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men are very much capable of hating women they find attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 08:27 PM
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lol, side chick. men will not marry a slut, but they will ruin their marriage for one
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 08:26 PM
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men call women they don’t like “cum dumpsters” “cum rags” or whatever the fuck they can add to the word cum, say that sluts are disgusting objects who are beneath them
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 08:22 PM
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this is the point of my post, why all the hatred towards a woman you don’t even know
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 08:20 PM
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only for women though, men are the ones who primarily complain about the existence of sluts the most, but you are the reason they exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 08:19 PM
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actions stem from thoughts.. notice how the things i mentioned in my post are both actions
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 08:11 PM
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and men keep paying them to do it. men complain about the existence of both regular and professional sluts, yet don’t do jack shit about their own behaviour. you guys expect women to care about your own standards more than you yourselves do
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 08:09 PM
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is being seen as less than human not harmful? especially on a wide scale?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 07:59 PM
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if this was true, calling someone a slut wouldn’t be an insult
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 07:57 PM
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you also pay them .. then complain about their existence..
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 07:56 PM
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my afghan example is just an extreme example of the rhetoric that all men follow, which is that male promiscuity is okay but women’s isn’t
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 07:55 PM
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and this is what causes men to call women they don’t even know slurs ?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 07:53 PM
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so when men call some random woman they don’t know a cum dumpster or whatever the fuck it’s not because he hate sluts but because he’s trying to virtue signal to women, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 07:50 PM
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if this is the only reason, why don’t men also shame male sluts?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 07:47 PM
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the main part that’s hypocritical is men being hateful towards sex workers but also paying for them to continue working
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 07:44 PM
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if you think that’s sexist, you should see what men on this sub say about women
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 07:42 PM
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because they use slurs towards them and in the most extreme examples they kill them.. like i said in my post..
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 05:44 PM
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at least womens standards are more consistent than mens, men act like they are the simple, easy to understand and please gender. they always act like they speak for everybody.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 05:39 PM
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women don’t hate virgins, men hate being virgins. that’s why women use it as an insult. women don’t hate being promiscuous, men hate promiscuous women. not all insults are based on the same thing. nobody cares if someone else is broke but people use broke as an insult compared to why people use the n word
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 05:32 PM
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lol, do you have this much of a problem with men who admit that they’d fuck any woman who would say yes?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 05:27 PM
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how so? it’s possible for women to have complete agency in sexual choices, but female promiscuity wouldn’t exist if men didn’t allow it to. it works vise versa and every other way.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 04:33 PM
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being a virgin, short and having a small wiener are negative for you personally. depending on how it affects you. nobody else really gives a fuck if you are those things. being promiscuous by itself isn’t negative for a woman, it’s only used as an insult because society sees it that way. i am still not talking about dating. men insult women they don’t even know for being sluts what are the direct comparisons to slurs for men? my only point in bringing up the n word is that it’s a slur based on t…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 04:20 PM
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viewing someone as disgusting but also an object for you to play with sounds pretty hateful to me either way, what’s the point of differentiating? do you think that admitting you are hateful would make you less credible?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 04:13 PM
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oh my jesus christ please show me where i said that
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 04:03 PM
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that’s exactly what my point was, that slurs can be made out of hatefulness and not just because of people’s behaviour. the words you used aren’t even slurs
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 04:03 PM
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yeah it’s individually based, and individually men do not have self control
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 04:01 PM
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yeah, promiscuous men participating in sexual intimacy without committing or planning to commit to the woman they are intimate with -> female promiscuity men don’t like female promiscuity, but they participate in the behaviours that allow it to exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 03:49 PM
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it only hurts women because it’s already seen as a negative thing. if it wasn’t, no woman would care about being called a slut. the existence of these words as an insult implies hatred. women use incel as an insult because men don’t like BEING incels. racist people use the n word as an insult because they don’t like black people. do you see the difference?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 03:45 PM
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you just ignored what i actually said. women only dont like being called sluts because society sees it as a negative thing. how did this insult come about in the first place? women don’t mind BEING sluts. black people don’t mind being black. yet slurs exist for these groups of people. nobody gives a fuck if someone else is broke, but calling someone broke as an insult exists because people don’t like being broke.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 03:42 PM
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so what was the n word meant to discourage? these words you described aren’t even slurs. i find it funny how you told me not to compare sex to littering but you compare sluts to pedos and murderers
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 03:37 PM
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yes. men lack self control when it comes to sex. that’s why women’s sexuality will never be seen as bad, because men crave it so badly. if men had some semblance of self control then women’s sexuality will start to be seen as bad, maybe. you give all these examples, but they are very rare compared to the opposite gender examples.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 03:28 PM
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what’s happening in afghanistan is just an extreme example of the logic that is very much alive in the west, that female promiscuity is bad but male promiscuity isn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 03:25 PM
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it’s only littering if you think of female promiscuity as a negative thing like pollution. you are participating in the behaviour that you don’t like the consequences of.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 03:24 PM
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lol are you joking? now that i tell someone else what you said you FINALLY change your mind about a woman only having sex in a committed relationship not being a prositute? every time i tried to explain this to you previously you were thick skulled and unwilling to read anything i said, but now all of a sudden you understand?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 03:18 PM
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the insults that men use for women are based on something the man doesn’t like being. women who are sluts dont mind being sluts, and a lot of the time men use slut as an insult it’s towards a woman who isn’t even a slut or even if she was, the guy has no way of knowing that. it’s like how black people don’t mind being black but people still invented slurs for them based on their own hatred
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 03:13 PM
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people are disagreeing with my premise because it doesn’t apply to them specifically, and this sub is not an example of the general pool of men. do you genuinely think the responses would be the same if it was possible for me to ask this question to men in general all over the world instead of english speaking men on this subreddit specifically? generally, men hate sluts. just look anywhere that isn’t this subreddit
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 03:11 PM
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women don’t hate virgins or men with small dicks, it’s an insult based on something men don’t like being. it’s like calling someone broke women who are promiscuous don’t mind being promiscuous, the reason men use slurs for them must be based on something else. the same way black people don’t mind being black but slurs exist for them based on the hatred of the people who made up the slurs
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 03:06 PM
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please give me an example of a woman insulting a man who was completely normal and respectful for being an incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 03:02 PM
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what did i say that makes you think i think not wanting to have sex with a promiscuous woman is hate, if i already said that not wanting to date a promiscuous woman is not hateful and the examples i gave of hatred are the usage of slurs and violence? if your way of discouraging female promiscuity in society is to use slurs for women who aren’t even promiscuous, that’s both hateful and not effective.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 02:59 PM
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huh? my premise was men using slurs, and in extreme examples, physical harm/killing then you respond with “i love sluts, men not wanting to date sluts is not hatred” which i never even said. i know that nobody is reading my post because even after i edited my post to specifically say that i don’t see men not wanting to date sluts as hatred, men keep saying the same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 02:49 PM
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this is what i don’t understand about this sub lol men will say that abusive men always get to be in relationships, but when people respond with that it’s women who don’t have self respect men say that it doesn’t matter now that someone tells you that hoes can always get into a relationship, you give the same reasoning lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 02:46 PM
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/u/seemedgood called women prostitutes for only wanting to have sex in a committed relationship, he thinks men should only commit to women who have sex with them quickly but only if her body count is 0 or 1, women can’t really win with men’s standards
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 02:44 PM
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you mean this comment section or the sub in general? there is no other subreddit or social media where i could ask this question, either because my post would get removed or i would get a heaping pile of bullshit from men who just hate women
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 02:41 PM
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ah yes, the n word and slurs used for sluts had no thought put behind them. absolutely no hatred behind those words. just ignore the fact that it’s racist people who use the n word as an insult, totally just a coincidence
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 02:36 PM
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don’t you think it would be hypocritical for a promiscuous man to hate sluts given the fact that his behaviour is part of the problem? it’s like someone who litters complaining about pollution
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 02:32 PM
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when has a woman called a man an incel as an insult out of the blue? men get called incels as an insult when they are misogynistic please find me a time that an incel who was a normal respectful guy got insulted for no reason by a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 02:27 PM
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was her boss not friendly towards anyone else?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 02:25 PM
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“some men” must be very common
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 02:24 PM
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there is no “entitlement” if men actively allow it and want it whatever manipulation you are describing, existed long before empowerment it’s not the “the age of empowerment” causing men to not see women’s sexuality badly, it’s men’s lack of self control.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 02:23 PM
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i think you misread my comment. men in this comment section are saying that its men who cant even sleep with a promiscuous woman who hate promiscuous women, thats why i asked that question and if you actually read my post, you would see the examples of hatred i gave are the slurs, and in extreme examples, physical harm/killing of promiscuous women. i also specifically said that i do not see men not wanting to date promiscuous women as hatred, and i edited that into my post before you commented t…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 02:19 PM
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men clearly do hate promiscuous women if they have slurs specifically for them and use them on women who aren’t even promiscuous
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 02:14 PM
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for the extremely rare occasions where that actually happens, yes i will listen. men overall still have a better view of male sexuality than women do of men, i wonder why.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 02:12 PM
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can you think beyond surface level?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 02:11 PM
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thanks for ignoring all my other points about how men are the ones who created these slurs in the first place and, in extreme examples, physically harming or killing women they see as sluts
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 02:08 PM
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is this also how you see racial slurs?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 02:06 PM
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what about the men who not even a promiscuous woman will sleep with?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 02:04 PM
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if women, who are on the receiving end of male sexuality, think of male sexuality as rape-y and predatory, maybe you should listen to them?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 02:03 PM
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you still ignored my point about why these slurs exist in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 02:00 PM
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cool, that wasn’t what i was talking about did anyone actually read my post?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 01:58 PM
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interesting, another man in this comment section said those are the sluts he doesn’t hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 01:57 PM
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i was disagreeing with the “misogynist” part. there is no way you genuinely believe 99.9% of men aren’t misogynists.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 01:54 PM
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i never said not wanting to date them is hatred, i actually never even mentioned anything about dating. women may use those slurs if it actually applies, and if the woman has done something to them. men just use it for any woman, whether or not it applies or if she actually did anything to the man. men call random women they don’t know slurs. either way, the existence of these slurs implies a lot of hatred existing, and at the time these slurs came about society was still very patriarchal so it …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 01:24 PM
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history and the current political climate shows us the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 01:03 PM
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how can anyone’s complaints about the opposite gender be true if they only date people they find attractive, and will never date or even interact with the majority of people opposite their gender? also by red pill logic, the way men at the top act is the way all men would act if they could. so the same way red pill men love complaining about “women’s nature” women are complaining about “men’s nature”
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 01:02 PM
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women accept men’s honesty way more than the other way around
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 12:58 PM
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it was other men lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 12:11 PM
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except men also hate it when women are honest i think they just hate women…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 12:10 PM
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“yeah but our side is right and the other side is wrong!!!”
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 12:06 PM
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dude wtf is the point of replying to multiple of my comments with the same argument are you fucking stupid 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 12:04 PM
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the same way you just told me that women should stop being gold diggers, men should stop being violent misogynists.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 12:02 PM
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okay, your wife is nothing like the low body count women i’ve met but you are a fundamentally disgusting person so stop talking to me
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 12:00 PM
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i’m concerned about unrealistic expectations
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 02:01 AM
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it’s relevant because you just said men say “i’ve never hit a woman” in response to women, women say they are strong and independent in response to men calling women gold diggers. it may not be a direct response to a specific man but that’s why they say it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 02:00 AM
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completely average men wanting a woman with a low body count who makes other men wait months but has sex with him instantly
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 01:06 AM
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if you only ever listen to your own gender when it comes to dating, you end up delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 12:27 AM
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men call women gold diggers
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 12:26 AM
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i guess other men need to speak differently then, because whenever they say women are loved unconditionally that’s what they describe
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 12:24 AM
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how am i weird for asking men a question when you claimed to speak for most men and they disagreed with you 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 12:23 AM
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ok, i don’t care
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 12:23 AM
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men are delusional about a lot of things, especially when it comes to body count
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 12:22 AM
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you are a weird person, that’s my point. you also didn’t speak for most men because i copied and pasted your comment into a question for men post and they disagreed with you
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 10:24 PM
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what does anyone on this subreddit complain about? i’m complaining about male delusion
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 10:24 PM
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they aren’t less valuable as people, but they have no value to me as a partner
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 10:22 PM
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the same way men go “i’ve never hit a woman” ?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 08:34 PM
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i witnessed it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 08:31 PM
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i don’t bother to actively shame anybody, i just think they are disgusting with no self control
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 08:10 PM
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aren’t you the guy who said you would like to marry a prositute ?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 08:09 PM
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your comment was a non sequitur to what i said
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 08:06 PM
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sounds like survivorship bias
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 08:05 PM
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yeah, it’s the women with high body counts themselves sleeping with those dudes
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 08:04 PM
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women with low body counts/virgins already don’t date men with high body counts men simply deluded themselves into thinking a woman’s body count matters but theirs doesn’t
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 08:02 PM
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so what? it still means they care about a high body count also men do care about the implications of a woman with a high body count, just look at what they say when asked why they care. turns out they also mention the fact that a woman with a high body count is more likely to cheat. you can look up the posts on subreddit
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 07:48 PM
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women with no past definitely give a fuck about a man’s past, especially the religious virgin types, which most virgin women are you saying “they care about what it could mean” changes nothing, they still care about it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 07:46 PM
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you are just arguing with me for no reason. i said that women with low body counts prefer men with low body counts. then you literally agreed with me that “some women, especially more conservative/religious women avoid dating men with high body counts”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 07:45 PM
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did you actually read what i said?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 07:43 PM
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did you read my comment? i’m not repeating myself
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 07:40 PM
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i just used my common sense, i said men are liars.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 07:40 PM
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no i just expect them to actually listen to women instead of listening to other men about what is acceptable the only people who say it’s okay for men to have a high body count but not women are men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 07:39 PM
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but if i say men are liars i get called a misandrist, lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 07:28 PM
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you are just making shit up 😂 yes, women can be envious of another woman’s stuff like her purse or whatever, that’s how stuff becomes trendy, being envious of wealthy people is something both genders do men also envy other men’s wives, just look at the comments when women like sydney sweeney or kate upton or whoever gets posted, men will call their husbands/bfs lucky, hell they even call the actors that sydney works with to do sex scenes lucky, and the term trophy wife implies having a hot wife …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 07:26 PM
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why are you talking about women in general when i’m talking about women with low body counts wanting men with low body counts
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 07:22 PM
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and so will men, if men were any different from the way you describe women then it would be impossible for women to cheat
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 07:20 PM
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so they have to be manipulated into liking them?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 07:19 PM
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so.. women do care about body counts women with what body count are accepting reformed chads?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 07:18 PM
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so you think only the minority of women with low body counts/virgins want men with low body counts/virgins? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 07:17 PM
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it’s the same thing with women, otherwise it would be impossible for women to cheat
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 07:07 PM
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lol, what a joke, men absolutely do care about how other men perceive the woman they’re with. it’s called a “trophy wife” for a reason
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 07:06 PM
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not all sluts are publically known as sluts, and you yourself just confirmed that women with low body counts or virgins want to date other virgins/low body count men. the women dating men with high body counts also have high body counts
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 07:05 PM
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the women who date men with high body counts also have high body counts
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 07:02 PM
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women wanting desirable men = women are a hive mind, they only want what other women want! men wanting desirable women is not treated as a pathology
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 06:59 PM
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whenever women do genuinely shame and avoid dating men with high body counts, men continue to cope and tell her she’s wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 06:56 PM
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one time on tik tok some blue haired feminist said men define women as being funny when they laugh at their jokes, not when they make jokes themselves and men in the comments attacked her for it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 05:14 PM
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like what?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 04:41 PM
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why not? you said you have a wide range of what you consider attractive, are you saying it takes the same amount of time to fall in love with the women at the higher end of the range as the lower end?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 04:18 PM
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the question was assuming she was in the range
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 04:05 PM
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i edited my post to clarify what i meant, i was talking about a woman who is at least the bare minimum attractiveness for you to want to be in a relationship with her, but not pretty enough for you to fall in love instantly. does that change anything ?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 03:33 PM
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do you agree with shera that a woman who is seeking a provider should actively suppress her sense of humour when talking to him?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 03:31 PM
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but men have never and will never stop caring about a woman’s past, while simultaneously deluding themselves into thinking women don’t care about their pasts. they deserve it,
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 01:37 PM
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it would have been easier if you actually read the pos
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 05:47 PM
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then the people they’re doing business with wouldn’t be criminals, and they wouldn’t need other literal criminals to protect them wow, in a country where sex work is legal, most sex work is done voluntarily? mindblowing
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 02:23 PM
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i don’t think prostitutes care very much if the customer is married as long as he’s clean and not abusive
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 02:21 PM
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but one is doing it for fun and one is doing it for money, does that make a difference
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 02:19 PM
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so what’s the point of this sub?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 02:17 PM
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since they are doing business with literal criminals, they need other literal criminals to protect them
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 07:13 AM
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soo what do these factors change?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 06:59 AM
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i’ll give you a clue: “a man who marries her”
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 06:46 AM
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how is it a weird question, i’m just asking if other men agree or disagree with a comment that i copied and pasted that claims to speak for most men
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 06:35 AM
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if i recall correctly, most customers of prostitutes are married
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 06:21 AM
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why do you think they’re equally as bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 06:12 AM
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i’m not talking about anything, this is a copied and pasted comment
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 06:09 AM
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what’s the price of the “tinder slut”?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 06:09 AM
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i’m assuming you wouldn’t have to pay money to be in a relationship with a prositute, and in the comment the guy says she could be the breadwinner
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 05:46 AM
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not my thought, this is a copied and pasted comment from another thread, i did not write it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 05:44 AM
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this man is talking about value in a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 05:41 AM
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valuable in the way that the comment that i copied and pasted into the body of this post is talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 05:30 AM
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do you respect her more than a woman who has sex for fun?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 05:25 AM
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oh yeah, i forgot you were religious. no point in debating you about abortion how are either of the things you named gynocentrism?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 10:15 PM
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“gynocentric society” lol what a joke according to you, anything negative you can possibly say about women is plainly true.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 09:52 PM
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intimidated means “frightened or nervous because you are not confident in a situation” not approaching a woman you think is attractive because of the very small risk that she’ll accuse you of rape or something sounds like being nervous because you are not confident in a situation here you go again with the random attacks on women, as if 15 year old boys are so not silly and not fickle.. do 15 year old boys even think that or are you just projecting?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 09:04 PM
