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Used to be they'd claim on TRP that "it's just a generalization, don't be a baby" and "we NEED to use strong generalizations to reach these newbies" but then once they started to get it they just pushed it further instead of explaining the nuance. Eventually it became "no All Women Are Like That, every single one" and I knew the sub was lost to incels and neocons and alt right morons.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 05:38 AM
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Far and away the common lingo is the dead giveaway. Normal people don’t say shit like SMV. Ever. “Kino” might be ambiguous with straight-stick PUAs, but it would be one or the other. 9/10 chance an obsession with blondes means Indian race troll or something adjacent. And then there’s the mgtow/incel dialect overlapping with 4chan/r9k like “roasties”.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 04:01 PM
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Then you're lying to yourself, but that doesn't prove all unconditional love exists in the broader picture anyway. And even if it did, it's a terrible benchmark for happiness. I also want to win the lottery, have thousands of indentured servants, and be able to do whatever I want, but I realize that's not something I can realistically have, and especially not unironically whine about not having.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 08:51 PM
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No but that's not the same as unconditional love.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 06:41 PM
2

So you agree--chads and 3/10's alike both chase something that doesn't exist. So you have no excuse for a woe-is-me post about just wanting to be loved unconditionally. That's not something other people get that you don't, it's a thing that nobody gets. It's an unrealistic expectation.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 06:30 PM
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It has often occurred to me. What's your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 06:23 PM
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And fyi, not all dude wants to be a Chad. But all dudes as far as I know at least for once in their lives wished to be loved unconditionally. I don't even consider that feasible for chads. This comes off as extremely entitled.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 06:08 PM
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Honestly if they have an open mind and a good attitude you can tell the problem will go away on its own, they'll figure out they need to do all that. I only call them incels when they self-sabotage and refuse to improve so the can continue to play victims.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 06:08 PM
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I propose that 'bad luck' incels who are self aware and open to improvement be granted honorary non-incel status, instead being referred to as temporarily embarrassed chads.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 12:23 AM
3

Even if all this is true: Getting good camera angles leads to very unrealistic positions, like the requirement that the guy have a 14 inch dick so that he can basically stand sideways during doggy and fuck sideways so the camera can still see the penetration Unrealistic pleasure reactions to not very pleasurable positions will give the wrong impression that these are good moves Porn does set unrealistic expectations, just not the ones you mentioned
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 02:23 AM
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It's challenging managing the intrusive thoughts but thankfully it gets better the further from teenage years you get. And also pretty easy to dismiss if you're not a shitbag and even somewhat an adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 01:09 AM
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The one that got away is a myth, and even if it wasn't, people change and grow into different people over time.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 04:57 AM
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I didn't watch it on the "news" if it even was on the news, I was literally on TRP watching it happen lmao Jesus christ, go touch some grass.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 06:00 PM
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No, I'm not a feminist, I was on team redpill and I'm using the real definition of incel, and I mean it when I say TRP was overrun by incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 05:03 PM
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True, but the practical problem with that is, assuming you're a new guy and don't know which things are the good things to pick out, the advice there is severely warped by guys who don't have the first clue what they're talking about. Like you'd think everyone would listen to guys who have figured it out and succeed, but most of the posts are by losers deep in anger phase who have read enough "theory" to think they know what they're talking about and make their own theory post...which is then re…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 04:29 PM
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Not by theory but trp has been completely overrun with incels. That's why I left awhile back, it's irredeemable.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 04:15 PM
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About to CYV right here: women don't respect simps, and the saturation of simps in the dating market makes self respect really pop and stand out. I've had several women do double takes when I didn't fall for thirst traps. TLDR; simps make the dating market even easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 09:31 PM
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:( :D :( :D
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 04:26 AM
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No thanks, I’ve seen a bit and it’s all Female Gaze so not really interested. It was more just a cheeky reply to a ridiculous question.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 07:12 PM
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6.9 billion females : me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 02:49 AM
0

I think the most genetically gifted and/or high status men are the overall winners but the typical women definitely win over the typical men. Well yeah, but who cares? Like would you be jealous they get more dick than you? No, of course not.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 03:12 AM
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When I was a kid, every young guy was tormented ENDLESSLY about being a virgin. Being a virgin from 16 to "when you lost it" was a fucking NIGHTMARE. It was like VIRGIN was written on your forehead. I for one am glad this toxic emphasis on virginity is going away. It fucked up so many young people. The biggest shock I felt after losing mine was that I felt exactly the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 03:03 AM
