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Agreed completely, from my experience as a short and non muscular guy (athletic fit but not jacked). Confidence and IDGAF combined with a charming personality is... king. Especially in 2020 where most men can barely talk to a women without losing eye contact or getting intimidated. How are those men supposed to lead people, civilizations, armies, companies, etc? They won’t. Jacked is nice, so is tall; and that will get you a ton of short term lays, but so will the other. Evolution selected for t…
/r/TheRedPill10/03/20 01:16 AM
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I am a white washed Asian. I could never nor want to ever be kpop. However what works for me is what girls don’t expect in Asians, white American accent, mountaineer, the opposite of the nerdy beta Asian. It is effectively my real life peacock without really needing to try. Just by “being different” than what they expect you can get girls.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/19 05:42 AM
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Nikki Glaser is a hot mess and deeply wired into feminist theory of what women should be, hence why she contradicts herself much of the podcast. A good example of what happens to women without a strong man to lead them—they are constantly in a state of confusion about life. Her entire comedy act is about being sexual, she talks about being dirty and slutty, and then talks about her desire to be with a good man while all her aging friends get married to nice guys. Female hypergamy indeed, but wit…
/r/TheRedPill09/10/19 03:42 AM
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I like that definition, I must admit.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/19 06:33 PM
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Yeah. You need to get out of your mind. It is the blue pill conditioning in western society, telling men that they need women. You don't need women. At the end of the day when society collapses, women need men. Simple as that. They need strong men. ​ What helped me a lot was reading Rollo Tomassi and his books. It helped me a lot. Plus, reading does exactly what I said above, gets you out of your head. Gets your mind off shit that doesn't matter (like a breakup). ​ Lifting, too, because it stimu…
/r/TheRedPill22/09/19 04:22 AM
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Fair enough. I will never pretend that I believe my definition is correct or the only one. I still like composure because, even using all your examples, composure does not mean sit their and eat a dick. Instead, use rational thinking and experience to control your emotions. Controlling emotions doesn’t mean “never be angry” or let a guy fuck your wife in your own home with a smile. Does killing him, through anger and rage, sufficiently deal with the situation? Does beating him into a pulp help? …
/r/TheRedPill21/09/19 05:33 AM
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I forgot to add that part, martial arts. But yes so many great reasons to do that besides just learning how to defend yourself.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/19 05:21 AM
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Another easy way to internalize: how do you react around unattractive women? You don’t give a fuck. Do the same thing with pretty ones.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/19 12:39 AM
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Agreed with much of what you said. Being an incel in my entire twenties, low confidence, poor social skills, ugly, Asian minority but living in a white world, short, and dorky, life was always on hard mode. When I started to gain confidence, then found TRP, and found my own masculinity, I lost a lot of friends. I think for some people it is too much, too much to see the downtrodden, but reliable dork turn into a confident and assertive man who respects his boundaries. Another cautionary tale to …
/r/TheRedPill15/09/19 07:40 PM
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This is a great way to separate your "real" male bros and the butthurt, bluepill bros. Real male bros will cheer you on and want the best for you because it comes from their own place of abundance. Those are the bros you want to hang out with, because they want the best for you and have your back. It is a good, simple test of friendship. Don't hang out with bros who get jealous, cut them out of your life.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/19 07:35 PM
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I 100 percent agree, and I can say that as a short asian myself. I have a lot of success now (in my thirties), but was more or less an incel all the way through my 20s. I didn't put the immense effort you did, and I didn't even know of Redpill, PUA, etc. My changes largely came through observation and learning about TRP and masculinity in general. What have I learned? Confidence is everything with women. When I was largely the same looking person 10 years ago, never once did a women even pay me …
/r/TheRedPill03/09/19 10:12 PM
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It does happen. There are women that did nothing to me upon first meet, but once I saw her smile, or noticed her feminine behavior, or her enthusiasm, or kindness to everyone, then it can change fast. There are also plenty of very attractive females who become almost disgusting when you meet them, talk with them, and learn about who they really are. Evolution is really good at forcing us humans to find all sorts of varying forms of attraction in another.
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/19 12:48 AM
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Season 5 was a massive disappointment. The episode with Miley Cyrus would be better suited as a children's show on network television.
/r/MGTOW02/08/19 08:00 PM
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Twins with a man who was balding at 19? Yeah, probably not. She probably realized quick he was a complete cuck material, and decided he would never be none the wiser that "his twins" are not his children.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/07/19 09:20 PM
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This is good advice. The main reason it works is not just the mystery aspect, but it displays a level of IDGAF and non-neediness. You can take care of yourself. It shows immediately that you are higher value than her and she should spend the time displaying her value. The TRP ideal is that you display that naturally and that the end result is you are chill, relaxed, and don’t need to tell the world about yourself. “Faking it will you make” it won’t get you far here.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/19 01:32 AM
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Yes, it is the same argument that “men and women can’t be friends” argument, said in a different way. It is a great idea for women to have male friends, terrible for dudes. Being a friend with a women is essentially “giving it away for free”. If sex and intimacy isn’t exchanged for your time, emotional control, protection, excitement, etc., it isn’t worth shit. It is part of the blue pill indoctrination in society (“women make great friends!”, and at the worst, “women love the nice guys who work…
/r/TheRedPill03/07/19 12:31 AM
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My experience in life continuously goes to show that the "friendzone" can go both ways. I will consistently friendzone my female friends, usually because I just see them as that, a friend, or I am just plain not interested. What I usually then find is they find me attractive, sh*t-test me constantly, and I just get sick of it because I saw them as friends only. As others have noted, if no benefits, why deal with it? Passing sh*t tests can be fun when you get something from it, but in my life it …
/r/TheRedPill31/05/19 10:34 AM
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This is true, but I truly DO think a lot of women themselves believe that one day they just want a nice, caring, thoughtful guy. Maybe years later after they are done "playing and finding themselves". Then they get what they thought they wanted (and what they told their betas they would "deserve" one day), and they don't want it, cue divorce and cash/prizes.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/05/19 06:35 AM
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Depends on how you look at it...if he was raised by a single momma that very well may have been her intention...in such a case they did not fail, they succeeded.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/05/19 06:33 AM
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Being a short man (very short, 5'5"), I generally agree. I hold frame out of habit, because life was a bitch to me. When you are weak, people poke holes in you, to see if you crack. And I cracked, a lot. I hit my thirties, got a few gray hairs, stayed fit, got good at my hobbies, job, etc. After time, completely subconsciously, I stopped cracking and stopped giving a shit. And man, whatever happens because of that attitude shift (you stay calm, you are level headed when everyone else is losing t…
/r/TheRedPill07/05/19 09:26 PM
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One of the men I had more respect for than any other during the turbulent times of my low 20s (my first boss, who became a friend to a lot of the young men in our company), who was single, well-off financially, smart as a whip, confident, etc. Basically perfect guy for a long-term monogamous relationship. All of us young 20 something guys wondered why the hell he was single, living in a one bedroom apartment with his cat. Well, lo and behold, he was purposely avoiding all the attractive women wh…
/r/TheRedPill07/05/19 08:52 PM
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Yeah...and the women who pined for him the most? The one he never married, and possibly the one who he never really gave a shit about what she wanted. I don't know, I am not a Brando historian... The point I was making (and seemingly the point of your post) still stands. Live your own life on your own terms and know how to play the game.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/19 03:11 AM
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And Marlon Brando, the top alpha male of Hollywood? Divorced three times... Just in case anyone was wondering about getting married in modern day society. ​ If anything, this story, like many others, is women live in their own fantasy. Lust and fantasies can only last so long. Women were always like this, but modern society exacerbates and even rewards this type of behavior. The best option for any man? Live his own life, on his own terms. What women want, think, or desire is immaterial. Play th…
/r/TheRedPill03/05/19 02:47 AM
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I still really disagree with that. The general idea that you marry a "5-6" is true for a reason. As long as she is not genetically impaired, she children she has can still be healthy and attractive, and often times the wall does not hit the average women nearly as hard as the beautiful women (simply because there is not as far to fall, and her life would likely not revolve around her physical beauty). Many men would much prefer to have a "plain-Jane" wife instead of a super model hottie, and the…
/r/TheRedPill02/04/19 09:18 AM
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As a mid thirties man, seeing the emotional antics of my mostly single and careerist mid-thirties female acquaintances, my answer is pretty simple... Male Silver Fox on the rise vs the female spinster? Yeah...no contest. ​ Shutup and get to work boys.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/19 10:18 PM