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there have been dozens of times where a man has thought i was attractive and not approached me. i know they thought i was attractive because of the staring, sometimes guys would do a smirk and a nod when they saw me, it’s pretty easy to tell when a young man thinks you’re attractive because they have not yet trained themselved to make it less obvious. i don’t know why you keep making it about friend groups, and using extreme examples of an attractive woman vs her ugly friend
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 09:00 PM
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how is that not intimidation?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 08:46 PM
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men saying that a woman’s prime starts at 18, “barely legal” and “teen” porn being incredibly popular, men travelling to places where the age of consent is lower to have sex, etc..
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 08:40 PM
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in what way is a man who pays for of content creators and prostitutes punching above his weight class? stupidest shit i ever heard
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 08:39 PM
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when you google the definition of intimidation one of the examples of it being used in a sentence is “older people are often intimidated by computers” so yeah i think men can be intimidated by women, especially gen z boys who constantly say they are scared to talk to women and ive even seen guys around my campus wearing t shirts that say “im scared of women” which is obviously a joke but jokes are based in reality
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 08:32 PM
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bruh there’s literally guys in this comment section saying they won’t approach a girl if she’s too hot/out of their league
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 08:24 PM
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when you google the definition of intimidation, one of the examples of it being used in a sentence is “older people are often intimidated by computers” people are taking the definition of intimidated to mean being super afraid when that’s really not what it is
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 08:23 PM
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oh my god you are so annoying
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 06:42 PM
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i wanted to see different groups other than gender like race and religious groups but thanks for
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 05:22 PM
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can i see the stats on this? i believe you, but i want to see the data for different groups
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 03:56 PM
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lol. doctors do a lot more leading than politicians. politicians are known for not doing shit
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 03:55 PM
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huh? misandrists claim that listening to their fathers or other male family members said about men contributed or turned them into misandrists. you then give an example of women saying they didn’t get any advice like that, but they aren’t misandrists. so what point did you make? why don’t you find misandrists who didn’t get advice like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 11:49 AM
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lol, why does he get to have his cake and eat it too? he thinks men are the leaders, so it must be his fault if his wife does something bad even if you ignore that, how could a man leave his children alone with that kind of woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 11:47 AM
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you seriously don’t understand why women would not want to grow old with the gender that constantly says women are only valuable for their looks, and that their looks decline at 20? i love watching red pill men realize that their fearmongering and shaming to get women to settle down as early as possible had the opposite effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 11:44 AM
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women complain about being raped by strangers .. that is not the only type of rape they complain about. this conversation is an example of women being illogical, so when i get harassed on the street it’s an example that men are creepy lowlife desperate worthless scum.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 11:42 AM
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i gave you the answer to the question you were really asking
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 11:36 AM
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i can’t believe your wife depends on a man with diagnosed aspd to be generous to fund her lifestyle, i wouldn’t depend on any man but depending on someone who is incapable of really loving you or feeling empathy is insane lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 04:29 AM
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i don’t understand how men are desperate but somehow women are delusional for thinking they are more valuable
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 04:34 PM
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jeez, you guys go younger everyday. a woman’s prime ends at 20 now? whats the point of settling down if men are only attracted to 20 year olds at the maximum, and sexual attraction is very important to a relationship? this is what i don’t understand about red pill men, you guys cry about women not being sexually attracted to beta males who get settled down for “beta bucks” but you expect women to want to settle down with men who will not be attracted to them as they age? and every time a woman b…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 04:00 PM
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you just completely ignored what i said.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 01:25 AM
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most rapes happen not by a stranger. nice job cherry picking the minority of rape cases to try and make your point lol then you say “as a woman i know you don’t care about logic” as if that’s gonna change my opinion about the whole situation 😂 why should women have a positive view of men when you have a bad view of us? it’s okay for you to generalize women and call them illogical but it’s not okay for women to generalize men? “we sexually harass and rape women, then accuse them of not using logi…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 12:26 AM
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do you expect women to have a positive view of men when men have an even worse view of us, along with the fact that rape and sexual harassment are extremely common?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 12:22 AM
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is the father of a child also not responsible for their safety? why would a man leave his children alone with a woman with psychotic delusions who literally begged him not to be left alone with them? also, they followed a very patriarchal version of christianity. so according to his own views on gender roles, he should have to take responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 06:29 PM
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ypu literally said “right so women are doing this stuff for men” after i gave you two points showing how women don’t do it for men lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 06:25 PM
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if lying about rape was anywhere near as common as actual rape, then maybe you would have a point
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 06:18 PM
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“women should be wary all the time, but don’t you dare complain about it or use your experiences to form opinions on men”
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 02:43 PM
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do you have any proof that the women who said they didn’t get any advice from their dads are misandrists? otherwise you didn’t make any points
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 02:41 PM
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it’s post partum psychosis, not depression.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 04:12 PM
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i don’t know why you bother replying if you ignore what i say constantly
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 04:00 PM
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thanks for completely ignoring what i said? women wear makeup and revealing clothing when no men are around. men say they don’t like it when women wear makeup and revealing clothing and women do it anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 03:56 PM
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that’s not WAW that’s the halo effect, they are different. i have previously read a study that the WAW effect extends to middle age, i can probably find it if you want
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 03:42 PM
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men say they don’t want to be loved for their careers. and “experience” is a code word for money.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 03:39 PM
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maybe they do in fact do it for men, but that would just mean that men are lying when they say they like natural women. if men hate when women wear makeup and revealing clothing as much as they say they do, the women who say they do it for themselves are telling the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 03:34 PM
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ah yes of course the red pill portrays men as perfect loyal angels who would never fuck multiple women if they could
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 03:32 PM
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is it not on the sidebar that men would maintain harems if they could?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 01:36 PM
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well then you are the exception, if your case was common then relationships between early 20s women and mid 30s broke guys would be more common.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 01:35 PM
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video games don’t take much energy
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 01:25 PM
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my shitty opinion is that older people look old?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 01:24 PM
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at this point i just think if i get downvoted but no one actually refutes my argument then im arguing with someone unreasonable
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 08:00 AM
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don’t you spend your time on video games?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 07:57 AM
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so what was the relevance?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 07:57 AM
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i don’t either, i just recognized his username because we have debated/conversed so many times. everything i mentioned is something i have replied to him about previously. i don’t really know how i shamed or guilted him.. i have the need to be right because this is a debate post, and by the teenager comment i wasn’t insulting him, i genuinely thought he was a teenager before he said he was in his 30s. if saying someone acts like a teenager is an insult, red pill men insult women all the time, so…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 07:35 AM
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more attractive to who? not younger women. younger women are more attracted to average 20 year olds than 40 year olds with the best body, skin, and hair. you also still need to have good facial features to be more attractive than an average person. you cannot escape looking your age. no matter how well you take care of yourself, you will look older than a 20 year old. this makes you less attractive, to women in their prime.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 07:27 AM
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your prime isn’t really worth much if you are attracting women you don’t like, because they nag you
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 07:11 AM
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have you seen the post history of the man im replying to?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 07:11 AM
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it doesn’t matter how hard you work as a 40 year old man. you will still look older and less attractive than a 20 year old (to a 20 year old woman) you can have the best body, the best hair, the best skin for your age and you will not look young, thus less attractive to a young woman. yeah she chose a man 5 years older than her as a 25 year old, nobody thinks that’s a significant age gap. 25 year olds and 30 year olds don’t act different in my experience i mean who really is broke at an older ag…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 06:53 AM
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i’m at -4 right now 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 06:46 AM
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i am 20. i am attracted to men from about 18-26. this is based on the fact that every time i have thought of a guy as attractive then found out his age afterwards, he’s always been between the ages of 18-26. both with celebrities and guys i know in real life. most of these guys fall into the 19-23 range. the 18 and 24-26 year olds are more rare. another anecdote: my mother is attracted to men her own age, she is 50. it’s kind of funny, quite often we will be watching a show or movie together and…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 06:24 AM
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why do you only date women the same age as you, you like them more or younger women don’t like you? imagine being in your thirties and telling your gf to chill when she asks where you see the relationship in a decade 🤦‍♀️ jeez no wonder these women nag you you act like a teenager
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 06:14 AM
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but then how are you competing with younger men mainly because of your looks? even if you look good now, your looks are going to fade quicker than a younger man. and if you look the same as a younger man why would a woman want to be with you for any reason other than money ? another advantage is that he will be more relatable to women his own age, someone funny. millennials and gen z don’t have the same sense of humour. they tend to find each others humour cringey, imagine being in a relationshi…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 06:12 AM
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<image> i don’t know if the graph will show because i have had a hard time commenting pictures, i can message you the graph if you want or link it. this graph shows that men are, at most, attracted to 24 year olds. yet 24 year olds are at most attracted to 25 year olds. and older women are attracted to men closer to their age.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 06:04 AM
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okay troll, i wish you well.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 05:56 AM
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her husband who ignored doctors warnings to stop having children because her psychosis was getting worse ? her husband who followed teachings that women are born in sin ? her husband who ignored her pleas to not be left alone with the children? hmmm i wonder why he got blamed
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 05:55 AM
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you think you can compete with younger men mainly because you have the same physical characteristics they have? huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 05:31 AM
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sounds like you just read the title and didn’t read my post, i even included a tldr. try to actually refute some of my points next time. if a man’s prime was in his 30s-40s then women wouldn’t complain about age gap relationships, because most of them would be in one. so who’s actually coping?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 04:58 AM
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men think a woman’s prime is from 18-25, most women in that age range would not be willing to date a 40-45 year old unless he has money which is something men don’t want to be valued for. why would prime be defined as the max age that a woman would go for anyways?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 04:38 AM
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how old are they? why do they care if you advance your career, do you want them to care about that (i’m guessing the answer is no because you said they nag) you are supposedly in your prime but all you can attract is high quality women who see you as worse than them, who make you feel like lowlife scum
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 04:33 AM
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why would i want to do any of that ?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 04:27 AM
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so you don’t attract high quality women?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 04:26 AM
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wow, this is the first comment i’ve ever seen from you where you actually say you are successful with women. usually you comment about the juice not being worth the squeeze, complaining that you don’t care about women’s rights because female characters in video games aren’t attractive, and not understanding science. i always thought you were a teenager from your comments. so if you’re so successful with women why do you complain about these things?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 04:18 AM
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so why would women have to self improve to get in relationships with men if they don’t even want to be in relationships in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 03:15 AM
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just found out i’m a pornstar
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 01:45 AM
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women wear makeup and revealing clothing when no men are around, and men also claim they don’t like women who wear makeup and revealing clothing, if men are telling the truth then so are the women who say they are not doing those things for male attention
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 01:40 AM
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who said anything about comedians? men insult women for not being funny often times completely out of the blue.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 01:33 AM
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“if men had a libido identical to women, …”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 11:41 PM
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we are just tired of men with low standards coming on the internet to say sexist things about women then complaining they can’t choose better because women are the choosers. just pick a lane and shut up
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 11:07 PM
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what was your point in bringing up this hypothetical woman in the first place?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 11:01 PM
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he now fits the female gaze
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 10:33 PM
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sooo you are low value? what do you want us to do about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 10:32 PM
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why?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 08:16 PM
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source: his colon
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 08:06 PM
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that’s just assuming that the other woman is bad though. this question doesn’t logistically make sense anyways. if your wife was born later she might have gone through different life experiences or will go through different life experiences that make her a different person
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 07:32 PM
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to who? young women are settling with men they aren’t as attracted to instead of going with older men who they apparently like more?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 07:30 PM
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if AWALT then unicorns don’t exist, the word unicorn implies rp men already think they don’t exist
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 07:28 PM
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don’t red pill men say AWALT? the word unicorn to describe this type of woman implies they think that type of woman doesn’t exist. unicorns aren’t “rare” they don’t exist
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 06:44 PM
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because it’s now your wife but without any of your memories together and she also looks younger..
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 06:42 PM
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what does free bleeding have to do with relationships? i’m not sure exactly what you mean by gender dismantling, body positivity and slut walks also don’t entirely relate to relationships since fat people and sluts are shamed outside of relationships all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 06:41 PM
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it’s “be skinny”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 06:22 PM
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well then wouldn’t that basically be the same thing as asking if you’d replace her for a younger woman
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 06:20 PM
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men don’t just say “amy schumer isn’t funny” they say “women aren’t funny”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 06:18 PM
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so then the answer isn’t “just don’t be fat” ?? it’s “be skinny unless you have genetics that distribute your fat in a more attractive way”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 06:18 PM
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then why did you ask the question
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 06:16 PM
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younger as in both physically and mentally or just physically ?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 06:12 PM
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red pill men say the former all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 06:08 PM
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why aren’t age gap relationships more common than they actually are then? if women desire older men so much wouldn’t age gaps actually be the MOST common?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 06:05 PM
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men’s peak desirability was after 30… but who was rating it? if men over 30 were sooooo desirable to women under 30 (or 25) wouldn’t age gap relationships be the most common type of relationship? why is the average age gap of a marriage higher in countries where women are less equal legally and socially?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 06:01 PM
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i thought the red pill was the objective truth
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 05:57 PM
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which gender abandons their family more often?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 05:57 PM
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sooo you don’t agree with most red pill men?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 05:56 PM
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calls women “replaceable flesh and perky meat” tells women, as a red pill man, that thats only womens perception of what men want you cant make this shit up
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 05:55 PM
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BMI isn’t “modern culture” and i just said the “concept” of fat to men is the higher end of a healthy BMI meanwhile underweight women get tons of attention. so when men say they want healthy women they’re full of shit
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 05:51 PM
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men never asked women to be funny, yet they insult women for not being funny. interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 05:48 PM
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men are the ones who say women are inherently valuable/their main value is their attractiveness, if anyone is telling women that they are perfect as they are it’s the manosphere
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 05:45 PM
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yet they insult women for not being funny all the time?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 05:37 PM
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men need to stop saying “don’t be fat” when what they mean is “be skinny”. men consider women at the higher end of a healthy BMI fat. meanwhile, any woman who’s been underweight before will tell you that’s when she got the most attention from men
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 05:34 PM
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the person you’re replying to was arguing against the point that women “just have to exist”, this comment proves her point
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 05:32 PM
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how are women the ones with the inability to self reflect if men are doing the exact same thing you just described?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 05:31 PM
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what projection, men are the ones who say women are expired at 25
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 05:30 PM
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and my point is that i’m refuting what you said about “the former is rarer”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 05:24 PM
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yet there is much more of the male equivalent of her, isn’t the stat something like 75% of homeless are men?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 05:22 PM
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it wasn’t meant to be a “unique” argument, you just said it usually deters men from this kind of thing if women avoid being alone with men they barely know. the amount of women who get raped is far higher than the amount of women who make enough money off men lusting after them enough for it to be a “privilege”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 04:26 PM
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yet, men will give her that 20 dollars
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 03:55 PM
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yeah and if your mom had wheels she’d be a bicycle
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 03:54 PM
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most women who get raped are raped by a man they know.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 03:12 PM
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he must think they’re the prize if he risked jail time to traffic them
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 03:09 PM
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he must think women are the prize if he pays women to be around him
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 09:14 PM
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if a man is successful and selfish then he’s not really the prize in a relationship is he ?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 09:13 PM
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complain about the right to bodily autonomy ? and clearly women are doing something about their safety if the majority of victims of violent crime are men
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 09:13 PM
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the point being is that it doesn’t make men the prize if women are CHOOSING men who PROVIDE
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 09:12 PM
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women already do that
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 06:04 PM
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yeah, a few dinners paid for. truly such a privilege and totally worth the risk of rape and sexual harassment as well as general sexism
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 04:53 PM
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then don’t creampie women bruh idk what to tell you
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 04:52 PM
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dude, men who think women are stupid or childish etc even think women are the prize.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 02:25 PM
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how’d the gender that’s the prize get conditioned to pay for the gender that isn’t the prize?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 02:19 PM
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they choose men who provide… you’re almost getting there …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 01:37 PM
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why do men want a second date so badly that they’ll pay for it?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 01:37 PM
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this would mean attractive and nice men are the prize, not men in general
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 01:08 PM
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didn’t you just say men provide money and resources when someone asked you what men bring to the table??
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 01:07 PM
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why do men pay for women on dates? sometimes people split even, but it’s rarely ever the woman paying for the man. i wonder why… 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 01:06 PM
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the first two things you named are things a woman could provide for herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 01:05 PM
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men are the ones who call women the prize
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 01:04 PM
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so then successful AND generous men are the prize, not men in general
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 01:02 PM
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how do you know that getting raped multiple times wouldn’t lead you to suicide?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 12:56 PM
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no, is that all you think feminism is? ukraine is a traditional country
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 12:55 PM
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okay baby
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 03:55 AM
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ukraine isn’t even a feminist country
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 03:54 AM
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men are strange creatures, aren’t they?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 03:53 AM
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your anecdotal data does not trump empirical data
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 03:53 AM
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you can google the most common ways people met their partner or i can find it
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 02:47 AM
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it’s conceivable, i just find it funny how quick you are to blame women for absolutely no reason. like it’s in male DNA to avoid accountability when no one was even asking you to be accountable.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 02:46 AM
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do you have a source?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 02:18 AM
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even before the me too movement / third wave feminism or whatever people blame, cold approaching was not the main way people met their partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 02:17 AM
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so you don’t support the right to “paper abortion”? why not tell these men to stop crying about it then? they’re crying real hard in my replies
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 02:09 AM
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yes i’m sure you’ve heard plenty of stories
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 02:08 AM
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so you answered her question disingenuously?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 02:07 AM
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do wars not affect everyone?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 02:01 AM
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there is no way you’re this stupid, this is like saying blacks should be thankful to whites for ending slavery
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 01:59 AM
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so then why don’t men give themselves the right to a “paper abortion” what the fuck are you crying to us for?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 01:58 AM
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wtf even is “baby trapping” did someone lie to you about how babies are made? a more important question, do you think women shouldn’t be allowed to get abortions if they are married?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 01:55 AM
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women don’t get raped at clubs. most rapes happen by someone they know inside the home
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 12:47 AM
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that wasn’t even the part of your comment i had an issue with, if you read my first reply to you again you will see what my problem with your narrative actually is
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 12:26 AM
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can you please stop pretending to speak for all men?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 12:11 AM
0

