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| 0 | Once a woman stops being attracted to her husband, and the bedroom is dead, there is no reviving it.Just head on over to scholar.google.com and pull up the many dozens more related to loss of desire after beginning caretaking for your spouse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 05:28 AM |
| 2 | Once a woman stops being attracted to her husband, and the bedroom is dead, there is no reviving it.Men are told to continue to "date" their wives, to "woo" them, to clean, to do more chores, etc., fixed it for you Women aren't sexually attracted to men they have to be the mother of, it's science. Once a partner stops being a partner, and they're more like a parent-child relationship, the 'parent' stops wanting sex with the 'child'. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 02:56 AM |
| 3 | Q4M - would you date a woman who has limited themselves to the same grooming/self care regimen you have?hairy kitty. I'm pretty sanitary Pubic hair is the sanitary option, as bizarre of a fact that is. It's fine to prefer otherwise but your preference is not the sanitary one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 12:54 AM |
| 0 | Men are not more v*olent for not getting sex. Most v*olence against women come from men they are partnered with, not from virgins men[Venting frustrations] is what feminists and women love to do that the most I know you're capable of extrapolating data. I know that you know that I'm talking about venting to the person who just rejected you. We're not talking about venting online in an anonymous forum, or to your friends or other loved ones, or even your therapist or religious leader. Do not complain to me about a totally different situation and then treat it as if it's the one I was talking about. Hate is not illegal. Not eve… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/23 07:22 PM |
| 1 | Men are not more v*olent for not getting sex. Most v*olence against women come from men they are partnered with, not from virgins menI wasn't trying to say women want all the identities but, like men, they want partners with multiple core characteristics that are a part of their identity. Interesting takeaway about DMS though, but I think I agree with you. ...Given the proclivities of where we are, I feel it prudent to mention that most women genuinely do not engage in dual mating strategy. They want the one man, not one that's 'transactional' for everything else and one that's 'Chad' for sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/23 07:26 PM |
| 1 | Men are not more v*olent for not getting sex. Most v*olence against women come from men they are partnered with, not from virgins menI'm treating you with proper dignity and respect. I'm assuming you are a reasonably intelligent person. I'm assuming you're already aware that being stupid is not the same as being bad, and having incorrect or flawed logic is not the same as being stupid. Please do the same. My words cannot be truncated down into a small soundbite. Small and short comments are not lesser or "dumb" in any way, but if my thoughts were fully formed in 20 words I'd use 20 words, not 200. Anything worth knowing is wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/23 07:17 PM |
| 6 | Men are not more v*olent for not getting sex. Most v*olence against women come from men they are partnered with, not from virgins menYou need to remember that the physically violent attack or getting beaten or murdered are rare, sure. Your life is most valuable when you're around to live it, yeah? Of course there's a priority that, y'know, you avoid doing things that could cause you to die or seriously ruin your quality of life for months or years, possibly permanently ruin your quality of life. In addition to that, there is still the mental violence of dealing with rejection violence. Hateful, awful things said, maybe they o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/23 05:50 PM |
| 1 | Men are not more v*olent for not getting sex. Most v*olence against women come from men they are partnered with, not from virgins menTo reply to "Men are not more v*olent for not getting sex." Straight men but not straight women report more hostility to the opposite sex after rejection. Straight men but not straight women usually develop anti-women social and political mindsets/awareness when they are not successful. Involuntary celibacy is linked to violence against women. Rejection violence is common. (And probably the most common fear for women when rejecting male strangers.) To reply to your post in general: Semi-related,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/23 05:37 PM |
| 2 | Women asking to be "treated as human beings" are really just asking to be treated as royaltyIf a woman invites objectification She's not inviting anything. Not by being naked, fully clothed, or anything in between. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 11:37 PM |
| 3 | Women asking to be "treated as human beings" are really just asking to be treated as royaltyAre you a straight man with emotional intelligence? Treat women with respect, dignity, consideration, etc. identical to what you give men. Their womanness has no meaningful difference in their intellect, capability, etc. And if you want success then talk to successful people. So if you wanted to be a good father you listen to and emulate good fathers. et cetera. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 11:33 PM |
| 8 | Q4W: If women are afraid of getting attacked on dates, why not go for smaller guys so you have the physical advantage?98% of rapists are male. 91% of victims are female. How many people do you know that are rapists? None or maybe only one, right? How many people that you knew and grew up with that you've later learned have committed some awful crime or another? If you couldn't tell something was off about them, how can we? The size doesn't matter, because people have knives, guns, or drugs to keep a victim scared. We don't have a duty to be brave and fight for our lives to not get raped or murdered. Men need to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/23 04:26 PM |
| 2 | Why Men Are Resentful of The Way Women's Sexuality (Often) WorksVery very small point: men have the arousal (desire) box too. But his was already checked by the time they get to the date; that's why he approached her in the first place. It's a lot easier too see that a man has this box too when a woman approaches a man for a date. Especially if she is unattractive. The difference is that society demands the man to do the approaching unless he's exceptionally attractive. It's as if men forget or resent that the woman's box is not checked yet or she starts to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/23 09:00 AM |
| 1 | People should admit that women are just as shallow as men , just better at rationalizing itOP, imagine some magic creature waves a magic wand and *POOF* everybody knows and agrees that there are women that are equally shallow as the shallow men. If the only answer it should be this way is we're all more truthful then it'll never happen because people have whatever reasons and excuses to do the things they do, and most don't consider honesty as "good enough" for whatever reason. What does society as a whole gain, if anything? What do men (especially shallow men) gain, if anything? Do w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/23 08:48 AM |
| 1 | How do you guys explain a man getting angry over being ignored?Blanket fear More correct: be wary of all men because women don't know which men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/22 10:37 AM |
| 1 | How do you guys explain a man getting angry over being ignored?You can "think"it's different all you like. The fact remains that men not holding themselves and other men accountable for turning misogynist after not getting their way. That's what children do. The women you rejected getting angry is not turning them anti-men and misandrist. And yes, they are shitty for getting angry about it in the first place. Women can absolutely go ballistic on men. Shouting without the threat of violence (and shouting without enacting policies to harm the rejected gender)… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/22 10:01 PM |
| 2 | Should women expect cheating if they get into a relationship with a HVM (High value man)?Thanks for my daily dose of ableism, ol' buddy. 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄 The only thing I said was that it's likely because of my autism that moral issues are less nuanced for me and more "black & white." I can confidently say I will never stay with or knowingly date a cheater or abuser. Did you read the autism research comic I linked? Autistic people's morals are incredibly hard to make transactional. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/22 09:32 PM |
| 1 | Should women expect cheating if they get into a relationship with a HVM (High value man)?women are openly sexist against men all the time. You just don't think a woman being sexist is sexism. Way to jump in at the end and change the narrative and pretend I said women can't be sexist. Some men are openly sexist against women all the time. Some women are openly sexist against men all the time. I'm sure some NB are openly sexist all the time. I was not talking about sexism as a whole. What you're replying to is specifically these three facts: Straight men but not straight women favor c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/22 09:27 PM |
| 1 | Should women expect cheating if they get into a relationship with a HVM (High value man)?**High value men by definition do not cheat in monog. relationships. A cheater is low value. Speaking of narcissism... There's an objective definition of 'high value', and there's your subjective opinion. You're presenting the latter as if it were the former. ob·jec·tive adj (of a person or their judgment) not influenced by personal feelings or opinions in considering and representing facts. sub·jec·tive adj based on or influenced by personal feelings, tastes, or opinions. Using objective and su… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/22 09:19 PM |
| 1 | Should women expect cheating if they get into a relationship with a HVM (High value man)?What do you mean I brought him up? The post is literally about Jason Derulo. My point is that whether or not you want Jason Derulo doesn't change that other women do, and the fact that other women want him is what makes him high value. Your worthless opinions, are worthless. You need mental help, maybe get off the internet. The topic is the title. "Should women expect cheating if they get into a relationship with a HVM?" and the answer is a clear and resounding no. If she is like the average mon… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/22 09:02 PM |
