footy99 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
29	How do you deal with the feelings when you sense the pulling away/its close to over?	Fundamentals	footy99	/r/seduction	15/12/20 05:44 PM
9	Replied to her text late and now she ignored mine, what do you do/mindset advice?		footy99	/r/askTRP	23/11/20 10:09 PM
6	Finally swallowing TRP... How do you stop beating yourself for blue pill mistakes in the past?		footy99	/r/askTRP	30/03/20 12:53 AM
1	Plate is pulling away - what if you dont want to lose that plate?		footy99	/r/askTRP	13/12/20 07:53 PM

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11	Why do girls' feelings seem to change so quickly? How do you keep from taking this personally (your looks, personality etc) and trying to put a blame on yourself? Like I say if only I did this or said that... but sometimes you didnt really do anything and its just female nature? Thats what makes "not worth stressing over" hard.	/r/askTRP	01/01/21 04:24 AM
1	How do you deal with the feelings when you sense the pulling away/its close to over? I can relate to this. I have the same feelings but I try to really hide it/not show it because if I give in, I could really lose it all. What makes his situation hader for me/more anxiety/confusing inducing is she hasnt "left" ... just seems more distant/less intimate. its really mixed signals ever since last month when we would be seeing each other and hooking up. she still message me, respond to something, small flirting or keep me involved very minimally (memes, snaps etc) again bc of circums…	/r/seduction	15/12/20 08:36 PM
1	How do you deal with the feelings when you sense the pulling away/its close to over? what i dont understand is she hasnt "left" per se. its really mixed signals ever since last month when we would be seeing each other and hooking up. she still tries to message me, respond to something, small flriting or keep me involved very minimally again bc of circumstances but also because it seems shes not full in with me. So bc shes still around, it makes my dilemma hard. she clearly wants something with me...but def doesnt seem too serious about it. so i guess bc she does talk to me still…	/r/seduction	15/12/20 08:32 PM
1	How do you deal with the feelings when you sense the pulling away/its close to over? what i dont understand is she hasnt "left" per se. its really mixed signals ever since last month when we would be seeing each other and hooking up. she still tries to message me, respond to something, small flriting or keep me involved very minimally again bc of circumstances but also because it seems shes not full in with me. So bc shes still around, it makes my dilemma hard. she clearly wants something with me...but def doesnt seem too serious about it. so i guess bc she does talk to me still…	/r/seduction	15/12/20 08:32 PM
2	How do you deal with the feelings when you sense the pulling away/its close to over? We aren't officially together but, it's been a busy month for both of us with exams and school, so haven't seen her in 1 month. But she always keeps me around sending random memes or snaps here and there. Just feels drifted. We talked yesterday and said to see each other after the last exam...she was still a maybe/on the fence because she was planning to travel back home for the break right after. she said shell try. But I expect things will fall out, and if thats the case, i mentally said this …	/r/seduction	15/12/20 06:15 PM
1	Replied to her text late and now she ignored mine, what do you do/mindset advice? I guess they weren't "cold' replies, I just didnt feel the need to have chit chat over texts when the convo wasn't going anywhere so I would "Tap back" or reply a couple words, but I don't think I did something so serious or shut her down. She's the type to want to talk over text over nothing. I also still get snaps from her (not personal just general), so not really sure if she's weirded out otherwise why not just cut me out completely? I guess they weren't "cold' replies, I just didnt feel the…	/r/askTRP	24/11/20 04:52 PM
0	Replied to her text late and now she ignored mine, what do you do/mindset advice? I guess they weren't "cold' replies, I just didnt feel the need to have chit chat over texts when the convo wasn't going anywhere so I would "Tap back" or reply a couple words, but I don't think I did something so serious or shut her down. She's the type to want to talk over text over nothing. I also still get snaps from her (not personal just general), so not really sure if she's weirded out otherwise why not just cut me out completely?	/r/askTRP	24/11/20 04:51 PM
1	Finally swallowing TRP... How do you stop beating yourself for blue pill mistakes in the past? Thats amazing. Gives me closure. Walked right into that one lol. Great learning experience i guess.	/r/askTRP	30/03/20 05:29 PM
2	Finally swallowing TRP... How do you stop beating yourself for blue pill mistakes in the past? Thank you brother! I really appreciate this. Going to come back and keep re-reading when Im down.	/r/askTRP	30/03/20 05:28 PM
1	Finally swallowing TRP... How do you stop beating yourself for blue pill mistakes in the past? Thank you for this, much needed. I guess it does help to at least read and internalize that it gets better with time as long as I maintain the positive mindset to move on. The shitty part is, I liked this girl even when I knew she wasnt good for me and I know its way better for me. But its def my ego - I am similar. It was blindsiding and not jsut that but jumping onto another already which is what threw me off. She went from the insecure person around me and qualifies her self to stepping on me…	/r/askTRP	30/03/20 02:13 PM
