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Women do tend to make more "hormonal"/emotional decisions tho. They don't do things men do because they could be to risky and/or hurtful. Men also know that, but they don't care/don't think about it because the fun or success factor is relatively high if you keep going. Lots of men literally don't care about the emotional aspect of many things because they often see a clear outlook. That's why women like to be heard when having an issue while men try to solve the issue. If women have drama in a …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 03:31 PM
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I don't know where you live but most here are below 10 hell even below 5 with 30 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 12:15 PM
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I don't use OF but I find it a bit odd, that many assume that a man has to be a loser and not get women in real-life when spending money on OF. Why can't someone have both? Even men with a lot of women watch porn so.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 07:57 AM
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Sports can hide it. The same sports a lot of men began to look better
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 11:05 PM
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The most misogynistic men I know are also those getting laid the most if I'm being honest and I'm not the only one. The problem with many men is that many women don't say what they think and don't do what they say they do. It's often quite the contrary. That's why many say you have to be an asshole (often the misogynistic people) to get women. Many women also seem to have a personality change overnight around the age of 30, which is the reason for the AF/BB phenomenon. It's a mix of all those th…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 06:22 PM
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Price isn't really an issue as I'm not living in the U.S. I'm going to the hospital with experts in hair loss. The dermatologist is often the first step tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 10:35 PM
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Actually looking into that atm. I have an appointement with the dermatologist in two months
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 10:30 PM
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It's fluctuating but I'm insecure from time to time as a skinny dude with average height and hair loss (not so bad as of now, but it gets worse). I also have some problems with specific parts of my body. I did deny sex in the past because I was insecure and because of anxiety. Men just aren't allowed to speak about it or else they're insecure and should "man up".
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 04:08 PM
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I can assure to you that I spend quite a bit of time and money to my looks. Probably even more than the average women. (Long curly hair and skin care routine) and it really didn't seem to help at all. Women didn't get more vocal about wanting me. It's probably a safe call to say that some would have liked to get to know me when they saw me outside, but I can't read thoughts and I'm not interested in trying to spark interest in a women when you have to check this number of checkboxes all the time…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 02:18 PM
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We do gossip and I love it but a lot of women nowadays seem to really have no life outside of "The Office", wine and Instagram and men already gravitate towards B-Cluster women as they're "more fun" in a way outside of the mental health issues. In the OLD world women also tend to have no bio or only her Instagram name which pushes the stereotype even more. I personally gravitate towards tomboys, metal or goth girls or even bro girls as they tend to be on board when making stupid shit and don't m…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 01:11 AM
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From time to time, rarely, but talked with a female friend every day for 4 months back then in 2021. I don't really have female friends who are ready to go out every week and I prefer being somewhere outside than in Discord. Most female friends are homebodies and in a relationship or live far away so I see them maybe once all 2 months. For your question: - No they aren't as they all are in a happy relationship. - No there isn't. I never do something alone with a female friend as I'm mostly in gr…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 04:22 PM
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I can't carry a baby biologically but I'll but I try to share equally in domestic duties and I probably do spent more money for beauty too.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 09:48 PM
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Agree with that as long as you're prepared for it which most people won't be.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 12:12 PM
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I've never every experienced this once in my life. Is this kind of an American thing? Genuinly asking. The funniest thing that happened to me was someone two heads bigger than me being scared to death by me for no reason. I'm your thin boy, but he was afraid I'd box him to hospital. I don't even think I look intimidating but people sure seem to think so. Height never mattered in this sense. Bigger dudes were scared for no reason at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 12:08 PM
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I already explained why it doesn't work like that. I can kick someone in the crotch and I won. The "fighting" you mean are pub fights, which won't happen if you aren't dumb. The real "fighting" is when there are probably knives in which case you want to run. This is not a game in which "str 11 > str 10". You can literally kill somebody by kicking him in the right spot. Someone who wants to rob you won't back off if you're big. The big guy has even more attack areas on his body. What you describe…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 11:36 AM
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It's more status than that nowadays. https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/tv0111/is_height_preference_more_than_just_physical/i37mg37/
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 11:23 AM
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Doesn't really apply to the real world tho. I hate this comparison. If you are getting into a fight, there are probably knives or weapons involved and your height nor your muscles won't do it. The only way you can really defend yourself is with martial arts. MMA and stuff. Most guys going to the gym go to look big but don't have the strength nor the technique to be impactful at all. Muscles size != muscle strength. Arm wrestling is the best example for this. The big guys always think they'll des…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 11:18 AM
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Yes, did that in the past. When a woman is bad in bed it means that there's probably no sexual compatibility and feels wrong due to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 10:41 AM
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ADHD and it made it very hard if not impossible. I'm a chronic overthinker with GAD and major depression probably caused by it. I have a hard time to even chat to someone on a dating app and feel like dying when thinking about meeting up with someone as I'm this anxious. I also lose interest really fast and have a hard time building interest if I'm not head over heels from the beginning. I'm also not conventionally attractive as I have strong dark circles but the more popular in the edgy/metal s…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 10:46 PM
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Depends on the environment. Pretty much every man can pull at least one per year, if you take drugs (alcohol/weed or even harder) but it's still a lot of work to do. I only ever had one casual encounter in my life and it felt like a grind to get there. Most guys can't get it or won't do it because they'd have to get over 100 walls before even getting near it. Exceptions are exceptionally good looking men or hypersocial men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 12:36 PM
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Again, the rating of some of you especially women is questionable. At least 5 of them are average or under. 2 are average or slightly above and 3 are above average. No one of them is above a 8.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 04:54 PM
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The women rating here have a horrible taste, especially the ones saying that everyone of them is ugly. I don't get the one with number 2. I have long hair myself but I don't see how his features makes him go that high. Also 11 is a lot more attractive than most of you say.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 04:42 PM
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The problem is when being positive isn't helping them at all. We have that one friend in our friend group. He never had a girlfriend and is nearly 30 now. One year ago he never groomed himself. He wore clothes that wouldn't fit at all, looked like a caveman thanks to his beard and hair and never used cologne. He has also different problems with his skin which are self induced. We really tried helping him out with positivity but it didn't help. He started changing one we pointed out what is negat…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 10:22 AM
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Skinny fit like lightly defined but still some muscles or skinny skinny like slender skinny and stick arms?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 11:55 PM
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I'm hear to help friends out IMO. And if they are miserable and need therapy I call them out. I also call them hypocrites or lazy and it works well. A friend of mine is a much better version of himself now than he was one year ago. He's also happier and that makes me happy. I just can't let him be miserable and bettee hurt him if it helps in the long run. My friends also called me ugly when I started to grew my hair out. They were right, it looked horrible but they love the even longer hair on m…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 11:53 PM
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Well... having curly hair is harder than you think. These people will absolutely never have nice hair after waking up. Which is why the curly community has the "good hair days".
