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Id say I win more often but not by much. We dont but thats a good idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 02:18 AM
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Where do they say this? My wife and I have what we call a wank off where we race to see who finishes first.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 01:33 AM
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My wife bought me a fleshlight.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 10:39 PM
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Women fund their own lifestyles these days mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 10:38 PM
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The ones my wife has are all smaller than me, other than the clone a willy which is a clone of my willy, so same size.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 11:21 AM
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Most men dont filter for anything and swipe on everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 02:54 AM
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I think the kind of man in that position would complain about never getting second date. Generosity is a preferred trait in a partner for both men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 02:47 AM
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Then dont pay, no one is forcing you to, just dont be surprised if you rarely get a second date.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 02:40 AM
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Im not obsessed with money, I liked to treat my dates, I also treat my friends to a round at the bar. Its really not a big deal to me. Ive also never had a date where they didnt offer to pay their way.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 02:11 AM
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I always preferred to pay, who really wants to come across as a stingy asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 10:52 PM
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So womens hobbies dont count as hobbies for some reason
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 08:33 PM
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We can ignore whatever the fuck we want.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 10:19 AM
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So everyone can just ignore yours, cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 09:51 AM
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The title of your post literally says they shouldn't have an opinion. Opinions don't need to be fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 09:04 AM
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Thats a whole lot of words for people shouldnt have opinions because you disagree with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 08:44 AM
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By that logic you shouldn't have an opinion on half the posts on this sub or on single mums, feminism etc because you've never been interested in that lifestyle or relationship style.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 05:18 AM
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Ive had plenty of opportunity to cheat, I just choose not to because I'm not a piece of shit and wouldn't do that to my wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 03:11 AM
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Did I reply to you or are you both a purple pill woman and a purple pill man? You've forgotten to swap to your other account mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 11:29 PM
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It doesnt though.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 09:37 PM
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What a surprise, dudes in this sub disagreeing with research.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 08:33 PM
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No it doesnt, it shows that women are more socially oriented/ selfless and men are more individually oriented/selfish.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 08:16 PM
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Because some men think theyre entitled to it when the other person doesnt want it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 08:01 PM
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Research shows men are more selfish actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 08:00 PM
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Its not about being less appealing to her, its about not reading the room and picking up obvious signs of disinterest.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 12:17 PM
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Anyone who has the same problem as OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 11:25 AM
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Sounds more like some men suck at understanding and responding to social cues.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 11:08 AM
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Gods holy law doesnt mean jack shit to me. I have a good relationship but if it got to a point where it wasnt, conversations would be had and we would part ways. The only promise made exists between me and my wife and is no one elses business. If by 'duties' you mean sex then just no, its not her duty to fuck me or vice versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 09:32 AM
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Marriages can end, no one should suffer and be miserable in a shitty relationship just because theyre married. Divorce exists for a reason. There was no mention of God in my vows. You're not owed sex within a marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 08:13 AM
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No one says whatever women choose out of free will must be good, the fact that they can choose for themselves is whats good.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 05:00 AM
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Your friends/girlfriend are not women in general. Where do you live? Edit: Albania I see. Sounds specific to your area.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 01:46 AM
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I work on oil rigs and my wife is a sahm. Everyone benefits from the hard work of men AND women. Men arent the only ones working hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 12:59 AM
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Most women dont want men to take charge.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 12:10 AM
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Op claimed women were materialistic, men are also materialistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 12:09 AM
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If youre not getting what you need from your relationship then communicate that with your partner. If nothing changes then leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 10:04 PM
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And the shit women buy is for their personal use. Typical placing value on mens shit but not womens.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 09:17 PM
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Men don't lead households. Some women let them think they do but its really the women running things.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 12:03 PM
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So men are pedos?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 12:02 PM
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So are we just ignoring all the money dudes spend on gadgets, techy shit, gaming set-ups, cars, trucks, motorbikes, boats, jetskis, golf shit, fishing shit, watches, TV's, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 06:04 AM
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Show us a video of men reacting to women's drastic new haircuts or something so we can see.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 10:06 PM
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Negative rights mean freedom from interference where others have to leave you alone. Stay at home parenting requires reliance on others.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 11:51 AM
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People dont have a negative right to be a stay at home parent though as raising kids requires the labour, support and finances of others.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 10:40 AM
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I dont think its anyones right to be a stay at home parent, it needs to be mutually agreed upon by both parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 10:25 AM
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I thought you said fathers wanted to be involved but now youre saying they should be allowed to dip and not pay?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 06:55 AM
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Sure bro, if they care so much how is it that there is over $100 billion in unpaid child support in the US. Muslim countries arent really relevant in this discussion where women dont get jack shit say on anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 06:45 AM
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None of those risks are purely associated with single mothers, more like single mothers raising kids in poverty while absentee fathers fail to contribute.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 06:19 AM
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Some people dont want a relationship though but still want kids. Theres nothing wrong with doing that via a donor and using a nanny. The kid certainly wont be damaged because if it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 05:46 AM
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Having kids in a shitty relationship isn't better than doing it solo.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 04:53 AM
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They dont want the man though. With a sperm donor and a nanny they can have a child without the unwanted life partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 03:37 AM
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Never heard of him.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 02:55 AM
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No, that's just you bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 09:59 PM
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Its literally what it means bro. You cant just change the meaning of words to suit your argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 09:16 PM
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Feeling you're owed something or feeling like you deserve something is entitlement though.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 08:05 PM
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Definitely not a good look, especially when its pointed out how rapey it looks but they don't seem to care.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 11:01 PM
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I can't believe so many adult men in this thread don't understand that no means no. My 7 year old gets it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 10:40 PM
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If men dont want to be treated like rapists they shouldn't try to coerce women into sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 07:38 PM
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Doing what?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 08:28 AM
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Spoken like someone trying to justify being a creep.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 01:34 AM
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Its definitely rapey behaviour regardless of gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 11:49 PM
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That doesnt make it ok. No wonder so many women dont trust men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 11:43 PM
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You dont think any of those behaviours listed in the OP are illegal?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 11:28 PM
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People could be decent and not coerce others into sex, how about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 10:50 PM
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A lot of men partake in coercive behaviours but dont want to be seen as coercive.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 07:45 PM
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The men who partake in all those behaviours listed make men look worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 09:38 AM
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Dude was charismatic and acted like a decent guy before showing his true colours. They didn't go after him because he was an asshole, they went for him because he pretended to be someone he wasnt. As for the breaking up with the college boyfriend then going back to him, people are generally immature in college and have plenty of growing up to do so thats not unusual at all. People go back to exes all the time because theyre familiar.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 09:54 PM
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Its not settling to end up with a guy who doesn't beat you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 09:04 PM
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Bullshit. And abortion isnt murder.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 08:12 PM
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That doesnt mean women harass and are more violent than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 07:29 PM
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Thats not even true. Research shows men have a markedly higher tendency towards post rejection hostility, harassment and violence compared to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 07:20 PM
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The bar is absolutely lower for men. I've been treated like Dad of the year for changing my own kids nappies, parenting my kids, attending school field trips, actually damn near anything I do parenting wise. For my wife it is just expected, not praised by others like I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 05:32 AM
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I can believe that. A lot of dudes dont seem to believe just how creepy and gross other men can be.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 07:15 AM
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Easier to get attention, which is what hes talking about. He also doesn't care if any of the attention is negative.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 07:03 AM
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You guys all over estimate how much attention average women get.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 06:58 AM
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More like a typo actually. The first time worked as sarcasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 06:57 AM
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"Any hows, eating less is a lot of work." Your words bro. I'm not deleting anything, though I see you've edited comments after others had already replied.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 06:52 AM
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Yes, it is work, I'm glad you agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 06:41 AM
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Then why is 72% of the usa either overweight or obese.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 06:34 AM
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Of course you wouldn't. Its more than just make up and botox. I see you also ignored staying in shape.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 06:31 AM
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Have you never heard of this tiny little thing called the beauty industry? The global beauty industry is only worth a piddling $335-$450 BILLION dollars. It also takes work to stay in shape.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 06:26 AM
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No, born with assets means they have them from birth. And ill repeat, women arent born hot, and they very much work on their appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 06:22 AM
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That doesnt answer the question. When you say women are born with their assets, that means they have them from birth. What assets do women have when theyre born?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 06:18 AM
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Then how are WOMEN born with their assets?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 06:09 AM
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Yeah and not all women are hot. Most of them are average.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 05:57 AM
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You said women are born with their assets. Theyre not. Female babies and male babies look the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 05:54 AM
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Women arent born hot, babies arent hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 05:48 AM
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Hot people have it easier. Most people are not hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 05:45 AM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 07:31 PM
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That doesn't even make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 11:42 AM
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Great, another tangent.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 11:11 AM
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Sure you did. Good for you? I'm married with kids so I'm not interested in adding to my tally.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 10:46 AM
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You can't even keep to your own topic. You're all over the place.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 10:27 AM
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No one who gets women talks like this bro. Its like you've googled things to say to make it sound like you know what sex feels like.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 10:08 AM
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Dude has never even touched a woman I bet.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 09:54 AM
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No, we continue til I'm done.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 09:39 AM
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Dude has never had sex before clearly.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 09:28 AM
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Never had that problem and getting her off first is the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 09:05 AM
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You say that like its a bad thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 09:44 PM
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Thats not what that means bro. Youre thinking too literally.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 09:34 AM
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You dont make sense, how does a man and a woman being equal in a relationship make it homosexual?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 09:16 AM
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Then literally no one is equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 08:55 AM
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People can be equal without being the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 08:44 AM
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Speak for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 08:38 AM
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Why does equal mean a homosexual relationship to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 08:37 AM
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What do men offer today?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 05:15 AM
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Whatever they like.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 03:49 AM
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Those women arent struggling to find long term partners. Theyre single by choice and dont want one.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 09:11 PM
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Thats not genuine desire, its desire for their money.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 06:09 AM
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Women dont say that, men just claim they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 09:52 PM
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Men having low standards are only screwing themselves over.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 06:19 AM
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Bull shit
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 12:00 PM
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And women cant be competent at anything practical? No, with a bucket, a sponge and a hose. Its very common where I am from.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 11:34 AM
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So people have to know how to fix a car to be friendship worthy? What a load of shit. I've never heard of a woman trading in a car instead of washing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 10:56 AM
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What kinda things do they need harsh criticism for?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 10:17 AM
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Seems pretty narrow minded. Why do you feel the need to lecture you friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 10:08 AM
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So incompetent men are ok but not women?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 09:50 AM
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Yes but it has mostly been through work and incompetent men. Kids can wash a car bro. Women in general arent incompetent.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 09:44 AM
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How would it harm an activity?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 09:31 AM
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I can't be curious why other dudes can't seem to manage friendship with a woman? I have a heap of female friends and think dudes are missing out on a good thing by avoiding friendship with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 09:30 AM
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Can do all that with female friends bro. This may come as a surprise to you but women also move house and wash their cars.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 09:20 AM
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What do you get from male friendships that you can't get from female friendships?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 09:00 AM
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Men sell their bodies when they make porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 11:04 AM
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I'm currently the sole provider in my marriage. It wasnt planned this way, just made things easier after we had a bunch of kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 10:33 PM
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You could've just admitted you were talking out your arse.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 10:22 PM
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If they were so good why do you consider your time wasted?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 10:15 PM
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You think women are shitty partners. If the good ones wanted you, you wouldn't think they're shitty.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 10:11 PM
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So all the men you've been with have been like that? See you've just described all the women I've been with.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 10:09 PM
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Good women clearly don't want you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 10:02 PM
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Can you just answer the question please?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 09:46 PM
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No, I am both loved and love others. Could you answer the question please? What has made your male partners so good that women just dont live up to?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 09:29 PM
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Im not talking about friends, your op is about partners. How many male partners have you had and what made them good partners?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 09:14 PM
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How many men have you been in relationships with?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 07:16 PM
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Wow a whole 12 upvotes, thats so impressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 08:38 PM
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It doesnt matter whether thats your actual goal, thats how your posting comes across.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 08:05 PM
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Stop thinking of women as the enemy bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 06:07 PM
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If everyone is reading it that way then maybe people have a point. You're the only accusing me of beating my wife though.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 06:07 PM
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I've not even once laid a hand on my wife in anger. What about my comments suggests I'm a woman beater because thats a pretty insane take?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 05:54 PM
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You don't even have any kids to protect from any woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 05:46 PM
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Oh thanks. Nothing unattractive about them, I don't get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 09:54 AM
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What is a hip dip?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 09:19 AM
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No woman will ever let that dude impregnate her.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 08:13 AM
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This is how my marriage works. Equal payment to her retirement fund and she has access to all the bank accounts.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 05:30 AM
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Nah, I love my wife for who she is not what she does for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 02:11 AM
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I didnt ask which state, I said where.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 06:33 AM
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I'm not American so I dont give a shit about childcare fraud in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 06:15 AM
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Maybe if the fathers were paying for their kids they wouldn't need subsidised childcare.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 06:07 AM
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Illegal where?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 05:54 AM
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What do you suggest happens to the kid then? Not raised by mum, not raised by dad. Do they raise themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 10:49 PM
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Did you read the OP? His idea is for the men to get custody then dump the responsibility on his mum/sister. Im literally responding to his argument. Youre just making up random shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 10:46 PM
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Where did i say any of that?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 10:42 PM
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Making his female family members pick up his slack isnt the answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 10:41 PM
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Then men should step up themselves instead of pushing the work onto other people. Kids should be raised by their parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 10:20 PM
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Your argument is to give men primary custody while still neglecting their children.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 10:15 PM
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Men should get primary custody so they can dump the responsibility on someone else? Nah, if they want primary custody they can actually raise their kids themselves like women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 10:09 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 07:33 AM
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Its not even the majority though, you've just decided it is, that doesnt make it true.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 03:09 AM
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Here's a thought, different woman say and like different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 03:02 AM
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Never said it was a problem, just curious as to why you deleted it then posted the same comment with your main.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 09:11 PM
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I got your notification for your comment with your other account champ.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 06:11 AM
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I don't trust social media links on anything. Its social media, people can post whatever crap they can come up with regardless of whether its true or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 01:02 AM
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You're only wasting your own time.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 12:55 AM
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Disagreeing with you isnt bullying.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 12:55 AM
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Hes special for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 12:01 AM
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Your links are all YouTube videos, most people wont waste their time watching them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 11:51 PM
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You're talking about social media as if it is real life. Social media is all about click bait and you've fallen for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 11:50 PM
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Ive told you a few times already I'm not watching your links. Write it all out or quit bothering, I'm not here to watch your videos. Spend less time on social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 11:23 PM
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Social media isnt real life dude. Get a grip on reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 11:18 PM
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He doesnt have a partner or kids. Hes preparing for his hypothetical future children, that will never exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 11:09 PM
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Hes been told numerous times. He thinks others reading the comment thread will watch them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 11:06 PM
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Who? Who is openly admitting to using custody? Not clicking your links.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 10:52 PM
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He wants the mothers punished.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 10:37 PM
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If I remember correctly it was your wording that suggested that was your plan re custody.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 08:40 AM
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25 years? Haha what a joke. Thanks for the laugh bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 05:10 AM
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According to this sub a woman who waits too long isnt attracted to him enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 12:42 AM
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Women cant really win in this regard, half of men will say dont give it up too quick and the other half will bail if they dont get it quick enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 11:53 PM
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You want them to play hard to get?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 07:24 PM
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Seems like a shit waste of superpower. Sure you could sleep with whoever but that could mean shit sex with someone who just starfishes. There would no guarantee the sex would even be good.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 10:19 AM
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There are far uglier women than the women youve posted.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 08:42 AM
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Then stop linking in comments to me. I'm not bullying you. Im pointing out that just having a check list isnt enough. There would need to be MUTUAL attraction. You could find a woman who meets all your criteria but looks like a run over foot.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 03:50 AM
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Already said I'm not watching that. You are missing a rather large piece of the puzzle. Even if this imaginary woman existed, what are the chances that she would even like you, let alone be attracted to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 03:37 AM
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There are already 'are we dating the same chick/girl' pages. My wife joined our local 'are we dating the same guy' page and the number of cheaters she has come across that we know is insane. Shes shown me whats posted and there is never any sexual details etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 05:29 AM
4

