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No. It shows that women value men for more than their bank account. Humans value art and artists. Women go for musicians because musicians are by necessity charismatic, dress with style, ambitious, well spoken, fun, upbeat, sociable, have confidence in their appearance no matter what they look like, and do I need to go on?? It is not because women want fuckbois its because the guys they most often meet are not any of those positive things. Women would rather be single than be with someone that w…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 05:55 AM
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The most common post on the relationship subs are some form of 'My husband/boyfriend lost his job a year ago and hasn't applied for one since'. This idea that its rare for men to get a free ride needs to die. Every woman I know has supported a man through being jobless multiple times. And lets not forget the second most common relationship sub post. 'I do all the daily chores while my bf/husband does none' this is quite often combined with #1. When a man 'supports' a women she is doing a full ti…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 05:28 AM
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Mood 😂🤣https://youtu.be/4MIvsXZQfWk
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 05:33 AM
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One guy actually laid out his fantasy of me coming over with groceries and cooking him dinner. As a guest in his house. He didn't know how to cook so I guess I was supposed to buy him a cookset too, but I blocked him and then deleted that dating app so very quickly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 11:51 AM
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Either the dick game is god tier or she never had role models for a healthy happy relationship. So many of us were raised by two working parents and primetime tv.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 11:46 AM
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The pickme game cannot be won. Lvm will find SOMETHING or make it up. Like the Taylor Swift song says 'Boys only want love if its tourture, don't say I didn't warn ya' I don't think she is full FDS but the mantrums that single line caused was 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 11:40 AM
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They don't feel love, they hate us and want ownership.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 11:14 PM
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Forward those and screenshot it to an account that you have never used at work. Keep it just in case. If creep or HR make any move against you this evidence is the groundwork for a lawsuit. Sexual harrassment and creating a hostile work environment are illegal in many places. So if they support him over you, you can give them a reason to regret it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 11:55 AM
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Wait though. This is the whole point of counseling, to have an independent authority that can give you honest perspective. LV (abusive) people will manipulate their victim into distrusting their closest friends. He would say 'Your sister is lying because she hates me and wants us to break up' just for an example. When you bring a professional in, they are neutral and the victim can trust them easier. When couples counseling happens its very likely that the victimized person will find themselves …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 11:44 AM
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That is just trying to shift blame. The problem is him being an inconsiderate asshole. To 'win' an argument that he is most definitely NOT on the right side of, he gaslights and shifts the conversation away from his wrongdoing and recenters the conversation as her problem. Of course he is trying to help her because he cannot admit he is wrong, LVM egos don't allow for apologies or admitting they are behaving badly. Its narcissistic and self centered to a mind blowing degree. He wants to do what …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 11:24 AM
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Straight up look them in the eye and deadpan 'No Carl, jokes are funny and that wasn't even close to being funny'. Let them be uncomfortable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 12:36 AM
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In all of that, you frame it from their narrative, that you are responsible for their actions because the problem is vagina. Please stop speaking like that to yourself. The problem is their sexist jealous attitude. We have all heard the phrase 'penis envy', I never envied penis, I envied how men are treated as superior. That isn't because he had a penis, it was because of the superstitious cult of penis worship. The world tries to force us to take responsibility for mens actions. Stop going alon…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 04:56 AM
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It IS dating strategy, but dating strategy is life strategy. Dating is not exclusively 'how to attract a man' its also how to spot the signs of bad behavior, when you should walk away, understanding the subtle signs that this person will make you miserable and waste your time. Its also how to value yourself and become the best you possible. For me, someone tha has been in several abusive relationships, fds is VITAL because it does not apologize for abusers and it does not ask the woman to accept…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 03:06 AM
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every girl he's been with has enjoyed it No. No they did not enjoy that. Don't buy his lies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 02:49 AM
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Wasn't he dating an underage girl? I hope she isn't the one that married him...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 06:05 AM
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Just an FYI, even with years of therapy abusers are still abusers. They hurt people because they enjoy it and benefit by it, so its not possible for therapy to 'fix' them. All therapy does is make them better at being abusive, they often use the phrases they learn in therapy to 'diagnose' their victims with mental problems so they will be more accepting and forgiving of abuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 05:39 AM
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This sweet humour and self confidence is what makes HVM stand out. The LV get scared because you already saw through their thirsty little souls.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 04:21 AM
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My controlling manipulative drug addicted ex was hot as hell and the constant pestering and whining ( he was a man baby in every way) was a comply turnoff. I can't even date a guy that reminds me of him, it makes me dry as the sahara. Its not JUST looks, the whole package needs to be attractive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 04:52 AM
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A lot of people simply can't. When both parents work a full time job, mom does all the errands, shopping, cooking, cleaning, and dad comes home to beer and a game controller then the kids don't get the attention they need. I have seen women go back to work as little as a week after giving birth because they had no choice. Being poor has a tremendous impact, this is why FDS tells women to pick men that pay for dates and support her financially. If you have to have two incomes to survive the kids …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 04:43 AM
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My ex did fuck up everything and later admitted he did it on purpose so I would like stop asking him to do stuff. He destroyed clothes doing laundry, broke plates washing dishes, and 'cleaned' stuff so that I had to go back and do it myself anyway. This is why we need FDS, everyone told me he was 'trying as hard as he could' and I needed to 'have patience' and 'teach him how'. Bullfuckingshit, that shitty asshole did it on purpose so I would stop asking. His game controller was his priority. He …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 07:23 PM
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Its audacity. They will brag publicly about jacking off to rape 'dont kink shame me' 'its jUsT faNtaSy' and the next post will be 'women that have sex before marriage dont deserve respect'. Intentional propaganda.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 07:27 AM
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There are hundreds of onlyfan subreddits.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 07:19 AM
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My first thought is that he is married, he is lying about his age and probably name, he IS on EVERY dating app, with only one picture of an expensive car or boat that he wishes he owned, a tag that reads something like 'hung professional for discreet fun', the account was made while wifey was pregnant, and his inbox is nothing but onlyfan links / cashapp requests.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 06:57 AM
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Point the camera at a houseplant and sit out of frame while reading fds threads. I think we have all seen enough that we know you would have a long list of subscribers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 06:16 AM
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Lundy Bancroft, Why Does He Do that .. is the name of the book. You can find it online for free or buy off amazon, he also has a ton of webinars on youtube. I don't trust ANY other book about abuse, for years I only saw ones talking about what 'made' them abuse and how the victim should be forgiving and convince the abuser to get help. Fuck all sorts of that shit. I am still angry 8 years later, I will never forgive. I hope the book you got is not making excuses and shaming the victim into feeli…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 05:04 AM
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That is preemptively calling him out on his bullshit excuses. Smart woman, she has a great future ahead of her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 04:54 AM
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Because lonely desperate men will give money to anyone that strokes their ego. Look at how much they resent anyone telling them to shower and treat women like humans.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 03:56 AM
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For most of my life I have hated birthdays and holidays. Now that I have been single for several years I am LOVING every birthday and holiday. I no longer have to spend all my time and money for the perfect gifts, huge feasts, massive cleanups both before and after, days of shopping, food prep, and cooking. I no longer have those moments where I feel bad because I forgot someone's favorite food or the cookies got burnt cause I was trying to mash 10 lbs of steaming potatoes, or I forgot the godda…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 03:38 AM
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You are the hero we need. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 03:11 AM
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That while he’s happy and over the moon, he knows she’s not and probably won’t ever be again. For lots of guys, thats #relationshipgoals Look how many men go completely out of their way to make their significant other absolutely miserable. Earlier I read a post where every. Single. Morning. For. Years. A womans husband has turned on the dishwasher or clothes washer so that she never got a hot shower. She did it to him TWICE as a wake up call ( after coMuNicAtinG for years) and he was so incredib…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 02:37 AM
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Hey now, I bet he banged 30 women while they were apart. Thats like.... Ten whole minutes of mediocre sex! He tried REALLY hard. Do you have any idea how much mental work it is to not accidentally send the sidechick texts to the baby momma? Typing out 'hey' on dating apps 700 times is WORK. Give him his rightful credit!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 02:29 AM
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Coming soon while pregnant with baby #2
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 02:22 AM
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Its not about owning it, its about who they can blame. Abusers break the victims stuff to hurt the victim or put them at a disadvantage. Abusers will break their own stuff if they can use it to manipulate the victim 'look what you made me do'. Blame shifting and manipulation through guilt, along with forcing a victim to take responsibility for the abusers emotions/actions. They will happily break their own things if they can gain something by doing it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 02:06 AM
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Narcissism. And 'unchecked rage' is usually a lie. For the majority, that violent tantrum is deliberate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 02:00 AM
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Sometimes. Sometimes its just scaring you for a thrill. Abusers enjoy your pain, your fear, and having a sense of control over you. They don't necessarily need to be angry to hurt and scare you, sometimes the anger is just an excuse. Its MUCH more efficient to scare you and hurt you to make you comply than to try and reason with you when the thing they want is completely crazy. My second abuser tried to convince me I hated my job and when that didn't work hid keys and started a huge fight so tha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 01:56 AM
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https://youtu.be/i30mBVxSePI goes over quite a bit ofthe information, but I highly recommend you buy it off amazon (if able) or google for a free copy ( a few minutes effort can find the full book). This book is an amazing resource for abuse victims and women that want to learn how to recognize the signs of future abuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 01:38 AM
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I need that last paragraph without the blue dot. Thats a whole mood right there. Thats an inspirational quote for a poster.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 06:47 AM
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Yeah but oral. I would take bets that he didn't think of that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 06:26 AM
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The ones that hate women and desire to abuse them the most and the ones that are trying to start a civil war make a venn diagram a perfect circle. Not trying to get political here, just pointing out the war hungry are pretty damn vocal. Believe them when they tell you who they are. They want to legalize rape by making it impossible to prosecute. Thats what all the 'false accusations' garbage is about. Violent men that want violence to be legal. Porn shows us that violence is what most men consid…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 05:55 AM
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I used to be nice and never ghost, but too many times they would flip out, name call, threaten, beg for sex, or try to manipulate me through guilt. Fuck that. I don't give my number until after the first date and I dont ghost if I can remember their last name. Other than that no. Block and done. I wasted too much time already thinking about them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 05:03 AM
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This is why I highly advocate anger. You don't have to be ashamed, get angry!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 02:25 AM
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Don't count on a man to support you until the wedding. Can YOU afford it? Will YOU struggle? Even after marriage, always make sure that you have enough hidden away that you can pick up and leave at a moments notice. Never depend on a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 02:20 AM
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You underestimate the depravity that men are capable of.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 12:14 AM
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The push started on twitter/reddit/ youtube and its all because enough people are shining the spotlight on it. Its too loud to ignore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 12:10 AM
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Widespread public pushback is vital to change. Lets be LOUD.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 11:59 PM
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You get more time for drug possession than for sexual abuse of a child. You get WAY more time for drug distribution than distribution of child abuse videos.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 11:53 PM
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We know that is the truth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 11:50 PM
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Look again, that mattress has never seen a sheet. The sheet, computer and man are shopped into it. We all know what lurks in that trash dump looks nothing like that man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 10:16 PM
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I have a hunch that there are some seriously hefty lawsuits in the works. Just a wild speculation, but are they purging evidence of criminal activities?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 12:52 PM
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Admins, other subs, if I see threats of violence I won't let it go. Ignoring it is a great choice and I respect fds general stance. I am still angry over past abuse and I have a hard time letting it go. Ive also been around reddit a long time, fds and its community are relatively new to me. I have always frequented controversial communities to explore the mindset. Its a personal curiosity with how people think, and trends in society. So far I love fds. The mods are effective, the community base …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 12:47 PM
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Male trolls often come on here, make comments advocating violence, screenshot it and post it as 'fds advocates violence against men'. And sorry for the truth here, but I have reported hundreds of threatening comments and few get taken down by admins. They have WHOLE SUBREDDITS dedicated to hating women and no one does anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 10:13 AM
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Lmao, Seat him in his favorite chair, give him some snacks, drinks, and his game controller. Then pack and leave while he is distracted. #winninglife #relationshipgoals 😂🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 12:06 AM
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Sign a new lease, rent a uhaul, leave copies on the game controller. That is the only 'communicating' that will fix YOUR problem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 12:02 AM
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Omg! You are back! This is gonna sound weird from an internet stranger and all, but seeing your name again makes me really happy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/20 04:50 PM
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'Then I'll give him your number'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 02:38 AM
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It doesn't have to be drugged. It could be a sealed can of soda. This is how manipulation works, they break down your boundaries slowly. Each time you feel bad for saying no and give in they push a little harder the next time. It becomes a cycle where you think saying no will be worse than saying yes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 05:25 AM
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Its because privacy laws are severely outdated. They don't apply to society today. What needs to happen is widespread policy changes to keep information private.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 04:56 AM
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Don't shit where you eat. Never think it will be 'just a fling' when they are part of your daily life already. You already said he is self centered and immature. Sounds like its very possible that details of your sex life will get passed around to everyone you know. A good FWB is never in your friend circle.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 10:24 PM
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Lament the fact that women have jobs and don't need to beg them for crumbs and scraps then completely fail to understand the word 'irony'. They hate to spend money on you but they also hate that you have your own.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 12:32 PM
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They should actually call it 'volcel' because we would rather not have sex with inconsiderate boring men. Its sure are hell a choice and I choose good sex or no sex over lazy unfulfilling sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 12:29 PM
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What's hilarious and disgusting is that you are getting up votes from FDS members who recognize sarcasm and fds superfans who don't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 12:24 PM
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What the crap about not keeping up with birth rates? Translation: How dare you not want to pop out babies with someone that can barely afford their own living expenses? And is that part about experiencing skyrocketing housing costs.. is that supposed to be a threat? Fax and lojiks my friends lmao their argument is not what they think it is. If women demand their job and their partners job pay enough to live a comfortable family life then maybe society turns towards demanding higher paying jobs. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 11:27 AM
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They enjoy us being afraid, its an ego boost for them if they feel like they are 'protecting' us from other men. A lot of them also think causing us pain during sex is normal, so they don't see what the big deal is. Its not like most of them have to worry about being actively pursued by someone twice their size who wants to use them to get off and won't stop at 'no'.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 07:40 PM
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With the widespread prevalence of photoshop, I don't think I would trust any online or even physical letter. All these 'researchers' are doing is fishing for extremist garbage to quote so they can drag this sub through the mud. They are still dredging up the same three posts from a year ago so they are desperate for new material. Send this person anything and its sure to wind up as a photoshopped meme on an anti fds sub tour ( there are lots!). Then they write a biased essay, upload it to one of…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 09:54 AM
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Every time a woman invents something, men either take credit or just deny it. Refrigerators, circular saws, velcro, washing machines..... Lots of things you use in your daily life were invented by women. But tell a man that and they will call you a liar. The erasure of female accomplishments is real.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 06:54 PM
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A lot of guys get into bdsm so they can openly sexually abuse people. They get off to causing pain and degrading, or they want to be hurt and degraded. A lot of women get into bdsm because they think there is a whole other level of caring, communication, and respect. For a while I tried to explore being a sub, but I couldn't get past just reading or talking about it because I saw too many red flags from the guys that wanted to be a 'dom' and I really dislike the idea of being degraded. I realize…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 07:36 AM
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There is literally nothing to 'teach' going on there. What he has that they do not, is ENTHUSIASM. If a guy wants to get you off he will ask and/or try everything until he finds what works. I don't agree that you shouldn't ever have to tell them, you wouldn't make them guess if you had an allergy or if you dislike a certain food. But you shouldn't have to tell them over and over, just like having a food allergy. If they CARE they will make an effort to remember. One big question, what are you do…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 06:04 AM
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Fun fact, the vagina can expand slightly due to arousal. A 'tight' vagina just means she isn't turned on. Don't you love when they tell on themselves? Men these days seek 'tight' because they have no sensitivity from deathgrip jerking to incest porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 05:08 AM
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It doesn't fall off, its like sharpening a pencil.✏️ Each new vagina takes off a layer till its just a little used up stub. 😂🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 03:52 AM
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The biggest red flag is when you DON'T do something and they flip out. Don't cook dinner for them. They should be able to handle that without you. Don't do their laundry. Don't clean up after them. In a relationship when you live together a certain amount of back and forth is to be expected, but things should be pretty even overall and I don't mean he mows the yard once a month and you cook every night. Dating red flags are his house is a mess, he cancels on you without an emergency or he tries …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 05:04 AM
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Omg, I went on one date with a guy, he was a professional, dressed nice, played in a band....... And had a nasty bare twin mattress on the floor in a basement surrounded by trash bags that I wasn't sure if it was his clothes or actual trash. He tried to make me feel sorry for him so I would 'cuddle' but he meant have sex with him. Like fucking hell to the NOPE dude. Had me absolutely fooled until I saw his 'bedroom'. I blocked him before I got out of his driveway ( I drove to be the designated d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 03:22 AM
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they put in the effort to act like this 90% of the day, why not just be like this Because it is an act to get what they want. When its of no benefit they are not kind. He was kind to random people when you were watching and so he could brag about being kind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 12:58 AM
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Hey now, most of us were there at one point. We shouldn't make fun of them, we should set examples and invite them to break free. Don't forget, men pit women against each other so they can control us easier. Solidarity is important.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 03:47 AM
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Its way more twisted than that. That was the tree of knowledge and god was pissed that they didn't stay ignorant, naive, and easy to manipulate. It wasn't because it tasted good, it was because they learned to become independent. Before Eve ate the fruit, they were basically pets.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 12:51 AM
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Thats because the bible was written by men. Its not that surprising. The idea that it's the 'word of god' is false, if you actually read it you can see that its a collection of myths, letters and diatribes that were gathered over centuries and eventually shuffled together by power hungry snake oil salesmen. I was raised in a not very religious but supposedly baptist family, there were several bibles in the house but church was only a thing for weddings and funerals. Lots of my friends wanted me …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 12:46 AM
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But I bet he expects you to be hairless from the neck down, smell like roses no matter what, and how DARE you have any natural bodily functions he doesn't approve of...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 10:45 PM
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Its still self-interest. They think it will make them a 'hero' and people will respect them more. They think it will give them sufficient pay for a decent life. Some sign up hoping they will be able to shoot people. But a LOT sign up because they live in high poverty areas where there is little to no economic mobility and they don't want to spend their whole life flipping burgers for shit wages. The GI bill is a HUGE incentive, many sign up because its the only option they have for higher educat…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/20 02:26 AM
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Omg I will be using that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 01:54 AM
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Its not confidence, its brainwashing. I call it 'sitcom syndrome'. Over 30 years of primetime tv, all the obese, bald manchildren usually have super hot smart wives that just luv them soooo much and forgive them for everything with a 'oh well, boys will be boys' as they clean up whatever disaster that dear hubbys deliberate incompetence created on this weeks episode. Between porn sickness and sitcom syndrome lvm think they can get supermodel virgin pornstar girlfriends that looooove cleaning and…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 10:55 PM
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Ugh. My ex did this on a lot of things. Asked him to do laundry? I had two loads of clothes with bleach spots everywhere and he doesn't do laundry again. Ask him to wash dishes? He broke plates by 'accident' until I just did it myself. Asked him to cook dinner because I was sick? Raw chicken for dinner. And each time he gets pissy about me being picky or I 'should have told him' how-to like yeah, I did. I said one scoop laundry soap, bake chicken 45 min on 350, put the damn dish gloves on it the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 03:48 AM
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Just watch out for some warning signs, those that think its 'cute' or get turned on when you are upset, angry, or unhappy need to be dropped out of your life quick. I didn't realize that for a long time, they thought my chill laid back attitude was a personal challenge or insult.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 07:50 AM
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Lmao at your example. In the story the mermaid dies and the prince marries someone else. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Little_Mermaid I don't exactly remember the disney version but I am pretty sure it has Titan sacrifice himself to save Ariel and the witch gets tricked/killed to save them both. Still, sure as fuck not worth giving up your life for a guy that doesn't return your feelings.
/r/AntiFeminists29/10/20 05:31 AM
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Never I repeat NEVER answer the last minute text when he hasn't made plans. Wait till the next day and tell him you were on a date or out with friends. Do not interrupt what you are doing to explain why you wont meet up even if you are not doing anything. You don't need to explain anything, your silence does a good enough job by itself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 11:51 PM
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That 'wow' means he has been catered to and babied his whole life. I bet he doesn't make his own dr appointments or remember birthdays by himself either. He expects you to do all his emotional labor because he has never had to do it himself. Tell him he should hire a personal assistant instead of dating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 11:45 PM
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Every single place I have ever worked has at least two guys like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 06:10 AM
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Those lvm and nvm will never put forth even one tenth of that love and effort even if you meet their standards of 'worthy'. If they don't freely give their affection, you will only get affection when they think you have 'earned' it. That is the type of guy that gives a wife with cancer the extra special gift of a divorce while he runs off with literally anyone younger.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 05:28 AM
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Ahh shit. Just why now.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 01:20 PM
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r/mgtow a hatesub not banned. r/mgtow2 a spinoff hatesub. You must be special. I understand that you believe your own lies but don't expect others to.
/r/AntiFeminists16/10/20 05:59 PM
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Mgtow isn't banned and there is still plenty of hate
/r/AntiFeminists16/10/20 02:10 AM
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Most custody cases never go to court because the couple doesn't fight about it. Most often when fathers end up with no custody or weekends only its because they don't want more or didn't bother to show up for the hearing. And they want to say men are discriminated against by family courts, no they literally don't show up. Where custody is taken away its because they have proven the father is a severe danger to the child. But the 'mens rights activists' wont admit the reality of custody.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 10:26 PM
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Try this 'This conversation is not about victims, its about sexual predators. And yes, a small fraction of predators are women. Now that we have that out of the way, how do you think we should STOP sexual predators from assaulting?' 'mentoo' is derailment. Its used to tire you out and take up your time and energy. Its also an accusation that you don't care about male victims so they can say you hate all men. They don't want solutions, That doesn't benefit them. Real solutions cause them to react…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 05:13 AM
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Just want to mention this to you. "Don't trust men till you know them super well" "Oh, Im not like those other guys, lets move the relationship along super fast" "he’s had problems finding and keeping girlfriends" these are serious red flags. Just keep an eye out for the bad behavior, any attempts at making you feel guilty, any signs he is controlling, and any times you feel something is wrong but you don't know what. He could be extra special, but telling you how extra special and misunderstood…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 04:22 AM
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You need an ongoing training regimen if you own a firearm. Even more important than owning one is the muscle memory of loading, aiming, and firing. Training is important so you don't fumble or hesitate in close quarters. Field training is important too, so you have skills in aiming and in making judgements on if someone is a threat. You can see the intent on their faces if you know what to look for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 03:54 AM
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Its what they want too, virgin pornstars. They accuse women of being what they want them to be, not sure if projection or some broken attempt at reverse psychology. 🤷
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 03:39 AM
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Its a anti woman hate sub. It doesn't surprise me when all facts get downvotes and all misleading propaganda gets upvoted. Its just to stir hate.
