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THEORYmd8716/r/RedPillWomen19/06/17 04:37 PM
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The funny thing about young people on reddit is how they assume they are experts in everything and try to talk down to you about something you have extensive personal experience with. That's when you hit em with from the top rope with the hammer of life experience and make them look completely stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 10:06 PM
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Actually, I do, because I got married in foreign, non-western country. Soo....I've literally done the thing I'm talking about, meanwhile you're an idiot on the internet ignorantly spouting off about things you don't know about.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 09:59 PM
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Let me try to explain. What happened was you went from partners to family. Someone stood in front of the world and formally declared you as theirs. Yeah, you could say you're together forever, but those are just words. Like I'm a complete stranger, and if I met you and your spouse, I'd automatically give your relationship more legitimacy because you actually walked the walk. Marriage is an action. Like how you can tell a kid he's your kid all day, but adopting a him is an action and a declaratio…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 08:37 PM
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And plenty of people in non western countries are under insane pressure to get married young and provide grandkids, fulfilling their filial piety duties. So, what you said was a completely empty statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 08:17 PM
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Sounds like your quarrel is with the family courts, not with the institution of marriage. FYI if you're unmarried, you'll still end up in family court if you have a kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 08:12 PM
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Uh, bad news, dude, the government has that level of control whether you get married or not. The only thing that marriage does is change how you and your partner can operate within that scope of control.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 08:09 PM
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That's exactly what I did. House has doubled in value since then.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 07:40 PM
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Beckys and Karens often have the inability to see Asian women as anything other than the target of a fetish, because they view AAPI women as below them in the racial hierarchy, and fetishism is the only logical explanation why a man would go down and not up the hierarchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 07:11 PM
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The thing is, you only need to get 1 yes to be a success.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 04:26 AM
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If I was going into a LTR with the mindset that I want everything to be equal and be able to walk away cleanly, and my partner felt the same, then that's the kind of relationship we would have. Careful, pragmatic, and guarded. Plus, most normal people are compatible to fit in a relationship like that. Personally, I would never want a LTR like that. If I'm going to share my life with someone, it has to be a burning lifelong inferno of cult-like devotion and passion where our entire fucking souls …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 12:56 AM
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Nobody can dominate you without your consent. If she's trying to dominate you unsuccessfully, she's wasting her own time and her own youth pursuing something that's leading nowhere, while you have sexual access to her. If anything, you come out ahead in that scenario. If she gets attention from hot dude and cheats, she was always a cheater, whether she was hot or not. Even average woman get such opportunities. If she thinks you're beneath her, she'll have always thought you were beneath her. The…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 12:32 AM
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I've never been crazy about any of the superhero bullshit that's been infecting cinema for the last 20 or so years (even though I grew up a fan of the originals in the early/mid 90s) but I will say the sole exception is Dr. Strange series. Benedict Cumberbatch is easily the best lead actor across all of marvel and the stories are amazing. Honorable mentions: I DID like Iron Man when it first came out, but I didn't like any of it after that point. That humor got old fast. Same with Guardians of t…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 10:33 PM
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Yeah I think that's smart cause I'm doing the same thing for her. She'll be taken care of for life, as long as she doesn't go crazy and make horrible choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 06:31 PM
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See, I don't pretend that it's normal, which is why I tell dudes around here not to have kids and definitely not to get married. Yeah, I'm married and have kids, but I'm a special case. Most dudes around here would be better off getting into some WFH tech overemployment scheme and then move abroad as a passport bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 06:08 PM
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If a girl that average looking can get all these dudes to simp that hard for her, then she's gotta be an absolute legend. I respect the skill. But it also kinda makes me wonder about my own daughter. Like I'd be disappointed if she turned out like this, but what dad could ever conceive of his daughter having a roster of sugar daddies.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 05:34 PM
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That's what it's supposed to be like.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 04:58 PM
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If they're older, it's because they don't like their job. If they're younger, it's because they're lazy and probably entitled thinking that they world owes them something just for existing. Personally, I love my job. But at this point in my life, I make so much and don't need all that money, so I'm gonna cut my hours in half and get more into my hobbies. Maybe just a couple more years of full time.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 05:35 PM
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Oh yeah, it's a great feeling. I'm at a point where I can't even talk about my pay or benefits in front of my friends because it might change the way they look at me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 05:25 PM
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Honestly, for me, it's more about what you do with it after school. I'm not the least bit impressed with school "prestige".
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 05:14 PM
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The tell is accountability. If a woman takes full accountability for where she currently is in life and claims to be fine with it, then she is probably happy. They are in the minority and are usually too busy with their lives to sit around and bitch on reddit or other social media about men. If she refuses accountability, blames it on men being trash, and proclaims that she's better off alone and happily single, she's 100% secretly bitter and unhappy. These are women with less than stellar perso…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 05:05 PM
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You're indifferent because you're thinking about a baby in an abstract sense. It doesn't exist yet, it doesn't have a face or a name. Let me put it this way, when successful career actress Eva Mendes was asked about kids when she was young and single, she said she didn't want to ever have a baby. Once she was in a relationship with Ryan Gosling, she started saying "I want to have his babies". It's called a paradigm shift.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 04:42 PM
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Before my wife met me, she had her own career, made her own money, was pretty independent, but she did it because she had to. It ultimately made her unhappy, unfulfilled, and honestly kinda antagonistic and bitchy from the stress. We met, got married, and had kids, and she left the workforce. Once there was no longer the pressure to provide, her personality changed for the better as she felt happy, fulfilled, secure, and "whole". She embraced her feminine role wholeheartedly. Instead of grinding…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 04:23 PM
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Wouldn't there be a lot less competition in a demographic collapse, though? Especially when you consider how many families are falling out of the middle class and can't afford tutoring, extra-curriculars, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 05:07 AM
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My son looks like me, and everyone says he's going to be really handsome. I'll reserve my judgment for after puberty, though. If Lil bro makes it to 6 feet he's gonna be a top 1% tinder slut easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 03:09 AM
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Honestly yeah she's fat. America just has so many landwhales with their own gravitational pull that the scale is completely fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 02:58 AM
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First 3, wholeheartedly agree. Nani from Lilo and Stitch launched my lifelong thirst for cute thicc dark island girls. I'd replace the other 2 with Mulan and Lion King.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 02:53 AM
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Eh, I had my kids 10 years ago, and I can't imagine the world being that radically different 12 years from now when they'll be entering the workforce. Honestly, the only thing I feel is really fundamentally different in the last 25 years is that we now have smartphones.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 02:32 AM
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The fact that you couldn't just let the conversation lie shows your immaturity.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 04:44 PM
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It's an open secret that Verstappen has a degree of autism, which manifests as a driving savant. Wouldn't exactly trust his example in any other aspect of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 06:28 AM
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That's simply just not true, but agree to disagree I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 02:04 AM
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There's a selection bias though with reddit women. Like if you go to a more rural blue collar type of place, those women would see that type of funny, charismatic man that internet women like as kind of effeminate and weak.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 11:18 PM
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Honestly, certain women tend to get away with being boring themselves by placing the onus on the man to be the interesting one. But she's the common denominator because she sucks the air out of the room and turn off others. I've never met a legit interesting, fun woman that ever complained about others being boring. They make their own fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 08:29 PM
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I've never seen someone so confidently incorrect before until I read your posts in this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 08:23 PM
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Nah, they're pretty relevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 03:02 PM
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If someone gave you a guaranteed lifelong pension with the caveat that you could never work for pay ever again (you could work, but it would be volunteer only), what's the minimum monthly amount you'd accept?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 05:00 PM
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Hell, 31 year olds can often be annoying, immature, and quite messy. Our culture has embraced extended adolescence.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 03:42 PM
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1) majority doesn't equal all. 2) a fact based on what?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 03:19 PM
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All the women in this sub aren't in an LTR, idk where you got that impression. There's a lot of perpetually single women and femcels around here. But even then, these women are just representative of all women in general, therefore an easy target to air their grievances at and feel superior to.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 07:36 AM
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Uh... sure. Merry Christmas.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 07:04 AM
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Oh come on don't leave us hanging like that with no details.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 07:01 AM
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The dudes who are past their anger phase are the ones making the analysis about their mating strategy. If you know women are shallow, then ofc you can learn how to play them. But for the ones stuck in their anger phase, it's mostly shaming.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 06:58 AM
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Teens are idiots. Two idiots in love is basically stupidity squared.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 06:53 AM
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My thought is that your insecurities are running wild in this post.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 06:50 AM
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You seem to be having trouble keeping up. Maybe you're a little too out of your depth for this conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 06:41 AM
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I'm not telling anybody what they want or worrying about their life. Idk how you got that from the words that I wrote. What I'm saying is that people who are constantly on the internet and socially incentivized to put forth the image of the unbothered strong independent single who makes their own happiness are probably the ones most likely to make an ill-advised choice out of pride and then regret it later on. Of course, they never talk about the regret. You only see the fronting.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 06:35 AM
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I'll take vicarious Christmas joy, over no joy at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 05:31 AM
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"Some people" spend all their time capping on social media for validation. Never settling is one of those things that gets up votes and likes when you're still young and have options, but once you're actually staring down the abyss, it's a much different story.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 05:27 AM
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Lol got her!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 02:26 AM
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I was watching SNL at the time and was pissed that they interrupted the broadcast to talk about that bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 09:04 PM
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American women at the top of the privilege hierarchy in America have ALWAYS exhibited veiled hate and bigotry toward people who don't look like them. In their eyes, these people are the help. Oh, they'll pretend like they're progressive, open-minded, and love everyone, but the fangs will come out when a woman they perceive as less-than starts to get uppity and won't stay in her lane.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 09:00 PM
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Becky starting to get the fangs out, lol. Why would I cry? Your hatefulness is your problem, not mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 08:44 PM
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This feels like an offshoot of Godwin's law; the longer an internet discussion goes on, the probability of a comment mentioning Andrew Tate becomes 1.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 08:34 PM
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This sounds like how people used to talk about gay marriage. And before that, interracial dating. "I don't care just don't shove it in my face by discussing it in public" tbh you sound kinda bigoted
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 05:44 PM
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Why should he stop?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 05:37 PM
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You're welcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 06:00 PM
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It was a dumb, ignorant topic to begin with. No amount of discussion would have saved it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 04:52 PM
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Wonder how that's working out for them. It isn't looking good from what I can see.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 04:15 PM
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To paraphrase a quote, It's difficult to get a redditor to understand something when their entire argument depends on not understanding it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 04:07 PM
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Oh, so all of your anecdata is taken from whatever random nameless town in flyover country you happen to be living in. Where you can also apparently say anything you want to win whatever argument you're in, because you wont name the town. Convenient. but critically think about why you don’t hear of them and that is 100% by design. Using phrases you clearly don't know the meaning of isn't a good look. So these clubs are only plentiful, successful, and completely hidden all over the country. But a…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 04:03 PM
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You don't see the issue because you have zero business sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 07:32 AM
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I'm sure that club serves a niche, but that's 1 club of maybe a handful serving the population of an entire city. As opposed to how many straight clubs serving the entire city? The proportion is way lopsided. Idk maybe try some critical thinking here.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 07:20 AM
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Nah, like a dude who sells cars or something and makes bank at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 03:48 AM
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Ok well men don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 01:44 AM
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Who cares. Whatever that is we want it. It's like caring about fake tits. If they exist, they're real. But what we really want is a girl who doesn't look like an absolute troll if she starts slipping and doesn't keep her upkeep up everyday.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 01:33 AM
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Mad respect for staying true to this preference. Side question: what about hustler type dudes who sell stuff, where do they fall?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 01:28 AM
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Thank you for your service 🫡
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 06:29 PM
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The male solution is sex tourism or passport bro'ing. But at least that's more pragmatic than self delusion. Black pill is rock bottom.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 06:27 PM
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It is an answer. I told you where people with real options are choosing to live and why they're doing it. That's fine if you don't agree with them, but those are the facts. I'm not here to cure your mid-tier city napoleon complex.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 06:25 PM
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Yes, for both men and women. The men get called on their bullshit but not the women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 05:38 PM
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Bro just look at the numbers. People will give up everything to live in LA/NYC. The cost of living is sky high because everyone wants to be there. The famous, the wealthy, the beautiful, the powerful, the dreamers, etc. Nobody's doing that for Chicago.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 05:36 PM
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The vast majority of unsuitable people don't think they are the problem. That's my point, they never say "finally" because they themselves fall short and it just never works out. Or they get into the LTR and it falls apart, and they blame the other person. It's never them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 05:30 PM
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The weather, ofc. I've been to Chicago multiple times. Truth is, it's a big city with a massive suburb around it, just like every other big city with a massive suburb around it. It's not that unique. Beyond that, the lack of any real natural geographic features besides the lake. Not a lot of high-prestige industries there. Ok for example, LA has Hollywood and music, SF has tech, NYC has finance. These cities are internationally known for these things.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 05:22 PM
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You know, we see a lot about how OLD has so many bad matches from the female perspective, but I'm starting to realize that there's proportionally just as many shitty/trash women on there, too. Like there are a LOT of unsuitable, undesirable women in the dating market. But they don't get highlighted because the guys they want to get with will still have sex with them (because it's basically a layup), but then next/ghost them afterward. Or relegate her to FWB, depending on if she can play along. A…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 05:04 PM
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The cost of living is cheap because nobody with any money actually wants to fuckin live there. Like when's the last time a sports superstar decided they wanted to go to Chicago in free agency? Every famous person from Chicago got the fuck out ASAP. People fuckin call it Chiraq, dude. Nobody's ever like "I want to chase my dreams and move to Chicago". Never have I ever been in a foreign country and told someone I was from America and they were like "Oh yeah I want to see Chicago lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 05:47 AM
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It's not similar at all. You don't typically acquire shared assets and community property while you're out traveling. My wife's share of our net worth is literally 50x what it was when she was on her own. Even her monthly allowance is far more than what she made while working. I'll concede that she doesn't have total independence, but that's kind of the point of getting married, having a family, and sharing your life with loved ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 05:35 AM
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It's not a woman thing, it's a cultural thing. This is a problem for when you live in a highly contextual, highly combative dating market. It really doesn't have to be like this but dudes insist on trying to get water from a stone.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 03:37 PM
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Seems underwhelming to me. Especially if your entire world hinges on your looks. I'd rather spend the day commanding the respect of my peers and my community in the outside world and then come home to a household of loyal followers that adore and admire my leadership. The easy route isn't the most satisfying.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 03:29 PM
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Cool story bro 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 03:08 PM
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Turn off. Don't get me wrong, I like women with a little bit of a strong/spicy personality, but I need feminine energy that is complementary to mine. Like their natural state should be warm and sweet. Like I'll take a mid looking feminine girl next door over a hot, combative, ambitious career woman boss babe type with a gym body that wants to be part of a power couple. They just operate in fundamentally different paradigms in how they approach and live life.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 06:47 AM
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Idc, you asked a question and I answered it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 12:47 AM
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It's wild to me that men will rationalize pay $1000 bucks for a $50 worth of alcohol in order to get pussy but are too proud to just straight up hire an escort. Exception being ofc if you're rich enough that it's like $100 to a normal person.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 12:36 AM
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You don't get paid what you deserve, you get paid what you negotiate. And it turns out people who don't value their self worth by their income and "love what they do" are the ones who eat the most shit and get the lowest pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 12:30 AM
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East Asia
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 12:24 AM
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Idk, the hooker aesthetic has its appeal every now and then.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 02:20 AM
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You need to work in parallel and not in a linear fashion. Try to actively be hitting up 5 girls at the same time. One of em's bound to say yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 02:14 AM
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I do appreciate it when simp-adjacent men jump on these landmines to protect the rest of us. Cause there's no fucking way in hell I'd tolerate that bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 02:12 AM
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I think so. Not only do I get pride out of what I do, but I get respect from society, and it gives me a UMC+ income. Like, I get internal, external, AND pragmatic validation from my career. It's great.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 02:03 AM
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Yes. Cast them off onto an island of lepers and misfits.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 05:37 PM
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I don't feel bad for them. In 2023, most single women exist primarily to labor and consume. This is a multibillion dollar industry driven off of female insecurity. Personally, I think they should be spending more money. Better they put their money into the economy rather than, idk, save it, leave it to their kids, or buy real estate or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 04:33 PM
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Yeah, he handled it well. I mean the fact that she posts on TwoX means he dodged a massive bullet. It's funny how they say dating is hell, but can't understand how much of that result is self-induced.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 04:23 PM
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What if he doesn't want her there overnight, though? If the genders were flipped and he was trying to stay at her place after getting denied sex, is she an asshole for not wanting that too?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 04:06 PM
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You can be polite to people but this universal expectation that everyone be kind is naive and ridiculous. But expected in 2023. You just can't be real with people anymore. Btw, your version of "nice" basically sounds like a company exit interview. It sounds fake and forced, like you're some corporate stooge from HR.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 04:02 PM
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You seem to have issues with reading comprehension, so I'll be ending my part of this conversation now.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 01:08 AM
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I didn't say she was. You seem to have trouble with reading comprehension.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 01:03 AM
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Nobody said she wasn't allowed to, or that she was wrong. What's with this weird need to make her into some kind of victim, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 06:40 PM
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Were you not implying the woman would be unbothered after laughing with her friends? Or was that a separate idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 08:22 AM
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Nah, that's a bit too performative to actually be unbothered. Actual unbothered would just be a slight moment of confusion, shrug, and go on about your day.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 08:14 AM
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https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=charge%20it%20to%20the%20game https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Floozy (use the 2nd definition for that one)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 03:54 AM
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That's the VA loan. We still have that, my house is mortgaged on one. I put 0% down on a 800k+ mortgage.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 03:51 AM
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Personally, I'd put in just enough charm to have a viable substitute ready to go when your current relationship fizzles out.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 03:47 AM
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Charge it to the game and do better with the next floozy, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 03:45 AM
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Nah, childfree ppl have a tendency to go into any thread about kids and pontificate about why they won't have them, even though nobody asked and nobody cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 03:37 AM
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This is another good example of "watch what women do, not what they say". I have to laugh at all the women saying they'd love a gym just for women where they can be free of the male gaze and would happily join, but I think it's cap. If that was a popular sentiment, women's gyms would be making bank everywhere. The honest truth is that the population of women who want the male gaze on them (even if they say they don't), the women who just don't care about men being there, or the women who don't a…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 03:29 AM
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Missing the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 04:49 PM
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Verbally attacked and judged irl and online. Anyway, the point wasn't "poor men", it's to criticize the cultural need to coddle women. But you're coming at this with this weird aggro energy so imma just head out now....
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 04:41 PM
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Even in the height of tattoo insanity, I never got one. There's nothing in the world that I ever felt the need to get etched onto my skin. It's just always felt dumb and immature to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 04:27 PM
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Because people expect men to not care and have enough balls to do whatever they want and pursue their destiny, despite what others may say.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 04:11 PM
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Yet, you can't say that to a woman without getting attacked. Which is another reason why they'll always be the weaker sex. Not a complaint, just an observation.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 04:03 PM
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The health, safety & stability of my future children is always going to be a priority for me. "Won't someone think of the children?" I wouldn’t describe this as « frantically working hard to build insurance policy » but more as a woman who wants to do the best she can to increase revenue streams to protect her family. Hey, whatever you need to tell yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 03:58 PM
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Beautifully said. Agree 100%
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 09:14 AM
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You are both saying opinions and being a condescending ass. The two are not mutually exclusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 12:39 AM
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Ok, clearly you seem to think you know more about this than people who have actually gone through it, so I give up.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 12:22 AM
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Lol growing up working class is not "extreme stress".
