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| 14 | Women consistently reinforce that attraction is Amoral. Yet continue to moralize unsuccessful Mens inability to be selected. Depending on Narrative and ContextNo idk where you got that from. I’m saying women will tell you something knowing damn well it’s not true whether to save face or because that’s just the political correct thing to do but whenever they feel like a person did wrong they don’t care anymore and will insult them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/26 06:37 PM |
| 22 | Women consistently reinforce that attraction is Amoral. Yet continue to moralize unsuccessful Mens inability to be selected. Depending on Narrative and ContextI wouldn’t say morality it’s more of just they just speak out there ass trying to make it seem like they are good people but when someone does something they don’t like their true colors show and they don’t care about upholding that image | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/26 08:37 PM |
| 1 | Men, stop making unhinged and hyperbolic statements if you dont want to be ‘strawmanned’.I’m not on any pill but this can just be said on any basic thing. Women make hyperbolic comments a lot. I’m talking like half the shit they say online is just from like 1 viral TikTok that other content creators spread no one fact checks and you just hear stupid shit. This is a human problem. Like when people say your brain is fully developed at 25. The study never says that. They stop the study before they can keep progressing past 25 so the statement should be your brain is still developing at… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/26 01:44 PM |
| 2 | Yes, some women actually want to be single and childlessYeah by people in power | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 09:03 PM |
| – | Good women don't exist in the West anymore because women have their cake and eat it tooBrother you are in too deep. Surround yourself with actual people I promise you. The image of women you have in your head from online and the reality are very different. Same for women and men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/26 11:26 PM |
| – | Men spend a lot of time trying to humble women, and then claim women are overvaluedNo your blaming one gender when both exhibit the same behavior. It’s stupid as fuck. You just don’t care when it happens to the other gender because you’re not that gender. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/26 07:16 AM |
| – | Men spend a lot of time trying to humble women, and then claim women are overvaluedBro women do bad shit too like holy fuck yes there are bad people in the world get over it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/26 06:45 AM |
| 15 | Why do men “neg” women?Because you don’t date women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/26 12:34 AM |
| – | The horde of women lusting over the full-frontal scene in House of Guinness proves that size does matter.And a women’s looks matter life ain’t fair | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/25 05:08 PM |
| – | Men think they are more attractive than they really areThis isn’t a man thing women are guilty of this too I would say worse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/25 08:59 AM |
| 0 | "If she is interested she will show" show what exactlyYou just kinda know. You guys make excuses to hang out. Touchy, there’s a certain vibe that you can just tell. If your nervous when you ask her out than she probably isn’t into like that. Now if you ask her on a date she might say yes because she didn’t consider it until that moment or wasn’t opposed that’s different but if she is into you then it will be known. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/25 05:14 AM |
| 4 | Most stuff women put up with in relationships is only worth it if the guys richReading these comments are hilarious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/25 05:56 PM |
| 1 | If women want promiscuous men to be viewed with the same scrutiny as promiscuous women, they should agree to view women raping men as bad as men raping women.I don’t think most women who is against the raping of women are for the taking of men. If you want to make an argument then you should have said women should view promiscuous men as men do women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/25 07:47 AM |
| -1 | Women are in business while men are looking for love.I don’t wit you are asexual so you won’t understand sex but believe it or not women like sex too it’s not just for men. I don’t really agree with op but your comment is insane | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/25 01:04 PM |
| 3 | If you somehow managed to convince women to universally lower their standards you’d just have much more competition and the relationship would be awfulI been saying this. Men have no standards at all and then want women to be the same way. “As a man idc if you work at McDonald’s I will still date them” “She doesn’t need life goals if I’m making money” then they are surprised when she’s crazy a bum or makes bad choices | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/25 04:26 PM |
| 1 | Losing attraction to my girlfriend because of her jobBecause you’re not just “you” anymore you are a partnership. It’s just a smart life decision. If that’s not a priority for you then it’s all good | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/25 02:37 AM |
| 1 | You were not gaslit by society as to what women are attracted to. You need to take accountability for not seeing what was always totally obvious.The answer is no. Idk why people think everyone has the same level of self awareness and emotional intelligence to realize this. A lot of people will just take what they are told when they are a kid and run with it and not really second guess it. The average intelligence doesn’t really mean that’s the baseline for the average person. It means that like half of the population is below that level of intelligence or awareness on some range in the spectrum. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/25 09:37 PM |
| 1 | Why does it seem like women's hookup standards are higher than relationship standards?Lmao fit is the natural state we just are living naturally | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/24 04:12 AM |
| – | Literally no man is “mad that women can choose their partners now.” This has absolutely nothing to do with TRP or men’s frustrations whatsoever and needs to stop being used as a deflection.And you think men are lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/24 07:52 PM |