have you ever been raped before? or some other sexual based crime?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 12:05 AM
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that’s such a small percentage of women that it’s not even worth it to have that “privilege” it’s like a woman saying men are privileged because they can become millionaires by playing basketball
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 12:03 AM
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didn’t you just prove the point of the post? how does being sexualized by you or men who hate women benefit women? the amount of women who “make a living” off being lusted after is so tiny that it’s not worth it. if there was a button i could press to eliminate all rape but also eliminate all women profiting off lust i wouldn’t hesitate to press it. i’m sure the vast majority of women would agree with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 12:02 AM
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try telling this to /u/SeemedGood
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 11:58 PM
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men on this sub will tell you that if a woman makes you wait to have sex, she’s not interested in you, so you should either lie to her to get sex or just leave her. so your advice doesn’t really work out.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 11:58 PM
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how is it not fair to men? you have the right to control pregnancy so long as your body is involved. in many states, women don’t have that right. women can “make decisions after the fact” BECAUSE THEYRE THE ONES WHO GET PREGNANT. THERE IS NO NEED FOR “FAIRNESS”.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 11:22 PM
2

your signing to become a parent was when you didn’t wear a condom and creampied a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 11:15 PM
2

yeah, men can’t get pregnant. you already have the right to control pregnancy so long as their body is involved. the only thing i should’ve specified is that women’s rights vary state by state. but overall women still don’t have the right if not all of them have it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 11:05 PM
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when it’s convenient for them, men admit to lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 10:56 PM
3

how do men not have the right to control pregnancy so long as your body is involved? is someone forcing you to creampie women? and how do women not lack reproductive rights? wdym “stick to my guns” i’ve been making the same argument since the first time i commented on this post
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 10:52 PM
2

the right to control pregnancy so long as your body is involved
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 10:40 PM
3

men already have reproductive rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 05:44 PM
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huh? abortion should be/is legal because of bodily autonomy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 04:05 PM
2

good luck getting paper abortion “rights”
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 04:03 PM
2

women don’t get anything extra, they’re the ones who get pregnant. i think a biological and legal perspective is a pretty good basis, what are you basing your arguments on?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 03:11 PM
0

that is not the basis of why abortion is legal.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 03:09 PM
2

this is fucking hilarious 😂 what women were mocking men for not having reproductive rights, especially when you actually did have them! and still do!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 03:09 PM
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there is no “both ways” you get the right to control pregnancy so long as your body is involved
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 02:01 PM
3

men have more reproductive rights than women do, you can control pregnancy so long as your body is involved and women cannot.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 01:55 PM
3

what do men not get? you already have the right to control pregnancy so long as your body is involved. you want extra privileges?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 01:46 PM
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this is why i don’t give a fuck about men killing themselves, getting murdered more often, getting longer sentences for the same crime etc, because they ruined my makeup products! every time i walk into a makeup store i see fucking men everywhere!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 06:19 AM
3

i’m seriously gonna need to see these women celebrating
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 06:17 AM
2

why do men deserve to control pregnancy outside of where their body is involved?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 06:11 AM
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good thing men have the right to avoid this, by not creampieing women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 06:10 AM
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men’s involvement in pregnancy is to creampie a woman. men aren’t forced to creampie women. boom, men have more reproductive rights than women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 06:07 AM
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so what are you debating? i just asked you why men don’t follow their advice, and you responded that most men aren’t having sex. it’s not like men aren’t having sex because they want to. given the chance, all these men would have sex. so men aren’t really following your advice. then you made up a strawman argument about chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 06:05 AM
1

men have the right to control pregnancy so long as their body is involved. in 17 states, women do not (according to your numbers)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 06:01 AM
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so why are so many men complaining about this?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 06:00 AM
3

women want the right to control pregnancy so long as their body is involved. men already have that right. nobody is forcing you to creampie women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 05:58 AM
6

why don’t men follow this advice ?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 05:56 AM
4

what reproductive rights do men not have? you already have the ability to control pregnancy so long as your body is involved. just don’t creampie a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 05:56 AM
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both genders deserve the right to control pregnancy so long as their body is involved. that is not what you are describing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 05:54 AM
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why should there be? both genders deserve the right to control pregnancy so long as their body is involved. why do men deserve extra privileges?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 05:53 AM
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men cannot get pregnant. the only thing they can do to avoid pregnancy is to not creampie a woman. both genders should have the right to control pregnancy so long as their body is involved. that’s kind of the whole basis for why abortion should be legal. for men, your body stops being involved once you creampie a woman. i don’t know what more you need.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 05:51 AM
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what reproductive rights do men not have?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 05:48 AM
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don’t care, didn’t read
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 02:00 PM
1

lol. women are entitled but men make up the majority of rapists and thieves, crimes that prove men are the entitled ones
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 04:47 AM
1

but, crying often is better than getting violent even once. also, crying at 40 will probably stop you from getting to 80-90. since crying is cathartic itself and i believe causes hormone shifts in both the person crying and people around them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 03:07 AM
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yeah cuz when this woman is talking about men gathering around the barbecue and feeling good about opening jars she’s talking about jason mamoa 🤦‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 03:04 AM
3

in what ways are women terrible that men are not?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 03:03 AM
3

so why do you see women so negatively?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 02:39 AM
1

she just said one of the things she likes about men are their very cute bellies
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 02:38 AM
1

you just said one group responds to emotional distress violently though? also don’t men kill themselves more often?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 02:37 AM
1

didn’t you just tell me in another post that men don’t hate women
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 01:02 AM
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yeah, noticed how she named things that don’t benefit her either? it’s almost like women aren’t the opportunistic demons red pill men portray them as!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 12:59 AM
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there are likeable things about men in general. but overall they’re extremely annoying, but so are women
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 12:58 AM
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funny, that’s how i feel about men!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 12:36 AM
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wait, i thought the red pill said women were attracted to sexist men 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 12:28 AM
2

you just named the majority of humanity ?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 12:08 AM
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i find it funny how red pill men say red pill is the truth meanwhile they often have different opinions. how can you all be telling the truth?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 12:06 AM
1

