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1

Dude eat more, 600 calories a day is extremely low
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 10:33 AM
16

Yeah lol for me personally I’d rather have no woman than an unfaithful woman who also throws me the odd bone and sleeps with me every now and then.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 02:31 AM
2

People these days shit all over cold approach and think it is “creepy”, which deters people from trying nowadays
/r/seduction13/10/22 12:44 PM
2

Gotta love how wholesome this community is these days— a few years ago it was cringe PUA stuff like 90% of the time. Let’s go!
/r/seduction18/08/22 02:51 PM
8

I mean yeah I’m in a long term relationship that’s been exclusive from day 1 (made moves fast lol) and I can’t say that I can love anyone else right now like I love her. Obviously if we broke up I’d probably love someone else eventually like this but right now, absolutely not. It’s so deep and lasting.
/r/seduction18/08/22 01:50 AM
12

Hm I guess for me/my gf my expectation (as is hers, to my knowledge) is that while we may meet others that we are compatible with, ultimately we love each other and we choose each other above all others. Ex. I was studying abroad and met an Austrian girl that I felt like I’d go for/bond with if I was single, but no actual feelings emerged other than genuine friendship because I’m with my girlfriend. Does that make sense?
/r/seduction18/08/22 01:45 AM
45

How did the last one work? Also, how is that not emotional cheating (I’d expect my gf to break up with me if I confessed feelings to someone else).
/r/seduction18/08/22 12:09 AM
5

Wait the thing about Noah…that actually happened?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 08:53 PM
1

Yes to what? I’ve absolutely thought with my dick before but never when it comes to someone who is married/in a relationship.
/r/seduction01/08/22 05:01 PM
2

Nah thats more like thinking with your dick
/r/seduction01/08/22 04:52 PM
-1

That’s wrong and makes you an asshole. Don’t enable someone to cheat. Also, if they cheat with you they’ll cheat on you.
/r/seduction01/08/22 03:23 PM
0

Nah I wouldn’t want to fuck a stripper. I like my women to have some self respect and ambition in life, thanks.
/r/seduction25/07/22 02:46 AM
1

Especially at the gym.
/r/seduction25/07/22 02:45 AM
9

No, not really. The complaint is more about when a guy misleads a girl about his true intentions (wanting a relationship vs. wanting to just hook up), gets the girl excited, and then leaves. In this paradigm the dude is absolutely at fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 04:45 PM
1

And I never said anything about a first date being the be all end all. But if a girl sleeps with a guy after a few weeks and makes me wait 6 months, why would I NOT want to ask questions why?
/r/seduction21/06/22 09:19 PM
0

And that’s not my point at all. My point is: a) it’s reasonable to wonder why a girl would want to do something with another man that they won’t with you and b) that holding sex over someone’s head like a “reward” is unhealthy.
/r/seduction21/06/22 09:10 PM
6

Because if you slept with a guy on date 1 and then make the next guy wait 6 months, it’s hard for guy 2 not to wonder why guy 1 got sex immediately. And in my case, I’d definitely be asking why and want an actual reason (ex. I was pressured). My hard and fast rule is: it’s ok to have sexual boundaries etc. but I expect that the same boundaries have been given to previous guys when they were at my stage.
/r/seduction21/06/22 08:20 PM
1

Social reputation being destroyed? Unless you literally go up to women on campus with your dick out, no one is going to actively care that you were rejected by someone. Rejection happens all the time. Just take the rejection with grace and agree to be friends if that’s what OP wants (tbh I’d recommend it because he could possibly get intros to other girls he may be interested in).
/r/seduction21/06/22 05:28 PM
14

So? Worst that can happen is she says no. Life goes on. You move on to the next girl.
/r/seduction21/06/22 05:03 AM
5

Because you don’t want to come across as desperate and raise the alarm right away.
/r/seduction26/05/22 03:11 PM
-23

Either that or older women haven’t been fucked in a while and want an easy lay
/r/seduction22/05/22 12:22 AM
2

Well if she’s below the age of consent it’s a problem— same with a guy. I wouldn’t expect a 12 year old to be able to properly give consent, male or female.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 12:45 AM
2