/r/AntiFeminists14/10/20 12:04 AM
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I love how everyone is like 'but we don't know what really happened' but not a single one of you all bother to actually find out. McGuffey and Neil have both been with the sheriff’s department since the early 1980s. Neil was elected sheriff in 2012, and the following year he promoted McGuffey to major in command of jail and court services, making her the highest-ranking woman in the department’s history. In 2015, she was named local and regional Law Enforcement Officer of the Year. The following…
/r/AntiFeminists11/10/20 10:30 PM
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Its about context. It isn't a person adding their own story about being abused, its 'whataboutism' that points to a vague unidentified strawman. Its a bullshit argument. Men do get abused. Saying 'But men get abused too' does nothing but distract from the conversation because it ends there. Its derailing and just plain being an asshole.
/r/AntiFeminists10/10/20 03:04 PM
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Ew🤢 but still somehow better than the one that didn't wash or wipe because going anywhere NEAR your own asshole = gay. I don't understand why a lot of these guys feel 'emasculated' by basic hygiene. Its like a challenge to see how nasty they can be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 11:00 PM
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In no way shape or form does this post have a damn thing to do with feminisim. Rihanna was a victim of domestic violence, she made a donation to help victims of domestic violence. Men ONLY want to talk about men being victims of abuse when women are talking about their abuse or when someone donates to women. Go volunteer at a shelter. Fundraise. Be actually active, don't try to make women in to be horrible because they are trying to help other women. If I give a homeless person five dollars that…
/r/AntiFeminists09/10/20 06:49 AM
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I break up tasks. If I am sorting clothes ( to get rid of or keep) I do it one bin at a time. It helps if it doesn't take me hours, less likely to get distracted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 10:47 PM
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One book of tens of thousands hosted on a university site is not any type of evidence for anything. Bet they also have Tom Sawyer, Mein Kampf, A Clockwork Orange, The Satanic Verses, and any number of highly controversial texts. Its EDUCATION, it doesn't exist in a vaccum unlike this sub. You should read controversial texts, not ban or hide them. You will be sadly naive if you are never exposed to bad things. Every time evidence is presented in droves that mens rights activists has always been &…
/r/AntiFeminists25/09/20 03:26 AM
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You can quote the Westboro Baptist Church all you want to but that doesn't mean they speak for all Christians. Feminism isn't an organization it's an ideology.
/r/AntiFeminists23/09/20 06:52 PM
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She was likely schizophrenic, spent years in a mental hospital, and thought many people ( including Andy Warhol, who she ended up shooting) were conspiring against her to steal her plays ( which no one wanted to produce). This isn't feminisim, Its one person with severe mental illness and delusional behavior.
/r/AntiFeminists23/09/20 03:17 PM
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Then they didn't know what those words meant. Its ignorance and asshole behavior, like everything else on this sub it has nothing to do with feminisim.
/r/AntiFeminists22/09/20 03:45 PM
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I really love words and get annoyed when they are misused. I agree its contextual. When I use it its something like 'female specific medical issues' usually. Its definitely a red flag when its 'those females' or 'females do/want/say x'. Right now I am exploring slurs and insults. Its alarming how they are nearly always gendered with the majority being feminine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 12:32 AM
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I am a woman, and I don't ask people to like it, but I do use 'female' sometimes. It is sometimes the most appropriate word to use in context, but I see men use it interchangeably with woman when it is not at all appropriate. When used correctly, it encompasses all ages, races, cultures, ect. I really despise the fact that It has been appropriated as a slur. You can feel about it however you want to, but personally I have decided that I will refuse to accept it as an insult. I am female. I canno…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 02:39 AM
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Tampons are horrible. Women have created much better.
/r/AntiFeminists07/09/20 02:35 PM
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By the People, For the People. United we Stand and all those mouth noises. Try this one. Screw you, I pay taxes too. Employed people pay those taxes that help single parents. 'Uncle sam' is in all our pockets and the specks doled out to parents in poverty are miniscule. You want to complain about 'daddy government' supporting parents you can go throught the 60%+ spending in military budget first. Welfare is a literal drop in the federal spending bucket. Its somewhere in the sliver of the AG budg…
/r/AntiFeminists06/09/20 03:58 AM
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Maybe you should listen to Marshall, or Pac or I think even MGK has some shit about that. Its not a cushy easy life and in what goddamn hallucination do you live in that 225$ is enough when you DON'T HAVE A JOB and you DON'T GET CHILD SUPPORT?? You absofuckinglutely lost me on that. TANF is the ONLY cash support available and you do NOT get it if you have an income or are receiving child support. That is not enough to pay for the daycare you need to fill the 30 hour a week employment training an…
/r/AntiFeminists06/09/20 02:35 AM
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Judging by the downvotes and the overall posting on this sub, women are supposed to be completely responsible for every emotion had by any male that is aware they exist. Six months after a breakup and you should drop everything to run to him and powder his wittle poopy behind. You aren't allowed to move on until he gives written permission, notarized twice and delivered by trained pidgeons. You aren't even allowed to consider any other reasons guys text six months after a breakup, like its a fuc…
/r/AntiFeminists06/09/20 02:17 AM
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This isn't 'running away from her problems' this is her deciding to not take responsibility for his problems. Why does she owe him a damn thing? If he feels the need to 'tie up loose ends' he can make an appointment with a therapist. No one would be suggesting a guy should meet up with his ex, they would be calling a woman a clinger and saying she is trying to sucker him back in. You never owe your ex a damn thing. Certainly not handholding and being made to give long ass explanations or listen …
/r/AntiFeminists06/09/20 02:00 AM
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Dishwashers, circular saws, xrays, syringes, central heating, hot water heaters, refrigerators, solar heating, discovery of wireless waves, kevlar. Turns out women have done a shitload on their own. Hell, look at the way Temple Grandin revolutionized everything about cattle and sheep in the meat industry. Please hurry up and go your own way and leave women alone. That would be fabulous thank you.
/r/AntiFeminists06/09/20 01:50 AM
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Housing in my small town is waitlisted a minimum of 3 years right now. Cash support for parents in my state is capped at 225$ a month regardless of how many kids you have. It has a lifetime limit of 18 months maximum. It carries a requirement of 30 hours participation in employment education and job search per week and you cannot bring your child to any of that so you need a babysitter. You won't qualify for any daycare assistance until you have a job, and it must be a full time job, daycare ass…
/r/AntiFeminists04/09/20 01:12 PM
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At the beginning of the feminist movement women actually fought for their right to vote, but now they just expect to be handed the same rights without actually working for them. Are you really saying that each generation should reset and have to go through all the struggle all over again? They fought so we don't have to same as the military, they fight so citizens don't have to. Many women have fought for the right to join the armed forces. Who created the draft? Men, in a time when women had ex…
/r/AntiFeminists02/09/20 02:11 PM
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You get free healthcare, free education, free housing and free food? You might not be counting it but the cost is far beyond food and clothing. You staying at home had a large impact on the cost. What happens when that isn't an option?
/r/AntiFeminists02/09/20 01:42 PM
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Yes, because at 1m income children generally get private education, housing that isnt slum roach traps, and clothing that doesn't come from the clearance rack at kmart. At 1m you can damn sure afford condoms or a vasectomy and a sperm bank. People at that income level almost never have accidental pregnancies unless they are careless. If not a % of income then how do you set it? The 'cost' of a child is far more than poor people can earn. They generally have much worse health and education but th…
/r/AntiFeminists02/09/20 01:03 PM
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Apparently you want to ignore the problem by denying it even exists and pretend you didn't say what you did. Lets make this super clear. The MAIN problem is not people telling you to smile. Its the getting called 'bitch' when you dont smile. Its the shit you STATE CLEARLY then pretend never happens. Be prepared to put up with people telling you to cheer up or smile, avoid you or get up in your face Lets break this down and maybe you will get a clue about how you said something and it didn't even…
/r/AntiFeminists01/09/20 06:02 PM
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Be prepared to put up with people telling you to cheer up or smile, avoid you or get up in your face. If feminists want to stop being told to smile by strangers, then don't walk around looking all miserable and angry. No one likes seeing that I am a human being. I am not obligated to fake my emotional state for the comfort of others. I do not exist to please random strangers. You would not suggest to a man that he is obligated to pretend to be happy lest random people be upset. Be prepared to pu…
/r/AntiFeminists31/08/20 04:15 PM
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Because its sexist, its insulting, and its intimidation. Guessing you are a woman? Great. How many times have you went out of your way to tell some random man to smile? How exactly do you 'turn down' a random stranger telling you to smile? I have walked quite a lot to school, work, shopping ect. The first time I was catcalled I was 11. The first time I was aware a catcaller was calling me a slur for ignoring them I was 13. The men in question were 40+ how do you suggest young girls handle those …
/r/AntiFeminists31/08/20 03:33 PM
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Lmao, it happens far more often than you would be willing to believe. I have been called all sorts of names dozens of times for refusing to respond to random men telling me to smile or saying something like 'nice ass' or worse. Walking to school, walking to work, at carnivals, at fairs, in grocery stores, at gas stations, twice now in a bank, lots of times at work. Thats just the ones that called me names when I ignored them, many more either didn't say anything or it wasn't loud enough to hear.…
/r/AntiFeminists31/08/20 02:51 PM
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EVERYONE believes the "victims" of rape This thread: " Believe victims of rape..........when they have undeniable evidence.......not just people who say they were raped....... it is not wise to instantly believe them...... but they are probably lying to get attention or revenge.... Most accusations are false.... there's a lot of false accusations .... Lmfao https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/False_accusation_of_rape Rape allegations made to police or campus authority are estimated to be false appro…
/r/AntiFeminists25/08/20 01:46 PM
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Not me, but happened to a boss I had. I helped her paint the the house after she got a court order forcing the sale. He kept the divorce tied up for two years so she was long over it by that time. She found out at his office Christmas party. The woman had accepted it because she thought it came from both of them. Too bad she didn't get him for sexual harrassment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 05:11 PM
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Kids suffer when parents are part time. Its better to never know them than a call or broken promise on occasion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 01:52 PM
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Its sexism. Nothing more, nothing less. They don't have praise for married moms either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 01:50 PM
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What for? Its one job he has nailed down already. Men can sink their own ships no problem, no encouragement needed. Just sit back and give him time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 01:48 PM
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No, its deliberate. Men having unwanted kids by choice is a deliberate decision. Remember we are not talking oops babies from lack of access to birthcontrol we are generalizing people with money and options like mra claims all women are. Its been one of the points that has drove me insane over the years because I do not and have never lived in that world. They are not among the people I have met and listened to in real life. And frankly, at that income level just get a divorce. There should not …
/r/AntiFeminists24/08/20 04:13 AM
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Part two My mom did everything a mom was supposed to do. I really couldn't complain. It was much much later I realized something was off about her, everyone elses mom was enthusiastic and affectionate. I didn't know moms could be like that. I got maybe a few hugs a week from my parents and that was just saying goodnight. I thought the cosby show parents were pure fiction, no one ever sat down and talked, like actually TALKED to their kids like that, until I witnessed it in highschool. I didn't e…
/r/AntiFeminists23/08/20 11:41 PM
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You have no idea how difficult it is to take care of a kid all day every day with no break. I don't even have kids but I know the havoc a toddler can wreak with nothing but a pudding cup in the time it takes for a quick pee. 3 rooms, walls and furniture, and a sticky little demon grinning like its a trip to disney. But you think its all talk shows and wine. Hahah. Don't have kids. Seriously. Never have kids. Most especially DON'T HAVE KIDS YOU DON'T WANT. THAT MAKES YOU AN INSUFFERABLE ASSHOLE. …
/r/AntiFeminists23/08/20 11:30 PM
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And then you meet his co-worker that shows you the lovely bracelet he bought for her birthday.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 05:07 PM
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Its great that she could read this. Between not knowing if she should puke or laugh hopefully she will understand how ridiculously delicate some male egos can be. Woman needs to look for better men, not lower herself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 12:11 PM
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Its great they called him out. What bothers me is the 'kept doing it'. At that point I would hope they would kick him out instead.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 11:51 AM
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And when she turns him down or rightfully gets a restraining order he will freak out. Hopefully he won't hurt anyone. If possible can you message her and send screenshots?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 11:45 AM
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If you don't want to be a parent, don't. Condoms exist. Vasectomy is a same day procedure that is very safe easy quick and cheap. Lots and lots of couples are choosing to be childless. The you can still have plenty of chores to fill your free time that exist regardless of the presence of mini people that still have to get done. Cooking, shopping, cleaning,laundry,sweep,mop, mow, these are all things you should be doing BECAUSE YOU LIVE THERE. If these things are an incredible burden pay someone …
/r/AntiFeminists23/08/20 11:10 AM
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I didn't make excuses for women. I stated fact. I don’t understand how you aren’t grasping the fact that men will never ever value slutty females, men and women are different this held to different standards Wow I didn't expect a perfect example of my point. Lmao /selfawarewolves is your true home. Trust me, I am well aware that men hate women and will never treat them as anything but subhuman. I didn't say men should value promiscuous women, I just wanted a little honesty on WHY you would hate …
/r/AntiFeminists22/08/20 03:13 AM
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Once again, this is an exception. Attractive, as portrayed by media, is a rare quality. Tv tries to pretend average doesn't exist. Go out in the real world. Super hot poor people are not common. Poor people and rich people do not have the same social circles. Poor women may fantasize, but poor men do that too. Don't hold up the less than one percent like its available to everyone. Disney called, they want their shitty cartoon plot back. And btw, I understand they call it 'dating' but thats not w…
/r/AntiFeminists22/08/20 02:46 AM
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we’re finally realizing we don’t need a wife and kids to keep us happy Thats awesome! Quite a lot of women also hate the idea of getting married, having kids, and being held responsible for a mans happiness. But why shit on women for doing the same thing you do, and why shit on women that give you the sex without commitment that you want? Can’t make a hoe a housewife See what I mean? Thats just hating women because they are women. The 'hoe' is a woman that does not wish to be a housewife. Why ha…
/r/AntiFeminists22/08/20 02:18 AM
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I am not denying that it is difficult for a man to have lots of random sex. Women find it easy to get sex because there is an overwhelming majority of horny men. Men that are genuinely looking for a relationship, and that don't poison themselves with toxic suicide-cult propaganda and sexist double standards, can easily find a relationship. Women in general want relationships, not casual sex. Your endeavors to bang lots of randoms is only impressive to people that have the same goal. Women that w…
/r/AntiFeminists22/08/20 01:54 AM
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If a woman were poor or broke, then it wouldn't be an issue for men The why do women with good paying jobs get called golddiggers? People that are poor and broke date people that are poor and broke. People with good incomes do not date those that are poor and broke unless they have some other exceptional quality. Super rich men do not ask the McDonald's cashier for her number unless she is exceptionally good looking. Money disagreements are a leading cause of divorce and breakups. People in gene…
/r/AntiFeminists22/08/20 12:18 AM
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A pencil sharpener that sharpens a hundred pencils is a good sharpener. A pencil that gets sharpened a hundred times is a useless nub. Its 2020. Women aren't falling for these stupid analogies anymore. Humans are not objects. Vaginas are not locks or pencil sharpeners. Penii are not keys or pencils. Having sex with a hundred people just means you don't care who you do it with and you need to have regularly scheduled STD tests. Do not fail to understand that while having sex with a hundred women …
/r/AntiFeminists21/08/20 10:27 PM
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All you can do is throw pointless insults. Sorry that your negging game is weak. Ill be embarrassed that you don't know the first thing about feminisim, you only know the mra propaganda which is the exact same attempt at discrediting ANY group you don't like. Let me spell it out for you so you can maybe one day grow a shred of critical thinking. One problem men face is merely expressing how toxic femnism can be What is the problem there? Can't figure out which of literally hundreds of subs to po…
/r/AntiFeminists14/08/20 03:35 PM
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So downvotes = wrong and upvotes = right? Care to have this discussion in a different sub? men have to deal with JUSTIFIED hateful rhetoric and propaganda while people also feel too self rightous to support us by simply paying attention to our concerns Pot meet kettle. You think women have zero problems. You are projecting as hard as possible but you aren't even aware.
/r/AntiFeminists12/08/20 07:16 PM
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My 6 yr old nephew fell off a bike and started crying and a family bbq last year. The older men immediately jumped in with 'stop crying, you aren't a girl' and 'Its not bad, stop being a whiny sissy baby' . My sister told them to shut the hell up and took the kid inside for a bandaid and a popsicle. We women had to explain to him that its ok to cry when you get hurt. I don't know how to erase the idea that being a girl is somehow a bad thing. My uncles laughed and cracked jokes about 'over emoti…
/r/AntiFeminists11/08/20 03:37 PM
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This is why I want to puke every time I see #notallmen bullshit. Its not ALL but its definitely MOST.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 03:37 PM
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They divide us on purpose. Solidarity is our only hope.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 03:34 PM
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When you hear this you think 'Great, he isn't going to lose his shit if I don't get back to him in five minutes'. What he really means is that he is only going to text for booty calls.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 10:31 PM
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I want to cross stitch this on a pillow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 04:11 PM
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I do agree that this is ridiculous, but is there any evidence beyond one comment and a gofundme? It would be nice to quote actual proof when I post this elsewhere.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 12:36 AM
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You would need the original links. I am sure someone has screenshots. Its not hard at all to find these subs. Its just time consuming. Ask me how. I don't think the media will give two shits. Its not like people haven't been trying to get this filth banned for years now. I haven't seen any media reports aside from the odd YouTuber. The op of this thread has the right idea. Reposting memes is the most effective method of raising awareness (without paid campaigns) . The mysogynist agenda trolls fi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 04:18 PM
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Oh hell, no... Its everywhere. I seriously challenge anyone to find a single culture or area that isn't reeking of gender role enforcement and male superiority complex. Sometimes they are less subtle but its planet-wide. Even the few places that the society is 'matriarchal' the men are lazy infants that do as little real work as possible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 02:07 PM
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I have been in two abusive relationships. During the second, I stopped caring about anything. Stopped bathing. Stopped wearing clean clothes. I was dirty and smelled bad for almost a year. I thought I was clinically depressed at the time. Later, I recognized the unconscious attempt to avoid my ex ( manipulative, controlling, isolating, emotionally and financially abusive) and his demands for sex. Like, I was absolutely miserable and didn't even want to look at him but he had me trapped and unabl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 06:14 AM
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Tell him you will just wait for HR to get it for you. Then he can explain why he wouldn't give it back. Bet he stops doing that at least to you. Its also possible to file a complaint with hr. If you type up, print out ( not at work, email to an office depot or something if you don't have a printer) then mail it care of hr. That way its completely anonymous. Assuming there are lots of employees you can pretend you have no idea. Or a throwaway email. Or you could file a report in person, but that …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 02:32 AM
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''How dare you be afraid of us when we threaten you? ' its the mentality of abusive males.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 03:05 PM
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Be born male and into any number of toxic misogynistic cultures.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 05:42 PM
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I actually do buy stuff to flip sometimes. Made a nice chunk of change off some star wars figurines a few weeks back. I don't consider it capitalism, more recycling ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 01:30 PM
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I see them at goodwill occasionally, they just put out whatever happens to get donated so its a gamble at best. Right now we are 2 weeks out from Halloween though, so they have a lot of goth looking stuff that they wouldn't have otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 10:57 AM
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This is my favorite post so far. Thank you op.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 01:55 AM
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Men are not more likely to be victims of abuse. That is a false narrative. Reliable statistics show that men commit 80% of the violent crimes against women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 01:02 AM
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Florsheim. I won't buy unless I can try them on and I know these will fit. They are actually really good quality. I've been buying this brand for 5 years, the first pair my new dog ate the eyelets off and the second pair are getting worn, the inner padding is flattened. They need new insoles but I can't find a place to do that, they all tell me to buy inserts so I did, but with the inserts the edge of the toebox is trying to saw a hole in my toe. I need the old ones removed and new ones glued in…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 12:57 AM
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Is that an unusual number though? Whats the rate of celibate women? Through history there have always been a section of the population that was celibate. With populations getting out of hand, what do you expect to be the trend over time as people find relationships and babies less and less desirable?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 08:25 PM
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You don't have to answer, but I would like to ask. How do you rate your friendships and romantic relationships? Do you make lasting bonds or do people sort of drift in and out of your life?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 08:18 PM
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And when all you have left is personals insults, you know you ran out of arguments. Its the narcissists way of 'winning'. Its okay cartman, you can take your ball and go home.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 08:14 PM
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Why do you not get to paint your nails? Its 2019, just do it already. If you are on the fence go get a manicure at least. Men can wear makeup too. Why the fuck not. Its coming soon enough. God damn I hate jagged nails on a guy. At guys wear nail polish all the damn time. There are plenty that do. Fucking do it and own that shit. Put on some damn eyeliner too. Guys look hot as shit like that. You do realize that all the men that rp holds up as an example of dersirable looks, actors, models, music…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 08:08 PM
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I saw a pair of boots that looked just like those at goodwill for 9$ last weekend. If they are still there after work today I will post a pic. I have a LOT of 'expensive' clothing bought at goodwill. I also have a 300$ set of All-clad cookware that I paid less than 30$ for used. The set was missing a few lids but who cares. I have absolutely no choice but to but 179$ steel toe work boots every year or two. Cheaper ones don't last more than a month or two. Protests happen on weekends and evenings…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 07:44 PM
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No, women are not more emotionally driven. If that were true the manosphere hate machine wouldn't exist. Its very rare a woman tells a man to stop being emotional. Its MALE agenda that discourages displays of any emotion except anger. Men are encouraged by other men to display negative emotions, anger, and violence and discourage any emotion except fear in women. Women discourage anger and violence in men and women. And you care or you legitimately would not be in this sub at all so quit your bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 03:44 PM
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Tell me how rp didn't create inceldom as a direct spinoff. Then tell me how that isn't a suicide cult that glorifies self hate. Go on. I'll wait right here.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 03:35 PM
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Show me a single rp thread without emotion that isnt hate. Its not womens fault that men are so scared of having any feeling that isnt anger. Womens emotions and feelings keep them alive and part if a socially supportive group. Rp demonizing emotions is the new driving force behind male suicide rates. Continue to pretend men are robots and don't be surprised when women reject your narrow minded narratives and men sink deeper and deeper into hatred and depression.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 01:46 PM
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And men will always cry when the can't own women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 01:40 PM
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And men will always cry when the can't own women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 01:39 PM
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I've been on this sub since the beginning. I've spent a lot of time reading RP. Stop trying to pretend its something its not. The only thing rp is for is hating women and blaming them for everything. It tears down men that don't hate on women. It tears down anything that isn't banging randoms or the 50's media ideal of marriage. Its really just a big hate circlejerk of butthurt males wishing that beating women and rape were still legal.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 01:37 PM
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Jokes are supposed to be funny. Women aren't laughing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 01:29 PM
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The icebergs are all melting so they will be back soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 01:52 PM
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Yeah, see A few dollars for gas DOES make a big impact. Feeding someone else DOES make a dent in my food budget. I don't even have health insurance but I am making car payments so every single dollar counts. Ps, you shouldn't assume my age. I am 40 ish and still remember what it was like to knock on someones door instead of text. That does not change the fact that my social circle is all broke as hell and having any type of get together comes with a cost we can barely afford.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 04:03 PM
