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| 0 | Is this a shit test, or an immediate 180?The stalkerish behavior was kickstarted an hour after she ignored me because my ego hates tension and wants to understand details. God this is gross. She may have had a great time but if you were actually more emotionally invested she will remember it I know it's gross, but fuck me if I don't understand why I can't make it past certain points with women. The last year has been a giant recurring pattern of completely having a woman fall for me on the first/second date, me doing something unconsci… | /r/askTRP | 12/05/21 08:09 PM |
| 1 | Did I analyze and handle this situation correctly? I feel like I'm right, but I feel terrible.I don't know man. She made out with me on our first date. The second date I drove her to a bar and she changed her pants in my car and showed me a tattoo on her thigh sitting in her underwear. I'm pretty sure if I had somewhere to take her after that second date we would have fucked. | /r/askTRP | 09/04/21 01:26 PM |
| 2 | Did I analyze and handle this situation correctly? I feel like I'm right, but I feel terrible.Keep your head up and try again. Good luck. Thank you. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/21 06:52 PM |
| 2 | Did I analyze and handle this situation correctly? I feel like I'm right, but I feel terrible.This is a very well reasoned reply. I appreciate your objective opinion about what happened, and in my gut I felt all of these things throughout the course of the last few weeks. I need to listen to my gut more. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/21 01:08 PM |
| 1 | Did I analyze and handle this situation correctly? I feel like I'm right, but I feel terrible.She’s 21, so in her mind she’s attracted to you because you’re “grown”. But now instead of seeing you as grown, she sees you as a manchild. Just imagine if you could say “let’s go grab a drink at my place” after you made out, it would’ve been over. Thanks for this comment. You're exactly right, I knew a large part of this was due to logistics, but I honestly thought I could have overcome not having logistics, due to ego or whatever. You probably killed parts of your personality that seemed goofy… | /r/askTRP | 08/04/21 11:09 AM |
| 1 | Did I analyze and handle this situation correctly? I feel like I'm right, but I feel terrible.Thanks man. I really do appreciate you taking the time to comment and help me out. Reading some of these comments is just making me realize I have been focusing on the wrong things lately and I need to start putting real effort into myself and start investing in myself more. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/21 03:18 AM |
| 1 | Did I analyze and handle this situation correctly? I feel like I'm right, but I feel terrible.There's a lot I can improve with myself, I'm lazy as far as self improvement goes (beyond exercising, I run and am in shape, just not muscular). I match with women I consider attractive (6-8s) so I would assume there is something boring or off-putting about my behavior or personality. I just hate the fact that I can't be who I am without coming off as boring. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/21 03:07 AM |
| 2 | Did I analyze and handle this situation correctly? I feel like I'm right, but I feel terrible.good fashion Can you recommend any resources for this? I'm very plain in the way I dress and have no fashion sense, but I would love to look better. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/21 02:59 AM |
| 1 | Did I analyze and handle this situation correctly? I feel like I'm right, but I feel terrible.Is there something you can recommend based off of this post in particular, or does it just give a vibe that I have problems in general? | /r/askTRP | 08/04/21 02:54 AM |
| 1 | Did I analyze and handle this situation correctly? I feel like I'm right, but I feel terrible.Thanks for the advice, you're way farther along the path than I am. It's just disheartening that I have such fucking terrible game that I can't get laid even where I'm at now in this point in my life. I just keep failing with women. I feel like I can build attraction so well on the first date and ALWAYS leave them wanting more, but then when I go further they somehow realize I'm a loser or something and things totally flip. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/21 02:47 AM |
| 2 | Did I analyze and handle this situation correctly? I feel like I'm right, but I feel terrible.True. It's amazing how fast it snuck up on me. I really have no fucking options man, it sucks. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/21 02:35 AM |