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 08:27 AM
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I need at least 1 hour to be ready on low-maintenance days and 2-3 hours on those days you also mentioned. I have a skincare routine, a hair routine in which washing my hair and diffussing it can take from 40 minutes to 2 hours (deep conditioning). I also use nail polish and try to dress fine in my sub group of people. I also use cologne. I'm a man btw. I sometimes get mad at women for saying men don't put in the effort. I have to get ready atleast 1.5 hours before actually getting out with a ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 08:24 AM
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I find alt girls more appealing, but I'm mentally broken myself so. I'm not really a good looking guy how you'd describe. I'm also not successful as my anxiety disorder is holding me back, but I could if I wanted. I have more options in this sense than most men. You'll be fine as a mid-20 asian. I have a lot of Asian friends and they all look extremely good after doing a bit of work. I'm sometimes a bit jealous because you guys are all stylish as hell. My pics are also a shitfest but I'm as alre…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 04:09 PM
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I'm in my mid-20s. Celebrities are viewed differently all the time, but it's still the tendency of a woman. If she likes someone like Damiano, she'll probably pick someone more feminine over someone masculine. It's not like I'm drowning in women, quite the contrary, but I get tons of compliments for my hands, nails and hair and I have a routine for all these things. I also have above-average likes on OLD (avg. match rate for men lies between 0.9% - ~1.5%), even though 4/5 of my pictures are self…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 11:14 AM
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He has a point tho if you count for beautiful men. Since I started using nail polish I got so many compliments many men wouldn't get in 5 years. Women seem to love my hands. You could also look at South Korea. Men there using makeup are as popular as ever. Many women also go crazy for men like David Damiano, who uses eyeliner. If you're a woman who goes for masculine men, then you're off the market for those types of men tho. That's the vault between women wanting masculine or beautiful men. Als…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 08:50 AM
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Just pointing the bullshit out. You're free to want a man bigget than x' but you can't call it preference when it's a MUST HAVE. I'm just wasting my time with you and am not crying. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 11:23 PM
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Nono, I'm not a Drag Queen if it sounded like that. I don't use makeup at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 07:17 AM
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Preference is "I prefer it but it's okay if it's not like that" vs "I want it like that" which is a criteria. I work in a sector where "I PREFER it like that" is highly different to "I WANT it like that". Women nowadays get that wrong. If he HAS TO BE 6'+ then it's a criteria, not a preference. In your case it's a criteria because you hope to have a big son which is already questionable. Gen lottery just doesn't work like that and it would be a shame if you lose out on your big love because he's…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 09:48 PM
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I have a mix of rice, pea and hemp protein and also eat meat. I also mix powder nuts you normally use for baking into shakes for my extra calories two times a day. It's still hard to be consistent at 3000+ cals and I already avoid cardio. I'm also stressed as hell and have different mental issues which contribute to stress, which doesn't help exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 09:41 PM
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Cant't change my face tho. I wouldn't say I'm unattractive but I have traits that are somewhat special; panda eyes, kind of like Pete Davidson while not being as tall. I also wouldn't say I have a bad fashion sense, I'm just more in the alt scene, wearing nail polish, a lot of accessoires. People describe me as "your local drug dealer or rockstar" or the normal version of Machine Gun Kelly. I also wear EdT, mainly Bleu and Versace, have a skin care and hair care routine but also shoulder long wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 09:37 PM
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I got visible muscles real fast but lost a lot of it in no time while being sick. I actually got 7kg-8kg of weight in a month but I'm back to 62kg in two months. It all depends on the body type. I need to force feed to get weight, I also can't eat stuff with milk proteins because my body doesn't like it. It's a bit hard when you can eat all those things having big calories. And just nuts and peanutbutter doesn't cut it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 09:25 PM
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The genpool doesn't work like that. My father is a lot bigger than me but I got the the shorter end of the stick (mother). While having bad luck there, I have the rarest eye color and other things I'm in the 99.9% or even rarer. Another funny thing is the 6' number. Did you know that the rest of the world generally has the mental barrier of 180cm which is 5'10 or almost 5'11 compared to the 183cm of Murica. It's because both 6 and 180 are full and even numbers. But if you translate 6' to 183cm i…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 12:09 AM
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I don't try to be hyper-masculine, as I'm not built for it. At least not currently. Some women prefer hyper-masculine men tho. Also, the higher the intellect of a woman the less they prefer hyper-masculinity in my experience. Very intelligent men tend to be not hyper-masculine, but more a mix between or way more feminine. As already described, I try to be more of a pretty boy right now. I have a face mask on my face when I'm writing this and I'd be described as metrosexual because I also have a …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 12:51 PM
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It's hard looking like a womens sex fantasy as a men because god damn you're so diverse. Some womens sex fantasy is a buff dominant guy while others is a more feminine guy. I've never been buff, as I struggle getting any weight, but I had the dominant competent looks giving people the shivers. I'm also currently more feminine with black nail polish, skin care and well groomed, a lot of accesoires, long hair while still being thin. A lot of women had crushes on me back then in RL but since I'm in…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 08:06 AM
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Go to Italy. When I was there this summer, ratio was mostly 30/70 and the beach was 90% women. But I've never seen this somewhere else
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 10:03 PM
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Yes, I agree. I think more women voluntarily don't have sex than men, but 20%-25% still seems a bit to high as humans have a sex drive. Even 10% of women voluntarily not having sex would be too much to be possible, as this would be millions and millions. COVID plays a huge role tho. It was insane how horny women were when the whole thing started. But the spike started in 2018 if I read it correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 01:00 AM
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I'm a bit shook considered that females control the sex market. It would also be interesting to cut out the 30-35 part as a lot of the dynamics change in those times.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 12:54 AM
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The only way to learn it properly is still to do it practically. You can read books, watch videos but you still have to do it practically. Additionally, every women is different. Trust me, I think a lot about how to please women. So much that I'm even afraid to have sex with some. Performance anxiety is a real thing at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 12:43 AM
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I'm a niche guy myself. I like alternative girls and I myself am more alternative. I wear a ton of black, few necklaces, a shit ton of rings, black nail polish, have hereditary dark circles which make me look a bit more dead. I'm basically a mix between your depressed eBoy, skater and sometimes casual business generic guy. Funnily enough I appeal to a lot of normie women right now. Like they aren't alternative at all. I don't really get that. But I once wore a shirt and a nice pair of chinos and…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 07:22 AM
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Most men are vanilla but they learn to be dominant because a lot of women like it. I started of as vanilla and neutral myself but my then girlfriend wanted to be chocked, slapped and stuff like that, so I did the things that weren't to extreme to me and it workes. If I'm with a new women then I have the tendencies to develop into the role the women likes, but I mostly start of as vanilla.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 07:00 AM
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They tend to be artsy women which i like so yes I would
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 07:06 AM
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The majority of humans are unattractive as obesity rates are rising. But subtracting all obese people you have a majority of men who are not unattractive. A minority (up to 49%) of men still not doing self-care and thus being less attractive than those doing it. The problem is a lot of women having unrealistic standards. There was a thread in Purge Week where one person of each gender was compared to the other. Both were about average, while the woman was less attractive for me as she showed sig…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 10:50 PM
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3, 4 and 7 are pretty cute without makeup. I prefer that. All the other ones aren't my type and I don't find them attractive with nor without makeup
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 02:09 PM
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I remember the one on the right from /r/truerateme She seems to be a lovely person tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 01:53 PM
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where's his hair? No one. I just find it a bit unfair in this regard to judge men who lose hair. Just as it is unfair to judge women who have a specific breast size. Those things are genetics and hormones.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 08:21 AM
