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| 1 | Are there any discords related to self-improvement & pick up?BS. Just because you have an 8-pack, 3 mansions and 10k Instagram follows doesn't just cause girls to magically land on your magic stick. | /r/seduction | 17/08/22 06:53 PM |
| 3 | Did my first cold approach todayYeah online dating & IG are a heavy numbers game unless you have a really strong profile. Also, wouldn't call myself asocial, and the number of girls I met through social circles & activities in the last year that are reasonably attractive, single and would be interested enough in me so that something can happen between us, I can count on one hand. That's why cold approach is the best avenue of meeting women for any guy that is remotely average (not a chad on IG/Tinder etc. or very charismatic e… | /r/seduction | 17/08/22 11:37 AM |
| 3 | Newly single-how do I flirt and attract menWell, you can give indicators of interest like the ones you mentioned, but most men are clueless about most of those. You can try to ramp up the obviousness if he doesn't get it. Unfortunately, the only foolproof way of meeting a guy is to approach him and try to be easy to talk to, hinting going for a coffee together, going home together etc. Otherwise, put yourself where men you would be interested could be (clubs, bars, cooking classes, dance classes etc.) Also, for clubs/bars try to be in a … | /r/seduction | 14/08/22 09:23 AM |
| 72 | Did my first cold approach todayMeeting through friends or common interests, online dating and Instagram. | /r/seduction | 14/08/22 01:06 AM |
| 2 | Attractiveness EquationAm I a fake driver while I'm learning how to drive? Am I a fake programmer while I'm learning how to program? He's learning a skillset. Not everybody is born into a masculine father who taught them all the neccesary things at an early age, being naturally fit and sporty, being naturally social and charismatic etc. | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 10:28 AM |
| 18 | Female friend is touchy with other male friends but not meYou're deep in the friendzone my man. Detach and move on. If you really insist on trying with her, distance and reinvent yourself so you're practically a different person then you may have a chance (but you should probably just move on and deal with different girls). | /r/seduction | 02/08/22 02:15 PM |
| 10 | Unpopular opinion: I hate the "chase"I don't condone this mindset/approach, but damn I completely understand. | /r/seduction | 29/07/22 10:34 AM |
| 198 | Cut off creepy friendsDamn, I cringed so hard when I read what he did. | /r/seduction | 27/07/22 11:49 AM |
| 9 | After first approach in ages I was told to kill myself. Should I continue with seduction?Ok, and then he should meet girls how? | /r/seduction | 20/07/22 10:55 AM |
| 1 | Do day game really help to get a relationship that last for like a year or more ? Or it is just for hookup ?Very sell said. | /r/seduction | 11/07/22 07:11 PM |
| 4 | Dated a 23yo girl for 2 months, but she went back to her "ex" but now she contacts me againShe didn't show up for your booked hotel that she obviously knew about, so you weren't a priority for her. Now she is with this other dude and you're basically 2nd choice waiting in line. Also sounds like she was being with the first guy mainly for his money while you were her "fun guy" on the side. She has shown a pattern of spinning multiple dudes at the same time and constantly looking for the better deal. As you said, you're slightly in love with her and probably have rose tinted goggles reg… | /r/seduction | 10/07/22 07:06 PM |
| 2 | Stats on 40 Cold ApproachesReally like the stat approach. Mine are ~45 actual approaches with stating intent (mostly nightgame), 6 instagrams, 8 numbers, 2 same-night kisses (more social circle and being at the right place at right time than actual cold approach skill imo), 0 dates, 0 lays. 6'3, 5-6/10 face, style and fitness. Also I would self assess my Game as beginner level. Stats look somewhat demoralizing but as I said, Game practiced in these sets was beginner level. Alot of nervousness, shitting bricks before an ap… | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 11:34 AM |
| 1 | How would you address someone who comes late?3 words: non confrontational callout | /r/seduction | 02/07/22 08:17 PM |
| 3 | Asking out 2 girls from same friend group?Great analogy! | /r/seduction | 17/06/22 10:20 AM |
| 6 | 25 M First ever cold approach in walmartI'm all up for humor and some self deprecation, but avoid overdoing it because you may seem like a dancing monkey and lower your value. | /r/seduction | 15/06/22 11:01 AM |