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 07:54 PM
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It's not ideal but it's not like they're doomed to a life of misery. I grew up on the poverty line and it honestly wasn't that bad, you just make do. And yes I have hobbies and good financial habits. Stop being so fatalistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 07:53 PM
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I bought mine right before covid, and it's gone up 500k more than what I paid. And I'm sitting on a 2% mortgage. Best of both worlds. I don't see those rates ever getting that low again. It really fucked up the housing market hardcore because 1 mil @ 2% is the same payment as 600k at 7%. So it exploded the market because people don't care as long as they can afford the monthly payment.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 07:45 PM
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Why do you assume you would be infantalized or be financially abused by someone you chose to marry? You seem absolutely terrified of these things to the point of being paranoid and letting it drive your life decisions. Idk personally I'd hate to be married to a woman that couldn't trust me enough to be vulnerable or rely on me. Like why tf would you stay with me if you couldn't trust me? Meanwhile she's frantically working hard to build up a financial insurance policy in case I fuck up and prove…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 05:43 PM
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Nah, a grifter would have fed her ego and kept her on the hook until she wised up.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 08:27 AM
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Shohei Ohtani signed with the Dodgers. They better get this man a fuckin chip now.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 05:33 AM
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It sounds miserable. BUT, this scenario would result in me being financially-dependent on my husband and I don't think this is healthy. If you can't trust your life partner and father of your children to support you during a vulnerable period, then why tf are you getting married to him? Why would you even have kids with someone like that? What if it's not pregnancy? What if you get cancer and can't work cause you're in chemo? What if you get hit by a car and it takes years to recover? What if yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 06:35 PM
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Don't worry about it, enjoy what you have now, in the moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 06:19 PM
1

Just go for hot older women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 06:10 PM
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I would rank that list exactly as you have it but switch Fight Club with the Matrix. The late 90s was such an awesome time to be young.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 06:08 PM
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I'd say a couple years post marriage, since you hinted at that being a goal. It's one thing to talk about marriage and another thing to sign the paper.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 06:01 PM
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I agree with that. You just had to be a gamer in 90s to understand how groundbreaking HL was. Also, I left off Goldeneye. That deserves a mention.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 05:57 PM
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I'd say you're winning, but it's still too early to determine if you've won.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 05:52 PM
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In no particular order: Mechwarrior 2 Morrowind Super Metroid Half-Life
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 05:45 PM
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I did. It was gatekeeping no true scotsman fallacy shaming bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 05:41 PM
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If you're a man, people respect physically imposing men that seem like a credible threat or men that can give them something that they want. Other people will size you up. If you look sloppy, fat, weak, and nerdy, they will dismiss you as a non-threat and treat you like a one would treat a child. When you're overly nice, people start to think you lack a spine and are easy to walk all over. Also, if you're too open, overly chatty, and reveal too much of yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 05:10 PM
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Lol you can miss me with your gatekeeping bullshit. Like what is a "real man" supposed to be anyway? If I don't do it, am I a woman? Nonbinary?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 04:49 PM
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It's far more likely for a self harmer to relapse than it is for someone who's never done it before to suddenly start doing it out of the blue as an adult. But hey if you wanna play with fire and bet your future on giving people second chances, then go for it. Couldn't be me tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 04:17 PM
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My wife and I have almost nothing in common on the surface or in our background. Social class, culture, life experience, background, interests, etc. Yet we've always been extremely compatible as a couple for almost 15 years. Which tells me having things in common doesn't really mean anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 11:24 PM
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bro thats fuckin hilarious lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 11:18 PM
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What are you saying? No woman would ever misrepresent her true level of happiness to look better on social media. /s if it wasnt obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 11:09 PM
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Beautiful, well thought out response.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 10:51 PM
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Broke: middle america tradcon Woke: coastal elite tradlib
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 01:36 AM
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Lol you just extrapolated an entire unhinged agenda out of a simple fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 01:26 AM
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He is taking care of her children.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 12:25 AM
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He is 100% not the asshole. There is zero obligation to adopt a kid as a stepfather, you just have to support them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 12:23 AM
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This is what girls do for their mid looking friends that need help finding a man because other dudes won't bother.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 12:16 AM
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There's "dear diary" and then there's "I'm going to spam 10 comments every hour about the dumbest bullshit over and over and over again"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 03:28 AM
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Two thoughts: 1) I wish we can make a rule, no more than 5 top level comments in the daily thread per day, enforceable by ban. 2) I wonder if all that toxic positivity that women spew at each other actually makes them feel worse in the long run. Like if a woman is lonely and longing for a relationship, and she expresses it in public, then all of a sudden psychotic internet women jump on her with bs validation like "you don't need a man, never settle, just be happily single"... like yeah she feel…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 01:31 AM
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I think part of it is getting off on degrading a girl who wants to be degraded. It's a power thing. And you get to do it with your bros. But it's kinda lame to put your dick into something your bro just came inside of a minute ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 08:40 PM
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2nd date. Otherwise, they are almost certainly a coward who has already justified and normalized lies of omission to romantic partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 07:18 PM
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Why would a woman from one of those countries agree to marrying a western guy if it's not to get out of her country? Because she.... wants to be married to a guy she likes? What a strange question.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 03:25 PM
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Bro the best thing about enrolling my kid in martial arts is just sitting back and being entertained watching him fight other kids. It's like going to a UFC fight twice a week, but funnier because it's kids. I wish I could bring beer.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 01:58 AM
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Whatever you say. Cheers!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 01:22 AM
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No, I was talking about a life experience I've had. And I don't consider myself superior as a human, just superior to people who lean into said persona. I don't think I'm alpha at all, but the numbers are what they are. This is why I can't talk about this type of stuff, lol. People get too in their feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 09:08 PM
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They are indifferent to you, not the topic being discussed. If someone is having a discussion with someone else about this topic, they aren't obligated to consider the feelings of you, a third party intruding on their discussion. If this disturbs your peace, then feel free to do what you said in the first line.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 03:41 PM
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It's not ignorance, it's indifference. People don't owe anyone else the courtesy of giving a shit about their mental state. Especially you, of all people. We're not going to walk on eggshells and self censor just cause you feel some type of way about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 03:15 PM
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Except I don't lean into that persona, so in this case it's not really ironic.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 02:19 AM
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Then that's funny because I don't really talk shit about success or take on that alpha persona. I just discuss it matter of factly. Maybe insecurity drove them to make that comment, idk. What I'm discussing is when people do, in fact, do that. If I did the same, I'd imagine a richer person would feel the same about me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 02:18 AM
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Especially developing your back and legs. Your back and knees are the first to go.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 01:26 AM
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Sure, nobody would ever lie about how happy they really were in order to save face on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 01:19 AM
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Don't stop there, expand on your "thought".
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 01:15 AM
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One of the most pleasant discoveries I've had since breaking into the top 1% a few years back is how I passively started considering myself to be superior to others. I don't mean this to say I look down on them, but rather, it's like being an NBA player playing pickup basketball at some local park. Everyone just kinda understands the disparity and we don't need to belabor it unless someone has to get put in their place. So when I see men lean into the persona of being this successful alpha male,…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 12:18 AM
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Nah, you said "I fucking loathe children". And then you said you'd prefer suicide. And then kept ranting. ...that's bit more than just "not liking" kids. Either that or you have serious anger issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 11:45 PM
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uh....sure
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 11:38 PM
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This is the most hilarious troll I've seen in a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 11:30 PM
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This is what happens when you enable attention seeking behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 08:22 PM
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Awesome, the mods forced me to unblock everyone who annoyed me, so now im forced to have to scroll through low content teenage girl spam posts and unhinged femcel rents on the daily thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 06:57 PM
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Well, I can only speak for myself, but I don't demand obedience. It has to be given freely. If it's not, then she's not qualified to be in an LTR with me. What uniquely qualifies me to be an authority? Willingness to accept responsibility, willingness to lead, and my track record of producing results. What makes obedience superior to collaboration? It entirely depends on the quality of the leader. In my case, I'm an excellent leader. My followers (first wife, then kids) feel safer, more secure, …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 06:32 PM
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"No true scotsman...."
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 05:02 PM
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A bit suspicious how you totally sidestepped the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 07:41 AM
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Zendaya, Emma Watson, Taylor Swift, Beyonce, the girl from twilight
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 07:37 AM
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It's when you have a belief that people get what they deserve, but it ignores what actually happens in real life. In this case, pick me's don't get what they want because in your mind that would be justice for their actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 06:18 PM
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That sounds like a just world fallacy, and not an objective observation of what happens in real life. Often times, they get exactly what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 05:44 PM
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I was just thinking that women have the same contempt for pick me's that my unionized worker group has for dudes who try go above and beyond at the job. Workers at my job get upset when guys will go out of their way to do good at their job because they feel it weakens their negotiating position, and will make fun of them for being try hards. And then if they get a management job which comes with a much higher salary, they are now seen as the "enemy", even if they never did anything wrong. Women …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 04:15 PM
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Good for you for holding frame and not entertaining her immature bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 03:58 PM
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Nah my wife orgasms the hardest when she's on top.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 03:56 PM
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tattoos piercings other than ears cavalier attitude about sharing sex life with others victim mentality fat raptor claw nails fake features like lashes/wigs/extensions/colored contacts a little too casually vulgar that horrible young american female influencer accent, idk how to describe it but it's awful
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 01:27 AM
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Well you know what they say, different strokes, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 02:02 AM
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Female desire isn't required for a male orgasm. And honestly it's not even a scam if you know you're paying for it and you don't care, especially if you've got a bunch of extra cash laying around and don't really have anything else to spend it on.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 01:36 AM
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Are you speaking from experience or just speculating?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 03:52 PM
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Eh, I saw that all the time in the military.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 07:54 AM
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Who said anything about being a hero?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 05:26 AM
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Don't keep us in suspense for whatever cuckservative doomer talking point you're trying to make.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 08:40 PM
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Wrong. It means demographic change. Plenty of countries around the world that America can brain drain from. We let our lazy, entitled hedonists die off while importing the brilliant and hardworking from around the world. And those of us with wealth will profit off the whole thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 07:26 PM
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High earning women, I've noticed, tend to develop a massive sense of entitlement because of their achievements. Like they deserve a good relationship because they got an MBA and make 6 figures. Like, "I'm a smart, beautiful, educated women and I deserve the best in life". You deserve the best? Compared to who, an average looking school preschool teacher? You deserve more because you make more money and think you're hotter? The harsh truth is that most high earning women develop exceptionally una…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 05:45 PM
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Lol a passport sis in the wild. Love to see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 04:54 PM
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I'm honestly kinda fine with this. The fewer families there are, the less competition for child oriented opportunities and resources there will be for those of us still having kids. Single childless men and women juice the economy up with their endless, mindless consumption. Imagine families where their entire line ends with a few people that couldn't ever be bothered to interrupt their hedonism. They sell off whatever inherited properties and assets they get at a discount just to keep the party…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 03:59 PM
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People with kids go out. People over 30 travel. People in LTR's drink. Most people just don't dedicate their entire lifestyle to doing that. It's called balance.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 09:21 PM
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I'd argue they're both trolling each other and caught in an infinite loop.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 05:44 PM
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Those people aren't homebodies, they are normal. You're the deviation, not them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 05:33 PM
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So, basically the same as America minus the fear of getting shot?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 04:18 PM
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No he won't. That's just hyperbole coming from ignorant white people who get shell-shocked because they've literally never experienced racial discrimination before in their entire lives and suddenly think it's worst thing ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 04:17 PM
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Yeah but the greatest archer will just try again, because on his way to becoming great, he had to fail a bunch and learn from his mistskes. Failure doesn't shatter his confidence. Incels on the other hand try a few times and give up, complaining because they didn't have immediate success. So if that's what destroys you, then you deserve to be where you end up. A cautionary tale for men who lack the balls to deal with adversity.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 08:13 AM
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Tokyo can be tough because young women are grinding so hard at work just to stay afloat. I'd do Kansai region for sure, maybe Fukuoka if you want a more chill vibe. Plus the weak yen turns 500k into 800k. You better know your nihongo though. If you're ok with heat and humidity, Singapore has a lot of English speakers and is diverse af, which i like. Taiwan less so but imo way more fun than Tokyo, and not as cold. Never was a big fan of Seoul, but I like other parts of Korea.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 08:01 AM
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While you can't decide the outcome, you can certainly influence it based off of your own choices of who you fuck with and the company you keep.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 07:42 AM
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IMO the trick to looking upper middle class is downplaying your wealth by appearing normal, but being able to do shit normal people can't do. Also, social proof from your friends, family, and work. International travel is a big one. Also casually attending different events that middle class people wouldn't have access to. Boomer UMC looks a lot different than Zoomer UMC.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 02:47 AM
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That's because that rule is designed to benefit her, not you. She couldn't really give a fuck if you die alone or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 02:20 PM
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Nah, imo that ain't the way. I've got 2. All you gotta do is balance it. Sometimes their needs come first, sometimes they don't. You have to use your judgment as a leader. Constant sacrifice isn't leadership, it's martyrdom. And when you martyr yourself, they become spoiled and entitled because they'll always expect the world to cater to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 05:57 PM
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Lol it's not that dramatic, dude. Fucking "sacrifice your life" wtf are you on about. This isn't the movies. You aren't Iron Man. You just need to be willing to show up and do the work but also put the needs of the whole team above your own selfish desires sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 05:03 PM
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People in good relationships find a way to make it work without a whole lot of trouble. They find a way to success. People in shit relationships struggle no matter how much help they have. They snatch defeat from the jaws of victory.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 04:52 PM
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Hunger is a biological scam to eat food. Love/lust is a biological scam to make babies. Feeling cold or hot is a biological scam to seek shelter and regulate body temperature. What are we, if not a system of biological scams designed to achieve survival and reproduction?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 04:48 PM
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Imagine being so controlling over your kids that your own family members aren't even allowed to participate in raising them, even when they're too young to remember any of that stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 04:32 PM
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Because their grandparents probably pitched in for them. Their parents probably pitched in for their kids. Now when it's their turn to pitch in, they suddenly cant be bothered and want to live their own lives? Sounds like boomers logic to me. And then they wonder why they get put in a home and nobody visits them. What goes around comes around.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 04:15 PM
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You can be a soccer mom and still be a sexual being, but it requires effort and a bit of luck with who you marry. It takes effort to lose the baby weight. It takes effort to keep it off. The guy you marry, if I'm being honest, has to be into the milf aesthetic. And that guy has to be a sexual being himself despite being older and more stressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 04:06 PM
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Nah. Waiting til tomorrow night.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 11:26 PM
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I'm not really that big on Thanksgiving, but I gotta admit it's nice waking up in a bed with the wife wrapped around me and snuggling for an hour. Then walking out to my mom and aunt cooking up a feast for everyone. Reject degeneracy; take the family pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 05:27 PM
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Shooters shoot. Shit, even a 1/100 success rate is still a win. Getting the ick is a you problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 06:02 AM
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Came here to post this same thing. Establish dominance.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 05:55 AM
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Highly agree with your first point. There's a hopelessly mercenary vibe to relationships in America, and with Americans in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 05:52 AM
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One thing I've noticed over the years in this sub is how often both men and women will suffer from a weird sexual just world fallacy. Like if you make any sort of comment not enthusiastically supporting a sex-positive modern progressive yass queen slay feminist narrative like discussing n-counts, dealbreakers, or generally any sort of standard at all they don't agree with, they will act like you'll be forever alone. At least, that's what I've seen over and over again. Ok, for example, sometimes …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 10:53 PM
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Sorry, after re-reading it, my point didn't make much sense. It's more like being responsible for having to "carry" a man as a dependent. Making sure he's protected, provided for, etc. Women see it as being his mommy, while men see doing that for a woman as simply being a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 10:20 PM
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Not being told what to do comes with power. But power comes with responsibility and accountability. In a traditional household, if the man fucks up, everyone knows who to blame. When it's 50/50, you can veto the things you don't want to happen, but you can also point your finger at the other person too if things go wrong. Notice how women will almost never demand more than 50%. That's because at 50%, their objective is achieved, anything more is a waste.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 08:56 PM
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Great quote.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 08:47 PM
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It's because modern women want the power of authority in a relationship (they don't want a man to tell them what to do) but not the burden of responsibility that comes with it. 50-50 is the only logical way to get that. Why men buy into it? Well, a lot of dudes will agree to anything if it gets them access to sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 08:39 PM
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As Kendrick Lamar once said "I can't fake [being] humble just because your ass is insecure". When you get to a certain level of success, you get tired of hearing people make excuses. You even give people the tools and the knowledge to become successful and they sit on their ass and do nothing with it. And that's when you realize, most people suck and deserve where they are in life. Like, women as a whole could literally mobilize and take over society and the government tomorrow, rewrite the cons…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 08:29 PM
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My job involves a lot of travel, and it really struck me how many dudes whose lives literally revolve around being a passport bro. Like they'll do work assignments in various countries in Latin America and have multiple girlfriends, wives, even entire 2nd families. It's wild. Like a geographically separated harem of 3rd world sugar babies. I mean these dudes are in their 50s and 60s, and they'll just do the same stuff for multiple decades until they retire. I knew it existed, but until I did one…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 08:21 PM
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Japanese
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 07:46 PM
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My life's biggest challenge hasn't been getting money, possessions, achievements, or sex. It's learning the most difficult possible language for a native English speaker well into adulthood. I wish I had started when I was like, 13. Instead I was probably playing Mechwarrior 2 on my computer or some shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 07:45 PM
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Yes, thank you for showing me that I'm not the only one who thinks this.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 07:39 PM
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About 6 days a month would get me 200k-250k/yr.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 10:05 PM
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Yeah, this is one of the benefits of being in a highly skilled union trade where you're paid by an hour and work under a CBA. Because I'm senior, I get all my benefits as long as I work more than 0 hours.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 10:03 PM
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There's ways to do it if you know how to work your schedule.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 09:59 PM
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Nope, union job.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 09:59 PM
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I was always a big fan of early retirement, but instead I realized that it makes more sense to do semi-retirement, and hold on to my company perks and union benefits while cutting hours. So, in 2 years I'll cut my hours down to 50%, and then after about 10 years of half-time working, I'll cut down to 25%, and do that for another 10 years, after which I'll be in full retirement. I figure that's the best way to do it. That way, instead of going from full steam ahead to staring at the abyss of deat…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 08:26 PM
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Sure, it can be, but good luck getting those women to admit the possibility that they themselves are the problem, not men in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 05:49 PM
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Way better to have too many kids. Sure we may not be rich, but we'd have what we need to get by and be surrounded by love. That is a life worth living. A life spent feeding ones own survival needs and hedonistic desires is not, IMO. Id rather have 7 kids than 0. But I'm cool with the 3 I got, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 05:46 PM
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Nope, i just have to be myself, and generally people tend to like me. I get all the benefits of social currency without having to spend any actual effort to attain it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 05:37 PM
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Saying men are intimidated by their intelligence is a 4-letter c word that rhymes with rope. Intelligent women get cuffed all the time. The difference is, those women don't make intelligence, degrees, and career their entire personality. They often have a lot of qualities that correlate with high intelligence but don't lend themselves to good relationships. They also tend to be rather awkward, entitled, and neurotic. Like its cool if you've got a PhD but men have to actually like you as a person…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 05:29 PM
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Value for the purposes of sexual selection and leagues are aggregate assessments within a particular population. For example, billy bob redneck with the lifted truck would probably play well in the Midwest and the South, but not so much in LA or NYC. There's no other way to communicate this rise/drop in desirability outside of the concept of women determining that man's SMV. So yeah the aggregate of female sexual attraction towards you does determine your value. But no one individual woman can, …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 05:09 PM
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I hope this sounded more clever in your head than it did actually typed out.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 02:06 AM
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Bro, imagine having but one life to live, only one shot at ever existing, and you spent most of it at some bullshit office job most of the time, and then in your spare time fucking people on apps until you got old and ugly. That's it. That's what you did with your one shot. Couldn't be me, man.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 01:57 AM
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I consider myself one of the lucky ones cause not only am I doing what I wanted to do as a kid, but I'm also making bank doing it. Not only do I satisfy my inner child, but also the inner responsible adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 06:02 PM
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The lack of self-awareness is hilarious. "It's not body shaming when I say it!!"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 07:53 AM
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Ayyy... you do what you gotta do to escape this prison.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 06:23 AM
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No, that's just a house slave that thinks they're free. Which is why so many young people are into early retirement.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 05:15 AM
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That's still fear-driven. Because if you could just rely on other people, you wouldn't need the wealth.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 05:04 AM
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That's the exact opposite of what I'm talking about. Selling out to the capitalist machine out of fear of being broke.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 04:51 AM
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I've noticed that so many women's actions in life seem to revolve around living in fear of destitution. As a girldad, my #1 goal is to raise an easygoing, kind woman whose hopes and dreams guide her choices rather than her fears and worries. I'm going to free her from this capitalist slave machine and give her the most important thing: freedom.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 04:35 AM
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It means you're letting your fears dictate your actions and decisions rather than your hopes and ambitions. If you want an awesome relationship you have to put yourself out there and trust ppl. It's a risk, but as the saying goes, "nothing ventured, nothing gained". If you're too afraid to do that, you either end up settling for something inadequate or just quitting altogether aka "happily single".
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 04:15 AM
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Yeah that's what I'd call "playing scared".