| 0 | If womens' value takes a nosedive at 30 and they are undesirable, why would women want to marry in the first place?Not even redpilled but that’s sounds dumb as shit. Atleast the last part. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/24 02:18 AM |
| 0 | If womens' value takes a nosedive at 30 and they are undesirable, why would women want to marry in the first place?Just because you do things a lot doesn’t mean you gain wisdom. Age and experience doesn’t always bring wisdom some people never come to the right conclusion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/24 02:16 AM |
| 2 | Monkey branching is fine.Nah the idea that it’s chill to just stay with someone while actively looking for other options is shitty I stand by my point don’t give a fuck if they structured it nice. One thing if you guys are dating but just making it a norm that can happen is dumb as fuck | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/24 10:25 AM |
| 1 | Monkey branching is fine.This gotta be the dumbest shit I read on here | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/24 09:50 AM |
| 19 | Why do men pursue women with traits or lifestyles they don’t approve of once they are in a relationship?If they never go out how are you gonna find them is the pick thes alluding too. Plus clubbing itself isn’t bad but there is definitely a certain type of women who go clubbing excessively | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/24 04:32 AM |
| 1 | It doesn't make sense that men complain about promiscuous women but also complain that women's standards are too highI don’t get this view point. And when men complain about promiscuity they arnt talking about 6 bodies or something. They mean like 20+ typically depending on age. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/24 01:49 AM |
| 6 | Being the safe and secure option isn't worth it most of the timeThey are saying what your saying is the default | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/24 07:09 PM |
| 2 | Help Me Understand Where "Women aren't ENTITLED to a Relationship"; Wasn't the Problem That Women WEREN'T Seeking Relationships?Go to a fat person sub. See how many people men and women feel after having people attracted to them suddenly when they lost weight. Not that hard of a thing to look up. People feel like they were the same person even with the weight so the fact they get attention now makes them sad. Even if it’s a logical reason why people would be more attracted to them you can still feel a certain way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/24 07:50 PM |
| 15 | Women are not entitled to anything from menI mean yes some women definitely think they are entitled to these things just like some men think they do. Idk why you make it seem like there wouldn’t be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/24 10:33 PM |
| 1 | Most of unrealistic beauty standards are imposed on women by other womenSkin care is natural. It’s like saying medicine isn’t natural | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/24 12:50 AM |
| – | This subreddit has a “Men Are Wonderful/Victims” bias.Yup me neither | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/24 07:06 PM |
| 19 | Why are so many women insulted by the idea of guys making compromises to get sex?Single moms get rejected for being single moms all the time. And women get rejected for being promiscuous as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/24 02:38 AM |
| 4 | The standards of "not fat" and "no kids" are the BARE MINIMUM, not "extremely high". Bluepillers are disingenuously abusing semantics and population statistics to try to shame men out of having any standards at all.Haha I get you. I agree though that’s why I don’t really get double standards in dating. It makes sense in a place like work because you don’t set the standards there. But in your dating like you set the standards so like how is anything unfair. If your a man saying it’s no fair women do this you can just filter out the same way women do and vice versa. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 04:39 PM |
| 2 | The standards of "not fat" and "no kids" are the BARE MINIMUM, not "extremely high". Bluepillers are disingenuously abusing semantics and population statistics to try to shame men out of having any standards at all.Yeah point is complete valid I’m just confused by your use of “fat” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 04:33 PM |
| – | Over 85 percent of dating problems would solve itself if women didn’t go for men out of their league.Most women arnt getting with men out of their league and they know this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/24 05:18 AM |
| 5 | 95% women will not do anything for you, and why austistic men fail. Redpill and Bluepill are wrongIf a girl likes you she will do things for you. In fact I’ve seen women do things for men she has no business doing because bro is a pansy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/24 06:06 PM |
| 5 | Men desire primarily the top 20% of women, they are just more willing to settle.That’s everyone lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/24 12:48 AM |
| 1 | Who/what is maintaining the higher beauty standards for women?Half the reason I don’t take anything guys say on this sub serious. How much of a loser do you have to be to have 0 standards like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/24 05:25 PM |
| 3 | Do men not care about having female friends?Bro is actually stupid from what I gathered | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 12:15 AM |
| 8 | it’s okay for someone to call a person creepy if they are not desirable to that personAre you using porn as a reference vs real life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/24 10:46 AM |
| 8 | it’s okay for someone to call a person creepy if they are not desirable to that personBecause fat women aren’t desirable for a lot of men. Fitting into what your saying | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/24 10:44 AM |
| 10 | Why should men believe you? Where are the bluepill success stories?I don’t think so. Most people don’t really subscribe to pill ideologies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/24 03:41 AM |