| 5 | Hypothesis: Women in the close future will become poorer, even after earning more than men, as gender relationships decay moreI don't see o.p. blaming anyone This is a long post stating that women will make choices and there will be negative consequences from the choices that will harm them. Then states that (indirectly) men will be lazy because they're not attracting women, and (directly) will benefit from the women's choices. A more obvious, condensed example of the blaming here: Women will pick good-earning jobs such as office jobs, nurses, etc. but they will become poorer as they are the highest spenders. This was … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/22 08:48 PM |
| 2 | Should women expect cheating if they get into a relationship with a HVM (High value man)?Holy shit you are legitimately insane. I started reading and then I scrolled and lmao no way I'm reading all that. But I'll address what little I read: When did I say to you that by disagreeing you are misogynistic? You accused me and the other guy of hating women, based on... absolutely nothing. Just because we dared disagree with you Be a big strong scary man and assert your dominance with your big scary yelling behind the safety of a screen Who is yelling? Who is being scary? This is all in y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/22 06:52 PM |
| 2 | Hypothesis: Women in the close future will become poorer, even after earning more than men, as gender relationships decay moreWasn't it The Washington Post that ran a lot of eat-the-überRich articles, then Bezos bought them, then all their opinion pieces about social and political stuff became pro-überRich? You realize renuine grievances like what women are experiencing in Iran right now were caused by some überRich people putting people they wanted in power and regressing the country? This is just the first example I could think of that I hoped you'd agree is a good reason to not like Iran right now. Almost every majo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/22 06:24 PM |
| 1 | Should women expect cheating if they get into a relationship with a HVM (High value man)?How do you know I don’t have a partner? And I don’t hate women. I support feminists. I’m just a realist about things like this I know you don't have a partner because you are on a fringe sub that is dominated by misogynists. Your account is two weeks old; this place isn't jsut some place you stumble in to. You've been here a while and when you lay down with dogs you're bound to get fleas. You are say misogynistic things which makes keeping women around difficult. There aren't people on PPD (long… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/22 06:18 PM |
| 1 | Should women expect cheating if they get into a relationship with a HVM (High value man)?Look, being autistic is no excuse for being stupid or disingenuous. "Can't disagree with a woman or else you're a heckin misogynistic!" Are you serious right now? And general value is not subjective. Value is not defined by whatever set of arbitrary bullshit traits you come up with in your head. Value is simply dictated by demand. If enough people want something, that makes it, by definition, valuable. Tesla stock doesn't stop being valuable just because you don't want any. How do you not unders… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/22 06:04 PM |
| 1 | Should women expect cheating if they get into a relationship with a HVM (High value man)?What is valuable to one is not valuable to another. The most basic of concept to understand when it's about men, why is it when it's about women it's somehow impossibel to comprehend? Not all women like the same things. They have differing values. Women as a whole are impossible to understand but individual woman is easy to understand. Not all men like the same things. They have differing values. Men as a whole are impossible to understand but an individual man is easy to understand. What you pe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/22 04:27 PM |
| 9 | Hypothesis: Women in the close future will become poorer, even after earning more than men, as gender relationships decay moreWhat a weird way to try and point blame on women. I'm pretty sure it's everyone getting poor because of two or three dozen old straight white men hoarding wealth. Got to keep up that capitalist divide of white vs black, poor vs less poor, men vs women, straight vs LGBTQIA, and even religion vs atheism so those dudes stay on top of the world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/22 04:15 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys explain a man getting angry over being ignored?Facts don't care about feelings. The fact is, it's because straight men have a high propensity to start hating women and adopted anti-women social and political views when rejected. Straight women do not start hating men and adopting anti-men social and political views when rejected. This is scientific fact. I'm just waiting for an incel to reply to request sources. They love ignoring sources and pretending when several studies show the same thing that the facts are made up. Y'know how it goes s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/22 03:59 PM |
| 1 | Should women expect cheating if they get into a relationship with a HVM (High value man)?Exactly. You're some loser on reddit who brought him up and you'll never be able to sniff his balls. It's okay that you like him enough that he's a household name and I still don't know who he is. If he's a cheater then IDGAF, we can mutually reject each other. Or not, IstillDGAF about some random fuckin dude I don't know. Are you autistic too? What's your point, bro other than to lie and pretend to not hate women? PPD is for angry single men to point fingers at women under the guide of a debate… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/22 03:51 PM |
| 1 | Should women expect cheating if they get into a relationship with a HVM (High value man)?HVM are men who are attractive and desired. That’s why there are so many terrible men who are desired by millions of women, look at Chris Brown, he beat the fuck out of Rihanna and that didn’t make him any less desirable or attractive. Him being monogamous means nothing if he’s desired. It’s incredibly narcissistic to think you are so good that a man with millions of options cannot find something better. Sure expecting a normal man to hold his urges in check is reasonable, holding a HVM to that … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/22 03:41 PM |
| 1 | Should women expect cheating if they get into a relationship with a HVM (High value man)?Who cares what you would be involved with? Do you think Jason Derulo would ever, in a million years be interested in you? Do you think women much hotter, much more successful, and much more desirable than you will still be interested in Jason Derulo? WTF are you talking about? When I mention whoever this dude is? When did I in a million years mention an interest in him? Tell me again who I should and should not like. I mention Bezos because even a rich man, more money than you "ever in a million… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/22 03:34 PM |
| 1 | Should women expect cheating if they get into a relationship with a HVM (High value man)?But why would they think they wouldn’t cheat? They’re men who have the ability to be with pretty much any women they want? Why do these women have so much narcissism that they think they themselves are so good that they will prevent the men from doing that Are you saying that men should be with any and every woman? ..Nevermind, don't answer that. 🙄 I'll say it again: high value men by definition do not cheat in monog. relationships. nar·cis·sism noun excessive interest in or admiration of onesel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/22 03:07 PM |
| 1 | Should women expect cheating if they get into a relationship with a HVM (High value man)?[Cheating is unexpected] if both parties agree to monogamy. Exactly. He is low value if he cheats. A high value man by definition is valuable. Being autistic this is probably more black & white for me than the average person, but it really is that simple. It doesn't matter what he looks like or how much money he makes. If he is cheating then I won't be involved with him. Didn't Bezos lose his wife over cheating? Whoever I'm interested in has much less money than that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/22 02:24 PM |
| 1 | Why should women care about men who value virginity when they don’t have to?On mobile so my link usage is limited but the orgasm gap is having at least 1 orgasm per encounter. would you want 4 blueball sessions if the next 4 you orgasmed twice each? Sounds awful imo. Many women have the capability for multiple but they never experience them. Anyway the larger study says women who orgasmed more frequently were more likely to: receive more oral sex, have longer duration of last sex, be more satisfied with their relationship, ask for what they want in bed, praise their par… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/22 05:51 AM |
| 0 | Why should women care about men who value virginity when they don’t have to?Stop deflecting this point. Zero points given because you failed to disprove men are inferior to women. Now you trying to move the goalpost and whine and cry about how easy it is for men to cum. Boo fuckin' hoo. "I can't make women cum and women are superior at doing it than men." What is so hard about just admitting it? How the fuck does that matter? Oh man. Scroll up my guy. What did I say in my first post? I'll help you find the lil nub: Why fuck men if you get off only half the time? Let's a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/22 01:25 AM |
| 1 | Why should women care about men who value virginity when they don’t have to?I don't care who they reject. As long as they not fucking a selfish ass and hurting themselves we all should benefit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/22 12:32 AM |
| 1 | Why should women care about men who value virginity when they don’t have to?Please explain how men are not inferior women when it comes to successfully making a woman orgasm. [Women] could be taking longer and put more effort in to please themselves comparing to men who do the same for themselves. You seemed to failed to grasp a simple concept. I've merely listed out the 6 main ways to get off (Wmast, WxW, WxM, Mmast, MxM, MxW). Still with me? Now let's add some rounded/approximated fail rates in there, yeah? Wmast 5%, WxW 15%, WxM 20%, Mmast 5%, MxM 15%, MxW 95% I thou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/22 12:29 AM |
