juddshanks Archive

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3	Repost - "Please TRP my girl is about to go on a walk/go drink coffee with another man what do I do?" Yeah, instructions unclear, do you specifically have to pronounce it 'aight then' for this tip to work? And couldn't this whole post just be condensed down to 'she's not yours, it's just your turn?' I think if you feel the need to run game on someone in a LTR, you're doing it wrong. If you're not happy with her spending one to one time with another guy, say so, once, be clear it's not up for negotiation and be prepared to leave if she does. And If you don't mind what she does because you're also…	/r/TheRedPill	29/07/22 08:03 AM
5	I thought you all might enjoy this old experience Yep its weird to respond to this by bitching about lack of morals amongst women or societal problems or something- like what's the alternative world you want to live in? At the end of the day people are wired to want to fuck attractive people, because it makes evolutionary sense to bang the best looking genetic specimen they can find. That's true of women and its true of men- if there's a biological basis for difference its that females tend to fixate on the absolute most attractive whereas men …	/r/TheRedPill	04/07/22 10:50 AM
2	absolutely shattered At 21, if you have a clear goal for your life and are working towards it your parents are probably already extremely proud of you (when you're not getting obliterated and posting mopey streams of consciousness on internet forums). There will come a time when you can help them, but if you asked most parents what they want the most its not material things, its seeing that their kids are happy, making sensible decisions and on the right path. Personal growth is a marathon, not a sprint.	/r/TheRedPill	29/06/22 11:39 PM
-9	They seek to control our language. Don't let them. Ironically, if you based a diet on large amounts of soy in the form of tofu and drank kale smoothies with some extra protein powder whilst working out regularly you actually would end up jacked, or at least brad pit in snatch levels of shredded. Tofu and kale are both very low calories, very low fat, with a lot of fibre and good nutrients to keep you feeling full and a fairly decent sources of plant based protein. Thanks woke google!	/r/TheRedPill	17/06/22 02:19 PM
50	They seek to control our language. Don't let them. Guys who get wound up about woke culture are in my experience often as exhausting to listen to as people promoting woke culture. Far too often, blaming the woke bogeym̶a̶n̶person for your lack of success is just an excuse for your own bad choices. If google want to waste money on an idiotic woke algorithm, how exactly does it affect you? Does it stop you developing the skills and ability you need to make money and be successful? Does it stop you working out or looking after your body? Does it ro…	/r/TheRedPill	17/06/22 03:54 AM
54	Some Cold Approach Expectations Don't feel bad if you approach 200 women, you only get 1 (0.5% success rate). The more you play the numbers game, the more you improve over time. Cold approaching every so often as a way to build confidence and lose fear of failure = fine. Developing the confidence to take calculated risks when the odds are in your favour is part of becoming successful, not just with women but in all aspects of your personal and professional life. But cold approaching hundreds, getting rejected by 99% and feelin…	/r/TheRedPill	25/05/22 07:19 AM
3	A wise man learns from himself Sort of agree with this, but for slightly different reasons. One of my favourite movie moments is in Creed, when Rocky points the title character in the direction of a full length mirror and tells him that his toughest opponent is standing right in front of him. That is so true, in the sense that everything that holds you back, makes you underachieve or settle or do stupid or self destructive things is inside you. Self improvement is a constant war of your mind, body and motivation against your …	/r/TheRedPill	30/01/22 05:18 PM
16	Take back your motivation - The Dopamine Truth The OP was a great read. Another thing to pay close attention to is layering. Layering different kinds of (high) dopamine actions will make things even more fun but will also fuck up your baseline levels. Its interesting how much this supports philosophical concepts like mindfulness and 'living in the moment' which have been around a long time before anyone understood the brain chemistry which underlies them. Ie if you do decide you are going to do anything which involves dopamine release, it is…	/r/TheRedPill	13/12/21 02:41 AM
5	Habit Formation: The most important conversation you’ll have. I think the effect it has on your internal monologue is one of the reasons habit stepping is so effective. I've been on an off a weights regime for most of my adult life- same story again and again, it gets too hard, you lose motivation, you skip a day and say you'll make it up, etc. About 9 months ago I decided to take a slightly different tack based on some things I'd read on here- I started by doing one basic, easy dumbbell exercise, which took all of 30 seconds to do a set, and just saying, …	/r/TheRedPill	12/12/21 05:37 AM