| -2 | Men who complain about not getting casual sex don't put themselves in the right environments.No because women use these spaces too. They want to get approached there. It’s one of the few places acceptable to do it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/24 10:38 PM |
| 1 | What's your opinion on men who want to date long term by don't want to get married or have kids?Bro is tweaking | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/24 04:43 AM |
| 9 | If women started approaching men, they would still end up approaching a minority of themNo they aren’t splitting semantic hairs the women making eye contact with you is not approaching. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/24 06:02 PM |
| 0 | In the current year, do you think men should pay for dates? Why or why not?Personally if I ask a girl out on a date I’m going to pay for it because I asked her to be there. Maybe if a girl asked me out to dinner I would be like we can split it but I mean if I have the money I don’t mind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/24 05:47 AM |
| 2 | Why do Western Women believe in casual relationships the most?It’s not western women are more promiscuous they just have the freedom to do so. Not every women is just like not every man is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/24 08:25 PM |
| 11 | There is nothing wrong with being a side chick if we accept the reality of hypergamyI think you guys on this sub believe the 20% hype to much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/24 07:32 AM |
| 10 | Some men aren't fit to reproduce or date and it's okay to say thatYeah it wasn’t due to not getting picked bro genuinely just didn’t make it to adult hood | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/23 08:31 PM |
| 17 | Some men aren't fit to reproduce or date and it's okay to say thatThat’s not the compliment you think it is dude nor a pick me up | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/23 08:30 PM |
| 13 | Do men feel "threatened" when a more attractive male enters the room?It depends. Do I have a girl there? If I don’t have a partner then I won’t really care. If I do I might stay close to her if bro seems to find interest in her. Other than that though nah. If the girl I’m interested in at the function goes to him then oh well she didn’t like me. There are probably other women there so it wouldn’t rub me the wrong way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/23 06:04 PM |
| – | if you're shy and introverted as a man in america are you doomed?I mean bottom line is your gonna have to put yourself out there as a man. I’m more introverted but I still go out with my friends and find success. If you put yourself in situations where women are looking for something then things will happen. That’s what I discovered at least. Go to a bar or club and just start dancing nothing crazy if a girl is interested it will be pretty easy to tell | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/23 08:56 PM |
| – | How do average looking guys get 10/10 Western women? Why is there less dating inflation abroad?I mean do you date people for only there looks. No. He wants a 10/10 but if she’s smart she will consider everything and not just looks. If he’s average with looks and above average everything else then why wouldn’t he have a chance. Like a 5/10 finance manager making 100k a year with good habits is on the same level as the 28 year old 10/10 who is still an entry level target employee and goes out every night. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/23 08:25 PM |
| – | How do average looking guys get 10/10 Western women? Why is there less dating inflation abroad?You still make no sense. The patriarchy isn’t the reason why humans rate people. People rate people because that’s just how we do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/23 06:18 PM |
| – | How do average looking guys get 10/10 Western women? Why is there less dating inflation abroad?I mean if we are purely talking about looks sure. There are usally other factors that go into dating than looks. If the women is attracted to the 5/10 man enough to get her rocks off and she likes his personality and he had a stable career than I mean no reason she wouldn’t date him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/23 06:04 PM |
| – | How do average looking guys get 10/10 Western women? Why is there less dating inflation abroad?Women do it too. People are going to rate people on how they view them. Bros just using buzz words | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/23 06:03 PM |
| 3 | Women generally don't consider a mans potential, and this is causing unhealthy imbalances in the dating marketI mean I’m in my physical prime and young if I seen a overweight women I didn’t find attractive I don’t think I would give her a chance Honestly. Even if they are in the gym your banking on them continuing to go and if they just stop then what. Maybe career prospects can be different but as a man I don’t really care about that to an extent.(I’m college educated so I mean ideally my wife is or knows what she wants to do in life.) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/23 08:08 PM |
| 2 | Women generally don't consider a mans potential, and this is causing unhealthy imbalances in the dating marketWho says they want to avoid it though. They want what they want. Plus you can’t overlook physical attraction if they arnt attracted to them then it is what it is no amount of future will overcome that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/23 07:51 PM |
| 3 | Women generally don't consider a mans potential, and this is causing unhealthy imbalances in the dating marketI mean that’s their problem tbh. If they get the short end of the stick because they want the now and not the future that’s their problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/23 07:22 PM |
| 5 | The red pill men on youtube have 30 and 40 YEAR OLD WOMEN terrified of aging. Can we please normalize older women being just as beautiful as the 20 something year oldsYeah dead ass | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/23 05:08 AM |
| 18 | CMV If a Man is successful with women other women calling him a „myso*inist“ or „in*el“ doesnt matter. Results talk for themself.Yeah it’s like you say anything bad about a women they call you an incel. Like damn asshole maybe. Incel is crazy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/23 02:28 AM |
| – | If she waited to get in shape till after the breakup or in another relationship, did she even wanted do it for you?I mean who says she was the one who left | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/23 07:26 AM |