Whatever you say dude. If that was the case how come you dont have a wife and kids already.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 12:03 AM
5

All that shit is very counter productive to your goal bro, women see that shit and will run a mile. If you can't that then you're beyond help.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 09:09 PM
6

Obsessive posts about future fathers days, shitting on feminism, penis monster, mens right, revtrad, posts looking for a partner/offering pussy eating practice. Should I go on?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 08:15 PM
1

People will be busy doing other things most likely.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 08:02 AM
17

His post history is disturbing also.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 02:31 AM
10

Im not watching that. The woman you want doesnt exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 02:23 AM
18

Even if you manage to meet this this 1 in a million unicorn of a woman, what are the chances that you meet all her criteria for a relationship? Think you're pushing shit up hill mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 01:42 AM
0

I used it as an example because I have kids and know what life is like.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 10:40 PM
2

Which industry is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 09:51 AM
2

Im talking the men in this sub complaining about feminism. You really think they'll go protest for them?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 08:01 AM
3

I didnt say no men were, but definitely more women. Usually poll answers vary depending on how the question is asked.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 07:55 AM
3

Theres no conscription in my country.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 07:28 AM
7

You argued that feminists dont do anything to fight conscription.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 07:27 AM
0

Feminists are mainly women, like fuck any of you guys here would be out protesting for their rights. Why do you expect them do it for you? Especially with the way you speak about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 07:16 AM
7

Then quit blaming feminists for mens laziness.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 07:13 AM
8

I havent experienced any disadvantages.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 07:00 AM
9

If men are so anti conscription why don't they fight it themselves? Why do you need women to do it for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 06:59 AM
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Rape isnt funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 05:32 AM
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People need to understand that life can interfere with their sexual relationship. Shit gets busy, people are tired and kids are hard work. There isn't always time and energy to fuck like bunnies years into a relationship and that the sex won't always happen on a consistent schedule.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 11:03 PM
-4

I meant the link to safeandequal, not all that other shit. Your own post said it had faced no public scrutiny in the 5 years its been in place.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 06:56 PM
-8

Its faced zero public scrutiny so you've said, which mens even men arent speaking out against it. I read through the link, it doesn't seem anti men at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 06:44 PM
-5

This seems more like a mental health issue than feminism
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 05:52 PM
1

Took all of a few seconds man.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 11:47 AM
2

Just proving a point bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 10:35 AM
1

How else we would know you tried to participate in Girldinnerdiaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 10:30 AM
-1

Hes a pig for wanting to use women as a fuck hole.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 08:48 PM
5

My wife and I wouldve done this had I been the lower earner.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 08:47 AM
1

Someone who just wants to get laid is a pig who just wants to stick his dick into women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 06:38 AM
2

Response to what?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 03:53 AM
2

Because that's also how you came across to me. No one was saying men were always at fault, people were complaining women are.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 03:50 AM
2

Everyone else seems to understand what I meant. You seem to be the only one having trouble.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 03:35 AM
3

So youve been arguing pointlessly because I immediately explained what I meant by my comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 03:21 AM
4

Thats exactly how its used and was used right here in this thread. As an argument suggesting women suck at relationships and women are the problem despite there actually being no proof to suggest theyre the ones at fault. Who initiates the divorce is just a small part of a bigger picture. The fact you were triggered by me saying women arent always responsible for a relationship ending is even more telling.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 02:53 AM
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Then why is 'women initiate more divorces' repeatedly used as an argument in this sub? This this thread even. Because you dont mind blame as long as its towards women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 02:41 AM
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That just because more women initiate divorce doesn't mean shes the one at fault for the relationship ending. Dudes on this sub, and others blame women for the high divorce rate when in actuality it doesnt mean jack shit if you dont take into account what ended the relationship in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 02:07 AM
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Im saying who initiates the divorce isnt necessarily the person who ended the relationship. Husband walks out of a relationship ending it. Wife then the one to file for divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 01:51 AM
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Women initiate the divorce after the relationship is already ended.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 01:43 AM
26

Single doesnt mean never had sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 11:25 PM
23

Average guys have girlfriends/partners. Most men arent virgins.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 11:06 PM
35

My interest in women isnt only sexual. Thats all you bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 11:00 PM
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Guarantee she picked up on your superior attitude so yeah I very much doubt she will speak highly of the date, or you for that matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 04:17 AM
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Your wording suggests you do. You talk negatively about her throughout your post. Get your ego in check if you want to have better luck in future.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 04:06 AM
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Youre not judging anyones hobbies yet you refer to hers as lacklustre, sounds pretty judgy to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 04:00 AM
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Sounds like you think youre better than her because she likes video games and you like pretentious art galleries.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 03:55 AM
12

No, exciting and magical are OPs words. She is pretty fuckin great though.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 04:03 AM
11

If they aren't exciting and magical then why do you want one so bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 01:36 AM
9

Everyone should have high standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 12:41 AM
2

Ha, I wouldnt believe her even if she did.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 09:37 AM
0

The women are doing a pretty good job of explaining it themselves. They dont need your 'help'.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 09:23 AM
1

Whats the purpose of yours in this post asking women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 09:05 AM
1

Sure man, sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 08:26 AM
8

Kinda sounds like youve taken a lot of dick bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 08:08 AM
7

I just made the mistake of checking your profile. Such regret.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 07:06 AM
8

Youre totally a dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 07:03 AM
0

Coercing someone into sex acts isnt a convo anyone should be having bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 01:15 AM
3

Hahaha you say that as if men never lie about anything
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 12:34 AM
1

We have already been through it. Use some common sense. I'm not repeating myself any further.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 08:25 PM
1

Yes, youre just not guaranteed a woman even if you check literally every box.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 08:01 PM
1

Sure there would, its not a complete this checklist then get handed a girlfriend type deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 07:59 PM
3

I am referring to the dudes here, not dudes in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 07:32 PM
3

Hell no, I've never met dudes in person who say shit like what goes on in here. My comment is about the guys in here, making post after post, those dudes are not ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 07:30 PM
1

Because its all basic parts of being an adult, it really isn't that hard. I already said its not every, youre overthinking and making it far harder than it needs to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 07:28 PM
1

Its not some kind of demented schedule bro, you dont need to be allocating segments of your day 'upkeeping your social skills', whatever the fuck that means, nor does keeping fit require hours every day at the gym.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 12:23 PM
0

It takes you 2 hours to bathe and get dressed?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 11:03 AM
0

I'm not managing your life for you bro. If you cant figure it out then thats your problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 10:43 AM
-1

Sounds like excuses.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 10:28 AM
2

How many wars have you fought in? Im at a whopping zero.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 05:09 AM
9

What?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 05:06 AM
10

The opposite of whatever OP meant by fine in his post.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 03:45 AM
26

Explain this whole sub then. Those who post are not fine by any means.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 03:36 AM
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The posts in this sub certainly do not give the impression that men are fine on their own nor do women care if they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 03:30 AM
1

Hours in day - hours asleep - hours working = ??
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 03:29 AM
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Never had one, i've never asked, shes never brought it up. Its irrelevant to me anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 12:52 AM
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If you want to be a bum bro then just do it. Most people are spending the greater part of their day working, not just men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 12:10 AM
1

Looks are the biggest factor for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 11:47 PM
2

Having a job is less than the bare minimum bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 11:01 PM
4

Its really not. A lot of people have a glow up of sorts after their teenage years when their acne and baby fat is gone and they've grown into their body.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 10:45 PM
0

Did you read your own source? That doesn't say they've never been on a date with a woman, it says 44% didn't have any romantic relationships during THEIR TEENAGE YEARS.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 10:27 PM
-1

Most average looking dudes are getting dates just fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 09:55 PM
-3

I was repeating back what he had said, he mentioned grooming.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 09:32 PM
1

Most dudes are not getting plastic surgery to get women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 09:31 PM
-2

Maximum effort is have a job, work out, bathe and dont dress like a slob?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 08:22 PM
4

Having a job and going to the gym considered high effort these days?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 08:15 PM
8

Gaslight society how?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 07:53 PM
6

The manosphere thrives because many men want maximum results with minimal effort and thats what the manosphere tries to sell them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 07:49 PM
3

This sounds like some form of prostitution.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 11:34 PM
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You treated that man like a weirdo though. You're not owed love from anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 03:34 AM
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You said some dude approached you and you lied about your name etc, why is it ok for you but not ok for women? To women, a lot of men approaching are just like that creepy weirdo.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 03:12 AM
10

What do you want feminists to do about the mens loneliness epidemic?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 02:54 AM
1

Sure there is, you can't stop people from judging you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 09:00 PM
3

So its ok for you to not be honest but women should be?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 07:30 PM
1

Yeah coz hes just looking for a reason to shit on women. I already acknowledged it was about women not fucking bi men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 01:30 AM
3

If both people want the same thing theres no issue. The issue arises when one wants to force someone else into traditional roles to suit themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 01:17 AM
0

Her posts arent complaining about dudes not fucking her.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 01:15 AM
2

Its a women wont fuck bi men post. Clearly.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 07:54 PM
-1