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Direct marketing= telling about the products use and functionality, durability, ect. Associative marketing= who cares what it does or how well it works. This super sexy celebrity is telling you they like and use this product. Watch this hot model roll around on an expensive 'cool' car pretending to wash it while eating a burger. The burger is the product ( fun fact it was a real commercial, jessica simpson burger king car wash commercial if I am not mistaken). These commercials are designed to m…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 01:57 PM
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It costs plenty to hang out with someone even at home. There are still food and drinks, games or movies, none of this is truly free. Very few people are cool with taking a walk in the park unless they live in a very large city. Locally, parks are for little kids on the playground and teens playing basketball, not really anything to entertain a 20+ something with no interest or energy for sports. The last thing I want after a tough 8 hrs at work is to hang out in a place without air conditioning.…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/19 03:56 PM
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Some women do prefer more experienced men. That doesn't mean they are 'shaming' you for anything. Everyone starts out inexperienced so its stupid to act like its 'what all women' want. Your studies mean little today. They skew all over the place due to location/local culture and even sex. We have male bodied people and female bodied people that identify as the opposite gender filling out these surveys too. Show me HOW they conducted the study you want to quote, because half the time they are onl…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/19 07:06 PM
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Most tv writers are men..... Thats entertainment and not reality. You do realize that right?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/19 09:41 PM
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The people that are 'shaming' you for a 'lack of sexual success' are literally rp 'manosphere' toxic masculinity. Women DON'T CARE about what you do with your dick unless you are having sex with them personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/19 03:46 PM
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Uh, no. I have always preferred a few extra pounds as opposed to buff weight lifters. I don't like the visual of muscles popping out everywhere and I don't want to be with someone that spends hours at the gym every day ( or several times a week). I don't find that body OR lifestyle OR attitude attractive. I have only went on one date with an 'athletic' guy, and I didn't like how he said he would take me with him to the gym and share diet tips. I have no interest in that at all in any capacity. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/19 03:35 PM
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No, incels and niceguys are easy to spot because they get angry about little stuff or stuff that isnt normal and they do it quickly. That isn't the same thing at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/19 01:07 AM
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But those killers are highly charismatic people. Regardless of anything else these people were spoken of well, 'The sweet neighbor boy' 'Always helpful' 'magnetic' these are words MALE interviewers and guards used to describe these killers. They were sociopaths that learned to charm the crap out of everyone to get what they wanted. And like almost every single abusive person, they never start off abusive or being an asshole, they charm and flatter and sweet talk until people follow them, THEN th…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/19 01:46 PM
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Womens spaces that I have been a part of talk about relationships, past relationships, self improvement, how to handle harassment and other such female specific topics. None of the 'womens spaces' I have been a part of will tolerate the type of hate trp thrived on. Women are not allowed to talk about all men being shitty, that we should treat men like second class citizens, justify and encourage rape, threats ect. Trp thrived on violence against women and supports men who blame women for their p…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 03:59 PM
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Its not even worth commenting on this sub anymore. That guy above you thinks you can tell how good a guy is in bed by their knowledge of 80's pop music. Funny enough, by an artist that still gets plays on my local radio station with at least 4 different songs. So pretty much every last person (over 100 people) I work with can name several Prince songs and WTF does that have to do with sexual pleasure?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 01:59 PM
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These levels dont need to be sustained. The world population is growing not falling off. We would be just fine with less than 7 billion people. We would still have a sustainable population at far lower numbers. How many people are enough? 8 billion? 20? At some point we just cannot keep growing the population exponentially. In the early 1800s the population is estimated to be 1 billion. Early 1900s sees it almost double. In less than 100 years its went up X 4. Where does it end? We should not le…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/19 03:46 PM
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It sets you apart in a negative way when you DON'T clean up after yourself and share household chores. Not being nasty isnt a bonus because it should be standard. Like when you buy a car you dont specify you want one with an engine, because having one already under the hood is DEFAULT. Now when the car looks good, has an engine, and smells like an army of skunks died in it, you wouldn't expect it to be as in demand and a car that didn't smell awful.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/19 03:51 AM
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It was poorly adressing rps common argument about disappearing familes and falling population. Its not a bad thing if we have fewer people. We are no where near in danger of humans dying out. Im busy and I have a life away from this forum. Not all comments will be 100%
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/19 03:46 AM
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Oh god no its not a negative its the bare minimum. Just like being 'nice' is the bare fucking minimum and not anything to brag about. It isn't a negative at all and if you think being reasonably hygienic is a negative then you are really grasping at straws and probably delusional. Being clean and being nice is default, not a special talent that sets you apart. You don't deserve special credit for doing the bare minimum adulting and thinking you do is probably why you wouldn't be successful in da…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/19 01:50 AM
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I do support women who choose that. Women that choose that do not feel they were forced. I support the choice itself. I don't really care if anyone feels insulted that being forced into childbearing would make me feel exactly like I am worth nothing but a uterus. I don't feel like I need to have kids because this planet is in fact overpopulated. This doesn't mean all women should stop having kids, it means they should have the option to not have children they don't want. The planet is overpopula…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/19 11:40 PM
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Truth hurts?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/19 06:44 PM
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Its more 'make some effort'. Plenty of women make enough to support a stay at home husband, the main problem is most men are so entitled they cannot fig6out how to wash clothes or clean a toilet and instead the woman has to (or live in a nasty trash heap). Women completely understand 'sharing the load' men just refuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/19 05:34 PM
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But I wouldn't want to be a wife and mother. I never have. When I was a kid I shaved Barbie's head and gave her a gun. I hated 'girly' things that were always forced on me and cut up dresses so I wouldn't have to wear them. I am happy I was born female, but these traditional gender roles are not what makes me satisfied in life. I would MUCH rather be a corporate wage slave than be a domestic broodmare slave. Its just a matter of having the simple freedom to choose what slavery you will accept. M…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/19 05:10 PM
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What? No. This is such a stupid idea to keep throwing around. Sex isn't the first step in a relationship, having sex before the relationship is already established is almost certainly a one night stand.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 10:19 PM
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That sounds awful. How about women just opt out and not bother being wives? I would rather look for a new job than live as a mans unpaid house maid.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/19 11:37 AM
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I don't even understand what you are trying to say. Are you saying a man will starve if he has a stay at home wife? If so, why wouldn't she get a job?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/19 11:34 AM
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Toxic masculinity that divides everyone up between 'fuckable' and 'not fuckable' and 'rival for sex'. This is why these same men give tons of attention and sympathy to women but not men. Because they think there is a possibility for sex. Take that possibility away and they have no interest and put no effort into helping others. Women are capable of being sympathetic without expecting a form of payment for that effort. Why do these men lack such humanity?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 01:25 PM
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In my experience men only give empathy to those they want sex with. This is why women get tons of male attention and sympathy but men get none.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 04:00 AM
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So a woman was the only one to show empathy? Why do men refuse to be supportive of other men in this group?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 03:37 AM
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You cannot hold up celebrities as an example. They change hairstyles very often and do so for many reasons including public appearances, new character roles, modeling gigs and requests from stylists and advisors. You cannot possibly know what the motivation was behind any particular hairstyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 08:22 PM
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And since I have nothing better to do right at the moment, lets go over this 'protection' that rp seems to think women need. Women are not 'protected' they are turned into doormats from a young age. Women are bullied. They are told they are helpless, men will take advantage of them sexually, men are pretty much the enemy, BUT you must do everything you can to please men.... Can you imagine how confusing it is to be taught how to 'catch a man' and that getting a husband and kids should be your ul…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/19 02:03 PM
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Most women absolutely do manage to 'protect themselves'. Women are not helpless and barring mental illness or mental disability women are perfectly capable on their own. We should not have to live in a world that we are afraid constantly. You and most of rp keeps going on about how women need to be protected, when in reality removing the danger is the most effective method for that. In countries where naked bodies are not rare ( like northern Europe where whole families take sauna together, lots…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/19 12:04 PM
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Casting couch creeps and pedophilia are nothing new. Whats new is speaking out and risking your entire career, livelihood, friends, family, every last thing you own or care about can be lost. This is the change you are so afraid of. People are not sticking their heads in the sand anymore. They are not okay with some people being treated worse than animals. This upcoming generation knows it deserves better than being used. And are you saying you were happier when people kept quiet about child rap…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 09:57 PM
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Are there commonly 18-19 yr olds in bars where you live? Minimum here is 21. Plus are those 'cougars' looking for a long term relationship with high school boys?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 09:08 PM
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Men can be just as sexist as women. The entire reason this sub even exists is because men are far more sexist than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/19 04:54 PM
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By who? In the us hardly anyone even speaks to their elderly relatives but a few times a year. Shove them off in a nursing home and forget about them till the funeral. Once a woman loses her 'pretty' guys don't care even if its their own mother. And a mother-in-law is the worst thing a man can have according to popular tropes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/19 02:55 PM
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If you change trp for feminism and man for woman in your comment then that is exactly my experience in life. Men want to control and oppress women. Go make me a sandwich, women shouldn't have jobs they should have babies, saying women will cheat no matter what and DO NOT get me started on the whole 'most responsible teen' bullshit. I am not saying some fringe feminism groups aren't crying for all men to be locked up, but this is 10% maximum of feminists while the manosphere that actively hates a…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/19 06:55 PM
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Single women report higher levels of happiness than women in marriages.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 12:27 PM
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A woman behaving in a predatory way is still predatory. Its not cute or funny and there is something wrong when you find it humourous
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/19 02:59 PM
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What exactly do women need to 'pay' for? Men that only want sex are not owed a damn thing. Men that hate women and whine about not getting sex and treat women as a disposable sex doll are not owed a damn thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 01:06 AM
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https://youtu.be/S1xxcKCGljY
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 10:12 PM
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You notice how men didn't try to become better partners, they just blamed women for doing the same dirty deeds they did.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 04:12 AM
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These types have built a whole life hiding the fact they are psychopaths. What does that have to do with anything? Women who date/have sex with/marry psychopaths usually have NO CLUE. In simple terms, women do not select for traits of a psychopath. Women actively AVOID them because signs of psychopathy normally equals dangerous and violent.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 12:39 PM
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You are completely right. Being a bitter hatefilled social hermit is not good for getting laid. Too bad their agenda is to stir hate and not to get laid. Love how rp likes to push the incel agenda on here. Every post is 'this is how womenz be evil to menz.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/19 05:36 AM
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Not one of you going to address that anger and sorrow are both natural human emotions and not exclusive to gender ( or sex or whatever) and not even exclusive to humans?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 05:02 PM
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Is anger masculine? Do you think anger is exclusive to males? Do you not understand that women also experience anger? Anger is not strictly male, its not even a strictly human emotion. . And why is anger desirable? History has taught that anger is devastating to society. Why are rp encouraged to anger when the result is idiots shooting up walmarts?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 04:56 PM
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Yeah just a quick question. What does crying when your family member dies have anything to do with getting sex? And before you say women will dump men that cry, you are completely blind if you think that was a reason. Its never because they showed emotions, its usually because they can't handle their emotions and flip out completely. Of course rp is advocating anger. They want to hurt women and make them afraid. They want to control women. Its not about making men better humans. Its a cult of ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 04:54 PM
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Major religions would like a word with you. Wtf.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 12:30 AM
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https://youtu.be/IeZMIgheZro Sometimes you make sense Atlas.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 05:12 PM
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And the successful ones do not 'clearly have insecurities'. If anything they are narcissistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 04:14 PM
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They are entertainers. They would not have any money without their charisma. Their personalities literally built their careers.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 05:06 AM
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If you put it that way, with the 'should be willing' then I 100% disagree. This to me implies that you need the woman to begin with. After a child is born, a paternity test is as simple as wiping a cotton swab in the babys mouth and another in the parent/s mouth. This can be done while the baby is asleep and no one would be the wiser unless they find online payment receipts. If a man absolutely must know with verified lab results, then there is no reason at all to inform the woman, although I fe…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 03:56 AM
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I've always had men and women both tell me should get in shape, wear makeup, dress better ect. (I never cared because I don't like dating super fit stylish guys.) This is not unusual or unexpected advice. That's really the point of this thread, women feel pressured to be pretty. If the weight was honestly an issue with these guys then why do on second dates and START a relationship? Once again, its not like you can wake up fat one day. And if you had a long term relationship, blew up like a ball…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 09:53 PM
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Still, something that should be between her and her doctor. If he would have said 'I am concerned about your health, what are some ways you could get your blood sugar more under control' then there would not need to be a search party.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 09:45 PM
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She already knows she is fat. Are you saying she would be completely unaware of her own size?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 09:40 PM
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Yeah, because its not anyones business. Its fucking rude to tell people they are fat unless you are a medical professional seeing them in a professional setting. Same as I wouldn't tell a guy he is fat. Its not polite, its an intentional rude gesture with no other motivation than to make someone feel bad about themselves. Ive put on a little weight just because I eat a lot of junk food. I don't need anyone to tell me I am getting fat. I already know. When a man says this to a woman what they are…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 05:11 PM
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No, they get angry and derogatory. It isn't 'You are better than that' or 'You/I don't deserve to be treated like that' or 'She is just horrible, move on and you can find better'. Its 'What did you expect from a feeemale' or 'AWALT' or some intricate explanation that this is just a phase in womanhood and the guy should have expected this. Not a single breath of self improvement like working on spotting red flags and not putting up with certain behaviors. Just go lift weights and be angry. Egging…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 10:59 PM
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Reliable statistics are available, you are just going to argue. Of course rape is underreported, the police and general public blamed the victim until around 5 years ago. How many rape kits were not even tested for how many years? ( You can google this one) False reported accusations are less than 10% and these results are skewed because there are cases were a victim gives up, there is not enough evidence left ( usually from reporting weeks after the fact). These are reported as "false". Women a…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 05:07 PM
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Actually far more common that a woman picking a fight with a stranger in a bar.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 03:05 PM
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Picking fights in bars is something that is NOT common at all. Why are you bringing up fringe behaviors? I can only guess you spend a lot of time in bars, which the majority of women do not. Women also learn at a very early age to ghost or fade away from guys that they are rejecting. This is the rule and your 'brutal rejection' is the exception. Women get stalked, threatened, brutally raped, or even murdered if they offend guys when rejecting them.Women AS A RULE do everything they can to avoid …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 01:41 PM
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If biology ( having kids) is what makes a womans life difficult, why are the offspring not also the mans biggest difficulty? Unless the man has little contact with the kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/19 10:36 PM
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So men shouldn't be responsible for having kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/19 10:24 PM
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Except that rp theory revolves around Madonna/whore complex. Its literally a doctrine that is central to the rp belief system. Rp cannot exist independently of this complex.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 09:13 PM
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Its the 'squeaky wheel' phenomenon. These media personalities are easy to find, advertise themselves so you will be shown their ads, and are seen by millions. Your average person is nit going to be seen online by more than a handful of people. So of course they think 'all women are like that' since they want to believe bit AND its what they see everyday and actively search for. I understand your question, you are wondering why males are more susceptible to this influence. I can't answer that rig…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 08:27 PM
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This is exactly the same type of delusion that op is asking about. Its Madonna/whore complex. Either a woman is all 'good' and 'pure' or she is an evil succubus intent on devouring your soul. Don't you understand that real women are in between? That its not just one or the other but a wide and diverse spectrum?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 08:04 PM
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Its obvious you have absolutely no experience or even knowledge of how shelters work. They work on a 'first come first served' basis and they are usually full of men. In my town we have one mens shelter with around 60 beds. One women+children shelter that has 16 beds total. And one womens domestic violence shelter with 8 beds. Tell me again how women are receiving some sort of free pass that men are not. Check your own town. Go see what is really out there and available. Better yet get off the i…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 04:58 PM
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An abusive man can wipe out someones accounts to control them exactly the same as a woman can. I don't know why you would even bring that up, its not gender specific to financially screw over another person. Hell, we have identity theft, you don't even need to KNOW the person or even be in the same country.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 04:53 PM
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Thats bullshit. Its like catcalling, it might seem flattering... Until you experience it and realize how demeaning and insulting it actually is. Casual sex is NOT fun for a lot of women. For many women Its about as enjoyable as being used as walking wallet. People want to be liked and wanted for who they are, not for what you can be used for and thrown away after.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 12:49 PM
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Was hotter in his late 20's
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 01:06 AM
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The only time I have heard this is from guys that want to be together 24/7. Like let a girl go pee without trying to join, okay man?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 10:02 PM
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Why is everyone going on about 'maturity'? I don't believe it has anything to do with anything. I see this I treat them like they're nothing special I am older and I would not prioritise someone thats just a casual acquaintance. If you aren't a dating prospect or a close friend or family you won't get instant replies from me. I wont leave work to check messages or get back to you and I won't be making plans with you unless its something I was planning on anyway like a hobby or activity. I don't …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 12:54 PM
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'Of course I understand you are in a relationship. Sure we can hang out as just friends. What? You won't have sex with me? Goodbye! '
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/19 11:44 PM
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Are you fucking kidding. Women get killed for rejecting a man. Women get acid thrown in their faces and run over with cars and FUCKING BEHEADED with the pictures POSTED ONLINE for rejecting a guy. Why are men such violent assholes when a woman says no? Thats the real question.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/19 11:40 PM
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Spoken like someone that was never around guns. They shouldn't even know its there before they are staring down the barrel. Plenty of people get shot by their own gun when they brag or threaten instead of pulling it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/19 12:38 AM
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I live in the bible belt. A .45 in every belt and a 12 gauge in every truck. More than half the people I know own guns. More than a quarter now carry. In my state you can concealed or open carry without a permit. Lots of people do.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/19 12:34 AM
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You are a weird one. That isn't self defence, and self defence does sometimes involve force.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 09:09 PM
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Op made up a scenario in his own head and then objected to anything that didn't fit his own narrative. When someone asks you a question then refuses to accept your answer there is no debate. The upvotes aren't surprising. Everything 'woman = bad' gets upvoted here.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 02:54 PM
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Actually that one was still hung up on his ex and I just lost interest. It didn't last too long, he was an idiot in other ways like leaving his wallet overnight in unlocked vehicles. I wasn't mad, it was his bed not mine 😂.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 02:51 PM
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My ex once tossed his wet towel on the bed right before a weekend camping trip. Came back to a moldy bed. Lpt, get a slice of bread and butter it nice and thick. Let him roll his corn in that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 01:09 PM
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If you are being asked to criticize your partner, how can you avoid letting your feelings come into play? How does that even make sense when you are asked the things that bother you?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 01:05 PM
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What planet do you live on? People don't walk around getting into fights all the time unless they have some serious mental illness. That isn't how the world works. Honestly it sounds like you are the type of person that goes around looking for a fight, I suggest you get some therapy to learn to calm down a little. The law doesn't hold your hand 24/7 but it does provide you with some protections, people who violently assault people can be sued or go to jail. Its the ultimate weakness to take your…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 12:19 PM
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I live in 2019 american. You should be able to say anything about anything and as long as you aren't getting physically aggressive you should not have to worry about getting hit. Violence isn't the answer. Here in the real world you risk losing your job, but no coworkers should be taking swings at you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 12:19 AM
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You have never had a job with coworkers? There is no 'implicit threat of violence' when you talk to normal people. Only those sucking the toxic sewer of rp think that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 07:38 PM
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Exactly what 'hardships' do you think men have to deal with that women somehow magically avoid?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 04:58 PM
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Why does the equality conversation always equal violent actions to men? Who wants to be 'equal' just to be violent and beat someone up? Women don't want violence or equality in a bixing ring. Women want the same rights to own property and have a bank account. To obtain a driver license and be hired at the same payrate. To be an equal partner means sharing the chores in a relationship and home. Every time I hear this 'but women don't really wanna be equal because then men could punch them in the …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 04:51 PM
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What? You do know that women can get turned on in the absence of men. Women masturbate too.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 04:40 PM
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Tell me this sub isnt full of rp projection. Go ahead. Ill wait right here.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 02:30 PM
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We would be handing out guns at birth. You want toddlers with guns? Because this is how you get toddlers with guns. Everyone on this planet is a 'potential rape victim'.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 08:04 PM
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Then what could possibly be the motivation? Sex? That would just feel horrible to me. I can pay my own bills thanks but no thanks. If a woman wants to be a sex worker then whatever. But that doesn't appeal to most women..
