throwaway5093903590 Archive

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1	Marrying Me Set Him Back It sounds like you both have reasons to be burnt out. A lot of this sounds like codependency on your end and control issues on his. There's a lot of resentment on both sides. I also feel like you both have different ideas of how your relationship is supposed to look. You wanted to be a stay-at-home mom, but he wants you to get a better career so you can both go on luxury things together? You also have medical issues, but he wants you to continue college? It doesn't really make sense. Again, I'm …	/r/RedPillWomen	17/12/24 07:47 PM
1	Marrying Me Set Him Back This isn't to be combative. More out of curiosity. I'm curious what is specifically abusive about him? He seems controlling about which school she attended and which major she chose. Beyond that though, it sounds like she is very reliant on his guidance. To me, this is natural between a RPW relationship.	/r/RedPillWomen	13/12/24 02:42 AM
9	Marrying Me Set Him Back I'm not a RPW, but these are all great suggestions. OP also needs to speak through her long-term goals with her husband, and also talk about what balance looks like. To be honest, it sounds like OP is very high-maintenance. He is emotionally supporting her, financially supporting her, and trying to guide her through school and debt. I am confused also why they are living paycheck to paycheck if they are a dual income household with no children at the moment.	/r/RedPillWomen	11/12/24 09:07 PM