Women dont tend to make 'men won't fuck me' posts on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 07:34 PM
2

Or they just dont make a big deal about it, nor try and make it other people's problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 11:24 PM
2

Then stop referring to it as loneliness when its obviously sexlessness youre bitter about. There are sexless women too. Less of them but they exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 11:09 PM
4

Then call it what it is, sexlessness.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 10:59 PM
1

I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 07:20 AM
1

Im not lonely, wasnt lonely before I met my wife either, nor am I using her for sex. You have a lot to learn about relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 07:11 AM
13

Real life should be fake?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 03:21 AM
15

Real life isnt a porno.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 01:53 AM
1

Id say anyone is perfectly equipped to solve their loneliness. Some people just expect women to do it for them, via sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 10:06 PM
1

Separate, a person could have sex with 50 people and still be lonely.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 09:46 PM
2

Sex is one thing that no one is owed.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 08:34 PM
7

Youre a part of society, being part of society means giving a shit about the safety of others. You dont need to go over the top supporting people but punishing people for not fucking you is insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 08:33 PM
5

The op isnt talking about friendships. His whole argument is about not getting sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 07:53 PM
4

A person could have sex with 50 people and still feel lonely.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 07:52 PM
6

Its not about owing anything, its about being a decent human being.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 07:48 PM
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Loneliness and sexlessness are two different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 08:54 AM
3

My wife is the same no matter how much I tell her she doesnt need to apologise.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 01:27 AM
14

In my experience women over apologise, often when an apology isn't needed as they weren't even at fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 01:06 AM
2

Men who think that are delusional. Their bank balance may peak then but thats about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 08:45 PM
1

No. She works hard too raising the kids while I'm working. If I wanted to sleep with other women I wouldn't have gotten married.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 08:34 PM
1

My dick is both beautiful and stunning.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 09:41 AM
1

If someone has to perform niceness then theyre not actually nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 10:47 PM
2

Funny coz thats a whole lot of complaining you did just now. What you've said is also nothing to do with emotional intelligence.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 04:38 AM
0

Saying men have rights to sex inside a marriage is rapist speak.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 07:09 AM
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By that logic keep an eye out on your husband coz if he helps a woman he must want to fuck her. Some men might be like this but not all.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 08:19 PM
5

You think average men arent attracted to average women?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 08:39 AM
6

If shes not attracted to him then yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 08:15 AM
6

Any time a game is announced with a not so attractive female character there is uproar from man fans about her not being hot enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 09:11 PM
8

And you ignored every instance of sexual music by men that got mentioned, even more so when the man was black.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 09:04 PM
4

No women should lower their standards, some need to raise them even.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 02:48 AM
0

Yes they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 10:44 AM
2

What solutions do you suggest?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 06:39 AM
4

Clearly the relationships where she banged them after 2 dates didnt work and maybe shes trying something different this time in the hopes that it will.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 12:52 AM
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I never said women didn't. Women do for sure, but so do other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 10:31 AM
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A lot of those insults come from other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 10:16 AM
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The dudes in that sub need therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 10:15 AM
5

Outlawing abortion and wanting women to be sahm are about control. Women do care about mens issues, theyre just not about to leap in and solve them for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 08:05 PM
1

I didn't seek out my job, they came to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 10:43 AM
-2

Him?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 10:34 AM
-1

Don't know, we dont feel the need to discuss every aspect of our pasts.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 09:23 AM
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My wife and I selected each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 04:05 AM
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I have passions, hobbies, a job, money and a family
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 12:43 AM
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No, I think they no longer want it when its a shitty deal for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 08:47 PM
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No, I think they become desperate and either dont know or dont care that its not attractive and then get pissed off when women are interested. It puts women off them even more.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 08:37 PM
4

The sooner men learn desperation isn't attractive the better it'll be for them, and everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 05:59 AM
3

I was selective from the start because I'm not desperate. Can't speak for other dudes though...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 02:11 AM
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Women have to audition too. I wasn't about to wife up the first woman who showed interest. I kept looking til I found what I wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 05:18 AM
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Even old grannies have an easy time finding men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 02:16 AM
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Wasn't talking responding to you champ.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 05:15 AM
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No one, theyre alone in their mum's basement.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 01:37 AM
10

Not everyone wants to be paired off.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 06:58 AM
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I dont want to pair everyone off. I dont want people to feel obligated to form relationships with people they arent attracted to and arent compatible with.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 06:15 AM
1

You gotta a source to back that up coz it sounds likes its been plucked?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 01:10 AM
29

Not sure why so called looks matches are repeatedly brought up on this sub. Just because 2 people are of apparently equal attractiveness doesnt mean they'll be automatically attracted to each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 09:24 PM
9

But getting women off is fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 06:05 AM
24

How about proposing a solution then.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 11:33 PM
3

Trying a finger without asking is assault too bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 09:40 PM
5

It may be reality but it is also controlling. Doesnt make it right.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 09:49 AM
6

Pair bonding isnt a thing and if it were people wouldn't pair bond with people theyre not compatible with.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 09:49 AM
10

Have a grown up conversation when you realise you're not compatible with someone, it isn't hard. Guarantee you leave your wife over her getting a tattoo or for her refusing anal, and you'll be laughed out of every room full of people who know about it. Its pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 05:16 AM
8

I think theres a slight difference between threatening to leave your wife because she wont let you fuck her in the ass, and threatening to leave her if she murders someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 04:34 AM
12

Yeah thats a logical act to leap to, murder.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 04:14 AM
11

Not hard to just tell someone you're not compatible without making any threats.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 03:32 AM
14

Common sense actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 03:31 AM
12

Those are not the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 03:11 AM
21

I already said its not controlling to leave. Its the threatening to leave if someone doesnt comply with your demands that makes it controlling. You are saying do what I want or else, that is a form of control.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 03:02 AM
14

You are trying to control someone elses behaviour by threatening to leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 03:01 AM
13

Its not controlling to just leave. It's controlling to threaten leaving when someone refuses to comply with your demands.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 02:57 AM
25

Ultimatums are a form of control. You're basically saying do what I want or else.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 02:52 AM
31

If you feel the need to give ultimatums then your relationship is fucked anyway. Anyone who would leave their wife because theyre obsessing over sex acts shes done in the past is a fuckin moron.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 02:50 AM
1

This sounds completely made up.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 06:09 AM
5

Its not a matter of effort, takes fuck all effort for me to have an orgasm. Half the fun comes from making her cum. You should try it some time. Worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 07:39 PM
18

I wouldn't leave. Firstly I'm not into butt sex and secondly what she did with previous dudes isnt relevant to my relationship with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 09:17 PM
20

Almost every woman I know works and provides for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 07:27 AM
20

Where are all these women seeking providers?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 06:51 AM
3

No, mine divorced when I was at high school because my dad kept cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 07:18 PM
6

There would definitely be some.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 10:48 AM
5

I would let her explain herself but the relationship would be over.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 06:04 AM
3

New Zealand too.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 05:56 AM
3

You won't be competing with prostitutes. In NZ prostitution is legal and its only the bottom of the barrel dudes paying for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 05:55 AM
35

Why do most arguments against feminism always come back to your sex life. Says a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 10:19 PM
1

Studies on emotional intelligence show women outperform men in 11 of 12 measures. Why am I not surprised you only focus on the ONE where its reversed. Putting in more hours doesn't mean you get to avoid chores altogether. Sure the contribution would be smaller but you live there, you contribute to the mess, you eat the food, so you can clean up after yourself and do your share.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 07:22 PM
3

Why do care what other people masturbate to? It really doesn't affect you in any way.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 11:25 AM
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Yeah you're asking the wrong people. Only fuck boys know the answer to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 07:18 AM
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I said SOME dudes bro, not all. Plenty of dudes with fat women as partners or wives.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 05:17 AM
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Cheat with other married people or prostitutes. Fuck boys won't suddenly be ok with fucking one person. They'd find a way.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 03:55 AM
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And plenty of cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 03:47 AM
3

Sure I can, fairly easily too. I'm not big on make up and neither is my wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 01:53 AM
3

So you're jealous women get approached and want a woman to just hand herself to you on a platter? Chances are those women aren't in your league, you just think they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 01:48 AM
5

You don't either but the fact you can't seem to find someone speaks volumes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 01:38 AM
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You may not need attraction but the majority of people do. Thats generally what differentiates romance from friendship.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 01:23 AM
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You aren't owed anyone's attraction. Employment and relationships are not the same thing. People are entitled to choose who they fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 01:07 AM
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People not being attracted to you isn't discrimination.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 12:56 AM
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A strong social circle and hobbies can often lead to romance.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 11:54 PM
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Theyre not gaslighting you. Theyre letting you know that your looks arent the only thing getting in your way.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 09:30 PM
1

BREAKING NEWS.....women have eyes and like good looking people. I for one am shocked.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 09:14 PM
0

Complain about women choosing assholes while simultaneously being assholes themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 08:10 PM
-1

Anecdotal. My experience is the opposite and its mainly the dudes that have monkey branched.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 08:00 PM
2

Some men do need do better much like some women do. If you take offence to the statement then it likely applies to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 07:54 PM
12

Some dudes like fat women. Research shows women are generally more emotionally intelligent than men. Don't forget anger and expression of anger is also emotional and a lot of men sure as shit dont have good control of that. Working more hours doesn't earn you a personal maid. If you live in a household, you contribute to the running and maintainance of that household. If you cant clean up after yourself, pay for a maid.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 07:53 PM
0

Sure bro, what ever you say.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 01:02 AM
1

Theres no way youre a lawyer.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 12:54 AM
1

Who cares who they fuck up along way though right.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 12:48 AM
1

Ha funny coz that was my whole point earlier when you said the law holds men accountable but you want women holding themselves accountable. Why dont you expect men to do it themselves too?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 12:40 AM
1

How should the law force women to be accountable? And what for?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 12:34 AM
3

Yes but when I asked you where his accountability was you still made it about her and what she was doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 12:18 AM
1

You said yourself the law forces them. The law cant dictate who women sleep with which is what this all comes down to, dudes being bitter that they arent getting any.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 12:17 AM
3

The law isnt required to force feed it to women. Men seem to be the ones requiring that. Think that shows who really needs to work on showing accountability and it isnt women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 11:46 PM
2

Why are women expected to take accountability for their actions themselves but men only if it's forced upon them?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 11:39 PM
4

So he isnt taking accountability, the law is holding him accountable.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 11:22 PM
8

Was the doing dirty simply rejecting or did she kill my puppy or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 10:57 PM
3

Im not the one dodging. Everyone should be equally held accountable. Not more for women and less for men. Saying women need to be held more accountable is dodging accountability.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 10:11 PM
8

Again you're putting all the accountability on the woman and failing to put any on the man.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 09:10 PM
5

Thats a whole lotta words for lets hold women to a higher standard but dont you dare expect the same from us.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 09:08 PM
9

Man gets a girl pregnant out of wedlock with a hook up or fling, refuses to marry the girl, refuses to be a father to the child, tries to demand an abortion. Where's his accountability in this scenario?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 08:22 PM
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I dont think you know what accountability means. If you did you'd know men also avoid accountability. Certain people will always avoid accountability, gender doesn't come into it. You just want to be mad at women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 08:03 PM
8

Choice is choice. Men dont have to opt for crappy choices. Accountability for all. If women should choose better, men should too. Again, number of options is irrelevant, some women would have only as many options as some men. Not everyone is hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 07:56 PM
10

But men still choose, they can choose to reject their options if its not someone they're interested in or attracted to. According to this sub there are an abundance of gold diggers and baby trappers about. If its aimed at women it should be aimed at men too. To deny that is to avoid the accountability you expect from others.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 07:35 PM
12

Thats irrelevant, they may have less options but they still make choices. Typical to expect accountability from women but absolve men from it altogether. No surprises there.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 07:15 PM
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Cant have one without the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 10:51 AM
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You do realise that would mean an increase on whats paid in child support currently for the majority of people? And that is more inline with my initial comment stating child support should represent the actual cost of raising a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 12:56 AM
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What counts as essentials in your view?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 12:45 AM
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The price of a basket of essentials would mean struggle.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 12:36 AM
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So you wouldn't give a shit if your child struggled while not in your care? Please dont breed.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 12:08 AM
11

See I think child support should reflect the actual cost of raising a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 11:36 PM
3

Not enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 09:55 AM
10

OP proposed demonisation of step fathers of all people.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 09:17 AM
11

Take off your blindfold and do some actual research.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 07:42 AM
15

You dont know how someone will parent until they become one.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 05:40 AM
15

If a man doesnt agree to equal custody but instead avoids it then he should be required to pay hers then. Edit: most women want the dad in the kids lives. Its the men choosing not to.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 05:17 AM
21

