’t want to deal with it. If you’re on your 3rd or 4th girl coming over in a week, she expects to be entertained as well as fucked. She is a person that wants to be treated right, not just used as a sex doll. You also can’t keep most girls in your harem for long, you have to keep resupplying it, so you’re working your harem and trying to find new recruits. There are players that this is how they want it with women, they never want to settl…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 05:10 PM
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I see you flipped genders, this case for women your explaining is common. The reason is some girls aren’t that great for ltr consideration, but they are still hot. Girl has 9/10 looks dating smv, 6/10 ltr smv. There’s no male version of this, your total smv gets you dates with looks and ltr smv girls in the same range. Guys can’t consistently date above their league like girls can. These very attractive girls are stuck in a quagmire of dating, because all the chads and handsome successful men wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 04:39 PM
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I have a 60-70% close rate, I think I’m doing okay. If I have to get back into dating I’ll consider this, I know you don’t want to act thirsty. Still think I’m not getting the 90-100% because I’m just handsome and not hot. If you’re smooth enough you can overcome it, but I’m not that cool either. Some dudes always going to have it better than you, I’m up there so it’s fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 03:47 PM
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By close rate do you mean getting a 2nd date if you want? When this guy says 90% first date close rate, I assume that means you can prob have sex if you want, like you at least come around 2nd base. I’m not thirsty on the date, but I am trying to get them in bed with me during the first date, so you’re trying to get them over. I chose the date because I want to make out with her, you may not see her again. If she doesn’t come over it’s over with her, she didn’t want you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 03:08 PM
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Someone always got it better, if you’re rich and famous you can just dm girls and invite them over for an orgy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 02:20 PM
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At what point do you try to f? I think my 1/3 gap of not getting girls over to my place on first date is not being attractive enough. There’s 2 silver bullets in dating, being hot or having a mansion. You got either, girls on a date will do you immediately nearly every time. I’m just glad dating apps work, it’s super easy compared to any other method. I get hot girlfriends off those, seems like don’t work barely at all for most guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 02:12 PM
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You follow these principles they will work. I just still think a girl sees you as effablre the moment she lays on you. Never pulled those girls around.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 04:57 AM
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You can have 10s of your perfect type all over you, still now?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 02:57 AM
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How you get 100% close, I’ve been on close to a couple hundred dates, can’t get 1/3 to come over to my place. Always just thought I failed the sniff and eye test with her the first couple seconds.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 02:31 AM
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Insane privilege for a guy
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 02:04 AM
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Nothing is worse than being the incel, but the reverse for women usually ends up being painful as hell, I think this is one of the aspects causing young women depression. Women are biologically required to be in the confines of 80/20 rule and compete for the top men. This means that women walk away from dating hurt, rejected, and most all will lose the game. A feeling that they were just seen as meat and no guy will appreciate the real her. They had a happiness of something so real, then it’s ta…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 01:46 AM
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These are valid points.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 12:43 AM
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Some guys are born to be players, it’s in their soul. I’ve went on a couple runs on my life of 30 girls in 16 months and 40 in 7 months off apps. I got sick to my stomach and tired of those hoes. Got a girlfriend and was much happier.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 12:23 AM
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I don’t really have confirmed opinions on anything I’ve never experienced, but okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 12:17 AM
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Not something you want to be doing everyday, doesn’t mean can’t be a lot of fun for both parties.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 12:00 AM
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Can’t see her again. You can go up to the 12 dates, it can be in a group.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/24 11:52 PM
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Then what would you know about hooking up with someone you just met, it’s exciting and intense. Not technically the best sex, sometimes it’s really good though. You really go after each other, not like a ltr.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/24 11:47 PM
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Guys don’t think that they love their girlfriends, they do the experience of a new girl too. Also, you’ve likely had an exciting time and good sex occasionally with a guy you hooked up with.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/24 11:39 PM
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He probably would get a feel whether girl would hookup or not, if not just bail.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/24 11:33 PM
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Most guys would just negotiate with a potential girlfriend to allow you to keep doing it if there was no rule to the scenario. The point is you have to consider all the girls casual and temporary relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/24 11:31 PM
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You're probably not going to get the level of girls you would get on the dating apps, but seems like a viable solution.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/24 11:27 PM
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I have a group of friends that are absolutely obsessed with having threesomes with their girlfriends. Couple of them are quite good at getting different girls to join them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/24 11:26 PM
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Yeah your case made me think, that's as hassle free dating as you're going to get. I think dating apps are fun, but they are taxing mentally, even when you're on a good streak of dates. I can't keep girls in my soft harem very long, generally less than 6 weeks.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/24 11:24 PM
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That's a smart way to go about it. You're going to have to keep going until you're tired of it because you can't go back. Then consider that. The problem is you've now given yourself the hottest best girls already, your standards are now out of whack.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/24 11:19 PM
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I can get girls off apps pretty easy, I've had some harems going different times of my life. It gets old, juggling girls gets more annoying than it is fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/24 11:13 PM
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This is not really directed at you because I don't know you. But I've had the opportunity to observe around 15 different girls actively using a dating app and with other girls. It is incomprehensible how big of a toxic ego trip they get from them. They swipe and if they get a match from a guy they really want, straight giddy with excitement. He compliments her she's smiling so happy, or laughing at the messages guy say. They match insane, it would be so much fun you know if, 90% of your right sw…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/24 11:07 PM
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You have to ghost them after the 12th date or you can never go on the apps again.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/24 10:03 PM
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Same thing happens with women who date too much for too many years, bitter about men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/24 09:48 PM
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I feel the same way. You’ll be on cloud 9 about this at first. Give it 6 months to 2 years, you’d rather have a girlfriend and just hope it works out.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/24 09:34 PM
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I’d have to come up with different rules for women in this. What I think women would actually do is keep going on dates, not care about the sex. Keep trying to get a handsome rich man to marry them by making the 12 dates last as long as they could. Girls can hookup with just about whoever now if they really wanted to, this doesn’t mean much to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/24 09:24 PM
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Yea I strongly believe sleeping around takes your soul, it’s fun and feeds the ego for awhile though.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/24 09:13 PM
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Well I guess in this scenario for you, it’s basically forever. I give myself a year, I’ll go for the ltr with some girl I meet that I’m crazy about and give it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/24 09:10 PM
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I think most guys are going to get tired of this. It might take 200 girls or more, but eventually it’s going to get boring. There is going to be a girl you meet that you believe is special and you’ll give it up for the chance to be with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/24 09:09 PM
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You add this stipulation because theoretically there’s some girl that you are go on 12 dates with that you are really going to like. You’re going to have to make the decision give it all up for her. Or, never see her again and just keep being a ho dating on those dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/24 09:06 PM
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Can’t form ongoing attachments with the girls you meet and get them to agree to let you keep doing this. So if you really like a girl, after 12 times you can’t see her again. If you do it all stops.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/24 08:59 PM
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Add 6in to your list and he’s less than 1% of single guys. Girls often don’t want to think about how rare the guys are that take them out.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 02:07 PM
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The guy can’t be ugly or average and get a hot girl. If he’s a 7/10 handsome guy and got a nice fun lifestyle, he can date hot 9s.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 02:26 AM
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I don’t think hot girls date their looksmatch, they want tall, handsome, successful men. They’ll get with hot guys, but they want more than just looks, they want fun too.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 01:58 AM
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Women’s ability to cherry pick men who she participates in casual sex with is not the same as your ability to get a relationship with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 07:07 PM
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How is it that most men get married, most men have multiple sexual partners, if most men that are above average with own place and fit only 5-10% of women are in his dating pool for potential partners. You might not be her type, you may not get her attracted, she might be dating other people, but half of girls are potentially yours at least if you’re face is a 5, average height, fit, and got a nice place.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 06:57 PM
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They’re young and fertile though and that adds value. Average young looking girls smv is higher than average guys smv under the age of 35. You will have to make yourself more desirable to get more desirable women consistently, you can do that a number of ways including being great socially and having a nice lifestyle. Hot girls seem to date less attractive men most of the time, it’s because the less desirable man increased his smv to be more than a hot guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 05:57 PM
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You absolutely should just go for the highest level of attractive partner to you that you can get. Past that you need someone you enjoy spending time with, and a girl that can support herself on a base level. However, you won’t want a girl more than a month no matter how hot she is if she’s not that into you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 03:30 PM
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If you’re fit and have a nice place and a 5 average face and average height, at least half of single girls you got a chance with. Upper levels of dating, for girls that have nearly every guy as an option, comes down to genetics and charisma.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 03:26 PM
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Makes you jacked and feel younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 02:27 PM
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I would like the moderators to auto reply this comment every time guys say “women’s libido” is lower. You explain this just so perfectly, girls thoroughly love to f guys and they also are excited about even the idea casual affection.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 12:55 AM