52	I Have Other People For That Good read, and a great indicator of how rp done right is not about being an ass or manipulating women into things they don't want to do- its about understanding what they really want from a man and delivering. That sounds like a solid FWB arrangement with a girl who is realistic about what the deal is. It's not really socially acceptable to say so, but often intense grief or trauma makes people want to fuck, and in it's own way you've probably helped her through a difficult time.	/r/TheRedPill	26/08/20 03:28 AM
2	Fuck a cuck Yep..my god, so much rage and so much fear. The only reason to get angsty over a girl you're seeing looking hot in public is because you doubt you are high enough value to keep her interest if other guys make a move. Which means there is one insecure needy bitch in the relationship and its you.	/r/TheRedPill	11/08/20 01:22 PM
2	Is cold approach worth it? My take after thousands of approaches I think doing a few cold approaches is worthwhile as a method to develop a thicker skin and beat the fear of failure out of you. If you're naturally an anxious person, it can be good for you for that reason. But yeah, if you're using it as your primary method of picking up, you're totally missing the point. If you're outgoing, have a social life and are reasonably high value, opportunities will start to present themselves.	/r/TheRedPill	28/06/20 03:09 PM
6	Forgiving Your Father It is really interesting reading everyone's different stories. Everyone red pills for different reasons, but I reckon one of the best reasons is to ensure if you're ever a dad yourself, you do it right. If you're strong, confident and have self respect, you're going to do a way better job of parenting your kids. You're going to be a better provider, you're going to have a stronger relationship with your spouse and you're going to be able to parent your child by leading through example rather tha…	/r/TheRedPill	20/06/20 11:51 PM
2	One Key Ingredient to Becoming a Slayer I think a lot of guys who end up taking TRP start off from a position of depression. People who know something is not right are more willing to embrace change. Something which I think is critical to your mental wellbeing, and really one of the last steps on the journey is just this- learn to be a kind person. Before anyone's heads explode, A lot of bluepill people grow up being nice for reasons which aren't actually all that nice. They do it because they want a girl to like them, or to make frie…	/r/TheRedPill	17/06/20 11:13 AM
6	Sometimes you can't save your friends from being used This comes up in a million different situations in life, at the end of the day you have to let people make their own mistakes. As a general rule, if you think someone you're close to is making a big mistake, you can try to give them advice once, but if they don't follow it really all you can do is remain supportive if/when it turns to shit. There's no point in repeating yourself- it's a waste of your time and energy and all it will do is damage your friendship.	/r/TheRedPill	10/06/20 12:12 AM
10	The Best Way to Learn Red Pill Theory Like most of the rest of the planet I've been bingeing last dance these last few weeks. MJ is surely the alpha to end all alphas and I think there are a few highly applicable lessons from his life. The first, most important thing is to succeed at anything, you have to get rid of any fear of failure. Whether its career, relationships, physique and everything else just stop worrying about whether you're going to be good enough and get out there and compete. Get shot down and laughed at by a bunch …	/r/TheRedPill	22/05/20 01:20 PM
9	The Problem of Marriage Yep the whole point of TRP is high value is high value whatever the setting. I hate reading posts on here which tell people how they are and arent supposed to think. If you're a real man you'll objectively assess what matters to you and make your own decisions, not base it on several stream of consciousness pages by someone wanting to justify their own choices and convince themselves anyone who isn't living as a bachelor must be deluded or miserable. Look, if you want to spend your life slaying …	/r/TheRedPill	22/05/20 04:00 AM
81	Maladaptive Time Perspectives: Why "Live In The Moment" Is Bad Advice. Yep a better way of explaining 'live in the moment' is 'give whatever you're doing your absolute focus.' If you're lifting, give all your attention to that, if you're doing something important at work, give all your attention to that, and yes, if you're on the couch about to drink a beer or smash a pizza you might as well focus all your attention on enjoying that. It doesn't give you a licence to make shitty decisions or fail to plan, but there's something to be said for reducing sensory inputs …	/r/TheRedPill	20/05/20 04:29 AM
3	Do Women Have An Advantage On Online Dating? (Tinder, OkCupid, Bumble etc) You're right, that is really really sad. Why the fuck would you think that was a good use of time?	/r/TheRedPill	19/05/20 11:46 AM