Nah, 50/50 is increasing all the time. Both parents will have legal fees to pay and yeah whoever has more custody will get more child support. There are multiple studies on this. Keep that blindfold on though bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 05:00 AM
22

In contested custody cases, men who ask for custody get it between approx 70 - 90 percent of the time. The issue is, a lot of the time the men dont actually want custody of their kids. In an ideal world default 50/50 would be the norm but actual dads are gona need to step up if this is to become reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 04:50 AM
22

When dads ask for custody they get it. Unfortunately too many are happy with a lot less.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 04:43 AM
45

How about demonise dead beats and neglectful parents instead. If a Dad is doing his share of parenting his kids then there would be no need for step dads to pick up their slack.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 04:37 AM
5

Large doesnt mean mature.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 11:57 PM
-1

Id rather die alone that fuck a sex robot.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 11:43 PM
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Yes I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 09:06 AM
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I have a son. I want him to be himself whatever that might be.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 09:00 AM
7

Gotta be employed to afford that bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 09:52 AM
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My wife watches the game with me and wants sex just as much as I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 08:31 AM
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Dude is just a selfish ass that wants bjs coz theyre all about him. If it was an issue of sexualising you he wouldn't want bjs either.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 12:09 AM
1

Yeah hes not the only billionaire in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 07:44 PM
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Its not failing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 11:09 AM
3

There would definitely be an upgrade from him.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 08:31 AM
4

So women in general are all high value then.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 08:17 AM
11

Jay Z looks like a foot.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 08:11 AM
2

I reckon hes an old single guy trying to stay relevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 06:32 AM
4

Men do release oxytocin during sex. Levels spike during and stay elevated for approx 30 mins after sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 09:46 PM
2

I think we all know the answer to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 07:32 PM
10

How?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 05:30 AM
16

They shouldn't lower their standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 01:16 AM
5

Thats true for most guys here.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 01:15 AM
17

You specifically saying women can choose who they want isnt the norm of the red pill dudes on this sub though.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 01:06 AM
21

Theres post after post on here complaining about women's standards and how they need to lower them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 12:52 AM
33

Then why do they frame it as unfair and claim something needs to be done about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 12:20 AM
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Everyone is capable of bad behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 02:44 AM
2

In NZ 86% of the fire service is made up of volunteers. Approx 15% are women. The women don the gear and put out the fires just like the men do. Theres no hiding doing office work.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 08:01 PM
1

Women like sex too bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 07:56 PM
0

Figured as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 09:13 AM
0

Why does there need to be a reward? Do you need a participation certificate just for existing?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 08:47 AM
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I'll take listening to women over whatever the hell this is anyday.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 03:37 AM
3

No its not. Sex is about mutual attraction and pleasure not rewarding someone's behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 02:29 AM
4

Sex isnt a reward.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 09:06 PM
3

Being older doesn't stop someone from being a loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 08:02 PM
0

Because thats what the post is about.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 08:01 PM
4

Nope, you made a list of the shit you changed as you got older. Some peeps get to that sooner.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 04:39 AM
9

Nah plenty of men in that age range have hobbies and a heap of those characteristics you took ages to develop.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 03:30 AM
14

Nah bro, broke and living in parents basement is pretty much the definition of loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 03:26 AM
4

Probably an ai bot.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 03:23 AM
16

Its not better coz youre older. It got easier coz you stopped being a broke loser living in his parents basement.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 03:21 AM
2

I said consensual already bro, fuck, desperate to be the victim aye.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 11:26 AM
2

The same way they already do. The courts already decide as its the law. My opinion on it is irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 11:25 AM
2

Ill make it simple, if you create a child via consensual sex, then you are responsible for it. Whether you intended to create it is irrelevant. The kid exists and is entitled to support from both parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 11:22 AM
3

The courts would decide much like they do when men are accused of rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 11:12 AM
2

Just as responsible.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 11:05 AM
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No I'm not. I dont want women abandoning their kids either but the fact is men do that more often. Men create posts trying to justify why they should be able to, or are we just ignoring this whole actual post.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 11:00 AM
3

If a condom is used then no one is deceiving anyone into a pregnancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 10:44 AM
2

I don't see a man choosing not to wear a condom as a victim no. Only a victim of his own stupidity.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 10:29 AM
2

Lying about being on the pill is a shitty thing to do but at the end of the day if you put your bare dick into a woman and ejaculate then you should still be responsible for any child that is conceived. Protect yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 10:25 AM
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People who are raped shouldn't have to pay child support.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 10:21 AM
4

No but the post is about men beating women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 09:55 AM
5

Be specific about the kind of deceit you're referring to. Are we talking lying about being on the pill? Coz in that case always wrap it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 09:48 AM
8

Women arent on this sub daily trying to advocate for the right to abandon their kids. This post is a perfect example of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 09:41 AM
3

Most men are not deceived into impregnating women, they refuse to wrap it up and then cry about the consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 09:39 AM
7

No, I have a soft spot for kids being neglected by their fathers.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 09:33 AM
8

Don't impregnate anyone, problem solved. The taxpayer shouldn't be responsible for your disinterest in supporting your spawn.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 09:11 AM
6

If rape is involved there should be no obligation on the victims behalf. Pretty sure the topic of discussion here is consensual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 09:09 AM
6

Because its her body thats effected either way. She either suffers through pregnancy or suffers through and abortion.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 09:02 AM
6

How is any of that relevant. Can you focus on the actual topic being discussed.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 08:56 AM
8

I meant if he gets her pregnant and doesn't want it. Its out of his control and up to her as to the next steps.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 08:55 AM
4

Be more specific.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 08:49 AM
15

Because you cant force a medical procedure on another person.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 08:40 AM
13

The baby wouldn't exist without the sperm. The cost of raising a baby far outweighs the amount of child support the primary parent receives.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 08:40 AM
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Because its his kid, if he didnt jizz inside her then the kid wouldn't exist. Why should it be anyone elses responsibility than the 2 people who made it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 08:33 AM
20

No, he gives up control when he leaves his share in her oven.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 08:12 AM
19

You make the baby, you support the baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 08:08 AM
16

Explain control. Not sure exactly what you mean by that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 08:03 AM
20

And if she doesn't want to modify her body either? Vasectomy, wrap it up or no nookie for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 08:02 AM
1

Fuck no. No excuse for violence against women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 07:49 AM
29

If we supply half the ingredients then yes we are.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 07:48 AM
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The reward for working hard is a good life and a decent paycheck not a woman. You could be the hardest working dude in the world and you still arent owed a young virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 06:00 AM
3

The same things men do wrapped in different packaging.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 04:21 AM
25

Bi women date more men because there are more men than bi women or lesbians.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 05:21 AM
3

If you need to splash money around to get someone's attention thats all they'll want from you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 08:42 PM
3

They do, they feel the same way about your pay cheque.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 08:41 PM
14

Where was your father in all this?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 09:14 AM
9

Got sources for all that? And okcupid doesnt count. Edit: its a bit redundant to reply to all my comments then block me bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 09:04 AM
9

Thats gona depend on the man. What does he want and is she willing to offer it. Should be a two way street of course but if either aren't happy there's no need to stay in the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 08:55 AM
1

What am I doing?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 08:45 AM
2

Whats the question?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 08:21 AM
3

No, I just dont sympathise with people who speak horribly of women or treat them badly.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 08:20 AM
2

Depends on the person.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 08:15 AM
2

Dude youre all up and down here implying im deaf and dumb. Perhaps you need to be honest with yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 08:14 AM
2

Deaf people arent stupid, they can read and comprehend. Its not cool to imply deaf people are dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 08:12 AM
5

Deaf? What kinda dumbass would ask that question when none of this conversation is audible. Self own bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 08:10 AM
3

They make for the most entertaining conversations. Also women dont tend to disappoint me to the same extent, nor do I feel like its my responsibility to call them out. That and my experience with women is generally positive.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 08:07 AM
8

Go outside.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 08:04 AM
7

Reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 07:38 AM
3

I don't. Some are embarrassingly disappointing though with the way they behave and the shit they say which I have no problem calling out. Luckily in the real world I surround myself with good dudes and none of them seem to have issues with women unlike many of the dudes on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 07:38 AM
5

You do you then bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 07:30 AM
4

I'm not. My comments arent hidden, have at it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 07:25 AM
4

Why would I lie to my wife?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 07:15 AM
3

No I didnt, its been there for ages.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 07:14 AM
6

So what, if its not something they want they dont just have to accept it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 07:13 AM
5

Holy reading comprehension, I'm not a woman, check my flair genius.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 07:10 AM
5

Yours included.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 06:43 AM
2

Well now you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 06:42 AM
3

Says the guy who said something then said I didnt mean that thing I just said.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 06:28 AM
3

Yes, me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 06:18 AM
4

Then why did you say it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 06:17 AM
4

Most of the talking points on this sub are wrong in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 06:13 AM
5

Yeah no, everyone is not working and taking care of the household though.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 06:11 AM
18

More, not all, plus the women are busy working too, its not the 1950s.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 06:06 AM
19

Who says they're actually doing equal labour though? Its less lopsided than it was in the past but it sure isnt equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 05:45 AM
10

Well you'd need to ask them for specifics but if women are earning their own money and dont want a seemingly lesser man than themselves, then it makes sense that youre going to have to have something else to offer if what youre currently offering aint cutting it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 05:28 AM
19

Its not entitlement to want an equal partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 04:37 AM
17

No, they complain about men who cheat, cheaters arent just the top whatever percent of men, regular men and bottom of the barrel men will also cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 04:36 AM
16

Being a decent, genuine person with a good sense of humour seems to do the trick.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 03:48 AM
12

If women only wanted a pay cheque theyd only be going after rich dudes and wouldn't give a shit about making their own money.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 03:44 AM
17

Speak for yourself man. A lot of average men have plenty to offer women, and have women who are interested in what they have to offer.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 03:43 AM
19

You're delusional if you think only the so called top men cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 03:40 AM
11

Men only care about mens issues in regards to how it effects them as an individual, not as a general group. Women on the other hand care about issues for women in general, and also mens though to a lesser extent.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 01:41 AM
74

Men need to offer more than just a pay cheque, thats not a bad thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 01:39 AM
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Fat dudes are a thing too bro. If you dont want to date fat chicks then dont, no one is forcing you to.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 12:58 AM
2

Women are in relationships with far more than the top 10% of men. Stop pulling percentages out your ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 11:17 PM
2

Theyre not unrealistic if some men meet their standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 11:02 PM
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People arent going to suddenly be attracted to less attractive people. Meet someone's standards or miss out.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 10:54 PM
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You cant force attraction. Wanting women to get into relationships with people they arent attracted to is the perfect recipe for resentment and a dead bedroom.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 10:10 PM
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Women swipe on people theyre attracted to. I dont see how thats a problem. Its not their fault theyre not attracted to everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 07:44 PM
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This appears to be some kind of strange rant.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 08:11 AM
0

Because I cant be fucked writing a novel in response to your bullshit. No means no bro, you aint getting shit from me so bugger off.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 04:52 AM
0

No I didn't. Keep up with your imaginary argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 04:45 AM
1

I don't need to. Youre using, and repeating words I haven't said. How about focus on what I have said instead of adding your own made up crap and claiming its mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 04:37 AM
1

You're still making shit up, thats not even close to the same thing nor something I would say or said. Go and have your housing convo somewhere else.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 04:24 AM
1

Yes you are such a genius, making up shit I supposedly said or meant when thats not the case. But hey you do you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 04:09 AM
1

Why would that offend me. No, he has said she was the exception, I didnt argue that at all. I said he was also the exception, he finds dating to be too much work. Most men do not, most men go on dates and get into relationships. Those who dont are the exception. Both can be the exception for different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 03:47 AM
0

Women are not born with sex appeal, fuckin gross dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 03:40 AM
1

He was shitting on some woman's comment being the exception when his viewpoint is also the exception, not the norm. Its called debate not lets all agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 03:30 AM
2

The majority of men are not incels. Being an incel isnt the norm, its the exception.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 01:56 AM
5

For you, dating is too much work for you. Other men dont seem to have that problem. Theyre going about their lives dating, getting into relationships etc without issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 01:47 AM
4

Have you considered that your view that dating is too much work for straight men may also be an exception and that actually the norm is that most men can actually get dates etc no problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 01:38 AM
2

Disagree. I lose respect for the CHEATER regardless of gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 12:40 AM
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You think most women are in unsatisfying relationships? You mustn't think too highly of men then.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 11:40 PM
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So most women then?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 09:51 PM
1