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There’s a good percent of guys on dating apps or by going out that can get 14 girls in 2 months. That guy went through a ton, but about 2 new girls a week is going to be a lot of effort for any guy. I don’t know if most guys can at will date deliberately like you’re talking. Most guys waiting for inquiring for opportunities, which might be better anyway. Dating app girls, club girls, girls who go to house parties. These types of people involved in a hookup scene are not representative of women a…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 12:28 AM
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I mean I get you, I look like mid 30s and I’m in shape but I’m actually 44. My live in girlfriend of the last year is 24. There are guys in 40s and 50s that can date younger girls like that, but they seriously don’t want to. The older guy may want to hook up with a young girl, but they actually prefer an attractive girlfriend closer to their age.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 04:42 PM
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Sure, but your statement is everyone can hit the wall eventually. Not anymore with guys, they have t and Viagra to help keep them in shape and that desire to keep chasing girls. You’re fit and live a good life, girls will chase you at any age.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 04:25 PM
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I don’t know what percentage of older men stay fit and chase tail, but I see it all the time. You’re claiming guys hit a wall, they might let themselves go but they don’t have to, they can shoot t and go to the gym.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 04:20 PM
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You lived in Miami? This is normal everyday stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 04:17 PM
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If you’re a 42 yr old girl, you work out and still look pretty hot, your kid is in college. You can be much more appealing to date to a cool rich 50+ guy than a girl in her 20s. Girls can be hot in the 40s. You’re talking 30 yrs old, many times that’s when a girl peaks. If a guy is in the marriage market in his mid 30s that’s the type of age girl he wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 04:14 PM
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If you want to stay in the game as a guy you can pretty easily. I know a guy in his mid 50s on hgh got new legit hot girls all the time, big time player. I was at a golf course bar recently and these guys were in their 60s sharing pictures of the chicks they are getting with and bragging about it. I was at an Italian restaurant bar with my gf who’s in her mid 20s, this 70 yr old man sitting next to her said he’d give her $10k if she came to his place in Del Mar, with testosterone and viagra thes…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 04:03 PM
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Guys don’t have a wall, if in decent shape and living a good life you can always pick up cute girls. Older guys got t/hgh/viagra to keep it going, they never going to stop now if they don’t want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 03:49 PM
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Never married alpha guys have a lot more fun than regular guys who settle down. I know a bunch of guys who are in their 40s they just love picking up girls and sleeping with multiple girls a week, it’s in their blood. They know it how much fun stuff they’ve done comparatively living life just on their rules. I don’t think they do most of the time, that’s what they know, they weren’t interested in a wife and kids. Clock never runs out in guys either, guy can settle down and have a kid whenever.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 03:43 PM
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Any girl I’ve ever known for awhile when in a group is asked about her number, she says a number less than the number of guys I’ve personally seen her date. You think women are going to write down or say openly, oh yea I’ve cheated on my husband 4 times, he don’t even know. Get real. The most lied statistic in statistics is women saying how many people she slept with, you’re not going to get women to admit this, she will tell her best friend that’s it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 03:35 PM
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Women's looks and personality is what matters most to guys, doesn't matter what age she is. If a woman can support herself, then she's more than likely dating you simply because she's attracted and enjoys being with you. If you're a guy that wants a girl with a great career go for that, but I don't think that's the attitude of most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 12:30 AM
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The top 10% of men cheat more than women, but women cheat way more than men and it's not close. I already know countless studies say differently, good luck getting groups of women to admit about how many times they cheated in a relationship. Also, a woman leaves in her mind before she leaves you, if she cheated on you when she thought she was heading out the door in a few months anyway, girls don't consider that cheating. I'm not saying women are worse than men in relationships, they just got wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 11:28 PM
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Yea that’s why I need to get off Reddit, if there was a study I wouldn’t necessarily believe it anyway. That’s all anyone says instead of trying to make any logical argument, is show the data, where’s the study, as if anything that you Google should necessarily be trusted anyway. You also can’t trust any woman to even know her own body count, let alone give a correct answer. Girls never say their true sexual partners because anything over 20 people will say is bad behavior for girls and they are…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 09:42 PM
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That’s a very very small sample size, also YouTube videos are made for dramatic effect and to be surprising this is likely just set up, and I don’t think you can trust any woman to accurately say her number of sexual partners. You can’t judge an individual book by its cover. There’s plenty of plain dressing women that are swingers with 100s of partners. There’s super ugly women that are fully clothed all the time with a new guy all the time. What you need to do is try to address the entire US po…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 09:12 PM
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Your entire argument is everything is perfectly random with women in regards to anything, so therefore it is impossible to make any blanket statement about types of women on average. That’s not an argument and it’s not true. To even make this a valid discussion you have to isolate an age range and sat 20-30 yrs old. When you’re wearing very revealing clothing whether you want to or not you are in the business of attracting men. You’re also more likely to be above average looking on average if yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 08:01 PM
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Well you can make the argument that above average women are wearing more tight and revealing clothing, but when you toss in below average women are equally promiscuous. Then it could be a push. Average girls are going to have less casual sex because there’s no end game benefit to it. If you could take the average girl and make her a 8, then she gets the chance of hot guys and handsome tall rich men take her out. Then she would try more at those guys. Average girls just more likely to pair up eit…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 06:54 PM
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Well so what I was saying about super hot girls looks like it’s true. If you get high up on the female attractiveness scale you will start to have less sexual partners. Which makes sense because the top men are trying to lock her down. In my life experience I would say 3.5/10 and 7.5/10 girls are the most promiscuous, it’s the above average and below average girls that tend to try to sleep with men out of their league in attempts to secure them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 06:48 PM
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People that wear revealing and tight clothing on average are more body confident and more attractive people. When you add these 2 parameters together on average you are more promiscuous than the average person. Could be just slightly more promiscuous, we could prob find a study that would verify this at least partially that more attractive people have more options to act upon, since most Redditors think study summary results should be taken as gospel if it supports their argument I may need to l…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 06:30 PM
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You’re talking individual people sure, 1000 girls taken and random that wear tube tops, push up bras, and short ripped shorts with their butt cheeks hanging out has a higher likelihood of taking at least 1 more dick than 1000 women who primarily wear full pants suits. There’s all sorts of obvious reasons related to this why this is going to be the case that the 85% of the skin showing girls are likely to be at least slightly more promiscuous. It’s not even really an argument, it’s such logical c…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 06:05 PM
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I had a minor surgery and got addicted to reddit last few weeks, this is my reddit moment to remove the app. It’s either show the study or stat, or women that need to tell you what a woman does can NEVER have any logical assumptions. Take 1000 women and they are all basically in tube tops, push up bras, frayed ripped short with half their butt cheeks coming out. Take another 1000 women who are basically in pant suits that cover their whole body, or loser fitting jeans and no skin is showing. Now…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 05:17 PM
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No just modest girl would tend to be less promiscuous. She could be the freak with her boyfriend, but the idea is she gets around less because she doesn’t advertise her body.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 01:41 PM
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You’re just talking in a circle. Modest girl are modest because they don’t care about sexual attraction as much as the girl with her ass hanging out of her shorts. Think of the motivation behind it all.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 04:03 AM
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Just think about, you reveal yourself nearly completely on beach, hottest guys possible comes up to all wanting you. Flip genders, what are you personally going to do when you whip all the ladies in a tizzy by getting in your tightest spoedo. More temptation = More sex
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 03:28 AM
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More revealing = more dick obviously you don’t understand good science.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 03:08 AM
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Women in a full burka grab the one that exposes her forearm while ovulating. Science holds up across all cultures.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 03:06 AM
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When women are ovulating they wear more revealing clothing because they are more horny and instinctively want more male options. Aside from that, common sense would say there is some correlation between revealing clothing and promiscuity.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 11:12 PM
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Strictly evolutionary speaking, modern day homo sapien females get with dudes who look fit and got a decent place. If you got those 2 things and never works out when you talking to girls. Then either you’re not socially adjusted or really ugly to look at, which is bad for the survival of our species.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 10:33 PM
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I got some morbid curiosity for all the guys and girls that whine about dating on reddit, to see this dude kill it is interesting. Love all races, but technically only been in relationships with white and mixed girls. Kinda think different race girls f differently. 3 light skin girls I dated got an attitude, not sure if just my experience, act different than black and mixed girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 09:39 PM
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A 7? You’re on that female 10 point scale. He’s a high 8. Dating apps were better 8 years ago when Hinge and Bumble just came out, every girl that was going to try it been on them already. Day game and clubs are back. Apps still good and working on you instagram is still beneficial.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 08:50 PM
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He’s perfect looking. Higher bar for black people with beauty, if you’re beautiful they work well for guys and girls though. Dating app and instagram photos are just as much about what’s going on in background to express lifestyle. Apps and insta dms so much fun when they work. Can’t get any easier to get some affection and find a gf.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 06:36 PM
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You got a perfect face and body, cool. Black people have such a higher bar for beauty in dating culture. They can be just as successful but seems higher bar to clear. Your profile pics I think should be more about the backgrounds to express a lifestyle. Got a baby grand in my house I’m in couch with it behind it, went to Egypt on a camel with great pyramids behind, shirtless in bed, sounds corny but my bed is this really nice 4 post against a huge mirror, me in front of a helicopter. I also have…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 06:13 PM
