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Im saying if someone has a low quality of life then that person is low quality. No one finds someone with a low quality of life more attractive than someone with a high quality of life. I dont care why they are unhealthy or if it was their fault. The fact is that of someone is unhealthy it is a negative trait and therefor lowers their value relative to all of the healthy people. I never said being thin means you are healthy, i said being fat makes you unhealthy which is an undisputable fact. Jus…
/r/seduction01/09/22 08:01 AM
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If a woman is fat and depressed she has less value as a partner than a woman who is physically fit and has good mental health, even if you just boil it down to who will produce the best children. Literally any metric you use the healthy person makes a more valuable partner, people do loose value when they are sick otherwise being sick wouldn't be considered a bad thing, if being sick made you more desirable as a partner people would be intentionally making themselves ill but they dont instead pe…
/r/seduction01/09/22 06:34 AM
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You're totally right. ive changed alot since this post and do not use dating apps anymore. Rn i would say a low value woman is physically or mentally unhealthy.
/r/seduction30/08/22 06:21 PM
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I say I have rule that I don't answer that question to women.
/r/seduction08/03/22 08:22 AM
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I checked out your profile. Maybe people know you are married.
/r/seduction07/03/22 10:49 AM
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Most guys won't approach in real life unless you give off super super obvious signals. The apps are more and more popular all the time.
/r/seduction07/03/22 10:43 AM
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Your not attracted to her, next girl.
/r/seduction07/03/22 10:41 AM
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I don't get it whats wrong with the age gap its normal???
/r/seduction07/03/22 09:39 AM
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Then prove me wrong.
/r/seduction06/03/22 10:44 AM
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Have fun in your safe space xoxox
/r/seduction06/03/22 09:57 AM
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you're the one with the ideological bias here Prove it.
/r/seduction06/03/22 09:49 AM
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Then you're likely to be in the top 20% of physical attractiveness or your only seeing your own biasdue to political ideology. Most men have to make 90% or more of the moves 90% or more of the time and this is a well know and we'll agreed apon fact that has been proven. Make a poll on this sub if you don't belive me.
/r/seduction06/03/22 09:46 AM
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Sexual Escalation is 99% of the time done by men, if that doesn't make it a gendered action idk what would.
/r/seduction06/03/22 09:28 AM
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It is. Men have 10x the testosterone and this means they behave differently and have different brain chemistry which means they poses a different psychology to women in every respect to the definition of the word psychology
/r/seduction06/03/22 09:24 AM
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Not a stereo type it's called psychology lmao
/r/seduction06/03/22 09:19 AM
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It has everything to with gender. 99% of the time it is the man taht escalates sexually. This is because it is your masculine personality traits like boldness that give you the power to over come the anxiety, women aren't as bold and they don't take as many risks, this is because they listen to the anxiety where as men take risks despite it.
/r/seduction06/03/22 09:17 AM
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In this case it is hurting, he's not escalating because he's listening to his feminine side.
/r/seduction06/03/22 09:10 AM
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Getting off online dating, becoming better looking and more wealthy then speaking to women irl is the solution.
/r/seduction06/03/22 08:52 AM
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Feel the fear and do it anyway is the only way to over come any kind of anxiety. You're bing feminine. You're allowing your emotions and feelings to dictate your actions. After a few dozen times of forcing your way through the anxiety it goes away.
/r/seduction06/03/22 08:48 AM
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Imagine you open tinder and you have 200 new likes over night, you're gonna go through them looking for the most attractive to date.
/r/seduction06/03/22 08:45 AM
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I will bet my whole bank account that only 1% of these relationships turn into happy family's. 99% of the time the funny guys can't hold a hot girl(6 or above) for more than a few months without them jumping ship for a more attractive man.
/r/seduction06/03/22 08:10 AM
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Quit online dating. Decrease body fat %, increase muscle %, become wealthy and start talking to girls irl
/r/seduction06/03/22 08:08 AM
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Because they have 10000 options and you are far far away from the top of their list.
/r/seduction06/03/22 08:06 AM
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They will get low quality women only. Sure there is the occasional exception but I'm talking 99% of the time unattractive men will only attract low quality women.
/r/seduction06/03/22 08:05 AM
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Says the guy on a sub about getting girls lmao
/r/seduction06/03/22 07:57 AM
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If you're acting confident even tho you're un attractive this does not look like confidence to anyone else ut just looks like arrogance unless you have the good to back ut up, could be your height your muscles your wealth or status
/r/seduction06/03/22 07:56 AM
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Game is irrelevant online, they look at your first pic and swipe left or right. If you're not top 15% they swipe left simple as that.
/r/seduction06/03/22 07:54 AM
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That's just your face and it's rating done by men as well as women isn't it ? Also 6.25 out 10 is only top 37.5%. On the apps they are looking at height and muscular and you insta and you wealth and so on which will bring you down when compared with older guys.
/r/seduction06/03/22 06:49 AM
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Yeah you might be top 50% but taht isn't attractive to women. They want the top 15% of guys.
/r/seduction05/03/22 05:23 PM
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This is a pretty obvious outcome. Only 15% of men on tinder were rated as "above average" so of you put yourself in that top 10% using looks it doesn't matter what is in the profile you will have your pick of women
/r/seduction05/03/22 08:28 AM
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Maybe they find you attractive but you don't have you life together enough for them to want to commit to you. Like how wealthy are you?
/r/seduction03/03/22 02:00 PM
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Your only option is pretty obvious. Get a hotel or fuck her in your car lol
/r/seduction03/03/22 01:43 PM
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Your problem is you don't have anywhere to live that you can bring girls round and the only way to change that is to get money for a new place.
/r/seduction03/03/22 01:41 PM
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Most factory will take you no qualifications needed.
/r/seduction03/03/22 01:39 PM
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Get a job.
/r/seduction03/03/22 01:36 PM
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If you don't have a place then you should work on that before getting girls or you will waste all your money on hotels
/r/seduction03/03/22 01:11 PM
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It's unattractive men that have a hard time with it as while they get matches those matches are low interest and there is no real way to build interest over text it you are short or broke or ugly or fat or skinny or bald or bad hygiene etc. I'm sure there are some that just don't ask women out once they have them talking but I doubt there are many.
/r/seduction03/03/22 01:07 PM
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Lmao
/r/seduction02/03/22 03:08 PM
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This is a known fact, not an assumption.
/r/seduction02/03/22 02:39 PM
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Lol no one is celibate since the 1800s she is 100% joking and flirting with you. You can fuck her if you want that's what she's saying.
/r/seduction02/03/22 02:37 PM
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Totally get what you mean and I feel the same it's why i never ask for them personally. I would definitely say exactly this during your conversation as she will Totally respect that.
/r/seduction02/03/22 12:53 PM
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Spunds like you have a good dynamic with her. I think you should talk to her about it directly, say that you think she's afraid to not make the good enough or something and see what she has to say about it. Maybe offer to help her take photos and be clear about what you'd personally like to see.
/r/seduction02/03/22 12:47 PM
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It's only cool if you actually are busy doing something more important. If you're sat there playing league scratching you ass and pretending to ignore her then it's just gonna come off as if you're a looser
/r/seduction02/03/22 11:47 AM
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Who cares if she closes up more ? You have other girls to worry about. If someone is actually interested they will spread their legs if they don't then they aren't. Simple as.
/r/seduction02/03/22 11:45 AM
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Lots of women love dirty texts but get very little out of receiving or giving photos. In fact they have alot to loose by giving out photos of themselves. I've found women love it of you want to take q photo of them or both of you at some point during sex or even a quick video. You can imagine the number of what ifs the go through a girls head when they send q nude even if they trust you with their life.
/r/seduction02/03/22 11:37 AM
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Next girl man
/r/seduction02/03/22 11:35 AM
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Start seeing other girls and it will motivate her to open up. Right now she has you to her self for doing absolutely nothing.
/r/seduction02/03/22 11:31 AM
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Ask her.
/r/seduction01/03/22 06:07 PM
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Do you watch porn? Jerking off is healthy but watching porn depletes dopamine and makes you very horny all the time and fucks with your T levels. Since I quit I have been much happier.
/r/seduction01/03/22 11:27 AM
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Feel the fear and do it anyway. After 20 or so approaches the fear will be significantly reduced.
/r/seduction01/03/22 05:51 AM
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If you think your only problem is testosterone then get you levels checked, I would bet money they are low.
/r/seduction01/03/22 05:07 AM
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Yeah sure start with that but trust man the college girls want you to stop them they love the attention.
/r/seduction01/03/22 05:04 AM
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You don't sound fullfilled. Sounds like your needs are met except one thing, arguably the most important. You only need to be better than 50% to get quality sex, sure it takes more effort than the successful people but why shouldn't it? They are more attractive after all. Also there is no point blaming women for their behaviour, its all hard wired into their psychology. Through history only 50% of men ever had kids, that's how picky and selective women just naturally are, so what do they select …
/r/seduction28/02/22 06:13 PM
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Sounds like you don't want fwb and want a serious relationship. Date qs many girls as you can until you meet one that meets your criteria and who is also looking for a relationship. You don't have to sleep around if you don't want, just go on 2 or 3 dates to get to know them and see if they're worth your time. You should definitely qlways be focused on yourself, if like I'd a cake then women are nothing but the cherry ontop, nice to look at but by no means the main event.
/r/seduction28/02/22 03:51 PM
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What girls think and say they want is never what their actions and behaviour say they actually want. She was originally attracted to you because you're yourself, do not change for her or she will leave you.
/r/seduction28/02/22 03:16 PM
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Zero or 1000 it is irrelevant, all you must do is compare yourself to who you were yesterday and try to improve it a tiny bit. You have to literally force yourself to not listen to the voice inside your head and walk up and stop them and then introduce yourself and explain why you stopped them. It will be scary but not scary like a man chasing you with knives but scary like a roller coster, you know that the ride cannot harm you in anyway but you brain doesn't know this and so gives you adrenali…
/r/seduction28/02/22 03:09 PM
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Your gonna stay at home from now to Wednesday? Whatcha up to man?
/r/seduction28/02/22 02:58 PM
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Women are no prize. They're so insecure they will shave their eyebrows off and draw new ones on lol. They are simply the cherry on top of the cake of life, a cake without a cherry on top, sure its not qs nice to look at but is still just as good tasting and that's what matters. The effort you're putting into getting girls would be better spent improving yourself so that you are in the top ten percent not to get girls but to live a good, forfilling and meaningful life where you're not just anothe…
/r/seduction28/02/22 02:57 PM
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I found I couldn't approach when I went out with the only goal being approaching. Let's say you're on a train and girl is sat near you, just start talking with her about anything and see how it goes. Or in the line at the grocery store, regular day to day activities when ever you see a woman you are attracted too.
/r/seduction28/02/22 02:52 PM
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Be more attractive than them. Then talk for a minute. then ask for it.
/r/seduction27/02/22 07:34 AM
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Girls never make any moved themselves even when they want it this much and I think this is why they miss out on alot of opportunities. If you come onto him and he rejects you, who cares ? Just move onto the next guy. Either he has very little experience, is already seeing someone or there is something about you that intimidates him.
/r/seduction27/02/22 07:27 AM
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No such things as too good looking for you, especially at your age. Maybe you were too available like you spent alot of time with her and didn't get anything sexual back that's something to learn from. Sounds like she was trying to use you to get over an ex, you don't wanna be with girls like this anyway man.
/r/seduction27/02/22 07:17 AM
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You did nothing wrong here. She's for the streets bro, next girl !
/r/seduction27/02/22 06:28 AM
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Prostitute will do it
/r/seduction26/02/22 05:04 PM
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I like mountain biking and cooking.
/r/seduction26/02/22 05:00 PM
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"Is he an idiot or something" Lmao women literally want us to read their mind. Why not just fucking walk up and speak to him yourself??????????
/r/seduction26/02/22 07:10 AM
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Make fun of them
/r/seduction26/02/22 07:08 AM
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Almost 4 years from alcohol if that's what you mean
/r/seduction25/02/22 06:27 PM