I only have great sex. Majority of dudes would rather have sex and get an orgasm even if the sex is bad, than not have sex at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 09:24 AM
10

Its better than not getting off at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 01:37 AM
28

A man can still get off during bad sex. For a woman that aint happening and can actually be painful.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 09:34 PM
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Fat people are partnered up all over the place. Fat men with fat women, fat women with thin men, thin women with fat men. Its all there. Some fat women dont want fat men, some fat men dont want fat women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 09:18 PM
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Its not an insult but a lot of men will take it as one which is why its so effective.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 08:59 PM
1

Can state whatever you like. I will continue to disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 03:26 AM
1

You can reject anyone for anyone reason. No one is even owed an explanation for why theyre being rejected.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 03:17 AM
2

I'm not American so I'm not familiar with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 03:16 AM
2

Theyre not bigots just coz they dont want to fuck someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 03:13 AM
2

Whats Obergefell?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 03:13 AM
2

Then why try and shame them, why not just go about your day and only try to fuck people who are interested in you. Avoid the women who arent interested and focus your energy on the ones who are.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 03:11 AM
4

Has it so far? Shaming and trying to guilt someone for not fucking someone is manipulative as all shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 03:02 AM
5

I dont know the answer, shaming women for not wanting to fuck someone isnt it though.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 02:45 AM
2

Not from complaining about it on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 02:23 AM
3

It doesn't need to be called out, people can date who they want and refuse those they dont. It isnt really anyone elses business and no amount of complaining about it will change anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 01:38 AM
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So we should all be sleeping around?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 09:13 PM
1

Sure men are likely more visual in terms of how they get aroused. Womens arousal is more reactive. But if women think anyone is hot then theyre clearly visual too. If women weren't visual no one wouldn't be complaining about women's standards because theyd be fucking any old random neckbeard looking dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 09:07 PM
1

You think most people are in relationships with people who dont even like them?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 08:56 PM
3

Why do you think bi women are obligated to date bi men? Straight men dont have to date straight women just because both are straight.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 08:55 PM
1

The best relationships are when things are mutual. A relationship where she likes him more may benefit him more.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 07:01 PM
3

Most older men are not that. Women are visual too and its important that they also attracted to their partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 06:45 PM
9

Old men are wrinkly and bald, how is that a benefit for a woman .
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 01:03 AM
5

One person peeing on you repeatedly doesnt prove anything other than that one woman pees. Replicate it a bunch of times with different women then get back to everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 10:50 PM
1

Thats not womensplaining, if thats even a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 09:01 PM
1

Who are women in relationships with then? Last I checked they weren't all lesbians.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 12:14 AM
1

If everyone followed rules we wouldn't need police either. There's always going to be people who will push it and ignore boundaries. This way prevents the spread of manosphere bullshit which is already far too prevalent.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 11:08 PM
1

A ban wouldn't be necessary if people could vent without trying to point the blame at others.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 10:57 PM
1

Chances are those with 100 likes would still turn to nothing. Having to sift through all that shit would become a chore and theyd likely stop searching or theyd be at it all day.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 10:38 PM
2

Has it occurred to you that other users of that sub have had enough with the woe is me, the world is out to get me posts?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 10:10 PM
1

Making rules is their job. You can cry about it all you like but its been done with good intentions.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 10:03 PM
1

They have, moderating the sub includes banning over posted topics that more often than not encourage hatred, misogyny and violence. The mods have done their job for the benefit of the sub they moderate.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 09:41 PM
1

A man will get 2 who are actually interested in them as a person, a woman will get hundreds of likes from dudes who haven't even read her profile and swipe on everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 08:31 PM
1

They were blaming women, hence why it was banned.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 07:55 PM
3

Then yes, I hold others to the same standard. Venting is fine, blaming your problems on others, especially when its misplaced blame, is a problem. That sub didnt want to devolve into a cesspit of hatred which is exaclty where it would've been heading.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 07:52 PM
1

All women have their faults much like men do. Blaming them for everything going wrong in a mans life is a whole other thing though.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 07:23 PM
3

I don't run that sub, i'm merely speculating. I imagine its much like the n counts/ looks posts on this sub though. People don't want the same old shit in every post. Plus constantly blaming anyone and everyone but yourself shows a major failure to take accountability.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 07:18 PM
9

There's a difference between venting and blaming women for their dating woes. I suspect the latter was the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 04:28 PM
37

I chase money and material things coz I like having nice stuff. Sex has nothing to do with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 06:41 AM
8

Reality disagrees bro. Look around, its not hard for women to secure a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 07:34 PM
4

If you look at trends obesity is increasing not decreasing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 04:38 AM
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Nope, approximately 20% aged 18-29 are classified as obese in Austin Texas. Again this does not include those who are overweight, only those classified as obese. Also over 30% of kids in Texas are either overweight or obese. This number increases as they age.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 01:17 AM
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Its still a large amount of obese people. Jumps up to about 60 % when you account for overweight. Thats not gym maxed or whatever you call it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 10:26 PM
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The obesity rate is about 30% in Austin Texas. That doesnt even take into account those who are simply overweight. Me thinks youre talking about your arse.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 10:19 PM
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What planet is this happening on?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 10:01 PM
1

Its bullshit when speaking in general too.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 06:31 PM
0

Nope, I don't cheat on my wife. I am fully committed to her and she gets plenty of positive attention and gifts.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 09:39 AM
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Never paid for it, never will. Cant understand why some men are desperate enough to pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 12:07 AM
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Id rather have sex with women who actually want me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 11:44 PM
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Thats kinda the point bro, using his own stupid argument against him.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 11:20 PM
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The one night stand wants to fuck you, the escort wants your money.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 09:22 PM
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I'm not sure why he is surprised, people who get paid to do something are generally good at what they do, even if its faked.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 03:15 AM
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She was doing what you paid her for.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 02:27 AM
1

I am aware of YOUR President sure. I am not American myself. Theres a whole world out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 09:51 PM
1

Being kind and generous makes someone a simp? Thats ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 09:22 PM
2

So if men have these qualities they are feminine?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 08:44 PM
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If you get to a point in a relationship where doing nice things for your partner is too much for you then the relationship has run its course.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 09:17 AM
7

Then explain femininity?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 07:13 AM
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They know more about it than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 06:40 AM
13

So if men are open, kind, generous, giving, authentic and caring, thats makes them feminine?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 02:27 AM
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My first question was a yes no question and you responded with some bullshit about "ill answer your question with a question". The whole thread I wanted a yes no answer and you kept replying with ramblings that weren't relevant to my question.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 11:19 PM
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You're telling women they dont know what femininity is but somehow you think you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 11:16 PM
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A man trying to tell women what femininity is...hmm I'm sure there's a word people use for this.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 11:09 PM
1

Rambling not required, was a yes no question. I have my answer now.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 08:34 PM
1

Oh I know, I only mention it as its pretty commonly mentioned and believed to be true on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 07:27 PM
1

No you avoided outright saying yes. So why do women on here get so much hate if theyre just doing what's natural?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 07:26 PM
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You literally asked if I believed it was true for all women, and I replied that I didnt say all women. Do you even read your own comments, dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 09:40 AM
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How is that lifestyle supposed to benefit women though?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 09:33 AM
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"Are you just exaggerating or do you genuinely believe those things are true for all women." Sure some might.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 09:30 AM
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I never said all women. Sure there will be a small percentage of mostly religious women who believe men are the head of the household etc and that the women's job is in the home but for the most part that isn't the case. An explanation for why some women convert? Youd need to ask them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 09:20 AM
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You said it shouldn't be the norm for women to have jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 09:01 AM
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Women want the freedom of choice much like men do. They want to choose their own jobs, make their own money so theyre not dependant men. They want to be able to make decisions for themselves. Very few women convert as adults, more leave religion altogether
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 09:00 AM
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Because they dont know any better and are raised to think thats how things should be. A lot of them come to their senses though when they realise the men theyre stuck with are basically oversized toddlers.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 08:50 AM
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Women want jobs though, thats the whole point. They dont want to be cooking for and cleaning up after a grown man. Its not pitching in or helping her. He should do his share because he lives in the house and contributes to the mess, not as a favour to her as if its her job. Clean up after yourself or move back in with your parents. Women dont want to mother you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 08:39 AM
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That would only benefit men. Women dont want to be domestic slaves for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 08:32 AM
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Men tend to pay more and earn more. Part of the reason women contribute less tax is biological, women have higher costs for health services due to their biology and do more of the child rearing. Theres also the gender pay gap.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 07:28 AM
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People pay taxes, men and women, thats how society works. If you dont want to pay taxes then go off grid and stop using services that other people's taxes pay for.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 06:58 AM
6

Is it natural for women to go after these men? Yes or no will suffice.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 05:23 AM
4

Id rather you just answer my initial question instead of trying to avoid it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 03:48 AM
3

So its natural for women to only go after the top (insert percentage here) of men?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 02:43 AM
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That's a whole other discussion but I would say male promiscuity.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 01:08 AM
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Then why are dudes in this sub constantly shitting on women and calling them gold diggers, even when its not true, if theyre apparently just doing what comes naturally?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 11:55 PM
2

Money.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 11:53 PM
29

Are the women only doing whats natural by going after men who are loaded?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 11:10 PM
3

Men are more vocal about their loneliness.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 11:37 PM
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How exactly do you want others to show their empathy?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 08:41 PM
5

You want all the women killed off and your country to be become a complete sausage fest?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 07:08 PM
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From what I can tell they do have empathy, they just dont show it by having sex with those men
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 03:09 AM
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33% of 25 year old men are overweight, when combined with obese it jumps up to 65% combined. Just accept the fact that young men are fat too. In 18-24 range its close to 20% just in the obese category.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 10:13 PM
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Nope, approximately 65-70% of men aged between 20 and 39 in the US are classified as either overweight or obese.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 10:04 PM
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And young men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 09:31 PM
3

Then why did my wife suggest eloping?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 09:12 PM
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No, men are fat too.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 09:10 PM
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Nope, your type is who youre attracted to. If someone else likes you that makes you their type not the other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 06:28 PM
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Women don't want to be forced into relationships they dont want, I see from your comments thats what you think should be happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 06:26 PM
4

Pharmaceutical use? I assume you mean for depression and anxiety? I raise you the male suicide rate.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 06:22 PM
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Well congrats, because of that view a lot of women dont give a shit about men and theyre doing just fine. Its the men who are lagging.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 09:25 AM
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Why should a woman give a shit about your feelings? A woman shouldn't have to sacrifice anything for a person she doesn't want.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 08:32 AM
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Women dont need to defend their standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 01:20 AM
5

Men have plenty to lose by cheating. Grass is greener where its watered. Men can lose relationships, family, and trust by cheating much like women can. Plus if someone will cheat with you, they'll cheat on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 08:35 PM
10

Dressing single? There's no dress code for being single or being in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 08:28 PM
2

No sure why you think a fight is required. When you ask someone on a date just be sure to mention you want to split dinner or whatever the date is. It isn't hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 06:56 PM
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This is psychotic.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 09:06 AM
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As a man I have never once considered myself to be available to the public. No one should be automatically available to the public.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 05:08 AM
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Every person on earth is capable of acts of casual sexism.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 07:02 PM
0

Wow a heap of examples from the 1800s, its like it was just yesterday. Not sure why you think those example are relevant for today.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 07:01 PM
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Women wanting marriage and children is decreasing every day. In younger generations more men than women want children.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 02:20 AM
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I actually dont think anyone is the prize and have never heard it outside of this sub, hence why I am commenting based on what ive read on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 10:58 PM
2

Oh I know they don't, but how can men be the prize if a lot of them - based on what I see on this sub, aren't wanted at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 09:26 PM
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Men care, they are constantly complaining in this sub about the amount of likes or attention women get on dating apps while they get none.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 08:41 PM
3

As a married man, surrounded by other married or partnered people, I know that, but overall in young and middle age more men are single than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 08:33 PM
2

Yeah sure but to be the prize as op puts it, you have to be wanted at all, a lot of men arent wanted at all, that was the point i was trying to make.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 08:26 PM
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Old men or women chasing young men or women are both gross old perverts, no double standard there. Also young men and women dont generally want them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 08:12 PM
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Wanted is wanted, either way women are generally wanted, men not so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 08:02 PM
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A lot will yeah, not every man is a gross old pervert chasing younger women. Most people get into relationships and marry people who are a similar age to themselves. In the scenario you describe Mr Law degree hasnt been snapped up by anyone either so perhaps isnt the prize he thinks he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 08:01 PM
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Prizes are wanted by people though, men arent wanted by as many women, most women are wanted by men. Also sperm quality decreases with age, with increased risk for genetic mutations, neurodevelopment disorders and other health issues for the resulting children.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 07:43 PM
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The only time I've heard the women and children thing was when my kids watched titanic, oh and dudes complaining about it in this sub, and somehow ignoring the fact that boys are children.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 07:09 PM
2