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 03:56 AM
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I'm bimodal, looks wise it's either gonna be a slim-thicc big booty dark skin latina/black girl, or a mid looking athletic asian milf with sharp masculine features, like Lucy Liu or or Ok Ja-yeon. Personality wise, she's gotta be a sweet and cute, but ride or die and down for anything. Also needs a bit of a strong personality. I like strong women. Political, left leaning but with strong family values.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 03:47 AM
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Bro I became a crossbows-akimbo bard whose purpose in life is to shoot bad guys, lay down sick beats, and smash fantasy thots. Cause if I had superpowers, that's be what I'd be doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 03:25 AM
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250k honestly isn't that much these days. I don't she's that delusional if she runs in UMC circles.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 03:17 AM
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Cleveland, probably.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 03:07 AM
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Not everyone is supposed to get it. The educational expectations of an impoverished high school dropout single mom are not gonna be the same as a rich privileged kid from a family of professionals. So, if you met or exceeded your own expectations, then that should give you confidence in yourself. You set a goal and met the objective, which means you can probably do more challenging things and not be scared of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:00 PM
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Depends on what your expectations for yourself are. Do you see an associates as an achievement or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 04:28 PM
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She's already fucking with your mind because you're here posting this shit. Just block her and be done with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 02:36 PM
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Nah bro, that's your insecurity.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 10:13 PM
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looooool he keeps doubling down
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 10:03 PM
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Ngl, I'm kinda embarrassed for you at this point, you keep digging the hole deeper lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 09:55 PM
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Irony: a state of affairs or an event that seems deliberately contrary to what one expects and is often amusing as a result. sorry bro, but you shoulda just looked it up instead of exposing your own ignorance
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 09:50 PM
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Someone misspelling an easy word after touting how educated they are pretty easily fits the definition of irony. Look it up if you need to.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 04:48 PM
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Guess you missed the class on irony, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 08:43 PM
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It's waver, college educated physician.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 08:01 PM
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Dude clearly hasn't learned how to virtue signal in a believable way.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 06:37 PM
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Girls who lack the ability to attract a quality mate will always look outward for their answers, instead of inwards. Which is a loser mentality. They always find a way to make excuses for failure instead of finding a way to success.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 06:26 PM
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Alright, think whatever you want. Have a happy weekend.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 04:44 PM
1

Trust and skepticism are two sides of the same spectrum. Either one communicates the same idea. It's the speaker's choice to use either to frame what they want to get across. For example, I'm skeptical about the quality of your education in English composition and your credibility to make such a demand.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 04:29 PM
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Using a scale of trust communicates the same concept. Using the word skepticism isn't required if it doesn't flow in the conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 04:20 PM
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This is why you don't seriously get involved with women that come from broken homes or fucked up families. Imagine marrying this girl and inheriting her in laws. Couldn't be me, fam. If this dude was smart, he'd have his fun with her and then send her back to the streets.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 04:12 PM
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But trust is a spectrum, not an all-or-nothing thing. You can have a low, medium, or high amount of trust. Even then, it differs based on the subject. Like I can trust my wife enough to not fuck around on me, while not trusting her enough to give her a general power of attorney.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 04:08 PM
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Hmm, 60 dollars an hour to nanny 3 kids during the day? I guess it's worth it if they're really young.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 07:01 PM
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Most younger adults are lazy and undisciplined. Take solace in the fact that you're pretty normal in that regard.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 06:53 PM
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It's fringe in Japan, I know that for a fact. Korea, less so, but certainly not the norm unless your family is hardcore traditionalist. Both countries are just too westernized unless you start delving into families that are into fringe traditionalism or religion. Singapore, Vietnam, Philippines, and India aren't even East Asia. China, I don't have much familiarity with.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 06:22 PM
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First, I haven't been trying to teach you anything. Second, I know a lot about certain Asian cultures, and less about others. You, on the other hand, seem pretty quick to claim knowledge about an entire continent. Are you projecting? I'm not sure. Third, I just said, absent any clarifying information, it seems fringe. The fact that you're so secretive about it only lends credence to my suspicion.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 06:04 PM
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Is the cat dead? No way to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 05:55 PM
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LOL, alright whatever you say.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 05:54 PM
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I don't think that at all. You keep taking offense where I didn't mean any, but I took you for a more logical pragmatic type. I'll tread more lightly next time.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 05:50 PM
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Yes but that person is upset that they even have to communicate such things. I would like these things without having to beg for them or feel like an inconvinience. People always say that you can’t expect these things without “telling your partner you want it” but I am so tired of begging to be loved. It feels like they are only doing it out of obligation, not because they genuinely want to go out of their way for me because they care for me. I mean, they are doing it out of obligation. If my wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 05:41 PM
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Schrodinger's virgin. She's never tried, so the claim is unverifiable.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 05:38 PM
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Nah, you very clearly leaned towards B. Even OP picked that up. If multiple people are comprehending something different than what you've meant, then you're probably the one with the communication issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 05:37 PM
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What I stated would be true regardless of who it was directed at. But the fact that you're taking it personally (and then throwing a personal accusation at me) says a lot more. And yes, in my opinion, it is fringe. Feel free to correct me, but up to this point you've refused to name what culture, or even what country you're talking about (other than "East Asia"), which, if anything, makes your claim that it's not fringe very highly suspect.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 05:36 PM
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"I don't do stupid hypotheticals like this" proceeds to do the hypothetical "Nope, it's not an either or because that's fucking stupid" clearly leans toward one of the either/or answers
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 04:20 PM
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A female virgin that saves herself for marriage but can't get a guy to marry her is an incel. Because she wants to be married and sexually active, but can't achieve it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 04:15 PM
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More bros in the family to bro out with.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 03:58 PM
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You're more of a schrodinger's virgin because the result hasn't materialized yet. If everything goes to plan, you'll have been a weirdo. If it doesn't, you'll have been an incel and never realized it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 03:57 PM
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Hooker for a sister, easy. My mother and daughter are in my direct bloodline. A sister isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 03:52 PM
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Men can show affection many different ways. She, however, wants it done specifically on her terms. I rarely bought dumb trinkets or did that kind of inconsequential stuff for my wife. But I did do things for her like take her on trips to see ancient temples or set up experiences that she always wanted to do but never could.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 03:51 PM
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If your "success" is confined to academia, then you probably won't be thought of as the most successful.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 06:55 AM
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Lately, I've been looking into setting up a trust fund for my kids, researching charitable donations to cut down on my taxes, and coming up with plans to invest in international real estate. The money is coming in faster than I can spend it, and it feels like i gotta come up with all these new schemes to stash it in whatever. When I had my first real job and a proper savings account, retirement investments, and home equity, I felt like I outgrew my working class roots. But now I think I'm even o…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 04:00 AM
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If you had demonstrated a past ability to work with partners and compromise, then it would be logical to take you at your word. If you've never compromised for anyone, and say that will only do it once your demands (marriage) are made, then it would be a foolish to take you at your word.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 05:51 PM
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You said yourself that you have a habit of breaking up at the first sign of trouble. Which tells me you have very little experience actually comprising with partners. "Well I'd do it for my husband" is fine to say cause it's theoretical, you never have to actually back up your words. Let me ask you this, would you marry a guy who's had plenty of chances to commit, but chose not to every time?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 05:47 PM
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You can do whatever the tf you want, but you really need to decide whether want to be with this dude, or you don't. Compromising on where you live is one thing. Having unilateral control is another.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 05:32 PM
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It doesn't matter what you're being asked to compromise -- your mindset and logic reveals the immaturity, not the situation at hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 03:59 PM
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That's not a compromise, it's a zero sum tit-for-tat. Like you feel like you have to take something from him to feel like you were made whole on your sacrifice.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 03:56 PM
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Learning how to compromise in a serious relationship is how you make it to a marriage in the first place. Honestly, you seem pretty immature for even a serious relationship, let alone a marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 03:49 PM
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Him not wanting to be an active dad has nothing to do with men "deserving" to be single. You're just taking your trashy family baby mama drama and using it to talk shit about men in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 03:44 PM
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Chaotic neutral thot slayer.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 03:09 PM
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Very cool 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 07:10 PM
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This is how my wife got me. Game recognize game, I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 06:52 PM
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Been having fun for 12 years already!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 06:45 PM
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But we both know that's not what people mean by saying it's "hard work", which was then point before embarking on this pedantic tangent.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 06:45 PM
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The amount of effort to take care of my partner is negligible. The sum total of effort required to live with my partner is actually less than the sum total of effort to live without her. Leadership isn't really conscious effort for me, though, that might have a lot to do with it. Not more than, say, breathing, or beating my own heart.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 06:17 PM
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Not really. I don't doubt that it requires that for you, but that's a function of your relationships, and it isn't a universal truth. I'm sorry you've been made to feel like you have to spend more effort than being single.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 06:13 PM
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Well, sucks to suck. At picking, anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 06:03 PM
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No, they're talking about the delta in effort compared to being single. Like, I still have to get up and go to work whether I'm in a relationship or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 05:48 PM
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Relationships and marriage don't require work, at least in the sense of conscious effort. Your relationship and marriage may require it, however.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 05:45 PM
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Were you aware that other human beings have the ability to communicate their ideas and experiences through the written or spoken word?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 05:40 PM
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There's no additional effort to maintain the relationship, genius.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 05:36 PM
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I always feel sorry for people who say relationships or marriages are hard work. I've found that marriage and relationships are way too easy and effortless if the 1) the girl is diligent team player that can trust and follow the guy's lead, 2) the guy is a good leader and generally a good dude who handles his shit and doesn't cheat, and 3) they both fuck regularly. It's pretty simple, yet people constantly overcomplicate it. Particularly, chronically online overly neurotic "educated" people.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 05:04 PM
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You know it's funny, despite agreeing with many red pill truths, my actions in life are very blue pilled. All I do is love my wife, do what I can to make her happy, and generally work, sacrifice, and provide for her, and a whole bunch of other stuff that would be actions that describe a beta provider.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 07:02 AM
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Gonna assume 20s isn't an option here. 2010s followed by the 1960s. Fuck the Beatles, they're so goddamn overrated. The 90s were the greatest music decade of all time.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 05:59 AM
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You're the man now dog and all the memes that spawned from it was the absolute pinnacle of humor on the internet and I'll die on that fucking hill. I was not a fan of all your base belong to us, though. That felt a little contrived.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 05:44 AM
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I wonder if that career field has taken a hit in prestige and pay. Usually the more a field shifts towards women, the worse the pay and conditions get.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 04:19 AM
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She can influence them, but it doesn't necessarily mean the kid is going to follow. You'd be surprised how little influence you really have over a kid as a parent.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 09:03 PM
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Just go frugal and live off of 45k. Might require relocating to the countryside.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 08:47 PM
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My wife made me fail cause she knows I have a thing for milfs in yoga pants.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 03:10 PM
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That's weird and out of touch that you'd assume the kids would hate him just for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 03:05 PM
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The effect is so miniscule as to be a complete nonfactor.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 01:12 PM
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I spend my days delivering weebs and sexpats across the ocean and my nights simping for a feisty middle aged woman. Normally making 3 and a half bills a year but might clear 5 in 2024. We'll see.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 07:14 AM
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Failed solopreneurship ventures. Theme parks. Raptor claw nails. Pyramid schemes. Religion. Antivax rants. Homeschooling. I can keep going.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 07:05 AM
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The worst are the morons who say shit like "everyone has trauma and needs to go to therapy". They want to globalize their own bs problems so they can feel normal by saying you're just as fucked up as they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 03:06 PM
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Lol like going to Berkeley is somehow supposed to make the grift more legitimate. "I'm a UCLA trained tarot card reader"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 02:58 PM
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Doesn't matter, had sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 02:51 PM
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And maybe (just maybe) that's the only thing that some attractive women have to offer.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 12:55 AM
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So, shouldn't we then rate attractiveness by the ability to command what you want from the dating market? If it's too impossibly subjective, it becomes a completely useless metric in the conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 12:51 AM
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Nobody forced you to get a vaccine. You always had the option to opt out and accept the consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 03:19 AM
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Couldn't be me, fam, luckily my stroke game is on point and I haven't needed to in a long time. But what gets me is when dudes who use it as a crutch because they can't get their girl off otherwise, and then project that to every other man. It's like...bro... if you can't get it done any other way then don't tell on yourself like that lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 12:22 AM
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Honestly it's not so bad as you get older. I was never super athletic, but the older I get just maintaining what I already have, the better I look comparatively.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 09:38 PM
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I didn't say western women in general. You said that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 04:40 PM
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Only because his reality destroys the just world fallacy that you desperately cling to. It'a funny watching you scramble to come up with excuses to explain how men can possibly find success despite not adhering your dogmatic framework of how relationships should work.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 03:28 PM
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The most entertaining aspect is how much of a hater that one woman was. Like her emotional rollercoaster went from denial to anger to disgust to shaming to concern trolling. It was a sight to behold. Western women really do be takin personal offense to dudes they deem as less-than finding success on terms they can't dictate.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 03:14 PM
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No family is 100% drama free, but to think all families are a little fucked up is pure projection. It's more comforting to think everyone is fucked up so that you feel more normal. Misery loves company. But the hard truth is that, no, it's not normal. Own your shit and stop projecting.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 11:16 PM
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Absolutely. Maybe not on apps or in the bars of some big metropolis, but they're definitely out there. Especially women from more conservative cultures.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 05:02 PM
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I don't know any moms who would actually pump milk just for a night feeding when you're already right there. Just for the dad to have to do it instead? That's a waste. Anyway, I've done this kid thing 3 times over. So yes I know how this works.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 04:01 PM
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My goal is to have my girl with an undying, burning urge to satisfy me sexually, maintain my home, and bear/raise my children. She should also have a little bit of a strong, sassy personality that ultimately covers up a massive emotional vulnerability that would shatter her soul if I ever left her.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 03:51 PM
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Jennie is just barely unique and different enough looking to be hot, but most kpop girls pretty much look the same and tbh it's a turn off when they follow the same plastic surgery template. I tend to like the "unnie" type of look. Like Kang So-Ra or Park Yoo-na. Like juuuuusst a little too grown up and sexy to be "cute": https://0.soompi.io/wp-content/uploads/7/s/a0/467575/467575.jpg?s=900x600&e=t https://assets-a1.kompasiana.com/items/album/2021/08/03/profil-biografi-park-yoo-na-6109493706310e…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 03:31 PM
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Unless you're bottle feeding, there is absolutely no reason for the dad to get up along with the mom. Other than the mom being spiteful and petty.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 03:12 PM
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Ugh thank you. It's jarring to see her, a mid, average looking girl you'd see on the street, around a bunch of attractive celebrities.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 03:06 PM
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Yeah for sure. My hope is that it would allow her to be a more well-traveled global citizen type that thinks of life in a more holistic big picture way, than the typical American career woman who defines her life by materialism and job titles.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 10:04 PM
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Sure, every woman in PPD is complete and happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 09:51 PM
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This is why my daughter is gonna be a preschool teacher or pilates instructor or some shit, live in a paid off condo by the beach, driving a pink BMW, and have zero student debt from a communications degree from USC or something. Quintessential rich Cali girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 09:39 PM
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Lol imagine thinking you're living a complete life when in reality you're just a heavily indebted wage slave that was gaslit into thinking it was your idea all along.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 09:28 PM
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I'm really having to learn how to do that. I always feel like the broke working class kid of my childhood and my peers live a lot more lavishly than I do, but it's just hard for me to throw away lifelong habits. My wife is pretty cheap, too, typical immigrant, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 04:23 AM
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Well, then that experience either strengthens his resolve to become something greater or confirms exactly who he already is.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 09:17 PM
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I love this joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 09:09 PM
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Umm not because of hitting puberty earlier. That's ridiculous. It's OK, bro, had a stupid take. Better to just let it fade away at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 09:05 PM
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It's not emasculating at all, why would you even get that idea when it's literally never been a problem before.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 08:53 PM
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Nah they don't. You've never even been.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 08:46 PM
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Nah we should keep it all volunteer and force those kids to work the mines and fields while we give migrant laborers the opportunity for free college and citizenship. Pretty sure little old abuelas would be the hardest motherfuckers on the battlefield.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 08:14 PM
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As a man, all I can tell you is this: lol die mad about it 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 05:45 PM
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The nerdiest girls give the most based takes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 05:40 PM
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Agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 05:38 PM
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Ayo, fuck the Astros. Those cheating bitches killed the MLB for me and I heard they lost so... fuck em.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 05:01 AM
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The bamboo ceiling exists primarily because of this. Asian kids are notoriously rule-following and risk averse, which is good for studious, safe, predictable upper middle class careers where you just do what you were told. That's because Asian cultures rewards rule following and knowing your place instead of winning. But American culture rewards winners, not rule followers. They want dudes with that killer instinct, not people who shy away from danger. People who can hustle, bend the rules and n…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 03:57 AM
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Not at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 01:51 AM
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From what I've seen, most women here lump both into one group and often won't make any sort of effort to acknowledge the distinction.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 01:43 AM
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That's not at all the picture I painted. You're clearly not interested in what I'm actually saying, just looking for a reason to feel victimized and spout your talking points.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 01:22 AM
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Men are more likely to buy adult toys like sports cars, motorcycles, ATVs, boats, airplanes, big ol trucks, RV's, guns, shit like that. A man's flex is a garage full of shit to do whatever hobbies they want. Women are more likely to buy luxury consumer goods, purchase "experiences" like travel or beauty treatments in order to engage in conspicuous consumption. A woman's flex is to look rich and show a lavish lifestyle to post on the 'gram.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 09:31 PM
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I'm saying that people whose actions show that they have a lifelong desire to be a long term marriage partner, and have the skills and abilities one would look for in a long term marriage partner, tend to be more suited at being a long term marriage partners. You, on the other hand, are trying to fabricate an argument I'm not even trying to make. Probably because you have no point, but idk.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 09:26 PM
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Tin Cup, Wedding Crashers, Coming to America
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 09:10 PM
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You can be a woman with a career, but not necessarily a "career woman".
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 09:00 PM
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I never suggested they should change. It's simply a caveat emptor.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 08:57 PM
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Who says it's shameful? If I wanted to hire someone to do a project for my house, I'd probably find someone who has demonsted those skills in the past, not an doctor with none of the skills or experience looking to do a career change because they lost their medical license.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 07:28 PM
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It's not about getting married. It's about learning how to identify who is good wife material and who is a ticking time bomb.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 07:26 PM
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It's not generally seen as positive. Women have a very hard time admitting to settling, even when they know it's true.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 07:22 PM
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Single women getting to their mid 30s and suddenly wanting a marriage (or kids) when they didnt before is a massive red flag. If she just flew from her ho phase to her career phase to her wife phase, she's demonstrated a history of trying something new, getting bored after a few years, and launching into a new chapter. The wall conveniently aligns with this, like an NBA player suddenly discovering a love for perimeter shooting as his athleticism falls off a cliff from before. You as a man are ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 05:00 PM
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Common sense ain't common, what else can you even say about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 04:43 AM
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Nah it just kinda feels like amorphous fat getting in the way. But if you really wanna be a baller, go for the hug and then do a back suplex.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 04:41 AM
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Idk, seeing a bunch of women in their 60s and 70s still being sexual beings is pretty cool, and I fuck with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 04:40 AM
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Why would you assume I was unsettled from the words I wrote? I stated an objective fact and then gave an opinion. Unless ofc your intention was to troll.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 03:59 AM
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What you find creepy is the result of your socialization and acculturation. I've seen enough bad shit in life to know that a good dude is a good dude, and a bad dude is a bad dude, and the age is irrelevant in that calculation.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 03:31 AM
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I can cosign this. I tried watching anime a long time ago and it felt like it was explicitly created for weird disaffected socially awkward shut ins. I do like k-dramas though, I watch that shit all the time. The acting is top notch.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 03:24 AM
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Aaaaaand there it is, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 07:03 AM
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I think at this point the conversation has departed the envelope of reality, so you can keep going, but I think I've had enough for one night.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 06:40 AM
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Honestly if I was a single finance bro, it'd be a hell of a lot easier to just compartmentalize relationships into regularly scheduled transactions by utilizing sugar babies, escorts, and maybe a FWB. There's a certain point where you make the money faster than you can spend it, but what truly becomes precious is time. I would legit hire some dude from India to manage my manwhoring schedule and which nuts to bust at which time.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 06:14 AM
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We say people are going to do what they do because there's nothing you can do to change the system itself. You may as well be debating the currents of the ocean. It's going to go where it wants to, all the same. But you can do is debate how to navigate those ocean currents to arrive at your chosen destination.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 06:05 AM
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Techbros are pretty damn unattractive tbqh. Yeah it makes money but people don't really respect them outside of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 05:55 AM
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The wall isn't about struggling in dating, it's simply the recognition that they're on the wrong side of their attractiveness peak. Similar to sports, there are certainly players that can still do amazing past the age of 30, but the majority start fading fast, and even the superstars start to fall off after a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 05:45 AM
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Change the system? It's not a regulated market where you can just impose new rules, it's an aggregation of the actions of millions of people trying to navigate dating, sex, and relationships. As people go, so goes the market. The market is simply a reflection of how those people's wants and desires. A man's ability to secure positive results in such a system makes his value self-evident.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 05:36 AM
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Well, it's not that the dating market is above being questioned, but results are results. Like, you either have the ability to achieve your desired results, or you don't. And I'm talking about what someone actually desired, not what most people do by trying, failing, lowering their expectations, and capping to anyone who will listen about how they simply wanted that all along.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 04:50 AM
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Broke: spoiling a girl with material possessions, jewelry, dinner dates Woke: spoiling a girl with real estate, stocks, and international travel
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 04:25 AM
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An innate tendency or instinct. Sort of like how young adults have a predisposition toward staying up late, while the elderly have a predisposition toward going to bed early.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 06:34 PM
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I think its more like women have a general predisposition toward nesting that men don't have. Whereas men have a predisposition toward taking on more dangerous work.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 06:23 PM
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Even if preferences weren't biological, men have no right to get upset by it. That's petty and immature. People want what they want. There's billions of humans out there, you don't have to match with all of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 05:08 PM
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Not really. Because every post i make that references my own life is very positive. Like I literally talk about how grateful and thankful I am for my life, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 04:47 PM
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See this is why I tell men not to marry women who think like that. They have one foot in the relationship and one foot out to defend against the marriage failing. With a marriage, you jump in with both feet or don't jump in at all. I'm not saying she can't work, but if that's the reason why she's working....
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 04:38 PM
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How much money are we talking. Cause some of yall will get territorial and talk about "my money" and it ends up being like 40k a year 😆.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 04:25 PM
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When I tell people that any history of mental illness or abuse is my deal-breaker for a serious relationship, this is one of the reasons why. Not my job to rescue some girl from her demons. Like imagine dealing with this bullshit the rest of your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 03:48 PM
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I was doing some financial housekeeping today, and idk, sometimes I look at my own life and wonder what I did to deserve so much success and love when so many others don't have it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 07:08 PM
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What's fake about that? It's a pretty common dating strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 05:36 AM
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Because people generally do it out of fear, not out of apathy. Telling someone you're not interested after dating them is a normal and expected social obligation in dating. It's not a law, but it is a widespread expectation. I could buy that you don't owe them anything because you don't give a shit, if that is consistent with your normal attitudes and actions in every day life. But if it's not, then you're doing it because you're a straight up bitch-made coward, period dot.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 05:29 AM
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The quality of women hasn't gone up. Their ability to live in a bubble and believe the delusional bullshit they tell each other to avoid the ugly truth has skyrocketed. But i agree with your assessment, both sides have gone way down. Just a bunch of fuckin losers shitposting about each other, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 02:13 AM
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I'd take A and just never commit to her, keep it light and fun, she'll pester me year after year for marriage, I dump her and then find wifey shortly after.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 02:05 AM
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The shitty decision is financing a degree that they have no realistic way to pay back, it has nothing to do with what you studied. Like you knew what the career prospects were and just kept piling on the debt anyway. That's a shitty decision. If you want to argue that college should be free, then bailing out student loans took us much further from that goal, because now schools are incentivized to raise tuition even higher knowing Presidents will simply just forgive the debt to buy votes. Costs …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 03:44 PM
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Don't think the kids are the naive ones here....
