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Conversation-MrsInterrupted-/r/seduction14/01/25 10:02 PM
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Conversation-MrsInterrupted-/r/seduction26/02/25 04:32 PM
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10

As a woman I think this is good advice. Lean into whatever interests you the most, it’s attractive to see a man in his element, even if it isn’t something you consider inherently sexy
/r/seduction28/03/25 04:51 PM
4

She’s probably also hoping it will turn you on when she tells you that, so don’t hesitate to let her know you think that’s hot!
/r/seduction14/03/25 08:00 PM
4

Start by giving a genuine compliment, everyone loves to feel noticed! We’re generally wary of strangers cause we think they might want something from us. Giving a compliment allows you to actually just offer something meanwhile it can give you a chance to gauge her interest
/r/seduction10/03/25 08:51 PM
2

I think you should remember to be proud of yourself for your attempts because it does take a lot of courage to approach someone. You could try starting things off giving a genuine compliment, then you’re actually just offering something right off the bat and it can give you a chance to gauge her interest without asking her for anything right away💜
/r/seduction09/03/25 06:07 PM
1

As a woman, I’d want to hear something simple and honest like if you think you’re considerate or emotionally aware, something like that. If it feels too weird to boast about yourself you could be honest in that sometimes our best qualities’ flip sides are also are biggest challenges.
/r/seduction09/03/25 06:03 PM
1

I think while women want men to be our protectors, we also want to serve the relationship and if we can be a safe place emotionally for someone who isn’t generally vulnerable with others that feels rewarding in a sense.
/r/seduction06/03/25 04:59 PM
107

As a woman I think this is good advice. It might even make her hope it’s a date.
/r/seduction05/03/25 05:13 PM
44

This is great advice. As a woman who is intelligent, not horrible to look at but a definite work in progress, I do just want to add that sometimes it’s about taking small steps towards these goals. Sometimes, if our hearts, motives and actions are in the right place, we’re lucky enough to connect with a person who is willing to meet us where we’re at and grow together.
/r/seduction28/02/25 09:03 PM
1

Let a little more of the real you show through. Being comfortable as yourself encourages others to feel the same and that can be an intoxicating feeling
/r/seduction27/02/25 06:29 PM
3

Someone who is unafraid to be themselves can carry sex appeal in almost any circumstance
/r/seduction26/02/25 04:14 PM
2

Feeling lonely and discouraged can definitely get exhausting, you’re not alone. Have you communicated that you don’t want to play games and that you’re seriously interested in getting to know her because you think there’s something special about her?:)
/r/seduction25/02/25 08:05 PM
18

3 if you want women of substance. But if you’re just looking for maximum short term attention from simple girls, maybe number 1.
/r/seduction25/02/25 08:02 PM
3

Are you looking for hookups or a deeper connection? Even if you’re looking for something more casual, I don’t think it’s necessary to get too caught up in games. Women do like attention, we also like to feel special so if they get the impression you’re trying to play the numbers rather than have a genuine interest in her, she might back off. I’m sure you have more to offer a woman than you even realize yet, what makes you special do you think?💜
/r/seduction25/02/25 06:29 PM
1

Not a deal breaker at all. Sounds like you were kind and engaging which will be enough to have her wondering if you’re interested in her. I think just sprinkling it in when it feels natural is your best bet💜
/r/seduction25/02/25 06:11 PM
1

Try chatting with people on here! If you go to Reddit subs that are for people looking to find connections, you might be surprised by the fun little chats that can arise! That could give you a chance to at least practice bantering online where the stakes are low :)
/r/seduction19/02/25 07:06 PM
3

Well, thank you, that’s kind 🥰
/r/seduction14/02/25 04:58 AM
20

I got turned on just reading this
/r/seduction13/02/25 11:15 PM
1

Life is always a journey, I don’t think there’s anything wrong with making connections along the way. It might feel better for you going in to dates, the more you have somewhat of a plan for yourself. Most women aren’t expecting you to have it all together but we appreciate a man who seems like he’s got an idea of where he’s going, if that makes sense💜
/r/seduction09/02/25 07:45 PM
-3

I think if you’re really interested in this girl, and she’s smiling/laughing with you, an old fashioned ‘tell her how you feel’ is in order. It’s so rare these days to have a man pursue you with conviction; tell her you find her captivating and you want to get to know her more, everyone loves to feel noticed and special💜
/r/seduction06/02/25 09:45 PM
2

I think if you’re comfortable making the phone call, it could definitely make you stand out for the initiative! If you’re feeling unsure of how that might be received and think texting would be more successful, making a point to set a time and place / offering to pick her up if she’s comfortable with that, will also give her the sense that you know how to take control of a situation — which we love;)
/r/seduction03/02/25 11:03 PM
1