Red pill does not mean reality, the matrix is a movie.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 07:05 PM
5

You don't speak for men then, who are you to decide what men want.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 07:02 PM
3

Disagree, men are far more vocal about women's baggage than the other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 03:15 AM
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Its just as common for men to carry over baggage from god knows how many relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 01:31 AM
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How about no.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 01:28 AM
16

Face definitely matters for a lot of guys, probably even most.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 01:26 AM
4

Just because someone is your size equivalent doesn't make a match.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 01:21 AM
18

Men dont want submission, YOU want submission.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 01:47 AM
3

Are you special?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 06:26 AM
3

That child support should remain even situations where there is equal custody, if there is an income discrepancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 06:25 AM
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They do, they look after and pay for their kids. It is equal responsibility, you cant pluck extra money out of thin air. The concern should be for your kids well-being.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 06:21 AM
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Not giving a shit if the kid is living in poverty when theyre not in your house. Thats what child support is for.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 06:17 AM
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Spoken like someone who doesnt actually care about kids and wants to stick it to the ex.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 06:11 AM
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Ah, you want no child support. Child support is for the child's benefit.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 06:09 AM
3

Women already pay for and raise their kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 06:04 AM
3

Why do you think women should have more financial responsibility than men?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 05:56 AM
3

Yes, both parents have equal responsibility for their kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 05:47 AM
4

You said they couldn't just a few comments ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 04:59 AM
3

Then it shouldn't be hard for you to find the proof and share it here.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 04:56 AM
4

Where is all your evidence that feminists oppose this law exactly? Men can see their kids, they just need to show interest. Stop ignoring the facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 04:41 AM
6

So why are you ignoring the fact that its now law? If you want to argue about shitty laws etc from the past then the women will win this argument every time.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 04:31 AM
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Florida is one state out of how many? And a red one at that. The research shows that when men ask for split custody they get it the majority of the time. Also I just looked up Florida and its a 50/50 time sharing aka custody, state.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 04:26 AM
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Court decisions are generally whats in the best interests of the child and family court believes its in the best interests of the child for both parents to be involved. Most fathers do not even request custody. Youre already ignoring the research available on this topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 04:09 AM
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Men do get custody when they ask for it though, thats not a myth.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 03:57 AM
8

Dudes in this sub do exactly the same thing, ignore any proof, deny the results of any research.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 03:52 AM
1

Research suggests its actually women that require variety.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 11:13 PM
17

You are allowed to argue with women. Where does it say you can't?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 07:06 PM
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Why is women having surgery easy but men getting surgery hard? Plumping an ugly woman's tits and lips isnt going to make her hot if the rest of her face is ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 02:10 AM
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You havent contributed though.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 03:54 AM
9

Ill take that to mean unemployed then. Why should the safety net only protect mens jobs? Women need jobs too. We all have bills to pay regardless of gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 07:37 AM
9

Women didnt have a choice back then. Jobs should be available to everyone. What job do you do that was stolen by a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 06:19 AM
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Stealing their jobs? Ha good one. They're not mens jobs, they're peoples jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 04:38 AM
6

Yes they can.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 05:20 AM
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I'm aware they can. The majority arent, just like the majority of men arent.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 05:52 AM
5

Huh? This isn't even your post unless you're rockin multiple accounts. Is that all you all you want women to do? Not say mean things?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 05:46 AM
5

Most women dont go around bad mouthing men all day. Is that it?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 05:41 AM
4

Where is the lie? Since when does making out with someone add to body count?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 10:56 PM
9

How exactly do you want women to help men? What should they be doing?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 10:47 PM
0

You say as you deflect.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 07:14 PM
1

Have you read the rest of the comments on this post?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 11:26 AM
0

What use would brownie points from anonymous redditors be?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 11:09 AM
2

Says the weirdly aggressive guy. You've contributed less yourself, unless you think calling someone a liar and an idiot is adding to the conversation. Sue me for not writing a novel.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 10:38 AM
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Dude refers to basic adulting and contributing to chores as slavery. God forbid men are expected to contribute to the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 10:21 AM
9

The whole post is an example as to why women are choosing to stay single.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 09:59 AM
11

I took his words and re-stated them, literally reading what is there. If it wasn't what he meant then why did he say it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 09:50 AM
15

Isn't it? "They expect men to open the doors and, clean the house be equal. Basically be like their servant" Direct quote by the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 09:46 AM
18

On what planet is wanting to be equal the same as expecting someone to be a servant?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 09:26 AM
1

On looks alone you can't tell who will and who wont, hence the sifting through the shit. People arent exactly forthcoming with their faults.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 05:19 AM
1

Because some men cant cope with not having a woman handed to them on a platter.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 04:40 AM
1

A single good experience doesnt cancel out a series of shit ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 04:29 AM
1

People dont exactly have quality man tattooed on their forehead. I imagine they've gotta sift through the shit til they find what theyre looking for, much like men do when they're looking for the kind of partner they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 04:24 AM
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I am, your post shows you dont understand how women think, theyre not men, they dont think like you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 04:18 AM
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I read your post didnt I? And I happen to disagree. You were the sexist guy right?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 04:13 AM
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I'm not surprised either, some people find it hard to see things from a perspective other than their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 04:02 AM
1

I didnt realise we were arguing. Already been over the quality thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 03:58 AM
1

Of course not, women have eyes too and want to be attracted to any dude theyre gona be with, that does without saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 03:36 AM
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Not everyone is attracted to the exact same look. Attractiveness is subjective. One person's 10 is another's 4.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 03:07 AM
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Yeah but what men see as a quality dude isnt necessarily what a women sees as a good dude. Dude can be a great mate, great guy, yet still be a shitty partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 02:01 AM
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Theyve made it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 01:53 AM
0

Not if what the person gets is absolute shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 01:41 AM
1

What makes you think theyre getting quality?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 01:40 AM
-2

Do understand the concept of quality over quantity?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 12:05 AM
0

Most women arent lying when they say they love someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 10:17 AM
1

You literally posted a screenshot of the part in the convo when he brought up my wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 10:09 AM
1

I said about my wife because he referenced my wife, it was literally a response to him bringing up my wife. Hmm no, shes all mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 09:55 AM
1

And you created an argument where there wasnt one. If you properly read through my comments you'd probably see we are on the same side of the argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 09:43 AM
1

Youre the one who brought my relationship into the conversation man.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 09:30 AM
1

Good for them, I roll my eyes when people say sexist shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 09:29 AM
1

Only when they're being sexist. Women too.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 09:14 AM
1

Still sexist.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 09:09 AM
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Why didnt you just say it to him yourself if it was that important to you. I am still confused by your whole argument, you've spent how many comments accusing me of saying something I didn't even say. I never even implied that women didnt care about men, in fact I said they did care.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 09:08 AM
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Oh so you're just sexist then.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 09:02 AM
1

I never said they couldn't, you came up with that all on your own lady.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 09:01 AM
1

Sure they can, quite a leap you've made there though when the comment was about my wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 08:59 AM
1

Then your daughter solicits the services of a prostitute herself, male or female, cool with you
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 08:54 AM
1

My wife cares about me, and is turned on by me. Whats your problem with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 08:53 AM
1

What? Are you responding to the right comment? Ive said women do care about men. I have never and would never pay anyone to have sex with me, I dont need to.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 08:50 AM
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You dont make any sense, not even sure why youre trying to compare them. My wife is not my mother. I dont have a sexual relationship with my mother so what does my wife being turned on by me have to do with my mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 08:44 AM
1

So youre ok with fucking prostitutes but its not acceptable for your daughter to become one, only other people's daughters.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 08:40 AM
1

Not sure what you're getting at here, the relationship I have with my wife is very different from the relationship I have with my mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 08:37 AM
2

What?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 08:32 AM
1

Youd be perfectly happy for your daughter to grow up to become a prostitute then?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 08:29 AM
2

Orgasms speak for themselves man. Part of being an adult and being in a relationship is communicating with your partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 08:08 AM
0

Some things by more than others.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 07:54 AM
2

Uh the OP says its better. Hence my questioning of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 07:50 AM
2

Our sexual relationship suggests otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 07:49 AM
1

Doesnt make it not pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 07:43 AM
0

Thats a pretty sad way to live.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 07:34 AM
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Could change at the drop of a hat for men too. Thats human. As for them sharing stories and laughing etc you'd be delusional to think otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 07:24 AM
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Went through with the request? Oh no, women wont just give in to sexual requests they arent interested in, how dare they.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 07:22 AM
2

The respect is definitely pretend.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 07:18 AM
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Women in consensual relationships do care about men or they wouldn't be with them. There are shitheads of every gender but its far from the majority. Professionalism in your presence sure, do you honestly believe they dont share stories between themselves though? I'm sure they have a great laugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 07:08 AM
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People can and will criticise regardless. Women were restricted back then, women arent restricting men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 07:05 AM
4

A prostitute may not gossip with your mutual friends but they would 100% gossip amongst themselves. They also wouldn't give a shit about your sanity or mental health, or about you in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 06:20 AM
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You think sex is better with someone that doesn't actually want it and just wants a paycheck?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 03:14 AM
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An attractive women doesn't necessarily equal a good fuck. I dont understand this obsession some people have with wanting to fuck a so called 9 or 10. Physically attractive also doesnt mean there will be chemistry. Would it be worth it for this free pass to cheat when she just lays there like a sack of potatoes? Hard pass.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 01:45 AM
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Thats gona depend on the person, some people only care about looks, some value personality over looks while others value looks over personality. Most want a good combo of the two. Chemistry and compatibility are major factors too though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 02:50 AM
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If I was serious about someone then I wouldn't feel the need to fuck other people and would wait til they were ready, would expect the same in reverse.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 09:34 PM
1

Ive never heard of half those people and I dont care enough to research it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 01:21 AM
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Then name more than one. Celebrities arent women in general either.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 11:16 PM
1

Women means plural. Lizzo is one woman. The backlash against what she said and did was huge and she was essentially cancelled.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 10:31 PM
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Like how unmarried women were referred to as 'old maid', 'spinster' or leftover women?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 07:28 PM
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Neither are you, yet only one of us is trying to speak for men in general and it isnt me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 09:11 PM
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No WE dont, thats something you do. Ive never compared my size to any of my mates.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 07:00 PM
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No, but if a dude barely leaves his house, doesnt socialise, is standoffish, basically isolates himself then that could contribute to his inability to form a sexual relationship with someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 12:02 AM
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The exact same women campaigning are body shaming men? Where?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 11:03 PM
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What makes you think the women campaigning against body shaming are the same women who body shame men? Have you even considered that?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 10:50 PM
1

Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 09:04 PM
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No because you can't say it without some kind of justification. Tells me all I need to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 08:51 PM
1

Say it then, say unemployed men who live off their parents are hypocritical to expect a traditional woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 08:47 PM
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No I dont, women spoke out against body shaming after being shamed frequently, yet theyre still shamed for gaining a little weight, not shaving, wearing too much make up, wearing not enough make up etc. Men have no problem vocalising not wanting 'fatties' or a fav in this sub, 'landwhales'. If you want to start a campaign against men being body shamed then have at it, women have organised their own. If men want it they can organise it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 08:14 PM
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Thats the same reasons women say body shaming is wrong. See, not a gender issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 07:53 PM
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Yea they do, they say body shaming is wrong all the time, usually in reference to height or penis size.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 06:30 PM
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I'm concerned that you cant seem to acknowledge when a man is being a delusional hypocrite.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 10:44 AM
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Why cant you just say that mens preferences and desires can be silly too without trying to justify it by saying it will never work out anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 08:57 AM
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So you have no problem with women having whatever preferences or desires they want, no matter how unrealistic or picky they may seem?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 08:23 AM
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Interesting that you have no problem calling out women's preferences but when its mens then suddenly they can desire whatever they want. Do you think a traditional woman is a reasonable request for a man with no job and who lives with his parents?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 07:44 AM
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Bit hypocritical of the op don't you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 06:50 AM
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He can believe in having a traditional relationship all he wants but good luck finding a woman who wants that with a man who doesn't even have a job, op for example, and relies on mummy and daddy for everything. Dude wants everything handed to him on a platter while offering zilch.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 04:41 AM
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My comment is in response to him saying women these days don't want to cook, in general most people don't want to cook, they do it so they can eat. Sure some people enjoy it but for most its just another thing you've gotta do.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 03:08 AM
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No surprising, he wants a woman to do it for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 03:06 AM
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Your post suggests men dont. You want women to go back to their roots and make no mention of men doing the same. I cook, I take care of my family as does my wife. Women are right to not want to have to mother their spouse. Women dont want to cook either, most people just do it out of necessity. Just because im also a man doesn't mean ill blindly defend men when I think what's being said is wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 12:36 AM
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Men don't want to cook or take care of their family either.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 12:29 AM
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Being an older virgin could also be seen as a consequence of one's actions too.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 11:53 PM
2