| – | Women misunderstand the "men being attracted to successful women" tropeDon’t listen to this dude. Please don’t listen to this man. Idk what he’s on but Jesus Christ get bro out the kitchen he’s not cooking shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/23 11:42 PM |
| -1 | "Women dont put enough effort into making it work because they think there's always something better." "It's women's fault for staying in a crappy relationship."That’s a lie or else cheating wouldn’t be a thing. Women have rosters as well | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/23 06:27 AM |
| 1 | "Women dont put enough effort into making it work because they think there's always something better." "It's women's fault for staying in a crappy relationship."Nobody here has that level of wealth or influence. Comparing the average person to the 1% is pointless | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/23 06:26 AM |
| 2 | "Women dont put enough effort into making it work because they think there's always something better." "It's women's fault for staying in a crappy relationship."I wouldn’t say that but lmao dead ass if your keep running into bad men then you need to reevaluate your type or you have terrible rng when it comes to men. yeah stop dating. Or I guess try and get better at vetting men so you don’t waste your time with them. No need to date who your not attracted though that’s just a disservice to you both. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/23 06:24 AM |
| 2 | Do men realize that the “loose pussy” is the kind that most women have?Bro what are you talking about. When people are talking about tightness why would they be talking about the vulva. That’s the external part. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/23 05:04 PM |
| 2 | Do men realize that the “loose pussy” is the kind that most women have?You know the average men’s penis is longer than 1.5 inches right | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/23 04:58 PM |
| 3 | Do men realize that the “loose pussy” is the kind that most women have?Idk why people are acting like vaginas are all uniform and come in the same size. It’s like how every women’s vaginal canal isn’t the same length or tightness. Every vagina does follow the same blueprint. Now unless it’s an outlier it doesn’t really matter in the grand scheme of things and of course if a women is turned on she is going to loosen up so things get get busy. But to just act like it doesn’t exist is pretty stupid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/23 09:14 AM |
| 3 | men's dating experience is unfair and feminism has failed to address itLife is unfair tbh. Both genders have issues that probably aren’t fair. And it’s not really women’s responsibility to lobby for us. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/23 02:26 AM |
| 0 | Discussion: If the guys here aren’t cold approaching or giving women attention where is all there attention this forum claims they are getting coming from?I think that’s a little cap for real world scenarios | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/23 11:43 PM |
| 9 | Women genuinely have to do nothing to attract men. The double standard is ridiculous.There is barley any double standards in dating you set your own standards in dating realistically. Blame the men out there with low standards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/23 08:00 PM |
| 2 | Are men more romantic?I mean men do that anyway. I’m pretty sure men help with child care assuming Both work since this isn’t the 50s. Everyone should clean up after themselves. Usually if a women cooks dinner she is gonna eat some too it’s not like she is gonna cook for bro and then not it as well. Not to mention some women don’t cook like that so applying it to every situation makes no sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/23 03:38 PM |
| 0 | If men cared about a woman's money, then women would fight against poor-shaming.Honeslty I think I responded to the wrong comment because I have no clue what your comment is talking about | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/23 03:10 PM |
| 4 | If men cared about a woman's money, then women would fight against poor-shaming.Women do all the time on social media. Not all but there are certain circles. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/23 03:56 AM |
| – | The average woman is more attractive than the average manI mean women wear make up everyday especially when they are going out even if it’s “natural” looking. So of course if you look around In public they would look better they basically have filters on their face. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/23 12:10 AM |
| 1 | I think the majority of men are unattractive in large part because of their high bodyfat %Having boobs has nothing to do with your stomach and arms beings fat af too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/23 02:29 AM |
| 4 | Young, attractive women don't completely hate the attention they get. If they hated it there wouldn't be a billion dollar industry focusing on making them look as young as possibleI hate to break it to you but I don’t think you think looking younger would have that effect | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/23 02:50 AM |
| 2 | Even “body positive” women have conventional standards when it comes to a man’s looksWomen don’t get that. They see women walk around with makeup on and see that as their natural beauty. That’s why you see the dumbass takes like “why do I see more beautiful women then men in public” takes. Because they see women with make up on covering their blemishes not know that when she takes off her makeup her and her man are looks matched for the most part. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 08:35 AM |
| 1 | What is more important than sex, relationships, and family?I’m not really having sex by choice and Honeslty I’m not unhappy. Your making crazy statements. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 11:56 PM |
| 1 | Women get resentful from splitting half the costs with their partnersSo men shouldn’t pursue theirs to chad up and take care of a freeloader | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 05:45 AM |
| 1 | Women get resentful from splitting half the costs with their partnersShe really didn’t think this through | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 05:44 AM |