1	Finally swallowing TRP... How do you stop beating yourself for blue pill mistakes in the past? Then stop obsessing about revenge or making her come crawling back and just get over her and move on. I agree and thank you for the explanation. It would be really nice to just tell my brain "move on" and so shall it be. I am asking to find ways/strategies to get over her and move on; advice, practice, reading, listening or experience from a trp mind state.l I saw what I explained just a couple days ago, so still feeling the shock and the sting while my body is physiologically gutted still. I do…	/r/askTRP	30/03/20 01:18 PM
3	How to escalate into sex Great plan. Stay mysterious from her during this time too if you guys are on a texting basis, because who knows how long this quarantine will last. You dont want to come out of it an emotional tampon and best friend. Remember, you want her to decide from now to fuck you and not do anything that would turn her off (e.g. the way you text, the frequency, use of emojies w.e). Im sure you know your game! Hope it works out.	/r/askTRP	30/03/20 12:59 PM
26	How to escalate into sex Pretty much what everyone is saying here. Just want to add something that always works for me and minimizes the stress or the point of having to ask "how to escalate" and that is: The girl has already decided way in advance, probably the day she agreed with you on the movie date, to fuck you. It takes 2 to tango, so if she has decided and stuck with it (e.g. you didn't turn her off in the process) she will reciprocate and follow but you just have to initiate and lead. Dont wait for her and don't…	/r/askTRP	30/03/20 11:44 AM
2	Finally swallowing TRP... How do you stop beating yourself for blue pill mistakes in the past? As simple as that is, it is actually is effective to think like this. I cant do anything about the past, and know one knows the future. Just make the best of each day I guess. Thanks!	/r/askTRP	30/03/20 10:52 AM
2	Finally swallowing TRP... How do you stop beating yourself for blue pill mistakes in the past? Very much needed to hear, I really appreciate that. I need to take a break and work on self-improvement for a bit. I know I am in a good position in life just need to be more confident in myself and learn to be more focused on myself even in relationships.	/r/askTRP	30/03/20 04:42 AM
1	Finally swallowing TRP... How do you stop beating yourself for blue pill mistakes in the past? Well good to know. That's the thing though is I never imagined it to be like that. Never even thought of it till now. I am just keep going to a couple points as to where I must've fucked because: 1) I know from her mutual friends thats she was so head over heals for me at the start and would risk taking a rejection by coming up to talk to me and stating how she feels about me. She was even telling everyone she was seeing me (we go to the same school) and tell me stories how she was trying to get…	/r/askTRP	30/03/20 04:07 AM
1	Finally swallowing TRP... How do you stop beating yourself for blue pill mistakes in the past? This is what I like to know and hear because that did not feel like a normal interaction no matter how much I would've done it differently- other than spotting that from a mile away and letting go. But I couldnt she played the victim and I felt bad and she was too warm. Gave her the benefit of the doubt. She seemed like she was aware and mature, always reflective about her problems and saying it as it is. I thought she was just insecure around me. I was so confident when we started and she showe…	/r/askTRP	30/03/20 03:31 AM
1	Finally swallowing TRP... How do you stop beating yourself for blue pill mistakes in the past? well her friend keeps things on the DL normally shes done it more for her self, i dont expect her to say anything and she also said she wouldnt. who knows. but also why she reached out to me last week like complimenting me on something and saying hope ur staying well. (Thought she was making progress to speak to me agian, but then saw the other guy yesterday)	/r/askTRP	30/03/20 02:33 AM
1	Finally swallowing TRP... How do you stop beating yourself for blue pill mistakes in the past? Fair point. First, her friend came onto me after knowing we dont talk anymore (and I was super upset so I did it). and Upset about how we seemed to have this connection and just blew up bc of her issues she has to work on as she said, but then starts talking to someone else.	/r/askTRP	30/03/20 02:21 AM
1	Finally swallowing TRP... How do you stop beating yourself for blue pill mistakes in the past? Thank you. yes I wish I can say it is easy and move on. What makes it harder is the fact that I dont want to say Im fully responsible for the pain I am in. Sure I was not red pill but also I feel it also involves the counter part and spending time with the wrong person. Almost like even if I was red pill it wouldnt have worked out (but wouldve jsut expereinced less pain and left on my terms)	/r/askTRP	30/03/20 01:51 AM
1	Finally swallowing TRP... How do you stop beating yourself for blue pill mistakes in the past? I am trying to but it just feels like im still in shock as I did not see signs. I dont have enough knowledge to deal with these outcomes as they came to me completely unexpected. so was hoping to find some sources that help with this healing process...try to explain what happened her.	/r/askTRP	30/03/20 01:29 AM
–	How do you be MORE romantic? How do you talk to your girlfriend different than normal friends? Improve Romantic connection? I agree - I just want to make sure I am moving in the right direction, and in fear of reaching a plateau that becomes platonic due to lack of experience	/r/seduction	24/09/19 02:13 AM
–	How do you be MORE romantic? How do you talk to your girlfriend different than normal friends? Improve Romantic connection? what are some examples of personal stuff you dont usually talk about?	/r/seduction	24/09/19 02:12 AM