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Men aren't to blame for having a receding hairline. That's nature. Women aren't to blame for having small or big breasts, that nature too. He has red-ish skin tho. But her hair is equally fu**ed and looks like a mess. She also looks like she has a bit more pounds on her. His beard isn't bad nor good IMO. It could be way worse but could be a bit better.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 08:15 AM
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Also, social skills, humour and elegant style will also make women more attractive. Both can also go to the gym to up their value. + Women have makeup. Men on average are also less demanding so women, don't have to do nearly as much. You could be a boring female with Netflix as your only hobby and you'd still get men. It isn't binary for both genders. You don't have 0 or 1. So it isn't really a privilege that only men have. While it's true that men can increase their value in ways women can't (c…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 08:01 AM
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She's more or less the looksmatch for op, but not exactly the looksmatch. Also, you can't compare it like that. Women have features that are more aesthetically pleasing than men, but that's from nature. It's like most people would find a little cat cuter than a wolf. They have entirely different features. Also, women on women are on average less hard judging than women on men, hence the women saying obese women are "beautiful". It doesn't matter if you'd take the women in this scenario. It just …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 07:46 AM
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The conclusion is, that women have way higher standards and find the majority of men not attractive enough to date. (The infamous 80/20 rule). While I agree that some have to up their self-care game, this thread proves that most women wouldn't date an average guy while most men would date average girls and men have to be above average (7-10 range) to be considered datable, thus some women having unrealistic standards. Men not doing self-care are below average but there are tons of guys in the 5-…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 07:37 AM
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Yes, exactly his point as I said. He said most women wouldn't date him and you're one of them. I don't try to offend you by the way. It's perfectly fine to have that opinion. I wouldn't date her either as she isn't attractive at all to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 07:24 AM
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That is exactly his point. Most guys would date her while she's average but most girls wouldn't date him while he's average when only going for looks in this example.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 07:21 AM
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I will get hate for this, but in my (m25) subjective view, he's slightly better looking than her. She'd be even below average for me, as this photo isn't very flattering for her. Her hair also looks kinda like a mess. He on the other side looks a bit more put together. She generally gives me that 80s vibe, which I don't like. I do have higher requirements tho, as I use skin and especially hair routines myself. Hair is one of the most important things for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 07:17 AM
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I have hereditary dark circles and sleepy eyes. Also kinda buggy eyes like Cillian Murphy. Some call me the baby of Cillian and Anton Yelchin. I always thought I am ugly and still think to an extent that I'm "too different" to be seen as beautiful. I still get responses from all over the place. Some call me an ugly 3 while some call me above-average or that I could model. I have a good facial bone structure aside from the eyes so that helps I think. But I'm still highly confused.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 10:23 PM
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If she uses it for masturbating when we can't have sex then sure. I couldn't care less. I would watch it with her too while doing stuff together. I'm not the most secure/confident as I'm mentally broken, but porn wouldn't botter me as long as she doesn't know the person who makes porn. No matter how hot he is. I rather stay realistic instead of seeing it as danger even tho I'm also not the most confident person in terms of my body.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 11:53 AM
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I actually think I'm ugly as I have a the bad trait of very strong dark circles and not perfect teeth. People still always called me good looking and above average and also 7-8 on a scale. I still get almost no female attention if I'm not active. I'm also depressed and have SAD which is maybe why I seem unapproachable and even arrogant. I have to admit that almost every women I know approached me first when it wasn't in a group setting. Same with relationships. I still only ever had casual sex o…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 10:37 PM
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Saw the comment now, but he wasn't there when I wrote mine as I didn't reload the site. Fair enough! But I still think that having a dad bod but having active hobbies such as gym is mutually exclusive, as "being active" ensures fat burning. Your standards are totally fair tho. Still a bit illogical if the gym is a part of being active.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 02:39 PM
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I think your definition of "dad bod" would be something like that. While this photo is titled "dad bod" in an article it isn't exactly a "dad bod". It's really fit actually
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 02:29 PM
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I just copy and paste that here: I got women off. It's just frustrating to hear that the men have to take responsibility for the whole act and both orgasms. I sometimes ask myself if I even want to have sex again, as it feels like a job with some woman and I hate that feeling. It should be fun for both.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 12:08 AM
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I got women off. It's just frustrating to hear that the men have to take responsibility for the whole act and both orgasms. I sometimes ask myself if I even want to have sex again, as it feels like a job with some woman and I hate that feeling. It should be fun for both.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 12:05 AM
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Never said that. The vanilla ones were just less enthusiastic in total in my experience. It often felt like duty sex with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 11:47 PM
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We're not talking only about casual sex btw. Also, relationships which are miserable due to a lack of communication.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 11:36 PM
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LVM != men who can't make a woman cum HVM != men who can make a woman cum I'd be an HVM in PPD terms no matter if I can bring a woman to orgasm or not. I have even shit social skills due to mental health problems but I'd still be considered HVM. That's where you're wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 11:35 PM
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I totally understand girls that are afraid because of my girth. Some are seriously hurt after the act. Even a ex-gf who was totally crazy about it couldn't have sex for days when it was rough. It really needs enthusiastic girls but I get what you mean. It's honestly more of a curse. I wish he would be smaller but don't want to get an OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 11:35 PM
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I'm not arguing against that. I gave more head than I received. I always tried to get her off. It's just, that there are much more barriers than men have. I always liked giving head. It's just that my tongue cramps real bad after some minutes which is sad. The guy living next to me never gives head tho. But he also had way more sex partners than me. Makes no sense, but whatever. I'm one of the shy ones while he is a club guy so there's that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 11:25 PM
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Yeah, honestly don't understand why this couldn't be a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 11:13 PM
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Vanilla ladys mostly can't handle my size, that's why I often go for crazy ones. I'm also a depressed fuck myself so yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 11:12 PM
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Hello
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 11:11 PM
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That's exactly what I said. If you can get sex easily as a man, you can handle women as disposable. That's why a lot of these guys don't give a fuck about the woman. They can easily find another one.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 11:11 PM
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Never said it wouldn't be rare. But it surely exist and I live in a country where the standard of men is higher than in other countries. Men do more for their looks here, which is why it's easier abroad.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 10:51 PM
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lower standards They still get real hot women to fuck. I know by a fact that there's a type who gets casual sex easier. I know some. They're the "Instagram" Beauties if you want to call it like that. But I agree. Most men have to put effort in.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 10:48 PM
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It's gross if they have a lot of casual sex. It wasn't however as my casual encounters were the first one of them. They were "clean" if you wanna call it like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 10:45 PM
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A very very reserved almost japan level society. People don't really approach in my country. It's even rude most of the time. A lot of people hate it. Almost everything with people is friends of friends or work. If you don't have friends with a mixed friend group then you're basically fucked. That's why 98% of my sexual experience is with foreigners. It's like easy mode if I wanted to abroad.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 10:43 PM
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Yes, if she wanted to she could. But no one does this. If you aren't a jerk you wouldn't do that/try for both to reach orgasm. Edit: It's team play, not "he has to" or "she has to". If he's an ahole she can be too and vice versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 10:40 PM