YES. Make her feel safe. The number one thing that will take a woman out of the moment is any kind of concern or stress, the more you can eliminate those and make her feel sexy, the more she can give herself over to you
/r/seduction03/02/25 07:41 PM
14

This is true, we become very conscious of how you might see us. As for verbally, we’ll be more interested in what you have to say and probably more inquisitive about whatever you’re interested in
/r/seduction03/02/25 05:10 PM
2

Approaching women is understandably scary. You’re putting yourself out there and, though I think it’s courageous and endearing, you never know how they’ll respond. Don’t worry about being muscular, there are so many qualities that women value much more than big muscles. Remember, just as you are right now, you have the power to shift her world for the better, just as she might shift yours. That’s a powerful thing💜
/r/seduction30/01/25 09:06 PM
2

First off, who told you cooking isn’t sexy? It showcases you’re capable of nourishing and providing which is one of the sexiest things there is; and you probably have lots of other qualities that are so much more endearing to women than you even realize. It sounds like you’re having trouble with the initial conversational piece; getting generic responses or a lack thereof. What interests you? I’m wondering if we can’t bring a little more of what makes you special into those moments💜
/r/seduction28/01/25 08:54 PM
6

Love this encouragement. As a woman, I have so much respect for the courage it takes to approach us, especially in this social climate. Know that even if its an L, you’ve at least landed a little rent-free space in her head for a while💜
/r/seduction28/01/25 01:24 AM
1

Sometimes we project our deep rooted or subconscious fears onto others, possibly on some level you feel like you have to be better than everyone else to be worthy of being loved by someone amazing; maybe you put your partners through that scrutiny before they have a chance to evaluate you that way. In any case, being able to accept yourself for where you’re at, flaws and all, might help you to see your partner as not better or lesser than the next, but a wildly unique combination of imperfection…
/r/seduction28/01/25 01:16 AM
2

I think it shows a good amount of self awareness and intelligence that you’re reflecting on this. How do you see yourself as a partner? Have you felt appreciated for what makes you incredible in these relationships? Are you able to be vulnerable and share your insecurities? Have you felt seen? We all have qualities that make us wonderful partners and ones that make us more challenging ones, I’m just wondering if you feel any uncertainty with what you’ve brought to the table as a partner in these…
/r/seduction27/01/25 10:48 PM
2

I think, though insecurities are valid, they’re probably your main obstacle. Sometimes it can help seeing an example of someone similar doing well, just to give you the boost of possibility. As dumb an example as this may be, the brothers on Selling Sunset are super short but they’re handsome and witty and they laugh easily at themselves and they get all the sexiest women.
/r/seduction27/01/25 04:56 PM
2

Okay fair😂
/r/seduction25/01/25 02:58 AM
2

I agree with everyone that working on yourself would be a good idea. But I also want to say that sometimes if you make a good connection, someone you can be vulnerable with, it can also be healing. It can be a balm to the broken parts of us when we’re able to share them with someone who accepts us for where we’re at
/r/seduction24/01/25 05:22 PM
1

It could be endearing but it would definitely send the message that you’re interested in more than just sex. If the date went super well, she’ll think you’re serious about her, otherwise she might think you’re not interested.
/r/seduction23/01/25 08:33 PM
8

You might be able to pull off an “I got this” in a tone that’s slightly laughing at yourself, it can be endearing if there’s an underlying confidence.
/r/seduction23/01/25 08:22 PM
1

It absolutely is sad, it’s heartbreaking. If a lifelong partner is what you’re after, I think that’s beautiful and admirable. Eventually this hole might just seem like the necessary space kept for the most wonderfully perfect-for-you woman you’ve yet to meet
/r/seduction23/01/25 08:20 PM
-46

“Need help reaching that, little cutie?” If the item is out of reach for her, you get to tease her and be helpful!
/r/seduction23/01/25 06:15 PM
66

One of the great pillars of flirting is teasing! I hesitate to use the word “mock” but when it’s done playfully, a little sarcasm can build an added element of back and forth to the conversation. Some light teasing can even make a girl feel noticed, especially if it’s eventually followed by a genuine compliment
/r/seduction23/01/25 06:05 PM
1

As painful as it is when someone you’ve really cared about handles a breakup that way, i would say she did because she was in so much pain over losing you. Sometimes those beautiful moments are the hardest to think about and we feel inclined to vilify the person we once loved because it hurts too much to think of them in that light. It might even make her feel confused about the breakup if she thinks of you too fondly. So as shitty as it is, its probably representative of how hard it is for her …
/r/seduction23/01/25 05:49 PM
78