1	Red Pill Rage makes you look petty. Yep i cringe when i read a lot of the 'fuck all those bitches' stuff on here, it just serves no purpose. If you understand women have their own set of biological drivers it shouldnt lead to you hating them or demeaning them- if anything when you to understand there are some basic evolutionary reasons why they act the way they act, it should make it far easier to form strong relationships with them even in obviously non sexual work or family situations. Put another way, if you offered a female at…	/r/TheRedPill	18/05/20 03:27 PM
1	Red Pill Rage makes you look petty. Yep that's all there is to it. A lot of guys start out on here angry at women, angry at the world or angry at other guys who seem to get naturally what comes hard to them. There's nothing wrong with channelling that anger to give you the kick you need to start self improvement, but fundamentally anger is a symptom of powerlessness and lack of control. As you start to take control of your life you shouldn't really have anything left to be angry about.	/r/TheRedPill	18/05/20 03:14 PM
8	Meghan Markle, another case of classical hypergamy in the making Time will tell if we are correct, but I think the precise moment Harry agreed to give up his life, move to canada and relinquish his titles for her is the precise moment he guaranteed there'd be a divorce within 12-18 months tops. Without the title he's a pudgy balding redhead following her around the world like a puppydog.	/r/TheRedPill	06/04/20 05:04 AM
2	Dear TRP: You were right This makes a lot of sense and its why letting yourself go (whether it be emotionally, physically, financially) is so destructive to a relationship. If you're just lowish SMV to begin with you might luck out and find a higher value partner with terminally low self confidence or just some unpredictable reason she decides you're right for her. But if your SMV drops during the relationship, she knows she can do better than you- because she was with a better version of you.	/r/TheRedPill	07/01/20 12:34 AM
9	When I realized the last year of my life has been a lie Great post. Once you accept people will usually act to fulfill their own wants, life is way simpler. And honestly, it's not something to get cunty about, once you acknowledge and accept that's the way the world works, its far easier to have happy relationships, you just need to make sure it's in your and their interests for it to carry on- usually that means by being high enough value that they'll play by the rules rather than risk losing you. If you are a person who needs absolute monogamy from…	/r/TheRedPill	10/12/19 08:28 AM
2	Go lifting is great advice....but you know what is even better advice? Go eat right. Shitty food, poor mood and lack of exercise are a feedback loop. It is far more likely you'll eat like shit if you have a low mood and depression, because your body is looking for the cheap dopamine hit you get from junk food.	/r/TheRedPill	08/12/19 01:12 PM
2	Men cheat physically. Women cheat physically, emotionally, and mentally. Why a cheating woman is far worse than a cheating man Agree. I hate the angry thirsty side of this board. Its understandable that a lot of people get redpilled after unpleasant experiences with women, or are just plain desperate to get laid by any means possible. But way too much of the stuff on here is just people being bitter about women for following their biological imperatives, or pursuing tacky PUA techniques and trying to tell themselves they can happily spin plates till they're carted off to an old people's home. The most important and posi…	/r/TheRedPill	04/12/19 02:38 PM
6	You can't be Alpha if you hate your job I think it really comes down to a few key points. Career matters, a lot. If you don't get a sense of fulfillment from your job you probably won't succeed and it is going to be very hard for women to respect you or for you to respect yourself. It is absolutely not as simple as just chasing your dreams- the ugly truth is if your dream is to release a platinum rap album, start for an NBA team or become an award winning travel documentary maker, you're probably not going to have the combination of n…	/r/TheRedPill	30/09/19 03:52 PM
1	Field report: first time I was really amogged As has been said plenty in this thread already, there's no reason to overcomplicate things , if you've fucked someone over, just acknowledge it's your bad, resolve it and move on. If deep down you know you are in the wrong it's going to be much harder to maintain frame in a confrontation- because you're faking it rather than genuinely standing up for your rights.	/r/TheRedPill	30/09/19 05:20 AM
5	Rant / FR: 3 years with a girl who has ASPD and NPD If you want to know what a girl is really like, look at how they treat people who they don't want or need anything from - if the answer is 'like shit,' that's the real them and the one you'll get to meet soon enough if you stay in a LTR with them. I think some of the best people to talk to in this regard are a girl's siblings and parents. If more than one person in her immediate family has a seriously broken relationship with her, it's very likely her fault and it's very likely because she has a…	/r/TheRedPill	18/09/19 07:38 AM