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 03:18 PM
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The NBA team Washington Bullets did the same thing in the mid 90s I recall.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 02:37 PM
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You know, I think Trump was by far the worst president we've ever had, but I do feel an urge to punish Biden for canceling billions in student loans just to get votes. Question is, is my dislike for a racist capitalist grifter stronger than my dislike for legions of smug, lazy, worthless Gen Z kids getting bailed out of the consequences of their shitty decisions? Truly a moral dilemma.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 02:35 PM
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So then it's not really East Asian mainstream, it's a niche subculture that happens to be based in East Asia. It'd be like a Mormon or Amish passing themselves off as "American". Yes, technically, but seems a bit misleading, possibly on purpose.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 02:20 PM
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You never actually say which culture you're talking about, though, just a vague mention of East Asia. I mean, there's cults in East Asia, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 02:07 PM
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If your reasoning for restraint is based off of cultural norms or religious rules that require everyone to abstain from sex, then that makes sense if males are specifically and unambiguously held to the same standard. But if males and females have asymmetric cultural obligations and expectations, you don't get to demand symmetry because it's fair. You either follow the dogma, or you don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 06:43 AM
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Possibly.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 06:05 AM
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If I took the most unhinged, dumbest, most ridiculous people I've ever met irl, I still think they'd be more reasonable than most redditors.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 06:02 AM
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Perhaps. Perhaps not.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 05:55 AM
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Sure is wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 05:55 AM
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I wasn't talking to you. I want the person who made the statement to confirm or deny that there's an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 05:43 AM
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If you're going to juxtapose those examples with OP's topic and not address the obvious issue with it, then any hope of a reasonable discussion is out the window.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 05:24 AM
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Not really, career women still look for beta bucks. I'd argue even moreso due to hypergamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 01:10 AM
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Do you realize I said "if I were to ever be single again" in the first line of my original post? Obviously, I'm not desperate.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 01:52 PM
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I mean he does look pretty young but he's got a very boyish haircut and a babyface with smooth skin, even for an asian dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 05:54 AM
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See, I disagree. Once I moved to Asia it became pretty easy to tell what someone's general age was. The problem is when your frame of reference is fat white Americans who stay out in the sun and age like milk.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 05:28 AM
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That's a really good observation.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 03:13 AM
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Why are you taking this shit so personally? Lol seek help.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 01:39 AM
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It's wild how people on the internet will get damn near personally offended if you express a completely benign dating preference that doesn't include them or the type of women they like. Like you're not going to die alone if you narrow your pool from 2 million to 1 million. Jfc, people.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 01:38 AM
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This is such an absurd reaction. If I cut my dating pool by 90% because I only wanted to date black women, you wouldn't say the same thing. You wouldn't say yikes if a Korean man only wanted a Korean woman. Yall have this weird desperation/scarcity mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 01:26 AM
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I love kids. Honestly, I'd be more willing to overlook that one depending on the situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 05:49 PM
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It has all those things, and more, it's not just stereotypes you see on TV. The LA metro is incredibly diverse in culture, people, political views, and lifestyles.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 05:47 PM
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Your 5% status seems based off of your parents' wealth, not your own.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 05:41 PM
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Los Angeles
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 05:36 PM
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Sure, doesn't bother me any.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 05:29 PM
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No, not really. But stay confidently ignorant inside your bubble.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 05:24 PM
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We simply wouldn't progress past the fun dating stage. She could be a FWB, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 05:14 PM
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Nah, there are tons of women that fit the profile in everyday life. Gotta get outside of the bubble of mostly liberal, white, middle-class career women in urban centers.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 05:07 PM
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27-45
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 05:01 PM
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Besides the fact I think it looks ugly, it also hints at a certain style or mindset that's not congruent with the type of woman I'd want to commit to.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 05:01 PM
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So I have about 5 deal-breakers for dating a woman, if i were ever to be single again: N > 7 any tattoos, visible or not piercings other than ears any history of abuse or mental health issues kids Having any of these means I'd never take you seriously. Like we can drink and fuck, but I'm not taking you along with me to go party in Ibiza or anything. And without fail, the most controversial one was the no tats. Like people legitimately flip out when they hear that one, and I still don't know why.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 04:45 PM
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I see we've encountered a supporter of the Simp Nation.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 08:55 PM
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Honorable mention, Peggy from King of the Hill. Overconfident ignorant Karen played to perfection.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 07:38 PM
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Lol fuck no. The whole point of valentines day is get validation hungry women to browbeat thirsty dudes into buying them dumb shit they don't need. Like how can you have any self respect as a man if you fall for a scam that was meant for teenage girls and desperate insecure girlfriends/housewives.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 07:33 PM
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Dude, banging older women who are desperate for dick and attention in your 20s has been a staple of average dudes getting laid for like 50 years. Just don't be the dumb fuck that actually commits to her. Cause everyone will clown your dumb simp ass behind your back. Had a few buddies learn that lesson the hard way.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 07:28 PM
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To a poor person, most things someone with wealth does are seen as wasteful.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 07:19 PM
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For #2, not even hookers or sugar babies? Then I'd take 1.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 04:45 AM
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I wouldn't buy a sex doll just to fuck it. Like it would have to be able to do my taxes and other shit that i dont want to do. Cook and clean. Change the oil in my car. Organize my schedule. And while it's doing my taxes or whatever, I'll just kinda bend it over and fuck it in the ass every once in a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 05:47 AM
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Lol I wouldn't even break up with her for trying to cheat. I'd be fucked up from the reality check that I'm dumpster diving with this ugly chick. Wait actually no, I'd just use her as a FWB until I found another steady gf.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 12:51 AM
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Depends on how long you were together. I'd say 3 months per year together if I'm just gonna throw out a number.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 12:44 AM
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I think what surprises me is how good they are at false confidence. When I was a young adult, I didn't even pretend like I knew wtf was going on because there's no way I could pull off the lie 24/7. But these kids will straight up argue with people with twice as much experience and go around like they know how life works, and it's like... dude I know you're full of shit. You are a 100% a scared child in a world of adults, stop embarrassing yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 12:31 AM
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It's not a crime if you temporarily go to a jurisdiction where it's not illegal.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 12:25 AM
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Yo I had a guy literally tell me to not bother with an entire race of women because they have zero interest in men like me, and I was like "bro I'm literally married to one". I have a sneaking suspicion that ppd incels might not actually know what they're talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 12:21 AM
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Well I lived in Japan and absolutely slayed over there for years and have been married to a Japanese girl from a prominent family for the past 10+ years. But yeah tell me more about how asian girls don't like black guys lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 02:36 PM
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Scaling minimum wage to inflation is pretty much the equivalent of a snake eating its own tail.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 05:32 AM
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I've been watching this show on netflix about a bunch of unathletic middle aged Korean female celebs playing basketball and it's one of my favorite shows ever. There's one girl on there, Okja, that I've got a crush on. She's beautiful and she plays killer defense. And she let out this intense primal scream when she scored her first basket in-game, and I was like goddamn that is the hottest thing I've ever seen in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 05:26 AM
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You realize that jt makes no sense to piss away the present worrying about shit in the past that you can't change anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 05:18 AM
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For my daughter's future birthday present, I'm going to hire some professional Hollywood makeup artist to come by for a couple of days and teach her how to do all that shit while she's still in high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 04:43 AM
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I live vicariously through your zany rural hijinks.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 04:34 AM
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Some people are motivated by service to those they care about.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 04:31 AM
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Look, I'm not gonna comment on women's unhappiness, but I can say for a fact that once my wife found me, a man whose leadership she could actually trust and rely on, her attitude changed dramatically. The realization that "hey, maybe I'm happier and work better in a support role rather than trying to run everything" and embracing that truth was a major turning point in her life. Supporters trying to be leaders because their pride demands it are only hurting themselves in the long run.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 04:29 AM
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It's called aging and finding a new niche because the old one doesn't work anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 05:59 PM
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I'd caution having both of you consume this kind content. One is okay, but you'll need the other to pull you out of the pool if you get in too deep.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 05:58 PM
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Man there's something about dating island girls that just hits different. You can just live in the moment with them and have a good time, and things like career or status or education don't matter. It's like just get some good food, some good music, and it's some "let's just hit the beach and chill and smoke weed" type of energy. Fuck, man, island girls are the best. Especially if they're a little sporty and feisty and have dark features, damn that's my kryptonite.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 06:28 AM
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The fact that she can't see herself as the common denominator is most likely the source of her problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 06:08 AM
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Idk, with the admin class, as you put it, they are easily pandered/marketed to and manipulated. You validate their bullshit, and they become easily manipulated puppets. The professionals are more shrewd, though. The elites essentially bribe these people to keep society running and, in return, afford them a degree of freedom and self-determination through financial means.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 05:50 AM
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I agree, but with the caveat that I think there's going to be a LOT of estate transfers from boomer estates over the next 10 years, and it'll be interesting to see where that wealth/property ends up going. My guess is a lot of asset liquidation that ends up as consumer/consumption spending.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 05:08 AM
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Avoid whatever you want. The girls will still show up, all the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 04:59 AM
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Yeah, but your concept of harm comes from a place of paternalism and thinking you know what's better for them, not genuine concern for their well-being. It would be like refusing to take your girl's virginity because it "sullies" her in your eyes, even though she wants it. You're not obligated to participate in it, but you're fooling yourself by thinking it's some noble act.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 04:57 AM
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Bold strategy, let's see how it works out.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 03:23 AM
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Lol, like the guys who are already built are even checking for yall unremarkable average-ass women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 03:10 AM
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Why would she even need some kind of career? That's superfluous.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 06:53 PM
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Well I'm 5'10 and broad shoulders, so I'll pick that one. In my mid 20s i was built like an NFL running back lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 04:39 PM
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I have never seen any branch of feminism that could carry on a conversation for more that 5 seconds without blaming or complaining about men. So I'd be interested to see if this actually existed.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 04:35 PM
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Imo, you can't use celebrities to make a point. They live in a completely different world. Like 11/10 instagram thots hanging out in the hallway of your hotel during NBA all-star weekend looking to pick you up is on a whole different level than what normal people can conceive of. Maybe high school and college athletes can relate to being big man on campus.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 04:09 PM
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Nah, you can like or benefit from something and still recognize it's not the right thing to do. We're not all selfish creatures that lack the capacity to consider what is reasonable or fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 03:56 PM
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I'll do it if it attracts dairy farm women into my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 02:31 PM
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Recieves a profitable windfall and I'm currently trying to figure out how to spend 50k cash by the end of the year. Idk I guess I'll let it sit in savings until I figure something out.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 06:00 AM
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But career doesn't determine class, upbringing does.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 05:50 AM
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Then don't get married lol. Like wtf was the point of this post.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 05:45 AM
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A lot of it is the fact that raising a human being can be such a meaningful experience. You literally create a life from thin air, and then it grows and becomes this person who sees you as their entire world. They hit milestones and achievements under your guidance and mentorship, and you're like "wow we did that".
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 02:34 AM
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Im not missing anything, you're the one saying traditionalism sounds like just brainwashing. I said the opposite of that claim is just as dumb, and pointed out something in the middle more nuanced is more appropriate. And now you want to walk it back and be all measured about "phasing it out". Own what you said.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 07:40 AM
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You're missing the point. It's dumb to blindly follow traditions but also just as dumb to blindly reject them because you think you know better. Approaching it with equal parts skepticism and humility is the best practice. BTW stay at home wives was an aberration of the postwar era. If was never a "tradition".
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 06:45 AM
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Idk man have you tried hookers? I mean at this point what have you got to lose.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 06:19 AM
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Traditions have a survivorship bias. Reinventing the wheel because you think you're foolish enough to believe you've actually discovered something new under the sun is probably even dumber than blindly following traditions.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 06:15 AM
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For casual stuff? It's whatever. Absolutely no way in hell I'd wife up a girl with a double-digit or more count. It's fine if other people do it, but I hold myself to a higher standard. A man's gotta have a code.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 06:04 AM
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I don't really care about celeb gossip but serving your ex papers while they're still on stage at a convention is fucking hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 06:30 PM
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Healthy relationship dynamics, love to see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 06:21 PM
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Thats more of a mindset tbh. Like if she's the future Karen type mom to go around wearing sweats and fucked up hair with her titties out in public for feeding, then she's probably the "what's one more tub of ice cream, I deserve it" type of mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 03:28 AM
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Fat Manipulative Self centered
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 11:10 PM
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"Toxic masculinity double standards at work!" - blue haired reddit feminists, probably
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 11:06 PM
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Anyone "could" become anything, but that's a useless, unactionable statement. What I'm saying is that boys have a higher degree of variability in talent and skill than girls do. I'm not saying girls don't need to be nurtured. You either understand what to do with that information, or you don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 07:34 PM
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Nah bro, you popped up out of nowhere and every single thing you post is a troll. Wit ya trollin' ass, 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 07:10 PM
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You're replying to a troll, if you didn't already know.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 04:22 PM
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My ideal dating life is something similar to a modern era Ming dynasty era harem with a main wife and multiple concubines that compete with each other and go through political intrigues in order to curry favor from me. But failing that, my ideal is just being madly in love with a cute ride or die girl that will go to ends of the earth for me, and we're just together and inseparable for our entire lives and nothing or nobody would ever split us apart. This is what I have now, but I wish I met her…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 03:37 PM
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Daughters tend to be responsible stewards and fulfill what's expected of them but typically don't make an impact beyond incremental changes to the status quo.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 08:15 AM
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Basketball comparison time: Daughters are like a polished but undersized NBA-ready point guard that did 3 years in college and has strong fundamentals and a mature mindset. They don't need a ton of coaching and can contribute right out the gate. Sons are like the physical freak 6'9" small forward with tons of raw athleticism and upside out of high school, but has questionable fundamental and intangibles. They have talent but you have to develop it properly. I mean this to say daughters are a saf…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 02:51 AM
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The audacity!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 12:47 AM
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Uh, I am with a woman. Did my 30 minutes of PPD posting today give you the impression I wasn't?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 07:20 AM
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It doesn't invalidate the point at all. Because the opting out came after the failure. Even if you get more chances, it doesn't change the fact that it's still a compromise. You tried and didn't succeed. A reluctance to try again is easily explained by a fear of failure. Especially when you've been telling everyone who would listen that you intentionally chose your compromise for multiple years. It reminds me of those NBA players who went years without winning a championship, trying to make a ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 07:15 AM
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Okay sure whatever gets you through the day 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 02:32 AM
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The way you frame it (alone over a crappy relationship) presupposes that you tried at relationships, failed, and compromised with being alone. That's a compromise. If you can't own that fact, then that makes it an even bigger compromise because that reveals added insecurity.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 01:59 AM
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Your preference resulted from the inability to achieve what you actually wanted, and you're making your peace with simply being alone. Which doesn't really make it a preference, but a compromise. You tried, it didn't work out, and that's OK. But it's disingenuous to say it's a preference because it's fair to say that if things had worked out, you wouldn't have preferred to be alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 07:58 PM
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Oh God, Pattaya is a wretched hive of scum and villainy. I hate that place. Chiang Mai is by far my favorite city in Thailand. Followed by Chiang Rai.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 05:16 AM
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Kids of poor immigrants are great at working hard and educational achievement, but absolutely fall apart when there's not a structured path laid out for them to follow. They absolutely suck at the social game and navigating politics.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 05:04 AM
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Nobody is forcing you to party or drink at college. If you want to party and live "the college life", whatever tf that means, you're going to introduce a measure of risk into your life. This is what it means to be an adult, young lady. The world has risk, and you have to manage it and mitigate it. If you're that afraid of being assaulted, don't intentionally put yourself in situations that exponentially increase your chances of being assaulted. If I'm afraid of clowns, I sure as hell don't go to…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 04:36 AM
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Strong male leadership makes such a huge, positive difference in people's lives, but all too often, I see it being taken for granted or outright disregarded as a causal factor behind having a healthy, positive upbringing. Its growing rarity is a big reason why I believe my kids will thrive and succeed in this world while most others around them will languish and suffer in mediocrity.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 03:22 PM
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Tbh, this is a hard concept to articulate, but I'll try because I've seen people do this before, particularly overly cerebral people on the internet who are a bit overconfident in their own intelligence. The problem is that they are inexperienced. If they had the life experience, they would already know what's going on, but because they don't, they try to instead rationalize it through these thought exercises. The problem is that this never works because they're too inexperienced to understand t…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 05:08 AM
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Ok then why do you act so lukewarm about your bf.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 04:37 AM
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Well, here's how most guys do it: 1) find unattractive older virgins that nobody wants to date and lovebomb them 2) 3rd world child trafficking 3) incest 4) grooming 5) dating within religious cults and sects As you can see, this puts you in the company of a few unsavory types of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 04:12 AM
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Damn I feel sorry for your bf. Like I get why you're with him-- youre pragmatic and he fits the role to give you the life you want for yourself. But goddamn I could never imagine robbing another human being of the chance of ever finding true happiness just cause its inconvenient to my agenda. That's some genuinely callous shit. But you do you 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 03:54 AM
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Sounds like another BOY who's too intimidated and INSECURE to keep up with an EDUCATED and INDEPENDENT woman. 💅
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 03:41 AM
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Have fun explaining to colleges you want to get into why you failed a class that should've been an easy A because you thought it was too beneath you to just shut up and color. I'm sure they'll think highly of that. Just do the work, young lady.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 03:38 AM
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I'm pretty anti-loan forgiveness, too, but that's because I'm planning to pay for my kids' college out of pocket, and it'll be a whole lot easier for them to get into an expensive private school like USC if all the other kids have to decline their acceptances due to the sheer expense.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 06:21 AM
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Well if you lie down with dogs, you'll wake up with fleas.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 06:00 AM
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It never fails to amuse me when women get mad at men for not dating or being attracted to a woman they deem to be beautiful and deserving of a good man. Unless you plan on being a lesbian, yall don't get a say in who gets pursued, so take a damn seat, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 03:37 AM
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I'd rather be some women's 10. Being the object of true desire for a woman and having her fall hard is an amazing experience. She absolutely burns for you and becomes a simp for you, and if she realizes that you like her back, she transforms into a ride or die chick. And man, let me tell you, fucking with a ride or die girl is the absolute best. Every dude should have that experience at least once in their life.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 04:35 PM
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Honestly the list of illnesses I'd be ok with is a lot shorter than the ones I wouldn't be ok with.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 06:14 AM
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Then, be an outlier.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 09:18 PM
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Then you did it to yourself. You've conditioned your partner to expect everything you do for free.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 03:04 PM
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A safe and harmless man is basically just a eunuch.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 03:02 PM
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Go do something exceptional with your life. Boring ass nice guy salaryman office drones are a dime a dozen.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 03:00 PM
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Ok with dating, the current American dating culture leans towards AF/BB, so we all know what happens with average dudes in that paradigm, especially in their 20s. So, if I'm an average dude, it makes more sense to finish up college, and then fuck off from the U.S. working as an expat or in an international travel occupation exposed to lots of young, adventurous single women who have different goals and dating standards. I have my fun, stay active, and then revisit a more conventional career chan…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 02:57 PM
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I work in transportation and shipping. Started off with the government, got a few niche certifications, worked overseas for a bit, came back stateside, been making crazy money since.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 05:43 AM
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I'm just thinking out loud here, I was gonna post this on the old thread but realized there's now a new one. But anyway, here it is: You know it's funny, my average grades, lack of school prestige, and worthless degeee had almost no effect on where I ended up in life. That's because I understood how the system worked early in life -- it's systematically designed to pick and sort people into the stratum others think they belong in. I knew I couldn't possibly succeed if I simply followed direction…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 05:16 AM
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Congrats!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 05:12 AM
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You can want to fuck people but not want to date them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 04:00 AM
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I just read that post. The fact that so many women can simply justify not telling a partner is wild to me. At least this one woman had the bare minimum amount of integrity to tell him. This type of toxic fucked up dating environment is why I'm gonna tell my son to treat American girls as recreational only and find a girl who's from back home when he's ready to settle down.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 04:03 PM
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Fault is irrelevant; you got robbed. Ever wonder why some people get robbed over and over despite it not being their fault, and others never ever get robbed?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 12:27 AM
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Disney adults are the type of people who would consider the Olive Garden as fine dining.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 12:03 AM
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1, 1, 1, 1, 1 I rate women on a binary scale.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 04:10 AM
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I assume #1 has some severe mental illness or physical disability preventing him from simply just hiring a harem of hookers to take his v-card, so I'll say #2.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 04:08 AM
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Gonna keep it 100, this dude is a straight up sensitive ass bitch and deserves the relationship he has. He is too weak and unfit to survive in this world. Weak men lead to hard times, and all that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 03:55 AM
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The biggest problem that I have with blackpill logic is that it often hyper-focuses on promiscuous liberal city women. Nightclubs, college scenes, apps, etc., tend to over-represent these types of women, and if they aren't already in the city girl lifestyle, they certainly aspire to it. Many of the blackpill assumptions are very true for those girls, but there's a significant percentage of the female population that just doesn't want or aspire to that lifestyle. Out in more suburban/rural areas,…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 04:55 PM
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Most disgusting thing you've ever read so far. You sound sheltered. This life can get a hell of a lot darker than hearing about a bunch of cops making tasteless morbid jokes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 03:30 AM
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My son does BJJ. He's actually pretty dominant when it comes to sparring, too, especially against bigger kids. Also got him into karate and kickboxing. Just the feeling of knowing you can handle anything that comes at you physically as a kid reshapes the narrative of your entire childhood. Especially when he gets to high school and is in amazing shape.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 04:36 PM
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They have no real power except to sit around and complain about random shit in their pointless, dumb, fat lives. Why would I care what the help thinks? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 04:24 PM
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The fact that you assume I got that from conservative news tells us more about you than it does about me. But you seem pretty confidently incorrect in whatever bootstrappy bubble you exist in, so I'll just let you stay there.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 04:11 PM
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Bro went dumpster diving to get his dick wet and ghosted her, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 03:22 PM
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Because being the best worker at the company isn't enough. He wants to own the company now.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 03:17 PM
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Well, the term "athlete" encompasses more than just the wealthy superstars, but I agree with the main idea. Being at the pinnacle of my own profession, I can relate a bit. However, I'll say that even at the top 1%, you're always looking up at surpassing the top 0.1% rather than resting on your laurels, thinking about how much better you are than the bottom 99%.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 03:13 PM
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eh yes. You just skipped right past the "lifetime of debt" part. No, the piece of paper isn't all that really matters because if you can't parlay that into increased income, now you're even worse off than you started: 4 years of no income, plus the cost of 4 years of college, plus the interest on the loan for 10 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 02:49 PM
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Leading my tribe to wealth and prosperity. Fortifying the castle. Raising the cubs into mighty lions. Sailing the seven seas with a life of adventure. Good food, good drink, and good stories.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 06:53 AM
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Probably the crushing debt and weak link between the cost and future employment is why so many men stay away. The audacity of not mindlessly throwing yourself into a lifetime of debt just to chase some bullshit status of being considered "educated".