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Women are much more quick to call out slutty behavior in other women and make allegations about them to cut them down. She does this slut shaming because she feels in competition with her for same men in their social circle. Guys are mad at girl sluts because it takes nothing to be one, it’s more about a gender difference jealousy. Society says something about how she values herself to get passed around, female sluts have been ridiculed since the dawn of human history. Guys also don’t like cute …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 05:12 PM
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I’ve never seen a guy on dating app collect likes like that. He has to be so high internal app score he’s a featured profile when women open the app. His close rate of 95% is totally crazy, I thought my 70% was about as high as you can get. His profile is pretty generic is what irks me about it, he represents a white archetype male that is rarer than you think is my theory. It’s funny how most women racially date, I’ve never had a hot chick into me and not totally want her regardless of race. Se…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 01:00 PM
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Yea good luck, I’ve been on a 2-3 year looksmax and instagram profile improving journey the last few years. Hopefully done with it this summer. Gone from getting 5s to having hot young gf living with me the past 6 months. I’m so happy I worked on this.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 11:51 PM
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Hair transplants, chin implants, nose jobs can do wonders for guys. Out of all the things a guy can do to looksmax I do believe getting rid of a gut is the best thing. Girls don’t randomly f guys that look pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 11:29 PM
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Guys want consequences for girls that keep trying to date up. We want them to hit the wall hard and be punished for not settling for guys they should have in her prime. Almost all guys been left for some guy they perceived as “better.” Rarely works out and then they try to get back with you often times. You want these girls that do this behavior to suffer. Guys cheat, but they often don’t leave their partner because they could get something better like women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 11:23 PM
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I found out in my 30s my beer gut after my divorce was reason I could not get girls casually or interested in me. I spent $5k freezing my gut with cool sculpting and the result as insane, night and day with girls. I did Invisalign that helped a bunch too. I’m getting a hair transplant in Turkey this summer. My friends tell me I have to complete the journey and not just go to gym like am now that helps, but also get on T. I’ll do that in my late 40s when it gets lower.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 11:16 PM
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Women talk negatively about casual sex because they associate it with their own damaged ego. Women have wild variance in who they give casual sex to or not, and it’s almost nearly all the time with guys out of their league. They use casual sex to get the top guys attention and access to him. Then talk negatively about casual sex because it doesn’t land men in exclusive relationship. Mostly either leads to a pump and dump, or getting tossed into a man’s harem temporarily. Jealousy of feeling not …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 11:08 PM
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The reason is biological reproductive restraints of being a female is related their abundance of sexual options, and their ability to be causal with only the top % of men. I’ve at different points in my life basically an incel, and other times in my life I’ve slept with 5 different girls in the same week. I’ve been completely ignored by women (like most guys) for years and been the guy approached by women everywhere I am. It’s like living in 2 different worlds. I enjoy dating apps, I match like …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 09:31 PM
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I think men wanting to control and demonize female sexuality, is one of the main reasons women have to keep fighting for equal rights in society the last thousands of years. If you make women reliant on men, you can control their behavior. Women chasing the top men I don’t think you need any data or studies, just observe how women act. Seems blatantly obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 09:14 PM
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You won’t believe 1 piece of data right in your face, you’ll turn around and reply where’s the data. There’s so many studies based online dating data and just asking that have been done, that say women find at least 80% of men unattractive. If you want to say those countless studies are manosphere hogwash then that’s your opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 08:07 PM
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Reddit shut down all the incel subreddits, this OKTrends blog that was a staple of posts for all dating subreddits for years are all gone. The OKTrends blog was removed OKCupid in 2018. I am simply listing all things that are facts, not a conspiracy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 08:01 PM
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Well all those articles I’ve listed contain lots of data so I don’t know what else to say. Here’s where you are, some guy at OKCupid named Christian did a bunch of database queries to build am argument. He took all major races and looked at match rates, they were lowest among matching between Asian women and black men. This OKCupid staff member (who appears to be incredibly talented on data analysis and reporting) wrote a whole book about his OkCupid data findings called Dataclysm. To you it’s a…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 07:52 PM
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The article above references multiple studies. The writer of OKTrends articles has entire access to the OKCupid database. I rest my case. Have a good day.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 07:39 PM
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That’s all I’ve done is sent you data. I’m just assuming I’m being trolled here, I sent you an entire blog based upon OKCupid data and you’ve written it off as simply advertising and somehow college kids in a room, which I’m still not sure where that came from. I don’t think you looked at OKTrends blog for more than 3 seconds. Here’s the article that references the Tinder data and NYT study that showed women only like top 14% of profiles. https://medium.com/@worstonlinedater/tinder-experiments-i…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 07:32 PM
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You’re easily at the bottom level person I’ve ever met on Reddit at making an argument that makes any sense. OKCupid thought reporting on its users people would find interesting and it would help seo. The 80/20 Pareto Principle applied to concept that 80% of the women are chasing the top 20% of men. Whether true or not is widely accepted theory by both genders in general and Redditors. There’s so many studies to prove this, I think the most famous one was based on Tinder data that says “the aver…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 07:27 PM
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I don’t think you’ve had a career job at a company that has anything to do with examining data. I don’t think this is a concept that you’ve let enter your brain Read this article from OkTrends about OKCupid data “How you race affects the messages you get” https://web.archive.org/web/20160415191940/http://blog.okcupid.com/index.php/page/16/ Then reread what you just wrote above, you may enlighten yourself instead of just acting like a clueless internet troll.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 07:05 PM
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Yes you don’t understand that companies mine their own data in a department called Business Intelligence. “OkTrends is original research and insights from OkCupid. We've compiled our observations and statistics from hundreds of millions of OkCupid user interactions, all to explore the data side of the online world.” If you can’t understand that this has zero to do with college kids opinions and broccoli, and is instead data analysis and reporting in the OkCupid database.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 06:51 PM
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I’m going to give up. Here’s the statement from the OkTrends blog.okcupid.com itself from 2017: “OkTrends is original research and insights from OkCupid. We've compiled our observations and statistics from hundreds of millions of OkCupid user interactions, all to explore the data side of the online world.” You’re going on about broccoli and college kids, you don’t understand why companies do seo either, don’t know what business intelligence is, and I have no idea what to tell you anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 06:43 PM
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There’s nowhere that’s the case, you just simple made that up and didn’t read the articles. For the first article took 2 top girl photos and 6 OKCupid staff members who are users of app simply to illustrate a point about the data of OKCupid users as a whole. They didn’t take a handful of college people to analyze and show Asian women rarely want black men, they just did a simple database query to prove it. Have you not wrote a report based on data in a database in your life? Your brain clearly c…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 05:41 PM
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Every single woman using OKCupid back when it was the #1 dating app, so I assume at least 30 million+ women? Do you not know how data works?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 05:08 PM
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It doesn’t often work out like that and the combo of being hot and rich is greater than 1 in 10000 people. The reason is most millionaires are over 50. The millionaire athletes, young entrepreneur, YouTube or Hollywood star is ridiculous outliers of society. You’re combining 2 super rare qualities it makes it super duper rare. If you just combine 6ft+/6fig+/6in+ and not married. That’s 1 in 200 guys. How many of those guys are hot? 1 in 10? 1 in 20? So that’s probably around 1 in 2000 hot 666 gu…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 04:59 PM
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You didn’t read those articles, there’s way more of them too. It’s data taken from the whole OKCupid app. It’s a bunch of individual article studies and analysis about OKCupid data alone. The way the blog spins about hey guys it turns out that women care way more about looks than you do, in fact based on the data all women think 80% of the entire male user base is unattractive and not worthy of a consideration for a date. So improve those photos. Black women and Asian men you perform the worst b…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 04:33 PM
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Many women are both hot and rich? No. Yes if you rich and ugly the only hot girls going to date you are sugar babies. Making 7 figures doesn’t guarantee you even a cute girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 12:29 PM
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You’re not going to get a Hollywood actress just because you make a million a year. You’re not going to get hot and rich girl more than likely.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 11:36 AM
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So I found in webarchive the infamous blog.okcupid.com. It was called OKTrends using data from OKCupid they published blog articles. This one was referenced a lot on your looks and how it affects your online dating prospects: https://web.archive.org/web/20100821055116/http://blog.okcupid.com/index.php/your-looks-and-online-dating/ Here’s an article about how your race affects your message replies: https://web.archive.org/web/20100821055448/http://blog.okcupid.com/index.php/your-race-affects-whet…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 02:02 AM
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Okay so it was blog.okcupid.com called oktrends I found it on web.archive.org. I have to get to dinner with friends so I can’t research more now, this isn’t the one I was talking about but I found this link off .gov website on a study about the danger of incels in society. https://web.archive.org/web/20100821055448/http://blog.okcupid.com/index.php/your-race-affects-whether-people-write-you-back/ I’ll look more into this later.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 01:39 AM
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Yea and people on Reddit still daily reference that study to this day. You’re going to tell me it was some multi year fever dream I just made up. The study was anarchy, I think the full study and stats has been wiped from the internet. I’ll look again was hoping someone had it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 12:58 AM
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I’ve tried to find it recently, I’m not crazy I read it a bunch of times. Reddit forums all over and especially the incel ones that used to exist constantly referenced it. It was on OKCupid website, Reddit wiped all references to it. I’ve googled it recently and I couldn’t find it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 12:52 AM
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Where is this source now? The OKCupid published dating app statistics was the most shared study in Reddit history. It was filled with all sorts of stats, even covered race like how Asian women never match with black men. Top 5% guys get 90% of the matches and 95% of the dates. 85% of OKCupid make users won’t get a single date. Does it still exist somewhere in its entirety?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 12:48 AM
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Women are crazy cheaters, it’s just way easier, and they don’t get caught nearly as often. Top 10% men cheat, those are the only ones who can. All girls can. There’s no study that’s going to be able to track this. It’s just what I’ve observed and believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 12:29 AM