| 1 | Why should women care about men who value virginity when they don’t have to?You see how dumb that logic is? What's dumb is you moving the goalpost around so much. Women get themselves off, extremely successful. ~95% Men get themselves off, extremely successful. ~95% Women get women off, almost as successful. ~85% Men get men off, still extremely successful. ~85% Women get men off, still extremely successful. (lowest is ~80%, for first encounters, LTRs is higher) Men get women off, ~5% for first encounters, cap is ~65% So women get women off just fine, get themselves off… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/22 11:38 PM |
| 1 | Why should women care about men who value virginity when they don’t have to?Yes, you do sound very selfish. Men being selfish why women rejecting dudes left and right. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/22 11:15 PM |
| 1 | Why should women care about men who value virginity when they don’t have to?Do you seriously want... beyond belief. Rhetorical question: Where did I say any of that? You're adding imaginary context that wasn't there. This doesn't mean shit. So you're saying that you are... inferior to women? That women know how to get themselves off quite successfully, but not with men? Men reach orgasm far easier than women do. Ah. So you're agreeing with me. There's a serious issue with men not giving their female partner(s) orgasms because they refuse to put in the effort. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/22 08:42 PM |
| 1 | Why should women care about men who value virginity when they don’t have to?So to tie this back to what I said, what you're saying is you agree with me. Correct? There's a real and valid problem with women not receiving orgasms from their male partners. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/22 08:33 PM |
| 1 | Why should women care about men who value virginity when they don’t have to?The exception proves the rule. The exception: (if the moment's right, they might have better sex without either one orgasming for some reason) proves the rule: (orgasms are very important and there's only one gender not getting enough of them in straight relationships) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/22 08:23 PM |
| 1 | Why should women care about men who value virginity when they don’t have to?A man can literally cum within seconds if he wants to. Women's bodies aren't built this way. I can also orgasm within seconds. Saying it's too hard to get your partner to orgasm is a bad look. completely ignores the biological differences between men and women Where's the biological difference you speak of? Women get off 95% of the time when they're alone, and around 84ish% of the time with women. Seems like women care to get their woman off, and men don't. Men care to get themselves and their m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/22 08:19 PM |
| 2 | Why should women care about men who value virginity when they don’t have to?The "CSGO stat tracking" men that make those cringey posts about getting their partner off are a very vocal but very minor minority. They don't account for the only men giving their partners orgasms so don't try to skew the stats as if they're the only men that get held accountable. Also really weird the "stats"... Stats. Not "stats" as if it's open to being false. Lesbians get their sexual partners off regularly. Go read the studies, they are linked. Long term and short term partnerships are in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/22 08:13 PM |
| 1 | Why should women care about men who value virginity when they don’t have to?It's exists primarily because most women cannot orgasm via penetration. About 1/3 don't orgasm via penetration alone. Almost all women can orgasm with clitoral, or clitoral+vaginal. Ya'll ever tried competing with one of those magic wand toys? You can't LOL You're not competing. Use them on her, assuming she even uses vibrators at all. Getting your partner off is not as impossible as you make it out to be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/22 08:03 PM |
| 1 | Why should women care about men who value virginity when they don’t have to?Sure, lots of people with just have a go with their aroused partner from time to time and don't mind if they don't orgasm. Everybody knows that the exception just further proves the rule. To claim wanting orgasms most of the time, at least as often as your partner, is "utilitarian" is minimizing the experience of women the world over. Get her off. It's not that difficult of a concept that she wants orgasms too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/22 07:54 PM |
| 1 | Why should women care about men who value virginity when they don’t have to?What if you’re awful or uninspired in bed but she’s never had someone give her an orgasm before? The orgasm gap is real. Studies with 52k+ and with 6k+ participants: straight women fucking men? (65%) unless he's a new partner (7%, wtf) lesbian women fucking women? usually orgasm (81%-86%), even if it's their first encounter (64%) men fucking anybody, new partner or not? (78%-95%) Why fuck men if you get off only half the time? Why fuck a new man if you only have around a 7% chance he cares to ge… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/22 04:02 PM |
| 1 | Do you personally know someone who had problems finding a long-term relationship because of past promiscuity?Yes. I know 2 women, 1 nonbinary, and 1 man that if their numbers are divulged, it causes problems to the point of break-up. The longest relationship it ended was 7½ years; he broke up with her for her body count. It was all before they met and neither of them had cheated. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/22 11:16 PM |
| 1 | Why do many women no longer desire sex after marriage?https://www.reddit.com/r/science/comments/xx2mtq/unwanted_celibacy_is_linked_to_hostility_towards/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/22 08:26 PM |
| 1 | Why do many women no longer desire sex after marriage?Look into you're still talking out your ass and didn't read a damned thing. You little dumb-dumb pretending to be intelligent. Can't refute science and pretending you can. Multiple sources linked so replication is a non-issue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/22 01:32 PM |
| 1 | Why do many women no longer desire sex after marriage?So you agree you were talking out your ass and actual science proves you wrong. ✓✓✓ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 11:30 PM |
| 1 | Why do many women no longer desire sex after marriage?You're busy being angry about the message when you refuse to acknowledge you're directly complicit in your failures with women. Do you think blue pilled guys know the importance of financial differences in marriage ? BP men are already having the sex that you desire. Maybe if they knew how poverty affected them, they would be even more successful. Do they even know about hypergamy ? BP men must know about hypergamy and hypogamy if they're having sex. And if not then it doesn't matter because, ag… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 11:29 PM |
| 1 | Why do many women no longer desire sex after marriage?Who is arguing that being in poverty doesn't cause problems? So you agree that out our current patriarchal society is causing problems? You want to dismantle it too? https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5889124 This study included casual and wasn't exclusive to LTRs. They actually had only 50% of this study was married. This is great data, don't get me wrong, but it doesn't create any counters to what I was saying. It also confirms what I said about failed success with opposite sex cause… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 10:33 PM |
| 1 | Why do many women no longer desire sex after marriage?a·gree·a·ble /əˈɡrēəb(ə)l/ adjective enjoyable and pleasurable; pleasant. willing to agree to something. Emotional security is not only expected of women it's demanded of them. See: all the women complaining about being a free therapist for men. Financial security being the man's expectation is falling by the wayside and in the average relationship it's also equal. Most BP guys think that agreeableness is sufficient, and that is why I disagree Being successful with human beings requires accommod… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 09:36 PM |
| 1 | Why do many women no longer desire sex after marriage?Objectification of women is patriarchal. It might also be intersectional to religion as well. Just because you hate religion you can't dismiss everything you don't like as religious BS. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6707629/ Although positive attractiveness biases may mitigate the amount a woman is objectified, greater female objectification may be prompted by observers’ negative stereotypes of promiscuous women. Related to women objecting to objectification: https://www.marketing… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 09:24 PM |
| 1 | Why do many women no longer desire sex after marriage?guarantees a happy sex life. It doesn’t Nothing in life is a guarantee so stop pretending that a higher success rate isn't worth it. You don't want to put in effort, fine, but that's your issue. LTRs take effort and aren't only fun. following orders for domestic duties That's the issue my guy. What did I say, what did the women I linked say, what did the divorced guy say? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 09:18 PM |
| 1 | Why do many women no longer desire sex after marriage?I directly showed why 90%+ dead bedrooms happen when the man is at fault, with source You said it was BP I said the BP dudes are more successful with sources on why You say the issue is dead bedroom, which we are indeed talking about. Who are you talking to / what point are you trying to make? Do you not read entire comments? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 08:59 PM |
| 1 | Why do many women no longer desire sex after marriage?. Sometimes he even has female friends he sees as people. But not you. My SO wasn’t the best looking or richest guy after me but he was the only one who could carry on a conversation for more than a half hour and listen as well as he talked :) Dudes, take notes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 08:53 PM |