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Is it that good? Girls have a hard time fitting anything beyond my glans in their mouth and I don't wanna force them to break their denture. It's hard enough to find girls which can take it in their V.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 10:38 PM
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No it's not like that. They know how to do it and what I like. They just have a hard time opening their mouth that much and long. I don't mind tho
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 10:35 PM
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Yeah sure. The execution is the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 02:40 PM
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You can train that too, so. I had sex with the duration between 1 minute and 2 hours.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 02:31 PM
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I have the girth of a red bull can minus a bit. So it's a "can". I'm not unkempt if you mean that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 02:30 PM
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What? Did you write that comment just for the sake?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 02:25 PM
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In both situations. There's rarely a girl who can blow me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 02:24 PM
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It's certainly easier when you feel about the same when having sex. Gays also don't have this problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 02:23 PM
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It was meant in an active/passive sense. If a woman starfishes, she isn't active. She doesn't contribute in that sense. Women would have a harder time getting off by just riding. I gave more head than I received. Also in some casual situations, but I'm more careful because of STDs.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 02:17 PM
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That's actually sad to hear, but good that your husband can do it. My ex-girlfriend could get orgasm but only if I penetrated her and she stimulated her clit at the same time. She was anxious and had a mental barrier when I was doing "nothing" PIV-like.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 02:12 PM
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I'm not trying to shift the burden of the duty of performance onto the woman. If you're "great" at sex then congratulations? I was saying its teamwork, that's why my first sentence was the following: Both are together. I don't want to be lazy. I just want to shift the burden of the duty of performance on both and not only the man. It's like saying "No one is responsible for your happiness, except for you.". The man is not responsible for the orgasm of the woman and she's not responsible for the …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 01:46 PM
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Serious question, but there are women that DON'T WANT to orgasm? I know there's about everything in this world, but I get the not caring, as a few have really problems to get off but not wanting?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 12:25 PM
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That's why it isn't your responsibility nor is it hers. You both can put the effort in but you don't have to. I just don't get girls not communicating what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 12:20 PM
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Everyone everywhere wants a person that just "gets it". If I get an apprentice I'd love it when he just gets it without instructions, but it's not realistic at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 12:15 PM
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Interesting. Do you have a link or something? I'm way too young for the 70s.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 12:11 PM
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I agree with your opinion in principle, but you need to start somewhere. You're in your 40s, I'm in my mid-twenties, where casual sex isn't really a thing and people are more occupied with their job. It's hard to get experience, that's why I said, that 98% of my sexual encounters were with girls from abroad. I'm all in for bringing the effort to make the other orgasm, but I still believe, that it's not the responsibility of the other in the core. You can, but you don't have to. You can compare i…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 12:09 PM
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None of them was really into fingering. They are were into clit stimulation but two of them couldn't go past that point when having sex. One girl could only cum when I penetrated her missionary while she stimulated her clit. I mean it works, but it's not the same when you bring her to orgasm. I think she had anxiety when I wasn't actively fucking her. To be fair.. I only had anxious/depressed girls till now or total normies not really into sex at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 12:04 PM
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As stated in another answer: But good sex is when both put in effort for the other. But it's not a responsibility per see. I say, that both should communicate what they like so the other can put the effort in for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 11:59 AM
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I honestly never had a girl orgasm by clit stimulation, as they always had a "mental barrier". They didn't understand themself why they didn't orgasm. It's weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 11:56 AM
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Great answer! I'm all with you. I once had a girl expecting the man to do everything and her not even communicating a single thing, as stated in another answer. That's the absolute no-go I'm speaking about. You can't be good at sex when there's no communication at all, except when you have enough experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 11:55 AM
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Absolutely right! It's not. But good sex is when both put in effort for the other. But it's not a responsibility per se.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 11:52 AM
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Why do so many people think I don't want to put the effort in? I'm all for it. I just hate those subgroup of women you mentioned in your last sentence.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 11:50 AM
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I don't. I'm all in for caring for your sexual partner. I blame a specific subgroup of women blaming men for not getting them off, while they don't give any energy back. I once had a girl who I asked if she would have sex with me earlier. And she said yes absolutely. I asked her why she didn't say anything and she said, that she never does and expects the man to do everything. That is the mindset I don't get. These are the women who don't communicate at all. Some men can get her off, but most wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 11:49 AM
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I don't disagree with you at all. I'm all in for trying it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 11:41 AM
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While sexual compatibility is huge, this is a hard way to handle it. If a woman is starfishing it's because she doesn't enjoy the sex. Not necessarily because she doesn't enjoy the sex, but because sex isn't important to her in general. The only people starfishing were normies in my experience. While I don't have much experience, all of them were vanillas.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 11:40 AM
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Sex should be fun and not a job. And while I'm with you that you need to learn it, it's still not the men's sole responsibility. As a prior poster said: "Women like men who just get it.". We all like people who just get it, in every possible way, but that's just not realistic. I don't disagree with you at all as you need to learn what she likes and she needs to learn what you like. But it's still not the men's sole responsibility. A woman will probably never find out how a man likes a BJ if he d…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 11:37 AM
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Our views don't clash as I have the same view. Added to this; the men who can get casual sex pretty easily don't have to care about a woman's orgasm as these women are disposable for them. These are the jerks. But a man willing to learn, but having casual sex once a year if even will be naturally worse because he lacks experience. It also has nothing to do with what I said, that both have to communicate. If both care, they still need to communicate.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 11:33 AM
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Being a solid 5 is not ugly! It's average. That's exactly why people nowadays don't know what's average because they think chad on Instagram or TikTok is your average boy. It fully depends on the context tho. Ugly women have it harder to find someone to build a relationship with, but still have it pretty easy to get casual sex. They still have it easier than men as you have to be a disgusting woman to not get male attention. I agree, that men can more easily increase their value (still hard work…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 09:58 AM
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Men tend to be really bad at casual sex and don't give women orgasms Why should the men getting casual sex care about giving a random woman an orgasm? It's casual sex à la ONS. It's not a good comparison but do you clean a toilet you use once while travelling? You don't go the extra mile for an "once" thing. Men are also not bad at casual sex, it's just that women vary a lot more in what they like and what not and have more arousal parts thus different preferences. Women standards in this regard…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 09:41 AM
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It could be a restaurant that's just a bit nicer than the chain ones and we both come in business-casuals. That'd be the worst-case scenario for me, as it's plain and boring. I have 9 hours a day where I need to be full business or business-casual as I'm in a big company and that's enough. I'm certainly in a position where I could shell out 100$ - 200$ occasionally, but I'd rather have a playful-youthful date with a person. I don't wanna see your formal partly staged side. I met someone like tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 02:50 PM
