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| 1 | Just feel absolutely shit…how many times I gotta say this, the approach is the success! Even the ancient scriptures ask you to disconnect the effort from the outcome | /r/seduction | 17/05/26 01:58 PM |
| 4 | Went out alone to a nightclub: Approached with no success.kid.. the approach is the success | /r/seduction | 16/05/26 06:41 PM |
| 72 | I used to think my high sex drive meant I was finally becoming more confident. Turns out it was depression.male depression shows up not looking like depressions at all. Most of the time it manifests as rage or self destructive behaviour. Society just ignores it of course because men should just 'suck it up'/'lock in' or whatever. | /r/seduction | 15/05/26 04:40 PM |
| 1 | Friend’s Cousin Regrets Settling Early and Missing out on Hookupsshe regrets settling and missing out fun adventures I'm old but back in the day only men said dumb $hit like this. I'm glad equality has truly arrived. BTW, having been in the casual/hook-up market for a bit, there is no hell like it 🤣 | /r/seduction | 14/05/26 12:52 PM |
| 61 | Where in the US is there a decent scene but low obesity ratesNYC is the only answer. But the chicks would wreck a bay area tech bro 😂 | /r/seduction | 13/05/26 10:09 PM |
| 3 | How do you reach out to exes?how they reach out to an ex they want to see again Simple, you NEVER do. There is not a single reason to reach out to your ex unless you have kids together or something. NEVER | /r/seduction | 13/05/26 12:43 AM |
| 1 | Depressed After Dates Going Nowhereyes. also accept you can't guarantee an outcome favorable to you everytime ,no matter how much you 'improve yourself' That advice is a uniquely American/western way of looking at life | /r/seduction | 12/05/26 05:28 PM |
| 2 | Depressed After Dates Going Nowhere"no romantic connection." If I had a dollar for every time I got this message after a date, I would have $150 But these were just the boring ones. | /r/seduction | 12/05/26 05:00 PM |
| 2 | I want casual but exclusive, she wants emotional connection. Is this doomed?I want casual but exclusive Doomed a woman almost double my age DoomedX10 You're young but there's something really off about a woman having a fling with a man half her age. Its sad that other men make lame 'wish this was me' jokes about such manipulative, borderline grooming behaviour. | /r/seduction | 10/05/26 12:17 AM |
| 1 | Is cold approaching as a 33m worth it?for me its easier as I mature. so much thats its not even an 'approach' anymore. just a conversation with a stranger that might go somewhere interresting | /r/seduction | 09/05/26 04:24 PM |
| 6 | Is there an ethical way to really find FWB without apps?Apps are as ethical as can be. even more so than irl for FWBs just put in long term open to short or something for dating goals | /r/seduction | 09/05/26 03:52 PM |
| 7 | My dating life recentlyIt’s the ones who are relaxed, make me laugh, and aren’t afraid to tease me or take the lead LOL.. so the much hated PUAs were always right | /r/seduction | 09/05/26 11:55 AM |
| 17 | Crazy seeing so many attractive guys singleHave women’s expectations changed/become more stringent also this is true, 4s act like 6s used to, 6s like 8s and the 8s are in Dubai 🤣 Obvious generalization but also true. I've accepted it and just living my best life regardless🤷🏽 | /r/seduction | 08/05/26 01:47 PM |
| 1 | Happened this to you? Dating app —> InstagramI never give girls off apps my IG. Lots of stalkers out there and my IG has real people on it who I know for decaades. | /r/seduction | 08/05/26 01:30 PM |
| 54 | Crazy seeing so many attractive guys singleI see a lot of attractive guys dating absolute 4s I wouldn't look at twice. All the 8s and above are in flocks of single women. Its wild. | /r/seduction | 08/05/26 01:29 PM |
| 3 | The bird from Budapesttextbook booty call | /r/seduction | 06/05/26 12:14 PM |
| 53 | 31 and never had a girlfriend. Getting into game again.30 is the best decade of your life and when most men gather the most notches empirically speaking. Start today. | /r/seduction | 25/04/26 02:28 PM |
| 1 | Online dating PUA lies?the amount of women who are open to short when looking for long is insane. You dont need to lie. | /r/seduction | 25/04/26 01:00 AM |
| 4 | Help me hook up with this girl againIt was a one and done. I have had those more times than I can remenber. Some women have explicitly told me they're looking for Mr Right Now, not Mr Right. | /r/seduction | 22/04/26 04:19 PM |
| 1 | How to finish at 4th date ?definitely NOT LTR material. Also post both your ages. | /r/seduction | 22/04/26 11:31 AM |
| 1 | Men with high bodycount. Your experience?lose your ability to pair-bond, and your soul False. But you need to be self aware. Always look for love cos that works for 95% of men. But till you find it... | /r/seduction | 20/04/26 12:56 PM |
| 1 | Some golden rules from a learned naturalAgree with most but want to push back on "Fucking a celebrity is a guaranteed experience" It exclusively a 'status' thing. I've seen women flirting with bouncers, bartenders in the nightlife context just because they have status there | /r/seduction | 20/04/26 12:55 PM |