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This isn't true. RP doesn't do what it does for women's benefit at all. It's for men to get the romance they want. Point of order, they didn't say TRP does it for the purpose of women's benefit. They only said that it also benefits women. TRP fails because anger phase is not effective and creeps women out, and it only has programming to get from despair phase to anger phase, not out of anger phase into "success phase" or whatever you would call it. Even worse, not sure about your experience but …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 02:56 AM
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Okay but in this case the girl isn’t obligated to let you in. You don’t get to whine that people won’t let you in their house, that’s creepy. And it’s creepy outside the analogy too when you start talking like they owe it to you to open the door.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 10:43 PM
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It gets your foot in the door.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 06:18 PM
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Given their writing style I'd bet 20 bucks at this point they really are a dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 05:32 PM
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Now the $75,000 ceiling might be too low And too high in some places. A national average is very misleading when the cost of living varies so drastically from place to place. They should frame it in terms of income over local cost of living as a ratio.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 05:29 PM
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I wouldn't. The term "celibate" carries a ton of excess baggage. Just say you're taking a break or not ready yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 05:20 PM
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Tons. The problem is this only “proves” that the distribution is somewhat skewed. It doesn’t prove that the numbers are exactly 80/20 and you cannot use this to claim that “basically all men never get laid” as is the common whine post. Original Pareto principle was about growing peas ffs, it does not directly map.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 03:43 PM
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Nothing. I did a lot on TRP before it devolved into incels and tradcons. The problem is a lot of the advice is misleading, counterproductive, or just plain wrong. Also I agree with *women in this case about the Pareto principle, I disagree that it's useful. What behaviors will you change, knowing it? None. It's mostly a woe-is-me circlejerking tool for incels and MGTOW.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 09:57 PM
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Sure but my issue isn’t the principle, it’s that the 80/20 part is commonly cited around here as concrete fact, and even stretched further to imply that 80% of men don’t get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 09:10 PM
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The 80/20 from the Pareto principle isn't literal though, it's just to outline that a disproportionately smaller group produces higher results. People take it way too literally.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 08:38 PM
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Damn I guess by 2050 100% of men won't ever be having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 08:35 PM
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Saw it, it's good. Also covers male gaze as a bonus.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 06:48 AM
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Skimmed his stuff and so far I agree, it jives with my experience of what works really well. We need to be learning from guys who know what they're talking about, not incels with zero experience and maladjusted ideas of how gender dynamics works.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 06:33 AM
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Thing is, this used to be uncontroversial even on TRP. Like we would actively discourage thinking like this as it was counterproductive. That was before incels took the whole thing over, of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 12:03 AM
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Post flair says "Purge debate" so I'm considering it grandfathered in.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 11:59 PM
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It definitely is. Everyone but them knows it. But they refuse to take responsibility so it must be a vast conspiracy against all men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 11:58 PM
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Plus since it's purge week, I have no problem saying I don't give a flying fuck what some incel thinks he's "figured out" about how women work. They have no fucking idea and no one should listen to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 11:44 PM
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Eh a lot of incels will tell you they don't just want to get laid, they want affection (usually prompted by someone telling them to just get a hooker). But they want to get that affection without earning it by being attractive to someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 11:34 PM
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Because if they admitted they were actually decent looking they'd also have to admit it was their shitty attitude holding them back, and it couldn't be that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 11:32 PM
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Because they're pushing the incel narrative that all men are in this together and almost no men actually get laid. It's like the Thin Blue Line flag but it has red for firefighters and green for park rangers, because they're trying to make it look like it's all first responders that are being "attacked", rather than shitbag cops.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 11:31 PM
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I mean, technically the bees did all the work. He stole it from the bees.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 11:28 PM
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No idea if I would date him because I have no inkling of what he is like. Same as the chick too. She's definitely cute enough to date, but you'd have to see if she was a crazy bitch or super cool first.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 11:28 PM
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I knew a chick once that some poor sap bought presents for all the time. Not even for sex, just for the possibility of affection. I told her it wasn't a good idea to accept them as there was an implicit expectation of reciprocity, but she swore it was harmless. Oh well, she didn't get murdered that particular time.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 09:42 PM
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Who's here saying they have harems though? On TRP maybe quite awhile ago, but here and especially the last couple years they make it sound like 0.00001% of men even have sex, and that they've never met any man who's actually had sex and neither have you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 08:05 AM