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I think what rich guys want is what they view as their personal best “arm candy,” and a girl that really turns them on. Whether she cleans your house and is a good cook seems pretty irrelevant. Also, you make 7 figures so if you want a girl doing the same you’re prob going to sacrifice looks to some degree. You could want to be with a sexy lawyer, juicy latina, thin young model. Light skin black girl seems to be what black pro athletes see as wife material most of the time. You also want the gir…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 12:25 AM
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Unless there’s something relatable in the bio that I have interesting to say, I just ask them out immediately. I say, “you have such a hot look, let’s go out..” or something like that. I can’t sit and message girls on apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 11:43 PM
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Sounds like you had fun online and it was interesting, just don’t worry about.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 09:59 PM
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No great offense to you but if a girl doesn’t make out with me the first night I meet her I’m going to move on because she don’t want me. You have to expect better of yourself and women will follow suit.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 09:55 PM
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No adult woman desires a ltr with a guy that doesn’t have a good career.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 09:53 PM
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“We’ve never met,” that’s the end of the story for me. Move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 09:49 PM
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You should always have options and if you know a girl likes you never tell anyone especially your current partner. You are going to be respected so much more in a relationship as a guy if she knows she leaves you that she will be replaced immediately. Most of the genesis of female cheating is they don’t think their man can leave her anyway. If you’re being cheated on and you decide to cheat, first thing you’re cheating girlfriend is going to do is ruin those relationships, because she needs you …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 09:45 PM
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Yea they lookup your name to see if you’re a felon, they check your socials and LinkedIn, they find out where you live and lookup the house on Zillow. Anything weird in the research or she can’t find info on you she just bails and picks some other guy to take her on a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 07:22 PM
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I’ve seriously never met a cute single girl with tons of dating options not either jumping on the cute tall boy with the large pp, or searching for treasure. Attractive women are literally all the same when it comes to the guys they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 05:49 PM
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No average chicks be having casual relations too. I’m saying if you want pretty girls out of your league lookswise then you need to looksmax and lifestylemax. Most guys just marry some cute girl comes there way and moves on in life. They’re not thinking they need to do a bunch of stuff to get pretty girls, they just living, girls not that important to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 05:36 PM
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What’s the goal? If you want one average chick with a decent job to marry you then do whatever makes you happy. If you want sleep with 100s of beautiful women casually and assuming you’re not model handsome. You better be working on looksmaxxing and having as fun cool life and being around a lot of pretty girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 05:15 PM
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All girls want looks and lifestyle. If you got both in spades you’ll be irresistible to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 05:10 PM
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All girls want handsome, tall, with lifestyle. A medical profession job is online verifiable so they can look you up and know they’re not wasting their time with someone trying to look rich, but aren’t. I’m a business owner so that’s more commonly associated with being unemployed with girls on dating apps. I really don’t believe in gold diggers, if you’ve got a big nice house and go on vacations, every girl is going to want you more. After I sold my house during I moved into this 7k sqft house o…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 04:49 PM
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I got a girlfriend and before I deleted my apps I changed my job title to “General Surgeon.” Likes started piling up, I matched like crazy, girls messaging first telling me how hot I am, girls asking are you available for a drink tonight, one girl said “what is it like to be one of god’s favorites?” I wanted to throw my phone, I didn’t know just a change in job title would make me irresistible to women on dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 04:13 PM
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I saw the profile now, I was wondering after he said he had 95% date close rate, which sounded absurd. This guy could sleep with girls 18-45 no probs anytime.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 03:45 PM
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My best friend in my 30s was a Chad, 6’3” looked like a movie star. We would be out at a bar or club, if 2 girls were talking to us 100/100 times the prettier one was going for my friend. He got attractive girls all the time so easily it was ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 03:37 PM
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Being big is an advantage these days as long as you don’t have a gut. I’m 6’1” 215 got cool sculpting to remove my belly and girls want me more than they did more fit 170. Thin pretty girls are more attracted to big beefy guys. Thicker girls more want a vascular muscle guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 03:12 PM
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Your friends sound like real life Chads. Do they have soft harems of girls they regularly get with, or more randomly hooking up with girls whenever.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 02:56 PM
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How do you exclude, why does this work, is it showing girls you’re choosey somehow.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 02:03 PM
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Everything here is correct and well thought out, I think more often solid relationships form though growers. The thing is from a guys perspective it seems tough, but girls are really desirable. To pick up girls you have to pass the looks and pheromone test, get her talking and connect with her, escalate emotionally and physically at right moments. Guys that get their pickup down, he’ll sleep with lots of girls just for fun. How girls think about guys is like how you explained, seems more recepti…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 05:52 AM
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There’s dating app burnout. When I started 8 years ago it was all more upbeat, apps was just hitting the mainstream. I was off dating apps for 5 years, it’s different now. They need to charge you $20/wk to let you swipe and the girls in your area are mostly tired of the apps. The dating app lifers just stationed on Hinge and girls are tougher to get on a date. Think approaching has already made a big comeback a girl would rather meet a guy in the wild than keep going on random dates off apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 04:20 AM
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All girls are attracted to one or usually all of a guy being tall, above avg pp, high income comfortable lifestyle. Looks strong, fit, lantern jaw, hunter eyes. What girls want for attraction besides that in general? “I’m a girl and I’m attracted to compatibility,” no you’re not.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 03:58 AM
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I don’t like hanging around on dating apps for more than 3 months. Eventually I’m getting more serious and getting more focused a girlfriend. I also don’t want to fire up an app and a week later get into a ltr. I want to test the market and see what dates I can get. If a girl knocks my socks off of course I’ll delete the apps, but I also want to spin the wheel on Tinder/Bumble/Hinge for a bit too.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 03:19 AM
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This advice is absolutely right being attractive is work. Theoretically you’re 6 great pics away from landing hoards of beautiful women on dates. The other side is being attractive to women is an imaginary line that is different for each person. I know 3 guys from college that are tall, look alright to me, have great careers, they cannot get girls. In my life I got 3 inches taller in college, my sophomore year to 6’1” and had facial stubble and chest hair. Had 1 girlfriend and kissed 2 girls my …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 03:01 AM
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Whether I’m lying or not, if you don’t think a 666 guy who is traditionally handsome, has a nice house, can’t get as many dates as he wants, hookups, or a beautiful gf fairly easily then keep believing whatever you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 12:40 AM
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You’re right no one gets girls, girls never hookup and desire guys. They just like guys for compatibility factors. Wth are you bothering me about, I’m not sharing a bunch of photos with me and girls I dated wtf.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 12:30 AM
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Yea I guess you don’t have to be a player, but most guys aren’t going to bail right away, might be a total sweet goddess in those apps that wants you, never know for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 12:23 AM
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Yea girls don’t like that guys have folders of their phones of girls they hooked up with and dated. It’s not cool to them, you’d be a jerk to share it on a public forum or even showing people unless they good friends is sketch.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 12:21 AM
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No one is sharing a folder publicly of something like that. That’s a total dick move to yourself and worse to girls you dated. There’s face matching, people could find out who they are, only an incredible asshole would do something like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 12:14 AM
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I got a folder on my phone of such, it would be insane to openly share it. Why is it so hard to believe some guy been with 100 or so girls and I get dates with girls that hookup, I know guys in 1000+ range that are much cooler than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 12:06 AM
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All of this is great and could help anyone. The thing I would add about pics, it’s really about the backgrounds. Also attaching my instagram to dating profile to give girls more to look at works crazy well. Why are you deleting the apps so quick and settling on a girl so fast. All guys I know that are good with dating apps are going on a minimum 20-30 dates before picking a girl for ltr. They all get their soft harems going, it’s a big ego thing. If you’re so good at this why not be a player for…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 11:53 PM
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I don’t I have a girlfriend, I date for a few months, and get another. I was also married for 8 years. If you want to see what my dating profile looks like you can message me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 11:50 PM
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Some people are just nice, especially when they want you in their life, I know it’s hard to believe but it’s happened prob 10 out of 150 first dates. Most of the time we just get brunch if she stays over.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 11:38 PM
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Some guys that are 9+/10 and look like big male models just get girls by existing. You can’t ask them for help, because they just attract women’s eyes like an intense magnet. They just need a fun looking dating profile to sleep with as many girls as they want. The biggest players though are cool guys in a city social party scene. If you a rich and social enough to host parties in your house, and get an ongoing cavalcade of hot party girls you meet at clubs. Just knowing these guys and how many s…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 11:35 PM
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30% of my dates are in bed with me within 2-3 hrs. Nearly all girls hookup with guys they want on dating apps or clubs/bars.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 11:28 PM
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I did not lie, what’s wrong with a girl waking up, and picking up your place and asking if you want eggs. You don’t think a girl you had sex with half the night, that wants to stay another day with you, and be your girlfriend would do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 11:24 PM
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Ha is this 1 guy. I know a couple guys like this, they were somehow blessed with model looks, tall, muscular juiced, and women say a huge d too. They are unstoppable with every type of girl of any age, one is 500+ and other is 1000+ mostly very attractive girls. One married a hot rich girl in her 40s, he has no job, and just cheats on her constantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 11:19 PM
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No but my gf of a year and back on my stories my prev gf on there. They hot chicks, I’m okay looking. Or I can send you dating profile pics. You’ve assumed I’m a loser in my mom’s basement who’s an incel black pill. I’m blackpill but girls like me, and I like them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 11:08 PM
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Ha message me I’ll send my insta if you send yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 10:07 PM