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This question strongly depends on the country their living in. Women have almost as many rights as men here and are even favoured by the state. Men getting rugged when they marry and divorce. Circumstances at work are almost the same. Women are generally just as respected here as men and have mostly the higher degree. I couldn't think of a benefit as a man here. Both have about the same circumstances if they work the same amount for a target.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 07:26 PM
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Russia is another breed. I saw a Russian couple with a child when I was in Italy for vacation. The sheer disrespect the man had for his wife. He was also drunk as hell because he had a bottle with 5 litres of fluid. It was Vodka if I'm right. He was also there with his friend. I was afraid for the kid. Ugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 07:18 PM
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I don't think tweaking my looks should automatically land me a girlfriend. I know by a fact that this isn't the reality. I just know that I appeal to a broader mass if I tweak my looks to a more "normal" look. I gravitate a lot towards the alternative scene and am most popular with people in there. The problem with the alt/grunge scene is, that it's a scene that gravitates a lot towards drugs. I don't do drugs other than alcohol which is why I gravitate more towards the metal scene while I'm not…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 01:35 PM
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For me it's not necessarily a turn-off. I know I'm not aggressive enough because I can have women as I described. I just don't see it if I have to carry everything when meeting someone. For him.. I honestly don't know. He's universally liked by a lot of women who would love to be in a relationship with him, but they are in a relationship themself. Everyone has turn-offs but they shouldn't cripple the chances completely. We both have fewer problems abroad. There's in fact a running gag about how …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 12:21 PM
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I had one serious partner and I'm not really sexual satisfied. I just find it rather hard to get casual sex and am more of a relationship type which I find also hard to get. I also think that I'm demi, but I'd like to have more. Just how and where
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 12:02 PM
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3 sex partner is an anomaly? I'm 25 for reference. I always saw it as a pretty normal number and was always astonished when someone said he has over 10 people. Like how? Especially when you're not into clubbing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 11:35 AM
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You didn't read my wall of text, am I right? I agree with you, that you can't use the same scale for men and women. I also agree that women react differently to images (looks) than men. I also know about the male and female gaze. You can however rate both, women and men on an objective scale, which includes looks, character, how they live and status. A woman with average looks, watching Netflix or getting drunk all day and having a 5to9 job doesn't deserve a man who is a 7 look-wise, is fit, has…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 11:29 AM
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The thing is that most women think they deserve better men than they really deserve. The sole reason a female 5 can have a male 7 is because of this paradox. Look, I don't look like your average Joe. I have a natural grunge look because of very bad undereye support (hereditary dark circles, bug eyes - take Cillian Murphy as a reference and mix him with Anton Yelchin). I do however have an insanely good jawline and cheekbones. I'm incredible popular with bi and gay men, but I'm sadly straight. I …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 09:09 AM
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The women I know have a lot of casual sex, at least in my terms of "a lot". If you have sex at least once a week it's a lot for me. Coming from someone who had 3 sex partners in all my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 08:23 AM
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I saw that you made a thread and I also saw that you twist everything so it aligns with your opinion. So I try to explain once only. First a few facts: Men find 50% of women attractive in some sense (a 5 is not particularly attractive nor ugly but still attractive enough to fuck) The opinion on what a woman thinks is HV in a man doesn't matter in this context. The opinion of women, in general, doesn't matter in this context An HVM isn't equal to a chad and I spoke about HVM in my prior answer, b…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 04:43 PM
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Do you find Vin Diesel and the rock ugly? There are hell of a lot handsome men with baldness.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 07:06 AM
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Would you rather get 10k$ instantly or work 2 months for it. Or wouldn't it be better to get 10k$ instantly and another 10k$ in 2 months? Sex is a human need. If you can get it instantly while also working for another 10k then why not take it? If she's average she's fine enough for sex. As long as the man isn't disgusted by her. If you have options wouldn't you take them? Most attractive women know that they're attractive thus the man needing more work for her. You never asked yourself why there…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 09:59 PM
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Bald != ugly. Stop it. It's not a guys fault for having DNA that leads to balding. Also, I use dating apps because most girls in my country are at home watching Netflix. How should you meet women if you live in a country where even getting matches on Dating apps is hard while simultaneously the whole of Mexico wants to date you. I get matches with really attractive women everywhere except for in my country, but it's the sole way to meet women, as people in general hate to get approached here or …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 09:43 PM
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As someone with depressioni and anxiety disorder I find it a bit misleading to label it as "unattractive" personality as it isn't unattractive per se, but more of a malfunction. There were also studies showing that mental ill people can be the most charming (see sociopaths). I know for a fact that I don't have an "unattractive" personality but social anxiety and thus rarely really a chat with women or people in general. But I'm kind of a switch. I can be social and get girls if I want, it's just…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 10:02 AM
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Engineers and beer. Nothing more the truth than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 01:30 PM
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My friends don't approve of my type but I don't care. I can't stand the "normie".
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 10:34 PM
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24M and started skincare two months ago. I use: Water-based Cleanser Toner Face Mask (2x / week) Eye cream moisturizer
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 09:24 PM
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Yes, I know. It was meant hypothetically. I'm not sure but I think I'm demisexual so I'll need to feel a connection either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 09:04 PM
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Sex still plays a huge part in finding out the compatibility. I won't wait 3 months only to find out we aren't sexually compatible. However, I will stay if we are sexually compatible and everything else also clicked. Edit: To be honest, I'd probably also wait 3 months for sex but not more if I really like her a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 09:03 PM
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Well, I live in a country where everything is pretty much high-class. You can probably guess which one. A coffee here can cost more than a meal in the neighbour country. I'd hate nothing more than having to pay 100% on a first date. It would be awkward if we don't click and also a waste of time/money. I couldn't go on a lot of dates like this without having to save on something else. It's a different story in other countries. It's sometimes cheaper to date a woman from the neighbour country even…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 08:56 PM
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If you really like someone it's totally fine. But if it's the first date, then it's almost a waste of money because the chances are high that there won't be a second time. But it's also depending on the type of the first date. I'd never go to a fancy restaurant with a girl I never met before. I'm fine with paying her a coffee or tea tho. It can be still more expensive than a full meal in another country depending on where you live.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 08:34 PM
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That's retarded. If you're interested in someone or even in a relationship then there should be no gender rules. The girls expecting this are the girls who are insanely interested in someone but won't approach him, cause it's his job. And maybe he didn't even notice her.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 08:31 PM
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While that might be true, I do want to have a shot now too. I'd have an insanely good jawline and cheekbones, but the bad eyes and the fair skin nullifies it in a way. Take Anton Yelchin and Cillian Murphy and morph them. Add some dark circles and you have me in a nutshell.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 12:32 PM
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I have hereditary dark circles tho, which is why it's always dark there. I had horrible dry skin before using the products. Still less success nowadays. I use Cleanser, Toner, eye cream, moisturizer and face masks. I'm even using special Shampoo and deep conditioners for hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 10:26 AM
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I do have a skincare routine and I have a fairly fair skin which means it's healthy tho. People still always say I look like I'm straight out of Twillight. It doesn't really help in dating. I had more success before I used all these products.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 10:22 AM