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Made by a mgtow to "prove a point", can't wait to see the "data" next week
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 08:01 AM
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"accidentally"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 07:59 AM
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Yes well excuse me if I take sexless losers’ “expert advice on how the dating market really works” with a grain of salt. I can tell you from experience it does happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 06:25 PM
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And also a shitty book, and also a toxic shitty example of BDSM.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 09:58 PM
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The great irony is that adopting a collaborative mindset is what helped me break out in the first place. Single most important factor to dating success or getting laid. Sure, shitty people exist, but just skip them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 01:48 AM
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This--AWALT, but not to the same extent. The fact that this is glossed over is so misleading as to be indistinguishable from a lie. I've always taken issue with this in TRP. Edit: The counterargument that men need this absolutism to break out of putting women on pedestals is also a lie. There are far easier ways like addressing the issue directly. It also leads to these guys treating all women as the same person, while the key to success is context and treating every situation differently. So ob…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 06:59 PM
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I can't tell if you're joking or you really didn't read the context of OP's post.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 07:52 PM
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There is no 100% PC Way of Approaching Women Without Risking to Appear CREEPY First of all, your statement is worded such that refuting it is impossible. There is no possible way to eliminate 100% of the risk in anything. There are always risks, and ways to mitigate those risks. "Yikes! Women will assume you want to sleep with them which is a turn off!" Not true...at least, not necessarily. Women do enjoy sex. just approach women, be upfront and honest with your intentions from the get-go."Eww, …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 05:58 PM
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This is why I was always loudly outspoken against TRP's lack of nuance. They always say they need a big shock and bombastic language to swing the pendulum the other way and they'll figure out the nuance on their own...but they never do, they just become angry blackpilled incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 10:07 PM
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Yes that's the irony, and part of why they got quarantined is that the sub basically became one big echo chamber for hating women. But in my opinion the whole "going my own way" is just cope, like how the fox wants the grapes but can't reach them so he slinks off saying they were probably sour anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 09:25 PM
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That definitely feels like something out of the ISIS/Taliban playbook. Or some Handmaiden's Tale-esque shit. That's exactly what it is. They'd love a christian fascist theocracy because they'd get sex slaves while still getting to be losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 07:57 PM
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By that I mean supporting the idea of arranged marriages or issuing wives or prostitutes. Basically being given pussy for free when you haven't earned it as if it was...air or food, or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 07:39 PM
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Looking around the room you never catch a girl looking before she looks away? Or see her out of the corner of your eye? There are literally tomes written about this subject, I don't think we need to revisit it. Point is, women do check out men, and if you really are fit like you say, they are indeed checking you out. The fact that you don't notice speaks more to your social awareness and doesn't at all mean that women never check out men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 06:04 PM
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I think this issue is not about sex only, everybody can pay for sex... people want to be truly desired. Or at least, want to have something stable without free competition. Anecdotally around the redpill here this is also true, as there are many stereotypical stories of losers who went to a prostitute to lose their virginity only to find they still felt like losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 05:55 PM
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You not knowing social cues does not mean that "if you put in the work they're still not going to check you out". Women check out men all the time. You can literally observe them doing it, and if you actually put in the effort and got fit, if you look for it you will see them checking you out too.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 05:48 PM
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I'm cool with taking 100% responsibility, but I don't want to hear any whining from the blue pill about how I make myself more arousing. Okay but why do you care what they think? There were always haters and there will always be haters. Nowdays the bigger threat is from incels and MGTOW trying to get sexual welfare anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 05:46 PM
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Men should just leave women alone and collectively go MGTOW. I mean that only makes it easier for those not going their own way...but your prerogative. One thing I will say though is if you're MGTOW, actually go your own way and stop whining about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 05:40 PM
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Too bad even if you put in the work u still not gonna get checked out by girls lol. This is objectively not true. If you haven't noticed, you have to be pretty oblivious.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 05:38 PM
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It's just most men never come out of the red pill rage and end up stuck they're without progressing and trying to accomplish their other goals. One might argue that's because a lot of TRP is extremely misleading, I know that's why I bailed. And whenever I called someone out on it, I always got the old "well of course it doesn't really mean that they're just supposed to believe it now and the nuance will come later." But the nuance never comes to most guys because TRP never allows nuance.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 01:12 AM
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People on PPD: don't tell us to "improve ourselfes" that's shit advice. If problems were fixable, it would ruin their career of professionally whining. So they always arrange for the solution to be either impossible or so hard as to be insurmountable.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 06:59 PM
