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7

Shouldn’t let that sort of thing define you, pal. It gets easier once you get it out the way, so find someone acquiescence to that.
/r/askTRP03/03/19 06:00 PM
3

A lot of women can’t make that happen for themselves. Don’t think you’re obligated to do so without as much of a guise of instruction.
/r/askTRP19/09/18 03:02 AM
3

It marks a deeper grave you’re voluntarily digging. If you’re willing to be headstrong about blatant impulse, then I’ll comment no further.
/r/askTRP05/08/18 12:39 PM
7

Have a wank. Is this really going to make you feel as good as you think it will? Snap out of it.
/r/askTRP05/08/18 12:34 PM
2

You sound needy. Go through with Sunday and show her who’s boss. If nothing comes of it, come off of it.
/r/askTRP05/08/18 12:28 PM
0

He sounds like a cunt. You’re likely full of anger, replete with the fantasy of never having to see him ever again. Start boxing classes ASAP and just be tolerant of living under his roof until then — the boxing will be your personal therapy.
/r/askTRP28/07/18 01:21 AM
1

Cold showers.
/r/askTRP26/07/18 01:04 AM
1

They’re people too. And like you, they have their own autonomous emotional needs. Nexting a side-piece for sleeping with somebody else shows a dented mental fragility. You should be fine with the prospect of someone non-exclusive with you sleeping with somebody else. You don’t owe each other that sort of loyalty if all you have between you is sharing your cummies.
/r/askTRP26/07/18 12:56 AM
2

An identity crisis.
/r/askTRP17/07/18 02:52 PM
15

It’s not wise to chase someone who isn’t currently in your purview. Seems like it’s dwindling. Don’t force anything.
/r/askTRP17/07/18 02:51 PM
7

Best answer here. You want the male imperative in society to crash beneath itself because it gets you more pussy? You’re honestly pathetic.
/r/askTRP17/07/18 02:46 PM
2

I’m sorry. You’ll work your way out soon.
/r/askTRP15/07/18 09:39 AM
1

You’ll live.
/r/askTRP15/07/18 05:49 AM
2

I’d recommend doing a Big 5/MBTI personality test to find out who you really are (www.personalitymax.com and any Big Five assessment is ideal). Take note of the results. What this does is give OP a starting point on how to develop his personality. Two things should then be done: Personality Integration Balancing What an inconsistency in personality does is drain you of energy — it’s like an introvert being the life of the party in the club; its counterproductive and cognitively unfit for purpose…
/r/askTRP15/07/18 05:46 AM
1

You’re inconsistent within yourself.
/r/askTRP15/07/18 04:28 AM
2

repeat repeat repeat repeat. beat the knowledge into your head, and try again.
/r/askTRP06/07/18 01:58 AM
0

It’s a fake video. They’re dating.
/r/askTRP05/07/18 03:52 PM
1

Not for relationships.
/r/askTRP05/07/18 03:51 PM
5

I don’t think a lot of this subreddit truly understands how fragile girls are emotionally. Assuming you’ve consumed the sidebar, if you’ve the power to have a girl densely within the palm of your hands, there should (assuming you’re not a complete piece of shit) be a level of responsibility with maintaining a balance. This woman chose you. You have the power to shift her moods with your every actions accordingly; that of which comes with potentially mutually assured destruction. Don’t be cocky a…
/r/askTRP04/07/18 07:46 PM
1

Live and speak your truth. People respect a genuine authenticity in a world where there isn’t any. What’s something unique about you?
/r/askTRP04/07/18 07:24 PM
4

That’s to be earned, not found.
/r/askTRP01/07/18 01:21 AM
1

I’m still unsure by what you mean. While you’re not incorrect, your scenario is too microcosmic and niche for it to ever cascade as a general ‘objective’ truth. What if your girl liked unibrows and said the same thing because you shaved it?
/r/askTRP30/06/18 08:00 PM
7

You sound like you’re still young. Lead by example and the best will come to you, especially in a time of a lack of individuation.
/r/askTRP30/06/18 07:58 PM
1

You’re incorrect. You’re denying yourself too much personal autonomy to be granting a statement so much importance. It’s literally banter. If you know you’re performing your role in creating and maximising value, what objective truth could there possibly be to unsettle you?
/r/askTRP30/06/18 07:24 PM
30

Somebody that compliments your personality. Getting past the generic, worldly requirements, what you need to look for is somebody that understands the male imperative. A girl like this understands that ‘boys will be boys’, doing her best to supplement your life while you enrich hers. What you need to completely avoid is anything compromising that — including thots, brazen feminists and broken-home females.
/r/askTRP30/06/18 07:08 PM
2

