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That identity will necessarily develop around good looks. They'll develop around whatever the hell you have going on inside. Good looks may affect how that inside is perceived though, that's true
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 12:37 AM
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No. I am blessed to have the men in my life. (Those that I am blessed to have.)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 12:39 AM
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It's not women's sexuality I see as a threat, it's the boogeyman I have created on the basis of women's sexuality! Checkmate I guess?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 12:27 AM
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This opinion is very bitchmade
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 12:26 AM
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Nowhere good. Not crisis by any means, but nowhere near the abundance you'd want in an ideal world
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 12:15 AM
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It's just one kind of activity out of several. It's not essential that women enjoy sports, so many don't. women put down and see as silly even into adulthood Annoying women, sure, but many annoying men too, and not a great deal of either.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 04:52 AM
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Ahh. Be me and assume she's kidding about the boyfriend looool
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 04:19 AM
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and it wouldn't cost me too much time and energy lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 04:18 AM
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Of course, very much
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 03:57 AM
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The case you're making for power being the primary attractor in men is really weak. What is powerful about being cute and nice? Also, men and women are not objects.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 03:54 AM
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No. Center yourself or somebody else, there are far too many people on this little rock for this to make sense dude
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 07:40 AM
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Not a person so I don't care
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 07:39 AM
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Hell no, eww. Sadly work has made me wish it a couple of times, but my brilliance isn't gendered even if it's treated as such
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 07:35 AM
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I haven't.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 07:34 AM
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I hate the people who say soy boy as an insult, but it remains true that testosterone levels in the male population are plummeting YOY (the people that throw this insult around are no exception to the rule.) You obviously start to wonder what that's doing to the people you meet each day. Maybe the more pressing question is what's being done to us by the forces that brought this about. Probably nothing good! So weird to live at the very pinnacle of human luxury and comfort, while most likely payi…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 03:37 AM
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I am trying to make new friends in the city and nothing is clicking. Yep, it's a grind until you find that core group(s) but volume is key Don't know who this guy is but really, do you care all that much? I wouldn't tolerate being called a name either
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 06:21 AM
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Science disagrees
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 05:26 AM
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Women are not prey
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 05:25 AM
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Maryam or the 33 y/o Fur coat Dajah Courtney Ashley
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 05:14 AM
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"I don't like any women" = 100% emphasis on the sex. It is always a misogynistic statement. "I don't like any women in this place" = at least a 50% emphasis on the 'place' which removes the total emphasis away from sex. It's at worst partially misogynistic, and at best not misogynistic at all, as the hatred would come from the place.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 03:47 AM
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Maybe my sexuality is toxic after all !She's from Alabama, gross!<
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 03:40 AM
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It's a popular preference for young women these days
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 05:34 PM
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I don't like any women shows a dislike rooted entirely in the gender of the individuals at hand. A qualifier "in this space") removes the emphasis on gender and places it on some other quality, in this case the subreddit they spend time on.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 04:13 PM
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You live a life mixed with good and bad, just like everyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 04:10 PM
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Hot Interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 04:08 PM
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Remember it was inflicted upon her, too. Being raised in this sort of environment, it was likely the only mode of existence that allowed her to feel any sort of self worth. I'm a little bit guilty of it too, minus the holier-than-though, and I definitely got it from my mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 04:06 PM
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I mean, all of the stereotypes. I want to be a successful woman like the successful women in my life. Regular ladies with regular lives that have an area they happen to be excellent in, that the market recognizes appropriately $$$$. There is no stereotype around these women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 03:58 PM
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No he doesn't
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 01:06 AM
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I think the qualifier makes it not
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 09:29 PM
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The reason all the sugarcoating is going on is that it's not okay to talk about yourself in a certain way, even if that way is more accurate than not. It used to be that way with calling yourself fat, people would act like you just punched a child
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 05:55 AM
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I hope you don't take this sort of thing to heart by the way, as often it's just the nature of people not following through on building friendships, rather than gender in itself. That said, girls X is sacred. It's not all or even most of my hangouts, and gender hasn't prevented me from building friendships, but you also can't really override the gendering of a get together if it has been invoked.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 05:40 AM
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Just not real great with kids lol Honestly, knowing how to talk to kids is an underrated social skills hack if you feel shaky about yours. No one that's good with kids sucks with adults.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 05:35 AM
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it's alright if that bothers you. Culturally, it's not. Which is weird
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 05:30 AM
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Answer to title is yes (this isn't in dispute) Your personal anecdote rings a bell for some bullshit gen-ed I took, but I am not at all up to date with The Literature
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 05:26 AM
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Similar to yours. I've never wondered why a guy wouldn't approach me, and I don't expect to be approached by people I've never contacted before. However, I remember this one girl I used to hang out with that did play this game. She seemed miserable
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 05:24 AM
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The sadder thing is what many people think counts as betterment. It's often a bunch of stuff that makes people worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 03:36 AM
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One of the hottest men in the public eye lmao. But if it makes him feel better to say then go off I guess, it's to be expected
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 03:27 AM
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I've seen men being called simps for holding doors open. Doesn't mean "simp" is a meaningless insight.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 03:23 AM
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that it starts losing any meaning Not at all, honestly. Everyone knows what a simp is. Everyone knows what a pickme is. Everyone has seen or heard both terms thrown around to insult even when it's inaccurate. It doens't follow that there's no way of telling which is which, because all it actually reveals is the stupidity of the individuals at hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 03:22 AM
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loving idealistically Whats that
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 03:57 AM
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That's nothing to be glad about at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 03:57 AM
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She was somebody else's!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 12:30 AM
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Some people just need to get a grip
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 11:13 PM
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It depends on where you look. On social media nobody is serious, so you are more or less getting people to talk for talking's sake. IRL though people actually take initiatives, conduct research, actually put the work into creating things that can help solve
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 11:08 PM
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It's not dumb, it becomes dumb when people with agendas take the term and use it somewhere it's not meant. Keep it to the textbooks.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 10:18 PM
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and that’s not a woman’s problem to solve. No, only misogynists believe this, but we shouldn't let them detract from the fact there is a problem at hand nevertheless
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 10:09 PM
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"I have a boyfriend" If this is how you act when he's not around, it's how you'll act when I'm not around someday.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 10:06 PM
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The real answer is when you're trying to crunch the data like this, you've already lost
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 04:25 AM
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This doesn't sound like a path to confirmation bias? From bitter men?? Surely not??????
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 04:23 AM
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No, no. Ew.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 05:18 AM
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I don't care. If a buddy started dating someone older I wouldn't blink. I'd raise an eyebrow at +15 or so but it's still not any of my business
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 05:11 AM
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Lack of competence undercuts masculinity so it's pretty essential to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 06:22 AM
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People don't get away, they go where life was meant to take them. But I'm candidly aware that the guy I was with at age 22 was different than anyone I had met up to that point. I was definitely correct. My buddy still actively tries to seek out someone that has her like blocked on everything though, and that's despite currently having a cute gf. Shit is very depressing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 06:20 AM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 06:11 AM
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The debt incurred by the fact of her being a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 07:55 PM
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No. My preference is for binary. Well actually, if I think more about it, I have met one or two non-binary people that appeared very feminine or very masculine to me, but I feel like that would be dating them despite their identity, which feels wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 07:54 PM
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Deep Q! I say yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 07:22 PM
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"Whatever"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 07:18 PM
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Probably giving someone a prostate orgasm
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 07:17 PM
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I've never given one consciously. I've looked at people and had no intention of interacting with them, if that counts? But some strangers are meant to stay strangers. I've never responded to one either. Women that have been interested in me haven't been shy about expressing as much, but these are also people I already know, so you have the opportunity to flirt intensely and persistently. There are micro-tells too but I can count on one hand the times I've noticed them. I am fairly oblivious thou…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 07:13 AM
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Little bit of column C, little bit of column D. Shut the fuck up, thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 07:06 AM
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You're paying attention enough to be funny about me + you are unwilling to put me on a pedestal. The math just adds up here yup, bully away boys
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 07:04 AM
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Women ☕ Women ☕
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 07:02 AM
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Well you certainly are not empty.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 07:16 AM
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Assertive, self-assured, active, gregarious, deliberate. Source: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/fulfillment-any-age/202210/here-s-what-you-don-t-know-about-the-dark-triad
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:36 AM
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These are the same people that worship Elon Musk and his ilk. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:27 AM
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I'm gonna be completely honest, it's fucking hilarious either way
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:24 AM
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No, not in something they are invested in. Debate only works to something you're either very new to, or something you know you are on the fence about. Like sex work, which I've changed my mind on twice now. This time I think for good. I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:20 AM
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I'm a lil shy is all
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:17 AM
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It is so exhausting. Not more exhausting than carrying on with the wrong person though
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 06:09 PM
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Being a square dries up anyone except for golddiggers No, you just have to lean into it! Embracing degeneracy as a man will literally ruin your life though, I don't think even flirting with the idea is advisable
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 01:29 AM
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How do people try to manipulate you?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 01:23 AM
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Honestly, it's not romantic until she decides it is. I have seen men of all shapes and sizes graft very hard. If she's not looking for that kind of attention, you aren't going to get anywhere with all of the confidence and extroversion in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 01:21 AM
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Hottie, child, cutie, child
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 01:19 AM
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Can confirm, they aren't around you
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 01:15 AM
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Try: black asian chicks
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 01:12 AM
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She is not my usual type, but for all I know we'd fall in love
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 01:01 AM
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I mean they're also the reason I have any success at all so it's not like being upset at them makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 01:01 AM
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I'm good friends with a celebrity and get into movie screenings whenever I want My childhood home is a national monument because my grandfather built it while fighting nazis I have a big dick etc... Something that makes you stand up straighter when you remember it. Something that is yours and no one else's
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 01:38 AM
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Fuck it, let's
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 10:45 PM
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I think you need some private ace up your sleeve to have true contentment. Then, the contentment itself becomes an additional, mysterious ace.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 09:30 PM
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It's super sexy unfortunately. Beard too so I know it's real Lol I am in my mid 20s and have thought so since I was a teen
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 09:27 PM
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I have no idea what this is, but platinum is my kind of speed
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 09:25 PM
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Nothing meaningless about becoming your ideal self.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 09:24 PM
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Evasiveness is the way lol Whzt is it that you dislike about being called smart? Is it just this instance or in general?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 05:38 AM
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Mine are. Iphone portrait mode is godtier. With good lighting you don't need them
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 05:25 AM
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Sensitive
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 05:23 AM
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Really? That one's new
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 05:23 AM
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On what
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 05:22 AM
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the fact that I am undesirable in the dating market. and yet Any of the women that were into me I wasn't into them Tale as old as time
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 08:51 AM
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Mildly offensive projection and horseshit from you. Where did you read that OP doesn't like himself, or I, myself? How do you glibly decide that I'm talking to losers because we share common observations and experiences? Please face your own work.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 08:47 AM
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For a guy it would be nice if he makes as much as I do, or has the potential to. Any race but ideally similar family background to mine. An attractive, heavy body type. My male equivalent level of physical fitness would be nice, but I'd be kind of wiry as a dude. He should live in a house, yes, or be able to pitch in for us to get one eventually Absolutely no children Height is a sliding scale tbh so I've never had hard reqs
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 06:06 AM
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Not in any meaningful sense. An FWB doesn't give a shit about your child, and could not care less about what happens to them beyond surface details. An FWB is unlikely to see you in the hospital, or bail you out of jail. An FWB still won't want to plan the vacations, dinners, and outings that you want to experience with the love of your life. An FWB won't want to divide up household chores with you, but tbh, neither will your life partner. I think it's great that unconventional relationship styl…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 06:01 AM
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I mean, nah. I've talked matter-of-factly with other poc about this, and it's pretty much something you understand and move with, if you have a head on your shoulders. It's not something you have to change if it reflects what you see, nor is it something that people will "smell on you" lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 05:52 AM
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It'd make me very uncomfortable
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 05:46 AM
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Go on your local Groupon and look at your local spots, then look at their pricing options. Just looked and my place does $150 a pop for the entire back.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 07:18 AM
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That shit doesn't cost 8k, the fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 02:26 AM
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I'm actually surprised to hear no. Then what would you call it? Fit, toned, slender?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 01:27 AM
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Thank god the topic of the day is dudes' bodies, what a way to waste time. Q4W: Rank this absolute smokeshow's progress pics. Q4ALL: Is the left-most picture considered a dad bod?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 01:16 AM
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How? I couldn't do this for my best friend in the world. I imagine the same goes for most people.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 01:13 AM
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Not really, just idle talk about finding a good guy when I get older, that kind of thing. But the way our family looks made it clear regardless that marriage was important.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 01:05 AM
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While my wife is a stay at home mum and I make 30k to support our family. I had a heart attack before noticing this has to be non-urban Europe. Even so, my goodness that's not a lot. Father isn't an asshole, but this is going to be a difficult and MUCH needed parenting moment if these kids are going to come out unscathed.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 12:47 AM
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2, 1, 3 Now do a harder one!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 12:43 AM
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It's very easy for a man to work hard and have a dad bod. The discipline required to maintain a gym routine, on top of a full-time job (and household chores, and hobbies, and even children) is really admirable, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 12:42 AM
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Spend more time with barefaced, pretty women. It is good for the soul.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 12:39 AM
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It's actually really uncomfortable and annoying, for the reasons OP descriped
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 10:34 PM
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I like dad bods. I like hard bods. A man is a man is a man, you cowards
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 10:32 PM
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No, women are just prettier overall
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 10:30 PM
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This is a great page. For me, when I invoke dad bod, I'm talking about guys ranging from bottom right on 15-17%, all the way to center top at 18-20, top left at 21-24, bottom right at 25-29, and bottom left at 30%+. These bodies are beautiful too, but claiming as much is for some reason frowned upon. The wildest takeaway for me is that in each and every single category, I give a thumbs up to some, but not others who have apparently the same body fat numbers. Another important reminder that body …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 10:28 PM
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She's lovely! Women should look like themselves, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 08:19 PM
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This is preferable, but this, you could also make a case for
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 08:04 PM
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Most people are fat, but those are the people that weren't attractive under 45, in my view. Dudes can rock receding hair and balding if they do it right, both can rock wrinkles, and of course silver hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 07:49 PM
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Terrible take
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 07:18 PM
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A version of this is supported by existing research. Decrease in traditional middle class "provider" jobs has lead to an increase in unmarried men, and single mothers. Boys/men flag in education too, which makes the effect worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 01:22 AM
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Costco being the bulk-buy specialists, I imagine this was made with 2+ adults in mind?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 01:17 AM
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We want romantic partners, but we need people.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 01:14 AM
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When people on ppd say women would rather be single what they are saying is by default women are content being alone. The relationship with a man is a bonus but not a pillar of life. Actually, the opposite. Humans are social creatures isn't just a cute tagline, you know? We need other people like we need water
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 11:04 PM
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Me: forget dating, I'm putting it all in the careermaxxing while I'm still young and unencumbered! My boss: here's a nice pat on the head for your efforts this year Fuck this, putting my efforts all the way back into my real career (shitposting on reddit)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 11:03 PM
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You lose a lot of heat in the neck
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 10:50 PM
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It's 100% of them, and even this can be taken charitably. Those negative tendencies are often - almost always - the result of relationship complexity/complication. It's not even that 100% of those men would cheat on their women if given the chance, though I absolutely believe that too. It's simply that 100% of them will eventually be short with, condescend to, or even just misunderstand the woman that they're with.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 10:46 PM
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Women love ugly men. They love hot men, too, but who doesn't?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 10:18 PM
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The love we receive lasts as long as it's meant to! Hold onto the joy, but learn from the pain
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 10:16 PM
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No. You should talk to more men if you feel like they are a different species.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 02:19 AM
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You'd know more than I, but the evidence suggests "the attractive ones" ?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 11:43 PM
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Bookmark this post for your own sake
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 11:26 PM
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good. This is called letting relationship and sexual market balance itself out. It's called underfed and undereducated children.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 11:25 PM
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Nope. It's actually very frustrating feeling like you're more interested than others in being serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 11:13 PM
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I mean it looks like they've found a way of being that makes them feel like their best selves, but the only people willing to be on the other side of that dynamic, are men that aren't so great. This seems like the most readily available conclusion, but I am going off of far less detail than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 11:08 PM
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Femininity is a luxury like any other. Some can afford it and others can't. It's better for him in the long run, though again, only if he can afford.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 11:02 PM
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LTR but also failed non-relationships are just that, non-relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 10:56 PM
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Zero
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 04:19 PM
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I would definitely do it. It sounds heaven-sent.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 05:03 PM
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And Scarlett Johansson > Blake Lively, all 7 days of the week lol. Talk about a terrible take
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 05:00 PM
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Yes. I'll never stop dreaming though
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 04:11 PM
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So cool of you :)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 04:07 PM
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If you walk around with a dildo strapped to your head, people would whisper and point/laugh, but you'd get that it was happening because there's a dildo on your head. This year there's been something on my head but idk what. It's freaking me out.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 04:06 PM
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Bro omg bro that is so sweet
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 10:04 PM
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That's super sweet! What if you know you're going to stay together, but the contract thing yucks you out or something
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 10:04 PM
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Is there anything true in this? You should really be able to answer this question for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 06:58 PM
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No. Never met a man off a photo either though
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 06:34 PM
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Sure. Not atm but I am probably gonna date men again in future
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 08:58 PM
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Nope. In fact this is 90% of the reason why women zag when people want them to zig, usually
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 09:48 PM
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I met her boyfriend LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 09:43 PM
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Stop pretending, it's much more fun
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 07:53 PM
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Happiness itself is what you need to stop chasing. No way. This is where you have to be relentless
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 06:27 PM
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Morocco the better looking side here
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 06:25 PM
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It's girls! It's always girls
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 06:10 PM
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And for me, the opposite. I've only ever lived in large metro areas tho
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 08:51 PM
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More bullshit! Let my old buddy in on all over the phone just now.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 08:09 PM
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I think that's very squarely what feminists think it is. Sorry about him tho
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 08:07 PM
2