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Yea you understand the game, can’t win them all. Part of it is timing. If she just started dating she prob wants to test the waters with a bunch of guys, if she hung up on a guy, she’s using you to distract her from it. I did try to get a girl on a trip one time. She was ridiculously hot blonde, she was a gamer girl and OF model. I matched with her a few times, we talked about a date and followed each other on insta. Never could get her out so I tried the trip angle, she ignored me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 10:06 PM
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Yea I suggested exclusivity with my latest girlfriend, she would just hang around my house sometimes all weekend. After second time I said just be my girlfriend already. She said no, well it turned out she was still seeing her ex and getting with another guy. I didn’t see her for a few months, then she hit me back up and after a night together, she said you still want me as your girlfriend I said yeah. We’ve been together a year now and she’s the best. If a girl is coming by and hooking up with …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 09:48 PM
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No girl does anything indiscriminately. She was super hot and into me, wanted to be my girlfriend. Prob only had dozen super hot girls in my life interested in me. I mean totally banging, beautiful face, hot body. Those hot girls are rare, but they love and pursue men all the same as any other girl would.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 09:42 PM
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With Tinder platinum for a week I think you’re looking at least $60. There’s a whole different vibe to Tinder I like, girls hookup the same on Tinder as other dating apps, there’s just something about that app and girls on it not taking themselves too seriously. Professional dating addicted girls use Hinge. Hinge will get you the most dates and all you need is a premium membership, roses don’t work for me. Have better chance with a match just commenting on photos.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 09:29 PM
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Not the case at all, no real difference between average girls and super hot ones. Super hot girl likes you and tries love bombing you right away, that’s her strategy. If she got a cool personality too, I’ll be her boyfriend right away. Super hot girls are rare but they like you or don’t all the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 09:21 PM
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Girls are socially engineered, scammed, and preyed upon by all types of guys in so many ways. There is a famous super hot guy in my city that is a known con artist. He scams pretty chicks out of money with this whole I need to finish med school routine. If you’re a 10 guy in looks, girls are mesmerized by you and will fall for anything, even just charismatic guys can do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 09:16 PM
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I disagree there are guys that kill it in the club/bars but can’t get anything online. They think their profile is so good, I’m like nah it sucks. You’re good looking but you’re not making pics that are attractive to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 09:13 PM
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The whole let’s travel together and not go on a date first is crazy to me. I know girls that do it and I guess they just f the guy and get a trip. Girls are wild for that. I just get a girlfriend first then go on a trip. My experience is 85% of dates are girls already got feelings for someone else, or they have some strange expectations of nearly instant marriage, and family. There for a free dinner and maybe they’ll hookup, but you’re not her first choice. Around 70% of girls come over and make…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 09:10 PM
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I’m blackpill all the way, girl either wants you or they don’t. If you got to spend a bunch of time and effort trying to convince her to desire you, you’re already playing a losing game no matter how it turns out.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 09:04 PM
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The 1/3 who don’t want me, guess I didn’t get the vibes right, or they thought I was less attractive in person. Or they actually did need to get home. Never works out if they don’t come over first date.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 08:58 PM
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I’m a 666 conventionally attractive man. 20% of my dates will do anything I want all night long, and wake up and start cleaning my house and making me breakfast. They didn’t know me before hopping into bed with me a few hours on a date prior. Most girls aren’t this aggressive but half the girls I go out with would be my girlfriend. They don’t really have any idea of who I am, what my character is, they just tired of dating and want a quality boyfriend and do whatever it takes to have that
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 08:42 PM
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Tinder to me is the hardest one, but I tend to like Tinder dates better, and a lot of the girls aren’t addicted to dating apps like hinge girls. My strategy is the same get platinum for 1 week. Then a bundle of 50 super likes. I just say “Hot look, let’s go out” or “I need you in my life” on a super like. Then you’re at the top of her message queue. Usually lands me 3-5 great dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 08:38 PM
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Yea I do the same stuff, just when I ask them over 30% say no. I prob could’ve predicted they would be into me or not the second they laid eyes on me and the reaction. It’s like girls either want you or you don’t, not much you can do about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 08:33 PM
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I’m pretty jaded about girls and I can get a date with a cute one whenever I want. 20% of my dates will do anything to be my girlfriend. I have a great looking girlfriend for a year now that looks like a young Lana Rhoades. She’s obsessed with me, but goes totally mental emotionally sometimes, and has double standards. My last girlfriend I found out would go out with her friends with guys that had a cool party or table at a nightclub. She would do drugs and cheat on me, her friends told on her. …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 08:08 PM
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Yea I think the general commonality in dating apps success is looking attractive with great photos and/or a career she can verify online. If you put your a surgeon at a particular hospital and you got some great travel photos, you are going to slay the ladies online.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 07:52 PM
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The killer parts of my profile is one shirtless photo of me, I’m not buff, but I look good. Then attaching my Instagram to my profile. Without those 2 things matching is a struggle. Online verifiable career and a linkedin profile she can find is a big deal too. Guys only having six pics that are not total bangers and a vague job description, I believe is most guys problem with dating apps and not getting matches.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 07:47 PM
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The one thing that would improve dating apps immensely is having a lie detector test before going out with them with 2 questions. Are you still hooking up with your ex? Do you have 2+ situationships already? So many girls on those apps are just messing around, in search for a guy in their head that doesn’t exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 07:36 PM
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This last round of dating apps before finding a new girlfriend. I put a shirtless pic mirror selfie of me lying in bed. The picture worked really well, matched much better. Skin sells. My current girlfriend has it as her background on her phone, I’m not really muscular, pic just looks good.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 07:31 PM
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What’s your age, how would you rate your looks. That would not work for me very well.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 07:20 PM
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I don’t think most people here are lying, most the girls on the apps are going on dates quite often, there are men out there that are taking them out.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 07:18 PM
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A 3-4 girl soft harem is too much for me to deal with for more than a month. I end up not even enjoying having 1 girl leave and another show up. Good for my ego for a bit though. I have the same amount of success with girls average to super hot. I’ve had super hot ones that wanted me really bad hooked up immediately, and 5s that didn’t like me at all. I’ve never been able to distinguish differences in what type of girl is going to want me or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 07:15 PM
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What makes your close rate so good, do you vette them out to see if down before, how do always get them over? Think dating apps are just implied hookup apps, been around 150 dates, 1/3 where they didn’t come over, didn’t really hear from them again, if you don’t escalate seems like it’s over. All 5 of my girlfriends off the apps got into my bed within 2-3 hours, some didn’t sleep with me first night, on 2nd date they did.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 07:07 PM
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That’s never worked for me except the time I was in Colombia with Tinder. There’s usually some implied I want to be your girlfriend too with the hookups with me. So they just know you’re visiting and hook up realizing not going to see you again?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 07:02 PM
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What do you do on dates, are you hooking up with most of them? I do a casual dinner date then ask them over for glass of wine or joint. 1/3 not interested, 1/3 come over and make out, 1/3 jump into bed. Half down for second date. No difference really no matter which app.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 06:35 PM
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Sounds like you got a great angle to attract certain types.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 05:50 PM
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Very light filters and subtle facetune edits make a big difference. I had a girl do this for me, made an instant impact on matches and getting messaged first.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 05:29 PM
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Congratulations on being the first woman in human existence that’s not attracted to physical features and resources. Just brains, character, and aura your halo shines so bright.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 05:27 PM
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If you’re smart boring and not cute, no girl desires your brain.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 05:14 PM
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Smartest guy I know is a virgin, but yea girls like intelligence. Character is not easily identifiable unless you’re around the awhile, but sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 05:09 PM
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What’s in the background of the pics, what’s full optimized mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 05:06 PM
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Yea you can’t name one, compatible just means that you love being around that person.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 05:00 PM
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Never knew a guy this successful on Tinder, what’s your profile like?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 04:59 PM
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His profile got to be different somehow. He’s getting the matches. What does he say? Most of the time I just basically ask girls out within the first few exchanges.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 04:58 PM
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Why do you think your profile works? Do you have an instagram too?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 04:54 PM
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What are girls attracted to then? They see the tall, buff, lantern jaw, hunter eye man, once they find out he makes good money and has large pp, he’s a whale of a catch. Girls may have their guard up to him bc they know he has his way with girls, but they’re still attracted to all those things about a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 04:51 PM
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What’s special about the short average guy, what’s he doing online to land the dates?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 04:44 PM
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All girls are attracted to the same thing they just not going to get everything they want in a man. It’s more like supreme pizza is her favorite but she’s not getting the peppers and sausage. All girls want tall, strong, big d, money.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 04:42 PM
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I say basically the same thing, no guy is hot enough to take some mirror selfies, out having drinks, holding a dog, and they went to a wedding one time for their pics and expect to get girls wanting to go on a date with a basic profile. Show you got a real lifestyle that she wants to be part of, that gets the cute girls swiping right.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 04:40 PM
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Girl monkey brain fully activates once she is kissing and has verified the 666 and she’s attracted. This situation for girl is more exciting than a hot guy who’s just hot. Compatibility ultimately is finding out you love to be around that person, it’s separate from attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 04:35 PM
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I cannot resist a beautiful woman who desires me. She may not be girlfriend material, but basically. Don’t know any single guy that routinely turns down attractive women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 04:26 PM
