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Why was saying variations of "that makes sense" worth a perma in PPD? Especially when the other person was being much more hostile in that conversation with me? (basically telling me to fuck off using PG language).
/r/AllPillDebate18/07/23 05:32 PM
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/u/hazymemory7 I got a question but can't seem to PM. Edit: looks like I'll never know.
/r/AllPillDebate18/07/23 04:42 PM
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blaming, implying, suggesting causality. Whatever term you want to use. The point is, "suggesting" that its entirely men's ineptitude for women's orgasm gap is dishonest.
/r/AllPillDebate03/07/23 10:08 PM
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Ok so we'll stick to 6ft tall woman. Why are you so mad that my wife will be a virgin? How are you asking me this again? Are you going to make me repeat myself again are you going to learn to read? Yeah when you judge someone on a behavior that you yourself don't follow we have a word for that, hypocrisy, and people generally look down on that. Are you in the US or not?
/r/AllPillDebate03/07/23 09:40 PM
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The point i'm making is that women are harder to achieve orgasm period so its dishonest to try and make it seem like that's entirely on men.
/r/AllPillDebate03/07/23 09:39 PM
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But they have less of a chance of orgasming compared to men. More women than men can’t achieve orgasm thru masturbation so laying the orgasm gap at men’s feet is misleading.
/r/AllPillDebate03/07/23 09:18 PM
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Women have a much lower chance of reaching an orgasm Fixed.
/r/AllPillDebate03/07/23 09:05 PM
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What's worse judging someone based on an action they take or by their biology which they can not control? How are you asking me this, we just went over this. As I said, its worse to judge someone on their biology they can't control. I literally said I agreed with you on that. By your own words women are 10x worse than me and are HUGE insecure hypocrites 🤣 Don't deflect to women, women are gonna women. Besides its not like you would want a 6ft tall overweight woman so don't front. We're talking a…
/r/AllPillDebate03/07/23 09:04 PM
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You're not a virgin but you insist you wife must be lol. Yeah when you judge someone on a behavior that you yourself don't follow we have a word for that, hypocrisy, and people generally look down on that. People who insist on wanting virgin when women when they're not virgins are massively insecure. They don't want their wife to have any experience with other men to be able to know if she's getting a bad deal or not.
/r/AllPillDebate03/07/23 08:56 PM
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You're right judging someone based on biology is worse because it is completely out of their control. 👍 So we agree on that. Which is why i pointed out you making comparisons to standards on biology when we were talking about behavior. My wife will be a virgin no matter what Are you a virgin?
/r/AllPillDebate03/07/23 08:48 PM
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Having preferences on what you find attractive in a partner based on biology is different than expecting different standards of behavior for your partner than yourself. Men are typically taller and stronger than women due to our biology. A preference on a number of sexual partners you want your SO to have is based on behavior (yes I'm aware of men's stronger sex drive miss me with that).
/r/AllPillDebate03/07/23 08:33 PM
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So you’re applying a standard (edit: standard of behavior) to someone that you don’t want applied to you?
/r/AllPillDebate03/07/23 08:05 PM
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If you commit to a woman who has had multiple sexual partners you are pathetic Only if you haven't had multiple sexual partners yourself.
/r/AllPillDebate03/07/23 07:45 PM
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Asian men are like 1/4 of this planet, they've been out fucking the rest of the planet for a century. Edit: lol guess the demographic of the people dv'ing this.
/r/AllPillDebate02/07/23 09:01 AM
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If it were true there would be a group of average women that get ignored due to their looks match average men going for pretty girls. But there's not, if anything the situation is reversed. Seems like projection.
/r/AllPillDebate29/06/23 01:59 AM
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Population of India - 1.4 billion. They doin plenty of fucking.
/r/AllPillDebate28/06/23 10:30 AM
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What are you doing in this part of town? 😅
/r/AllPillDebate26/06/23 11:38 AM
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😂👉
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 05:26 AM
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I can say cat and follow the rules. Or floccinaucinihilipilification.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 05:22 AM
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I think it does. You might be surprised at what a normal woman is willing to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 05:18 AM
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That literally happened to me. Fuck. Word.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 05:17 AM
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They're not pets!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 05:14 AM
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How much is that finger in my ass gonna cost me?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 05:13 AM
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There's a number you can call.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 05:10 AM
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weebs mad
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 05:09 AM
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From other dudes it has to be a certain way. From women? Hell yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 05:09 AM
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I edited to give less of a smart ass response fyi.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 10:39 PM
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I like to spoil my women... 3 minutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 10:38 PM
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This is why women cheating in committed relationships are worse usually, they got someone at home willing the women are choosing to neglect. This isn't the case for men usually.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 10:38 PM
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Usually with my ears. Edit: My brother's friend has a number he got from one of the websites for this. Called her up on speaker, they arranged time to come thru and he asked for pictures to be sent to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 10:35 PM
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Ugh pass. I want someone who has a mind of their own. It can't always be on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 10:17 PM
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They showed me pictures of the girls, these are not bad looking women either.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 10:16 PM
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I want to find it but the sub is private at the moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 10:15 PM
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I'm listening to my older brother and his friend shop for whores and its wild to listen to. $200 for a half hour or $300 for an hour.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 10:13 PM
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I wonder if its a vocabulary issue. Instead of submissive I want a cooperative wife. OMG this one ppd woman tried to gaslight me into believing her and her husband didn't have to "cooperate" either they wanted to do the same thing or they didn't. She tried to make it seem like compromise was a foreign concept. SMH.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 10:12 PM
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Fair enough and agree with you that not all women are like that and it shouldn't be an assumption it will happen. I'll give you that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 09:08 PM
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People who use others exist in both genders. This is not restricted to women. "Women use men, though" doesn't mean "ONLY women use men, men don't use women". Baumeister and Vohs wrote an entire academic paper into this as well. The way y'all act like men and women genuinely can't be friends without the women being succubi is so fucking tiring. They way y'all want to gaslight us about our real experiences and try to pretend what we experience isn't real is so fucking tiring. In the real world whe…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 08:14 PM
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You raise a strong point, furthermore... lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 08:06 PM
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Yeah you raise an interesting point with the perfume. I like good smells and I have an ok cologne collection. And I like to smell good but its because I like those smells. I do believe wanting to smell good smells because you like them is different from wanting to "look good" for yourself because you like it. For instance why is it for the most part when these ladies doll themselves up "for themself" its always something that illicits attraction and not just attention. Why not try to dress "cool…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 07:35 PM
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Let me tell you about the time I posted an example of women using sexist language in a Feminism thread bitching about men using sexist language. Not one comment could address my argument, all ad homs.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 07:06 PM
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Satire is a useful tool for helping people see societal ills they may be blind to and The Onion is one of the best to ever do it. From The Onion’s protest article over school shootings to their almost prescient article about George Bush to their amazing Supreme Court brief, The Onion brings it. The emoji was because you didn’t like what was said, not because of who said it. But since you couldn’t address what was said you did some ad homs and tried to claim it was because of the “source”. Ok bud…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 06:52 PM
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When they say "they do ti for themselves" they can't seem to grasp the fact that the reason it makes them feel good to dress up nice or makes themselves more attractive is that they raise their own SMV and that gives them an ego/confidence boost. You'll notice that when women do dress up nice its not very often they choose androgynous formal attire, something that we would consider "being dressed up" but doesn't necessarily boost the woman's SMV. Aka how Janelle Monae used to dress before she bl…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 06:28 PM
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Because the women will ask the men for these acts of service but then won't reciprocate back to the men. In fact the women will reciprocate back to their women friends more so than their male friends. You can ask FtM trans men the stark difference in how they're treated by their female friends when they transition.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 06:23 PM
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Yuuppp. And you got an emoji reply because a stronger argument wasn't available.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 06:22 PM
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Huh, and here I thought friends helped each other move all the time. Ha. Real life example of a dude getting taken advantage of helping a girl move: https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/m3ftc5/moving_day_dodged_bullet/gqq17q4/?context=3 And my comment from back then: This right here stinks of entitlement. Why is an act of service performed as part of a potential courtship "not nice" would be my first question. Also OP didn't say anything about booty. Wanting someone to check in on …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 06:21 PM
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Oh wow look at you go. I completely agree with what you say. One thing I want to make clear. It is immature if someone PRETENDS to be someone's friend BECAUSE they are romantically or sexually attracted to them. This is not the same (not saying you're claiming it is) as someone who starts as someone's friend and later develops feelings, especially since 66% of relationships start as friends first.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 05:35 PM
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Quit trying to scapegoat women's real personality deficiencies on mental illness.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 03:23 PM
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The virgin obsessed weirdos will always get a lol from me. Unless they're also a virgin they just insecure as all fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 02:52 AM
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This person has no room to consider anyone an idiot with the navel-gazing licking the carpet level takes of discourse.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 02:44 AM
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Yes. If the only way you handle PPD is to block half the posters who see thru your bullshit then maybe ppd isn’t for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 10:31 PM
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Yes I think it would even the playing field between men and women a little.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 10:25 PM
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I'd be really upset at what this said.. if i could read.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 03:21 PM
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Its not desperate or stupid to earn a lifetime's worth of wages for 5 minutes of non permanent suffering.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 03:16 PM
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For those of you who are affected by the S̶̛̹͎̖̖̣͑͛͛͆͊̽̀̔͘M̴̲͍͖͍̜̪͋̇̍͛̕O̸̩̬̍K̵̤̜̉̄͂͋̔̄̚̕͠E̷̺̻̣̙͖̭̫̱̣̝͗̎͐̄͠: https://imgur.com/gallery/57BNzYn
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 03:11 PM
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It appears so. Or at least one in particular.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 03:10 PM
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PPD needs to do better about building a wiki or a sidebar of foundational knowledge and then enforce people reading it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 02:54 PM
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No it lowers the bar the for discussion. Other trolls see that behavior is tolerated.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 02:46 PM
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This is good stuff. I’m going to come back to this.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 02:39 PM
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https://youtu.be/aw7fUMhNov8
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 02:33 PM
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Yup. We all know who.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 02:30 PM
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I like the variations of butthurt. Tushy tantrum, butt perturbed, fanny troubled… https://youtu.be/hIuH-2naozI
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 02:29 PM
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One of the foundational academic papers for this sub, Baumeister's and Voh's meta-analysis Gender Difference in Strength of Sex Drive and their paper Sex as a Female resource in heterosexual interactions point out one specific difference between men and women and how that has shaped different societies and cultural systems over the last several decades.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 02:21 PM
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When I can have the same choices as women, you can hold me to the same standards. In other words, when it becomes possible for me to choose between multiple dozens of women that are interested in me at the tips of my fingers, then yes, you can hold me to the same standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 06:31 PM
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Ok boomer. We'll get off your lawn.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 01:56 PM
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Bruh she doesnt know how to asssign sub tasks to this guy with deadlines? its called delegation. If you take on this work without properly delegating when you have a partner that comes down to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 09:21 AM
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Sex is a mutual exchange.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 09:19 AM
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My racial preference is pretty women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 10:45 PM
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Are we? I'm 69" (nice) tall all day err day.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 10:44 PM
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/u/RSDevotion1 something that might be relevant to your interests https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s10508-023-02621-7 Abstract Sexual selection has shaped women’s preferences for ideal physical features in men that signal good health. Facial masculinity is often used as a proxy in signaling health, viability, and disease resistance, and it is thought to be attractive because it advertises heritable benefits. Preferences for facial masculinity are also associated with individual differen…
/r/BlackPillScience01/06/23 07:48 PM
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prions are scary as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 07:41 PM
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What quote did you give him? I'm quite fond of "They don't think it be like it is, but it do."
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 07:40 PM
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I'll be honest and say I don't like most organized religion these days, or at least the Abrahamic ones. That's how I end run around claims of being anti-whatever and aim my criticism at fundamentalist followers of Abrahamic religion. I don't see these same issues come from eastern Religions like Buddhism, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 07:38 PM
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😫
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 07:27 PM
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I had someone on FB get into this discussion with me. And they're your typical White\Christian\Libertarian\Conservative. I pointed out that the Talmud has like 6 genders, which gives new meaning to my tumtum hurts. So they could see this all the way back then what changed?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 07:27 PM
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Cuz my worse is not as worse as your worse so I was wanting to borrow your worse so I could have the worse. Then I would have the best worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 07:23 PM
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Prime example of why the question isn't easy to answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 07:22 PM
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Oh /u/LillthOfBabylon are you talking about Stacy again? What was that you were saying earlier? Obsessed?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 07:20 PM
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The easy way to illustrate this to people is to ask them what they're applying the definition of woman to. Make them apply to a practical every day problem, for instance who can use a woman's bathroom. Then offer up your own definition, then throw in some outliers, amend your definition, more outliers, another amending, and the person who originally asks the question "what is a woman" will begin to understand its not a simple question.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 07:18 PM
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My thing is when a particular poster here in PPD has built up such a reputation that most the regulars know them by name, refuse to engage with them and people can guess who you're talking about without naming them does someone realize an adjustment has to be made.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 07:16 PM
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Can I borrow "the worse". I'll bring it back.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 07:14 PM
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I guess it comes down to the art of making the insults "general" instead of being aimed at specific person. Sucks but that's the game you got to play.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 07:12 PM
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Damn that sucks for real. Time for onlyfeets account I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 07:05 PM
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Where's that combo Capt America super soldier serum/Wolverine Healing factor/Heart shaped herb from Wakanda when you need it?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 06:28 PM
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Fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 06:26 PM
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Compare prices for ounce of Platinum vs Rhodium vs Gold.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 04:49 PM
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Thank you. In theory the 13th amendment was suppose to prevent someone from getting owned this hard but here we are.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 04:28 PM
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Thoughts on the Rhodium pill instead?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 04:27 PM
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That’s way different from how I view people who obsess over validation past highschool. Someone pointing out that women receive more validation than men one maybe two times in a conversation is "obsessing" to you? Then given the literal dozens of times you mention "sex is not a need" or "men chase Stacies" how should we classify those for you? Uber obsession? Using your own standard, again, you've displayed far more "obsession" than I ever have, so once again you're acting out the thing you're a…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 01:54 PM
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Wrong. Ok so you agree its not someone's biggest concern? I dont do that. You've used the teen girl line 2 or 3 times this morning alone. I hope everyone else finds these obvious contradictions as humorous as I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 01:43 PM
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Get better at other aspects of life for a while and come back to dating when you've leveled up in other areas.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 01:32 PM
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You really think that is someone's "biggest" concern or something they just pointed out that is part of life? Its something that's part of life. Pretty big and intentional misrepresentation on your part. (hint: she's talking about me everyone) You claim you're "out here worried about the economy" but none of your posting here in PPD's reflects that. So if we use the same standard of judgement you just displayed then your biggest concern is men and Stacys. Trying to paint a point of view you don'…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 01:30 PM
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You throwing insults at views you refuse to engage with in good faith is exactly the kind of juvenile behavior you’re accusing me of. You are the thing you’re accusing others of being.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 12:51 PM
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Then why are you guys consistently acting like teen girls? We're not, you're being reductive and this is your go-to for any point of view you don't like, which ironically is more in line with what a teen girl would do than anything I'm doing. So more projection. Who cares if someone gets more validation than you? Get better self esteem. If you would ever engage in discussion in good faith I explained what the significance of this was.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 12:44 PM
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Why are guys here insisting men and women are different while acting just like annoying ass teen girls. Because men and women are different. Are you unfamiliar with basic biology? And the annoying ass teen girls is you lobbing ad hominem at any views you don't like. Which is what an annoying ass teen girl would do so we can also say you're engaging in projection as well. A twofer.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 12:40 PM
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No, it doesn’t, No what doesn't? You guys making things extremely hard for yourselves has absolutely nothing to do with sex drive. We don't make things hard on ourselves and men having sex drives than women has affected society and history for millennia. This is basic basic knowledge. Hell you can see males in animal species having higher sexual drives affect them. Humans aren't the only ones to engage in prostitution.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 12:37 PM
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Make better friends. Problem solved. That won't solve the problem. Until the human species as a whole is changed women will receive more validation and acknowledged as being desired than men. Its a part of life. Jerk off or pay for a hooker. Comprehension fail. You're absolutely trolling at this point. The point I'm making, to explain this to any 3rd parties, is that men have a higher sexual drive than women. This means men have to deal with an urge to seek a thing that is difficult for them to …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 12:30 PM
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Marry someone you actually like to be around outside of the bedroom. Physical intimacy is a vital part to healthy ltr. This is basic basic relationship 101 stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 12:24 PM
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Edit: The date is in a month since it is scheduled by a agency. We both pay for this if she flakes and doesn't show up I get my money back. If you don't show up multiple times you get banned from using their service. I lose nothing this way. Wait that sounds based.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 12:04 PM
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Given how much external validation women get vs men and its still not enough for women. If women had to deal with dating as a man while also dealing with a man's sex drive they wouldn't make it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 12:03 PM
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Because its a well documented phenomena at this point that women's libido decline in LTR even when they control for relationship satisfaction and sexual satisfaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 12:01 PM
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Only way I could justify cheating is a db of years, not child birth related. That I can sympathize with because yeah it’s impossible for me to be content while my wife wants zero to do with sex with me. Even then it’s still wrong I say its not wrong. Here are the rules for cheating on your woman: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0e4mfcSASCs&t=870s The reason I say its not wrong is if we look at Maslow's hierarchy of needs the foundational needs for survival I don't need my woman's help to get. I …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 12:00 PM
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Oof, I feel for you. Its so scary because all the tools you would normally have to defend yourself from another person are taken away from you while all the restraints for the woman come off.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 11:50 AM
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I really feel for some of these younger folks who haven't faced a woman weaponizing the police in a DV situation to ruin their life. Its scary as fuck. A woman will antagonize to the point they're literally begging you to hit them, while they'll swing on you, and then call the police with the 911 voice. And what can you do? https://www.reddit.com/r/PublicFreakout/comments/13t62ed/crazy_ex_girlfriend_attack_boyfriends_family/ https://www.reddit.com/r/CrazyFuckingVideos/comments/13qxjwy/teenager_g…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 11:40 AM
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For real. Especially when its used to soft excuse women's actions or remove culpability from women. smh.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 10:53 AM
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Can definitely tell school is out.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 06:12 PM
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Get out of my swamp.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 06:05 PM
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Suns out ch.. cheeks out? https://www.reddit.com/r/Unexpected/comments/13wont8/target_mannequin/
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 05:56 PM
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Aka trolling.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 02:10 PM
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Wait, they're 16?? Sub should be 18+ only. Jesus.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 01:50 PM
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What's funny is anytime a white dude displays a preference for anything than the most average white girl he's accused of fetishizing.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 01:31 PM
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For white dudes this would make sense as most races show an in-group bias. For the other races I guess they like chasing minorities.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 01:27 PM
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I've been looking for a gym in my area. For some reason in my town whenever we get a franchise location our version sucks and this isn't a low cost of living area either. So the gyms around me also suck and any gym that requires access to my checking account is an automatic no.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 12:34 PM
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That's how you know she has never flirted with anyone https://v.redd.it/ry7toysa3z2b1 Confirming what many of us have said before, especially in regards to women’s openers on Bumble, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 02:13 PM
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You got anything original to reply with or are you going to continue to follow my lead? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 12:39 PM
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I agree 100% and it hasn't been displayed more clearly than this paranoid line of questioning because someone might have found them attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 12:36 PM
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Nah my logic is pretty sound. See there you go again insinuating I don't take responsibility? What? Cuz you make bad leaps of logic and bad assumptions? This is exactly what I'm talking abou and others have seen it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 12:35 PM
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No if he’s saying he was only acting that way to get in my pants and he wouldn’t have acted that way had he not wanted to fuck me then it absolutely matters. But he's not saying that. He's saying he found you attractive while also being a good friend to you and that's how you twist it to yourself to be a victim while also making a bad guy out of someone who's done nothing wrong. You create a strawman to attack. Did he think my friendship was valuable without the possibility of sex? Most well adj…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 12:34 PM
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You are most definitely projecting. Being unpleasant doesn't mean I don't have conversations in good faith. And because you catch down votes again doesn't mean I don't have conversations in good faith. In your continuing habit of making bad logical assumptions, like the two I just pointed out, and me pointing them out is why you feel I'm "unpleasant".
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 12:27 PM
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I'm expecting the weirdos in here who obsess over virgins lose their shit over this one. https://www.youtube.com/shorts/r9A0ZllFyrw
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 12:24 PM
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But you're not typically open to good faith conversations with me, so it is what it is lmao See projection is when you accuse the other person of doing something that you actually do, like you've done here.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 12:22 PM
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It's amazing how women will retroactively go back in time and render your actions as "not good" because you happened to find them attractive. If the guy was a good friend, respected your boundaries, practiced social reciprocity, etc. Then all of his actions don't magically become bad because he thought you were attractive. Another case of men's libido being demonized.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 12:21 PM
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but you also can't go 2 months without seducing your wife and then ask "what is HER problem?" You absolutely can. If she's not also seducing then she can't expect her man to do something she's not willing to do. Also the idea that its ok for women to start neglecting physical intimacy because their man "isn't seducing them anymore" means men are just as justified in not seducing their women anymore because their women are neglecting their physical intimacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 12:16 PM
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I always thought of it as something you feel, not something you see My Jamaican ex was not built that way lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 05:05 AM
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Very nice. I wonder how those sites will hide themselves or code their name in the future. For sure gonna go invite only.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 03:33 AM
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obviously men have a higher sex drive on average than women, are you seriously running into a substantial number of people saying otherwise? Where? Why here in this very sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 03:32 AM
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Sometimes guys feel awkward not knowing what to do, even if they find the clit lol. And that's when its on the woman in that situation to take the lead/initiative and tell the guy what needs to be done. That’s very interesting that you say they seem clitless lol. I’ve never compared how they look on girls. Go look for yourself and compare to the diagrams out there https://www.verywellhealth.com/female-body-diagram-5209032 https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/326403#what-is-it The diagrams h…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 03:26 AM
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They might be busy though.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 12:37 AM
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Abrahamic relgions are super cringe.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 12:36 AM
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This sounds hilarious but I'm not sure I get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 12:36 AM
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askreddit discusses pretty privilege. https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/13uwoih/whats_something_attractive_people_can_do_that/
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 12:35 AM
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Tell them to start. Or at least make sure they get you off before you allow them to penetrate. And make sure you show them where your clit is. I look at posts on godpussy and I swear some of these girls are clitless, especially compared to the Jamaican girl I dated for several years.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 11:30 PM
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I just ate several downvotes for pointing out how weird it was for a woman to say that on another platform. “I don’t need men to desire me when I desire me” was the words used.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 11:23 PM
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Remember your breathing exercises. Deep breath…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 04:17 PM
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That’s why I put that handy “or” in there. ☺️
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 04:16 PM
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I want to say I read a decade ago or saw a show where they fertilized an egg with genetic material from another egg for women. Plus since that y chromosome never goes thru spell check means its degrading over time. Need to figure out a way to fix that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 03:12 PM
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Nah usually ended on an oral/fingering cycle and time it when she was coming down from an orgasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 10:47 AM
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No I’m talking about one girl, my last gf, and how I didn’t orgasm all the time with her. And yes I did the guy thing of holding back but my trick is when I get close I switch back to oral and fingering until I calm down then back to piv until I get close and repeat until we run out of energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 06:26 AM
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My orgasm rate was like 50% with my last gf but I still enjoyed the hell out of myself. I didn't feel the need to tell her as once it had been 30 to 60 minutes I'm sure we had both had a good time.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 06:14 AM
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“If you had been hotter, you would’ve made her cum”. So change the word from “blame” to removing agency/responsibility from the woman to be an equal participant.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 05:07 AM
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This is phrased in such a way as to once again remove agency/responsibility for women's equal participation from them. "She would've cum you just weren't hot enough bro". Yes I know that women enjoy sex more, easier time orgasming, etc with someone they find attractive but so what, so does everyone, doesn't make women some sort of special case.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 04:37 AM
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Yup. Mods must be enjoying the holiday weekend, how dare they.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 04:35 AM
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Yeah women talk all the time about "desire myself" etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 04:14 AM
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Jesus Christ there's an age range for 12-15? wtf??