Your situation is not something that warrants full disclosure. I’d tell a woman only if you’ve growing to see her as a worthy partner, but prior to anything serious.
/r/askTRP30/06/18 07:04 PM
5

Cheating is amoral No. Don’t get into a pronounced monogamous relationship if you know one woman isn’t enough to satisfy you. Don’t rationalise his nonsense.
/r/askTRP30/06/18 05:10 PM
7

You don’t love your woman as much as you think you do. If girls ‘putting it on you’ is enough for you to remit on your relationship, then you’re not built for one.
/r/askTRP30/06/18 01:48 PM
2

Yeah — she kissed you, after all. Actions > words, my friend
/r/askTRP16/06/18 01:09 PM
1

The flirtation between you and that woman. They ruined it by running their mouth.
/r/askTRP16/06/18 12:58 PM
1

Some damn friend you’ve got. They spoilt the private game.
/r/askTRP16/06/18 03:24 AM
1

She sounds inexperienced. I’m half–talking from recent experience, but I believe she has it in her head she doesn’t want to be seen as easy. Assuming you’ve engaged with her competently and made your intentions clear, she could just not be ready — the same way a virgin I met recently wasn’t for me (a lot of overthinking on her part meant nothing came of this). You can bed her without a relationship; just continue building a deep rapport without being too lost in your own sauce over her.
/r/askTRP16/06/18 03:18 AM
1

Yes. Just keep your head busy otherwise.
/r/askTRP09/06/18 09:16 PM
0

Yes, but I’m interpreting the causality of her resentment differently. She’s forcing an artificial connection with somebody she claims to love, but cannot socially fathom to be her superior. That’s as much a short-sighted emotional examination than it is a case of hypergamy.
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/18 03:31 PM
11

You don’t sound like you’re attracted to him, let alone possess any sort of respect; do yourselves both a favour and cut this loose. I don’t imagine you’ll reconcile this emotional blockade with the justification of ‘hypergamy’ — in your case, it’s situationally untrue. So, do the right thing and talk about wanting to let this thing go.
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/18 12:45 PM
1

Tell her, she deserves the truth. And tell her in person.
/r/askTRP31/05/18 03:05 PM
4

Lead him to resources for health, but let him heal himself. You seem to do that greatly, though — which is why he loves you so much.
/r/RedPillWomen27/05/18 04:34 AM
5

Love is acknowledging this one man isn’t your complete ideal — this sensation you’re feeling may not last forever, but that’s fine. You’ll reach a point in the development of the relationship where you may be taken aback by something you didn’t realise about him before, and that he’s not as perfect as you think he is. We know this when people say “Why are you acting like that?”, or “You always did X for me, now you don’t!”. This isn’t an argument for a cynical approach — they’re not the same thi…
/r/RedPillWomen27/05/18 04:31 AM
1

He’s not the man he should be because the psychologist woman makes more than him? no. there’s a predicate set in the unconscious value of both individuals which would explain her behaviour. it’s not a bad thing to ‘push’ your partner to be better, unless they’re at the full extent of their capabilities. NEVER let external factors determine your self worth true, but in this context it’s a false dichotomy. any relationship you commit to is a significant part of your own life — it’s not an external…
/r/askTRP21/05/18 12:28 AM
2

it’s mind-numbingly PC. oftentimes you can’t afford to just “be yourself”, unless you’ve a good penchant for charm and social skills. otherwise, you’ll have a rough time outlining yourself properly.
/r/askTRP20/05/18 01:38 PM
1

start by making this less about her and more about you... as the Cindi Lauper interpolation goes, this hipster chick just wants to have fun. one way to dampen it is to squabble internally over what food you want to buy – man up! you’re a man of value going out with a prospective young lady, so you need to show her what you’re made of, rather than tell her. (also, take it easy on the post-movie dinner date; you’re not a couple.) I would suggest writing a plan down of how you will structure the da…
/r/askTRP20/05/18 01:35 PM
1

within context; yes.
/r/askTRP20/05/18 01:01 PM
1

you didn’t buckle like a milquetoast fool while talking about yourself. opening up to someone isn’t beta — but losing grip on your emotions over the past, is. this girl seems like she’s down for you, so do what you think is right.
/r/askTRP20/05/18 12:59 PM
1

that’s largely contingent on drug use though. if he’s going to learn properly, it’s better he do it under no influences at all.
/r/askTRP20/05/18 12:54 PM
1

learn to catch the beat. you should try dancing in your own private quarters for recreation, you’ll feel and calibrate your moves better
/r/askTRP20/05/18 12:52 PM
14

hold up, she earns more than you as a psychologist and wants you to work harder for yourself as you mention? I’m gonna be that guy — this isn’t grounds for separation as much as it is your own inadequacy showing through. despite her raging hot feminism, unless I have more context I’m acquiescence to the idea that you’re not being the man you should be in your dynamic.
/r/askTRP20/05/18 12:48 PM
3

