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| 2 | Is there a good way to make my wife hate me enough to want to expedite the divorce processThis | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/08/24 04:43 PM |
| 3 | Wife started dating an older man as soon as she said, "I want a divorce"exactly I don't even drink much, not she told people I was an alcoholic I was controlling Paranoid Have no friends She stoked the flame 🔥 to burn my reputation which made me insecure. The rest of to be expected. Treacherous ......b....... | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/07/24 02:41 AM |
| 6 | Wife started dating an older man as soon as she said, "I want a divorce"monkey branching | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/07/24 02:37 AM |
| 2 | What is your attorneys hourly rate and how much have you paid already?500 per hour about 20000 I had a payment plan. They were cool about stretching it out. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/07/24 07:39 PM |
| 0 | Newly married, maybe newly divorced.I had a girlfriend once say to me that I would drive her to have an affair if I didn't stop asking her questions. Some people just aren't suited for relationships, fortunately she was just a girlfriend. You got to leave her. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/07/24 01:00 AM |
| 6 | Just discovered long affair while on vacationHow'd you find out? These women are crafty. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/07/24 09:48 PM |
| 3 | Dating after divorceVery true. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/07/24 03:50 PM |
| 5 | There is always someone elseDid she use her real name on snap? | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/07/24 08:37 PM |
| 5 | Did your Wife start seeing a Therapist before she filed for Divorce?Mine went to a therapist that her close friend recommended because her friend knew the therapist. The therapist validated all her beefs and told her to get a divorce. The wife even talked about her "fear" of dating as if to get the therapist to settle her fake fears, which she did. I know because I listened to the loud conversation. The door was open in the room. Crazy shit. Weeks later I overheard the wife telling a friend that each session the therapist tells her to divorce. "Have you divorced… | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/06/24 10:49 PM |
| 2 | How you guys fucked up in your marriages?How did you find that out? | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/02/24 02:01 AM |
| 3 | Alimony 11,000 a month for 5 years 10,000 /month 5 yearsDamn I am far less wealthy than you and hired a 500hr attorney. My logic was you get what you pay for. Get the best and I come out ahead. I ended up not paying a dime after 23yrs of marriage. Nothing. Nada. Best investment I've ever made that attorney. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/01/24 09:44 PM |
| 3 | Getting back on the horse post-divorce. Seeking thoughts and adviceGet some therapy first. You need to know thy self. The sea is full of sharks. Beware. You aren't ready yet. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/11/23 01:16 PM |
| 3 | Can you be forced to pay for your child's college education?I pay for medical insurance because it's the right thing to do, but as far as tuition. I pay a portion because she gets straight As and I'm investing in her future. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/11/23 12:28 PM |
| 6 | To sleep with your eXBlack widow | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/11/23 09:07 PM |
| 1 | the step-"dad" walking the daughter down the aisle along the bio father has to be a humiliation ritualSorry to hear about this. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/11/23 05:55 PM |
| 1 | Buying vehicle for teenage son. Whats your agreement with your ex?I had a gf who bought her daughter a car at 16. Which to me was a bad financial move considering now she is struggling to pay for her daughter's college education. Her ex didn't help with any of the car costs or related expenses, yet would drive the daughters car when she had weekends with him. Just bizzare situation all the time. and the kid crashed the car months after getting it | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/11/23 05:33 PM |
| 6 | Sex while separated, do *you* consider it cheating?Her: We need a break. I need space. So I can think about what I want. I'm not interested in any other man if that's what you are thinking. Me: 🙄 Next day- Her friend calls me. Friend: Hello, I don't want to get in-between you both, but bcxd# needs her space. Blah blah blah Me: Thank you for your concern. Goodbye. click | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/11/23 02:57 PM |
| 2 | Feel I’m heading towards Divorce? Prep question.I have a friend who owns a restaurant. Each year where does he vacation? The Virgin Islands 😏😏😏😏😏😏😏😏😏 | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/08/23 11:20 AM |
| 1 | Feel I’m heading towards Divorce? Prep question.Purchase tons of $200 my vanilla visa gift cards at the grocery store, gas station, big box store, etc. Use as a credit card once the divorce begins. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/08/23 11:15 AM |
| 3 | Feel I’m heading towards Divorce? Prep question.Get the best divorce lawyer that you can afford because he or she will be worth their weight in gold. Start asking people who is the meanest nastiest and most experienced divorce lawyer in town and do a consultation. , when you go take all your financial documents and information because if you decide to hire that attorney every second you speak to them you will be charged, so if you bring everything that you need and discuss the information at the consultation you will save a ton of money. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/08/23 03:22 PM |