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Im Trying to quit and it has made me worse with women because I'm so horny all the time though Im told this goes away after a while. Its also been alot harder to eat healthy and work out, it's like my brain only wants instant gratification now that I'm not giving it any time it wants it, it wants more. I'm just hoping it gets better with time but if I'm just a horny uncomfortable unconfident guy without porn forever then I will have to go back to watching it regularly or I will never get any gir…
/r/seduction25/02/22 09:20 AM
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You can never go too slowly
/r/seduction24/02/22 03:45 PM
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Throughout all of history only 60% of men have passed on their genetics.
/r/seduction23/02/22 01:12 PM
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They are likely taller or better looking. All you can do is improve the things you're able to to their limit
/r/seduction23/02/22 12:05 PM
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You just have to express in some way that you like what is happening and want more of it. Otherwise you're hoping he assaults you? 😜
/r/seduction23/02/22 12:02 PM
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You grow out of this after 20 ish rejections
/r/seduction21/02/22 02:46 PM
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Next girl
/r/seduction21/02/22 02:38 PM
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I like to say arent all pick up lines are bad ?
/r/seduction21/02/22 07:06 AM
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He didn't
/r/seduction20/02/22 05:31 PM
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You have to let them progress the relationship.
/r/seduction20/02/22 05:17 PM
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Yeah like a peach or banana is easy but wtf you gonna do with a strawberry lol
/r/seduction20/02/22 05:13 PM
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You can't trust your feelings when it comes to dating. If you show her how much you don't want her to go she will go. She wants to be the one chasing you so let her. If you aren't a happy person without a girlfriend then you need to fo enough self improvement so that you're happy being alone and you can use this to have the I don't give a fuck attitude every girl adores.
/r/seduction20/02/22 05:12 PM
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You look them in the eye when you say it with a clam blank expression and exaggerate just the word wet or moist or stroke or finger or suck or rub or spank. There are lots of double entendre you can use. If they laugh or smirk or react in any way to it and you can tell they know what they meant you ask them what's so funny amd act oblivious.
/r/seduction20/02/22 05:04 PM
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Lol this was a throwaway that I kept. Who gives a fuck about user names ? I haven't played video games in 5 years but I cba to make a new reddit account.
/r/seduction20/02/22 03:25 PM
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Subject 1 needs therapy for the truma then to improve the quality of his relationships he should learn mindfulness and reflective listening. After practicing this for some time and essentially ironing out his character flaws while also streangthing his positive traits he should try dating again. Subject 2 needs a dopamine detox and could also benefit from therapy that focuses on his regrets because if he feels like a bad parent he should be listening to this and making changes to not only be a b…
/r/seduction20/02/22 01:13 PM
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I see. Yeah I like to give practical advice. I've found I learn alot about psychology and emotional intelligence by taking the time to try and understand someone's point of view and then help them see through the fog of their mind. You could definitely call this research. I'm not saying I think I'm absolutely right, there are definitely some relationships out there that are not worth trying to improve like gamers forgetting birthdays or girls who make no effort with the physical side of things, …
/r/seduction20/02/22 09:40 AM
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Or maybe she does show affection with physical touch, but she also wanted to make his birthday special. The problem is he is the recipient of all her effort and gifts, whilst he plays video games all day long and does not make an effort to understand her love languages because he is preoccupied with video games...! So you can only see a hypothetical when the man isn't making enough effort ? You just shouldn't date gamers they are children lol
/r/seduction20/02/22 09:22 AM
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Thats exactly what I'm saying. The woman in this situation doesn't prefer to show love with physical touch and so chooses not to rather than think of what the man wants and she isn't getting any love out of the way he's showing it because touch isn't her love language, he should stop trying trying get touch with touch and communicate qnd find out what she does want and in return she should give him what he wants, if they actually love eachother. To go back to your original example if the woman s…
/r/seduction20/02/22 09:17 AM
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So you think your partner should just accept the way you feel like showing love even if it is meaningless to them ? You don't think that's selfish? s a woman makes a lot of effort in planning a party or something or another for her guy's birthday or anniversary whilst he makes zero effort for her special day So do you not think that in this case the women made that effort for him in the hopes that he would do the same ? This situation would play out better if the woman just asked the people how …
/r/seduction20/02/22 09:07 AM
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Hard to remember the context but using the word finger or fingering especially if they're fiddling with something moist or wet.
/r/seduction20/02/22 08:44 AM
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Your love language describes how you prefer to receive love, not give it. When you love someone and know them well you learn what their love language is and give them love the way you think they would prefer and they will do the same for you if they love and respect you. Assuming you have good communication but if you don't I'd say that's not love anyway. You love language isn't giving gifts, it's receiving them. You can still enjoy giving gifts but if your partner gets nothing out of it then it…
/r/seduction20/02/22 08:39 AM
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Never argue or negotiate. Simply state calmly and confidently ehat exactly you would like to happen and expect and if they can't respect that then you give them the silent treatment until they come to you calmly and in a rational mindset. You can't be afraid to leave and act like you don't care or they will use your attachment to her against you.
/r/seduction20/02/22 08:24 AM
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Google symptoms of depression
/r/seduction20/02/22 08:12 AM
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I'm just a normal dude like 4 or a 5 out of 10 and i have had girls approach me. Imagine the numbers the guys who are 8 or above out of ten.
/r/seduction18/02/22 08:09 PM
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Be naturally tall and good looking, then become muscular and wealthy. Now you are chad.
/r/seduction18/02/22 03:22 PM
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Also at that age the behaviour she's showing she's 100% into you mate go for it.
/r/seduction13/02/22 07:49 PM
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You can invite her to yours to watch Netflix.
/r/seduction13/02/22 07:46 PM
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You tell her that you want to hang out alone together. For example you say "we should get a coffee together sometime " How old are you ?
/r/seduction13/02/22 07:41 PM
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How do you know ? Its more likely that she's into you than not because of all the time she spends obsessing over your appearance. Also you loose nothing by asking her, if she rejects you act like you don't give a shit and just be friends as normal and she will respect you for it. You'll regret it for the rest of your life if you don't ask. Belive me. You got this !
/r/seduction13/02/22 07:31 PM
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Asking her out and making a move
/r/seduction13/02/22 07:25 PM
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Honestly could be friendly or she might find you attractive. Only one way to find out.
/r/seduction13/02/22 06:05 PM
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Been exactly where you are and now they are out of my life forever and I'll never get the chance to try. I regret it deeply. If she rejects you it will only ruin the friendship if you let it. Just be cool and it won't change much. Nothing to loose
/r/seduction12/02/22 02:22 PM
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Sounds like you have a great mind set. Even the best pick up artist only have a success rate of 4% so be prepared to be rejected 95% of the time its normal. Have fun mate.
/r/seduction11/02/22 07:40 PM
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Don't give a fuck. You'll look back and regret it otherwise
/r/seduction11/02/22 06:40 PM
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Lmao what a pussy. U need some new mates for sure
/r/seduction10/02/22 06:53 PM
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Ask them how many girls they asked out that week. Watch them shut up or make some lame excuses
/r/seduction10/02/22 06:44 PM
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Are you Chad?
/r/seduction10/02/22 05:50 PM
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Only if they find you unattractive
/r/seduction10/02/22 05:11 PM
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Experienced or not enthusiasm is the most important thing. Being submissive and responding positively to guidance is just as good as being Experienced and putting on a show of sorts.
/r/seduction10/02/22 04:48 PM
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Thats how it should be normally anyway. If you quit porn for long enough you eill feel like this without having to deplete your dopamine.
/r/seduction10/02/22 08:03 AM
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Yeah but even then you'd rather have the real thing right ?
/r/seduction10/02/22 07:58 AM
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I mean in the real real porn days, like 3-4 times a day, naaaah nothing. Woman could literally fuck me half way, get off and stop it, say no more sex. I’d be like 🤷🏻‍♂️ I struggle to understand how this is a good thing. If you don't even want it then why have sex at all?
/r/seduction10/02/22 07:45 AM
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You can get all of these benefits and more if you just jerk off without porn.
/r/seduction10/02/22 07:31 AM
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She wants the D
/r/seduction10/02/22 07:13 AM
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Even if you're a 10/10 you're not gonna turn a tall good looking straight guy because he will be getting as much real pussy as he wants. I'm assuming you're only interested in tall men so stick with trying to find gay or bi men to sleep with so go to gay bars and clubs and see if you meet anyone you like or try the apps. Only ever met one femboy/transwoman that passed for female in my life she said she had tricked men in the past but when they go home with her they're either angry or disappointe…
/r/seduction08/02/22 08:25 AM
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Hard how ?
/r/seduction08/02/22 08:14 AM
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Be above average looking, take some pics that show off your pretty face, booty and chest and go on tinder then only swip on tall men. Or dance with guys you like at the club and wait for them to hit on you. What problems are you personally having ?
/r/seduction08/02/22 08:07 AM
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Make them earn your validation and attention and they will value it 100x more. Will feel special for her getting to be the one to chase you. Needy is a turn off, the opposite is a turn on.
/r/seduction05/02/22 08:40 PM
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Why would it ruin anything ?
/r/seduction04/02/22 06:22 PM
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Depends if she says we're not dating Then you know she's not interested and you should stop giving her any attention and move onto the next girl. But if she's saying they are better you can continue the joke and be like how would you know hes better if we haven't shared a bed together yet.
/r/seduction04/02/22 06:05 PM
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You don't help. Be difficult and funny. You can imply with jokes she should be with you instead or if you want to tease her joke that she should be alone. Don't have to talk the guys down or that looks weak just make fun of what she's saying playfully and she'll probably enjoy the conversation more than if you 'help'.in these kind of conversations she's looking for validation and support so don't give her any. At all.
/r/seduction04/02/22 05:13 PM
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It depends on the context. If you haven't slept with the girl yet you can use it as an opportunity to flirt but if you're dating her then you need to set a boundary. Like say you know you're not exclusive buy you don't want to hear about her seeing other men.
/r/seduction04/02/22 04:56 PM
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I don't give a fuck. Win or loose.
/r/seduction04/02/22 04:44 PM
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Next girl it is then man
/r/seduction04/02/22 11:28 AM
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I'd leave it for q few days then ask her out again. If she doesn't put out on the third date then move onto the next girl.
/r/seduction04/02/22 11:18 AM
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You didn't do anything wrong holding her hand. You stopped any advances as soon as she asked so you did this right. Some times women can like you but just not be in the right place mentally to date. The feeling will fade over time, if you try qnd make it go it will stay longer as you're focusing on it.
/r/seduction04/02/22 10:55 AM
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I'm saying mental health problems are more common in unattractive people. No that all attractive people have no problems.
/r/seduction03/02/22 04:48 PM
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You have to admit that on average better looks correlate with self Esteem and standards. Sure not all women but definitely most.
/r/seduction03/02/22 09:19 AM
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They exist but they're not lonely because they're good looking lol. Shitty upbringing or mental health
/r/seduction03/02/22 09:16 AM
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I agree with this but I feel like it's trying to invalidate the feelings of ugly or short men, it's not like guys think these people don't have problems because they're good looking it's that they don't have problems that are anywhere near as hard to overcome qs being born a 1 out of ten guy that no attractive women would even look at. Surely if they have everything going for them in life if they're not content with everything then it's their fault they're unhappy. Alot of people on this sub wou…
/r/seduction03/02/22 09:08 AM
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Why are people saying the same old blue pill bullshit about being yourself? I. Willing to bet this guy is short or ugly or Asian or something else. 0% chance that a naturally attractive man ends up with this mind set.
/r/seduction03/02/22 07:16 AM
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With that much improvement but so little interest I'd assume you're a 3 or 4. How many women have you tried to get in the last 12 months ?
/r/seduction02/02/22 02:25 PM
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Sounds like you need to maximise your looks rather than see a coach if you get 0 attractionfrom women. What would you rate yourself out of 10?
/r/seduction02/02/22 02:12 PM
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In that case you're probably above average looking. Girls are shit at texting you got to close a meet up quickly then get their insta or number and basically ignore them till the night before you're gonna meet. It's not worth trying to get to know know them much more than small talk on text because its boring for her too.
/r/seduction01/02/22 12:57 PM
1