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 07:57 PM
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You still say men should 'push boundaries'. No doesn't mean maybe. No wonder so many men here are angry that women don't give them enthusiastic sex. When you show you can't be trusted to respect a 'no' or a 'I don't feel well' then you turn sex into an unpleasant experience for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 04:43 PM
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You still say men should 'push boundaries'. No doesn't mean maybe. No wonder so many men here are angry that women don't give them enthusiastic sex. When you show you can't be trusted to respect a 'no' or a 'I don't feel well' then you turn sex into an unpleasant experience for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 04:43 PM
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Thats not a word. You mean rape without force? Coersion (threats) or with drugs so the victim cannot fight back or is unable to give consent or refuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 04:33 PM
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So we just give all potential rape victims a gun? What the hell is your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 12:32 PM
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You don't have to be monogamist to understand that forcible rape is wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 12:27 PM
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You think most rape and sexual harrassment is men that don't understand what 'no' means? You think guys that work out can't possibly rape because some women find them attractive or charming? How about you hold a class to explain how to approach women in a parking garage late at night. How about you go around to hospitals and explain to women that get beaten and raped that they would have consented IF ONLY the rapist had lifted? Please remove your head from your asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 12:25 PM
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It's going to whoosh over the heads of most men here because they don't rape or harass women believe women are equal humans worthy of empathy. Fixed that for ya. This is why we can't have nice things.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 12:17 PM
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If that actually ever happens in real life I guarantee there were some giant waving red flags and a documentary explaining the whole mess. You don't get with someone like that and not see things going downhill that spectacularly.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/19 07:21 PM
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Unfortunately its what bad movies taught the last few generations. Thankfully men are starting to take women seriously when they hear a no. A lot of people here apparently don't understand that simple little word.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/19 07:17 PM
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This is seriously the truth. So many women are waking up to this reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/19 10:57 PM
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Stop ignoring when a woman says 'I have a boyfriend, I just want to be friends' the first 300 times?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/19 09:19 PM
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Can you truly not comprehend a common relationship? Its not like its that damn complicated to enjoy being around someone for something beyond getting off. Its really okay if I want sex as a part of a relationship and not the only reason for the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/19 08:23 PM
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Not at all. I want GOOD sex. For me, emotions are an integral part of good sex. I can masturbate without another human involved AND its far better, easier, and more convenient. Women want GOOD SEX. For me I can't enjoy it very much if I don't like the person I am having sex with. This is why 'dark triad' bullshit falls on its face. Once a woman figures out shes nothing more than a bang maid she wants out. Rp then blames the woman for wanting to leave but what does she have as a reason to stay? I…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/19 04:53 AM
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You are just repeating rp fallacy. Sex and physical attractiveness is all you desire in life. I am a women and I love sex, and would have absolutely lots of it, if a man made me feel like that was not the one and only reason to be in my life. I have seen that this is a typical sentiment for all women. Rp fallacy is to only value other humans for what you can use them for. Thats sociopathic. Rp even admits this with their 'dark triad'. This only encourages men to treat women as lesser beings whic…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/19 01:18 AM
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I only heard of logan paul because of the forest tape. I have never hear of belle delphine and only know what is contained in this post. Why are people letting these obscure wanna be internet celebs be such an influence? To me this is right up there with eating tide pods and dumping buckets of icewater on yourself. It can be funny to watch a video or two but why take actual advice from these people? I think this is a result of the dumbing down of the us.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 04:33 PM
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Its brainwashing. The term is 'identity politics' https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Identity_politics In particular, >Identity is used "as a tool to frame political claims, promote political ideologies, or stimulate and orientate social and political action, usually in a larger context of inequality or injustice and with the aim of asserting group distinctiveness and belonging and gaining power and recognition. " Basically the same thing as high school cliques. You identify with the 'in' group but…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 03:28 AM
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And I really have to make a suggestion here. Try a little empathy. When you think women should pick that boring nerdy guy that only wants to vegitate into the upholstery then ask yourself if YOU would be okay with that? Would YOU be okay being in a relationship with someone you didn't find attractive? That you had no respect for? That really only wanted you there when you were convenient and wouldn't participate in life with you? I really enjoy my life right now. I have a lot going on but a lot …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 08:05 PM
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You assume a hell of a lot. I see you are still sucking down the party line. Women AND men both want to date AND breed up. This is called NATURE. Survival of the fittest and producing the best offspring. This is universal through all forms of animal life. Its not exclusive to any gender. Why would women or men deliberately pick undesirable mates? That makes no sense at all. What you do completely fail at is understanding WHAT makes someone desirable. It can be personality, looks, intelligence an…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 07:50 PM
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How exactly did women make themselves the enemy? By refusing to be chattel? By demanding the right to hold jobs and own property? By rebelling against having their whole lives dictated to them? Women that sit around drinking wine and refusing to date ( are they not supposed to have a human right to say no?) Are doing what they see as best for them. This is what women fought for, so THEY CAN DECIDE. What you are actually angry about is that these women have the SAME choice as you, to opt out or s…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 12:39 PM
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Even if it literally costs less you would rather poor people keep hurting. Because it can be giod for everyone and not just a few.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 06:27 PM
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Yeah I sort of lost the point on that. Its that we are all in this shit together as humans and we do need to stop being so divided and fix these problems. I am against illegal immigration and we need to fix what is going on without acting like we are not all in this shit together. We only have the one planet and we need to share it. Here is the breakdown. South America used to be scared of big uncle sam. Well sam is ignoring them and they are getting out of hand again with the whole killings and…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 06:18 PM
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And in florida it was 5 an hour in the hot sun, cash at the end of the day. Sometimes per box if it was an orange grove. No benefits, no chance for advancement, no documentation at all to even say they were there that day. Seasonal, so it changed week to week and sometimes nothing to pick so they would join the mobs in lowes parking lot at 3 am and hope someone picked them to paint or mow. One lady made these breakfast burritos, tortilla with beans, salsa and a fried egg, and sold them for a dol…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 05:49 PM
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No, I can grow my own strawberries if I don't like the store prices. I already do. Of course this type of slave labor is a huge problem. They are human too. My point that sort of got lost is we are all human and these stupid political ideological games are hurting ALL OF US. I'm against illegal immigrantion, but for social reforms to help the people we already have. These pill idiots are just choking down a political narrative that is blinding them to the REAL behind the scenes string pullers.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 05:34 PM
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And you win todays prize. Its my own crazy conspiracy theory that the whole pill movement is a way to effect social population control. Cheaper than medical social programs, gives you a handy dandy 'enemy' that you can commiserate together on, makes sure its enough social pressure that you don't even dare question for fear of being ostracized, (not that most gullible ameritards would be able to form a question anyway). I could easily give you a load of shit about how illegal immigrants are takin…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 02:25 PM
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No, its all a pile of shit including fasting. I just mention the food cause it was tasty as hell, not because it was healthy. Lots of rice and sauces, breads and fatty meat (lamb is greasy as hell) lentils even aren't that good for you when its got cream all in it. The best part though was this spicy rice/chickpea /olive salad stuff. Falafel, hummus, pita. I stayed over a few nights and helped out in the kitchen. Got to learn how to make real authentic baklava with ground pistachio, honey, and r…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 09:57 PM
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Funny part is, I used to believe in all that stuff when I was a young teen. I was pretty fascinated by everything supernatural. I have a very extensive self education and actually can align your chakras, read your tarot, cleanse your aura, create wiccan spells, and even hex your enemies. I learned the ins and outs of santeria,voodoo, and a few more really scary shit that is thankfully illegal. I am also a registered wiccan priestess, member of the satanic church, ordained baptist minister, have …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 06:06 PM
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I am pretty awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 05:28 PM
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You lost me at 'chakra' can we keep the superstition out of this sub please? There is not shortage of people who want to take your money. They will convince you that you have 'something wrong' and of course you can't even prove that thing exists but its whats wrong with your whole life. Its okay, its not really your attitude towards women or your shitty diet and lack of exercise. Its not that you have the emotional understanding of a 2 yr old. Nope, just let some idiot with oils of unsure origin…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 01:56 PM
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Most familes cannot get by on a single income. Why does rp always act like the world is full of 100k jobs when it isnt. The U.S. Census Bureau reported in September 2017 that real median household income was $59,039 in 2016 That means both men and women work in the AVERAGE relationship. Women may take a year off for having a baby, but mostly because daycare is more than what they would make.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 07:37 PM
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Affection dread and dominance. This is why rp is flawed.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 05:16 PM
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But what exactly would be the point in that? I have a house to live in, just bought a car, and I get three weeks paid vacation a year. Its called a job and 'most women' are doing that instead of putting up with men. Every time there is one of these so called studies, I have to question wtf is going on because they are conflicting with reality. I feel like wome. In that study said these men were attractive as some sort of social validation and not because they wanted to help themselves to a marri…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 01:40 PM
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fantasiesofthe1% Get real. Nearly 80% of working people dont have the kind of money to have europe vacations and poolboys.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 03:34 AM
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Just bugging someone isn't much of a problem. Its the anger and lashing out after. Women don't have a problem giving a man a clear rejection. They have a problem with men getting angry and violent when rejected. This isn't a women problem, this is a men not being able to deal with rejection problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 02:44 PM
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What about that 'most responsible teenager' bullshit? Rp is exactly men saying they have indeed been a slave to biological impulses. Therefore they have listed a strategy to not fall for those urges again. They also acknowledge that men cant entirely deny them. None of this is 'implied', the entire above comments about what rp skirts is not implied, its stated as fact in the comments sections and upvoted by a majority. Its rp dogma 101 and its getting tiring that your argument strategy boils dow…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/19 07:18 PM
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Not too long ago negging was suggested in damn near every rp thread. Heavy emphasis on 'dread game'. I feel like a lot of them saw how ridiculous that was and toned it down.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/19 07:06 PM
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Fewer than 10% are model types. The pillosphere rarely acknowledges that anyone is good looking beyond 'chads' and 'stacys'. These people barely exist in imagination, let alone real life. So are most humans objectively attractive to you ?( which I happen to believe)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/19 09:53 PM
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But 'ugly' is objectively 90% of the entire human population. Ugly can simply be a matter of diet and exercise. Even more shocking, pretty parents can have ugly kids, ugly parents can have pretty kids. Genetics is a biological lottery, not a guarantee. But you do prove my point. Relationships are not all about supermodels and fitness instructors. Ugly people have sex all the time. Its not just looks that are attractive or we would not have so few magazine ideal people.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/19 12:50 PM
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Hate to go there but the website 'people of Walmart' shows some ugly people. And somehow they almost always have kids with them. So humans get married, have sex and relationships and have kids too regardless of looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/19 11:03 PM
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Rp seriously overestimates how much other peoples opinions matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/19 02:48 PM
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Lmao, to be perfectly honest I don't even know where my makeup is and I probably need to throw it away. Its been months since I did makeup ( xmas party). I do enjoy the occasional wearing of heels, but its usually at a work party so also rare. I am not against questions about sex if they are not clearly a guy trying to sext to get off. There is SO. MUCH. PORN. out there that do you REALLY have to get off to knowingly making a woman uncomfortable? I really feel like lots of men out there can't ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/19 08:49 PM
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There are tons of guys just like that. Not good looking and not even trying to wear clothes that don't make them look homeless ( unstained without holes everywhere) still live with relatives, can't keep a job let alone a crappy one, anger and drug problems... That isn't exclusive to women OR men. There are tons of people like that. Just don't date them. Its that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/19 12:35 PM
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There are several apps now that do not allow a male profile to message first. So yes, women absolutely do message first and find that they have better results when they do. I've been on a few dozen dates over the years off eharmony and POF. All but 3 are the result of me sending the first message.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/19 09:02 PM
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There is a huge bias against bisexual people in the dating world. I don't think you need to try harder. The lack of interest tells me that these women are not into you enough to make an effort. I sure don't act enthusiastic unless I AM enthusiastic about a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/19 08:56 PM
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And there you have it. The entire flaw ( from a female perspective). Men only care about looks. And the incredible irony here is amazing. You are doing exactly what you accuse women of. You are only pursuing based on looks and not other factors. I'm sure you would take a 5/10 if she was rich enough. Lmfao it really makes you angry that women get to choose who they date. How dare they try and get a better looking guy than you think they deserve. But in the same breath you scoff at the thought of …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/19 08:49 PM
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Its not easy as a woman either. Try making a profile on any one of tge dating apps as a woman. Your inbox is flooded with 'hey' before you are even done filling out the profile. And they ALL just want sex. When you say you are looking for a relationship they stop responding, or double down and send you a picture of their dick like its supposed to be attractive. Women get tons of shit and rarely a decent person worth meeting. Its not some song and dance where women do nothing. Learn to do your ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/19 02:55 PM
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Because every time we do we get told thats not what we really mean and this attitude was prevalant far before the internet. Look at this whole sub, women say they want X and rp tells everyone thats not true, women really want Y and asking for X is just a 'shit test'. Saying no or not tonight for sex is a 'shit test'. Not being comfortable is a 'shit test'. Asking any questions on a date is a 'shit test'. Asking for a relationship is a 'shit test' and she just wants to fuck randoms. Pretty much e…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/19 02:10 PM
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Because every time we do we get told thats not what we really mean and this attitude was prevalant far before the internet. Look at this whole sub, women say they want X and rp tells everyone thats not true, women really want Y and asking for X is just a 'shit test'. Saying no or not tonight for sex is a 'shit test'. Not being comfortable is a 'shit test'. Asking any questions on a date is a 'shit test'. Asking for a relationship is a 'shit test' and she just wants to fuck randoms. Pretty much e…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/19 02:09 PM
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You could easily get an online kit sent from another country. Even if a lab test isn't legal some how, there are ways around that one. Online tests are super cheap and easy to get. So again, why haven't you done it yet?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/19 12:45 PM
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This is literally what rp does. This is literally what all groups do. Its identity politics at its heart.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 02:52 AM
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Most women value feeling loved and secure in a relationship over a models looks. Its one fundamental difference both sexes have problems understanding. Men value looks above everything else. Women value emotional intimacy. Both sexes will put up with a lot of bullshit to get those things. No relationship will survive if each gender doesn't get these basic things. And on this one, AWALT. Likewise men. Its not an outlier, its very unusual to find men that will date ugly women and very unusual to f…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/19 10:19 PM
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How about this. The last 3 guys I really got hot for have been pretty well Kevin Smith re this video https://youtu.be/4-7dvf7EUwY If I have a "Type" this is close enough. But I've dated guys that were much more and much less conventionally attractive. The most conventionally attractive person I was with turned me on the least.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/19 09:28 PM
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All that stat tells me is that a lot of women are fed up and don't have to stay in a shit relationship. Legally, it makes no difference who files. The judge still has to sort out all the relevant info and the end judgement doesn't give bonuses to whoever did the paperwork first.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/19 04:57 PM
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But I am a woman and I have done all those things except garage doors. Anyone who knows anything about garage doors will tell you that it isnt a DIY project. Its too damn dangerous so you call the pro. The rest is just? I have always done the yardwork. My dad made me starting at around 8 yrs old. Mowers have come self-propelled for 50 or more years. We had 3.2 acres of mowed lawn. I trimmed the trees and raked for my allowance and I was the smallest child in my grade at school. I also took care …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/19 09:17 PM
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Women also do more than 70% of the household and relationship work. Its no surprise as men are too lazy to take care of paperwork.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/19 08:44 PM
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Both men and women stay in shit relationships way too long.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/19 07:56 PM
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And men don't keep women around as decorations either. You have to be worth having as a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/19 07:10 PM
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The reason I have been so 'indecisive' about where to eat in the past is because every suggestion got shot down by a male significant other. So yes. I needed a guy to decide so I didn't have to deal with his sighs and resentment for weeks after. Now, being single I just go where I feel like and it usually doesn't take me more than 5 minutes to decide and I have no delicate ego to coddle when I order what I want instead of what he thinks I should want.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/19 04:48 PM
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And what is likely the real reason, advances in crime solving (aka dna testing, cameras, texting, cell phone location tracking, fingerprinting, ect) have led to reduced crime because most people don't want to be caught. In addition to higher rates of reporting, because making fun of rape victims is finally frowned upon.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/19 03:49 AM
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How would they (and who is 'they' ?) guarantee a supposed higher quality? And who tests these men for quality and what would be the criteria?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/19 10:59 AM
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Society also encourages disabled people. So does calling a double amputee 'strong' encourage people to chop a leg off?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/19 10:14 PM
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I didn't say kill half the population, I said we would be fine technology wise and society wise with half of what we have now. Immigration is a separate issue, but I think something needs to be done. But facts remain, eventually the species will be homogeneous race-wise. Its pretty inevitable. What matters is forward thinking science based culture not color. Population can be controlled. The chinese did it and are still doing it. Its not wise for it to outpace resources.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/19 03:47 PM
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We are overpopulated and the planet is suffering as a result. We are already feeling the effects. Less people is good. We do not need 7 billion people to continue the species. We can do very well on less than half that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/19 02:16 PM
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There is a growing number of people that don't want kids. Its only detrimental if you both want kids and hate doing the mom thing. Some women love it and wouldn't wish for anything else. I am just tired of rp pretending its the only end game. I never wanted kids, never had them, still have absolutely no interest in in having my own. Wouldn't mind if a potential mate had them as long as there is an understanding I will never be very momish. Plus lots of women ate successful at raising kids by the…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/19 02:27 AM
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What benefits? I don't see any. As much as we all laugh at 'finding yourself' this is something women should do. I spent nearly my whole life struggling to please others, skipping all the things I wanted to try and basically playing sidekick in someone elses life movie. Fuck all that noise. There is literally NO REASON to live a servile existence just to keep others happy. I and many other women have it drilled into us from a young age that we are supposed to cook, clean, and have kids for some …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/19 05:44 PM
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I do agree anyone that says no=yes is an idiot and if your spouse/significant other/ sexual partner is an idiot then you need to sit down and have a very long discussion about safewords and hard limits.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/19 08:33 PM
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Show me where its truly 'dangerous' to have kinky sex with the person you are married to. You make a lot of wild claims. Do you also never leave the house? Don't drive a car you might get in an accident. Don't put gas in it, the gas station might catch on fire and blow up. Back up your claims.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/19 08:11 PM
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He is saying she is getting a bit kinky and this thread has turned into a witchhunt. She isnt filing police reports she wants a role-play. Its a valid question to ask for stats. You think most women file rape charges as a divorce tactic. Show me that it really is 'most'. You are the one ducking the question. This sub is supposed to be for reasonable debate, not random unfounded accusations.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/19 08:08 PM
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And yet if I hold a fact out that you don't like the first thing you will ask for is proof.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/19 07:51 PM
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Where is the statistic for that? Don't imply the majority of women will do this without some evidence to back that up.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/19 01:45 PM
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Im a woman and when I say no I mean no. This is because I am an adult and take responsibility for my actions and my sexuality. I find that this variety of playing non consent games seems to be largely an American thing. Where women are expected to be virginal and and hint of forwardness is some sort of negative. You cannot tell women that they have to act shy, guys only like inexperienced women, then not expect these sorts of blundering attempts.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/19 01:42 PM
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Got cutnoff there. Feminism is about getting proper healthcare and not paying extra just because its marketed to women. It's about equal consideration and respect. I know that has to be earned but it can't if women are never taken seriously in the first place. We live in a society that is condescending in general towards women. You tell me about your meeting, and I will tell you about my car buying experiences. I am expecting at minimum one salesperson that forgets the engine specs to show me th…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/19 07:43 PM
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I googled that name and can't find a specific person you are referring to. Ps, they had the million man March and dozens of other men's meetings, mostly religion based ones and literally NO ONE tried to protest. Google men's gathering and find dozens of options. Go ahead. You know what they try to shut down? Hate groups like the Kkk, arayan pride rallies, westboro, and anti lbgt organizations. Please go to your meeting and enjoy. But please observe how many times women are mentioned in a negativ…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/19 07:28 PM
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You are right. These people get away with it and it happens ALL THE TIME. Especially rich people get away with stuff poor people would be locked for years over. How about we stop making fun of rape victims and have harsher laws for people who rape? This is a symptom of how society views rape. How about make sure they understand that harsh penalties WILL be used?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/19 06:23 PM
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Men have meetings all the time. There is a very active chapter of Freemasons here and they are in every town in my area. They exclude women. But no one tries to shut them down. The ones people try to shut down are done so by law enforcement, because they are hate groups. Just like this sub. Every single thread is 'wemenz is evil, amiright?'. I have no seen a SINGLE THREAD that addresses men's issues without also blaming women. Explain to me HOW trophy wives cause homelessness in men?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/19 05:08 PM
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You are talking about the upper class. Very few if any working class sahm living off one income will be able to afford weekend shopping trips. Not a single person I know in real life is privileged enough to stay at home after kids get old enough for school. The VAST MAJORITY of sahp are not watching TV and sending kids off to Summer camp. They CANNOT AFFORD that lifestyle. I took care of a three year old for a week while a friend was in the hospital. It's ridiculously exhausting. If you think an…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/19 04:23 PM
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I wouldn't necessarily agree considering a nanny gets time off and a sahm doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/19 11:45 AM
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That isn't 'gets to' that's 'no other choice' as daycare cost is likely to be on par with earnings. The vast majority go back to work once kids are in school full time.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/19 12:10 AM
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You are being naive. This handicap only really exists for low paid women and women that take a more significant amount of time off. A woman earning 6 figures will not have any problem taking off for months at a time. The higher the salary the less worry about skipping a few months.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/19 12:06 AM
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I just now read an article that talks about exactly how I feel about that debate. https://www.dailytelegraph.com.au/rendezview/why-dont-mens-rights-activists-fight-for-mens-rights/news-story/dfd34b9885268e2e9e06f497a1546b98 Why the hell is anyone conflating the richest wives in the world, which if you would stop and think were almost all BORN rich, grew up rich, and of course married into a rich family, with HOMELESS and social security programs?? This is a huge stretch trying to create blame wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/19 12:02 AM
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And again, this is a tiny percentage of all women. It's the exception and not the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/19 05:36 PM
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I am sure her opinion of your awesomeness has little to do with height and more of who you are and what you are like. I've dated 6'2, 6'4, and 6'6 guys. The exes I would go back to are 5'5 and 5'9. It's not about how tall they are, it's the chemistry and the fact they are great kind and caring people.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/19 05:32 PM
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My wife has said I've ruined guys shorter than 6’ Shes pampering your ego. I would bet she is saying she prefers guys that are like you because if she said she prefers a different type you would feel bad. Am woman. Have also had to tiptoe around delicate male egos many many times. I do prefer guys taller than me but I'm 5'3 so that isn't really an issue for me. Between 5'6 and 5'10 is my ideal. I don't really care though, it's just the most comfortable height range. Guys much taller are hard to …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/19 03:06 PM
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Because having sex with men other than the ones complaining is abusive ( according to this mindset) how dare those slutty slutty sluts have sex with chads while the poor nice guys do without. /S And so on and so forth. Typical whiny entitlement.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/19 02:43 PM
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Competitive sports are bullshit in real life though. It only benefits those who are GOOD at such sports. The rest get ridiculed and degraded for even being there. And don't give me that 'good sportsmanship' bullshit. I've seen how that plays out in real life. Lip service in front of authority and violent hazing behind closed doors. A physically weak uncoordinated person is going to get beat down physically and mentally for even showing up. Even when they are good it can still be toxic. My ex was…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/19 12:57 PM
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Teenagers care about acne. As we get older we give less fucks about other peoples perceived flaws. They have some great otc treatments that are fairly cheap. Just keep looking till you find what works for you. I use Walmart brand knock-off proactive. This is just for your own confidence though. Remember others aren't likely to care about the details. Being a sociable and polite person will count far more. You don't have to lift to make friends. I work with about 100 people and only one goes to t…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 03:33 PM
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There is one, it's been carefully manufactured by rp.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/19 03:37 AM
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It's deeper than that. This lack of self awareness coupled with lack of personal accountability is at the root. It's not only the flaw in rp, it's what created rp. Men being shitty to justify themselves being shitty.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 05:53 PM
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'emotional connection' is a state of feeling that can't really be summed up in words. But it includes a desire to be together outside sexual encounters. Don't expect a comprehensive definition from me. I don't have a week to spare. Affectionate companionship. A desire to spend time together and participate in mutually enjoyable activities not limited to sexual encounters. Is that enough or are you looking for something more specific. This is a rabbit-hole question.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/19 09:00 PM
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Well I've never been much interested in creating offspring but I like to do a lot of practicing. Would you participate in fishing, canoeing, and other recreational outdoor-nature activities including but not limited to float trips, camping in cheap tents, crawling through mud in caves, and general backwoods fuckery? I also like sashimi, good lean rare steak, anime and have a questionable taste in music.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/19 07:46 PM
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Lmao the last date I went on was with a between jobs plumber. Gotta reach them high branches lol. Really he just wanted his fun bits played with so I dipped out.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/19 02:00 PM
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I do have an appreciation for the male struggle. But I still am not going to have a life filled with random sex just to please other people. I haven't found a guy yet that is looking for an emotional connection. Even the ones that say they are have went from zero to a hundred without even knowing my last name. It's a turn off frankly to get asked for sex within a few minutes of meeting or messages. This is about a lot more than men not getting what they want. I have to be getting something out o…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/19 01:53 PM
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I know, I also find it hilarious. But the body matters less to me than the person inside it. I really like dick but I can just buy a good one off Amazon and still get the emotional connection I need in a relationship. Lots of men go mgtow, it's not shocking that some women are dropping out of the dating game too. I've always been a little bi anyway. May as well use the options I have.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/19 10:13 PM
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Oh no, that's not what you think it is. I'm broke and frankly I could care less about a lot of things. Even if I had the cash I still wouldn't be going to the salon every week and attending dinner parties. I'm not in great shape right now and I skip guys that look like they live at the gym. I skip guys that have expensive cars. I skip guys that wear trendy clothes. I don't believe I am the only woman that feels she doesn't live up to certain standards. I don't even have anything in the way of ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/19 09:22 PM
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I believe men send pics and ask for them as a power trip, I believe this because they almost always get pissy when they are denied. I can't believe I am the first one or the last that thought it was disgusting. I don't believe this is a mistake because they KEEP DOING IT. So either they send a couple hundred dick pics hoping for maybe one positive reply. Or they are deliberately trying to harass women in a way they know they will get away with it. I think that men should learn this thing called …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/19 07:52 PM