so do men literally feel less emotions or do they just bottle it up?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 10:01 PM
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so then your argument should’ve been “the red pill does not see women as inferior” instead of “that’s not misogynistic”. like i said, use your brain. the original comment even says that she doesn’t think all red pill men are misogynistic
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 08:25 PM
3

i’m sorry your father picked such an awful woman to be your mother
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 08:18 PM
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are you trolling? the comment you replied to says the red pill views women as inferior, then you said that’s not misogynistic. use your brain for more than half a millisecond.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 08:17 PM
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what planet do you live on where women are treated with deference by everybody?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 08:13 PM
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how is viewing women as inferior not misogynistic?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 08:06 PM
0

steroids are far too common for you to say that people mainly pump iron for personal satisfaction and peace
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 05:46 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 05:44 PM
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a shortcut that is physically dangerous to you ? how is that “personal satisfaction and peace” like you mentioned before?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 05:22 PM
0

so why are steroids so common?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 05:06 PM
1

and how is that an excuse to be sexist? you say this, but when i say that men are naturally hateful towards women men get offended with me
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 05:04 PM
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i think humanity should go extinct too, that’s why i’m never having biological children. but it is still biologically programmed into all of us to want children. and most people want children for reasons other than “i am biologically programmed to do so” and pregnancy is still extremely physically difficult. women are not contradictory for wanting children while also complaining that having children is hard. that’s like saying someone is a hypocrite for wanting a PhD, very nice body, expensive c…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 05:01 PM
4

are you kidding? read your first comment and the comment you just replied to.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 04:57 PM
1

so could a bear, so is a bear superior to you or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 04:50 PM
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i’m never having biological children, but even the women who do are allowed to complain. do you want humanity to go extinct?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 04:49 PM
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women only care about their own desires being met i would love to live in a world with artificial wombs and sex bot servants you can’t make this shit up
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 04:39 PM
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more than 1/3? wow!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 04:34 PM
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ya, those stupid contradictory women. how dare they complain about something extremely physically taxing and difficult while also wanting something we are biologically programmed to want!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 04:33 PM
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so how do women monopolize pregnancy
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 04:29 PM
1

you said men are superior to women because they could do whatever they want to them in the street
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 04:26 PM
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i’m sorry you and your father picked such awful women
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 04:25 PM
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sounds like she’s saying men resent women for not providing A TON of those things especially when it’s not deserved
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 05:03 AM
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but a gorilla, lion, bear etc could do whatever it wants to you in the street
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 03:38 AM
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are men capable of taking accountability?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 03:37 AM
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so why do women act and dress the same way when no men are around?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 12:02 AM
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why does the superior gender have so many online communities dedicated to complaining about the inferior gender while also giving tips on how to get with them?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 12:01 AM
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what part is false?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 12:00 AM
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so bears, lions, gorillas etc are superior to men?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 11:51 PM
1

have you seen how men react when they find out their girlfriend had sex with other men quicker than he did with her?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 11:51 PM
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why does the superior gender complain and kill themselves so often?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 11:50 PM
0

jesus, what a lie 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 11:49 PM
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people need to live in a world where people like hitler don’t exist. if hitler didn’t negatively affect anyone no one would give a shit
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 11:46 PM
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why does the superior gender complain so much about how hard they have it? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 11:43 PM
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so you’re proving the point of the original post?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 11:39 PM
2

which men don’t want those things? also, there is another thread under this comment where men are saying these things aren’t bad, but you apparently do
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 11:37 PM
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what did she say here that implies those are bad ??
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 11:36 PM
1

so when men and women both struggle to understand that they are different, it means women think men are faulty women but men don’t? how are men “better at empathy”?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 11:11 PM
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chooses women based on how young and hot they are, goes on the internet and says women are NPCs incapable of empathy. many such cases
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 04:06 PM
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huh?? men are the ones who made up the term NPC as a way to describe real people, along with the fact that it’s literally a video game term, most gamers are men most psychopaths are men too. so i don’t understand how being “psychopathic” is a woman thing
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 03:56 PM
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please don’t tell me you believe young women are so amazed by a 60 year old surgeon
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 03:50 PM
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usually the “most defining days” of people’s lives are when they get their first job, first relationship, child is born, first loss etc but you can believe a woman’s life revolves around her sexuality if you want to
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 03:44 PM
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why should women give a shit when we already get stereotyped all the time?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 05:29 AM
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most women who are raped are raped by a man they know personally, being an illegal has nothing to do with it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 11:49 PM
2

white people hate black people plenty
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 11:48 PM
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you care enough to get offended by the fact that if women’s interactions with men are mostly negative, women will get a negative view of men
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 11:47 PM
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what would the alternative be? also this is a pretty disingenuous argument, since rape and sexual harassment are much more common than terrorism (by muslims!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 11:47 PM
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why do you want a thank you for not harassing women?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 11:45 PM
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if most of the interactions women have with men are negative, then women are going to have a negative view of men. i don’t know what more to tell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 11:44 PM
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his argument was fucking stupid. i asked him why women should be MORE empathetic than men and he says basic human decency, while not having basic human decency himself
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 11:42 PM
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what percentage of rapists go to jail?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 11:41 PM
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jesus, i never said that you need to accuse your friends of being rapists. i just said that you wouldn’t know if they were. most women who get raped are raped by a man they know personally such as their boyfriend or a friend, not by random incels with no friends
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 11:40 PM
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no, none of them have been pregnant and none of them are dating men richer than them
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 11:39 PM
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please tell me what my “narrative” is
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 03:25 PM
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so you want to sit on your ass and do nothing and expect women to have a positive view of men?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 03:24 PM
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how do you know the people you hang around with aren’t rapists or sexual harassers? do you think they’d do it in front of you?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 03:23 PM
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stop being obtuse please women have already told you a million times what we want you to do
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 03:23 PM
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do you want women to have a positive view of men or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 03:22 PM
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why should women be more empathetic than men because of basic human decency? do you see the irony in you calling women emotional then using their response as proof about something about ALL women meanwhile you’re telling women to have basic human decency 😂 stereotyping people is not basic human decency. you don’t have self awareness.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 03:22 PM
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if not all men are bad then do something about the men who are bad. why do you expect women to have a positive view of men when they are getting harassed constantly, and the men who are supposedly “not bad” don’t do anything? minorities don’t have a physical advantage over anybody
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 03:09 PM
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you’re the one who said 35 and 25 afterwards. before that you only said men in their 40s preferring younger women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 03:06 PM
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you’re the one focussing on the very rare guy to help your narrative
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 03:05 PM
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okay? people who get married from 25-32 have a lower divorce rate. are you saying getting married in your early 20s is more difficult?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 03:04 PM
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i’m asking you why women SHOULD be more empathetic. you call women emotional then use their response as proof women are emotional? interesting, i call men hateful all the time and they prove my point too!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 03:03 PM
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with “wealth and status” most 45 year old men are completely average, this is why it’s so stupid when red pill men say a man’s prime is in his 40s. if that was true then relationships between early 20s women and 40s men would be the most common type of relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 02:16 PM
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people who get married in their early thirties have a lower divorce rate than those who get married in their early 20s
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 02:14 PM
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men get called borderline pedos because women like lil tay and bhad baby make millions on their only fans that they started on midnight on their 18th birthday.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 02:13 PM
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getting married in your early 20s is a bad decision. look at the divorce rate.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 02:08 PM
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is there any man who doesn’t say that? why should women have more empathy than men do?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 02:05 PM
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because every time women complain about men you guys say it’s not all of you or “men are the protectors” or some shit
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 02:01 PM
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people tell you to do this because you keep claiming “not all men are bad” or trying to defend men in some other way when women say they are afraid of men or don’t like them
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 02:00 PM
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what do you define as hatred for men? where is this hatred for men? i’m claiming women don’t hate men. if you have no data then the first comment is just bullshit. at least be honest and don’t use the word “trend” and just say it’s your opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 03:01 AM
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if it’s so obvious, should be easy to provide a source, otherwise don’t use words like “trend”
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 01:04 AM
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for every man who cures smallpox, how many rapists are there? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 11:59 PM
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is oppression not social harm?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 10:30 PM
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explain to me how somehow 99% of convicted rapists are men but not 99% of people who commit rape are men. either way, i’ll change my phrasing, you don’t care that 99% of convicted rapists are men but you care about women’s supposed fantasies?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 10:16 PM
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i didn’t ask you to stop wartime rape. that wasn’t even the point of what i was saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 09:22 PM
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you just made up your own definition of hate, but is everything you described so far not men commiting social harm to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 09:20 PM
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you don’t care about the fact that 99% of people who commit actual rape are men but you care about women’s supposed fantasies? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 08:31 PM
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did op ever say men got conscripted ONLY because they were promised women? ah yes, comfort women are women’s sick BDSM fantasy. 99% of convicted rapists are men but women bad for having fantasies LMFAOO
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 08:06 PM
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even if wartime rape magically disappeared when this law was written, it still ignores the fact that OP is talking about all of human history
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 07:34 PM
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wow, and just like that, wartime rape never occurred again.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 07:33 PM
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if it’s true then provide some data?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 07:32 PM
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i don’t understand men’s obsession with not admitting something is hatred. i see it everywhere on this sub. you guys will say “women are stupider, they’re like animals, etc” but then won’t admit you hate women
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 07:31 PM
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do you think women were/are not oppressed?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 07:27 PM
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this is a strawman argument men use to make feminists look stupid. there doesn’t need to be a secret committee of men deciding how to screw women over for men to screw women over.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 06:53 PM
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?? i replied to someone who replied to me
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 06:51 PM
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that’s exactly why i’m asking this guy to give an example, because he’s just being semantic
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 05:14 AM
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the critical drinker and all his fans
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 03:06 AM
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okay, now give an example of chauvinism existed without misogyny in the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 03:05 AM
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i don’t understand what more i need to elaborate.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 01:24 AM
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men use the term misandry even more loosely. for example: claiming misandry is on the rise because tv shows don’t cater to them
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 12:55 AM
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source?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 12:52 AM
5

