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I prefer using the dnd system
/r/ExRedPill08/09/22 06:43 AM
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Notice how OP outlines traits of goodness that would benefit himself or others. That’s the first problem, assuming goodness should serve the wants and desires of others. OP needs to learn what makes a “good person”-good.
/r/ExRedPill29/08/22 12:26 AM
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Most people lack emotional intelligence that’s why they give bad advice, regardless of gender.
/r/ExRedPill14/08/22 09:22 PM
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To be fair most of the time you can’t have meaningful dialogue, since they’re just as bad as the alt right.
/r/ExRedPill01/06/22 02:11 PM
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Found the neckbeard :)
/r/MensRights29/05/22 07:05 PM
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Maybe get an ice cream as well. Ice cream always makes me happy.
/r/ExRedPill26/05/22 12:45 AM
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If he doesn’t have issues with these lines of thinking, it’s not your job to save him. I know it’s hard to leave a situation that you’ve gotten used to, but it’s better for you in the long run to leave. Maybe he’ll see the error in his thinking, but it’s not your responsibility. If he was a loving partner he would be willing to have an open discussion about it with you-but no. He has closed himself off from you. The fact that he sees that it bothers you and disregards that, tells a lot about his…
/r/ExRedPill24/05/22 12:16 AM
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Online Radicalization tends to keep people in echo chambers. So even if they saw a short married man, they would just assume that he also makes a lot of money and that’s how he was able to get a wife. There’s a “reason” for every exception you can think of, they’ll rationalize it somehow.
/r/ExRedPill21/05/22 06:18 PM
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Starting a discussion with a loaded question isn’t really the best way to prompt constructive dialogue…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 05:47 PM
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Since it sounds like you want rehabilitation over punishment (although would be justified since red pill is built on malicious narcissism and gaslighting) , you would need to remind them of their humanity. Currently his world view of humanity is women abuse and take advantage of men, thus they’re forced to protect themselves by retaliation (they wouldn’t say abuse because in their minds women are at fault and create the harmful system against men). He needs to be reminded that life isn’t just gr…
/r/ExRedPill05/03/22 08:32 AM
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You would have to define what good is first. Some people think being nice is good, but nice people can end up being pushovers (which is a product of themselves and the environment). That doesn’t make you a good person it makes you for lack of a better term, weak. If you’re a pushover, you’re more likely to put up with bad people because pushovers are also people pleasers to a fault. They don’t like conflict, so needs and wants will go unmet. This isn’t selfless, just damaging because you’re hurt…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 08:03 PM
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That’s true, I should’ve said desperate or “crazy” (I hate using this word, but most ppl know what I mean. Still it is gaslighty, but when I saw crazy I mean Jodi Arias type). Some guys can tolerate that behavior, but a truly self-respecting high value man isn’t going to want some who comes across as insecure/insecure narc.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 04:29 PM
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You shouldn’t bother them lol. Just be normal and if you want to flirt do it, but don’t be creepy about it. Make talk and etc like how you would with a friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 03:24 PM
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I can tell you, you won’t find him at a club or bar at least. Just don’t frequent where PUAs, orbiters, simps, and etc go. You can try the gym, but you’ll still find some red pillers there. So be mindful of that. It really has less to do with location and more to do with looking for similar values and etc. A good man is less likely partying at a frat house or club obviously, but you might find them in common areas.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 03:18 PM
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Hypocrisy is the name and denial is the game
/r/ExRedPill12/04/21 03:47 PM
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Yeah most of the time I see “I don’t hate women, I just don’t think they’re equal to men (or they say) or human” like what? Clearly the denial and cognitive dissonance is strong.