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Very few at all. I do think it's less to do with how much experience a man has and way more about what they are looking for. If 90% are looking for casual sex then they are disqualifying themselves. It isn't me or women in general being too picky. Compatibility is really key and is often completely overlooked by rp. I think I have a pretty basic and reasonable set of standards. Maybe lower than you would think. I feel like women today are fed up with all the dick pics and ons offers. Many like m…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/19 06:04 PM
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I'm a woman and let me tell you what I am most picky about. I do not want to be with someone that thinks I am subhuman or sees me in general as a way to get off. If you have a job, you don't actively hate your job, dress better than a homeless person, can hold a pleasant conversation, and in general are an okay looking person then you are miles above most of the dating pool of guys in my area. In general, the dating apps in my area are loaded with A) guys that want sex and nothing else. This is …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/19 04:01 PM
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Are you saying AMALT? I have known a few that just weren't the cheating type. It usually involves a sense of morality and affection. However rare that is thanks to the rp movement, it does still happen that people actually care.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/19 04:49 PM
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I believe it, but I don't agree that it's a majority. People do tend to defend celebrities. I'm saying that this is nothing new. It's not surprising. It's not the first time and it won't be the last. Tons of people have defended celebs over all sorts of horrendous acts. It's not any different from fans of Chris brown, R Kelly, or hundreds of others. Don't pretend Cardi has some sort of special treatment. Lots of celebs have rabid idiot fans that try to defend them. This isn't a thing just becaus…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 04:11 PM
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I am just not seeing that except for a few fringe idiots. Most are asking why anyone is defending her. Just because a few people use a hashtag doesn't mean the whole group is onboard.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 02:53 PM
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Not defending Cardi You have lost your damn mind or you never knew about the VIDEO of R Kelly having sex with and urinating on a 13 yr old girl. This video was essentially child porn and it still gets laughed off. It used to be extremely easy to find that video and watch it online in the early days of the internet. It was on YouTube in their early days. Let's get the facts straight. Kelly was arrested and charged when they found child porn at his home. Charges were dropped when it was found no s…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 02:33 PM
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http://lmgtfy.com/?q=Forced+marriage+in+the+US Don't be naive. It happens in many states and it's MOSTLY Christian extremists. I'm not even getting into the girls forced to go to another country and marry someone. Don't pretend it doesn't happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 01:19 PM
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Only around the last 100 years actually. Women were still having to marry whoever their parents chose in the 'wild west' years. That is a practice that still has not ended in many religious communities. Women being forced into marriage still happens today around the globe.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 10:27 AM
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Humans can kill bears without the use of great strength. I could easily put together a trap. Bears also eat men walking alone. Your argument is invalid however, as women in societies that had to worry about predators would have been much stronger than most people think. https://www.google.com/amp/s/phys.org/news/2017-12-prehistoric-women-skeletons-impact-rigorous.amp Stronger than women athletes today. Women have never sat on their asses and ate bon-bons aside from the privileged few of rich and…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 03:27 AM
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Are you drunk? What debate is possible when women are property bought and paid for with dowry and beating your wife isn't something anyone will even breathe a word against much less stop. There is no debate in a society that does not allow women to choose who they marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 02:33 AM
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Don't take it personal, but sometimes it's hard to take this sub seriously. I can see advice posts if it had anything at all to do with the aim of this sub. A random dating question isn't even in the same ballpark.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/19 09:24 PM
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When did this become /r/datingadvice ?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/19 08:21 PM
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Yeah. Sure. Because life is a shit test. Having a grown up talk about things like getting a job is a shit test. Asking why he cooked maybe twice a year and did dishes once and acted like he did everything was a shit test. Must feel great knowing you can invalidate everything by whining "Shit test!!". Women can't expect reasonable conversations from men. Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/19 10:57 AM
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Do you even read?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/19 12:54 AM
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Then why do you need the 'slut' label for that? Why not just say they weren't a good match or that they had some serious issues. Why make it about number when it isn't really? When people have these hyper promiscuous behaviors it's usually the symptom and not the cause. When they are unable to maintain a relationship it's the symptom and not the cause. Tons of adults now where raised by electronics instead of a parent. It's not shocking they have self destructive behaviors.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/19 10:51 PM
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That is bullshit avoidance. It's fine when it's petty things, but when it's something important and you duck the question and give a snarky answer then it breeds tons of resentment. My ex used to do that and it made me lose all respect as I couldn't have an adult conversation with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/19 10:47 PM
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If you can find a salon that has olaplex, you can put in some color. I will never dye or bleach again without it. I had hip lenght 2 years ago ( nearly sitting on it) and between having to wear a ponytail every day and a few dye jobs I lost nearly a foot to split ends. Long hair isn't cheap.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/19 07:16 PM
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So you are saying single moms put on sex shows for prepubescent children. Okay then.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/19 05:51 PM
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You think these people are having sex in the living room in front of the kids? And you have to realize that having a fucked up view on sex is like the absolute norm in America. One parent, two parents, an entire supportive and extended family it makes NO DIFFERENCE. America as a society thinks sex is evil and kids should not know anything about sex, no education, no knowledge that parents have sex or are even affectionate. The religious right turns out kids that think not waiting until marriage …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/19 03:41 PM
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So men bear no responsibility for the children they have as long as they just check out. Got it. As long as you cannot hold the fathers to any responsibility at all then all these men can STFU about how single women raise children. There is no class you can take. There is little to no support. I think the main reason all these kids have awful parents is that no one knows how to be a parent anymore. All of today's parents have been raised by the instead of people. It's not the single moms fault, …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/19 03:00 PM
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While it is a thing, it's also super rare that a guy is so wrapped up in mommy. This thread is starting to feel like one more way men are trying to make women responsible for their feelings, now with and incestual twist.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/19 01:24 PM
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It's 2019 and every last thing a parent does will scar kids for life. Make them eat vegetables? Abuse. Don't make them eat vegetables? Abuse. How dare women have social lives and jobs while taking care of a kid all alone? And let's not talk about who these kids father's are and what they are contributing. We aren't allowed to blame men for going their own way...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/19 01:21 PM
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We are talking about reality TV single moms. Like that one about teens having babies. Rp refuses to acknowledge any such thing as a successful single mother with a job and education. Basically this is another line in the 'welfare queen' trope.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/19 01:17 PM
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And why is a woman expected to not have any social life at all? Sure, don't let people around your kids until you know and trust them. But kids today as so damn catered to. Somewhere in the 50's it was decided that kids don't need to grow up ever. Having your mother pay less attention to you as you grow up is NATURAL. Children eventually leave and this is HEALTHY. Kids need to learn that they have to do stuff for themselves, not be waited on hand and foot. Or be 'mommies little best friend'. Par…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/19 11:59 AM
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Show me an actual 'kill all men' movement that is not a handful of extremist idiots. Show me that this is a mainstream threat. I didn't say not to take death threats seriously, I am saying that women in general are far less violent and that women in general are not wanting to kill or enslave men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 07:05 PM
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Really? I am not the one going there. Nice way to try and twist it though. What rabbit hole did you crawl down to even think that? Explain how my comment says that its justifiable to kill ANYONE. I will wait right here.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 04:38 PM
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Show me where the fuck women hate men and want them oppressed in the way the rp movement wants women as property again. You can show me very tiny extreme fringe groups that are effectualy nothing but talking points and only have dozens of followers. You cannot show me anything approaching the 314,000 current subscribers of the rp sub alone. We aren't even counting any other of the hundreds of other online forums that aim for the outright villification of half the human race. Human society has al…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 04:22 PM
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It would do a lot. A good chunk of the people floating through my local assisted living homes (not long term employees, but people that cant hold the job) are straight out of rehab or shock detention. They have a high turnover rate.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 01:49 AM
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Because extremely few jobs require what amounts to an apprenticeship. I can train you to do my job as well as me within one work week, which frankly was about 4.9 days more training than I got. And another thing. Yearly raises should take care of the pay gap between a 5 year and 10 year worker. Everyone somehow forgot that it is up to the EMPLOYER to reward their own workers for experience. But companies don't work like that, they will pay as little as you will accept. Unions and taking the gove…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 01:42 AM
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You want another shocker? This has happened several times and made news several times over the last 30 years. I don't have a source but I remember a similar story in the 80's and another in the 90's. I am not sure how to track these stories down though, it was pre internet. I also remember many many scandals of elderly and infirm in care homes that were abused by staff. Things are much more regulated these days, but its not really enough if they dont do basic background checks in my state.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 01:27 AM
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https://ucr.fbi.gov/crime-in-the-u.s/2012/crime-in-the-u.s.-2012/tables/42tabledatadecoverviewpdf/table_42_arrests_by_sex_2012.xls You don't get to use that one. Men are several times more likely than women to commit a violent offense. In fact, the link lists only one crime catagory that women are more likely to commit, "prostitution and commercialized vice" so non violent crimes. Don't ignore the real gender gaps in violence. Women do not want to kill men. They just want to be left alone. An ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 01:13 AM
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But its only the outliers and the vocal minority that say things like 'all x are y' its just prejudice plain and simple. But for some reason people help spread their sentiment by repeating it over and over. Its a real life version of the telephone game. You see literally one or two people screaming how all men are rapists and then you repeat their ridiculous message to someone else as gossip. Then it just snowballs from their with everyone passing around the story and muddling the facts until su…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 11:56 AM
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Most of the posts here are.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 04:10 PM
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This sub went off the rails a long time ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 05:27 PM
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No one should be able to 'opt out' of responsibility for a child without some serious consideration. The time to decide you don't want a child is BEFORE you have sex with someone. Use a fucking condom. Get on birth control. Family law has become what it is because people try to get out of responsibility and game the system all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 05:24 PM
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Yeah. On a thread talking about how men are gonna revolt from society and turn into roving gangs of homeless. You gonna be the first to quit your job and go starve in the wilderness? Yeah I am so badass for thinking 'eh, I'll live'.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 11:46 AM
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Lol this woman was raised in the country. I can build a shelter, shoot a gun and smoke meat. Bring on the mgtow apocalypse. I would prefer that to zombies.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 06:48 PM
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Huh. I am self sufficient and could be without a regular job. Its not that hard. Most of the women I know work a full time job anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 06:43 PM
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So, by your comments Men are what men are protecting women from? Not surprising.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 06:39 PM
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I did an edit so go back and check that. And no, I am not blinded to the plight of the poor guys that feel they are being made into bad guys. You are blinded because you dont understand how fucked up it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 01:25 AM
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Because women cannot say 'This guy grabbed my ass on the bus' without having to hear 'but not all guys do that'. Its that simple. We already know its not all guys. Its got nothing to do with it. Because people are not talking about a generalized experience. They are talking about a very specific instance. A d someone needs to stop and tell us that 'oh but not all guys will do that'. When I had to report a break-in, no one told me 'but not all people break into cars'. When I call the cops on my n…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 12:57 AM
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Possibly that person had a bad connection. I have read the article, and recently. The link works just fine for me and I will let the article defend itself. So #NotAllMen doesn’t clarify anything. It doesn’t add to the discussion or develop it in any way. All it does is derail and dismiss the lived experiences of women and girls. And what the men who leap to remind us that ‘’not all men are like that’’, are actually saying is, ‘’I’m not like that.’’ Or to put it another way, they are letting wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 07:20 PM
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I know that last link. Are you serious? Did you even read your own reference? This has nothing to do with the 'just be yourself' mantra. Its got nothing to do with this thread. Its not saying all men are pigs. Its so ironic you would attempt to use that particular article.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 04:31 PM
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I am saying that rp does dismiss a lot of things as 'awalt, all women are just evil' so its not surprising to see that. Its literally rp theory.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 04:36 PM
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Its a common view from people who have spent a lot of time reading rp.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 03:03 PM
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Its very true, even though it doesn't fit your desired narrative. Pink used to be considered manly, a color to bold for girls. All babies used to wear skirts. If you see old paintings of children in dresses, chances are they are boys not girls. Curly powered wigs used to be quite manly. Also silk stockings and hair ribbons too. I am not even sure how judges came to be wearing them with long robes, but yeah. I can't imagine they deliberately dressed judges up in 'feminine' outfits, so it must hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 03:05 AM
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Chasing a career, not settling down in time then wondering where Chad went when it's too late. What if that makes women happy? Not every woman wants a Chad or to pop out babies. Treating some men as sex objects while the rest are success objects, while calling any similar treatment from men sexism. We care less that men treat women as sex objects and more that men get pissy when we return the favor. The solution to this is stop treating people like objects. Pricing herself out of the market then…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 01:13 AM
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Reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 11:50 AM
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Thats for full custody. I am talking 50/50 shared custody which is the absolute default. Why is it always an 'all or nothing' when it comes to being a parent? Why hate women that much that you cant peacefully coparent? My question is, why not just have 50/50 custody? Fewer men try for that bare minimum. You have to do some bad shit or have a serious absence to not at least get 50/50
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 03:30 AM
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I know rp would love to spread around that a woman doesnt need a lawyer in a divorce, but its just not true. Everyone needs a lawyer, and no lawyers mean that the couple has to come to an amicable agreement. So I fail to see your point. Who is going to pay the womans bills? She just sits back does nothing and things magically get done? I can see you have never had a job or paid your own bills. This is 2018, most adults have jobs, regardless of having kids or how old they are. So tell me again ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 11:16 PM
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Uh, okay. So a woman can handle a job, lawyer and kid but a man can't. There certainly is some bullshit going on here. I don't know what 'experts' they had on this show, or what universe they are from, but when a COUPLE get divorced, they BOTH usually face pretty well the same dilemma. A woman will either have her own job or need to get one, so bills, a place to live, daycare expenses, actually being a parent.... It seems excuses are sorta weak. I guess men cant handle being an adult and a paren…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 10:04 PM
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Yeah I know its the party line, but its the truth. Men get custody when they seek custody. Men seek custody less often than women. Look at all the statistics, not just the one that cater to your hatred of choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 11:54 AM
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This is really the first time in history that a woman is free to divorce at all. Sure there are a few here and there but most of that is for property ownership disputes in the upper class. A man is just as capable of creating accusations and getting away with murder. A man is capable of holding a job and gaining primary or 50/50 custody. When anyone tries to gain full custody the courts make it very difficult. Hell a woman got killed just recently because the police couldn't protect her from her…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 01:17 AM
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Opening the pickle jar for your wife is not toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 07:49 PM
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'Some people are shit' does not equal 'all people are shit'. 'Some women are immature,manipulative, gold digging cheaters' does not equal all women are. I like nerdy shy guys with glasses and a few extra pounds. I don't cheat and I dont expect a guy to finance my whole life. According to rp no women like me exist. Its not possible. But you can get 20 yr old virgins who fuck like pornstars and only want to pop out babies and lick your boots?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 02:57 AM
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But humans make derogatory comments about BOTH sexes. Why carry on the grade school mudslinging? Why not acknowledge these problems as harmful to everyone?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 02:50 AM
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Why does it boil down to looks? People WERE a bit friendier back then it was common to hang out with and help out your neighbors because you probably grew up with them. Now a higher percentage of people are not as well off and move around pretty often. The 'family home' is becoming a thing of the past and being friends with the neighbors isnt something you do unless you live in upscale communities. The social standards have changed by an enormous amount.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 09:46 PM
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Am woman. Getting hit on is not bad. Its just a few words between strangers. Whats bad is the rare individual that thinks a nervous smile means 'follow me home and scratch your name into my car hood'. Its not MOST of getting hit on. Its the mentally unsound people that make it scary. I have had things thrown at my head for turning down a date with a stranger. Its the overly drunk obnoxious guy that would be annoying the piss out of ANYONE they turned their attention to. Its not about being hit o…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 04:02 PM
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That men are supposed to pay for everything. I ran into 'that girl' twice in the last five years. One was a 20 yr old with a brain tumor. The other a mom of 3 that had a guy offer to buy her a house. To date no house has been bought although he still offers. I dont believe his bank account can cash the checks his mouth writes. Everyone else I have spoken to says you have to split everything these days. I also had a few guys on dating sites that offered to buy me stuff- not sure that qualifies as…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/18 11:56 AM
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Funny how only a small minority thinks that way. I've seen that sentiment very few times in real life but online its everywhere. Wonder why is that..
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/18 09:41 PM
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I don't think there is a point to this. Now we are expected to take 17th century alpha Chad seriously? Its almost like he only knew privileged women. The kind that get married at 15 and are not allowed to do much besides read the bible, if they can read at all, make babies, and knit doilys. And of course this is somehow relevant to 2018. Because them evil womenz....... are just evil.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/18 09:31 PM
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Your comment is a 'nice guy' meme. Do you all fail to comprehend that the 'Nice Guy' referred to on the internet is literally an asshole that says 'But I was so nice to you' six seconds before calling a woman a bitch and telling her she would rather fuck 'Chad' than be with him (mr nice guy). Your comment is hilariously ironic.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 09:57 PM
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I've heard it lots of times. Now we are gatekeeping other peoples experiences?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/18 08:33 PM
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Then what is it when people say things like 'helpless woman' or any of hundreds of sayings and tropes? Its not that women are seeking to tear down men. Men hVe been doing this to women for millennia. Women are doing it too, except women are forced to be more tolerant, men get mad instead of taking it as a 'joke' like women have been forced to. Once again, this isnt a woman or man problem so much as a human problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/18 02:55 PM
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Its been like that since we crawled out of caves. Humans have been like this for more time than not.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/18 02:03 PM
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But it doesn't apply to wolves. It also doesnt apply to humans. Human 'leaders' throughout history are almost always those that gained power through family wealth or friend connections. Its always about who was born with money or who inherited it. Its not about who is deserving or capable. Its not a popularity contest either. Even those voted into power are almost always there because of financial backing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/18 06:06 PM
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Until recently in history,women were not allowed to own property, have jobs, or conduct business. There cannot be multigeneration women owned businesses when are.recently as the 1970's women could not have their own seperate bank account.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/18 09:26 PM
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This is so much of what is wrong with men in the rp. They want to check out as soon as they get home. They want to go through a relationship, marriage, and parenthood with as little effort as possible and they endlessly whine about having to put forth any effort be it mental or physical. To them the end goal in life is a happy little stepford wife. Its just selfishness. This dude cant wrap his brain around being able to speak to and compromise with a woman in a relationship. That would mean he w…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/18 07:59 PM
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This post is full of trolls. Or maybe a few of the worst sort of clueless. When in a relationship, do you not go shopping with your significant other and discuss purchases? If not, I suggest you try that. It works wonders for avoiding misery in a relationship. You have to talk to each other. What does the average man or woman have on their plate that should be held before their relationship? Next weeks production goals or report deadline?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/18 07:57 PM
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Abortion may be legal but it is still far from ACCESSIBLE for a lot of women. My nearest clinic is a seven hour drive. They have a two day wait, you have to make an appointment to discuss abortion, then come back two days later for the procedure, which you are not allowed to drive yourself home from. This makes it impossible for the vast majority of low income women. Very few women could make that drive, spend the money on hotel rooms, miss days of work ( hahaha I would lose my job if I took a w…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/18 03:08 PM
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How do we protect women from coersion? How do you prevent a man from sabotaging a pack of pills or taking off a condom halfway through? Why is this always a conversation about 'protecting the man' when women get deceived even MORE often than men? Taking off a condom without consent happens so often that we have a catchy new name for it. They are calling it 'Stealthing'.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/18 02:57 PM
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Its not only women that decieve in order to have a pregnancy. I think most women run into 'that guy' that 'can't have kids due to an accident' that also refuses to wear condoms. Its pretty damn common. As a matter of fact, here on reddit, every person uses condoms religiously. Out in the real world I haven't yet found any guys that are willing to use condoms. I have had to walk away from lots of people that completely refused protection. And lets not forget, pills fail. You can take them on a st…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/18 02:52 PM
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Are you not understanding this. Once you start getting a paycheck, those foodstamps and housing help goes away. Once you hit about 11 an hr you don't get any foodstamps and they will ask you to leave housing as you are no longer eligible. Are you truly no comprehending that? In my state single people no in school over the age of 18 will pretty much get nothing at all. The only reason these single.moms get it is because of the kids. But its NOT ENOUGH for anything. You cannot pay rent with foodst…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/18 03:28 AM
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Yes you can apply for housing. The waiting lists are sometimes years long. In my town its five years. They put disabled people in long before families. They also live under some pretty strict restrictions. No visitors after hours, regular inspections, and still you have to look for a job and no longer qualify if you find one. You have an already well off friend that got into selling scentsy. Okey dokey. Thats your proof. Sure.. And sometimes, you can pull a few hundred waiting tables. IF its aro…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/18 01:33 AM
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First they are living large on welfare ( in my state a single mother will get 214 a month. Thats barely an electric bill and certainly not rent or fun money. And this is only if they have no job and no assets of over 2000 worth. (Guess a reliable car is out of the question) They have to log 40 hours a week for job search, a visit a week to the employment office, and do not qualify for child care assistance. So, go put in applications dragging a kid around. Add in 238 in foodstamps and wow. Absol…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/18 12:33 AM
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When someone points out that you are wrong you simply change targets.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/18 12:11 AM
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This exactly. Just what can you be responsible for if you don't even know that the person you are on a date with is actually in a relationship? Op's question makes no sense. How do you even know this hypothetical woman has a hypothetical boyfriend? And how do you even find out? If you knew before, then why the hell are you on a date with her? That makes you just as bad. If you find out after, cut contact with liars and cheaters but there is no reason to feel bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/18 03:47 PM
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What the hell? You are so bent on 'women never approach' for all these reasons, yet YOU MARRIED a woman that approached YOU FIRST. Maybe this tells you something. Like women do not approach every last thirsty guy in a night club because they know all these men want is easy sex? That when women DO approach, its because they are looking for a long term relationship? Maybe women approach way more often than these statistics because they only ask SINGLE people. And as a 'confident woman'. I don't as…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/18 03:07 PM
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K. Right off the deep end.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/18 03:03 AM
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And a population explosion is everyones problem. But then again I am in the camp leaning towards mandatory birth control. I think creating a new human should always be a deliberate choice and accidental pregnancy should be avoided at all cost. Just think, all those things we have to subsidize with taxpayer dollars. They ALL decrease when birth control is free and easily available. Fewer unwanted, unexpected, and unplanned for births directly translate into less tax money needed to cover all thos…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/18 02:41 AM
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Except vasectomy SHOULD be covered. Like all birth control types should be. And like there should be a bigger push to have more male birth control options. So how about we all work together getting that done?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/18 02:19 AM
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What do you believe should be done? The only solution to most of this 'plight' is to raise people from birth to be social, caring humans. Give them full access without limits to healthcare and mental wellness. Look at most of the men that 'can't' get a relationship. Its almost always poor social skills and nasty superiority complexes. You are always going to be alone if you are angry and misogynistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/18 07:34 PM
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Because when I am single, sure I miss sex. But what I can't stop thinking about is the emotional intimacy sex brings.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/18 08:54 PM
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Lack of give a fuck? Just because hes an actor does not mean there is a law he needs to be magazine fit and botoxed to hell and back. Lots of male and female actors are not all that attractive or fit. It doesnt stop them from being popular because they are good at what they do. Looks don't matter as much as rp thinks.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/18 12:33 PM
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Wow. Rich actors with literal teams of people dedicated to keeping them fit. Thats not even the '20%' thats the .00001%. Why do you want to compare average people to the extreme outliers.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/18 09:59 PM
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He didn't start out that way. Over time he just stopped doing anything because, well a thousand excuses.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/18 09:52 PM
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What do you call a woman that does all the cooking and cleaning with no help from you? Mommy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/18 03:51 PM
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Thats just sad as fuck. One more example of a guy that just refuses to listen to his wife. He cares more about what his friends think than the woman he supposedly loves.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/18 03:44 PM
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Here lies the RP folly. If a man cannot or will not pull and equal load of the work a relationship/ living in a house takes, then women will lose attraction. I lost a lot of attraction to my ex when he refused to pick out his own clothes, wash them or really anything and we had the typical fights over taking the trash out ( which was the very least he could do for a house HE LIVED IN TOO.) Its not sexy to be mommy to a 30 yr old supposed 'man'. I grew resentful that he couldn't be bothered to co…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/18 03:39 PM
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I am not the best housekeeper, but scrubbing baseboards and corners, along with wiping down walls is a necessary chore. I have lots of guests all the time plus their kids, so the walls get nasty food handprints. The baseboards in the kitchen and bathroom are the only ones I scrub, the rest just broom off. But if I do not scrub the ones in the kitchen then it gets gross with spilled and splashed stuff. I also have two dogs, so sweeping and scrubbing baseboards is esential because pet hair turns i…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/18 03:28 PM
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Bible belt, redneck territory.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/18 01:37 PM
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Only rich idiots toss it after one use. But if its stained and ripped or worn out it needs to go. Same with all clothes. If you are 30 and still wearing the stuff from highschool it shows, its old, worn, torn and stained. Get newer stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/18 12:37 PM
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For both. And specifically for dating/dating profiles Don't be fat or obese. Skinny, fit, athletic, built, chubby ( some extra padding but not rolls) is all pretty acceptable. Not busting the shocks out your car fat. If you are fat, accept that only other fat people will want to date you. Be clean, washed, don't smell bad. If you use perfumes or cologne don't bathe in it, less is more. When in doubt ask a friend, if they can smell you from ten feet away you used too damn much. I don't care much …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/18 02:23 AM
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Obviously you can't do simple math then. Please explain how a person could have more female ancestors than male? It is not possible to have that without incest. One male plus one female makes one child. The only way to fudge these numbers is incest.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/18 04:00 PM
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Women cannot mate with women and produce children. So if you have more women in your ancestry than men, it is pretty damn impossible for there not to have been incest. Fathers having sex with daughters is pretty much the only way to make those numbers uneven. And once again where is the source for neolithic era mating practices? Considering we have so little knowledge and almost no human remains to study, you must have a time machine. Don't quote someones guessing game. All we 'know' is some cam…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/18 02:05 PM
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Half your 'sources' are fictional/ fantasy based. Not reality. Not science. You quote YOURSELF as a source, some piece of FANTASY you wrote is your SOURCE. This entire post is an ego trip and you didn't even bother to dress it up as science. This is one of the biggest shitposts I have seen in a while. Congratulations, you should get some type of reward for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/18 02:24 AM
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So people with no education can build a bridge? Because someone with education and experience is no better at designing and building structures? Or is it just women that are incapable of learning??