You're asking for mutually assured destruction. You live in the same declining society as all of us — acquiescence to the very same counterculture that can revivify it, as all of us. As sad and emotionally sordid as the decline is, such things will come to pass once these aimless men and women realise themselves. I'd rather set a positive example of such than play devil's advocate just to prove a point.
/r/askTRP16/05/18 03:30 PM
2

She sounds like she's into condescending sex talk. Playing such a fantasy to its fullest extent means you need to be rough with her, also. She wouldn't have sex with you if she didn't think sexually fondly of you. Buck up and show her who's boss.
/r/askTRP15/05/18 06:29 PM
1

you're not as adequate as you could be. you understand this better than anybody else. tolerating yourself means you can withstand and harness the strength to change the flaws that hold you back. intolerance of oneself builds out of a personal lack of acceptance. essentially, learning to accept that you're an imperfect being with (a lot of) flaws means you can tolerate anything criticised and torn down about you. it's one of the most important subsets to building frame.
/r/askTRP13/05/18 03:33 PM
9

such things start within the ego. once you learn to tolerate yourself properly, things become so much easier you wouldn't believe it
/r/askTRP12/05/18 04:26 PM
2

Talk to more people — with curious intent. The world is a massive adventure waiting to be explored. Don't be the kid sitting at home; watching the world go by through his window.
/r/askTRP11/05/18 04:56 AM
0

You associated yourself with trash, because — honestly and truly speaking, your life was resembling of theirs. It's water finding it's level. Now you're out of that place, you have to recalibrate your sexual selection. The reason you feel "far less interesting" is because your fundamental values are less conducive to drug use than previously. It just means you have to buck up and fill the void with things that're meaningful, and productive. Best of luck.
/r/askTRP10/05/18 07:50 PM
8

Among other things, one thing I do on my off-time, or when I'm just bored with my Kobo is read. Read voraciously on anything and everything. The most interesting people I've ever met in my 20 years are people who see the world in ways that the masses never could. They got this way by becoming curious about everything.
/r/askTRP09/05/18 06:29 PM
1

"Be your best self".
/r/askTRP06/05/18 10:14 PM
1

Lead by example
/r/askTRP06/05/18 10:13 PM
10

You taking her to a restaurant to eat when you've already eaten is the elephant in the room here
/r/askTRP06/05/18 06:06 PM
18

Bounce from your wife, bro
/r/askTRP05/05/18 06:13 PM
1

That's my point. Cutting yourself deeper, over and over again with every failed relationship on the quasi-random basis of your "feelings" is a sign you need to stop going off of what feels right in the moment. This same girl doesn't seem to know that, yet I feel bad for her because of a lot of variates that made her this vapid mess.
/r/askTRP05/05/18 01:36 PM
1

It's happened to the best of people. After I broke up with my girlfriend in February, a girl I talked to on and off told me she had feelings for me (even when she was with her ex - major red flag I missed). After considering the variables, I decided to go through with it. But after one mistake (which was a misunderstanding), her attraction 'dropped' and she's spontaneously head over heels over a new man overseas two weeks later. I was hurt, but people like that aren't normal to me. Making so man…
/r/askTRP05/05/18 01:14 PM
-1

It just becomes meaningless after a while. Do you really want to be chasing tail until you're dead?
/r/askTRP05/05/18 01:08 PM
26

Quite the unexpected twist
/r/askTRP04/05/18 11:58 AM
6

21 Savage - First Night
/r/askTRP03/05/18 01:52 PM
1

No, what
/r/askTRP03/05/18 01:50 PM
1

Tell the unvarnished truth. Otherwise, you don't seem like you're putting yourself out there as much as you could be.
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/18 03:36 AM
2

You sound as if a lot of the men you date are beneath you - I'll tell you now that's the easiest way to stay single, even with the elite men 'above' you as well. Date guys you actually admire and respect. You place a lot of stock on your self-improvement as a means of value, but nurture is nothing without a characteristic nature to enhance it - therein lies your problem. Your 'self-actualized' femininity isn't natural.
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/18 02:04 PM
8