| 4 | [deleted by user]Tinder, Bumble etc. didn't just destroy dating. They destroyed male, female relationships. | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 03:54 PM |
| 1 | Milf [35F] was DTF until I [25M] told her I was a virginAt that age both men and women know exactly what they want and she wanted a good time. You as a virgin would not be able to deliver. We have all been there, you need experience. | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 01:31 PM |
| 60 | Meaningless in getting girlsAs a dating veteran over 3 continents with scars to prove, the most difficult thing to achieve with the opposite sex is a lasting (decade+) relationship/marriage. Hookup, FWB even monogamous relationships under a year are a cakewalk. | /r/seduction | 02/08/22 01:56 PM |
| 121 | [deleted by user]Before you even cold approach, how about some paragraphing young buck? | /r/seduction | 29/07/22 02:30 PM |
| 7 | How to get laid: Have a normal easy going conversation about nice stuff then ask her if she wants to join you for a bottle of wine at your placedon't overthink. The woman is thinking the same as you 50% of the time | /r/seduction | 16/07/22 06:08 PM |
| 9 | Is the PUA community basically dead?I cannot stress the importance of in-person approach. It is a cheat code (ToddV said it) and it puts power back in the hand of men and not an algorithm. Can vouch. | /r/seduction | 13/07/22 10:01 PM |
| 5 | Fastest way to get laid in 2022 according to you guys (My post deleted itself so here's the compilation)it was a joke my man.. I'm good | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 06:39 PM |
| 15 | [deleted by user]All it takes is once to be cheated on to understand it from the other guy's perspective. let her be | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 04:50 PM |
| 9 | Fastest way to get laid in 2022 according to you guys (My post deleted itself so here's the compilation)lol..the hand is always faster | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 03:25 PM |
| 6 | Fastest way to get laid in 2022 according to you guys (My post deleted itself so here's the compilation)no..✋ | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 02:37 PM |
| 1 | Where do I meet women if I’m not into clubbing or dating apps?Gym | /r/seduction | 11/07/22 01:14 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]aww...first heartbreak coming soon | /r/seduction | 10/07/22 08:10 PM |
| 0 | Seeking dating advice from 35+ menThere's only one key, not caring what the girl thinks. | /r/seduction | 09/07/22 08:11 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]dated a pageant winner, my whole circle was beauty queens and their BFs for a few years. very ambitious set and you can not really relax. My experience ,but feel free to listen to other geniuses here | /r/seduction | 09/07/22 08:06 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]trust me, never ever get into a LTR or God forbid marry an 8 or over anyway. Not worth it no matter how secure and confident you are. | /r/seduction | 09/07/22 02:42 AM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]she was wasting your time 100% | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 06:14 PM |
| 2 | Am I a Sugar Daddy?brags about finessing guys. Game over son | /r/seduction | 04/07/22 03:26 PM |
| 15 | 3 realizations I had. Not every girl will like you. A person doesn't need a lot of friends. Meeting girls.A person doesn't need a lot of friends An adult cannot possibly maintain more than 2-3 real friends | /r/seduction | 23/03/20 12:41 AM |
| 1 | I’m done trying, there comes a time where you need to get your foot of the peddle.Even if you are hooking up thrice a week, the game gets jaded if you do it non-stop. Go to Costa Rica for 2 weeks. | /r/seduction | 07/02/20 09:51 PM |
| 1 | Had my first kiss today and it was shit and awkward as fuckThis is a surprise, I remember mine clear as fuck almost 2 decades later and it was incredible. | /r/seduction | 01/02/20 01:06 AM |
| 1 | Do language barriers prevent good relationships?Quick answer from someone who has interacted with diverse cultures extensively - YES. | /r/seduction | 03/01/20 05:36 PM |
| 13 | "Marriage is the tomb of love." - Giacomo CasanovaAn interesting quote to focus on. He also said, "I have lived as a philosopher and I die as a Christian" Make of that what you will. | /r/seduction | 10/08/18 02:29 PM |
| 1 | When do you know you are a master PUA?Not to be too meta, by why aim to be a PUA? I would argue against the reasoning that it's purely physical pleasure as it sounds like an awful lot of squeeze for a few minutes of juice (no pun). Validation through women's attention is a more likely candidate. With self betterment, validation becomes less important. | /r/seduction | 20/07/18 07:06 PM |
| 2 | When do you know you are a master PUA?Is PUA still a thing? I thought the community had moved toward attraction through self betterment. | /r/seduction | 20/07/18 03:41 PM |
| 3 | Struggle to make friends in my 20'sThere are ton of ways like meet-ups, volunteering opportunities etc. But the more important bit is to do earlier rather than later. If you find it tough in your twenties, it's surely going to be tougher in your thirties. | /r/seduction | 10/07/18 03:58 PM |
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