/r/ExRedPill18/03/21 08:26 PM
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I do. If someone wants to have standards there’s no reason I can’t have them too. I think a lot of women are taught to go after a more “experienced” male when looking for their first romantic/sexual partner. The problem is that usually means they have a medium to a lot of sexual history. Just because a guy has multiple casual sexual encounters, doesn’t mean he’s a good “lover”. Those probably have less since they haven’t had the time to actually learn how to please other than themselves. Because…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 02:35 PM
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As a woman. When another girl says looks don’t matter, what they usually mean is “I’m not shallow like the stereotypical male who only cares about looks I.e. jock chad. BUT I still do care a lot about what he looks like and his personality.” In my experience, a woman isn’t going to date a truly ugly guy even if he has a wonderful personality. And while I think it’s fine for people to date who they’re attracted to physically and emotionally (especially if it’s a positive relationship) because it …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 01:56 AM
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I just looked him up. I kinda want to watch some of the videos, but I also don’t want more cancer in my head 😂🤪
/r/ExRedPill25/02/21 05:54 AM
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Can’t wait :) I love papers
/r/ExRedPill25/02/21 05:45 AM
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Hahah I have to stay humble
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 04:13 AM
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It probably depends mainly on the attachment style and the current emotional well being of the individual than their gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 03:00 AM
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I was always that friend with my female friends. They either didn’t heed my advice and it played out exactly as I predicted. Or they did listen to some or all of my advice and things got better.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 02:59 AM
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“I thought I’d end up with someone tall dark and handsome” Lol I like how she said the most stereotypical thing and only mentioned physical attributes. Guess it would make sense she wouldn’t monkey branch higher.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 02:57 AM
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Makes sense. Some girlfriends probably don’t mind at first because they might view the guy as “high value”, but I don’t doubt that some of those guys get that kind of treatment through demanding and manipulation. Not all the time obviously, but it does happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 07:48 PM
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Yeah which is why I said some men know how to do those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 07:37 PM
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What’s more irritating is when you see an entitled male who thinks he’s above his housewife, just because he’s making the money. When he can’t even do his own laundry or food for himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 11:44 AM
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This isn’t uncommon for men to be this way tho. Sure, there’s some men who are capable. A lot though, don’t even know how to cook something simple. Or they’ll feign capability. An actual good ad for women about men, would be seeing them actually able to do it or learn it (from a woman and be ok with it). I don’t have gratification from a bumbling idiot, who doesn’t know basic life skills. All it does for most women is make them irritated by incompetency. Personally I don’t watch ads because they…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 11:41 AM
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It’s not about sex. What you should be asking is which gender needs a sexual and romantic dynamic more.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 11:28 AM
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Op said no sexual acts of any kind. “Deep kissing” isn’t sex. Clearly OP can’t get his definitions set.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 11:25 AM
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I see your point. However keep in mind from the perspective of trp it’s about maximizing their life. An abortion is desirable if this means they’ll be held down by child support, if it’s possible the child isn’t there’s, and if they would be forced to provide security to the mother. By the same token, they’re pro-life in the sense they don’t want to have to pay for the abortion. TRP and MGTOW don’t believe in giving any of their money or assets to women, in anyway. Ironically tho, will encourage…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 11:15 AM
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Yeah we just build the opposite sex so much in our heads sometimes. For me personally, avoiding the impulse to fantasize about someone to an extent that’s beyond where the actual relationship is helped some. I know some women rush to get a boyfriend because they want that strong connection. However, taking things slower is always best. The feeling of loneliness and the fear of being alone drives people in many negative directions.
/r/ExRedPill13/02/21 01:01 AM
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With anything you have to search for the quality. Purple pill is more like a “middle ground” for everyone to discuss these topics. So, you’ll have a mixed bag. One of the reasons you’ll see more TRP is because they’re kinda like salesmen. They go into any group to “sell” their ideas, even if they aren’t welcomed.
/r/ExRedPill10/02/21 06:56 PM
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I agree with some of the comments, but as a woman myself there are valid reasons to want both partners to have a lower “body count”.
/r/ExRedPill10/02/21 06:49 PM
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Dating would be easier if both sexes in said dynamic knew how to properly communicate their needs and wants while being dignified. It really has nothing to do with women asking the men out. It should be whoever wants to first, and not shrouded in fear of the opposite sex. Handle the fear. Or ask yourself (not specifically you) why you’re afraid of women and learn how to move past it.