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/18 02:16 AM
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Not to mention that having more unique female ancestors than unique male ancestors is the end result of incest. Not branch swinging or anything to do with women rejecting men. And 17 women have kids by the same man? In ancient Egypt? This would be the end result of slavery not 'hypergamy'. This whole article is ridiculous and seems like the result of someone seriously misinterpreting a paper they read and didn't actually understand. Rp is really striking out with the women blame.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/18 02:12 AM
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Native American indians lived into their 50s and 60s pretty often. If you go by 'average' its 40 becaus3 a lot of babies died before one year old. But if they survived childhood, reaching 50 wasnt unusual. 'Cavemen' were a very very tiny sample of human population and time period. I dont know why everyone is always hung up on quoting that as if its the basis for all human makeup. There are not that many caves that were livable or even used. Humans spent less time as 'cavemen' than we have as an …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/18 09:57 PM
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A 40 yr old has the experience and a lifetime of muscle to hunt though. 40 is not decrepit old age, its prime years of living. Plus if you want to go down that road the 'leaders' would be older men with experience and good judgment. Not young males that have little life experience. Even today, a 20 something is far more interested in going out and seeing the world, getting drunk or high off various substances, and taking large risks. Not raising children.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/18 08:45 PM
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At what point in history has this branch swinging even been possible? For at least the last few thousand years marriage has been a religious/ social contract and to break that generally means exile or death for the woman. If you claim something is in our biology then where the hell has this been in recorded history?? If this was actually happening on a widespread basis then why does our recorded history not support and even contradict this behavior? This is just rp myths designed to make the act…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/18 08:38 PM
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Can you tell us who tells you to smile?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/18 12:24 AM
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It isnt a 'Handfull' of male shooters. An overwhelming amount of homicides are commited by men. Men kill men more often, but over half of all women killed are killed by an acquaintance. Either a previous or current partner. Men kill more men, men kill more women, than women kill both men and women. By an HUGE majority. I see men in rp claim women do not care about violence against men. But when these violent crimes are commited by men, how are we supposed to save you from yourselves? Especially …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/18 02:58 AM
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Its not surprising at all that there are mentally disturbed people that would send letters. A hundred or even a thousand people in this nation of 325,000,000 is NOT a relavant enough number to quote as AWALT.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/18 12:17 AM
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On the hot and cold, there are two distinct forms of context. One. Women being polite to men they dont know well ( first dates, new people, work scenarios) they are trying to be polite to a guy they dont know. Mostly because if we are rude or even just seen as not accommodating, then some guys ( about half) will call us bitches and generally complain in a work setting. In a private/ dating seting this could easily become getting cussed out in public, threatened, stalked, and even assaulted. So i…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/18 01:58 PM
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Hold up here. There is an age related trend to consider. Sure, early 20 somethings will probably take a while to discuss kids or long term plans. As you edge up to 30+ these become topics of conversation on the first few dates. The more serious and closer people are to wanting that lifestyle the sooner they will bring it up so they don't waste time on someone that isnt compatible. The younger people are, they may not even have thought about what they want their future to look like. So no, its no…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/18 11:19 PM
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Yep because abstinence is sure an effective plan!! Not. In groups with abstinence only education, the birth rates are MUCH higher.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/18 04:52 PM
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Its already an old trope. This isn't new at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/18 04:28 PM
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You can't get government assistance/medicaid unless you are a student or have children while working a below poverty level job. So you get NO insurance, NO birth control until you already have kids. Kinda defeats the purpose.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/18 04:19 PM
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You asked why women think that and who is saying that........... Then you say these experiences aren't valid because these are people whose opinions shouldn't matter to us? Our own parents? Don't ask what women experience if you are just going to argue that we are wrong, too sensitive, and we shouldn't feel that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/18 01:41 AM
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I do love sex, but its just getting off if you aren't in a relationship. And to be honest, its probably not even getting off in my experience. At least it sure doesn't work nearly as well if there aren't any feelings involved. I have a hard time separating sex and feelings, I believe a good percentage of women do. Certainly a higher percentage than men. I would rather go buy a new toy than deal with a fwb relationship or a one night stand. I don't have effortless porn star orgasms on command. Un…
/r/MGTOW02/01/18 02:13 AM
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I've been hurt by enough men, I wish I could be a lesbian but I don't like women enough to have sex with them. I just don't get turned on by women. I do get turned on by men.
/r/MGTOW02/01/18 01:48 AM
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It is a bad question. What the holy hell does and n count have to do with the parents marriage???? This can't be an issue of 'if you care about one you should care about the other'. These things ARE NOT CONNECTED.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/17 07:03 PM
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Sure. Vetting a person is great. Doing it for things a person has no control over or that clearly have no bearing on the person? Bullshit rp reasons. If a person has parents that are divorced. Thisnis a ridiculously rp reason. Having standards is good. Having such high standards that you just made your potential mate pool as small as possible just so you have a way to blame you being single on every BUT yourself. Thats rp all the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/17 06:51 PM
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This isn't rp vs bp. Its flat out shades of red. Its not got a damn thing to do with rp vs bp. Its been happening more and more on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/17 04:17 PM
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Lets be fair. This op question doesn't belong on this sub. This is the kind of shit they post over at rp. This sub is getting predictable and going downhill. Is no longer an honest debate its a wanna-be rp circlejerk.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/17 01:50 PM
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Homes are destroyed all the time. Between shoddy construction and natural product life, homes have to be torn down as they become too expensive to otherwise fix. In the US at least, there is no nursing home that will take Grandma without an expensive insurance policy. She is just gonna have to stay home with the kids. There is no money for a good chunk of the aging population. Especially since many are still paying off student loans well into the 30's and 40's. There is far less money for retire…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/17 12:35 AM
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Thanks for attempting to dissect my intention and my mental state instead of taking my sarcasm at face value. It's not worth the time of a great alphalpha. I'm just a poor wittle woman and my delicate brain cannot possibly comprehend your rp logic t<sup>m</sup>
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/17 12:31 AM
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The people owning the homes now are going to at some point move out of them. Meaning loads of homes on the market and prices going down noticeably. Seriously. Wtf? Do you not understand what is going on? Where are these people moving to and why? Yes a small percentage will turn over from people moving. But for the most part rising population is the reason for the shortage. This is mitigated somewhat by people living for longer in family homes, but mostly because they can't afford to move out. On…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/17 09:16 PM
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In the us, we bailed out the rich, the banks, the shareholders, and put that as a burden on the middle class ( who then get screwed over from the other direction with high interest loans and shysty credit practices if they want any education at all). The middle class is disappearing. We don't have zero hour contracts. We do have a rapidly growing 'temp' workforce. This sets up large and small businesses to have absolutely no responsibility for the people that work for them because technically, t…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/17 06:55 PM
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That sub is a very small segment of the population.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/17 06:38 PM
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That beautifully sums up the sentiment.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/17 06:35 PM
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I didn't say anyone called me stupid. I was, I was young and dumb and I think that is a natural stage of life. We live long enough I think making an few mistakes is understandable. After all, we are human and born knowing next to nothing. We have to learn everything for ourselves. We make mistakes, we make good decisions, we learn and grown from both. Rp is full of people that can't take the blow to a delicate ego and just admit they played a part in that shitty relationship that did them damage…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/17 03:37 AM
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Welcome to PPD. In case you were wondering, no a woman is not a human being to the red pill. She is no more responsible for her own actions than a bumblebee. She operates soley on evil and malice and requires your very life essence and contant compliments or she will die.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/17 10:44 PM
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Oh I thought you were a woman. If you’re a man you just get up and start scrubbing the stove while saying, “The shower is disgusting”. That’ll shame her into action. Wait to clean the stove until she’s in the room, not doing anything. Works on me. This is a direct quote from your comment here https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/7dylvg/when_a_woman_always_tries_to_tell_you_what_to_do/dq1qmzy/ I do not deal in manipulative tactics. If you can't be honest and ask each other for help …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/17 10:31 PM
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Yeah. When he wanted clean stuff he bitched until I did it. But keep trying to make it my fault for having a vagina. Maybe one day it will work.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/17 05:44 PM
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Yeah, sure I did. I was young and stupid and should have moved out and dumped him at the very first sign he was a spoiled spoonfed manchilld. I do regret staying for so long but I thought I cared. I thought he cared. But he didn't care enough to do a couple house chores .
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/17 04:22 PM
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K. Whatever narrative you want to believe that makes everything all a womans fault. He wasn't a lazy piece of shit. I just asked him wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/17 04:01 PM
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No, I did everything. He cooked once a year, never did dishes or laundry, never made any repairs to anything but would get pissy when I fixed the washer ( it needed a small hose replacement since it was leaking) because I guess I wasn't supposed to do 'man work'. Funny he never did any 'man work' unless it had to do with the bbq grill or playing games. Even the grill was just bitching about what I did and not actually doing any real work. Frankly there were just too many issues and nothing kills…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/17 03:57 PM
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Not doing what you agree to is the start of contempt. This isn't about me not asking nicely enough. This is about not being able to rely on someone and their word.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/17 03:43 PM
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I have no clue what kind of psycobabble you have been inhaling. When I ask 'Hey, we are out of clean towels, can you get some done today since you will be home doing nothing?' and I hear 'Yeah, no problem'. Then yes I EXPECT them to not be ran with no soap and still be sitting in the washer the next day. I EXPECT to not just have to do it all myself when HE SAID he would take care of it. He could have just said no, he didn't want to take a break from the xbox. When you are in an actual relations…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/17 03:14 PM
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So.. I shouldn't expect a man to be able to handle laundry. Okay then.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/17 02:47 PM
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Serious question. I read the title an op, and the first thing that came to mind was laundry. I used to ask my ex to deal with some laundry, for example when I was working and he would be home, but he couldn't seem to operate a washer and dryer. Funny enough he could take them apart and fix them but operating them was somehow far beyond his capabilities. Was it wrong of me? Was it a 'shit test' to expect him to be able to wash, dry AND fold and put away the towels? Was I wrong to get frustrated a…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/17 01:55 PM
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Shouldn't you be in school? This isn't the sub for trollkids.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/17 11:38 PM
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This is just a narrative to allow you to blame women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/17 11:30 PM
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Keep trying. If even one shakes the blinders off its worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/17 10:47 PM
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Its not about reality, its about putting all the blame on women. This is why we can't have a civil reasonable discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/17 10:34 PM
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Merely looking at a women does not make someone creepy. If you are using that then you are using extreme reactions as common examples.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/17 10:32 PM
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Yeah sure. You don't have to approach. But you do have to make some sort of overt social blunder. Like following someone. Or staring them down constantly. Being creepy is where you invade someone elses sense of security in an agressive manner.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/17 10:25 PM
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Creep logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/17 10:05 PM
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Kanye approves.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/17 09:38 PM
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So you are saying its not rape unless its forcible.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/17 11:25 PM
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No, I don't consider cheating to be an unreasonable reason to break up, although women in general seem more forgiving when a partner cheats.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/17 05:35 PM
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Yeah, anecdote time. I've never seen or heard of a guy loving 'unconditionally' while I've seen women bawl their eyes out over a long term relationship suddenly gone cold for seemingly no reason. Women are 'more discriminating' because they as a majority don't want casual sex with anyone. Not even super mega alph alpha chads. Men want apples, women want oranges.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/17 01:49 PM
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So what other taxpayer money do you object to paying? https://media.nationalpriorities.org/uploads/discretionary_spending_pie%2C_2015_enacted.png I am so sick of rp going on about single mothers like they are ripping your check in half to give to food stamp recipients. Take a look. The lighter green (housing) and blue (agricultural) has a lot of programs in line before welfare recipients are getting anything. Quite a sizable chunk of those two wedges are support for elderly and disabled and this…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/17 04:53 PM
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As a woman my life doesn't revolve around sex. Its part, but not even a significant portion in or out of a relationship. No. Its not valid for sex to be the center of your universe. There is so much more to life. Sex is a motivator, but not the only one.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/17 08:18 PM
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Where in the above article is there absolutely any mention of looking/being attractive? This is why I can't take men seriously. All they focus on is sex/hypothetical sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/17 03:44 PM
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Why do you do that? You invaidate what a woman says about her experience because it doesn't fit your narrow narrative. Atlas said pretty much said she had sex because she felt like it. Because she was horney and the guy was convenient. Because she had drugs and was horny. But you still draw your own conclusions, saying its about rewarding men, or sometimes she has feelings or insecurities or being fucked up? Do you see what you did? You are saying you don't believe women have sex just because it…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/17 01:30 AM
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Thats not a fetish anymore. Its actual rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/17 01:52 PM
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I don't think that you can overcome the problems these men have by showing them another side ti the same shitty coin and telling them its okay to be abusive and manipulative. You might claim you have to go to an extreme to reach a balance but people and not pendulums. A LOT of men DO expect a woman to mommy them. I know society took a wrong turn somewhere. I think if we treated men and women the same and stopped trying to cram them into gender roles then we would see healthier balanced people. Y…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/17 01:52 PM
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You don't get it? Dread is threatening to cheat or doing it to fix a relationship. If that isn't manipulative and wrong to you then I'm sorry you have no empathy. Threatening to leave is fine. What isn't okay is the implied or actual cheating that is advocated. It's just adding gas to the fire and does more damage than not. We have gotten far enough off topic. I'm done. Like I said, you can't take anything I say at face value.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/17 04:50 AM
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Improving ones appearance is not dread. Giving the impression that cheating is possible by making comments and acting shady. Thats dread. Why not leave the relationship when things are so bad you are ready to cheat? Cheating means you are okay enough with it being over that you will risk your relationship for a fling. Why stay? Why become a cheater? And don't say because of kids, cause they aren't being helped when parents don't care about each other. Just as many women say they don't like it. B…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/17 04:42 AM
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At its most innocent, dread is meant to make a woman think her so could be cheating. At its worst, it encourages cheating and lying about it. Might as well be the Shaggy song. Im a woman. I don't like this. I don't know any women that do. But since Im a woman this means nothing to you. You have been trained like a dog to immediately dismiss anything I have to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/17 03:56 AM
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Dread game. Women are the most responsible teenager. You can't ever be open and honest about having feelings. You are to treat every disagreement with 'amused mastery'. Everthing is a shit test. Everything. Yes this too. And that. If she has friends or make friends she is looking for her next branch. You think is isn't treating someone like shit to treat them as a child that can't make decisions for themselves? Like they entered into a relationship with you just to torture and test you like the …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/17 03:45 AM
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Yeah, actually it does. Because otherwise its abuse and/or rape. You can't keep the relationship up without trust. Trust that someone will stop when things get a little too real, thats the core of 'Real' bdsm as practiced by people for whom it is a way of life. Or do you enjoy it when your partner has feelings of disgust, fear, anger, and repulsion towards you?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/17 03:37 AM
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No. But they like getting their way always. If it means bullying their way through a relationship, then so be it. Everything they say about women is justification for treating them like shit and browbeating women into accepting it. Its elementary school for abusers.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/17 03:29 AM
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Yet rp claims bp men are submissive. They are all 'cucks' to rp. Yet they get women all the time in reality. Happily married men are the rarest breed on rp. They have no need of the sub and they have zero representation in the idealogy. They also get shouted down and banned when they attempt to share their perspective. Thats because rp doesn't want to admit there is any other way to have a happy relationship, they want zero talk about mentally healthy relationships that would quickly explode the…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/17 03:24 AM
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Its not supported on ppd, but it is supported on rp.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/17 03:17 AM
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You must dye it. Silver and pink is all the rage for sluts now. Add a few random facial piercings ( just tell them to throw a dart and put a ring in wherever it sticks!). This way everyone will know what you are and it will make your BB hubby unable to resist your black widow ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/17 12:12 AM
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Haha. And so far in life I have been screwed over by every single guy. I haven't met very many guys that weren't total pieces of shit liars. I still don't exclusively blame men. People of both sexes are pieces of shit and it crosses all gender/race/religion/location barriers without exception.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/17 07:37 PM
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Lol thanks for clearing that up. What about the modern inauthentic man who thinks all women just want his wallet?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/17 04:39 PM
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So hypergamy isnt 'bio truth' but nurture? Which rp theory are you gonna disprove next?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/17 01:31 PM
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Plenty of men date and marry absolutely insane women. Are we really going to go straight to 'women only want assholes' when men chase dysfunctional women all the time? At what seems like the same rate as women? This is a huge issue with rp. Stop acting like dating an asshole does not cross gender barriers.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/17 04:07 AM
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Lol they don't think so. My family friends are still in love after 25 years. Trust me, your pity is both wasted and horribly misguided. But you can't fathom normal human relationships as anything but some sort of sex-for-money transaction. Can you?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/17 02:14 AM
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Not at all. The town I grew up, a couple lawyers at least two judges and several law enforcement are married to ex strippers. Thats how they met. Probably not 'wealthy' by some standards, but what passes for it here. One lawyer just had his 25 yr anniversary. His daughters are beautiful and one actually just starred in a crappy B movie slasher film. These are family friends. I have to say the wife still is a hottie.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/17 12:28 AM
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Actually, millions of hos become housewives every year. Being a stripper in a decent club is a great way to meet and marry a man with wealth.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/17 05:44 PM
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Yeah, person anecdotes don't count. Cause we can't have anything break the circlejerk. Womenz are evil liars and there are no womenz on the internet, unless its a social media whore amiright yall? Sorry, I can't resist. This is such a troll post. All women are 'stacy' to this op. He can't possibly believe women like something other than dick size. They must always be on the prowl for bigger and bigger penii. Like a shark, if they stop looking, they die.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/17 04:11 AM
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He must have had a fatter bank account and you must have hit the wall. You know, cause something something awalt.....