| -1 | Why would a woman marry young if her husband will eventually end up lusting after younger women?But your reasoning does really make sense in rebuttal to his. He’s not saying it increases the success of marriage all together. Just that that’s why most men went step out and lust after a younger women. Same reason a women just won’t step out when shes see a man who makes more money. The memories you make growing old together and the time you experienced. Are gonna okay a role. Of course if the foundation relationship you two have together is flawed then this won’t apply. But that’s with any c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 08:08 PM |
| 0 | Why would a woman marry young if her husband will eventually end up lusting after younger women?Bro what. That’s not creepy and two you make it sound way worse then it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 08:02 PM |
| -3 | Why would a woman marry young if her husband will eventually end up lusting after younger women?No dip he not saying wife goggles will save it. He’s saying that if I meet a girl at 25 and we grow old and age together. As long as she doesn’t gain like 50 pounds I’m always gonna see her as the beautiful 25 year old even with the age. All the stuff me and her probably went through and grew through together. Vs if I meet a 25 year old and a 40 year old obviously the 25 year old would win of of her youth if I liked their personalities the same and are goals aline. I don’t have that deep connect… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 08:01 PM |
| 5 | Men. If you want more control in procreation / the right to financially abort either get snipped or stay abstinentBecause stopping men sperm production making millions of sperm cells per nut is a lot harder then stopping one egg from ovulating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/23 11:57 PM |
| 1 | Men are disingenuous in the dating marketJust like some women that’s just a human thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/23 01:53 AM |
| 2 | Men are disingenuous in the dating marketNot all of it but that brain dead take men want “mothers” is stupid. Do women want men to be their fathers since they like providers and a man who atleast in their mind thinks maybe he can protect the family unit. Pay for finances? No because that is also a brain dead take. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/23 01:17 AM |
| 4 | Men are disingenuous in the dating marketBrain dead take. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/23 01:11 AM |
| 1 | Men are disingenuous in the dating marketNo not true. I feel like a broken record. Both men and women both exhibit this behavior just like almost all human behavior difference. If your are a straight women I’m assuming you don’t pursue women in that many so you don’t see that side of them. Which is usually the case with most people who try to generalize one gender in dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/23 01:09 AM |
| – | CMV: Too Many Sexual Experiences Ruins Sex for WomenThis shit is insane Honestly bro is basically saying women having sex basically gives their vagina revers death grip. Which if was the case would happen if guys fucked a lot of women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/23 05:39 PM |
| 6 | Men still do more emotional labor than women in a relationshipI didn’t even read the post because of the dumbass title this kid gotta be like 16-17 max. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/23 03:50 PM |
| 8 | Men still do more emotional labor than women in a relationshipBro I’m just gonna start spamming this on every one of these. WE CAN NOT QUANTIFY SHIT LIKE THIS. MEN AND WOMEN DEPENDING ON WHO THEY ARE DATING AND THE CIRCUMSTANCE OF THEIR LIFE WILL DICTATE THIS. MEN AND WOMEN ARE STILL BOTH HUMANS WHO BELIVE IT OR NOT ARE ALL NOT A MONOLITH. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/23 03:49 PM |
| 1 | Double standards exist and that’s okay.I mean to be fair double standards don’t exists in dating and people who say they do are stupid. Double standards exist in a place where you can’t set your own standard. Like a workplace or a place where you don’t make the rules. In dating you literally set your own standards. A women who says it’s a double standard that men care about body count for women and not men but I mean no. If you don’t want to date a man with a high n count then don’t you set that standard nobody is forcing them . Same… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/23 06:11 PM |
| – | Sperm banks are the worst thing that has ever happened to the dating marketThe fact bro takes this so serious and generally believes this is hilarious | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/23 12:43 AM |
| 1 | Men don’t see unattractive women as humanYou are a femcel which I mean as long as you don’t go around hating people and spewing nonsense I guess is fine. Btw most men can just marry a model women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 11:29 PM |
| 3 | Women are allowed to complain about the suitors they get but men can'tYeah I’m with you the consensus should be humans suck and finding a good partner is a hard thing especially when your socially not adept like many here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/23 05:10 PM |
| 12 | Women are allowed to complain about the suitors they get but men can'tYeah I mean idk when people in this sub will understand that most issue are gonna be a human thing. Men and women both lie cheat are shallow and do all those things. All these post saying “women are shallow blah blah blah” and vice versa serve no purpose. These traits arnt just on one gender. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/23 11:32 PM |
| 6 | Since when did requiring physical attraction for a romantic relationship make you superficial?There was literally a post yesterday by a women complaining men have to high standards. It’s a both gendered issue | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/23 01:03 AM |
| 8 | Men are more superficial about weight than womenBro you can’t speak like this I garuntee there is a gym bro who would date a fat women there is 8 billion people on the planet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/23 09:30 AM |
| 2 | Its hypocritical of men to criticize promiscious women, when those men want to engage in casual sex.You say this like all men engage in causal sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/23 06:40 PM |