Good advice and just want to add, if she still asks “Why?” A confidently stated “Because i like talking to you and I want to get to know you more.” Could go a long way:)
/r/seduction23/01/25 05:36 PM
3

Just to add to this, the more specific or intuitive the compliment the better. Women love to feel noticed, if you can comment on something that’s special about her or makes her stand out besides the obvious that will go a long way. I.e a statement piece of clothing, the way she’s enjoying the music or a particularly charming smile
/r/seduction23/01/25 05:33 PM
1

It’s true that this particular burden is much heavier on men, both genders have their own struggles. And neither of us can fully escape our rolls, but you can become stronger and wiser and when you do, the burden get’s lighter. That’s why I want to be a voice of encouragement for men:)
/r/seduction21/01/25 02:54 AM
2

I see, that’s fair, women’s tendency toward communication, though valuable can definitely be overkill at times. Your sense of vulnerability, integrity and accountability around all of this is so beautiful it makes my heart swell. Because regardless of where the “fault” lies, we can always assume some sense of responsibility in our own lives, which you obviously do. I can tell from your words that you’ll be worth your weight in gold to some lucky girl. I don’t know if this is a side of yourself y…
/r/seduction21/01/25 02:48 AM
2

It is true in so many situations, if you’re not phased, it indicates to those around you everything’s okay
/r/seduction20/01/25 10:45 PM
4

What’s something you value about yourself? Finding an answer to that, and then saying it loud can be a surprisingly challenging but powerful first step. Remember we’re all works in progress, including the women you’re interested in, but just as she has the power to shift your world, you already have the power to shift her whole world for the better, just as the incredible human you already are
/r/seduction20/01/25 10:43 PM
1

Just glad I could shed a little light on how much you have to offer💜
/r/seduction20/01/25 10:38 PM
2

I can tell you’re well intentioned, so I’m sorry if the women in your life have been making it extra challenging for you. Forgive me if I’m misunderstanding again, but is it one specific woman you have feelings for? If you’re trying your luck with every girl in a friend group, they are bound to talk this is true, but if you have feelings for one woman and your intentions are just getting lost in translation, I would urge you to tell this woman how you feel. I know rejection is scary and painful …
/r/seduction20/01/25 10:36 PM
1

I hear you. Especially when the voices instill fear in others. This is why I want to be a voice of encouragement for men and masculinity💜
/r/seduction20/01/25 10:24 PM
1

Women (like everyone) love to feel noticed. Try leading with a genuine compliment, something you think makes them special, at worst they might be uninterested but I promise you’ll stay in their head all day long at least
/r/seduction20/01/25 05:12 PM
2

I can see how that situation might make the idea even scarier, but the thing is, she may reject every man at this time or she may not. If the reasons you like her are greater than just because she’s the hottest commodity, I bet showing her that you see her as so much more than that would go a long way with a woman like that.
/r/seduction20/01/25 05:09 PM
2

Right, I hear you. There’s no denying that women are less accustomed to being approached nowadays and therefore are less graceful at handling the situation, but I think a lot of the time, it has more to do with them feeling awkward themselves, flattered and on the spot, they’re also afraid of going against the norm. I’m only saying this cause I think it’s important to know that they’re not judging you as much as you think. I think it’s actually a situation where anyone judging is truly jealous o…
/r/seduction20/01/25 05:05 PM
2

Mmm I see what you mean, navigating social circles in small towns brings its own challenges. I wonder if there’s an angle you could take with your approaches that might feel more genuine, like commenting on something you notice that makes that woman special, and not pursuing sex right away — This could insight a feeling of wanting to be chosen by you if word does get around, rather than thoughts that you want something from them, if that makes sense💜
/r/seduction20/01/25 04:58 PM
1

You’re right, that is a heavy burden, which is why I think it’s so courageous and should be respected and appreciated by women
/r/seduction20/01/25 04:51 PM
1

Exactly, I myself find it a precious and courageous moment if I’m ever lucky enough to catch it💜
/r/seduction20/01/25 04:47 PM
2

Interesting, I like your perspective. I think you could be right about it being a small minority, but were they ever effective in their messaging
/r/seduction20/01/25 04:44 PM
2

It’s in our nature to care what other people think because we all want to be accepted by the tribe. But sometimes we project our fears and assume others see us as weird when, maybe they hardly notice or are even thinking how endearing it is. I think this is actual one of those situations where on lookers who are judgmental, are just jealous; Either of the woman for the attention she’s getting or of you for your courage.
/r/seduction16/01/25 02:02 AM
5