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Dude is charming too, girl monkey brain is activated, she’s excited at getting the chance having a total package boyfriend. Not enough time to understand compatibility, she’s just living in the moment happily being seduced.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 03:38 PM
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You’re talking about who you’re likely going to end up with, not what you’re attracted to. If you’re on a date with a tall handsome man, you enter is nice house, and things escalate and girl pulls out an above average d, it’s like triple 7 jackpot to that girl, she excited and thinking about compatibility later, girls lust for men. The opposite can be true if it’s small, she’s going to be very disappointed he isn’t 666. Girls by default want everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 03:28 PM
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666 guy who is handsome and fit is firing on all cylinders with attraction. That man encompasses all of what women want, instant husband material. They can get more attention from girls than the hot tall muscular guy. You’re not black pill, you’re talking like a blue pill that girls are looking for specific criteria. They aren’t, all girls want tall big d money maker with a handsome face and looks strong. It’s embedded in girls dna to want those things, that’s why 666 man is such a well known co…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 02:50 PM
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There’s a red pill for girls that talks about this using guys, how to manage dating multiple guys at the same time, how to get the bag, or the tall muscular guys with abs as your sex toy. It’s toxic and shitty and some girls take the advice via memes and female motivation (ie Andrew Tate for girls) influencers to heart. It’s a lot more pervasive and effective to girls who date than people want to admit, but it’s not most girls. So I agree with your post.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 02:38 PM
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Girls like to feel small it turns them on, big muscular men are the most desired men. I think the appeal for girls goes beyond feeling vulnerable, big guy makes her feel more safe too. Bad boys and nice guys both get girls, I think the nice guy route can get you more girls easier, you just need to escalate effectively. Not presenting yourself as a bad boy player actually puts the girls guard down and can make her chase you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 02:31 PM
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I agree the concept that nice guys and bad boys can’t get equal amount of girls is one of the most overblown concepts. I would go as far to say that being a nice guy that just escalates effectively will get you more pussy quicker. Many girls are going to have their guard up for a bad boy player, nice attractive guys are wolves in sheep’s clothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 02:23 PM
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Women make it hard as hell when you try to leave them, they break in, make threats, or get violent. Women rarely respond rationally when you say you never want to see her again.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 01:48 AM
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Cool white knight comment, no one is talking about a woman getting hurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 07:55 PM
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It’s not a big assumption. If you make out with 20 girls at least 1 will do this same move where she’s overwhelmed by very simple forms of intimacy, then doesn’t go further than that with you. It means she don’t want you that bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 06:58 PM
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It’s not about sex, it’s making sure her own very limited physical boundaries match hers in order to control him. She’s baiting him to open up the boundaries once she secures marriage, controlling physical behavior likely continues after marriage too. If she gets him off multiple times a week and has real lust for him then I’m wrong, but I doubt it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 06:47 PM
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So he’s your best kisser ever and you let out this unholy sound just by grazing your lip with his hand. What did you do to him after this?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 06:33 PM
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If she acts totally ridiculous to basic intimacy while kissing, any normal guy chalks that up as a L and moves on.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 06:26 PM
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Any guy that has dated has been out with the girl that acted like touching her after a kiss was just too much to handle, it’s a lie. You show those girls the door, you finally found the guy that will put up with it and put him on a fake pedestal, congrats.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 06:18 PM
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You’re not reading between the lines, she’s acting like rounding first base is something she can achieve a feeling better than an orgasm. Now he knows ton respect her physical boundaries to a ridiculous level. She’s controlling him and not satisfying him by acting like simple intimacy is just way too much for her to handle.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 06:11 PM
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Sometimes a masochist meets a sadist and they’re a match made in hell, congrats on all your virginity you actively promote. “The insufferable virgin strikes back” ha just wow.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 06:00 PM
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He brushed his hand across your lips and you flipped out on him and screamed an unholy noise, now he knows better? I’m not mad, I’m just happy I don’t have you as my girlfriend, you sound controlling to an insane level
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 05:54 PM
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While there’s some guys that are good at the club and some are good at online dating. They both similarly are difficult. Small percentage of guys having most of the success of getting girls for both.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 05:07 PM
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You sound pretty absurd, dating you sounds like walking on eggshells if intimacy, what girl doesn’t want her lips touched during kissing, good grief.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 05:04 PM
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There’s a certain confidence that all guys seem to have who get girls easily. How much it affects self esteem and emotional state is up for some debate. Some guys feel terrible about themselves as a whole, but the fact they get female affection helps them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 04:40 PM
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Any girl people would recognize as cute and makes herself available to a guy, gets the guy. Even most of the time even if he’s married. Guys don’t turn down cute girls that often.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 04:36 PM
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If your definition of a 6 is still fit and classically handsome and 9 is super hot then yes. Players these days of really cute girls with options need to be outliers of something or combination. For example, if you’re 666 man you’re in the top 1% with that combo, and unless you’re also handsome you still won’t just get dates whenever you want. Girls don’t recognize how rare some guys are.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 04:29 PM
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Gold, I wish I carried these 4 around at 22. I’m 43 now and have 15k/mo alimony going for 10 years now to a girl I was married to for 6 years, she fell out of love and doesn’t care if I live or die. I’ve gone bankrupt over alimony twice, I also have 2 kids with her that she’s went to court to try and take away from me, I have no criminal record and I love my kids. I just happen to make millions for a few years and once she found out she could retire a multimillionaire it was over for me. I’ve al…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 06:01 PM
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Depends upon the woman, and what value to her the unattractive man has to offer. Some guys just going for best looking guy, most want some combination of looks and other aspects of their lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 05:52 PM
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4 guys I know are on T, they all think most men and I should be on it. The problem is your natural testosterone will eventually stop being produced. So you can get stuck shooting T in your butt forever. If your testosterone is low, then I do think it could benefit you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 10:26 PM
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Women do this too because they don’t think the man has enough value to consider for ltr. Most often the men are doing that to girls because he wants someone prettier or better personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 09:51 PM
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Western world has lost its way from morality and the desire to make other people jealous. Too many women look up to Marlilyn Monroe and Kim Kardashian, and men look up to Dan Bilzerian. If you can achieve a level of attractiveness and success you can live out their sick depraved fantasy that contains notoriety and perception of status. What we should be promoting is being a ho as a dating strategy is irreversibly damaging to your mental health, body, and soul, equally to both men and women. Tryi…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 06:40 PM
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Men have spent thousands of years writing their rules of religion and morality, conquered and organized into countries with governments. Women have spent most of that time fighting for their own equal rights in these systems. Why do women have to do this? Because men want to control women’s sexuality and it’s been demonized since the beginning of time. A Handmaids Tale isn’t considered just fiction, it’s considered a plausible outcome based on thousands of years of female oppression.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 05:21 PM
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SMV dating market is as unfair and unequal as the economic market. People going to complain. Men online come up with these crazy theory constructs like red pill, alpha/beta/sigma, chad/normie/stacy/becky, or here douchebags vs nice guys. It’s all a cope of every man’s desire to have a multitude of attractive options who desire him, which seems like it’s a small percentage of men who can get all the girls. You want to analyze what makes women continually drawn to the same men who have women chase…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 04:53 PM
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OP is on some Elliot Rodger style rant, players get and attract girls. Sometimes they douchebags, often times they just attractive chill cool dudes who girls want to fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 04:23 PM
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Men can spread their seed, women can’t. So men are less picky with sexual partners, women are more picky. I didn’t come up with this concept, it’s literally how most female animal species are with mating, more selective due to female biological constraints of having to bear a child. This is an evolutionary theory taught in biology class. I’m not breaking any ground here.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 04:17 PM
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Girls wish to carry on their genetic code, same with all species on earth. Animals don’t think about it, they just inherently do. We are also animals who wish to make more of us. It’s better to mate with someone well adjusted and attractive to opposite sex. It’s encoded in all beings to desire that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 04:08 PM
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Women are usually more picky with sexual partners, because she can’t spread her seed like men can, she gets a few chances to do that with 1 or 2 men. She isn’t thinking about her own genetic immortality when she gets with a guy casually. However sex and genetics are wound tightly together because natural selection all beings inherently abide by to continue the species, even humans. Girls don’t want short, dumb, ugly guys, because they are not as good at mating and living happy easy lives, so bet…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 04:03 PM
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Women aren’t that good at evaluating the value of men, because getting guys is so easy they just think he will value her. They get a guy invested in them, they get good sex, they happy, but get grass as greener thoughts and keep looking for other men behind their boyfriend back. They cheat and it’s with a guy that doesn’t value her, quickly doesn’t work out, then runs back to be with her man. I’ve dated a couple of girls like this, you find out and they tell you it’s a lie, and just want to stay…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 03:11 PM
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Like I said no one is a Chad that bangs the hottest Stacies just by walking around. We just associate guys we perceive as doing that is being like a Chad. I’m good at online dating and sleeping with them within 2-3 hours of the date, I picked up girls starting jr year of college, meet them at parties and just start making out. I don’t look like a typical Chad, but I’m in the category of knowing what it feels like to be desired like Chad the idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 02:23 PM
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Girls hookup usually with guys that do hookup with relative ease, I do think that’s an interesting phenomenon, they aren’t mostly douchebags, they just gave a knack for picking up pretty girls. They also may know he’s a player with a high body count, which I also find frustrating when I hear women complain about being ghosted, it’s like girl you know he got 3 other girls and slept with 500 already, what did you expect to happen. I’ve heard reason why girls like players is biologically girls want…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 02:17 PM
