tendersea Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
20	Feeling insecure being single at 28.		tendersea	/r/RedPillWomen	10/03/25 03:59 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Complicated situation — was it cheating if we weren’t official, and is there any path to trust? Anyone who pressures you to sleep with him is a red flag. Someone can at any time of the relationship, even during sex, can withhold consent due to comfort levels. Plus they weren't even official. She is no under any obligation to give him intimacy. In the OP's own words, he was rushing intimacy. She also even said, she can't be with someone physically under their setup and he lied.	/r/RedPillWomen	19/09/25 08:18 AM
1	Complicated situation — was it cheating if we weren’t official, and is there any path to trust? "In January not knowing about December I briefly agreed to date him, but it collapsed after 10 days with him walking away because he wash rushing intimacy and I wanted to take it slow (in his mind it's been 5 months already). He then continued to pursue me but I was put off."	/r/RedPillWomen	19/09/25 08:13 AM
-4	Complicated situation — was it cheating if we weren’t official, and is there any path to trust? All he wants is sex.	/r/RedPillWomen	18/09/25 05:08 AM
6	Complicated situation — was it cheating if we weren’t official, and is there any path to trust? No it's not cheating but a man who would truly like to pursue you, not just get intimacy, wouldn't juggle you with other women. Also, I would question his intentions for 'pursuing' me, since he rushes intimacy.	/r/RedPillWomen	18/09/25 05:07 AM
11	Does cleaning make us more feminine? Being clean and neat is. But not necessarily the act of cleaning per se. More of your personal hygiene & environment & belongings than doing chores around the house.	/r/RedPillWomen	09/05/25 12:22 PM
4	It’s been 4 months and I want to be exclusive - or am I just a plate? Is he a devout Christian? From that perspective, it seems like you might not be his dream girl. He would definitely honor no intimacy until marriage if he sees you as that, even if you've already slept w men before, that is something he will take care of. Other women he sleeps with are just his sins.	/r/RedPillWomen	02/04/25 04:44 AM
–	Feeling insecure being single at 28. Not interested in celebrities. I've dated millionaires & top lawyers before who were proud to date me & bragged me to their law firm partners or families or celebrity friends so I don't think my league are beta orbiters. I guess the finance educated type of guy is what I'm willing to date, I just lost the momentum to keep going. My serious relationship ended when i was 24 bc we were incompatible in the long-term & sadly I made the mistake of dating a narcissist short-term when I was 26.	/r/RedPillWomen	19/03/25 04:35 AM
1	does income and status really make a man attractive? Yes. It's biological.	/r/RedPillWomen	19/03/25 04:11 AM
3	Feeling insecure being single at 28. I gave up on looking good after being single for so long tbh. My self-confidence had gone down. But prior to that, you can say I am petite, fit, & got complimented by celebrities & high-level personalities for my looks. What's SMV? Had a short-term boyfriend 2 yrs ago & he broke my heart. Had a long-term one (2.5 years) 4 years ago. Last question, none & it's making me feel depressed. No matter how I go out my lovelife has gone dry.	/r/RedPillWomen	11/03/25 09:01 AM
5	Should I tell my fiancé that I don’t like my valentines necklace and that someone gave me nearly the exact same thing years ago?? He will stop giving you gifts if you do.	/r/RedPillWomen	19/02/25 07:15 AM
6	Should I tell my fiancé that I don’t like my valentines necklace and that someone gave me nearly the exact same thing years ago?? Nope	/r/RedPillWomen	19/02/25 07:14 AM
16	Am I overthinking or is this actually to be concerned about? It should all boil down to whether you feel comfortable with it. If not, communicate so.	/r/RedPillWomen	04/02/25 02:06 PM
1	Fast proposals from men How did you do this? I am scared this will turn off men who want a give-and-take relationship & who want to get to know me more before making such a big decision. High-value men in my country particularly; their circles usually get into relationships first before marriage. I also fear it will not be sustainable. But I TOTALLY see the point of no ring no exclusivity. My thought process now is agreeing to be exclusive but no sex… because I feel this is the more sustainable route given my country’s…	/r/RedPillWomen	31/01/25 06:38 AM