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 04:12 AM
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Are wm being fetishized? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 04:10 AM
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This comment ain't gonna make it lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 04:04 AM
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I thought we lived in a sex positive world where women are also participating as active members in sex? Not if you hear women tell it. They will always bring up their orgasm gap forgetting they are the gatekeepers to sex and weld more power in that situation than the man. Also forgetting that more women can't get themselves off than men. So again women think the orgasm gap is something that happens to them instead of them being an equal participant is. Its pretty simple, don't let the man insert…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 04:01 AM
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Are dental implants or dentures an option? And just say you got bad teeth but don't say why. Other people have shit teeth that don't involve meth.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 05:51 AM
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LOL aint that fuct? Want to wear something for entirely practical reasons but it apparently against fashion law or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 05:50 AM
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good.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 05:49 AM
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I stated a position that is backed by academic research. if you find it outrageous its due to how unfamiliar you are with that area of psychology/sociology, not the stance itself. Its very well known.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 05:48 AM
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I did back it up, by quoting academic sources that align with what I say.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 04:36 AM
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And that's ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 04:35 AM
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Go find it if you actually care. But you don't. I'm not here to do the work for you. Its from Baumeister and Vohs, that should narrow it down for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 04:31 AM
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Oof someone is in their feelings and is off on a tangent now. (in a very Gollum voice) What lies precious?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 04:30 AM
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The quotes are the better source, they come from academic studies as oppose to someone who could be making it all up.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 04:28 AM
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Of course. Every woman ppd woman is a unicorn. Your own stories you shared with me still illustrate you dont handle rejection well.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 04:27 AM
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Ok so you admit you don't know how it can be done, doesn't mean its not possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 04:26 AM
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I'm the one who always wants to fuck, this ain't true at all. And I don't know where men get the idea even. Of course every ppd woman is the unicorn. Although certainly there are some women with high sex drives and some men with relatively low ones, these are exceptions, and moreover these exceptional types do not appear to form mismatched couples very often. Byers and Lewis found that half the couples in their large sample disagreed about sex at least once a month, and without exception all of …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 04:24 AM
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Its possible and it takes work.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 04:10 AM
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This is not the first time Ive heard this said: https://www.youtube.com/shorts/N2wY3gIRU3A Basically if you turn down your woman SO for sexy times, youre gonna have a bad time. Women can't handle rejection.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 04:10 AM
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There was definitely some in shape dude nerds flexing on everyone else in costumes that were shirtless, etc. But the proportion of "sexy dress" (academic term) employed between men and women, women were more likely to wear it by far.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 01:31 AM
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Ok so for the heat vs revealing dress. I've been to concerts, raves, outdoor music festivals, and just life in general. Men and women will be in the same environment but the women will be wearing less the vast majority of time, so heat can't be used to explain that. Especially when men cooler temps versus women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 01:29 AM
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Ive been going to raves. The guys still manage to wear more and they dancing too.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 08:46 AM
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We have discovered the modern wonder that is air conditioning.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 08:26 AM
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Momocon. My first ever. Edit: sat in on the blerd panel. Good times. It was like being on AAAL thread but irl.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 05:05 AM
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The amount of anime titties I seent today, lord have mercy. The con girls be having their whole ass out.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 04:25 AM
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It’s been shown that ltr kill women’s libido. And when you have a partner constantly rejecting your advances that’s soul crushing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 10:55 PM
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Your assumption they don’t communicate at all is pretty naive.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 10:53 PM
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Why libido reduction? Why not libido raising.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 10:52 PM
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I'm wondering what the attention thread is gonna look like once automod removes top level replies agreeing with OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 08:08 PM
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SEX IS NOT A NEED REEEEEEEEEEE
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 07:49 PM
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Men don't advertise their bodies the women women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 07:42 PM
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First, I can't wait for automod to come in here and decimate all the comments agreeing. That's gonna be fun. Second, your argument is based around a strawman. The strawman that women ALWAYS want this sort of sexual attention. There's very little that everyone wants ALWAYS. My basic counter arguments are 1) we see what happens to women when they don't get acknowledged as sexual beings or attractive by the sex they're attracted to. Depression, longing to be seen as a whole person, etc. FAW and "in…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 07:42 PM
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/u/rocinantecoffee Why would you want to date someone you find unattractive? Feeling attracted is what sets a romantic interest apart from other people. Kissing your boyfriend's/girlfriend's face shouldn't feel like holding back vomit. Tell her /u/rocinantecoffee.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 07:35 PM
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Dodge roll dodge roll. My first attack failed let me try another dodge roll.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 07:28 PM
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They didn’t say incels do research. Edit: It’s interesting how factual research keeps getting labeled as “incel research” when people already admit they don’t think that Incels do research. If incels don’t do research, how is it “incel research”? Incels don’t do it remember?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 07:26 PM
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Are you saying… men should lower their standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 07:25 PM
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There are exceptions. I'm friends with one.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 10:19 PM
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Why? pointing out one of the exceptions to the "most women" didn't mean i didn't read it. I'm sharing a lived personal experience that was an exception.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 10:00 PM
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How can you fetishize the most common type of person the planet? 4 billion of the 8 billion people on Earth are Asian.
/r/AllPillDebate25/05/23 09:57 PM
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My BPD woman critiqued my choking technique because I was going for carotid and she wanted her airway restricted. So different strokes for different folks.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 09:52 PM
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Smh. You're being really obtuse right now it seems just so you can argue. There are women who any though of non consensual sex would cause them to have physical symptoms of nausea and panic. Some women would just be disgusted. Some women apparently fantasize about it once a month. Some women read erotic stories about non consensual sex or consume media that features that as part of its story. SOME women post on grapefantasies here on reddit. SOME women might even ask their partners to play out t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 09:50 PM
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I have also imagined scenarios that I absolutely did want.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 09:41 PM
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Fun fact: the largest population of Japanese living outside of Japan live in Brazil. Japanese/Brazilian people are usually pretty attractive. Go hit on them. Half the world is Asian though, so Asian guys been popping out babies.
/r/AllPillDebate25/05/23 09:37 PM
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They are not two "completely different" things. If you fantasize about it it means you have more of an inclination towards that particular sexual behavior versus someone who doesn't fantasy or consume that media. You're further along that spectrum.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 01:34 PM
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Still going with it I see. Started to sound desperate at this point. And “kid”, how old are you again?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 01:06 PM
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They are as gendered as motherfucker and bastard.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 01:04 PM
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You missed asshole, dickhead, small dick energy, incel, and virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 12:48 AM
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Still in denial i see. When you have so many sexual partners, they lose their significance and you lose the ability to give a count or in extreme cases, an estimate. Anyone denying this is the case is in denial themselves, probably from shame. My brother had no problem admitting this.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 12:43 AM
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I'm not trying to convince you of anything. Whatever you want to call. you keep replying and its just cracking me up at this point. It did prove something, and ill state again for the 3rd time what it proved. Once go through some many partners, you lose track of them. Happened to you and happened to my brother.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 12:38 AM
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The fact you keep trying to convince me.. I addressed this last time. If it’s 10 people or less then you don’t have to keep a “tally”. I don’t know if it’s over 10 or a lil higher that keeping track gets hard but then again that’s telling on yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 12:30 AM
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Yeah its a different world over there. There's a reason that part of the world tends to rank towards the bottom of gender equality.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 12:21 AM
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It confirmed exactly what I said, you're in denial. Brother couldn't keep track because it had been so many.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 12:19 AM
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I'm glad you chimed in. It's not years old he's referring to but his body count, which confirms what I said earlier. He can't remember them because its been so many, especially the one timers. Not due to age, he recalled some of first few sexual partners with ease. 😂 And with the number being so high he could still give an estimate. His buddy that bangs whores all the time, probably not.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 12:03 AM
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I was talking to my older brother yesterday. And I asked him if he could remember the name of everyone he had sex with. No. Ok how about the number, including one night stands, etc. No. Then I asked him if he could give a rough estimate of the number of people. Around 30. Yeah that'll do it lolol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 11:09 PM
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sigh agreed. Its fukken cringe to be honest. Actually it reeks of insecurity. Come on guys, do better.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 11:01 PM
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Most people don't like to be held to a standard by someone who wouldn't hold themselves to that same standard. Or another way to think about it is that is its hard to take criticism from someone who does it worse than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 10:57 PM
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You know... you got a point.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 10:54 PM
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Those are the edge lord morons. Don't listen to them. This is coming from a man. I'm here to be hard on women when they post their BS but that is a case of men posting some BS. The more mature of us dudes will call it for what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 10:54 PM
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You kept insisting "wE sTiLl HaVe ThOsE" when I never argued we didn't have them, only that we had less. You argued that 3 or 4 times before you could finally admit, "yes actually we do have less". There are plenty of gyms, cafes, libraries, and parks. (1.) The third places are still there, people are just not utilizing them. (2.) They've cited cafes, bars, gyms, and libraries as third places - last I checked we still have those. (3.) We still have parks, public libraries, and bookstores (4.) an…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 10:50 PM
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Big True. Even though the odds are more in their favor. Even on easy mode they're afraid to play.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 10:49 PM
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You're not. Your sexuality will always have more worth than your equivalent looks match man your age.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 10:48 PM
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That's rich coming from the sex that still by and large refuses to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 10:47 PM
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Finally, how long did it take you acknowledge it?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 10:46 PM
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We still have parks, public libraries, and bookstores - all of which you can hang out at without paying money or a small fee, if that. Again, we have less than those. This is a really simple point that you can't seem to grasp. No one has argued that we don't have any of these places. Over and over again, 5+ articles, trying to explain to you we have less. You still can't grasp it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 10:33 PM
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Is that like HEXclad cookware?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 10:17 PM
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last I checked we still have those. We have LESS of those. That's the entire point. They also mention places you can go without being expected to pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 10:12 PM
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no. Edit: Everyone who goes on the "Women are useless/have no value once they hit 30" are 1) dumb as shit and 2) undermine a lot the genuine issues men talk about on here. These days there's no set age for the wall. It depend on how well the woman takes care of herself and whether or not you got kids already or even want them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 10:11 PM
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Those article directly counter what you say because those 3rd places are disappearing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 10:05 PM
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Im cultivating mass! Preparing to ascend to the 2d plain.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 08:35 PM
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But women will filter out someone as "unattractive" preventing it from getting it to the dating stages that they would have apparently come around to finding attractive if they had given the person a chance is my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 08:35 PM
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Someone who they didn’t find attractive before is my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 08:28 PM
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Ah the uniquely feminine obsession about jogging/walking alone at night. women seem really put off they can't just walk around at night anywhere or anytime they please. But the fact is that's not safe for anyone, men or women. Whether the danger comes from wildlife if you're out in the boonies, cars not seeing you, increased chances of interacting with the police, target of assault, theft, etc. It's just more dangerous to be out at night. I made an honest attempt to look and see if I could find …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 08:16 PM
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Maybe he's fat and has a beer belly.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 08:10 PM
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Geography and demographics alone how much of the US does that disqualify?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 08:10 PM
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where I can go outside after dark for a jog without fearing for my safety With that statement alone I'm almost certain this poster is female.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 08:09 PM
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Right. Another one that's not going to change any time soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 08:08 PM
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Gender equality, whatever you wish to refer to it as. Some countries do much better at it and other countries are dumpster fires. The US is 53, the UK 21, and Iceland, Norway, and Finland make up the top 3 in that order. The US went down by 2 from 2018. The point is, the forces behind driving countries towards or away from gender equality, at least here in the US, don't touch on areas of dating so much as that is still largely driven by traditional gender roles.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 08:07 PM
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It's a balance. And to hear from PPD women in this very thread, you can apparently find someone unattractive, etc until they flirt with you and then your opinion of them will change.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 08:00 PM
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As women push towards more egalitarianism in society the one place they're remarkably quiet about is dating and how it still largely follows gender roles. That's not going to change any time soon, it is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 07:58 PM
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https://www.bbc.com/worklife/article/20210428-third-places-how-losing-responsibility-free-zones-hurts-us https://www.aier.org/article/the-death-and-life-of-the-great-third-place/ https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6934089/ https://scoop.upworthy.com/man-explains-how-disappearance-of-third-places-has-stopped-us-from-connecting-with-one-another https://www.intheknow.com/post/what-is-a-third-place-and-why-has-it-practically-disappeared/ https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Third_place https://in…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 07:57 PM
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fuckzone involves people who are Fwb who want to take it further.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 07:46 PM
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Still is. Sorry you feel that way. Edit: for giggles, how is it not?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 07:44 PM
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And neither is your opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 07:43 PM
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Friends with benefits. The "friend zone" refers to a situation where there is a mismatch in romantic feelings between two individuals. For example, sometimes this is a sexual attraction mismatch, where one person is interested in romance while the other wants to "just be friends." At other times, the friends are already sexually involved (i.e. friends-with-benefits), but there is a commitment mismatch, where only one person wants a "relationship" as a committed girlfriend or boyfriend. Overall t…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 07:42 PM
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Your examples don’t counterpoint anything that I said. As previously stated, the friendzone isn’t real. It does counterpoint, by illustrating how the friendzone is real. You have nothing of substance to refute with.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 07:41 PM
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We're experiencing loss of the 3rd place
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 07:37 PM
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Being fuck buddies does not equate to a platonic relationship. You're right. And I didn't claim fuck buddies are in a platonic relationship, because they're fucking. It still counts as a friends because they are friends with benefits. Friends with benefits, while not being a platonic relationship, still involve some level of friendliness. Essentially, all relationships are social exchanges. This means that people set up give-and-take agreements, usually without discussion, to get what they want …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 07:36 PM
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A woman (or man) who is fuck buddies with a man (or woman) who wants a monogamous relationship is in the friendzone. A man (or woman) who is in a platonic relationship with a woman (or man) who wants to make things physically intimate is also in the friendzone. The "friend zone" refers to a situation where there is a mismatch in romantic feelings between two individuals. What Is "the Friend Zone?" For those who don't know the term, "the friend zone" refers to a situation where one individual in …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 07:29 PM
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Its really interesting in the idea that all these women weren't interested, so they can't claim they gave off social cues to the guy they were open to being flirted with. But the guys went for it anyway and they admit it worked on them. And we know what PPD Women think of guys flirting with /approaching them with no social cues. And then thing is, this is definitely not guarantee. And if it doesn't work out for the guy there could be pretty bad repercussions.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 07:27 PM
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Friendzone not imaginary. Affects both men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 07:25 PM
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🧢
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 07:23 PM
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https://imgur.com/gallery/CbzyEaV Dad is awesome and mom is backing him up.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 07:13 PM
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Disagree. Women have bad game but they sure look nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 06:11 PM
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Yes I agree because you've removed a variable. The fact the dynamics are different when it comes down to single sex pairings is the value in comparing those relationships to mixed sex relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 06:10 PM
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2001 Chevrolet S10. 1995 Honda Civic 1998 Nissan Maxima 1998 Nissan 240sx 2004 BMW 328i 2005 Honda Element (2011 got it) 2001 Hyundai Sonata List goes on.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 06:01 PM
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/u/peacesquad how dare you!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 05:55 PM
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Lesbian and Gay relationships and dynamics are very valuable for looking at hetero dynamics because you see what happens when one sex is taken out of the equation. For instance women who complain men are too sexually forward on Tinder meanwhile Grindr... lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 05:53 PM
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Unsatisfied men just try to make it work. Because men know their replacement costs for another partner are much higher than for women for just one reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 05:51 PM
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That's cool. Lots of them out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 05:47 PM
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There are certain traits that make someone a highly valued LT partner. Being supportive, etc (more than just this). And there's a pool of guys who have these a lot of these traits that would make excellent long term partners but get overlooked because they don't make it thru the attractiveness filter. They then see guys who possess few of the traits that make for a good long term partner be successful because they are more attractive, machiavellian, sociopathic, narcissistic, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 05:40 PM
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you get everything you want So like infinity gauntlet powers?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 05:35 PM
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It's very handy when the car has that but not every car does.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 05:35 PM
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Oh I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 05:34 PM
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You have to, never know when one of them will try to put you on their tiktok and label you a gym creep for just minding your business.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 05:06 PM
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It's not at all. Unless you're getting to competition level bodybuilding and you need to see if the specific muscle youre trying to hit is actually flexing. Just watch male fitness dude's glute guides very women's and you'll see the guys can hit all the same exercises and are not hindered in their range of motion by their clothes but they're not skin tight either.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 05:05 PM
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This guy... lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 05:03 PM
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Ayyyee. Someone hit it right then. 💪
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 02:12 AM
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GOD. DAMN. Not even a rough estimate? 😂 Edit: now she’s trying to reel it back in. Gave a rough estimate for her 20’s. Poor thing, early onset dementia is a terrible thing to deal with.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 02:10 AM
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No really if you equate remembering your sexual partners to “every little detail about your 20’s” that says way more about you than anything. Sheesh.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 02:05 AM
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Would you estimate the range to be 20+? 15-20?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 02:03 AM
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So sleeping with someone is so common for you, you equate it with “meeting people”. That’s your euphemism for it? Gotcha. Edit. There’s plenty of people that I forget meeting. But I remember who I’ve stuck my dick in cuz that’s more meaningful to me than just “meeting” someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 01:58 AM
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Classic strawman. What we’re talking about is not “every detail of your 20’s”. But damn so you blastin thru so many you lost count during your 20’s. Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 01:57 AM
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If it’s 10 people or less then you don’t have to keep a “tally”. I don’t know if it’s over 10 or a lil higher that keeping track gets hard but then again that’s telling on yourself. Going by the gss numbers a woman at age 30 with 10 partners is already in 78th percentile.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 01:56 AM
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It’s not them that’s impressive. It’s pretty common.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 01:51 AM
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It’s not that we think you should be thinking of your partners genitalia after all this time. It’s that we think you wouldn’t have slept with so many people that you don’t remember that partner anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 01:50 AM
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Give me your answers/conclusions for either answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 01:48 AM
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5-10.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 01:43 AM
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When they’re a reasonable number you don’t have to “keep count”. You can just remember them cuz there’s not that many. 🤣 Edit: here is how much you told on yourself. I can ask my friends who have n counts in 10-15 range and they can easily recall their partners and ons. Gd. This girl was GETTIN IT y’all.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 01:34 AM
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This woman really trying to tell me she “never” kept track of her N count to try and excuse the fact she don’t know it. The lies women will tell.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 01:33 AM
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And you lost count lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 01:29 AM
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You won’t share yours but you’ll ask me mine? Women. ☕️ It’s 4 btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 01:25 AM
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I can tell the number of jobs, concerts, and my n count. Can’t tell books, bars/clubs. The delineating factor? I’ve read enough books and been to enough bars/clubs to lose count.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 01:18 AM
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If the woman you're going after is 10 years younger than you gain jedi like powers over her and she loses all her intelligence.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 01:00 AM
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What's your N count? including one night stands, hook ups, etc. 2nd question: why won't you answer count questions?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 12:58 AM
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If yes I’m leaving. I don’t want to be the subject of anyone’s tiktok for views. If she just chilling I’d give a wide birth and do my thing. Really depends on how much she’s on her phone cuz she could start putting me on tiktok at anytime.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 12:16 AM
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Is she filming her workout? (This is important)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 12:12 AM
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Do you work at a shoe store?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 12:10 AM
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To me the most hilarious male space women invaded was Grindr. The audacity.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 10:23 PM
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The trend of shaming men on tiktok if they so much as glance in your direction is getting out of hand for real. Or if you're not working out the way the woman secretly filming you feels you should be.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 10:22 PM
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If you work hard enough you'll be able to raise your kids during the climate apocalypse.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 10:11 PM
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"KNOW YOUR PLACE, I CAN HAVE NEW DICK HERE SAME DAY DELIVERY" is what she's saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 10:10 PM
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Portable lean-to.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 06:25 PM
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I'm nothing if not a stick in the mud. A buzzkill. A debbie downer if you will.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 06:24 PM
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Maslow's hierarchy of needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 05:31 PM
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Where? quote it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 05:24 PM
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You said your point was it’s rare! But I don’t get so what? How is “you’re rare” a point about why women should wear baggy swimsuits? I. TOLD. YOU. THIS. For the THIRD TIME. My guy (girl actually) you knew you're like 5th percentile or less of population and your whole situation is a walking outlier and you want to try and use yourself like its the common situation these girls out here facing?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 05:23 PM
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source your quotes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 05:21 PM
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Myers briggs has no scientific basis.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 05:21 PM
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Ok post a picture of you in your swimsuit that gets so many stares all the time. Just black out your head. And it has to be you. And then I'll recommend something more modest. blah blah blah you're just trying to get photos of me NO. You made yourself the point of this debate so now put your money where your mouth is and show us these swimsuits you wear with YOU in them where woe is me. I don't get a f about seeing rando online when there's thousand of them everywhere but lets see it since you'v…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 05:20 PM
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Okay, so women aren't entitled to be attractive or desirable at 40+. Did anyone actually argue this?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 05:15 PM
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Ok- and so what? What is your point about it being rare? I’m a rare size, so therefore…? I shouldn’t wear swimsuits? I am missing your point here. I'VE TOLD YOU MY POINT. At this point you're sea lioning. Stop asking me what my point is when I keep repeating it. Every time you keep asking "So I ShOulDn"T wEaR sWiMsUits" shows you can't stop with strawmen and you're being ridiculous. I'm not engaging with someone who only argues in hyperbole and hysterics.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 05:14 PM
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I honestly thought you were basically suggesting I shouldn’t go swimming at all BS. Just stop. Youre being absolutely ridiculous. This is exactly why adult conversation are impossible on ppd. You really thought I was arguing for the idea you don't deserve to go swimming at all? stop resorting to hyperbole, it just undermines everything you say. As I said: My guy (girl actually) you knew you're like 5th percentile or less of population and your whole situation is a walking outlier and you want to…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 05:02 PM
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What exactly did I take out of context? I said One time here in daily chat I had the audacity to suggest that if someone was feeling a little self-conscious in their swimming attire they could look into getting something more modest which is verboten as we all know. Here's said lady: I wouldn’t trust my judgment on that, I’m bad at detecting things like when someone’s hitting on someone. It’s not his fault (although he did stare at my breasts occasionally, but that’s nothing new and I think he d…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 04:58 PM
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I don’t see what you want me to take away from any of those links? That the idea that 32i is a common size. You really couldn't figure that out given the context? Please.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 04:57 PM
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Do you forget I told you this? You probably got your 34dd from here: https://www.anaono.com/blogs/dressing-room/average-breast-size-bra-size-in-the-usa-world Where as here lists the US as C. https://www.worlddata.info/average-breastsize.php Where as has https://www.modernmom.com/a1d713f4-3b45-11e3-8407-bc764e04a41e.html this to say: Averages There is considerable debate on the average breast size of a woman. Forty-four percent of American women are B cup size, and an additional 28 percent are C …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 04:46 PM