That’s true— case in point this girl and I met a few months before college at an event, literally sexted and FaceTime before we met up at school (same college), and then I literally thought she was so down for me but she ended up not wanting anything when we finally met up. Dodged bullet looking back though, since my current SO is far better.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 02:55 PM
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OP question for you— why do you have a crush on someone else if you’re exclusive with a person already? Kinda shitty imo
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 04:59 AM
2

Great mentality to have. Even better when you apply to all aspects of your life— friends, job searching, bosses etc. Abundance mentality is everything.
/r/seduction19/11/21 02:30 AM
7

Ngl you sound like a NiceGuy lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 03:37 PM
6

Lmao— maybe most emotionally damaged, insecure or vulnerable women do that but women who are stable and not emotionally damaged usually know better than to fall for some “thug”‘s mind games.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 03:24 PM
17

Yeah TRP acts like every single woman is about to cheat on their partner given the right opportunity/as soon as the guy is out of sight. It’s pretty sad ngl. Imagine going through life thinking that no woman would ever want to stay with you unless you act distant and “alpha” because of their “hamster brain”.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 01:06 PM
3

You can be physically attracted to someone but not emotionally.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 11:42 AM
2

Op I’d just tell her you’re not interested and let her bratty attitude go into overdrive as she now wants what she can’t have.
/r/seduction09/10/21 10:57 PM
5

Lmao what are you talking about? With bodies like that? In 70% obese america? Come on
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 10:16 PM
10

I drink straight black coffee, thats healthier than a Frappuccino or whatever from Starbucks lol
/r/seduction07/09/21 11:21 AM
8

That’s where people like Elliott Rodgers went wrong. OP you should look him up. This dude literally got butthurt because no one would approach him (even though he was rich or whatever) so he shot up a sorority house. Not saying you’ll do that but just take a look at this guy to see how incredulous you’re being.
/r/seduction03/09/21 01:03 PM
1

Girls that don’t like straightforward guys are probably ones that you don’t want to be with anyway. What, you want me to play games to get your attention? The girl isn’t that special lol I’ll go for somebody who actually respects that I directly approached them and was genuine about why I was speaking to them
/r/seduction22/08/21 05:30 AM
5

Lmao what a non sequitor
/r/seduction21/08/21 10:22 PM
1

Then she isn’t interested lol
/r/seduction20/08/21 10:51 PM
1

If you’re getting called a creep after you claim a woman has shown interest…she was never interested buddy.
/r/seduction16/08/21 09:22 PM
3

Lmao my girlfriend likes my nicer side and every time I tell her about not caring about someone/hurting someone she gets all mad and says “that’s not what I see in you”. She’s been with me for like 4 years. Think the larger takeaway is that some girls want some meathead bully but those are probably not the girls you want to be around. Why sacrifice your own morals just for a relationship/sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 01:22 PM
0

If anything he completely disproved your point lmao
/r/seduction14/08/21 08:37 PM
1

I mean I’m 22 years old approaching women in their 20s lmao at what point do I get to say I’m with a real adult girl then
/r/seduction11/08/21 10:04 PM
2

Nah I’ve seen enough times when a friend and a girl are vibing and the friends start to drag the girl away/cockblock my friend. The trick is to instead be friends with everyone and make them all like you, and then text the girl you like one on one after the interaction.
/r/seduction11/08/21 10:02 PM
1

Talk to all 3 girls, because if you isolate the one girl you like the other two will try to grab their friend back/think you’re a creep and interfere in your interaction. Get them to all like you. Get all 3 numbers. Then text the girl that you like after you’re done.
/r/seduction11/08/21 10:01 PM
1

What if you don’t let your guard down and stay attractive?
/r/askTRP17/06/21 02:00 AM
2

Lol how is partying a loser trait? Maybe if it’s your only interest but if you do other stuff it’s fine right
/r/askTRP11/06/21 11:45 PM
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I mean listen man, my theory on cheating is that it’ll happen regardless of if I’m there or not, regardless of how many rules I put in place on who she can and can’t be with, or where she can and can’t go— simply because people who cheat are just assholes. I don’t think my being there with her will change her behavior if she really is the kind of person to betray an SO’s trust like that. The only thing that I can control is my willingness to leave the relationship rather than stick it out with a…
/r/askTRP07/06/21 12:56 PM
1

Lol way to comment on a situation you’re not even remotely familiar with. I’m making it work and making it work very successfully, thanks!!
/r/askTRP06/06/21 09:43 PM
-4