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I have a killer jawline + cheekbones but hella bad eye support and it translates so damn worse to photos. I'm not photogenic at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 12:16 AM
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It isn't nonsense. Women are in fact fundamentally the same beings, but their standards skyrocketed. Men's also did but a lot less. Social media did this to us. Most internet/edgy girls basically want the big dude with a curtain hairstyle while not everyone can pull it off. The popularity of this hairstyle is basically back in fashion when TikTok exploded. eGirls and eBoys are the new thing IN the internet. Again look on TikTok and Twitch. The other not so much internet people are still influenc…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 10:10 PM
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The label in terms of the sexual relationship of them but not outside of it. They were nowhere near partners outside. At the beginning not even anywhere near friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 10:23 PM
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I agree with the part about what men should learn/do. I'm one myself. But I don't agree with women looking interesting on those apps. There's actually a minority of women really looking interesting. The rest is are literally wannabe models, Instagram posers or stoners. You are not interesting if you pose like every other girl on Instagram. You are interesting if I have a picture of you playing chess for example. Most women don't have meaningful pictures. Sure they look pretty, but not interestin…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 10:16 PM
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when it comes to actual messaging, women shift their expectations only just slightly ahead of the curve, which is a healthier pattern than guys’ There is the first flaw. How many women really message first? I agree that a lot of those messaging first are rather grounded, but these are a minority on dating apps. The infamous study is also years old. The mentality shifted. I don't see girls messaging as often as they did in the pre-2010 to early 2010 period. There's even a newer study saying girls…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 10:11 PM
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I'd argue about it. My brother had an FWB for a whole 6 months before they decided they fell in love with each other. They also had an agreement to only fuck each other because of sexual health.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 09:04 PM
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That is an argument, but.. if friends are the same as a partner, but without the sex, then why not have an FWB instead? Not every FWB is monogamous, but a few people only have sex with one person until they have a gf/bf. Sexual health would be there without the whole responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 07:03 AM
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That's sad but each their own. I wouldn't have a relationship if I'd think like that tho. I'd just fuck girls or have FWBs because only intimacy wouldn't be enough to invest the energy in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 10:36 PM
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Some women think it's easy to do as they say. You can't go to the gym, focus on a 6-figure job and join a club. You won't have the time or energy for all that. Also, they assume that the man in the question would be extroverted and has leadership qualities. Not everyone can have what you say. Some people, no matter the gender, have a hard time with styling too. It isn't that easy. A lot of guys which do some of those things still have a hard time.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 10:28 PM
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TRP is not about being friends with women. It's about getting women for a relationship or getting laid. It's not hard being friends with a woman. Hell, I have a lot of female friends and also male friends. But I don't want any more. It's hard enough keeping up with all the other ones. Most dudes would have to befriend 20 women to maybe get a relationship and that's exhausting depending on what the women expect from you as a friend. Bi women know the struggle in finding a woman. I don't agree wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 10:12 PM
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I'm pretty much on the same side as /u/M3taBuster A relationship is a whole lot different than a friendship but with the addition of sex. I'll treat my girlfriend different than I treat my friends. I'll show more emotions and am generally more open than with friends. I will be affectionate with her but not with friends. I once heard that a relationship is really only a friendship + sex for women. But that's really depressing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 10:06 PM
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TRPs core concept is to accept reality. I'm not red piller, at least no yet, but as far as I know, it isn't about smashing, but about getting women. Not in the sense of getting laid, but also relationships. Those tactics you're speaking about are not the core of TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 10:02 PM
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It makes sense that someone having that "skill" is manipulative as you could describe social situations as "manipulation of the situation". But just as you said, it depends if you use it for good or evil. As an example, I have the skill to manipulate people due to an abusive mother. I used it once as a child to make someone feel worse than he should because I hated him for not taking me serious. But I'd feel bad to 'pressure' women into something tbh. These are also TRP strategies. I just don't …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 09:23 AM
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We simply don't care enough. I don't care if there's even a model when buying clothes. It could also be a mannequin for me, as both are near my body type. But I saw clothes on models looking worse than on me so it isn't really a scale for me. Also, being plus size isn't the norm here. People are generally rather healthy. Plus size models would give a wrong image. Also.. why should a model be competition for me? I know a lot of models look better than me and I can't do much against it. They're al…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 10:26 PM
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I once dated a women from the "low class", while I probably already blew past 90% of this sub. I just don't show it off. Maybe also the reason why it is still rather hard to get women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 08:07 AM
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The odds are stacked against me it seems. I'm Software Engineer and have cats. But seriously now; it depends. I would never change things such as hobbies, work or things like that, but I'd change things on my appearance depending on what it is. I'm currently more myself than ever. My style is alternative, but people generally say it fits me. I wear rings, necklaces and use black nail polish occasionally. I currently also let my hair grow since the start of the pandemic and while women always say…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 01:01 PM
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I don't find it attractive if a girl is "too perfect" and I find it rather boring. Pretty girls also have the thing in common, that a lot of them don't have a personality, so yeah pretty much.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 12:48 PM
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I mean the normal not influencer girl, because clearly not everyone who has 1000 follower is instantly influencer. Also most influencer can literally choose what to post. If you make money with thirst pics then don't be mad when others look at it. Women doing that while saying men are degenerates are literally the worst cause they couldn't live without those "degenerates". It's like manufacturer of plastic bags saying people who buy them are degenerates because they destroy the world. And the on…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 10:57 AM
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Say it louder!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 09:34 PM
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It's mostly women posting those pictures. I'm fine if you don't want this but you don't post pictures yourself. Absolutely fine. But a hard double standard if you post pictures while not wanting your boyfriend to look at pictures like these.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 09:30 PM
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There was a study saying that 50% of people have given up on dating. I also know a lot of men being frustrated with all the women thinking they are something better and don't even bother to respond with interest or at all. People are also hella judgy. I am groomed but I have hereditary dark circles. This doesn't make me a druggie and it doesn't make me low value. In the aspects of having a good job/money etc there're only the standard boring average looks missing. The more average you are, the m…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 08:34 PM
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The Instagram one is a huge double standard in today's society. If you don't want me to follow women on Instagram, I want you to do the same plus I want you not to post similar pictures. Like I do know some women being mad when men follow women who post rather revealing pictures but do the same themself. Why the hell are you mad when I see other women in lingerie but you post photos of you in lingerie online for everyone. Why the hell are you mad for me watching a woman do a special pose but you…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 08:25 PM
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This one is an important one
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 06:07 PM
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That's your experience then. I know a lot men who aren't trash. A lot men who would give everything for a woman. They aren't rich or supermodel looking tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 06:43 AM
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Well yeah, the top pictures are horrible. I have eyes like Cillian Murphy. Those rather buggy eyes which stare in your soul. They're not blue tho. But green.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 06:19 PM
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What's meth face like cause I have hereditary dark circles and they kinda give me the stoner/drug look
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 06:04 PM