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Extremely unattractive women (genetically) are extremely rare. Most women considered that these days are done through their own doing (excess weight, shitty clothing, blue hair, tattoos, and other distasteful things).
/r/TheRedPill01/04/19 10:15 PM
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And different. Accent, different language, culture, combined with stereotypes = tingles. Honestly, it works on dudes too when it comes to Euro women.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/03/19 01:16 AM
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Men need to know and learn one thing. Blast it into your brain and never forget it. The female lizard brain is wired to seek alpha males. Their genes during the ovulating phase and their protection and provisioning the rest of the time. If an alpha is present they simply can not help it. Patriarchal societies were very well aware of this and had all sorts of checks to keep women from unleashing their base sexual instinct. Social shaming, severe penalties for cheating, etc. without that, and with…
/r/TheRedPill05/03/19 04:35 AM
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I have a female manager (one of 3) who has cried (more tear in her eyes and whimpering than actual balling) more than a handful of times, including a few times in front of me. Later on she will talk about girl power and how women are amazing. I actually feel some empathy for these women, since they know it is seen as a sign of weakness, yet they want to uphold the "men and women are equal and the same" story line. It has to be some huge cognitive dissonance for some of them. Talk to any woman in…
/r/TheRedPill05/03/19 01:54 AM
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The insidious part of any of these "debates" is that, when evidence refutes the assertion (that women are underpaid and underrepresented), the next "logical" argument is that this inequality (that, oops, some women are actually overcompensated) is actually OK because it makes right for decades of wrong doing when women were oppressed by the male patriarchy. In our current feelz before realz gynocentric society, the debate stops there or else you are a misogynistic pig.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/19 01:45 AM
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Name one? There are tons, as noted by another commenter, women by nature are sheeple. Look to Hollywood for plenty of once attractive women who went full on feminist/SJW. Best example, who still isn't ugly, yet, is Emma Watson. Although, even if you compare her pre-Brown Uni to now, the slow trend downwards is well underway.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/19 02:37 AM
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It isn't just that-- I would argue that many women who weren't slutting it up it all instead bought into the feminist ideology that a career would attract many men, and now they (women in the upper 30s) are bitter at the pool of men available and their lack of success in the dating market. Many of these women reek of severe entitlement, have very few feminine qualities left (more masculine qualities, a combination of projected qualities they think men would like, and qualities learned through wo…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/01/19 07:57 PM
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It very well could be an addiction. Evolution selected for all sorts of men. The scientist/engineer dedicated to his craft of mastery (think of all the amazing scientists and engineers and mathematicians and polymaths who never had children or ever married, but had incredible benefits to society), powerful kings who had harems (men who could climb the socio-economic ladder...possibly even ruthlessly, so he could eat all the teen ass he wanted), sports chads who would spread their physical good g…
/r/TheRedPill26/01/19 08:40 AM
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Legitimate question...were a huge number of men on here not these men at some point? There definitely are extremists that I *could* consider such treatment towards, such as hardcore male feminists, but the average white knighter, beta male orbiter, or "nice guy", is he deserving of such treatment? Societal brainwashing is even more intense than, say, 10 years ago, before social media. I argue it is not these mens fault. A select small percentage deserve such treatment because they have decided t…
/r/TheRedPill26/01/19 08:28 AM
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I appreciate the post. In Alaska (almost a different country from the lower 48), people still live a hard life, a life of achievement and hard work, and with a sense of adventure. People have pride, it isn't all gone and dead. I tend to agree, you don't need to save the world, but we can all play a positive part so if/when things do collapse, there are *real*men around who can pick up the pieces.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/19 03:35 AM
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Exactly. There is a huge difference in seeking pleasure, vs finding happiness and contentment through challenges, hard work, suffering through hardships, and coming out better with your mission intact. ​ Do not get me wrong, I still fall for the pleasure trap sometimes. It is super easy if you are not paying attention, but there is such a massive difference between seeking fleeting moments of pleasure and relishing in your accomplishments.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/19 04:03 AM
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Men are replaceable, always have been and always will. With the push towards fempowerment and “you go girl!”, a convenient enemy needed to be made. Best thing is to idgaf and live your life the way you want to do it. It is all men have left in the western world.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/18 03:25 AM
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I consider myself very lucky. When I was a blue pill loser, with no life goals, no friends, and a homebody, I learned the hard way to become at peace with being solo. Not lonely, solo. Now in my thirties I am just as content and satisfied with an outgoing and healthy social life as I am on my own. I have my own house. I go on solo vacations and I do things solo, all the time, and I love it. I also love being with my close friends and family, but can do and live life without, too. Interestingly e…
/r/TheRedPill21/12/18 07:18 PM
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I completely disagree. We overuse the term pedophilia, but it is a sexual attraction to preteen children. This is not pedophilia because all these women are having sex with full grown boys, effectively men except in their wisdom and life experience. They get full on erections and probably exude massive amounts of male virility and testosterone, and they probably are alpha in their own schools (sports athletes, etc.). The "child banging" female teachers, are, in my experience seeing these stories…
/r/TheRedPill10/12/18 02:39 AM
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Is the "philosophy" of TRP nihilism? Because that reads pretty nihilistic. I am legitimately interested and curious if TRP "philosophy" has been laid out before. If our basic goal (as red pilled men) is to make money, gain status, look attractive, and bang women for pleasure, it seems TRP is a philosophy based on some mix of nihilism and hedonism.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/18 02:33 AM
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Most of this is spot on. While the reasons are multi-factorial, you can't simply override base human sexual instincts. They can be regulated, but in our depraved social media culture, very few people outside of strong religious beliefs bother trying. If you look at most of these female teachers, they are not uggos. Example here: https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-5454845/Teacher-sex-student-14-released-bond.html ​ I would argue most of them are not married to betas, either, if you read int…
/r/TheRedPill10/12/18 02:14 AM
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I am Asian, and I thought that was hilarious.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/12/18 07:06 AM
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I have theories but times where life was hard and a family unit/structure are literally needed to survive bring husbands/wives and the children together in ways we can not imagine in modern day society. That, combined with much smaller tribal communities as we evolved forced decent behavior and common goals. Now we have none of that, yet people still cling to tradcon ideas.
/r/MGTOW04/12/18 01:41 AM
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You forgot to add...."she locked down a provider whom she can divorce rape for prizes and cash" when she no longer is "happy". Women have the golden ticket at birth. Men need to wake up and cash their own tickets.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/11/18 01:49 AM
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Preface: I am not married. ​ Marriage put the ball in her court, completely. Marriage 2.0 is basically a blue-pilled act, and act of submission in modern day society because women know it gives them the power. Women tend to not like power over men, in their lizard brain it is gross and disgusting. You need to find a way to reverse the power dynamic. Accept that the marriage is on the rocks and plan for Plan B: go out and socialize. Flirt with other women. Add in some dread when you get success. …
/r/TheRedPill27/11/18 05:02 AM
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I think the other way you can look at it, whether you may think it is good or bad, is that the expansion of the manosphere through the free market will and likely already has resulted in it finding a larger audience. The reality is the manosphere still only reaches a small slice of modern society. And in my opinion, the more the better. Even cringe shit like RSD can have real, positive confidence boosting advice for a life long blue-pilled beta. Personally, I am all for the message of the manosp…
/r/TheRedPill27/11/18 04:55 AM
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I would tend to agree, but I think that the true nature of humanity is much easier for men to achieve than women in the modern western culture. From a biological standpoint women are really made for one thing: raising children and then helping raise the next generation grandchildren (if they ever make it that far). Whether it is redpill truths, biological truths, or evolutionary truths, they all really tell the same tale of the female role in society and civilization. Stripping that role away is…
/r/TheRedPill27/11/18 01:54 AM
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While I want to agree, how far people will go to want to conform to norms is actually rather amazing. Not to mention it takes a lot of time and education to remove brainwashing that is occurring on a societal level at all levels of society (from school to advertising to college to work and to dating/relationships). Hard to remove that. What I actually find more often is many women are just straight up confused and angry that the "you can have it all" lie is not coming true. As they get older the…
/r/TheRedPill26/11/18 11:51 PM