If your stuck with online dating only then I'd just focus on self improvement instead. Everything is almost normal here
/r/seduction01/02/22 12:53 PM
2

He's from the UK.
/r/seduction01/02/22 12:49 PM
2

Check out hamzers YouTube videos on how to get laid at uni.
/r/seduction01/02/22 12:48 PM
7

You're probably limited to Christians or vegans idk lol And you fake it by learning some game and practice it on real girls.
/r/seduction01/02/22 12:45 PM
9

I feel like you got two choices. Actively look for the type of women that want a man with no experience or fake it till you make it.
/r/seduction01/02/22 12:41 PM
2

I'd say something like "yeah let's get to know eachother better over a coffee some time " If she replies with approval in anyway ask her when she's available and this will tell you if she is interested or not. If she gives you a few days she can do your in if she gives you an excuse or something then she was just being friendly before.
/r/seduction31/01/22 06:06 PM
2

Have you met before ?
/r/seduction31/01/22 03:04 PM
7

Hand on their inner thigh slowly going up inbetween their legs then back down nesr their knne slowly and gently but dont touch their pussy till they are begging for it moving their hips towards you very open body language things like that.
/r/seduction29/01/22 11:23 AM
2

You ned to have a chat about what page you are both on in terms of where the relationship is going. Sounds like youre more serious about it then she is but you can never know till you talk it through.
/r/seduction28/01/22 11:33 AM
0

You're in mate go for it
/r/seduction28/01/22 06:30 AM
3

I would behave like you don't give a shit what she does. See other women and her interest will increase.
/r/seduction27/01/22 12:48 PM
1

Women do this too on their tinder profiles they will have q pic of them with a very physically attractive man.
/r/seduction27/01/22 09:56 AM
1

Cuz I'm 5"7 I was going to work on being more muscular and fix the purple bags under my eyes first but now I'm convinced. I will speak to more girls while also working on myself. Seems worth it just for the experience.
/r/seduction27/01/22 09:53 AM
6

Next girl. If she's interested she'll make it clear
/r/seduction27/01/22 08:15 AM
13

You have to tell him he's making you uncomfortable and he will stop. Man obviously can't take a hint.
/r/seduction26/01/22 07:14 PM
21

Show high interest but 0 sexual intensions.
/r/seduction26/01/22 08:47 AM
1

Why say anything at all? If you're asked just be honest.
/r/seduction25/01/22 07:21 AM
5

Once you kiss their neck they will start ro get really horny and should give you some body language to respond to. You want to get her so turned on that's she's ready to just jump on tip and bounce up and down so you've got to make her real want it, tease her be gental and slow with your touches on her breasts and butt and then move to the inner thighs running your hand very gently up and down them getting close to her pussy but never touching. You'll notice her try qnd raise her hips so her pus…
/r/seduction24/01/22 11:59 AM
0

Make a move. If she says just friends then you forget about her and move onto the next girl
/r/seduction24/01/22 11:45 AM
2

How many women have you asked out ever?
/r/seduction24/01/22 09:29 AM
18

Say Who this ? 👀 More than likely a scam bot or accidental add.
/r/seduction18/01/22 02:18 PM
1

They all hoes its probably very similar
/r/seduction18/01/22 11:43 AM
1

Move on to the next girl, this one isn't interested in you at the moment.
/r/seduction18/01/22 11:39 AM
4

You say that but ive had it happen to me a few times with this one chick that was really into me at uni.
/r/seduction18/01/22 09:07 AM
6

You want her to notice. Might even drag you behind a tree or into a bathroom or in the car.
/r/seduction18/01/22 07:44 AM
8

just link him this post and he will agree immediately.
/r/seduction14/01/22 08:17 PM
1

Read no more Mr nice guy and get ripped and rich.
/r/seduction14/01/22 01:27 PM
1

Why didn't they teach us to invest. Why didnt they teach us how to start a business. Why didn't they teach us how to use drugs safel etc etc etc Simple answer. It's to keep you in your little wage slave life making money for the rich.
/r/seduction14/01/22 12:20 PM
2

Why would a 9 or 10 go for someone with no bank balance? Would would a 9 or 10 respond to a random guy on facebook ? Unless you won the genetic generic lotto and are completely ripped ypu have no chance
/r/seduction14/01/22 06:05 AM
4

Sounds like your average tinder results to me. Its a numbers game.
/r/seduction11/01/22 11:02 AM
0

Just say yeah "I've got other girls to talk to"
/r/seduction10/01/22 05:55 PM
4

So what they don't give q shit about being masculine it doesn't mean that I have to find that attractive does it?
/r/seduction10/01/22 10:40 AM
1

Can't really hurt to try
/r/seduction10/01/22 10:38 AM
5

With the same chick I wouldn't unless they segest it but to be fair I'd probably be busy and I'd expect the girl to be as well.
/r/seduction09/01/22 06:05 PM
1

What bs ? You've made no actual points so far I'm not sure what you're getting at.
/r/seduction07/01/22 10:35 AM
-2

Compared to how likely it is to get a 6, 7 or 8
/r/seduction06/01/22 03:12 PM
-3

As I said it's unlikely not impossible.
/r/seduction06/01/22 03:07 PM
-6

If youre sub 5"10 you're unlikely to pull and 9 or 10 but its posible to pull an 8 if you have a good body good game etc.
/r/seduction06/01/22 01:50 PM
1

I dont think soneone choosing to fulfill a request makes them a slave or an object. Lol its not like im gonna do anything if they say no.
/r/seduction06/01/22 09:53 AM
1

Hows it idiotic though? You're just being insulting without making a point. Im on mobile and have thicc fingers so i dont bother trying to type perfectly.
/r/seduction06/01/22 09:46 AM
1

Getting ripped makes more difference than you'd expect for average guys. I've only gone from skinny skinny to lean and already my results are improving and I'm only 5"8 so with you veing above average height of you improve the others tuff about yourself it won't matter that you're black or have an average face etc
/r/seduction05/01/22 09:06 AM
1

Here I the UK being black will put your smv about an extra point higher
/r/seduction05/01/22 08:52 AM
3

How is it gross ? The woman I'm dating at the moment loves it when I ask her to do things that she loves to do for me but doesn't want to ask. Lots of girls genuinely get of on being submissive to the man they love it's not a power trip she knows she cam say no or stop me at any time and I will respect that. You speak like you've only ever had vanilla 10 minutes long missionary sex and nothing else.
/r/seduction04/01/22 01:59 PM
-2

What about my statement gives you that idea ?
/r/seduction04/01/22 12:05 PM
-26

Why wouldn't you ? If a woman respects you she will happily do as you ask and enjoy themselves.
/r/seduction04/01/22 11:01 AM
12

You leave her and make no effort to contact her. Start seeing multiple other women and make sure to be seen with them by friends and people people know your now ex and she will get very jealous and probably beg for you to come back and do anything you say. Not that you should want her back because she's toxic but you do you
/r/seduction04/01/22 09:38 AM
1

How'd you know you're not ugly or just averageif you don't get attention from girls ?
/r/seduction04/01/22 09:35 AM
1

Definitely focus on yourself until you feel you are higher value than the women you're approaching. In the mean time if something happens it happens
/r/seduction04/01/22 09:33 AM
2

Just learn from your mistakes and move on to the next girl. There are 3.5 billion of them
/r/seduction04/01/22 09:27 AM
3

The girl will keep it going if she's really interested otherwise it's like rolling a boulder up a hill
/r/seduction04/01/22 09:25 AM
-7

Yeah exactly. You wanna be in a relationship with girls that kneel when you tell them too not the ones that make you wait weeks for a tiny amount of affection.
/r/seduction04/01/22 08:43 AM
0

I've literally had conversations with women where they're talking about a guy they're sleeping wit who has been found to be sleeping with someone else. She gets out a picture of the girl on my phone and asks me to rate her in the phiti then the girl asks me to rate her and both times I'm saying I don't rate women to their face she kinda gets agitated and says "but I. Better tha her, aren't I?? " these two women were both 8s at best but she genuinely believed she was better looking and tried to p…
/r/seduction04/01/22 08:41 AM
17

I know you're attractive, she wouldn't want to be in a relationship otherwise but physical attraction is just the "you must be this tall to ride " line after that it's about personality and its obvious to me that she actually likes your personality as she's pushing for a relationship. The guys that only meet her attraction level but who she doesn't want a relationship with will be getting casual sex from her
/r/seduction04/01/22 08:24 AM
111

She's setting you up for a relationship where she controls the sex. If she withholds sex you have to withhold your none sexual attention otherwise you're giving it up for nothing and she doesn't have to give anything at all. I can guarantee you she's sleeping with men she's physically attracted to but doesn't like the enough to be in a relationship but because she wants you she's making you wait to take control.
/r/seduction04/01/22 08:17 AM
1

Move onto the next girl
/r/seduction03/01/22 05:07 PM
1

Here's a video the explains exactly how to do it step by step no bullshit. https://youtu.be/PYaixyrzDOk
/r/seduction03/01/22 04:48 PM
42

You're too weak to be approaching girls. Even the best pick up artists don't get more than a 4% hit rate meaning the most attractive men on the planet get rejected more than they don't by quite a bit. I'm just assuming here when I say you're probably not a millionaire, probably not shredded, probably a little shorter than 5"10, average or less face and low self-esteem. You're attached to the outcome of your interactions with women instead of approaching just for fun and not caring if you get the…
/r/seduction03/01/22 09:29 AM
29

What do you mean too much ? It's not like going into debt you loose nothing by being rejected
/r/seduction03/01/22 08:34 AM
4

If you don't look them in the eye at all they will think you're thinking of someone else. Obviously don't stare either.
/r/seduction03/01/22 08:05 AM
2

This channel helpt me https://youtu.be/PYaixyrzDOk
/r/seduction02/01/22 01:49 PM
1

Instead of trying to turn the thinking off try to find out why it is you think this way and improve that part of yourself. Therapy or self improvement can do it.
/r/seduction02/01/22 01:40 PM
1

I dont have much context here but im assuming the ones you're into are better looking than the ones you dont loose ? Could just be out of your league right now maybe you need to spend more time at the gym or make more money or have more fun with your free time. If you believe its not the girls that are different nut your behaviour then obviously you have to modify your behaviour and treat the girls u really want like just another girl that could be replaced with a click of the fingers, easier sa…
/r/seduction02/01/22 01:31 PM
8

Lmao this is brilliant
/r/seduction02/01/22 12:28 PM
2

Basically we're products of our environment and your parents are a huge part of the environmental programing. you can go through self improvement and or therapy and essentially reprogram yourself. The way we're shown love from our parents is how we learn to show love to others, if you didn't receive the love you needed as a child then it's likely you'll have trouble love others and yourself as an adult without putting in some work into this area of your mind. I wish you the best of luck with ove…
/r/seduction01/01/22 06:18 PM
0

Learn self deciplin then start dating again.
/r/seduction01/01/22 06:13 PM
5

Asking for a girls number can be considered harassment and if they complain you will loose your job also if you get rejected by two or three women at work they will talk and none of them will go for you. Bro before hoe is tru because its rhymes simple as that.
/r/seduction01/01/22 11:13 AM
2

It's ok if they're in your league. If they way hotter than you then be prepared for a negative response.
/r/seduction01/01/22 10:25 AM
-1

Got to make it clear from the start that if you're not getting what you want they will receive nothing from you not even text.
/r/seduction30/12/21 10:34 AM
1

You can control how you respond to feelings weather you avoid them o5 confront them is up to you.
/r/seduction29/12/21 08:46 AM
1

A gram of shrooms is easier to handle than weed is. It's all about the dose and intensions with psychedelics. Obviously 3 to 5g is gonna be too much for anyone to consider light but even then no hangover no negative effects on the body like every single other hard drug it's just nonsense to put shrooms in the same category.
/r/seduction29/12/21 08:45 AM
1

If you're a girl then why do you want a one night stand. You gain nothing from it.
/r/seduction29/12/21 07:35 AM
0

Therapy can't hurt.
/r/seduction28/12/21 03:40 PM
7

No. Go ask her out irl.
/r/seduction28/12/21 01:58 PM
16

Become more valuable and you won't have to pretend to be someone else, girls will be attracted to you for you.
/r/seduction28/12/21 01:58 PM
1

What are you scared of exactly?
/r/seduction28/12/21 01:54 PM
1

https://youtu.be/PYaixyrzDOk here's a guide on how to start becoming Chad.
/r/seduction28/12/21 01:53 PM
2

Here is a no bullshit guide on how to stop being a loser. https://youtu.be/PYaixyrzDOk the guy is speaking from experience and was a looser himself.
/r/seduction28/12/21 01:26 PM
6

Try to remember something she told you she likes eating or an activity she likes doing or something that she said in passing. When you show you remember it shows you care and pay attention, makes them feel listened to.
/r/seduction28/12/21 01:15 PM
2

Mostly fives. Never slept with a 3 or lower, probably couldn't if I tried lol.
/r/seduction26/12/21 07:52 PM
-2

Who said I don't get laid ?
/r/seduction26/12/21 07:47 PM
-12

Yeah they have children with other ugly people not high value women like this guy wants
/r/seduction26/12/21 06:14 PM
-11

Present your evidence.
/r/seduction26/12/21 06:03 PM
-25

If you're not a 6 or above there are pretty much no other options as there will always be someone better looking in social circles, group activities and work.
/r/seduction26/12/21 05:24 PM
1

Its what gets me up for work in the morning but i have lots of things im passionate about that have nothing to do with women and could probably turn them off if they knew but these interests bring me so much joy and peace they are definitely more what lifs about i think women are here for us to have fun with while we for fill our biological processes and in the time between make the most of what reality has to offer.
/r/seduction20/12/21 12:34 PM
5