3	Girl opens her legs up for a guy on the first date, is absolutely shocked when he ghosts her afterwards. Alright boys, which one of you was this? You don't need to draw things out and if they're bitter or try and turn it into a debate then sure, you're totally within your rights to stop responding after you've told them how it is. But as a starting point, if you've fucked a girl, you've already invested some time and effort in them and they've invested some time and effort in you- if there's any uncertainty as to where its heading it's just basic good manners to let them know to not hang out for a further call if one isn't coming. It's al…	/r/TheRedPill	16/09/19 09:14 AM
26	Girl opens her legs up for a guy on the first date, is absolutely shocked when he ghosts her afterwards. Alright boys, which one of you was this? Agree, assuming that's an accurate account of whats happened, the guy is a weak dick. If you're genuinely high value, you won't have to pretend to be interested in a LTR to get laid- which honestly is the easiest and shittest trick in the book, you're basically putting yourself forward as a beta bucks prospect and saying, 'sleep with me even if you aren't that attracted to me but want a LTR, because there's a chance I'll stick around.' And if you're a genuinely strong, self confident man you'll …	/r/TheRedPill	16/09/19 03:38 AM
1	Five Basic Things you can do Today to Move Towards the top 10%/1% Really liked this post. I think one of the most neglected aspects of TRP, which this post nails, is the importance of making sure you have good mental health. That doesn't have to mean- and probably shouldn't mean- bitching about your life to a therapist, or having weekly crying sessions with your gal pals, but learning to remain calm, uncomplicate things, remove bad habits and unnecessary sources of anxiety will leave you more confident, relaxed and way more likely to achieve your potential.	/r/TheRedPill	09/09/19 12:10 AM
2	3 impending nuclear bombs on the sexual marketplace and their implications There's going to be a fair few consequences of unprotected sex even once there's a vaccine for HIV, even if it's not going to kill you no-one wants genital warts or herpes. I think designer babies are the biggest social gamechanger coming. Because it is going to cost a shit ton for the first few generations it is really just going to emphasise existing differences between high SMV couples and most of the regular population, and irrevocably entrench the link between $$ and social value. People wi…	/r/TheRedPill	08/09/19 12:49 PM
18	Radicalizing the Romanceless: "If you're smart, don't drink much, stay out of fights, display a friendly personality, & have no criminal history – then you're the population most at risk of being miserable & alone. In other words, everything that 'nice guys' complain of is pretty darned accurate." Yep. I don't think there is anything quite so annoying and pointless as a dedicated 'niceguy' moaning about bad boys getting all the girls. If that's genuinely how they think it works, what's stopping them from simply waking up tomorrow, being an asshole and rolling in poon themself? The truth is of course, they can't, because its not being an aggressive dickhead that gets girls, its the self confidence and a willingness to take risks that is often present amongst aggressive dicks. A lot of time…	/r/TheRedPill	02/09/19 10:44 PM
5	Sometimes the least favorable moment is the best moment Nicely done. Obviously she found you cute anyway, but in my experience a lot of girls tend to find it attractive when you're obviously looking out for a vulnerable relative (eg grandparent, niece, little brother etc). The subtext is you're a strong provider and protector to people in your 'tribe', and if it involves a situation where you have to talk to a girl about that other person it's a really good way to build rapport and demonstrate your value without immediately putting her on guard. In s…	/r/TheRedPill	28/08/19 04:24 AM
3	What are fathers for? "we have done so much violence to the concept of fatherhood; before we can discuss what fathers do, we need to seriously struggle with the question of what the word father even means." "the modern family “father” refers to a series of men who come in & out of the child’s life" Great post. Like anything, the best way to learn to be a good father is to practice it. Everyone will encounter situations where you can mentor or look out for someone, whether it's a biological relation, at work, sports or through study. Even if it looks like you're not getting anything direct out of those relationships, its a good idea to embrace the opportunity, because the more you do it the better you get at it.	/r/TheRedPill	22/08/19 12:08 AM
38	It only takes 1.4 seconds to dry a pussy 100% this. The level of anxiety and the methodical 'ok, now kino, now negging, now more kino' descriptions made me feel exhausted just reading it. I think the best and simplest advice you can give someone for a first date is just focus on having fun, and be prepared to call it a night when it stops being fun. If you're physically attractive and having fun, chances are they'll be having fun being around with you. And if they're having fun, they'll probably go along with whatever you suggest. If t…	/r/TheRedPill	02/08/19 03:51 AM