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No, gender is indeed a social construct...except when it doesn't directly benefit the feminine imperative (really just a cult). Then it is the patriarchy. Come on man, get it together and get woke, bro! /s
/r/TheRedPill26/11/18 11:37 PM
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It is the life of a man, tough decisions need to be made. But I would kick her to the curb and take custody of the children. If she dies on drugs, then she dies. Hopefully she learns a life lesson the hard way first, but it is a guarantee that she clearly will take advantage of good hearted people for her addiction.
/r/MGTOW25/11/18 07:31 PM
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It is the life of a man. But definitely kick her out, that is the only answer. It is a tough one, kick her out and take custody of the kids. If she dies she dies, if she finally takes responsibility, then a positive life lesson.
/r/MGTOW25/11/18 07:29 PM
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Alaska here. True that. Little to no signs of the liberal bs here. People still live off the land, fish, hunt, and basically live life to the max. Alaska is becoming a haven for lower 48ers who are sick of the bs down there.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/11/18 04:45 AM
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I think your pet theory has plenty of real world evidence. Who are the crazy blue haired feminists? Old or fat or ugly women.... or once attractive women who rode the CC and now know they are going to hit the wall... and of course someone needs to be blamed for their lack of marital success as well as to better deal with her own sluttiness. You don’t see many hot 20 year hotties who are feminists.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/11/18 02:26 AM
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This guy is right on. I am an Asian adoptee in America and this is just how it goes. My Asian sister is married to a white guy with bi-racial kids. Honestly they are wonderful, but yes, it ain't easy for kids, especially the boys as they will be made fun of. Asian women in America are worshipped by white men and society in general, and many Asian women take pride in that while Asian men are basically considered dorky betas, and honestly, a lot are. Asian women def do sh*t on Asian men. Too bad, …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/10/18 04:40 AM
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I always liked Beta Max.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/08/18 08:14 AM
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I am 5'5", I do fine, but yes, obviously you need to put in more effort. At the end of the day you are using your height as a crutch and it probably will have an effect on your confidence. In fact the very act of being mad at a "chad" shows you need to focus more on yourself and not on others. My life experience as a RP man has continually shown me confidence is absolutely KEY for attracting most women. If you are 6'3" and shy and nervous and socially awkward, good luck. If you are 5'8" and soci…
/r/TheRedPill29/08/18 02:35 AM
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Asia Argento is BPD crazy-bitch. She ruins lives for fun, and she attaches herself to anything that will push her own agenda. She reminds me of Lola Montez, discussed in one of the 48 Laws of Power, abusing men and leaving a wake of destruction, all to achieve her own status and money/power. Eventually that power, in people without moral values, turns into twisted evil and narcissistic pleasures, in this case, young dick in the form of a young boy mentee who was clearly an easy victim. I have a …
/r/TheRedPill21/08/18 02:47 AM
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Come to Alaska, it is still free here.
/r/MGTOW17/08/18 01:52 AM
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Nah, I disagree, that goes completely against the American spirit (life liberty and freedoms). We already have big enough government, we don't need more. Social control, which you seem to be advocating here, is not the answer, it is just part of the problem. The only real answer to the problem is men need to regain a sense of what it is to be a "man". Unfortunately in our cucked and demasculinized society, there is a long and hard road to reach such a state. Men in western society failed a giant…
/r/MGTOW17/08/18 01:09 AM
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I will agree here with you, fast food is an absolute travesty. What we should do is NOT subsidize cheap processed foods in favor of locally grown food, but big money is in that, and I don't see that ever happening in our crony system.
/r/MGTOW17/08/18 12:45 AM
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You are on a MGTOW forum and you never heard of (AFC)? Look it up. Only allow it in private? Why? Because hoes and SIMPS, in your opinion, can't handle it outside of a place of privacy? And yes I have heard of keto and fat adaptation. I play in the mtns of Alaska, it is good to be fat-adapted. "Greasy-American food" is another way of saying, junk food. I think you knew what I meant.
/r/MGTOW17/08/18 12:11 AM
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Alcohol isn't a destroyer of men, some men just allow it to destroy them. Just like some SIMPS allow themselves to be destroyed by marriage. Should we outlaw that too? And everything else that your AFC gets destroyed by? Greasy food, check. Sedentary behavior, check. Pick your poison. If a man wants to destroy himself, he will.
/r/MGTOW16/08/18 11:47 PM
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Cold, hard reality. Almost all non-RP men (and some RP men, too) will never see and understand the biological truths. Women are the selectors of good genes, simple as that. Men fuck almost anything, women select the best. When they are ovulating and feeling the tingles, all bets are off, doesn't matter if a ring is on that finger or not. Women ARE NOT biologically driven to be loyal, except during pregnancy and shortly after child-birth. Most AFCs and betas who marry these CC riders will never u…
/r/TheRedPill16/08/18 11:20 PM
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I don't think in any way it is a shit test. I think BP conditioning in society has ingrained into women the desire for the "thoughtful, caring, open, and emotional" man, they think they want that, but they usually end up repulsed.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/18 11:39 PM
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In other words, I don't date my "equal", I don't want to kiss and have sex with another man (who happens to be a woman). Females who take on male traits are not only insufferable from a personality stand point, they usually conflate high T and muscles with the "men want a strong woman!" bullshit. NO! Men want feminine women! Just like women want assertive, strong men. Some women try and override their base instinct and buy into the BP bullshit conditioning and marry a beta, only to find they are…
/r/TheRedPill12/08/18 11:26 PM
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They hate you...yet they want you so bad too. Women deep down love the independent man; it gives them the tingles. Then they get what they want, your commitment and marriage, and then they REALLY hate you.
/r/MGTOW09/08/18 11:53 AM
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" For all the women empowerment that is spoken of, it is ultimately the masculine principle that is sought and respected. The masculine has always been drawing the boundaries and the feminine has always tried to push those boundaries. " And western men are failing miserably at allowing those boundaries to be pushed to extreme levels. Unwitting white knights, cucks, male feminists, etc., are all playing a huge role in allowing women to push the boundaries so far. They are complicit in the skewing…
/r/TheRedPill09/08/18 10:06 AM
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They want beta nice guys to be respectful and treat them with deference. Alphas and Chad can do whatever they like.
/r/MGTOW08/08/18 12:23 PM
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I disagree. She is indirectly believing/saying that she deserves attention from men when she clearly takes no initiative to make herself approachable and attractive to men. Zero smile, poor clothing and grooming, and she is overweight. All these poor qualities can be corrected, and she would, even as a 4-5, still find a decent quality man. She is indirectly asking "where are all the good men" without explicitly saying so or putting in any effort.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/08/18 12:10 PM
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This is effectively the female equivalent of a male incel. If she is not a feminist now, she will be soon. However, unlike omegas and betas, nearly all women (if they took the time to cultivate their feminiity, keep the excess weight off, and dress appropriately) would likely find at least a decent quality man. In other words, female incels bring it on themselves.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/08/18 12:07 PM
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Who wants to bet most of these pics are from 5+ years ago??
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/08/18 05:24 AM
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I wrote a post about it a while ago, but I completely agree. We need to embrace the struggle and pain this life is going to bring to us like strong, RP men should do, with decisiveness and a plan of action. Without that, or if you think life is supposed to be easy, life will destroy you. The first mental hurdle every man needs to overcome is that life is NOT supposed to be easy, or a cakewalk. How boring and un-stimulating would that be, anyways. Know that pain and struggle will come, and have a…
/r/TheRedPill04/08/18 05:17 AM
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" Experienced women see through this. They paw at these men like lions with a wounded gazelle, that doesn't even know its wounded. They massage their ego and extract what they can from these useful idiots and leave a wake of discarded entrails behind them. Yet even after they've been destroyed, these men would cling to the idea that they do still in fact, have an edge." This is what brought me to TRP. Eventually, any man will reach his breaking point, become that monster, and realize he never ha…
/r/TheRedPill31/07/18 06:49 PM
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Agreed, with women now working side by side with men, social media and tinder as a backup after a bad day, a modern woman's brain is constantly being bombarded by sexual cues. Our evolutionary brains were never made to handle this much stimulation. What made us so evolutionary successful (female hypergamy made sure the best genes were propagated) is wreaking major havoc on society. This is nothing new in history, but with the automatic and instant nature of social media and the modern work envir…
/r/TheRedPill31/07/18 06:38 PM
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These thots are insatiable. With no social morals intact regarding slut shaming, it looks like we have a new CC rider. We know she is gonna go get pumped and dumped, will swoon and chase Chad, get ghosted, and here begins the next thousand cock stare thot who will be depressed and worn out at 30. When she comes to her senses, her ex boyfriend she cheated on will be well on his way to success in life with a family of his own, and she will be fraught with jealousy for life for letting the “good ma…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/07/18 06:43 PM
2