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 06:26 AM
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My favorite people in the economy are childfree men and women. Because when I see them, I see people who have no reason to leave any kind of inheritance or wealth behind, and are more apt to work until they die and spend whatever wealth that dozens of generations of their ancestors left behind immediately while they can enjoy it. Being able to capture their consumption spending and put that into my own family's wealth where our kids are encouraged and set up to procreate and continue the family …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 05:42 PM
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The immigrants coming in are also far less prone to assimilating to the white middle class society than past immigrants. Like imagine coming from Nigeria, Brazil, or India to work and seeing all these soyboys and feminists running around. You'd be like "lol fuck that".
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 05:33 PM
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Dating for the middle class is still in a transition period as kids of middle class boomers are more obsessed with feeding their own selfish pursuits and hedonism than building or continuing anything enduring. So the parents age out and leave their kids with barely any wealth, and the kids sell off the wealth to fund their own selfish pursuits and die alone. So everything dating related will be in service of that transition. Dating apps, intoxicating substances, immersive distractions, you name …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 05:28 PM
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The real answer is to embrace the fact that you actually are attention seeking and get over your embarrassment. And wear the pin/ribbon again.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 04:59 PM
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Because our culture has constantly prioritized the individual over the group for the past 3 generations, so naturally people are now obsessed with the self.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 04:55 PM
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I swear there's nothing in the world that's more lazy, worthless, impotent, and utterly useless than fake revolutionary internet kids unironically saying shit like "eat the rich" and talking about lining people up on a wall or guillotines or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 07:33 AM
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Well if that's all you're good for....
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 05:17 AM
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I disagree that such a thing would fit the definition of delusion, but if that "delusion" serves my goals rather than hinders them, then that's a far better course of action than kowtowing to the majority opinion. Like if I'm a short ugly dude and I just have stratospheric levels of true, unshakable confidence, (like say I'm a Navy Seal or something idk), then nothing anyone says could ever knock me off my game. And if that confidence upsets anyone, then they can die mad about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 05:07 AM
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Well I make >400k and most of my peers are just married to women who are career driven, women who stay home, or just work regular jobs but don't really make a big fuss about it. So idk perhaps you don't have as much as wisdom and insight as to how life works as well as you think you do at the ripe old age of 23. Food for thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 07:48 AM
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Honestly the thought of others being offended at my own self-confidence is extremely appealing. Having their worldview and value system shatter because you're a living contradiction of it must feel amazing. Reminds me of pretty much every scene in the movie Django Unchained once he meets Leo DiCaprio's character.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 07:36 AM
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Honestly I wrote up a whole reply to educate you about why this is all so wrong but I get the vibe that this is such a lost cause that I'll just let your words stand on their own for others to see.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 07:10 AM
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I say this with the caveat that you probably don't understand what it's like to grow up as a man in an environment where you're being sized up constantly for hints of weakness, and have to project an image of strength and respect as a survival mechanism. Strong men are assets that people want to team up with. Weak men are liabilities and targets to get taken advantage of or to be thrown under the bus. Men are often conscious of the image they project, but in a different way than women have to be…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 03:28 AM
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You didn't disagree, you just said "neat".
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 05:09 PM
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wtf why would I call them that? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 05:08 PM
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Sorry I didn't realize you were just here to troll. carry on, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 05:06 PM
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The thing is, you're more the exception than the rule. Most people saying "kids would be too costly and take away my freedom/career/hobbies" don't really have much going on for them to begin with. They don't travel, don't volunteer, and have mediocre lives whether they have kids or not. But they don't let that stop them from trying to flex on the internet about how great their life is.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 05:05 PM
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Kids don't make you poor. Lack of income makes you poor. Kids only exacerbate your existing lack of income to plunge you deeper into poverty. It's a contributing factor, but not a causal one. And don't kid yourself, even the nice retirement homes are awful.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 04:59 PM
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There's only one truth. What each person thinks the truth is, is called a belief. You can believe that kids would ruin your life, but the truth may be something different. You'll never know, because you never opened the box containing Schrödinger's cat.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 04:52 PM
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Moms are hot af.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 04:46 PM
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Except I didn't say any of that. OP implied that men dont genuinely advocate for women's issues. I simply flipped that implication right back at her, except this time putting her in the role of the privileged class and making the same basic, albeit truthful statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 01:54 AM
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It's a better idea than simply surviving in misery everyday until your heart eventually stops.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 01:18 AM
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Why would I be mad? I'm just having a discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 01:15 AM
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And I've seen men genuinely speak out about all those things you said multiple times, so I guess there's no problems here, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 01:11 AM
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I said genuinely, not just fake virtue signaling "allyship".
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 01:10 AM
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One of the most important things I impart upon my kids is obliterating the fear of getting outside one's comfort zone. Since I turned 18, every time I feel myself getting complacent, I just dive headfirst into something I'd normally be reluctant to do. Having to figure shit out, get the lay of the land, and problem solve your way through a bunch of obstacles in an unfamiliar place is an adventure that just makes me feel so damn alive. Even getting married and having kids was an adventure. Like I…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 01:07 AM
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Sure. And when's the last time you saw a white girl genuinely speak our against issues that black, latina, and asian women deal with every day? You're not the only one with privilege paying lip service, becky.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 12:37 AM
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A hit dog will holler.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 04:51 PM
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But a significant amount are. Considering the lopsided ratio of sex workers to rich simps, you would think the incidence of those two getting together would be higher.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 02:09 AM
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All good points, but considering the explosion in sugar dating in the last decade or so, one would expect more examples of women doing the same, but in a more permanent fashion.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 12:11 AM
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A relationship based on security is still a "real" relationship. And I'm not saying it has to be every woman ever, but you'd figure at least a sizable minority would at least try.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 07:58 PM
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But why wouldn't those women be more proactive in seeking that type of guy out? It would take such a tiny amount of effort to pull it off, and the payoff is massive.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 06:57 PM
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Before I say this, this is simply an sociological observation, and not any kind of endorsement of this action, but it amazes me how women so consistently pass up on rich nerdy simps just to be with a hot dude that gives them the tingles, but have to struggle financially. I mean let's be real, most women are not universally 6 figure earning boss bitches, and I constantly hear young people talking how we're in this awful economic environment with record college debt, insane housing prices, and cra…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 06:12 PM
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I already told you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 04:04 PM
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Honestly, if your wife is going to nuke the family over a paternity test, the relationship was doomed to either fail or turn miserable at some point anyway. I'd rather stress test a fragle marriage to know it can survive in the long run while I'm young and can bounce back easily than have to walk on eggshells for 20 years only to have it fall apart anyway once the stakes are exponentially higher.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 04:04 PM
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Just sharing a slice of life experience. Not everything has to be a debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 03:51 PM
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She has significantly softened if not outright reversed many the stances she held as a single woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 03:49 PM
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I didn't say they were.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 03:19 PM
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Funny story, my wife said she was kind of a feminist before meeting me. She had strong vocal opinions, and her friends and family actually thought her hard confrontational personality held her back from getting a man, and that she'd end up old and alone. I had no idea, she was always cute and sweet around me. Turns out, it was just a defense mechanism against a world she perceived to be harsh and unforgiving, and once she found a dude that she wanted to simp for, she turned into a big ol' softie…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 03:07 PM
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Yeah, but the problem is Gen Z just isn't that old yet. Men tend to hit their stride financially around 30 while women tend to plateau and fall out of the workforce around that age. It'll be a more relevant stat in 10 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 02:44 PM
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Your problem is that guys like you will keep doing the same shit over and over, expecting a different result. The typical love story was not built for you. Adjust fire.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 06:29 AM
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The mid-late 90s were amazing. I remember how people would look at the future with complete optimism.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 05:39 AM
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Wtf no it wasn't. Wars on top of wars, 2 recessions, paranoid fucks going crazy about terrorism, beginning of the culture wars, sky high unemployment, people losing their homes left and right. Like yeah we had fun but it was in spite of all the bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 05:27 AM
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I think you're confused about what my post is even talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 04:30 PM
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As a kid haver, this is great news. A lot of inherited wealth going to genetic dead ends will usually evaporate into spending into the economy. Can't take it with you, after all. Educated, wealthy breeders will seek out other educated wealthy breeders and combine their family's collective wealth. The dead ends will spend it all off and die with no next of kin, and be replaced demographically with working class immigrants. As a result of investing in the mindless consumerism of childfree dead end…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 09:10 AM
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In no particular order: Nurses Any kind of marketing Solopreneurs Professional students Nurses Military Flight attendants Influencers Nurses Corporate middle managers Hairdressers HR Elementary school teachers Police
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 11:09 PM
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Ok, cool no worries, just wanted to understand where your perspective comes from.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 06:39 AM
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Uh huh. And how many years of experience do you have as an adult?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 06:27 AM
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Nah, most guys care, but instead of saying it out loud like some autistic moron, they'll just string you along, acting like it doesn't matter but then just never seriously commit.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 05:52 AM
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I think the biggest thing is that young AsAm's stopped trying so hard to assimilate and started embracing their culture. I could never relate to the concept of shitting on your own heritage to fit in. Your family, your people, traditions, etc. Anyway, this is why i send my son back to Asia every summer. I won't even tolerate the possibility of him developing any self hate. Plus, it's good for him to see how other cultures date and relate to one another other, and be able to navigate both worlds.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 02:02 PM
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Your concept of love and hurt is driven by the culture and society you grew up in. Most westerners, especially feminists, are moral absolutists that have a black and white value system, and can't conceive of any value system besides their own being acceptable. But tbh most people aren't self-aware enough to identify their own blind spots.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 05:54 AM
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There are some people who actually believe this shit because they've literally never came inside of a woman before. The underside of the glans is designed to maintain positive contact with the vagina while you're thrusting. Like a harpoon or a fish hook.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 05:42 AM
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He ain't old, you're just a toddler with a cell phone.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 05:33 AM
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Signs that you're getting old: Historical dramas are increasingly being set in your high school years.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 05:29 AM
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Just be terrible and give no fucks. Life's too short to be all things to all people.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 12:12 AM
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Nope. If we split up, I'll happily give her half of everything, wish her well, and start all over again. It's just money, can't take it with you and as a SAHM she deserves her share for staying home with the kids. I'd even be ok with child support and alimony.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 12:05 AM
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I'd say 25. 6 figures for the first time at 27. I started saving for retirement at 22.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 11:54 PM
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It's impossible to have consistent luck over an entire lifetime.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 05:26 PM
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None at all. I'd be fine dating them, but it'll never be serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 03:36 PM
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Of course, nobody takes accountability for themselves anymore, so naturally they blame the parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 03:29 PM
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"If you run into an asshole in the morning, you ran into an asshole. If you run into assholes all day, you're the asshole."
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 03:26 PM
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You don't have to do it on the first date, but if there's any sort of progress toward something more serious than FWB, then it's a massive betrayal of trust to not disclose it. Personally, I'd never get serious with a woman that has any history of mental illness.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 03:24 PM
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Maybe you should be happy that he respects you enough to tell you the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 03:20 PM
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I think it illustrates the point that most of their issues are self-inflicted. Like I said, I'm not Chad, certainly not that attractive, smart, charismatic, alpha, or wealthy growing up. I just simply made the right choices and did the best I could with what I had.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 02:53 PM
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I'll be honest, when I sit down and think about it, I have a pretty amazing life. Successful in my career, effortless marriage, amazing family, wealthier than anyone in my family has ever been, and I get to do things most people only dream of. Plus my wife is a cute ride or die fitness milf that treats me like a king and still lusts after me, even after all these years. She believed in me before I was even successful. It's not like I'm special or anything. I'm just really good at making decision…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 07:35 AM
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I think that having problems and friction because of mismatched finances won't matter because it'll have problems and friction regardless. The vast majority of people people under 40 today are simply not wired to be in long-lasting relationships anymore. So is it reasonable? Sure. But it doesn't matter. For this generation, chronic breakups and dying alone will come all the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 06:31 AM
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1/3rd of couples isn't a very compelling stat, to be honest. 2 people that have been dating for a few weeks is a "couple". More like situationships, temporary domestic partners, girlfriends living together into old age, and "happily single living my best life cause i refused to settle" is far more likely to rise with more women graduating college, not women breadwinners in marriages.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 05:32 AM
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Uh, alright, whatever floats your boat lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 01:18 AM
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Yeah ok, common sense has left the argument, I'm done here.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 01:05 AM
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If that's true, then that's an even stronger case that the problem is you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 01:02 AM
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You are aware he's obviously talking about the giant fucking baby bump and not a few stretch marks?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 01:00 AM
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Because of a temporary situation that I knew would be over soon? Yes I would be okay with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 04:15 PM
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Well, it's based on a temporary condition. And she's the one who kept pressing and pressing the issue. If I had a temporary condition I knew probably made me less than attractive, I wouldn't relentlessly goad my partner into lying to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 04:07 PM
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The definition of feminist is vague enough to include or exclude whoever you want, depending on whatever point you want to make at that particular time.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 03:11 PM
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Nah, they're racists too, just didn't say the quiet part out loud.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 02:59 PM
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She set him up to fail, though. She knows exactly how he is and just kept pressing and pressing until he did exactly what she knew he would do. Ofc all the women are in the comments are like "I'd divorce him on the spot!". Like holy shit imagine having to live with someone who will nuke your entire family on the spot if you make one wrong move. What a horrible way to live.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 02:46 PM
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So, as a teenager, a lot of what you do is watching other adults and copying what they do because you don't know how to be an adult. Problem with that is you don't really understand the "why" what they do. Why do women make the choices they do? You can speculate from the outside looking in, but until you yourself go through the experience of doing it yourself, you won't get it because you've never been the one in the driver's seat of your own life. So when people tell you chill... just chill. Yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 02:00 AM
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My point is, happiness is fleeting, like chasing a high from a drug. Meaning is what sustains you between the peaks and valleys.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 12:47 AM
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There's more types of women out there than modern american women. Even in america.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 10:05 PM
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I don't even think it's because they actually want a family, for men *or* women. It's more like, the drug of hedonism only takes you so far, and once you look back on your life of essentially being a dopamine junkie, you realize it's empty and vapid, and try to find meaning by going in a different direction than what led you to that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 09:59 PM
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Happiness is how a child measures success imo. Finding meaning in your life is the best measure of success.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 09:53 PM
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I get that, but the hunter-gatherer portion of human history isn't exactly our "peak" as a species, while the monogamous period is far more relevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 09:50 PM
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Considering that during the monogamous period of human existence, our population and technological advancement has exploded exponentially, I'd say that's a better example of "what we're good at". Please continue to give us more of your hot takes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 09:48 PM
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I've been married for over a decade.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 09:32 PM
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Interesting statement considering monogamy has been the overwhelming trend for all of recorded human history. But no, I'm sure this 2023 internet hot take is probably more accurate than all that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 07:58 PM
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Because certainly no woman would ever lie in order to save face when the topic of being older and single comes up. Surely could never happen in an era where humans are reported as being the happiest they've ever been, ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 07:54 PM
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I'm not saying this happened in your case, but a LOT of guys will dismiss red flags because they're a little too understanding and open-minded.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 07:50 PM
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Nah, they're actually pretty easy. If your relationships always take a lot of work, then the problem might be you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 07:44 PM
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Effort is never equal or symmetric. Somebody is always doing more work than the other, even if the intention is supposed to be equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 11:25 PM
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It absolutely is. Maybe not for you, but the truth is most people in normal society have genuine respect for people that can build and raise a loving family that produces successful, well adjusted kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 07:37 AM
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Nah, we have to see how many more millions of female college grads we can stuff into bullshit "marketing" jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 03:59 PM
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Proving what we already knew. But somebody's gotta do the work.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 03:56 PM
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No I get it. But it's a telling massive cultural blind spot that most westerners can't conceive of the idea of choosing less personal freedom, even if it leads to a far better outcome. Of course, having a discussion about this with a feminist is like debating ethics with a religious fanatic. You'll just be branded a heretic and shut down.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 06:58 AM
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Then the stated goal and the actual execution are pretty damn far apart, considering how often I see feminists shit on any woman who doesn't fit their idea of what she should want.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 06:41 AM
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Well, I guess the illusion of choice is comforting.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 03:50 AM
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Every time one of these feminists talk about how they have all this freedom to do whatever they want in life, and it's usually to just live in some shitty studio apartment making 50k a year or something as a corporate cog, drifting from shitty relationship to shitty relationship. Gj smashing the patriarchy as a woke childfree career boss babe just to end up as a mediocre adult anyway lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 03:32 AM
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The fact that you're here complaining to us instead of talking to the literal human beings irl that are involved and relevant tells me that there's a pre existing reason they are blaming you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 03:09 AM
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Lol imagine dating for someone for that long and then getting chained into a lukewarm romance with a partner who's just kinda "meh" about you. I could never. I knew I wanted to marry my wife after like 6 weeks of dating. The rest was just doing my due diligence.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 08:42 PM
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Because when you're not part of the ethnic majority of the country you live in, the issue of race colors almost every human interaction you have, whether you realize it or not. And Americans happen to be a more outwardly heterogeneous country than most.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 04:54 PM
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Sorry, I'm not qualified to teach these concepts to autists.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 06:22 AM
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Well yeah that's why I also said "more cosmopolitan". Two sides of the same coin.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 04:55 AM
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People who treat their household pets like human beings give me the ick. It's like a completely accepted mental illness. I'm pretty sure in 20 years, people will just walk around flinging shit at each other, too, and of course now I'm the asshole for thinking it's not normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 04:46 AM
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The issue here is that by saying you're from certain cities, you're implying you grew up in the urban core. Usually, people do that to seem more cosmopolitan or street tough. Like if he said "i grew up from a suburb of Chicago", it's way different than being like I'M FROM CHI-RAQ, BABY, BORN AND RAISED. Or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 04:41 AM
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So you're saying there's literally no such thing as a negative feminine trait? There's nothing toxic that girls often do, that boys usually never do?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 05:14 PM
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You don't even need to say that out loud. Just don't treat her like a friend. I'm either escalating sexually or just treating her like I'd treat some random dude. Once I started doing that, I never had to worry about the friendzone ever again. Problem is most men can't take no for an answer and think conditions may improve in the friendzone. But once a girl gets too familiar with you, your chances go down dramatically unless you're both timid and inexperienced.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 05:04 PM
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Men do the running, they don't get run through unless they're a bottom.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 04:54 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 04:28 PM
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Idk to me it's pretty easy to tell the difference between a 40 yo and a 20 yo in the flesh. But I've lived in Asia and currently in SoCal so I'm around them constantly. They only look old compared to white people so idk bro maybe you're just kinda whitewashed and mentally colonized.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 08:32 AM
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Yeah bro I totally boarded up my windows, got the kerosene lamps and generators ready to go. Bathtub full of potable water. Also updated my will. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 04:27 AM
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Maybe talk less and listen more, and you might learn something.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 04:17 AM
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Yep. You have to be the guy that she breaks her rules for.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 04:54 PM
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Your life belonging solely to yourself isn't necessarily an objective, universal good thing. I've often found in life that people who boast the most about how they have so much freedom to do whatever they want are often the same people who act jaded, find little meaning in life, and suffer from chronic depression or addition issues. I'm not saying breeding is the answer to happiness, but a self-centered obsession with personal freedom sure hasn't turned out to be, either.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 04:50 PM
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Refusing to procreate just to stop other people from procreating is a level of petty I can truly respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 04:30 PM
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You completely ruined their "gotcha" moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 04:28 PM
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You can literally just do that right now or anytime you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 04:34 AM
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Good. 10th anniversary this year.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 03:33 PM
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Nah, I love my daughter. She has an amazing personality and is really fun to be around.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 03:32 PM
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Your trolling is getting lazier every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 03:27 PM
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Because I personally know a lot of natives from these countries and it's just not a thing. I'm not saying you can't find it obnoxious, I'm just saying you (and many others) just sound like miserable assholes. So, yeah, it is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 12:41 PM
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Still doesn't stop it from being incredibly obnoxious when an American claims to be Irish, only has the most stereotypical idea of what Irish culture is and pins their personality traits on being Irish....all because their grandparent is Irish. Japanese people don't get pissed off when 4th gen Brazilians claim their ancestry. Mexicans don't get pissed off when Americans claim their ancestry and are proud of it. Jamaicans don't get pissed off when 4th gen Brits claim their ancestry. Sounds like y…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 12:26 PM
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Women on the internet often weaponize certain buzzwords to shame weak willed men into compliance with their desired social order. See also: ick, creepy, weird, problematic, toxic, etc. The irony is that if you actually fall for it, they lose respect for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 12:15 PM
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It's about ethnicity, not nationality. "American" is not an ethnic group unless you're talking about natives. People in a diaspora want to feel a sense of belonging. It's easy to live in a country and take for granted a sense of belonging when everyone comes from the same culture and its obvious you belong, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 10:49 AM
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Nah just fuck your looksmatch. So if you're ugly too...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 03:51 AM
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Lol well at least that's one thing I'll never have to worry about.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 03:49 AM
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Good to hear. Sounds like you're thriving in your niche.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 04:57 PM
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Nah, it's because when a guy they want approaches them, it doesn't feel like an approach, it's serendipity. Idk man, it's female logic, don't try to make sense of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 04:55 PM
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There's no such thing as "objectively" wrong. Your opinion of right and wrong counts for nothing in this world. And I was referring to the people in your link. I don't insult children.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 04:47 PM
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Usually if there's something I don't want to hear about, I'll refrain from starting internet discussions about it but do you I guess 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 04:41 PM
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Because you don't actually care about male harm, you just see an opportunity to turn those men against other men. It's like when white liberals try to weaponize the black vote against the Republicans every 4 years. Dudes don't take kindly to manipulation. There's also a degree of disdain for professional victims.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 04:34 PM
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Want whatever you want. But nobody owes you validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 04:27 PM
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Aside from the sex? My girl always took care of me, doted on me, cooked for me, cleaned my place when I was away, and basically treated me like a king. Nothing hotter than watching a girl enthusiastically cook for you in a t-shirt and panties 30 minutes after you just came inside of her. She was also fun to hang out and have adventures with, too. If you're in a relationship with a girl and she doesn't do that shit, then idk what the fuck you are there for other than sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 03:18 PM
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This isn't 1950, trad women will typically work whatever job until their first kid, go on maternity leave, and just not come back until the youngest is off to school full time. The wealthier ones might wait a bit later. Honestly, if I had to pick between that and the typical feminist offer of wage slavery, vapid consumerism, lives of rootless ennui, and mindless promiscuity with no real future except dying alone.... I think I'd pick the former.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 03:01 PM
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Because people want what they want and anime originates from a culture where they don't really give a fuck about what fat blue haired white feminists from America have to say about it. I'm saying this as a guy who doesn't even like anime with the sole exception of Dragonball.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 02:39 PM
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It's seems like a good place if you're relatively unambitious, prefer a low-key middle class existence, and prefer a certain type of cultural homogeneity that you can't say out loud. Which describes most redditors, hence the admiration of that place.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 02:30 PM
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They can enjoy whatever tf they want. Plenty of simps out there that are perfectly happy to couple up with those women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 03:57 AM
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Except I'm not talking about women who got married young, at all. Didn't mention that one little bit. The decisions we make become the story of who we are as people. Like you can't just hand wave an entire decade+ of your life away talking about "that's not me anymore". It may not be who you want to be now, but there's a reason you chose that life and are only now rejecting it because you've aged out of the lifestyle. My point is simple: a woman who, when presented with the same choices in life …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 12:26 PM
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I'll take a stab at this: A woman who has always demonstrated an inclination for the traits that men consider crucial for being a good wife and mother and conducive to a long marriage despite having the means and opportunity to fuck around will likely continue demonstrating those traits throughout her life. A woman who has previously never displayed any of those wifely/motherly traits, but rather those of hedonism, self-interested living, and general thottery through the years but has a sudden c…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 03:57 AM
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I find it incredibly weird how childfree people on reddit have this tendency to insert themselves into completely unrelated conversations or even just other conversations about kids, just let everyone know how great it is to childfree. It's like "uh ok cool story bro, so anyway..."