People can think someone is their looksmatch but others might not agree. People have different ideas for what is attractive and what isnt.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 11:15 PM
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I'm not sure why they need to say anything, other people's standards, superficial or not, are their own problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 08:17 PM
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This is not a gender specific thing, both men and women do this, though men usually use fat, ugly, slut etc even if none of those things are true.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 02:55 AM
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Prostitutes exist for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 05:07 AM
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Because a lot of the dudes here dont like to be called misogynists even when its true. Perpetual victimhood, its all about them and fuck everyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 01:26 AM
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Same shit different day dude. Thats this sub every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 11:19 PM
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My wife and I have frequent and enthusiastic sex. Her enthusiasm levels with prior partners is irrelevant to me. Shes sleeping with me not them. If you're not getting enthusiasm then either the sex is bad for her or shes not really into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 01:18 AM
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Firstly no, secondly even if that did happen the current generations would be riddled with stds.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 08:33 PM
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So just dont worry about disease then? Hard pass.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 08:22 PM
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Doing the bare minimum is a good start. Women arent always the tidier person in a relationship either but somehow they manage to figure it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 08:19 PM
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Yes, its her name, her decision. My name isnt any more important than hers.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 07:54 PM
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Tha basics are the same. Thats not an excuse, men have eyes, people go on and on about how visual men are, they can see mess, they can see what needs doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 07:51 PM
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Women also generally have weaker criteria than what he stated. He cant use a statement to make his point and then say no actually that doesn't count.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 09:58 AM
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Do you seriously think submissive, presentable to family, attractive/hot, playful/emotionally stimulating (not TOO dry), not lazy/can do housework, not promiscuous, and brings peace (not drama) - is equal to hot and not unbearable.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 09:56 AM
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Well which is it then? First you say "Men want a woman that is submissive, presentable to family, attractive/hot, playful/emotionally stimulating (not TOO dry), not lazy/can do housework, not promiscuous, and brings peace (not drama)." Then you say "I want a woman that is hot and not unbearable." Those are not the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 05:55 AM
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Why dont you believe those reasons are because theyre attracted to them and like them as a person? Anyone can be used, abused or settled for, relationship or not, male or female.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 05:05 AM
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What? Thats a very specific scenario and not even close to the norm. Of course no one will see that as a compliment. Your post is about hook ups vs relationships, not gold diggers.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 04:28 AM
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More inexperienced gun owners is not a sensible solution. America has a big enough gun problem as it is. Even more trigger happy gun toters would end in disaster.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 04:15 AM
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I think its weird, wanting someone forever is more of a compliment in my eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 03:54 AM
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Why should a woman need to make a chore chart to try and get a man to act like an adult. Men aren't children, they don't need their hands held through basic adulting.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 03:28 AM
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Entertainment.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 09:03 PM
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No, depended on the relationship and what kind of connection we had. People are individuals, what works with one person wont necessarily be the right fit for another. I didnt expect the same treatment either.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 03:59 AM
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Motherhood and fatherhood are only easy for those who do the bare minimum.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 06:07 AM
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Good parents dont use ipads as 24/7 babysitters.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 05:57 AM
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No, men dont own hobbies. Hobbies are for whoever enjoys them. If you cant enjoy your hobbie just because a woman also enjoys it then thats a you problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 08:01 PM
0

Its not needed at all actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 03:27 AM
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Just get them off before you stick your dick in, its not hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 09:57 PM
6

Holy porn brain.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 11:39 PM
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Its a debate post and I have said I disagreed and why. Did you just want everyone to agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 10:04 PM
1

Anyone can have an opinion, you should wear what you like though.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 07:38 PM
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Nah its male selfishness, cant claim it as anything but when so many women have spoken out saying a lot men dont even try to get them off. I have a rule, she comes first. I get mine after.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 07:33 PM
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Women have been shamed for anything sexual all through history. Pretty obvious which came first.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 03:46 AM
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Men not marrying sluts is a myth. Both genders are free to slut it up, or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 02:46 AM
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Didn't say it was, just said women are likely doing what men do to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 01:02 AM
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Neither actually, I'm here for entertainment and you have been quite entertaining. You know this all leads back to my very first comment in this thread, about men shaming women for being sluts, ran through etc and then having that same logic turned back on them by women. Men shame women loudly and proudly for their preferences all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 12:38 AM
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I didnt say ive never seen it, re-read what I wrote, it literally says I have seen it but only online. It doesnt effect you and you dont really care, youre just looking for whatever reasons you can find to hate on women and their preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 11:13 PM
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I never said it hasnt happened. If you are perfectly happy with women not choosing you then why did you bother arguing with me in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 09:42 PM
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The only place ive ever even seen in mentioned is reddit. And thats usually even brought to light with posts like, do women like bi men.....etc, women arent screaming it, entitled people just cant seem to accept when someone isn't interested and need to get over themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 08:27 PM
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Imaginary women arent really relevant to the conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 08:24 PM
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Its not perpetuating harmful standards unless people are screaming it from the rooftops. You cant convince people to find something attractive. Attraction is individual, its personal, and no one should have any say on what other people find attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 12:03 AM
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Theres nothing immoral about refusing to fuck someone. Complaining that people arent attracted to you will only kill their attraction further. People are allowed their preferences. If you dont fit someone's then move on til you find someone that you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 10:23 PM
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No, just the ones who think women are tainted by sex, used up, ran through etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 08:35 PM
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You dont have to fuck anyone you don't want to fuck bro. The whole idea is to find someone who meets your preferences, if they don't you're not obligated to give anyone a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 02:00 AM
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People can choose who they share their body with, there's nothing homophobic or racist about it. No one is entitled to interest from anyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 01:26 AM
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Are you new to this sub? Its repeated on here all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 01:24 AM
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Men are the ones claiming women are used up and ran through if too many dicks have touched them. Men reinforce the idea that women being fucked by men taints them or ruins them, makes them no longer pure. Maybe those women are just using mens logic for their own benefit.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 12:35 AM
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They should do whatever they agree to. If there is a huge income discrepancy and they're to go 50/50 then it makes sense to live by the means of the lower income person.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 01:14 AM
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My wife games and her bmi is 21.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 11:53 PM
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Men slut shame out of jealousy. They wish they could be sluts but the majority fail miserably.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 11:00 PM
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Not liking, hating, whatever. The point remains the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 09:27 PM
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Search the Matilda effect. Its literally been happening all throughout history
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 09:24 PM
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I literally just mentioned the word hate, I dont understand why you see that specific word as so important. Who cares if some women hate video games, those women just wouldn't be compatible with men who love them. I dont see an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 09:22 PM
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The title should represent whats in the post, no one has to like video games, both women and men can hate video games. Both women and men can hate sports. Both women and men can hate tiktok or insert whatever activity here.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 09:11 PM
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The initial commentor on this comment thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 08:54 PM
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The title of your post literally says they arent mature, they're boring, those are your words bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 08:53 PM
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Then who mothered my children?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 08:52 PM
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I think you've got that backwards mate, for pretty much all history men have claimed credit for women's achievements.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 08:51 PM
1

They are incredible feats. Women aren't men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 08:45 PM
0

Theres a dude in this comment thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 08:44 PM
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My wife is a gamer, she was a gamer before we met. She doesn't use twitch, sell bathwater or have only fans.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 08:25 PM
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I disagree and I say that as someone who games. Its not an issue of maturity, its merely different interests and preferences. People arent boring just because they dont like video games.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 08:21 PM
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I'm married and I think redpill is just an excuse for men to hate on and blame women for everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 08:10 PM
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Because people have different definitions of what is considered a good man. From a man's perspective a man could be a good dude, friend, bro etc but from a woman's perspective that doesnt necessarily mean they'll be a good partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 03:21 AM
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How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 08:24 PM
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Treating others as lesser is not the right thing. Taking away people's rights is not the right thing. Society runs smoothest when everyone is happy, not just men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 11:00 AM
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Why do I need to benefit from it? Doing the right thing and being a decent person is enough reason to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 07:37 AM
1

Your comment just backs up my point about men try to avoid responsibility for their kids. If an abortion occurs there's no kid to be responsible for.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 08:12 PM
1

Women dont make post after post arguing for their right to financial abortion and abandoning their kids. That very much seems to be a man thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 11:56 PM
1

Women don't believe they can change a man's sexuality. Thats very much a male thing, some are quite vocal about it even believing that lesbians just havent had the right dick yet. As far as women married to gay men without realising, yeah that happens more than people realise and so does the reverse, a lot of men married to lesbians without realising. Some people dont even come to terms with their sexuality til later in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 06:50 PM
1

I don't live in America.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 07:33 PM
4

Depends if you want to have sex again. Ive never been told I'm bad in bed though.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 08:49 PM
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They can age right alongside me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 09:30 AM
6

Looks matter for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 03:08 AM
1

Do men 30-40 dress differently to men in their 20s? I cant say ive noticed this.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 12:28 AM
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Because the attraction part goes without saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 07:46 PM
2

You wish women looked after their kids? The majority do. Why dont you wish men looked after their kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 07:37 PM
1

Safe havens arent worldwide, we don't have them NZ, if you abandon you baby here you will face criminal charges.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 07:34 PM
1

Women stay and raise the kids, men seem to want rights but no responsibility. If a child is born both parents should be responsible for its well-being.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 11:26 AM
3

Then the child is not just her responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 11:17 AM
2

Are you incapable of answering a simple question?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 11:03 AM
1

Women take responsibility for their kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 10:48 AM
2

Abortion should always be an option but no one should be forced into one if theyre not comfortable doing so. Once the babies are born women aren't dumping them on the fathers and trying to escape responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 10:31 AM
0

No, pro choice, but ultimately the women's choice as she carries the majority of the risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 10:28 AM
2

After you ejaculate inside someone thats no longer in your control. Sex comes with risks, thats a risk you take every time you do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 09:34 AM
3

The truth hurts man.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 04:10 AM
5

To work on your mental health, help you work through your problems and come up with methods to help you cope. Its not to help you get your dick wet, thats prostitution.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 03:41 AM
3

Therapy is for the big head not the little one mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 03:27 AM
1

It was his choice to put his jizz inside her baby maker so yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 12:55 AM
1

Was a yes no question man, yes or no
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 12:14 AM
5

If children are women's responsibility, should men then have any rights concerning those children? Its a yes no question.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 11:53 PM
7

Then it should be entirely up to the woman as to whether the man can have anything to do with the child. If a child is always a woman's responsibility then all those men saying women are keeping their children from them can go take a giant fucking leap right?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 11:10 PM
5

Maybe men should just, you know, take responsibility for their jizz and not impregnate women if they don't want kids. Women don't become single mothers on their own, deadbeats create them by knocking them up and refusing to take accountability for their actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 07:19 PM
3

No, its not women's fault theyre not attracted to all men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 11:04 AM
1

So if he wants her to abort she should just have no say and he should get to decide what she does with her body?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 11:03 AM
5

It doesn't need to be rational or measured. Attraction is involuntary.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 10:10 AM
3

It is selfish to create a child and not contribute to its upbringing. You can't have two party agreement if the man and the woman have differing opinions. She carries the baby, she gets the final say. As far as decision making goes, you seem ok with a decision being made by a man effecting another.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 10:08 AM
3

Thats biology, the women have to carry and birth the babies too, is that fair? No, its biology. You'll never get your wish, its more beneficial to the child and society if those responsible for creating the child support and raise the child. When you create a child you need too see the bigger picture instead of your selfish wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 09:39 AM
10

She's not throwing it on any man, he throws it on himself when he impregnates her.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 09:23 AM
9

Nah men can be held just as responsible for their spawn as women are. A child's well-being is more important than your feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 09:06 AM
6

Logically, if men were worth dating they would have no problems getting a partner. Its not women's fault alot of men arent worth their time.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 08:47 AM
10

If you knock someone up you take responsibility for your mistake.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 05:54 AM
12

Your kid, your responsibility, if men took responsibility for their kids there would be a lot less single parents and a lot less kids growing up in poverty and without a father figure.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 03:09 AM
5

You can't make women want to fuck you bro, they either do or they dont.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 09:43 PM
50

Men will bitch about their right to abandon their kids then shit all over the efforts of single mothers all in the same breath.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 08:37 PM
6