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And if they were whiny and cringe a lot of them that were getting laid wouldn't be.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 09:16 PM
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I'm sorry but this is just not how statistics work. You can't conclude that it's mostly victims of childhood sexual abuse that have violent rape fantasies just because they're more likely than nonvictims.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 09:06 PM
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I never said "good person". Either way these guys have attractive attitudes, and don't whine about not getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 09:03 PM
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Maybe but I've seen average dudes get laid with great attitudes. Just because it's not a deal breaker in extreme examples doesn't mean it isn't a big factor.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 08:37 PM
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I wouldn't either if I had their shitty attitude, even if they were otherwise acceptable in looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 08:04 PM
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Maybe because you can't just mass-change culture either. You can individually slut-shame, but incels already do that and it only hurts them. Unless you mean waving a magic wand type scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 08:07 PM
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Well that's good at least, not that I think you have a leg to stand on if you call it "normie culture". But I'll never support that as hookup culture has greatly benefitted me as well as any redpilled guy and any feminist.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 07:10 PM
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Honestly not having hook-up culture isn't that big of a sacrifice. How could that ever possibly be enforced without sex slaves or a tyrranical theocracy? And in my mind only to satisfy some guys who either didn't try to follow through with either TRP or blue pill advice, but whine about it instead?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 06:50 PM
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I think men see the "sexual liberation" crowd screeching and act like it's the standard but it's not. Honestly we should be screeching for it too, it's amazing for us.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 09:01 PM
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I'd think you'd be surprised. Unless you use the "I'm open to it...for the right person." which is pretty close.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 10:18 PM
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A man goes on a date with a woman. He tells her upfront that "He's not looking for anything serious" but wouldn't mind hanging out with her (i.e. fucking her). Most women would NOT agree to this arrangement. ESPECIALLY when stated overtly. I dunno man, this has worked out for me quite a bit. You sure it's "most" women?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 08:04 PM
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Hopefully the nature of work changes so that it's not as necessary to delay having kids just for a career.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 05:58 PM
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I mean the world has 7 billion people and far fewer jobs than that, especially with automation coming. We don't need to keep increasing the population, we'll be fine. But I do agree that it's pointless to hate the opposite gender, once you let that go you do way better in the game.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 05:57 PM
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You’re also neglecting the more likely scenario that he’s just blatantly lying about knowing not one but three guys who literally killed themselves because women ruined their life.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 04:18 PM
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being stoic/aloof and being kind of a jerk (but in a comcial way) to her. That's the key here though. DO be cocky/funny. DON'T be an unfunny plain old asshole. There's a difference between teasing them a little and not giving unconditional worship, and actually treating them like shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 12:51 AM
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Ugly guys figure what's the point in trying when women are just going to choose the hot guys no matter what. I've seen ugly guys pull girls though. But every guy who just gives up is less competition, I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 12:49 AM
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That's fair. I also think though that a lot of "investing" that guys do, if that investing means paying for dinners and buying drinks, is wasted investment. Especially disregarding marriage if we're only talking about getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 04:49 AM
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If it really looks that scary to you, then don't. I'm just saying that's not how it is and it's not that bad in my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 03:46 AM
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okay
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 03:32 AM
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I disagree, and bear with me because I'll explain myself: When I was much younger I struck out all the time, missed obvious IOI's, was socially awkward and by today's standards at times might have fit the Incel label. Only through making myself learn and grow, and practice socializing by actually trying, ie talking to women, was I able to improve myself, get a little more fit, take care of myself and my appearance and my career better, and was eventually very successful. If you tell men that if …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 09:22 PM
1

Was she a cat?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 09:10 PM
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And by far the top reason is the sex was awkward or the whole thing was awkward. Very few women have actually "bad" smelling vaginas.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 09:10 PM
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You're really out here trying to convince players they're only spectators...I can't support that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 08:55 PM
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A negative return? Can you explain?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 08:50 PM
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I'm conflicted on this because on one hand it's defeatist bullshit and I know it's not true; on the other hand when losers buy into this it drastically reduces competition and makes the game easier for the rest of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 08:50 PM
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For some people equity means they get to take a turn at being the oppressor.