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But anytime a man suggests his SO should delete her instagram he’s considered controlling and insecure? No consistency
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 04:32 PM
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What percentile of the population is someone your height/weight/bust? Use numbers this time.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 04:30 PM
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Not u, like I said here: https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/13ixnjg/daily_community_chat_megathread/jke637q/ You're not ms 32i/34dd.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 04:15 PM
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Real pros know that foreplay and sex become the same thing once you get into it. Pros also know that sex doesn't stop just because the dude cums. So many things you can keep doing while you recharge for round two.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 03:22 PM
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Actually peeved. The boobs were just a consolation. I had a whole ass conversation about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 03:21 PM
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Because guys understand that replacement costs are much higher for them than their lady. The majority of ladies here could have their guy replaced with some strange in under a week if they're motivated.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 03:13 PM
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One time here in daily chat I had the audacity to suggest that if someone was feeling a little self-conscious in their swimming attire they could look into getting something more modest which is verboten as we all know. Well of course a ppd lady had to come up in the comments with the question of "Well what am I supposed to do??" Who claimed to be a 32I with a 20 BMI. To give you how an idea of just the extreme of proportions we're talking about here's a redditor who claims to be just an E cup a…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 03:11 PM
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And you keep going. This feigned ignorance is just a bad faith attempt to engage in a long drawn out trolling exchange
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 03:04 PM
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Seriously, you are worse than incels here. And there it is. I called it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 03:02 PM
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You realize you're doing exactly what I said you would do and I wanted to avoid right? This feigned ignorance is just a bad faith attempt to engage in a long drawn out trolling exchange. No thanks, I'm good.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 02:55 PM
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Holding in your urges is a challenge but must be done Like women's urges to constantly sexualize themselves and post thirst traps online?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 02:50 PM
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Nope. Even if you disagree you should be able to understand what I'm saying at this. This feigned ignorance is just a bad faith attempt to engage in a long drawn out trolling exchange. No thanks, I'm good.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 02:49 PM
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Its a strawman exaggerated example that lacks any of the nuance of real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 02:46 PM
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Nah men are gonna do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 02:42 PM
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booo. plus boo gyms that ask for ach numbers. boooo.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 02:40 PM
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Kind of a kick in the face about the differences in the expected accountability between men and women eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 02:27 PM
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This is one of those situations where if you did a mirror opposite ppd ladies would use the word “doormat” in their replies to the hypothetical dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 02:21 PM
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You’re not blocked yo and never been blocked. Reddit bugs out when you block people. Ask lilly. So if you hadnt blocked me in the first place you wouldn’t be having these issues. And yeah no blocking in ppd. If you can’t handle the heat then leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 02:19 PM
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I don’t care how much someone stares it’s wrong to criminalize where someone looks that’s fucking ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 02:15 PM
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If something as passive as a look can be harassment then there’s gonna be an equally passive limit for “pressuring”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 02:12 PM
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Sexual harassment sounds really serious and bad when you hear it in isolation. Sexual harassment. My god, how heinous. Then you learn you can sexually harass someone by looking at them wrong. That's right, by looking. Now lets look at "pressure" again. Could that pressure have been benign as "looking". Probably. Our ladies pressure us for stuff every week.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 02:06 PM
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The men here will try to convince you that parenting and homemaking is not a full time job Its not. I come from a single father household where pops worked full time. Especially once kids are in k-12 school.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 02:04 PM
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Seems like arbitrary rage bait.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 02:02 PM
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And what portion of total declines do those physical assaults make up?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 09:52 PM
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:(
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 06:51 PM
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Cuz her pockets were smol.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 06:51 PM
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Urg I’m just SO ANGRY.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 04:40 PM
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If you're asking men specifically where they carry their things then that's implied comparison between men and women, especially if you mention the fact you use a purse. Plus it doesn't have to come straight from you for me to know that women regularly complain about the fact the pockets on their clothes are useless or they love when their dresses have pockets.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 04:32 PM
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Huh. I guess the system works sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 04:29 PM
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I dated a girl who didn't like to carry her purse so she would hand her phone to me to carry while we were shopping and running errands and leave her purse in the car.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 04:28 PM
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Since men don't have a pathological need to wear skin tight clothing to the degree women do, our pockets can be made to useful size to carry things. One of our more functional articles of clothing, the cargo pant and cargo short, is also one of women's favorite article of clothing to ridicule while women also lament how none of their clothes have useful pockets. The irony.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 04:26 PM
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Imagine if men experienced this problem the type of shit women would be saying. "its not our responsibility blah blah blah". Its not about vetting. When you go to fuck you make sure the guy gets you off before you even allow penetration. You talking about guys don't want to do oral meanwhile guys out here saying they eat ass so what you're saying is already sus. Women are gate keepers of sex and what you say goes. Take ownership. Furthermore i have irl had a woman who didn't know how to get hers…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 04:23 PM
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Damn when you right you right.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 01:46 PM
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Are you genuinely not seeing where you are going wrong here? Are you? I, as a man, have had several women chase me down the point I had to beat them off of me when i wore a pink beard. why is that story any more/less credible than yours? What evidence do you have to back up what you say other than your words? No more than I do. And speaking of logic. Those men would have still been attracted to you at a healthy bmi. Just because they were attracted to you while you were allegedly at an unhealthy…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 01:39 PM
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Yes, you're not being very logical I agree. For instance, the fact that your opinion as a singular woman should carry any more or less weight than my opinion as a singular man. But you act as though that is the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 01:32 PM
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And these "social cues" are always given in a way where the woman has plausible deniability on what the intended message was supposed to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 01:29 PM
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But if the women are losing their period due to being underweight...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 01:28 PM
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lol. You realise you’re not the only man right? You realize you're not the only woman right? Do you not hear yourself? Why would I make it up? Why wouldn't you make it up?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 01:27 PM
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I always think it’s funny that patriarchy has flip-flopped what would actually be natural—men will screw just about anything, so women really don’t need to put in any effort. Males should be the ones having to entice females. That’s usually how it is in nature. Men are the ones having to entice women. I don't understand what this person is smoking. It's so frustrating because guys seem to have no pressure to constantly fix themselves. Delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 01:26 PM
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lol hoho.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 01:19 PM
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No they're not. Source: a man. You could have had an eating disorder and still been a healthy bmi. Men don't like women so skinny they don't have periods any more. Furthermore, more than likely you're making it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 01:17 PM
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Which is a strawman, because men are not attracted to super skinny girls with eating disorders who are so skinny they don't get a period anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 01:11 PM
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He brought that up, not me, which tells me he wants to have his cake and eat it too. Look, I know I’m tipping my prime, but I’m still really beautiful, and there are guys I go on dates with who offer to take me on trips to fun places (I do not ever go.) If I were going to waste my time “having fun” with someone, why wouldn’t I do it with these early 40s tech men? Why would I do it with a semi-broke early 30s engineer? I have to start putting myself and my needs first. Baumeister and Vohs proven …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 01:09 PM
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Claiming men are “just too clueless to pick up social cues” Ironic if you can't be direct with men without fearing violence. Learn to be less of a confrontational asshole while still being direct. And the idea of leaning on "social cues" instead of directly communicating your intentions is a fucking crutch.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 01:07 PM
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Good thing that's a strawman example and a woman so skinny that she can't have periods would be found more attractive at a healthy bmi. Edit: let me rephrase. A woman who is so skinny that she has eating disorders, can't have period, etc. is not going to have any advantage looks wise compared to her hypothetical twin at a healthy bmi. The skinny woman will still get men attracted to her, but should wouldn't experience not having men attracted to her at healthy bmi.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 01:04 PM
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Guys always say they like healthy fit girls, yet they go for the extra skinny girls with eating disorders or the gym obsessed girls who compete and cut down to unhealthy fat percentage levels and the girls with 10 different plastic surgeries. So by this logic the "healthy" girls are getting overlooked right? Because men are going for all the other girls. But we know this isn't the case AT ALL. Furthermore men like women with ass and breasts. Women get themselves super skinny for other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 01:00 PM
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UGH. That is the worst.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 11:52 AM
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I try to avoid answering. I'll tell them I work full time but my job is uninteresting.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 11:51 AM
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Then the woman needs to make sure she gets off before the man does. And these amateurs who think sex is done once they cum are dumb. But sex is an equal exchange.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 09:37 AM
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Being a member of some car related subreddits that usually lean mostly male, most of the time people just post their cars without them in the frame. Then the ladies post: https://www.reddit.com/r/projectcar/comments/13lk43l/i_did_it_got_my_first_project_dont_know_where_to/ https://www.reddit.com/r/Miata/comments/xvxhes/bought_this_purple_mx5_na_from_the_wreckers_and/
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 03:40 PM
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What gender is the fabric? Edit: there was a video recently of this bodybuilder/influencer type dude who went to the gym in bodypaint. He was wearing trunks but the rest of his clothes were painted on. The thing was is that his painted on outfit could easily pass for a typical woman's outfit. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZEGosKZRe2A
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 03:08 PM
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You know, I've experienced something in my professional and personal life. When you have a group or team and there's that one problem person management always seems reluctant to properly deal with the problem person and instead makes everyone else deal with them or work around them. Even if that person is causing problems in the org. There's got to be a name for this phenomena.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 03:07 PM
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Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 03:03 PM
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Not all people, just certain ones. General rule: if she wouldn't admire you don't you dare admire her. Know your place. Men (generally speaking for the most part) would never leave the house with this sense of entitlement while they have leggings up their ass and and a v neck down to their mid chest. Any well adjusted man would know he's goan get looked at.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 02:59 PM
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Next time one of these "something something opposite sex/gender" threads come up I got a good one. As a guy the idea of wearing skin tight clothing as an outfit is fucking weird. As a base layer it make more sense but skin tight pants that go up your ass and a tight, form fitting shirt with a deep vneck? Nuh. And women wear this on the regular and then complain about people staring.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 02:52 PM
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That's right. That's why women don't get used for sex, cuz they're not "giving sex" it's mutual. They feel used when they don't the extra bennies on top of sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 02:47 PM
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Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 01:52 PM
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Women ☕️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 01:27 PM
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I dunno. I'll leave it to the Euro redditors to do the looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 12:28 PM
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Probably OP lol. (this is a joke)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 11:37 AM
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Correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 11:30 AM
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https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6523040/
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 11:21 AM
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As many have pointed out, at least with labiaplasty its a choice women make whereas for many men its done to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 11:17 AM
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The present systematic review has identified a wide range of opinions regarding women’s preference for circumcised penises in an extensive range of geographical and cultural settings. Overall, most women expressed a preference for the circumcised penis. Such a preference was seen in most populations regardless of MC prevalence in that population. Reasons expressed for this preference included better appearance, improved hygiene, reduced risk of infection, and more pleasurable sexual activity. Ap…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 11:16 AM
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Women prefer the look of a circumcised penis. The present systematic review has identified a wide range of opinions regarding women’s preference for circumcised penises in an extensive range of geographical and cultural settings. Overall, most women expressed a preference for the circumcised penis. Such a preference was seen in most populations regardless of MC prevalence in that population. Reasons expressed for this preference included better appearance, improved hygiene, reduced risk of infec…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 11:10 AM
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For men getting into relationships is ruthless competition. Just because the guy is expressing frustration at not succeeding in that doesn't warrant labeling him as a bad person.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 08:44 AM
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Yup, time to rug-pull. You don't want to catch a trumped up DV charge after she gets done hitting you and if she's already using the language of calling you abusive for engaging in the same behavior she does then that shit is coming.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 08:42 AM
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I think there is an amount of labor that needs to be done as a couple. At work, outside the home, inside the home, etc. And that labor needs to be divided between the two people in a way that equitable and fair according to each person's abilities, preferences, etc. I know a lot of people hate doing laundry or washing dishes, I don't mind so I'll pick those up. I hate to clean the bathroom. I can perform most maintenance on the cars and statistically my partner won't be able to do that so what t…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 08:39 AM
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use a knife.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 08:16 AM
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Then? Did you specify a time frame? Jay-Z is a billionaire now and he's still homely now. You're right he wasn't a billionaire when he and Beyonce got together but he was still successful and more wealthy than the rest of us. And Beyonce don't need money but she's not going to marry some median income guy either.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 09:13 PM
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I want that 7inch iphone max max
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 09:01 PM
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But it doesn't matter because for men billionaire world renowned musical artiists You ever play a racing arcade game? and each vehicle has the bars for different stats like top speed, acceleration, braking, and handling? And the vehicle is rated in each of those aspects and then they're calculated together to give an overall rating? That's people. Jay-z's facial attractiveness bar is low. But his other ones?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 08:59 PM
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I've been groped! A woman grabbed my ass in the bar one time and I didn't think she was attractive. But I let her know that I appreciated the thought behind it and encouraged her to be bold like that in the future. But again, you can sexually harass a woman with a look. A LOOK. You all don't get how crazy that is. ALL my female friends have stories like this! ALL OF THEM! So respectfuly, please don't ever say that women are making this shit up. I fully believe all your friends have gotten "the s…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 08:53 PM
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Oh in that regard I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 08:50 PM
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Does she trust my word of judgment to make all the important decisions of the household ? I'm a dude. I want my input to be respected and taking into honest consideration but I don't have to make all the important decisions in the household. This strikes me as outdated thinking. Does her career mean so little in regards to having kids that she's willing to give it up and look after our children ? Again, once the kids are in school can't she go back to work? Does she add peace in my life ? This i…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 08:12 PM
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Excellent point.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 07:44 PM
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For sex? Yes. For a relationship? No Hard to get a relationship without being willing to engage in sex tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 07:43 PM
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Norah Vincent says hi.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 07:42 PM
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You disagreement rests on particular, small subset of the population he mentions. So he's still correct, its more that you pointed out an exception instead of finding his premise generally incorrect. Ignoring the main point of a comment, especially to point out some minor inconsistency;
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 07:42 PM
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Women can get paid for providing men with sex at a much greater proportion than men providing women with sex. Because if women want causal sex they can go get it easily and don't need to pay for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 07:24 PM
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Yeah I'm leaving too as a physical intimacy is an important part to my romantic relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 07:21 PM
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That is one of the reasons yes. Political compass memes said so straight from their mouths.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 07:20 PM
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Us men are fat too. And women can still pull dudes being overweight much easier than vice versa. I don't think them being "fat" is that much of a hindrance tbh. If anything this applies to men more.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 07:13 PM
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https://imgur.com/G31b8az
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 07:11 PM
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First, women want sexual attention and validation as much if not more than men. First you can see it first hand with how much more women sexualize themselves in their appearance and clothing vs men. Why aren't women walking around with no makeup, cargo shorts and loose fitting crew neck tshirt, aka the standard guy uniform, if they're SOOOO tired of being sexualized. Or look at the constant thirst traps they post online, or the videos of them shaking their ass in public for their tiktoks. When w…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 07:07 PM
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Its evidence that OP is correct in his statements. And within that "theoretical treatise" will be statements that if you then go investigate them for truthfulness, will have stats to back them up.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 06:21 PM
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So him not being much into interior decorating now means he's indifferent to her? Not that they have different interests? Edit: think about it, why are "man caves" a thing? Because men realize that the interior decoration and decor of the house typically matters more to the woman, and guys are fine with it as long as they got a room to keep their stuff. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dUzaSm0aAKw There's a lotta guys out here right now, think they own a house. Think it's they house too. No. She …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 06:14 PM
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Baumeister and Vohs Sex as a Female Resource backs up what he's saying. Women's sexuality has value, men's sexuality for the most part does not. That's why women can use their sexuality to get other resources whereas men by and large can't.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 06:11 PM
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All Abrahamic religions are problematic these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 06:09 PM
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How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 04:42 PM
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Once the kids were in k-12, why was she still staying home? Not even part time work? It's VERY hard to make it one income these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 04:12 PM
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That qualifier doesn't change anything that I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 04:11 PM
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Thus I always cringe when I see guys hanging out together. Your best friend would fuck your GF/wife behind your back if given the chance. Etc. Not my friends. and two in order for your bf to fuck your gf/wife, you gf/wife would fuck your best friends. Seems like they both suck in that situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 04:02 PM
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Halo effect. The ugly man and good looking man can perform identical actions and the ugly man's actions will be interpreted as worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 04:00 PM
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Men get shit done.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 03:58 PM
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One quarter of women currently have depression and about 36 % of women have been diagnosed with depression in their lifetime. Only 11 % of men currently have depression, in comparison. Women are not winning in modern society. Tinder certainly hasn't made women happier. Despite having so many options, women are more miserable than ever. Women are naturally more neurotic than men. Its like this. If you magically made a man and woman grow up the same life and the woman came out more unhappy do you …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 03:58 PM
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When you can sexually harass someone by looking at them wrong then I'm surprised its not 100%. By making the bar for what is "sexual harassment" so low and laughable its similar to the meme of "when everyone is special, no one is".
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 03:55 PM
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Virgin gf/wife obsession still weird af. Does this advice apply to virgin men only?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 04:50 PM
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And physics? Chemistry? Engineering? Computer science. History? etc etc. Academia covers so much. Might do you good to take a world religion class so you can see how much your particular religion borrowed from earlier preexisting religions.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 09:29 PM
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The cool thing about academia is that when someone tells you something by and large you can check primary sources to confirm/deny and reproduce their results. Religion on the other hand….
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 09:22 PM
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Ha truf
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 08:18 PM
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Its not that you can't use clothing that reduces drag. You can cover that much of your body with clothing that reduces drag (that is allowed by governing bodies). So no, skin is not the answer. And you're missing the difference between traditional speedos and the fast speedo swim suits that will be in the Olympics this year. The Olympic suits cover way more than traditional speedos. Skin not answer. Skin slow.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 08:07 PM
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But that's incorrect. Nah, you just wear an allowed suit. The faster suits still cover more than traditional Speedos
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 08:04 PM
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No. You said skin is the answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 08:02 PM
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Because Speedos make fast swimming suits.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 08:01 PM
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If you think higher ed = marxism then ooooofff. Strong Anti-intellectualism vibes. Anti-intellectualism is hostility to and mistrust of intellect, intellectuals, and intellectualism, commonly expressed as deprecation of education and philosophy and the dismissal of art, literature, and science as impractical, politically motivated, and even contemptible human pursuits.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 08:00 PM
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Nah, you just wear an allowed suit. The faster suits still cover more than traditional Speedos.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 07:58 PM
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The LZR Racer by speedo, which got banned for being too good, covers from neck down to just above the ankles.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 07:44 PM
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DMT
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 06:50 PM
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You know better than this. You act like this is only the instance of this. This is just an example that illustrates it well.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 06:49 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O4p0uw42cdo
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 06:42 PM
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Sounds like dude needs to wash his suit then.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 06:35 PM
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Nah I've seen enough interactions between sub 5'4" women turning down 5'7" to 5'8" men to know there's a minimum for a lot of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 06:23 PM
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And women say height isn't that big of a deal. https://www.reddit.com/r/funny/comments/13j2ac6/pro_move_on_this_one/
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 06:04 PM
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It do tho. You can have some different points of views but there are some things that are fundamental to a person's belief structure and if their partner doesn't share compatible views then highly likely that relationship won't work long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 06:00 PM
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Seriously, am tired of people thinking morals,religion,politics has a place in dating when it literally doesn't But it does. Especially if you're wanting something long term with a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 05:50 PM
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Nah not you. This is a discussion topic I've engaged in with at least a half dozen or more individuals at different times here in PPD and the vast majority get in their feelings and argue in bad faith. Also you mentioned swimming laps, have you seen the new speedo suits for the Olympics? https://www.menshealth.com/fitness/a36844615/speedo-swimsuit-fastskin-tokyo/
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 05:47 PM
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https://imgur.com/gallery/Ui3sC
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 05:43 PM
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That is another good one.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 05:33 PM
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Its not. It shows that if you wear less form fitting less revealing clothing you get less sexual attention. The article basically admits that how much sexual attention you get is affected by what you wear, otherwise the subway shirt wouldn't have any effect. The irony is this is one of the most common ways men dress in day to day life. Loose fitting clothes that cover the majority of their body.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 05:27 PM
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Nothing is more reliable at getting ppd females in their feelings and ranting then suggesting they should dress more modestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 05:24 PM
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I'm saying this up top, if you reply, I won't read it. So as you hit the reply button just know you're wasting your time. You probably got your 34dd from here: https://www.anaono.com/blogs/dressing-room/average-breast-size-bra-size-in-the-usa-world Where as here lists the US as C. https://www.worlddata.info/average-breastsize.php Where as has https://www.modernmom.com/a1d713f4-3b45-11e3-8407-bc764e04a41e.html this to say: Averages There is considerable debate on the average breast size of a woma…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 05:16 PM
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And yes, I think mainstream society has forgotten the essential transactionalism of relationships in favor of romantic, altruistic ideals Agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 02:41 PM
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oh like the general "you" instead of you you? the royal you?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 02:32 PM
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RIP guy, RIP. You're evil lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 02:31 PM
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Only answer is constant teasing texts and pics. (oh god I would die plz no)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 02:05 PM
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Working? on a work trip?? The nerve of this man.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 02:03 PM
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He might be low n-count himself and might not have long history with the person he's interested in.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 02:02 PM
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I haven't read the full article yet but from the first few lines the women are wearing extra large tshirts to avoid stares? If so that's exactly what they should be doing. Now they may be doing something extra to seek pats on the back for doing something the rest of humanity does but I don't want to discourage the behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 02:01 PM
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I was hoping you would give me numbers. But from my own searching those look to be hard to find. From this page: https://dqydj.com/bmi-percentile-calculator-men-women-united-states/ which is going off 2015-2016 data for the US a woman with a BMI of 20 is already in the 5th percentile. Now then of all the women in that percentile, how many of them have 34DD? In other words you're a pretty extreme outlier to start with. Now to answer your question. We both know that swimsuits differ in modesty, th…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 02:00 PM
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my biggest complaint is people don't know how to normalize their audio mix and any music they play is several db louder than the speaking volume. idiots.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 12:22 PM
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So based on your measurements, bmi, etc what percentile Of the population are you in for bust size?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 11:27 AM
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How big around do you measure at the widest part of your chest? 48"?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 10:55 AM
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We're speaking in generalities here so trying to shift the focus to me in particular is a derailing tactic. Second, no one that I'm aware of has said sex is the MOST important thing, but it is important. What do marriage counselors, psychologist, etc. say about the importance of physical intimacy in ltr's? They say its pretty damn important.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 10:52 AM
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Tryna act like push-up bras ain’t a thing and then hinges entire argument on that fallacy. I see you boo.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 10:09 PM
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Right but weight amount is different from muscularity. Some hypertrophy people will do weight that’s 50% of their orm but 15-20 reps or more. And then power lifters can be insanely strong and maintain smaller builds (comparatively).