homophobia does not inherently mean FEAR of gays, phobia also means “aversion to” that’s why words like hydrophobic exist to be used in biochemistry
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 12:46 AM
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yeah, when my biology professor was explaining how the cell membrane is hydrophobic, i told her she was dumb because the cell membrane can’t feel fear and water isn’t even scary!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 12:43 AM
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so you’re just mad that someone doesn’t have it as hard in dating as you do? it means that women don’t do self introspection?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 11:01 PM
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what does she need to do self introspection for?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 10:29 PM
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well then we’re just going to be defining things all day, i could say a happy marriage but then i have to define happy
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 08:15 PM
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i think people should answer with whatever they think a successful marriage is, most people are answering with nuance and not just saying yes or no
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 07:17 PM
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i know many people in that type of marriage since it’s extremely common for men of my ethnicity to be truck driver lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 07:15 PM
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i only know a couple guys who are in the military but they are young and not married. one of them is in a successful relationship but one broke up with his girlfriend (my acquaintance)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 07:14 PM
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i only mentioned that because it means every time my dad sees my mom she is done up nice and the house is clean. so it puts a more positive image in his head
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 07:07 PM
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if this happens often, you are either a low value man or you suck at picking women
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 05:56 PM
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how is she being self contradictory if she’s extremely naive? she doesn’t know and never said the thing you are calling her self contradictory for
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 05:42 PM
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why, did OP say something like “yeah i wouldn’t date a short guy but how can something not controllable be a red flag?” or are you just blaming her for something other women said? this is the problem with misogynists, EVERYTHING a woman does has to be construed negatively
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 02:56 PM
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so why did you get defensive when someone said men should take responsibility too?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 02:05 AM
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again, if you’re correct then just use the actual numbers of resources they take up? why are you using different numbers? if 15 million people can have their own jobs then yeah they might take less resource than 2 million people who can’t ?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 02:04 AM
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common sense tells you that just because there are more single mothers doesn’t mean they take up more resources, single mothers can have jobs, men in prison can’t
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 02:00 AM
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so why don’t you just use the actual numbers on the amount of resources they take up if you’re right?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 01:56 AM
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so what? that doesn’t automatically mean they take up more resources.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 01:44 AM
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what does this have to do with you thinking women in non western countries are less hypergamous and (insert buzzwords here) than women in the west?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 01:42 AM
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that’s her own problem, why are you acting like men also don’t need to take any responsibility?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 01:39 AM
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what am i supposed to do to stop other women from proceating with deadbeats? how do we stop men from being deadbeats?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 01:39 AM
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i never said women have no agency whatsoever. i’m just saying men need to take some responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 01:38 AM
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how did you gather all this from the fact that most custody cases are settled outside of court?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 01:37 AM
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most women don’t end up single mothers, so seems like women’s radar is still pretty good
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 12:50 AM
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look at this comment section
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 12:49 AM
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if you want to actually prove they consume more resources then .. use the figures for the amount of resources they consume. not the number of them that exist
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 12:48 AM
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everything is women’s fault, huh? allergic to accountability
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 12:47 AM
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jesus. nothing is mens fault is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 12:45 AM
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the solution to not spend tax dollars on criminals is to make more criminals?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 12:44 AM
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how about the men who keep nutting in women knowing they aren’t going to raise a kid?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 12:42 AM
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when men actually go to court for their children, they get it most of the time. most custody cases are settled outside of court.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 12:37 AM
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women already take all the responsibility for single motherhood. not only because they are the only ones who get blamed for it, but also because they’re the ones who actually go through pregnancy and raise the children! what more accountability do you want them to take? why don’t men have to take accountability at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 12:36 AM
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i don’t understand your last sentence. even if you were in a state where abortion is legal, as a man the last choice you have to control pregnancy is when you are about to nut in a woman. “consent to sex is not consent to parenthood” lol and just because i consented to eating a whole pint of ice cream i didn’t consent to gaining weight 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 12:35 AM
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women already take responsibility. one comment saying men should take responsibility too isn’t going to hurt you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 12:32 AM
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women in more patriarchal countries have more children.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 11:06 PM
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how does a man have 0% choice? did someone force them to creampie women they don’t want to have babies with?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 11:02 PM
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did you ignore the part where they said men bring that up to show how much less shallow they are? men virtue signal all the time. you say you like natural women when you don’t, you say you love women unconditionally, you say men are easy to make happy
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 11:00 PM
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you think the third world women flocking to first world men they can’t even communicate with properly are genuinely attracted to him? https://www.psypost.org/women-exhibit-less-manipulative-personality-traits-in-more-gender-equal-countries/
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 10:54 PM
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this guy thinks women in other countries aren’t as hypergamous and (insert buzzwords here) as western women 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 10:43 PM
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she imagines jewellery subconsciously but when she really thinks about it she still knows it’s chocolate
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 06:43 PM
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you literally got triggered multiple times over things i never said
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 06:42 PM
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different scenario, but you wouldn’t even care if you read your wife’s diary and found out she really hates you but is only staying with you for practical reasons or something like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 09:55 AM
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so what exactly has your issue been this whole time?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 01:18 AM
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men sre not attracted to their partners past a certain age, you have “wife goggles”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 12:52 AM
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i’m describing the thing men are admitting to in this comment section
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 12:50 AM
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i literally said “whether it’s providing gifts” or something equivalent because some people, especially men, don’t care about receiving gifts from their partner
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 12:49 AM
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you can believe that if it makes you feel better
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 12:47 AM
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you assumed like 50 things in this comment. this is a question not a debate post, i don’t know why you’re arguing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 12:46 AM
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i am a 20 year old virgin who’s never been in a relationship before because i’ve spent most of my life being the weird fat girl. i’m still weird, but not fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 11:53 PM
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holy projection! since when is anything positive about women said by men on this sub? or ANYWHERE? everything negative i learned about men, i learned from listening to them speak. i find it funny how you accuse me of hating men or accusing men of saying things they didn’t say… but i don’t see you disagreeing with the men who actually say this stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 11:47 PM
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men apparently mean a million different things when they say they aren’t attracted to women who’ve hit the wall. or apparently you guys are attracted to women who’ve hit the wall with some conditions. can you at least not pretend you speak for all men?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 11:32 PM
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in this scenario you feel the relationship is equal, whether it’s because she gives you an equal amount of gifts or she does other things that speak to your “love language” but getting gifts is her love language so what is your answer?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 11:30 PM
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it’s more like imagining the bracelet is what she does subconsciously but when she actually thinks about it she knows it’s chocolate
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 11:28 PM
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you wouldn’t be upset AT ALL that she’s not happy with what you’re able to afford her?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 11:16 PM
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she isn’t exactly pretending, she is happy but only because of her imagination but thanks for your response
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 11:12 PM
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is there anything she could say or do that would make you see it more positively ?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 11:09 PM
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she doesn’t appreciate what you’re actually giving her, she’s not happy with the box of chocolates. and you can’t get another job to afford her something better. why’d i get downvoted for repeating what i said in my post lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 11:04 PM
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thanks for your response
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 10:57 PM
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no, she is imagining it as a tiffany bracelet and is happy because of that
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 10:54 PM
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and say what?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 10:47 PM
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unless a younger woman comes along and you know you’ll get away with cheating on your wife
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 10:25 PM
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then learn to be happy being single. stop picking bad women because you’re desperate then going online complaining about women. (this message is not to you specifically)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 10:20 PM
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men say they aren’t attracted to older women all the time. you call them hags and say you don’t want wrinkly pussy etc the rest of your justification sounds like the same thing women say when they talk about how they can bond with average looking men before having sex, which men complain about because they think it means she isn’t really attracted to them
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 10:15 PM
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lol, have you seen the shit men here say about older women. calling them hags, saying they don’t want wrinkly pussy, why tf would women want to settle down with that you’re telling me i’ll have a shared bond then in another thread you’ll complain about women not really being attracted to beta males because they have to have an emotional bond before sex 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 10:14 PM
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if it’s so bad then don’t have sex
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 10:12 PM
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you guys only ever talk like this when women ask this question, otherwise it’s all about how women are only valuable for their looks and aren’t attractive after 30, sometimes even 25
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 07:18 PM
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why would i get married to a man knowing he won’t be attracted to me in the future?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 07:16 PM
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they say that all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 07:16 PM
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you’re the one who said she’s still 24 to you. seeing her in a positive light would mean seeing her for who she actually is and still loving her, how would you feel if your wife was only happy with gifts you gave her because she was imagining them as something better?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 07:12 PM
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if you’re going to argue disingenuously then don’t bother arguing
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 07:10 PM
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i’m 20, might as well maximize my youth and then settle down at the end of my prime or become a cat lady. at least my cats won’t lust after younger women
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 06:46 PM
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i’m talking about older people, men cheat more
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 06:45 PM
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it’s more “i promise to stay married to you out of obligation while lusting after younger women and imagining you to look younger than you actually are”
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 06:44 PM
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so you don’t love your wife for who she actually is? you’re imagining her to be something else?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 06:42 PM
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why would i want to be married to a man who’s only attracted to me because he’s literally imagining me to look different than i actually look?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 06:40 PM
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yeah because they CANT. when they can, they cheat
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 06:39 PM
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is this supposed to make me want to settle down at a young age?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 06:38 PM
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men are not honourable, they just either CANT get with a younger woman, or when they can they cheat on their wife instead of leaving her
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 06:35 PM
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yeah men don’t leave they just cheat
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 06:33 PM
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right? i’m 20. the red pill has done nothing but teach me that i SHOULD milk my youth for everything i can then settle down at the end of my prime if i really want to or become a cat lady. but these are the women men complain about
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 06:33 PM
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why would i want that? if anything men are just teaching me to maximize my youth as much as possible then settle down right at the end of my prime
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 06:31 PM
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yet old men still cheat on their wives
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 06:30 PM
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divorce shouldn’t be illegal, cheating while married should be illegal (i don’t actually think it should i’m just making an argument)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 06:27 PM
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if we’re using the sports analogy, yeah you can play sports when you’re young knowing you’ll get old but you shouldn’t depend on sports. for a woman that would be not getting married too young. if women do hit a wall at 30 or whatever age men think, they can’t get mad at women for having fun in their youth then settling down right at the end of their prime. why would i give up my entire prime to a man who could leave me when i get older?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 06:26 PM
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men don’t leave their wives for younger women, they cheat with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 06:14 PM
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the consequences of one are way worse than the other
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 06:07 PM
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yeah and he’s liking weird ass comments about how much white women are better
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 11:28 PM
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if you have to pay someone to do something, they don’t want to do it a man who pays for a prostitute is not too far off from being a rapist
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 08:58 PM
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sex is only enjoyable for men?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 07:03 PM
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you didn’t prove anything? you just said it’s a “throwback to the traditional way of life” which i said is a non argument because that’s what i just said men are using as an insult. why would i read the rest of your comment when the first two sentences clearly show you don’t know what the fuck you’re saying 😂 i said women don’t use traditional roles as an insult to men. then you said women insult men for not being chivalrous ?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 07:03 PM
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yeah, he wasn’t recording her in secret. so she knew what she was doing. it doesn’t rlly matter that her bf posted it did i get downvoted because people thought i was actually asking if he was recording her in secret
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 07:00 PM
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your first sentence is a non argument. your second sentence isn’t even what i was talking about. i don’t care to read the rest of your comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 05:30 PM
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what were the nazis opinion on abortion?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 05:29 PM
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i said in another comment that a woman should tell a man. mostly because some men are vehemently against abortion/think it’s murder. although, if you think abortion is murder it’s mainly your responsibility to make sure you’re not having sex with a woman who will get an abortion, not hers. a woman telling him is just doing a favour.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 05:28 PM
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how does having sex with dozens of men make you a “plastic sex toy”?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 05:25 PM
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both genders should have the right to control pregnancy so long as their body is involved. men complaining about not having the right to “financial abortion” is like complaining that disabled people get their own special parking spaces. you dont have it because you dont need it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 03:26 PM
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don’t accuse me of playing dumb if you dont clarify what you mean. sleeping around is having sex. at least say having one sexual partner vs many if you want to make an argument. either way, a woman who has dozens of sexual partners is not reducing herself to a sex toy. you just say that because you see male sexuality as a negative. you are what the post is talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 03:22 PM
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there is no hypocrisy in the specific argument we’re talking about right now, your argument only works if you see abortion as a bad thing. it’s not hypocritical if a woman and child’s lives will get ruined in one scenario and in the other, nothing happens. i do agree with you that a woman should tell a man that she’s going to abort if she gets pregnant. but if she doesn’t, it’s not as big of a deal compared to if a man doesn’t tell a woman that he’s going to be a deadbeat
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 03:19 PM
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not a baby, you killed a fetus/zygote/embryo whatever. if i was holding a 6 week old fetus in my hands you would not say “awww what a cute baby” nor would you save the lives of 5 frozen embryos over the life of one toddler. your point isn’t even the point of the argument. you asked why women should be informed on if a guy is going to be a deadbeat before having sex vs a man being informed if a woman is going to get an abortion, if you think abortion should be illegal anyways what is even your po…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 03:07 PM
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why would women support men who would want to have sex with a woman that does not want to have sex with them?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 02:59 PM
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deadbeat dads existed before feminism
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 02:53 PM
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if a woman gets pregnant without knowing the man will be a deadbeat, the rest of her life and the child’s life will be ruined if a woman a man had sex with gets an abortion, nothing happens
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 02:52 PM
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some guy in this comment section literally said women reduce themselves to plastic sex toys if they have sex with a lot of men
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 02:48 PM
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accuses OP of not making a good argument because they removed women’s agency from the equation -calls a woman who has sex a plastic sex toy -says she’s devaluing herself, doesnt realize that saying a woman who has sex is devaluing herself is exactly what OP was talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 02:46 PM
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this is what i don’t understand about men not wanting to date a promiscuous woman when they mention her “baggage” as a negative, as if a woman can’t get baggage from a boyfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 02:40 PM
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women who use sex as a bargaining chip are called prosititutes, even if they don’t even have sex for money
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 02:36 PM
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considering the percentage of divorces initiated by women i think women accept it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 02:42 AM
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pro choicers don’t treat sex as a need, they just think it’s unrealistic to try and get everyone to stop having sex. especially teenagers.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 01:37 AM
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the lack of self awareness is hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 01:30 AM
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using pre made chicken? recently i’ve tried some “dense bean salads” on tik tok and they make a big mess and it’s not just me lol i’ve seen so many videos of people’s kitchens afterwards lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 05:31 AM
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being gay sure mattered at the time she did the experiment
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 05:30 AM
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they probably will when they hear her voice
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 05:29 AM
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making a salad takes more work than making a bowl of pasta, unless you’re kneading the dough to make the pasta yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 03:27 AM
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people tend to get fat off eating food that take less work to make, or that you don’t have to make at all. unless you’re making ice cream, pasta, candy etc entirely from scratch..
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 03:23 AM
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it depends on the man. some men are very picky with food and the cleanliness of the home. if you don’t believe me you should meet my dad lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 03:20 AM