/r/PussyPassDenied04/07/21 05:23 PM
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sheepish I don't think that word means what you think it means.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 01:21 AM
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Most of these women are more than capable of handling the type of dopes that are sugar daddies. The creeps usually weed themselves out, and most of their interactions can be in public in broad daylight. Also I can’t think of one scenario where someone would get fired for having this type of relationship such that the employer wouldn’t get their balls sued off.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 02:40 PM
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I mean it's at least perjury, right? That's the minimum it should be, and probably more.
/r/PussyPassDenied08/03/21 08:23 PM
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What is your idea of "treat them like a normal person"? I really wanna hear what you would do.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 05:57 PM
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Just treat them like they’re a normal person, nothing special. You don’t need to be a psychopath. They’re just used to being treated like a “hot girl”. This post is overthinking it. Edit: haaaaa I see we’ve got some butthurt guys who’ve never pulled girls like this, which is telling because it’s not against TRP doctrine.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 03:55 PM
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As someone who used to suck but eventually learned to do great, yes. 90% of it is mental.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/21 03:51 AM
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I mean look at trumps dad he looked like a mutant. It’s definitely not some superior gene line.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 12:44 AM
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Yeah in my experience almost everyone that felt they “settled” were mistaken on what league they were actually in.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 12:39 AM
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I'm not trolling, I'm making a valid point. Clearly there are times showing emotion doesn't cost you, so OP is picking and choosing. And if he's picking and choosing this is probably more about his own issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 02:38 AM
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When you show emotions, you’re basically showing people you are not as tough as you portray yourself to be. That’s why I never cheer or clap when my team scores, I just sit there neutrally and avoid reacting.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 01:58 AM
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You got a baby mama then same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 04:03 PM
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50 bucks says his wife does all the work and he doesn’t even realize it, backup bet is they have an au pair. I know parents who are less stressed than average and it’s nowhere near “it’s only stressful if you let it be”. That claim is extremely suspect.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 07:02 AM
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Ok then who does that leave? Is this just a long way of saying you don’t want to date men?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/21 10:37 PM
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But he doesn’t know who you are either. Which means what you’re really screening for is guys who put in a lot of effort because they know you’re worth it, but without knowing that at all...so you’re screening guys who think a lot of effort or fancy dinner will buy them sex, because it definitely ain’t because you’re a good person, they can’t know that anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/21 10:05 PM
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Likewise. Oh well.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/21 09:47 PM
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This is for sure some FDS shit, but I’ll bite. Why? Because it raises the bar for what a date should be. A date should be getting to know someone you’re attracted to, not a bribe. If you take girls out for fancy dinners you’re a free fancy dinner service and get treated as such. If you invite someone out for dinner you should be paying anyway. If Margot Robbie agreed to go on a date with me but wanted to go somewhere fancy, I’d expect her to pay. We both know she’s got movie star money, it would…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/21 09:39 PM
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I dunno man, I dunno. But every time I stop by it's even worse than the last time. Maybe we're not shaming enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/21 06:33 PM
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The best is when you have a really good connection. Often these turn into LTRs anyway so they often get neglected as ONSs.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/21 06:13 PM
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So you don’t actually have an argument, got it. Didn’t think so.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/21 03:09 AM
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I'm not evading anything, you're just not making any sense. Say what you mean and make your point, you're playing the connect the dots game and I don't waste my time on pedantic scavenger hunts.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/21 01:38 AM
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Why are you proposing nonsensical hypotheticals though? If aliens landed I'd probably change the way I live entirely too. Who fucking cares?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/21 01:12 AM
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Just one less layer of safety, you'd have to compensate by taking less risk in other ways. If herpes was fatal would you ever have sex at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/21 12:38 AM
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...and?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/21 11:42 PM