This is a good post. Men need to learn the different types of attention women give. So many men these days just fall into the lap of the first women that even hints at interest in them. Even if they could have been "alpha" in their eyes, that attraction fades instantly when they turn into a supplicating beta simp. Moreover, most men will then eventually marry the women who never were attracted to begin with. Women search for these men, and often times, succeed. These latter relationships are par…
/r/TheRedPill12/07/18 01:28 AM
4

I am 35. I can't stand almost all the females I hang out with when it comes to dating/relationships. They all took the multiple degree route for their career, and they are all absurdly entitled because of it. Long laundry lists of expectations when they bring nothing but their career I dont care about and bodies that took a toll from staying up all night with no sleep. There are def some hotties in their upper 30s and even low 40s, the first group tends to be (a very select few) power-driven car…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/07/18 11:57 PM
21

There is still some of that good MGTOW content on REDDIT, and on YT as well. I just wish the forum had more endorsed contributors like RP does to separate the wheat from the chaff. Whatever people may say, there is an overlap between MGTOW and RP. I do agree that most of it, however, has been overrun by the INCELs, which is sad.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/18 09:56 PM
3

There has always been "loose" women. Now, they are just everywhere and the norm. I think a trend towards the nuclear family would be great for society and men, and those young dudes looking to sow their wild oats would still have plenty to pick from.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/18 04:06 AM
3

And this is why modern THOTS are broken, society is falling apart, and women (and men) are increasingly finding the only alternative (to their useless and discontented lives) in prescription drugs. I don't see a fix anytime soon, if anything, social media will continue to make it worse. Men say women want it all, and they do, but now that "all" can never be satisfied since tinder, IG, and other forms of social media falsely tell them that they can do better, that their SMV is WAY higher than it …
/r/TheRedPill11/07/18 01:53 AM
19

Well...she didn't lie....she definitely likes her food.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/07/18 01:36 AM
51

Most modern women are children. She is just letting everyone know up front. I applaud her, even if she is unwittingly making a fool of herself to any "professional and successful" man that she is going after.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/07/18 11:10 PM
5

I have female friends that I am not orbiters of. Yes, not all women are resource hungry trash using men for resources. Most are, not all. I have very loyal female friends who buy me gifts, give me social proof, and introduce me to their hot friends. I set boundaries with them and they know I draw a line, and that I WILL not be there simp/white knight orbiter. Most of them I am not attracted to at all. Maybe they deep down know this and desperately want me to be attracted, who knows. But I have n…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/07/18 02:00 AM
7

Female friends are easy to vet. Simple as this: say, "no". See how they react. The ones who still want to spend time with you will, the ones who don't were just using you. It works for me all the time.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/07/18 01:54 AM
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Interesting. Everywhere I have lived in the states almost all women have roomies regardless of affluence. Almost all of them say they can’t bear to live alone because of boredom or loneliness.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/18 02:48 AM
2

I love our back yard :)
/r/MGTOW22/06/18 04:22 AM
1

Huh? what is the relevance of that to hypergamic instincts in women? Should every Trp post be about lifting?
/r/TheRedPill22/06/18 01:46 AM
1

I am definitely not searching for authorities to get laid... But for the boys who are not unplugged, I hope this is an opportunity to learn. Sometimes an authoritative figure is just what the doctor ordered...especially when they have credentials, conducted sound science, and did not interject with mainstream PC bullshit.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/18 01:10 AM
8

Western women are broken, it really is sad to watch unfold. Yes, TRP is amoral, but still... The amount of women who will be on SSRI anti-depressants is already hitting some absurd levels in the USA, and it is only going to skyrocket. Sadly most of these women are crab bucket...they will never tell the next generation that the lives they led eventually brought misery on them. If anything they will just become feminists themselves and keep the cycle going.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/18 01:01 AM
6

Never meant it is be anything but a topic of discussion. Of course this is not brand new science, but some men, especially newcomers, need to know this. I am glad you are red pilled going back to the 90s, but few men here are. I am so very thankful for sosuave and some of the early manosphere blogs. I agree wholly on confirmation bias. We should always be questioning and evaluating...and testing. Just like those amazing women we all love so much. Peace brother.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/18 03:20 PM
17

I think the takeaway for me, since becoming Redpilled, is that constant self-improvement is what a man ought to always be striving for. It is what makes him a man, and that nothing should get in the way of that pursuit. Focusing on women is a waste of time. Marrying can be disastrous. Understanding these basic things are huge advantages for men who are unplugged.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/18 09:48 AM
53

Women are expert liars. They know they don't like nice guys, they just pretend and hamster it away knowing they really are going for the pot of gold at the end of the marriage rainbow--a nice divorce settlement and a free house.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/06/18 07:49 AM
7

Oh, you know we will still be misogynistic a**holes in the eyes of MSM, women, and our gynocentric society. I am hoping evolutionary biology and psychology continues to take root in our educational system.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/18 06:24 AM
7

I do this all the time with cashiers. They have the most mundane, thankless job. Most people NEVER say hi to them and reference their name. Most just look down and stick their credit card in the reader and leave. So, I always make a concerted effort to say hello and reference their name. You will get more beaming responses and a day made when you do it. Women (and dudes...I say hello to them too and try and start convos) absolutely love it, and I rarely ever get a sour puss when I do this.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/18 05:05 AM
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Single mothers (the ones who do it by choice) are cancer. She is raising another generation of thug-spawn that will likely never grow up past 18 mentally, will turn into a deadbeat, and will continue the process for the next gen.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/06/18 04:36 AM
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It really is a perfect term for what you see in modern society. "Hyper"-mate switching, taken to an extreme. We truly are in a new world where our evolutionary biology is at war against modern society. Everything in life is truly in a state of "hyper-ness". With the rise of the internet, social media, and dating sites, tinder, etc., there is ALWAYS a better mate available, always. I applaud the few women who manage to override their base instincts (as well as the men who stay on top of their gam…
/r/TheRedPill21/06/18 12:59 AM
6

Easy, told my friend to take my picture and to try and get a silhouette. My buddy, we took turns. https://imgur.com/NS05eLD
/r/MGTOW20/06/18 10:57 PM
3

Yes, my buddy took it on a hike.
/r/MGTOW20/06/18 10:56 PM
19

Females love the crab bucket mentality. They don't want younger women to be happy when they are so miserable. Just go to two-X, dating over thirty, dating-advice, etc, and you will see the same BS from older women to younger women. "Leave!, He isn't good enough for you!" etc. They want them to be as miserable as they are.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/06/18 12:49 PM
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This needs to be read more, I wish you had a different title to get more men to read this. Something about Bourdain would surely bring more here for this since he was so well known. Anyways, it really is a great example (and truly sad) how deep the BP mindset runs in western society. You are talking about a man, an independent badass who was worth millions traveling the world, who still had BP mania and, in the end, entrusted his happiness to women, obviously which he took with him to the grave.…
/r/TheRedPill20/06/18 07:12 AM
2

It is in their nature, and that is what men need to learn and understand. Really, they should just stop giving a sh*t about women, and focus on themselves. Even LTRs and, I would assume marriage (never been married), your priority always needs to be yourself first. In an evolutionary sense, that makes sense as prioritizing a women would not have given the man time to cultivate his own skill-sets, ability to provide, and ability to protect. Men always need to keep their priorities first. Females …
/r/TheRedPill20/06/18 05:02 AM
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I see it all the time. Even women in short term but happy relationships are easy to game. Just being different gives them the tingles. You don't have to be rich, tall, jacked, or anything else, just a bit of confidence and being "different", and at the right time (specifically, ovulation time), and you can be that guy.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/18 04:51 AM
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Dude you are going nuts. I appended the fat part at the beginning because it is highly relevant to the post. Her OWN boyfriend called her chubby! And it exposes the sick dual mating strategy because as another poster said, this behavior proves to women there is no problem in not trying to lose weight ( or, insidiously, a good reason to GAIN weight). That my friend is indeed a problem as the obesity epidemic continues to skyrocket.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/06/18 11:58 PM
7

The truth hurts, sometimes. But if you don't want to see leading headlines like that, perhaps this should be common knowledge somewhere on the sidebar then?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/06/18 09:45 PM
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The entitlement of these sluts is just off the charts. These hoes go and get banged and ghosted by Chads on the weekend who are basically in a rut. Quick pump and dump...and they then get the belief they are hot shit, even these chubby hoes. When they don't have Chads railing them, they can go on Tinder and get 300 matches from desperate Simps, go on FB and get White-knight validation, and go on Instagram and get 500 likes from soy boys from her tit selfie. Then when she "settles" for a stand-up…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/06/18 09:26 PM
15

Classic tale of time. Women want what they can't get, but then get bored with what they do get. These women fall for the same ones all the time, the Chads spinning plates who have zero need for a women to lock him down. These dark triads and charmers all know the basic game. Fuck them hard, shower them with meaningless validation, take them on adventures, and overwhelm their senses. Then, when she is high on it, tell her how much he loves her, then ghost her until she chases him down, ready to g…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/06/18 05:33 PM
4

She got security for 5 years from you...because she tried hard to keep you around. Because she had to.\ Worst case, she gets bored and divorce rapes you. Best case but still shitty, she now doesn't have to try AT ALL and she knows that she can divorce rape you...but stops trying. This is why so many women get fat, and turn into controlling biznatches shortly after marriage. Because they don't need to try anymore. Her "security" is there in the form of a state contract that can ruin your life.
/r/MGTOW18/06/18 05:45 AM
2

This is a great post and I see women trying this to me all the time. And yes, i will fully admit sometimes I do indeed fall for it. The women who do it the best will completely fool any guy into thinking they are legit IOIs, even a RP aware Chad. At the end of the day, as always, the same rules apply. Withdraw attention, and maintain your own focus and frame in any interaction with women. 10 minutes wasted with a game player really is not a big deal, in fact, consider it a normal part of being a…
/r/TheRedPill18/06/18 03:00 AM
2

