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I feel this so hard. I've got a guy friend that pulls another common trick: the old, "You have to tell me to do / remind me that / x, y or z" Women are not only relied upon to figure out others needs and preferences but these lazy arses want us to do that *without" expecting them to do the same in return. They make out that it's a special, extra effort for them to remember anything significant about our wants, needs, preferences, tastes on their own. And it is, but it's an effort both parties mu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 02:26 PM
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That part about men being more scared to act alone is very true. Very true I just wanted to add that I actually do love having female* friends. they are adventurous, deep and make me laugh my ass off, as well. But, meh, these friends are less accessible than usual at present and that's why this realisation about men being emotionally draining has smacked me in the face. It's hard to watch a friend being drained by another bad friend, and I have to ask how many people feel that's what's happening…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 12:22 PM
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Haha, beers. But also a sense of humour and ability to stand by what they are. I like male friendship for the upsides but the downsides are wearing on my sanity. I've got plenty of crap to deal with as is. And who tf wants to play mummy to a bunch of adult males and carry them all to term, when all that's gonna happen is that "baby" will try and clumsily sleep with them later, because no one else cares about their lazy ass bs? I'm like, "yeah, you can take me to that feminist island utopia any d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 11:59 AM
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That's true. I've had the same realisation before when watching male freinds chatting with each other. At risk of taking the focus further in a male direction here, I believe that the men's lib subreddit has been helpful in my seeing through Cis male emotional laziness. The guys on that sub are perfectly able to talk about emotions, and are happy to make an effort to handle them as a group. It just sort of underlines how lazy the majority of their peers are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 11:52 AM
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We've all done it to some extent, I guess. That's why this sub is so necessary.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 11:46 AM
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To be more specific without being too specific, ha, I find that Cis male friends are universally poor at ringing me up to see how I'm doing; asking how I'm doing at least once in every conversation; and discussing emotions at all, without constant prodding. Yet they love it when I do those things. It's like they think it's some free service I'm biologically Programmed to provide, instead of like, me being a good friend. They don't seem to think that it's normal to do this sort of work to ensure …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 10:44 AM
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Good on you. I've not been brave enough to stick to that guideline myself in every situation... But I do make a mental note of it, if it happens. And proceed with caution. Sometimes you can change other peoples shitty communication styles, but it's good to do it without any illusions about who they currently are. It's tough out there
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 10:40 AM
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bare minimum is 1) they listen to you, and by that I mean, you try to talk and they listen. If you don't try you don't get, but if you do they should bloody show respect. 2) they return your calls within a week, preferably sooner. a real friend will text you at least, within that time, and say I'm getting back to you when [job contract, family emergency, random other disruption] ends 3) They show normal trust levels as the friendship builds, and don't constantly push you to prove your worth to t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 03:21 AM
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wow. How does this sub continuously tap into my subconscious? For background, I've got almost all male friends at the moment, all of whom I slowly realise, have wangled me into a position of being the emotional servant in the relationship. When my female friends were more present than they currently are (travels etc) I didn't notice it but now I'm like man. You dudes are all engaging in parasitic behaviors all the time with me. That by itself is bad but it makes me question how often I've passed…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 03:12 AM
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More like "demonstrate against" but, yes, a few friends from my school days unfortunately went down that path and I watched their descent. Orientation did not play a role in it, not in their cases.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 05:56 AM
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Sorry to hear that. Is that really justification for claiming all nazis are probably closeted queer men tho? My left wing queer friends don't deserve to be tarred with the same brush as your husband. And none of the men I know who've come out have sided with the far right. So, that is where I'm coming from.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 02:03 AM
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I absolutely agree. It's like, just watch the average free porn site and you'll see how men are trained from their first jerk off session to conflate sex with violence. No closeted gay man is gonna watch that crap when he's in the privacy of his own home, only straight guys would be tempted to do so. There's no need to pick on sexual orientation when there is sooo much misogynist coaching aimed at straight men, in this world. It's obvious where their bigotry comes from.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 09:42 PM
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not unable - unwilling. I mean, even women and girls (looking at you Greta) stand up to the wealthy men on a regular basis. Even in countries and eras where these men have the absolute right to f*ck with them. There is literally no excuse. turning their anger back on us is pure cowardice and impotence on their part.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 09:35 PM
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Well if that's what un-ruined men look like, I hate to think what other horrors the patriarchy has in store for us, yet...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 09:30 PM
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I don't even know what to say to that. 'Douchebag' seems too kind...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 09:21 PM
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he was very much about “equal rights.” Including making his gf pay half of HIS mortgage if she wanted to move in, because it was “fair” I'd be like, "no way mate. haven't you heard of the pay gap? I should be paying 45% at the very fucking most. Not just on the mortgage but on EVERY. DAMN. THING."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 09:12 PM
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Exactly zero men that I’ve dated have noticed that I have leg hair yeah, it's mainly only people on trains and walking down the street that stare and give you a hard time. If you look at them you'll realise that they can't shave off their ugliest features and therefore, are probably just jealous!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 09:10 PM
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Yes, share it please, op. this guys name should be spread far and wide so his family and friends can react appropriately. My reaction is that I want to feed that orange neckbeard into a combine harvester and watch it consume that "witty" smirk inch by pube-covered inch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 10:39 PM
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As if it's so hard to distinguish between furniture and dust, between floor and stains, between counter and crumbs that they just wouldn't know where to start separating them with a frickin' cloth! Ha.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 10:21 PM
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not just people we date, to be fair. People we're friends with, too. I've just recently entered my fifth decade and only now have I realised how I look at people in terms of how they could be, not as they are. It becomes obvious at this time in life because all you can think about is how much time you would have spent on better things if it weren't for that imaginary "could be".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 12:25 AM