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No one is Chad, it’s just a concept of a guy that gets laid about as often as he wants, which is usually represented by a tall buff masculine man. If a guy regularly gets with or dates girls society would deem as attractive (Stacy/Becky), and you can easily accomplish that basically whenever, you’re some form of Chad. Normie has to rely mostly on luck and circumstance to get sex or relationship. Incel is unable to achieve any level of affection. So they are jealous of Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 05:23 AM
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I think we have a vision in our head of the horny douchebag advertising himself like that to get low hanging fruit. Op really focused on this concept. I would say that situation represents 7% of hookups. Most players just by either dating or being where girls are, talking to her and asking her over. She agrees to be alone then you hookup. You can act however you want, she doesn’t necessarily know if you’re a player or not. Casual sex is not usually some business negotiation where you lay your in…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 05:13 AM
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Had me in first, if someone really wrongs you I don’t think you can take them back. They happily to come back to you for a reason, that’s them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 10:45 PM
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Ugh until that therapist I was just happy having a pretty girl with no baggage and a source of income, so she isn’t bothering me for money. Now I got my guard up, pretty girls be all over you acting like they in love, then sneaking something behind your back sometimes, got to keep your eyes open.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 06:06 PM
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If she was hot and sweet and desired me a lot, why not? I had a beautiful therapist I dated for 3 years, that chick always cheating on me, says she wasn’t but her friends told on her. What’s wrong with Snap girl? Seems harmless, guys don’t even know her real name, no OF.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 05:55 PM
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Had a gf one time making 3-7k/mo off guys from Snapchat. She prob focusing on the simps maybe she doing that with hot guys too, never noticed. She never asked me for money and seemed loyal so no big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 05:50 PM
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Girls want both handsome (genetics) and successful (security) at the same time, but those guys are too hard to lock down. So she may play around with Chad, while looking for best combination of looks and lifestyle she can get for a ltr.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 05:47 PM
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What do they do on Snapchat, flirt with guys she never going to meet? I’ve had some girlfriends on snap so curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 05:42 PM
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Oh geez I know it, it’s red or black pill for me. Every girl on here wants to tell you almost all girls been with only 6 dudes, and guys on here trying to say chicks don’t have libido and that’s why dating market sucks. Nah, she just don’t think you’re good looking or have anything she wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 04:42 PM
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You can get by with spending $30 on a girl on a quick dinner date and they won’t care. Let her talk, bring her back to your place for a glass of wine or joint. Make out with her, and just go from there with the relationship or not. You got a cute date who’s into you taking the night to hang out, what more do you want, cheapest best entertainment you can get. Yea most girls suck and think about themselves, so what, you got a date talk, kiss her and have fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 03:33 PM
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Still think that’s different from being friendzoned. I had sex with 6 girls in a row one time that had a boyfriend already. They would talk about their boyfriend and the annoying things he does. They would come by or was in a group. Girls are cheaters, too easy for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 01:38 PM
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She’s your friend decent chance she might have feelings for you, if she hates you for trying then whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 04:48 AM
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If you’re a guy and you’re getting dates, you’re not picky. Guys only can get dates consistently with girls in their league or below. Girls can date out of their league and have actual cognitive dissonance that they aren’t. Leads to a good percentage of girls think most guys are players fucbois who have harems or just ghost girls after sex. When you explain you’re either attracted to dark triad or out of their league they just get mad at that suggestion.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 05:58 PM
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I’ve been on 200+ online first dates the last 8 years, had 3 girlfriends off them, one for 4 years. I look young and I’m fit so I date 20-43. Girls in their mid 30s on average are lot less fun to be around, turn dates into interviews, explain to you their immediate relationship goals of marriage and baby. That they’re tired of dating games and want a husband. Either that or they divorced have a couple of kids and end goal of dating is they all move in with you and their dog rent free. Girls in 2…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 05:40 PM
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How often are you friends with girls, you mean like at work? Does someone have a girlfriend and her friends hangout with you? I think this is different from friendzone, a lot of times there’s friends of friends and you’re in some group and that girl likes you, you just end up fucking, that’s not being friendzoned.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 03:58 PM
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The deal with girls is this, you cannot instantly marry or give a baby to anyone. My friend was dating a mail order bride from some other guy and I went out with him. This group of married Russian girls all had hot guy side pieces they would meet up with and date. Another scenario I’ve seen countless times girls in their 30s are always trapping guys with babies or they meet them and a few months later they’re married. You cannot allow a girl to not play the long game with you and fall in love, s…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 03:46 PM
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How did you bridge them to romantic? Why do you think you haven’t you formed a relationship from lust?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 02:42 PM
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Women file for 80% of divorces because they actually don’t like marriage, the only thing they like about it is getting the security in life they crave. Once they get that marriage they know the courts will swing in their favor when she wants out and she will get child support and alimony so she can keep the same lifestyle. Guys should not marry, once my wife of 10 years found out she was going to get millions and 15k/mo for next 20 years because I started a business. After that, I couldn’t do an…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 01:39 PM
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I think it’s the opposite, it’s a warning not to. Girls in their 30s that been dating for 20 years are not pleasant to be around. I find their demands and requirements that you marry them and give them a baby near immediately to be incredibly off putting. What is great is having a girlfriend that wants to have just you for many years and fall in love, then have a family together. If you’re out with an attractive woman in her mid 30s and she’s telling you I’m not dating, I’m trying to find a husb…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 01:18 PM
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The precarious spot is more like striking at the right time and making her make a decision. This is where she needs you in her life because she is feeling lonely, she’s not dating anyone, but you draw a line in the sand that you want her romantically or nothing at all. This sounds ridiculous writing it out but guys think they can break down a girl, but you know guys say they were friends first, there’s something like this where the guy stood up for himself and demanded more and she thought it wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 01:07 PM
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Doesn’t often workout but sometimes it does, I don’t think you can possibly understand that most guys never get choosing signals, most guys never get a girl who casually wants them. It’s easier for you to sit back and say it’s pointless and stupid, it is, but this is what they got.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 06:44 AM
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Yea it sometimes works and you have to make her jealous or put her in a precarious position when she is single and alone. It’s not ideal, I go on an online date, I can tell the moment she lays eyes on me she’s down to fuck or not. You want to exchange that feeling for a girl to navigate for months or years? Guys will because dumb ones get oneitis and no girl casually wants them, and that’s all they got, it’s pathetic and sad, but sometimes occasionally it works out.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 06:34 AM
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Ideally you should just chase girls that liked you the moment she laid eyes on you. However, some guys don’t get choosing signals from cute girls. You can get out of the friendzone by proving SMV value by having a cute girlfriend as cute as her. It will make her jealous that she lost your attention and you can circle back around. Another way is you wait around for her to be lonely and be enough value for her socially that she doesn’t want to lose you, so you get with her as bait to even allow th…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 12:46 AM
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If you’re a girl in your 20s and look presentable in a swimsuit and have an okay face, practically no guy no matter how hot or rich won’t take you out for a few drinks and have sex with you. She just has to make herself available. If this happened to guys that they could just get with the hottest girls on instagram within a 50 mile radius easy and they would try to have sex with him. Try telling that guy in his 30s that’s slept with a ton of 9s and 10s, he has to give up hot girls with big boobs…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 12:22 AM
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You should if you can get a girl that had a genuine interest in you for a romantic relationship from the jump, but for some guys they navigate a girls friend zone, doesn’t sound fun to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 12:14 AM
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It’s oneitis and the only way some guys are going to get a decent girlfriend, it occasionally works out.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 11:57 PM
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The reason the wall is a concept is because she kept dating guys that weren’t going to be exclusive with her. It’s like feeling sorry for someone for being fat when all they ate was fast food and candy bars. These girls know they are dating players, they could’ve attempted to maximize with guys that wanted to be in a real relationship with them before they were in their 30s, but thought those guys were boring and beneath her in her mind while she allowed herself to enter harems of desirable men …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 11:22 PM
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I do think when women talk about men they are discussing the ones that date regularly or usually have a cute girlfriend. There’s not really any girls that exist that desire any man that can’t do that, so the rest aren’t worth talking about. For guys we reference the 6.5-8.5/10 cute attractive girls that have decent bodies that keep dating around and with elite level guys, Chad, athletes, rich handsome men. The concept to these girls of having a 666 man which is less than 1% of guys in their age …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 11:16 PM
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Dating apps are the place where women don’t want to be realistic, it works for a date, sex, and entering a harem for them 97% of the time. Girls have a lot of fun on dating apps, it just ends up taking something from their soul and psyche.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 09:45 PM
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Completely what the wall is, its I no longer can date and have sex with the status quo top men that I thought for sure I would end up marrying.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 09:41 PM
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Women go on a lifestyle, status, and trophy man pursuit for something that doesn’t exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 01:49 AM
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The more you can get pair bonding, on average more than 2 kids, and happy families raising those kids, the more productive and happy society you’re going to have. Most girls would rather delay that as long as they can while having fun, there’s exceptions with women that loves kids and having babies but I wouldn’t say that’s most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 01:21 AM
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For sure, it was thousands of years of society of what works through trial and error to keep the peace and the men working. Give most guys the chance at a girl and a family and you get organized society.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 01:05 AM