| 2 | Women over value how much their career and education is attractive to menFrom a quick google search yes apparently educated women have a harder time finding love but not because why he said. Basically when a women is educated and successful her taste go up too. She still wants to date someone who makes just as much or more as them and is in their class. The thing is if you are an above average earner your most likely not gonna find a man around you that makes as much. They get picker which isn’t necessarily a bad thing just narrows your options. Men don’t have these … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 12:13 PM |
| 1 | Women over value how much their career and education is attractive to menIdk that’s why I said right or wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 12:09 PM |
| 1 | CMV: It's perfectly valid for men to want a low N woman BECAUSE he's insecure about his sexual performance compared to all of her other loversI mean I wouldn’t die on the lazy thing bro could just legitimately have a 4 incher you can’t really change that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 04:14 AM |
| 4 | Women over value how much their career and education is attractive to menHe’s not saying that you get your career for men he is just saying having a good career won’t get you brownie points in the same sense it does for a man. Right or wrong that’s what he’s saying I don’t know if I agree with that but… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/23 09:32 PM |
| – | CMV: The problems expressed here are middle class, primarily white people’s made up issues. Upper class and lower class don’t have issues like what you’re describing.Yeah nah people are tripping move anywhere from the east or west coast and 80k is a affordable living. If your single with limited debt that’s a decent life. If your together if your oartner works and even adds 40k you’ll be fine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/23 10:19 AM |
| – | Redpill dudes, do you actually believe rich men date broke women?Oh they doing you guys dirty. I live in houston which is a medical hot zone in the U.s so a lot of nurses I know make six figures. Some work at one place but the ones that really take in the bread travel. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/23 01:50 PM |
| – | Redpill dudes, do you actually believe rich men date broke women?Hmmm trained and qualified I would imagine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/23 01:35 PM |
| 5 | What is your opinion of incels?People here are saying “incels hate this incels hate that” incels arnt a monolith. Some are evil women haters. Some are shy men who just don’t know how to talk to women. All incels is is just someone who is involuntarily celibate. There are probably men out there who think like the toxic mindsets you see in incels but they actually somehow know how to get laid making them not an incel. Basically an incel just means they don’t get laid not by their own choice you can’t really discern much about t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/23 01:32 PM |
| – | Redpill dudes, do you actually believe rich men date broke women?Lmao no where near what nurses make. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/23 01:03 PM |
| 1 | Men can't determine whether a woman is " post wall" or even overweight/obesePause | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/23 12:57 PM |
| 16 | For guys who want an active woman, why and what does that mean to you?Yes you are correct most men don’t want a fat women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/23 12:50 PM |
| 1 | Do women have their own version of “self improvement”?Lmao we don’t know it’s a case by case basis. A dude could have a job just trying to save money. Dude could be in college finishing his degree. You don’t know every bodies situation. Funny thing is your probably typed this out thinking it’s some haha gotcha moment only to prove my point further. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/22 04:14 PM |
| 1 | Just because you are a slim man doesn't mean you deserve a slim womenNo they don’t lmaooo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/22 06:22 AM |
| 1 | Men should appreciate better what porn has done for themLmaooo this one got me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/22 05:58 AM |
| 1 | Do you know why youre attracted to what youre attracted to?Seek help | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/22 05:53 AM |
| 4 | Do women have their own version of “self improvement”?I really have to disagree but you know what I’m not a women I don’t know the pressures you guys face. You don’t know mine as a man. I’ll just go back to my original point that we both face different pressures in society for different reason and to say one faces more then the other is stupid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/22 08:22 PM |
| 4 | Do women have their own version of “self improvement”?Everyone is pressured to date that’s not a women thing. That’s why incel is such an insult. And no everyone doesn’t what planet do you live on. There is women on this planet who’s whole goal in like is to be a sahm and you know what people are cool. Let’ a man be in the same situation and he gets funny looks. Of course your gonna work to live but your not pressured to move up. Let a women stay a daycare worker or a retail saleswomen her whole life. No one cares they don’t pressure you to move up… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/22 08:12 PM |
| 4 | Do women have their own version of “self improvement”?That’s not true. Look at the tropes. Man staying at home with parents. He is automatically seen as a neck beard with nothing going for himself. Women in the same situation I promise you people won’t bat as much of an eye. Look at professions of men and the different level of respect you get. Say your a lawyer vs a garbage man. And again your lying. Women very clearly do care about status and resources clearly not for themselves when they date. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/22 08:08 PM |
| 6 | Do women have their own version of “self improvement”?You also contradict yourself too. If your not interested in dating then you real have no pressure other then the one you put in yourself. No one expects a women to make bank. You guys arnt graded as harshly. Not saying you guys shouldn’t have ambition and focus on it but it’s the truth. Even if I’m not worried about dating I still feel the need to be successful not just for dating but as a man if your not what are you valued for. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/22 08:04 PM |