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 09:52 PM
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Women don't have nearly the natural capability towards hypertrophy that men do. If women are in the gym yoked... she probably riding that bike.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 09:12 PM
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You're correct. Steroid use is going up in women. Over developed traps and delts are dead giveaway. Derek more plates more dates can break down why to Supraphysiological level.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 09:09 PM
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Lol women ☕️
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 08:54 PM
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Ok but if women are ok with neglecting physical intimacy because the men aren't "romancing them anymore" then by that same logic men are justified in not romancing women since they women are neglecting their physical intimacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 08:50 PM
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We can pee standing up.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 08:47 PM
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Good for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 08:46 PM
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Good for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 08:45 PM
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Now you can see how pointless your "I don't watch Kardashians" is. Good for you. Kardashians still get watched by women just like sports get watched by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 08:39 PM
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The male obsession with sportsball makes that clear enough. I don't watch sportsball.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 08:37 PM
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At this point I can literally quote myself. The male obsession with sportsball makes that clear enough. I don't watch sportsball. But I know that is generally true for men. Just like its generally true women watch reality tv and shows like the Kardashians. So just because you personally don't watch it or know anyone who does doesn't make that generality any less accurate. That show hasn't lasted this long or been this popular due to a male audience. So if you make a generality about men then if …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 08:35 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Yi1VzRo1It8 - this is a lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 08:25 PM
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Yeah increasing the chances of STD exposure and all that. But in these cases I always want to know if the woman is neglecting her man or not. Given how women's libidos go down in LTR's. A retort I would hear from women on reddit and other parts of the interwebs was how they would begin to resent their SO's in LTR's taking them on dates because they felt "men would expect sex afterwards". Basically you don't like your man any more and you're so entitled that you resent romantic gestures and then …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 08:23 PM
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Yeah did you notice how Astronaut was like "men like sports ball" and I made the retort "women like Kardashians (reality tv)" and her response was "well I don't and neither do my friends". It just switched from speaking in generalities about men to specifically about Astronaut. Just wanted to point that out.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 08:20 PM
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UGH i hate the "tired all day wired all night" days.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 08:18 PM
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Nooo. :( I hope you get to feeling better.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 08:04 PM
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The implications of this is when you tell men "don't be creeps" is that there is no standard for that. There's no standard for creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 08:03 PM
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In this economy and climate? Nuh. Don't do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 08:02 PM
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I’ve already had and you’ve given me headaches This part lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 08:01 PM
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No, I honestly don’t. The male obsession with sportsball makes that clear enough. You make this statement: No, I honestly don’t. The male obsession with sportsball makes that clear enough. Which is a generality. And when I counter with generality that applies to women show that women will also have similar interests, you counter with that doesn't apply to you. Well did your statement about sports ball apply to /u/peacesquad ?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 08:00 PM
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If you're going to be bothered by someone staring at your breast then wear something that's not low cut, or pushes your breast up, or is skin tight, etc. If you're wearing an outfit that is designed to draw attention to your breast then why say anything when the outfit works as designed.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 07:59 PM
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Not really. I don't know any women who like them. We're not all of us outliers. /u/Peacesquad looks like you were correct. /u/AstronautLoveShack Again. Just because you don't know anyone among your circle of friends doesn't change how popular The Kardashians or shows of that type are among women. This is why discussing things with women on PPD is so tedious because you all claim to be the exception to every little thing no matter how popular or how strong the trend is.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 07:52 PM
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But we're not talking about just you so your rebuttal is invalid.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 07:22 PM
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(although he did stare at my breasts occasionally, Were you wearing an outfit designed to draw attention to your breast?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 07:14 PM
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Well you're getting it because it should be obvious based on the information provided. As I stated earlier. You know, it seems women have a harder time these days making the one man deal work then the other way The other way being MEN. You couldn't figure that out? Especially when the second statement was: Men desire and want multiple women but they can make it work with the one as long as she doesn't neglect physical intimacy it seems. Give me a break. That's why I've been so incredulous.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 07:13 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LWkSB-D-hYo
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 07:06 PM
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Use context clues. I'm comparing women to something. What do you think I'm comparing women to, what is this subreddit built around?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 07:05 PM
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Kardashians.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 07:04 PM
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Interacting with the public out in public not very common eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 07:00 PM
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There's MGM. Rape isn't specific to women. Religion sucks all round not goan lie. I'll put it this way, if the suicide death rates were reversed the WORLD would be losing their minds getting to the bottom of it. But since its men putting up those numbers, eh, whatchu gonna do says society. in b4 someone mentions attempts
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 07:00 PM
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I mean, that's the sort of thing that can happen when you're out in public, you might have to interact with members of the... public.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 06:56 PM
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Heteros just call that dead bedroom's.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 06:29 PM
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They want it but they're not going to neglect their partner if they don't get it. cough women cough
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 06:03 PM
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The other frustration is that most areas of life are moving towards egalitarianism and removing all barriers and adding in incentives to make sure women have equal footing. Then when it comes to dating its still cutthroat thunderdome rules and gender roles. And women will do everything they can to convince themselves and others they don't hold any advantage.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 05:47 PM
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I was digging thru some of my old imgur favorites and came across a one talking about "Bambi Lesbians", aka lesbians who were physically affectionate but didn't really do the sex thing. Which I found ironically funny as I've seen people rail against the legitimacy of lesbian bed death and how this ties into the gender differences in sexual drives and how women's libidos go down in LTR's. Even Lesbians deal with it. heh.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 05:44 PM
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I'm genuinely confused on why you're asking this. You know, it seems women have a harder time these days making the one man deal work then the other way, If you had to answer your own question, based on what I quoted, would you answer yes or no?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 05:40 PM
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Signs of Self-Objectification There are a few situations when it can be helpful to view yourself as a third person such as wanting to make a good impression in an interview, looking presentable at a wedding, or showcasing your best physical features on a first date. In these circumstances, self-objectifying behaviors are performed in moderation and are normal and healthy. However, when self-objectifying behaviors become excessive, they can become detrimental and negatively affect other areas of …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 05:25 PM
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In addition to communicating biological sex, another area of interest to researchers has been use of “sexy” dress to communicate sexual desire or attract sexual attention from others. As the dress items that comprise “sexy” are subject to fashion and thus, change over time, researchers in their attempts to investigate inferences and behaviors linked to such dress have labeled and operationalized this variable differently. Regardless of how sexy dress was operationalized, women say they use dress…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 05:20 PM
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Bad news for you. Have you read Baumeister and Vohs?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 05:16 PM
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Depends on the drivetrain. K series Honda versus a Chrysler/Alfa engine? K series all day every day. LS? It's good stuff. etc etc I'd take a 12 year old Honda Element in good condition over a lot of new stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 05:13 PM
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Another is attention, you put extreme make-up on and wear revealing clothes but simultaneously you don't wanna admit it's for validation/attention seeking You're not alone in this. Many thousands of words, even in academic and feminist literature, have been devoted to this phenomena.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 05:11 PM
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Men have higher sex drives than women (generally speaker, there are exceptions) and women's libidos in LTR's tend to go down. Thus when you hook a woman after a while she begins to neglect physical intimacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 05:11 PM
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You know, it seems women have a harder time these days making the one man deal work then the other way, as their libido's tank in LTR's where as men's remain steady. Men desire and want multiple women but they can make it work with the one as long as she doesn't neglect physical intimacy it seems.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 05:09 PM
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Nice guy vs Bad Boy. It is what it is. https://www.reddit.com/r/AdviceAnimals/comments/56jbkn/you_could_cut_the_tension_with_a_knife/d8jz33a/ I had a similar situation with a guy named Scott. I'd had a crush on him for a long time and then one Sat. morning he calls. He doesn't sound normal and I tell him that he sounds different. he said that he had just woken up. We get to talking and he asked me out and I'm planning to meet up with him that night. And then in the last 15 seconds of our convers…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 05:49 AM
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Comparatively speaking it does seem men desire causal sex more than women. Loads of evidence out, anecdotal and research, to back it up as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 05:39 AM
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No one is saying that women don't have sexual drives. That's a different topic of discussion when talking about the comparative strengths of sexual drives between men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 05:32 AM
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Thank you, I'll check it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 05:17 AM
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Why would a guy ever settle for any other type? The answer is in the very statement you quoted. these are exceptions
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 05:05 AM
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If you got a link I'll check it out. And like I say I recognize I might be an outlier to the idea. I do wonder if this is one of those Sanders on Fox type moments where the crowd in the room can hold conservative positions but within an hour Sanders has the majority agreeing with what he's trying to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 05:04 AM
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They're orders of magnitudes better than some one person's opinion on the internet. Women do insane things for guys they want to fuck. Sure there are exceptions but by and large... Although certainly there are some women with high sex drives and some men with relatively low ones, these are exceptions,
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 04:51 AM
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Also, women are at least as horny as men. They just express it a bit differently. Women generally won't dumpster dive the way men will. No, there's been loads and loads of research into this and there's no strong evidence to support this.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 04:38 AM
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I might be an outlier in that regard as I would love that. The OP of one of quotes kinda went into that talking about how the guy might be thrown off, not know how to take it, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 04:38 AM
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Possibly, heck even probably. But I do wonder for every woman who says, "you don't take me out anymore" how often she's done that for her partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 04:29 AM
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What were you saying about autistic again?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 04:28 AM
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But they're are orders of magnitudes better than some person on the internet spewing unverifiable anecdotes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 04:26 AM
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I can agree with that. My issue was I wasn't with someone who would or could match my efforts. If they even did 40/60 with me being the 60 I would be over the moon.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 04:25 AM
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bruh, Im not interested in autistic meme studies. So you're not interested in social sciences. Trying to label them as autistic meme studies does nothing more than tell on yourself. I've never had to pay for a date. In fact, I dont remember one instance where a woman "expected" me to do so. I remember once paying where the woman did not instantly offered to share which already made me dislike her a bit. Sure thing. And everyone clapped.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 04:23 AM
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I'd include romantic gestures into emotional labor. But how many men really do it on a regular basis outside of initial stages of dating? How many women? Everyone will have their anecdotes and opinions. Would love to see if there's any research into this. Each partner must hold up their end but there are expectations placed on men to keep the relationship going that women do not place on themselves. One great example of this is all the ways women say that men "aren't romantic anymore, don't take…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 04:21 AM
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So you don't like women then. Edit: Because by and large men are hornier than women. And to a societal, hell even species level women will use that as a way to gain resources. You can see it in other animals in the animal kingdom, humans are the only ones to practice prostitution.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 04:15 AM
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no guy I know had to do this Here's why that don't mean a lot. Traditional heterosexual dating and courtship scripts (e.g., men pay for date, women take partner’s last name in marriage) reflect different standards of desirable behavior for women and men. Analogous to sexual double standards, dating double standards reflect the greater agency and power traditionally accorded to men in society. In the present study, we investigated factors related to young heterosexual adults’ endorsement of datin…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 04:13 AM
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I've posted links to this paper in PPD (as it basically explains 80% of PPD) prolly 2 dozen times now. But Imma keep postin it. My quote are only bits and pieces, the paper is 28 pages and goes more in depth. Sexual Economics: Sex as Female Resource for Social Exchange in Heterosexual Interactions Roy F. Baumeister Department of Psychology Florida State University Kathleen D. Vohs Faculty of Commerce, Marketing Division University of British Columbia https://assets.csom.umn.edu/assets/71503.pdf …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 04:06 AM
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Women do not want to be mislead to having sex with a guy, who may not be genuine with his intention. Baumeister and vohs goes into this. Women view sex as a resource to get other things. When they don't get their other things, thats when they feel as they were used even though sex should be considered an equal exchange. But women don't view men's sex with any value so its not considered an equal exchange by women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 03:52 AM
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What he's talking about is that men must actively work for love in a way that women do not. Baumeister and Vohs explain this. The op then goes on to describe the male ideal as a woman that will love him the same way and stand by him when he's down on his luck, money issues, confidence issues, etc. It may become more clear as if instead of thinking of "unconditional" love you think of it as "non transactional" love. Which again is an ideal. Each partner must hold up their end but there are expect…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 03:50 AM
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I still think about the time my gf of multiple years basically fled the scene when my mom passed after years of being her rock and being supportive in every aspect I could be.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 03:34 AM
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That minefield? BPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 03:33 AM
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Interesting. Yeah tried to different computers, private window so no cookies, 3 browsers, etc. It no worky. Edit: for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 03:30 AM
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No vpn, just ad block. Did you try your link from another computer and/or private browser? Edit: I tried the link from a 2nd computer, still not found.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 03:19 AM
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Your link shows up as Not Found.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 03:16 AM
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If the woman was wanting to experience and being denied by her bf it would absolutely be seen as an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 03:14 AM
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I am conducting research on masculinity and perceptions of violence. What sort of hypothesis are you looking to prove/disprove from your research? Or would giving that away affect the answers too much?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 03:13 AM
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https://imgur.com/gallery/u1dg9IN Why relationships are fundamentally work for men. This is why women dreamt up the concept of emotional labor, because they know ultimately this is a valid issue with hetero couples.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 03:11 AM
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Men have to learn the art of the shit test themselves. Borrow a buddy's traumatic story or make one up. If it later gets used as ammo against you then you know and you make your mission to do as much mental damage to the woman before dipping.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 01:20 AM
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You can still work the right side of your upper body unless your right is your dominant hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 01:18 AM
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Introduce the women to the sweet sweet LIVER PUNCH.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 01:17 AM
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Feel free to do more than glance.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 01:16 AM
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Now chart this against the percentage of under 30 yo's living at home and another line for those living with roommates. Its not as much of an issue for women. Go into any dating subreddit and the women as a rule don't invite the guy back to their place, they go to the man's. https://imgur.com/gallery/bkrl6Ik
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 01:15 AM
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Considering half the planet is Asian... which minority is really being fetishized?
/r/AllPillDebate15/05/23 01:08 AM
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nah, physical intimacy is an actual thing. Emotional labor is bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 02:04 PM
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Good reasons to get your attorney and her attorney to look it over to make sure its not inequitable.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 02:03 PM
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You tell someone you're not going to read their response and they still reply. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 12:35 PM
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You have not. The two examples you initially have are a woman sitting with her legs spread wide open on twitch and another woman who is wiggling her butt for the camera. I have and I've used many more examples than that. You must have missed them. If bikinis don’t get the exact same reaction, Who says they don't? That is not a suggestive outfit, she had a shirt on first then removed it, prob to check her form: which , men that lift also wear tight clothing or “revealing” to be able to monitor ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 12:29 PM
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I have. Youre pulling a no true scotsman on me by trying to claim that since it doesnt meet your arbitrary levels of being skimpy or form fitting enough then it doesnt count. Fernandez was wearing something suggestive its just that women have gotten that delusional about what suggestive is if they don't think so.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 12:18 PM
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That’s just it: the men are not glancing. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rKKY7wwrMiw Dude. No woman who is wearing camel toe pants is complaining about you looking at her. They absolutely are what are you talking about? Are you just ignoring the woman getting kicked out when she did it? Again, wearing skimpy form fitting attire and being hyper sensitive while wearing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 12:14 PM
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Its not that. Sometimes wealthy people want to do a prenup on the back of a napkin and think it will hold up.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 08:21 AM
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Two clauses worth putting into a prenup for normies: -no alimony -everyone pays their own attorney's fees.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 08:19 AM
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That's why you get your attorney to check it out and let her attorney check it out well before the wedding and guess what? The chances of it getting tossed go way down and the two attorneys representing their respective party will advise against anything that would be considered lopsided.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 08:13 AM
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So no experience in making prenups, got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 08:12 AM
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You watched the short, hyper fixated on the word fair, and you're basing all your opinion on that. Pretty funny at this point. Again, you can't tell me where he's saying something incorrect. The "fair is subjective" is all you got.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 08:07 AM
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This isn't from "youtube university" its a 20 year divorce lawyer. What is the lawyer saying that you know to be incorrect? and watch the second video and he'll explain what "fair" means and what is bullshit. I can tell by how quick you replied you didn't watch the second video with more details.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 08:02 AM
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He's got 20 years experience. How many years experience you got making prenups. Yes some prenups fail. but why did they fail?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 08:01 AM
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https://youtube.com/shorts/XT9_6a_RNpQ?feature=share https://youtu.be/tVFje5q2icA
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 07:58 AM
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A divorce lawyer with 20 years experience would disagree with you. Yes a prenup isn't guaranteed if done incorrectly but if done properly and you keep your asks reasonable no reason to assume it'll be tossed in court.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 07:47 AM
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Or get a prenup at least. For everyone saying prenup isn't guaranteed, yeah if you scribble your prenup on the back of a napkin then it will get thrown out. That's why you check with an attorney to make sure whats in there is legally enforceable.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 07:36 AM
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Dawn of the final day. https://i.imgur.com/BY4xmR4.jpg https://arstechnica.com/gadgets/2023/04/hosting-site-imgur-will-remove-explicit-and-anonymous-content-next-month/ If Imgur follows thru with this and tomorrow all the nsfw content is gone so many reddit posters are gonna lose their content if they don't have it backed up. The side effect is the anonymous content being purged means so many tutorials are going to lose precious content. I wonder how hard imgur's servers have been hit the last w…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 07:12 AM
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From my experience the women I've had a chance to date didn't match my efforts 70/30. If they could have done 60/40 I would have been happy. Also men exhaust women and wear them out? This woman is blind to the load women typically put on men. As for the justifying cheating... more like women's libido's tank in LTR's, they use the excuse of "you don't take me out on dates anymore, or try to woo me" etc while ignoring how they're no longer physically intimate or affectionate with their partner and…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 07:10 AM
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What did you do to deserve getting banned off tinder?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 07:05 AM
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Emotional labor is a bullshit concept women dreamed up. I'm very suspect of everything she said due to using that. And men offer plenty. Don't buy into the bullshit so hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 07:01 AM
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You linked two videos: one was off woman, initially wearing a light colored t shirt over a black/blue workout set. I've linked to a lot more than just two videos. Copy and paste the link cuz I've just went through all my links and I don't see what you're referring to. The Fernandez video, the one in your second reply to my queustion, was already dismissed at ridiculously overblown. No one really gave her the platform to legitimately complain, she was shut down. Her video might have been, but her…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 06:58 AM
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Dawn of the final day. https://i.imgur.com/BY4xmR4.jpg https://arstechnica.com/gadgets/2023/04/hosting-site-imgur-will-remove-explicit-and-anonymous-content-next-month/ If Imgur follows thru with this and tomorrow all the nsfw content is gone so many reddit posters are gonna lose their content if they don't have it backed up. The side effect is the anonymous content being purged means so many tutorials are going to lose precious content. I wonder how hard imgur's servers have been hit the last w…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 04:27 AM
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That is wayyy over the top.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 04:24 AM
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Again, you can’t see the others girls butt. The one who was in the gym lifting and caught a trainer staring at her when she was recording her set. I have no idea which girl you're referring to at this point. You're going to have be specific or link them. It’s not a thong btw. Thongs don’t make your butt look big, they are to make it so that you don’t have panty lines. The pants you are referring too just have a ruching and a more defined crease so that it can enhance your butt. Those pants are l…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 03:19 AM
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I don't know are you trolling me?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 03:13 AM
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So if the megathread is for that, why point it out? Are you assuming I'm doing any different?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 03:10 AM
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The outfits aren’t the same. The other woman’s not showing her whole ass to the camera and making it jiggle. She’s in the gym working out. Yeah you're gonna have to be specific to which person or outfit you're referring to. Its more and more common that gym leggings have a built in thong so the pants go up the woman's ass and separate her cheeks. No they're not exactly the same outfit and that would be ridiculous to expect them to be so. They are the same style.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 03:05 AM
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I posted that to push back against the narrative so people use of "well men just need to understand to not be creepy". When what is creepy isn't a standard and has been shown some women are extra sensitive and quick to label someone creepy when the vast majority would agree they're not.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 03:02 AM
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You're missing the forest for the trees. I posted women who were taking things too far. Then I post women wearing the same thing using it for sex work to show how extreme the clothing is. So those women were posted to show commonality in how sexual this clothing and attire is. Then someone tries to make an argument about men "staring and being creepy" and I posted another video to show a woman being triggered by a man glancing at her and her ultimately being kicked from the gym.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 03:00 AM
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Are you admitting to trolling then? And don't presume to know how I regard you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 02:57 AM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tkrDJB-xLMA https://nypost.com/2023/01/23/twitch-influencer-jessica-fernandez-films-man-staring-at-her-like-a-piece-of-meat-at-the-gym/ https://nypost.com/2023/02/23/bodybuilder-joey-swoll-has-had-enough-of-fitness-influencers/
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 02:55 AM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tkrDJB-xLMA https://nypost.com/2023/01/23/twitch-influencer-jessica-fernandez-films-man-staring-at-her-like-a-piece-of-meat-at-the-gym/ https://nypost.com/2023/02/23/bodybuilder-joey-swoll-has-had-enough-of-fitness-influencers/
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 02:55 AM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rKKY7wwrMiw
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 02:53 AM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rKKY7wwrMiw
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 02:53 AM
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Again this really comes down to women pushing social norms and society reacting to it. Seems like you've got nothing at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 02:46 AM
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You continued refusal to engage with this concept of personal responsibility and social norms when the examples involves hate speech on clothes shows your hypocrisy and wanting special privileges for women. And aren't women shaming men? As the woman in the tiktok video did again the guy working at the gym? That's been a trend going on for some time at this point. What the one woman did was basically entrapment and I'm glad she got booted from the gym over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 02:38 AM
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sadly you don't make social norms. You can't stop humanity thinking you are being creepy. You can be triggered all you want here but IRL nobody cares what you write here, that's how social norms work. Same for the women who want to toe the lines of decency and that's why there is push back happening. That's why even women are getting sick of other women dressed like this. it will give you better results to not even glance at a woman with provocative clothes if you don't understand what's sociall…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 02:21 AM
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If the looks make you uncomfortable, that's on you to address. The world doesn't need to cater to you. The woman called a glance creepy so the "creepy" argument is full of shit. Everything is creepy, including a glance.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 02:08 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/BlackPeopleTwitter/comments/yxx8lb/now_i_know_why_cash_apps_be_in_bios/?ref=share&ref_source=link - this is a lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 01:58 AM
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Youtube comments are damn near the gutter for internet commentary.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 01:57 AM
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In your opinion, is the same expectation on the woman? Do she need to be pretty impressive and not just some girl who exists?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 01:49 AM
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your argument is "Let me wear sex clothing out in public with the expectation that only the people that I want to notice will notice me and everyone else needs to ignore me despite how attention seeking my clothing is." Creepy. Lol the two guys in the one video GLANCED at the one girl and she tried to label them as creepy. A glance. When you wear clothing that is designed to attractive visual attention of other people those people aren't being creepy when they look. It means your clothing is wor…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 01:46 AM
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First, there's two women. One girl is wearing the same pants for her sex work as she is for working out. And second, this shows pretty clearly women are dressing to attract the same attention they wanna bitch about. Seems like the don't mind when they can monetize it. Everyone makes a choice when they choose how to express themselves through their clothing. No one gets to be free from the effects of those choices. Its like asking to wear something with hate speech or having hate ideology on ther…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 01:31 AM
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I’m not wrong tho
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 01:06 AM
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maidenless behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 12:39 AM
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When you don't have to work for it and it comes to you, you begin to disdain it. It in this case is being desired by the opposite sex (assuming hetero). And we know that women are affected when they don't get this attention and validation because we hear it straight from the mouths of the small minority of women who don't get it. You'll even hear them lamenting that they don't even get pumped and dumped.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 12:32 AM
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lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 12:23 AM
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Men look for bobs and vagene
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 12:23 AM
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Women: "you can look but you can't stare and be creepy" Also women: https://www.reddit.com/r/mildlyinfuriating/comments/113vhb6/twitch_is_getting_ridiculous_day_by_day_please/?ref=share&ref_source=link https://www.reddit.com/r/pornID/comments/112aova/any_names/
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 12:16 AM
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People generally don't like to be held to a standard of behavior by someone who is worse at it or would refuse to do so themself. Have you seen women's openers on Bumble?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 11:56 PM
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Nah fuck that. Women are calling men creeps at the gym for glancing in their direction. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FTtwjgp1lSc If you're going to make the conscious choice to wear the most skin tight clothing that goes up your ass to draw attention to yourself you have no right to complain when it works. Its getting to the point that even other women are getting bothered by it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 11:30 PM