I mean a handjob works just as well tbh— woman gets no pleasure out of it but gives her man pleasure
/r/TheRedPill06/06/21 07:33 PM
5

I don’t believe in completely distinguishing men and women as rational and emotional. I’ve known plenty of men ruled by emotions and plenty of women who are serene and logical (my gf being one of them). My girlfriend’s never been one to need physical touch as much as other forms of affection like words of affirmation or quality time together (even through video call). Even when we are in person, it’s not like we’re getting physical or having sex every day. Obviously the relationship possibly goe…
/r/askTRP06/06/21 03:36 PM
0

I mean you also have to meet up to create new memories but especially when you live in the US where cross city flights are a dime a dozen you can always make it work. Now if your relationship is based entirely on a phone call or video call for years and years then that may be different. I think that would put a unique strain on some relationships. Nevertheless I did make it work while I was studying abroad and my girlfriend was at home (and then covid happened :( )
/r/askTRP06/06/21 02:47 PM
-5

I’m in an LDR. way I make it work is by literally knowing I’m such a catch, I’m a tomcat in the sack, and she knows it. You establish trust and boundaries. If she or I violate them it’s over. I’m confident af rather than being a little beta who texts them all the time and asking who they are with/not letting them go out and do what they want.
/r/askTRP06/06/21 02:29 PM
-10

I’m in an LDR. way I make it work is by literally knowing I’m such a catch, I’m a tomcat in the sack, and she knows it. You establish trust and boundaries. If she or I violate them it’s over. I’m confident af rather than being a little beta who texts them all the time and asking who they are with/not letting them go out and do what they want.
/r/askTRP06/06/21 02:27 PM
3

I mean I found connection and am in a LTR rn but I wouldn’t say I’m BP. I’m just confident af and found what I wanted with someone who shares my values True that TRP is amoral and apolitical, but imo I would just find it annoying/not be attracted at all if someone is denying Covid or whatever. Also by the way this guy says “uni”, I’m imagining that he’s in Europe— a little bit less politicized than here in the good ol’ USA.
/r/askTRP27/05/21 04:10 AM
2

Yep and that’s why I keep my approaches (when I am single, currently in an LTR) in person. I play to my strengths and I know that while I can improve my looks, I’m not Chris Hemsworth. But just like my dude Aziz, I can make people laugh and I am likeable, so I use those qualities :) Also helps that I’m in sales, which develops the EQ a ton.
/r/askTRP27/05/21 03:57 AM
3

I mean I’m an average looking Indian dude, reasonably fit but like definitely not ripped, glasses, etc. But I speak well, I make tons of jokes, I have a good career, I’m well read, I dress alright when I’m on dates, etc. so I’ve been successful with attractive girls when approaching in person. But to your point I’ve never been too successful on dating apps simply because I know I’m being rated primarily on appearance so I guess I’ll work on that. Been eating clean and working out for the past fe…
/r/askTRP27/05/21 03:52 AM
-2

Okay but vaccinated is the one time this guy employs KISS. Like when I read that, I was like “yep this guy is ready to party together like it’s 2019”. I mean then I read the rest of the long essay bio and was like wtf and facepalmed at his photo choices but the “vaccinated” line was aight IMO
/r/askTRP27/05/21 03:45 AM
1

Gotcha. Why is everyone really shitting on him though? Guarantee most of the people are talking smack behind their screens but aren’t in possession of the chiseled physique they expect this guy to have. Tbh he just needs to work out a bit but mainly get better fitting clothes and take better photos.
/r/askTRP27/05/21 03:39 AM
2

his photos look low quality af and for some reason he's not even bothering to smile in his photos like wtf. girls have straight up told me that the big reason they swipe left is because the guy looks like a weirdo or a serial killer in their photos.
/r/askTRP27/05/21 03:38 AM
5