| 1 | Why do many women no longer desire sex after marriage?This isn't a short reply but it's a more accurate one. Women "slipping" by not being aroused by her partner anymore is not her problem. It's the problem of the person that wants to fuck her. Likewise if she puts on 90lbs and stops getting fucked, it's 99% likely her problem, not his. Women are more positive-feedback-loop people. Especially non-anger emotions. (more susceptible to positive in, positive out) Women less to get caught "slipping" because the mental load usually falls on her in the fi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 08:52 PM |
| 1 | Why do many women no longer desire sex after marriage?You're not exactly wrong about it being blue-pilled but it's not really the negative you're trying to accuse it of. Straight men but not straight women favor casual sex after they're told they were an excellent date. source Straight men but not straight women report more hostility to the opposite sex after rejection. source Straight men but not straight women usually develop anti-women social and political mindsets/awareness when they are not successful. source BP men are having sex and relation… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 08:30 PM |
| 1 | Why do many women no longer desire sex after marriage?Please explain why you think this is false: "Everything in society that sells sex caters to men as human beings with desires, interests and a sex drive while viewing women as a packaged product." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 10:53 PM |
| 1 | Why do many women no longer desire sex after marriage?Everything in society that sells sex caters to men as human beings with desires, interests and a sex drive while viewing women as a packaged product. It leads to men viewing themselves as “consumers” in a capitalist marketplace where sex with women is the product. Women are expected to “provide a service” and nobody really asks us how we like it or what we want. The orgasm gap is real. https://www.bbc.com/news/health-39077293 This leads to the statistic where women fucking women usually orgasm, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 08:59 PM |
| 1 | Why do many women no longer desire sex after marriage?This just sounds like an unhinged rant. Why should anyone believe this horseshit? You're clearly a man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 08:53 PM |
| 1 | Why do many women no longer desire sex after marriage?Women need treated with the same respect and consideration as a man. Whatever goals a man wants out of a LTR are probably the exact same goals his hypothetical woman wants. The only difference is most men are fine with emotionless sex and most women are not. many women lose their desire for sex after marriage Yeah. This happens when he stops putting the effort. He did a lot to catch her. It requires the same level of effort to keep her at that level. Otherwise the micro-fights add up and she slo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 06:34 PM |
| 1 | What's your unpopular opinion about women? Something you truly believe based on lived experience, but would get down voted to all hellThe wall is real, and it affects everyone. There are dumpy-ass frumpy men and women. How solid that wall is (concrete, plaster, or scotch tape) is heavily dependent on how much money you had growing up and in your 20s. Women tend to lower the bar to keep the man they already like over the bar. (Some men will rarely manage to go even lower. If the woman puts the bar on the floor then he breaks out a shovel. These are the random couples you feel sorry for or wonder why they're together.) If you mi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/22 06:57 PM |
| 1 | Your Personality is NOT the problem women here are making it to bejust learn to talk to women first, bro just treat them like "everyone else" /u/ includes the word autism Speaking as someone who previously identified as femcel, but was just autistic AF instead, the answer it pretty clear to me: it's the neurodivergency. Allistics have a communication assist that autistics don't have. As if everybody else's pool has water and NT pool doesn't. So either start being high-masking by studying TF out of people, or get out there and constantly talk with people throwi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/22 10:36 PM |
| 1 | what exactly are the standards for an average man ?https://www.tiktok.com/@wholepotato/video/7075107011972812078 I can understand you did not like the delivery method. But the delivery method does not affect the MEANING of the words, nor does it invalidate women's feelings or opinions. You may feel justified in turning off your listening because you didn't like the delivery, but that's not helpful at all for you. It's like refusing to accept your paycheck because you want it printed on a pink check not a green one. The money is still the same. T… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 06:16 PM |
| 1 | what exactly are the standards for an average man ?It has to be more than research purposes: But unfortunately they are enjoying the gane [sic] too much to do the rightful thing. There's no right or wrong about normal human behavior except in religious context or criminal activity. What's the rightful thing for her to do? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 04:49 PM |
| 1 | what exactly are the standards for an average man ?A big thing is when you're a younger woman in 10s and early 20s, you still have all the Disney lie BS in you. You think you must have a guy talker than you. The easiest way to realize it doesn't matter is to catch feelings for a shorter guy. I thought I wanted someone taller than me, but when I was 18 I met a guy 3" or 4" shorter. So my range of men I've liked is 5'0" to 6'10" What I'm saying is women can be converted, you don't even have to find the ones actively seeking short men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 03:22 PM |
| 2 | what exactly are the standards for an average man ?Why do you personally care about the women that do casual? If she's only wanting to offer pussy for obtaining a boyfriend, in what way does that affect you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 03:06 PM |
| 2 | what exactly are the standards for an average man ?Just because you claim you're not misogynist doesn't magically make it not true. You're holding a deep grudge against all women and you think you have some kind of superpower that erases all that the moment you're around women? How you think is who you are. What you do is who you are. What you say could be who you are, or it could be a lie to yourself, others, or both. Make people laugh, keep conversations going. That's mostly men according to you and you need experience with women unless you're… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 03:03 PM |
| 0 | what exactly are the standards for an average man ?Do you mind explaining what you mean? What's the exceptional exception? Anything you think I'm saying out my ass you can fact-check against a source like scholar.google.com because yes, I could be talking out my ass, everyone does at some point. I'm open to hard numbers and correction backed by data. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 02:35 PM |
| 1 | what exactly are the standards for an average man ?Well I'm glad I did not mean watching or listening to women's dating advice. You should listen to content from men as well that are talking about being more emotional men or are more emotional men. If you're on TT there's @yourpal_austin and @the_holistic_mystic and @tomlumperson. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 02:31 PM |
| 1 | what exactly are the standards for an average man ?https://www.tiktok.com/@the_holistic_mystic/video/7065768439842917679 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 01:33 PM |
| 3 | what exactly are the standards for an average man ?Morbid obesity is about 9.2% in America. I included all obesity in my stat earlier because most men will not date virtually all obese women. And because I didn't want to have to go look up the exact percentage. It seems like we... agree on all points made? Or mostly agree? A+ conversation in any case. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 04:07 AM |
| 2 | what exactly are the standards for an average man ?All the different types of experience he most likely won’t have any. Men don't date women with low/no sexual experience. They are only used for fucking. Both men and women should just not mention lack of sexual experience. Men and women with low romantic relationship experience just have to put more effort into learning how to be a good partner before being in a relationship. They didn't get hands-on training others did. That's just how it is or they risk losing their first relationship to petty… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 04:00 AM |
| 2 | what exactly are the standards for an average man ?It's definitely not their behavior pattern (at least not most of them). It is when accounting for all women, not just the most attractive ones. FDS is toxic and they have terrible advice. They were good for one thing and one thing only: convincing normie and pickme women out of an idiotic cycle of putting up with shitty men and situationships. I read their content mostly to pick it apart ruthlessly with a male friend. I did the same with the incel sub before it got banned. (I'm sure they have an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 03:37 AM |
| 1 | what exactly are the standards for an average man ?These men can’t figure out how to date a women with more experience because he has none and that women wont want to date a guy no/low experience. So he is better off hooking up. Experience... what kind of experience? Sexual? Romantic relationship? Interpersonal connections that require vulnerability? There's a lot of different types. Lmao American women are not raised to bend over backwards for men. You're clearly not an American woman. Do you not have any women or women role models in your life… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 03:06 AM |
| 5 | what exactly are the standards for an average man ?But following women content creators for success with women is a very bad idea though. I did not mean following women's dating advice content. That's stupid. I meant following voices in content you already engage in. If you watch let's plays then follow a few women doing let's plays. etc. Women rarely ever set the standard for themselves in these media so although it may or may not bring success with women, it will certainly be one at higher cost than normal to men. What do you mean? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 02:55 AM |