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/17 04:00 AM
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You don't think men are capable of playing nice? I am not trying to steal mens exclusive problems, but come the hell on. What affects men that doesn't affect women? What affects women that doesn't affect men? Its a human problem and we aren't sitting back and letting the menfolk deal with it. In case you haven't noticed WE ARE HERE. And we are TRYING to find and address ALL the problems. We aren't hijacking your exclusive suffering. Don't think I don't know that its hard for men. But don't you d…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/17 05:36 AM
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Just from sheer curiosity, what were the issues you were struggling with? I am seeing this as an even bigger issue than men and women. The American society is one of consumerism and shaming. Its not only against women, it just seems a lot more blatantly against women in particular. Its really against anyone outside of the 'norm' but slowly starting to focus on different groups. What examples can you give where you felt you had no support from society? Are you willing to concede that anyone being…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/17 02:25 PM
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This isn't about how people think they are better than others at some things. Its about men thinking they are better than women overall, at everything. Because penis<vagina. Making a generalization, but women don't often feel 'humiliated' if a man is better at anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/17 12:24 AM
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This is the heart of this entire idiocy, stripped to its core. Its humiliating when a women knows something you don't. Because you believe women are a lower life form. You can't see a woman as anything other than sub-human.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/17 04:49 AM
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I have a sudden urge to cross-stitch this on a large throw pillow while baking muffins.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/17 04:44 AM
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We all know women weren't slaves for all of history. Men were slaves too. In rome women could even own property and vote. Slaves were allowed an exceptional amount of freedom ( choosing who to marry. But lets face facts. A domineering woman counts for Nothing when culture says her father gets to sell her to the highest bidder. No where in the current world are young boys sold to middle aged women as 'husbands'. I would be interested if this was ever in practice as a culture. Men bore the burdens…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/17 02:52 PM
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Point taken. Having no option to vote isn the same as wasting it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/17 04:17 AM
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Yes, meant to reply to another person. The hazards of tiny screens.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/17 12:01 AM
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I call bullshit. Women who are little more than slaves or commodities to be traded away are NEVER in control of when and where sex happens. You are forgetting women couldn't VOTE until less than 100 years ago... And this is in the US. Some other countries still don't allow women to vote. Or drive cars. Or choose a husband for themselves. You don't get to pretend women have always been in charge and men the long oppressed ones. Women getting a choice in who they have sex with, or even if sex will…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/17 11:40 PM
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Who is to say they are wrong about the self worth they feel? It makes them happy. You mistake your own set of values for others values. Someone who has few hobbies and still thinks they are awesome will end up with someone else who has few hobbies and thinks they are awesome. Its personality. I might be boring as crap by your standards but I don't have much trouble finding someone who shares the hobbies and pursuits I do have no matter how you feel about the things I enjoy. You are just delusion…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/16 06:48 PM
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Yeah, see boutique or art exhibit mean out of my price range. I just bought jeans for 14$ and thought it was pricy. With every that is supposed to come out of my paycheck, I need stuff dirt cheap (paid a dollar a piece for some blouses at a yard sale two months ago). I have rent, electric, car payment, insurance, food, phone and... Its gone. I don't make a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/16 01:36 AM
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I do have nice clothes, just nothing handmade. Making something myself is nothing but frustrating when I put time energy and cash into something that looks like shit and ends in the trash. I don't want to wear the stuff I am capable of making and it holds no value or point to me unless its usable. Art should be satisfactory to the creator. Mine isn't. This is all about values. You value some creative streak. I value functionalities.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/16 01:27 AM
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But thats just it. Its SELF expression. Most people don't need or want to express themselves through creative clothes or music. Some like me just sort of suck at it. I would love to be creative and make artsy home crafts. Every time I try I end up with something that looks like a mentally challenged five year old made it. Scratch that, Ive seen better come from a mentally challenged five year old. I can sew good enough for repairs and fixing buttons, but I don't have the skill level or the creat…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/16 01:06 AM
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A few hundred years ago there was value in needlework or playing an instrument. Now we have cheap as fuck ready made clothing and music on demand. Actually any sort of entertainment on demand at any time. So there is little value in doing this stuff for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/16 10:29 PM
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So 1 or 2% of all women you know are like that equals awalt? And they say men are better at maths..... The town I live in doesn't even have clubs.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/16 04:23 AM
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So why dont you watch him more? You think 300$ a month is too high? Thats about half of the expense of having a child. Having family watch him is better than 200$ a week in daycare expense. You are just bitter and not seeing the reality of what a child costs. She makes more than you and apparently you dont even take the kid off her hands that often. Courts dont even care about he said she said anymore. Unless they can prove you are a danger or neglectful, 50/50 custody is standard. It takes a wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/16 05:23 PM
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The pay is based on the ability of the parents to provide. One of my good friends gets 34$/a week in child support and has full custody, dad left the state trying to get out of paying even that little. Its 10% of his income. Who can provide for a child on 34$ a week? Thats not even enough for food for the kid. How is that even half of medical care, clothing, basic shelter and food ( because having the extra bedroom for the child is costing an additional 200 a month minimum). You seem to be stuck…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/16 03:12 PM
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What does the national average have to do with what you pay? For all we know, your wage is 3x the national average too. And support is also factored by how much custody you have. So if you could get payments lowered if you took on a bigger share of the in person parenting. If the kids spend most of the week with you, you may even find your ex will end up paying you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/16 08:25 AM
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I would argue that fucked up and bitter guys tend to not have as much sex as the want.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/16 03:20 PM
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This still assumes that sex is the only reason you would even bother to stoop to interaction with a female. Do you hate yourself that much that you can't even see past something to stick your dick in? Go buy yourself a sex toy so you don't have to put in 'effort' to speak and interact with another human being. You would be doing us all a favor.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/16 09:54 AM
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Nearly all leadership is by social contract. It's who you are connected to and who has the power annd money. If they have the connections, then they will get the chance to prove they can convince others to follow willingly. Have you stopped for one second and ask yourself who the army is? It's my friends, family, neighbors. You would have to give them a damn good reason to turn on civilians. They wouldn't obey an unreasonable order. They wouldn't attack thier own family, friends and neighbors.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/16 04:14 AM
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Trp seems to think that making a mutual decision is impossible. If say a couple needs a new car, they could not possibly agree on what make, model, and payments they should get together. So of course the woman should let the man have his way because that's the natural order biology demands. There is no way the woman should have her choice without the man having the final say. Funny how most of the world knows how to have a compromise. It's only in trp or controlling relationships where we find s…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/16 03:57 AM
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Lol wut? We aren't generally at war except for a very small area of the planet. War rules don't apply and never will for the vast majority of people. A leader is the person most capable of making the right decisions. Never the one most capable of physically fighting, and most so called military leaders never get into a single fight. Being in a fist fight or having a mastery of martial arts has nothing to do with strategy or troop movements. Everything you just said makes me think you have no clu…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/16 03:40 AM
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How you feel about third wave feminists is how I feel about trpers. They both are reactionary and misguided. I do see positive men's culture in askmen and a few other subs. But it leaks out to more general places like askreddit. There are so many positive and uplifting things that show masculinity in a good way without the stereotypes. I think this is what bothers me the absolute most. People saying this." Regarding the boobs, it's completely avoidable." No its not. I've seen it in the most unex…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/16 10:03 PM
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This is where I think we have very different experiences. Talking just about reddit for a min ( because it's massive enough). I see pictures of omen getting to the top soley because boobs. Or porn clips. Some form of hot half or fully naked woman is always near the top posts. It comes from many different subs and it a bit hard to avoid. I rarely if ever see a man objectified in the same way. OK, so it happens. No big deal. But other posts about women? I see three other types of posts in general.…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/16 02:43 PM
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Hold up right there. I see so many claims that rp puts forth that 'gina worship' is somehow demanded by women. Bullshit. It's part and parcel with mysogynistic views if not the whole basis for it. Women in general don't want to be on that pedestal, because it's not the woman as an individual up there. It's a body part. It's creepy to be treated in a special manner for having a certain body part. It's disturbing and disgusting. When men do this it shows that they think a woman's value begins and …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/16 06:36 AM
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Not everyone has family that lives close. My own mother still works for a living and there would be no way she would stay at home to watch kids, my sister already tried to ask. We dont have any family that doesnt still work. Section 8 has a minimum of six years on the wait list in my town. If you live out in the boonies, you need two cars for a family. The timing would be hard to deal with. I don't personally know any family I would want to live with for longer than a few days. Sure your plan is…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/16 03:52 AM
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Nothing in your comment makes any sense. With lower incomes families often need two incomes just to have a place to live and food to eat. Kids need to learn social skills at a very young age, those that are mostly isolated up to the age of five ( when school starts) often are behind enough that they may never catch up. Most low income people don't use daycare past the age of give, when the child can start public school. Kids before that age are too young to be cooking and are not usually capable…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/16 03:41 AM
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Not to be offensive, but were you judgemental and boring before that? Do you also gravitate toward fun and open people naturally or did you have to force yourself to be socially receptive?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/16 09:07 PM
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Makeup is just an extension of clothing. Do you wear clothes for the sole purpose of attracting attention?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/16 01:28 PM
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Question. What did you as a man learn you were supposed to do to attract someone? Other than flat out walk up and ask on a date? This might be a bit off topic, but I'm working on something. How detailed does it get for a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/16 01:13 PM
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What a relief.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/16 12:52 PM
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You can say no to a relationship. We can travel to other planets, we can explore the depths of the oceans. Saying no to a date is well within the human capabilites you were born with. Don't have that relationship. WE HAVE TONS OF BIRTH CONTROL OPTIONS TO CHOOSE FROM. Even a minimum wage worker can afford a day trip to get a vasectomy with some planning. I've left TWO abusive relationships, the only thing holding me back was me. When I decided to leave it was easy. If I can get in my car with onl…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/15 09:50 PM
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I am concerned for you. If you are really under such massive damaging threat to date and impregnate women you are not attracted to then I suggest you seek help. Move away from the people trying to control your life. If you are being forced into marriage there are agencies around the world that can help you remove yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/15 09:36 PM
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Who is killing your prize race horse and threatening your family if you don't want a date?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/15 09:30 PM
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Where the hell do you live? Not on earth? What friends or family have you had that forced you to date and have unprotected sex, or any sex, with someone you didn't want to be on a date or have sex with??? I've been on a total of two dates in my life with a person I had no interest in, both times winging for a friend and both times no second date or anything close to sex was had. I said no. Funny how a simple word like no can stop the scene you describe. Both of these dates were as an inexperienc…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/15 04:36 AM
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I'm past what rpsays it wall age. I don't lack for dates when I want. Almost all men in my ideal dating at range already have kids, and that ranges from 30 to 45. Most have kids that are low teens to already moved out. Very few have kids younger that ten. It's just not true that most people wait till they are 30 and up to start having kids. At least no around here. Very few of these men want more kids. Even fewer are actively looking for someone to have kids with. I don't think this even applies…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/15 05:02 AM
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It doesn't matter why. If someone doesn't want to accept a ride home, get in a car, go on a date, or even walk on the same side of the street it may very well be an insult, but its still up to them and no amount of arguments about how wrong they are will change that. I'm not saying I'm the only one here who is right. I agree it can be insulting. I agree it can be racist or sexist. But I'm also saying there are tons of reasons that have nothing to do with the person who offers the ride and everyt…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/15 08:38 PM
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Why is everyone getting all hung up on an example detail? It isn't actually about someone having longbor short hair. It's about the fact he whines about it and gets angry. They used wearing pants as an example. Pants or lack of pants don't make it significantly harder or easier to rape some one. No woman ever said " thank god I have short hair and wore pants, they kept him from raping me" . And do I even need to make mention here. Rape is NOT about attraction. Rape is NOT about a simple desire t…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/15 07:19 PM
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You don't have to give me a bad vibe for me to turn down a ride and call a cab. You are just arguing ' why taking cabs is insulting to me' and completely ignoring that the reason may not even be about you. Stop taking this personally. You can sit and play ' but I'm not a rapist or even a bad guy, so if you don't let me drive you home then you are calling me a horrible person. Me me me me. ' and frankly that's the exact type of frightening attitude that sends off creepy rapist vibes. Sometimes te…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/15 07:04 PM
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So calling a cab is treating someone like a rapist? Normal people don't feel its a personal insult when they can't force you to accept a ride home.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/15 04:53 PM
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I think you should read that comment again. The misplaced anger is exactly what they were talking about. Not disliking short hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/15 04:50 PM
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I always pay attention to how things like this are said. Sure your example is reasonable. But if a guy sounds angry or highly upset and says it, just no. It's a big indicator of someone that might be violent, or might just be someone to steer clear of, if they seem to have strong emotions about things most people wouldn't think twice about.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/15 04:14 PM
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Don't get "Meh, short hair isn't an attractive look in my opinion" mixed up with "Fucking women shouldn't be allowed to have short hair, women with short hair are all lesbians, oh god, look at that ( otherwise attractive woman) with short hair doesn't she know cutting her hair makes her look like a bitch" Once again it isn't a matter if someone likes it or doesn't. It's the out of all proportion anger that sets the major alarm bells off.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/15 04:02 PM
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No,he's a rp who wants to think awalt instead of letting himself believe maybe he held some fault for a failed relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/15 12:47 AM
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When you are a teen, you think 30 is ancient. When you are 25, not so much. If a woman wrote this, she was under 20.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/15 12:45 AM
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If this was a scientific study from a reputable source I would be with you. Asking people to take erotic literature as ' proof' of awalt rp dogma is like asking me to believe in magic using Harry Potter novels as proof.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/15 12:43 AM
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Sorry I posted in the wrong place there. I doubt helping is the right word.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/15 07:14 AM
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I think you missed something though. The dark triad is a group of three personality traits: narcissism, Machiavellianism and psychopathy. Use of the term "dark" implies that these traits have malevolent qualities. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dark_triad#/search The narcissism. What's an n without an audience? They need validation, they need to be right and to argue with people they think are wrong. It's an ns wet dream to have a following of rabid brainwashed idiots. They will flatter anyone …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/15 07:10 AM
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My sword is your, my heart is yours, my life is yours. My Khaleesi.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/15 11:21 PM
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I'm guessing that why I never heard of him. Not that famous.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/15 09:35 AM
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Who is that? I don't recognize that guy at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/15 09:15 AM
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You are a true alpha female. I think I just became a lesbian and converted to rp. Do you give lessons? No sarcasm here. Bravo.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/15 09:05 AM
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Lol he trying to insult you because he can't argue the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/15 09:00 AM
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I don't think trp sees women as a product. They see them as the enemy. And the don't see their enemies as human. Time and time again, awalt. Women are animals ruled only by instinct and not capable of rational or reasoned thought. They only lash out from habit and learned behaviors. They a not able to think, only react. Train them, lead them, punish them, use them. But never speak to them as if they are actually capable of any true understanding or independent ability to follow the high levels o…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/15 08:10 AM
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By all means, go on a crusade and educate them. But don't be shocked when you don't get a lot of followers. Like I said, in real life not a lot of people seem to care past twenty or so. Correlation does not equal causation.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/15 05:14 AM
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Because some people can go their whole lives without dwelling on what a study said. Some can even live a happy life without reading any study at all. I admit I am a study reader. But it still doesn't influence my day to day life for most situations. And shockingly, when you get out in the real world, not too may people give a crap what science has to say about much of anything. The want to talk about fishing, or some kids softball game, or what is going on with work or even that steak they got l…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/15 05:01 AM
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OK it isn't the data that's skewed, but those quoting it. Since rp seems tohave this belief that the pair bonding only affects women and uses this study to back it up when there is no similar study on men. What if we find out that it affects men in the same way?.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/15 02:48 AM
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You get the data you skew for. Yep real scientific.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/15 01:49 AM
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That works when I am using a filter to actively search, somewhat. I can still get thousands of results to dig through in a small area. But who shows up on the first several pages is still a ' suggested list' or a ' top prospects' type matching,sometimes they rank them simply by who was on most recently. It really depends on the site. The main problem comes when they suggest me to others, and they rank me highly even though I'm so far away. And the suggested matching lists that they show to me th…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/15 03:32 PM
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I was more talking about the study and how a lot of people are interpreting the results into: Men think most women are good looking and women think few men are good looking. So I was agreeing with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/15 03:17 PM
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I can't speak for most women, but right now I am on dating sites. I never rate anyone until I have read their profile. I have rated very attractive guys very low simply because they don't interest me based on what they wrote. I have rated people far away, but otherwise attractive very low. I do not know for sure, but from all I can figure out these sites use certain algorithms to decide who to call your attention to or match you with. So I am trying to convince it to only show me people I will h…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/15 09:27 PM
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I don't think they are both right. I think parts of each are right but on the whole they are both wrong. You are right, I do explain it wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/15 08:53 PM
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/r/deadbedrooms is a small and unique sub. That type of relationship problem is not normal, and maybe shocking news to you, but actually not at all that common. I'm interested in what you would tell those women that frequent the sub due to their male partners refusal to have sex? That's been a growing problem. Ive been on that sub for a good two years now. You cite one example of dread fixing a db. Let me refer to the sub itself and site hundreds of time when it did not. When getting counseling …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/15 08:47 PM
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\Purple Pill Debate is a neutral community to discuss sex and gender issues, specifically those pertaining to /r/TheBluePill and /r/TheRedPill. From the sidebar \This sub is for people who believe "Red pill is an ideology and is full of toxic beliefs" to debate people who think "Red Pill is a praexelogy and is full of correct beliefs" in front of any non-aligned people who want to turn up browse or participate. Sorry my formatting is off today. Having a bit of trouble with this device. I do agre…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/15 02:38 PM
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Well put.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/15 02:21 PM
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Isn't word policing supposed to be a dirty feminazi tactic?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/15 02:17 PM
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Why are women unhappy? You write that as if you think all women are unhappy. What you are hearing is the local minority. Humans broadcast unhappiness, top stories in the news are almost always tragedy. It's rare a person will tell how happy they are unprovoked, we want to share warm fuzzy feelings but tend to express them in less than personal ways such as cat pics and jokes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/15 02:11 PM
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Then what do you call it when a man is the sub and the woman is the Dom and they are content living that lifestyle? What if that dynamic exists aside from sexual habits? It's hilarious to me that feminists, and not the extreme variety comparable to west Baptist church under the broad umbrella of Christianity, advotes for your freedom to choose the lifestyle that you find most attractive. Even if that is being a rpw. No one here would care how you want your relationships to play out if you didn't…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/15 01:57 PM
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If you want to boil it down, every human ( and quite a lot of non human) interaction is manipulation. Even the most banal interaction such as a cashier smiling at a customer. That's called social skills, one person being pleasant hoping another will return that. Dread goes too far. Trp advocates dread like its a magic key that will solve every problem when in reality they could, I don't know, treat them with some respect and dignity? And get much better and longer lasting results. There is a ref…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/15 01:48 PM
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Is this what this sub has become? I know I haven't been here for a while but since when does the extremely small sampling of partner counts in this sub actually mean anything?? Let's blow this debate right out of the water. Bp will say rp inflates their numbers ( trying to look studly) and rp will say bp is lying and the actual account is higher.( because that's what they say about all women anyway. Actual partner count is not the issue and has never been the issue. This sub was built on discuss…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/15 01:10 PM
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Just.. Okay. Look, are you a member of said culture you want to arrange the marriage in? No? Well let me tell you a few things. I am familiar with Indian and Arabic ( Muslim) cultures and people. You have about zero chance in hell of finding a virgin bride for an arranged marriage that is actually virgin, from a decent family, is attractive, doesn't have some sort of shameful and horrid family secret that make offloading her onto you a a viable option. These people are very strict on family and …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/15 11:19 AM
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Sex is a way for me to feel wanted and desired, why is this supposed to be men only? If I want to feel desired I can flirt with someone but that isn't very satisfying . You can have a relationship without feeling wanted and desired. Relationships for me are not just about sex, but about companionship. A togetherness that goes well beyond lust. Lust,( which should be a vital part of a relationship and which autocorrect is giving me a hard time with) is simply one part. Rp totally discounts trust,…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/15 04:37 AM
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Mine is ' if I was a woman' . you can dream up what you think would be ideal and never have to face the reality. It is easy to look at what you think should work and ignore what actually works for the people living it. More women are waiting till 30 to have kids so they can establish a career. Why is that? Because trying to get into a field or start a career at 30 is a lot harder, and having kids when you don't have a safety net and depend on a partner who might desert you is much harder,
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/15 11:45 PM
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I didn't think you would, but I did try.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/15 02:13 PM
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Those things have little to do with being in a relationship. Being in love,which I know women are supposedly not capable of feeling, ( sarcasm that way< )is literally your body drugging you. Apart from children, none of the examples you give even compare. Oxytocin makes you addicted to the source, not very good for making desicions for anyone, but someone with more experience of being under that influence will be more capable of ignoring it in case of bad shit. I like being and falling in love, …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/15 01:55 PM
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I keep hearing this argument like someone put a gun to guys heads and told them date these women or die. You can just take a pass ya know? And dating profiles in general, at least the ones that look for a serious relationship, will be full of demands as you call them. It helps because they give you a very tiny space to let others know why you wouldn't date them. I would not want to waste my time dating someone allergic to animals because Ihave a dog. I won't consider getting rid of my dog so you…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/15 12:24 PM
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You are the one posting links to actual relationships with a large age gap. That is not ' just finding them attractive'. That is way beyond just looking. The ' shaming' as you call it has to do with a gap in maturity and experience and power balances in a relationship. No 20 yr old has much of that figured out, most barely have a job and have little experience even living on their own. Maleor female, doesn't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/15 12:17 PM
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Actually virginity and magic are kindof global beliefs. Only a virgin can catch and tame a unicorn, a witch ( sorcerer or sorceress ) lose thier powers if they lose their virginity. Never having sex supposedly equals a higher spiritual understanding or proof of dedication re nuns and monks. There is just too much info and beliefs on this subject to put into words right now. What is all boils down to, is that sex is supposedly worldly, animalistic, having to do with nature ( the real world) and d…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/15 07:13 AM
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Blue huh? Must remember to pick up hair dye. I'm not brave enough for tattoos and piercings.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/15 10:24 AM
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I can and will talk to anyone anytime and anyplace. I enjoy dozens of peasant conversations and have even gotten numbers and made friends that way. I never assume anyone is a dumb slut or stupid unless they prove otherwise. Sorry, I learned to be social through a public desk job. Not by giving myself a superiority complex. You don'thave to become a shitty human to be social. I used to be the quietest and most shy person. I can talk to anyone because I honestly don't want anything but a few minut…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/15 10:23 AM
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Do you care that much about how every other person thinks of you? Be a decent person, ya know just because the world can be more pleasant. But be honest, you don't care what the fat old lady in the checkout line thinks of you cause you don't want anything from her.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/15 10:01 AM
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Force dates? Guys can say no to that shit if they want. But most humans have a drive to find long term mates, not just a quickie in a bathroom. Even in social casual, we want people that we can get to know, care for, and trust. Stranger danger is not a new concept, or even one exclusive to one gender. There's some biotruths for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/15 09:55 AM
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Your average woman does not want to use her sexuality to get things from men. These guys that are all over a woman walking down the street offering her rides and shit are scary as fuck to a woman that weighs much less and has far less strength. Your average woman wants a man to want her and love her despite her so called virtues of boobs and ass. You don't get that from random catcalls. Its not a favor. A mans sexuality has plenty of worth. But if he is a socially incompetent jackass that worth …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/15 09:46 AM
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Condoms.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/15 01:08 AM
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See my other comment. I don't think they understand how deeply ingrained this is.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/15 11:36 PM
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Okay. I feel like you asking this is just not understanding the behavior. First, kids and babies are cute by design. Evolution says they are helpless and will die easily without a caretaker. So they have traits appealing enough to make you want to care for them. Large eyes, fuzziness, cute smiles, they seek to charm you. Nearly all babies have this cute factor that draws on our instincts to feed care and protect. If they didn't we would have just left them in the forest to die for all the shit, …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/15 11:09 PM
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Yeah cause making your so laugh has nothing to do with attraction. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/15 12:13 PM