A girl you're fucking that doesn't fuck back.
/r/askTRP30/04/18 10:39 PM
2

What redpilledprince said. Also, just keep your mind busy. If you have to, maintain company in your male (and ideally single) social circles. It'll help ease your thoughts off of her.
/r/askTRP22/04/18 11:56 PM
9

You're a great storyteller. I'm like you; not the best looking, wishy-washy friendship circles in University, and women are still foreign to me. The best thing to do right now is keep walking in this general direction. Hell, all of us are walking with you.
/r/askTRP22/04/18 11:54 PM
3

Deceives.
/r/askTRP22/04/18 06:10 PM
31

A lot of men want to go back after discovering these truths, but it's what you do with the truth that determines your own life. Predicating everything on the fantasy of perfection will only bring you further into entropy and destroy you. Nobody does everything perfectly on their first time. Also, stay off of TRP for a while. Read great books. I think the community is triggering a dissonance in your mind about how you should conduct yourself.
/r/askTRP22/04/18 11:29 AM
1

You're instantiating yourself in his life too forcefully, and I believe that's symptomatic of what's happened in your past. Stop making it about you. I wouldn't tolerate somebody prying for my time when I'm under a lot of pressure, especially when that pressure is the outlook of my own future. Ease up, relax and ask him what it is he'd want from you as support, because you've been selfish in regards to his priorities.
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/18 10:57 PM
2

They thought you were cute. That's it.
/r/askTRP18/04/18 04:48 PM
5

"If you're going through hell, keep walking."
/r/askTRP14/04/18 02:09 AM
1

You're incongruous. You've not completely aligned your being with this mental self-image. We know this since you second guess the basest of your own decisions, which destabilises you. To solve it, you'd need to dig deep and find what it is that you truly are.
/r/askTRP14/04/18 01:57 AM
1

Truth hurts.
/r/askTRP12/04/18 08:10 PM
2

Build friendships with high flying males in college. They'll be such a bright influence in your life you'll go on a positive feedback loop. Then, the women come easy.
/r/askTRP10/04/18 12:51 AM
3

Precisely. Become a man of interest, and interest shall follow.
/r/askTRP09/04/18 12:06 AM
16

Entertain yourself. You're asking advice on how to adopt a new social archetype, yet you do nothing in your own life to cultivate it. Whether it's from a book, a movie or even anything in current culture, think about what it is that makes for an entertainer. They could be brash and animated, like Charlie Chaplin, or liquid and savvy like Rubirosa. There's no one method to envisage entertainment, but in your case... Your temperament and speech strike me as Jon Hamm's Don Draper. Or Brando's Corle…
/r/askTRP08/04/18 10:49 PM
6

They're all the same creature, just packaged differently. Keep the bachelor lifestyle. But for some, the same routine eventually gets boring.
/r/askTRP08/04/18 06:49 PM
2

This is beautifully written. I'm happy for you, fellow stranger.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/18 01:54 AM
10

Nobody spends 6 hours in the gym. For the OP of this thread to suggest that physical and mental developments are mutually exclusive is beyond asinine.
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/18 04:00 PM
7

six packs tend to mean a man has spent less time cultivating himself intellectually ..pardon?
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/18 07:33 AM
2

Then the bitch had it coming.
/r/askTRP29/03/18 06:33 PM
5

If a woman swings at you, you grab her wrists and pin them. You subtly exert a lot of power on them. They acknowledge they're weaker than you, and, granted they're smart about their humility, will eventually snap out of it.
/r/askTRP29/03/18 01:09 PM
2

Cut your ties. Worry about stemming the bleeding later.
/r/askTRP26/03/18 12:52 AM
3

Sure. If you've got a good group of male friends, set a night out to pull so you can run some game.
/r/askTRP25/03/18 05:17 PM
11

You got nerves. You've felt the upper echelon of feminine beauty in your 10, now you can't get it out of your head. That happens to some of the best of men. What I recommend is actively exposing yourself to more 10s, so you realise how very commonplace they are. You don't believe it now, but get those legs moving and you'll see.
/r/askTRP25/03/18 04:21 PM
1

The best and biggest realisation I had about the Bible is how true all of it is. You'd say "none of the Bible's events are of real life", but that couldn't be further from the point. The substrate of the events themselves are the truths being told. But, calling the book nonsense altogether seems to be less mentally taxing.
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