-shmowzow Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
8	Poor communicator trying to come back from repeat conflict avoidance	ADVICE	-shmowzow	/r/RedPillWomen	25/01/16 05:12 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Poor communicator trying to come back from repeat conflict avoidance It's definitely a task to figure out what is and isn't necessary information for people who don't know a single thing about you! And then you think you covered enough points only to find out they weren't quite the right ones. lol Ah, well, it's a good learning experience. I really appreciate all the feedback, and I feel significantly better having been told to chill out.	/r/RedPillWomen	25/01/16 06:46 PM
2	Poor communicator trying to come back from repeat conflict avoidance I do NOT mean that you should sit him down for a big relationship talk. I didn't mean to pose my question as if a big talk was the only option. I am very much interested in learning how to calm my fears without turning it into an Event. We are both attentive and affectionate with each other, and have a very peaceful, positive relationship. We talk lightly about the future, more like "let's do this thing together next year" though, not any specific "let's spend our entire life together". I know m…	/r/RedPillWomen	25/01/16 05:56 PM
3	Poor communicator trying to come back from repeat conflict avoidance Take a step back and stop taking everything so personally. I see what you mean, and I should definitely stop overthinking things. I feel a bit foolish reading my post again. That happens a lot to me which is why I go to impartial judges before acting on any of the things that pop into my head. Although I do stand by that it's upsetting to hear my SO call something I love so much disgusting. I have a hard time thinking anyone would not be a little hurt by that. To me, your posting is pretty much …	/r/RedPillWomen	25/01/16 05:45 PM
1	Intro and please teach me how to be a morning person! Thank you so much for sharing sleepytime! I tried it out twice last week because of your post and spent each day feeling like a productive human being. This is revolutionary!	/r/RedPillWomen	25/01/16 01:28 PM
2	Coffee shop situation yesterday! What should I have done as a single RPW? Mildly silly question Reading in a relaxed posture and pleasant expression with the cover/spine of the book visible and frequent focus breaks to sip your drink and look around the room! Also a craft, such as crocheting or knitting or sewing. Even headphones don't stop people from approaching me when my lap is full of yarn. I think in general, anything that isn't electronic and doesn't look like it's totally absorbing. People who have laptops, cell phones, or piles of books and notes for studying are indicating (to me…	/r/RedPillWomen	25/01/16 01:25 PM
2	Changing your personality Chiming in, too, to say excellent advice! I try to game-ify as much as I can. I am super ticklish and easily startled by things. My SO likes to surprise poke me in the side. always gently, he's devious but still a sweetie Being startled is not my favorite, but this is his favorite game now because it's immediately play time. He pokes me, I shriek and then start giggling, which relieves my tension, and flinch super dramatically (sometimes he does legitimately have to grab me before I knock someth…	/r/RedPillWomen	21/10/15 01:42 PM
1	What (YOUR) men want This made me laugh! You two sound like heaps of fun. :)	/r/RedPillWomen	13/10/15 02:32 PM
5	Official Welcome Thread for New Members + A Few Reminders I have made a few replies on RPW with my main account before now, but it's tied to too many things for me to be comfortable sharing even vaguely personal information. So, an RPW dedicated account it is! I'm looking forward to joining the community and contributing a bit more! How I found RPW: A trollish sub mentioned RP, so I wandered over. It was a bit frightening, but curiosity won out. I clicked through a few more links until I wound up here. I was confused because it wasn't the extreme of RP…	/r/RedPillWomen	01/09/15 06:02 PM