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For the last 20 years women have been hell bent on pushing the boundaries of decency when it comes to what they wear and damn you if you say anything about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 10:49 PM
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The American time use survey showed that between paid labor, house hold chores and parenting activity men averaged 61 hours of labor a week and women were at 59 hours of labor of week. It's not like men aren't carrying their load. Its just their labor goes to difference aspects.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 10:48 PM
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https://www.nzherald.co.nz/lifestyle/aussie-fitness-influencer-speaks-out-over-backlash-to-supermarket-outfit/U4GRFYPZBVQ6W4NPASGSNOVYBM/ https://www.outkick.com/fitness-influencer-racks-up-millions-of-views-working-out-at-the-gym-with-very-little-on/
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 10:47 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/cursedcomments/comments/134u7w1/cursed_animal/?ref=share&ref_source=link $500 that she's fucking that dog https://www.reddit.com/r/cursedcomments/comments/134u7w1/cursed_animal/jigy2wk/
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 10:29 PM
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Does grip strength translate to the strength needed for arm wrestling? Or are you just gonna crush my hand if I start winning?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 10:29 PM
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Women: Male gaze, unwanted sexual attention, pervs Also women: https://www.reddit.com/r/ImTheMainCharacter/comments/136saaz/common_outfit_in_american_gyms/?ref=share&ref_source=link
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 10:26 PM
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Not an issue for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 10:26 PM
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rate 1-10 https://imgur.com/gallery/QIYNZcI https://imgur.com/c55DJys
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 07:40 AM
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I don't know what's happened in Janelle Monáe's personal life recently but I'm here for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 06:04 AM
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https://github.com/aliparlakci/bulk-downloader-for-reddit/blob/master/README.md
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 04:47 AM
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Imgur will be removing all of their nsfw content and content uploaded by users without accounts sometime Sunday night/Monday Morning. Many forums and image boards are going to lose a LOT of content.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 04:14 AM
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Dumb. Women are people too.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 04:12 AM
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https://www.standard.co.uk/tech/tinder-bans-onlyfans-sugar-daddy-instagram-tiktok-twitter-social-handles-b1080648.html Onlyfans women were abusing tinder too.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 11:27 PM
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Unsolicited Dick pic https://i.imgur.com/ZlPFDcB.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 09:33 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 09:29 PM
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Nah. Especially if the woman has explained the problem in direct non confrontational language and the other partner still has no desire to improve? Fully justified.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 09:21 PM
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I would assume she is top tier woman otherwise why pick her if you have an abundance of choice. Something separated that woman from the others. Now maybe he got her pregnant on accident or some other non obvious circumstance.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 09:20 PM
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I guess it would depend on why he committed. Lets say she's not the best looking woman she's been with but she has a high sex drive, low sexual inhibition, low neurosis and is easy going and cooperative. Then it becomes apparent.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 09:15 PM
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u/catchtowards12345 You should report comments that you feel break the CMV rules. Understood and I will in the future but for clarification it wasn't that I though they broke CMV rules, just that the general consensus expressed was that of contradictions.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 09:10 PM
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There is a certain irony in a nsfw reddit poster getting on a soapbox to complain about receiving nsfw images sent to them without the poster asking for them. It's not like the nsfw poster asked the subreddit ahead of time. yes yes implied consent etc. y'know what I'm saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 08:47 PM
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Its called the Halo Affect and its not particular to women. Edit. Or Effect. I forget which.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 08:30 PM
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Shit I can deal with that. Sign me up.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 08:28 PM
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Really what led me to search is that women seem really put off they can't just walk around at night anywhere or anytime they please. But the fact is that's not safe for anyone, men or women. Whether the danger comes from wildlife if you're out in the boonies, cars not seeing you, increased chances of interacting with the police, target of assault, theft, etc. It's just more dangerous to be out at night. But I made an honest attempt to look and see if I could find more posting about it buttt. Her…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 07:12 PM
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/u/Peacesquad this is how irate women get if you interfere with their creation and posting of thirst traps. https://www.reddit.com/r/therewasanattempt/comments/13flwx3/to_work_out_in_peace_at_the_gym/?ref=share&ref_source=link
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 07:06 PM
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Because I don't have enough natural light in my basement dwelling of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 07:06 PM
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People leaning on strangers cars to take pictures is so disrespectful. https://www.reddit.com/r/funny/comments/13fmeub/having_fun_with_the_corvettes_remote_starter/?ref=share&ref_source=link
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 07:04 PM
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Narcissism. Wanting sexual attention from strangers. Edit: and this. Dopamine addiction Some info on dopamine regarding social media: https://scopeblog.stanford.edu/2021/10/29/addictive-potential-of-social-media-explained/ We're wired to connect. It's kept us alive for millions of years in a world of scarcity and ever-present danger. Moving in tribes safeguards against predators, optimizes scarce resources and facilitates pair bonding. Our brains release dopamine when we make human connections, …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 07:03 PM
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I too would be interested in some good spoopy stories.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 06:58 PM
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I wanted to understand women's obsession with walking alone at night. So I did a search for "walking alone at night". Yeahhh bunch of grape fantasy subreddits gave results.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 06:58 PM
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Cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 06:56 PM
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And to give them perspective on what they look like making their thirst trap posts out in public.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 06:32 PM
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I swear you’re one of the few sensible posters here.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 06:31 PM
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Why young women need fathers. https://youtube.com/shorts/7086OKJ0p7A
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 05:02 PM
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I'm glad your life has been that uneventful. Its definitely not that way for the rest of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 03:51 PM
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I was being sarcastic but let me ask sincerely. Do you get any sort of positive benefit knowing your capabilities better than when you were untrained? Or the fact you now have skills and knowledge that a lot of other people do not? People are crazy out there and knowing that you can at least toss a guy and then get out the situation is not for nothing. I'm saying I understand where the red pill guys are coming from and think more people should go into martial arts. Especially meek people.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 02:33 PM
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Yeah wtf is with guys wanting to be able to defend themselves and their loved ones, know themselves better, and having more confidence in themselves as a result. What fukken weirdos. Meanwhile ~I~ trained for years in high school for different and better reasons. I'm not like the other guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 02:26 PM
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Men's standards are way too low. I really don't like the desperation Because a man who will take anything is the last type of man a woman wants. Exactly. We don’t want someone who just wants ANY woman, we want one that wants us specifically! Yeah these comments are saying men are too desperate period. Definite contradiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 02:24 PM
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Interesting how we can tell me to lower their standards for attraction but god forbid we do the same for women. “Are you saying I should … SETTLE?”
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 02:17 PM
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Unless it’s man’s first or second serious relationship they’re doing that. It’s not like the girl with the less pretty face is guaranteed to have any better of a personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 02:13 PM
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Yuupp. Whenever someone makes this comment of men only go after Stacy's I always ask where the large group of women who have good personalities but can't get a man? If you look at the last decade before the pandemic fucked up everything there wasn't a large group of women like this, it was men who were more likely to be this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 02:04 PM
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Men's standards are too low in how they're treated dingus. So which is it? Men are taking what they can get or men are ignoring good women and going after the hot ones? And if men are by and large ignoring women with good personalities where are all these involuntarily single women that get over looked? The last decade before the pandemic that was men, not women. And watch it with the calling me a dingus.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 02:02 PM
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United States thing. Can't speak for other American countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 01:59 PM
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OP says: You chase after dimes and thots with big booty's rather than deal with women that aren't as good looking but have better personalities. Then you complain when you got bit by a snake that looooooves all the attention because you didn't vet her. So basically we need to lower our standards and settle for someone less attractive but better personality. Ok, got it. And then top reply says: Men's standards are way too low. I really don't like the desperation and comments from a lot of men tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 01:58 PM
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Does your gym ask for ACH numbers for your bank account? The one I went to sign up at wanted both a credit card and ach numbers. Nope. My utilities don't ask for that fuck off.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 01:51 PM
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Or having a loving quiet relationship with one woman and you love and support each other and live a quiet peaceful life without all the partying and you will never have sex with anyone again in your life except her. How often are we gonna have sex in this scenario?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 01:48 PM
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Its hilarious how in the "men value a pretty face" thread the posters are saying that men, at the same time, need to lower their standards but also their standards are TOO low. And no one seems to be able to spot the obvious contradiction and are seem to be in agreement. Men's standards too high: You chase after dimes and thots with big booty's rather than deal with women that aren't as good looking but have better personalities. Then you complain when you got bit by a snake that looooooves all …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 01:47 PM
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Destiny is a debater Lead attorney stumped him pretty good one time.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 01:19 AM
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You’s
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 04:10 PM
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Is this the guy version of Lilly?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 05:41 PM
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Yeah you have no idea how interpersonal relationships work. Covid broke some of y’all’s brains.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 04:53 PM
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Imgur gonna ban porn by May 23rd. Rumors are that Reddit will follow suit. OF and sex workers gonna take a hit to their pocketbooks.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 04:52 PM
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Females are just hypocrites. They always want to monopolize men’s sexual gratification. Whether it’s women attacking porn, making fun of men’s sex toys, demanding respect for sex workers while demonizing their customers. Women literally have a problem with every aspect of men’s sexuality. You see how weird and in their feelings women get when they find their men’s porn collection or if men have any other method of sexual gratification that’s not the woman. But at the same time they’ll really act…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 04:50 PM
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Or you can wear short sleeves and a crew neck and go on with your life. Same dress code I enforced with college age student workers.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 02:12 PM
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Ok so you don't like dress codes. Good to know. And yes the US has puritan tendencies.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 01:26 PM
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Cool, good to know. But again, will not being able to sexualize herself negatively affect her scholastic performance?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 01:25 PM
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We didn’t have a dress code at all. We do. And other European countries do as well. Dress codes in schools are currently being debated in several European countries. In Sweden, clothing that is considered to be typical of gangsters is a thorn in the side of teachers. In France and Switzerland, teachers are concerned about girls dressing in a way that is too revealing. Now some girls at a school in Geneva are being made to wear an oversized T-shirt that reads "I am appropriately dressed".
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 01:23 PM
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What’s the need for male students to show up with $150-$250 nike shoes? When do these resort in dress code violations in Germany? No it won’t. Also haven’t met any male student in Germany being bothered by the way girls dress in school during summer. That really doesn't mean anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 01:09 PM
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What is the need to display breasts in such an environment? Will the person’s scholastic performance suffer?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 12:40 PM
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There is correlation. Of course people will go to other sources to get their needs met. Low sexual and relationship satisfaction, high sexual desire, and lack of love are the most robust predictors of infidelity. Now with women losing their libidos in LTR’s whereas men’s stay pretty steady (generally speaking). Plus women’s reported sexual partners go up when they think they’re hooked to a lie detector, I wouldn’t be surprised if their self reported rates of infidelity doesn’t go up too. I wonde…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 12:35 PM
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And some women will cheat under those same circumstances. Either way, neglecting your partner will increase the chances they will get their needs met somewhere else.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 12:29 PM
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Nah. Some people will cheat regardless. Typing in all caps doesn’t make you anymore correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 12:23 PM
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Some men do. Some women do. Doesn’t make neglecting your partner ok and it raises the chances they will seek intimacy outside of the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 12:20 PM
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But the conversation wasn’t about the normality of the attire. It’s about implying people are over reacting about “showing shoulders” when the reality is what is shown. It’s normality or commonality doesn’t change or make incorrect what I said earlier.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 12:07 PM
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I’d argue against that. Wear a crew neck. If a smaller chest girl leans forward she’ll expose herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 11:27 AM
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PPD in a nutshell https://youtube.com/shorts/DKx0YTCX-58?feature=share
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 11:19 AM
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https://youtu.be/0e4mfcSASCs
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 10:56 AM
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Low sexual and relationship satisfaction, high sexual desire, and lack of love are the most robust predictors of infidelity. If you neglect your partner’s needs don’t be surprised if they get them met elsewhere. If you don’t cook food for dinner would you be surprised if your partner stopped somewhere on the way home? No. And it wouldn’t be an issue. Furthermore we don’t need to rely on our SO for food, water, etc. But physical intimacy is something we need another person for. And it’s one of th…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 10:44 AM
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I would caution people on how they do that as it could be considered brigading in some ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 09:05 AM
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Because he's being neglected.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 08:57 AM
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No it doesn't mean he doesn't love his wife. More than likely she's neglecting his libido and need for physical intimacy. Or takes his sexual advances for granted and no longer responds to them. Or maybe she's like this: https://i.imgur.com/oNlzblv.mp4 https://youtu.be/0e4mfcSASCs
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 08:57 AM
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This was something /u/scwizard and I were talking about earlier. I have mentioned to people multiple times that my high school literally banned us from showing our fucking shoulders. And I always get doubted! People act like I'm lying or being dramatic! I bought NO TANK TOPS until I moved out of that goddamn town! I believe her. Religious people have a weird thing about shoulders. It's weird cause sundresses that go halfway up the thigh are apparently totally fine so long as shoulders aren't sho…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 08:55 AM
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It's funny because if you disagree with a man's opinion, you're a misandrist Laughable. Comedy even.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 08:46 AM
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I think this will be relevant to you: Sexual intimacy is vital in any relationship, and not just for the sensual pleasure of it all. “Closeness and connection is a human need,” explains Dr. Sanam Hafeez, a NYC-based licensed clinical psychologist. “When in a long-term relationship it's important to reconnect through sex. The brain chemicals released during sex further enhances bonding.” Levkoff concurs, adding that sex doesn’t always have to be limited to intercourse, either. Physical intimacy —…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 08:33 PM
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This is what people are saying. If you have an issue with this then that's on you. These are literally the experts in the field saying this. Sexual intimacy is vital in any relationship, and not just for the sensual pleasure of it all. “Closeness and connection is a human need,” explains Dr. Sanam Hafeez, a NYC-based licensed clinical psychologist. “When in a long-term relationship it's important to reconnect through sex. The brain chemicals released during sex further enhances bonding.” Levkoff…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 08:32 PM
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My only vice is eating too much. Other drug habits just don't stick with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 08:18 PM
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You're not wrong but also how many people have a beer or two most days when they get home? It's pretty common in my part of the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 06:19 PM
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Girl I dated drank every day. I go months between drinking. I'm a sometimes, she was a yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 05:53 PM
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You better pay for both of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 12:32 AM
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There are substantial gaps in educational outcomes between black and white students in the United States. Recently, increased attention has focused on differences in the rates at which black and white students are disciplined, finding that black students are more likely to be seen as problematic and more likely to be punished than white students are for the same offense. Although these disparities suggest that racial biases are a contributor, no previous research has shown associations with psyc…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 06:02 PM
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For a moment in time, i think a year or so ago, data is beautiful had people posting a particular type of flow chart with their tinder experiences. It displayed the differences pretty starkly.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 05:56 PM
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Either I am missing g something or they have no real proof that discrimination was going. Where did they talk about the proof of racial discrimination in these schools. Black children disproportionately getting in trouble does not mean discrimination. Yes you're missing something because you didn't read and follow up on their citations where they demonstrated that. Where is the proof that a white and black kid were doing the exact same things, but the black kid got in more trouble with 0 explana…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 05:50 PM
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Walk away from people who can't give you what you want. Respect
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 05:34 PM
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Applies to women who want more from their friends with benefits too.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 05:32 PM
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Its SO easy for a woman to get a replacement man that really the man and woman are playing two different games.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 05:31 PM
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ding ding ding. That's why I say all Abrahamic religions are problematic at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 05:29 PM
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Where specifically did they show evidence of discrimination? Follow their citations. Different results does not mean different treatment. So how do YOU explain that discrepancy between punishment and infractions? How do you explain a white kid getting in school suspension for a fight in school and a black student getting probation?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 05:29 PM
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Why do you want people to face "consequences" for having sex? And how does that justify bringing a kid into a shitty existence. Especially when prolifers don't care about the baby once its born.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 05:22 PM
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What's funny to me is how much Conservative Christian overlap with Taliban despite their mutual hatred of each other. If only they could agree about which sky god was best they would be besties.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 05:19 PM
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I've linked you your own comments multiple times in the past demonstrating your hatred for men. The fact that you say "I'm still hating for that proof." shows you're not really. You're asking for it in bad faith because when provided with it you'll ignore it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 05:16 PM
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Except I said “if there’s proof of discrimination” to you. Exactly. As I said, your skepticism and need for proof of discrimination came up in regards to discrimination against BIPOC students for misbehavior but not for the boy student misbehavior. Their behavior causing problems for them is fair. Right. So you're ok with discrimination against boys because it fits your agenda and then you're skeptical when the same reasoning is used for BIPOC students. Which you have yet to prove, because I ask…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 05:12 PM
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The point is not to promote unwanted babies, but to diminish casual, unprotected, hedonistic sex. If you don't want to have casual, unprotected, hedonistic sex, then don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 05:11 PM
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So if having an abortion is "get out of jail free" then having the baby would be "jail" be giving birth? Don't you see the issue there? We have enough people. And again, people only care the baby is born and don't give a damn after that. They're not in any position to force someone to give birth to a fetus they don't want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 05:02 PM
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Nuh uh, not men. In this case it would be the women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 04:56 PM
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Sometimes BC fails. Sometimes people are raped. Sometimes the relationship falls apart. Shit happens. And even if someone failed to have personal responsibility when it comes to unprotected sex they can still demonstrated personal responsibility be aborting the fetus they can't provide for. Its not like most prolifers give a shit once the baby is born.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 04:23 PM
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Being opposed to open borders I don't think is enough to call someone conservative even if that is a conservative viewpoint here in the US. I would like to see a comparison of immigration policies of different countries/regions to see how easy/hard it is to immigrate to the US versus other countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 04:20 PM
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Aborting a fetus you can't provide a good life for is personal responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 04:17 PM
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Its not that you're serious about personal responsibility. Its that you're hypocritical about endorsing discrimination. If boys get worse grades for same work that's cool to you. If BIPOC students get worse punishment for the same infractions oh whoa whoa whoa now you need to see if they were the same infractions or not. Now your skepticism comes out. Despite roughly equal usage rates, Blacks are 3.73 times more likely than whites to be arrested for marijuana. Is this ok in your book?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 03:57 PM
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I would support a woman being able to abort her rapist's baby. So a man should be able to do the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 03:54 PM
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Sigh You're not wrong. But at the same time its not about changing her mind but to demonstrate to new and/or existing people that they are not to be taken seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 03:38 PM
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No I'm barking up precisely the right tree with that example because now you either got to admit to you're ok for harsher punishments against minorities for the same crimes or admit that grading boys harsher for the same academic performance is bs. Its the same justification for both, so you pick.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 03:35 PM
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Tis an analogy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 03:33 PM
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Here's the article. https://ballardbrief.byu.edu/issue-briefs/racial-inequality-in-public-school-discipline-for-black-students-in-the-united-states
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 03:33 PM
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The quote I supplied: Though research demonstrates that Black children are not more likely to misbehave than White children, Black students, especially male Black students, are much more likely to encounter stronger disciplinary measures for the same offenses as their White peers. Linked to 3 different studies backing this up. But you're dodging the question. Are you ok with black students being given harsher punishments for the same behavior?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 02:59 PM
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Boys will be boys, so don't punish them for anything they do wrong”. I've been advocating for this in my entire back and forth with you. Now you're just straight up lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 02:58 PM
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It's just that most troublemakers are boys minorities. Getting mad at the results, and calling it sexism, is a weak SJW tactic. Every police union, private prison company, and conservative politician is nodding in agreement.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 02:43 PM
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Like I said, I'm supposed to feel sorry for the millionaire's money problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 02:34 PM
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It's still not sexist nor unfair when it does affect their grades. Boys are very capable of not being a menance to society. I have no sympathy when it hurts them and when adults coddle that bullshit. So by this same logic you're ok with minority students facing harsher punishments for the same behaviors in schools? Its not racist right? Because if a student can be graded less for the same work then a student can also be punished more for the same behavior right?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 02:33 PM
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Though research demonstrates that Black children are not more likely to misbehave than White children, Black students, especially male Black students, are much more likely to encounter stronger disciplinary measures for the same offenses as their White peers. I've argued that students should get the same grades for the same work. You've argued that its ok that boys get docked grades because they're more likely to be troublemakers. Should black students get harsher punishments for the same infrac…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 02:25 PM
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The same academic performance should result in the same academic grades. The fact that it doesn't is a problem. You're trying to excuse because of "boys are trouble makers" ignoring the biases teachers have. Behavioral issues can be tracked and punished through other means and should not result less grades. Grades are meant to measure how well you have mastered and understood the material then lowering that measure for behavior issues is unethical and problematic. Have a separate system for trac…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 02:17 PM
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Doesn't that also make her a weak loser? She hasn't asked either. Also you ignore where the guy in the hypothetical example said he "hinted" at which we can assume means he displayed verbal and non verbal signs of wanting to be intimate without asking in direct language. If she didn't respond, then didn't he do the correct thing that women want and read her verbal and non verbal queues and didn't press things further?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 02:15 PM
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As does the SIGN language.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 02:11 PM
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If grades are meant to measure how well you have mastered and understood the material then lowering that measure for behavior issues is unethical and problematic. Have a separate system for tracking and addressing behavioral problems but grading boys worse for equal academic performance because you don't like how they act is not ok. This is similar to a teacher grading students of a minority race worse because of their internal biases when they perform just as well academically.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 02:07 PM
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Results show that, when comparing students who have identical subject-specific competence, teachers are more likely to give higher grades to girls. And Boys who perform equally as well as girls on reading, math and science tests are graded less favorably by their teachers And When researchers across the world — from Israel and Sweden to France and Czechia — explored teachers’ grading behaviors, either by having educators grade hypothetical students’ identical works while only changing the studen…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 02:01 PM
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Attractive female students no longer earned higher grades when classes moved online during COVID-19 https://www.psypost.org/2022/11/attractive-female-students-no-longer-earned-higher-grades-when-classes-moved-online-during-covid-19-64251
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 01:57 PM
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Non-cognitive Skills and the Gender Disparities in Test Scores and Teacher Assessments: Evidence from Primary School Using data from the 1998-99 ECLS-K cohort, we show that the grades awarded by teachers are not aligned with test scores. Girls in every racial category outperform boys on reading tests, while boys score at least as well on math and science tests as girls. However, boys in all racial categories across all subject areas are not represented in grade distributions where their test sco…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 01:55 PM
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"It's “The War On Boy in Education” for the manosphere." Do teacher and classroom characteristics affect the way in which girls and boys are graded? Teachers’ evaluations of students do not consider only academic competence, but are imbued with social considerations related to individual teacher and student characteristics, their interactions, and the surrounding context. The aim of this paper is understanding the extent to which teachers grade girls more generously than boys, and which characte…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 01:46 PM
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I wonder how that is still the case. If more and more women are out earning men, graduating college vs men, etc, then how are men still the primary breadwinners? Hypergamy?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 01:42 PM
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The concept of being able to leave a bad marriage relatively easily sounds good on paper to me. But I'll be honest and don't know info to say I have an informed opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 01:40 PM
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Yes, acknowledge that sometimes millionaires also have to pay large bills, such as on their second or third home.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 01:39 PM
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"emotional labor" is such a bullshit concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 01:31 PM
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https://i.imgflip.com/7kdl2x.jpg Cuz someone will say it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 01:23 PM
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"because he hasn't asked". Basically admitting you don't have attraction to your partner or you placing all the expectation of initiating on them and for them to face the potential rejection each time. Sexual intimacy and emotional bonding go hand in hand. A woman can't neglect one and expect to still get the other especially if she is making her partner do the asking all the time. A person hears no enough times and they'll recognize the pattern. The counselor guy was dismissive towards his exam…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 01:20 PM
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That said, a 2017 study that appeared in the Archives of Sexual Behavior found that the average adult currently enjoys sex 54 times a year, which equates to about once a week. This is less sex, by about nine per year, compared to a similar study done in the 1990s. It doesn't mention marriage in that blurb. Was it somewhere else in the article? American adults had sex about nine fewer times per year in the early 2010s compared to the late 1990s in data from the nationally representative General S…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 01:14 PM
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Sexual intimacy is vital in any relationship, and not just for the sensual pleasure of it all. “Closeness and connection is a human need,” explains Dr. Sanam Hafeez, a NYC-based licensed clinical psychologist. “When in a long-term relationship it's important to reconnect through sex. The brain chemicals released during sex further enhances bonding.” Levkoff concurs, adding that sex doesn’t always have to be limited to intercourse, either. Physical intimacy — including cuddling, oral and manual s…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 01:13 PM
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conservative is not the word I would used for it. But can't go much further for the no personal rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 12:04 PM
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The shoulders thing that women want to trip out about is so stupid. If guys can wear crew neck t-shirts and be comfortable then so can women. They have NO NEED to wear anything that shows shoulders during a normal school day. (assuming k-12 school).