Women already pay child support dude, its not a men only obligation.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 08:31 PM
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This is fucked up even for this sub dude. Most women dont fantasise about sexual violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 06:53 AM
5

They don't need to take accountability for something thats not their fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 02:46 AM
7

There are literally dudes commenting on this post blaming them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 01:52 AM
4

On this sub prime is pretty much exclusively talked about in sexual terms.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 04:28 AM
9

A sexless prime, how depressing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 01:36 AM
4

If the amount of sex a dude gets in his prime is the same as the sex he gets not in his prime, is he really in his prime.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 01:20 AM
30

Some people dont get a prime.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 08:53 PM
78

Is it really your prime if no one wants you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 08:44 PM
1

Or you know, they have jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 08:07 PM
27

And this is why women are beginning to see men as superfluous.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 07:26 AM
1

The only place I've ever heard the terms low value and high value when speaking about people is online.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 12:11 AM
2

Reliable??? Too funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 03:51 AM
10

No, that sounds like a miserable existence to everyone involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 02:18 AM
12

Chris Brown is a celebrity so thats not really a good example to use.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 01:52 AM
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Fuck no, thats got dead bedroom written all over it. People should be free to choose their own partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 04:59 AM
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Ok so do nothing then and quit complaining about mens mental health and the suicide rate.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 09:03 PM
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Do you perhaps talk too much or interupt?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 08:47 PM
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Other dudes seem to socialise just fine in those scenarios so framing this as a male problem isnt accurate. Its an issue with you and your social skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 08:44 PM
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How do they know it wont work for them? You even said yourself MOST, not all. Theyre assuming it wont work for them and not even bothering to try then complaining that no one cares. You can see a doctor and get treatment for depression without therapy too.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 08:42 PM
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What kind of groups are you attending? Are you trying to socialise with both men and women or just women?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 08:33 PM
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They wont actually know for sure until they try. Then they need to find a purpose. That is something they need to do for themselves, others cant do it for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 08:22 PM
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They are acknowledged. There comes a point when people need to take accountability and put some effort into solving their issues themselves. If youre depressed see a doctor, seek therapy instead of shitting on it. If you've got an alcohol problem, same thing, seek help, people have to want to get better, others cant do it for them. Social isolation, go out and get involved, join groups, go to social events. The community is there, people just need to actively take part instead of sitting at home…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 08:04 PM
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Can you be more specific? People can be hostile in general and not just towards one gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 07:57 PM
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Whats your suggested solution here? How do you want this addressed?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 07:42 PM
3

Those women have been the younger women dating older and see it for what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 07:00 PM
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They wont be taught that a man is expected to be a provider and protector. Theyll be taught how to be independent adults.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 06:57 PM
3

Not everyone wants one mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 06:56 PM
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The point is I'm not instilling that shit nor trying to mould them into a future trad wife bang maid. If thats a choice they make on their own then so be it but I am raising them to look after themselves and make their own choices based on what is best for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 04:30 AM
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I have zero intentions of instilling wifely/maternal duties in my daughters. They're their own people and can make their own choices as to whether they want to get married and have children. No way will I train them up to essentially mother some pathetic loser of a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 03:18 AM
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Most women have been there, done that, and know the reality of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 12:58 AM
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Guess I just imagined all those posts about women's rights, women's standards being too high, 80:20, mens loneliness, ai sex bots etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 02:42 AM
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Almost everything posted on this sub is some shitty generalisation about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 02:27 AM
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The amount of men getting degrees isn't zero bro, there just happens to be more women for once. Plenty of men are still bothering. None of this suggests women are anything close to incompetent.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 01:40 AM
1

Same could be said about the OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 01:22 AM
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The data is against you mate. More women than ever are graduating college/university.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 01:15 AM
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Can't say ive seen it. More dudes complaining about being 'lonely' when they actually mean sexless.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 01:10 AM
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I'm a normal dude in a normal relationship. No degenerates here, yet plenty of love and passion.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 11:53 PM
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Women just quietly get on with life. Men complain and try to make it everyone else's problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 10:42 PM
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Dude, you're a virgin claiming women are mostly vanilla in bed, do you realise how ridiculous that sounds. You've never even had sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 06:05 AM
11

Virgin men past a certain age are seen as bad based on their actions and the bullshit they spout, similar to a lot of shit in this sub, not for simply being virgins.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 05:19 AM
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At least they'd be looked at as decent people. The more men that lie and deceive, the more men in general will be 'tarred with the same brush' and seen as dishonest and deceitful.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 05:14 AM
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So men will keep lying then keep up the woe is me, no one will fuck me attitude, great.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 04:41 AM
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Or how about this, women should have whatever standards they want, and men should be decent people, not lying pieces of shit that women prefer to avoid.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 04:17 AM
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What in the fuck did I just read.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 03:42 AM
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People who lie to get what they want are pieces of shit. If men were just honest and genuine from the get go then dating wouldn't be in the state it is now and women wouldn't be so wary and untrusting of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 06:20 PM
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Some asshole made it up. Looks have always and will always matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 06:14 AM
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Women don't necessarily think they're winning by being single, they're just happier single than they would be in relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 06:04 PM
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Don't worry, I already have, though I tend to think of myself as average.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 07:09 AM
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Its really not that deep bro, could say the same about the whole post.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 06:53 AM
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Women want to fuck men they're attracted to, shock horror.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 05:28 AM
1

Women don't need to like the majority of men. They only get into relationships with men they like though.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 10:40 PM
7

Men aren't the leaders in relationships. Women just let them think they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 04:50 PM
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Women aren't meant to raise their husbands.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 06:50 PM
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I didnt offer any advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 05:54 AM
0

Look at my other link then man.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 05:19 AM
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https://kotaku.com/half-gamers-women-switch-ps5-xbox-pc-owners-girls-stats-1850524629
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 04:42 AM
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https://www.gamesindustry.biz/esa-48-of-video-game-players-are-women
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 04:30 AM
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So what. Its not women's fault they're not attracted to more men. You cant force attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 04:29 AM
7

Whats wrong with that. I'd also put in more effort with women I'm more attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 03:10 AM
12

There won't be any progressing, you do the bare minimum, you'll get the bare minimum in return. Sounds like a pretty sad and shitty way to live.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 01:38 AM
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If child support actually took into account the real cost of raising a child then welfare wouldn't be necessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 01:19 AM
0

A female gamer just looks like a normal person much like a male gamer is just a dude. Most gamers, male and female, aren't streaming shit, they're just having fun gaming with mates.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 11:50 PM
1

I never said mens reading didnt count as real reading. I just said most men dont read romance. Women do game though.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 08:54 PM
0

Ah a gatekeeper.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 08:31 PM
1

My parents never had the talk with me nor did my wife's parents with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 08:12 PM
1

What games were campaigned against?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 07:28 PM
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What does that matter, gaming is gaming.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 07:23 PM
1

Porn is exploitative. Smut doesn't hurt anybody.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 07:07 PM
1

Women make up almost 50% of gamers so it makes sense that some games should appeal to them as it isn't just a male hobby. The percentage of men who read romance novels is far less.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 07:00 PM
1

You wouldn't even know it if they didn't tell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 10:12 PM
1

No one should ask anyone else to change to suit someone else's preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 03:00 AM
3

Yes that particular preference is elective, but women aren't the only ones with elective preferences, everyone does.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 12:50 AM
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Enable them how? If they don't want you then they don't want you. No one is gona be everyone's type.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 12:06 AM
1

Its no different to men not wanting to date a gold digger.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 12:05 AM
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Those aren't close to being equivalent. All of the mens actions you mention are choices they make. Women can't just choose what they're attracted so just telling them to lower their standards is pointless.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 06:27 PM
2

No, rapists are to blame for raping.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 07:52 PM
1

Nope, no more than chefs being responsible for obesity. People's stupid choices are their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 06:12 PM
1

Yep, firstly they chose to take drugs, secondly they chose to take too much drugs.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 06:07 PM
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Hypotheticals are irrelevant, the law is the law whether you want to believe it or not. It is delusional to think kids are spending their pocket money on onlyfans. They'd not only need a credit card - parents are sure as shit going to notice that charge, but they also need to verify their age. Its not deflecting blame from women when the blame doesn't lie with them in the first place. Women aren't responsible for men's porn addictions.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 10:12 AM
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For the last time, it is considered rape because legally children cannot consent to sexual activity with adults - it is the law. Female sex workers aren't advertising their services to minor kids for their pocket money. Can't say i've seen that kind of advertising myself but I assume you mean on social media which kids shouldn't even be on. Older males are exposing younger ones to pornography.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 09:58 AM
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Disagree, I have explained my reasoning, you're choosing to ignore it. What gender would you say those adults providing the pornographic material might be?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 09:41 AM
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I'll say it again, children cannot consent to sexual activity with adults - that is rape. Pushing a button and adults abusing children is not the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 09:36 AM
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Children don't 'have' sex with adults. They don't just 'do' it. Adults rape children. I still stand by my initial comment. Seeking something out is a choice, clicking the button is a choice. Parents still play a role in allowing their kids unsupervised access to the internet, that should be monitored. The majority of boys and men are not addicted to porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 09:30 AM
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Children cannot consent to sexual activity with adults. Its the parents that should be held accountable if theyre allowing their children unsupervised access to the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 09:16 AM
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The post is about mens libido not little girls. And if a dude is fucking an under-age girl hes a fuckin rapist pedo.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 08:55 AM
13

If you choose to start using fentanyl in the first place then yeah sure do. Taking drugs to start with is a choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 04:05 AM
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I mean yeah if you choose to click a button and watch porn that is your own fault. You could always just not click the button. Whos fault could your choices be but your own.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 02:35 AM
8

Lucky all round, she's much better with finances than I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 12:01 AM
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My wife was a stay at home mum for years. She had full access to all the accounts, equal contributions made to both our retirement accounts, and we both got the same spending allowance for our own personal spending.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 06:03 PM
4

You dont claim the negative though, only the positive.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 02:59 AM
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WE? You're claiming credit for shit men of the past did. Where's the almighty we when rape and abuse statistics came up.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 07:21 PM
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What do they need to do to fix themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 05:11 AM
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Dude you're bitching about women not wanting to help men then on here stating you think the only thing women provide is sex and romance. Why would women want to help someone who thinks that?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 03:45 AM
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They don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 06:48 PM
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Some will be, sure, the only one they need to take it up with is the mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 01:22 AM
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Not liking being called a hivemind isn't a matter of thinking its a good or bad thing. Its more that when speaking that way about an entire gender, its factually incorrect. Its not that its bad, its that it isnt true.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 10:35 PM
3

Solved in societal ways how?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 08:38 PM
12

Most women want their kids to be looked after properly and most men don't want to be the primary caregiver.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 08:36 PM
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You're only going to be compatible with a small proportion of people. It takes all of a few seconds to read a paragraph to see if you actually have anything in common or if there are dealbreakers. Swiping on every woman a dudes comes across clearly isn't working. Women have the right idea in being more selective. If only men would learn from that instead of acting like horny cavemen.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 05:17 AM
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If you can't understand you learn more about something by reading information about it, than you do by just looking at it then I'm not sure what to tell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 04:12 AM
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None of that was ever common sense. Common, yes. Common sense, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 02:59 AM
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Common sense. Some people seem to lack it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 02:21 AM
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I don't know, but more likely than attempting to match with someone you know nothing about.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 11:09 PM
1

So we should just ignore that his post is about straight relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 06:28 PM
1

I didn't use the word all therefore, surprise, surprise, wasn't talking about all men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 06:27 PM
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His post refers to straight relationships and couples therapy. Do you go to couples therapy with your friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 06:26 PM
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None of those are couples issues within a relationship. Sounds like you just don't like it when people don't do things the way you want them to.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 03:40 AM
4

Can I have an example of a problem women will complain about but don't want solved?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 03:09 AM
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So you're against venting in relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 02:58 AM
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I guess I just don't see how's its a gender issue. Most people don't like it admit when they're wrong, not just women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 02:56 AM
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Doco or not its still going to attract a certain type of person willing to air their dirty laundry on TV. Those who want attention more specifically. They're not the average person.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 02:47 AM
1

Reality tv and social media aren't real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 02:40 AM
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I didn't say all men, I said blame those who commit the crime. If you didn't commit the crime then you're not being referred to.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 01:28 AM
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If men are raping and abusing women then yeah that is mens fault, who else would you put the blame on? Makes sense to blame those who commit the crime.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 01:21 AM
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You're more likely to find someone compatible if you read the bio though. By not reading the bio you're wasting both your own time and the other person's.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 12:08 AM
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Speak for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 09:43 AM
4

Money, money draws younger women to get into relationships with old men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 03:25 AM
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