| 4 | what exactly are the standards for an average man ?I will conflate dating and hookups because no guy wants to be the relationship guy. No young guy wants to be the relationship guy. The problems and goals of 20s male and 30s male in dating are different. Tons of dudes in their 30s and late 20s now want to be relationship guy and just need to figure out how to date successfully with women who have a lot more experience with building and maintaining interpersonal connections. Average guy goes up instantly denied, 8/10+ instantly positive posture a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 02:51 AM |
| 4 | what exactly are the standards for an average man ?[men breaking out shovel to go beneath a bar] it's talked about far more than it actually happens When women leave, this is what happened. It's not common for short relationships but for long-term ones that ending without cheating? If she ended it then this 100% what happened. How many truly low/no standard women are even on the market? Tons of them, but they are exceptionally unattractive by conventional standards. They're morbidly obese, butterfaces, butterbodies, disabled, etc. Isn't [the spa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 02:38 AM |
| 4 | what exactly are the standards for an average man ?They should also give clarity that even if a person has met the set bar she wouldn't be willing to be with them. Meeting bare minimum bar is basically the entry fee. It only gets you in the door. There's far more that's desired out of a partner than barely scraping by with the minimum. You don't want bare minimum and neither do women. If you want to succeed with women, follow women content creators on youtube and tiktok. Work on raising your EQ. edit to add: I don't mean following women-centric … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 02:13 AM |
| 4 | what exactly are the standards for an average man ?women rate based on physical first Online dating apps yes somewhat. Otherwise no. In person most guys are rejected for being a 5/10. The default answer is no, not yes. Unless a woman is already seeking dating or already wants to date (changed their default to yes), then you were rejected before you even approached. Online dating means sorting by personality shown in the profile + appearance. Online hookups like Tinder are appearance first and vet later (like men). Don't conflate dating and hooku… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 02:01 AM |
| 8 | what exactly are the standards for an average man ?the standards for a decent man is very low This is because women tend to lower the bar to keep the man they already like over the bar. Some men will manage to go even lower. If the woman puts the bar on the floor then he breaks out a shovel. What exactly are the standards that they speak of? Depends on the woman, but the widely accepted minimums are: wears clothes that are not stained up or very old is not a misogynist or obvious abuser makes some kind of effort to not look slovenly (combed hair… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 01:38 AM |
| 3 | Some men need to accept the fact that if they want to date, they’ll have to BBLOL. TRP is about using the other person to your benefit, not healthy dating. BPers are often too idealized, but at least they often have healthy and long relationships. You have to learn to split the difference. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/22 07:44 PM |
| 7 | Some men need to accept the fact that if they want to date, they’ll have to BBPlease only RP respond. I can't argue nonsense with blue pill types anymore. Way to echo chamber, my guy. Like shutting your eyes, jamming your fingers in your ears, and saying LA LA LA LA LA LA. Females today however have no respect for the beta bucks. Men had it easier getting a wife because all they really needed to do was shelter + money for necessities. Women in general have that covered these days so unless you're actually going to enrich her life with your personality or more than the nec… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/22 04:54 PM |
| 4 | Some men need to accept the fact that if they want to date, they’ll have to BBMany men simply aren’t attractive enough to attract women. They could try devoting time and effort into beautification, or at least maintenance. So we all saw that picture of Elon Musk. And then he spent tons of money on hair transplants, wardrobe, personal trainer, and personal chef. But money is rarely a turn off to women. Money is rarely a turn-off for men, so it's not like this is as profound as you think it is. In fact, Men are more likely to leave their spouses when they lose their job and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/22 04:49 PM |
| 12 | Is obesity a primary factor in dissatisfaction with the “economics” of dating?Not liking morbid obesity seems hard-coded into us, isn't it? If you're a many thousands of years in the past, being extremely fat meant you were not only unable to contribute to your tribe because you lacked the health to do so, you also were taking resources from the contributing members. Most people are not attracted to obesity or morbid obesity. But in USA more than 1/3 adults are obese. If we include overweight then around 2/3 adults in USA are overweight or obese. If the majority of people… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/22 06:21 PM |
| 2 | What is confidence really? How does it have any real effect in your dating success or failures?"Confidence" is a catch-all word. Context is important but it really boils down to an overall mindset. Loving yourself. Which is: Being okay with making mistakes because you know you will learn from them and apply what you learned going forward. That you work towards resolving your problems,. And when you're unable to, you seek and accept help. When someone has a problem with you, you self-reflect so see if there's some truth there or you ignore it because it doesn't have value to you and you're… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/22 06:09 PM |
| 1 | Would you ever participate in a polyamorous relationship? If yeas or no explain down below.I assume I was forced to share (give away) one too many toys as a child so I'm quite possessive. Any man of mine is the only person who I have eyes for and they must feel the same way about me. I will never share. The relationship also sounds like a huge chore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/22 05:56 PM |
| 1 | Women say most men are “awful,” toxic or undateable, or that “the bar is so low” which is such a joke. Most men worship the ground women walk on, even attractive ones, and women are ridiculously selective.If a woman is attracted to you the bar is on the floor. I call this moving the goalposts so he still hits her standards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/22 05:49 PM |
| 75 | my red flagsHere's my hot take: The average NiceGuyTM in general has a shit opinion and/or worldviews. Yeah? Women should be subservient, women are not their own person, women just need to be more approachable, women need to stop falling for the bad guys all the time, etc. The average NiceGuyTM supports sex work. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/22 02:07 AM |
| 6 | STD testing before intimacyYou just say it straight up when the topic allows. He says something suggestive or relates and you lead it how it best fits. Match his tone preferably. If you're leading it, then don't bring it up until you are ready to have sex [within a week] once you get the results otherwise he'll be pushing you for it. "Sure, we can spend the night together once you send your STD panel to me." or "LOL. We're not virgins so we're not ready for that yet. Where's your STD panel?" or "I'm ready for the next ste… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/22 01:54 AM |
| 5 | 4th Date Field ReportHe's disclosed things to me last date that are intimate. Sexual? Are you guys compliment each other physically already? (more sexual in nature than just pretty eyes or whatever) He's had 2 relationships since he has been here. 2 yrs. Shit goes south. Not a red flag on its own. He told me how he caught his dad cheating when he was 11 Did he inform his mother? He said the other weekend he went out and a girl was into him and he told her he was seeing someone If false he only told you so you have a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/22 01:28 AM |
| 241 | my red flagsOkay fair and you're right but I'm still including "says men and females or men and girls" as a specific thing on my 🚩 list. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/22 12:34 AM |
| 1 | You Cannot Save Those Who Love To Drown, And Honestly, It's Not Worth ItLet me put those pink glasses on for a moment. The FriendB is desperately smitten, so much so he is unable to even communicate properly because this woman is so insanely hot to him. FriendA finds this hilarious, or sad, and tries to garner interest on his behalf since A knows how much of a good guy B is. B obviously has little or no experience in speaking with women and is terrified to shoot his shot with her because she is in love with him in his imagination. He's spent a long time imagining th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/22 10:25 PM |
| 2 | OLD advice: When things move onto the texting stage, get his number before you give away yours.I'm sorry what you had to go through to get this knowledge but I thank you for sharing it. I'll be sure to put this in practice once I'm ready to start here in a month or two. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/22 10:13 PM |
| – | How do you handle the "I'm a virgin" talk with guys?Speaking as someone who went through this: don't mention lack of experience. They've already used it against you, what? 100% of the time? It's not something you need to disclose like an STD. Let them figure it out themselves. If they do at all. All you need to be fine with is experiencing reciprocal sexual attraction. Be okay with your body being touched in the ways you want to be touched, be okay with saying no, okay with saying yes, etc. You set your own timeline. Say nothing and get them hook… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/22 10:08 PM |
| 1 | risk vs reward of marrying for menTypical man getting himself into trouble. Did you not even read the article to see why he cause his own problem? He gave her a 7.5-carat diamond ring and other jewelry that she wore. She quit her job and would regularly sleep at his house. Latner proposed several times and Climans accepted. He often referred to her by his last name. Nevertheless, Latner gave Climans thousands of dollars every month, a credit card, paid off her mortgage and showered her with expensive gifts. He lived and acted li… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/22 05:58 PM |