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 12:02 PM
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This woman needs to read baumeister and vohs.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 12:01 PM
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So when you start talking about forever alone bros vs forever alone women for some reason the forever alone bros get compared to "rotting hot dog on the ground" where as the forever alone women are considered unlucky or less fortunate women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 12:00 PM
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As opposed to r/pussypass to where you see how women are able to escape accountability
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 11:57 AM
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I think I saw another woman arguing with her recently.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 11:53 AM
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But the idea of synthetic shares and naked short selling sounds shady not gonna lie. Edit: this one guy one time bought ALL the available shares of this company. Meant no more shares should have been available to trade right? It traded 50m times over the next 2 days. https://youtube.com/shorts/NI0tGBTtB_4?feature=share https://youtu.be/-sA0azvjCQk
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 11:53 AM
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Nah, Sex is a mutual exchange. You gave sex, you got sex. The other stuff is extras.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 11:52 AM
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Then watch the video it comes from and stop whining 😤. (It’s the YouTube link in the post)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 09:28 PM
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We were talking about divorce statistics in the earlier thread. The majority of custody is handled outside of court were the mother and father agree on equal custody without state intervention. If a mother goes court to settle custody and gets sole custody it’s because the father didn’t show up. This is not how it goes and I was waiting on this comment to surface. What happens is you don't know the ins and outs behind the scenes for the data to come out that way. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 08:11 PM
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No you didn’t. I really did. I'm sorry you missed but I directly addressed it. For you to say I didn't is flat out false. You took one lawyers stories A divorce lawyer who practiced for twenty years. That makes him an expert in the field. If we had results of a physics journal article we were discussing and here comes someone working in the field for 20 years we would be listening to expert. He's explaining why the numbers come out that way. Now then, if you got other divorce attorneys with 10 y…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 08:08 PM
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And I just explained WHY the numbers come out that way and you ignored all of it. have no many you have no idea how many men's lives have been destroyed financially trying to fight for something that you you're not gonna get. we're misinterpreting the data I'm telling you why is it that the majority of men do not go to court for these kids is because they're not going to get them. when you're looking at your numbers if you if you don't really practice in the space you just look at the numbers yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 07:56 PM
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Because fighting for custody is very expensive and the courts are biased against fathers. How much do contested custody cases run in your state?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 07:48 PM
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Are you sure about the majority of states are 50/50 default custody? I'm looking and that doesn't appear to be anywhere close to the case from what I found. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_shared_parenting_legislation
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 07:47 PM
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Because fighting for custody is very expensive and the courts are biased against fathers.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 07:44 PM
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The majority of custody is handled outside of court were the mother and father agree on equal custody without state intervention. If a mother goes court to settle custody and gets sole custody it’s because the father didn’t show up. This is not how it goes and I was waiting on this comment to surface. What happens is you don't know the ins and outs behind the scenes for the data to come out that way. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SDTHFjLaB-c TL;DR the cases that go to court are the strongest c…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 07:44 PM
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A lot of men need to let go of the complex where they’re offended by single moms and stop taking their existence so personal
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 05:01 PM
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No the majority of DV is initiated by women. And when its nonreciprocal, it's women who are the ones doing it. This idea that women only resort to violence in retaliation is not true and not supported by facts. Results. Almost 24% of all relationships had some violence, and half (49.7%) of those were reciprocally violent. In nonreciprocally violent relationships, women were the perpetrators in more than 70% of the cases. Those that are especially controversial are statistics showing that women r…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 04:58 PM
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Once again trying to minimize the very real potential issues being a step dad. One its very difficult trying to raise children when in a lot of ways your hands are tied. Plus there's the very danger of you discipline the kid and then they make accusations of inappropriate touching. There are definite significant risks that comes with being a step parent to someone else's kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 04:50 PM
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Ding ding ding. Get attacked and then get arrested is a thing that happens and its a mother fucker.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 04:46 PM
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Nah, sometimes women just neglect their partners. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0e4mfcSASCs https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ep2MAx95m20
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 11:14 AM
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I guess another way to look at this question is in terms of the drug war. Is it the dealers or the users? At the same time given how low the replacement costs are for women to get another partner, this has probably lead to some superficiality on women's part.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 11:11 AM
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Men are graded more poorly in k-12 schools when you adjust for academic performance. I think remote learning saw this gap shrink. More male teachers would be good, paying teachers a livable wage would also be good as it would hopefully attract the male teachers. But the culture of public education is under attack and I'm not sure how much worse its going to get.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 11:09 AM
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Pretty stuck up tbh. There are women who don't get to hear that anymore or ever that would love to hear it. But its like trying to get someone to appreciate having oxygen. They can't really appreciate it until they don't have it anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 11:01 AM
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Life very rarely follows absolutes. If women didn't insist on "investment" and had sex for sex's sake you wouldn't feel "used" when you didn't get your extra.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 10:59 AM
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The “lying” is the promising of the extra things women expect in addition to the mutual exchange of sex. So again. Not used for sex, you just didn’t get your extra.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 09:48 AM
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When you say make 350k a year how much of this is actually making it to the checking account. I used to work at a State Agency and what I "made" versus what made it into my pocket were two very different amounts. I realize that gap shrinks considerably as you move up income brackets but still.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 07:29 AM
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Why is it when we reverse roles all of a sudden a man is not “investing anything” or “won’t value her”. Are you admitting this is what women are doing when men traditionally pay? Although this proves what I've been saying. It's not so much women get "used" for sex. Sex is a mutual exchange, you give sex you get sex. Its just that women use sex as way to get other things and when they don't get their other things, their "investment" is when they feel used. Baumeister and Vohs were so accurate in …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 07:15 AM
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Woman is supposed to be vetting during this time just like men do. If this attracts hobo sexuals if women do it is that what men are getting? Basically you explain to me why this make sense for one party to be expected to do it and for some reason if the other party takes on that role everything magically goes to hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 07:04 AM
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This isnt about the man. The woman doesn't want to be "pumped and dumped".
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 01:17 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/dankvideos/comments/12ookdq/delusion/ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=A-YcBYUfgtc
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 01:01 AM
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FDS starterpack: https://old.reddit.com/r/starterpacks/comments/132vt1o/rfemaledatingstrategy_starterpack/
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 12:42 AM
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And pay for those 3 dates during that month, don't make him pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 11:28 PM
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Do this: "How about this let's do it your way and just whenever whenever the mood's right, here's how you do this. You pay for all the dates, you do all the driving, you do all the planning, you're in charge until all that. Then after you decide you want to have sex then he could step in and start paying for the dates and driving and everything else. But until then it's all on you to do all the investment, all the courting, all of the follow-up, all that other stuff. Would you be willing to date…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 11:27 PM
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Well do women ever change their minds or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 10:25 PM
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I thought women found most men unattractive but "settled" for them anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 10:24 PM
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That's by design as a lot sex ed is kneecapped by the organizations that push abstinence only until marriage BS and don't give actual evidence based best practice sexual education. They had a program in Colorado where they were offering free IUD's to teens without parent consent and the teen birth rate went down, graduation rates went up, welfare spending went down, etc. So of course once Conservatives took back the state gov't they absolutely had to stop that program dead in its tracks.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 10:23 PM
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So I think back to the woman in Texas recently who had her water break 18 weeks into pregnancy, meaning her baby was sure to die. Amniotic fluid leaking causes sepsis but doctors couldn't induce labor. The doctors were made to wait until the mom was sick enough that the doctors wouldn't lose their medical licenses and as a result, the infection was so bad the woman had to go the ICU because the infection had gotten so much worse. It ended up scarring her uterus and now she may not be able to hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 10:20 PM
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Yes. Researchers have asked this question too and by and larger dating still largely follows along traditional gender roles. Keep in mind FDS sprung up when men tried to go off script.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 10:10 PM
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Do women ever get physical with a man and then change their mind on the relationship? Or do women always stay once they start having sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 10:08 PM
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Plenty of post in raised by narcissists and insane parents put this assertion to bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 10:03 PM
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How dare you equate men with people.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 08:01 PM
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I agree /u/LillthOfBabylon. I remember this one time this poster brought up pedo teachers helping children that I thought was pretty inappropriate. Putting a stop to wild comments like that would be a plus in my book.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 07:39 PM
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Agreed. For example: https://i.imgur.com/zpwCn3g.png
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 06:08 PM
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In reality, a man that likes you enough will pay and not care, or wait and not care. So why does this apply to men but not women? I do think that once a relationship is established, women are much more likely to treat and spend money on their partners. If you mean that women might spend more than what they do in the beginning stages of dating in which men are largely expected to foot the bill then yeah its easy to spend more than the very little at the onset. But I don't think it approaches 50/5…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 01:19 PM
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It is. What is the point in bringing a child into the world in those circumstances if you have an option to avoid it. There's plenty of people already here.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 12:54 PM
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It’s astonishing how seldom it is for a woman to treat a man well in the dating world, but you say that with no context and everyone starts saying “no u no u” Yeah me and u/anonymous-platypus1 were talking about this just yesterday as a matter of fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 10:52 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/meirl/comments/131jy5p/meirl/ I know this is a joke post but its funny how an idea of "Imma treat men how men treat women" results in men going, "best night of my life". Really shows the entitlement and how much women take certain things for granted. "Sounds like the greatest thing ever" "Sign me up,feed me ,use me for seggs then send me home to chat with my reddit pals,play games and be straight up glowing.........god I wish that was me" "He’s probably telling all his f…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 09:39 AM
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I have no clue but Aba stated he didn't care about the paying for sex part, it was the fact that Myron and Walter are going on about you shouldn't pay for box and then Myron has his own seeking arrangement profile. That's lack of integrity. And the telling ladies they gotta fuck to come on the show is sus. Basically it comes down they were saying to be one way to their audience and holding themselves up as examples but behind the scenes were acting another way. That deserves scrutiny.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 09:15 AM
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Reminds me of the post on Feminism complaining about the sexist language used on reddit. And here's a post where a woman says "I fucking hate the men on this site" because a man dared to laugh at himself trying to navigate his newly sober life and made a misstep. Of course if you point this out as an example of sexist language you'll eat downvotes and ad homs over at Feminism. And the reaction is so victim seeking its unreal.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 09:08 AM
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Yeah that cover part of that in the video I linked. Don't Myron and Walter say you shouldn't pay for sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 08:40 AM
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You talking about this? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-BOew04B458
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 08:34 AM
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I like Aba and Preach. How they back stabbers?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 08:25 AM
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Hyperbole aside, never underestimate the intelligence of women. Women turning nice guys = assholes and actual assholes = assertive men is but one example of a brilliant psyop on their part.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 07:20 PM
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No one should ever be sexually harassed or assaulted, no matter the time of day or night, no matter how sober or drunk, no matter how dressed or undressed. Disagree. Here's why. The wrong type of look is considered sexual harassment. https://www.nytimes.com/2022/12/09/world/europe/uk-ban-street-harassment.html The British government on Friday said it was backing a bill that would make street harassment — like catcalling, following someone, and intrusive or persistent staring — a crime punishable…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 07:17 PM
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It be that way sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 06:25 PM
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You'd be surprised how many demonstrate they're incapable of doing this.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 05:59 PM
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Tell us.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 05:51 PM
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Protip for PPD: if someone posts an except from an article you can copy a phrase and paste it into google and you're highly likely to find the source. Just FYI.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 05:51 PM
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But enough about PPD women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 05:49 PM
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I post this article at least once a week if not once a day. https://assets.csom.umn.edu/assets/71503.pdf The social exchange analysis emphasizes that sex is a female resource, so that men must offer women other resources in exchange for it. But how much? The price of sex (so to speak) may vary widely. To commence a sexual relationship with a particular woman, a man may have to offer her a fancy dinner, or a long series of compliments, or a month of respectful attention, or a lifetime promise to …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 05:42 PM
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Men use sex to extract resources and get what they want No women do this. By and large with the exception of a few, men aren't able to do this as their sexuality carries little value.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 05:34 PM
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What does forward mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 04:57 PM
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Ugh. The worse. I've been there. I was replying to one user with a journal article about how in dating, women still hold men to gender roles. Show her the first article, "oh so only college people in the south east" Second article "oh so only college age people" THIRD ARTICLE "In this selective review, we examined research on heterosexual dating published in Sex Roles since its inception to determine if dating practices have become more egalitarian over the past 35 years. Research in Sex Roles s…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 04:56 PM
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It's a mutual exchange.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 04:50 PM
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Women out here running background checks on men and then saying "It's so weird how obsessed some of y'all are with a woman's sexual past." approximately half of women in the top quintiles of sociosexuality had been sexually unfaithful to a steady partner; this was more than a tenfold increase over the corresponding rate for people in the bottom quintiles. Bailey, J. M., Kirk, K. M., Zhu, G., Dunne, M. P., & Martin, N. G. (2000). Do individual differences in sociosexuality represent genetic or en…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 04:49 PM
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TaKe It To MoDmAiL
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 04:45 PM
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I know. But you gotta show your work. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 04:45 PM
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We're not talking about us specifically. We're looking at the generalities and I already told you my experiences with this. The research backs up this is true for the most part and I've posted those articles higher up in the daily comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 04:44 PM
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Sex is a mutual exchange. So the woman got sex in exchange for sex. That's not being used. You're upset over the "dump" part because that means the woman is not getting the additional resources she expects for "giving the man sex".