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if you get “scammed” that doesn’t mean women see paying for dates as inherently bad. it’s not like women are insulting the men they do like for paying on dates: that’s just what happens when you pick the wrong woman (that you probably picked because she’s hot) women don’t use “haha, pay for my dinner asshole!” as a GENERAL insult towards random men they don’t know the way men use “make me a sandwich bitch” to women
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 03:01 AM
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cooking and cleaning for two people takes more work than doing it for yourself and there is no reason to resent yourself for having to cook and clean resentment can be made worse if the other person is very dirty this couple is going to have different relationship problems though. he’s liking weird ass comments about fetishizing white women
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 02:59 AM
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yeah just twist the definition of insult to fit your narrative
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 02:48 AM
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why would i be trying to enhance my relationship value with some old man on reddit?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 01:35 AM
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she’s still young. if she spends decades doing this kind of stuff she’ll eventually resent her husband or get divorced, and it would be almost entirely her fault
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 01:34 AM
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was he recording her in secret?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 01:30 AM
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okay? you saying “why would a man with options commit to a woman who’s not trying to earn commitment” was just a non argument, because like you said a man with options can play the field anyways, and the “why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free” also extends to domestic work
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 01:22 AM
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you say “why would a man with options commit to a woman who doesn’t try to earn commitment” when 1. red pill men talk all the time about men with options not needing to commit at all. and 2. why would a man commit to a woman if he’s already getting all the benefits of committing without actually committing
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 01:17 AM
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well, red pill men do like negging women. but i’m talking about men and women in general, not just in the context of a relationship imagine if women insulted men for paying for dinner, to the point that every man has heard that insult or seen it be used on another man, then got mad at men for viewing paying for dinner as demeaning. this is what i don’t understand about men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 01:16 AM
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why does that analogy apply to sex but not cooking or cleaning?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 12:13 AM
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so why do men insult women using things they want women to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 12:03 AM
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well then i guess typical men should speak up more? not once have i heard or seen a man tell another man to shut up when a man was insulting women for domestic work, but every woman has heard these insults. like i said, you mentioned young women specifically being given messaging that cooking for a man is bad, young women are the ones who grew up on internet seeing men use is at an insult. if feminists did disparage housewives in the 60s or 70s (although i will need to see proof on that) it’s pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 11:14 PM
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the only people who unfortunately gave young women the messaging that if they show care for their men that they are handmaidens of the patriarchy, are men. imagine if women constantly insulted men for paying for dinner or protecting them in cases of danger then got mad at men for seeing paying for dinner as demeaning
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 10:49 PM
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young women grew up with the internet, we saw all the “go back to the kitchen” jokes and calling women dishwashers
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 10:40 PM
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women don’t insult men for buying flowers and giving massages the way men insult women for doing things they like, every woman growing up heard “go make me a sandwich” as an insult and nowadays it’s popular for teen boys to call women “dishwashers” for young women who grew up seeing all this kind of stuff on social media it puts a bad taste in their mouth
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 10:39 PM
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“why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?”
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 10:35 PM
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did you not get enough attention as a child? you remind me of the kids in elementary school who would be annoying on purpose to get a rise out of people
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 06:30 PM
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she doesn’t really look like a man. she looks and sounds like a woman pretending to be a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 06:27 PM
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so how’d she pass off as a man
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 03:01 PM
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can you stop pretending to be stupid all the time?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 10:26 PM
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i’m not sure what mental path you took to make you think i said that. being beautiful does not mean you have life on “tutorial mode” if it did, it wouldn’t be so common for men to say the most beautiful woman they’ve ever seen was a mcdonald’s cashier
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 10:25 PM
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life on easy mode = working at mcdonald’s, riding the bus, getting exploited due to your beauty ?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 09:34 PM
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okay do a poll and compare those women to women who wear makeup and see what other men say
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 09:33 PM
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if calling someone who isn’t a creep makes you feel better about yourself, go ahead. the men they’re involved with certainly don’t think they’re creepy
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 09:33 PM
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you named two athletes and one woman who wouldn’t exactly be considered attractive by most men, not ugly but not attractive. even the athletes you named wouldn’t be considered very attractive since they are “post wall”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 07:36 PM
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did she really pass off as a man though? she didn’t take any testosterone, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 07:31 PM
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okay, so what very beautiful women do you know who never or rarely ever wore makeup?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 07:26 PM
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the only person you named who has life on tutorial mode is the nepo baby. i don’t understand how men will think that beautiful women are so privileged and this and that then tell you the most beautiful woman they’ve ever seen was a mcdonald’s cashier personally, the most beautiful woman i’ve ever seen in my life, i saw on the bus. she looked almost exactly like brazilian actress ana paula arosio. it is extremely extremely rare for a beautiful woman to have a life on tutorial mode just because sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 07:24 PM
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i’ve only ever had long nails one time but i was able to wipe my ass just fine, i also have a bidet on my toilet
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 07:18 PM
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what women do you know who are very attractive without taking care of their appearance ?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 07:15 PM
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the women i know who “care too much about makeup” are the ones who are still attractive without makeup. the ones who don’t care about their appearance are the ones who wouldn’t look that great even if they did care a lot about their appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 07:14 PM
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you can call them gold diggers or evil bitches or whatever the fuck you want, but they’re not creeps.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 07:06 PM
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really? all 4 billion women got together and publicly announced that? gonna need a source on your second point
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 04:15 PM
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how do these studies prove that women apply what a minority of men do to a majority of men?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 03:34 PM
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what studies
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 03:07 PM
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so what evidence do you have other than personal anecdotes?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 02:03 PM
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women don’t think men are stupid, they call it weaponized incompetence. women think men are doing it on purpose so they won’t have to do it in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 05:54 AM
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women who trust men/give benefit of the doubt are called stupid, naive, fools women who don’t trust men are called misandrists i know which one id rather be
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 05:46 AM
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why do you keep getting caught up with bad women? you need to choose better.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 05:43 AM
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do you not see the irony in your second point?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 05:42 AM
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but men do it in contexts where they aren’t even trying to get with the woman, like on social media
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 05:39 AM
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lol. men are incapable of hiding when they find a woman attractive. you cannot control the microexpressions or the eye movements you guys make. as well as the fact that beautiful women already know the main reason you’re into them is because they’re beautiful, even if you don’t verbalize it
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 05:08 AM
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look at this guys post history, he’s a self proclaimed incel. if you check my post history you will see that i have never used that word as an insult before.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 12:02 AM
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no amount of arguing, especially when a woman is making the arguments, is going to change the visceral hatred men have for women. that is something you will need to change on your own terms. i cannot reason with a bigot.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 10:21 PM
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why would i argue with a misogynist?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 10:16 PM
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dude i literally just saw you say “female moment” in response to a woman getting a hickey from her boyfriend and you are literally an incel lmao get a life
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 10:11 PM
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men have always hated women, now that feminism exists it’s their fault men hate women
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 10:06 PM
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and you think the taxi driver didn’t know what you were doing ?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 07:39 PM
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what is the definition of being nice to you and prioritizing you? why can you only seem to find that in countries where women are subjugated?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 04:59 PM
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i don’t want a man who caters to me because he grew up in a culture where he’s legally and socially inferior to me. that’s what men want.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 04:39 PM
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who willingly dates serial killers?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 06:24 AM
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if it was that easy to avoid getting abused, nobody would get abused
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 06:23 AM
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isn’t this just giving the benefit of the doubt to her boyfriend ?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 06:20 AM
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what you described doesn’t sound like a woman thinking she’s hot shit, just a woman stupid enough to give a man the benefit of the doubt
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 05:04 AM
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you still didn’t explain how the concept of a woman not knowing about SMV and having the audacity to believe a man who’s more attractive than her might love her is narcissism
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 04:33 AM
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women are definitely delusional in relationships, but not in the way you described
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 04:11 AM
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not understanding the concept of SMV = narcissism this scenario sounds exactly like what someone else in this thread described, women give men the benefit of the doubt too much. god forbid a woman believes a man who is more attractive than her might love her
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 04:10 AM
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if you use a very loose definition of manipulate then sure
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 04:09 AM
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do you expect OP to disagree ?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 04:03 AM
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i don’t understand what you don’t understand. how much more clear can i be.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 01:26 AM
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bruh
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 01:24 AM
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okay, then if men like natural women as much as they say they do then women who say they wear makeup for themselves are telling the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 01:19 AM
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its an analogy. youre not the car in the analogy, you are the salesman and the transaction of someone buying your car is the relationship you want. if the relationship you want isn’t what the customer wants they will not participate in the transaction so, do you think the salesman has the right to lie if telling the truth doesn’t get his car sold?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 11:01 PM
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literally in this thread there is a guy who thinks men should only commit to women who sleep with them right away, but also not to commit to a woman with a body count over one. /u/ SeemedGood
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 10:41 PM
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yeah, i don’t think all red pill guys are pieces of shit but i wouldn’t mind filtering them all out
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 10:37 PM
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what’s the max body count a woman can have for you to take her seriously then?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 10:28 PM
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says the gender that wants every woman to stay chaste her whole life but then get into bed with him immediately
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 10:21 PM
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what does it mean to punish honesty? do you expect to be honest with a woman and tell her something that she doesn’t want, and then for her to go along with it anyways? imagine if a car salesman was honest about the car being something the customer didn’t want, then when customers didn’t buy it he thinks “i was punished for being honest! guess i’ll lie from now on!”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 10:17 PM
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men on this sub will claim they’ll either pump and dump anyways or they won’t commit to you if you make him wait because it shows you’re not really into him
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 10:14 PM
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ew, what woman wants used goods
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 10:13 PM
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yeah and men insult each other for being short, it’s not like they genuinely care if a woman is a slut it’s just an insult. women liken men’s behaviour to dogs when they are on the receiving end of behaviour they don’t want, it’s not shaming sexuality to complain about being harassed
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 05:02 PM
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women aren’t the ones doing the things i said.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 04:53 PM
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well first of all the person who compared men’s sexuality to a spam email was a man but on a broader scale, men describe sex as something they take from women or as something women give away, they describe sex using violent terms, they shame women who have a lot of sex, “why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free” “she’s used up/ran through/community bicycle” “a lock that can be opened by many keys is useless” as well as the existence of revenge porn
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 04:23 PM
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men are sex negative towards their own sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 04:14 PM
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neither gender looks good if they look like a “lard-ass” your point about hair makes no sense, short hair is easier to maintain than long hair. being bald is even easier!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 04:31 AM
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and this doesn’t apply to women? you don’t need to have big muscles to look good in a suit, just be slim, the same thing with women. if you don’t believe me then look up “male ralph lauren models” or another brand like that and see if the models modelling suits or other professional clothing are super jacked.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 04:00 AM
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maybe if you are non white then yeah otherwise i can’t think of anything extra that you would have to do to seem professional
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 03:38 AM
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this doesn’t refute anything i said, i already called the preference for wealthy men selfish. and since i have already stated that loving someone for their appearance is selfish, i don’t think i need to say anytning further about the preference for tall men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 01:09 AM
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they’re gonna ignore this comment
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 12:48 AM
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(if the patriarchy is real, then) the patriarchy forces women to care about what men think
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 12:14 AM
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sooo they’re wearing it for themselves or are men lying about liking natural women?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 12:04 AM
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men say they don’t like when women wear makeup. women say they don’t wear makeup for men’s validation, but for themselves and other women. if men do really dislike when women wear makeup, then women must be telling the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 12:03 AM
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if men actually loved natural women as much as they claim they do, isn’t every woman who says she’s wearing makeup for herself or other women telling the truth?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 11:56 PM
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you don’t love her body because it benefits her. men love big tits but women with big tits are more likely to get breast cancer and have back pain etc. what is “real”?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 01:30 PM
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you are the only person who thinks this. just on this subreddit earlier someone was comparing mens lust to receiving a spam email
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 01:28 PM
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look up the word unconditional on this subreddit, and there was another post yesterday (the day i posted this) of a guy saying chris rock was right in reference to what he said about unconditional love
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 01:24 PM
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so you guys are basically like coworkers but with hobbies instead of work?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 03:56 AM
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neither is real, both are based on how it benefits you
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 03:56 AM
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ew, men
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 03:55 AM
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why are you friends with them?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 02:47 AM
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yes, it includes men they’re friends with, i never said otherwise. did i not just explain it’s because they don’t find the men attractive ?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 01:50 AM
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why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 01:34 AM
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women want to have men attracted to them for their personality but are not attracted to men just because of their personality, which is why a guy might get put in the friendzone
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 01:24 AM
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why do you think that means it’s not true? maybe women are just hypocrites, like men often are
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 12:58 AM
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same with women
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 12:57 AM
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i mentioned boyfriends because this is a post about relationships and unconditional love. in the context of a relationship, yes being severely mentally ill has a negative effect on both genders. it’s also the same outside of a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 11:07 PM
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why?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 11:01 PM
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in what way are people more lenient? i didn’t say that was the only risk, its just an example
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 10:56 PM
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no? you said men think that their fiancée loves sex with him as much as he does with her, not about being the best lay
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 10:55 PM
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now you are bringing divorce and alimony into it, i am talking about the liking of boobs or money in a vacuum. oh, so boobs only affect who you are because they affect personality? not because of the boobs themselves? glad we can agree on that i guess
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 10:54 PM
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falling into mental illness and losing everything sucks equally for both genders. a woman who is severely mentally ill and has nothing will not be able to bag a decent man. and having a bad boyfriend is worse than being single. it’s dangerous.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 10:22 PM
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why does it specifically need to be sexual?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 10:07 PM
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women “suddenly” lose value on their 30th birthdays, or 25 if you ask some guys (even younger if you ask other guys) how often is it that men go bankrupt? that’s the only trait that women desire in men that can be lost suddenly, that i can think of
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 10:06 PM
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if you are rich because you inherited your money then you’re loved for the same reason men love women. luck with inheritance.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 10:04 PM
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less likely to change? does it not change each day she gets older?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 09:58 PM
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what’s wrong with my comparison? are they not equally as SELFISH? because that’s what i actually said. so if i got a breast reduction i wouldn’t be the same person? your point about personality is just pedantry. your bank account is not a part of your body, its a part of your life. it can be indicative of who you are. if you have a good one it must mean you have some good personality traits, which are part of you. either that or you gained it through luck or inheritance, which would mean you are…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 09:56 PM
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are personality traits and intelligence not part of who someone is? what’s unconditional about loving a woman for how she looks? you are loving her under the condition that she maintains herself and doesn’t get into any freak accident
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 09:47 PM
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just because their husband wasn’t the best lay, doesn’t mean they don’t enjoy sex with him equally as much as he does with her. dead bedrooms can happen due to a lot of things.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 09:42 PM
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aren’t you also desirable if you are rich?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 09:41 PM
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lol men are programmed to make women want to feel good, but for some reason when other men are around they say differently? men get in groups and all lie to each other?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 09:39 PM
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why did you pick the dog you picked?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 09:37 PM
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loving a woman for how she looks is not love nor is it unconditional
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 09:34 PM
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are your personality traits also not you?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 09:31 PM