I think you are absolutely right. A thrill, combined with the inherent danger...combined with the knowledge that they live in a gynocentric society that will likely give them an easy pass--most likely just a little community service. That last part is what I call pure entitlement; I bet they were shocked they were "caught". All that, combined with the pure male testosterone of sports athletes, which is lacking in the general male population of cucked losers, is a recipe for this. Cuck and beta t…
/r/MGTOW16/06/18 06:54 PM
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It is a harsh reality. Men need to understand the difference between women who are "interested" in you for the wrong reasons. See a women with the tingles for you, and you can just see it on their face and the way they subconsciously start acting like a little girl. That is that primal desire you mentioned. Women you meet who see you as a provider or for your resources, etc., show a completely different look. It is hard to explain, but seen in real life it is impossible to miss.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/06/18 10:20 PM
1

Anything, at all, that goes against the gynocentric hive mind narrative is conveniently labeled as "misogynist" and "sexist". I saw a woman explaining on the pathetic r/datingoverthirty sub that men who date younger women are sexist. Say what??
/r/MGTOW15/06/18 02:26 AM
7

It is rough when you learn the cold-hard truth as you said. However, a lot of the "toxic" stuff you see on here is not what TRP is truly about, it often times is moreso young men (or recently red-pilled men, who went through a terrible divorce-rape...or were cheated on) who are still in the anger phase. The anger phase can bring out the worst in even great men, but the TRP is not here to hate on women, but instead give men the power they need to become the best men they can be. It is powerful st…
/r/TheRedPill14/06/18 11:53 PM
1

Easy commentary here: " I was out of town for business and she went out with some girls from work to a bar after work to blow of steam she said" - I did an entire post on this earlier...but we all know what "girls night out" really means. Of course, they waited specifically for when the hubby was gone. No coincidence there, at all. " I was a bit upset because she never called or told me she was going out, but I also dont want to be a controlling asshole. - In other words, she knows she can do wh…
/r/TheRedPill14/06/18 10:34 PM
3

It happens. I have friends who are in amazing marriages with very loyal wives. They are ALL stay at home moms, they are all traditional, and they are all Christian. And they only spend time with other women as FAMILIES, not alone with men or women, hence no hivemind and no male temptations. It is rare, but not all women are trash even if they are all AWALT.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/18 10:22 PM
2

And I should say...for most men it is MUCH easier to be single (if they have reached a state in their manhood where they are truly content with their life) than any woman.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/18 09:46 AM
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You absolutely nailed most of it, but you forgot social media and online dating sites, too. This further increases the thirst factor of desperate men, but it also pumps up the ego of women who think they are way more attractive and hot than they truly are. There are so MANY good men out there who would match and make great mates for many women out there, but those women reject them, and both end up being miserable when they are alone and single.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/18 09:15 AM
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Nailed it. You CAN'T REDPILL a woman, you just can't. The combination of feminist propaganda combined with their innate biological nature is a recipe for this. I live in Alaska and there definitely are women who were shielded from feminism by strong fathers and the hard-work outdoor mentality here. On weekends they aren't shopping and going to clubs, they are out camping, fishing, hunting, and working at home with the family. They are old school and those women can see through the feminist BS. O…
/r/MensRights12/06/18 05:14 AM
1

I am 5'5". I agree, weird things happen when you are short. One thing I learned is confidence in a short frame dude can really turn heads. It almost throws women off because most average BP short men are ultra concerned and sensitive about their short stature. You are different and you standout, which builds mystery. Also, a lot of red-pilled short dudes really don't GAF because they had to spend decades being made fun of when they were younger, so a lot of them have natural confidence. I have f…
/r/TheRedPill12/06/18 02:37 AM
2

Good for you man, that you see the light and are making positive strides. Honestly, it sounds like she initially got her own "unicorn", the impossible to find beta fux that all women want, a hot guy who will take care of the kids, raise family, fuck hard, and provide. Unfortunately that results in the total emasculation of the man she was interested in in the first place. Without religion or tradition in our society, however, women will never be "happy" or loyal anymore, especially with social m…
/r/TheRedPill09/06/18 06:54 PM
4

You have no idea you how much you have given away about yourself regarding your total lack of reading comprehension.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/18 07:29 PM
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The yin and the yang, it is a beautiful thing when it works. A lot of outsiders think TRP is misogny. At its core, it is anything but. It is a celebration of the unique dynamic men and women can create when they accept their true nature.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/18 06:19 AM
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Thank you, corrected.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/18 06:16 AM
3

We all have those female friends or acquaintances (or even co-workers) who are completely unattractive to us. You tease them, you don't honestly really care what they think of you, you don't text back, sometimes for days, you just basically ignore them. And you see how they react (if you are a man of value), they text you constantly, always want to plan things WITH YOU, they basically and desperately NEED your validation, anything, even just a compliment. Next time you meet a chic you think is h…
/r/TheRedPill07/06/18 02:01 AM
2

What blows my mind is women actually buy into the idea that effeminate soy boys are sexy. Look at the “try guys” from Buzzfeed. It must be cognitive dissonance for women. Even they are BP in our feminized society. They truly want to believe effeminate men are truly the hot guys. Until they get married and cheat with Chad after a couple years of emasculated and boring marriage.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/18 08:44 PM
1

Yes, I agree largely with everything. As a whole I still believe based on anecdote and my own family that men as a whole were still far more masculine to women back then. Gender roles were aligned, and even then the beta men were still more dominant and masculine than the women. Now that is not happening, and nobody is happy.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/18 08:31 PM
5

Legitimate question, what percentage of men, say 50 years ago, were total beta soy boys compared to today? My guess is we are far more saturated with very unattractive beta soy boys today than 50 years ago, not to mention women have become more masculine in nature with the rise of feminism.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/18 07:42 PM
15

"After being a sinner and taking 30 randos, having bastard children, I found the Lord, and now I am saved! Cleansed of my sins, I am now a virgin again! Jesus comes before you, and you will never get the sex that I gave to Tyrone! But you will get my affection and moodiness!...and of course my bastard children. Man up like Jesus!" Skip.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/06/18 11:23 PM
7

I disagree. Call them what they are. Most of these women want the exclusivity and benefits of LTR or marriage but also want the benefits of the CC. And they cuck and fool man after man with their “good girl” game. Fuck that. A slut is a slut. They don’t deserve good men.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/18 10:11 PM
4

Bros before hoes, always. Only the best bros don't screw you over for women. Those men who do aren't bros but betas. Don't be friends with thirsty betas.
/r/MGTOW04/06/18 04:15 AM
1

Actually there are a lot of men who who feel any remorse when they do terrible shit. Not a shocker most women go for those men. Like attracts like.
/r/MGTOW02/06/18 04:54 PM
3

Discipline is not so you can "slack off" or "cheat". It would be no different than saying, using the context of gaming and Netflix or eating junk food (all addictive behaviours), "I develop discipline so I can only use heroine once a week instead of becoming addicted to it and using it multiple times a week". Discipline is something you cultivate to improve your life in positive ways through hard work and effort when the easier route is available (eating pizza or fries and cheating on your diet,…
/r/TheRedPill31/05/18 10:19 PM
2

Yes, that is what I already said. Do you think NOT eating junk food, at all, is NOT discipline? Do you think not indulging in an hour of Netflix and games is NOT discipline? You develop discipline in your own life so you improve and not waste your time on things that don't matter. Rewarding yourself with an hour of Netflix or games because you need to chill is not what I call discipline, it is an excuse to be lazy and avoid the reality of the male existence: life is hard. Don't make excuses.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/18 08:48 PM
2

Yes, I hear your point. But I also think most people here are readily aware that it is a VERY slippery slope. Netflix and video gaming were specifically designed to be addicting. It may start as one hour every now and then, but it can quickly become an addiction which then begins to hoard your time. I use this same mindset when it comes to food, for instance. Some say "all foods in moderation", but I say that is BS. Once again, processed food, for example, was specifically engineered to be addic…
/r/TheRedPill31/05/18 08:14 PM
2

Personally, I much more enjoy the fruits of my hard work/labor than I do things that required little to no investment. Video games and Netflix require almost no investment, but they also offer little value for the amount of TIME invested into them. They are effectively a waste. I agree that "chillout" time is an absolute must for everyone...I say spend that TIME with friends, family, or other useful hobbies and activities (like hiking, exercising, walking, etc.) instead. Because at the end of th…
/r/TheRedPill31/05/18 07:25 PM
5