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 12:08 AM
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This is a lot of questions. My ideal dating sphere? Bubble era Japan and nothing else comes close. Will women be in the workplace on the same level as men? No. Women are too weak and timid in the face of true, terrifying strength and power. They are resilient but generally not very brave or daring, and usually lack the balls (fortitude) to usurp the top dogs. What is to be done to counteract malcontent/lonely men? What is to be done to counteract malcontent/lonely women? Pacify them with porn, v…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 04:39 PM
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It offends people because we live in a hyper individualistic "what can YOU do for ME" type of dating market. People will drag you for bucking cultural norms.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 11:02 PM
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Cool 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 07:45 PM
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Learn whatever you want, I'm just stating the context behind those jokes that she doesn't understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 05:35 PM
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What false pretenses? Someone paying attention to you at work doesn't mean they're automatically your friend. If you don't want to fuck with them then don't, it's literally that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 05:33 PM
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Hold on let me go find my scholarly peer reviewed articles proving the concept, just wait right here I'll be back.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 05:28 PM
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Then idk what you're on about, hive minds and shit 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 05:27 PM
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Who said anything about all women everywhere? I'm talking specifically about the women OP referenced. What a weird response lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 03:33 PM
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Clearly they haven't if they're complaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 03:28 PM
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Ok so then why try to be friends with people who see you like that? Go do your own thing. Like why seek attention from people you don't even seem to like? Perplexing af.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 03:17 PM
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Those jokes are meant for middle aged people in the 80s and 90s who have been married for a while and are secure enough in their marriages to laugh about it. Not teenage girls in 2023 who over consume social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 03:11 PM
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"happily and intentionally single" Lol, sure, ok. Don't you ever find it strange how women on this sub never have any flaws or relationship issues of their own?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 02:57 PM
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I made the same point in another post to you, but nobody cares what you think is pathetic or ick, just like you don't care how other people see your own sexual habits. The real question is, why tf are you so preoccupied with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 02:46 PM
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The amount of dudes rushing to virtue signal and simp for a meme in those comments is....not surprising.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 06:28 AM
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Most white feminists are low key racist so I'm gonna go out on a limb and say the situation is more nuanced than your ignorant take.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 06:26 AM
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You realize people think the same thing about you and the type of women you chase, right? And do you care?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 06:14 AM
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Nah, I wouldn't. Gotta play the long game. Anyone that says they already have that person is 100% capping.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 08:42 PM
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I'll say that they can, but they usually end up fumbling the bag and dying alone or end up with a loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 08:40 PM
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Nah, make the women join the military, and send the men to trade school/technical colleges to learn engineering and shit. I'm pretty sure girls would act a lot differently if they had to actually contribute to the security of this society instead of parasitically feeding off of it just to chase their own selfish desires.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 01:47 PM
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We compete because we brazenly reward the best talent with the most money. Talent will pour in regardless if it's home grown or imported. In the words of Macho Man Randy Savage... the cream always rises to the too.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 06:10 AM
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Needless? The seat costs the same regardless of who you are. Sounds pretty meritocratic to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 11:33 PM
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Idk what it is about sitting in first class watching plebs board and sipping champagne, but damn it feels good. I get why rich people burn so much money on this shit lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 10:51 PM
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Idk I've always had a thing for older women, so I plan to wreck my wife's sahara desert grandma pussy well into her late 60's. I'm not gonna say she looks good, but that never stopped me from busting a nut before, so idk.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 12:45 AM
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It was important, but proximity wasn't the most important factor. Safety, schools, and diversity were my most important factors. I ended up moving farther from work to live in a nicer part of town, effectively doubling my commute from 15 to 30 minutes, but it was worth it. Now going from 30 minutes to 1 hour would have been too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 11:53 AM
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I mean, how traumatic are we talking here? Butt stuff?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 11:59 PM
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The vast majority of my fit higher earning peers over 40 have no trouble getting younger girls. It's actually seems shockingly easy. And these guys are definitely not models, either, just dudes with type A personalities.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 04:48 PM
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If he's fit then I'd say he's probably right, but it completely depends on if she's a bonafide cougar or not. "Average" looking at 45 is not particularly attractive, even if she is fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 04:45 PM
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It's not so bad. The upside is that she becomes a fun bangmaid to hang out with. And I gotta say, having lived on my own up to that point, i didn't know how much I would enjoy living with one until I did.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 03:43 PM
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Abundance mentality. If you know the next dick is a rigjt swipe away (or whichever one means yes, ive never used tinder before), then you can be as petty or frivolous as you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 03:34 PM
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Bruh if your friend group gives you shit for dumpster diving every once in a while then they ain't the ones for you. Just don't make it a habit.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 03:32 PM
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You most likely didn't improve anything. More than likely, they just continued right along, believing whatever validated their existing feelings. You can't help those that don't want to be helped. People who have the ability to hear hurtful things but self-reflect and consider that they need to improve and then actually do it are worth their weight in gold.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 03:30 PM
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Okay sure let's use whatever wacky definitions we cook up in our head to redefine the language.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 01:26 AM
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What would be the point of depriving all others of an institution they want just because you don't want it?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 12:14 AM
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Half of humans are women. You're not putting yourselves in positions of power, either. Cause we all know the harsh truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 12:09 AM
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Lol news flash you can't be masculine and compassionate at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 11:50 PM
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I'll take that over the landwhales, food deserts, horrible winters, and a complete lack of any sort of culture outside of generic American apple pie and baseball BS of some landlocked flyover state.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 07:15 PM
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Just the tip (Miami). The rest is meh.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 07:03 PM
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I guess those are all problems if you're a middle class chump dealing with poor people issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 07:00 PM
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Hot take of the day: any county in the U.S. that doesn't touch the pacific ocean is complete unlivable trash. I'll die on this hill.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 06:48 PM
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Part of it is good old-fashioned racism, too. White women who feel threatened by cuter, thinner women will come out the woodwork to say the most fucked up ignorant shit about asian women's bodies.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 06:28 PM
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Lol you think women under 40 in modern first world nations like Japan and Korea don't get adequate protein? So ignorant.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 06:24 PM
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Okay let's back up. Feminine can be cute aesthetic, which you like. Feminine can also be sexy aesthetic. Most guys in East Asia prefer cute aesthetic over sexy aesthetic. Women with more androgynous and masculine features and bodies can pull off sexy aesthetic a lot easier than they can a cute one, which is why it's more popular in a place like America. Women tend to be bigger, stronger, fatter, and more masculine, so they work with what they've got. Where "feminine" turns into "androgynous" tur…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 04:42 PM
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Absolutely. People want to invest in the future, simple as that. They're more willing to take a chance on potential. You don't throw good money after bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 10:53 AM
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This is a pretty bad take. You absolutely don't need common interests or social proof to get a woman interested in you. Sure it helps, but every girl I've ever gotten had very little in common with me. The differences are what made me interesting to them. Hell, even my wife had almost nothing in common with me when we first met.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 08:31 PM
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I know a lot more fighter pilots than you do. They don't pull any more than they would with another decent job.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 04:39 PM
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A more accurate statement is that most men are bad at sex and would produce sexually unsatisfied women if not for oral sex. This baseline assumption that women can't be satisfied without oral is a bunch of men kinda telling on themselves how bad they are otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 04:37 PM
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Personally, I think it's weird as fuck how people get SO defensive if you say you don't eat box. It's like you just told them you're a neo nazi sex offender that tortures puppies. I don't get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 04:29 PM
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Beneath all the glamour, attention, drugs/alcohol, and distractions, she knows deep down that she ain't shit, and in those quiet moments where its just her and her thoughts, it gnaws at her very soul. These girls (and rich dudes who have it all) will cap left and right to the outside world about how great their lives are, but they can't fool the one critic that matters the most.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 06:28 AM
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Messaging is usually a trap for dudes. All you can really do is either fuck up or break even until the next time you see her in person.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 06:11 AM
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I've punished the shit out of my Samsung phones since like 2010, and I've never ever cracked a screen. Like did he drop a bowling ball on it 20 times?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 06:07 AM
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100% cosign this take. I know it's not assumed in America. Does anywhere else operate like that? I hear different things about Europe.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 02:54 AM
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Yeah, it does. At that point, the relationship is casual only in my eyes, and if I'm gonna keep it 100%, imma just monkey branch to the next girl without telling her. I won't cheat on the new girl though.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 02:30 AM
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You're kinda telling on yourself with that statement, though. It's not that you specifically attract trash men, cause trash men go after every woman. It's more like there's apparently a distinct lack of non-trash men that even wanna fuck wit you lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 02:05 AM
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Man, my kids are annoying AF sometimes, but I appreciate those little slice of life moments where you're just doing nothing at all really and they just strike up conversations or talk about stuff that's on their mind. That doesn't happen if you don't spend a ton of downtime with them. A lot of life happens in the dead space between activities, and if you're always too busy working or doing other shit, you end up missing out on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 12:49 AM
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If I had a nickel for every time I saw some white dude living in Japan attempting to explain an entire society to the internet through his bullshit expat perspective...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 12:08 AM
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I think I'm finally gonna do it. I'm finally gonna crack the top 1% in income, either this year or next year. I'd like to thank PPD for having a small part in this. I couldn't have done it without your shitposts entertaining me during the boring/downtime, giving me the mental refresh I needed to achieve this feat. I'm still only 90% in wealth percentile, but I'm still working on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 05:09 AM
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The only solution is to stop telling women.... well, anything. Just stop giving a shit about their issues. Watch em fail or succeed, be slightly amused at the funny stories, and keep it moving. The best revenge is living well.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 05:00 AM
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I have a suspicion that this might actually be hyperbole.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 04:23 AM
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Old female virgins are so fucking weird, man. Like your entire romantic life starts to revolve around this purity bullshit you bought into when you were 15 and becomes this weight around your neck that affects everything you do. The men these women want tend to instinctively know these girls are weird and are desperate to be cuffed. Like how animals see a brightly colored plant or fish, and their DNA programming just screams "stay away".
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 09:39 PM
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Bj in the alleyway. Record the video and send it to the husband anonymously.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 09:16 PM
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We need more soldiers like you in the holy war against Simp Nation.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 09:14 PM
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It's not that you can't do those things. It's more like you choose not to pay the cost to be the boss. I could literally draw up a 10-point plan to get most guys in here a house and a family within 5 years, and almost none of them would follow it. Oh I don't like this, or I don't wanna do that. Boomers are awful and selfish, but I'll give them credit, they aren't afraid to do what they gotta do to get to the top and take what they want. Loser millennials and zoomers will just sit around and hope…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 01:32 PM
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Not ideal, but better than nothing. Like driving a car on 3 wheels. It'll still go, but...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 03:05 AM
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Well ok as a boy dad, it's more complicated. Girls are given their value with their looks. Their big issue is being good stewards of their asset. Like being given a million dollars and making good choices to spend it wisely. What boys have stewardship of is their potential. Men have to demonstrate usefulness. We don't have much intrinsic value once we become adults. We're just seen as people with the potential to be useful. Boys who fuck away their potential on crime, drugs, laziness, porn, food…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 02:59 AM
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I can be the same way. Ultimately, you are who you are, so work with that. Speak with actions, not words. If you can't find the words to voice your opinion, do it with your actions. Stand up and leave the room if you disapprove with something. Pivot your life by pursuing a smaller group of friends you feel comfortable around, rather than a larger group of strangers. And stay close with your family. Keep in touch with these people and talk to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 01:06 AM
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As a girldad, I kinda empathize with young women. Because everybody is trying to get something from you. Constantly, since puberty. The problem is that the girls are often young, hormonal idiots at the peak of their attractiveness, often with low self-esteem and bad decision-making abilities. Young dudes trying to smash, girls peer pressuring you, social media pressuring you, FOMO, predatory men, feminists telling you what you want to hear, religious sects recruiting you as a fertile brood mothe…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 12:56 AM
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It's not just anecdotal. The median household income in the U.S. is around 48k. The vast majority of families with kids in America make less than 100k combined. Is there mass misery and destitution among the country? Maybe, but a more likely explanation is you're using hyperbole to make a point on the internet. But at least I have my experience to go off of. I've actually done the deed. I'm probably older and am close friends with a lot more parents than you are, and more privy to the experience…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 01:32 AM
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Fair enough. Understanding one's perception may not always be fully accurate is part of the maturation process. Good luck on your journey.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 01:21 AM
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I think she made a mistake judging character, just like Jonah did. Shit happens, life goes on.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 01:19 AM
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Sure fine but don't go making incorrect statements about shit you're ignorant about.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 01:05 AM
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You have a point. It seems a lot if it probably is rooted in low self-esteem defense mechanisms. Presenting a front of "he's gotta be amazing or I'm not dating at all" gives you an out. Then you can talk about how happily single you are, men are trash, etc., and avoid that unpleasant come-to-jesus realization that quality guys just don't want to commit to you, thus confirming your insecurities.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 01:03 AM
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You're misunderstanding me. What I'm saying is those men are only rare from your perception. They're not actually rare in real life. Do you understand your perception may not always reflect reality?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 12:46 AM
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I'll try to change your view here. As humans, we do assortative mating. If you can operate under the mere possibility that a woman can be pressured by society to see herself as far higher quality than what men see her, then there lies the problem. She thinks she's sorting to her perceived equal, but her perceived equal is not sorting to her. Her self perception is not congruent with her reality. The guys that she wants commitment from, don't want to commit to her. But she goes on believing men a…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 01:49 PM
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It's called trial and error. People are allowed to try things and make mistakes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 12:39 PM
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Why not? He was fine with it at first, then he wasn't. They broke up, nobody was harmed. What is this iron law that says you have to accept someone as they currently are for the rest of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 12:35 PM
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When you're rich, famous, and can pick up girls at will, you can demand whatever absurd shit you want, and then next her if she's not on board. As proven by the fact that he immediately got another girl as soon as he threw this one back to the streets. This girl was a clout chaser that's having her 15 minutes of quasi fame, and nobody will remember her name 3 months from now.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 12:32 PM
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Them accepting the standards is irrelevant. Whether they accept or not has no influence on your success. That's like me constantly dunking all over another player in a basketball game, and them saying dunking is bullshit. Who cares? Here comes the next dunk.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 12:25 PM
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For a damn purse? Jfc. Some people's kids, I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 09:20 AM
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It's not harder to find, it's just that women screen for both husband material and meeting an attractive standard. While "hot guys" automatically meet that standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 09:02 AM
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Saying the phrase "extremely happily single" reminds me of how the most repressive dictatorship in the world calls itself the "Democratic People's Republic of Korea".