| 2 | risk vs reward of marrying for menIf you two are in love why does the state need to be involved? The tax credit is highly substantial in USA. I can't speak for other countries. And then there's those that hold it as a traditional standard of commitment. Here in Canada there was a man who wasn’t married to his partner and didn’t even live with her yet he had to pay her 50k a month in alimony. How is that remotely justifiable. Sounds like a man who paid for her everything for years and requested her to not work to rear his childre… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/22 06:07 AM |
| 12 | risk vs reward of marrying for menIn USA in the last 20+ years the divorce proceeding are governed by two things: Is there a prenuptial agreement? Did one spouse stop working (usually to rear children but not always) while the other one provided? How long did the breadwinner willingly provide? 5 years of not working is 17% of an adult's expect work years. Spousal support is compensation for the significant loss of work experience and retirement savings. Are there still any rewards left in marrying for men? More and more women ar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/22 03:32 AM |
| 1 | Gender Narcissism is why both sides struggle in datingIt's not that women don't know what dudes want. It's that they don't want to have to put in that level of effort or be that type of person. Men tend to date a woman who already will fit into his current lifestyle. If he goes to the gym a lot he wants a gym bunny-buddy. Etc. Women don't want to be a ditzy princess type that's stereotypical of male-audience romance stories. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/22 03:05 AM |
| 1 | If you find it uncomfortable and feel threatened when men come up to you to strike conversation, it’s your own issueSame. That's ADHD. Or at least, that's what I learned recently. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/22 04:26 PM |
| 1 | If you find it uncomfortable and feel threatened when men come up to you to strike conversation, it’s your own issueStill. It must be very embarrassing for you to comment and to admit the desire to stay ignorant. Your argument is factually wrong. It is invalidated by data. Regardless of whether you want to review the data or not, your argument is still wrong. The 4.4% is actually assuming every single rapist is committing 2-5 rapes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/22 03:17 PM |
| 1 | If you find it uncomfortable and feel threatened when men come up to you to strike conversation, it’s your own issueDon't comment if you aren't willing to devote 6 minutes into educating yourself. Your scenario is literally covered in the videos. How embarrassing for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/22 02:58 PM |
| 2 | If you find it uncomfortable and feel threatened when men come up to you to strike conversation, it’s your own issueYou're comparing a color of a shirt to being on guard to prevent being assaulted or raped. But even when you "tone it down" and say no women are afraid of rape, the ones getting upset still don't want to get used for just sex and are going to be wary until he proves he's not out to use her. But on to my point. Let's assume it's 2018 and you're in the US. 4.4% of men are rapists. 1 in 21 men. Sexual assault by the numbers part 1 Sexual assault by the numbers part 2 I know 21 men. So statistically… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/22 02:47 PM |
| 1 | Run if he tries to create false intimacy with you.In a sense, everything was moving way too fast. Did I feel loved? No. I felt like he was checking off a list of romantic things people do. It wasn’t natural and felt off. I felt like this for a long time, but it turns out it was just the autism! 😀 😀 🤔 😅 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/22 12:37 AM |
| 215 | This example is pick-me nonsense. Stop faking it ladies. There is no such thing as “taking too long”. Men expect orgasms regularly, why can’t we? If you had fun, but didn’t get to climax - you can still tell him you didn’t finish, had a good time & would appreciate him doing more in figuring it out.The end game doesn't need to be an orgasm. Why the hell not? It is when I fuck myself! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/22 02:13 AM |
| 2 | Chin Up, QueensThis is an easier-to-read copy. https://i.imgur.com/vG1rryb.png | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/22 01:23 PM |
| -31 | Recently married. Thanks FDS.Thank you for replying. Not all women are attracted to men. Lesbians should not be expected to fuck men in order to have sex. A man wanting to fuck them have no meaning or value to them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 06:15 PM |
| 31 | Recently married. Thanks FDS.I know it was an offhand comment but I want to learn. And if I am ignorant, then I think there could be other women reading that are not confident enough to openly ask. Why is it not possible for a woman to be involuntarily celibate? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 04:29 PM |
| 16 | Men who hide their political views from youI recently told a self-proclaimed libertarian to his face that it just meant he was a republican with weed. He laughed as if he was confused and I mentally added him to a Do Not Date list. As a former libertarian I realized in the USA it means wanting your guns and wanting the companies to control our lives directly. Remember: the only reason the government has laws about child labor and company scrip is because we had to force businesses to stop being evil. Governance isn't bad, it's corruption… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/22 02:44 AM |
| 25 | Nice Guy Syndrome in Women- Why Women Get PlayedI used to carry this mindset. Even though I didn't know I had it, and if confronted at the time I'm certain I would have denied it... I remember times I "put in the nice coins to get XYZ to fall out" and being upset when it failed. But it's manipulation, pure and simple. Once I realized that, I finally started being kind because it was what I wanted to do rather than an angle I had. I've been a lot happier and more genuine. A big key in getting over this is just accepting minor confrontation and… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/22 01:35 AM |
| 57 | Forever girlfriends turned wivesThe only time I've seen them stay married is when they've been together for many years and their kids are several years old (youngest is 6+). In other words, they've been living as if married. Finally the tax credit, insurance, or etc. made it worthwhile. I have only a couple examples without children, and the relationships ended before the ceremony. And several examples with young children; the relationships did not last. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/22 01:56 AM |
| 27 | Confirmation of Female Dating Strategies + On Shy MenTone: supportive, happy Do you block lovebombing-how do you respond to it? FDS strategy is block and delete: "Stop wasting time." Personally, I am the type to give myself immense satisfaction from giving a few sentences of instruction / correction /unwanted advice (you know, mansplain them) and telling them I'm not going to talk to them anymore. I am autistic though and I hold myself to a strict moral code of giving courtesy even when it was not extended to me. My disdain is reserved for evil, n… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/22 01:56 AM |
| 96 | Menopause liberates women from the hormonally induced "caretaking" role. In short, menopause makes women act a bit more like men, and men can't handle it.some of that has to do with oxytocin, that feel-good hormone women get from sex or a massage, cuddling a baby or simply hugging someone for a good 20 seconds. This is part of the false narrative that sex induces pair-bonding chemicals in women only. In men, it literally moves their sperm among other things like pairbonding. Do be careful about this one, everybody gets oxytocin. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/22 06:21 PM |
| 17 | No one seems to be asking where he got this STD?? And she gets frequent UTIs because of him 🤢🤮Girls and boys have about the same level of confidence until around age 12. Then MEN happen and it tanks. Men have all the audacity because they always had that level of confidence. Women were made small when they are girls. That's why women put up with BS they have no place putting up with. If you want a partner to stay through something like an STD or jail, that's fine, but never stay for a partner that wouldn't reciprocate that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/22 06:16 PM |
| 6 | It is SO easy for women to access sexYou're welcome. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/22 02:39 PM |
| 14 | It is SO easy for women to access sexFYI you can create a second username in the app and use that one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/22 02:30 PM |
| 49 | 👀Ayyy where my historical homies at | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/21 09:49 AM |
| 14 | The tea is hotPREACH | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/21 12:39 PM |
| 29 | My Adaption of Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs: HVM vs LVM/NVMI just want to make something super clear for lonely men that are reading this that do not think this applies to them, or that we are being cruel or stupid or can't see you for who you are. Your lifelong training to be macho emotionless wall has, in general, brainwashed you. You will be fantasizing about security, family, and spontaneity with a woman partner at some point in the future. When you're better than you are now in some way. Better job, better apartment, a little more fit, less depress… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/21 05:17 PM |
| 14 | F.R.I.E.N.D.S. is one of the worst shows I've seenI loved the show when it originally aired. I guess this is another one of those things that the memory will be better and to just never try to revisit it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/21 05:08 PM |
| 1 | JFC. Men: she cares more about material things more than me. Also men: I had to buy a bed frame to get laid.His PC and games. Maybe also a Warhammer mini collection. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/21 10:48 PM |
| 2 | JFC. Men: she cares more about material things more than me. Also men: I had to buy a bed frame to get laid.https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_burn_centers_in_the_United_States | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/21 10:47 PM |