I am 5'5". Same boat, I mountaineer and stay very lean. Very large legs/thighs and strong glutes are VERY attractive to woman. I keep my upper body lean and strong, not bulky. It really slims your figure, while still be strong, and "enhances" your height.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/18 03:34 PM
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Hate to say it, but this guy is probably lost forever. He is drowning in BP mania. Obviously did not have any apparent strong male figure in his life, and at 41 and this desperate, he is basically the equivalent of the 35 year old post-wall ham beast green-haired feminist who hates everything in life, especially men. They just aren't coming back. They are lost causes. This is now this mans identity, and thinking anything else is true besides the BP fantasy he was taught would be cognitive disson…
/r/TheRedPill25/05/18 01:43 AM
3

I don't know about a "fraction" of her former self. She is still pretty tight looking, attractive face, obviously took some level of care for her body unlike most THOTS who are falling apart at 28 from the CC, drugs, and partying. I honestly think she is transitioning nicely from her "hot" period of life to a beautiful older women. Not all women splat into the wall at 500 MPH. They should get credit and be a model for younger THOTS to aspire to, not the green haired feminist hambeasts.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/18 01:31 AM
1

I have no problem with adoption. In fact, I was adopted. However, this idea that men in society should "step up" and raise Chadspawn because women can't make good decisions (or, actually blatantly make that decision knowing there are plenty of betas who will pay for her promiscuous lifestyle) is absurd and should be laughed at and shamed.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/18 12:57 AM
81

The classic, "Be attractive, don't be unattractive." And as always, watch what women do, not what they say. They will ALWAYS say they want Mr. Nice Guy, but we all know they want the edgy, fun, exciting, dangerous hot guy that gives them the tingles. We saw all this in action when #METOO blew up. All the beta males went down hard (Lauer, Franken, Aziz Ansari), but you never saw any alpha male celebs get nailed for anything. When they rarely do, it is because a gold digger sees the potential for …
/r/TheRedPill21/05/18 07:54 AM
59

Problem in this particular scenario is he likely had little to no bargaining power to begin with. She obviously did not respect him and saw him as a beta bux provider, only, for her and her child. Nothing more. Monthly starfish sex to keep him hooked. You can't dread in that situation. You can't bargain. If this was her alpha lover that she wanted commitment from, that man has all sorts of options available to him. The beta males do not. Marriage 1.0 before social media, no fault divorce, within…
/r/TheRedPill21/05/18 04:58 AM
17

I feel bad for these fools simply because we were all likely this guy at one moment. I thank the heavens, in my mid 30s, that I am child free, divorce free, and now uncuckable. Some men in their lives will never be this lucky. Some will get cucked, then learn, and some will remain cucked for life and never learn. I pity them all.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/05/18 06:58 PM
2

That, right there, brother, is what turned me to the Redpill. I was such a BP beta my entire life. But I had success in becoming "friends" with women, and I had some qualities that made me a leader among our friend group, but I was still effectively a doormat. Finally, one day, one of my female "friends" was arguing with me about how I should conduct myself, and I totally lost it. I blew up and got visibly angry, raised me voice and told her off. She never talked to me again, and the rest of my …
/r/TheRedPill20/05/18 01:49 AM
1

I think you are right. Google has zero hits except one other article from this person.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/05/18 06:23 PM
42

It is your composure under stress/duress, your ability to lead under pressure, and your ability to be an emotional rock for the people closest to you. It is truly having full confidence that you can succeed and/or survive even in the face of insurmountable odds. Those abilities bring others into your frame because they know they can trust you even in the most dire straights. Evolutionarily, this makes sense. Societally this makes sense. And it makes sense that women, especially, will respond to …
/r/TheRedPill18/05/18 03:24 AM
2

What "feminist women" ever would say :'Real women know how to cook.' 'Real women suck dick.' It is too degrading for those strong, independent women. Otherwise the rest is good.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/18 08:04 AM
0

Spot on. We are in for a long period of bad times as the "old decrepit" women are the ones who started this entire sexual revolution "liberation" party. They won't be knocking any sense into these THOTS anytime soon. It will take a couple generations of miserable THOTS to realize their error in judgement.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/05/18 07:43 AM
1

I think RP, especially the content discussing strategies to become a better man, are where the content is at its best. This is something all men should strive for, and that is where there is overlap between MGTOW and RP. Incels have, unfortunately, made both subreddits worse off. But at their respective cores, I think they are largely the same. I personally consider myself MGTOW, but I also interact with women. But I put my life absolutely before any woman, hence why I still believe I am part MG…
/r/MGTOW17/05/18 12:51 AM
1

Responding to your comment XCKCX about my initial comment, I disagree that it is a shit test. While I agree partially with your viewpoint that arguing with SJWs and Feminists largely will lead to nothing, also simply turning the other cheek and pretending that a war against men is not being fought against us is just as delusional as arguing with them. You either fight back or you lose, and to fight back you need to be armed with appropriate knowledge such as what their beliefs and strategies are…
/r/TheRedPill15/05/18 03:01 AM
15

This shit should piss you off, because this is all part of feminism just trying to get rights taken away from men, while they take all the spoils of the SMP. Not to mention the total degradation of western society. These "boy" (if they even deserve that moniker) are traitors to men and it should not be something celebrated because “more pussy for me!”.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/18 11:57 PM
92

What a cringe worthy waste of time that read was. "Female body types have always cycled in and out of style; yet with men, alternatives to the ideal of imposing physicality have usually been ignored or lampooned. But as women continue to use their voices to undo that legacy of toxic masculinity, a different kind of change is taking place from within the culture: These twinks, after all, aren’t just enviably lean boys or the latest unrealistic gay fantasy, but a new answer to the problem of what …
/r/TheRedPill14/05/18 08:59 PM
2