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 08:54 AM
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Bruh I've supported a SAHM and 2 kids on less than 100k, and we lived well and enjoyed life. How you gonna sit there and tell me it's not possible when I literally did it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 06:27 AM
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You can grind hard to a good engineering or finance degree and work hard to earn up to 100-200k a year. But that ain’t enough to support 2 ppl + house + kids. The fuck? Yes it is lol. A lot of yall clearly have no fucking clue what it actually costs to raise a kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 12:57 AM
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Be like Nick Cannon. Take the breeder pill. You can afford it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 12:40 AM
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Having a muscular, powerful figure projects an air of intimidation and authority in the office and the public.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 12:38 AM
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Honestly I never have this issue because I go to either military base gyms or gyms that thots can't afford marketed toward an older crowd.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 12:35 AM
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Steph did it to himself. She has been using his fame and wealth as a vehicle to launch her own lifestyle influencer brand, and he encouraged it all along. They're basically Will and Jada part 2.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 12:30 AM
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Take the sobriety pill. Age slower, feel healthier, save money.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 12:19 AM
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I go to a gym at a country club. All the middle-aged Karens you can handle. Oh, and the occasional high school girl apparently training to be a future instagram fitness thot that I have to constantly avert my eyes from.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 12:14 AM
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Because women taking responsibility doesn't generate profits for shareholders. Keep telling them what they want to hear, and they'll naturally spend themselves into a lifetime of debt. Hell, they will even form their identity around it and defend it to their death.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 12:09 AM
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Good luck. Assortative mating typically leads women in your position to have to reject a lot of bad prospects because you're not satisfied with where you've been sorted.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 11:47 PM
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Depends on the woman, depends on the culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 11:25 PM
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Yep, I wasn't even thinking marriage until I started dating my wife. She wanted me from day 1. 3 weeks in, I knew I was gonna marry this girl. The next year or so was just doing my due diligence. Pumped and dumped a girl one week prior to our first date.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 11:21 PM
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In the NBA superstar world.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 11:04 PM
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That's the normal intent. Doesn't always work out so neatly in real life. Disagreements come up.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 10:59 PM
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Yep. Pretty simple. Yet mf's still find a way to fuck it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 08:39 AM
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Boundaries/standards can be communicated directly and indirectly. That's "having a say", even though I didn't explicitly tell her. The influence is enough. Withholding commitment from a woman who desires it until she agrees to meet the standard is also having a say. And finally, voicing disapproval with a relationship partner who pushes those boundaries and then backtracks is having a say. Anyway, this is going in circles because we're at cross purposes. I'm simply describing how the real world …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 06:10 AM
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Yes it does, because if she was like that, I wouldn't take her seriously in the first place, and thus never bother asking. She can go party all night, blow dudes for cash in the alleyway, and then OD on heroin for all I care.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 05:51 AM
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Living within normal societal standards consistent with a serious, committed couple is not "expecting a completely different person". What is unreasonable, is expecting a change to a serious relationship status but absolutely no change in what's expected of you, unless that was explicitly discussed. As for the rest, well, believe what you want, I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 05:13 AM
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If I didn't, I wouldn't ask her to, that would be foolish. But your hypothetical assumes that this is a girl that I care about enough to hold to any kind of a standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 04:57 AM
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Because I have the leverage to enforce a negative consequence that she wants to avoid.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 04:48 AM
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If a woman prefers a traditional lifestyle, they get absolutely shit on by feminists and career women. Get called a stepford wife, religious fundie, a boring housewife, lazy, unambitious, etc. But usually, those women won't shit on them directly, but rather shit on their lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 04:40 AM
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Dating someone who they are in that moment is fine, and you shouldn't try to change them, but once the nature of the relationship changes, it's reasonable to adjust the standards you hold each other to. Like I'm not going to expect a girl I'm casually fucking to act like my wife. But it's unreasonable for her to demand a serious relationship and then get upset that it comes with a new set of standards. Understanding that difference is what separates wife material from girls that are purely recre…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 04:27 AM
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Yes, you do have a say. We can sit here on the internet and pretend we're all strong independent boss bitch untamed wild stallions who only ever do what they want and can't be influenced or tied down by anyone else ever. Or we can be rational adults and acknowledge that humans are interdependent, we're constantly influencing each other's behaviors, and we pick and often comply with what others say so as to avoid pointlessly suffering negative consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 04:10 AM
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They can, but real life is messy and doesn't always work that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 03:34 AM
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Yes they do. They do all the fucking time. At an event, a meeting, at work, or even in a relationship. There's a reason why those protocols exist: to filter out people like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 01:44 AM
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Seems to be an influx of unhinged children dumping out their purse on the daily thread. Getting too old for this shit, fr.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 01:34 AM
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Conservatives would have a permanent supermajority and control of the entire government the next 100 years if they weren't so fucking racist lol. They can't help themselves. Simultaneously, the dumbest and smartest people alive.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 01:32 AM
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We should all strive to be good citizens of humanity like that man was.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 01:24 AM
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Ngl, I lose a little bit of respect for dudes who say this.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 09:41 PM
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Pay to play ofc.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 09:33 PM
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I disagree based on the fact that almost nothing in life is equal to anything else. The truth is that if you quantify the level of effort in a relationship, it will usually be two asymmetric, discrete values that depend on how you quantified it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 12:19 PM
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Power and wealth transfers from the elderly to breeders. As each generation of a family gets fewer in number, the wealth and real estate concentrates and stovepipes amongst the breeders. I have multiple aunts and uncles that name me as their next of kin because they don't have kids. The one that did have kids (my cousins) aren't having kids themselves. To my family, I'm a vector for the future. Everyone else is a dead end. And people want to invest and believe in a future. Imagine inheriting mul…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 09:01 AM
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Dude you're not going to get an honest discussion on this topic. People will literally sit there and tell you obvious bullshit just to win an argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 07:34 AM
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One of the most important lessons I've learned as an adult is that not everyone wants to fix their problems. Or rather, they're not willing to do the work. Because that often requires looking inward and taking accountability for what has happened so far. So, they would rather seek validation, distractions, and comfort. With one notable exception, I just ignore people like this in my life. They drain your time, energy, and money. However, if you show a spark, a sign of life, a flash of motivation…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 05:44 AM
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I hired a foreign language tutor for a few months, and now I'm way closer to fluency than I was last year. I think I'm gonna hire a personal trainer, too. I want to hit my fitness goals before my birthday.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 10:36 PM
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I don't know about men specifically, but I do know that white feminists often try to lionize women of color to support their overarching feminist issues, and then turn a blind eye or only pay lip service when it comes time to spend energy on their intersectional race based issues. Which if we're being all the way 1000 about it, are far more pressing than some Becky getting catcalled or whatever. Susan B. Anthony was a virulent racist and that legacy continues today. It's not about equality or fa…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 02:05 PM
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I don't do oral sex. I mastered my stroke game and never looked back. So here's the thing, most guys are really bad at their stroke game, so munching is like the one thing they can consistently do that will save them. Dudes often use it as a crutch. Most men are, in fact, so deficient at actual sex that they just assume every other man is just as bad, and not munching is being a selfish lover. They can't comprehend the idea of a woman having an orgasm without sticking his tongue into her vagina.…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 11:37 PM
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There's more than one gym, and more than one experience. You don't get to invalidate his.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 03:09 PM
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Irrelevant statement. One is invalidating another's experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 03:05 PM
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Only one person is calling another blind here.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 02:12 PM
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This is bullshit. Your experience doesn't invalidate his experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 01:55 PM
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3 things I'm going to drive home to my daughter: First is, find men with a proven record of good decisions whose judgment you trust that have your best interests at heart and aren't interested in you sexually. Use them to help vet the men you date. Can be a parent, an uncle, an older cousin, a mentor, or an older friend. Find at least 3 women you want to be like and ask her how she did it, and what it cost her. This also works for contractors. Smart people follow a winning formula and incrementa…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 11:36 PM
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Reasonable take. I agree with that. Having said that, I think there is a very strong undercurrent of paternalistic colonial racism that comes from most women in the U.S. about this topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 11:41 AM
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Is the act of prostitution what's gross and pathetic? Age difference? Or the power imbalance? Or the race mixing? Would you say the same if it was a 28 year old single mom white woman receptionist from the rural Midwest making minimum wage? How about a sugar baby that agrees to stay with a guy in the long term?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 11:33 AM
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I find it disturbing how privileged educated middle class+ women believe men shouldn't talk to a poorer woman at all. Because of the mere potential of financial abuse. Like "her broke ass should stay in the gutter with her people where she belongs, rather than ever enter a transactional relationship with a wealthier man she's not attracted to." Idk it just seems horribly tone deaf. Edit: and by tone deaf I mean it's probably good ol fashioned western colonizer racist attitudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 07:29 AM
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1- nah 2- I'd be ok with it if she was down for an anal spitroast. If yes, I'd do it and then dump her the next day. If no, then we'd continue on.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 03:06 AM
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Idk, the article literally points out a pay gap between a janitor and white collar workers.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 02:58 AM
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You get what you negotiate, not what you "should."
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 02:57 AM
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I agree on most of it besides the age (willing to accept up to ~30). Also, she can't have any fucked up family history or any history of abuse, assault, or trauma, regardless of whether it's her fault or not. Also no tats or piercings. Like she's gotta be turn-key, I'm not interested in a fixer-upper. If she fails any of this criteria, she's silently disqualified from marriage or any serious cohabitation.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 02:47 AM
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Just read an article about how blue collar hourly workers are starting to reach pay parity with white collar salaried office workers because A.I. and tech is making their value plummet and automating them out of a job. Nothing fills me with as much joyful pettiness as seeing these soft, privileged college grads thinking they were such hot shit because they're "educated" and thought they were safe, suddenly realize they're even lower than a janitor or a plumber. https://qz.com/chatgpt-white-colla…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 02:38 AM
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The fuck are you talking about? His wife was a cheerleader on the Lakers, and Kobe went to the NBA right after high school and made the all-star game as a rookie. Vanessa Bryant was also the literal definition of a "predatory woman". Their marriage was well known for being pretty fucked up.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 10:56 PM
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Losers gonna lose, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 10:53 PM
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If I was him, I'd bang her a few times and then ghost her. Not out of revenge, but mostly out of curiosity and resolve those old feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 10:44 PM
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But my family isn't a company, it's a family. The purpose isn't to generate profit. It's to provide mutual support for the group. Therefore, support is the primary function. She's doing the main job.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 10:12 PM
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The issue is that you've based it around a particular pop culture (or in this case, counterculture) activity, which is cool for a while but ultimately not sustainable because you have to keep doing that activity. People tend to age out of stuff like that as they get older. Sure, there are probably some old hangers-on, but what do you think happened to their peers? It's better to find a subculture that shares those similar values but doesn't revolve around one niche activity. Like get into spirit…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 07:55 AM
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Nothing a jar of peanut butter and a lack of shame can't fix.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 07:29 AM
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Who said i didn't want to? I just dont have time to do it and do a good job at it. She's better at that thing and has the time and capacity to perform it as a primary duty at a high level. Unless you're referring to something a man physically can't do.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 07:26 AM
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You said you didn't know of any intangibles she could bring that a man already doesn't. Now you know at least one. It's subjective, so if you're asking for intangibles that you would consider equal to what a man already provides, then idk, man, we can't read your mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 07:13 AM
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For me, an example is socializing. My wife is basically the family's social secretary and acts as an intermediary between our family and society. Like, say, other families, our neighbors, and even my own friends and family. Sure, I could do all that stuff myself, but it's hard to split my brain in 5 different directions and end up doing a mediocre job at everything. It is better to divide and conquer with specialization according to our talents.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 06:43 AM
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It's more interesting to me how people use this gendered shaming language to describe men's aversion to higher earning women. It's like goading a man into doing something reckless by calling him a chicken.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 06:27 AM
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From what I've seen with AI, I see a robot filing middle management TPS reports sooner than I see it working a construction trade or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 06:15 AM
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Kill her now and then figure out a way to frag the captain later on due to "friendly fire". Letting him stay alive is worse than just sitting there and getting executed myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 05:25 AM
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Absolutely. Most of these people are just trying to win online arguments and acquire fake internet points, not actually raise real kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 10:22 PM
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True, I'm sitting on an airplane right now, and time is just flying by arguing on the internet. But it's either this or stare out the window.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 07:18 PM
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That's because you see your kid(s) as an actual human who deserves your best effort in life, not just a footnote and vanity project in the story of success cooked up in your own mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 07:16 PM
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"Elite life" I make a bit over 300k also, and there's something I notice about this top 1-2% income range, especially with tech dudes. The people tend to be one-trick ponies. Like they're good at the thing that makes them wealthy, but not much else in life. Often, these types tend to be awful parents because they dont understand theres more to being a parent than writing checks, and the kids grow up miserable in a gilded cage.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 06:54 PM
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Idk I'm happily married and my advice leans red. I like debating relationship dynamics, and most places on reddit are either incel farms or bluepilled feminist/white knight bullshit. I think a lot of married/coupled up older women like to come on here to pontificate and play out their pathological need to be right over the course of 50 PPD posts a day.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 06:40 PM
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Did you even read my post? Both are scams.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 06:33 PM
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It's popular to hate on anything that doesn't fit with the soulless capitalist imperative of mindless labor and consumption. Like I can respect religious fundies because at least they're mindless sheep to something that's not popular in 2023. Buck the trend, you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 06:27 PM
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Diet is way more important than exercise, anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 06:12 PM
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Those are good years for having kids, but bad years for raising them. Young moms are rarely good moms, and I say that a kid of a young mom. Just too immature and lacks confidence at that point in life. That's why teen pregnancy is usually associated with trailer trash and ignorant religious fundies. As an actual kid-haver, I'd say 25-32 is ideal.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 11:29 PM
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Depends on the age. Under 25, you'd need 3-4 years. 25-28, at least 2 years. 29 and over, 1 year. Also if you're madly in love and attracted to a man, over age 27 and he just keeps stringing you along with vague bullshit for like 5+ years, he's probably out of your league but you're staying on the hook because he's the best you can do.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 05:17 PM
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Exposure to traditional cultures outside of America. By contrasting the pervasive misery and unhappiness of single liberal women in the U.S. while growing a soft spot for family life and the beauty of other traditional cultures around the world, she'll come to the conclusion that thottery doesn't pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 12:01 AM
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So if you're a child of a rich person and spent 22 years (childhood + college) as a rich kid but is now only making 40k a year, that person is middle class? Your definition sounds pretty inflexible.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 09:08 PM
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Well this has been fun. Gonna log this as community service outreach with autistic kids and move on now
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 08:46 PM
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So? It doesn't matter why you're middle class. You either are or you aren't. Prestige whores in this sub claim left and right that making a lot of money doesn't make you upper class, so is it based off of raw income and wealth, or is it based off your culture and circumstances of your birth and family?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 06:11 PM
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That was a polite way of saying what you said was stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 06:08 PM
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This is pretty much me, and I live a solidly middle-class class life. Like I have a modest 1500 sqft house in the suburbs, my kids go to public school, and I drive a 12 year old economy car. The only difference is just that I spend about 50k/yr on retirement savings and 20k a year on travel.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 04:09 PM
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It's for a potential mom to bail herself out of an unwanted pregnancy by killing the life growing inside her. Morally repugnant imo, but I'm also against government interference.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 03:57 PM
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2 points: 1, your choice pool should be small if you have any intention of being serious down the line. If you're just dating to have fun and have sex then whatever, date a literal crackhead felon, who cares. But cohabitation or marriage with the wrong person can ruin your life. It's better to err on the side of caution than take a chance on damaged/refurbished goods. If any of those things happened to someone, we (society) would be falling over ourselves to advise therapy and dealing with unres…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 03:51 PM
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That doesn't even make sense. Are you a literal child where 8 years is like over a third of your time on earth so far? 😆 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 08:54 AM
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How lucky this community is to have autists to tell us all when a discussion is or isn't worth having.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 07:53 AM
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That's....not a very diverse sample of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 05:51 AM
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I don't see "most men" getting into sports gambling specifically, to be honest. But I do think that various addictions will take down most men-- porn, food, gaming, internet, alcohol, drugs, and ofc gambling is a part of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 05:31 AM
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Anybody can hold anything against you for any reason. You aren't entitled to a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 05:13 AM
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Just because a red flag isn't your fault doesn't make it any less red. If you were abused or are working through childhood trauma or something, nobody owes you a relationship just because it's not your fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 05:12 AM
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Of fucking course it's up to the individuals and their personal preference, genius. OP literally just asked what everyone's personal preference was.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 04:56 AM
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Chronically online bitching and complaining about how awful it is to be an educated middle/upper-middle class white woman in America.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 11:43 PM
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It's because japan is a familiar country but strange enough for ignorant westerners to use as an example for whatever dumb point they're trying to make.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 11:26 PM
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I liked rif, but at this point, I just want these dumb pointless protests to be over with.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 11:23 PM
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Ok sure whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 11:21 PM
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That's a lot when you're dating with the intention of marriage and on the wrong side of 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 05:55 PM
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My wife is that ride or die type of girl, and she is down for literally anything as long as we're doing it together. She has a pretty strong personality, but it's like she gets off on being led by a man she respects. Like if you were the kind of guy that wanted a 50/50 type of egalitarian relationship she'd overpower you but secretly think you're kind of a pussy. Fuck, I love her.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 05:54 PM
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The building phase is more exciting because you never know how it will turn out. You take more chances, try different things, etc. This usually happens by 30. Once you've built yourself, the steering phase is boring but ultimately more profitable.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 05:24 PM
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The two guys who posted the real answer got heavily downvoted in the first link. When a man gets consistently friend zoned, he's dating out of his league. When a woman gets consistently fuck zoned, she's dating out of her league. Anything else is bullshit. Either change who you target, or change what you have to offer.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 05:13 PM
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That answer betrays a middle-class mindset with simpler life expectations. Guys on the leadership track implicitly understand the game and how one has to play it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 04:58 PM
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Just studying in school won't get you there either. Gotta know how to play the game, or else you just end up getting used up and thrown away.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 04:29 PM
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It's still the best place in the world to build wealth, I'll always admit that. But I live in a city with a 30% foreign born population for a reason. I also push my kids to develop an international mindset through language, food, travel, foreign exchange study, and hosting other kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 04:13 PM
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Tbh most women are too clueless to even know which guys actually make real money. They have no concept of that world outside of ignorant stereotypes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 08:46 AM
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At a certain income level it literally takes less effort to make $1k than it does to go out and get some ass. I mean it sounds ridiculous to just sit there and go without when you really don't have to.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 08:41 AM
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My one actual serious thought of the week: The thing I want for my kids more than anything by the time they are 18 is to be more worldly in their mindset, experiences, and thinking than I was. I feel like once you get sucked into that cycle of prestige whoring and social climbing during the college admissions procsss, you become mentally colonized and then it's hard to break free. Understanding that I didn't have to accept the American idea of success and what life should be like was probably th…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 07:22 AM
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AWALT is actually a pretty sound, logical philosophy that gets inexperienced men to operate in a defensive mindset and avoid complacency.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 03:56 PM
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Burning desire is great. Being with a ride or die girl is the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 07:27 AM
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Hit it one more time and then throw her ass out on the street right after you nut.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 07:10 AM
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OC doesn't count.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 06:52 AM
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Reflection of a permissive, decadent society and shitty parenting. I live in a wealthy suburb in California and never see fat kids. They're all out playing soccer or surfing or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 06:22 PM
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Attention whores are more likely not to be penalized for having messy personal lives because they keep getting validated and bailed out by men simping over their looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 06:19 PM
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Sure, you can have it both ways. People are hypocrites. That's just the way of the world. If logical consistency is a value you prioritize, then good for you, but others aren't necessarily playing by those rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 06:14 PM
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I'm a lifelong moderate Democrat that works in an industry filled with mostly conservative old white dudes, so I've had to walk the line between the two my whole life. Conservative women are like dogs, liberal women are like cats. In my experience, conservate women seem to settle and adapt better to rural/suburban married life. Being settled down, having kids, going to church, joining the school PTA, etc. Once they get a decent situation, they're content to work within its context. Liberal marri…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 05:59 PM
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Nah, more like she's the type to irresponsibly stumble through life, making stupid choices and playing the helpless victim when it all falls apart. Hearing her mom's response and the fact she used to abuse drugs kinda tells me what I need to know about her.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 05:13 PM
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This must be the Indian version of the "n-word moment." Interesting to see it happen to other people. They ain't never been on your side and if you fell for that shit then you're mentally colonized and naive as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 07:15 AM
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You don't need unlimited discipline, even just a token amount puts you head and shoulders above most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 07:02 AM
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I can't give him a pass for spending his life simping for his toxic domineering wife that is universally hated by everyone who knows her. Great hooper, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 04:05 PM
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What does this even mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 03:57 PM
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You usually have decent points, but this is the dumbest take I've ever seen from you. Some dudes are just credential simps I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 03:54 PM
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Being treated like a king is usefulness.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 03:50 PM
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Some guys can just coast and chill at a regular pace for decades and be just fine with a domestic wife. And some guys just have no chill whatsoever and are constantly looking for the next new shiny thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 05:36 AM
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Honestly, yes. I'd hit the reset button and start over with a new life. It'd be a huge life change like joining the military, volunteering for an NGO, becoming a merchant sailor, or teaching English abroad or something like that. Like if I'm starting over, I'm gonna do something amazing, not just go wait tables in another state living in a studio apartment or something mundane.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 05:24 AM
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If it leads to a well paying career, sure. I simply figured out what lifestyle I wanted and worked backwards to what I needed to do to get there. Basically, I've been just coasting and sticking to the plan for the last 2 decades.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 05:17 AM
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That's basically saying that usefulness and loyalty from a woman is more important in a relationship than his actual level of attraction to her. I'm not disagreeing, I'm just stating the moral of the story.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 05:15 AM
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Losers stay losing, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 05:10 AM
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Yeah. I started investing when I got out of college and have been saving a ton ever since then. I also made some great real estate decisions.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 08:11 PM
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Compared to that strawman you just erected? That is not at all what my advice consists of.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 08:09 PM
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Never once claimed I was alpha.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 08:07 PM
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Maybe, but I don't resemble most millennials either.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 07:24 PM
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Idk, most people in my life who have followed my advice have generally seen success, but go off internet rando, 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 07:23 PM
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Wtf are you talking about "my situation"? Please stop talking in riddles.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 06:51 PM
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If I was whining about not being a billionaire, that would be a good point. But I have no desire to do what it takes to be a billionaire. I'm content as a millionaire.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 06:36 PM
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It amazes me how you can literally tell someone the steps to win at life, and they'll cry and make excuses about how scared they are to try. I'm a millennial, but man sometimes I wish I was born 15 years later, because I'm pretty sure I'd be dunking on this bitch made generation like Shaq in the paint.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 06:01 PM
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b-b-b-but my feeeelings.... Just go out there and do the damn thing, stop being so scared.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 05:41 PM
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You only have to "hit" once for it to be a success. I mean, if you're 0/100 shooting threes, then maybe move a little closer to the basket.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 04:32 PM
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Then another man who isn't affected by that will come along, shove you aside, and take the prize while you're sulking about not feeling involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 04:30 PM
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Most humans don't just have the ability to let shit roll off their back like that. That is an ability that can be developed with experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 04:21 PM
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If your reaction to failure and adversity is to get depressed and give up, then yes, it has negative consequences. You have a loser mentality that will bleed into other parts of your life. Those people are usually sorted into the bottom strata of society and life outcomes, and are time-wasters and complainers who bring people down. Nobody wants to be around that. If your reaction to failure and adversity is to fight even harder through it until you achieve your goal, then you likely have a winni…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 04:16 PM
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Nah, I'm pretty confident, and I don't think I'm better than other men. I freely admit I'm not that smart, attractive, fit, cool, likeable, clever, or accomplished. I simply don't fear failure anymore. Like I've failed a few times before and somehow always bounce back. I've also succeeded enough to know I'll be fine. THAT is confidence. The lack of fear, lack of anxiety. Not being neurotic about the situation, just go out and do whatever because the rules are made up and the points don't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 07:52 AM