Only send an x if she is sending them with like every text. You want them to be the one initiating childish things like that.
/r/seduction20/12/21 09:17 AM
1

As a 5, I only go for 4s and 5s that aren't fat and don't have annoying personalities. Takes awhile but when you pull agairl with high interest and get her to respect you she will see you as an 8 and treat you like a king.
/r/seduction18/12/21 12:23 PM
13

Sounds like she isn't attracted to you but likes attention
/r/seduction17/12/21 04:05 PM
1

What are you on this sub for?
/r/seduction17/12/21 08:31 AM
4

Women lie. The only way to know if you are above or below average is to look at your results with women, if you're not doing well you're either slacking in the things you can control like weight and game or lacking in looks and height or both. Try cold approach and you will see similar results to tinder.
/r/seduction17/12/21 08:24 AM
4

Just means youre below average looking, if this guy gets matches it's worth the money to save time on swipping but if you get no matches then it isn't even worth your time to swipe.
/r/seduction17/12/21 08:13 AM
2

Pay for the apps so you don't have to swipe and can just choose from who likes you. Alot less than $80 a week.
/r/seduction17/12/21 05:34 AM
1

The longer you wait the higher chance of getting rejected. She will think you just want to be friends. Taking things slow is for once you're actually dating them. Slaw is hard as you spend weeks agonising over what's the right time to ask, there is no right time, but asking for her number and moving on is easy. Go for it man shoot your shot the first chance you get, you have nothing to loose.
/r/seduction16/12/21 10:43 AM
2

Trust me mate you'd rather go thought the most humiliating rejection and know she didn't like you than to never approach and find out years later they were into you, the regret is crushing but the rejections mean nothing in hindsight.
/r/seduction16/12/21 10:25 AM
1

Just ask her. You have to take a risk, if she says no that isn't you fucking something up its simply her not being into you.
/r/seduction16/12/21 09:48 AM
2

You're gonna get flakes either way but drinks or coffe is the best way. I don't even drink and its still my go to.
/r/seduction16/12/21 07:24 AM
3

Got a number while on the train the other day.
/r/seduction16/12/21 07:07 AM
2

Yeah a good analogy for how it's helpt with women is some common advice for job interviews is to act like they would be lucky to have you and to ask lots of questions about what its like to work there and sort of have them qualifie the job to you rather than you try to demonstrate your qualification.
/r/seduction14/12/21 09:51 PM
22

Start going into every situation with the intension of seeing if people are good enough for you and honestly belive that they're lucky to be talking to you rather than you trying to impress them or chase them and end up simping. It's only arrogance until it starts working and becomes confidence the more self improvement you do.
/r/seduction14/12/21 02:03 PM
3

1 and a half hour drive
/r/seduction13/12/21 10:21 AM
-5

Say you don't make friends with women and move on.
/r/seduction11/12/21 04:46 PM
19

Something that helpt me to do the things I knew I needed to do to change was to instead of run from it because the things seemed hard to do you gotta run toward it and the way I motivated myself to do it was I had a serious think about what would happen to me in the next 3 to 5 years if i didn't change and it scared me more than changing, it's like instead of running away i was bring chased toward my problems from fear of them ruining my life forever.
/r/seduction11/12/21 07:32 AM
0

I guess just feed em scaps and you got and easy booty call, enjoy it.
/r/seduction11/12/21 05:38 AM
0

Weird she would acre herself away like that. Why not just enjoy the ride on the dick train .
/r/seduction11/12/21 05:17 AM
3

You should never be the one to ask for commitment. It should always be the girl.
/r/seduction10/12/21 10:24 PM
39

This is something she may stop doing on her own once you commit and 90% of girls do it so if you judge it heavily you limit your options.
/r/seduction10/12/21 08:26 PM
2

Gotta start it with now most guys will lie to you but here's the thing...
/r/seduction09/12/21 09:23 PM
2

The shame eachother about being sluts to protect themselves and do the same to us the first chance they get.
/r/seduction09/12/21 08:32 PM
4

Easiest way to make a guy leave them alone is to give them what they want smile sweetly and walk away.
/r/seduction09/12/21 11:17 AM
12

Social media or br seen by people that know her especially other women they love to talk about this stuff. She left you. Do not think of her as a friend, she is an ex that left you and the only way to get her back is to have her come back to you for a relationship so if you reach out to her ut will do nothing put show your weakness and lack of options which will push her further away.
/r/seduction09/12/21 10:54 AM
17

Be seen attracting other women and do not pursue her at all.
/r/seduction09/12/21 10:41 AM
-1

The difference between a 17 year old minor and an 18 year old adult is bigger I think than a 14 and 17 year old because of the difference in responsibility and legal status.
/r/seduction08/12/21 11:55 AM
-1

The difference is maturity. 14 to 17 year olds are capable of giving concent to eachother as they share a similar level of maturity but once you're 18 you have way more responsibilities which makes you more mature and could easily take advantage of someone who doesn't have the same experience and responsibilities. Personally I think the law should be under 18s cab concent to eachother and over 18s can too but not an under 18 to an over 18 as this is just immoral. At my 6th form, last two tmyears…
/r/seduction08/12/21 08:52 AM
5

Best part about being human is it doesn't natter how bad things get you can always improve your situation.
/r/seduction02/12/21 09:17 AM
5

Good response op. Have fun with this one she'll be a freak in bed.
/r/seduction02/12/21 09:07 AM
1

Maybe for the US but here in the uk its to be exspected if you're a 6 or lower looks wise which i can imagine most of us are on this sub. Even the best dating coaches don't get the number more than 4% of the time.
/r/seduction30/11/21 03:51 PM
2

Ask 1000 girls for their numbers. Chances are you'll get between 0-30 numbers. Most will go no where but its the odd one that does that makes it worth.
/r/seduction30/11/21 03:05 PM
0

Never compliment or validate women. You want them to feel like they have to qualify for your standards not the otherwise round or you will always be on the back foot.
/r/seduction29/11/21 01:06 PM
2

Next girl.
/r/seduction29/11/21 09:40 AM
2

Yeah this is acceptable. I always ask what they like to do for fun or if they don't seem like they're from round here I'll ask where they are from and it just flows from there.
/r/seduction27/11/21 10:41 PM
10

Firstly he's gotta learn to laugh at him self. He was a child. You're supposed to fuck up its the only way you learn. For now get him to work on confidence and that means faking it till you make it. He's gotta really want it and start forcing himself to talk to girls to get over this mental wall.
/r/seduction25/11/21 02:05 PM
2

Man there's something you can improve on to change that I'm certain
/r/seduction23/11/21 06:30 PM
42

3.5 billion women on the plannet there is always a next one. Just literally walk up to the next girl you find attractive.
/r/seduction23/11/21 11:52 AM
26

Probably back with an ex or something just move onto the next girl man there's nothing you can do here without coming off as needy so act like you don't give a fuck and she might come back .
/r/seduction23/11/21 11:47 AM
1

No relationship is 50/50. There is always someone who will get their way more often than the other.
/r/seduction19/11/21 11:21 AM
-1

Sure you'd prefer to agree but you have to accept that who ever you are with there will be disagreements and either they will come first or you will and I know which I would rather happen.
/r/seduction18/11/21 06:31 PM
-2

If your partner respects you and you have the power in the relationship your views will come first.
/r/seduction18/11/21 06:21 PM
-2

Straw man argument but I'll take it. A good relationship there is one person with more control than the other, if op is the one in control then his views come first or he will leave the relationship, if this is a deal breaker so be it but you don't know if it is till you're at this point in the relationship, just talking about it on a 3rd date you have no clue how you would respond in that situation as you simply do not know the context of the relationship.
/r/seduction18/11/21 05:59 PM
-5

This is true for you I don't argue that point I'm not the thought police haha but I would argue that its not so for everyone.
/r/seduction18/11/21 05:14 PM
-9

They don't matter in a relationship unless they're extreme in their views, if they are they will be the first to tell you. If there is great chemistry it doesn't matter who you voted for or if you believe in a life after death. why waste an opportunity for a good relationship and maybe love over things people change their minds on every day.
/r/seduction18/11/21 05:05 PM
-5

Obviously if you're far left you're never gonna be compatible with someone who is far right but these extreme women are very vocal about it and can be avoided, otherwise most girls don't worry about politics much. This message reads like it was written by someone 35 or older or you're a far right/left person yourself. If you're someone whose thinking long term then that means you already have experience with women and don't need help with Conversation, I'd guess op is in his early 20s.
/r/seduction18/11/21 05:01 PM
2

Have you searched "meaningful topics to talk about with girls" ? Come on man youing youtube isnt that hard
/r/seduction18/11/21 02:19 PM
1

Literally search what you want to know on YouTube. All the answers are there.
/r/seduction18/11/21 02:08 PM
0

https://youtu.be/19wDKBoT2zU for real man YouTube is your friend you can straight up search what you asked me for straightforward easy to understand answers.
/r/seduction18/11/21 01:54 PM
13

You should be physical from the first 5 minutes of the first date to break the ice. You dont have to say mucg at all you just have to keep them talking. https://youtu.be/tgLfz3dh5UE learn how to communicate better then have a look at how to improve on flirting and escalating.
/r/seduction18/11/21 01:41 PM
54

Google reflective listening and you can talk to anyone for as long as you like.
/r/seduction18/11/21 01:37 PM
51

If you have nothing talk about on a 3rd+ date then there is no chemistry and you should move onto someone you're interested in and who finds you interesting.
/r/seduction18/11/21 01:34 PM
98

Where are you from is a great start, then ask What do you do for fun? They will say they do X Y Z things Ask them about X, what go them into it why it's fun for them plus anything contextual you can pick up, add to the conversation if you know anything about X Repeat this for y and z Avoid work, religion, politics and philosophy.
/r/seduction18/11/21 01:24 PM
4

This must be satirical. Ever heard of 18 to 35 years olds ? The most attractive women this is ultimately because this is the healthiest time of a woman's life and so from the male perspective they have the most value and is the reason men are mentally rewarded form the sight of a healthy youthful woman and so have the motivation to pursure them. Saying you should pursure someone your own age is just childish. Limmiting yourself to only people horn the same year you were is ridiculous. An adult i…
/r/seduction17/11/21 07:49 PM
6

Men are attracted to youthfulness, its a quality that indicates high fertility.
/r/seduction17/11/21 05:18 PM
2

If who ever you say this to finds it to be unacceptable for what ever reason that means they don't respect you enough.
/r/seduction17/11/21 05:03 PM
23

Be up front and direct with both. Say that long term you want a relationship but that you like to take things slow so for now you're just dating and not exclusive. When they ask if you're seeing other people say that you are qhen they ask for more info say that info is private as to not make her jealous. Don't lie, use the fact other women want to you to make them compete with eachother for your attention which you only give them just enough of to get that crazy about you so that they do what ev…
/r/seduction17/11/21 04:08 PM
43

Rotate them.
/r/seduction17/11/21 04:01 PM
2

If you're a sad person then it's sad but if you love yourself and what you do then how could it be sad ? People are judgy
/r/seduction05/11/21 08:49 PM
1

Or you can go doging with the old people in the woods.
/r/seduction05/11/21 08:46 PM
2

Dating apps or student heavy clubs.
/r/seduction05/11/21 08:45 PM
1

You are absolutely right that a fraction of women don't care at all, very hard to judge how manny as its an opportunity to lie and virtue signal when you ask someone about this. I would imagine this number is far less than 50% but alot of people would lie to avoid being seen as immoral, probably more than half. Some men spend all day on reddit picking over this stuff. As do women on their subs.
/r/seduction05/11/21 08:43 PM
3

You're picking apart my sweeping statements. When I say men or women I mean the majority of such groups in a hetero context. The number as I said is context dependent, 5 is a little for a 30 year old man but 5 is also probably above average for a 20 year old. So what if you have a high or low sex drive I talking about the average. I'm willing to bet money that atleast 50% of women in there 20s wouldn't date 99% of Virgin men in their 20s. The men that are the hardest to get are the ones with the…
/r/seduction05/11/21 08:25 PM
2

Women want a man that is desired by other women. If a man is in his 20s a woman will expect you to have been with at least 5 people. If a man is desirable and straight he will have had many partners as its just male nature to want this. It matters for both but for very different reasons. It's why Virgin guys are seen as lesser and virgin women seen as greater, its hard for guys to get girls but easy for girls to get guys so having less or more means you're either more selective or better at sedu…
/r/seduction05/11/21 06:57 PM
3

Ask what do you do for fun ? They say I like thing x You say we should do thing x together some time They say sure You ask when they're available They tell you then you arrange the date. Keep them talking as much as possible, the more you say the more you talk yourself out of a date
/r/seduction05/11/21 06:51 PM
1