| 0 | Tinder makes me depressed!Yeah bro, I feel you. I'd say, if you're gonna have and kind of reasonable standards for women and NOT be in the top 20% of male profiles, just get off Tinder and focus on other ways of sourcing (meeting) girls. | /r/seduction | 07/06/22 11:43 AM |
| 3 | Tinder makes me depressed!Amen. Preach! | /r/seduction | 07/06/22 11:38 AM |
| 2 | 10 Things I Hate About Cold ApproachTrue. Developing a social circle is a great step before cold approaching in order to develop social skills. But I would say I have above average social circle and in the last year I met maybe a handful of eligible women, while there were thousands of girls around me in clubs or in the streets. Also, meeting women through work should in general be avoided. I assume we all understand why. It is usually go-to for people because they lack better ways of meeting women. | /r/seduction | 16/05/22 02:56 PM |
| 13 | 10 Things I Hate About Cold ApproachWhat's the alternative? Cold approach is the BEST way to meet women for any guy that's even remotely close to average. What else is there? Hope to score a jackpot on Tinder after 1000s of swipes and paying multiple boosts? Following random girls on Instagram with your couple hundred followers trying to score a jackpot? Waiting for months/years to meet a girl through social circle that you like, is single, likes you back and you click with (assuming you even have a social circle with some girls i… | /r/seduction | 16/05/22 11:28 AM |
| 62 | Went out alone to the club for the first time - got beaten by social anxietyFirst of all, props to you for pushing out of your comfort zone my friend. 2 words for you. Progressive overload. Treat this like the gym. You wouldn't expect to be a skinny guy walking into the gym for a first time and go benchpress 200 pounds. Likewise, you can't f.e. spend 10 years in your basement playing World of Warcraft then start going out and expect to become a p#$$yslayer in a week, it just isn't happening. Rather baby step than try to skip levels and fail miserably because of the comb… | /r/seduction | 18/04/22 11:05 PM |
| 1 | How to break the touching barrier with a girl without looking like a pervert?You should start with those, not stay at those. | /r/seduction | 18/04/22 04:02 PM |
| 1 | Asked for her number while she was at work, was it a mistake?Nah, they're fickle cus Instagram Tinder etc. . I'd text some more and if it doesn't work, move on. | /r/seduction | 17/04/22 08:35 PM |
| 1 | Asked for her number while she was at work, was it a mistake?I'd try perhaps one more thing then let it go. | /r/seduction | 17/04/22 08:27 PM |
| 3 | Asked for her number while she was at work, was it a mistake?It seems to me that she's interested. Being extra chatty IRL, giving you her number, asking for your number, sending you a message first.. all good signs. Then her "im not really looking for anything atm" which I think is her anti-slut defense plus a test to see how you handle it. I think you handled it well with what you wrote back since you didn't even mention it in your response and you were very cool about it, hence her positive reaffirming reply. Only potential mistake here is that you star… | /r/seduction | 17/04/22 05:18 PM |
| 7 | If you are feeling down for some weeks should your gf leave you or should she support you?I see the point of this advice, but if I was screening for a wife, I would be screening much longer than a couple of weeks. | /r/seduction | 07/04/22 10:28 AM |
| 2 | Looks, money or social status?Social status is most important. Looks alone won't make you high status. I personally know some bums with good genetics. Being good looking might make it slightly easier to obtain social status. Money, most of all, is the amplifier of who you are. If you are a huge antisocial geek without money and then you get money, you will have 3 PCs, 2 PlayStations etc. and you're not going out ever again. However, if you're already a cool person (being friendly, charismatic, partying, etc.), having money w… | /r/seduction | 05/04/22 05:23 PM |
| 1 | I haven’t been on a date in 12 years and have no friendsTerrible idea. He's lining himself up to be emotionally manipulated and used for money probably ending in a divorce and even worse mental health. What to do instead, leverage money you have to improve yourself and your life. Buy better clothes, consider hiring a stylist, buy cologne, go out more, consider joining some clubs and gyms around activities you are interested in. And I would consider paying for a dating coach. Do your research though because there is a lot of false advertisement and pr… | /r/seduction | 27/03/22 11:07 AM |
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