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You should imo, it’s really good. He’s just spelling out how anyone claiming that the Redpill isn’t inherently misogynistic is a in denial and provides citation as to why.
/r/ExRedPill16/02/24 08:44 PM
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He isn’t going to give any either, bet. He ignores the comments asking him to elaborate past being vague because he doesn’t want his biases to be challenged, making his entire post bad faith.
/r/ExRedPill16/02/24 07:03 PM
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What “talking points”, specifically? Prediction: you won’t respond or elaborate because you don’t want to actually engage in a good faith discussion because you know your biases won’t hold up.
/r/ExRedPill16/02/24 06:34 PM
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Your commentary is some of my absolute favorite on this sub 💜
/r/ExRedPill16/02/24 06:25 PM
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What “talking points”, specifically?
/r/ExRedPill16/02/24 06:20 PM
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This is a silly comment.
/r/ExRedPill16/02/24 06:12 PM
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You haven’t left the manosphere and you’re seeing what you want to see. Not sure what you’re hoping to find here with your vague post.
/r/ExRedPill16/02/24 06:10 PM
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Please answer the questions Garlic asked in their first paragraph.
/r/ExRedPill14/02/24 06:57 PM
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Having a nonsensical pity party. I think he thinks he is a lot more compelling than he actually is.
/r/ExRedPill14/02/24 06:35 PM
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Men are not respected in the west. Define respect. We are told we are not fully human or capable of authentic emotion. That’s a lie and projection—that is what RP says about women. There is no way of proving this is not the case as we will be told that we are faking it if we are too real. Another lie and another projection—again, that’s what RP does to women. The red pill then comes along and tells us that this will no longer hurt if we can lose our humanity for real. This is called a self fulfi…
/r/ExRedPill14/02/24 06:17 PM
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Op, I just want to say thank you for sharing this. You really hit the nail on the head. RP is like selling your soul to the devil.
/r/ExRedPill14/02/24 04:13 PM
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The shame is found in the defense mechanism of you being inauthentic because you don’t want to be seen because you don’t want to be rejected or abandoned by someone who knows you. Fear of intimacy/vulnerability is rooted in shame. Shame is also a core component of unresolved trauma. A lack of shame would be being self assured enough to be yourself regardless of what others may or may not do. It’s important to not assume that the word shame is an insult because it’s not (I think that’s how it’s b…
/r/ExRedPill18/01/24 11:47 PM
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Nah, this is psychology 101. The shame is found in the defense mechanism of you being inauthentic because you don’t want to be seen. A lack of shame would be being yourself regardless of what others may or may not do.
/r/ExRedPill18/01/24 11:35 PM
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Yeah. That’s what I said. If you wear a mask and aren’t authentic then you don’t feel shame if rejection or abandonment occurs. Being inauthentic is a defense mechanism against shame and is also caused by shame. All of that is tied to core traumas.
/r/ExRedPill18/01/24 11:31 PM
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I’m assuming you don’t share your emotions/needs/interiority because you don’t want anyone seeing the real you because if they do and then they choose to leave that’ll hurt much more than if you wear a mask? That’s rooted in shame. Fear of being rejected or abandoned if you are authentic is shame.
/r/ExRedPill18/01/24 11:17 PM
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Why do you not share them? Fear of being rejected or abandoned if you do is rooted in shame.
/r/ExRedPill18/01/24 11:12 PM
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This is probably why you were so susceptible to red pill. Men who feel shame toward sharing their emotions/emotional needs with others tend to have internalized toxic understandings of masculinity, making red pill an easy ideology to fall into.
/r/ExRedPill18/01/24 10:54 PM
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Edit: With "real" I mean the evolutionary "facts" and how women seem to test men without even being aware of it. Bro, there are so many biases when it comes to those “evolutionary facts” because the people conducting this research have historically been men who have an agenda (fabricating their belief in men’s superiority) and insert their sexist bias into the studies. A lot of these “truths” are just overeager assumptions that reflects the opinion of the researcher or the layperson looking to s…
/r/ExRedPill17/01/24 07:35 PM
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None of those things are abuse nor are they what TRP is about nor are they relevant to this discussion.
/r/ExRedPill10/01/24 01:50 AM
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Nope. That’s not it at all. This isn’t a place to recruit. Bye!
/r/ExRedPill10/01/24 01:49 AM
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No one is talking about penance? Just that op should focus on releasing toxic thoughts and beliefs before he dates anyone. Telling him to go to therapy is aiding in him not hurting people.
