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If she brings nothing to the table except all the negatives, why bother trying to fix her? If I have a car that breaks down constantly, I wouldn't keep spending money and effort on it.
/r/askMRP09/10/24 02:24 PM
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For what it is worth, here’s my story. My dad went through this with my mom when I was 9 or so. Until I was 20, I was brainwashed to believe my mom was the perfect innocent victim and my dad was the evil villain. Through several big and small life events, I started to see the truth behind the curtain. A couple of decades later, I’ve got a fantastic relationship with my pops. He is my most trusted advisor and the first person I go to when shit really hits the fan.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/10/24 12:26 PM
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Let go of what you can’t control.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/09/22 03:12 AM
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You respond because you care about her opinion of you. You are valuing her current feelings too much. Would you care if a random 4 year old in the store came up and called you a poo poo face? No… you would laugh about it and move on. That’s DNGAF and frame in a very simple example. It’s a toddler and it’s worldview cannot rattle yours. If your wife is a bitch, then find a way to develop a mental fortitude that is strong enough to react (or not) to her as you would the 4 year old in the store. No…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/09/22 02:55 AM
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The difficulty is irrelevant. Just do it. That’s like saying “it’s hard to make time to go to the gym and eat clean.” It is hard and that is why obesity is an epidemic. Do it anyway. Do you react to a toddler at the store who sticks his tongue out at you? Of course not. Think about it… you ignore bad behavior all the time. So it’s not that you can’t ignore it - it’s that you won’t ignore from the person in question (your wife). Figure out why you can’t ignore bad behavior from HER. Hint: it’s pr…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/09/22 07:18 PM
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You are putting a lot of time and effort into responding here. You do you.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/09/22 01:27 AM
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If you call being aware of the boys in my daughters social circle as gossip, then you are just a shitty dad.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/09/22 05:11 PM
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That’s where you need to go. Because your frame is still a covert contract. What do I need to do so that my wife will… Kill that line of thinking. Kill it with fire. Focus only on what you can control. Do the best you can on those things. Then, if the stuff out of your control is awesome, then it’s an added bonus. If the stuff out of your control sucks, at least the stuff under your control is taken care of.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/22 11:30 AM
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How are you doing so far at controlling her?
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/22 05:27 AM
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Think about it this way. A kid comes up to you in the store and acts like a toddler. You would hopefully just walk away because it’s not worth your time and you can’t control them. If your wife is treating you poorly, don’t give her more power by asking her to stop. Just walk away. Go do something better with your time. Either she will learn to treat you better or she won’t. Either way, you will be off doing something better which is a lot more productive than complaining to someone who won’t li…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/09/22 11:06 PM
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How would you act if a toddler spoke to you that way?
/r/MarriedRedPill09/09/22 10:51 PM
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The guys who need this post can’t communicate properly. That’s the problem. They need to disengage and fix themselves before relearning how to communicate. If baby steps and incremental changes worked for them, they wouldn’t be here in the first place.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/09/22 04:40 PM
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I smell curry
/r/askMRP04/09/22 10:25 PM
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You miss the point. Again. Your post history proves what your comments here suggest. You are weak and unwilling to recognize why. That makes you a waste of my time. You think I commented for you. I didn’t. I commented so the idiot noobs who read this recognize you for the fool and weakling you are. You will be banned soon.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/08/22 03:49 AM
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I did. You are weak.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/08/22 03:30 AM
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You posted a pic of yourself on the AmIHot sub and then asked what the proper exchange rate was for BJs to back rubs. Get your testosterone checked.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/08/22 03:08 AM
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The only man who should even consider a relationship is the man who doesn’t need one and is already living an awesome life.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/08/22 01:16 PM
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Go on to as many girls as you want. You will be miserable with all of them because they will all have one common denominator: you. Fix you first.
/r/askMRP19/08/22 01:15 PM
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This relationship is not the problem. You and your views on relationships are the problem. The only man who should even consider a relationship is the man who doesn’t need one.
/r/askMRP19/08/22 01:13 PM
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Can what be saved? That’s your whole fucking problem. Re “I wasn’t a true RP…” What does that even mean? You didn’t get inducted into the Brotherhood? Didn’t get your badge in the mail? Didn’t get the tattoo next to your butthole that says “Certified Manly Man”? Your mental models are completely fucked up.
/r/askMRP17/08/22 02:19 PM
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Write out your wildest, biggest goals that you could possibly, maybe, with huge amounts of luck, be able to achieve in year. Then make a plan to get that shit done in 3 months. Rinse and repeat.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/08/22 05:33 PM
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Agreed and side note: even if he is chasing aesthetics, he should still use your approach. Numbers are real. Go for hydrostatic BF%. Bicep size. Waist size. Etc.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/08/22 08:34 PM
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If you start the year with $100 and have $100 at the end of the year, you’ve actually lost money because of inflation. You need to see time the same way. Sure, you made a tiny amount of “progress” this year but did you make enough progress to justify the fact that it took a year? Here’s an example. If a 300lb dude starts working out but mainly fucks around, has he really made progress if he weighs 295lb at the end of the year? That’s you. Work faster.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/08/22 03:27 PM
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Good thing your boss is an idiot and would never see it coming.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/08/22 08:12 PM
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OP, here's a story to consider. Suppose you have worked at a small business for 10-15 years. The pay and benefits are just decent but it's stable and that's extremely important to you. You do think sometimes though about taking a risk to get a more exciting, high-paying job. The owner is a loser who slacks off constantly, leaving you to handle all the serious stuff such as the financials and the most important clients. At first, it bothered you that he didn't help but now you don't care because …
/r/askMRP12/08/22 01:32 PM
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Don’t you have better shit to do than worry about this? No? That’s the problem.
/r/askMRP12/08/22 02:08 AM
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You sound like a pretty shitty person who is married to another shitty person. Finalize the divorce. Stay in AA. Get some type of financial training such as Financial Peace University. Do some deep MAP work and soul searching to find out why you are such a fuckup. Lift. Get hobbies that consistently put you around dudes who have their shit together. Post in OYS weekly. The only thing that makes me think you have even the slightest chance to not be a total waste of a human is your AA commitment.
/r/askMRP06/08/22 12:09 AM
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To quote Tom Segura, some people suck.
/r/askMRP05/08/22 11:03 AM
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“I make minimum wage and my wife has always made more than me.” You are pathetic.
/r/askMRP05/08/22 02:41 AM
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Most of your post is about your wife and how she treated you. Think about that for a while.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/08/22 05:28 PM
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Why are you arguing with a guy whose life is 10x better than yours about how to fix one of the primary reasons your life is so shitty?
/r/MarriedRedPill04/08/22 03:46 AM
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