/r/ExRedPill10/02/21 07:40 AM
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That women aren’t and shouldn’t be treated like human. I’ve seen this implicitly and explicitly in Redpill and MGTOW ideas.
/r/ExRedPill03/02/21 07:44 AM
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As a woman, I’ve known quiet a few other girls who had high-expectations but nothing to give. It’s pretty common for women to overall have higher standards. I’ve seen ugly and beautiful women have the same standards in men. So yeah. If someone is good or has self respect, they’ll have reasonable and good standards. Not low standards and not unrealistic standards. It takes insight to find a good quality partner (and also be one), and you need to have awareness of what matters and what doesn’t. Un…
/r/ExRedPill03/02/21 07:39 AM
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I mean simps and betas do exist. I think though, if someone(a red piller) is constantly name-calling like that then it reflects a deep seated fear. That fear being that they themselves are a “simp” or “beta” deep down.
/r/ExRedPill03/02/21 07:33 AM
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Yeah I agree, personally I don’t see myself eating pussy tho. Like maybe a dom sub relationship with minimal direct touching, but I much prefer the male body for my sexual gratification.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/20 11:43 PM
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I agree but I just have to say, some people confuse “thick” with obese or overweight.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 06:23 AM
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Simple and accurate. I like it. I suppose what you think about when you first hear the word sexual liberation, it’s pretty counterproductive to women. However, in smaller ways such as body empowerment, push for better sexual knowledge, and other things like that; I think those things work for women. I have seen small pushes to be more aware of sleeping with toxic men too, but maybe that doesn’t fall into this. Just perhaps falls into having a healthy sex life which could then be included?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 06:21 AM
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I don’t like their misogyny either, however I do find there’s plenty of women who are like this. I don’t think blaming a woman’s shittiness on someone or something else absolves her of that. Sure there can be reasons, but sometimes women choose to be horrible or manipulative. The other thing though, it might depend on your region also. I live in a major city, so that’s also partly to blame I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 06:13 AM
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Not just that but as a girl I wouldn’t want to come near a vagina.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 06:09 AM
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As a girl, I find these girls at work. Although it’s a mixed bag. There might be only a few that have all these traits. For the most part though, the rest have 3 of these traits. So I think that’s enough to meet the “criteria” for being typical.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 05:19 PM
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Probably more so things like respect and trust. If you’re a true beta/orbiter the girl might not respect you since you display certain behaviors like simping. Some girls might like simps, but I don’t think you’d be able to make a true emotional connection. Since more often than not, there’s little to no respect in that dynamic.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 08:19 PM
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Depends on how big the population you’re generalizing to is.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 11:11 AM
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You could probably get the attention but probably not emotional connection. Since, betas are dismissed for not having traits that would make the girl think an emotional connection is possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 10:55 AM
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That maybe true but for some MGTOWs social engagement doesn’t necessarily mean avoiding taxes all together. It can just mean not playing the “game”. Which is fine, even if you still have to pay taxes it doesn’t make their argument any less invalid. Whereas if you look at TRP, there’s many guys who still get hung up on anger and resentment. While still trying to play the game. You can’t have your cake and eat it too. So that’s why MGTOW is more sustainable than TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 09:19 PM
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True, not sure why people expect to find true love from a tinder app. Not all people, but I think it’s telling how technology has become a clutch for some people.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 09:05 PM
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Or you happen to have a conscience
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 10:08 PM
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Seems to me OPs sentiments aligns moreso with TRP also.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/20 10:49 PM
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In my experience girls do this more, specifically for other good looking guys tho. Ultimately tho, when you’re infatuated (not in love) you’ll commit this as well regardless of gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/20 10:11 PM
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If you look at Attachment theory it explains that “phenomenon” quite well.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/20 03:34 AM
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