Why would either of those experiences be surreal? Go outside more
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 08:05 PM
1

Only on the inside
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 08:04 PM
0

If ya aint laughin, ya cryin Fortunately there's always excellent material on hand
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 03:11 AM
2

poorly partners Poor partners, not poorly
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 03:05 AM
1

It's not relevant to my life and I don't pay attention to others' lives enough to notice it. I don't imagine people started saying this just for fun, but I do think that paranoia about this won't help a person date well. It'll just make them paranoid.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 12:59 AM
1

Why would you have a boyfriend when you could have a husband?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 12:50 AM
3

Companionship. I think you knew that already
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 12:23 AM
1

You just don't understand him. It's okay, I do :)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 11:44 PM
1

Lmao. ok
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 11:42 PM
2

I could never forcefully deprive others of my favorite hobby
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 10:34 PM
1

😘
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 10:34 PM
1

<$75 personally
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 10:28 PM
5

imagine you meet your ideal partner in all aspects, If you don't fall in love, it's on you!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 10:27 PM
1

NOTE: Stay at home in this context means not employed as any profession, however, you are still free to do the following for a form of work: Come on. Easy street. All of the below, less content creation. Only note is I'd prefer a multi-millionaire, because of the implication.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 10:26 PM
5

Me. It's me and only me, nobody else can complain
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 10:22 PM
1

I wish women would reject me
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 10:21 PM
2

I don't do that shit
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 06:29 AM
1

He's mega cute
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 06:14 AM
3

What is vague? You're saying redpill attracts toxicity and bluepill attracts healthy relationships. I'm saying that's only what you wish to be true. What you attract is only barely connected to what you are/believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 06:06 AM
3

Why would I try redpill tactics on a date? I find them awful. It hasn't made a difference in the kind of people I attract at all. If anything it's made me attract my opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 05:45 AM
15

If you're bluepill (empathetic), you're going to attract higher quality mature partners. Ohohohohohoho. Hohoho. Haha. Haha. Your personal inclination obviously has nothing to do with what kind of partner you attract.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 05:40 AM
1

Yeah, that sucked to experience, a lot. A lot a lot. Especially because it was a situation I was in because I was starved of genuine companionship in the first place. Damn, making me sad remembering how much pain I was in and how specifically I remember all of it :')
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 05:37 AM
1

Shimmy, shuffle, and/or sway
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 12:49 AM
1

Leave her space to make her mind up
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 12:49 AM
17

You deserve it for having favorite instagram models.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 12:48 AM
1

To each
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 12:47 AM
2

In addition to
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 12:46 AM
0

There is no such thing. She's just not particularly beautiful lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 10:55 PM
1

Does nothing for me but I think it's most people's ideal
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 10:44 PM
1

You'll have already reaped the rewards.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 10:37 PM
2

The same way anyone can be lonely. Surrounding yourself with people that you have no connection to is not a remedy to loneliness, it actually exacerbates it. Finding people who shower you with attention and nevertheless have nothing to truly say to you is, again, just as lonely as actually being alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 10:34 PM
-1

I feel like people don't get that talking about others in this way only reflects poorly on them
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 10:28 PM
2

Like a 70 year old woman. Good for you!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 10:28 PM
2

No, that's much easier, because contempt there is justified
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 10:24 PM
2

No reason to be intimidated by anyone who isn't paying you. Give women a try!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 06:28 AM
1

More recreational gayness
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 06:25 AM
1

Hotties pull them off
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 05:02 AM
2

Hmmm. Women sure are hard to date! Oh well </3 :')
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 04:51 AM
1

Hugh Grant is pretty cool but it's giving dweeb in this pic
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 02:03 AM
1

It's not gross at all!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 12:35 AM
1

do you date people however they are and expect them to change to conform to your beliefs? The embarrassing truth is that a desire to be normal and find a true loving relationship has led me to date people however they are -- resting on success coming from me not being a difficult person to get along with. That's in the past now though after a paibful lesson learned. I don't expect partners to change very significantly if at all when we get together. I just now have the understanding that if we a…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 12:17 AM
10

A random guy? NO. A random chick? No but omg thanks for asking teehee
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 12:10 AM
1

r/incels back before it was, yknow,
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 10:05 PM
1

Very
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 10:03 PM
1

Vitamin D breaks me out, but for other people it helps their skin
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 10:01 PM
1

Nope. It's like saying the unathletic are underprivileged. Get on a treadmill then, fatty
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 03:45 PM
1

It's never cut and dry. I've never seen it happen, but that doesn't mean a lot. The only recent thing I've seen is kinda opposite in fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 03:44 PM
4

Attention from women >>>>>> attention from men
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 03:39 PM
0

Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 09:21 PM
1

It definitely isn't a single gene. But usually wiring speaks to the combination of genes and related behaviors that make people tend to act one way or another.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 09:21 PM
1

following you around, and getting all up in your personal space, without saying anythin,g was a signal. Either that, or I'm just an idiot. Respectfully...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 09:17 PM
1

It's the most playable ball game. Second most popular sport is basketball, which is the second most playable.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 09:15 PM
1

Alive and well
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 09:11 PM
3

Option 1 is just more aligned with who I am as a person
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 09:41 PM
0

If it were me I would just make it weird for her. Someone else says your mind is responding like you're in honeymoon phase and it's super true, the reason you're still second guessing how you express yourself around her is because in your mind you're building towards the start of something. You aren't, so there's no reason to be shy about telling her how much you want her. Send that drunk text, tell her you want to hold her, kiss her, dance with her, be with her. Be open and belligerent about yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 09:39 PM
1

Like proxy parent? I'm too young to date an actual parent lol but the surrounding behavior is the sexiest thing ever for me. The problem-solving, cool-headed assuring vibe flatters every and any gender
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 04:58 PM
1

I don't know about men, but in my case it's that I have great abundance in every other area of my life. So if I'm unlucky in finding partners, the same goes for a great deal of people, but I'm still clearly very fortunate to live the life I do. As for your bullet points: it's impossible to know who's more common, or who's faking it. Doesn't tell us much either way. Regarding mental illness, the field of psychology is too underdeveloped for us to know, but I'd lean no, as someone who does think l…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 01:16 AM
2

I am so sorry this happened to you
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 01:08 AM
2

Right? It would take a lot to get tired of it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 01:05 AM
2

I hit a woman So does accuracy!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 01:04 AM
1

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 01:04 AM
3

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 05:44 PM
1

What's the irony?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 04:24 PM
1

Agree ("You should!") Agree and emphasize ("You should, it's a really nice time!") Agree, emphasize, and recall ("You should, it's a really nice time, last year I went was with my little sister!") Or dismiss ("K.")
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 04:22 PM
7

How compassionate. Tact, too, but it's secondary.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 04:15 PM
1

Unwillingly about the things they otherwise wouldn't give a second thought to. Like there's probably some plumbing popular myth that I have gobbled up, since idgaf about pipes
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 01:37 AM
2

Some naive little ducklings still believe in the good in men like you. They are a tragedy and an inspiration
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 01:35 AM
1

It's basically lack of companionship compounded with stifled disappointment and betrayal. When nobody is in that spot it's sad. When the spot is being neglected, 10,000x worse
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 12:09 AM
1

The downsides are social harmony. If we were all able to read the temperature, wouldn't it be a little weird to meet your college bestie's husband for the first time, and everyone noticing that you two are a little more... aligned? Do you just cut contact with the friend or what lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 12:01 AM
0

Maybe some. The important ones are our bosses. Of the stapler-throwing variety.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 11:54 PM
3

Pearl-clutching misogyny. Though I do wish I didn't find cigarette smoking cool, it is so awful for you and I don't even smoke
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 11:51 PM
1

It was a general you, mainly towards original comment. Sorry if unclear
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 10:05 PM
2

Yes, thankfully only the minority of men are violent misogynists. You'd think [more] men would stop it only if you thought more shared your worldview
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 08:56 PM
6

you'd think men would stop it by now They do. Most women are killed by their husbands, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 08:44 PM
1

No I personally love that shit a lot. Still don't take seriously the people who use cold approach, because it shows a likely irreconcilable difference in how we see people/the world
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 08:42 PM
5

You kinda don't at all
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 05:39 PM
2

No, the research doesn't make those sort of distinctions
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 05:38 PM
2

Yes, and you should, specifically to improve joint strength (do as I say, not as I do)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 04:49 PM
1

Hey you too?? Wtf I'm leaning team "get your fucking hands off me then" But I am lonely, and they are pretty
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 04:46 PM
5

The gender of the guardian is irrelevant I think the literature says otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 04:42 PM
1

It's not my specialty, but here is a great starting point
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 04:40 PM
0

I don't think feminism mentions love very often It does very often, though largely around relationships with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 03:20 PM
2

It's not rude, you just have no taste
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 01:07 AM
2

ahlan!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 12:49 AM
1

Too high of an opinion about her looks and intellect, How did you come to this conclusion?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 03:43 PM
1