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I'd love a relationship like that! I live in a little country in the heart of Europe. and I guess it would be also much better if people wouldn't be that reserved here, because getting physical can be a real challenge. I'm more of a relationship type person, but even that is hard here. I just started working out again and am working on myself for a long time now, so I think it will come eventually. I don't have an issue with the size per se and I also don't compare myself to a pornstar. It's mor…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 07:04 AM
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I also like a variety of positions and yeah thrusting is much worse than a gym workout when you're not used to it. That's a hoax of toxic masculinity. No man I've every met (and I met a shit ton) said they don't like being pursued. Also the saying with a woman being desperate when she's pursuing is a joke imho. I always liked being pursued. In fact my longest relationship started with a woman pursuing me in semi-passiv but obvious way. It's rather sad for me if you don't use your chance when you…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 10:26 PM
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The hot and crazy scale should been more of a meme initially but it's very spot on I guess. Borderline women really are something else. But you have to do really bad as woman to be considered below average expect when you're just unlucky (bone structure)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 10:17 PM
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I saw you're an ADHD + Asperger type of human? I have ADHD and other mental issues myself so we're a bit special anyway. Men pretty much message every woman or how do you explain bigger women having thousand of messages? Sure, the top is definitely more desired while the very top is intimidating to a lot, but the women getting the most messages are those in between 5-6 in the scale. So average and slightly above. Women between 8-10 got the least amount. That was also in the study mentioned above…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 10:14 PM
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The woman on top doesn't do a lot for me but I love the view and can play with her clit while she's riding. For the pursuing stuff it was pretty much always 50:50 for me. Women always showed interest in me in a very obvious way I got so I could approach her about that. With friendship it was almost always the woman approaching. I wouldn't describe myself as hot or handsome and the last time I had intercourse was a year ago after also 6 months without, but it always worked pretty much with that. …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 10:07 PM
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Women looks are highly debatable as men rate them in a bell curve. (OkCupid study about women finding 80% men below average). My type for example are women almost looking like 'crack hoes'. The billie eilish/grunge/emo style. These aren't considered attractive for most. Genes have an influence on personality. But how you grow up as an individual even more. I'm the first nerdy introverted guy in the family but neither my mother nor my father are. Genes actually contribute to mental illnesses. Twi…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 09:45 PM
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Personality varies a lot by how someones grows up and less by the genes. At least only to a part. I prefer small to medium boobs but big boobs are not a deal breaker if the rest clicks. Most men are big into personality as a lot of women on OLD don't seem to have one. Most people are also onto people with a healthy lifestyle. Only the idiots prefer big boobs before personality
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 09:14 PM
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I wish I would be this accepted in the real world as I often get seen as a druggie due to hereditary dark circles and thus have no chances of meeting those people. Thank you nevertheless! That put a smile on my face.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 08:53 PM
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I didn't wanna hurt you and I don't know you. I don't wish you bad just that you know. I'm just not agreeing with everything you think -> not wanting to change but wanting other to change. I'd love to give most people a positive and faithful mindset, but that's just impossible. The only thing I can do is surround myself with positive beings and if that won't work to change that it works. I've however no interest in hurting you. If you got it wrong then sorry. Don't take it personally. Have a goo…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 08:37 PM
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The people I hurt are mostly those wanting to slice up people or extremely arrogant people. I don't hurt people which have common sense and behave like a normal human being. I don't think people fear me as I'm a short leek with about no muscles. I have a rather intense face/eyes but that's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 08:26 PM
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People don't tell me this. Only some internet people on here or TikTok do. Mostly extrem leftis. People in real-life don't even tell me I'm a sadist expect for the closest of the closest friends. I'm not 'special'. I'm like every other guy. Well maybe I have a rather unique face but that's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 08:12 PM
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Men are told to be better than other women (hypergamy). But for me, it's mostly because I think I can't satisfy her. A lot of women already have absurd standards but I don't wanna think about it when she's in the upper class. With that said; I'd love to have an educated woman. Preferably educated in science or chemist as I'm a big nerd in those topics. But I'm an IT guy myself-
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 08:08 PM
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Most women can replace a man real fast and/or have a big social circle to deal with for example a breakup. Men however have a hard time getting women, thus fall incredible fast in love because they're so incredible sensitive due to not getting any love normally and have a hard time falling out of love. A lot of men also don't have a social circle to go to, when they're feeling down thus having unlimited time thinking about the person they lost. We're also makers and risk-takers. We often do thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 08:05 PM
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Not scary at all. I'm just a tad to honest most of the time. I say what I think. It's not like I actively torture other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 08:00 PM
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I guess both. I'm a bit of a sadist myself ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 07:59 PM
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Tall women have mostly sexy long legs. I wouldn't mind but I assume they want a tall man themself.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 07:56 PM
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Geez people are sensitive eh. I didn't mean literal crying. Crying in the sense of "other do things I don't like but I won't change myself to avoid those" type of crying. I don't even know if you're a woman or a gay men cause you seem to generalize men pretty hard in some comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 07:15 PM
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Somewhere in the whole thread. I don't know there are 708 comments. What I wanted to say was don't try to change others. Better change yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 07:08 PM
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I know there are. I had one, but she wasn't even from my country. These are very rare here.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 07:06 PM
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My size is so big it's actually an insecurity. I don't want to hurt them. If I every actively go for women I look that they're kinky. They're normally the only ones able to handle the size. It's always "I hope you never take the virginity of someone. She would be afraid for life"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 07:00 PM
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It's reversed for me. Gave more oral than I got. But most women can't handle my size so that's a reason. I got 30% oral and gave always.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 06:56 PM
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I heard from women that blowjobs turn them on so it brings them sexual pleasure, but indirectly. I also like eating women out but it won't give me direct sexual pleasure. Same with kissing and other non penetrating things. I also like when she grinds her pussy on my dick, which brings sexual pleasure for both. Blowjobs are okay. But most women can't handle my size. One woman gave me a decent blowjob in my whole life.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 06:53 PM
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I have pretty much the whole package and am pretty strong in hygiene. But I also got ADHD, depression and general anxiety disorder on top of it, which is why I have a hard time meeting women. Additionally, the mental illnesses aren't that noticeable once I'm comfortable with someone or better say they're not noticeable for most people at all. Outside of that, I'm pretty much worthy. The whole process is just too damn exhausting for me. I'm also very well endowed, that's why I'm not compatible wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 06:50 PM
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I don't want her to give me a blowjob if she doesn't enjoy it honestly. I'm not fine with that. I'm also not fine with it if she has pain which is sadly pretty common for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 06:45 PM
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I do know one person who got a good blowjob once in his life. It seems to be rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 06:43 PM
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He sounds like an idiot. I'd love a sexually active girlfriend who doesn't judge me and wants to have fun. But I also get that with how bad the desensitization is. I have it myself and try to get better again. But I also don't have an active sex life which is the cause for it. I'd love to have sex every other day and learn more things about the body of the woman. General anxiety disorder and a very reserved population won't allow that tho. It's hard/exhausting to even approach people for me but …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 06:40 PM