Just bad luck keep going man you got this.
/r/seduction05/11/21 06:46 PM
2

This is context dependent, I'm talking 16 to 30 year olds. Also if the girl is a 10 then 40 or 50 guys I pretty normal not that many will admit it but if theyre a 1 then 50 is very high and 0 to 10 would be low. Average this out and 20 is normal give or take. I mainly deal with 4s to 6s 19 to 28 years old and they often say something between 10 and 30 people, not that I ask, girls just tell me for some reason. You gotta remember that these girls have a huge abundance of choice so unless there is…
/r/seduction05/11/21 06:35 PM
2

Yeah as a man you want your partner to have a low body count. A low number is 20 or less. High is 100 or more.
/r/seduction05/11/21 06:02 PM
-1

i bet you say that to all your girls. Just say Yeah then Wait as long as it takes for her to say something. when she compliments me If its not that flattering say "I know" and if its overly nice just say thanks. Don't give one back, ever. when she tells me to shut up but in a playful You tell her to shut up back, if she says make me, or anything else then you spank her playfully or ask her to leave or leave yourself as she has been rude. when she says make me. Spanking works but also leaving her…
/r/seduction02/11/21 11:39 AM
3

The way I see it is its like playing the lottery but it costs you nothing but a little time. Maybe 1 in a 100 give you their number but it cost you nothing to get it so its worth it.
/r/seduction30/10/21 07:01 PM
8

Your balls have no taste, the oils and sweat on you skin and hair do. So there has to be a reason your sweat tastes bad as most just taste slightly salty. How's your diet ? Do you shave?
/r/seduction30/10/21 09:28 AM
1

Think about it this way, would you be upset if you played the lottery and lost? No because its the most probable outcome. Approaching is like playing the lottery except it costs nothing but your time.
/r/seduction30/10/21 09:22 AM
1

I didn't say you couldn't enjoy this sub just that 99% of guys on here probably don't have a rotation also yeah the point of the rotation is you always have someone to fuck regardless if your main girl is busy or not.
/r/seduction30/10/21 07:10 AM
2

OK??
/r/seduction30/10/21 06:55 AM
22

If you have a rotation already you probably won't be in this sub and most men don't talk about seeing multiple women at the same time as its generally looked down apon.
/r/seduction30/10/21 05:44 AM
1

It's normal to loose it between 14 and 25 really, you're chilling.
/r/seduction30/10/21 05:00 AM
0

It's not ghosting if you plan on responding like 4 hours later Nd shoes you have low interest which makes them want your attention more.
/r/seduction28/10/21 07:35 AM
1

I knew what you meant and yeah that's what my mates did as well.
/r/seduction27/10/21 06:10 PM
1

If they do this just smile and say, what? are you gay ? And watch how flustered they get.
/r/seduction27/10/21 04:56 PM
1

https://youtu.be/16An6WypLGc
/r/seduction26/10/21 07:30 AM
2

Simple example. You say kneel, they kneel.
/r/seduction25/10/21 10:57 PM
2

You can kill that jealousy by realising that 10s ain't shit. Most of them think they're better than you, start out with 4s 5s and 6s and if you build a real connect with some of these girls the sex you can have is better than what you would with most of these 10s. Girls in your league are competing for your attention and will work hard for your validation and thus behave more feminine and submissive.
/r/seduction25/10/21 10:45 PM
1

If you ask for a kiss it's awkward, build up to it with some light touching on the arm on the knee then move to her neck, while switching fromeye contact to looking at her lips every few seconds move in closer and become firmer and more intimate with your touch and this is where you can gauge interest and if don't feel any negativity then she wants you to kiss her and will probably want more too in a party setting
/r/seduction25/10/21 10:35 PM
1

Bad idea. You need to give her a chance to like you back first which is what the date is for. If you surprise someone like that it puts them in a defensive uncomfortable position that is closed to romantic gestures like what could come after a successful kiss, likely she will be confused as it sounds like you two have repour as friends already.
/r/seduction25/10/21 10:26 PM
1

Oh and don't mention your inexperienced until afterwards and it'll be waaay less awkward assuming she doesn't know already.
/r/seduction25/10/21 07:07 PM
1

Ask her out on a date just you two like coffe or drinks then if the vibe is right when you're done invite her back to yours and see where things go.
/r/seduction25/10/21 07:05 PM
2

I had this at school and let ot hold me back. It turned out my friends were all gay and were jealous, not even kidding a couple of them are together now we are older and it all makes sense now. Don't involve anyone in your romantic pursuits except the girl you're after and your dad, he will probably give you money to take her out. Go shoot your shot with your crush and move on to the next girl bro you got this !
/r/seduction25/10/21 06:49 PM
1

I had this at school and let ot hold me back. It turned out my friends were all gay and were jealous. Don't involve anyone in your romantic pursuits except the girl you're after and your dad, he will probably give you money to take her out. Go shoot your shit with your crush and move on to the next girl bro you got this !
/r/seduction25/10/21 06:47 PM
2

A good place to start is to have some generic openers and phases or sentences to continue the conversation such as hey, how are you ? Any plans this weekend? What do you like for fun? This lecture sucks/rocks etc then see how using these works for you and you will come up with your own that will fit your personality better and you won't even have to think "what do I say" anymore.
/r/seduction25/10/21 06:36 PM
1

It can't hurt to pursue her but I wouldn't get my hopes up on this one that's all I'm saying really.
/r/seduction25/10/21 06:09 AM
3

10s ain't shit. They all think they're queens because men simp and beg for their attention. Don't give it to her and she might like you again or not and you can move on to the next girl.
/r/seduction25/10/21 06:05 AM
1

Why is that any of your business tho unless she saw you as a friend? I'd you two were in a romantic frame she wouldn't talk about other potential partners and neither would you. Like of you starting talking with her about a girls number you got it would immediately tell her you are not interested wouldn't it.
/r/seduction25/10/21 06:02 AM
1

Obviously has more than 0 interest to give out her snap and respond to him.
/r/seduction25/10/21 05:57 AM
2

Because she's talking about other guys she likes you have been friend zoned
/r/seduction25/10/21 05:54 AM
6

Men age like wine and women like milk so young girls like older guys because they have had way more time to increase their sexual market value by building wealth, fitness, social proof and game.
/r/seduction23/10/21 03:32 PM
0

Works for me I went from nothing to 3 or 4 dates a month
/r/seduction23/10/21 02:59 PM
-4

Watch alpha male strategies on YouTube he will change your mindset
/r/seduction23/10/21 01:10 PM
1

Now this makes sense I thought you were bullshiting till I read this comment.
/r/seduction23/10/21 05:47 AM
1

Kind of the point of life is that we can never have what we want because we always want more than we have it's in our nature. Even if you were a celeb with as many bitches as you want you would get tired of it and have to find something else to make your life feel like it's worth living.
/r/seduction23/10/21 05:39 AM
2

She's upset because you were dishonest just to make her feel bad about herself and used by you because she thinks you never even liked her now. Why not just be honest and say you want to see other people? I would apologise and explain why you said what you said and what you should have said instead
/r/seduction22/10/21 05:28 PM
2

Pick a random cheap Italian place and leave after your starter if you don't like her
/r/seduction22/10/21 05:23 PM
3

If you don't even enjoy kissing her you probably won't enjoy the sex and likely won't learn much. You time is best spent pursuing girls you do like.
/r/seduction22/10/21 03:03 PM
2

Tell her you want to take things slow
/r/seduction22/10/21 11:38 AM
1

You haven't met yet she is playin
/r/seduction20/10/21 09:20 PM
1

If anything he's worried you like him less now. Maybe next time spend more time on the foreplay and ask what turns him on. Open communication leads to to the most romantic and hot sex you can have.
/r/seduction20/10/21 07:02 PM
2

You're just dating, very few people date one person at a time because you will miss opportunities. No reason to feel bad. If they ask you are you dating anyone else you be honest and don't ask them back because they are but they will lie as society says its slutty.
/r/seduction20/10/21 12:51 PM
3

Playing with fire is so good for online dating
/r/seduction18/10/21 06:53 PM
1

I've stopped opening conversations with questions and instead I start with something like hey, hope you're doing well. and yeah you still get one word responses but when you ask a question afterwards it doesn't feel like you're interviewing someone who isn't interested. After this I typically ask what they like to do for fun and if I already am speaking with them I'll ask what they have planned for that weekend if they say not much tease them them being boring if they mention something talk abou…
/r/seduction18/10/21 06:52 PM
1

Break the touch barrier on the date long before you go for a kiss, this means a touch on the knee or her arm or hand maybe a hug. Look for her reaction here and it will give you an indication of weather she will kiss you back. When you get to it look in her eye for a second then move your eyes to her lips slowly them back to her eyes as you move in for the kiss slowly with your hands on her. At any point if you sense negativity pull back and try again later.
/r/seduction18/10/21 11:00 AM
1

You never ask or you will get a no. Wait till the end of the date and if it feels like she wants more then kiss her if you have no idea if she does then just do it anyway and see what happens. If she responds positively ask her back to yours and then make the move DO NOT AT ANY POINT ASK FOR SEX OR CONCENT WITH WORDS simply attempt to do it and if you get any kind of negative reaction pull back and try again in 30 to 45 min.
/r/seduction18/10/21 10:31 AM
1

That's what I'm saying very few people believe in God so you will have a harder time finding someone than if this wasn't a deal breaker. Your kids will decide their own religion weather both parents are Christian or not and you can still be Christian the rest of you life and it not having anything to do with your partner.
/r/seduction13/10/21 05:52 AM
1

Or have kids lmao.
/r/seduction13/10/21 05:49 AM
7

Booba
/r/seduction13/10/21 05:45 AM
1

Average and not over wait and Christian is way harder than just a regular 5.
/r/seduction13/10/21 05:40 AM
1

Your standards aren't too high but for example if you wanted to catch alot of fish you'd use a big net and catch as many as possible then sort through for the ones you want, you seem to want to catch one particular fish that may or may not be a possibility like there just aren't that many Christians anymore I think if you just forget about that the number of potential partners should go up 10x
/r/seduction13/10/21 05:39 AM
2

That's basically playing the numbers game so you might get 1 % returns on the approaches you make, maybe.
/r/seduction11/10/21 07:41 AM
3

Watch alpha male strategies on youtube he exsplains things in the clearest most direct way and has alot of personal experience to draw on. Start with his video on ghe abundance mind set.
/r/seduction10/10/21 01:56 PM
1

Idk feels like im doing something wrong still but ive followed alot of advice.
/r/seduction10/10/21 01:29 PM
3

Sex obviously wasn't good enough and let's be honest it's the top of most people's priorities assuming the other person has their shit together.
/r/seduction10/10/21 11:34 AM
1

Don't double text. Unless you've waited days for a response.
/r/seduction08/10/21 06:19 PM
1

The way I see it is we're not stringing them along just taking things slow which is what women claim they want anyway, it may never go anywhere but that just means as a couple we weren't good enough for me to settle. You're right about keeping them in chase mode, click your fingers and they get on their knees to keep you.
/r/seduction08/10/21 07:02 AM
0

They guy said he feels he would get nothing if he didn't lie so that means it's justified for him. If you hold your morals higher than your penis then lucky you, you have fewer sexual needs than most of us.
/r/seduction08/10/21 06:58 AM
1

Buy some s3xy underwear or a toy you want him to try using on you and talk with him about how interested you are in having better sex, a bit of enthusiasm and he should take the lead from there if he still finds you physically attractive. Also maybe ask if he watches alot of porn and if he does ask him what he likes to watch and you'll find out what he's really into.
/r/seduction08/10/21 06:40 AM
1

Day before or day off just say you're looking forward to our date.
/r/seduction07/10/21 06:42 AM
11

I find if you don't have a funny answer to a question like this based on context then simply reply yes or no, in this case yes and she will be forced to respect your self assurance.
/r/seduction07/10/21 06:39 AM
1

Its not that long hair is bad but with your facial features it just looks girly on you, not trying to be overly critical but do you get hit on by guys some times ? if you really want want keep the hair maybe try growing out your beard but again that will limit the number of girls you get. also you need separate cloths for work and casual ware, only one work photo in your bio. also sounds like you need you clothes tailored, chose like 3 outfits and get them fitted its alot cheaper than you think,…
/r/seduction07/10/21 06:11 AM
1

You look like a girl why would girls like you? You need shorter smarter hair and better fitting clothes and I garrentee you'll get matches. I'm only 5"8 I'm too skinny for my height, I have a facial scare etc but I still get matches and 2 or 3 dates a month, use this guid to help you build a new online profile and you will get somewhere I promise. Leverage your height and ware clothes that show off your build, gotta look hot to attract people. https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLissspJvKZ--muhDj…
/r/seduction06/10/21 07:06 AM
1