God forbid she have self esteem
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 03:41 PM
1

wdym my thoughts? She tells you. She can't seem to find anyone that's interested in getting to know her profoundly.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 03:34 PM
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Hate to say it but work. Tired as fuuuuuuuuk now though
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 05:36 AM
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This is the internet, exactly where that sort of thing is made to go!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 05:35 AM
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Plus she was way higher than me in rank This never matters the second you exit the four walls - and tbh when you're not an oddball, inside them too.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 05:33 AM
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98% of gender war "issues" = bro who cares
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 05:31 AM
3

The opposite for me. Men are much softer, shyer flirters in regular day-to-day. I always thought it's like they're hesitant about being me-tooed. It's the women that do a lot more
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 05:22 AM
3

Don't worry, I did that shit too. He was worthless. Never again.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 05:16 AM
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(dude in shackles behind you who is most certainly going to prison now, giving you the Tom look from Tom & Jerry)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 05:03 AM
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That is magical thinking. I don't know how people talked themselves in believing it makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 05:01 AM
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Annoying stupid horseshit, for the reason that you stated
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 05:01 AM
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Every office bureaucrat has time for this
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 05:00 AM
2

Traditionally SAHM make up for no job by being overzealous PTA members, because you need some sort of life away from home to be a well-adjusted person. Not having any outlet outside of your domestic life makes you be less involved in the wider world than anybody should be. Plus unfortunately the isolation makes you more vulnerable if your relationship becomes abusive. Besides that though, I think most people see work as a collection of people, rather than The Corporation. We think about the moro…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 04:55 AM
3

Older men are so hot. But have you seen older women? So hot. God.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 01:26 AM
3

She doesn't know you otherwise? Lighten up sweetheart, it's a little picture app on your phone
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 05:09 AM
0

The most 0-100 post, I... literally have whiplash
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 02:31 AM
1

Dating was hard for me in college because I was surrounded by people not really similar to me. It hasn't gotten much easier, but I am very clearly crossing paths with suitable partners more often in my post-college adult life.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 02:12 AM
1

Can't relate to being so interested in how strangers see your relationship. This one has always been a "bipartisan" wonder of mine lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 11:12 PM
1

One of the prettiest girls to try and go after me during college came during a time when i was super low earning and MASSIVELY depressed and feeling bad about myself. So why did she want you
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 09:26 PM
2

Lack of cynicism. And if you're lucky, you get to keep that until you're old. Most youth-fetishists are grieving potential wasted.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 09:09 PM
2

'Bum' just doesn't have the same appeal to it honestly!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 08:48 PM
2

And "merely cute" is still really cute let's be real!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 08:46 PM
2

No. I'm sorry you're hurting. But disappointment, frustration, helplessness really shorten the shelf life of any type of relationship, so it is no wonder.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 12:47 AM
1

I never even cried while leaving my ex-fiancé. Riiiight One of life's unanswerables: did you really love? Did she?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 12:45 AM
1

Oh. Weird, I thought they were both curated
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 10:35 PM
2

So? You don't owe it to anyone to adhere to "associated ideologies" or whatever. Create your own. As long as it is not an incoherent one, you should be free to be honest about whatever that may entail.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 07:49 PM
0

Why? These especially seem like valid and important points.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 07:48 PM
1

Thinking about the dude last weekend with the most glorious head of hair I think I've seen all year, or ever? Never saw his face properly lol but I still should have
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 07:46 PM
1

I'll be honest, attractive to me is geographically dependent. 10-40% of men based on where you are
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 07:43 PM
0

Even straight poly women don’t like it. Damn. I think this is very, very telling about the world we're living in. Honestly and unironically, your perspective counts most.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 07:40 PM
0

My kind of guy probably
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 07:38 PM
4

If you're scared of holding an opinion because of who the opinion is associated with, you are a coward
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 07:36 PM
1

Thank god there are a million ways to tease young women without being cruel to them! It's really kind of fun lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 07:32 PM
3

And then they say well this is not trp. I mean, look around you. It is.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 02:04 AM
2

All of them laws of averages. Funny is easy to peg for yourself, because you see that people laugh when you intend them to. Attractive, by the way people treat you when they get a look at you. If most of the time people react a certain way, it's because most of the time you come across that way to people. Awkwardness is more difficult because, for example, you might just smell awful. But you figure out where you stand the same sort of way. ​ In fact, what defines someone as awkward IYO? Being qu…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 01:59 AM
5

Are those averages like a spiders situation, where the depressed population drags down the whole? Once a month is a lot to be crying. Five times a month... what is going on...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 01:53 AM
1

Necessarily worse. As an aside, the person who raised this point initially was lying, according to your report. Latvia/Estonia are worse than USA in this regard.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 01:50 AM
1

Cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 01:48 AM
2

Firmly against
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 07:27 PM
5

Men are sometimes unaware of how much men hate women. Men are a large group though, so it makes sense that the right hand is at times unaware of the left.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 07:25 PM
0

I've never met one, but if women routinely don't like you, it's for a reason, and a bad one
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 07:24 PM
2

Words often lose meaning
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 12:28 PM
0

It was the only non-disgraceful part of the entire story. Honestly, it's this specific kind of thing that young women seem hard-wired to do to themselves, only so they can enter their 30s and think why did I do that to myself?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 12:28 PM
1

Going for an in between will result in a car that isn't as fast and isn't as comfortable This was the part that was being addressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 12:34 AM
2

No, that's an artificial limitation you've imposed. The car can be fast and comfortable like a Toyota, or fast and comfortable like a Lamborghini.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 05:37 PM
1

Depends on the day and the occasion, but I lean towards not
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 05:36 PM
1

Honestly the only times I start to wonder about open relationships are the times I feel especially low and lonely. This in particular would be the exact thing I'd succumb to. I should find all of this in someone who can be my #1 and vice versa. Can be all of it too - the married part and the being there are the only red lines
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 05:34 PM
2

Stupid women and their "zest for life"
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 02:44 PM
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Good, kind people are the last to realize they're in front of an asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 02:44 PM
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There is a friend mode, for like if you move to a new town where you know nobody. New buddy is doing exactly this.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 01:53 AM
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I don't even think there is an objective answer here Yep. You are very far off the beaten path. I read some positives but many warning signs just in what you've written here. If you were my friend I'd tell you to dial most of that attention back in towards yourself, and/or towards other new people. I also think you should make sure you admire and respect her, beyond the attention and company she gives you. It was definitely a staple of the past century to hear of married couples that got togethe…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 01:49 AM
3

Nothing wrong with her attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 01:20 AM
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Turn that . into a friendly ! and you have a winner... maybe
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 01:19 AM
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Nothing you haven't read before.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 12:21 AM
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Why are they your friends? Remember, you are who you surround yourself with
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 11:52 PM
3

I don't know what's more stunning: his ask, or your response.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 07:09 PM
2

So yeah I'd rather not give up on people so easily. I'm the same in this regard, except you absolutely must give up on people that are willing to give up on you. I have no real context here, so will assume this was her clumsy way of trying to move your relationship forward, but it doesn't come across well at all. Neither does the fact that your life is already fun and joy-filled. And the assumption is you also have friends you don't feel bored with, nor they you. Follow-up question: what do your…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 07:03 PM
3

6 foot 2 in height. Neutral trending positive. Thick full head of hair. Yes, and curly even better Strong jaw. Depends, it's easy to have a jaw look overdone. Narrow deep set intense eyes with nice straight eyebrows sat below a strong brow Wider set eyes more attractive. Hard to gauge what an "intense" eye is outside of makeup. lol at the eyebrows (what is meant by straight? They are usually at least somewhat arched) but yeah, whatever. Strong brow, see strong jaw Nice white teeth This doesn't d…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 04:31 PM
1

If it makes you feel any better, the good in men and women is readily apparent to most people, so it's not something that anybody will need to have an "awakening" to
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 04:16 PM
1

I think most women in my age group do. I do too, +30lbs
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 04:14 PM
1

Very good question. Honestly part of the answer will come from looking at her life, but since we don't have that available, maybe let's start with yours. Do you find yourself borED on a day-to-day basis? Actually, thinking about it, I am not even sure this is the right line of questioning. A good point in a terrible post someone recently made was that human beings show different parts of themselves just as a natural part of life. What I'm hearing from when she says that is she's not particularly…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 04:05 PM
0

No, you need to find the nerd jocks. Climbing has a substantial population
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 01:16 PM
2

No. Not pragmatic or necessary
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 01:15 PM
1

Zero.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 01:14 PM
3

people-fixated autists Never been tempted to change my flair before this
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 04:54 PM
1

I really don't know. Don't talk to guys about dating
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 04:51 PM
5

It came from his butthole
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 04:50 PM
4

The Enlightened Bisexual (tm) knows that all genders are a disappointment!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 09:42 PM
0

Don't have experience with real friends, only a drinking buddy type, but no. It speaks to character. I would be extremely surprised by a true good friend of mine cheating. I'd have to watch very carefully how they rationalize the events, because that's where you find out they might be bad news for you too.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 07:20 PM
1

They aren't, but there are also so many of them. I agree with the advice, do yourself a favor instead of self-sabotaging
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 06:43 PM
1

For sure. But if it walks like a duck, and there's no evidence to the contrary...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 06:36 PM
3

there are so many more important things in life. No, sadly, there are precisely zero things more important in this life than love.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 11:41 PM
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History. You can point to when feminism came up, who its spokespersons were, and what it accomplished as a result of its stated aims. Suffrage, the right to financial independence, outlawing marital rape... we have documented aims that were created and achieved due to a love of womankind, and not a hatred of mankind. Do we have the same we can look at as pertains to TRP? Not really.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 11:35 PM
2

No, I come here to complain. The worry about virtue signaling is a projection likely. Most often the input is to interrupt the blackpill train of reasoning, which is important, because embracing those thoughts is self harming behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 11:09 PM
2

A man being bad??? ??? ??????
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 09:51 PM
5

ATTRACTION: it's so rare that it might as well not exist No, experiencing attraction is a core part of being alive for men and women both. Like laughing, and enjoying music. It should make you very nervous that you've come to believe this sincerely.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 04:45 AM
1

I don't know how healthy it is to feel this way, but it's what I feel regardless. Men and women honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 04:09 AM
1

saying/thinking about shit you want to happen so that it happens
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 09:20 PM
1

I just don't think I'm well equipped enough to handle my own dating life, but where do you even go from there? I don't know what any of the advice is good for. Maybe watch that part of life pass me by, which seems sad. Oh well! Good weekend ahead.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 11:30 PM
2

True love!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 10:06 PM
1

No. They notice if they are unattracted to you for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 09:51 PM
1

Yep, making it even easier to practice self-love, which is essential to a person's well-being
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 07:59 PM
3

Wouldn't it be wonderful if it was only limited the imagination! I am also a ridiculous person, but that's independent of this lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 07:30 PM
1

It's a bit like eating spinach for popeye arms. Extremely loose correlation, and it's mainly a platitude to encourage good habits.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 07:29 PM
2

You people fucking torment me. This is why I'm attention averse. WTF do you think is around you besides regular people, fuck's sake
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 07:17 PM
1

Whatever lol but the point is you definitely need to!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 07:16 PM
1

Yes but take care of yourself inside too
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 06:38 PM
1

On the one hand, it's one part of liberalism in the purest sense playing out as it would. On the other hand, I really don't know if cultural mores would become so permissive, and even encouraging, if it weren't for how not-well-off the average person is today. We've known the stats for well over a decade now, and they do not exist in isolation. Excellent point.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 06:36 PM
1

Like clockwork! Hell yes
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 06:10 PM
2

I'd compare to mammals more generally. Lion manes come to mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 04:23 AM
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Evolution isn't concerned This part's certainly correct. Don't ascribe intent to evolution. Men are supposed to be beautiful, as they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 04:22 AM
2

Not at all, it really adds it. Every time a spectacular thing happens, in sport or art, the people freaking out the most are always the people that do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 04:21 AM
1

I think people spend an extraordinary amount of time thinking about strangers. No, why would I? I don't know them
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 04:20 AM
1

You really can, the ability to know is hardwired in us since infancy. That's according to research at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 02:37 AM
1

They get off on the fear, not the idea they'll actually have anything to do with you
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 11:31 PM
1

Goodness, no. It would be more over for me than it is already.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 11:28 PM
1

I'm happy that they can't breed and will go extinct Ah so you just straight up don't understand the human species lmao okay
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 11:26 PM
0

The thighs, definitely. And they are really good at sports.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 11:25 PM
1

Flare-ups. People my age don't care as much as they should.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 11:18 PM
5

For most men, once, and then never again.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 11:17 PM
3

It's in the face.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 11:17 PM
1

Dannanana lalalala somethin-cito
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 11:16 PM
2

Actually it's the microplastics. Systemic, just like everything. There is nothing you can do.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 11:16 PM
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Didn't give him head because his balls stank, tried to stay in the mood but really wasn't, and he went in dry! Awful. Really, really awful, -10000/10 and the relationship pretty much ended there (him not me because I was a terribly weak person)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 11:15 PM
1

(gl with the bi thing cause other women can't even stand that type of energy) other women love that energy tho
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 01:49 AM
3

Better to get to know the women in front of you instead of the opinions of random men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 05:23 AM
1

At the time, I'm pretty sure Avatar was the most expensive movie ever made. Yet you never really heard of people who LOVED it, like people love Fight Club and other popular films. So planting the seeds of one would at least give the appearance of it having been worth its exorbitant budget. edit: oh, I think you're talking about the bald kid with the arrow on his head, and not the blue alien ppl
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 05:22 AM
1