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I think what people can see is that you're clearly upset about something, but whatever point you were trying to make about evidence and contraception isn't landing. I guess we now know it has something to do with what I said about evidence, so we've got that going for us which is nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/21 11:30 PM
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Failing to see what point you’re making here.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/21 08:58 PM
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X: Doubt
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/21 06:08 PM
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Well whatever it is it's clearly not from experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/21 05:54 PM
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Then...wait, is OP arguing the bluepill argument then? Because the redpill position would be that pumping and dumping is normal side effect of the game like men getting rejected, but I have a hard time believing bloops would say female promiscuity is bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/21 05:19 PM
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Oh for sure. But then, what's the argument? "Hey, this could happen..." Well of course it could. So what? Is it a big problem? If not why are we even making a thing about it? It's more likely to me it's just more tradcon whining about the family unit.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/21 05:12 PM
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Which is mostly imaginary, and almost certainly concern trolling. At best is vastly exaggerated.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/21 04:44 PM
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Yeah I don’t see a lot of evidence for that. The fact that you said “truer” alone speaks to your tradcon bias. At best it no more or less true than others, and you were clearly starting out the posts argument from a tradcon perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/21 03:11 PM
3

Kinda depressing how far I had to scroll to see this.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/21 03:01 PM
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Moral damage, this is all a tradcon beta argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/21 02:58 PM
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Men should be too. The HPV vaccine is a modern miracle.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/21 02:56 PM
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It was in tribal times, as well as for bonding. How is this post not just tradcon moralizing?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/21 02:39 PM
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Compared to white-girl-wasted club thots? Actually yeah, they’re about the same in my experience too. Don’t get caught up in the madonna/whore fallacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/21 03:04 AM
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Not normally, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 04:06 PM
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Maybe, but if you tell me that this is a thing I’ll listen and try to take it into consideration. Dates have shown me their DMs before and now I don’t blame them for being so defensive off the bat. It’s not that hard to listen if you get off your soapbox and stop saying “but what about how hard men (or women) have it?!”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 04:05 PM
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lol nah I just think 9/10 times the guys whining about "assholes getting all the girls" are just salty rather than the guy actually being an asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/21 05:59 PM
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Hot take, the guy is only an asshole because you hate that he’s with the girl you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/21 03:12 PM
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I’ve read that this is bad because You’ve read this is bad from losers who themselves can’t figure it out. It’s definitely doable. Maybe even easier now that you’re older. If someone is treating you abusively stand up for yourself. It’s not a black hole, you can get out of it. People dont want to teach someone how to please them Youre viewed as an odd anomaly, people assume there is something wrong with you People have already gotten sexual experimentation out of the way so if you want to try so…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 03:48 AM
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Not gonna lie I’ve been out of touch with all this for awhile now and I have no idea what this means or if you’re being sarcastic or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 03:30 AM
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Nobody wants to kill you dude, you need to take a step back and deescalate with yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 03:27 AM
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Porn and cheating ruins families. False equivalence between porn and cheating. Women hate it when their husbands watch porn. Massively generalizing assumption. Families are the basic building block of society. Okay, let’s assume this is true for the sake of argument... Causing tension in families or even destroying families will destroy society. You have failed to show that all this significantly damages families in aggregate or that this would even come close to being sufficient to “destroy soc…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 03:24 AM
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"Tearing society apart"? Okay here's where I have to jump in. How is society tearing apart? What's your evidence for all this supposed damage?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 03:18 PM
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M Night Shyamalan twist, she’s an amazonian lesbian.
/r/PussyPassDenied04/01/21 03:47 PM
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Woke, but not woke enough to "date down".