/r/ExRedPill09/01/24 09:36 PM
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Because people who have been brainwashed by RP ideology are emotionally abusive until they can get help to no longer have those beliefs. Also, no one is talking about penance? Just that op shouldn’t hurt women and should focus on releasing toxic thoughts and beliefs before he dates anyone.
/r/ExRedPill09/01/24 09:29 PM
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What kind of abusive behaviour could I be exhibiting? Based on your post and comments on what you’ve exposed yourself to regarding RP? potentially abusive behaviors you might exhibit if you were to start dating before undoing the toxicity you’ve exposed yourself to: emotionally withholding, withdrawing, dread game, causing sadness and pain purposely (you mentioned reading about taking women through all the emotions so they don’t get “bored”), not being yourself so you aren’t emotionally investin…
/r/ExRedPill09/01/24 09:12 PM
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The irony here is that you did fall into a trap…the trap is RP. You’re still in the trap. The consequence is that you’re radicalized and now need to focus on therapy and not relationships. Until these beliefs are no longer part of your thinking, you aren’t fit to be in a relationship (not because you’re low value [a stupid term] but because these beliefs breed abuse and people shouldn’t be abused).
/r/ExRedPill09/01/24 07:12 PM
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Bingo! Perfectly said!
/r/ExRedPill09/01/24 07:10 PM
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It’s not harsh at all; you did get radicalized because that’s what RP is. You can’t control people or situations—thinking you can to avoid pain means you need therapy, not a relationship. Good luck!
/r/ExRedPill09/01/24 07:05 PM
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Please don’t date anyone until you have fully de-radicalized yourself. You need therapy, not a relationship. Edit: also, op, if you do get into a relationship when you are still clearly radicalized, you will definitely end up exhibiting abusive behaviors and harming the woman you’re with. I need you to hear this because it’s vital to not emotionally abuse others, which I think you will end up doing since you’re still far in it. You need to stop seeing women as objects which is why therapy needs …
/r/ExRedPill09/01/24 06:26 PM
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Really, all of this boils down to the need for more therapy and understanding that men are generally more logical than emotional, while women tend to be more emotional than logical. Prescribed gender norms aren’t fate, mate. Recognizing and embracing these differences can be pivotal for personal growth. Pushing societal and patriarchal conditioning is what creates red pill. It’s crucial to appreciate the diversity in emotional expression and understanding for more fulfilling relationships. I agr…
/r/ExRedPill01/01/24 11:08 PM
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wut dude
/r/ExRedPill29/12/23 05:54 PM
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This is a dumb post.
/r/ExRedPill29/12/23 05:54 PM
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Right? Op is just looking for a justification to be misogynistic when he already is
/r/ExRedPill29/12/23 05:53 PM
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Okay, I vow it upon myself to get the world rid of such insecure men so that we can finally start focusing on my problems. Personally, I don't understand those men, Sweetie, you are one of those men based on your previous comment. As well as this one. You are not entitled to anyone’s attention. Just because you have a crush on someone doesn’t mean they’re required to like you back. Instead of looking for external validation, go within.
/r/ExRedPill24/12/23 12:28 AM
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Humans have the potential to behave like that. It’s a human possibility. Men have the capacity to do the same shit. The ones who do have issues like personality disorders or insecure attachment and someone who is secure in themselves and resilient would understand that someone potentially doing this is a red flag and that it wouldn’t work anyway. The fact that you have a need to control outcomes by being cowardly reflects emotional immaturity, meaning you don’t yet have the tools to even be in a…
/r/ExRedPill23/12/23 11:40 PM
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That is a lie. You are sexist and have no business being in a relationship with anyone because you’re radicalized and selfish. Break up. Tell her why. Therapy. Don’t get into another relationship until you fix yourself.
/r/ExRedPill23/12/23 11:34 PM
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Being used by an insecure man who has no sense of self and only gets validation through objectifying others and being like “teehee, look, a woman is paying attention to me!” but doesn’t actually care about who I am is demoralizing and disgusting. I’d rather become a hermit and live in the woods isolated if I had to choose between the two. Being ignored isn’t objectification, your kink is just deluding yourself into thinking you’re a victim. Women don’t owe you shit. You’re just entitled. Respect…
/r/ExRedPill23/12/23 11:32 PM
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Why do you care so much about getting hit on? Why do you think that women like being viewed as sex objects by men? Why would you be bitter at women because they’re being dehumanized by men? Why do you want to be dehumanized? Why is your self worth tied to external validation? Why are you punishing women by being bitter toward them because men are socialized to think manliness = sticking their dick into whatever moves? Why do you think women are flattered by this? Why would anyone want that? Why …
/r/ExRedPill23/12/23 11:07 PM
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Because you are emotionally withholding in order to control your image. She is putting more into the relationship than you are because she is emotionally invested. You aren’t. You may not be using dread game to the full extent, but emotionally withholding is a core component of dread game. You also have been radicalized, ergo, your views of women are gonna impact your relationship and I don’t necessarily trust your perceptions since you fell down this rabbit hole to begin with, refuse to take an…
/r/ExRedPill23/12/23 08:58 PM
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She’s calling you a sexist asshole because you’re a sexist asshole.