That sounds stressful!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 04:02 AM
3

This is hilarious, but also a particularly masculine brand of bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 04:01 AM
2

making the first step wdym?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 04:00 AM
1

Thank god. I was a kid when it came out and honestly I always thought people like you were a Hollywood psyop
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 03:59 AM
0

Lois from Malcolm in the Middle is a good media example. She loves Hal a lot, but on rewatch it's scary how my kid brain didn't really take in what she was saying when she felt frustrated.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 12:21 AM
2

Not even a little bit
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 12:18 AM
2

Send location!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 10:51 PM
0

Or would this not even cross your mind? It would cross my mind if I had a friend like you lol. Loving cautiously isn't my MO, tbh. Having that happen would suck, but it's not the most crazy thing I could imagine. I think I'd take comfort in the fact that this is the kind of guy that wasn't as into me as he thought himself to be, or wished himself to be. And that kind of person is really no big loss.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 10:48 PM
1

One year
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 10:44 PM
1

Because of pride
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 10:42 PM
1

The timing is off, otherwise I'd accuse you of stealing my identity. Try journaling! Meet a cutie to thirst over!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 10:38 PM
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\The only reason I even started to like him is that he would text me semifrequently trying to get to know me, like my likes/dislikes, what I dofor work, family, etc. He also asks me personal questions like if Iwant kids or not. Is this considered flirting?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 10:35 PM
5

I once took the advice about dating the sort of person you're not usually attracted to, and all I took away from it was mild shame. Going through the motions just isn't the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 10:33 PM
3

You can't buy love. You can buy world class acting, maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 10:31 PM
1

No, no. All disparate
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 10:31 PM
1

Better than both is having a loving partner
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 01:17 AM
3

There is so much suffering :(
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 01:18 AM
1

Not if I remain single :) :(
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 01:04 AM
2

I think there's a great deal wrong with shaming. What use is it to you? Why not approach with kindness?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 12:59 AM
3

It's harder to say because ENM is much more common in my age group. But living in a city probably makes me overrepresent it. Either way, my mind said "30%" before I was able to really think about it. Similar reflex says men fuck around more than women, but I'm not committed to this being true or not. It just feels like it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 12:55 AM
1

Would be worse. Who are they?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 06:39 PM
1

It's as bad as you think!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 12:24 AM
2

I don't really understand what you mean, could you clarify?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 06:28 PM
1

Almost scared to read through that. Talk about giving a person pause.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 03:14 AM
4

I feel awe at how specific the skills needed to sustain society is are and it is they are really more correlated with being sheep than with intelligence.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 03:06 AM
1

Nah deep is nice but over deep is a lil gross. Hardly any people even sound like that though, it's like bottom .1%
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 04:08 AM
1

Depends on the flavor of smart, and the flavor of dumb
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 02:03 AM
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Voicing this perspective as a young man is very against the grain, so much so that I actually commend you for expressing it out loud. Even though you said it in a place where your real reputation/identity aren't attached, I find it commendable.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 02:01 AM
1

Of course! Your libido is valid
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 01:56 AM
1

This was a brave post, even with anonymity
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 01:46 AM
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I wanna marry her a lil
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 12:53 AM
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Too old to be this timid, this is why I'll never lay hands on a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 12:36 AM
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No, that has no bearing. But it's fun to catch
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 12:35 AM
2

Group projects are the devil's invention. They make for hilarious anecdotes, tho
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 03:06 AM
1

Don't just think about the present. It will tax you to think of him in the future too, cuss him out while it's still fresh
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 03:00 AM
2

Yes, but the misogynist doesn't care, so...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 02:55 AM
1

It's distracting and reassuring to count deck chairs on the titanic. The false goal is attainable, and in a certain light can almost feel kind of like the true goal. Much healthier to just whine IMO
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 11:24 PM
1

It matters in the positive sense, not the negative - we live in order to love. And I think you have that last part backwards. For a human being, it's the 5 billion years that don't matter. The love matters very much
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 11:20 PM
3

Love matters a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 09:08 PM
2

You didn’t want me now you want me when I don’t want you ?? I'm surprised you're surprised
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 09:07 PM
1

Yes, but now you're both at baseline, and you're hilarious, but he's not. Then what?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 09:02 PM
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Nothing really matters if you don't have someone to love. Vultures, circle, I'm going to lay down.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 08:51 PM
1

At best she doesn't have the capacity to date you. If you were my friend I'd tell you you deserve way better than this.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 05:30 PM
4

You need a lot of boldness to date women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 02:21 AM
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I'm curious what you think are the most common complaints guys have regarding dating. She's hot and cold. I think she's cheating. I don't see her enough/I see her too much, her friends don't like me/cockblock me... and so on. Your hyperfocus on the issues most similar to those that you personally encounter is making you overweigh their prominence in the male population as a whole. It undermines your point because on a sinking ship, the people that actually manage to get on the life boats aren't …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 01:48 AM
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No, it is nonsensical by definition, that's the reason the term came to be used. Everyone is familiar with and used to hearing the concrete reasons women become fed up of men. The ick was coined because women wanted to address the times when the reason for a break-up wasn't "he was ungenerous in bed" or "he never prioritized our time together," but instead "he laughed in a really weird way at this movie we were watching, and I just thought... ick."
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 01:38 AM
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Not at all. The ick is when you're suddenly repulsed by something that's nonsensical. Lack of motivation is very unattractive for reasons that are self-evident.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 01:23 AM
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Guys top complaints are not being sexless, long dry spells, ghosted after paying for dates, friendzoned, having to wait for sex that she was fine having right away with others. No, that's yours. Guys have a far wider range of common issues than what you're trying to portray here. And your first response undermines the point you're trying to make.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 01:17 AM
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And the brainwashing probably came from her own mother, subconsciously.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 10:40 PM
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Lol you have made me realize that a lot of my my insistence on doing and being good stems from my being a know-it-all. I believe that the "not clear cut" instances are rare however, and it's no excuse for being morally lazy imo. Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 10:39 PM
1

No, that doesn't really follow. Sometimes you're at Target just for the tube of toothpaste, y'know?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 09:18 PM
1

Check ebay for an estimate
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 09:17 PM
1

can often look like assholery Indulge me here because I'm genuinely curious: is this why the people who do have the 'fuck it' approach to trying to be decent give up doing so? Because being decent can have the appearance of being mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 09:13 PM
3

I probably have that shit lmao. But nobody is allowed to call me weird but me
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 08:58 PM
3

Just make him laugh. Ez
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 08:55 PM
4

Whatever flaw you think you have, there are people who have found loving and fulfilling partnerships with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 04:01 AM
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No, I wouldn't be upset, but I wouldn't wait until marriage. It seems like positing extreme fringe is the only way you can make whatever point you're attempting to make. It might not be a very good point.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 03:58 AM
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I don't do that
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 03:54 AM
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Children. I think I've just spent more time with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 12:26 AM
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I'm high inhib, but ONLY around people I find attractive. Apart from that I am cool charming and collected :) ​ :(
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 12:25 AM
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I do have zero clue about celebrities. But we're talking about women and their life trajectories. I'm wrong in one irrelevant instance, you're wrong in almost every relevant instance. Not comparable or close.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 12:48 AM
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Not having a role model is a strong indication of a girl belonging to the streets. It's not, that's what I'm telling you. You just insist it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 12:42 AM
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Michael Jordan. Regardless, what does this prove? Career role models have nothing to do with how you socialize, as mentioned in my first comment, and successful people exclusively have/had career role models, if they do at all. I'd wager the majority do not. You cannot tell if a person is for the streets or not based on whether they have had a role model.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 12:17 AM
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Yes, her fortune is more visible because she's further along in life, but coming from a loving household with a mother like that is a gift in itself. You have much more than you realize.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 11:58 PM
0

You're very fortunate
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 11:53 PM
8

That still isn't the case. Adults create and go after very concrete and tangible goals without them being attached to an idol figure. That sense of direction is not contingent upon having a role model.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 11:52 PM
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Is she single tho?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 09:26 PM
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I only have career role models, and they're not relevant to how I socialize. then it means she is being guided by the streets Here's where you go off-road. Adults, generally speaking, are not guided by role models. They are guided by their own inner sense of direction, and the peers and family they admire. Are you counting these in your consideration of what a role model is?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 09:26 PM
2

Does this count as a bomb threat
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 09:18 PM
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No, but they could always choose to be! The same goes for literally everyone though lol, I'm talking shit
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 07:40 PM
0

If you're really lucky, he'll turn nasty shortly after.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 07:22 PM
1

No. A dreamboat's a dreamboat
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 07:09 PM
0

JP left? What happened to my lizard gf??
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 05:03 AM
3

Misery
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 03:01 AM
0

If it helps you change your viewpoint, try to go out and have as many awkward conversations with strangers as you can. You'll succeed, and then you'll succeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 02:11 AM
1

For me, face tats are out of bounds. Piercings are permissible but not ideal usually
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 02:09 AM
2

And it's the same for men too! Morning/night texts in the stranger phase make me want to embalm myself lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 01:59 AM
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I'd birth them for us! I'd feel super betrayed if a man left me for this though. Your partner is the end, not merely a means to one.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 11:40 PM
1

With definitions ? Nah...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 11:16 PM
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No one that carries one of those lol. I don't either though, just feel like I would if I had to work in law
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 01:35 AM
0

Congratulations! Onward.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 01:33 AM
0

If only
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 01:29 AM
4

Aren't you a lawyer? Get an amex black and pay it off the next month. Do it for the fraud prevention if not the airline miles/cashback
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 01:28 AM
1

That's okay, I think it looks hot and look forward to sprouting my own
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 08:14 PM
1

Friend, it is definitely less surface level than how I depicted it, but I think manliness as a measure of maleness is far and away the only useful starting point when it comes to discussing these otherwise nebulous concepts. Who's more of a man/a bigger man is always going to look like measuring clouds without it, as the OP of this comment chain has demonstrated.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 08:07 PM
1

No, I think the male sex hormone is the only measure of manliness, which makes more sense than saying the male sex hormone does not measure manliness
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 07:11 PM
1

Some people like to stay in touch
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 06:49 PM
1

I think testosterone is the only true measure of manliness, precisely because things you find masculine ≠ higher T.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 06:47 PM
2

I don't think you have. You're right though, freckles are adorable
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 12:41 AM
2

Feeling for my friend today. The sweetest girls really do get played the hardest.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 12:39 AM
3

Gas station pills? Holy shit. Cool...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 06:49 PM
0

The need to choose comes from comparison. How can I say he's a 7, when he makes me swoon more than someone I'd have called an 8? Someone being a 6 objectively but an 8 to me is nonsense, for example. It isn't the case that women don't elaborate on their attraction at all outside of the rating system. Besides, literally all attraction boils down to I just think he's hot so he is. Same goes for lack of attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 04:09 PM
4

I love being a woman. Softness is one of life's greatest joys, and indeed, privileges.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 04:00 PM
1

Even a little progress counts for a lot. Godspeed
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 03:58 PM
6

It implies some women tend to view the number rating as an inadequate tool for examining attraction. So inadequate they may as well not be used. Qualitative examination is often more appropriate.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 03:57 PM
1

Damn, this guy sounds literally like the worst case scenario for me. Good for you!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 09:48 PM
2

Very literally, in the case of women. https://www.manchester.ac.uk/discover/news/human-eggs-prefer-some-mens-sperm-over-others-research-shows/
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 09:46 PM
1

Precisely why I stress it's not immediate. The relationships you nourish should lead to further relationships as you start integrating your life with the group's. The reason a lot of people say stupid shit like "I fell into my happiest relationship when I wasn't even looking!!" is because you have greatest access to people when their guards are down and they're in already existent, familiar (social) environments. I only think it's stupid because I'd never have that luck! But I have been closer t…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 09:42 PM
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It's impossible to assert in good faith that you know which one is more common. I have wondered about some men and I have ended up being correct, but assuming 100% certainty without anything done or said is egomaniacal. As for the rest: -I don't watch people's affairs this closely, so no -I've had people decide they are into me when we aren't involved or together -Not very valid. -Most outlandish I've ever seen was actually F/F, from a good friend of mine! Had a girl claim the best friend title …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 09:36 PM
1

Interesting, in what way is a man's world not structured for e.g. pairing up guys and girls, that is different to a woman's? I'd certainly agree that women are more inclined to nourish their relationships, but taking things like business networking into consideration makes me feel this isn't insurmountable. My view is that everything stems from being part of a community, and being seen to be part of a community. For many men, guy shit is the most readily accessible path to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 08:35 PM
3

It "works" but not in the immediate and direct way you are expecting it to. The idea is not to suppress or replace your desire for women. It's to give you the tools to get after them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 08:09 PM
2

Denigrating the male imperative isn't a necessary component, but yes imo and ime the feminist purview is inadequate as relates to male dating issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 07:53 PM
2

before you do anything romantic Ah yes sex, the only romantic thing
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 05:18 PM
1

Cortex is a part of the brain. So the volume of that part
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 05:18 PM
2

Kind
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 05:15 PM
1

It's an illusion. No one is safe.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 05:13 PM
2

General anomie about the state of relationship building within just the last decade. Going steady is antiquated. Nowadays it's talking, confused hormonal sex, and hurt feelings, maybe love among them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 05:11 PM
2

We live with, and often love, men
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 05:06 PM
1

Why dream of a moderately attractive girl? Aim hi
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 05:06 PM
1

She might not be hot
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 05:05 PM
1