Imagine you're dating a 7 and all day evey day you have 9s in your dms trying to get your attention why would you settle when you can do better. If you're a 10 you get 10s. Be happy you can get above average girls and not just dog faces and fatties like most of us.
/r/seduction05/10/21 01:10 PM
1

Ma boi is in. You can fuck her for sure if you play your cards right.
/r/seduction05/10/21 12:57 PM
9

Tried but I just can't get hard I find it so repulsive.
/r/seduction05/10/21 12:50 PM
2

I've had the most success from badoo and Facebook dating surprisingly. This YouTube channel really helpt me to actually start getting dates, I lowered my standards to as long as they're not fat I give them a chance and some girls have great bodies even tho they have a dog face and because they're not great looking like a 4 in the face they really like and respect you for giving them your time. https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLissspJvKZ--muhDjKNLx8zf0B2upTQiQ
/r/seduction05/10/21 12:37 PM
0

Have you tried anything other than tinder?
/r/seduction05/10/21 12:30 PM
4

Someone with their face half burnt off can match with at least one hoe in their city, you're using the apps wrong.
/r/seduction05/10/21 12:29 PM
1

It's because people hier and promote the people they like not who's best for sure job or who deserves it and if the person promoting is male they will promote their friends or attractive women, it's the same everywhere.
/r/seduction05/10/21 12:14 PM
1

That's a normal amount. You don't put it inside of her you focus your attention on a labia and clit, Google female annotomy and there are probably pussy eating tutorials on pornhub lol. Have fun bro
/r/seduction05/10/21 09:27 AM
3

If you make her cum a few times before you fuck she'll love the sex even if you can only go 10ish min. No met a girl yet that doesn't love her pussy being ate the way she likes, ask her what you can do better when you're down there and she'll talk you though it.
/r/seduction05/10/21 09:08 AM
6

If you make him chase you he will just focus on his other girls. You have to submit to an alpha and then it's up to him if you're worth going into a relationship with.
/r/seduction04/10/21 08:46 AM
1

It definitely exists but it's entirely relative to the person making the rate. The point of 1 to 10 is to demonstrate how attractive ot not you personally find someone to be so a 5 is indifferent, 4 is unattractive 6 is attractive and so on. Like there are alot of girls I'm attracted to but I would be in a relationship with someone less than a 7. Also attractiveness isn't just based on looks making it even more opinion based. This is why looks kind of don't matter too much and why you see guys t…
/r/seduction03/10/21 09:38 AM
2

If you genuinely think it's looks lower your standards go for ugly girls there are plenty that have nice body's but have horrifically low self esteem from not getting any male attention or atleast many times less than all of their pretty friends.
/r/seduction03/10/21 08:47 AM
2

No reason not to do the apps they're free and take little time also many girls are only looking to date amoung friends or online they wouldn't get a guy in a club or a bar or on the street so the only way to have a chance is to use the apps.
/r/seduction01/10/21 11:19 AM
3

Pull back a little. Start letting her bethe one to text you first thatday and also make her wait for responses slowly increase the wait time to 4 hours. If she asks you say its to do with work or your side hustle. Only be the one to make contact if you are setting up a meeting with sex implied. Be direct call it a date at your place order something they like. Always her to your place etc. Also if you're always available to her this will turn her off so find out when she's available then say one …
/r/seduction01/10/21 09:36 AM
1

Yeah but the idea is you use your game (multiple strategies all with the same goal) to make it not creepy and instead fun and flirty through a bit of observational humour, light teasing and so on. I'll be honest I'm new to this and haven't picked a girl up yet with this method but also I work a lot so I'm only asking 10 ish women a week
/r/seduction01/10/21 09:27 AM
1

Going up to random girls you find attractive that you see throught your day and asking them out if you still like the after 2 minutes of flirting.
/r/seduction01/10/21 09:16 AM
1

I don't think we scare women more that they are aware they're a target for attention good and bad so obviously if you knew you were a target you wouldn't stand still if you know what I mean. I'm in the UK and just started approaching. Uts like walking on egg shells unless you got choosing signals from them. Cold approached one girl, standard hey I thought you were cute and wanted to talk to you(pause to gauge interest) and she straight up just told me to fuck off like I'd just kicked her up the …
/r/seduction01/10/21 09:15 AM
1

That's disappointing. Maybe I'll be a basket ball player in my next life.
/r/seduction27/09/21 11:39 AM
4

EZ next girl
/r/seduction27/09/21 11:04 AM
1

I'm 5"7 would it be possible to become 7"5?
/r/seduction27/09/21 11:01 AM
63

Chicks do this because they think guys won't respect them unless they make them wait to the 2nd or 3rd date. Doing this to girls is a great way to show youre not thirsty and can get it as much as you want it, weather that's true or not doesn't really matter its all about how you're perceived.
/r/seduction26/09/21 02:50 PM
6

If you're not direct they will think you just want to be friends.
/r/seduction23/09/21 01:16 PM
6

Just see this as practical for the real thing and once you're friends she will probably have friends she could set you up with. I can say you won't catch feels but if you do they will fade pretty quickly once you meet the next girl you're into.
/r/seduction23/09/21 01:06 PM
14

Make eye contact and gently smile and hold it longer than she does. If she looks away or down straight away then don't approach. If she smiles back, plays with hair, open body language that's her asking you to talk with her. Google choosing signals.
/r/seduction21/09/21 04:53 PM
0

How does that not work well? Are your intentions to get her to cheat? Because it's unlikely she will if she's told you she has a bf.
/r/seduction18/09/21 03:45 PM
3

You're too attached. Next girl.
/r/seduction17/09/21 05:53 AM
1

Don't initiate contact. Let her come to you at her own pace if you want things to progress.
/r/seduction17/09/21 05:33 AM
25

Tell me about it man. I try to use this as motivation for self improvement to make sure I don't miss no more opportunities in life when it comes to girls or anything else.
/r/seduction16/09/21 05:54 PM
4

Wait for choosing signals if you're low confidence as these approaches are more likely to succeed. Then walk up say you caught them checking you out and introduce yourself.
/r/seduction15/09/21 05:46 AM
5

Its easier said than done but definitely possible. Gotta have enough charisma and confidence to play it cool when on the inside youre dying to rail the chick youre talking too.
/r/seduction11/09/21 10:02 AM
9

People want waht they cant have. Got to make the ones you want think you dont want them because you hav other potentially better options than them and they will pursue you.
/r/seduction11/09/21 09:58 AM
1

If you're weird they won't see you as an 8 though the score isn't based on looks alone for women. Alot of the physical attraction comes from how you behave.
/r/seduction09/09/21 12:07 PM
1

Ask her avaliablity, if you're also available then ask her out for drinks or dinner or coffee or whatever you'd prefer.
/r/seduction08/09/21 10:09 AM
2

Wtf man how young were the girls you were talking to?
/r/seduction07/09/21 07:29 AM
3

I lost it at 18 and I felt like this was late but man there are guys in here that are 25 and older who haven't even kissed a girl yet. College is definitely the best place to meet girls. Also how long have you been actively trying to loose it ? Asked many girls out recently?
/r/seduction07/09/21 07:05 AM
2

Some times girls say things that sound like jokes but aren't when they try to be funny. Just roll with it some thing like yeah I'm free x days next week.
/r/seduction06/09/21 01:35 PM
1

Im not victim shaming here but surely if girls didn't respond positively ti this kind of behaviour then men wouldn't do it as it wouldn't get them anywhere.
/r/seduction06/09/21 01:18 PM
-2

Its likely people think they have slpet together already by the way he says they act together.
/r/seduction05/09/21 09:57 AM
-14

No I don't apply this but in the grand scheme of things no one will really care either way so like unless he values his friendship with this girl what does he have to loose?
/r/seduction05/09/21 09:40 AM
12

Eh if she doesn't cheat with him she'll just do it with some other guy so what's the difference.
/r/seduction05/09/21 07:10 AM
2

I understand where you're coming from and unfortunately you have to focus on the stuff you can change rather than the stuff you can't. Whish you the best of luck mate.
/r/seduction04/09/21 07:07 AM
7

Do nothing. If she doesn't message you first after a few days it's a lost cause.
/r/seduction02/09/21 06:27 PM
2

You don't. Pull back and if she shows some interest in the next week then ask her out again. Maybe not at her work place as that could be awkward for her, why not a bar or something.
/r/seduction02/09/21 06:22 PM
1

Surely it's the same protocol as turning any woman on. Eye contact then light touch then kissing etc...
/r/seduction02/09/21 03:14 PM
2

What indication do you give to guys that you want them to stop you? Are you making eye contact and smiling at them, playing with your hair things like that. Are you dressing in a way that would catch a man's attention? Do you walk around on your phone or with ear phones in ? How's your body language and pasture is it open and inviting? Avoid clubs unless you just want something casual. Try meeting someone while doing something you enjoy doing random, example yoga class.
/r/seduction01/09/21 06:34 PM
1

Whys it sad you can't find someone who suites you? What steps have you taken to try to find love ?
/r/seduction01/09/21 06:29 PM
1

Like she said she was interested in the festival you were going too why didn't you invite her ? Same with hiking you could have just said we should go some time. Then when she agrees to going with you tell her what days you're available, no more than two different days and then she will say which one and so on or she won't go anywhere with you and you'll know she's just messaging guys for attention not dates.
/r/seduction01/09/21 07:20 AM
1

Sure some women like manly guys but the opposite is also very attractive to just as many women because reliability is more to do with being financially and emotionally stable than being physically capable seeing as most of yours and their problems don't involve fighting or acting tough. I think anyone could benefit from 3 or 4 therapy sessions.
/r/seduction31/08/21 05:41 PM
1

This is nothing to do with how you look. You need to do some soul searching and find out where these insecurities are coming from and deal with the route cause. Maybe some therapy or counselling? If it was really as simple as how can I protect her surely you just learn MMA and no one will be able to mess with you regardless of size.
/r/seduction31/08/21 05:29 PM
1

He just caught you with a nail. Get him to get a manicure before he trys again.
/r/seduction31/08/21 04:07 PM
2

I had a date last week. Paid for dinner just out of politeness and she said we should have split it and seemed a little offended or annoyed that I did that without talking about it first. I explained I thought it would be rude of me to even bring up the bill as I asked her out and she said that she probably should have said at some point that she prefers to pay for herself. So I'm considering having a brief conversation about who pays with the next girl but idk if this chick was just different 🤔
/r/seduction31/08/21 03:41 PM
3

Maybe but aren't those girls also likely to be too shy to give their number to a stranger. Personally I focus on girls confident enough to show their interest as I think that's quite attractive. If this is someone you know and they know you, you've spoken before and her looking away in a shy manner is a regular thing then I think you're right.
/r/seduction31/08/21 03:14 PM
1

Google Flirting techniques and try some out. There is a sweet spot between being friendly and being creepy, you have to mess up a few times to find it.
/r/seduction31/08/21 02:09 PM
3

If making eye contact would botch things then they simply aren't interested anyway. Bug difference between making eye contact which is arguably a form of body language and starring which is rude and creepy. Typically you should maintain eye contact until they look away, if they're not invested they'll look away pretty much immediately.
/r/seduction31/08/21 10:05 AM
4

Be honest and say you aren't comfortable sharing personal info until you have met, if she can't respect simple boundaries like that then she's probably not worth dating.
/r/seduction24/08/21 05:25 PM
1

I feel like this when they walk right past you and you turn to say something and they're gone. I just think rip.
/r/seduction24/08/21 04:40 AM
2

If they say you're good and you're not trying or have very very little experience then it just means you're clean and gentle and are physically attractive to them.
/r/seduction24/08/21 04:33 AM
1

I have alot of baggage and won't be sharing it with someone unless we are truly in love because I know I wouldn't date me if I only knew my past on face value so why should anyone else.
/r/seduction23/08/21 06:51 PM
1

This is legal in my country and still looked down on. Wait till she's 18 man at least.
/r/seduction23/08/21 06:41 PM
9

Next girl mate
/r/seduction22/08/21 08:40 AM
1

Man I don't drink so I feel like it's just not gonna happen in a bar for me. I have fun at clubs though love dancing to house music.
/r/seduction21/08/21 04:51 PM
3

You're good at explaining your point of view here. I feel like I've got a similar frame of mind from psychedelics, they totally changed my life.
/r/seduction19/08/21 03:28 PM
3

Be glad she didn't waste more of your time and focus on the next girl mate
/r/seduction18/08/21 07:50 AM
2