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 04:43 PM
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I think if you explain how its a strawman it'll go over better.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 04:40 PM
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The issue is that a woman that likes you, won’t care if you don’t pay for every single date. You might have to pay for the first, but even you can mitigate that by picking someplace inexpensive. Go to a happy hour. Hello you just gave birth to FDS and screening out scrotes if you try to do this. But I'm glad we can agree that it happens at least. that's progress.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 04:37 PM
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They'll use any excuse to manipulate sex out of a woman. sex is a mutual exchange so the whole idea of "being used for sex" is bogus. Women don't get used for sex. Women USE SEX as a way to get other stuff. When women feel like they didn't get enough extra in the equal exchange of sex for sex is when they feel "used". I post this article at least once a week if not once a day. https://assets.csom.umn.edu/assets/71503.pdf The social exchange analysis emphasizes that sex is a female resource, so t…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 04:35 PM
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Since we're talking about this today: Traditional heterosexual dating and courtship scripts (e.g., men pay for date, women take partner’s last name in marriage) reflect different standards of desirable behavior for women and men. Analogous to sexual double standards, dating double standards reflect the greater agency and power traditionally accorded to men in society. In the present study, we investigated factors related to young heterosexual adults’ endorsement of dating double standards. Parti…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 04:34 PM
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Hell even people you just start to date. Like if she doesn’t offer to buy you a drink on the third date you should leave. Now how successful would guys be if this was the effort they were putting forth? Buying a drink by the 3rd date. Women would not go for this at all but its ok for women to do this with men? If she’s upset she is not for you. My bf is well off. We started dating casually by meeting up for a quick lunch drink between clients. Yeah but we're not talking about you specifically, b…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 04:33 PM
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Funny how women have such a hold up taking the lead in dating. "How about this let's do it your way and just whenever whenever the mood's right, here's how you do this. You pay for all the dates, you do all the driving, you do all the planning, you're in charge until all that. Then after you decide you want to have sex then he could step in and start paying for the dates and driving and everything else. But until then it's all on you to do all the investment, all the courting, all of the follow-…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 04:29 PM
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that expect to NEVER pay for anything. That's exaggerating. I said, For the most part women expect men to pay for plan the first date and the majority of the dates after. Now then: Now, most of the couples I know are in serious relationships, with joint accounts so they just pay from that, You're conflating established LRT with new potential relationships in the initial dating phase. Those are different. Have you had that experience where your partner actually never even offered to pay? Partners…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 04:21 PM
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It is relevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 04:18 PM
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Women in the gym: https://www.reddit.com/r/Whatcouldgowrong/comments/12ztpqm/wearing_hair_in_a_ponytail_when_squatting_with/?ref=share&ref_source=link Men in the gym: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RvaZpyo01vQ But the thing is people will react to how you choose to express yourself through your choice of dress. This happens to men and women. Notice how the woman and the man are dressed similarly: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mgw6y3cH7tA - woman https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mgw6y3cH7tA - m…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 04:15 PM
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It's not what you missed. Its that you were missed.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 04:11 PM
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This whole video is a proclick https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pZaSi3XTdoI
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 04:11 PM
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Your singular experience aside, if what you're saying is the case I wonder why the woman speaking with Kevin Samuels had such an issue of taking on comparatively little extra load when she's expecting men to do so. For the most part women expect men to pay for plan the first date and the majority of the dates after. Its not clear from the research articles I'm reading how many of the dates women pay for afterwards but its not anywhere near 50/50. So women expect men to lead the way when it comes…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 04:08 PM
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If a man was only willing to buy a round of drinks and expected the woman to do the planning, arranging, and paying for the dates I don't see him getting very far.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 03:56 PM
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It would be a lot different if women took the lead in dating and arranged/paid for the dates until sexy times. But women DO NOT want to do that. They still want their resources in exchange for sexy times. Kevin Samuels stated it very effectively and the woman admitted she didn't want to do it that way. https://youtu.be/pZaSi3XTdoI?t=280 Baumeister and Vohs wrote an entire paper on this. And research into dating in the US shows it still largely follows traditional gender roles.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 03:51 PM
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https://assets.csom.umn.edu/assets/71503.pdf Sexual Economics: Sex as Female Resource for Social Exchange in Heterosexual Interactions Roy F. Baumeister Department of Psychology Florida State University Kathleen D. Vohs Faculty of Commerce, Marketing Division University of British Columbia https://www.psychologytoday.com/intl/blog/cultural-animal/202206/unromantic-compelling-theory-about-sexual-motivations
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 01:15 PM
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No but it sounds like I need to. Thanks for the recommendations.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 01:14 PM
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Women ☕️ https://worldstarhiphop.com/videos/wshh2S36aqYhvuak0DhK/she-the-definition-of-the-streets-chick-gets-asked-if-shersquos-ever-smashed-more-than-1-guynbspinnbsp24nbsphoursv
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 01:27 AM
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Lol i earnt it. hehe ass-paper.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 01:26 AM
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Steel framed house. I beam and concrete construction. Monolithic Concrete Dome. Something that's going to hold up.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 09:22 PM
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Wood framed housing is just not up to snuff in my opinion. I want something more sturdy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 09:18 PM
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Baumeister and Vohs wrote a whole ass paper saying basically this.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 09:03 PM
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Where is your disagreement?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 09:02 PM
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Where do you disagree?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 09:02 PM
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I'll never understand or believe anyone who claims to want to be romantic or sexually involved with a sex that they have so much criticisms towards. There's a certain irony of a woman saying this about men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 08:53 PM
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Female Dating Strategy. https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2021/aug/08/sales-funnels-and-high-value-men-the-rise-of-strategic-dating https://jezebel.com/inside-female-dating-strategy-the-subreddit-that-teach-1847558145
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 08:20 PM
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The people saying that they've only heard of women having these expectations are in PPD I have a hard time believing. That's the general thought process of FDS women plus loads of research stows that dating in the west is still heavily along traditional gender roles. This is not one of the areas of life where women at progressive, quite the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 08:19 PM
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Most women? They only place I’ve heard about women having those expectations is this sub. Dating still heavily follows traditional gender roles. FDS was a reactionary movement that sprang up when men started trying to move away from these expectations. Here's a post on tinder about a woman getting mad the man didn't pay. https://www.reddit.com/r/Tinder/comments/12ylc1d/am_in_the_wrong_her_by_letting_her_pay_or_did_i/ These arguments that imply this way of thinking isn't prevalent in Western soci…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 08:00 PM
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Golf Clap
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 01:29 AM
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Sexual desire serves as a gauge of a partner’s value as a mate. Desire may either foster a relationship with a valued partner or reduce investment in a relationship with one who no longer seems suitable. Such dynamics may vary over the course of relationships, as the future may carry with it unwanted changes in the way partners are perceived. Sexual desire functions as a mechanism that encourages investment in partners who are perceived to be worth retaining. Sex is important for maintaining hap…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 07:04 PM
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We just had a back and forth where I said that Plus if libido is going to be maintained during a LTR, its pretty important for women to desire their male partners. And your reply was if libido was the only thing keeping the relationship alive, the relationship sucks. Which is a classic strawman response. As I pointed it's not the ONLY thing but its very important. So I highly doubt people are saying that men and women are completely different to the extent you're implying here and more than like…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 06:59 PM
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This is what you started with. I still dont understand why guys care that women allegedly think 80% of them are ugly. Most people would agree with the idea that if you find someone ugly, you won't desire them in an intimate manner. That's pretty much common knowledge. Ugly people date each other. Because they find each other desirable. if libido was the only thing keeping the relationship alive, the relationship sucks No one said it was the ONLY thing keeping the relationship together. but it is…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 06:56 PM
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No it will affect the health of their long term relationships and greatly increase the chances the physical intimacy will be neglected within the relationship. I explained this literally minutes ago. /u/yvaN_ehT_nioJ remember what I said a few minutes ago? Here's an example.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 06:49 PM
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Agreed. Also dating is changing so rapidly in the last decade. The rate of change I feel has gone way up then thru the 90's for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 06:45 PM
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AWWW THANKS
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 06:43 PM
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LOL this is a good one.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 06:43 PM
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So by implication the other women weren't getting any messages correct? Their inboxes were dry? And these results have been replicated on the bigger OLD's? No, no they haven't. Time after time data has shown the disparity in messages and match ratios between men and women in OLD. /r/dataisbeautiful showed the data for a period of 6 months consistently.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 06:41 PM
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Lead by example. Make these post you were hoping to see.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 06:38 PM
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Consistent trolls don't get punished and removed because they "drive engagement" so discussion is driven to the least common denominator.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 06:36 PM
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Show him your reddit profile so he can make an informed decision. And congrats.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 06:35 PM
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Oh so a PH.D scientist explaining how to read scientific papers is whiny bullshit. LOLOL
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 06:34 PM
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Enthusiasm is super attractive. But focusing on virgins is super weird if you're older than 20 and not a virgin yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 06:29 PM
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I've BEEN posting meta analysis here. You must be new.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 06:28 PM
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Ok lets adjust. According to your line of reasoning. If the vast majority of men where sending messages to the top 20% of women then the bottom 80% of women wouldn't be getting very many messages on OLD and coming up dry right? But again, that's not true at all. Women rate men lower BUT they are still messaging and dating those men even if they aren’t “very attractive” unlike men Unlike men? If this were true then the unattractive women would be going with out. But when you compare percentages t…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 06:27 PM
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Because people want to be desired by their partners /u/LillthOfBabylon. This is how people generally work. Part of the whole love and affection thing. It goes beyond sex. Plus if libido is going to be maintained during a LTR, its pretty important for women to desire their male partners. Men's libidos are more robust and stay more consistent.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 06:13 PM
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I'm angry on your behalf.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 06:02 PM
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Ok lets follow your line of reasoning. If men where ONLY sending messages to the top 20% of women then the bottom 80% of women wouldn't be getting any messages on OLD and coming up dry right? So where are those 80% dusty women? That's right, the reality is practically the opposite. Furthermore, the idea of women finding the majority of men unattractive has been replicated outside of the okcupid paper.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 06:02 PM
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You can refer to a generality in the population of the US/UK that has a pretty strong r value as far as trends go. And dang if not every ppd poster is like "not me". I notice this with the women moreso than the men but the men do it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 05:31 PM
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Especially if they post on PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 05:16 PM
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Most people want to be desired by their partners. This is basic common knowledge of how people work. Only a person with autism would ask this question sincerely. Most likely this is trolling.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 05:16 PM
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"I read one source". So you admit you don't know how to read scientific journals. I feel sorry you're that ignorant. "Of course the closest way we can get to the truth that is the most likely is science. But when you talk to people about the science of <subject> alot of times they'll say things like "well you know I can go online and find a study to support anything", but unfortunately that's a misunderstanding of how the scientific process works. It turns out that science works based on the SUM…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 05:15 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/12u54d0/wheres_the_insentive_for_a_woman_to_have_low_body/jh5vibd/
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 04:36 PM
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You mean like this right? approximately half of women in the top quintiles of sociosexuality had been sexually unfaithful to a steady partner; this was more than a tenfold increase over the corresponding rate for people in the bottom quintiles. Bailey, J. M., Kirk, K. M., Zhu, G., Dunne, M. P., & Martin, N. G. (2000). Do individual differences in sociosexuality represent genetic or environmentally contingent strategies? Evidence from the Australian twin registry. Journal of personality and socia…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 04:36 PM
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There's actual research into these sorts of topic. Journals of Psychology and Sex for example. You should at least acquaint yourself with some of this before spouting off.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 04:30 PM
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Hi fellow Patrice O'Neal enjoyer.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 04:26 PM
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Something weird I noticed in working life and social life. I notice that organizations will work around problem folks instead of addressing them. And they will tend to punish the people who point out the problem person. I used to play in a pretty large group for an online game. We would we be anywhere from 10 to 50 people online at a time with voice chat. One member was an absolute dickhead troll. Chased off multiple other members with his behavior. Some valued members of the group spoke up and …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 04:21 PM
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Most guys here don't want solutions. They want to just whine about problems. "Most guys disagree with my hateful warped view of men and therefore I'm going to claim their whining".
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 04:16 PM
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No, its how societies are around the world due to the difference in sexual drives between men and women (generally speaking on average).
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 04:15 PM
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No. MEN treat it like it's a prize, and the stupid men get mad at women who use it to their advantage. posts literal dozens of examples of women saying that if a man is broke he ain't worth it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 04:13 PM
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Men (generally speaking) have higher sex drives than women. Women then use this to use sex and physical intimacy as resource they can trade for other resources. Therefore Societies will endow female sexuality, but not male sexuality, with value. Thus men have to work to obtain these things. https://assets.csom.umn.edu/assets/71503.pdf Sexual Economics: Sex as Female Resource for Social Exchange in Heterosexual Interactions Roy F. Baumeister Department of Psychology Florida State University Kathl…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 04:04 PM
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Hey remember that time you asked for proof that you hate men? Throw this one onto the pile.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 04:01 PM
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No. These common requests are not framed as a boundary issue. Depends on the person asking. I've met irl men who have commented their SO's won't let them have a motorcycle due to having kids. Its a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 03:59 PM
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I post this article at least once a week if not once a day. https://assets.csom.umn.edu/assets/71503.pdf The social exchange analysis emphasizes that sex is a female resource, so that men must offer women other resources in exchange for it. But how much? The price of sex (so to speak) may vary widely. To commence a sexual relationship with a particular woman, a man may have to offer her a fancy dinner, or a long series of compliments, or a month of respectful attention, or a lifetime promise to …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 03:51 PM
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Claim 80% of women are unattractive? Where?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 01:41 PM
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They don't think it be like it is, but it do.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 03:52 AM
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dating over 30?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 03:51 AM
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The other pill debate sub appears to be actively imploding.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 03:47 AM
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Guys is wanting a healthy partner cringe now?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 12:11 AM
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penguins practice prostitution.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 12:08 AM
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You're so incredibly dishonest. liefelijk: Those who don’t “believe” in the history of patriarchy are delusional. You can argue that the patriarchy no longer controls most women in the west, but denying that it exists at all is just silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 12:07 AM
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I like women. As far as skin tone as long as they are between Stoya and Amira West I'm good.
/r/AllPillDebate20/04/23 11:18 PM
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Why men don't want to date single moms. Woman tries to embarrass her BF because she can't control her child. https://www.reddit.com/r/facepalm/comments/12t381i/woman_tries_to_embarrass_her_bf_because_she_cant/?ref=share&ref_source=link
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 07:54 PM
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oh shi
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 07:51 PM
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Its true, can't disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 07:46 PM
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Do I have to shower myself as a prerequisite?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 07:42 PM
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But what if I really like her, she doesn't neglect our physical intimacy, and I don't wanna hurt her feelings? :(
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 07:42 PM
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This is massive projection. You're accusing others of being strawmen without the slightest hint of self awareness and trying to use that as an excuse to ignore the most salient criticism of your posts. Most of your top level comments are extreme outlier examples for you to rage against when reality is much more in the middle.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 07:39 PM
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Respect is earned not given. Or so I hear.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 07:37 PM
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You ask for examples and when presented with them you either ignore them or misconstrue them. And before you ask me for an example of this earlier today you asked for examples of where you are obsessed with looks and I pointed out all the times you mention Stacys in your comments. What's funny is that interaction appears to have been deleted.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 07:34 PM
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yeah agreed. but being cooperative is a must.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 07:30 PM
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Lesbian daughters. But real talk there was a graphic novel of a story of a closeted gay man who's daughter was figuring out she was a lesbian tomboy and how that affected her acceptance of herself and how she saw her dad.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 05:08 PM
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"When women mislead men its ok. But when men deceive women it's not."
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 05:01 PM
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This is hilarious and awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 04:54 PM
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Why does a woman need her meal paid for?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 03:21 PM
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Yeah I agree she gets that wrong. A rebuttal to her on that: The “Michael Phelps” or “Usain Bolt” Genetic Outliers Argument Isn’t A Good One Many people who support Semenya use the argument that elite sports are often about genetic outliers dominating. Usain Bolt had really long legs and Michael Phelps had really long arms, so why can’t Semenya have really high testosterone? That’s a bad analogy. Sports organizations don’t classify athletes by arm or leg length, but they do classify athletes by …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 02:40 AM
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Here's a much more balanced take on trans athletes. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cZ9YAFYIBOU
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 02:18 AM
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Religious kooks gonna kook. https://www.reddit.com/r/conservativeterrorism/comments/12rshrm/houston_pastor_on_how_to_get_a_woman_to_marry_you/?ref=share&ref_source=link Now to see how many hit dogs holler.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 08:21 PM
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We were blessed for a moment in time. Then the real nudes leaked. Followed by the end boss Thicc Rihanna.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 08:01 PM
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Gyms wanting ACH numbers need to gtfo.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 07:51 PM
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Indian Food next date.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 07:47 PM
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God bless Lavish Styles.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 07:45 PM
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There will be less cheap options to buy food and household goods for the people of Chicago. This might pave the way for other competition to come in that will pay their employees a better wage and still be pretty close on prices.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 02:08 AM
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You’re trying to make some kind of point about a handful of people stealing a few hundred to maybe thousand when Walmart is itself stealing on the orders of millions from its employees. So do you really care about theft or only when a particular group of people do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 02:04 AM
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https://www.epi.org/publication/employers-steal-billions-from-workers-paychecks-each-year/
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 01:51 AM
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The study, ” A Downward Push: The Impact of Wal-Mart Stores on Retail Wages and Benefits,” begins by analyzing the effect of new Wal-Mart stores on local wage rates. It focuses on stores that opened between 1992 and 2000 and concludes, “Opening a single Wal-Mart store lowers the average retail wage in the surrounding county between 0.5 and 0.9 percent.”
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 01:24 AM
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Those men are dumb. I don't want a virgin woman that would be fucking weird to worry about once you're past 20 with the only exception being if you're a virgin too. I don't want a subservient, obedient wife. Sounds like a maid or child I have to take care. What I DO want is a cooperative woman who we can agree on goals and work towards together and can have calm reasonable disagreements instead of drag out fights when we disagree. Also if she could buck the trend of libido cratering in LTR's tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 08:21 PM
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Oh you want to relax you say... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mJW-1TrGVHQ
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 07:17 PM
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Lets say a woman is dating a man and they get to the point in dating where they have sex. And the woman decides that for whatever reason, after they got intimate she realized this man is not for her and she stops seeing him. Did she do anything wrong in that instance? I would think not but I'm asking for other input.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 03:49 PM
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Hot women are some of the most insecure and low self esteem people on Earth. Oh the irony.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 01:02 PM
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Do they store dna after doing the paternity test now? I would think they would look at mom, dad, and kid and once they make the determination of parentage they would discard the dna. HeLa cells have caused the creation of pretty strict guidelines of keeping biological matter from people without consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 12:53 PM
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The fact you instantly chose to focus on 30 year old men and underage women, instead acknowledging young women being found attractive by their peers, which a lot of young men don't get to experience is EXACTLY a strawman. (The spirit of what the person you replied to was getting at). Its the literal textbook definition of a strawman. You constructed an argument that no one was making so you could more easily defeat it. That's a strawman.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 03:05 AM
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Yeah, 14 year old girls love being catcalled and leered at by 30 year old men. That is a strawman.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 02:45 AM
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Outliers.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 02:26 AM
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Go ahead and ask women what age they first started getting sexual attention from adult men. Now you're changing what you said.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 02:24 AM
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Strawman
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 02:14 AM
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Ok if we're just talking physical needs then you ready to cut off your limbs?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 02:11 AM
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Citation needed. There's loads of academic literature that cover this. Educate yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 02:09 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/dankvideos/comments/12ookdq/delusion/
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 02:04 AM
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Remember the reason that she's so angry and goes on about "men chasing Stacey" is they didn't choose her and she can't fucking stand it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 03:06 PM
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I will forever support women shitting on us for wanting to financially abort babies while at the same time forcing women to birth babies with no support whatsoever. George Carlin breaks it down: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SgjGwOByays “Boy, these conservatives are really something, aren't they? They're all in favor of the unborn. They will do anything for the unborn. But once you're born, you're on your own. Pro-life conservatives are obsessed with the fetus from conception to nine months. A…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 04:15 AM
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Don't date robots https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wJ6knaienVE Billy would work hard to make money with his paper route then he'd used the money to buy dinner for Mavis thus earning a slim chance to perform the reproductive act. But in a world where teens can date robots why should he bother why should anyone bother? And all civilization was just an effort to impress the opposite sex and sometimes the same sex. Futurama with the hard truths
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 03:59 AM
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More the background check. In which case, no. And you can't use my phone either.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 01:07 AM
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If I had two looks matched women no way am I dealing with the bitchy mean girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 01:02 AM
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She quit posting.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 11:09 PM
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Onlyfans girls facing new competition. https://www.reddit.com/r/shitposting/comments/12kmn6o/women_of_reddit/
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 11:08 PM
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I dont know that Confucianism or Buddhism is as problematic.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 11:01 PM
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I would definitely ask a woman if she's asking for my social media because she wants to get to know me better or if she's trying to use it as a form of a background check.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 10:52 PM
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What many men claim: "Women hate seeing men express their feelings!" I have never seen this. Just because you haven't personally seen this doesn't mean anything. This was the same argument white people used all the time to deny the very real experiences of racism that minority groups experienced. Until cameras became more widespread and it turns out they were telling the truth. There's a very real chance you live a very sheltered, limited experience. Most men I talk to don't have this problem. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 10:51 PM
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The past 3 years if somebody is seriously still going with the "trust the experts" card.......okay good for you lol, won't be me though The scientific method and science is still the best we have. Strong "The Demon Haunted World" vibes here.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 09:26 PM
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You know you can just not reply to the person right?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 09:24 PM
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All Abrahamic religions are problematic.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 09:24 PM
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Its bullshit honestly. My dad is missing the top of his left ear from my mom slamming his head in a van door. My sister sent a friend home with a line across his neck from holding a straight razor to it. Both of my ex's have put hands on me. More and more research is showing that women strike first in regards to DV in hetero relationships. In fact in relationships where the IPV in non reciprocal its the woman doing it. So basically we have a situation where we know men believe in violence, women…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 03:51 PM
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I always get a kick out of "you hate men" dogma you guys ascribe to the woman here. Hmm Doesnt change the fact that the manosphere and a bunch of men in PPD dont actually care about being oppressed. They just want to bitch at women. And https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/12coxl9/daily_community_chat_megathread/jf3i3la/ If you took the tone and content of those posts out of PPD and put them on any sort of social media, especially if there were sex/gender flipped, the majority woul…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 03:47 PM
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The hardest part of life, for most people I think, is getting rid of resentment of other people who do/are/were given better than you. This is what the billionaires and millionaires who don't pay taxes etc want everyone else to understand. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QPKKQnijnsM
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 03:44 PM
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it's still the thief's fault even if you didn't lock your house. Gunnery Sargent Hartman enters the chat https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DjIOYOYIErc Plus talk to motorcycle people who subscribe to ATGATT. I would say that when it comes to personal responsibility the exception is women and their revealing clothing, not everything else. Clothing are a form of expression. Most of us make deliberate conscious choices in how we choose to express ourselves via our clothing, We can make political state…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 03:41 PM
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Anxiety and possibly Adhd. Grammarly might be able to help.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 03:35 PM
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This is an honest question and I don't know how to ask it without the whole "don't make it personal" but have you had an honest conversation with yourself to see if you're fit to be dating? If we had someone who was male posting similarly I'm pretty sure that would be a concern PPD peeps would have. You express strong feelings of negativity towards the other sex multiple times a day, its a fair question.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 12:39 PM
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Oh god I actually agree with Lilly to a degree. Certain types in the red pill space are very pussy driven.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 12:10 PM
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I deserve that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 06:50 PM
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Oh see you asked me what does he have to do so I explained. I imagine you meant to ask me what does he have to do with what you're talking about and if so I would HIGHLY recommend Sex as a female Resource. https://assets.csom.umn.edu/assets/71503.pdf
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 06:46 PM
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I imagine he has to work for one. And pay bills. I bet he has lots of obligations.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 06:38 PM
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I also remember you trying to label a 17 yo as a child when this subject got brought up soooooo
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 06:34 PM
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You mean Baumeister?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 06:34 PM
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Yeah I need to make an effort post to debunk people's intpretation of the divorce, custody stats that get tossed around as I think it was Destiny or another youtuber brought them up and a divorce attorney with 20 years experience was basically, "you don't know what you're talking about. You have NO IDEA what's happening to cause those numbers to come out the way they do. I DO, cuz I've done this for 20 years." And its pretty eye opening what he had to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 06:10 PM
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Good thing sex is a mutual exchange so the whole idea of "being used for sex" is bogus. Women don't get used for sex. Women USE SEX as a way to get other stuff. When women feel like they didn't get enough extra in the equal exchange of sex for sex is when they feel "used". I post this article at least once a week if not once a day. https://assets.csom.umn.edu/assets/71503.pdf The social exchange analysis emphasizes that sex is a female resource, so that men must offer women other resources in ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 05:59 PM
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Hmm so the sex that bitches if I don't do half the house work even if I'm working more hours outside of the house also expects me to do all the heavy lifting when it comes to romance and maintaining physical intimacy (which are vital to the health of a LTR) so their libido has something to "respond" to. . For one men would understand that it's important to create the right context to lower sexual inhibitions for women and illicit desire. The only way its valid to have this expectation of men is …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 05:52 PM
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You don’t know what you’re talking about with divorce rape. The Lead Attorney has a whole channel going into the dirty details. 20 years as a divorce lawyer, he has seen some shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 09:22 PM
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It's always rules for thee and not for me with perpetual victims. Yes this is how women operate. Also they like to project onto men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 06:08 PM
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I hate how rp will argue that women need to secure a man before hitting the wall instead of working on their career Part of that comes from that women typically want children and when the children are young they want to be stay at home moms to raise the kids. So the having kids has a time clock attached to it and if you're wanting to stay at home to raise the kids then your career is in limbo. If you can score a work from home job that helps. But if your career has you working on site and it doe…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 02:57 PM
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Society includes men. So if we don't give a shit about one another, that's on us right? The Australia Shed Association is an excellent template to follow.
/r/AllPillDebate10/04/23 06:21 PM
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"Men have no standards and will fuck anything".