/r/ExRedPill23/12/23 08:32 PM
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They are lying. And the accounts that are true are referring to women who have some sort of personality disorder or attachment issue but it’s being applied to all women which is a lie. You are an easy mark. Break up with her but explain why so she understands that you’re the issue and not her. Then, therapy. Don’t get involved in another relationship unless you have this sorted; doing so would be selfish and cruel.
/r/ExRedPill23/12/23 06:20 PM
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They are lying. You are an easy mark. Break up with her. Therapy.
/r/ExRedPill23/12/23 03:14 PM
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like watching someone be infected with rabies.
/r/ExRedPill23/12/23 04:50 AM
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He needs to end it and get help. He’s too far gone; his comments make that clear. He refuses to listen. His girlfriend shouldn’t have to suffer because of that and her wellbeing is my priority tbh.
/r/ExRedPill23/12/23 03:32 AM
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You desperately want to be the victim when the only people that hurt you were redpill men who gave you secondary trauma while telling you half-truths. Bingo.
/r/ExRedPill23/12/23 02:21 AM
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You’re radicalized. You decided to partake in an ideology centered on pushing the belief that women are a monolith of cold hearted monsters that hate men and the consequence is that you now are deluded into believing it. Break up with her, she deserves someone who isn’t a misogynist and you need to get help.
/r/ExRedPill23/12/23 01:33 AM
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If it’s that small of a deal and she means so little to you then end it but tell her why. Also, those men are lying. It’s all confirmation bias because they want to blame women in order to push an ideology centered on oppressing women. Abusive and controlling men routinely lie/exaggerate/confabulate their experiences with women to justify their misogyny. You believing them makes you an easy mark.
/r/ExRedPill23/12/23 01:22 AM
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Your beliefs are misogynistic. Creating a narrative that women can’t be honest about what they want and that the misogynistic RP info you were following—with men telling other men what women want instead of actually listening to women—is misogynistic. Your paranoia that you can’t trust her based on the ideology you fell into is toxic. You trying to control your relationship via withholding is toxic. You wanting to take the easy way out to spare yourself pain without thinking about how that would…
/r/ExRedPill23/12/23 01:08 AM
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Honestly, op, I would tell your girlfriend that you are struggling with misogynistic beliefs that are making you incapable of having a relationship with her because you prefer to be emotionally unavailable and I would tell her that she deserves to find someone who won’t shut her out. Explain that you are breaking up with her because you’ve been radicalized. And end it. And then avoid romantic relationships until you deradicalize yourself—getting into this one was unwise since clearly you aren’t …
/r/ExRedPill23/12/23 12:44 AM
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His comment sounds like he’s using some of the most popular excuses men give for their mistreatment of women that Lundy Bancroft dissects in his book Why Does He Do That?: Blaming previous relationships: apply the following principle to assertions that an angry or controlling man makes about past women in his life: "If it is an excuse for mistreating you, it's a distortion". A man who was genuinely mistreated in a relationship with a woman would not be using that experience to get away with hurt…
/r/ExRedPill15/12/23 10:30 PM
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I think there’s a lot of different elements as to why but mainly it’s societal pressure and propaganda (like RP) that convinces them there is something wrong with them if they aren’t girlfriends/wives/mothers. Also, a lot of detrimental elements of relationships are swept under the rug and women have traditionally been encouraged to just take it. Unequal relationships are also still the norm, so until that norm changes enough, women will still find themselves in unfulfilling relationships even i…
/r/ExRedPill15/12/23 07:03 PM
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Maybe you’re right, but research indicates that married men are happier (in addition to also being healthier) in general than single men and the reverse is true generally for women (they are less happy in marriages/committed relationships and are less healthy when with men). I point this out because I think that a lot of what RP and manosphere ideology is reflects men’s fear of women not needing them to the point that they project this fear onto women, as in, women are told by these men that wom…
/r/ExRedPill15/12/23 04:36 PM
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I think most marriages are pretty unequal partnerships and a lot of women feel alone in them. On the other hand, men (generally) tend to get more than they put into marriages because women are expected to be the nurturers and care takers. More women are realizing this discrepancy and more and more women are deciding to remain single because of it. It’s not necessarily that women don’t want to be in a committed relationships, I agree, but recent research indicates that women are happier single be…
/r/ExRedPill15/12/23 12:30 AM
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This is beautifully put. The funny thing is that these men need to believe that marriage is the ultimate dream for women because these men want to feel like the ultimate prize.* What they think women want is always a way for them to feel desired and strong and manly because they have no sense of self outside of these cringey prescribed gender norms. *ETA: ironically, most of the recent studies and research in this area shows that heterosexual women are happier single and heterosexual men are hap…
/r/ExRedPill15/12/23 12:00 AM
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Regarding RP men, it’s not about humbling, it’s about destroying. So, I’d say it’s centered in sadism stemming from a desire to humiliate based on these men having their own feelings of inferiority that they subconsciously externalize onto women. A basic mechanism of misogyny. Edited: clarity
/r/ExRedPill14/12/23 10:18 PM
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Really? Interesting. I might be slightly on the spectrum and I don’t do that. 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/ExRedPill02/12/23 07:56 PM
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Is it a sign of autism to become obsessed with social formulas?
