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Ok so people who are uncomfortable with flying in airplanes need to fix themselves? Or people who are uncomfortable riding in cars without a seat belt? It’s prefects okay to be uncomfortable with things, it doesn’t mean you’re damaged or broken. If you’re in a relationship with someone who doesn’t care about what you are comfortable with then that isn’t good. You can always self improve but that doesn’t mean you can’t be uncomfortable with things. I don’t know what white kniting is either sorry.
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/20 04:45 PM
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Everybody is uncomfortable with stuff, sexual and non sexual. It’s not starting off on a bad note. It’s not at all fixing the partner, they should be aware that you are uncomfortable with something and they make their choice with that. I agree with trauma shouldn’t define you but it also shouldn’t be ignored by the people who love you.
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/20 03:26 PM
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Sorry I was unclear, I’m not trying to say victimize yourself. A simple “I’m uncomfortable with it” is good too
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/20 03:02 PM
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It’s honestly whatever you want to disclose, you don’t even need to say anything other than it makes you uncomfortable.
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/20 03:00 PM
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Everyone is different when it comes to this. If you’re nervous I’d let your partner know that you’ve had some trauma in the past, you definitely don’t need to go into detail. There is no right or wrong way to get back into having sex again. I personally had sex immediately after with a few different people, that was my coping. If you’re really anxious about it I’d try talk with a professional if that is an option for you. I finally did after 3 years and it helped me deal with some unresolved emo…
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/20 11:49 PM
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I don’t think it’s a fear of discipline at all, I think it’s not wanting to be controlled or simply different personalities.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 03:51 PM
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Yeah the ideal situation is obviously having two parents in the home everyone knows that lol. I just don’t think it’s fair for people to shit on single moms you know? I think I turned out pretty well for being raised by just my mom too, I personally think I’d have turned out worse if my dad was in my life but everyone’s situation is different. I think kids from single parent homes can come out as an adult with as much or as little issues as kids who came from a family with both parents there.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 02:01 PM
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I totally see what you’re saying, it’s obvious that the ideal situation is two parents. I’m not arguing that at all. My last little thing I want to say is that the income can be the same as that of a 2 parent household where only one parent works (single mom can have the same job as a dad who has SAH mom or vise versa) and the child would still get the same attention as a child from a family who has 2 working parents. I don’t know if that makes sense, sorry if that’s confusing English isn’t the …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 03:45 AM
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But what makes that different than 2 parents working? People still take their children to childcare all day, so why is it different when it’s just one parent? The only difference between them is when one parent stays home and that (in my personal experience) causes greater financial issues than the single mother had. I can see the “doing the job of 2” argument but honestly if they work about 8-12 hours a day I’d say they’re away from their kids about as long as any other full time working parent…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 02:45 AM
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Lots of single moms work, welfare is there to help. I even think there’s a program for families with children up to 5 that if you make under $40,000 a year they help, at least that’s info I’ve gotten from parents I’ve talked to. And there’s always people who don’t have family but I honestly hope all parents have a strong friendship with people who can always help, it’s good for peoples mental health to have friends I think
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 02:39 AM
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That makes sense lol and I don’t think that’s very true either. I don’t know the numbers or statistics but I think there are also more than those two options. I personally know single mothers who spend the same amount of time with their children as a mother and father who both work full time, sometimes even more. You don’t need a lot of disposable income to do that, and is social network meaning friends? I think a lot of women have that, but I could also be wrong which is super sad
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 02:33 AM
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Two things. First, do you feel the same about single fathers? And second, those aren’t the only options for single mothers.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 02:25 AM
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Haha totally understandable! Glad you’re doing better now
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 10:35 PM
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I can agree with stats but that doesn’t mean all. Single parents can definitely raise kids by themselves, but I think most people don’t do it alone and usually have outside help and support from family and friends. I just think it’s unfair the amount of hate that single parents get
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 10:18 PM
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I think there’s a few reasons for that but that’s off topic, but you’re so right that it varies from person to person. I just hate that people blame single moms you know? I’m sorry you went through that, I hope you’re doing well now
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 10:15 PM
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Interesting read, thanks for sharing. And I said role model, not father figure, which is still better than nothing. I personally didn’t have a dad or father and I know my life would be different if I had, but many people I know and myself turned out quite well without a dad. I personally think I would have turned out worse but that’s just me lol (my mother is very strong and my father is not) I do understand what you’re saying though, I think we need to be more supportive of children within a si…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 09:01 PM
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Okay, I was just wondering. I don’t think it hurts the child in the long run, I think there are MANY factors that contribute to it, not solely a single parent. Plus, there are programs that help give kids role models that they may lack which is super helpful too.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 08:50 PM
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I find it quite interesting that you said, “ The lie that a single mother can raise a child.” Why do you think that’s a lie?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 08:31 PM
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I’d say they’re important because you need to be attracted to them to have sex with them
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 05:09 PM
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I get that. But your girlfriend likes it enough to go often and it’s not the terrible place you think it is (it might be but honestly there’s other places just like it) so does your uneasiness really justify you making her not wanting to go with her friends or her cousin? Does it really justify you technically letting her go but making her feel so uncomfortable about it that she doesn’t even want to go have fun, or even tell you about an invitation? You can let her know that you love her and you…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 03:08 PM
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In reality groping occurs in lots of places. Bus stops/train stations, stores, restaurants, and any other place with people. She goes to a club once a month, probably because she thinks it’s fun. I’m sure she’s aware of her surroundings, there shouldn’t be an issue with it because it’s something she finds fun and I’m sure it doesn’t happen every single time.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 11:53 AM
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Here’s some info for you, men hit on women everywhere, not just clubs. (Vice versa too.) She can get groped and hit on anywhere she goes. It’s kind of weird to say you don’t want her to go to clubs specifically but sports events and concerts (very busy and crowded places full of drunk people) are completely fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 11:28 AM
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I think that in a good start to a good relationship it is a mutual thing to win each other over. If it’s anything other than that then it’s obviously not going to be a good relationship, as one person might be more invested and interested than the other. If that makes sense lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/19 02:04 PM
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Don’t listen to reddit on what is and isn’t normal. Everyone is different. It just sounds like you haven’t found anyone you’re very compatible with yet. It’s not a big deal if you don’t have a boyfriend at 18. Focus on other things in your life. You’ll find someone when you’re least expecting.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/19 01:27 PM
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I thought the cringiest take was the whole “dying childless (ultimate failure)”
/r/RedPillWomen27/10/19 10:15 AM
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For organizing I like the dollar store (and stores like it) and Ross. For cooking and cleaning, I have found some really good low cost ideas on Pinterest, but I buy my cleaner and a large refill for it which is much cheaper too. I usually buy my meats in bulk and freeze to use later. For decorating, we use our personal stuff, like hang his instruments on the walls and our photos. I’m also a photographer and put my pictures up as well. We each have our own space to do what we want with. I’m not s…
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/19 07:53 PM
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I’m the same. My husband and I had sex within the first couple days of knowing each other, had kissed the first night we met. You gotta know early on if you’re good together sexually, at least in my opinion
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/19 06:23 PM
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My brother in law. My older sister had been with a pretty abusive guy, they had a daughter. She thankfully got away from him and met a new guy without kids, they were still quite young, early 20s. They’re now married, he took in my niece and has raised her since she was 2, and they have a younger daughter now too. He loves both girls, his biological and step daughter, equally and is very good to them and my sister. This guy liked to party and all that, but both him and my sister grew and changed…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 07:52 PM
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