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I’m proud of you.
/r/Divorce_Men10/01/23 01:25 AM
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I’m sorry you had to go through that. You’re a strong man for surviving it.
/r/Divorce_Men10/01/23 12:53 AM
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I’ve recently started trying this, and it’s coming on the tales of a concerted effort to think of someone else from the past or present when taking care of myself. There’s a lot of science behind the emotional attachments that are created in our brains even when self soothing. I do feel like it has helped prevent me from dragging out the sexual attachment, even if there is a chance I am creating some new ones.
/r/Divorce_Men08/01/23 02:28 AM
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Thank you for this. I thought I was where you sound like you are, but have found myself back sliding. At my core I know two happy homes are far better then one unhappy home; but I am finding myself sitting in resentment and worry about my daughters when the day comes for their mother to move on. Overall I believe I am in a good place, and have reached it in a healthy way after some unhealthy early attempts, but the handoffs keep eating at me. So far I’ve consistently been able to run through gra…
/r/Divorce_Men08/01/23 02:12 AM
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Same boat and would think it should be married filing separate, but am assuming my stbxw will try to file HoH and claim our dependents
/r/Divorce_Men05/01/23 07:18 PM
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Mine started with a plan to completely amicable, I thought we were going to one of those dream scenarios where it is civil for the kids. I found out in time she was playing hard ball right out of the gate to fuck me in any way she could. Get a lawyer, it will save your sanity down the road
/r/Divorce_Men26/12/22 11:47 PM
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My stbxw is only allowing me four hours tomorrow, and requiring her mother and step father be present. It feels so insulting and demoralizing, but I will do anything to see my little girls. The way they smile, and run up to give me a hug is the brightest light in my world. I have been hurt, beaten down, and tossed aside by the woman I meant to spend my life with. I recognize my fault in the situation. But the relentless bullying just seems so mean.
/r/Divorce_Men25/12/22 12:09 AM
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I am in the same boat, my stbxw filed a motion to limit visitation, and unilaterally decided to enforce it. My lawyer filed contempt charges on her this week and she has caved to allow me four hours Christmas Day, but requiring her parents be here. It is extremely unfortunate and heart breaking. Through the divorce I have gotten a lot of therapy, and joined AA, and I am grateful for what I have learned through both. The important thing to remember is that this too shall pass, and for me there is…
/r/Divorce_Men24/12/22 01:21 AM
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Just bought it and looking forward to reading it. The book BIFF was also recommended, do you have any insights?
/r/Divorce_Men17/12/22 10:15 PM
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I am proud of you, and your strength can help a lot of people put their situations in perspective.
/r/Divorce_Men06/12/22 11:44 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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