| 1 | Did I analyze and handle this situation correctly? I feel like I'm right, but I feel terrible.from day 1 you were just doing it all so you could sleep with her. Despite the fact that I agree with your points, do you not go out with women with the intention of sleeping with them? What makes it wrong for my case | /r/askTRP | 08/04/21 02:31 AM |
| 1 | Did I analyze and handle this situation correctly? I feel like I'm right, but I feel terrible.Yeah, this is it. I just can't tell myself this, but you're 100% right on basically every point. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/21 02:30 AM |
| 14 | How is your relationship with your mother?Something something demote to anal-only plate | /r/askTRP | 19/03/21 04:29 PM |
| 2 | Ex reached out a year later asking me to delete photos/videos of her... Why?Exactly. Her pussy was some of the best I had at that point, and I let myself get sucked into her chaotic bullshit daily, but there's no reason to now. After so much time I've detoxed from her pussy | /r/askTRP | 28/02/21 02:17 AM |
| 2 | Ex reached out a year later asking me to delete photos/videos of her... Why?Another case of look at her actions and not her words. "I've moved on" yet her actions say she's still messaging me. It really confuses me as to why I would still be on her mind in any way after so long. She was the one to ditch me and I was acting like a beta and simping for her before she left. She had no respect for me when she left, I guess she just wants to see if she can still fuck with me some more after all this time. | /r/askTRP | 28/02/21 02:14 AM |
| 3 | Ex reached out a year later asking me to delete photos/videos of her... Why?I think you're right, especially since she has made this request before. One of the things I realized about her too some time ago after reflecting on it is that she loved starting drama with people in her life, but would do it in such subtle ways. This just feels like another one of her attempts to get me to react to her. I'm not even going to tell her to piss off, I'm just going to ignore her, as that will fuck with her more, because at the time she left me I was (and surely still am) a beta to… | /r/askTRP | 28/02/21 02:08 AM |
| 2 | Ex reached out a year later asking me to delete photos/videos of her... Why?I agree with you 100%, I'm not asking for guidance, I'm more trying to understand whether or not a woman would do something like this for attention, to be a time waster, testing to see if I'm still a beta and would respond to her, or if her request is actually serious. I guess it's impossible to know her intentions, it just seems bizzare. | /r/askTRP | 28/02/21 02:00 AM |
| 5 | Is anyone else finding it impossible to meet up with NEW plates since the coronavirus lockdowns? How can a guy adapt?And are you having personal success with taking those approaches? Women are receptive to those suggestions during quarantine? Do they push back or show any kind of resistance to meeting up with you? | /r/askTRP | 04/05/20 09:01 PM |
| 2 | How do I act around a girl after having sex and not seem beta?FFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFF | /r/askTRP | 23/05/19 09:04 PM |
| 1 | How do you deal with american girls?My mistake, I misunderstood your use of the word "agency". I thought it meant that they take responsibility for their actions. Agency is different from ownership of actions | /r/askTRP | 18/03/19 09:30 PM |
| 1 | How do you deal with american girls?I thought a tennant of TRP was the female hamster ? | /r/askTRP | 18/03/19 09:17 PM |
| 1 | Wife gets overt and angry when I pass shit testsDoes ignoring shit tests actually work? Like do you pretend she just didn't say it? What if she calls you out on the fact that you're ignoring what she's saying? Can you give a few examples of a pressure flip? I've read it in the sidebar before but I don't quite understand it. | /r/askTRP | 18/03/19 05:46 PM |
| 1 | Would you rather have condomless sex 1-2x per week with one woman, or be free to have protected sex with a rotation of women?According to her, she has only had one boyfriend who she left after about a month. She said she's had guys give her "the talk" and she told them she wasn't interested | /r/askTRP | 14/03/19 12:12 PM |
| 2 | Would you rather have condomless sex 1-2x per week with one woman, or be free to have protected sex with a rotation of women?I'm in the same boat. Only cum via self or fucking raw. Do you watch a lot of porn/masturbate frequently? I do, not sure if that is the cause. | /r/askTRP | 14/03/19 11:56 AM |
| 3 | Would you rather have condomless sex 1-2x per week with one woman, or be free to have protected sex with a rotation of women?The logistics aren't great for sex. She's only in the area for uni, and she has 3 female roomates so we can't bang at her place often. I usually have to pick her up and bring her to my place. I don't try to push for more than twice a week because typically that ended up coming across as too needy in the past. She is also a fulltime student and I work fulltime. She also spends some weekends back at home. | /r/askTRP | 13/03/19 08:46 PM |