Yeah I have to own up to maybe being an outlier here. It's always annoyed tf out of me
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 05:01 PM
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1 No. I'll probably stop talking to you if you do that. 2 Hard no, see 1 3 I've always found it bizarre and mildly unsettling but one of my buddies does this so it's neutral overall now
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 03:28 PM
5

asking him to do it helps him feel Nagged, actually
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 01:58 AM
6

For white collar? Again, for 90% of the jobs, the differences are negligible, especially for what is being measured against.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 01:53 AM
2

More for the giver than the receiver I think. They've never done anything for me personally
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 01:47 AM
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Nah, even by your parameters. Unfortunately I don't know any fathers that would have the experience to weigh in, so I'm taking the mothers at their word, since they're the ones who do both. The limited experience I have tells the same story.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 01:46 AM
7

Far more taxing than 90% of white collar work
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 01:33 AM
1

Hilarious. I haven't.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 12:14 AM
3

Best dating advice I've read
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 08:28 PM
2

I will say, friend segregation is a weird phenomenon. I fully believe the struggle. As with just about everything though, volume is key. New friends await!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 06:36 PM
1

Why? Be close instead
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 05:54 PM
1

Abnormal features are hot tho
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 05:18 PM
1

It's pathological
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 04:04 PM
1

Yes, two in the same year but one was phenomenal at uhhh
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 04:01 PM
1

Nobody is interesting on a dating app, get after it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 03:59 PM
1

Why can't I kickflip?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 03:58 PM
1

Lots to unpack here
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 06:42 PM
1

I mean like which lie would work in the situation. I can't think of a lie someone could use to break up that would leave the possibility of reconciliation open. Except I guess if they were leaving the country
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 06:37 PM
1

What lie would even work?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 06:31 PM
0

"morals and values"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 11:08 PM
1

Gotta love the perspective!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 11:08 PM
1

Then don't switch lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 11:07 PM
2

My voice is naturally very mellow
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 11:06 PM
1

Absolutely, 1000%. In general, the habit people have of imagining others to be so much more x, y, or z than them is just distorted thinking
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 11:06 PM
1

You disagree that men bond in professional spaces in a way that leads to career advancement?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 08:14 PM
1

You actually do agree. And besides, they can.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 06:37 PM
1

Why would you be this
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 06:32 PM
1

Controversial feminist take but I technically agree. It's one of those where the only reason they're not permissible is because these spaces are also where power is held - so in that chess group for example, the guys are bonding in a way that would mean career advancement if it was a professional/professional-adjacent space. Women being intentional about creating equivalents for other women is important so that future generations won't have to worry about power brokering ONLY happening in these …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 06:08 PM
1

What's that?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 06:04 PM
2

Yeah. But those societal benefits are "people will like you and smile at you and buy you drinks occasionally" as opposed to the "high quality of life is automatically assured under every possible metric" that people say with a straight face. The narrative is these women literally have no problems because they can make friends wherever they go, and earn six figures on onlyfans the moment they choose to start an account... and it's like my dude, there is a negligible percentage of the population t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 06:03 PM
1

It's part of the deeply held belief some have that pretty women have the world at their feet.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 03:50 PM
1

Oranges and figs > strawberries and raspberries
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 12:05 AM
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Reason parents' appearance often falls to shit: they pamper their kids in a way they would never pamper themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 03:05 AM
1

They usually don't And you are fine to hold the assumption. All my faves say less and lead rich lives quietly
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 07:23 PM
1

How are you saying AWALT she is literally arguing with a W uhhhhh
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 07:22 PM
2

A skeleton wrote this I think?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 05:38 PM
2

People don't have "points" though, they exist for themselves. I'm saying mysterious is the opposite of boring, I'm not confusing the two. In a world where people tend to want to broadcast everything about themselves always at every second of the day, it's very alluring meeting somebody who leaves it all unsaid.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 05:38 PM
3

You don't get attention from being mysterious. That's the point!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 05:17 PM
2

No it's not
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 05:13 PM
3

Mazel. Go smell flowers or something, you deserve it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 05:13 PM
3

Lol FUCK, a whole marriage! I would have said "oh" or something equally inspiring
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 04:28 PM
5

People talk about regretting the comebacks they didn't think of during an argument, but tbh with me it's the flirts I didn't flirt!!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 03:56 PM
2

Dunno who that is but all I want for my future kid is her safety and happiness
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 12:56 AM
1

This but ESL boys
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 01:41 PM
1

What's he done now? 2011 was great and also about the last time he was relevant no?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 01:41 PM
1

An occasion to celebrate, I hope
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 01:39 PM
2

Easy, not if I know that about him. The sad thing is, the more likely hypothetical is would you break up with a man after discovering he's cheated in the past. That's trickier.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 09:19 PM
1

Shop alone and send pics in the group chat for feedback. This is the way
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 05:43 PM
1

Looks like: Pouting Moping Whining Complaining Laundry Trying to find the rest of my little empty spray containers I got for traveling because it turns out it's convenient for a lot of my beauty products Tidying Maybe grocery shopping Second round tidying Starting a new journal to document the above
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 04:39 PM
1

No, but also the feminists you are looking at won't have that constantly on their mind
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 04:31 PM
1

Facebook
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 04:28 PM
1

I am aghast. Sent me
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 10:47 PM
1

Why would you feel like staying with somebody who wants you gone ? I get it's meant to be a joke, but I'm sensing truth behind lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 10:49 PM
1

Maybe I'll buy her a blowup doll so she never has to miss me too much
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 10:47 PM
1

Can't wait for it to all unfold Thursday nights on ABC Not that I think you're BSing, just... you know they definitely will
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 10:47 PM
1

It's out there for you
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 10:44 PM
2

Here, not really. She shouldn't have asked anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 10:43 PM
1

People succeed in continuing after more
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 04:59 PM
1

At this stage of dating yes, it's hostile
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 04:58 PM
7

I'm obviously no one to talk but I always thought that the saddest thing about red pill followers is the inability to pull women without being cruel to them. And I think that's because of the belief that being cruel to a person is the only way you can throw off their rhythm, for example. Because I think it's absolutely the case that you'd need to be able to throw someone off their natural life's rhythm in order to seduce them. I just think there's a great number of ways more playful, joyful, and…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 12:41 AM
1

The input required emotionally is too much for the variable output it provides IMO. For as much as it takes out of the average person, you'd be meeting the love of your life every other month. The other stuff isn't guaranteed success either but you're not sacrificing as much inital energy
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 11:30 PM
1

I'm sorry, that's really rough. You've probably tried all of the practical advice, but I would encourage you to keep trying them all, except maybe OLD. I wish you a future full of people and joy and love
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 11:25 PM
1

What fall do you mean
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 10:58 PM
2

There was one specific point about two months ago where I distinctly remember wondering for the first time if I wasn't making myself unwell, or her. The rest of the time I'm happy with it, and it's a positive balance overall
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 07:40 PM
1

I respect your commitment to the study
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 06:19 PM
3

I think intelligence
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 06:18 PM
2

Quite often
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 06:17 PM
1

Positive, but if you choose to answer otherwise feel free to
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 02:51 PM
1

With you on alcohol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 02:02 PM
1

How often do you meet people you feel strongly about?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 02:01 PM
2

HIIT
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 01:09 PM
1

Sure. Much like before, I wasn't meeting anybody special, just decided to be done with forcing things and giving chances. A lot of the same except for this one girl
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 10:02 AM
1

Currently through spending time with family. My bedrock.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 08:37 PM
1

Depends on where you say it
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 06:15 PM
1

Not usually with the way I live my life. For example, I tend to be more grateful than others for that very reason. But I do have to avoid strife at all costs
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 06:14 PM
1

WTF. Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 05:35 PM
1

Oh sorry Gonna be a hard disagree for me. It's a hard disagree for me too. People in their early 20s look like children usually and that grosses me out. I looked quite juvenile in my early 20s also. When I think about my blood family, as well as my friends, I see a similar pattern. Additionally the way my face has been maturing so far seems to indicate that my late 20s through early 30s will be my most attractive. The women in my family have also followed this trend. Furthermore I have never bee…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 03:46 PM
1

Are you serious? Grey rock, slow fade. Amateur hour over here
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 03:28 PM
1

The people in my life age similarly, and I am on track to do the same it looks like
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 03:26 PM
3

Not interested in fixing men. Growing with the right one though, for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 03:25 PM
1

Except for in my heart
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 01:15 PM
3

Of course! Godspeed
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 10:46 AM
2

For reference see: statues
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 10:34 AM
1

Not really honestly. It's because the women are more at ease with the state of affairs. It is what it is is an unacceptable answer for a disproportionate amount of men
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 03:20 PM
3

So you're banned from participating in a forum, and your response is to target specific users so you can heckle them in their DMs. This is far more unhinged than pointing out that this behavior hurts your feelings
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 03:12 PM
3

Emotional hypersensitivity... from the woman receiving messages from people going out of their way to respond outside a thread? Yeah ok
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 03:05 PM
1

Because they are sexy
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 03:03 PM
3

Mental illness horseshoe. There's nothing wrong with you bud but jesus christ, at the rate you're insisting, there might just be
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 03:02 PM
1

Always rejoice when morons separate from you
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 12:21 PM
1

Reeee that doesn't build attraction reeeeee
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 12:17 PM
1

You're plucking a narrative out of the ether and applying it to ALL dadbod attraction when it doesn't even count for most attraction. I have another story for you: dadbod appreciation came about because it turns out there is more than one form of attractive male body and it was not celebrated at all. And some women rightfully decided to start celebrating those too (rightfully because the most attractive male bodies are not bodybuilder bodies.) Dad bods are HOT and you really don't need all of th…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 02:43 AM
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No, by definition a less defined and MUSCULAR physique than whatever the observer has in mind as the societal ideal. Building in the desirability of the muscular form is definitely dude-headed though
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 02:15 AM
3

And you would know! You've watched one (1) whole serie
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 09:51 PM
1

Fave fast food
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 08:30 PM
4

I am similarly unable to convert on my natural head start
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 08:30 PM
1

Bland
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 05:18 PM
3

If this offends you, your thighs can't crush watermelons
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 04:20 PM
2

No, insecure men also deserve compassion and empathy
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 01:59 PM
2

Depends on the extent. My mother is my best friend too so I'll always appreciate that in others. However the reddit wild west constantly provides examples of "sorry mom says we can't" boys, and those are never attractive because they inevitably impede the development of your own relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 01:58 PM
2

No. It's annoying because it's blasé to the point of irresponsibility, and needless helplessness. You are not a toddler. It costs nothing to put together a basic look Edit: irresponsibility instead of responsibility
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 09:51 PM
13

Everyone in life gets exactly what they deserve. In a world of starving children I think this is edge for edginess' sake
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 09:38 PM
1

Oh, I just can't read. I agree with you too
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 06:43 PM
1

Going through the courts to establish abuse, with an abuser on the other side, can be as traumatic as the relationships themselves. No fault really often means "no fault"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 06:30 PM
2

I hate sad boy vibes. I don't feel like hot boys have a unified vibe...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 05:19 PM
3

This one I'll hand to ya
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 05:17 PM
1

38 decent years I hope. And several more good ones to come
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 08:47 AM
1

It's fine, you'll just need to find a way to be active outside of work. Which you ideally do anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 02:07 AM
7

Literally, his eyes do what now??
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 12:42 AM
2

Oh, you're not kidding. Then why'd say you were blowing up your spot?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 12:41 AM
1

And you never will... right???
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 11:51 PM
4

Emma Watson was a real 1 for introducing the term "self-partnered" lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 11:27 PM
1

You're feeling generous lol. Not to her though!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 11:22 PM
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What makes you say so?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 11:15 PM
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Seethe. I'm personally more of an "I’d wrap my arms over her naked skin and bask in her glow" kind of person, and I'm guessing you're going for similar. Let her be herself though
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 09:27 PM
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Never
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 09:20 PM
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No, I was
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 09:18 PM
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Like herself. Why do guys in here have any bearing?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 09:16 PM
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This is not the correct use of that word.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 09:15 PM
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I'll generously donate some of mine if we're running low
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 08:47 PM
1

smoking hot 10 This is cap
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 12:02 AM
1

Yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 12:00 AM
1

It actually is!!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 10:10 PM
1

Work/hobby stuff, brightening peoples day... crosswords too I suppose
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 06:32 PM
3

A few too many Ls lately, and they all feel self-induced. Where should I find my next W? Not sure. Time to regroup and reflect.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 05:00 PM
1

Yes, though I wouldn't hold him to decidedly. What you must be is decidedly in love with me
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 04:54 PM
1

Value my privacy too much but I'd strongly consider if it were somehow not televised
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 09:36 PM
1

If you're someone who is indifferent to the idea of a meaningful relationship this is great for you lol, and I wager the majority of ex-sex is driven by this group. If you're still looking for someone to start a life with, it will poison you quick. It seems like once you have that/have had that though it's fine because those stakes aren't there any more. Like JLo and Ben Affleck just got back together but they already have their kids, so it almost seems besides the point in that sense
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 12:01 AM
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I just don't think there's ever a good reason to yearn for an ex, or to get back together with an ex. There are extraordinary and unique circumstances, but you are likely the rule and not the exception
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 11:34 PM
8

What if the insecure was you all along?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 11:32 PM
1

That definitely tracks. I don't know what the landscape looks like in his life or yours and I'm not sure what resources I would point to. But I think the most immediately accessible step is showing him constantly that he is precious and loved. No need to bring names into it, but I think a strong example of what love looks like will be good for him to start processing
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 09:01 PM
1