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Hm, I was about to comment above about how single men generally earn more than single women do, and can afford to waste money on shitty takeaways. But this kind of puts paid to that theory. It's laziness, pure and simple.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 05:14 AM
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... And dish, and utensils....and a separate building, so I don't have to sit in the same room as him as he pretends not to know what to do with any of the above.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 01:00 AM
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Speaking from second hand experience, these lvm blokes are probably considered a plague in whatever houseshare they live in, so they're running to their pickmeisha to make them feel less than loathsome. Kick their sorry butts out so that they have to face the reality of society's opinions of them. It does them more good than your desperate, self flagellating kindness ever could.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 10:37 AM
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I see no problem with it. I've known women who killed themselves because of harassment, which is what this is, and it's a fucking crime. If the state won't prosecute then the public should. Treating this BS like the crime it is is waaay over due and I'm fed up to the back teeth. But maybe that's just me :D
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 10:59 PM
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Gawd, if everyone did this to their creepy inbox slime, all those guys who think sexual harassment isn't a daily event in our lives would stfu. Or at least get shouted down a lot more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 10:54 PM
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I don't know if it's a relatively small group. In my own immediate, close friends group I've known of dozens of guys who hit, stalked or raped their gf or dates, over the years. If 1 in 5 women is a victim of rape or other forms of violence we have to assume that up to 20% of men are offenders. It's a logical deduction. Simply minimising the problem, casting doubt on decades worth of research or dismissing women who are conscious of the threat isn't going to make the problem go away. But a vocif…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 06:27 AM
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lord knows those courts ain't too picky, neither...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 01:52 PM
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only thing I've ever gotten was similar: some total whiny baby trying to get me to play the world's smallest fiddle over the 'fact' that 'white genocide*' is making wonderful lads like himself consider suicide. If they're only considering it, perhaps I need to go farther? /s (I'm only including /s because of the fact that it's usually very decent people who actually go through with suicide and I don't want to trigger anyone. Unfortunately the most bona fide assholes rarely have the self awarenes…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 01:48 PM
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this is the closest to female company they'll ever get, and they know it: some ticked off woman trying to de-louse her inbox.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 01:41 PM
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"dated me for 6 years" tells a pretty sad tale. A few years back I met a guy a bit younger than me, looked a decade older, and he tried to play me for a casual relationship with frankly terrible sex and zero effort on his part. Called it "dating". Fuck off with this "dating" bs. I want an adult, not a preteen I can sneak off with during Sunday school to hang out in a parking lot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 01:36 PM
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truth hurts!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 01:29 PM
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have you ever seen a sugar daddy? They're all pretty repulsive. Even when I've been broke I've been like, "Surely it'd be easier and nicer to rob a bank than do that for money."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 01:29 PM
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I used to work in a bar. It was filled with greying, snowy haired, wrinkly, beer bellied guys who spent their lives telling themselves that. Their reward is that beer they can press their lips against in deadening, never-ending loneliness and despair. And they deserve every second of it after messing up the heads of every female they ever dated in their twenties - speaking frankly, as one of those females.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 01:26 PM
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The whole "both sides equally bad" argument seems to have been invented by a white nationalist, deadbeat, wife beating, perverted, homophobic, pointlessly rich, lousy at his job, upper management, child abusing riot cop who is in denial of his monstrous character flaws. Basically, claiming that your victims pose a threat equal to your own irrational violence is the oldest trick in the book. I like this sub is full of women who see straight through that. If incels are the offense this sub is the …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 11:00 PM
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And I'm pretty sure we all know which kind of men would be angry we don't want them that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 10:51 PM
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Well it was definitely the most demented reaction I've experienced, in a while!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 09:19 PM
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I really, really think this should already exist. It's kinda necessary to protect other women, since the system does so little to stop these guys.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 01:30 PM
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My GF calls this "eye rape". It should be legally classified as such.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 01:28 PM
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The last time I did this, the guy (6 foot something and built like a shit brickhouse) came at me with his fists swinging. GF was standing next to him laughing. She was probably glad some other woman was gonna be his punching bag for a day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 01:26 PM
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am the sister of a misogynist male, can confirm
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/20 11:32 AM
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shit, you DID NOT deserve that. I haven't even been that indifferent to a bums I saw having a hard time on the streets. At least you are free now, and happier.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 03:21 AM
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I’m always wondering why women think we don’t deserve good things there's a flair on FDS called 'social misogyny'. I think that pretty much sums it up?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 03:18 AM
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the thing is, you never know. You get a gut instinct about who will come through for ya and why, and how, but it never happens the way you think... People can still surprise you, and no amount of rules can predict what people do in an emergency. I say that as someone who's experienced a sadly large spectrum of emergencies, both hers and others', both physical and emotional. If you're in need, dial and see.... just, don't hold your breath because that's the call that's gonna separate the wasters …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 03:12 AM
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shitty :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 12:56 PM
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I can confirm. I've so far only met disabled men who are more able than able-bodied men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/19 06:42 AM
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divorce risk was higher when the wife was sick. to me that reads, "the risk of the woman finding out she'd married a LVM was higher when she was sick."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/19 06:36 AM
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I don't know why exactly why but it made so viscerally angry. I couldn't relate because I am not currently in a stage of life where I am not "supposed" to worry about my age but I swear it made me so uncomfortable. Future you looking back on that article and wishing she'd blown up the magazine's HQ /s but seriously, I got the same emotions in my 20s and I can tell you why you were pissed: society is telling you that you will disappear in 15 years. you've only got that amount of time left. After …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 06:17 PM
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