| 1 | Would you rather have condomless sex 1-2x per week with one woman, or be free to have protected sex with a rotation of women?Wait, do you think when she told me that she told her dad we were dating, that she was subtly trying to guage my interest? Because when she told me that, I asked "Why would you tell him that?" and she said she told him because she didn't want him to think she was seeing a guy for just sex. | /r/askTRP | 13/03/19 07:01 PM |
| 3 | Would you rather have condomless sex 1-2x per week with one woman, or be free to have protected sex with a rotation of women?I strongly doubt the reason she got an STD test and insisted you get one was because you gave an indirect answer about seeing other girls. She either got an STD or feared she was exposed to one (not by you; something more specific happened) and flipped it around to you seeing other girls. Honestly this is entirely plausible. We met in November, and fucked a few times. She went home (2 hours away) for winter break and we didn't see each other for a month, and talked very little. It's possible she… | /r/askTRP | 13/03/19 06:54 PM |
| 1 | Would you rather have condomless sex 1-2x per week with one woman, or be free to have protected sex with a rotation of women?Just talk it out when you see her next time. Say that you are used to more frequent sex and being exclusive in springtime is turning out to be a challenge to you plus sex is actually great. I'll talk to her about it the next time I see her. Also if she asks something like 'what are we' she wants a relationship to be confirmed... you have to be ready for that question beforehand because if you struggle to give an answer it will be worse then saying a 'wrong' answer. I would date her, but that has… | /r/askTRP | 13/03/19 06:29 PM |
| 6 | Would you rather have condomless sex 1-2x per week with one woman, or be free to have protected sex with a rotation of women?If that happens I'll name my first child after you | /r/askTRP | 13/03/19 06:17 PM |
| 2 | Would you rather have condomless sex 1-2x per week with one woman, or be free to have protected sex with a rotation of women?A woman is always going to try to break you down, it is their nature. Giving her monogamy is conceding to her frame and you have begun an uphill battle, you’ve basically already lost. Risk is not worth reward. If you want an ltr for sex you're foolish. You're right. I've learned the lesson that promising exclusivity is a mistake. I won't do it with any women in the future unless I see them as family making material and I'm like 30+. | /r/askTRP | 13/03/19 06:14 PM |
| 7 | Would you rather have condomless sex 1-2x per week with one woman, or be free to have protected sex with a rotation of women?It's honestly one of the best things in life | /r/askTRP | 13/03/19 05:52 PM |
| 2 | Would you rather have condomless sex 1-2x per week with one woman, or be free to have protected sex with a rotation of women?Don’t let your need for a specific type of sex suck you into an ltr, I tried that against my better judgement, my life exploded. Can you share what happened to you? | /r/askTRP | 13/03/19 05:37 PM |
| 1 | Would you rather have condomless sex 1-2x per week with one woman, or be free to have protected sex with a rotation of women?Having variety is nothing but ego stroking. I agree, but having variety isn't purely ego stroking. It helps make you appear less needy too. If you have variety you don't need to hit up the same girl for sex as frequently. This translates into non-neediness and creates abundance. But you're right, it can be used to boost the ego too. Tell her about how often you need sex and be serious about it and just say you will not get bored of each other. I want to let her know that. Should I bring this top… | /r/askTRP | 13/03/19 05:35 PM |
| 6 | Would you rather have condomless sex 1-2x per week with one woman, or be free to have protected sex with a rotation of women?Another thing to think about is does this one girl offer anything else other than sex? She offers a sweet kind of femininity and she is very caring. Do you like spending time with her? Yes, I quite enjoy spending time with her. Does she look up to you? Yeah, the age difference is obvious and I know a lot more about life than she does. She's young/naive so she definitely sees me as above her. Is she what you're looking for in an LTR? Honestly being objective, probably not the perfect candidate. I… | /r/askTRP | 13/03/19 03:07 PM |