I'll say this my guy, yes you're no Chris Hemsworth in terms of looks. But everyone here is acting like they're fucking shredded and have chiseled abs that Michaelangelo's David would be jealous of. Like fuck off lmao he just needs to wear more well-fitting shirts, better pics with better lighting, probably a better haircut although tbh I know attractive girls that are all over that these days in the UK, and for fucks sake stop with the far-away selfie stares just smile at the camera at least ah…
/r/askTRP27/05/21 03:37 AM
-3

vaccinated = let's meet in person, not text like a chump on tinder. makes sense to me, but that's just my view.
/r/askTRP27/05/21 03:32 AM
1

yeah the vaccinated part isn't too bad tbh. People a) don't want to get COVID, so vaccinated is fine and signals that he's open to meeting in person and b) don't want to be with tinfoil hat-wearing science-deniers.
/r/askTRP27/05/21 03:31 AM
1

what does DYEL mean lmao can't find it in the glossary. also what is with this trend of far-away stares into the distance selfies vs. taking a normal picture with a nice, well-fitting shirt and smiling into a camera? ffs
/r/askTRP27/05/21 03:30 AM
1

I’d argue that an emotional tampon is someone who basically bends over backwards in order to soak up all the venting from a female friend and when they try to vent even once the female friend tells him to fuck off. Basically a one way street
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 09:08 PM
8

I mean to your point if they’re inexperienced/a virgin they’re going to maybe want to wait because they need to get comfortable with the idea of having sex. Only an insecure dude would get offended over that rather than understanding that some things take time. But if she’s literally using sex as a manipulation tactic or if she’s not doing something with you that she easily did with others, that’s red flag territory right there
/r/askTRP26/05/21 09:03 PM
2

Lol my gf was a virgin when we met. I waited 4-5 months to have actual sex and was content with doing other stuff in the meantime. Doesn’t mean she didn’t love me or whatever (we’re together 4 years later) it just meant that she needed time to be comfortable/open to it (grew up in a repressive Christian household, etc)
/r/askTRP26/05/21 09:00 PM
1

I mean mate I’m an Indian dude too, glasses, reasonably fit but not ripped af, etc and I’ve successfully been with girls that at first glance look “out of my league”. The trick is to believe you can do it vs lowering your standards just so you can say you got a number.
/r/seduction25/05/21 02:38 PM
2

Question— how attractive are women at book stores? I’ve seen some that are alright sure but the vast majority of attractive girls these days are better found in a) the park, b) the gym, c) Instagram at home, d) the beach, e) bars and clubs— in that order.
/r/seduction25/05/21 10:56 AM
2

Didn’t mean to sound like I’m moralizing but I just mean that I really don’t usually care about n count as long as it isn’t wildly crazy or suggestive of some huge red flag
/r/askTRP25/05/21 01:16 AM
1

Question: why is it okay for you to get with multiple women but not her? I mean in the day that you’ve been apart from this girl you’ve approached two women and fucked a third. Who cares about her past, unless she literally got railed by 50 guys in a row and hasn’t been tested, if all indicators point to her being faithful to you and loving I’d say LTR her
/r/askTRP25/05/21 01:01 AM
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Yeah like for example I think I’m not a hugely feminine guy but I can be sensitive and share some emotions openly with my gf, which she likes a lot as opposed to me being an unflinching stone all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 12:42 PM
1

I mean...when there’s certain things being said you know even as a kid that it isn’t normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 01:56 PM
3

Law degree
/r/askTRP20/05/21 12:55 PM
16

Lmao how tf is someone getting a JD at 22? That’s when most people graduate college. Also lmao I’ve never heard a dude describe his looks as “stunning”
/r/askTRP20/05/21 10:25 AM
10

Yeah I mean my parents act all happy in public but you don’t get to hear all the shouting and gaslighting that goes on behind closed doors
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 08:58 PM
4

Idk my girlfriend is hilarious and not cringe af lol. Rare find tbh
/r/askTRP19/05/21 08:45 PM
5

Woah dude wtf lmao
/r/askTRP14/05/21 03:21 PM
4

Yeah lol for a LTR if she’s saying that I’d nope the fuck out and find someone who loves every bit of me
/r/askTRP12/05/21 09:38 PM
1

Why would she have sex with you if she’s not physically attracted to you
/r/askTRP12/05/21 09:35 PM
0

Dude trust me the depression excuse can be valid. It’s literally called being human
/r/askTRP12/05/21 09:33 PM
2

Lol stfu. Dude I’m a guy and when I’m sad or anxious or depressed even I have a low libido. It’s called being human
/r/askTRP12/05/21 08:59 PM
2