I largely agree with this essay, but men are also not fully rational creatures. We are still lead by our biological urges and ingrained thought processes. We have cognitive biases as men just like women do. I would say men tend to be more "logical" than women as opposed to rational.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/18 08:50 PM
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The yin and the yang. The masculine/feminine dynamic. Whatever you want to call it. Real partnerships, IMHO, that work, rely on these dynamics to become something bigger and better than their individual parts. Unfortunately, in modern western culture with the rise of feminism and career-oriented women, the feminine has become more masculine, and the masculine more feminine, in a push towards "equality". It really is a sad thing you are seeing today. Let's just be honest...to be a career oriented…
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/18 04:03 PM
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I think that is a fantastic piece of advice and pretty spot on. Make intentions clear early or the friendzone creeps in for both.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/18 03:39 PM
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Funny thing, I despise SJWs like you do, and I also believe that people should have pride in their culture, but racism, you are effectively as shitty as the SJWs you proclaim to hate. Fighting stupidity with more stupidity doesn't get anyone, anywhere. You talk pride, but your true words scream delusion and self-loathing. Find pride in things YOU do and ACCOMPLISH on your own, not what you think your birthright earns you. That is what TRP is all about. Just like feminists think they are special …
/r/TheRedPill13/05/18 12:40 AM
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As an Asian American I am even happier banging white women since I know you won’t get your twisted paws on them.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/18 11:54 PM
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That was one of the most "no-nonsense", straightforward, responses I have ever read. Copy/paste that entire comment and turn it into a "building power" post.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/18 11:54 PM
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The definition of "nice" and the context it is used in is VERY important. Men can be dominant, assertive, strong leaders, and overall quality masculine men while still being "nice". For me, I treat everyone, who deserves it at least, with respect and in a cordial/kind/nice manner. As others said, a better term would be "doormat" for those who try too hard, and straight "creepy" for the guys who have no game/understanding of gender dynamics (saying sexual innuendos in a cold approach, for instanc…
/r/RedPillWomen11/05/18 10:30 PM
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The Way of Men by Jack Donovon. SHort but sweet discussion on what masculinity is.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/18 04:47 PM
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In Alaska, everyone hugs everyone. It is a kind and affectionate way to bond with others. It is communal. It caught me off guard when I first moved here, but I love it now. It signals a higher form of relationship than a handshake.
/r/RedPillWomen11/05/18 07:38 AM
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I agree. I have a lot of female friends, some who crush on me, and they never txt me saying, "good morning!". He sounds pretty thirsty as he probably auto texted all of them, hence the similar response. This man will have a lot of validation seeking issues when he no longer is as natural Chad as he ages. Don't be that guy, men. This is the same as the women who hit the wall and have nothing left after 30.
/r/MGTOW10/05/18 04:22 AM
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Men on TRP eat up the word "alpha" too much sometimes, and I think that is where so many men first swallowing the pill mess up so much. They try to "act" alpha when they really aren't. As we all say on TRP, you can try to fake it till you make it, but that doesn't truly last. Have a mission in life, have passions, and build your confidence through experience. Build an unbreakable frame from life itself. That is alpha. Those are leaders, and those are the men who women want. If you cultivate a mi…
/r/TheRedPill10/05/18 01:12 AM
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I generally agree with your martial arts master. I know a lot of men on RP have been burned bad, but there are decent women out there with their lives in order and who were raised in a strong family unit with a patriarchal father. You certainly see very quality/long lasting relationships and marriages that work great. At the end of the day, you will see a pretty similar theme, men who are leaders and who are driven/passionate about their livelihoods/mission in life and their hobbies. The women i…
/r/TheRedPill09/05/18 03:33 PM
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I just wrote apost about a mistake I made with a very short-lived ONEITUS (minor, but nonetheless enough to ruin the interaction). At the end of the day, I completely agree. Being RP is no different than anything else in life; you live and you learn. You make mistakes and move on. Learn from them, analyze them, and appreciate them for what they are. Opportunities to learn, overcome, and be better in the long haul.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/18 01:29 AM
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Thank you sir. I am still ridding myself of the BP ideals indoctrinated into me for my entire life...it takes time. I treat friends "nice" (not in a manner to gain approval, but I am just a fun and happy dude), and that is probably where I suffer with "female friends". Once they show interest they don't want "nice". And I love that post from you. We don't have strangers vans, but we have epic mountains and wilderness. I have had some fun with women in the mountains...I agree, they love the rando…
/r/TheRedPill09/05/18 01:24 AM
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Grimes used to be cute and attractive, but as she gained fame she went straight SJW. Too bad.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/18 05:55 PM
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God that was depressing.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/18 02:20 PM
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I am 5'5" and I would never even consider getting height increasing surgery. Live your own life, own what you got, and good things happen. It is all we can do. That solution which you give (height surgery...whatever the fuck that is) completely contradicts your entire post.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/18 04:24 AM
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I truly despise modern day feminism. It is such a sad reality that we live in. We teach boys that they are "toxic" and worthless, and that women are all unicorns and can do whatever they want. Women are largely going crazy as they realize, often too late, that nobody really wants a harpie in her 40s with a career she doesn't care about...after two decades of riding the CC with impunity (and glee). Boys sometimes never grow up, and men are emasculated and miserable. Almost everyone is miserable t…
/r/TheRedPill01/05/18 09:51 AM
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I like to say yes, because I was an incel for my basically my entire adult life until the last two. Got fit, started climbing mountains, stopped giving a fuck, learned how to dress properly, learned how to flirt, started eating right, etc. Yeah, I am short and probably a 6 on a lucky day, but I am also a leader, and thanks to TRP, I have unbreakable frame (after learning the hard way...a lot). It is amazing how women flock to that (because confidence, which is rooted in reality, is sexy).
/r/TheRedPill01/05/18 03:22 AM
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Number 2: A nice wink and a wry smile also does the trick.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/18 10:26 PM
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Wonderful, in-depth, fantastic writeup on the challenges men face in this world. A new world, where our base evolutionary biology is in constant contrast to a world in which we are hyper-influenced by technology, media, and other types of influences our chimp brains were never made to understand. At the end of the day, however, the challenge is still the same. And that is...the ability to overcome obstacles, self-improve, and focus on ones mission. That never changes. Doesn't matter how short, t…
/r/TheRedPill27/04/18 05:38 AM
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I agree with this observation wholly, and I vet for women based on how much they are in "tune" with modern society and technology. And honestly, it is super easy to know even after a few minute conversation. I am thankful as hell I live in Alaska because the "quality" women aren't out there shopping, watching movies, and being vapid in general, but are out camping and hiking and fishing, away from the societal BS. I have met some fantastic and non-delusional "traditional" women here because of t…
/r/TheRedPill25/04/18 10:22 PM
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Funny story...when I was a pathetic Bluepilled beta schlub, the first "girlfriend" I ever got was simply due to complete indifference. Partly because I had zero game, partly because I was completely unaware, and partly because I legit thought she was just another female friend. I laugh when I look back because she was giving IOIs up the whazoo, constantly trying to get close to me (I was such a loser then I would just move away...or if we were together in the evening, I would just leave), and al…
/r/TheRedPill20/04/18 11:51 PM
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I know plenty of female friends (all in their thirties, some Phds, a doctor) who consistently reference "girls night out" whenever they get together. They don't even seem to care, and I personally could care less when women say, "oh, the boys are going out", etc. Words mean nothing, intention means EVERYTHING. Move on... Close this waste of a thread.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/18 01:27 AM
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I agree, I pity them. Women, without strong men, are pretty much unable to navigate this world on their own with much success. Some special ones do, but a huge majority do not. Our cucked society full of soyboys and women pumped full of feminist thoughts is a recipe for disaster for most women. While their bahaviour is grotesque as a whole, I genuinely do pity them. I know plenty of decent women (friends, acquaintances) who are not bad women at all, but either believed the idea that career was t…
/r/MGTOW12/04/18 10:33 PM
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Great stuff overall. I agree with a couple others who hint at too much ego, though. Confidence is key, but over-confidence will eventually bring you down hard because we will ALL fall. Perhaps it comes with age, humility will eventually match the confidence, and an equilibrium will be reached. Why does it matter? Because we will all fall someday, and we will fall a lot. Humility makes that fall a bit less, and easier to overcome.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/18 10:06 PM
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Fair enough. I am not bragging, moreso just letting women know that I am not another woman making a comment. But I can handle that. I removed that part.
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/18 12:44 AM
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Any man with anger issues is an obvious red flag. That anger likely stems from a feeling of either being emasculated (in life or in the relationship) or he simply has not grown up fully into a true man yet. Either way, the only way that happens is through life experience, challenges/difficulty, and maturation, and it won't happen with you in his life. He needs to move into that stage on his own. Move on without him. Eveeryone has heard the "right person, wrong time". He may not even be the right…
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/18 10:06 PM
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Rollo just wrote about this in his “Dangers of the Bluepill”. At the end of the day it is far more important to worry about yourself, improve yourself, and stop wasting time trying to define yourself through a particular lens....forget about trying to fix others. That is their job. TRP is all about becoming a real man and cultivating your own masculinity. Women and the positive sexual dynamics will follow. IMO if people and friends are shaming you, you may be trying too hard, as you already note…
/r/TheRedPill21/03/18 05:15 PM
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Agreed, great way of saying it. It is a shit-test going both ways. She will test you and give you LMR or just completely shut down your advances: how do you react? In a weird way, the man who is ready for this will deep down respect her for it, and thus he will easily pass that test with flying colors (for the women who isn't a high N count slut). And my respect level goes up for her.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/18 05:16 AM
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I argue that the "nice guys are really actually not nice" is rooted in real behavior that will eventually manifest itself with time in the BluePill beta. I liken BP rage (aka the "Mr nice guy finally snapping) to a women who hits the wall and stops getting attention. Eventually they just lose it, turn into man hating feminists, and blame the patriarchy. For men, after being brain-washed that acting like a women, being "emotional" and treating women like equals actually gets them nowhere but fail…
/r/TheRedPill21/03/18 05:02 AM
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What finally "unplugged" me from the matrix to swallow the Redpill was a manifestation of my own BP anger that was lurking inside, unbeknownst to me, in a latent state. I was raised by a loving family but a father who was very BP. I was also adopted from Korea, and I grew up in a small farm town in redneck USA. My BP upbringing eventually led me to a state of disinterest in life. I had no goals, no ambitions, few skills, and zero physical attraction. I was a manlet with low T, no female interact…