| 1 | JFC. Men: she cares more about material things more than me. Also men: I had to buy a bed frame to get laid.Alternative working title: I Am Here For the Prince I was Promised in Girlhood: Tales of Manospheric Woe | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/21 10:46 PM |
| 39 | JFC. Men: she cares more about material things more than me. Also men: I had to buy a bed frame to get laid.And any hypothetical partner of his would constantly have to do all the adulting. Keeping track of doctors. Keeping track of groceries. Budgets. Cleaning. Childcare. When a man is adulting at half capacity it's even lower once they have a partner. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/21 06:15 PM |
| 85 | JFC. Men: she cares more about material things more than me. Also men: I had to buy a bed frame to get laid.Also, you ever try to fuck on the floor as a fat person? The lack of boxsprings or support really messes up the whole dynamics. do not recommend, 2/10 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/21 05:02 PM |
| 13 | I did it, thanks to FDSI genuinely don't think the tears are fake. But it's for themselves and their future out of selfishness (rather than for what they did to get into that situation, or for the pain they caused). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/21 01:59 PM |
| 1 | Here’s what a HVM looks like in his own words, then shared by a guy friend who I know is a HVM to his wife.Yeah this makes sense. I think it was a SEA man who said "Men of quality do not fear equality." His picture goes around every now and again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 11:08 PM |
| 135 | Facts. Straight up facts.I remember some time ago in AskMen, the topic was something like "what stupidly obvious thing did you have to learn?" A husband said he was making an off-topic comment to his wife. Like, at the breakfast table, and it was a tangent comment that opened his eyes when his wife cut him off to show him he was being sexist. To paraphrase: Man: I was reading this article last night, blah blah blah, but women can enjoy sex without the goal being orgasm, [looks at wife] so I... Wife: What is the goal of … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 04:38 PM |
| 55 | Facts. Straight up facts.Please, please, please link to it. I need to read this scrotery! Orgasm-centric sex does a disservice to everyone involved pass it on | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 03:24 PM |
| 117 | Facts. Straight up facts.When masturbating, 95% of women orgasm. In first-time hookups with women, [it drops to] 64%. In first-time hookups with men, [it drops to] 7%. This tells us that the problem isn't women's ability to orgasm. It's our cultural scripts for heterosexual sex. I knew that for women with a new partner is was 10% chance or lower but I didn't realize it was that abysmal for only when the partner was a man. I am both shocked and not surprised that the average lesbian will be able to give a new partner an … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 03:20 PM |
| 26 | Normalize breaking up because you’re unsatisfied; you don’t have to wait until everything’s burningFrom birth I was associated with music that drilled into my head that struggle love is "romantic" and that there's something noble into completely ignoring your needs to cater to other people's wants. Fucking saaaaaame. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/21 11:40 PM |
| 41 | To the ladies who say FDS is "hot girl strategy"I used to think that if I just had less boundaries, complied with whatever my partner wanted, and made sure he was happy, he'd "look past my un-attractiveness" and be happy to have a loving, loyal girlfriend. I didn't come onto reddit to get attacked personally like this. Like... damn, woman, why you calling me out? Why can't you just let me lie to myself? Romance is lovely, and love is lovely, but neither are worth dehumanizing treatment. shit manipulative tactics to trauma bond What are some t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/21 03:40 PM |
| 10 | ALL of his exes can’t be the “cRaZy” ones…TRUE. If they devolve into petty manchild over boundaries, much less make you enforce the reinforce boundaries?! How bout you step back and stop toe-in' the fuckin' line buddy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/21 03:33 PM |
| 35 | “Porn is healthy.”These statistics are often bullshit. I remember taking one of these quizzes in middle school and many of the boys were bragging about how much they lied. Expecting mature honesty out of immature people isn't going to go well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/21 12:48 AM |
| 22 | this is such perfect advice. a man who loves you will never play games with you or your feelings, because he wouldn’t want to risk losing you. if you’re starting to question your relationship, it’s time to go.If he likes you, you will know. And if he doesn't, you will be confused. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/21 02:47 PM |
| 23 | I was really excited about a first date, but I'll be canceling due to some mini red flags... This is my personal farewell.Gut feelings are very important, we have them for a reason. We—everybody but especially women— get trained out of trusting them for the sake of propriety, kindness, civility, etc. which is a bunch of horseshit. You seem like you got your bases covered but if you want to read more about how vital they are, I recommend this book. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/21 03:42 PM |
| 6 | We don't want cHaDS, we want someome who knows what abhorrent means and treats women with love and respectAnd they think all their problems will be solved (and are caused by lack of) girlfriend. Depression? gone! Demotivation? gone! Unemployment? gone! girlfriends exist to help him write resumes! Weak bank balance? gone! girlfriends go 50/50 and will help him pay rent! Flabby and out of shape? gone! a nice fit girlfriend will give him the personal trainer motivation experience and boost he needs! I'm in this comment. ... ... ...Like, all five points you made. ... ... :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/21 02:49 PM |
| 13 | The Every Single Gen-Z & Millenial Man Starter PackThe prenup and the toilet, omg 😭😂🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/21 03:06 AM |
| 6 | Female self-defense protip: style your hair using tiny knives so that you always have an easily accessible self-defense tool on your person. It's time we BRING 👏 BACK 👏 HATPIN 👏 HYSTERIA 👏I've been wearing hairsticks for about 15 years. All three styles are pretty old, including the third. I believe the third is modified korean bun, third is if I remember right old viking or English style, and the viking women would braid the tail. Korean bun (first style) is my go-to every day. So easy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/21 03:01 AM |
| 1 | If you removed the context from this post, you'd think it was a mother writing about her toddler son. Why do pickmeishas coddle these manchildren like this? Sis let him cook for himself!I'm in this post and I don't fucking like it. We split the food cost for the most part. I finally went through a few dozen unresolved food receipts and when he was almost $200 ahead (I owed him) it cam out to $100 behind. That's why so important he pays his portions when I even ask him to. I can't fucking afford to feed him. Due to cost and time I have STRONG leans towards 2 items in a meal. Like 1 chicken thigh with 1 very large veg portion. Or a giant pile of a few veg cooked together. And it'… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/21 02:47 AM |
| 2 | This is what male entitlement looks like. In response to WhY DoN't YoU WoMeN JuSt CoMmUnIcAtE MoRe. Men don't freaking listen.They'll push you down into accepting something and then won't accept responsibility for it by claiming it was your free choice. I feel like this has been happening a lot lately to me? Where I say one thing (A because I hate B, or Fuck B I not doing it) and then days or weeks later I'm told '''I said I'm doing B because A''', or some shit like that. I feel like I am going crazy. Then I'm crazy pissed off because that's not what I said at all. It's like all meaning and nuance is totally lost on hi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/21 02:44 AM |
| 18 | Why so many women dont have orgasms or sexual satisfaction in relationships:( This is too true/sad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 01:28 PM |
| 4 | Has the FDS-mindset ruined (some) music for anyone else?Yes. There aren't too many, and most I can still enjoy in some way (being "fuck you" angry rather than being "pickme" sad). The first one that comes to mind is the lyrics to Lucid Dreams by Juice Wrld. Listen on Spotify or Youtube You found another one, but I am the better one. I won't let you forget me. ... You were made outta plastic! Fake!! I was tangled up in your drastic ways. Who knew evil girls have the prettiest face?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/21 06:04 AM |
| 9 | "Men don't care about your career, all we want is a woman who is young, reasonably attractive, and with a tolerable personality"Half of the women I know in my age group (25-30) aren't interested in dating anymore You reminded me of a village of all women. https://youtu.be/UrnmBLB-UX4 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 05:06 PM |
| 32 | Saw this in r/niceguys of all places. "Your hurt feelings do not override my right to say no."Men nowadays wants to be victims so hard. I think it's more accurate to say they want to be the girlfriend. So bad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 07:29 PM |
| 123 | Saw this in r/niceguys of all places. "Your hurt feelings do not override my right to say no."Despite what any may say, the average man does not like being used for sex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 05:27 PM |
| 28 | Dummy Wants Us To All Make Her Same Sexual Mistakes by 30. But seriously, why does every single female sex columnist sound vapid, attention seeking, and like her self esteem is too cripplingly low to be doing this job?A woman is not really a woman until she's 30 years old. Fuck you, Lady, and the high horse you rode in on. Only 3 sentences in and she's putting others down. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 12:31 PM |
| 15 | This is why you VET and NEVER have sex too early - bullet dodgedWomen have abundance, men don't. That's why they get so jealous of other men hitting on their dates, texting them, popping up on their IG comments. They're desperate not to lose the only woman they currently have on the line. That... that seems really harsh but also really true. Men pursue women, rarely the other way around. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 12:07 AM |