Maybe. If it's some grevious personal injury, definitely. Most others probably not
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 08:50 PM
1

Location: Bikini Bottom
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 08:45 PM
1

Say it with me gang: outcome independent flirtation! Let's go
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 08:45 PM
4

gaslighted by society Again, more important than internet points. You're telling me you're powerless as his father. I've never been a parent but I feel I'd muster more urgency than this
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 07:31 PM
1

25, yes. An exceptionally beautiful 35y/o that loves me, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 07:28 PM
1

If you hate your job, sure
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 07:26 PM
4

Not 'would be' though. This is a little bit more important than internet points, that's your son. He absolutely must get himself out of that situation. Are you able to help him?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 07:24 PM
1

Thank you for being involved in the community
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 05:15 AM
3

You think this guy is cool? :/
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 02:41 AM
5

What a wedgie-worthy opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 12:48 AM
1

Forget, or omit?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 10:46 PM
1

Was asking on my behalf 💯
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 10:42 PM
2

Your mother's father is your blood, though. You are of him literally, and your uncle would keep the name he gave you all, for example
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 10:40 PM
1

Great way to make someone hate you and drugs forever
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 10:37 PM
3

Dedicating every ounce of my brainpower to coming up with an unremarkable canned response for ya
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 10:37 PM
2

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 04:25 PM
1

Ha, eww. Yes I would be
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 05:19 AM
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Like the price of food...?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 02:07 AM
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"Alive" does not nearly cut it, as you are aware
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 12:07 AM
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It's the same. Don't know if you have experienced both, but it's the fact of the affection and how you feel about who's giving it, rather than whatever external attributes you look at
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 11:50 PM
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It is but like, so is having someone dote on you who is the opposite of that
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 11:12 PM
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In the US or like according to obstetrics
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 10:58 PM
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Ha, could you imagine
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 10:34 PM
1

To me that's submissive behavior Most male behavior in dating is, to be fair
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 08:58 PM
1

I think both have their truth to them. I dated a guy who turned out to not be the most well-adjusted, and he definitely didn't know how to handle himself without the chase, which I guess he regrets now. Thing is he's also not the kind of guy you want to date so... hmm... edit: I'm not the type to play games but I'm also naturally very aloof, which kills 98% of romances before they really ever start in this day and age
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 08:55 PM
1

I think that might even be ideal
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 07:13 PM
1

Dude, flirt.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 06:55 PM
1

Innnnteresting. Where'd she miss?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 04:48 PM
2

Underrated insult, honestly
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 04:20 PM
2

I'm also trying to find out what the boxes are
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 04:12 PM
1

I'm not explicitly pushing anybody together, but if two people happen to be in the same spaces at the same I'm not gonna stop anything either
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 03:56 PM
3

I have a new friend that I think might be my old friend's type, but they keep missing each other every get together I have
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 03:43 PM
1

You are one person on a planet of billions; your reach is understandably limited
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 03:42 PM
1

Humans are inherently selfish anyways. Untrue on its face, untrue when you look at the research.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 03:29 PM
2

Red best: focus on composure. Worst: misogyny-ladenness Blue best: good faith and goodwill. Worst: overrating talking about feelings Black best: focus on senselessness. Worst: LDAR Pink best: many men are like that. Worst: ruthless cynicism
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 04:34 AM
3

Sir, respectfully, that's more interest than the majority could muster
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 03:52 AM
1

Probably my face. I guess I talk
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 03:50 AM
1

I actually don't think it's strange. Telling strangers is as meaningful as telling the void. But telling friends gives it meaning and heft, which you might not be trying to do. Especially because it does get in the way of the 🗿of it all. I would literally bring it up to people and then tell them I didn't want to talk about it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 12:36 AM
1

Better! You?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 12:34 AM
4

Awesome! Tell no one. Except every single one of your friends
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 11:33 PM
5

This is drivel, respectfully
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 09:57 PM
1

Only having a few friends is a sign of not being very social or having poor social skills. To be fair I don't think it's very strongly linked at all. Adulthood does that to ya
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 08:23 PM
3

My answer exactly. I make good money, but not neighbor multiplier money lol!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 06:56 PM
1

The hottie
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 06:47 PM
1

All else equal, the hottie, since I have my own friends. Though such a disparity doesn't imply all else is in fact equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 06:41 PM
4

Oral sex is sex
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 06:05 PM
1

You're right tbh, that optimism does not stand up to scrutiny
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 05:53 PM
1

Always
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 05:48 PM
1

Not ideal but love is love
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 05:47 PM
1

OK
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 02:12 AM
3

Feel like drugs are probably healthier than this
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 01:29 AM
3

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 01:29 AM
1

25
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 12:38 AM
2

Im skillsed to the back teeth fortunately!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 12:31 AM
1

I mean, they're all great hobbies regardless tho
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 12:31 AM
2

I'm not a man, I am just bad at dating them (and women too!)These are the things I tend to fill my time with anyway, but at the moment I don't really feel like doing any of them
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 12:15 AM
3

Uhhm... I get concerned that I'm making memories alone that I should be making with somebody. I used to think about it quite a bit but nowadays I'm getting to grips with the fact that I don't really know what's meant to be in store for me
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 12:11 AM
4

Career maxxing, but there is no chick at the end of the rainbow, just more sweet sweet solitude that's looking sweeter by the day I don't hate it tbh!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 12:01 AM
2

It's not one, and this feels more objective than not
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 06:31 PM
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Assume they do not, and build your joy from there. I'm sorry you're feeling down, but I'd like to believe the love you have spilling over is making a difference to our world.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 01:47 AM
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Glad to hear it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 01:43 AM
0

Not really? You're saying women don't want cute. I'm saying I only want cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 10:59 PM
0

Cute hotties are best hotties tho
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 10:06 PM
5

It's giving stunted
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 12:22 AM
1

Ginger beer burns more than those
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 12:00 AM
3

Yes! :)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 10:31 PM
1

No. He's the spitting image of the look that's "in" these days that I am not into at all
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 08:54 PM
2

Ego, maybe. Vulnerability, definitely. No one wants to be taken for a fool
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 07:59 PM
1

It's your eyes, bud
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 06:56 PM
1

Why does the hit stop coming, though? I and a few women I've spoken to (admittedly not many since I'm a private person) have the story of dating a guy that all of a sudden decides you are not worth the time of day. It's not that sex blinds you to the fact that his fave hobby is actually slapping grannies across the face IMO. Any man can turn that side of him on if and when he chooses to, without exception.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 06:49 PM
3

Men also say this like they never stop getting along with their friends lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 06:33 PM
3

Hence why so many believe that being successful with women necessarily entails having poor character
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 06:28 PM
1

Yeah, types are like plans
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 06:16 PM
1

Please more misandrist songs in the cultural sphere!!! These men are mistreating women and laughing and singing about it???? Yet my head still bops. Please someone. Imma play it again tho
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 05:37 PM
1

No sympathy. You screen for this 💩
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 05:23 PM
1

Yup. White, not too big, approachably good-looking, white...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 04:47 PM
3

nobody seems to understand when I say I need help it means I need help There's a concise summary of motherhood if I ever saw one
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 04:23 PM
1

Pretty much what Pacquiao did, sans running for office, plus some free community/sports/education infrastructure
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 04:19 PM
5

Yes, envy ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 03:28 PM
1

I'm a guest star
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 03:27 PM
2

Yep. I have big plans for exactly where I'm going to allocate that money
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 03:27 PM
5

/r/happycryingdads is the perfect antidote to this place
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 12:41 AM
3

It's also horrible to dwell on because it's everything you'd rather not know about these mens' sexualities.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 12:40 AM
1

Up to you. But they're up there rent free still...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 12:39 AM
1

Nah. But it wasn't the deciding factor lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 12:38 AM
1

Sounds like you've got to purge that follower yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 12:21 AM
1

It was more a realization that there was nothing of God in a misogynistic, homophobic, pedophilic mafia. I was twelve.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 12:20 AM
1

Not meaningfully. Just the god part in private
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 11:00 PM
2

The frenchie. He very rarely misses
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 10:25 PM
1

Of course. Every fuckin Sunday. Uhhhh... I think when my uncle died last yr
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 10:24 PM
1

It was an illustration - the someone else is someone that shares my ideals/thoughts/values. If it was a true stranger they might try high fiving you
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 10:23 PM
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It's when you say/do something that reflects poorly on your character. e.g. robbing an old lady makes you the kind of guy that robs old ladies. You wouldn't like it if someone came up to you and said you look like the kind of person that robs old ladies, I imagine. It would make most feel insulted. You definitely should survive it but it's like having spinach in your teeth. Usually we'd rather just not have to survive it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 09:37 PM
2

Indirect! Indirect! Indirect! Approach sideways at all times, thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 09:33 PM
1

Not perceived as, highkey people often just do that shit. Self awareness is key
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 09:31 PM
1

It's an energy thing for me. You have to be serious/reserved at least some of the time, otherwise it wipes you out! Plus makes the moments of levity all the more unexpected/welcome. Switch gears on 'em. Listen to your surroundings etc
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 09:14 PM
1

if you never find out ??? How backwards. It's in your very existence. Saying I love you and not meaning it insults you as much as the other person
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 09:11 PM
1

I meant like along a thread with one person. It's like the stock market sometimes 😵‍💫
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 06:17 PM
1

I don't know. Seems to be a question for decades down the line
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 05:34 PM
1

You would respond, why? Surely life's too short
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 05:33 PM
1

I realize most of them I don't notice because my eyes just immediately move away. But tbh, wearing a cap or beanie so it's slightly perched on the head. Are you wearing a hat or not for christs sake, figure it out
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 05:28 PM
1

Are you observing an isolated interaction or the whole song+dance?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 05:26 PM
1

Mental illness
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 04:11 PM
5

Take me to a taco truck over applebees sir, what in the good goddamn
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 01:31 PM
2

That's not happening
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 02:44 AM
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It's definitely a bummer. Good luck!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 10:24 PM
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Like any category definition This part is too extreme
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 10:22 PM
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Including your spouse and kids, fuck 'em 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 08:13 PM
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Such as?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 05:59 PM
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What did your parents say?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 05:50 PM
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Sure, if you find me a moron who isn't. The popular kids in my school were very intelligent. And tbh, that projection of outgoing kids being stupid has been a "hope" more often than not ime
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 05:49 PM
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You have some serious figuring yourself out to do if you think these equate to low IQ. Seriously, you sound like a high schooler
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 05:45 PM
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They are always dependent on the giver. A pretty girl told me I have a nice smile recently, that made me very happy
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 05:44 PM
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Yeah luck is the biggest factor
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 05:26 PM
0

Okay, yes, that sounds reasonable. I know powerlifting etc are sports, but I don't like the idea of kids with developing bodies going right into the ones that are so physically strenuous
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 04:02 PM
0

Hmm. That feels too young
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 03:54 PM
1

You know what to do now, charm the friend (but not more than your sweetie)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 03:49 PM
2

Same. I always toy with the idea but my parents would be so sad
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 03:48 PM
1

A coxcomb is a crown of its own in a way
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 03:47 PM
2

They DO??? I respect men so I'm not looking them up or anything. I just find it interesting to know 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 03:43 PM
4

Yes. Just go to any major city
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 03:41 PM
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sometimes I wonder if vacations are worth the stress That's wiiiiiiild. Hope it gets better
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 03:58 AM
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Why are you anxious?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 03:30 AM
2

Too public
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 05:03 AM
2

Yes, though you shouldn't
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 04:48 AM
6

If you're down bad, the only person that has to know about it is you. Maybe a buddy or two. Down HORRENDOUS atm tho
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 04:30 AM
1

Why would your bedroom have a lock?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 12:51 AM
1

Come on, it's the best!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 12:50 AM
2

Hope he is okay
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 12:40 AM
2

Oreo milkshakes have texture
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 12:39 AM
1

Me. I know what I was like as a teen and it wasn't this. This could never be my wife
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 12:37 AM
2

To be fair, any later and this is the mother of his kids
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 11:27 PM
1

Ohh. I thought you meant like staying calm if someone smacks you for being disrespectful. Yes, it's important to have that awareness on hand. Tbh the only negative side to violence is how easily it leads into mortal injury edit: I need to amend, there's more negatives than that. But that's the main important one
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 09:34 PM
1

Yeesh. Marketing really is everything. They happen to now have a really crappy streaming service, but they're also responsible for some of the greatest films of our time
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 09:31 PM
2

Headbutt/10, we stan the greatness of the colonies
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 09:29 PM
2

What circumstances warrant not losing it?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 09:29 PM
2

Of course. Rhetoric like alpha widow/pump and dump is at the core of why the so-called reality-based pill is anything but.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 06:27 PM
2

Think you've reading between the lines there a bit
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 05:10 PM
5

So you don't want the Amish, you want the more recent racist era where men beat their wives recreationally and they could do nothing about it? It was a golden time for you, I'll admit.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 04:27 PM
1

Nope. I have no sway over the whims of the algorithm
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 04:26 PM
1

Nope. Those that do also have a little growing up to do, but that's perfectly normal
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 04:24 PM
1

Putting the Inside Out soundtrack as backing music is cheating 😭 It's just a lil teenage angst, if not a little older. She has some growing up to do. Ees normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 04:21 PM
1

No, you are a 16 year old boy. Important distinction!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 04:15 PM
2

You're free to join the Amish at any time
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 04:14 PM
1

I don't think anyone has ever been jealous of me before, or if they have I've never been aware of it before now. Don't like seeing anyone in pain, but it does feel fucking amazing 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 04:13 PM
2

