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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
24	what’s the line between assertiveness and abuse?		redditbae123	/r/RedPillWomen	15/04/22 04:17 PM
15	is it just me or are a lot of women finding Christ?	OFF TOPIC	redditbae123	/r/RedPillWomen	12/04/23 05:02 AM
12	did they replace the subreddit “askTRP” after it got banned?		redditbae123	/r/RedPillWomen	06/03/23 02:22 PM
8	did i mess up by giving out my number in this manner?	ADVICE	redditbae123	/r/RedPillWomen	04/02/23 05:03 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	is it just me or are a lot of women finding Christ? heard, for me i wasnt seeking structure. i actually had too much it was killing me. i just needed love and found it in Jesus ❤️ but yeah everyone’s story is different	/r/RedPillWomen	18/04/23 12:11 AM
1	is it just me or are a lot of women finding Christ? yeah i grew up strict catholic too. i’m not catholic now just non-denom christian. i wonder the same thing about people who pick up catholicism. but i understand turning to christianity if you have good leadership who lead by example in the way they live their lives, which i’ve been blessed to have. and also if you have encounters with God, which i’ve also experienced. He’s so loving and honestly i feel so much more whole now than i ever have before. for example having a husband is just a bonus …	/r/RedPillWomen	15/04/23 05:32 PM
2	is it just me or are a lot of women finding Christ? yeah i agree with you on that	/r/RedPillWomen	13/04/23 03:12 AM
1	is it just me or are a lot of women finding Christ? yeah i was raised catholic and didnt ever connect to God or anything as a kid so i was the same way!	/r/RedPillWomen	12/04/23 04:06 PM
3	is it just me or are a lot of women finding Christ? agreed! it makes way more sense and i hope people can find peace in it and live joyful fulfilling lives	/r/RedPillWomen	12/04/23 04:05 PM
4	is it just me or are a lot of women finding Christ? thank you! youre so sweet:) yeah i was thinking it may be my surroundings. i wonder of there are stats on this?!	/r/RedPillWomen	12/04/23 04:04 PM
3	Late 20s, single, feeling a bit lost yeah i agree with long_cow OP.. it seems like you think they were attacking you even though it was just constructive honest feedback, which is what i thought you were looking for? it might hurt to hear it at first but it would help to see it more as conviction rather than condemnation. nobody is against you here, just trying to help. best of luck to you!	/r/RedPillWomen	24/03/23 04:58 AM
1	did i mess up by giving out my number in this manner? i also had the option to follow him on insta (one of his coworkers suggested this) but i felt weird about that because that seems more like me chasing so i said no and went with giving my number instead..	/r/RedPillWomen	05/02/23 12:20 AM
1	did i mess up by giving out my number in this manner? dang.. see i really like that game too but i felt weird about coming back in hopes that something would transpire.. it just seemed like that was the right time. i also found out he owns the coffee shop so he’s not there every day/only comes in for a little bit.. hopefully he won’t lose interest because of me doing that 🤷🏻‍♀️	/r/RedPillWomen	04/02/23 02:37 PM
1	How do I return to, protect, and define my feminity? second RC blakes! he’s amazing even if you arent christian :)	/r/RedPillWomen	27/07/22 02:33 PM
4	Is it feminist of me to do strength workouts? Is that a problem if it is? yeah i would mark that comment as a red flag and be cautious with him...	/r/RedPillWomen	22/07/22 08:33 PM
2	Book Club: Fascinating Womanhood Chapter 3 Accept Him at Face Value so... what if some of these things are causing the attraction to wither in the relationship? let's say, he's not fulfilling some primary masculine duties? and by bringing them up, you're really just trying to get the chemistry back to a healthy level, not "nag" him?	/r/RedPillWomen	20/04/22 02:55 PM
2	what’s the line between assertiveness and abuse? perhaps.. also i think its relevant to say- his dad was very abusive to him in his teen years. verbally and physically.	/r/RedPillWomen	16/04/22 12:13 PM
2	what’s the line between assertiveness and abuse? yeah so he was married for 10 years- to a woman he met while he was overseas in the military and they married so she could live w him in the US, this was from around ages 20-30. he initiated the divorce and they had a lot of issues apparently. he cited the root of it being that she wasn’t spiritual so they had clashing philosophies on life which led to all their other issues. dated a woman after for 2 years who stabbed him in the face which he went to jail for. says she was verbally abusive and …	/r/RedPillWomen	16/04/22 11:58 AM
3	what’s the line between assertiveness and abuse? so one example is he feels as though he does a lot for me and i dont give anything in return- specifically, with the situation the other night, when it happened he was pleasing me. he says i dont ever please him and its always about my comfort and pleasure etc. not that i’m denying this but the chemistry in our relationship has dwindled i believe due to how he’s been the past two years - he just has been laying around a lot, works an easy 30hr/week job, and ive been working and grinding way more…	/r/RedPillWomen	15/04/22 10:37 PM
-5	what’s the line between assertiveness and abuse? question for you ladies- he has justified his behaviour (saying STFU, steamrolling, etc) in the past by saying that my behaviour is abusive which just elicits this out of him. does this change anything? i dont see my behaviour as abusive, perhaps neglecting my feminine responsibilities, but this is how he views it. imo, even if he was right that my behaviour is/was abusive, that shouldnt justify him retaliating with more abuse. thoughts? thanks for the responses so far.	/r/RedPillWomen	15/04/22 05:36 PM