| 7 | Would you rather have condomless sex 1-2x per week with one woman, or be free to have protected sex with a rotation of women?Largely hers. Basically what happened was this: I was fucking multiple girls. After about 2 months seeing her, she asked me if I was still seeing other girls, and I agreed and amplified. She then insinuated multiple times that she wanted me to get an STD test. I asked her why, and she said something about how I gave her an indirect answer when she asked about other girls, and she had gotten tested earlier and wanted to make sure I didn't have anything too. I got tested, all negative. Basically, … | /r/askTRP | 13/03/19 02:50 PM |
| 4 | Would you rather have condomless sex 1-2x per week with one woman, or be free to have protected sex with a rotation of women?What do you do when you want more sex than your girl does? | /r/askTRP | 13/03/19 02:16 PM |
| 6 | Would you rather have condomless sex 1-2x per week with one woman, or be free to have protected sex with a rotation of women?How often were you having sex when you weren't exclusive with this girl? With her? Maybe once every 1.5 weeks. Were you really getting with other girls more than 2 times a week? Not really, but it's the freedom and the idea that I could be free to do it that's important to me. I would at most have two girls that I'd fuck both once per week, but I would alternate between them. If you were, then yeah, you're downgrading. If not then it's a grass is always greener thing. It may be the latter. I'll … | /r/askTRP | 13/03/19 02:12 PM |
| 2 | Would you rather have condomless sex 1-2x per week with one woman, or be free to have protected sex with a rotation of women?Do you think I should try and talk to her the next time I see her about the fact that I would like to have sex more often? Like should I approach the subject in a logical way? I feel like me promising exclusivity is a big deal, and I want to be sure I'm satisfied with the amount of sex I have with her. I also want her to know that if she doesn't feel like she'd want sex as much as I do, then we aren't going to continue to be compatible and that I will have to go back to non-exclusivity and condo… | /r/askTRP | 13/03/19 02:07 PM |
| 18 | Would you rather have condomless sex 1-2x per week with one woman, or be free to have protected sex with a rotation of women?Why not both? Keep fucking this girl raw and at the same time get some plates to fuck with a condom on. I don't like this idea tbh. I was raised by a single mother, and as a result I have inherited the womanly trait of being fickle with my word. Sticking to my word, saying things only when I will actually do them, and being honest is something that I have been working on recently. I told this girl I would be exclusive with her. I don't feel comfortable trying to fuck other girls behind her back.… | /r/askTRP | 13/03/19 01:52 PM |
| 2 | Would you rather have condomless sex 1-2x per week with one woman, or be free to have protected sex with a rotation of women?Lol dude she’s your girlfriend just fuck her it’s not needy. She's not technically my "girlfriend" though, we just agreed to be sexually exclusive. Does your point still stand? | /r/askTRP | 13/03/19 01:45 PM |
| 11 | Would you rather have condomless sex 1-2x per week with one woman, or be free to have protected sex with a rotation of women?Same here man. Jerking off to porn with lube is about equal in pleasure to first time sex with a woman wearing a condom. | /r/askTRP | 13/03/19 01:42 PM |
| 7 | Would you rather have condomless sex 1-2x per week with one woman, or be free to have protected sex with a rotation of women?Don't you like raw sex though? There's never an instance where you'd trust a girl enough to have it unless you were trying to have a kid? | /r/askTRP | 13/03/19 01:41 PM |
| 1 | Why are most guys sexually undesirable to women, and how can you become one of the few sexually desirable ones?Unfortunately?? Bro I'm mediocre looking as fuck, thank god I can be a cocky douche and get women, otherwise I'd be (not) fucked. | /r/askTRP | 12/03/19 11:25 PM |
| 1 | Is a career change to law enforcement a bad idea long term?If you were passionate about programming, you'd be spending your time learning and doing that. Otherwise, you're either not that interested, or you didn't make time. Which is it? I am passionate about programming. I have been studying it regularly for the last 7 years. There is a lot that I love about it, and I use my programming knowledge to automate parts of my current job. However, most tech jobs (especially in my area) are going to be some kind of webshit grunt work where you help maintain s… | /r/askTRP | 11/03/19 09:14 PM |
| 1 | Is a career change to law enforcement a bad idea long term?I'm technically a bastard since my father ditched my mother before I was born, so maybe it is the right choice 😂 | /r/askTRP | 11/03/19 08:40 PM |
| 2 | How do I play this one?Oh, gotcha. If that's what you were looking for, you phrased your post wrong and asked the wrong question. It reads as if you're asking whether or not you should go, and his answer is relevant to that question | /r/askTRP | 11/03/19 08:38 PM |