Let's win!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 01:06 PM
2

TEN
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 11:28 PM
1

YEW. Right between the ribs, Jesus
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 10:50 PM
3

Nice behaviour comes from weakness That's what cowards believe, yes
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 09:42 PM
2

What on earth is ex wife material
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 09:41 PM
0

Women, Rosie the Riveter. Men... dunno, Paul Bunyon
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 08:10 PM
1

What is it you were trying to find out/explore, in that case?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 08:09 PM
10

Bro. Go outside and figure it out? Idk how you expect a crowd of strangers to tell you how to feel. Please meet people.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 07:42 PM
1

Hope is no good without action. You and your friends have plans next weekend?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 07:40 PM
2

Me, me I don't "blame" anyone, that's for the network suits to worry about
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 07:39 PM
2

Wayne from Letterkenny
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 07:37 PM
1

Di Caprio maybe, I think it's a wash. Depp nahh.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 07:35 PM
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Because you make friends and integrate yourself with unfamiliar people in more relaxed environments. You can get to know a potential date a lot easier that way and IMO are more likely to work out
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 07:32 PM
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Cmon bro, no it's not looks, it's compatibility, you know this
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 11:58 AM
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"Interests" aren't the foundation of a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 09:53 PM
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I will call your ass out if we’re supposed to be spending quality engaging time with each other and you check your phone. Not a con Everyone thinks I’m extremely extroverted but its all a facade I learned to put up after working in client facing jobs before getting to where I’m at and I need my quiet alone time. I still remember the first time someone laughed in my face when I referred to my quiet, reserved nature. I've never been client-facing though, so ???
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 08:58 PM
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https://www.newyorker.com/magazine/2022/08/08/how-toxic-is-masculinity For those interested in reading, a new yorker columnist takes on some thinkers in the contemporary gender sphere
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 08:55 PM
1

Sport
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 08:53 PM
1

Not mine LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 06:20 PM
2

Aww, you guys
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 03:57 PM
1

My dad
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 03:57 PM
1

That's bonkers
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 03:41 PM
1

he doesn't know you know Good one. Yes, have done so
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 03:40 PM
1

Or maybe some honesty, tf
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 03:38 PM
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F. I don't think it was ever a sudden click
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 11:01 PM
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No. If I'm gonna be uncomfortable, I'm going to be properly wealthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 10:59 PM
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This is the tough part now. Don't know when it will pass, do know that it will
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 10:58 PM
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That's hilarious, but also I finally understand their POV
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 10:55 PM
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People that have passion for nothing, including their lives. That's all. Often mistaken for people who are closed off, quiet, or otherwise uninterested in opening up like that, but those clams are the most interesting to pry open
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 10:52 PM
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And still it moves
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 10:50 PM
1

I'll have you know the procrastination is an important part of my work process!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 04:30 PM
1

If it makes you feel any better, we get brain damage from mundane things like car exhaust and oven cleaner too
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 03:23 PM
1

Not with that attitude
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 03:22 PM
1

His stans, more like
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 02:31 PM
1

You feel the threshold, really. Taking craziness to mean some incongruence between how they navigate/perceive the world and how you do, you're going to realize you keep running into a brick wall whenever you look to build inroads to your emotional intimacy. It can't really happen when that mismatch is there, and I'd like to think I'd notice that sooner rather than later. I value my peace too much not to
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 02:30 PM
1

Lean into my mother's: handiness/self-sufficiency (sans tech) and unwavering generosity. Away from the pitiful standards she has for living well and being treated well. Lean into my father's charisma, humor, intelligence/intellectual curiosity. Lean away from his selfishness, impatience, sour moods, homophobia.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 02:24 PM
1

Those ones are always deeply disturbing to me. Trust me I understand inertia, but people do this for years. With their life partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 02:19 PM
1

Could be referring to the way that research itself is rolled out/approved for funding. Still a bad take but I'm not writing the essay on it
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 02:18 PM
1

Honestly when I'm not working I'm procrastinating, and I procrastinate a shit ton. Actually going out on a walk isn't something I feel like I can carve out time for
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 02:16 PM
1

Guys that you want to LTR. If only.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 02:10 PM
1

Scintillating. I hope your mystery gets solved. It's also hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 02:06 PM
1

Eyes slightly wider apart is a feminine/neotenous marker of beauty. But there's also something aging about the bottom guy's appearance. His figure, the cut and color of his shirt, and I think also the style of his tattoo sleeve which gives mid 2000s vibes for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 01:56 PM
1

They shouldn't give stuff a cool as hell name if the intention isn't actually to describe something cool as hell
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 01:50 PM
2

Ladies, pick women!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 01:48 PM
1

The only time I actually virtue signal is when I offer pretty much anything. Damn is it annoying when people take you up on things edit: I am gonna do it. It's just that I would have rather not.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 01:55 AM
2

Heard. I get it to an extent, but I can't quite bring myself to fully forgive when people close out the world around them in favor of a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 01:54 AM
1

Only anything wrong with the final sentence. You can comfort low moods but you shouldn't indulge them
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 01:42 AM
6

Nah. I have a mother and aunts, genes are gucci
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 01:38 AM
1

So many body types, so much 😍
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 10:08 PM
3

Cmon man are you really gonna make me explain thirst in minute detail It's a fit male body and I'm attracted to fit male bodies!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 08:59 PM
1

10/10
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 08:49 PM
2

Tracy ...huh? Tracy is just a name
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 07:33 PM
1

Germans, really? That a gen z thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 07:32 PM
1

F
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 07:29 PM
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Not into them on men
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 07:09 PM
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It doesn't load/error message
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 06:50 PM
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They literally never shut up, so no...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 06:39 PM
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On occasion you get lucky
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 06:36 PM
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I'm having a wonderful day fortunately. Just remembered the dreaminess of men who give space and silence😍😍😩
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 06:35 PM
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Men who shut the fuck up >>>>>
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 05:54 PM
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Yeah that's what I'm saying. If men are the ones that have hangups about promiscuity, how the solution gonna be making women care like men do?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 05:53 PM
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How is that, if women don't care about women's promiscuity or men's?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 05:39 PM
3

Most men could do with saying a lot less. Never gotten a blank good morning text I didn't find offputting
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 05:34 PM
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You know you're gonna have a good time on a tik tok when the guy puts a towel on his head to impersonate a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 05:30 PM
1

W, Tyson. Not his best pic though. Could be cheating because I know who he is
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 02:50 PM
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It really doesn't work lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 11:32 PM
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Why do people put attractive/good looking in their own bios? You know I can SEE you right?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 09:29 PM
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Honestly, whatever god decides
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 07:34 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 07:34 PM
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It's an antisocial tendency. Human babies are based
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 07:33 PM
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No. No reason for shame
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 07:32 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 07:31 PM
1

Day ending in y
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 07:38 AM
3

Cedric Diggory
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 05:11 AM
6

About twelve seconds ago
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 05:01 AM
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I mean yeah, that's what makes it so difficult
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 09:16 PM
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In reality there is nothing unique about it Spoken like someone who truly understands human interaction and connection
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 09:01 PM
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If only😔
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 05:10 PM
1

I think the finances encourage it. No one has the money, and it excuses the lack of flourishing in other areas
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 04:39 PM
1

Damn, guess they hate you because I did pretty much the same thing yesterday
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 04:33 PM
2

Update: he is coming back at noon to pick up his $20. This took me the fuck out
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 04:31 PM
1

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 04:28 PM
2

Don't cut yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 03:46 AM
1

I guarantee it. You doubt me?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 08:48 PM
1

The Bear. It makes me feel warm, despite the whole shouting thing
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 08:23 PM
4

Hello. I'm sad too. Soon we will be happy
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 08:23 PM
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I am sorry. This is a stain on our culture almost worse than anything because of how widely accepted it is. If it was up to me, these people - often hypocrites - would be shunned.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 06:39 PM
5

Why are the analogies always absurd?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 06:08 PM
2

You didn't let your dreams be dreams
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 03:18 PM
1

Like pure sexiness
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 03:56 AM
2

If and when I get cancer Bruh
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 10:02 PM
2

Nope, that's the "everyone's kinda racist" of bitter people telling on themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 09:07 PM
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If you're ready and willing to make the sacrifice it's no skin off my teeth!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 09:05 PM
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This is common for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 07:53 PM
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Coworker just makes this a hard no until one of you is on your way out
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 07:11 PM
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No, no. I just don't meet anyone I feel that way about
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 07:10 PM
2

Of course, what with patriarchy being violent by its nature. The dominant West is no longer in danger from the physical violence that was formerly a threat. On the other hand, the political landscape shows that democracy itself is being strained now more than ever, because our leaders all lack leadership.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 05:01 PM
1

Life, the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 04:57 PM
2

Isn't it so funny that something so nothing, is so everything? Effort declines the further you progress into a relationship...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 07:38 AM
1

The only viscerally felt one is clothes that are crusty, muggy, lived in. Like please stop fishing this shirt off your bedroom floor, it has been needing cleaned! These, by comparison, aren't deeply felt, but they do indicate I won't be looking at that man a certain light: -Jeans ripped all down the thigh -Wether beanie or ball, a hat not worn securely on the head -(gray area) Jerseys outside game day are also lowkey not it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 07:24 AM
0

Yeah. To be honest in day to day this is just how most people act. People don't incorporate gender discourse in their lives
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 07:10 AM
1

Yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 07:07 AM
1

No, I'd sooner admit defeat
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 11:37 PM
1

He'll be surrounded by family and friends, if I have one
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 11:35 PM
0

Not fair, put her in a stylists chair see what you get
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 11:34 PM
1

No
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 11:32 PM
0

And they're just as wrong as you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 07:24 PM
2

I have only done those! No wonder I'm so unlucky in love.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 07:16 PM
2

Exactly why it's a bonus! And it's less pressure for both of you. You sound very lucky to have that sort of arrangement available
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 06:22 PM
1

It's a bit unusual to have a date be a group outing. But I say we should make it more normal!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 06:09 PM
1

2mos Pleasant. I don't like numerical ratings like that but I'll say 8
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 04:43 PM
1

It's the complaining itself. Just feels great
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 04:41 PM
2

No one
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 04:40 PM
1

An app
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 04:37 PM
5

What in the teenage girl tumblr fanfiction
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 02:38 AM
1

I'm retarded but wealthy, minus the money
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 02:31 AM
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Hard no.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 01:01 AM
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The women they are with do
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 01:01 AM
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Sorry. Same here.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 12:30 AM
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No, the idea is for him to feel happy with the body that he has
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 12:30 AM
1

Lol, really. I'd buy a house with a garden area for romantic candle lit dinners. Then I'd buy a nice car and a new wardrobe. Then I'd buy laser hair removal for like everything. Some drugs. Theatre/concert/sports/whatever tickets and related costs including airfare where necessary. None of it makes a difference if I don't actually find my beloved, but it's a more enjoyable wait!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 12:27 AM
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No way, that's when all the babyface finally leaves
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 10:33 PM
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Yep
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 10:32 PM
1

You know, I'd like to see the research. I was a business dad single parent kid, and I think I got a little too much of her softness.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 11:27 PM
1

Being Good The biggest one for me is generosity, but tbh it's dangerous and takes privilege to indulge
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 10:24 PM
1

I hope they get well soon
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 10:22 PM
6

I'll state it more strongly: the last time I was able to identify a leader in my friendship group, I was a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 10:15 PM
1

Top grossing blockbusters will tell you otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 08:36 PM
1

A) I hate attention and worry about a wedding. But I think my parents would be sad if I didn't do even a teeny little one
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 07:00 PM
1

I've been staunchly against poly-anything in my life, but have started reconsidering lately. Conclusion is that it I think it would be find if he wasn't my primary partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 06:51 PM
1

Pitching is masculine, batting is feminine
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 02:49 AM
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Fuck no, I've seen what other women are into.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 12:48 AM
2

Big bravo on the focus on the work needed to round up. I dream of the day I meet a .6 tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 12:45 AM
2

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 12:18 AM
2

That's a great topic of conversation to broach with a stranger, especially if you add a but
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 10:20 PM
2

What's the last thing you texted a friend of yours?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 10:11 PM
2

Anything that requires intelligence tbh Like being funny? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 09:34 PM
2

Then omit
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 09:29 PM
1

🪨
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 09:28 PM
1

Probably clooney
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 09:26 PM
1

Wherever it's said it shows a deep contempt for society/your fellow human.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 09:25 PM
2

Which ones?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 09:24 PM
1

Give his balls a tug
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 06:12 PM
0

The ones that I suffer, and the frightening submissiveness that comes with being a pursuer. It has always been society.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 03:05 PM
2

I'm definitely not winning.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 03:03 PM
1

Memory might fail me but Im pretty sure 100% before last week. Actually I'm wrong, there have been 4 or 5 hangouts so high 90s only
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 03:03 AM
2

No
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 01:07 AM
2

Be nice to yourself, the rest will follow
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 06:37 PM
3

It's not a great litmus test imo. Once a week absent of purpose is a bit much for my tastes, and since /u/Mark_Freed broached the question it's likely a bit much for his. I think he's done well to check in with himself though. Stopping for a while just to see how it feels is never a bad suggestion, though he will ultimately know best how to deal with himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 06:36 PM
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Sure, I don't consider it diplomatic though because we agree lol. Though something I didn't emphasize that you quite rightly did is that the thought/POV itself is illegitimate. In ordinary times and spaces this would go without saying, but we are in neither so the emphasis is sadly necessary. Exactly, listening to your emotions doesn't mean capitulating to them, and I speculate that confounding the two is why a lot of men are so resistant to the idea. Your example is a good one: recognizing an a…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 06:28 PM
1