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 10:47 PM
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UGH that's a hard choice. I think A cuz I'd rather have peace than getting my ass kicked and being threatened with the police if I don't take my ass beating the right way.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 10:44 PM
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"Submissive" is such a bad term for what men are looking for. We're looking for cooperation. I don't need a doormat who always agrees. I need someone who I don't have to fight all the damn time and is pathologically stubborn about things.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 10:41 PM
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Talking about a reverse Arnold or reverse Hugh Grant situation?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 10:39 PM
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No one is forcing men to cum inside of you. Yeah cuz pullout method is soo foolproof. Plus we see how they're going after birth control for women. Here is what is happening. The machine needs an underclass of low educated "worker bees" they can take advantage. And the supply of that was beginning to run low in the US. Now they're going after abortion and BC to keep the supply up and you're playing right into that. Do you believe it should be the same for men? That would be an interesting idea. W…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 10:38 PM
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Its right there in my post history.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 10:25 PM
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they are really crying about abortion shit is crazzyyyyy if you don’t want a kid keep it in your pants Boo this take. If women don't want to have a kid they shouldn't be forced to have a kid. "Keep it in your pants" while we bitch about male sexlessness?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 10:16 PM
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What a coincidence! The people who insist I hate men are nowhere to be found when Im showing men criticizing women and agreeing with the criticism! Your actual post: You clearly don't know what kind of treatment men get when they suggest anything critical of women. Male Youtuber making fun of former Youtube CEO a woman. Where’s the backlash? https://youtu.be/pqyhkMPFQqM Same male youtuber drawing Ellen as a demon. Where’s the backlash? https://youtu.be/svW1vzkEU50 Man criticizing Amy Schumer. Wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 10:13 PM
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Bruh I'm in this very thread doing, what you meeaannn?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 10:11 PM
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If women were more upfront about this I'm sure more men wouldn't get married. "Let me pressure you into an arrangement where you can't leave easily and then neglect you once we're there." But women aren't honest about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 10:09 PM
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https://old.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/12dqjch/daily_community_chat_megathread/jf8evea/ Doesnt change the fact that the manosphere and a bunch of men in PPD dont actually care about being oppressed. They just want to bitch at women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 09:03 PM
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Hey remember this from the other day? “Lilith hates men!” Does not give any examples of Lilith hating men. https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/12blpbc/daily_community_chat_megathread/jez3cc8/ Your comment up above... there's another one.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 09:02 PM
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More of a psychological hang up on women's part. Which given they push for commitment and marriage so hard is fucked up on their part.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 08:59 PM
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People need to start negotiating relationship terms up front before moving in/ getting married/ having kids. If I had known before having kids that my ex husband thought all childcare duties fell on mom except "watching" the kid sometimes I never would have agreed to have a kid. This but in regards to married women's libidos tanking. And before you say it... they controlled for relationship and sexual satisfaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 09:59 AM
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Hey remember this from yesterday? “Lilith hates men!” Does not give any examples of Lilith hating men. https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/12blpbc/daily_community_chat_megathread/jez3cc8/ Your comment up above... there's one.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 09:34 PM
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I've found that Reddit and PPD in particular are about 30-40 years behind the times on this matter. The whole "men want sex and women want relationships" narrative is not my experience of the world. Far as I'm concerned, the way it's worked my whole life is: Both parties start out happy to have casual sex with no committments If this were the most common case then dating would follow traditional gender roles as much as it does and there wouldn't have been the rise of FDS.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 09:29 PM
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I post this article at least once a week if not once a day. https://assets.csom.umn.edu/assets/71503.pdf The social exchange analysis emphasizes that sex is a female resource, so that men must offer women other resources in exchange for it. But how much? The price of sex (so to speak) may vary widely. To commence a sexual relationship with a particular woman, a man may have to offer her a fancy dinner, or a long series of compliments, or a month of respectful attention, or a lifetime promise to …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 09:20 PM
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“Lilith hates men!” Does not give any examples of Lilith hating men. Did this crack anyone else up? Cuz this is comedy at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 10:01 PM
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Yeah that is a pretty dumb argument on dude's parts. Men would prefer women under 30 but that doesn't mean that women over 30 are automatic no.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 08:36 PM
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Women: Men have no standards and will fuck anything. Also women: Men need to lower their standards and stop chasing Stacy. https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/rtsh4v/women_in_a_nutshell/
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 08:25 PM
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Women turning Nice guys = assholes and assholes = assertive men will never not be funny to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 06:42 PM
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Professor Archer analysed data from 82 US and UK studies on relationship violence, dating back to 1972. He also looked at 17 studies based on victim reports from 1,140 men and women…. [H]e said that female aggression was greater in westernised women because they were “economically emancipated” and therefore not afraid of ending a relationship.”
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 08:11 PM
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Did you read? IPV is broken down as none, one way, or reciprocal. In non-reciprocally violent relationships, women were the perpetrators in more that 70% of the cases. So, Women are more likely to be the ones committing violence when its one way. When the man fights back and it becomes reciprocal its reported that its often the woman striking first when the violence was reciprocal, women were often the ones to have been the first to strike. Women lash out more frequently than their husbands or b…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 08:11 PM
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The whole post you replied to is backing up what I just said. Women abuse first.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 07:53 PM
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You are really grasping at straws here. More than likely those women breadwinners abused first. Cuz that is what women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 07:48 PM
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heh I'm just imagining a guy admitting to these issues with getting off and the reaction ppd women would have.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 03:42 PM
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Hello fingers, vibes, dildos, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 03:34 PM
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/u/HazyMemory7 you're the most legit mod I've seen so far. First mod I've ever seen actually handle something like this out in the open. Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 02:58 PM
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In my experience, if the man is not the type to already want to do things that result in my orgasm, me speaking up makes no difference Then you're not advocating for yourself or enforcing your boundaries properly. You simply don't let me him insert until he gets you off.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 02:56 PM
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This you? Men in this situation are also more likely to beat their wife’s up
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 06:39 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/126pgtm/men_are_more_likely_to_cheat_when_they_make/jeapbph/
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 06:36 PM
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Look up.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 06:14 PM
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You’re not aware of the research that’s shows in IPV the women strike first? Pretty well replicated.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 05:39 PM
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It absolutely doesn't. Looks like I gotta post the link again. I post this article at least once a week if not once a day. https://assets.csom.umn.edu/assets/71503.pdf The social exchange analysis emphasizes that sex is a female resource, so that men must offer women other resources in exchange for it. But how much? The price of sex (so to speak) may vary widely. To commence a sexual relationship with a particular woman, a man may have to offer her a fancy dinner, or a long series of compliments…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 05:31 PM
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PPD women love to say that men have no standards which is BS as FAW will tell you. But it is true that men do have a higher sexual drive than women and therefore have lower standards in threshold of who they will have sex with.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 05:29 PM
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Those men are usually subjected to violence from theirs wives first soo, don't start none won't be none. Domestic violence against men is often under-reported. Further, multiple studies demonstrate that in Intimate Partner Violence (“IPV”), women are more often the initiators of physical violence “Analyzing data gathered from 11,370 respondents, researchers found that “half of [violent relationships] were reciprocally violent. In non-reciprocally violent relationships, women were the perpetrator…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 05:19 PM
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Nah women's libido's tank in monogamous LTR relationships and they neglect their partner's libidos. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0e4mfcSASCs&t=600s I want to see a study that studies how much of an effect sexual intercourse frequency has on infidelity in married relationships. Also the idea "just seems like men cheat irrespective" is sexist and misandrist as women cheat just as much if not more.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 05:14 PM
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You're completely missing my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 07:11 PM
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But individual examples don't make the generality incorrect. They be outliers.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 07:08 PM
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Or maybe females won't fuck everything that walks like guys do so it appears that way. If this were actually true then FAW wouldn't have women virgins in the sub. Meanwhile women: https://www.reddit.com/r/HolUp/comments/wb1r70/bro_what/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web2x&context=3 https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/8pifjx/girlfriend_23f_confessed_to_me_23m_she_had_sex/ https://www.reddit.com/r/sex/comments/1s1xr4/found_out_my_wife_used_to_have_sex_with_her_dog/ https://www.redd…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 07:03 PM
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That doesn't excuse you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 07:02 PM
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In my experience men will argue about populations as a whole and women will counter with individuals or small exceptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 07:01 PM
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It's not a filter if all men would fuck all women lol So why does FAW have virgin women in there? Oh cuz men don't just fuck anything. Meanwhile women: https://www.reddit.com/r/HolUp/comments/wb1r70/bro_what/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web2x&context=3 https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/8pifjx/girlfriend_23f_confessed_to_me_23m_she_had_sex/ https://www.reddit.com/r/sex/comments/1s1xr4/found_out_my_wife_used_to_have_sex_with_her_dog/ https://www.reddit.com/r/videos/comments/3vi…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 06:41 PM
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Sex only stops once the men ejaculates causal
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 06:05 PM
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Baumeister goes into it. Women trade off their sex to get other things. If they have a lot of sex, they can't get as much in return for one.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 05:51 PM
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Aba and Preach, The lead Attorney are both worth watching.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 05:49 PM
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SA does not equal rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 02:47 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/HolUp/comments/123uy7c/guys_have_you_heard_about_this_dude_who_predicted/ Kim a literal fucking billionaire and still went after Ye for child support... and got it. Fucking ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 02:43 AM
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I post this article at least once a week if not once a day. https://assets.csom.umn.edu/assets/71503.pdf The social exchange analysis emphasizes that sex is a female resource, so that men must offer women other resources in exchange for it. But how much? The price of sex (so to speak) may vary widely. To commence a sexual relationship with a particular woman, a man may have to offer her a fancy dinner, or a long series of compliments, or a month of respectful attention, or a lifetime promise to …
/r/AllPillDebate28/03/23 01:41 AM
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You are placing too much focus on sex No you're doing everything you can to downplay the importance of physical attraction because that comes easy for women. This is still true: Can't think of many people that would date you but not be willing to have sex with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 08:26 PM
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But someone being willing to have sex with you is the first filter for establishing a relationship. Can't think of many people that would date you but not be willing to have sex with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 07:29 PM
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How long is it until female jealousy triggers a female centric JustGuysBeingDudes to be created.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 07:53 PM
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Why do you say that?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 12:27 PM
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asian and indian men These are the same men. Indians are Asian.
/r/AllPillDebate23/03/23 05:10 PM
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Hey if you want to bring up an irrelevant group of people only to say you don't think their opinions matter that's on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 05:05 PM
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Given how women's libidos tank in LTR's if a man cheats due to neglect and lack of monogamy from his wife where as the wife is not facing similar circumstances then I don't see them being the same. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0e4mfcSASCs 1 Wives are forbidden to cheat 2 Husbands are forbidden to cheat 3 Not withstanding #2, Husbands can cheat on their wives if all of these conditions are present: A) There is an actual marriage B) The husband has to be paying the majority (51%) of the househo…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 03:06 PM
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narrator voice they did not
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 05:40 PM
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https://www.psychologytoday.com/intl/blog/cultural-animal/202206/unromantic-compelling-theory-about-sexual-motivations Some years ago, we published a theory that people don’t like. I can sympathize with their reaction. I don’t really like it either. It’s about gender and sex. (Incidentally, I use ‘gender’ to refer to males/females/others, and "sex" to refer to, well, doing it.) The first time I encountered the idea for this theory, I had an immediate negative reaction. Perhaps ironically, this w…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 04:11 PM
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Women don't get used for sex. Women USE SEX as a way to get other stuff. When women feel like they didn't get enough extra in the equal exchange of sex for sex is when they feel "used". I post this article at least once a week if not once a day. https://assets.csom.umn.edu/assets/71503.pdf The social exchange analysis emphasizes that sex is a female resource, so that men must offer women other resources in exchange for it. But how much? The price of sex (so to speak) may vary widely. To commence…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 02:49 PM
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I'm not sure if either of you actually read the article.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 12:01 PM
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/u/liefelijk if you want to discuss the findings here's the place to do it. The article suggests that it’s cohabitation that reduces sexual desire for women, not long term monogamy. The studies find that its a combination of monogamy and that moving in (which is a very common part of monogamous LTR's) exacerbate the issue. I would think that most people in LTR's would want to live with their partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 11:58 AM
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See you're just ignoring the blatant lying in the first top level reply that characterizes all that as one Atlantic article referencing another Atlantic article and purposely ignores the 4 or studies quoted or the interviews with actual subject matter experts. To represent it as such is either incredible incompetence or lying. But even your representation is totally accurate https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/22268980/ Sexual desire and relationship duration in young men and women Hierarchical mult…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 11:42 AM
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The top level reply in the women lose sexual in LTR's is such a blatant lie. Smh. One Atlantic article, referencing another Atlantic article, which in tern is a review of a book Meanwhile the aritcle references 4 different studies and interviews with actual subject matter experts.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 11:29 AM
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This is such a BS bad faith reply that it borders on straight up trolling and lying. They reference MULTIPLE studies throughout the article that you either didn't read or skipped over in a bad faith reply meant to mislead. https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/22268980/ Sexual desire and relationship duration in young men and women Hierarchical multiple regression results indicated that women's sexual desire was significantly and negatively predicted by relationship duration after controlling for age,…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 11:26 AM
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teehee. Its so good.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 06:01 PM
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This may be what is known as "pandering".
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 05:54 PM
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Well women transitioning to men can't compete with cisgendered men for the most part in sports but that's a very narrow scope. Sometimes gays are sad when they think they're about to hook up with a man and its a Buck Angel type instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 07:29 PM
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I have thoughts and feelings on that too. I support people being who they want to be and all that when it comes to lgbt stuff. But this thread reinforces just how loud the t's are becoming in those spaces and drowning everyone else out. Link to my comment: https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/11l1krg/daily_community_chat_megathread/jbc9lbo/ My comment: https://www.reddit.com/r/lgbt/comments/11l683l/get_off_this_sub_if_you_disagree_with_trans/?ref=share&ref_source=link https://i.img…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 07:27 PM
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I explain my thoughts more in depth here: https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/11op2u4/feminism_discussion_weekly_discussion_thread/jcjze53/
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 11:51 AM
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I can say personally as a straight woman I’ve been to lesbian bars and have had a great time That's cool. However there's only like 20-ish or so lesbian bars in the country. This link has it at 15 and this one has it at 21. If straight women had been supporting their fellow women more I feel there wouldn't be such a low number. Gay bars are in the 100's at least. The few times I’ve been to gay bars it was not strictly men, men and women and majority were gay. Right. But lesbians don't always fee…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 11:51 AM
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Its funny seeing the circle of diversity complete itself when its comes to various nerd communities as they gained popularity over the decades. Table top gaming, online computer gaming, etc. What I find particularly interesting is that the fact that gay clubs and bars exists but lesbian bars and clubs are almost extinct. What gets me about this is that gay men are a very small portion of society. And they're not swimming in money despite that says they are. But even with their small proportion o…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 08:54 PM
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Men swipe right on everyone. Doesn't matter. Sure if a man is willing to fuck you it doesn't guarantee he's willing to date you. But he does have to be willing to fuck you. Because how many men do you know that will date you but aren't willing to fuck you? There you go. Another day of PPD acting like physical attraction isn't the first filter for establishing a relationship. Now I'm sure you'll want to get the last word in but I'm not going to read it or respond because at this point you're wast…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 06:30 PM
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You're so wrong in that assumption that its actually pretty funny. Data is beautiful used to allow data from OLD and you could see there plain as day. Keep in mind I said "Also women have 100's of men to choose from." each one of those potential matches, or guy that swiped on the girl, was a choice. Just that women say no to most of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 05:13 PM
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Did you read the first posting rule of r feminism? It's in their sidebar.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 04:17 PM
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In the academic readings I’ve read about the dark triad traits and how antisocial personalities in men correlate with dating success I don’t read the same being reflected witb regards to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 03:54 PM
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"most women don't have a plethora of suitors. Except for those suitors, those suitors don't count." Sure if a man is willing to fuck you it doesn't guarantee he's willing to date you. But he does have to be willing to fuck you. Because how many men do you know that will date you but aren't willing to fuck you? There you go. Another day of PPD women acting like physical attraction isn't the first filter for establishing a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 12:50 PM
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Just a typical woman. Women from their own mouths talk about this, research backs the numbers up, and men have seen it when they do a faceswap filter and go on apps as women. The difference in number of matches reaches in the orders of magnitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 12:44 PM
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Incorrection you mean. Nothing in the research shows these women are emotionally weak.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 12:43 PM
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Traditional heterosexual dating and courtship scripts (e.g., men pay for date, women take partner’s last name in marriage) reflect different standards of desirable behavior for women and men. Analogous to sexual double standards, dating double standards reflect the greater agency and power traditionally accorded to men in society. In the present study, we investigated factors related to young heterosexual adults’ endorsement of dating double standards. Participants were 330 female and male U.S. …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 12:27 PM
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No they're correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 02:21 AM
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Women are specifically attracted to antisocial, psychopathic traits. Men aren't. The best you can say is that men and women are both drawn to narcissistic traits and those traits allow an individual to present themselves better. But women seem drawn to the other two dark triad traits where it hasn't been shown that men are. Also women have 100's of men to choose from. So if you have all those men to choose from but you end up with someone shitty then that's on you. Men have 2, 3 maybe a handful …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 02:20 AM
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Well I think they should also use their same logic on themselves instead of being hypocrites. When we have the same circumstances as women and the same amount of choice as women you can hold us to the same standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 02:13 AM
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Again. Make no changes. Keep taking L’s. It’s your life. Edit: Let me go a bit more in depth. This behavior is not that common. Literally have never had someone try to choke me without consent, it's not normal behavior. I'm with you, I've never heard of this being a repeated problem too. Makes me think OP is making it up. But then again I don't get out much. Now as for the t. Someone who just chokes someone in bed with no warning/prior consent is not going to stop just because you ask them nicel…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 11:13 PM
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If you have a repeated problem it’s on you to make changes to address it. If you keep getting assaulted on the regular change your life. Or don’t. And keep taking the L’s. It’s your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 09:46 PM
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That one wooshed you pretty hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 03:24 PM
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As Schopenhauer wrote, a females greatest weapon is her ability to deceive, or ‘dissimulation’ as he called it What is the context this was stated? Journal article or what? I wanna read it and see what it goes into.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 01:27 PM
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The onus is on the slapper. They shouldn't slap or choke without consent. You shouldn't have to go through a list of 'hey don't do these dangerous, potentially injurious, and definitely painful things to me'. The default expectation is and should be you don't just slap or choke someone without their welcome. Ok so this person can continue to go thru life not making any modifications and continue to put the expectation on others and have a happy dating life oh wait they gave up. Yes I agree with …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 01:13 PM
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Well what if she's really pretty?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 01:08 PM
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By and large the concept of "objectifying" is bogus and is a way to shame men for having libidos and preferences. Finding someone attractive does reduce them to an "object", they're still seen as a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 01:07 PM
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Dating still very much follows gender roles. Men are expected to make all the investment in the woman. They don't want to be in an open ended arrangement with no idea of where its going. Here's a whole video when a woman is asked to consider it from the man's role she agrees she wouldn't go for it. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pZaSi3XTdoI Baumeister goes into the whole interplay in paper that I've posted like 30 times now. Men started to try and fight against this with walk and talks and coff…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 12:57 PM
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Would be interesting to hear how society changes for women over there with less men around and the gender ratio becoming unbalanced... again. This has happened before in Russia I'm pretty sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 12:52 PM
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I hear you. For me personally I'm 5'9" and dated a girl that might as well have been 6'. (5' 11.75") I will say that I'm supposed to be dead nuts on the "average height" in the US but women prefer 6'+ whereas average height for girls is ok for men and it only becomes a problem when women are above average height. So the average is ok for men but women want above average height. But I will say I know a lot of tall girls WANT to be with someone taller and that is still their preference but will ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 07:02 PM
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Common sense beliefs are the ones most likely to have studies to confirm/deny them. SMH
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 02:56 PM
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HA. so glad its not just me!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 02:55 PM
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I lurk that sub from time to time. I've seen them talk about it. They'll ask one another if men from reddit reach out to them etc and they will confirm that men do but they always assume the men have bad/shallow intentions. Which is funny because lurking around is a faw mod's response to that meme attempting to debunk it and I can't help but chuckle because what they claim doesn't happen I've witnessed myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 02:52 PM
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Its the opposite. There's women he would be willing to marry but they don't want him. As illustrated here: https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/rtsh4v/women_in_a_nutshell/
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 02:46 PM
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Yeah I've run into this myself. My thing is people say "you make the claim its up to you to prove it" but here's the thing. People quickly go from being skeptical of your claim to making the opposite claim or a different claim. And once they take the other side of the argument then they have just as much duty to show why their viewpoint is valid as opposed to yours. I went thru this a month ago with a ppd poster here: https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/10qm427/daily_community_cha…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 02:44 PM
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There's studies and data that go into this. But being a virgin at age 29 positively correlates to its not looking good.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 02:33 PM
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/u/fatsackguy47 OH YEAH HERE'S THIS ONE TINY INVALID NITPICK I HAVE OF YOUR DATA TO SHOW WHY YOUR POSITION IS INVALID. What's that? you want me to provide data or anything to back up my position other than trust me bro? No, I don't think I will.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 02:32 PM
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I don't. But if it was a thing that happened and it bothered me and it was more than a one time thing then with the new person I'd make sure to bring it up and address it beforehand. My thing is this is being looked at a certain way because its sex. There's lots of reasonable expectations we have for our SO's but if you have a string of SO's who don't meet it, then you discuss it with your new person to address it at the start. <Insert your particular sore spot here>
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 02:30 PM
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golf clap
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 02:07 PM
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I mean you either grow old together and die or something happens to where a relationship no longer works for both people. And those lessons learned don't come without a little bit of heartache.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 02:06 PM
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SMH. Take sex out of it for a moment. There's all kinds of boundaries people should respect and they don't. And when that happens and you're the person who suffers as a result are you going to continue to hope that people stop or are you going to start enforcing your boundaries since you're the one suffering? Of course it's on you to enforce your boundaries. But because sex is involved all of a sudden this common sense goes out the window. But hey, lets say I'm wrong. Then that person can contin…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 02:01 PM
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Less inhibited. Less baggage. Plus when you’re older and just starting to get relationship experience the other person will expect you to be on their level and people for the most part don’t have patience or tolerance for that gap. Plus people will take advantage of it by manipulation etc because the other person doesn’t have that experience in setting boundaries in a romantic relationship. It’s one person going into it with innocence matching up with someone who’s a lil jaded because they learn…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 01:51 PM
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Make it clear your stances on these things up front before things get intimate. For instance if I had an issue with my lovers slapping me in the face without asking then when I move onto a new one I'll say up front, "hey just so we're clear, if you're thinking of slapping me, I'm not into that, and if you're gonna put a finger in my ass ask me beforehand and I'll let you know." Communication folks. But rather than do that, she gives up.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 01:28 PM
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IRL they start lobbing them verbal atom bombs and then later say "i didn't mean that I was just angry". People willing to say whatever to hurt someone fucking suck.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 01:19 PM
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What they mean is that the girl they wanted didn’t want them back. Sounds like that guy should lower his standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 01:15 PM
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This meme: https://www.reddit.com/r/2meirl4meirl/comments/74mabt/2meirl4meirl/ People do love different when they're young. I look at it as someone missed out on something that most of their peers took for granted.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 01:13 PM
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I see this get said so many times but it doesn't hold up to scrutiny. If there is "a lot of out of shape guys looking for a super beautiful women" then for each one of those guys there would be a looks match woman who would be unable to find a guy at all. But that doesn't happen, if anything that woman has plenty of guys who look her way but they don't meet her standards. Basically this: https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/rtsh4v/women_in_a_nutshell/ Now life is changing rapidly s…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 01:00 PM
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At this point you know what you want to do for a career? That will be a deciding factor of which way to tell you as far as professional development/higher ed.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 12:55 PM
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People will experience negative outcomes from a lack of relationship experience when they're in their teens. It becomes positively correlated with being single later in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 12:51 PM
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Do men never tell each other positive things when playing video games with friends, at home with family, or at work? Yes men compliment each other. But that's different context than receiving compliments from the sex you're attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 12:49 PM
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/u/liefelijk eats at the Krusty Krab.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 08:27 PM
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Yeah and chronic pain too https://www.mayoclinic.org/pain-medications/art-20045647
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 08:05 PM
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Ideally one would prevent the other. Less than ideal is one will prevent the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 07:57 PM
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I wonder how much of men's lower AD use is due to the sad guys offing themselves and reluctance to ask for AD's.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 07:50 PM
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Nice guys. Incels. Sex is not a need. beep boop.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 07:47 PM
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We're each other's larps confirmed.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 07:39 PM
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