I mean that’s my point— even when I’m just casually seeing someone, if they’re playing games, I’m man enough to walk away. I’m not here to play games. I’m a man who likes a woman and finds her attractive. If she finds me attractive, we should be good. There should be no more hoops to jump through. When I first started seeing my girlfriend there were absolutely no games and shit tests. That’s why she’s my girlfriend.
/r/seduction11/05/21 02:39 PM
9

A girl needing to “test” a guy like that is a big fat nope from me. The girl who I’m with should love me for who I am and not play those fucking mind games. I should be irreplaceable and they should act like it 24/7. I obviously can’t force them to stay with me, and I’ll say it’s their loss if my current gf for example leaves, but if she ever tried playing a game like that I’d be halfway out the door at best.
/r/seduction11/05/21 04:19 AM
5

I mean...I don’t want to marry someone who works at McDonald’s lmao idk about you. I have standards and my wife needs to be achieving them!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/05/21 01:22 PM
2

Yep you’re right, women want to be around fun people not stone cold resting bitch face individuals who have no soul
/r/askTRP07/05/21 12:01 PM
17

Billy Beta approaches one girl and thinks she’s the one, and stays even as she walks over him. Real man approaches girls he likes and is confident enough to leave if she isn’t a good fit.
/r/askTRP29/04/21 01:02 PM
2

What if they are tired or have a ton of work or aren’t in the mood? I’d say those are fine reasons and I can figure out something else to do instead that is fulfilling.
/r/askTRP23/04/21 11:55 AM
1

If the only thing you find fulfilling in your relationship is sex, then you shouldn’t be in an LTR. My girlfriend and I sometimes get physical or have sex many times in a month and other times like 1-2 times. But she’s amazing in a ton of other ways that I wouldn’t get in other girls and so I am content.
/r/askTRP22/04/21 03:35 PM
27

You got oneitis
/r/askTRP17/04/21 01:32 PM
7

Eh. I’d say if they really think they’re that ugly when they are not they’re either seeking validation from orbiters or just kinda too insecure for my taste. My LTR gets insecure about her looks sometimes, it’s natural, but she knows that she’s pretty in general and is free of insecurity, just the way I like it
/r/askTRP16/04/21 02:00 AM
2

Nah I wouldn’t that is when it sounds needy. Just text in a few days asking to meet again
/r/askTRP14/04/21 12:19 PM
-16

What if they’re literal germaphobes, same as how a dude doesn’t want to always eat a girl out
/r/askTRP12/04/21 12:41 AM
1

I mean it’s not like she’s just a good for nothing woman with a million kids and tons of debt/no job. She’s clearly accomplished so yeah if the guy doesn’t measure up she shouldn’t marry him. Not sure why this is a post here, she has deserved standards.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/04/21 04:13 PM
10

Question: how do you even ask the two girls at the beginning to dance with them/no funny business in that many words? Like clubs are loud as fuck. If I tried doing that I’d be met with “what?!” “Whaaaat?!!” for like 10 minutes before finally communicating what I want.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/21 12:07 PM
3

Wrong. So you think girls are a monolith in how they want to be treated? Calibration is so key.
/r/askTRP31/03/21 10:33 AM
0

Women expect it and write you off otherwise. Since it’s a first date tradition I’ll pay (like come on if it’s dinner at a non pricey restaurant I definitely can spare like $20 bucks for her meal). Afterwards, we are splitting
/r/seduction28/03/21 05:23 PM
0

I’ll pay if it’s affordable on my end and a first date, but if it’s really pricey/after the first date I’ll definitely split and if she says no fuck her lol
/r/seduction28/03/21 05:15 PM
19

There was this girl who was a fucking whale in HS though who’s turned into a pretty attractive person now though. Impressive
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/03/21 11:36 AM
2

No you’re obviously an insecure dude lmao have fun worrying about your girls chump
/r/askTRP25/03/21 06:58 PM
2

Shave your head Own your height Get jacked if you really need the confidence boost
/r/askTRP25/03/21 01:00 PM
2

False
/r/askTRP25/03/21 12:46 PM
2

Stfu. She’s not “playing him”. She literally has invited him to hang with her friends he’s just too insecure to see this as anything but infidelity
/r/askTRP25/03/21 12:32 PM
1

I mean it was like a one off instance that she told me about and that was like two years ago lmao but like even if it was regular, so what? For context we were in college and he was a classmate who knew about me and knew that we were a serious thing— and right away I knew that, again, I was ten times the man he was.
/r/askTRP25/03/21 12:39 AM
2