Maybe he thinks you just want to he friends and so he isn't trying to build any tension or escalate. Make your attraction more clear to him by asking to hang out just you too and see what happens.
/r/seduction17/08/21 06:41 AM
1

Maybe there is someone else maybe he's insecure. Could be alot of things tbh .
/r/seduction10/08/21 07:47 PM
10

Worst case situation you loose your job over a harassment claim
/r/seduction10/08/21 06:48 AM
1

I Dont think there is any one right answer, I often get the vibe from people in a mask the don't want to approached due to fear of death from the media about covid
/r/seduction10/08/21 06:29 AM
1

Could be having fun at work but there's no reason not to ask her out as long as you won't loose your job over it
/r/seduction10/08/21 06:13 AM
6

She either thinks you two are friends or she wants to make you jealous so that you be more direct with her.
/r/seduction09/08/21 09:24 AM
1

She wants a casual relationship or friends with benefits.
/r/seduction09/08/21 06:51 AM
1

See a guy you like, maintain as much eye contact as you can while gently smiling and play with your hair while having open posture and one out of maybe 10 or so guys will talk to you. You can kind of see this as you asking/giving permission to approach you as many guys will not cold approach they prefer it warm meaning when a girl has given you some kind of signal that she's interested.
/r/seduction09/08/21 06:49 AM
3

Eye contact is what u look for even if its just incidental its breaks the ice better than sneaking up on someone lol
/r/seduction09/08/21 06:14 AM
28

I do this in job interviews, act like I have the job and the interview is just an induction/ get to know the boss sorta situation and I just try to have fun with it. Never messed up an interview. This is definitely great advice.
/r/seduction09/08/21 06:12 AM
1

I see what you're saying but no reason not to use both with the same profile as they are free to use.
/r/seduction08/08/21 05:24 PM
5

Both
/r/seduction08/08/21 04:05 PM
2

Do nothing, if she doesn't express any interest then move on to the next girl.
/r/seduction08/08/21 03:56 PM
28

Just means you are obviously after hookups instead of a relationship, or atleast that's how you're coming across.
/r/seduction08/08/21 03:42 PM
8

Most matches you could say anything, like literally anything and it still won't get you a date because they're just not interested. definitely start cold approach man every rejection is fuel on the confidence fire and confidence is the most attractive thing about men.
/r/seduction08/08/21 01:29 PM
2

What exactly are Karen's doing that is killing your motivation ? How are they projecting?
/r/seduction08/08/21 01:11 PM
4

The way I look at is with dating apps you get what you are given, usually low value women if anything. You can use the apps perfectly and still have nothing due to the problems with the apps. With cold approach you have all the power, you get to roll the dice with who ever and as many times as you want, it's like playing in the cassino for free betting on that 1 in a 1000 chance of things playing out.
/r/seduction08/08/21 01:10 PM
1

Lmao
/r/seduction08/08/21 01:04 PM
1

Lmao
/r/seduction08/08/21 12:53 PM
1

How am I projecting? If you want a casual sex life then go and get one if you want a relationship go and get one if you want to change what you want Cognitive behavioural therapy can work otherwise fake it till you make it I guess.
/r/seduction08/08/21 12:29 PM
11

The YouTube channel playing with fire is so good. He gives you examples of what to say and how to say things to come off the way you want to and control the frame.
/r/seduction08/08/21 12:15 PM
1

It's not a mind set. It's just what you want. If you could choose what you wanted out of life it would be best to choose to want nothing so you wouldn't have to do anything and could just feel content with nothing. We don't get a choice unfortunately.
/r/seduction08/08/21 12:13 PM
3

Worst case situation you loose your job for harassment or something best case you fuck her. If it's worth it to you then just be as direct as possible.
/r/seduction08/08/21 08:48 AM
1

Well I can understand where you're coming from and if your friends understood what you just replied to me I'm sure they would understand too. Where do you go to find quick and casual relationships?
/r/seduction08/08/21 08:42 AM
2

It's a lounge sounds pretty casual so why not ask customers out ? As long as its not staff then you're not shitting where you eat just talking with a random stranger. Obviously don't bother the regulars but if you feel the signals what do you have to loose by asking them ?
/r/seduction08/08/21 08:35 AM
6

It's hot for both you and the girl if you do it right but you have to be gentle, your putting a bit of pressure on her clit and holding her very close it gets her wet for sure but you have have build up to it like you wanna have been making out for a good 20 seconds or so and have already escalated with out ways of touching and teasing her. Best done against a wall or with her laying on the bed so you don't have to focus in your balance much.
/r/seduction04/08/21 10:55 AM
1

About 40 minutes outside of Sheffield.
/r/seduction03/08/21 04:46 PM
1

Good advice mate cheers I hadn't thought of galleries.
/r/seduction03/08/21 01:05 PM
2

I personally dislike the make up, i think it makes some girls look like drag Queens lmao
/r/seduction03/08/21 10:35 AM
2

It's more like we loose nothing by approaching during the day so why not ? It's like playing a roulette wheel for free, even if uts a 1 in a 1000 chance of success It's worth taking the chance as you have nothing to loose.
/r/seduction03/08/21 09:16 AM
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Tinder is useless. Cold approach is the way.
/r/seduction03/08/21 07:52 AM
5

Names are hard. I have to use it in a sentence while speaking with them like 10 times before there is even a chance I will remember lmao.
/r/seduction03/08/21 07:39 AM
1

I'm in a similar position. Tinder worked for me 5 year ago but now I've been on it a month and I have nothing so I am switching to cold approach. When I see a girl I like the look of I introduce myself and state my intent and just have fun with it. The way I see it is I probably have like a 1 in a 1000 chance of getting a date this way but it costs me nothing to take that chance where as these apps as so expensive now.
/r/seduction03/08/21 07:15 AM
2

Not too early. Literally the perfect timing.
/r/seduction03/08/21 07:00 AM
13

The thing with humour is there isn't a single joke ever told that makes everyone laugh and there will always be someone offended by it. Be yourself man the girls that like your kind of jokes will REALLY like it. If you can make them laugh then you can make them cum.
/r/seduction02/08/21 04:32 PM
4

I'm a guy but I felt the same way before my first approach. I've never liked small talk and I was never sure of what to say. Plan your opening line, like hey you caught my attention and I had to come and speak to you, I'm josh. After this point it literally doesn't matter what you say as long as you are normal and relaxed, it's all about how you say what you're saying. Show your intentions with eye contact and maybe physical touch if they seem receptive. Good luck and try to have fun with it, no…
/r/seduction02/08/21 04:24 PM
2

One month of using the free version on every app has convinced me to switch to cold approach.
/r/seduction02/08/21 04:14 PM
19

It's complicated says it all. Next girl man.
/r/seduction02/08/21 04:07 PM
15

Bull shit your mate is fine with you fucking his mom. If he is then it must be some kind of strange fetish he has its a like an incest cuck or some shit idk
/r/seduction02/08/21 03:02 PM
3

Try a compromise, say they can bring theor friend for 20 minutes or so and if they're not comfortable with you both can leave if they are the friend can leave.
/r/seduction01/08/21 09:23 AM
2

Look here in the eyes, every ten seconds ish move the focus of your vision to her other eye then move again to her lips and repeat this while you're talking. You will get some signals back that either scream kiss me ! Or that she needs to be charmmed more. Also it helps to have already had some kind of physical touch like a hug or play with her hand, forearm or thigh.
/r/seduction01/08/21 08:01 AM
3

Good luck man
/r/seduction01/08/21 07:57 AM
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It's not that strange that she did that but it's odd she felt the need to mention it on a first date. I'd keep pursuing her but look out for any red flags.
/r/seduction01/08/21 07:54 AM
2

The YouTube channel playing with fire has some great tips that you would have to pay for else where. He shows you the actual conversions and what words to use in the commen situations.
/r/seduction01/08/21 07:14 AM
2

You should be friends with her if you don't have any romantic feelings for her otherwise it will get in the way and you'll be second guessing her friendliness as romantic interest.
/r/seduction31/07/21 11:20 AM
1

You never ask. You just try to turn them on so much they can't keep their hands off of you, if at any point she wants things to stop you will be able to tell very easily and can switch to cuddling or whatever she wants. People can concent have great sex and leave happy and still put in a false rape aligation so pushing for verbal consent is pretty meaningless. The only time I feel some verbal communication can help is when you or your partner are drunk/high, I don't like sleeping with someone wh…
/r/seduction31/07/21 07:16 AM
2

Good luck and have fun!
/r/seduction29/07/21 08:43 PM
2

Eye contact and a cute smile and Enthusiastic but normal happy tone. Try to have open body language. Some girls will play with their hair or their lips or even put your hands on his arms or legs. You can kind of see the flirting you do like compliments and touching and things as your form of approaching guys as it will tell you right away if they are interested in a sexual relationship with you or not.
/r/seduction29/07/21 08:41 PM
9

Just say hey, my mom insert mothers name here gave me your number, how are you doing?
/r/seduction29/07/21 08:22 PM
9

Work
/r/seduction29/07/21 08:20 PM
1

Complement men on what you genuinely find attractive about them, guys never receive Complements and when it comes from a girl you are attracted to it is very effective.
/r/seduction29/07/21 08:18 PM
1

That is obviously part of it. But by no means the full picture. It's all about social status and the approval they get from other women helps them to understand if what they are doing to attract a partner is the right thing or not. It's evolution man, not saying attracting men is the meaning of life for women just that it is a large part of what motivates them.
/r/seduction27/07/21 03:32 PM
1

Just an example. Im saying pic anything, even sparkling water looks like an alcoholic drink.
/r/seduction27/07/21 02:56 PM
8

I quit drinking a couple years ago. No one notices if you just have oj man.
/r/seduction27/07/21 09:58 AM
2

So you know how like with meditation you don't ignore your thoughts but instead observe them and don't react to them. Try applying this to the thoughts and feelings you get that you feel are holding you back. You are totally right. It's not about if you have had sex or not, it's all about your confidence or rather how confident you come across to the girl you're pursuing.
/r/seduction26/07/21 06:32 PM
2

Obviously that isn't the only reason and they may not be thinking about approach specifically but they are obviously thinking about how they are perceived by other people and by trying to be as attractive as possible they will have more men approach them. If they didn't want men to approach them then they would dress in ways that don't show off their bodies and they certainly wouldn't ware makeup.
/r/seduction26/07/21 01:42 PM
1

I think there are more men out there who don't enjoy small talk than there are women that don't enjoy small talk. Just from personal experience. But yeah I agree most people enjoy small talk.
/r/seduction26/07/21 12:57 PM
1

I like to get them close to cumming a few times so you have them thrusting there hips towards your hand as you pull away just before they cum then don't give them your dick till they're basically begging for it. I had girls cum as soon as I put my dick in them doing this, also once you're inside her clit gets even more sensitive so you can start making her cum over and over again because she wants it so bad from all the edging you did earlier which makes her tighter and wetter so she cums harder…
/r/seduction26/07/21 11:16 AM
1

I found my anxiety went through the roof when I went out with nothing planned but approaches. Only approach women you see day to day during your normal life and the spontaneous nature of the interaction makes it so much more chilled out and natural feeling.
/r/seduction26/07/21 09:35 AM
3

You say you care about them more than just numbers but how can this be true when you don't know anything about them ? This is the nice guy mind set virtue signalling that keeps men single. Women in general want you to approach them, it's why they make so much effort with their appearance.
/r/seduction26/07/21 09:20 AM
1

Men dislike small talk and that is all that can really happen over text.
/r/seduction26/07/21 08:13 AM
2

Sounds like you're doing a great job mate. Keep going as you are and the anxiety will become less frequent over time.
/r/seduction26/07/21 07:51 AM
2

Girls love small talk. I've noticed it doesn't even matter what is even being talked about they just like the fact that they're talking and enjoying the normal friendly flirty vibes. I'm much better at deep conversation so when small talk is happening I focus on making the conversation about the girl or both of us as a pair. Also try to listen as well as you can as you'll spot moments where you can throw in some jokes and flirty comments and you'll be able to tell how well they work on her by ho…
/r/seduction26/07/21 07:27 AM
1

If you don't want to know them as a person then you don't want them as your girlfriend you want to hookup with them. To hook up with girls you have to convince them to sleep with you and to do that you you have to at least pretend to get to know them though this isn't the case when picking up in a club or bar as there are women who just want to fuck who they like the look and vibe off who they meet that night.
/r/seduction26/07/21 07:22 AM
2

The insecurity is something you just have to live with and once you learn to do that it effectively has gone away but in reality it's always there you just pay it no mind. Easier said than done though. Do you meditate ? Have you tried therapy or something to find the route cause of your feelings ?
/r/seduction26/07/21 07:11 AM
1