| 7 | This is why you VET and NEVER have sex too early - bullet dodgedHe has been dating another woman who he has discovered he has a "better connection with and is more sexually confident" He was saying that you're a [some gendered slur or other like bitch or prude] for not putting out, and to loosen the fuck up on your punani strings. He was going to choose her since "he wasn't sure if we were compatible or not yet," He was saying that romantic feelings are impossible without sexual feelings first. Fucking typical. And that he "hoped I understood that he didn't … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/20 11:56 PM |
| 39 | LOLThis guy also says, "I just want to meet and enjoy our time together and see if we develop deeper feelings as we go." (translation: If I fall in love with your pussy, I might date you for real) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 03:13 PM |
| 210 | Boyfriend shamed girlfriend for sleeping in the same bed as her mom on a trip he wasn’t even invited too. This is what happens when men watch too much porn...THE AUDACITY 🤢The screenshot cuts off the worst part. 1 I was pretty upset on leaving her and couldn’t believe he ruined the ending of a sweet memory like that and I called him a creepy fuck bc I was just so angry he was so selfish. He in turn stopped talking to me and said I’m being a petty asshole and no woman my age should be ‘wetting her panties in excitement’ to be sleeping with her mom like that. It's fucked. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 04:36 PM |
| 3 | LVM get mad when you expect the bare minimumTruth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 03:27 PM |
| 5 | "Aren’t they all just swooning for a man who’s whole personality and manhood revolves around paying things for women? Just call an escort"According to some other comment, OP was told it arouses women. /eyeroll We used to write like that in the mid-1800s for things in print often. Title Case is currently used for things like names and places. But it was once used for most nouns (person, place, thing, not but always ideas) and uppercase for flair / showing importance, especially for times. (example) I could be because they want to imitate a more classical way of writing [to make them sound smarter]. Just a guess. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 02:30 PM |
| 206 | They just can't pick a narrative and stick to it, huh?No you don't understand, she needs to be a goddess in bed and put out pretty quickly, but also only been with maybe 1 guy before me (only the 1 time). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 11:25 PM |
| 5 | /r/Trashy loves Applebee's, apparently.My boyfriend and I shit on Applebee's all the time. One time we went there because I never knew how bad it was. It's all the food from the freezer section of your grocery. It was the most inoffensive (flavor) food designed to appeal to the most possible people. It all seemed very microwaved / baked / fried from individually pre-portioned servings, but paying the most of a local chain that prepares your food after you order it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/20 03:27 PM |
| 7 | Just a reminder that being a “girly” girl is totally awesome and valid and to shame girls for being feminine is to give in to a patriarchal culture that demonizes femininity because it’s largely associated with womanhood in a world that hates women. We can be feminine for ourselves, as well!My mother and a few other relatives shamed me for being feminine. I did my best to be a tomboy she insisted I was. A few years ago I rediscovered my love affair with silk, ribbon, lace, and dresses. All is well again. :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/20 12:04 PM |
| 4 | One smart Grandma! I came across this post on LinkedIn, and the comments were full of PickMes and men saying that this is “misandrist and dishonest”. Ladies, looking out for yourself is in YOUR BEST INTEREST.I have seven bank accounts. Even I don't know how much money I'm hiding. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/20 01:22 PM |
| 19 | Porn needs to start being shamed again. Don’t call it natural. Don’t accept it. Make a contemptuous and disgusted face when you see a guy talk about it, or a woman support her SO’s porn habits.Legitimately asking with seriousness. I do not like porn, not willing to have it in my relationships. Porn causes sex trafficking, I want 100% his attention, it's something done as a pre-sex outlet, etc. What about the "boring" porn that is just two people enjoying each other? No slapping, hairpulling, tossing her around, etc. Actually caring for her needs as well, maybe she's even in charge of everything. Would you still call it degrading? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/20 11:09 PM |
| 66 | I literally can’t stop laughing. Scrote pressures wife into “open marriage” doesn’t go the way he thought it would...[She persisted I didn't love my boyfriend because I insisted on monogamy.] ...What? How does that even make sense? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/20 11:04 PM |
| 14 | “I’m the coolest girl in the world got some spare cool-girl-validation-coins, Sir? 🥺”It's the "women that do are insecure" that makes it about being a platform. It honestly didn't feel lie it was written by a woman. Not that women can't think this. But rather, because of the testament that "Women who think this are insecure" made it feel very /r/asablackman to me. And "he will do it anyway" made it feel like a shitty justification. Like, this is what I do I mean what men would do feeling. Otherwise, they are the worst kind of person, the kind not capable of relating to any emoti… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/20 02:26 AM |
| 24 | Could you call him if you were in the hospital? If not, DO NOT HAVE SEX WITH HIM.What a gut punch. This is one of those "minimum standards" everyone should have, but we don't actively think about. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 11:06 AM |
| 42 | “No” is a complete sentence - Something I wish I had known soonerThere are two books that are very relevant to your post, and I recommend them as required reading for how life-changing they are. Manuel J. Smith wrote When I Say No, I Feel Guilty: How to Cope, Using the Skills of Systematic Assertive Therapy janky pdf Gavin de Becker wrote The Gift of Fear and Other Survival Signals that Protect Us From Violence not-so-janky pdf This very scenario is in both of the books. They are must-reads. edit: links work in Chrome on desktop, may be iffy on mobile or othe… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/20 02:12 AM |
| 7 | If he cheats on you, that’s mean your pu$$y is trash 🤦🏽♀️This hurt to read so much I'm going to get off the internet for the day. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/20 10:24 PM |
| 9 | Not dating related but wtf..Playing dumb to someone else's idiocy is one of my favorite things to do. They always hang themselves so fucking quick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 12:16 PM |
| 17 | A demisexual is defined as “a person who does not experience sexual attraction unless they form a strong emotional connection with someone.” Thanks to Porn, the description of a normal healthy sexual bond is now a fringe sexual orientation instead of a given.The reason you can't agree is because "regular" women feel sexual attraction. They believe that since they need a common spark first to desire sex, that it's the same thing. But they agreed to go on a date. They already had determined this man was at least attractive enough to give a chance. They don't understand that your eyes to others are like a 9yearold's; that 'attraction' isn't in your emotional comprehension. They also don't understand that just looking for the sexual spark doesn't work. … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/20 09:38 PM |
| 37 | Know your worthThank you for the reminder that communication isn't high maintenance, it's just the minimum maintenance. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/20 12:33 AM |
| 12 | FDS Rules for Black GirlsI hope you are never in that situation again but if you are, I hope you laugh and look at him like you would a bug and tell him off for being so racist. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/20 11:50 AM |
| 26 | Trust Your Bodily Instinct When Matching & MeetingTRUTH. There is a book about this concept written by a hostage negotiator. The book is called The Gift of Fear: and other Survival Signals that Protect Us from Violence, by Gavin de Becker. The Gift of Fear is a godsend for women an dshould be required reading. There is a difference between being polite and feeling afraid or uneasy and forcing yourself to be polite because Women Must Be Nice. This book helped me to understand the difference and I think it even saved me from an attack once. Recog… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/20 05:28 PM |
| 3 | All the relationship subs are FULL of these types!!Isn't this the fucking truth. I have known maybe 5 men that didn't do the locker room talk nor objectify women in all my life. And even then, think all 5 of them were because a woman had to teach them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/20 09:49 AM |
| 3 | All the relationship subs are FULL of these types!!I can hear some old geezer man jumping out of nowhere saying: THinK AboUt wHAt yOu SAy bEfORe YoU SpEak, miSsY. Like, wtf was even his point except to make sure you felt rejected and small? Sometimes, people show their ass and hurt you just to hurt you. Then you Return To Sender that and they go all shocked pikachu on you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/20 09:43 AM |
| 2 | TF is going on tonight; their ways of saying casual is evolving. Wasted my daily OLD 20 minutes!I'm kind of disgusted. It's like he's portraying he's NotLikeTheOtherGuysTM when he's exactly like the other guys. I wonder how well this works on the clueless. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/20 07:28 AM |
| 3 | I don’t have any standards anymoreMy friend calls that "Post-Nut Clarity" where you might like her personality enough to have sex, but after it's over and you're not attracted to her, you feel revolted. I have been the woman in a situation similar to this. The solution is to not have sex with women you're not totally attracted to. She will feel used even if she consented. It's just like if a woman told you she threw up after getting oral sex or having sex with you. You would feel bad even if you agreed. Treat women how you want … | /r/seduction | 30/05/19 10:24 PM |
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