Lol bro I’ve let my girl hang out with her guy friends one on one. They’ve gotten coffee together. The dude isn’t an orbiter he’s her friend, and definitely not a back burner or side dude. All I know is that at the end of the day, I’m ten times the man that dude is and that’s why my girlfriend comes back to me every time. I’ve also straight up told her to leave me if she finds someone better— she’s told me to do the same. Neither one of us has left.
/r/askTRP25/03/21 12:22 AM
5

Yeah and the other commenters here who are saying that she is bad news or that she’s cheating are just misleading OP. OP just has trust issues, plain and simple.
/r/askTRP25/03/21 12:02 AM
10

According to other comments OP’s girl has invited him to hang with her and her friends. How insecure is this dude? Like she’s not hiding anything or making excuses she just genuinely has male friends. She actually sounds pretty sweet
/r/askTRP25/03/21 12:00 AM
2

But having many female friends isn’t a red flag? Just be confident in yourself and your worth. Women smell insecurity like sharks smell blood. If you know that you’re too good to be cheated on, that you’re actually worth something, you’re fine. And if you get cheated on, it’s HER LOSS.
/r/askTRP24/03/21 11:59 PM
13

I mean cooking is a pretty platonic activity. I’d say that the intentions can be discerned if OP asks to join in— if he’s gladly invited then yeah the girl is being naive. If sudden excuses are made then it may be a little suspect. Either way the passive aggressiveness just feels so middle school-like.
/r/askTRP24/03/21 11:53 PM
12

Bruh you just sound controlling and so beta. Idgaf if my girl hangs with other guys. If she does meet with a dude one on one she tells me about it and even if she doesn’t, I know I’m good enough that if she leaves me or does me wrong it’s HER LOSS. You gotta know your worth like that. Also like if she’s telling you someone’s coming over to her place it’s likely not cheating in that usually a cheater doesn’t just expose themselves to their SO. But if your beta ass seriously wants to “confirm”, th…
/r/askTRP24/03/21 11:52 PM
1

I mean yes but what does “growing soft” mean? Like some people here want to claim that as soon as you aren’t getting sex daily or as soon as you make plans with her vs friends, you’re a “fallen soldier”/“whipped”/insert-other-epithet here. Or as soon as you express any sort of vulnerability you’re done (most girls don’t want to date emotionless robots that are purely interested in sex). And I think those notions are ridiculous.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/21 12:22 PM
1

Excuses are for the weak. Think about it— if she went out with brad Pitt but Brad split the bill, would she ghost? No, right? Exactly.
/r/seduction24/03/21 03:39 AM
0

Gonna have to disagree a bit on the movie thing. You can do a movie as a date, but make sure you do something before and after. Ex. Doing dinner before the movie allows you to get to know the girl. Then the movie is nice/allows you to hold hands and stuff. Then afterwards taking a walk lets you do some social stuff with the girl and if you run out of conversation just talk about the movie!
/r/seduction24/03/21 03:21 AM
23

Define “let the pussy control them”; some people here start acting like being okay with no sex for two weeks because life happens means it is the end of the relationship/“she’s cheating on you”. Or that making time for your relationship vs friends means you’re whipped. I’d argue that if there’s literally no sex for months, or if you’re basically never around your friends then it’s a problem. If not then you’re fine.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/21 03:05 AM
44

I mean isn’t it possible to be both red pill and have a LTR? Like as long as you aren’t being a total cuck or beta in your relationship and have a healthy partnership that is physically and emotionally satisfying, and you go to the gym and are confident and have a good frame, I’d argue that that’s a great balance between RP and a relationship
/r/TheRedPill24/03/21 02:48 AM
4

Sorry bro she tasted good though 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/askTRP21/03/21 08:55 PM
3

Damn found a misogynist here fuck RP is about making sure a man doesn’t become a total nightmarish simp to get laid, NOT trying to just objectify women
/r/askTRP13/03/21 11:09 PM
1

Yep I do. Not about to get riled up by some internet stranger’s unfounded belief that my girlfriend is a cheater.
/r/askTRP09/03/21 01:25 PM
1