| 3 | Do women have their own version of “self improvement”?Yeah but your competing with other women’s beauty standard because that’s what attracts men. If another women looks better then you then it wraps. Same thing with a man. Women care more about status and financial stuff so men are gonna be more competitive if resources then looks. Hence why we face pressure in those areas. You sound deluded rn | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/22 08:00 PM |
| 4 | Do women have their own version of “self improvement”?How is it laughable. Women get pressured on looks. Men get pressured based on how successful they are. Even if you argued which one gets more pressured you would say men are speaking it’s literally half of our worth to society. Half of y’all dress up to impress other women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/22 07:30 PM |
| 8 | Do women have their own version of “self improvement”?That’s false. Just like men women self improve for different reasons. I don’t understand this whole “women’s do this men do this” we are all legit human. Only difference is the slight chemical balances differ. If a man does something most likely a women will do the same thing. It’s not a gender difference it is a individual human difference. Some of us seek self improvement some of us don’t. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/22 06:27 PM |
| 5 | Do women have their own version of “self improvement”?I agree women absolutely self improve everyone does. But no the pressure is not greater than a mans at all. We both face pressure in different ways. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/22 06:25 PM |
| 5 | Do women have their own version of “self improvement”?I agree women absolutely self improve everyone does. But no the pressure is not greater than a mans at all. We both face pressure in different ways. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/22 06:25 PM |
| 1 | What does the "average man's" standards look like? And the "average woman's"?Dawg his standards he listed that the person forgot most don’t even have those standards. Dude just made that up on the fly. Women date bald men. Women date short men. Maybe over seas culture is a big one but in America I barley see people care about “culture” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/22 01:26 PM |
| 4 | Most average men would be happy with a healthy weight, average looking women.I mean yeah but that’s because there is so many average people. Plus looks are very much subjective so I mean what even is a hot person to one person can be not hot to someone else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/22 07:39 AM |
| 8 | Most average men would be happy with a healthy weight, average looking women.You both are dumb as hell. The fact y’all think it’s this cut and dry is hilarious. Different people date different people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/22 04:07 AM |
| 2 | Anyone else has trouble hanging it up after they "made it"?Wow this is not a good look sheesh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/22 08:24 PM |
| 3 | To people who agree with redpill ideas, what real life experience or event in your life convinced you that redpill ideas are true and makes sense?I think he was the one getting jumped | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/22 09:48 AM |
| 2 | CMV: the N count double standard is unfair, but so is being rejected for reasons beyond your control.People set their own standards. Ik women with the same standard. I don’t really get double standards in dating because unlike at a workplace or public space you set your own standards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/22 03:38 AM |
| -1 | A Pew Research Center study shows that 62% of single women in the U.S. are not open to casual dating or a committed relationship, compared to 39% of single menSo this just confirms what we already knew. Men as they age have higher chances of getting into a relationship where the inverse is true for women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/22 08:53 PM |
| 1 | What do you think actually helps men date?Bro assumes everyone on this thread doesn’t talk to women platonically and is scared of them so he doesn’t understand what your saying all g. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 07:34 PM |
| 0 | So sex is seeming more and more transactional these days. Who’s to blame?I mean you had him beat untill you doubled down on the Sample size of one. He he has broken up with multiple women you can assume he has more | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/22 02:12 AM |
| 2 | Women ask men to be fair while reserving themselves the right to be cruelI think it’s sad you both feel this way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/22 03:43 AM |
| 1 | Women have a much more delusional idea of average than men doYou really see who has some self respect in these threads lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/22 01:27 AM |
| 1 | How much has losing weight impacted your dating life?The difference is proportions. Quite simple | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/22 10:41 PM |
| 0 | Seeing your ex’s downfall 5+ years later isn’t the satisfaction you think it isMore like she has a type and you fit that. Most women I date have a look to them not because anyone specific just what I like | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/22 10:33 PM |
| 4 | This sub is toxic for women (as well as men)I come here to laugh and be like no way people like this are in real life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/22 09:37 PM |
| 1 | Most of the time when men react with frustration when women reject them it is because the woman is less attractive than them and has an inflated image, not because they are “entitled to sex.” Women react the same way when they don’t get what they feel they “deserve,” yet only one is shamed for it.I kinda see what your saying but what do you mean as attractive. There is two sides to attractiveness. They way you look and act. You can get rejected for both. Even if the women aren’t conventionally attractive they owe the man nothing no matter how much better looking(which is subjective anyway). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/22 10:06 AM |