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What society does to oppress them is play around with their need for security to get them to eventually settle with 1 guy and a family. When you consider 80% of divorces are filed by women there is something about this system they are unhappy with. If you give a woman security and she has some beauty to work with I think most women would be like Jennifer Lopez. Hop from engagement to marriage, get bored and out of love, then move on to a new love another engagement. It’s basically using guys for…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 12:58 AM
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I see what you mean, the only time I’m turned off by commitment is if she dangles sex and pulls back on passion as the trade off. If you can’t just be attracted to me and want me without making me say I’ll be exclusive with you then forget it. It’s not sex I’m concerned about it’s that you don’t have any lust for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 10:05 PM
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Obviously you haven’t been to the Middle East, it’s different, a man’s world over there. Lot of women in full covered hijab, they’re oppressed to point they have to rely on men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 04:59 PM
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In any organized society structure women chase the top men in it. It’s only when we oppressed women to the point they needed a man to live a decent life did that temporarily change. They still do this in many countries, if you give a man a woman and a family he has something to work for, but this isn’t necessarily what most women want. They are socially conditioned and especially still in Muslim countries forced into it because they don’t have rights. Western world women are now free and they we…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 04:35 PM
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You can get choosing signals from females anywhere, if you’re not looking for those before an approach you’re going to face lot of rejection.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 03:47 PM
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Lyle Lovett
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 04:54 AM
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For sure, you kinda ugly dude with really hot chick people also assume you got a giant wang.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 09:24 PM
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The women want me, I go to a place with a guy friend later and the regulars and bartenders hit on me. They do it because of the girlfriends I’ve brought in there or hot. Makes girls curious about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 09:23 PM
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Get a sexy classy girlfriend and take her around town, everyone treats you better, and other girls want to get with you. If people see when she cuddles on you, people will watch in jealousy. Having a beautiful woman is a man’s social proof and clearest sign of high value.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 04:16 PM
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You want a body for a month or so, after that you’ll slowly crave their soul.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 04:03 PM
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If you had a super hot chick that wanted to get with you all night long you would care. There’s dating app type of girls, that go on bunch of dates with best thing they can get.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 04:17 AM
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I've watched a bunch of his videos, I think he's a modern dating analysis savant. Interesting for both guys and girls to see how male and female sides navigate the dating world. Once you start understanding most single girls you meet are navigating the fuckzone of a higher tier man, you can adjust your strategy and start putting things into perspective, instead of just getting mad about being ghosted or not being able to progress the relationship. There's a game going on both sides and people la…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 11:52 PM
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A situationship is where someone will get rejected or both will get bored. In most cases it's just simply a failed dating relationship before exclusivity. Unless the girl is in your social circle, I have not had or seen most situationships last more than 6 weeks. You can have 2-3 weekends where you're intense with each other, having sex, hanging out, but if you're not going to progress the relationship it usually fizzles pretty quickly and people move on. When I'm on a dating spurt you generally…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 11:41 PM
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Yes when girls are filing 80% of the divorces and half of marriages end in divorce, maybe girls loving monogamy isn’t the truth we’ve been led to believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 09:37 PM
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Sure but single girls complain publicly and over every other social platform constantly about how the hot guy and rich handsome man that girls made themselves sexually available for, who likely isn’t going to marry you and didn’t agree to take care of you for rest of your life isn’t something valid to keep complaining about. From any measure possible girls run and control the current dating market. Then when guys just want a date every once in awhile and a chance, most girls are quick to ridicul…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 09:33 PM
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Resource exploitation target lol. Yea I’d never get the girls I get if free place to stay and food wasn’t on the table.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 07:27 PM
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I’ve not met a girl that was at least cute that hasn’t been online dating specifically going after crazy outlier hot muscular guy, or every guy she can verify career online that makes $250k+ looking up to make sure they own a nice home. Then they meet this obviously top 1% guy, sleep with him, and get genuinely upset when they are ghosted. They keep repeating this process over and over and over. Then proclaim “all men and apps are trash!” when they won’t even give one above average guy a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 07:22 PM
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It’s so funny to me we assume that girls would turn down a hot tall muscular guy’s advances towards her. They don’t, they screw him 6 ways to Sunday, and are sad when he moves on. Just like you’re not saying no to a cutie girl with big naturals.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 06:59 PM
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This happened to me a few times, your girl cheating so you do and she stops it. Then she goes right back to cheating. Last one living with me, just running out door to go with her side pieces and wouldn’t leave my house due to tenant rights. What also sucks about girls cheating is it’s not just I want something different to feed my ego like guys. It’s a fantasy of leaving you, or full on trying to monkey branch from you. Girls keep cheating because part of them doesn’t want to be with you anymor…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 06:55 PM
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I could share you 10 studies in 5 minutes of research and you’d argue that I’m misinterpreting it somehow. the OkCupid data was published on their website and showed all women seem to want to chase after is the top 5% of men. Just google do women find most men unattractive and enlighten yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 05:06 PM
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Haha okay troll
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 05:02 PM
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I’m not your googler and reference provider, there’s all sorts of studies that women don’t find most all men attractive. You don’t even need a study you just need to live on this planet. They’ve showed men to women and had them rate them basically no guy is a 9. Then girls only swipe right 1 in 20 times.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 04:45 PM
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It’s not bitter, it’s backed up in studies a number of different ways. Most guys are invisible to women, zero sexual interest from looks alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 04:41 PM
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It’s related to the parent comment you downvoter. When girls look at a guy and say he’s attractive out loud, that means she would f that guys brains out no string attached. Women don’t think most men are attractive like that, most guys basically invisible to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 04:17 PM
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They will if he’s hot, she will agree to be f buddies if that’s all he wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 04:05 PM
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More like invisible in the real world, which is worse. Unless you’re offering her something really good like money or status, you have to be top 3% at least hot to get girls to want you for your looks alone, or get any noticeable attention from random girls. Also what op is talking about is not enough, if you are ugly you are going to need some actual money for lifestyle hobbies like traveling and have high social status friend groups, then some girls will sacrifice looks and will be into you, s…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 03:13 PM
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I went from average height to over 6ft tall my sophomore year of college. I also looked a bit more manly. I kind of thought sleeping around was something only small percent of slutty girls did. After I was tall I just existed and had sexual options all the time with minimal effort. I no longer thought casual sex was just for easy girls, it’s for most girls. Before I was tall, I never had a girl casually want me in my life and only had 1 girlfriend ever. After the height and masculine transformat…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 09:59 PM
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Women becomes a misandrist when she dates only in the top 10% of men out of her league that are players. She believes every guy if given the chance will be a manipulative cheating ghosting jerk. What she’s really drawn to and sleeps with is dark triad attractive men and not relationship oriented men she thinks are beneath her. Guys become mysogynistic think single dating girls primarily lust for and chase only desirable players. Then want to treat you differently when they feel like “they giving…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 09:42 PM
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I agree with first part. However, being a HVM is still important because unless you’re a significant outlier in looks or lifestyle, you’re never consistently getting girls to date you without having a nice combination of desirable traits we associate with being a HVM.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 07:44 PM
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Girls get slut shamed because they always having casual sex with top 10% of guys that get all the casual sex. Average to above average girls slut it up and accept situationships for Chad only. If the girls were being casual with guys that would happily be exclusive with her guys would see it as fine, but that’s almost always not the case. Guys not happy of always have to accept Chad’s disposed leftovers. Then girls want to make the average guy in her league wait and court her. Casual sex girl cr…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 10:03 AM
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Unless you’re a crazy outlier in one of those. You’re going to need all 3 in LMS. The more you can maximize all of them is going to directly correlate to how attractive and quality of girls you’re going to date. Status is a bit hard to define, I see it as who do you hang out with and how much fun are you. Single dating girls will check who follows you on social media to see where you are. If it’s hot and cool people, and sees you having type of fun she wants to do too, that’s the status girls ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 08:55 AM
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The problem is for dating apps is girls that are 7+/10 and look presentable in a swimsuit can nearly get a date with any guy they want, and have thousands of options. The good part is, if you act normal on the date, and act more relationship oriented you got a 10-20% chance that a first date can become a girlfriend. Unless you’ve really worked on your instagram, it’s not likely that you’re going to get a cute girl out.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 12:34 AM
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I freaking love dating apps, first dates are so fun, matching is a hit of dopamine. I don’t even talk, I just ask girls I want out. The dating app itself and 6 pics is not why I can get a quality date anytime. It’s my Instagram attached to it with me doing fun things. It’s me in the gym 4 times a week. My LinkedIn and central located zip code in decent neighborhood, after they look me up when I ask them out. I’m not near attractive enough to get dates with looks alone. More people are finding re…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 10:57 PM
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Cat is out of the bag, instagram is the biggest dating app by far. I know guys picking up chicks with LinkedIn. You can’t stop people from advertising themselves online.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 10:37 PM
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Lack of effort thinking will produce solid results. You have to put in effort to look appealing. For the girl successful in dating, they put in a lot more effort to their beauty and being appealing than most guys. If a girl works to be attractive and takes good pics, all guys want her. Guys don’t put in the effort to portray a lifestyle or work on their body. I’m just hard pressed to believe that you take any average guy, get him in the gym 4 times a week, normal bmi, has fun on weekends, goes o…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 10:26 PM
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