But 26+ is kosher, right? Right???
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 05:02 PM
2

Regarding this Something brief: if you ever find yourself wondering what is meant by "work on yourself" or if you believe the term is something made up by women to justify dating who they want... just think of something you are truly afraid to ask yourself. Then ask it. And be inventive when you do, the human brain loves to protect itself at all costs. /u/goatismycopilot /u/poppy_blu Addressing people who hold a POV ≠ holding the POV yourself, but I note the reminder. The point I wanted to keep …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 04:56 PM
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Something brief: if you ever find yourself wondering what is meant by "work on yourself" or if you believe the term is something made up by women to justify dating who they want... just think of something you are truly afraid to ask yourself. Then ask it. And be inventive when you do, the human brain loves to protect itself at all costs.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 03:41 AM
5

Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 01:33 AM
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Studies show that fatherless boys go in the opposite direction, and are more likely to have behavioral problems etc than be docile. You're right that it is harmful but no need to fabricate
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 10:50 PM
4

I'm pretty sure you're able to get a new york public library card wherever you reside. At that point you're only missing the shitty self-pub amazon fanfic
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 10:11 PM
2

Yes, it isn't. Get a library card
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 09:54 PM
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Because men use analogies to smuggle in "neutral" "it's just reality bro" values that women tend to reject
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 09:50 PM
2

Not men. Women, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 09:48 PM
2

What is the most self-destructive act/trajectory you have ever personally witnessed?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 09:43 PM
1

Old roomie estimated 80+. He is attractive and trendy
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 09:40 PM
7

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 04:42 PM
3

Yeah her kids are grown, and she also fucked HER OWN BEST FRIEND'S husband. Easy, clean separation is the ideal outcome for all.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 03:11 PM
1

To make it clear, you've designed the button to find out what women are willing to sacrifice. This measure is important to know because dating is broken, and a fix implies costs borne by women exclusively. If you know when women would press the button, you'd have a better idea of what kind of fix would work. Right?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 10:21 PM
1

No
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 09:58 PM
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Why woo someone you don't like as a person?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 08:16 PM
1

Yeah it's the problem with insults, you run into people whose value systems don't align with yours. Like if someone calls you a coward for not going outside during a covid surge, I might consider them justified. If they call you that for wearing a mask in public though I'd think they're full of shit. They are a reflection of the speaker's values and priorities, and we use them as a form of social control among many things. It likely is a fine line, and it's ultimately up to the individual to dec…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 08:07 PM
1

No, it's not marketing. Framing changes approach, approach changes method, method changes outcome. Framing it in this way assumes a zero-sum system, and assumes that certain groups must lose, when that isn't clearly the case, and not necessarily the case at all. But if you come into it with this in place, your end result is of course going to reflect that
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 06:39 PM
2

You Deserve It
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 06:10 PM
2

No. YDI
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 06:02 PM
1

OK I will amend, they are gendered insults that come from the same gender inclusive place. No one respects a person that compromises themselves for the promise of attention. Similarly bitch and dick are also gendered, but at the root of it nobody likes a nasty person
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 05:57 PM
4

Simping/pickmehood is a gender inclusive insult
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 05:40 PM
3

Loneliness is one hell of a debilitating condition, there comes a point where different pain is almost preferable
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 05:39 PM
2

Give yourself grace, it's a very personal decision that time and life experience will help you figure out.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 03:44 PM
2

This is amazing, godspeed to your cute lil family
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 03:39 PM
5

The scientific standpoint would be astronomy
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 03:27 PM
2

No, I was pretty happy
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 02:24 PM
2

The replies to this are... enlightening
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 02:19 PM
3

No, you have to associate with who you want and act in your own self interest
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 02:16 PM
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You've got to smile through the cringe, it's the only way to have fun
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 04:55 AM
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Co-sine
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 01:09 AM
1

I'd press the button at 5'9" I think your broader framing could be better approached though. It takes infrastructural change rather than curtailing the freedoms of some individuals.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 12:48 AM
1

Nah. He has to have mastery over something significant though.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 12:44 AM
1

The only person in the world able to answer that is you. Which is why we call it "good faith"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 12:42 AM
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Goodness, no
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 12:39 AM
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Since when, how come?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 12:38 AM
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Why isn't she watching my stories for fuck's sake >:( I'm about to mail them to her
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 12:30 AM
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They're so gracious and gentle, it's the women who are cruel
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 12:27 AM
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unfiltered TRP? Good one
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 10:06 PM
1

I'm no coward.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 06:17 PM
1

It's a personality flaw with a name that escapes me
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 05:52 PM
0

you probably never would've looked his way A pathetic story you've decided to make up about two strangers, but the question remaining is why?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 05:33 PM
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Haha. They old?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 05:26 PM
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You make it sound like this is some sort of rare sighting
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 05:24 PM
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Don't get it. I'm always civil but none of this is serious. It is funny when people cry lie/virtue signal but it doesn't change the approach
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 05:23 PM
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You went and experienced people for yourself??? Why would you do this when the truth is right here on the internet
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 05:19 PM
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This is a gamechanger
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 05:17 PM
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Wins everywhere!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 03:14 AM
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All women also need water to survive. More at 11
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 01:02 AM
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All women want to say fuck you to the person they are divorcing. Not interesting or new
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 12:58 AM
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Just not based in reality
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 12:54 AM
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Today's very unfortunate Page Six article featuring Ari Emmanuel with a perfect figure, and Elon Musk looking very unfortunate
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 10:40 PM
3

Normal people can stand out tho
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 08:33 PM
1

No sweetheart, no
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 06:57 PM
1

Yeah, but it's his face primarily
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 06:36 PM
1

Because you're wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 06:27 PM
1

Very. There's a reason he was cast as lead in Slumdog
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 06:20 PM
1

Lmao gtfoh
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 06:19 PM
0

Lol. I'm guessing you don't work male-dominated
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 03:59 PM
1

And absolutely in my experience, so...? We do get PMS, but fortunately standards of professionalism still apply to us, and we're judged harshly for falling outside of them. Are men?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 03:55 PM
1

Take
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 03:37 PM
3

The point being that you'd not make this statement if the discussion was about male bosses, even though male bosses are as mood-swingy as the rest.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 03:37 PM
1

He's a ten
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 02:39 PM
1

Pro: less stifled by the expectations of traditional courtship, ie less opportunity to choke Con: I guess not ideal if you aren't casually-minded. But maybe it is idk
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 02:39 PM
1

Duh
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 02:37 PM
1

Treasure
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 02:34 PM
1

Saaaame. Fortunately there's a lot more to give yet
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 02:34 PM
2

Awful.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 02:32 PM
1

Persons
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 02:32 PM
1

Personality. Drives home they aren't the one for me
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 02:30 PM
3

Nope. I'd prefer consistent non casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 04:50 AM
1

The pleasure of good company, where found
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 04:49 AM
2

IYKYK
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 04:35 AM
1

That's pretty low. You're sure we're in love?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 04:30 AM
1

Literally the opposite of a reduction
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 09:01 PM
1

Try to disguise this feeling around others
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 08:19 PM
3

"Couple of months" uh you are reaching out to an old friend (stranger) at that point good buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 08:10 PM
1

I mean... yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 06:53 PM
1

Does she make my heart sing?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 05:43 PM
1

LOL as if. That costs money I'd have to pay
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 12:55 AM
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You do, but also you aren't necessarily at odds with the OP. Lots of kinds of women means lots of ways to appeal to them. Pick a lane that favors your existing strengths, and voilà
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 08:38 PM
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Promise you'll have more fun trying to get to know whoever comes your way
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 07:09 PM
0

Maybe 25%, again, if I had to bet
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 06:36 PM
1

There's a Netflix reality show about a French family that does real estate, the whole time watching I'm trying to figure out if the dad is hotter than his sons
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 06:35 PM
0

I have no idea. 30% if I had to place a bet
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 06:27 PM
1

Thanks, I needed the elaboration because I thought you were saying friends berate you for being treated poorly. That I fortunately don't see, but I do see people getting mocked for giving too much. You know what, I think I agree with that too. What's funny is the broader effect on women, who are traditionally the fooled sex
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 06:25 PM
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Men lose FAR more Provide examples? Who is ostracizing people for poor judgement in dating? Friends and family? Most of the support I received I had to reach out for/find. It's definitely a privilege but not one that spontaneously appeared
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 05:50 PM
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Re relationships happening: exactly, which is why I don't mind wearing the dunce's cap. I've actually come to embrace it. Also not gender specific, I last went through this with a dude! Re: "consolation prizes" though I disagree, and not certain that the high road is a reward of any kind. I came away with -My capacity to love still intact -My attention free to more important things -An abundance of good still in my life -A very important lesson. So... all good imo. Nothing of importance was lost…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 05:28 PM
1

It's not the sex usually, but the hostile politics surrounding
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 04:46 PM
1

I really disagree, I think sex is when we are most conscious and alive
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 03:56 PM
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Damn, sorry. I'd rather be a fool than a cynic, personally. I think we all have to choose at one point or another
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 03:54 PM
1

Useless whether it is or not
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 03:53 PM
2

This makes it sound like he fucked his kid
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 07:00 AM
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I think it's heightened by a natural inclination to reclusiveness+ heightened awareness of neutral/negative responses from people. It's not ideal but much less of a disaster than is usually perceived
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 03:49 AM
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Two thumbs up. It's the ultimate determiner of attractiveness ime. That is, if you don't look good in a buzzcut there's a 90% chance I don't find you attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 03:25 AM
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Good Q. Around 30-40%
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 07:37 PM
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I'd personally agree with you, but it's something that takes a lot of personal development
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 01:16 AM
2

It depends on who you ask. For me it's a wash, but many of my friends have lanky as their ideal male figure.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 01:16 AM
3

They're used as hoping mechanisms. My father didn't abandon me, he simply isn't back from his cigarette run!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 01:07 AM
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Because people latch onto falsehoods all the time if they make them feel better, as you see will many of the red pill ideas. If it's false AND bad for you, people will more likely consider letting go of them, which is a net benefit for everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 12:47 AM
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I mean, dark curly hair is my type, but I find people attractive outside of that all the time, and gasp, have even dated outside that type! I think this view doesn't take into account the totality of the individual/the dating experience
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 11:06 PM
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It's really weird and possibly pathological to wildly distort a captioned image and use it as the basis for your imaginary conclusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 08:07 PM
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Thoughts and prayers
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 07:28 PM
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Cannot say it enough. When you understand that cynicism can be just as much a delusion we cling onto for emotional comfort as optimism, it's a game changer. People don't think it's the case because one side is painful to hold onto but the other isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 06:28 PM
1

A copypasta, for free??
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 06:31 AM
2

Be an adult in full time employment and conveniently skip over the fact that you last completed a video game in college
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 05:15 AM
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That it's exhausting, obviously. My sister is going through similar now and she's drowning. I'm out of state now or I'd help more. It's just a crushing way to live.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 01:49 AM
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My mother did it, but she is superhuman
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 01:45 AM
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You don't need qualifications of any kind to run a subreddit so that will explain most of it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 11:33 PM
1

Mine said the same lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 10:52 PM
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Fortunately wasn't edgy, just a profound moral repulsion I vividly remember coming to terms with when I was twelve. Agnosticism remained probably until late teens. Hostility towards the religious establishment thankfully still here
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 10:48 PM
1

It's a terrible circumstance but she is absolutely 😍/10
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 05:40 PM
1

No. Odd premise
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 05:36 PM
1

No, you phrased it well. 80/20 is the idea that 80% of women are after 20% of men. A closely related but entirely separate idea is that women find themselves attracted to a minority of men, which is what you touch on in your response. If it's a minority of men, but the minority varies on the individual level, the resulting group of men that date is far larger than the percentage that any individual woman is attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 05:18 PM
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First of all, girls C/D are my people 😂 Second of all, this tracks with my experience completely. I had a new friend show me someone she is seeing and I think that was the first time it's actually been a guy I think is cute. Most of the time I get 'nah' to 'literally never' vibes when friends show me their dates. Third of all, the natural conclusion to your comment is that 80/20 isn't in fact real.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 04:59 PM
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Respectfully... you might not be a short king lel Praising someone in a group of stigmatized people works all the better when you directly acknowledge the feature as part of their greatness. It's the only way the stigma starts to be deconstructed
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 04:43 PM
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Nah. It's much simpler than that, our culture evolves to reflect the times. Short king came into existence because America developed this obsession with men's height as if it was the be all, end all. If this obsession never existed, its counter wouldn't either
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 04:40 PM
1

Actually in fairness, I forgot to count rec league people. That pumps my numbers if they can actually be considered. Besides that yep, and they are both out of town lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 03:31 PM
2

Yes, but barely
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 03:11 PM
1

No, apology not accepted
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 03:08 PM
1

Like when you're naked already?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 03:04 PM
1

This is where you hopefully begin to rejig what you've come to consider extraordinary. There are people all around you waiting for you to change their life
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 03:03 PM
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Fully agree, and it's an appropriate phrase considering those of us that have unfortunately made a hostage situation out of dating. However, can it evolve, be explored, be teased? Duhhh. Approaching sideways is an unfortunately lost art.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 02:55 PM
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Q4A What is your life gender balance? If you take every ond of your relationships/interactions from birth and weight them appropriately (distant acquaintance vs family etc) what kind of breakdown do you get? I have 90% female and it's made me wonder about a few things 🧐
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 02:47 PM
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