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I hate to say this but as a lawyer, speak to a lawyer. I'm a family lawyer, and dealt with alot divorces. Each divorce is different, each state is different. Try to see if there are any firms or lawyers that are willing to do pro Bono work. My job is mostly making sure my clients are safe. Please talk to one, I want to you to be as safe as possible. And don't be ashamed to ask firms/lawyers if they are able to work pro Bono or if they can recommend another firm/lawyers for pro Bono work. We are …
/r/MenSupportMen21/08/24 11:55 PM
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If you're not ready to talk to her call 1-800-985-5990 or call 988. These are hotlines open 24/7, that are for emotional distress. This would count. They would know the next steps to take or guide in ways we might not be able to do. It's anyomous, if that makes you feel better. Side note, this is for anyone reading especially OP, you can call these guys for almost any reason without being ashamed. So if someone needs help or someone to talk to urgent please use the numbers I left above
/r/MenSupportMen28/07/24 08:14 AM
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I just wanna say. If someone else said the same thing to you would you view them as "weak" of just be happy they're okay. I'm assuming the latter. What you did is exactly what you needed to do. The goal of a real fight is to leave as quickly as possible and if you're able to do that without fighting, more power to you.
/r/MenSupportMen28/07/24 08:08 AM
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There is no such thing as a clean cut sterotypical man. Yay I lot of guys like sports or cars but there are men who work in fashion who make great money and date beautiful women. They are still men. To me the man who works in the garden, is still as much of a man compared to the one working in the garage. A painter isn't less manly than a handy man. And a stay at home dad playing tea party with his kids is still as much of a man as the ones working a 9-5. What I'm trying to say is. No one gets t…
/r/MenSupportMen06/07/24 10:04 AM
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I wish there was something I could tell you that would make you feel better, but I don't think there is. Its not something you can just get over. I want you to know you will be okay, maybe not as soon as you'd wish but you're going to be okay.
/r/MenSupportMen18/04/24 07:08 PM
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I'm so sorry for your loses. I understand though. I lost a parent too, and I'm lost. 26 and when I look at other people I feel so behind. People are married, having families, traveling, having success in their careers and I'm just surviving. I don't know what to tell you buddy. Nothing I say will make you feel better. But you're going to be okay, I just know it. It's sucks now, but you're going to get the hang of things. Because people older than you and me are faking their way through adulthood…
/r/MenSupportMen17/01/24 04:05 AM
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I also wanna state that men also go through postpartum depression too. So like an earlier comment said, if you have friends who are dad maybe even coworkers who are fathers talk to them. Because after the baby is born, your mental state my take a dive after the baby's born. When my friend was having a kid, his doctor said mom should have someone checking in on her and dad should too. And I was the person he asked to keep checking on him. Sorry for the tangent. But maybe you can talk to dad's on …
/r/MenSupportMen20/09/23 02:02 PM
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Unfortunately this is just a problem we have to live with. It sucks because men have our own problems. Men are more likely to to commit suicide. Men have shown to not report body image issues. mental health issues etc. The legal system kicks men's metaphorical asses. Even most of the worlds female sociologist agree that men have it really rough in the world compared to women but I would like to think this is just a loud minority of people. I see a good amount of women on reddit, tik tok, youtube…
/r/MenSupportMen21/08/23 03:40 PM
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I think you should really either sit down and think about this and/or talk to your partner about this. Because your feeling in this relationship isn't sustainable, you'll end up feeling resentful which you don't want to do. My recommendation is to talk to her about this and see if things can get better. But remember things won't be easy and if it's more then you can bare there's no same in leaving. You have to look at for yourself and mental health. But talk to her about it, if two could afford …
/r/MenSupportMen20/08/23 12:08 AM
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Not having the best week. I'm emotionally exhausted today but people like you guys help me move forward. Thank you guys and hope you guys are having a great week
/r/MenSupportMen19/05/23 06:27 PM
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Yay, that might be the best thing to do. Maybe you could fine someone working Pro Bono work. I wish you the best.
/r/MenSupportMen03/11/22 02:23 AM
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It's nice to hear, something more positive come up here
/r/MenSupportMen27/10/22 07:17 PM
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You are being so brave. You've done a really hard thing. And I think I can day on behalf of all of us, we're really proud of you!
/r/MenSupportMen17/10/22 03:42 PM
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I feel like nothing we say will make you feel better my man. You can try and go out and meet women (or men no judgement) but I also know that's hard for some people. Although this may not mean anything for you, I'm going to say this. I hope you find what you're looking for someday. And get what you want someday. But life isn't a race and you still got time. Give yourself a break and enjoy your day bud. I truly hope you have a great birthday 🎂
/r/MenSupportMen07/10/22 12:24 AM
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Awesome man, so proud and happy for you!!!!
/r/MenSupportMen10/09/22 12:40 AM
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A little down at the moment honestly. My guinea pig is dying and there's Nothing I can do about it, she just old and it's her time but I'm not ready. And my sister is starting college but it makes me feel stagnate. I wanna go back to school but maybe next year. Overall I'm okay but I don't know what this week might have instore. Wish the luck for my pet.
/r/MenSupportMen23/08/22 01:40 PM
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I'm sorry this is happening to you my man. I know you're wishing for things to stay the same, or wishing to go back in time and not have that affair. But unfortunately this is going to happen. The only advice I have is. Children of divorce thrive when they see both parents happy, children of marriages of miserable parents are less happy. They actually wish their parents would move one. I guess I'm trying to say is, for your children's shake and yours. You should focus on being the best father yo…
/r/MenSupportMen29/07/22 05:42 PM
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Thinking your not "worthy" or "worthy enough" for a relationship is a very unhealthy train of thought. Sometimes people just grow apart and, that's a very sad and unfortunate part of life. And breaking up, of course is going to make you feel lonely. It may make you feel lonely for a while but it also gives you a chance to find yourself. But thinking about this in a value of worth is really unhealthy. That's like putting things and people on pedestals, and not valuing yourself. Remember that you …
/r/MenSupportMen20/07/22 03:24 AM
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I'm happy things are looking up for you, man
/r/MenSupportMen20/07/22 03:07 AM
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Thank you kind sir. Unfortunately there's not a Costco near me but I really do appreciate the offer. Plus I am going to back to school soon (which I'm super scared and excited for). I'm going to take the advice of the others and stick to the boundaries I want to set. But again thank you for the offer and the kind words, it means alot to me.
/r/MenSupportMen12/07/22 05:44 AM
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Thank you again sir. I'm sorry to hear but also glad to know you were 39 when you learned this lesson. Reinforcing to me that you can continue learning at any age. I truly do appreciate the advice, and I am taking it to heart.
/r/MenSupportMen12/07/22 05:37 AM
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Thanks man!!! I really do appreciate it!
/r/MenSupportMen12/07/22 05:34 AM
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Thank you buddy. I've tried setting boundaries but I always failed to keep it up. I'm going to try to be better at it not just because of this job but any future employment as well. Again though thank you for the advice, I will be sure to implement the advice you've given me. I truly appreciate it.
/r/MenSupportMen11/07/22 08:56 PM
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Thank you sir. I actually am planning on leaving soon anyways because I'm heading back to school. Which is terrifying because I haven't been to school in years, I just wanted to vent. I know I've been a door mat and every time I try to set boundaries I allow them to break the boundaries. I'm going to get better not only because of this job but future employment as well. But again thank you sir, for taking the time to comment. I really appreciate it.
/r/MenSupportMen11/07/22 08:53 PM
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