Make it casual, ask for drinks or to go to the park then when you have him alone make it a date and he will take the lead.
/r/seduction23/07/21 04:56 AM
3

It's a polite no. Like saying they have a boyfriend when they don't. They don't want to ghost or disappoint you so avoid commitment one way or the other.
/r/seduction22/07/21 07:45 AM
1

Lol
/r/seduction19/07/21 11:48 AM
3

Good luck with it man. Just don't do it right infront of her bf lol.
/r/seduction17/07/21 10:52 AM
3

And by saying how things are is you making your move and shooting your shot. Why do you need to say how things are, why should anyone care if they cannot act or do anything with the things you describe for the sake of describing them. You are just asking for troubles man
/r/seduction17/07/21 10:45 AM
3

It's nothing to do with fear. You don't fight people not because you're afraid but because you know it is wrong. It is wrong to tell her you like her as its making a move against her man which is disrespectful. What other people say means nothing idk why you bring that up.
/r/seduction17/07/21 10:39 AM
5

There is no rejection to be scared of here because there is no chance of a yes. Being honest with yourself has nothing to do with what you say to others. You have already been honest as you already know you like her. I guess you could say it was courageous to try and steal her from her by but many would argue with you on that. This could hurt your social status, what makes it worth risking that?
/r/seduction17/07/21 10:30 AM
3

Sorry buddy, you can't. All you can do is force your way through them often enough so that forcing it is normal to you.
/r/seduction17/07/21 10:27 AM
5

But to what end ? Only nothing or bad things can come from this so what is to be gained ?
/r/seduction17/07/21 10:26 AM
12

You barely know her just focus on the next girl who is attractive to you.
/r/seduction17/07/21 10:23 AM
2

Just say anything normal. It's not what you say but the fact she wants you to say something that's important. Even its boring it's fine as long as its not weird .
/r/seduction17/07/21 09:05 AM
1

When in doubt be normal. Flirt a little if she is receptive to a greeting.
/r/seduction13/07/21 02:09 PM
1

I mean being a virgin at that age isn't anything be ashamed of I'm not syaing saying at all but it could be embarrassing for you so I would maybe frame it like that and say that it's actually taken some work for you to be able to talk with him about this because the easy way would have been to just say that you had had a few partners before him and he would have stopped questioning it. Sometimes people tell the truths we don't expect and they come off as lies as the other person has no way of co…
/r/seduction10/07/21 07:46 AM
1

Eh this is a very very rare situation. I'd say to him if it doesn't matter to him then why can't he accept what your answer is if the answer isn't important?
/r/seduction10/07/21 07:42 AM
1

I think if you just say hey you have nice tits they will think you're autistic
/r/seduction10/07/21 07:33 AM
1

He means don't get attached to how you want the other person to see you, obviously you care and there is no changing that but how you respond to this caring is what matters. React to it with calmness and be fine with some silence for a second or two.
/r/seduction10/07/21 07:02 AM
1

Why is this better than just saying they caught your attention and you wanted to talk, they ask what caught your attention then you tell them and introduce yourself and so on
/r/seduction10/07/21 07:00 AM
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This is how you learn from this. Next time do not get drunk and you'll do what needs to be done.
/r/seduction10/07/21 06:48 AM
1

The worst bit is your Brian realises it was all a trick once you're done because there is no intimacy so you feel empty afterwards.
/r/seduction10/07/21 06:33 AM
1

It does take more than dressing well and being fit, it takes the confidence to know you are worthy of their time and you have decided they are worthy of yours because of your attraction. Were all busy, them being busy is no more important than you are. Im not saying go somewhere only to pick up girls as this is not time effective, im saying when you see one during your day that you are attracted to you should go and talk to them and try to get a number if your like them still after greating.
/r/seduction09/07/21 07:03 PM
3

Yes but the standards for qualifying as attractive are much lower than you think for women that are 7/10 or less. Be clean and presentable and ware well fitting clothing and be healthy physically and you meet most women's standards. No every no you get during cold approach means you were creepy to them, they just weren't into you. Trust me if you creep a girl out she will tell you in one way or another.
/r/seduction09/07/21 06:42 PM
7

They literally want you too. Guys like booty and boobies and women like confidence. Nothing shows confidence like cold approach, if anything checking them out and then not talking to them is more creepy.
/r/seduction09/07/21 05:42 PM
2

I think it is time to friend zone him or ghost before you fall for the BS while you're feeling a little emotionally venerable.
/r/seduction08/07/21 12:07 PM
2

So you would feel bad for ghosting him I'm surprised, I mean he hasn't creeped you out by not walking away when you asked ? Some times you only have bad choices to make and have to make the least bad one.
/r/seduction08/07/21 11:57 AM
8

You've already cut it off why do you feel you need him to agree with you? Just ghost like most girls do.
/r/seduction08/07/21 11:51 AM
2

Tease them for being flaky then Pretty much immediately re arrange and then if they don't then you say OK bye.
/r/seduction08/07/21 11:49 AM
10

Ask your friends if they have any guys looking to date. If you come across men you're interested in irl just look them in the eye fir more than a second and they will come and talk to you. Most guys will want to sleep with you pretty much immediately, the ones who stick with dating you after the first date are worth sleeping with because it's one of the primary ways a man froms feelings for their partner.
/r/seduction08/07/21 11:28 AM
1

Alot of boys mistake gaslighting and aggression for dominance which is harder to pull off as every girl is different men know to have open communication and a loving touch but this is hard to learn as you need an open mind and willingness to listen to your partner which again men are typically bad at.
/r/seduction08/07/21 08:23 AM
3

Exceptionally good looking women quite often have a personality of a pile of dog shit. Average face, a great body and a personality that compliments yours is the best way to go I think.
/r/seduction08/07/21 08:15 AM
2

She wants a friend not a relationship but just doesn't know it.
/r/seduction07/07/21 06:11 AM
2

I would leave, that's reasonable for the first few weeks but at this point she must know you're not having fun.
/r/seduction07/07/21 05:56 AM
1

Have you made your concerns clear to her?
/r/seduction07/07/21 05:51 AM
1

The only way to screen for women looking for subs, which are very very rare as there is an abundance of male subs whith mommy issues out there, is online dating and say you're submissive in your profile.
/r/seduction06/07/21 04:56 PM
1

He's into you ask him out for a drink or something
/r/seduction06/07/21 09:20 AM
10

It's only creepy if they're not attracted to you lmao 😂
/r/seduction06/07/21 09:20 AM
6

Do it in the first 5 seconds. They'll guide you to their cheek or lips if you lock eyes and pull them in close by the waist.
/r/seduction05/07/21 06:24 PM
1

In jeans chicks dig it they just think you're big
/r/seduction05/07/21 04:54 PM
5

You book a hotel for a completely separate reason like to see a band or to go hiking to just anything anywhere slightly out of town. Girls love hotels and unless you make it about sex to a girl like that she won't think that.
/r/seduction05/07/21 06:24 AM
5

I always say I want to hang out with a cool girl and see if we have the right kind of romantic chemistry I'm looking for. 9 times out of 10 they say they feel the same.
/r/seduction03/07/21 08:45 AM
2

Girls aren't worth risking your mates for man.
/r/seduction02/07/21 05:01 PM
2

Ask him out to drinks or something, just say its to show appreciation for the help but then make it a date, dress to impress and flirt with him. If he doesn't get the message then I'm sorry he's probably not interested. If you're not sure, by the end of the evening see if he will walk you home. This is a signal few guys miss.
/r/seduction02/07/21 06:42 AM
0

I wonder if its because most guys rely on apps like tinder rather than approaching now and because other women know that women like to be approached that could be why you're getting more chick's than guys.
/r/seduction02/07/21 06:38 AM
2

No excuses here. I didn't say that you did any of that. The paradigm is simple. I'm not saying it's likely to happen to you but you never know what might happen, I'm sure I can a few cases of this happening online but even then you will just pick holes to side step my main question which to be honest has nothing to do with OPs post but your arrogance. Why can't you tell me what you would do if this happened to you ? Do you just not know ? That is an acceptable answer here, I don't think many peo…
/r/seduction01/07/21 06:55 PM
2

Many teenagers take steps to look older and present as though they're in their 20s, faicial hair and groth spurt anythings possible. Though weather or not this is likely to happen to you isnt what im getting at as its obvious that it is very uncommon. Im saying hypothetically the situation is that this has happened to you, what would you do ?
/r/seduction01/07/21 06:43 PM
1

No worries. This happens all the time here in the UK so alot of guys know how to handle it. Luckily I've never been in your shoes but I remember when it happened to my brother and he was scared shitless that the police would get involved, Luckily its just a funny story now but anything could have happened.
/r/seduction01/07/21 05:11 PM
7

So what. In this theoretical situation what would you do ?
/r/seduction01/07/21 04:39 PM
5

It's obviously realistic and could and does happen to anyone. There are guys that are 15 that look 25 same with girls. Gonna dodge the question again or give an honest answer?
/r/seduction01/07/21 04:38 PM
1

What would you do if you slept with a guy who said he was 20 but turned out to be 15?
/r/seduction01/07/21 04:36 PM
3

Lots of ways to do this and it's always worth with young looking ones as you never know what kind of trouble you might get into. See if they will go for a drink with you first and then you know if they're old enough.
/r/seduction01/07/21 04:27 PM
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Well a good way to ID someone is to get a drink together first. No one can prove you slept with her, just that you went to her house. If things get out then just claim it didn't happen and that she's starting shit for attention.
/r/seduction01/07/21 04:26 PM
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I'd be very clear and direct with her that you can't be involved with her as she is too young and because she lied, after that just block her and hope for the best. In the future ask for ID lmao.
/r/seduction01/07/21 03:44 PM
1

Any examples of doing this vs not doing it ?
/r/seduction01/07/21 11:18 AM
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I get the sentiment and as much as you're supposed to only do things you like how do you know you like them of you haven't tried them. I realised recently I don't do anything creative so I'm gonna try drawing making music and writing and see what happens. I'm interested to see what others on here say as there is a fairly limited list of hobbies one can do on limited funds and experience.
/r/seduction30/06/21 05:01 PM
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See I don't really know what that means. Like I'm 5"8, skinny and I look 17 despite being 23.
/r/seduction28/06/21 11:48 AM
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If this is real you're in mate just make a move. I've been where you are and I didn't make a move I didn't trust my instincts and figured we were just friends and I will always regret not pursuing them.
/r/seduction28/06/21 11:17 AM
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This is a good idea, kinda treat it like a tinder match and try to build as much repour as you can.
/r/seduction26/06/21 11:25 AM
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The post has convinced me to start to cold approaching women, tinder does makes me feel like a creep because they alaasy ask if im onky after hook ups which isnt true.
/r/seduction26/06/21 10:49 AM
5

Rather a high number than a low one as I prefer an experienced partner but an excessive number at a young age like say she's 20 and has slept with 500 different people then yeah that's a red flag.
/r/seduction25/06/21 10:28 AM
3

I'll agree with that, the fit seems most important.
/r/seduction24/06/21 04:34 PM
2

Alright I'll try putting some cash aside to tailor some cloths and its so hard to get myself to work out without the gym I always feel like I'm doing wrong and kinda hurt myself a bit. So I've main stuck to easier to do at home stuff like cardio, push up and sit ups. Thanks for the advice.
/r/seduction24/06/21 02:23 PM
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This is probably my biggest issue. I'm very very skinny and have trouble building muscle due to my medical situation and to have my cloths fit my shoulders makes everything look a size too baggy same with my trousers always too long. I look like I'm a kid waring his dad's suit and getting stuff fitted is so expensive. I'm 5"8 and 70kg which is like 155 lbs I think.
/r/seduction24/06/21 02:00 PM
2

Maybe I should just swap out the hoodie for a blazer and my trainers for some nice boots or shoes and I'm pretty much there.
/r/seduction24/06/21 01:55 PM
10

So a suit without the tie basically? It makes sense to me why this would make someone look more mature but does this not come off as try hard if you dress like this all the time ?
/r/seduction24/06/21 10:57 AM
5

It's the same as uk fashion. Jean's or canvas trousers with a shirt of some kind. No specific examples of affordable clothing that isn't generic looking?
/r/seduction24/06/21 10:45 AM
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Women's cloths are just nicer than men's. Wall you can buy cheap are tops and jeans. Like what is good male fashion to you ?
/r/seduction24/06/21 09:54 AM
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Lot of luck involved here as there are many parameters you can't control. Only times I've had a few fwb was at uni and this happens because you meet so many new people at once who all want to get to know new people as well, where as if you're in a small town like I am now it's up to the gods weather the dating apps work really.
/r/seduction24/06/21 08:42 AM
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