/r/PussyPassDenied04/01/21 07:51 AM
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I never had to buy things. I guess there are some trashier girls that were obviously high maintenance but I wouldn’t have wanted the drama anyway so maybe it’s selection bias. In fact it usually worked better if you didn’t buy them anything because that’s the first thing all the simps would do. I stood out more often for seeing them as a person and not a princess to put on a pedestal.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 11:56 PM
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I mean let’s be honest, in this case, probably.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/20 03:11 PM
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Guy 2 will get laid more on average. But that’s not the claim. Incels will say guy 1 cannot ever get laid and that’s just not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 09:45 PM
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No I meant they don't pick the rotten fruit, unsurprisingly, and then you're out here saying the game is rigged but you don't know why you should bother trying not to be rotten. You ever wonder why you don't get taken seriously?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 06:54 PM
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Same as I don't blame women for not picking the most rotten fruit at the grocery store.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 06:48 PM
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N.K. Jemisin
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 06:42 PM
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I'm not attracted to any guys, I'm a dude lmao And at one point I couldn't get laid, but I figured it out for the most part and now I'm fine. So if guys want to learn and improve that's great, but I have no sympathy for losers who would rather blame the system than take responsibility for improving.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 06:41 PM
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That doesn’t even disprove the rule though. Just because some women will take the bait for a hypothetical fake hot guy (extremely sus “experiment” too) doesn’t prove shit personalities aren’t sinking incels. I’ve seen pictures of some these guys, they aren’t bad. What’s glaring is their shit attitude and social retardation. I might also add that it’s extra pathetic that guys who can’t figure out the game are lecturing guys who have on how the game works.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 01:11 PM
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I know several couples from IRL where the guy hooked up with the sugar mama. We shouldn’t stop giving women a pass because we would do the exact same thing in their position, that would be shitty. We should however stop shaming men for not being the “dom” in the relationship because making men feel like shit for not making more than the woman is what’s holding us back.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/20 02:32 AM
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Let's say hypothetically there was a tall, beautiful, strong and rich woman who if you dated would let you live in her really nice house. Now lets pretend society wouldnt consider you a pussy for not being the alpha breadwinner. All things equal, would you not choose her over the exact same girl with none of those things going for her? See, so except by being discouraged by toxic masculinity men would do the exact same thing, its not a gender thing. People like living in comfort.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 08:46 PM
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Because TRP has been overrun by tradcons and neoreactionaries and incels. We used to talk about things like how you described. AWALT used to mean all women somewhat have these traits but now it literally means All Women Bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/20 08:36 PM
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It shouldn't be the case considering the issues that come with it. People need to learn to socialize without that. What inherent issues? You don't need to get shitfaced when you drink. What's wrong with having one beer? And can you still function without it? Sure. But if it makes things easier and more fun to socialize why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/20 07:14 PM
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What if both people are shitfaced? Did they rape each other?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/20 07:12 PM
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Questioned and...? If you're not advocating for prohibition what do you think should be done?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/20 07:11 PM
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Shit, I need to figure out a hustle like that. Sounds way easier than my current job.
/r/PussyPassDenied24/09/20 02:20 AM
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No everyone is ok with it or else it doesn’t happen like that. Also, “shared” isn’t quite the right word. I’m not sure what is, but it’s not like co-ownership.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/20 12:13 AM
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https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Eskimo%20Brother
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/20 11:08 PM
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You’ll be fighting tradcons on this tooth and nail but once you’ve had a few three ways or “long term eskimo brothers/sisters” you see how chill it is when no one’s hyper focused on owning the other person.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/20 02:12 PM
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Look on my works, ye mighty, and despair!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/20 03:49 PM
1

I'd like to point out that this is not necessarily, or wasn't originally, a main pillar of TRP. This is something tradcons/neoreactionaries brought in when they took over.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/20 05:55 AM
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I mean onlyfans is pretty cheap compared to paid sites, and almost all the money goes to the girls rather than parasite porn magnates. Then again, most porn is still free, so...
/r/PussyPassDenied05/09/20 10:37 PM
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So because extreme feminism doesn't recognize toxic femininity, it doesn't exist and he's lying?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/20 02:05 AM
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He’s flexing, or else he doesn’t know what the fuck he’s talking about. Telling guys this is counterproductive.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 02:11 PM
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