Lol yeah man you’re right, I’m totally getting cucked. Must be easier for you to swallow that pill vs. the fact that I have a mature relationship that doesn’t revolve around sex.
/r/askTRP09/03/21 02:43 AM
1

Explain
/r/askTRP08/03/21 10:14 PM
1

Jesus you sound like a 16 year old bitch, fuck me man
/r/askTRP08/03/21 10:11 PM
0

So would you let your wife peg you for half an hour then? Just for her pleasure? Come on man, surely you can’t be saying that you would completely sacrifice your own preferences for your wife all the time. That sounds more like a bitch than the alpha you’re trying to pretend to be.
/r/askTRP08/03/21 10:08 PM
1

Was temporarily depressed for a bit after moving to an entirely new city mid pandemic, feel a ton better now In a LDR after 3.5 years of being and living with each other. I’d say I know quite a bit about maintaining a healthy long term relationship. Sit down and listen up.
/r/askTRP08/03/21 10:07 PM
2

You’re saying that a two week break from having sex— based on legitimate reasons— can automatically turn into years of not having sex? Dead bedrooms usually have a strong underlying problem. If you’re an attractive guys your girlfriend will have sex with you. Simple
/r/askTRP08/03/21 10:04 PM
1

Yeah no dude lmao and for their sake please don’t date anyone, you’re terrible Making someone suffer for your pleasure is goddamn vile
/r/askTRP08/03/21 10:00 PM
0

Again, your idea that a dead bedroom is two weeks of no sex is fucking idiotic. At best you’re an 18 year old with no idea what the real world is like
/r/askTRP08/03/21 09:52 PM
0

^ spotted the incel here
/r/askTRP08/03/21 09:47 PM
2

No, explain
/r/askTRP08/03/21 09:46 PM
0

My girlfriend isn’t a sex slave and sure yeah like if we are super busy or doing long distance or stressed or whatever yeah it can be a month or something before we get physical, and that’s okay. I’m mature enough to handle it and I can find any number of other fulfilling things to do in the meantime.
/r/askTRP08/03/21 09:46 PM
1

If my partner asks me for sex and I am not in the mood, my relationship is healthy enough that she will understand and let it go, without expectation. And I’ll do the same. When we are both ready to please each other and get ourselves off too, we will. Sometimes it takes a day, sometimes it’s a week or two. Not really a problem for me— because there’s plenty of other fulfilling things I can do either with her or on my own.
/r/askTRP08/03/21 09:44 PM
1

If my partner asks me for sex and I am not in the mood, my relationship is healthy enough that she will understand and let it go, without expectation. And I’ll do the same. When we are both ready to please each other and get ourselves off too, we will. Sometimes it takes a day, sometimes it’s a week or two. Not really a problem for me— because there’s plenty of other fulfilling things I can do either with her or on my own.
/r/askTRP08/03/21 09:44 PM
2

I mean if I’m not in the mood one day my girlfriend understands and if I’m in the mood and she is the next day then we have sex, if not no big deal. I’d like to think healthy relationships can survive like that and not expect partners to make it up to each other.
/r/askTRP08/03/21 09:42 PM
-2

Nobody owes you sex. Nobody needs to “make it up to you”. If you’re an attractive dude who doesn’t whine like a little bitch when he isn’t getting laid at his command, then you’ll get sex. Acting butthurt and expecting someone to make it up to you is fucking wack and ruins attraction.
/r/askTRP08/03/21 09:40 PM
3

Either that or maybe her stomach hurts and she won’t enjoy sex? I know I wouldn’t enjoy sex much if my stomach hurt like shit
/r/askTRP08/03/21 09:39 PM
2

It’s been two weeks. Two weeks man. You’re acting like he’s been sex starved and emotionally neglected for two years.
/r/askTRP08/03/21 09:38 PM
2

I’m sure there have been moments when you’re not in the mood? Like you’re incredibly stressed and can’t focus on sex? Bet you wouldn’t want a girl trying to force herself onto you in that situation. Why is it then okay to ask that a girl not be in the mood before sex? Honestly sounds a bit rapey to me
/r/askTRP08/03/21 09:37 PM
1

Dude I’ll be honest with you I’m in a LTR rn and sometimes we have sex/get physical every day for weeks and other times she’s sick or we both have a lot of shit to do and we don’t do much. I wouldn’t classify a break from sex for literally two weeks as a step towards a dead bedroom. If it was a few months without any sexual interaction then sure but two weeks? Pull the other one mate
/r/askTRP08/03/21 09:35 PM
-2