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But then it's your problem. If you don't want to change and chase the men which don't care about your pleasure then you have no reason to cry. It's like bigger people crying about being fat but doing nothing against it. A skinny body won't come to you. You have to earn it. Edit: I don't want to change 3.5 billion women. There are so many idiots but not all of them are.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 06:31 PM
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As long as there are different positions where both take the lead for a while I'm fine. When she only insists on having missionary then hell fucking no. In this case, I'll cum after max 10 minutes to stop cause it's too god damn exhausting being in that position for the whole time. I had a woman which didn't like doggy, cowgirl or similar positions. She only wanted to have missionary and it was pain.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 06:21 PM
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You can't change a whole 3.5~ billion people. Change your taste if you only get trash men
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 06:10 PM
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Again. Women know how clitoral stimulation feels. A man won't. As stated in the study women also vary in what's getting her off. You have to show him what gets you off. The study also shows that women get more off the more attractive the man, so they have much higher standards in the head. And again. Men can get off by about literally anything. Women can't. A lot of men also lose all their sexual desire after cumming, while some are even disgusted. Again women don't. As women are more compöicate…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 04:42 PM
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The wrong man then. I also had only 30% of women giving me head while I always gave head. Wrong women too.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 04:22 PM
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You just confirmed what I said. A functional man can get off by about literally everything. A woman can't. It's also only logical that a woman knows better what another woman wants as she knows how she feels. How I said in my former comment. I don't know a single woman getting a friend of mine off with head. And he slept with over 25 women. Also, there's a difference between a man being horny and women being horny. A lot of men lose interest real fast when there's nothing stimulating in terms of…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 04:13 PM
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Both genders shouldn't give oral when having ONS honestly. The risk for getting STDs is insane amounts higher. Also, I gave oral once when I had an ONS. I gave more oral in my whole life than I received. I also had an ex not doing anything so I logically gave more in my life till now.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 04:01 PM
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I have one single question. Are you using your hand / a toy next to the penetrating? If not, then why not? Women have it harder to get off because they're more in the head. Getting men off is like rubbing a genie lamp. But I had a partner who used her hand and later a toy and had a 100% off rate with that. Also when men get horny it's like a burst of light which is also away in a burst while for women it's like a candle slowly burning and also slowly lose the flame.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 03:54 PM
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I think that's not what he's trying to say. It's easier for men to reach orgasm without the women doing anything at all. You seldom hear about women being bad in bed and not getting the men to orgasm. It's 90% the man getting hate for no getting her off. Men are more physical while women are more in the head. Most men could even get off to someone he doesn't find attractive as long as he can hold a boner. Women not so much. I have a girth in the top 1% so most women can't give me head ever but I…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 03:41 PM
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Because while I go for rather "crazy" ones I still rationalize who is good and who is bad for an LTR. I know I can't change people as a lot of women seem to try with assholes. I can sing you a song about women being with assholes for a short period and then being brutally dumped. I predicted every single one of these because there were so damn clear indicators. There's really nothing exciting about being mentally abused. So then how do you not understand the answer to your own question? As I sai…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 11:25 AM
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I get that. I was totally neglected by my mother. Last time I had something to do with her was 8 years ago. Now I'm depressed, have general anxiety disorder and ADHD on top of it. I'm still more rational/logical. Maybe because I'm a software engineer. I try to not except the same from others, as most people are more emotional. But I surround myself with logical people that's why I never had a drama in my close friend group.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 10:02 AM
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Did that. Been there. I'm generally attracted to crazy people as I'm mentally not completely healthy myself. They're also more interesting than the "normal" person out there. But I prefer the crazy ones with a tad of rationality which won't slice you up if you do something wrong. The ones working on their mental issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 09:57 AM
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I get it the way you describing but there were also women saying that when the guys weren't even nearly that 'nice', but kind as a lot say. I agree, being a doormat is annoying. I got a friend like this and he has no personality honestly. He's only agreeing and it freaks me out. But I mean the genuinely nice people which are not abusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 10:27 PM
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There's still no reason to want someone who's abusing you. If you still want someone like this then you're broken as a person. But again.. I don't find most of these guys intimidating at all. Just plain stupid. People said I look intimidating sometimes and some even were afraid I want to kill them or mentally abuse them till they spoke a bit more with me. I can make people uncomfortable as hell when I'm looking them in the eyes due to piercing eyes. And I'm a skinny shorty. People make no sense.…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 10:23 PM
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Pretty much! I already talked about it with a professional, but I stopped because there were other people having more problems and I could/can pretty much deal with mine. I also didn't want to take "Escitalopram" to lower the anxiety symptoms. I'm still thinking about going again tho, as money was never a problem. The anxiety is also not nearly as bad when I *clicked" with the other person but it seems to be hard these days finding people like this. I don't really have much success in my reserve…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 09:42 PM
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No. That's why I said "a lot" or "some". A lot of women have heavy insecurities, not all. If you're not one of them then good for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 09:18 PM
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It still makes no sense. I get it with the looking intimidating, but you're not really protected when he's the one making damage. Like I stated in the original question she said she's attracted "When he treats me like shit". That's not protecting imo. That's just these type of women being broken.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 09:02 PM
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Can't give you an example of a real-life thing. Also, people are throwing slangs around like crazy nowadays. I'm also not a native in english.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 08:56 PM
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I don't speak about nice guys in the sense of 'nice guys' but really genuine nice guys. Not guys putting women on a pedestal. But nevertheless, the book could be interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 08:49 PM
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By "toxic" I mean when he doesn't give a fuck about her and gives her love like some sort of goodie like a pet so she stays.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 08:44 PM
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I stopped putting people on a pedestal when I had my first relationship. It's nothing like that. I was called "too open" but never "too nice". It's sometimes even hard for me to not forget people even if I like them because being socially active is so insanely exhausting for me. I don't give out too many compliments. I'm still interested in why this is even a thing and I meant it in a not obsessive way. It's also mostly the girl being clingy in the end, but I can't generalize that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 08:39 PM
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I do get dates, but not as often as it sounds in your answer. I also live at a location where people are insanely reserved so it is even more difficult. Women are off-put by my looks as some say I could model, while others say I look like a druggie (hereditary dark circles). I have an insanely good face structure (sharp jawline, rather angular, face shape between inverted triangle and diamond) with equally insanely bad eye posture and sadly not hunter eyes. I'm pretty much either very hot (for s…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 08:35 PM
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Got it all wrong lmao. I meant women in their twenties. TIL: Some people use tween to describe those but it isn't the official term.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 07:57 PM
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A tween is a human between 20-29. They represent pretty much the youth of the women. Got it all wrong lmao. I meant women in their twenties. TIL: Some people use tween to describe those but it isn't the official term.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 07:51 PM
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I intimidate other people cause of my looks as I heard but I'm rather shy while apparently having an insanely edgy but sometimes dangerously stoner type vibe. A guy once was afraid that I wanted to kill him at a time when he didn't know me. He was much bigger and more trained than me. Lots of people were afraid I would brutally destroy them mentally at work cause I seem to be competent in their eyes. I'm a skinny introverted leek. I also have rather special looks due to hereditary dark circles. …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 07:31 PM
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