Guys please correct me if I’m wrong… Whether it’s intentional or not his eyes will probably linger on you a little longer than is typical and he’ll appear very engaged with whatever you’re saying, maybe asking your opinion specifically in a group conversation. Overall, if a guys interested you might notice him giving you more attention than would be typical in a given situation. Though I suppose there could be instances when a man feels insecure if he thinks his feelings won’t be reciprocated in…
/r/seduction15/01/25 08:49 PM
0

One thing you could try is starting conversation with a compliment, something you notice about what she’s wearing or what she’s doing, depending on the environment, so they feel noticed and special—a feeling everyone enjoys! Often people are wary of being approached by strangers because we feel they may want something from us. Giving a compliment, as long as you’re willing to leave it at that if she doesn’t appear interested in more, is a way of gauging her interest while you’re actually just ma…
/r/seduction15/01/25 08:39 PM
2

Ah, I see what you mean. Giving your heart to someone is always terrifying, it gives them a lot of power over us. Would you feel differently if the woman were to initiate the first interaction? Unfortunately I don’t believe there’s any advice that can render someone immune to heartbreak, I myself have to constantly battle those fears because I think connections are a beautiful and painful necessity in this life.
/r/seduction15/01/25 07:31 PM
2

Going against the norm can feel terrifying I understand… May I ask, is it something you wish was more normal or socially acceptable?
/r/seduction15/01/25 05:16 PM
1

I understand what you’re saying in terms of being rejected for aspects you have the power to change. Just wanna say that sometimes companies have their own superfluous reasons for not hiring — often they want someone easier to control or manipulate, so it may not even be your hard work in question. Though rejection can be heart wrenching, remaining self assured in the face of it is a lifelong battle so I don’t think you’re “behind” in any way for not having overcome it as a child❤️
/r/seduction15/01/25 05:13 PM
2

You definitely have some valid points. Pursuit should be encouraged, I admit I love the feeling of being pursued because it allows me to embrace my more feminine nature
/r/seduction15/01/25 05:03 PM
1

Mind if I ask what you mean when you say “getting scammed”?
/r/seduction15/01/25 04:52 PM
2

I think I know what you mean, everyone seems to have their guard up, it’s rare to see someone who looks open to being approached. It’s just sad how mistrustful we’ve grown of one another
/r/seduction15/01/25 04:51 PM
3

I’m sorry for how much truth there is in what you’re saying. I’m of the belief that both sexes are suffering from it.
/r/seduction15/01/25 04:46 PM
-5

There have been times I’ve approached men though I realize I’m a bit of an outlier here. Women aren’t really taught to approach men and personally, I’m of the belief it’s not in our nature the way it is in yours
/r/seduction15/01/25 04:44 PM
3

I think this is good advice, everyone wants to feel noticed:)
/r/seduction15/01/25 02:33 AM
1

I’m so sorry you’ve had experiences opening up to women that went poorly because I think women should be a safe space for our men to be able to show their gentle side. I mentioned this in another comment but giving a compliment can be a less intrusive way of starting conversation if you’re willing to leave it at that if she doesn’t seem interested in talking further.. Then you’re actually just making her day either way and not necessarily asking for anything in return. I guarantee if it doesn’t …
/r/seduction15/01/25 02:31 AM
2

I think that looking inward is always wise. The societal pressure/shame is so real but I love that there are still men like you out there taking responsibility for themselves to forge their own path regardless.
/r/seduction15/01/25 01:13 AM
3

There’s still so many opportunities yet to come:)
/r/seduction15/01/25 01:08 AM
2

Mmm I see what you’re saying. It’s not the nicest feeling when a stranger wants something from you. To this I would say, try starting the conversation by giving a genuine compliment, from there you can gauge a bit better if she’s interested in speaking further. That way you’re actually just giving something, not asking for anything but you never know where it could lead:)
/r/seduction15/01/25 12:44 AM
1

That’s understandable
/r/seduction15/01/25 12:39 AM
26

Well I’m not 19, but humbly, that’s not so distant a perspective for me. Girl’s that respond like that are no better than the guys they presume you to be. Women are asking to be treated as humans and not objects but when they treat men like creeps and predators nobody wins
/r/seduction15/01/25 12:32 AM
25

Rejection is, undeniably painful. I wish both women and men held more pride associated with the effort of putting yourself out there.
/r/seduction15/01/25 12:12 AM
3

This sounds wise and very self aware to me. But of course that’s going to sting, break ups can be traumatic, I think men deserve to be encouraged for their efforts, especially when we have no idea what their battling in order to make our acquaintance💜
/r/seduction15/01/25 12:09 AM
3