| 1 | Is a career change to law enforcement a bad idea long term?ACAB? | /r/askTRP | 11/03/19 08:36 PM |
| 3 | How do I play this one?The guy said not to go, and then you argue against him and list off reasons why you should. You clearly want to go, so why are you asking for other peoples input if you've got your mind made up? | /r/askTRP | 11/03/19 08:05 PM |
| 4 | Is it autistic to keep a sex spreadsheet?All women I've done a sexual act with = 5.2, All women I've actually had sex with = 4.8. A lot of the girls I have fucked have either been neutral or major regrets, with some 8s and 9s (subjective) sprinkled in, so all the pump and dump girls lower the average. I'm not proud of the pump and dumps, and as I grow and gain more reference experience I am starting to be way more unforgiving of the minimum attractiveness of future women I have sex with. | /r/askTRP | 05/03/19 09:12 PM |
| 1 | Hello TRP, Any advise for 33 year old Virgin. Its like burning volcano in my mind.OKC, tinder, bumble, craigslist. I've had the most success with OKC for some reason | /r/askTRP | 17/12/18 10:19 AM |
| 14 | Hello TRP, Any advise for 33 year old Virgin. Its like burning volcano in my mind.I completely agree with this way of thinking, OP. I was a loner and a virgin until 23. Every day I was depressed and imagined what sex would be like, and would brood over the fact that no women wanted me. The mental hell you are in is completely understandable, and it is an awful thing to live with. You need to do whatever it takes to have sex and get your first experiences. I literally posted an ad on craigslist saying that I was a virgin and that I was looking for a girl to take it. I had to r… | /r/askTRP | 16/12/18 03:41 PM |
| 1 | Can one of you please yell some sense into meWhen I have set standards for women I wanted before, I was a virgin until 23 years old. It will take me a very long time before I'm high enough quality for the women I want to reciprocate that desire. How do I enforce high standards for myself without becoming lonely and sex deprived for years? I don't even know how to set standards for myself | /r/askTRP | 24/06/18 08:04 PM |
| 1 | Have you ever dated a practice or placeholder girlfriend? What was it about her that made her just temporary?I actually just started "dating" a girl a few weeks ago and I have this dynamic with her right now. I'm not particularly enthused to call her my girlfriend. We don't get along politically, she spends her time poorly, she has no job, and a sad/fucked up past. I can tell she has no capacity for critical thinking or planning. I had been hanging out with her for 2 weeks and she laid it on pretty heavily about how she wants to date me and doesn't want to waste time. I liked her personality enough to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/18 10:47 PM |
| 1 | Do women's vaginas generally smell unpleasant?This is a perfect summary. Thank you. | /r/askTRP | 02/05/18 03:13 PM |
| 9 | Do women's vaginas generally smell unpleasant?So generally the answer is yes. I don't understand why you feel the need to talk down to someone who is simply asking a question, even if it might seem obvious to you. | /r/askTRP | 02/05/18 02:19 PM |
| 10 | Do women's vaginas generally smell unpleasant?Can you answer my question instead of calling me autistic? What does that accomplish? | /r/askTRP | 02/05/18 02:07 PM |
| – | Should I sacrifice my morals to gain sexual experience for the first time?How do I practice abundance as a complete virgin with no (or terribly bad) options? | /r/askTRP | 11/03/17 05:15 PM |
| – | Should I sacrifice my morals to gain sexual experience for the first time?Not really. She has some big titties that I'd like to play with but that's just a result of her being fat. Idk man I want to get laid SOO badly but I don't want it to be with some sleazy single mother who would give herself up so easily | /r/askTRP | 11/03/17 07:40 AM |
| – | Should I sacrifice my morals to gain sexual experience for the first time?I'm pretty sure you guys are right. I don't know, I feel like I could do it, but she's obviously so insecure from the shit she's been sending me. If I don't answer right away she thinks "I forgot about her" etc, she's a really broken person. I don't think I could trust her further than I can throw her. Sigh, I guess I will just have to keep waiting for better opportunity | /r/askTRP | 11/03/17 07:37 AM |
| – | Should I sacrifice my morals to gain sexual experience for the first time?That's the thing, a woman this easy would not be my type. I would literally just be using her to get over my anxiety from being a virgin. I don't know if I'd regret it because I don't know what regrettable sex is like. | /r/askTRP | 11/03/17 06:55 AM |
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