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if it’s not a thing then what was the point of saying it, i feel like you were trying to make a comparison but i don’t see what you’re making a comparison to. if loving a woman’s body is somehow loving her for her, you still haven’t explained how that’s unconditional or selfless, you said it’s not “completely” selfless loving a woman for her body isn’t even love in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 09:25 PM
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what does that have to do with my post ?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 09:21 PM
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what does it mean to take someone’s body away?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 09:06 PM
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but it’s not unconditional nor are you loving her for who she is, you love her because you are imagining her as something else.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 09:05 PM
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the idealistic part is the marriage never changing. men are not idealistic for assuming his fiancée loves sex with him as much as he does
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 09:02 PM
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?? when is a woman’s orgasm not sincere
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 08:53 PM
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in what way do pets get unconditional love?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 08:52 PM
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what is the uniqueness of my beauty? it’s just the genes i got.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 08:45 PM
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have you heard the way men describe sex and women who have a lot of sex? they’re the ones who think it’s something you take. do you think men’s sexual desire is inherently selfless?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 08:41 PM
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i don’t understand this answer, i asked you why you think it’s better to be lusted after
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 08:40 PM
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yes of course, men’s sexual desire is completely selfless 🤦‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 08:36 PM
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what exactly do you mean by these terms? i was actually thinking of writing a post about men loving idealistically. it was kind of the same topic as this post. i probably should’ve included stuff about that in this post as a 2 in 1. is “loving” a woman because of how she looks not opportunitistic? it’s not like you love her tits because it benefits her
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 08:33 PM
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why do you think so?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 08:31 PM
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what do you mean by see? because i looked it up on this subreddit and it seems like men are genuinely imagining their wives to look different than they actually look. that doesn’t really sound appealing. imagine if the only reason your wife was happy with a gift you gave her was because she was literally imagining it as something else, how would that be unconditional love?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 08:26 PM
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do you have friends? (i’m not asking in a snarky way)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 08:23 PM
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and most women would be thrilled if a man was so interested in their personality that they wanted to go on a second date with them even if they showed up to the first date looking ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 08:18 PM
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so then if my body changes then i change? isn’t that what u said about my hypothetical breast reduction?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 08:13 PM
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i never said men who gain money through luck are intelligent or hard working? i made the distinction in a previous comment. i don’t understand why you say “not at all” a woman who loves a man who got money from his parents loves him for the same reason men love women who got good genes from their parents (good genes as in attractiveness)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 08:06 PM
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after doing some research that’s kind of what i see it as too, but i still want mr. barely moral to explain his POV
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 08:05 PM
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what don’t i understand? please tell me what percentage of men would be attracted to a woman with a unibrow and a moustache 🤦‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 08:04 PM
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i thought we were just bodies? did u change ur mind or am i misunderstanding?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 08:03 PM
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what is wife goggles?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 07:44 PM
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i think it’s best to use the most objective definition of love. because not all parties will be aware of what definition i’m using, even if i write it in the post not everyone is going to read the full post
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 07:43 PM
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well then i think men can love
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 07:41 PM
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i asked if i stopped being myself, you said no but then also said i am my body. kinda confused here
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 07:40 PM
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okay, then like i said they are loved for the same reason men love women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 07:39 PM
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yeah maybe you will, but they will be so few and far between that i would functionally have no men attracted to me. and the way men treat women they’re not attracted to would bring my self esteem down so much that it would not be worth it as someone who has lost 60lbs (approx 180lbs to 120lbs at 5’4) i know what its like.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 07:38 PM
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i know that i’m attractive. to be honest, my nose is slightly wide and my lips are kind of thin but i have a really nice eye shape. so men usually think im attractive. even men that i think are attractive think im attractive. i promise you, if i stopped waxing myself men would not be attracted to me anymore. i would have a unibrow, noticeable moustache, and even some beard hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 07:27 PM
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do i stop being myself if i get into an accident that leaves me deformed?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 07:24 PM
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women have to do the same thing. i am naturally very hairy, and need to put a lot of effort in to get rid of my body hair. i have to put effort in to not gain weight. i have to put effort in to not have acne. i come from a community where lighter skin and features are seen as more beautiful than dark ones. my mom has very light skin, light brown hair and eyes. my dad has medium dark skin, black hair and dark eyes. i got my moms skin but my dads eyes and hair. it’s all a genetic lottery, if i had…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 07:23 PM
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being attractive also takes work. especially if you are like me and have a ton of body hair. getting rid of body hair is painful, time consuming, and expensive. having good hygiene is also technically work. in order to have a nice body you also need to have self control. if you have acne you need to spend money and learn about everything that could be causing your acne to prevent that. a lot of men have a preference for blondes, and almost no adult woman is naturally blonde. all this to say, lov…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 07:12 PM
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money is a part of who you are. if you have a lot of money you probably had to work hard for it and be intelligent. or you just got lucky and/or inherited it. if it’s the latter, someone who loves you loves you for the same reason men love women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 07:06 PM
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what is love to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 07:03 PM
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do you think it is a bad thing that men’s desirable traits are usually things that have to be earned?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 07:02 PM
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well i tried to explain with dictionary definitions, but when i google definition of love it says deep feelings of affection, and when i google affection it says fondness, and when i google fondness it says affection again. seems like the dictionary can’t get a good grasp on the definition of love either. in trying to be as objective as possible, the dictionary definition of love is an intense feeling of affection.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 06:58 PM
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women are valued for the simple fact that they were born a woman* *must be attractive and not have been born more than 30 years ago
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 06:47 PM
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there is no solid definition of love. the love i have for my mother and father is different from the love i have for my friend which is different from the love i have for a boyfriend/husband. love and selfishness can exist together in a relationship. but they don’t overlap.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 06:45 PM
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this isn’t really what i’m debating, but i’ll answer anyways. when you ask a woman out depends on a million things. for example, if you meet her in a work setting you’ll have to wait longer than if you had met her at a bar. if she doesn’t seem that into you you will have to wait to see if she’s just shy or is really not into you. etc etc
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 06:40 PM
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how am i supposed to explain this to someone who has diagnosed ASPD? it’s like trying to explain colour to a blind person
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 06:04 PM
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your physical body is not all that you are. people have thoughts and feelings and they do actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 05:59 PM
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what is the point of all this pedantry? who gives a fuck? men do not love women for who they are, they just love the body,
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 05:58 PM
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men often talk about hypergamy like it’s a bad thing, in another thread posted today some guy was like “i love my mom and think she’s a great woman, but it’s hard to think about how she chose my dad because he works hard” (paraphrasing) like dude, you’d rather your mom have chosen a broke guy? hypergamy benefits both men and women. it just doesn’t benefit the men are the very bottom, sucks for them but hypergamy isn’t their only problem either.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 05:24 PM
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quote from his comment: “there are many advantages of being a western male, one of them having a huge relative income” i never said he was the hypergamous one, you misunderstood my comment
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 04:17 PM
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so if you got a different assortment of genes your life would be worse. i would rather have to just work hard to have a good life than depend on the genetic lottery.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 02:51 PM
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yeah, and there are millions of women younger and more beautiful than me. in what way are you looks a lot more “you” than something you achieved due to your own hard work? would you be a fundamentally different person if you had a different eye colour? if someone loves you for your looks, they’ll dump you once you get older. if they can’t theyll still lust after younger people
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 02:30 PM
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the random assortment of genes i got from my parents is a better indicator of who i am than something you worked towards and achieved due to you drive or intelligence? men who love women based off how close to being barely legal she is and how big her tits are are so much more moral than women who love men because they possess something that shows they work hard and are intelligent. men are such angels.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 02:18 PM
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my looks are not an “integral” part of myself, they will change over time. i come from a community where light skin is seen as more beautiful than dark skin. my mom has light skin and my dad has medium darker skin. i got my moms skin colour, but it does not make me happy to think about how id be “loved” less if i got my dads skin colour. it also doesn’t make me happy to realize id be loved even more if i got my moms light hair and eye colour as well. being loved for how you look and how young yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 02:16 PM
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i don’t want to be loved for how i look either
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 02:06 PM
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why is this such a bad thing? an average looking man can become high value if he works hard, and average looking woman can only become a little bit more beautiful until she looks fake, and she definitely can’t become younger. there is no such thing as unconditional love
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 02:02 PM
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that wasn’t my question. men do not become poor from paying for dates. yes they lose money from it, but not enough to become poor which is what you said women are repulsed by. your analogy doesn’t check out.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 03:04 AM
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since when do men become poor due to paying for dates?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 02:44 AM
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my last sentence was genuine
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 01:38 AM
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you committed the no true scotsman fallacy in a different comment though? you have claimed that men hate creeps who defile good women, which is not true, they hate the women who get defiled but wish they were the ones doing the defiling. is this comment you admitting you used some sort of fallacy but i just named it wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 12:44 AM
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“i answered your question” “in what way did you answer my question” “i didnt” what did i say that was manipulative ?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 12:38 AM
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in what way did you answer my question?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 12:06 AM
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i asked you a question, don’t know why you got so defensive
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 11:30 PM
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if only men had the self control to not create town bicycles
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 11:29 PM
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if a woman puts too much priority on a man making a lot of money, then yeah she probably is financially insecure. the other traits you named are physical, not behavioural
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 09:27 PM
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sounds like a just world fallacy to me, do you think a man with less than pure intentions isn’t going to go after virgins because he’s so moral ?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 09:20 PM
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does your second paragraph only apply to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 09:16 PM
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wahhhh wahhh women bad wahhh provide proof for your claim in the first paragraph
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 09:15 PM
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men are innately repulsed by promiscuous women, yet actively participate in the behaviour that causes promiscuous women to exist. curious 🧐
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 09:13 PM
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no it doesn’t. show proof that middle class people get poorer generation after generation
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 09:08 PM
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the woman got got memed for being mauled by a bear died before the whole man vs bear debate dumbass i already said that. “hurr durr no man would think it’s funny if his female family member got killed” go tell that to the ones making memes men are the ones who should expect meanness from women, you’ve already had your turn being mean. men have earned all their stereotypes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 06:52 PM
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not every man who kills his wife was abusive beforehand. the guy in that situation just killed his wife because he had a mistress and he wanted to make his wife’s death seem like an accident. i don’t think people in abusive relationships tend to go on hikes together. it also wasn’t the point of my comment. the point was that men mock women who get murdered, whether it be by a bear or by a man. you’re the one talking about how men are justified in being mean to women because of the man vs bear de…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 05:27 PM
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i misspoke in my other comment, i meant “it gets squandered again” why are you using statistics about wealthy families to compare families in generational poverty? the situations are not the same at all. it would be more b helpful if you found statistics on women marry above their status generation after generation but somehow each generation is still in poverty. the exact number does matter because there is a difference between marrying someone who makes double your income compared to 5% more.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 05:20 PM
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how does what i said mean i don’t understand what generational poverty is? https://ifstudies.org/blog/women-still-marry-up-but-the-income-gap-is-narrowing this article gives different numbers than what you have, so idk which one is true
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 02:36 PM
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you actually have to prove that women consistently marry above their status for this to actually make sense this still doesn’t make sense, show me how common it is for someone from a middle class family (aka someone who’s mom was in poverty but married above her status) to end up in poverty as an adult, only for them to marry above their status and somehow squander it again
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 02:17 PM
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what was “homies” point and how did i prove it? your point about a women’s prison does not apply to what we’re actually talking about, which is that men prefer how women act in countries where they have little to no freedom compared to western women. men love how women act in countries where they have been trained since childhood to cater to men. thus why i said men do not love women the way they claim they do, they love caricatures of femininity
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 02:14 PM
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wow, it was IPV instead of a random man, you really got me there! i guess men aren’t violent after all!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 02:04 PM
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familial or platonic love cannot replace romantic/sexual love if you are getting NONE of the latter. they are not the same kind of love.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 02:32 AM
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“women, due to their lived experience, do not feel safe around men, let me prove their point by making memes depicting women being brutally murdered, that will sure show em” i remember one time on instagram i came across a meme page that was mocking some random woman who got killed by a bear, he also had a meme mocking a woman who was pushed off a cliff by her husband. so it seems like if you’re a random woman who wasn’t even alive during the whole man vs bear drama, or if you’re a random woman …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 02:23 AM
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so what’s your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 02:13 AM
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you keep saying “if i actually think about it i can give you an answer” so either give an answer or stop replying to people lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 01:30 AM
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men will act like assholes, women complain online, then men act like the women complain for no reason and act like even worse assholes
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 01:20 AM
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men get “red pilled” at the drop of a hat, the guys on this subreddit will take a screenshot of something a woman said and be like “see!! see what women are like?!!”
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 01:17 AM
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how am i being neurotic? manipulative people are generally not honest, that’s kind of a hallmark of manipulation
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 10:55 PM
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since when are manipulative people honest?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 10:28 PM
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ok, then what about going on a date with my legs and armpits unshaved?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 10:24 PM
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are you saying sydney looks like that? what’s your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 10:22 PM
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yes. and the chance of a woman getting raped is higher than the chance of a man getting attacked randomly in the street, so i don’t know why you said women are afraid of potential violence meanwhile men have to deal with real existing violence. especially because a large amount of women who get raped got raped as a child, the rape is not potential it’s something they already dealt with.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 10:22 PM
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the sheep is the one who has to deal with the worst behaviour of the wolf, it’s the one who has to be wary of the wolf. if sheep and wolves could talk i would trust the sheep more
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 10:19 PM
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sounds like a good reason for women to not follow men’s advice of “settle down as young as possible!!” then
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 10:17 PM
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wouldn’t the straight male friend of a woman have conflicts of interest in vetting his friends partners? unless the woman was quite ugly, in which case he wouldn’t have very many men to vet for her anyways?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 10:14 PM
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any data to back up your claims?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 10:12 PM
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sexual victimization isn’t violence?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 10:09 PM
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so why’s the divorce rate so high?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 10:07 PM
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wouldn’t think have a bad effect on someone who is genuine?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 09:59 PM
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how does this work on a date? if i’m on a date with a nice guy and i start making it seem like i think degenerate behaviour is okay, won’t he think im degenerate?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 09:57 PM
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seems like neither gender is good at vetting, if you look at the divorce rate
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 09:53 PM
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what did they know? you realize that most rapists probably show a different face to other men than they do to women right?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 09:52 PM
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i am indian (ethnically, i dont live in india). the only reason arranged marriages are statistically more successful is because divorce is frowned upon, not because the marriages are so amazing. last year a woman in my neighbourhood got shot by her husband because she caught him cheating, he got her in the shoulder and (fortunately) didnt check to make sure she was actually dead before he shot himself in the head. the wife survived. thats just the most extreme example, none of my friends parents…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 09:47 PM
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if women consistently marry above their status why is generational poverty a thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 08:36 PM
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would you also advocate for women to wear a fat suit on dates to see if the guys really into her or just how she looks?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 08:21 PM
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men do not dislike when women are hypergamous, they just don’t like it when it’s not in their favour
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 06:43 PM
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i always find it stupid when men complain about women talking about their careers on dates. first of all, men complain about everything women do. if a woman doesn’t have a careers she’s a lazy gold digger and if she does (and she talks about it while talking about herself, god forbid) then she’s wrong for that too. second of all, what do you want her to say about “things that truly interest and matter to men” ? things like loyalty, kindness, having a good sense of humour are shown and not told. …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 06:41 PM
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this comment is why i think it’s stupid every time a man says men love women unconditionally or that men are more romantic etc. men do not love women, they love the idea of what a woman is supposed to be. a caricature of femininity. women in the countries where they have less freedom are better at being women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 06:30 PM
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it’s not about women being cared for, the original comment was about a sippy cup. it’s about the child
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 12:56 AM
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men on this sub claim the opposite every day
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 12:42 AM
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interesting that you compare blowjobs to chores 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 11:59 PM
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editing my comment cuz i misread the graph im gonna need you to provide specific data on age gap relationships, this does not tell the whole story. what is defined as single here