Love this take:)
/r/seduction15/01/25 12:03 AM
5

Actually class is not over. Men are NOT mostly pigs, and though I can see where you’re coming from with some of what you’re saying, it’s this kind of thinking that has the decent men too afraid to approach. How will women ever meet good men if they’re labeled as pigs from the get go ?
/r/seduction15/01/25 12:02 AM
1

Interesting take!
/r/seduction14/01/25 10:57 PM
11

As a woman, glamour muscles are not at all what we’re looking for. We just want someone who takes care of themselves, someone that’s healthy and capable! Sure, the gym lovers will find each other but there are plenty of attractive men that don’t have rock hard abs:)
/r/seduction14/01/25 10:56 PM
3

That understandable. And interesting, so for you, it’s less the fear of rejection and almost more the fear that the risk of putting yourself out there will only eventually lead to an even greater loss?
/r/seduction14/01/25 10:52 PM
72

This breaks my heart for men. As a woman, I’ve always respected pursuit as an important aspect of masculinity and when I’ve been uninterested when approached, I’ve at least been flattered and kind. It takes courage to speak to someone you don’t know, this trend of aggressively shaming men seems so cruel to me…
/r/seduction14/01/25 10:42 PM
3

This makes complete sense. Caffeine is ramping up your nervous system, thoughts become less clear, stress levels raise leading to the feeling of being ‘on the spot’ or in your head. It’s a little dose of nervous energy
/r/seduction14/01/25 06:32 PM
3

Humour is a great way, if you can find anything around to make funny commentary on
/r/seduction14/01/25 05:20 AM
4

Mm I can understand that. Getting out of your own head can be tough, try making conversation while engaging in a physical activity you enjoy, that will help keep your mind steady as it has something else to focus on:)
/r/seduction14/01/25 05:14 AM
15

Approaching women isn’t easy but I think it should be encouraged! Take your time, everyone loves to feel seen, try complimenting something you notice about her like maybe a particularly charming smile, how she seems to be enjoying a song, or maybe she’s wearing something you find noteworthy. Ask her questions, the basic ones like “do you like this place?” are fine as long as you’re genuinely engaged. Be yourself with CONVICTION. Someone who is unafraid to be themselves or imperfect, helps those …
/r/seduction14/01/25 03:50 AM
6

Totally! And just to add to this, isn’t a genuine connection of some kind the goal —even if it’s purely physical and short lived? Starting conversations with people takes practice for sure, but I’ve never known a good connection to be formulaic in nature. It’s about presenting the real ‘you’ in a confident way and asking questions that show you notice her and are captivated with what you see.
/r/seduction13/01/25 11:00 PM
1

I’m sorry this has been your experience with women. I think theres a lot of confusion in the dating world because of the demonization of masculinity. Some beautiful women assume guys who approach them are automatically creeps because it’s more and more rare for good men to initiate out of a valid fear of being aggressively rejected or even accused of harassment. Women who are hot and intelligent should at the very least respect your pursuit.
/r/seduction13/01/25 10:52 PM
2

You might be just one meaningful connection away from overcoming what feels like an insurmountable struggle, which can be a difficult thought to hold onto, despite its simplicity. It’s understandable that this could feel like psychological torture, but I don’t think you will look back with resentment, you’ll likely look back with pride for what you’ve overcome. While it’s true that the world has changed—dating apps favoring extremes and cultural shifts adding challenges—love and intimacy have ne…
/r/seduction13/01/25 06:31 AM
1

When it comes to people in groups, especially young people, naturally they look to each other for a socially safe reaction to the new person approaching, that’s why it takes so much confidence. To approach a group of young women, you may have to accept that their reactions may be based in their own insecurities and desperations to conform, so try not to let it get you down if it doesn’t go well. Know that, even if they’ve been rude or immature, you’ve been bold and surely flattered someone.
/r/seduction13/01/25 05:36 AM
4

It truly is a shame how good men and the joy of being approached by them have been the collateral damage of an overreaching movement, and I’m sorry that’s been your experience. Society has put so much shame around initiative and pursuit and these are qualities we should be encouraging and fostering in our men. Though I completely see where your fear comes from, I hope you don’t let it keep you from the rewarding challenge of making new connections.
/r/seduction13/01/25 05:26 AM
1

Everyone loves to feel noticed, if you’re able to, compliment something unique about her like a particularly charming smile or you can see she seems to be enjoying the song or maybe she’s wearing something that stands out as interesting. There’s nothing wrong with the questions you listed, but adding in something you notice about her might help it feel more personable and less like your “go-to” lines:)
/r/seduction13/01/25 01:05 AM
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