| 3 | Why did I ignore all the red flags? Sex.Yeah the ones that are sexually promiscuous are the ones you really need to watch out for if you thinking about something long-term that will last because it's about discipline and self-control. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/07/23 03:25 PM |
| 4 | My ex reached out to my current girlfriendEx-wife used to do this type of thing. she also had no boundaries whatsoever. she would call people I know and ask them out for lunch just to get information on me. people would tell me these things. Even reached out to a girlfriend I had and told her that I slept at her house often. Whatever she could do to ruin any relationship she would actually carry out her plan. she is nuts. Dangerous | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/07/23 02:07 PM |
| 1 | Women don't hate nice guys because they storm off after being rejected, women hate them because they create a secret, transactional relationship without the woman's consent.Back in the day I knew this chick. She was going through some stuff. Yeah yeah.. She was vulnerable. Anyhow .... she sensed I had money. I do, but I'm low key about it. She came hard. Like a switch turned on. Like freaky x 100. I backed off after a while because I sensed some mental issues. At that point she got cold and shit became transactional and her true colors started to show. People need to give shit time. Then you will see. But being too nice gets you nothing in life at work or in relati… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/23 09:29 PM |
| 2 | If there is any human that is literally the devil, it’s my soon to be ex wife.☢ | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/07/23 03:26 PM |
| 5 | Divorcing Wife VocabularyDeflecting and gaslighting | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/07/23 10:57 PM |
| 10 | How much did divorce cost you?$18000 $500 per hour attorney Keep communications between you and lawyer to a minimum. If you do contact them for any reason make sure you ask questions at that time. At initial consultation which often is free provide all information. everything you can give them at that time. I'm not rich by any means but I have a pretty good job. I'm on a payment plan and pay $500 per month I'm pretty much finished paying my attorney in September. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/07/23 04:15 PM |
| 2 | [33M] I've Found Out My Girlfriend's [29F] Past Is Different Than She Told Me. How Should I Approach This?And the disagreements were pretty stupid like the argument from this situation basically what happened was she had a laundry basket that needed to be picked up from the laundry room and brought back to the apartment and she left it there all day so when I got home and sat down he asked me to get it and I told her basically it's been sitting there you can get it yourself and she flipped out started crying when berserk and I didn't put up with a s. Then she's like you can leave so I leave and then… | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/07/23 10:32 PM |
| 2 | [33M] I've Found Out My Girlfriend's [29F] Past Is Different Than She Told Me. How Should I Approach This?A few years ago. I was with this woman. Very self centered. Every conversation turned into one about herself. Never wrong and if you stood up for yourself she'd turn into a crybaby. Once during a silly disagreement she started her emotional meltdown. Next day I find out she called a good friend of mine and told him that I'm an alcoholic and when I drink I'm violent. I was like 🤔🤔🤔😡😡😡😡😡All absolute not true. Never touched her or visited bars or got drunk. Absolutely mental. Needless to say, I ran… | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/07/23 05:27 PM |
| 2 | Considering suicide. Divorce destroyed my life.Do not take your life. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/04/23 06:56 PM |
| 1 | It’s DONEWhat was her college major? | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/04/23 01:41 AM |
| 1 | It’s DONEDamn. What does she do if you don't mind me asking. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/04/23 11:31 PM |
| 1 | It’s DONEnice | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/04/23 08:44 PM |
| 1 | It’s DONEWhat's her salary? How long were married? | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/04/23 03:28 PM |
| 3 | Attempted to have a conversation with STBXW regarding best way for us to try and go uncontested but her attitude/tone and her fight/flight nature has me rather concerned that this will not go well as a whole.I paid 500hr for my lawyer I pay no spousal or cs. I'm on a payment plan. 500 or month. Cost 15000, but saved 20x that over the long run. Big dogs aren't cheap. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/04/23 03:48 AM |
| 1 | Wife has been having guys over within a month of separation.truth | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/04/23 04:14 AM |
| 6 | Ex wife won’t settledMy ex wife didn't seem to care about money when she was spending my money. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/04/23 06:47 PM |
| 3 | Ex wife won’t settledThey are too non confrontational at that moment. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/04/23 06:46 PM |
| 3 | Ex wife won’t settledLovely quote | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/04/23 06:46 PM |
| 5 | A good example of the emotional abuse I suffered at the hands of my (now ex-)wife. She cared more about my income than my marital fidelity. Marriage lasted 11 months before I walked out the door.Her brother had it. He father was military and was extremely off. He recently had a kidney transplant and while he was recovering at the hospital he punched a male nurse in the face who wanted to give him medication | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/04/23 07:09 PM |