/r/ExRedPill02/12/23 07:55 PM
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Oh this is brilliant. 👏
/r/ExRedPill24/11/23 06:54 PM
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This is a narrative I see everywhere pushed by incels to justify mistreating women. It’s victim blaming and misogynistic.
/r/ExRedPill07/11/23 08:55 PM
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I think you need to incorporate your anima
/r/ExRedPill04/11/23 06:32 AM
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Have you ever looked into jungian psychology?
/r/ExRedPill04/11/23 06:23 AM
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What was your belief system? What was your morality? Talk to me.
/r/ExRedPill04/11/23 06:08 AM
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I want to know more about your feelings, love. Talk me through it like I’m 5. I genuinely would like to understand
/r/ExRedPill04/11/23 05:51 AM
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🤙
/r/ExRedPill04/11/23 03:54 AM
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The issue isn’t wanting to have sex, it’s that you see women as nothing beyond sex objects. Additionally, viewing women as nothing more than sex objects is dehumanization and qualifies as misogyny. You were susceptible to rp ideology because you don’t have a strong enough sense of self and your view of women was definitely already problematic, creating a fertile ground for rp. As for struggling to figuring your feelings out, care to elaborate?
/r/ExRedPill03/11/23 11:30 PM
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Thank you. I appreciate the honesty. Second, the critical thinking skills regarding depression are attached to executive functioning—things like time management, problem solving, feeling foggy, etc. Misogyny is a choice, not a sign of impaired critical thinking due to depression. Third, negative thoughts related to depression stem from feelings of hopelessness, not feelings of entitlement that view all/most women as nothing more than sex objects. Sure, you having these thoughts qualifies as you …
/r/ExRedPill03/11/23 11:08 PM
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Yes or no?
/r/ExRedPill03/11/23 10:42 PM
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So your therapist told you that you’re a misogynist because you’re depressed?
/r/ExRedPill03/11/23 10:37 PM
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Hatred/dehumanization/objectification of others is not a symptom of depression nor a sign of clinically reduced critical thinking skills related to depression. It is a sign of radicalization and you not having a strong enough sense of self that’s rooted outside your misogyny.
/r/ExRedPill03/11/23 10:03 PM
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Define depression and explain how it links to your dehumanizing views toward women.
/r/ExRedPill03/11/23 09:43 PM
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Your head is up your a$$/buried in rp ideology. Your thought process is one of radicalization. Depression has nothing to do with it. Maybe impressionability due to a lack of self that makes you an easy target for this type of thinking. And entitlement.
/r/ExRedPill03/11/23 09:35 PM
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Misogyny isn’t synonymous with depression. You think this way because you see women as objects. Trying to signal that you have depression is an attempt to justify your views.
/r/ExRedPill03/11/23 08:18 PM
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First I’d like to say that your op was very insightful but I fear you may be succumbing to the cognitive dissonance you alluded to in it. Red pill thinking is tied to telling women what they want and not looking at any evidence that contradicts that assumption/bias. Red pill behaviors are based in psychological abuse and lead to addictive behaviors in the one they’re directed at. It’s essentially just Pavlov conditioning. Most people, regardless of gender, tend to respond to conditioning in simi…
/r/ExRedPill19/10/23 11:19 PM
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