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Idk, race influences literally who I became as a person, so I don't see how I can meaningfully separate that out as a factor.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 07:29 AM
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And I said they can't or shouldn't get married at 22 where? I never said you said that. You fabricated me fabricating something you said. I swear, sometimes people here just come in with a chip on their shoulder and want to whine and it doesn't even matter if the person is even making the argument you're arguing against, you just want to whinge at someone. You were talking about people needing time to develop in their early 20s and I was dismissing that as a valid argument. Honestly this whole p…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 03:49 PM
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Not to say you can't have sorted yourself out in your early 20s but a lot of people need some time to grow and develop as people. We're ok with a 22 year old choosing to take on hundreds of thousands in school debt, picking the career path that will affect them for the rest of their life, joining the military, etc, but God help you if you get married before 25 because your brain isn't fully developed. Like on reddit we literally have kids with over 100k in student debt working minimum wage jobs …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 03:13 PM
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Yeah a 12 minute mile pace is really slow for military standards. Must be trying to recruit the fat kids now.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 02:27 PM
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That would work except the only ones throwing anyone in jail is other men. Women are cowards ngl, do your own dirty work.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 04:42 AM
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I kinda wish I had started earlier and we had 1 or 2 more kids. 4 kids over 8 years, starting at 26 and last kid done with school by 50. Perfect setup.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 04:37 AM
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What's this dumb bullshit about thinking career women aren't greedy too. A doctor can bleed you dry just as good as a McDonald's cashier. Probably even more.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 04:32 AM
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Sometimes, I wonder what life would be like if I didn't meet my wife. I likely would have been traveling the world as an expat manwhore, banging women all around the world until I settled down with some aging divorced career woman in my mid 50s. The road not taken, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 05:40 PM
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Fatherhood is easy. The hard part is watching all your hopes and dreams wither away because of some dumb annoying kid running around breaking your shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 08:47 AM
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IMO, you really have to earn the right to be physically affectionate with a another guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 08:44 AM
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Ok, so for American men, our biggest stand-out trait is our aggressiveness. Yeah, we're fat, but we're also bigger and stronger than people from most countries. We're also a lot more open and emotional, don't hold back, and won't put up with bullshit. And we have money, of course. American women are like that, too, but those traits support masculine gender roles, which gives women a harder time unless it's just purely about sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 08:34 AM
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Because that would require effort. This is more of a drive-by smugging.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 08:06 AM
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This sounds like the kind of advice you'd give to an average middle class person with mediocre life prospects in order to hedge their bets. Way to swing for the fences lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 04:23 PM
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Take a genius high school kid. In his local midwestern suburban school, the athletes are popular, and he's probably invisible. In my city, that kid would be the most popular in his school because there's a pervasive tiger mom culture here. AWALT, but the environment greatly determines your outcomes in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 04:13 PM
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Everybody be sure to call mom and tell her you love her today!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 04:00 PM
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FA is actually a pretty great job for a passport sis once you get enough seniority to commute from abroad. I've met a few of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 03:58 PM
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2020s victimization culture. That's why.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 03:55 PM
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People are just being immature kids. Friendships are fleeting and end or begin for insignificant reasons all the time. If I organically develop feelings for a girl I'm friends with, then the friendship is already over by that point, it either continues as unresolved attraction or a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 03:54 PM
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Lol you probably are a sex addict but tbh who gives a fuck what some random new girl you just met and shot you down thinks
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 03:42 PM
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You ever notice how these people get all the therapy in the world and still live fucked up miserable lives anyway? Like they make no progress but at least they have a fancy therapy-approved excuse for sucking at life. Most of this mental health shit is just broke ass zoomers going nowhere in life trying to cope with their mediocrity by claiming every type of victimhood under the sun. Just losers doing what they're best at: losing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 01:15 AM
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So? You don't need most women to be that, you just need 1. That's like saying the vast majority of women aren't black therefore don't bother trying to find one to date. That's how bad that argument sounds.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 10:52 PM
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While that's true, your inability to tell the difference between that, and this, is part of the fundamental misunderstanding.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 09:34 PM
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I actually have no issue with her flying in business class, but writing an article and calling it a lesson in feminism is where the narcissism reveals itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 07:10 PM
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That is not at all how it goes down irl. Guys basically fuck around until mid-early 30s and by then practical needs start to take priority. You start entering more senior roles at your job which demand more of your time, and you get more serious about your life and less carefree, which often comes with a desire for marriage and kids. I'm not talking about reddit people, I mean your average balding dadbod American Joe 6-pack you see working as an accountant or plumber or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 07:07 PM
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Okay, sure. By now, I've made my point to others reading this, so I'll stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 06:57 PM
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As a tangent, personality becomes far more important because society is far more atomized in 2023. Like back in the 80s or 90s you only had to spend maybe 20 waking hours a week with a spouse.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 06:51 PM
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You're using academic definitions where they aren't appropriate. And the point isn't about what RP prescribes, the point is that the RP/BP dichotomy is tied to real world application.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 06:46 PM
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You can't project an individual outcome based on aggregate data because there's too many individual confounding variables. This shows a fundamental misunderstanding of how to apply statistics.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 06:43 PM
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Ok but you're debating academics in an experiential debate sub. RP is specifically tied to real world outcomes hence the Matrix metaphor.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 06:39 PM
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So then you have no intention to actually apply the concept to the real world?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 06:04 PM
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Honestly it's pretty easy to say all the right things and come off as a liberal man, and then throw all that shit out the window at 30 when you "find God" and tradcon mid 20s wifey comes along. Like just give liberal chicks validation and they'll give it up early and often if you're somewhat attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 05:51 PM
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People also romanticize their current environment. There's probably a significant amount of people from 100 years ago that would never want to come up in today's dating market.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 05:46 PM
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I mean, your chosen definition is nebulous and academic, but not really actionable in any way. Like ok once you recognize those connections, then what do you do? Feels like a "thoughts and prayers" type of attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 05:41 PM
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Using aggregate data to prescribe an individual outcome is lazy and misguided.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 05:37 PM
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Ok, connections recognized. Now what?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 05:31 PM
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Kobe had sustained success over a longer time until he got injured. Wade was good in his 06 run, but fell off hard by the last year of the Heatles.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 05:28 PM
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Anger is powerful, but not very sustainable and leads to bad decisions. The calm, sober person is usually more effective than the raging hothead.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 12:10 AM
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Pretty boys get fucked with by blue collar type dudes all the time. Especially if he acts like he's above anyone else. Like this is something I'd expect someone who's never really spent time around a bunch of men would say. Dudes act tough because weak guys get targeted.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 11:51 PM
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While this isn't appealing to me in 2023, I'd definitely be cool with a robot mistress to blow me in my 80s cause I doubt my wife will.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 11:46 AM
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A marginal benefit is basically how much does adding X income benefits him. Let's say a man marries a woman making 40k. That's an increase of 40k in combined salary, so yes, there's a benefit. Simple math. A man making 40k would see a huge marginal benefit because his salary doubles and quality of life would double. Now combined they can afford a nice house, take vacations, etc., where they couldn't before. A man making 150k who already owns his home and has the quality of life he wants (and the…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 02:57 PM
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It's not basic math. The marginal benefit he gets from the additional income is not worth the diminishing returns of "reduced compatible partner" incidence that goes down as income requirements get stricter. There's a difference between mindlessly doing the math, and using math as a tool to make sound decisions.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 07:42 AM
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Maid cafes are fun cause they're just so over the top with the cuteness and you can have a great time if you just go along with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 05:39 AM
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Not really. I honestly don't even know most of their religious beliefs because it never comes up. I think most are agnostic or buddhist.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 01:24 PM
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Nah, it's pretty real. I'd say half of my friend group is male breadwinner trad households.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 06:28 AM
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TIL middle class proles justify their 2 income trap as a result of their wage slavery as being normal and well adjusted.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 06:24 AM
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No way any of the fine women of PPD would ever say one thing and do another just to win an argument on the internet. Surely you jest!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 06:16 AM
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Idk, making 10 times what I was making at 25 would change a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 06:07 PM
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If everything goes right, my salary will be doubling this year, which would be pretty awesome. I just wish I had this job in my 20s instead. It would have changed the game for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 05:07 PM
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You let her treat you like shit and squandered all the time you could have been talking to other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 04:43 PM
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Well yes, that's solid advice but it's not exactly written in a manual and issued to every kid in high school. Men aren't born with this info and society vaguely implies being "just friends" is a good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 04:34 PM
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Dude, no, it's just cultural. There are certain cultures where they are very direct and will tell you the truth to your face whether you asked for it or not. Then there are cultures, like 2020s America, where people, particularly women, are low key seen as fake, and engage in constant manufactured validation with each other. I think most men just value the integrity of their words more.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 07:05 AM
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Idk man I'd check an ID first. Sounds like a trap.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 06:26 AM
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No. If I'm that deep in debt that my monthly cash flow is restricted, then I failed her and she's justified in losing faith in my stewardship due to said failure.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 06:19 AM
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Back in 2000, if you were in a bubble, it was often localized to your city. If you lived in San Diego, you didn't know metalheads in LA. Now in 2023 everyone can see everyone. When the people got connected, so did the bubbles. So now transplants from other scenes can connect with their local scene and the ones all around them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 02:56 PM
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Depends on whether it's a change driven by external forces or internal forces. Changing your personality to pick up more women is being fake. Changing your environment to pick up women while staying the same person is being your natural self.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 02:44 PM
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Idk, man, it's a lifestyle. Usually paired with seeking alternate states of mind. Although it seems dumb to constantly hang out with friends living a lifestyle you're not into.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 02:40 PM
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Appealing to them, I think, is still the wrong mindset. You're still not being true to yourself as a man. More like, build up who you are as a man, and then put yourself out there in the right environment that celebrates your values and qualities.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 02:26 PM
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It's interesting when I see advice to men on how to get women... it's usually a whole laundry list of things to do in order to be more broadly appealing and exciting to women so that they'll want to date them. You take a genuinely good, above average looking, balanced dude who's happy being who he is, but isn't successful in dating, and the recommendation I see is always for him to jump through hoops to be this man with broad dating appeal. Given the choice of having to change myself and be some…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 02:11 PM
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Trial and error. Experience. Willingness to put yourself out there and just do the thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 05:57 AM
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Thank you, you get it. And I'm certain your kids will be better for it because of instead of being some sacrificial broodmare, you actually share your life with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 05:40 AM
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I’m guessing you have a partner that helps you take care of them or they’re away from you for long periods of time. Because if you want to travel on a whim because you saw cheap prices, will do you do it anyways or do you have to rethink your life around them to see if you can leave them with anyone so you can travel. Why on earth would I leave them behind if I'm going to travel on a whim? Another example is how you spend money. Maybe without kids you wouldn’t care much about spending on frivolo…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 05:38 AM
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I don't either, I'm just saying don't sit there and bullshit me about how meaningful and life-changing it was.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 05:51 PM
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I didn't say don't visit. Reread what I posted.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 05:11 PM
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How would one even know they'd prefer it when they're still in their 20s? Young people are utterly ignorant about life in middle age and just assume they'll be one fit in the grave after 45 or so.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 05:01 PM
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I am not holding you accountable for anything. I am indifferent to you. I am saying people who aren't financially stable should hold themselves accountable, not passively chalk it up to some nebulous societal force. If it don't apply, then let it fly.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 04:39 PM
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Not really. It's called a balance. Sometimes, you favor your kids, and sometimes you favor yourself. I still mostly do the same stuff I've always done, I just have to account for what to do with the kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 04:35 PM
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I wasn't even fucking talking about you. I don't even know you. My point was that people blame their situations on society. Reported for incivility.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 04:29 PM
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I've noticed that men use oral as a crutch for being "good" at sex. When all you have is a hammer, everything starts looking like a nail. Truth is, you have to develop the other aspects. The stroke game. The foreplay game. Being able to smoothy escalate and transition from kissing to touching, to penetration, and beyond. You're essentially the conductor and being able to use the right techniques to put on a show that's both satisfying to you and her is key. Also, optional: perfecting the pull ou…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 04:27 PM
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On a tangent, but it's now a funny cliche how American kids suddenly think their lives are more meaningful and worldly because they drank/smoked/fucked on a different continent while superficially experiencing a different culture's tourist traps.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 04:14 PM
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That sounds too passive. Let's change it into active voice: "it’s sad that I took so long just to be financially stable" There, that's what accountability sounds like.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 03:53 PM
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Once you have kids your life stops being about you and is only about them. For at least the next 18 years. Not really. Maybe for the first couple years or so, but you eventually learn to make space for them and still be an adult once they hit school age. If you want to become a martyr, then that's your own personal choice. Idk maybe people should stop being neurotic helicopter parents if they want their lives back lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 03:50 PM
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I think people just don't consider what their lives might be like in their 50s, especially if their own parents are older. You end up getting sandwiched by geriatric parents to deal with and young children to take care of at the same time. That fucking sucks more than you could ever know. I had young parents, my mom was 18 when she had me and my dad was about 22. Socially it was actually pretty cool because my mom was young enough to relate to me as a teenager. We even had an overlapping period …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 03:45 PM
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Your dating strategy depends on the outcome you desire. Do you want to end up married to an attractive woman, or do you want a variety of sexual experiences? Also, body count doesn't necessarily increase your value as a man, experience and confidence do. The two are just usually tied together, but not always.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 05:07 PM
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Sure, whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 04:41 PM
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Not an impossible ask. Asking implies a degree of passivity. Women ultimately get the relationship they negotiate.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 03:06 PM
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This mf tryna give advice and tell other ppl to touch grass when they just eating takeout and watching a movie 😆 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 05:24 AM
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So then why even say "let's find a happy medium" when you have zero intention to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 05:10 AM
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What do men want? Women who aren’t attracted but indebted? Or women with options who are excited by their partners? What do women want? Commitment or excitement? It's a two-way street, because attractive male marriage prospects often locked themselves into commitments when they normally wouldn't today due to their social expectations and relative lack of choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 05:06 AM
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"Let's find" as if you actually have any real say, lol. You get what you get.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 04:45 AM
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You make it sound like capitalism was just invented. We literally fought an entire cold war under the banner of capitalism. More like the banner of the post-imperial Western liberal democratic Western international order that sought to control the entire world for its own benefit.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 04:42 AM
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Tokyo.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 04:54 AM
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White noise generator app on my phone. Pretty much changed my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 04:44 AM
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Like how very recently people were being gaslit into thinking that women didn't go for "bad boys" and that they were just confident men or they were misled. But now I'm seeing a lot of "she's used to chaos due to past trauma (whether players or upbringing) and that's why she self sabotages". Man, people are absolutely twisting themselves and their lives into knots in order to avoid accountability.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 04:44 AM
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I hope you bring this same outrage and energy when the career women around here condescend to housewives.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 04:27 AM
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Here is the problem with value? What is high value? By your definition someone who contributes a lot to society. Let's say you had a baby. A baby contributes zero to society and is actually a drain on social resources. If your baby worthless then? You're referring to utility, not value. A baby is a net drain on society. But, that baby has an unknowable value to society in its potential to be something someday. We don't know the future, so we can't accurately judge his or her present value. So it…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 09:27 PM
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wtf 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 02:53 AM
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cool story, bro
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 01:47 AM
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I didn't say it reduced obesity, I said it incentivized them to not be fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 01:37 AM
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Idk, good luck with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 01:36 AM
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I avoid that entire scenario by being the sole breadwinner. Shit just works. Like an old diesel engine that runs for a million miles.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 12:28 AM
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Yeah I'm over here still trying to figure it out, myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 12:23 AM
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Fat shaming affects people beyond the ones getting shamed. In this sense, it incentivizes people to not be fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 12:21 AM
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The whatever I said was that the red pill dictates a guy's life and beliefs, which then begs the question: who or what is telling him who his 'love interest' should be? The red pill right? Not really. The red pill is a set of experiential truths that practicioners may use as a means to achieve whatever effect they desire. It's a toolbox, not a lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 04:48 PM
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The point of AWALT is to help men drop the halo effect on a particular love interest, not whatever you said.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 03:49 PM
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You literally typed up a whole post about being completely wrong about a woman's response to game. Idk maybe you don't understand other women and their signals as well as you think you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 03:35 PM
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That dating pool starts to get backfilled by women growing increasingly desperate or rebounding from failed relationships around 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 06:11 AM
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Whether the complaints are justified or not, the pawns get fucked all the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 04:47 AM
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I think for a lot of Western women who earn their own money and don’t have aspirations to be a SAHM, this kind of relationship is not ideal from our perspective as we would not find we are genuinely attracted to a man 20 years older and who we can’t really talk to and bond with. I think this kind of gets at the heart of the issue. It reminds me of that meme where a older guy says "I consent", a young hot girl says "I consent" and an unrelated angry feminist says "well, I don't consent!". Anyway …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 07:11 AM
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Not a fan of the mainland, the city people are generally awful and ignorant. I fuck with Malaysians and Taiwanese tho, they're pretty fuckin cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 06:46 PM
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Sure, whatev.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 06:33 PM
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Nah you're still kinda damaged goods, just not for the reason you originally thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 06:12 PM
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You know, it's interesting. I have sympathy for guys like you because I place you in a different category of men suffering from severe mental issues. I hope technology can get you the help you need. Though I think if you didn't have those issues and were simply being a petulant incel, that sympathy would turn into contempt.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 05:57 PM
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Yes but by understanding cultural differences, we can pinpoint areas of higher incidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 01:12 AM
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Okay, "blue is the best color" is not an objective fact. "Most people think blue is the best color" is an objective fact. If you can't tell the difference, then you don't have the requisite brainpower for this conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 08:50 PM
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I'll actually change your view on this. This argument has two parts to it: theory and execution. Theoretically, it makes more sense for him to go to a market where women who meet his standards are in abundance, and men who match his value are rare. The logic behind it is untouchable. Of course one would advocate it's the "only" option. Having said that, the execution is difficult and usually requires a lot of patience and savvy to pull it off. You have to pay for transportation, then allow enoug…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 08:49 PM
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Asia consists of roughly 2+ billion women. Some are and some aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 08:03 PM
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That's a cop out. Value can be determined by the aggregation of subjective opinions. Therefore, it can be defined relative to the general population.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 07:55 PM
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Dudes aren't trying to hook up with most younger women, just maybe a handful of them. That's the difference between a confident man's perspective and a neurotic woman's perspective. A neurotic woman sees she has a <50% chance and gives up. A confident man sees he has a >5% chance and likes his odds.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 02:47 PM
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That husband is folded because he allows himself to be. A stronger man would have 100% put her in her place. If you're a man who absolutely does not come for any bullshit, then you'll do very well. If you're a meek introvert hoping for a meeker, weaker feminine woman to submit to you then yeah you'll have a bad time.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 12:26 AM
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"It"? You mean "them", right? 2 for the price of 1.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 03:45 PM
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"Debate respectfully" aka dance the monkey dance so the teacher thinks they did their job.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 03:41 PM
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Huh? I've never seen a woman receive accolades for doing normal things, can you give an example of what you mean? I'm a neutral observer, but this is either a disingenuous statement, or you're too ignorant of the world to be worth conversing with.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 01:10 AM
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Humans creating a social construct over multiple generations to govern their own behavior would actually be an action of natural monogamy. It wasn't exactly imposed on us by an outside source.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 11:44 PM
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Beachy California casual. My wife dresses like that and it was part of my initial attraction to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 04:14 PM
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Well, that's the trick. If I let my kid occupy my vacated paid-off house, he can make 50k a year and have the exact same amount of disposable income as someone making 130k.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 01:49 AM
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Based on what you posted, I would probably consider you much wiser than the average person. Doubly so if you're a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 01:30 AM
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Those kids turn out to be fucking weird. The real future power brokers are waist deep in drunk sluts at the frat house that can literally buy off a judge if they get in trouble.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 01:20 AM
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Eh, the way people try to turn pets into a proxy for human children these days is a massive fucking turnoff to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 01:16 AM
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I see it as both a problem and an opportunity. Primarily because of a lack of competition within the younger generations. Plus, as a millennial I have literally nothing to fear from my or the younger generations coming to usurp my position. They're too busy spending time in emotional crisis and navel-gazing on social media to be a threat.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 05:10 PM
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Nobody said it was that difficult. I just said it just takes experience. A low-n man doesn't have a wide range of it. Also, your advice basically boils down to "do oral". Gee, what valuable advice 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 04:13 PM
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Bro she's not into you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 03:14 PM
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This is dumb, unactionable advice. Low n-dudes can't just be good at sex because "effort", it takes trial and error plus patience on her part.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 03:10 PM
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Friends disappear, you make new ones. You fill your life with interests and meet new people through them. You meet other people in new stages of life. The problem is when you're in your 50s trying to live like a 20 year old NEET and nobody wants to fuck with you because people your age have grand kids and seats on nonprofit organization boards and shit, younger people dont want to hang out with a grandpa, and you're Peter Pan stuck in a permanent arrested development.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 12:18 AM
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What's love got to do with it?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 12:10 AM
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Plot twist: it was a lesbian tryst with the au pair. I've seen this movie before.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 12:07 AM
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I pity people who need to work. Essentially, they have hardcore Stockholm syndrome with their capitalist masters and are usually dull and uninspiring humans who need to be force-fed meaning and routine in their lives. Family and friends are a lot as it is. Learning new skills, languages, giving to and mentoring others, building up your body, nurturing and satisfying curiosity about the world. There's just so much more to do in this life than make other people rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 12:03 AM
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20 years ago I would have looked at the state of American society and thought something dumb and naive like "be the change you want to see!" or some dumb shit. Eventually I realized the best you can do is to save yourself, be somewhat wealthy and sequester yourself away from the dirty proletariat, but even they manage to infect us with their bullshit. Now I understand that the only real solution is to put an entire fucking ocean between myself and these people.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 05:21 PM
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Not structured girls with things like 5 date rules though. This is very nuanced and hard to explain tbh. Women who truly desire you will break their own rules for you. It's like the equivalent of applying and interviewing for a job you know you're going to get no matter what, and seeing all the other poor saps interviewing who don't understand that they never had a chance. Those poor saps live in the friendzone.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 03:54 PM
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Desirable is desirable, doesn't need to matter why.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 05:41 PM
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Higher status tends to enable shitty behavior without consequences. Having said that, there's plenty of broke trashy girls that are just as annoying and entitled, so no, I don't think it makes much of a difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:52 PM
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The right to be choosy is entirely a function of choosiness relative to how in demand you are. Having an MD is completely irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:49 PM
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It's not your place to dictate suitability for another man's relationship partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:41 PM
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That's a sunk cost fallacy. Why stay with an unsuitable woman and commit to even more flawed offspring. Better to just pay the price, wipe the slate clean and start over.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:19 PM
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Have whatever preference you want, but don’t call people derogatory names and if you don’t want to be “shamed for your preferences” speak about them in a way that isn’t gross. Disagree. People should drop this fake polite bullshit and say what they actually think. If you don't want to be shamed, don't do shameful things. That goes for both slut shaming and preference shaming. Own your shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 12:31 AM
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Find medium height girls with tall fathers and brothers. Tall girls are also pretty awkward, like they never figured out how to move gracefully in their own body. It's like dating a tomboy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 03:34 PM
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LOL, in like 99% of the kdramas I see, it's almost always a rich guy from a chaebol family and a poor girl who's hot. Like, it happens so often that it's a tired cliche. You clearly don't watch very many of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 06:17 PM
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