| 13 | A good example of the emotional abuse I suffered at the hands of my (now ex-)wife. She cared more about my income than my marital fidelity. Marriage lasted 11 months before I walked out the door.My ex spit my face once. Then she threw herself to the ground, punched herself and threatened to call the police and say I attacked her. Then she's called my father and told him that I was verbally assaulting her. This woman used her firm credit cards and spent 15000. She called a meeting and came up with some explanation and they let her keep her job. Like nothing happened as long as she paid it back. So she used her brothers credit card to pay off that debt, then didn't pay her brother. Now th… | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/04/23 06:56 PM |
| 3 | Does this ever happen?you need to record her threatening to do x y z if you don't give her money. pretty easy to lead them down this road. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/04/23 02:25 PM |
| 5 | Does this ever happen?The great thing about people who are mentally ill is that when they rage, they are irrational and are easy to trigger a reaction that can be documented. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/04/23 12:56 AM |
| 8 | Does this ever happen?I record every call. The stuff I have on her is insane. She's like a crack addict. Whenever she is broke she asks for money. When she stalks me on social media or if my gf posts any pics she goes ape shit. She still thinks that what's mine is still hers in some way. Bizarre thing is that my family still keeps in contact with her because of the kids. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/04/23 10:34 PM |
| 1 | Spousal Support DisgustMedical expense. Please explain | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/04/23 01:10 AM |
| 3 | As a father, What things you can include in final MSA to reduce future conflict with STBXW?"all" communication should be sent using the OurFamilyWizard app. Use google calendar to make a schedule for all events. Send them to ex in advance. Will make summers, spring, and winter break much easier. Record all conversations between you and ex. save to pdf all conversations that are electronic. It is their responsibility to keep up with school communications and events. schedule separate parent teacher conferences. They are responsible for clothes, etc. when then child is at their house. K… | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/04/23 09:01 PM |
| 2 | The way I vet women after divorce is kind of coldBrilliant. Haha My ex is on most of those | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/03/23 02:15 PM |
| 2 | The way I vet women after divorce is kind of coldOr women who generally think that anything they do is the best and encourage others to do the activity. | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/03/23 02:12 PM |
| 1 | The way I vet women after divorce is kind of coldYes. Exactly | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/03/23 02:10 PM |
| 2 | The way I vet women after divorce is kind of coldI knew a woman in her mid 40s. A lot of her friends were from high school. Classmates. Never met any of them, but she would always emphasize that they are married with kids. Blah blah. She'd always visit locations where her classmates lived. Often stay with them when out of town because she was a cheap ass grifter. Liked to have her independence as she called it. Trust her unconditionally. Like an adult teenager. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/03/23 07:05 PM |
| 6 | The way I vet women after divorce is kind of coldTell me more. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/03/23 03:24 AM |
| 1 | My biggest fear is that a judge will rule that my stbx and I will still be financially intertwined after divorce? How likely is this?Judges are biased as F. Hopefully your lawyer has a good relationship with court. That's key. You can do research and see the outcomes of cases with various attorneys. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/03/23 10:54 PM |
| 0 | As a woman who finds herself dating a lot of divorced men, what should I ask to gauge if he is in a healthy place mentally for dating post divorce? What should I watch out for?Yes, simulations are important. Take notes. Evaluate. Takes time. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/03/23 03:46 AM |
| 1 | What a morningMy ex was like this. 0 to Bipolar in 3secs. Fortunately I got enough threats on audio 🔉 . Then she'd flip the narrative and slander me to my own family. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/03/23 07:48 PM |
| 5 | The BEST parts about being divorcedNot having to constantly put out financial fires and started. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/03/23 10:51 AM |
| 13 | The BEST parts about being divorcedIn laws. Can't stand them. Always secretly borrowing money from her which came from me. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/03/23 07:30 PM |
| 6 | The BEST parts about being divorcedHolidays. You have a few days off and she plans to go from house to house to visit relatives. Exhausting. Just enjoy life now. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/03/23 07:28 PM |
| 0 | Elon Musk’s Friendship With Sergey Brin Ruptured by Alleged Affair - Guess how much his cheating wife's going to get after the settlementWatch your women around Lon. I imagine his associates keeping their chicks at home from now on. No more get togethers. | /r/PussyPass | 25/07/22 08:17 PM |
| 0 | Elon Musk’s Friendship With Sergey Brin Ruptured by Alleged Affair - Guess how much his cheating wife's going to get after the settlementLon is a Playa. You go boy. | /r/PussyPass | 25/07/22 08:15 PM |
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