| 1 | The censorship of TRP uses the guise of it being some dangerous extremist ideology to forbid us from discussing what most men experience, and Big Tech has a monopoly on public discourse so men are essentially left with nowhere to vent.I feel that I just seen the extreme post from there but I wasn’t in Reddit as much in its hay day so I trust your word | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/22 10:00 AM |
| 0 | The censorship of TRP uses the guise of it being some dangerous extremist ideology to forbid us from discussing what most men experience, and Big Tech has a monopoly on public discourse so men are essentially left with nowhere to vent.I mean it was basically the male equivalent to fds but with more testosterone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/22 01:50 AM |
| 1 | Have you even had a hookup/relationship with a man considered ugly?Yeah bro your tweaking and don’t don’t what objectively attractive means. It’s means that basically they are a 10/10 every one and their mom knows they are attractive. If you are a 5/10 your not objectively attractive. Your not ugly but not everyone will think your good looking . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/22 03:42 AM |
| 3 | Women love it when men impress themBro do you hear yourself. A lot of women don’t have anything going for themselves. It’s not a man thing just a people in general thing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/22 11:45 AM |
| 1 | How much can young people having less sex be attributed to porn?It’s not that but if I can keep all my money and keep my peace why would I trade that for something I don’t know will last. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/22 03:02 AM |
| 3 | Who gets more benefits from marriage: men or women? Discussing common misconceptionsLmao not at all I think we just have different idea of benefiting in a relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/22 08:01 PM |
| 5 | Who gets more benefits from marriage: men or women? Discussing common misconceptionsLike Jesus you people on this sub wonder why you get no action who thinks like this. Women and men both benefit from marriage if they find an actual partner they can trust and communicate with. If the only thing you gain from marriage is sex then why the fuck are you married. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/22 07:56 PM |
| 5 | Who gets more benefits from marriage: men or women? Discussing common misconceptionsMost women don’t bring these things to the table. Even the ones that do if they get an equally good partner then they should get the same treatment and they benefit each other. The point of marriage is to both help and raise each other up and if your not gonna do that then don’t get married. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/22 07:43 PM |
| 1 | It makes sense that women’s standards are “high”, and they are avoiding the majority of men, when men are basically saying that being with a man lowers a woman’s valueHow are you gonna prove me to that all men think like that. That is like me saying all women just want to use a man for his money and resources. And then asking you to back it up by saying prove it. You can’t you can’t speak on a whole other gender. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/22 09:35 PM |
| 2 | It makes sense that women’s standards are “high”, and they are avoiding the majority of men, when men are basically saying that being with a man lowers a woman’s valueI mean as a man none of my friends or anyone Ik think like that. Also just talk to people. Most people in real life do not adhere to fucking pills bro holy shit. You are interacting with a small group of men on here. As a man I can tell you most dudes I talk to don’t give af if you are a virgin in fact we kinda expect you not to be because we are all adults. “Prove it” you said that like you experience as a women is enough evidence to say the whole male population thinks like this when it’s not … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/22 09:33 PM |
| -3 | It makes sense that women’s standards are “high”, and they are avoiding the majority of men, when men are basically saying that being with a man lowers a woman’s valueThat isn’t the general consensus get off of Reddit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/22 09:28 PM |
| 1 | It makes sense that women’s standards are “high”, and they are avoiding the majority of men, when men are basically saying that being with a man lowers a woman’s valueWow someone with some actual sense | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/22 09:27 PM |
| 1 | Social awkwardness and lack of fitness are the reason for lack of interest women have in men todayCrazy thing is only fucking important thing is just eat at your caloric intake. Your is 2500 bet eat 2400-2600 calories a day and you will stay at your weight doesn’t really matter what you eat for the most part just make sure it’s variety and has all you need for the day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/22 05:37 AM |
| 1 | A lot of guys here mistake chubby women for being unattractive and being in the same league as chubby men.Well if you couldn’t tell from the replies your the the minority which is why you also hold this unpopular opinion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/22 04:19 PM |
| 1 | A lot of guys here mistake chubby women for being unattractive and being in the same league as chubby men.He is saying all ass is not built equal. Big isn’t always better shaper is better then size you can be small but have a nice shape. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/22 04:15 PM |
| 1 | How do average men with nothing to stand out get beautiful girlfriends?A lot of times women just wear make up in public making them look more attractive but when they get home and take it off they are on the same level of attractiveness. That and I mean attractiveness is subjective so I mean she could just like him and find him attractive. Attraction is about looks but if you hang out with someone and they make you feel good makes you laugh and you guys click your gonna start finding yourself attracted to them. You just seem like a hater at the end of the day when … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/22 12:00 AM |
| 12 | If women should lower their standards to be with the average man....why, and what does the average man have to offer?Because the average girl isn’t pulling an above average guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/22 02:49 AM |
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