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Penis size does not correlate to playfulness. Do you really believe that a measurement of one body part determines self confidence and bonding behaviors? That stuff has way more to do with mind than body.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/15 12:10 PM
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You are questioning the nature of trolls, who would operate much the same no matter where on the internet they may be. Rp and bp are just easy targets. The vast majority of people on both do want a reasoned debate, it only takes a dozen trolls out of the hundreds of thousands to make any sub seem full of them. Stop feeding them and they will stop showing up. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FMEe7JqBgvg
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/15 02:14 AM
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I fail to see where they get sued? It is just ads for plastic surgery.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/15 03:08 PM
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You might find it useful to spend some time on /r/sex I think you may be in the wrong circles for a good sex life. Conservative and religious are usually how you describe your experiences with women. I hope you find more like minded partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/15 04:53 PM
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Yes some women just don't realize sex is supposed to be fun, not something to be endured. But let's reality check here. Growing up I saw ton of women's magazines and in nearly all there is a running column on how to please your man in bed. Ten mind blowing moves you should try this week, give him the best sex of his life. Tutorial after tutorial on how to give a blow job, hand job, flex your kegels, deep throat like a porn star, take it up the ass like a champ, leave him drooling for more. I'm i…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/15 03:00 PM
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That is not why people hate trp. Dont even pretend to such ignorance.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/15 04:59 AM
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This sounds a bit stereotypical, but that happens because people can fit those slots. K is the woman most rp guys have dated ( my opinion incoming here). She is a princess user that has not learned to be responsible for her own actions. She has good intentions but doesnt know how to get good results. She sounds immature and if you keep her around you are going to have to watch her downfall, you already know this. You are not responsible for her and you cant save her. I want to say you are not he…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/15 01:46 PM
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This is why he attracts women that only want casual sex. They already know they can dip out at any time and not have guilting 3 am texts and sobbing phone conversations. What better kind of guy to have casual sex with? He wont stalk you to your work and leave 'what did i do wrong, why dont you love me????' notes on your car. He may text you a booty call, but wont give a fuck if you dont respond. Hes a human masturbatory tool to these women, and uses them in the same way. They are both just fine …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/15 11:31 AM
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There is no emotional investment in a fuckbuddy. There is only ' hey you are not a crazy killer, lets have sex and then gtfo till i get horny enough to dial your number again. '. Where is the intimacy in that? This is why i dont do casual, i want a long term connection. You got your wires crossed. Women dont have 'nice guy' casual sex because nice guys are not so eager to leave when the sexing is over. Casual sex is for people that * DO NOT WANT A RELATIONSHIP *. Why do 'nice guys' not understan…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/15 11:22 AM
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Beaten dogs tend to overrespond to the slightest affection. When its all the enjoyment you are getting, it seems more that it really is. Coming from an abusive relationship myself, it still confuses me a bit. The best way i can explain is trying to keep the good times rolling was sure more of a priority than letting boredom or even disagreement happen. Because that is when the scary horrible shit happens. It isnt that they want more sex, i know i just wanted not screaming at me for hours because…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/15 10:38 AM
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Women are 'lied to' with these hollywood fantasies too. The whole someone will love you for who you are, just sit right there in your fantasy box and change nothing' applies to everyone. I think a huge problem is that people in general have a hard time distinguishing between entertainment and reality. There is extremely little reality on media, reality tends to be mundane and boring. I really question any philosophy that claims to have all the answers. They tend to be very flawed. I am not the '…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/15 06:29 AM
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That is not the feminist narrative. That is the mainstream media, feel good, disney morality narrative. It makes great television but is still fiction. People spout that line because they have no idea what else to say and they dont want to make you feel worse. Kind of like no one knowa what to say at a funeral. Rp has one redeeming quality. They will stand up and tell you you are a fat lazy fuck off and will remain so if you dont get off your ass and do something about it. That is a painful trut…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/15 06:31 AM
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Do you read that sub? Those men have a desire for intimacy from a willing partner. Very few men want a crying struggling terrified non consenting partner. I believe at it's core, rape is about degradation. The desire to make someone terrified. Not about wanting to be wanted which is a major theme in db. Rapist want that fear.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/15 08:14 AM
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I love it when they blame laws on feminists when the laws were in place a ridiculous amount of years before the feminist movement even existed. Laws made by men. Since of course women could not hold any office or political power before they got the vote. That 'original sin' is still powerful stuff. Just blame women, since we all know a mythical woman is the reason we dont all live in a fantasy world of perfection where there is nothing but love. If only that whore handnt been hungry, we would al…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/15 12:03 PM
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By the time women got the vote, all men already had been able to vote. Landowners or not. I think you are confusing your history. We have not had peon class since medieval times. Peons were a slave class, needing permission to engage in trade or even to travel. Sharecroppers were free men. Yes it was a form of wage slavery, but nothing but their own will prevented them from walking away any time they wished. And at that time a few supplies and a long ass walk would put them in country they could…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/15 11:55 AM
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No skin in the game? When it is our husbands, fathers, sons, and brothers? Our friends, teachers, and family?? Historically, women are not accepted in war. And historically, women on the losing side did not get the dignity or 'glory' of dying a quick death on the battlefield. Instead women get enslaved, raped, and tortured. Now of course, war is not fought in america. Politics are the reason for war. It is not right that anyone, male or female, should be forced to fight in a war they have no wis…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/15 10:18 AM
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I am saying you cant prevent it. No matter what you do. What is a lock when a window can be broken? Even alarms dont stop houses from getting robbed. But most people dont rob houses. Most people do not cheat. Cheating is a mate selection problem, and a keeping a good relationship problem. Someone that is not a cheater and is happy in a relationship wont cheat. Dread game makes people jealous, feel like you dont care, and makes them unhappy. The reaction dread game gets is a temporary effect and …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/15 11:25 PM
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So the proper way to be able to trust someone and prevent them from cheating, is to shake their trust in you by hinting that you will cheat? Wtf?? Trying to ensure against any such thing is a fallacy. How about you prove to me that you didnt murder anyone today? Should i prevent you from killing someone by hinting that i would or did?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/15 02:22 PM
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What exactly do you mean by that statement? Consuming alcohol, or anything at all in a public place carries a tiny risk that some crazy person will try to slip something into it. Forget date rape drugs for a second, think about how many reports there have been of spiking someones coffee in an office, putting stuff in someones drink or food at work. Some people are fucking crazy. So someone comes up with a tool that is easy to carry and use, so people cantry to avoid consuming tainted foods and d…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/15 02:02 PM
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Since we have a sub for that, i invite anyone curious to explore the situations in /r/raisedbynarcissists Self interest and self promotion is natural and a survival tool. N's though, are only interested in their own, and not the complementing survival tool of empathy. Humans evolved to live and work together to produce the best lifestyle, that means making sure those with you also have needs filled.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/15 01:30 PM
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There was also a woman from a tribe that married a.. missionary or photographer, cant remember. Lived with him for years in someplace like new york. She left him to return to her tribe. There are many examples of that happening, some go back, some do not. Not all the tribes live in misery, some prefer the freedom and what they grew up with rather than our high tech life. There are many tribes on the edge, they know what we have and move between the lifestyles. Even act as guides and sell what th…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/14 09:13 AM
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You said in the modern world. A misunderstanding there then. There are uncontacted tribes, we cannot know how they feel about the lives they live. Many contacted tribes however, are plenty happy. There are even people born in mud huts that work and live in modern situations, that choose to return to mud huts. Some do not, but some do. I think the phrase 'good situation' is relative to those making the actual choice
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/14 05:26 AM
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Which ones? I admit it was rather stupid to build an african style hut in northern america ( an article i read once) it simply cannot handle the different weather. But if you do build for the location, a straw bale or cob house can be better to live in than a modern home.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/14 05:07 AM
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I beg to differ. Zoning laws, construction standards. No one will give a building permit for a mud hut. Even modern straw bale or cob houses have a hard time getting built over legal objections. Next you will say just move to another country. Sure, but do not forget about how hard it is just to get citizenship.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/14 05:02 AM
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Trees are not the only, or even main source of fuel for many tribal situations. Dung is the main source where there are few trees, and is plenty sustainable.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/14 04:58 AM
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Cannibalism is a social construct. It is also largely symbolic and not the main source of protein in cultures that do practice it. Forced situations are due to starvation,and are short lived ( no pun intended) otherwise it is ritualistic consuming of 'power' of enemies. Unless a group is in crisis, it is far easier to get meat from other sources than humans. Humans tend to not want to be killed, and fight back killing attackers. Any society that consumed people on a regular basis would soon run …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/14 04:47 AM
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The two cultures given as examples are still viable. I fail to see where they have been enslaved or killed off? And you really think people have never been willing to die for the freedom from exploitation? Do you not know any history at all??
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/14 04:24 AM
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I would argue that first, the grass hut lifestyle is probably not all that bad. A bit more work you can see the direct results of, much less people living in starvation, and effort is directed in directly beneficial pursuits. I might be willing to trade my own life in for that. Modern means we live by strict timetables not of our own making. Imagine feeling like staying home or taking a bit of a daytrip for fun. I cannot do that now without some risk of losing a job or coming up short for bills.…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/14 02:25 AM
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If only 5.2% of CEO jobs have been taken by women, then why are you complaining? Your statement seemed like women were taking all or even most of the jobs. So once again, how are women preventing men from doing anything when only one out of twenty in the highest paid jobs are women? And you think 4 years is actually enough to regulate the numbers? How long does the average ceo stay in the same job? Probably more than 4 years. Why should male or female only scholarships even exist? They should be…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/14 08:19 PM
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The corporations own the government. Any 'laws' that get passed 'forcing' businesses to hire one gender over the other are just a sop to public outrage, which, incidentally, such 'outrage' is a tepid shitstorm brewed by the general media. Which the corporations own. Corporations will do what is good for their profit margins. If that means stirring up muck, raking themselves through the coals, then paying lipservice to appease the masses then they will do that to keep us from paying attention to …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/14 02:04 PM
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What women are fucking over guys that have drive and ambition? Just because women see a way to get those sweet sweet beta bux for themselves without all the hassle of dealing with the menz? Does being born with a penis give you the lock on creating and civilization building? Does a vagina majically kill all drive and ambition? All i hear from you is a distant echo of 'they took our jjerbs!!!'. If you are really that mad that women are in industries that you think they have no business being in, …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/14 12:56 PM
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If windshield wipers had never been invented, you wouldnt need to have them for a car inspection. Damn wominz have to complicate shit because they dont like crashing their cars in the rain. If we are gonna feed the trolls lets fatten em up.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/14 12:37 PM
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Yep. Because they dont make vibrators and women dont have hands. Really the 'bored' got to me worse. We women have so little to do that we have to go through what you wrote just for entertainment. Or ya know, we could just have some netflix or actual lives that keep us busy enough without putting everyone through all that grief. I can see it happening, if a woman has a history of hearing voices and has spent or needs to spend a whole like of time in a mental institution and *really needs a whole…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/14 12:27 PM
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I think you need to actually meet and talk with some women. At least some that do not have serious mental issues. Rape in marriage happens most often when there is already serious violence going on. Even then few women report it due to fear of more violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/14 06:25 AM
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Only vicariously if we spend all our time debating the sex lives and personal relationships of those we will never have contact with.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/14 08:42 PM
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How much of it have you watched? 99% of the cases are people just not bothering to train the dog, and then yelling for help. He even says he 'trains humans'. If you do not want to dog on the couch, do not let him on the couch. These people do not even try until they get on tv. Extremely overweight dog that begs at the table and grabs food off your plate? Well that was cute when it was a puppy so they kept feeding when puppy begged and created positive reinforcement for begging. Then they call fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/14 01:29 PM
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Maybe it is victim blaming. It probably is. I have known many men that have went their whole lives without any hint of a rape allegation. I have known many women that have went their whole lives without making any allegations themselves. So to do a bit of victim blaming. It is a bad thing because it often helps nothing about the situation. But in some cases it can. I will say that you may have poor judgement and have ignored some major red flags or failed to realize they were there. But you are …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/14 06:13 PM
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Any person with a very high partner count is more likely to not make an emotional connection with sex. A man that has had sex with 50 people is less likely to want a relationship to last and the same goes for women. Just because you would high five the man and tell the woman she is a terrible human does not mean the man is not also a terrible human. Or maybe neither is terrible and they are pursuing fun in their own way. Why does one have to be put down for wanting the same as the other? Why sho…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/14 05:14 PM
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My comment was for this implied above that saying no meant there was a serious relationship problem. Saying no to sex does not always mean there is an issue with the other person, or that some kind of sick bargaining is going on, which is a heavy theme in trp. Sometimes people are not visibly sick/in pain/ utterly stressed or worn out. (Serious) does your never say no extend that far? This is not an attack, i am only seeking understanding of your own personal stance. Do not misunderstand me plea…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/14 07:51 PM
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So if at any time, for any reason, sex is not on the table then there must be a huge relationship problem? What world do you live in where no one ever gets sick, or injured, or just has such a messed up busy and stressful time in their life that sex is not something that should be happening for the wellbeing of people involved? You sound like the kind of person that doesnt care if someone is all screwed up with the flu. 'Nope, must have orgasm or else our relationship must be on its deathbed'. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/14 10:27 AM
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A lot of people do not see in coming, especially from the inside of a relationship. Seeing something as being 'off' is much easier from the outside ( more objective) view. And op is speaking about things ending in maybe less of an explosive way. A friend cheats on another friend? Bang, the whole town knows and hears about it. Two people just sort of drift apart? You may not even know it happened until they have already moved on.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/14 06:10 AM
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Last week I was looking at pictures of my husband on Facebook and found one of his ex's. She was freaking gorgeous. Like model-status beautiful. As in she is LITERALLY A MODEL and does it for a living. I instantly felt it. The insecurity. The jealousy. "Is he just settling for me? He could do so much better. How am I supposed to know he actually wants me for me and won't leave as soon as something better comes along? He has obviously had way better." I am going to just chime in on looks vs subst…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/14 01:40 AM
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More later, need to get some things done. For more on my thoughts, read back in my comments or check my gilded rant on the subject.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/14 11:59 PM
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I would say pp strives for balance. Between the rp extreme of 'women are basically talking animals' and the supposed bp (which does not have any representation here by my own standards). Rp has some good messages in self improvement. Without that message of 'be a better person yourself, get healthy, take care of you.' They would have no real following. If someone tried to give you rp ideas, but said you could meet people without leaving the house, while putting in no effort at all, you probably …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/14 11:57 PM
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That is what it is for. But the blue pill sub is not at all about 'blue pill' ideals. Blue pill does not even truly exist as a viewpoint. Red pill created the idea, and the supposed ideals ( strawman enemy). Tbp sub came about as a parody, and a reaction to rp. Srs would be much closer to 'blue pill' as defined by the creators of the concept, except that it too is a circlejerk and a parody. Purple pill exists as its own group, with its own collective ideals. In other words, if dating and 'sexual…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/14 07:24 PM
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Million dollar question right here.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/14 06:45 AM
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Everyone wants attention. If you did not, you would never be on sites that let you talk to others. Validation, for what exactly? That she is sexy? Probably not. That she is a human hoping to make a connection with some other human? If she is good looking she can get talk like that anywhere. Women ( mostly) want you to be interested in more than their looks. You know what she looks like, but are you interested in anything else about her? Maybe she wants just sex and is trying to make sure you are…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/14 06:43 AM
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Why do people keep quoting or even bringing up the blue pill sub? If you actually read it, it is 99% circlejerk. This is not at all representative of most women. Read /r/sex. That is more in touch with reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/14 06:27 AM
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Only in rp fantasies. That was an example of what red pill claims blue pill would say. It is a often repeated theme of what women in general do constantly. This is the internet. I have no doubt that somewhere,someone is giving out that kind of advice. But in no way does it represent majority advice. Red pill will ( and does) claim that such shittyness is instinct for women.( awalt, all women are like that). It is cherry picking the worst of human nature so when they pull their own horrible crap …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/14 02:17 AM
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Most /r/relationships updates (which I often read) are positive "Well I did it, dumped him/her, hit the gym and am working on myself" (at least the final updates are). The panic is in the FIRST post, not the update. You and i may have different definitions of what makes a 'happy' post. A breakup is not a happy post to me. No matter how badly the relationship needed to end, it is still an awful heartbreaking and emotional time for the op. By the update, panic mode may well be over. That does not …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/14 04:07 PM
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I am not rp, but you are ignorant. ( note what that word means, it is not an insult) While quite a bit of rp is morally repugnant, you can at least pay attention and learn what is 'actual theory' and what is 'anger phase' trolling from new people. After a while, it is quite easy to spot and efforts are being made to ban users from trp for this behavior. I was once where you are at. I was also in my own 'anger phase' of hating all men at one pointi got over it and have become far more balanced. Y…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/14 07:11 AM
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We are giving them confidence. All their lives they've been told that they need to be subservient to women. That they need to act beta and please everyone around them. We're telling them to be proud that they are a man, that they can make decisions for themselves, that they aren't slaves to their biology, and that they are free to do what they want. Men who discover TRP for the first time desperately need that boost. Change men to women, and women to men. Now look back many years ago. This is ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/14 04:41 AM
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Sales tactics do not work on me either. But i believe this is because i recognize them for what they are. When i go to buy a car for example, i go with a set number to spend, and having already pretty well decided what i want. It is not easy to sway me at this point. A salesman would do well to just grab the paperwork and start filling out what they need to get my money. It takes little to no effort to give me what i ask for, so trying to sell me something else is pointless unless they have what…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/14 04:16 AM
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I hang around /r/deadbedrooms quite a bit and have for a few years. I think you and a lot of people have misunderstood the whole 'communicate' thing. The problem is BP advice isn't shut up and say nothing, rather its talk to her about how this makes you feel. And you are right, this does not work. You are right. You cannot negotiate desire. But this advice has it backwards. Two people, in a loving and in a lots of sex relationship. One persons desire drops, the other 'explains how this makes the…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/14 03:22 AM
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It should not feel like a job interview. But it should be taken seriously. I feel like too many people overlook serious flaws in compatibility during the first few dates. I would be interested in having you explain these more reliable methods in screening dates. (Serious question, i welcome an expanding of knowledge). For me, sitting down in a casual setting with someone face to face has always seemed the most reliable way.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/14 06:44 AM
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No, it isnt dead. Did you happen to catch this? http://www.reddit.com/r/PunchingMorpheus/comments/2jws5n/deconstructing_an_adversarialabusive_relationship/ Do you see how not everything on trp is representative of the truth? How at least one person distorts facts? ( read the post, the link when you reach it, then the rest of the post, then check the comments for the rest of the story). It is so easy to make up or twist things to get the sympathy you seek. Plenty of posts on any sub are made up. …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/14 06:15 AM
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It is confusing, but you did make sense enough out of it. I am not a lawyer ( and would love an explanation from one) i have studied law on my own some ( no classes, just reading what was available to me). Law is confusing at best. Legal matters in the us are always a work in progress, and can be up for many interpretations. Exact meaning of statutes are forever changing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/14 03:56 AM
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I have said it before and it bears repeating. A date is an interview. For a relationship. If you do not take that as seriously as a business interview, well you end up with the wrong person for the position you are looking to fill.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/14 03:37 AM
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The standard for evidence in cases using affirmative defence is always very high.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/14 03:16 AM
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Sure ask the fisherman. But somewhere along the line of pass it on, one of them sat and watched the fish to see how the behaved and what they tried and didnt try to eat. Knowledge is observation and is a science. Blindly following what others tell you is religion. I think even rp will agree with me here, the exact same approach does not work exactly the same for all people. If it did, there would be one standard pickup line and it would work on all available women. But we are a varied species, s…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/14 04:43 AM
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This is a key point to any relationship, dishonesty is the worst behavior. Awareness can also be just keeping your mouth shut. Why the need to lie unless you are trying to gain something through deceit? Lies are deliberate attempts to gain. Red pill despises women for being liars, but when a 'alpha' man does it this is a good thing? Better the honest asshole than the lying charmer. It is far less damaging to all involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/14 07:21 PM
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So, what you are saying is that alpha and beta are two sides of the same coin, one just hides it better? Both think the woman in your scenario is worthless, one just lies to get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/14 02:52 PM
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I was not referencing nose rings. More that rp claims women only go after certain traits in men ( looks, money) and it is encouraged to only look for certain traits in women (primarily looks). If a woman pursues a strictly sexual relationship it is 'bad' and she is getting 'used up'. If a man does the same he is being 'alpha'. If a woman chooses a man for shallow reasons and that is wrong, why is it also not wrong for a man to choose a woman for shallow reasons? I think this is at the core of rp…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/14 10:20 AM
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Trp judges women as a whole. Period. A perfect ten virgin that has never been allowed to leave her room and knows only subservience with a smile is the highest standard. It just goes downhill from there. They call normal everyday women with jobs and good relationships deceitful whores (pretty much, when the cock carousel gets referenced nearly every post) that are incapable of love or honesty. So a woman with a few body modifications is pretty much the last stop before straight evil. I am making…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/14 01:15 AM
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If this happens often, i suggest you ask her to get into therapy or at least see a doctor. Yes women ( i am one) sometimes seem to get emotional for no reason. I can cry for several reasons, being overtired ( i have insomnia and sometimes only get a few hours... or less.. sleep a night) or highly frustrated top my list of 'crying for no obvious reason'. Other reasons i personally get emotional are usually pretty obvious. I honestly cannot remember crying for any reason ( other that tired/ frustr…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/14 06:07 AM
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I should have said dont just chalk it up to only an example of feminisim. There are crazy sects in every group. The stereotypes are the most harmful ideas. Even i do not want to be called a feminist, as such is now a dirty word. But there are feminists that are not the bra burning anti children, man hating people you think of when that word pops up. Just as mens rights doesnt always mean women hating pro rapists. We live too much with catch phrases and buzzwords and neglect the messages of indiv…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/14 06:32 AM
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It is backlash. You see women being put down as 'sluts and whores, ugly lesbians, fat bitches' just as much if not more often. You do see some people calling it out, but overall that is pretty rare unless you are in women oriented subs. I do not agree with put downs from either side but it is no surprise to me that name calling takes over. There are social engineering reasons that many use but do not understand. It is a basic devaluing of a persons stance or self that the herd mentality caters t…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/14 11:55 PM
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Oh, so sorry my 3am rantings are not up to your grammatical standards. Really why even bother commenting if you are not after the actual conversation? I am fully aware that i go off on a point and disregard making the words pretty. You contribute in a useful way to a topic, while mostly asleep, on some rather fun painkillers and other sundry medications ( one day out of the hospital) while typing everything out on a slideout keyboard that refuses to capitalize the letter i and without the benefi…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/14 03:21 AM
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Agreed. I know my mistakes were from simple inexperience. A lot of young people and new to dealing with relationships people have no clue what reasonable expectations are. It took me a long time to figure that out to be honest. I want to add, if you do not want to be 'that guy' learn to keep your mouth shut. Hearing a guy put down other women for enjoying sex, or talking about strangers or any women in a degrading and disrespectful manner is a huge turn off. That is something that sets an expect…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/14 01:50 PM
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I will throw out a guess from my own experience. I was like this with a guy once. I came to realize later that i did indeed want far more adventurous sex, but would never but comfortable getting wild and dirty with him. It was because he was a judgemental prick. He had said several times in the beginning how 'only sluts do that' and made jokes with his friends about 'whores that get nasty in bed'. Even jokes about random women on the street, exes, some woman on tv could be about 'what a slut/who…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/14 04:46 AM
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You really should take years of training if you want to be good with a knife. Honestly mace is much safer for you. Anyone that has committed to attacking you will probably be okay with taking a few cuts rather than stop or get caught easily, and will be even more pissed off by them. Mace at least gives you a time window of shock, pain, and surprise to get away. Untrained you are very unlikely to do enough damage to deter an attacker, and even more unlikely to get away without having the knife tu…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/14 02:50 AM
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http://www.reddit.com/r/pussypass in trp sidebar. Or am i supposed to ask that of the above commenter? I remeber reading studies pertaining to those stats in the past. Incarceration rates for men are much higher than for women. So too the statistics for drug abuse, although from personal experience women use as often as men, but are more cautious about getting caught and take fewer risks on average that lead to confrontation with the law. The last though is only anecdotal, and from what i have s…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/14 02:41 AM
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I have seen these questions many times. Trp answer is usually somewhere along the lines that women 'get a pass' on bad behavior because vagina.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/14 12:32 AM
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I can advise a female friend about not trusting a husband surrounded by hot promiscuous women daily with "he's a man", but I cannot advise a male friend about not trusting a wife surrounded by hot men daily with "she's a woman". Why give any advice in generalities? This is what is wrong with both radical rp and radical feminist. Not all people will cheat. You can and should ( when you know the people involved) advise ' this person cheated in the past, so i would not trust them around hot members…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/14 02:36 AM
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