/r/TheRedPill21/03/18 04:47 AM
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This is nothing new to RP long-timers, but for someone who spent the better part of his entire adult life (from 18-32 (now I am 35) having absolutely ZERO attention from women (zero dates, no girlfriends, total homebody, absolute omega male loser), I am absolutely amazed at how very small changes in my personality, confidence, and frame have resulted in dramatic results from women. I should note that I did some serious self-improvement pre-RedPill from 30-33 (I completely owe it to my choice to …
/r/TheRedPill15/03/18 08:19 AM
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Who said you need to be jacked, Bro? Come to Alaska, where people mountaineer and rock climb at pretty elite levels....because you have to because of the conditions and the extremes. Your fitness needs to be absolutely on-point, comprised of lean muscle and minimal body fat. Think Alex Honnold, not Hugh Jackman. Not to mention...most studies (and my own experience living in this world), women much prefer functional masculine fitness over the jacked gym bros who looked roided up and puffy. Some w…
/r/TheRedPill15/03/18 07:34 AM
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I am short as fuck. 5’5” Asian, 35 years old and 140 pounds but very lean and muscular (I do a lot of mountaineering and climbing). The clothes are absolutely a HUGE key. You need to wear proper fitted clothing over a well proportioned (read, muscular) and shapely frame to show your body off. Wingtips for shoes really help a lot, too. Posture and the way you walk really matter, as well. Confidence needs to show and people need to feel it. Like OP says don’t be an alpha wannabe douche, just hold …
/r/TheRedPill15/03/18 02:19 AM
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I treat female friends just like girlfriends or fuckbuddies. They are going to try and test your frame like every other woman does, that never changes. But the tests are far less often and are much easier to dismiss than a woman you are sexual with. If they try and treat you like an orbiter, you don’t act any differently than you would with a regular girlfriend. Be the man and they will follow and obey your boundaries. Be a weak beta billy and they will suck you dry of your energy and emotions, …
/r/TheRedPill14/03/18 08:07 AM
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That quote has been all over other the manosphere. I am doubting this is a real post by a real woman.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/18 10:38 AM
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Yes, you are correct. Corrected typo.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/18 06:53 PM
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Well said, Rollo. I pity the poor beta bux fools who get married and get the starfish transactional sex that they inevitably receive, thinking the whole time they are going to get a dutiful and loving wife, and that romantic movie sex with candles. It is an ugly world out there for most simps, as well as for most disillusioned women who buy into feminism with their daydreams of what they believe romance is, as well. Modern day feminism is ruining everyone, and the simps and manginas of the world…
/r/TheRedPill08/03/18 05:11 AM
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Or it could just be your mindset... I am short as fuck (5'5"), yet I still have no problems (anymore, at least) attracting women, including women much taller than me. At the end of the day, working on yourself, being your own man, exuding confidence and leadership will get you a long ways. Do you have to work harder than 6'4" Chad? Yes. Not to mention not ALL women are attracted to the exact same thing....just as not all men want 5'11" blonde hair, blue eyes. But, as we have seen in other FRs on…
/r/TheRedPill18/02/18 08:46 AM
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Good to see a redpill brother in AK, @Rabalaz. And for the OP, keep pushing. As they say, the obstacle is the way. Your mentality speaks to that already.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/18 08:46 PM
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tl;dr: In short, men need to re-learn to be MEN again. They need to learn to be the men society, and women, need for survival. Men need to stop being cucks, whitenights, and beta bluepills with no actual use in society. I like your post. Masculine men, by nature, don't need to try and hold "frame". They just do because it is in their nature. It used to be a natural part of survival. It is time us men redefine modern masculinity.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/18 07:03 PM
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Yep, and that is THEIR (the cucked, manginas, the white knights) problem. The same rules apply, regardless if we live in the feminized west where big daddy government is there to coddle the "downtrodden". If anything, the downfall of men in our society gives every other non blue-pilled man even more opportunity to flourish. Be the best man you can be regardless. The 48 Laws and basic evolutionary biology are always applicable.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/18 08:37 PM
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tl;dr version: Own your own life. Don't expect handouts from others; that brings zero satisfaction, contentment, or success. Don't fall into the frame of others, but instead let others follow you. How? By taking ownership of your own life, your own goals, and your own fuck-ups. Carpe diem bitches.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/18 07:52 PM
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Hey brother, I feel for you and I hear you. Korean American in the USA. That same hidden bias lurks here too. I dealt with it for years and I had no outlet. It was a huge struggle for me. Never had girlfriends through college and my twenties. Took me a long time and a lot of self improvement and periods of loneliness to see the light. Trust me, just being cognizant and aware as you are will give you a huge leg up in life. Personally I say stay there, understand that your life will be difficult, …
/r/MGTOW11/01/18 10:02 PM
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Cultural conditioning . No different than what it is happening in most of the western world with men becoming increasingly effeminate. Teach men to worship women for the good of women. If you are taught young that being effeminate, being chivalrous, wearing skinny jeans and makeup, having plastic surgery to look a certain way, well, it is all that they know. It also happens with the women, too, however. They have their own identity problems.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/18 03:41 PM
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I am a Korean American. Agreed about the Korean culture. Thankfully being beta soy boys isn't necessarily in our blood...but more so the culture itself. Be the best you, whatever that is. It is all we can do. Fuck what anyone else says.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/18 02:27 PM
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Absolute gold mine of incredible information here, said in a well-thought out way using real evolutionary biology to back it up. And said with a bit of hope for “man-kind”. I would use this as a first read for every 25 year old lost male out there who has no vision or direction but instead endlessly chases pussy until the bitter end. Usually ending as a broken man who goes MGTOW or INCEL and says “enjoy the decline”. Fuck that. It is up to us men to be the men women demand of us...and that socie…
/r/TheRedPill05/12/17 03:40 AM
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Disagree highly, and trying to compare oneself to someone else (older or younger) is a strategy for failure. That is BP bullshit that will fuck you for the remaining years of your life. Do you think Michael Jordan would have become Jordan if he was the best badass his whole life? Maybe. But I would guess probably not. It took a lot of anguish and suffering to achieve his goal....to dominate and prove to others his own worth. Even talking about rich young children...or women in modern day society…
/r/TheRedPill30/11/17 08:29 AM
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Ok cool. So it is an "elephant in the room", so do we just not talk about it because it is too late? Why are we here in the Redpill to begin with? And geez, if it ain't rocket science, than surely more people would be following Jordan Peterson's words since it would benefit them greatly (BTW I love Mr. Peterson). Sorry brother. It ain't vibes. It is real life. I can hold on to my past and let it torment me (yeah I was one of those gaming losers you mention), or I can own my past and let it set t…
/r/TheRedPill30/11/17 07:49 AM
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Umm...Cosby was drugging his victims...there is no comparison here. He was a creep and an awful person. If you keep track of most of the people getting canned recently they were either BP as fuck or gross as fuck (Lauer, Weinstein, Keiler, O'Reilly, etc. I am not validating the witch hunt, but it does validate the AF/BB that we all know so well. AF can get away with it much easier than some lame attempt by a fatass sicko like Weinstein or a mangina like Lauer.
/r/MGTOW30/11/17 07:04 AM
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5'5" doesn't go very far in the weight dept when you are lean. Plus weight in general is not good for mountaineering or rock climbing. Have to be lean as possible when it comes to efficiency. I call it "usable" muscle.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/17 04:00 AM
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Good to hear man. The future is bright for you. The earlier you learn the better. Some men never have an opportunity to learn. Get married early in life. Never took the redpill. Get divorce raped, then they do it all over again. Then they hit 50 and realize they didn't do anything with their lives. You have tons of time to realize your potential.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/17 11:32 PM
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Agreed. I don't touch soy with a 10 foot stick. Too much phytoestrogen and too much processing. It is truly gross stuff.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/17 11:31 PM
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Everyone has a story to tell, an experience to share. You'd do best in this life not to invalidate someone until you meet them, listen to their story, or understand their experience. If you just want to "attract" women and nothing else, PUA will do you and others well.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/17 07:48 PM
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Climbing and mountaineering and camping, not social? I disagree highly. I have a stable and very supportive group of friends with a "FILGO" mindset (Fuck it Lets Go). And we have a bond that most people will never have because we trust one another and we go through hell together. And I don't say "fuck happiness", I say fuck searching for a human emotion of any kind for your life goals, making all your life choices based off an emotion. Stoicism helps with that by accepting ALL the human emotions…
/r/TheRedPill29/11/17 06:59 PM
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Well, it was partly allegorical... But yes, being 100% literal, of course, don't do stupid shit. That pertains to all aspects of life.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/17 03:49 PM
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There really isn't an all-encompassing definition, but for me, it was the built-in anger that was deep and lurking, one that you would never see 99 percent of the time. It comes from a sense of purposelessness, from a lack of identity, from a lack of masculine upbringing. For other men, it comes from rejection from women when they play the role of "Mr. Nice Guy"...and eventually get rejected time and time again (another piece of societal BS that is preached to young men). Mine was further enhanc…
/r/TheRedPill29/11/17 03:43 PM
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I agree whole-heartedly. Comfort should be very short lived, and I believe we should always be seeking some level of personal discomfort. Eventually you reach a point where almost nothing, except extreme physical pain, fazes you.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/17 03:26 PM
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I haven't read that, but I have heard it is a worthy read. May check it out and add it to my list shortly. Currently obsessed with evolutionary biology.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/17 03:25 PM
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It is an interesting place when it comes to women. The female "adventurers" in the outdoors are probably more masculine than most of the rest of the country's men, but oh my, once you get tapped into that community, there is a never-ending reservoir of down to earth and highly attractive women. Oh, and we get a TON of Europeans in Alaska. There is a huge research community here because of the high Arctic. But yes, when I first got here, I thought the same thing. You just need to put yourself int…
/r/TheRedPill29/11/17 03:23 PM
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"I really needed this today’! 3 weeks till my 36th birthday and my life is no way how I imagined it would be….single, no kids, a job but no career…sometimes it feels like I’m alone and this reminded me that I’m not." -The story of pretty much every modern American woman.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/10/17 02:39 AM
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This is where I feel the Stoics in classical western philosophy had it nailed. If there were a red pill philosophy, Stoicism would be it.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/17 09:10 PM
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