10	You can't make this stuff up...Divorced mom gets pissy her ex is with someone 20 years younger Honestly I read that and I genuinely do feel bad for her. Not because she didn't bring it on herself but fuck what a situation to be in. She's angry, as we all would be, because she's totally wrecked her life. She's totally misread her own value, her kids have had jack of her, you can tell the next 20 years are going to be seriously grim, containing a cliched internet dating profile with no takers, struggles to earn and accustom herself to a single income lifestyle, increasingly bitter interacti…	/r/TheRedPill	31/07/19 01:19 PM
37	Red Pill sexual consent truths coming from Chinese dating show Yep, when you find yourself on trial for a sex offence courts aren't going to care that someone on the internet told you it was ok. The moment you decide to ignore a no in the hope she doesn't mean it, you are putting your liberty and your future totally in her hands. If she genuinely meant no, or later decides she genuinely meant no, you've effectively ruined your life. It's just not worth the risk, both to your future and because you actually might end up forcing someone to have sex against th…	/r/TheRedPill	28/07/19 02:35 AM
8	Don't give me sheep, give me zealots. Yeah, just, what the fuck. The OP approach is classic pick up artist nonsense which ends in an sweaty overweight dude in a fedora following a group of girls around a night club offering to show them magic tricks in a quest to prove they're different. The whole point of red pill thinking is it's not easy and it's not about faking it, it's about putting the hard work in on yourself, on your body, mind and finances, to create a person of substance, self confidence and self worth.	/r/TheRedPill	19/07/19 01:50 PM
4	No game needed with some girls. Stick only to high interest women. I think the OP was entirely correct. One of the mistakes people make is assuming that SMV is ironclad and objective, higher always succeeds in attracting lower and that's the end of the story. In practice humans are way more complicated than that, and there are a million different random things which can either inflate or deflate your desirability in the eyes of a random person. The scale generally works and is hugely relevant but it isn't ironclad. I dont know why that is surprising, it operate…	/r/TheRedPill	19/07/19 02:55 AM
4	Red Pill Quote Of The Day There are plenty of redpillish guys who are total douchebags, but I think basically you're right. My experience is that classic misogynists are usually failed blue pillers- they're bitter and angry at women because they are or have been getting rejected and screwed over and don't understand why women aren't behaving the way hollywood rom coms suggest they should be. They don't understand why blue pill behavior is getting them nowhere, they dont know what to do, so in the end all that's left is i…	/r/TheRedPill	24/03/19 02:42 AM
0	Video Games Are As Bad As Porn & Why To Quit As with alcohol, drugs, gambling and whatver, different people have different tolerances to addictive exposure. I agree video games are more or less exactly the same as most other addictive substances. They	/r/TheRedPill	04/03/19 12:05 AM
40	[FR] Finally asked out the hb7 who works in the shop next to mine Some constructive criticism. Firstly good for you for having a crack, that already puts you ahead of most of the keyboard heroes on here. The lamest most socially awkward approach is still better than no approach. That said- don't kid yourself that she's thinking about you. There's a 90% chance she said no because in her assessment you're not on her level in terms of appearance, social status etc. If she thought you were or better most of the time she'd find a way to say yes, particularly given …	/r/TheRedPill	14/02/19 03:24 PM
2	Girl I orbited drove 300 miles one way to sleep with me. TRP lessons work, let everyone on the outside call them whatever they like. This advice works. This was a great read. I think your dad would be unbelievably proud if he saw how you'd turned out and how you'd overcome your weaknesses.	/r/TheRedPill	13/02/19 11:02 PM
37	"If you don't bang her now, you'll regret it when you're married' - 10 years later my coworker was right. I should have banged her and I'm kicking myself that I didn't. Agree with this. The OP regrets it because he assumes he would have had a fun weekend of consequence free sex- if he'd done it and it had turned bad in any one of the numerous ways it could have turned bad, it would be a totally different story. Putting morality to one side, its stupid to put sex on a pedestal to the point where you close your eyes to risks. It's just sex. Fine you want to have it but sometimes it's worth it and sometimes it's not. If you're always going to say yes, you're a mar…	/r/TheRedPill	31/01/19 11:05 PM
67	Remove the Man 2019 Even if you don't agree with its premise, the APA paper is worth a read. The interesting thing is that by running through statistics like suicide, homicide and homicide victimization it does recognise one thing that a lot of people on here would probably agree with - that a large group of men aren't doing too well in modern society. But what is absurd is the authors suggest that being stoic is shorthand for unhealthily repressing your emotions. There's nothing wrong or unmanly about having an em…	/r/TheRedPill	09/01/19 06:38 AM