She has a mouth and may not be in the mood? Like dude girls aren’t just fuck toys. Could just wait a literal day and have sex with someone who will actually be 100% into it.
/r/askTRP08/03/21 09:34 PM
-2

If you can’t see how complaining about a lack of sex for two weeks is dumb/pretty disrespectful, idk what to say
/r/askTRP08/03/21 09:33 PM
0

Okay so as someone who’s clearly not been with too many girls let me sit you down: Girls can feel depressed/out of it for a week before their actual period and even for a week afterwards. Source— my girlfriend. You’re acting like you’re in a literal dead bedroom. It’s less than a week bro. Wtf
/r/askTRP08/03/21 09:31 PM
-6

Bruh you’re a fucking dick, she was literally on her period + y’all had a ton of work so obviously you couldn’t have sex before. She didn’t just actively deny sex she just said she’d have sex the next day because she was hurting in the moment and couldn’t. And your horny ass couldn’t handle that and basically bitched out instead of being understanding and just not having sex for one more day. Ffs
/r/askTRP08/03/21 09:28 PM
1

Yeah ikr like it’s really weird
/r/askTRP27/12/20 11:02 PM
-1

Trans women are women.
/r/askTRP27/12/20 04:52 AM
1

OP why tf are you scared of your little bro, like instead of being jealous/like an overbearing shit, work on your relationship and trust issues and solidify things with your girlfriend. I’ve had my girlfriend around guys before and they’ve tried making her laugh and sure, she has. But at the end of the day, she comes to me. I have no fears. Be more like that.
/r/askTRP26/12/20 04:59 AM
-11

Sounds like something an insecure dude would say. I’m secure in my relationship (would especially be so if having kids) and I wouldn’t worry about that.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/20 04:44 AM
-19

I had a higher body count than my SO before I met her, but I seriously wouldn’t have cared if it was reversed. You just need to focus on being your best you in this relationship. Run the race with blinders on. Otherwise you risk letting jealousy get the best of you which isn’t ever attractive.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/20 02:16 AM
-43

Why is it okay for a guy to have 57 partners but not a girl? You’re not used goods, are you? Personally idgaf about my partner’s sexual history. If they’re nice to me and faithful and just a decent girl, I’m here for it and I’ll have fun with her. I’m not trying to obsess and be retrospectively jealous of some other guy’s dick, to me that’s more “beta” than anything else.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/20 01:57 AM
17

Seem to believe that a guy can fuck around and not be at fault at all, but a woman dares sleep with a few guys before settling down? Impure heathen!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 03:22 PM
12

False accusations are a small, small minority. The vast majority of women will enjoy consensual sex. If you’re concerned about consent, literally ask “is this okay” when moving to more intimate areas/about to have sex. You don’t have to simp but just be respectful during sex. Don’t jackhammer her, don’t slap her around, don’t call her a slut. Just have sex, make her finish hopefully. Be normal. Be pretty transparent regarding what you’re looking for. Don’t just lead her on and piss her off becau…
/r/askTRP23/09/20 01:04 AM
1

Explain because that just seems wrong to me
/r/askTRP10/09/20 11:41 AM
1

asking a genuine question but alright mate
/r/askTRP09/09/20 06:26 PM
3

she's clearly straight though. how's this fair?
/r/askTRP09/09/20 05:53 PM
1

and MFF is not cucking a girlfriend?
/r/askTRP09/09/20 05:53 PM
2

Being the devils advocate here— I’d always be wary of asking out people in service/customer facing jobs. Many times they’re being polite or nice. This, in my opinion, doesn’t count as an IOI. If, on the big chance you’re wrong, she doesn’t reciprocate and politely rejects you— what then? Yeah you might feel awkward for a bit but think about it from her point of view: she doesn’t know you, doesn’t know how you handle rejection, and as a woman is probably going to be at least a bit worried about h…
/r/seduction09/05/20 12:49 PM
1

IME no but only because my gf is exciting and our relationship continues to grow (been with her 2.5 years). Even if another girl is more attractive, I just get bored when they literally aren’t as interesting or can’t hold a convo with me
/r/askTRP14/03/20 01:07 AM
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