2	There is no such thing as "My one perfect calling / life purpose / passion". This is also another form of BP oneitis. Passion is a way of being. When oneitis in life goes down, many more possibilities open up that you didn't notice earlier. I think there's a lot of truth to this post. Yes some people find one particular thing they really like doing and want to do for the rest of your life. But 'find your true passion' often ends up being shorthand for 'be a lazy undisciplined prick and cruise through life underachieving hoping your dream job drops into your lap' The truth is in most professions the entry level jobs kind of suck and the more senior jobs are more interesting and rewarding. You probably won't get a look at the senior …	/r/TheRedPill	27/12/18 02:07 PM
1	Finance: regular dude edition. I'm not really disagreeing, stoic philosophy is an excellent foundation to live your life on. Marcus Aurelius should really be required reading for anyone who is interested in TRP. But fundamentally there comes a point where you have to question what is the point of a lifetime of self denial- at the end of it you're going to be just as dead as the epicurean who snorted cocaine off the backs of naked women every weekend. I think a good rule is to ignore the little things and train yourself to get…	/r/TheRedPill	24/12/18 02:59 PM
1	Finance: regular dude edition. I enjoyed reading this, there are some good tips in there- have no doubt that if the OP has kids he will leave them with a way better life than he had. If he wants to live his life that way good luck to him. Depending on your own background and resources different people will be more or less frugal but one observation I'd make is that spending money, whether on food, drinks, games or whatever else, is often a distraction from working on yourself. You're getting a sense of gratification from the …	/r/TheRedPill	24/12/18 01:30 PM
19	Don't Get Cucked By Cuckservatives If you aren't willing to think for yourself and sit wherever the fuck on the political spectrum suits your views, you aren't much of a man. People who try to make TRP a surrogate for the alt right or libertarians or any other political opinion are totally missing the point. About the only political message which is genuinely consistent with TRP is to use your own judgement and have confidence in your own opinions.	/r/TheRedPill	20/12/18 10:50 AM
97	Brandon: The King of Sluts and The 48 Laws of Power Tldr: OP knew a drug dealer.	/r/TheRedPill	20/12/18 12:54 AM
1	Why The 9-5 "Rat Race" Stigma Is Bullshit The funny thing is one of the central messages on here is inherently humble; 'you can be a better man if you work at it, and you should do that for yourself'.	/r/TheRedPill	06/12/18 10:58 PM
31	Why The 9-5 "Rat Race" Stigma Is Bullshit If you don't have the self discipline, intelligence and commitment to succeed in a wage paid job in a field you're passionate about, you're probably not going to succeed working for yourself. I'd suggest that the logical first step for anyone looking to go out on their own is to work for someone in that industry for at least 4-5 years to develop skills, accumulate contacts and capital.	/r/TheRedPill	05/12/18 11:29 PM
2	Had "The Talk" about Having Open Relationship with My OLTR Candidate Good for you for pushing through an awkward conversation and telling her the truth. A lot of guys put in that situation will lie or obsfucate because they don't like confrontation or they want to keep a sexual partner at all costs. Being honest about your expectations and intentions is a) a sign you have confidence in yourself and to don't think you need to bullshit b) certainly the more moral option than stringing someone along as they're approaching the wall. At the end of the day she asked a …	/r/TheRedPill	05/12/18 10:05 AM
1	Lessons from a Rat Depends who/what you're going home with.	/r/TheRedPill	28/11/18 04:39 AM
2	Lessons from a Rat There's a useful lesson here, in the sense that you miss all the shots you don't take and desensitizing yourself to failure will make you much more comfortable in taking the shot. But don't be the guy who routinely does this. If you're getting hard nos 90% of the time and still persisting, you're wasting time you should be spending on self improvement to get yourself to a better strike rate and going to have to deal with a lot of major problems in the bottom of the barrel 'yes' pile, whether it'…	/r/TheRedPill	28/11/18 12:25 AM
1	Nice guy wants a nice girl, but nice girl wants a bad boy, and bad boy wants a slut. Sluts become single mothers who then want nice guys who are now smart guys nowhere to be found. This. 'Nice guys' love to fantasize about getting their shit together one day and suddenly being the object of desire of women who wouldn't have looked at them previously.- as if being poor, physically unattractive and socially inept are all automatic signs that someone is going to magically become successful and desirable to women down the track. if you're the kind of person who spends their time whining about hot girls 'wanting thugs' rather than improving yourself, you're probably not going t…	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	16/05/18 01:13 PM
0	Man realizes that his Tinder date was using him for a free meal. Humorous Plot twist: his date was actually really into him but shy and had an anxiety disorder.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	14/02/18 04:13 AM