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 05:44 AM
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if you’re referencing the “actual statistics” i think you’re referencing, first of all that study was pretty vague on the use of the word relationship, and a lot of that disparity could be from women in their late 20s dating guys a couple years older than them. not huge age gaps. young women do go for young men. the average age gap in a marriage in america is 2 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 05:40 AM
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so why did you use the word love in your original comment? is the japanese woman appreciating you?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 05:31 AM
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most people get married around their income level. and even though men on this sub love to yap about a man’s prime being later than a woman’s/women hitting the wall at 25 people still get married to people around their age.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 05:25 AM
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no you!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 04:47 AM
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wow, you got a story of a man complaining about his wife. and no input from the wife or you personally witnessing anything. a truly valuable anecdote, perhaps one of the most important on this subreddit
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 04:44 AM
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all this is from the coworkers perspective ?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 04:37 AM
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cooking food AND keeping the house clean takes a couple hours total every week? maybe if you make extremely simple meals and have a small place, i don’t see how it would take that little time when you have children if you eat twice a day and take 10 minutes to make your meal, that by itself is more than 2 hours in a week.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 04:34 AM
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choose better
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 04:32 AM
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even if you have the money you still need to be emotionally prepared to become a parent
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 04:26 AM
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the way red pill men think about women truly amazes me. this guy genuinely thinks a woman wanted to divorce her husband because of a cup in the dishwasher. he thinks the marriage was all hunky dory before this
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 04:22 AM
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biologically? probably. socially/emotionally/financially, most of the time no
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 04:19 AM
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since when do men (other than the ones in their early 20s) find women their age attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 04:08 AM
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have you ever studied biology? evolution doesn’t give a fuck how long you live, if you have one trait that makes you live shorter but makes you pass on more genes then that trait will pass on, that’s how genes work.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 03:27 AM
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women are usually attracted to men their own age so this isn’t fully true, it’s more likely that an older woman will be attracted to her husband and he isn’t as attracted to her, if at all also, people who get married as young as possible have super high divorce rates
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 10:32 PM
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why does everything need to be put in boxes? virtually all humans like sex, asking for sex isn’t inherently masculine. it might just be seen that way due to patriarchal standards
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 10:32 PM
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men already hurt women physically AND through the ballot box your second sentence shows you don’t understand natural selection, which is fine. i actually didn’t understand it at first either, i once asked my high school biology teacher a question with the same reasoning you have here. natural selection does not select for genes that will allow you to have the longest life, it selects for genes that make it more likely for you to reproduce/spread your genes
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 10:30 PM
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swap the genders and you have something that happens way more often. once again, who supports brigitte macron? men shame older women for dating younger men plenty, women just don’t do it often.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 10:27 PM
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since when do red pill guys believe this?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 08:57 PM
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why should women settle down as young as possible to a man who’s not going to find her attractive in 20 years?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 08:55 PM
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do you think the fact that they get married shortly after puberty is their choice? do you think they would choose not to take birth control if they had access to it?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 08:54 PM
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yes, in my opinion monogamy is something completely man (specifically men) made. i don’t think any of our relatives in the animal kingdom are monogamous, very few animals are. the ones that are, are usually birds so definitely not close to us. monogamy only ever benefitted the average man
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 08:43 PM
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he’s only a victim if he genuinely thought that woman was really attracted to him, but i don’t even think that’s true
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 08:40 PM
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the birth rate is going down. women have more children in countries that are more patriarchal, seems like it’s men who want to have kids more than women
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 08:38 PM
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bit of a freudian slip there, i think you meant “anyone” instead of “anything” but it is true that men fuck animals if men don’t find 40 year olds attractive, fine. no woman should settle down with a man who will find her ugly eventually. she should spend her youth having fun with chad and extracting resources from sugar daddies. then find a beta to have kids with if she really wants to, otherwise just become a cat lady. the only person who really loses in this scenario is the average man
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 08:36 PM
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your first paragraph is.. exactly what i said most older women don’t really give a fuck about the relationship itself, what they do have issue with is men saying that women are only valuable for youth/beauty and calling older women insults just because of their age such as the word hag. men say women have it easy but completely ignore that fact
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 08:32 PM
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well he must not be very good at picking women with good personalities because he picked one who sued him for millions
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 08:24 PM
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well then women being hypergamous isn’t anything personal either lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 08:17 PM
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well then neither gender should care to be in a relationship? why should women bother with men who are only as loyal as their options, who only love them for their youth, beauty and how they make them feel?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 08:17 PM
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who tf supports brigitte macron? anyways, i’ll tell you why madonna and cher are praised: because it happens way less! it’s kinda like how people praise the underdog who comes out on top. it’s not common for women to say men age like milk or that they hit the wall at 30. it’s not common for women to look up “barely legal” porn. so when a relationship where the woman is older actually does happen, women are like “ha, we can do it too”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 08:15 PM
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passport bros are only opting out of the “western” part, they still want to benefit from hypergamy. if hypergamy didn’t exist they wouldn’t be able to get a woman in whatever developing country they go to
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 08:10 PM
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this is exactly what i’m saying. if young women loved older men that much there wouldn’t be any taboo with age gap relationships, and the average age gap of marriages wouldn’t go down the more gender equal a country is
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 08:07 PM
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and yet, most men would not be happy with their daughter dating a much older man
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 08:05 PM
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have you seen the woman? she isn’t very good looking, not ugly, but if i was a rich man looking to date younger women i’d look for better. she probably just took whatever she could get.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 08:01 PM
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imagine taking years to build millions of dollars and then some 20 year old mid OF model takes it all from you by lying. this is truly something for women to cope and seethe about even if their relationship went well, for every young woman dating an older man there’s a man her age crying on the internet about how lonely he is. once again, don’t know what women are supposed to be mad at
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 08:00 PM
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what is there to cope and seethe about? his public reputation is ruined and he had to pay 50 million (i think) to some mid OF model. this is a win for the girls fr
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 07:57 PM
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not so high value anymore.. since when do high value men go after mid OF models? you’d think he’d be able to land an actual model
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 07:56 PM
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you’re saying she isn’t loved even though she’s getting paid millions, when the reason she’s getting paid millions is because men love her. and once again, no i’m not talking about actual love. i mean love in the sense that people love ice cream. which is also what i assume the parent comment meant, but he’s never replied to me
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 07:42 PM
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her role in euphoria was her showing her tits in like every episode, that’s what she does in all her most famous roles
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 07:38 PM
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i don’t know any fuckboys expecting anal on the third date, i do know the men on this sub who expect sex on the first date because they want the woman to prove she’s really physically attracted to him
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 07:36 PM
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the point i’m trying to prove is that i wasn’t talking about deep/genuine/true love or whatever the fuck and i don’t know why every guy replying to me assumed that in the context of a twitter poll under a comment that uses the word love how come no one is arguing about the use of the word love in the parent comment? do you think he means men actually love the japanese lady?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 07:33 PM
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cool, i just find it funny how you accused me of asking a question in bad faith then proceeded to write a whole paragraph in bad faith i also don’t understand what your point about how women approaching dating and sex has to do with anything, im asking about men’s actions and opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 07:31 PM
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just because you live close by and see them in the grocery store doesn’t mean you’re still friends, unless by marrying childhood friends you meant reconnecting and marrying instead of being friends the whole time then getting married i still don’t understand what women dumping men during covid has to do with you waiting
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 06:44 PM
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and it’s still an unreasonable standard
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 06:29 PM
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well, he responded to me but didn’t mention anything about an std test
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 06:02 PM
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most people probably can’t even remember their childhood friend or former classmates names, and on top of that young boys and girls are usually friends with their own gender so yeah it’s pretty unlikely for people to get married to their childhood friends. i don’t see how your covid example is a counter argument, what does that have to do with the friend zone. if a couple got separated because of covid restrictions and stayed that way it’s probably because they didn’t really love each other
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 05:54 PM
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most people are not special enough for that to be reasonable
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 05:45 PM
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i already said in another comment that i didn’t mean true/deep whatever kinda love, men love her enough that she gets paid millions
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 05:35 PM
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std test?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 05:34 PM
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i don’t think women stick men in boxes forever, one of my friends was friends with a guy for 7 months and then started dating and she had sex with him within a couple weeks of that
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 05:33 PM
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the original comment i replied to specifically used the word love, and then i used the word love in my reply to it. then 2 different men replied to me taking issue with the fact that i used the word love. lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 05:30 PM
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a couple weeks is an answer i would accept. do you think it’s reasonable for men to expect women to have low body counts but to have sex quickly after meeting a guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 05:28 PM
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so do men love the japanese woman? because that’s what the parent comment is saying
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 05:22 PM
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it’s not an issue, unless you think evolution is an issue and every other female animal on earth has high standards
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 05:10 PM
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not true, men want women to have extremely high standards with every on earth man except them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 05:06 PM
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so how long would you be willing to wait to have sex with a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 05:05 PM
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considering how much men on this sub and out of it complain about being lonely it seems most men would cut off one of their fingers for a chance to date sydney or any woman
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 04:56 PM
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well he didn’t seem like he was joking because i asked why he thought that and he didn’t say “oh i was just joking” i don’t remember exactly what he said but he did think i was lying of course, when something bad happens to men it’s just how women are but when something bad happens to women, women need to choose better
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 04:55 PM
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making conversation means i’ve been on a date before?? if 70% of divorces are initiated by women then seems like men are pretty bad at choosing women who won’t divorce them, considering that according to the red pill men are the gatekeepers of commitment (you are purple pill so im assuming there’s a good chance you believe that part of the red pill)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 04:44 PM
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the first time i ever went on a date the guy thought i was lying the whole time about it being my first date. also considering the divorce rate and other things seems like men don’t have this magical ability
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 04:31 PM
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if men can tell why do men always talk about being worried their girlfriend is hiding her past?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 04:17 PM
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this is my favourite aspect of the internet, men overanalyzing women. sydney just has an unattractive eye shape, they’re droopy and she has too much upper eyelid exposure (compare her eye area to someone like adriana lima). i don’t know how you gathered so much about her character and actions by that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 03:55 PM
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the japanese woman is facially 10x more attractive than sydney, its only virtue signalling because these guys are saying stuff like “the japanese girl is smiling”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 03:49 PM
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why does the movie exec pay her millions ?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 10:07 AM
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tell me why sydney sweeney is famous because it’s not for being an outstanding actress or a pretty face
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 10:06 AM
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how did you miss the point of my comment that badly 🤦‍♀️ i didn’t say men love her BECAUSE she gets paid, i said men love her, that’s WHY she gets paid
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 12:33 AM
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men not being “actual” fans of her work or respecting her acting skills means nothing when she’s still getting paid millions to do it lmao according to how lonely and desperate men claim they are on this sub, you’d think most men would cut off one of their fingers to date sydney
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 12:26 AM
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ah yes, because when i was talking about love i was totally talking about true deep unconditional love men love her showing her tits, i bet she feels loved when she sees her paycheque
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 11:30 PM
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ah yes, just because you don’t know about her means she isn’t loved by men. she gets paid millions to show her tits
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 11:24 PM
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sydney sweeney isn’t famous for being a human trainwreck like nikocado, she’s famous for having big boobs. i don’t know how that doesn’t cater to the male gaze.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 11:23 PM
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are you saying sweeney isn’t loved by men?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 10:56 PM
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well, the ones who do put posters on their mancave walls never have pictures of fully clothed women right? beer ads, ring girls, cheerleaders etc never fully clothed women
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 10:21 PM
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huh? sydney’s pose looks like a sex position
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 10:17 PM
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if sydney sweeney didn’t cater to the male gaze no one would know her name. she is facially completely average, that’s why she has her tits out all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 10:14 PM
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yeah, that’s why dudes have posters of fully clothed women making cute faces hanging up in their man caves, and also why pamela anderson was widely regarded as ugly back in the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 10:11 PM
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and you are suffering from the “men who have less options are more moral and totally wouldn’t act the same way men with a lot of options act if they were in their position” fallacy
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 05:43 PM
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so where’s the proof of women sharing men
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 10:46 AM
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women don’t understand social contracts because they don’t arent as desperate as men?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 09:43 AM
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then go do that instead of annoying tf out of me
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 09:36 AM
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seems like men are the ones who don’t take accountability.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 09:36 AM
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you’ve been complaining this whole time buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 09:34 AM
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maybe men should choose based off personality and you won’t have to worry about a woman caring about your height!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 09:32 AM
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the same way no one said height = hard work
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 09:30 AM
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men should pick women based on personality first, since you all complain so much
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 09:30 AM
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maybe you should choose better women and you’ll find one that take accountability
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 09:29 AM
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when did watching porn of 18 year olds = unconditional love ?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 09:28 AM
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now you’re just trolling me
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 09:27 AM
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yeah, they aren’t. once you lock down a woman as a short guy you don’t have to worry one day she won’t be attracted to your height anymore, women don’t have that luxury
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 09:26 AM
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where is the proof women are sharing 2.5 % of men ??
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 09:25 AM
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see my other comment in this thread somebody already made this argument
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 09:24 AM
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and what are the percentages of people in the group above? most of that statistic is probably women in their late 20s dating guys a couple years older than them
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 04:58 AM
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if you think women are a monolith there is no point of you being on this sub, you cant be reasoned with
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 04:21 AM
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if you think women are a monolith why are you on this sub? nobody would be able to change your mind or reason with you. you’re just wasting peoples time.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 04:19 AM
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women dont even dislike short men that much. i see short couples around my university campus so often that sometimes i feel like taking pictures of them and posting them on all the incel-like subs (with their faces blurred out obviously) and just saying “here!! short couples exist!! stop complaining!!” even if women did dislike short men, not that many men are that short. if you are short you can become a passport bro, because the average height of men is shorter in different countries. once you…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 04:06 AM
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so men don’t have any responsibility because they’re more desperate, even though them being desperate is also a personal problem? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 01:50 AM
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i could say the same to men who complain about women, anything to avoid accountability lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 01:34 AM
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the accountability warriors never make sense
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 11:54 PM
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ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 11:47 PM
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accountability has become a buzzword because men use it when it doesn’t even make sense, which is what i said in my first comment. the rest of your comment proves why it’s a buzzword, you don’t even know me nor are we in a situation where i need to take accountability for anything, and you are accusing me (and all women) of needing to take accountability
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 11:13 PM
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im a biology major, i know genes affect more than looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 10:12 PM
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women never claimed it was selfless
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 10:09 PM
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do genes not include looks?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 10:09 PM
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i thought black pill men thought looks trump all?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 09:55 PM
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not that i don’t believe you because i think it could be true, but imma need a source on that so i can see the specifics
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 09:54 PM
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since when do men prefer women around their age?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 09:52 PM
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you must understand, women are shallow for preferring men with muscular bodies and high status men, even though those things show hard work and discipline. men are angels who only love women based on how close to being barely legal she is and how big her boobs are. its true unconditional love.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 09:52 PM
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i thought it was a gotcha because every time i’ve asked a man this question they do some mental gymnastics to avoid answering it, you are the only man who’s ever admitted the truth
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 09:47 PM
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accountability has become a buzzword, men use it when it doesn’t even make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 09:42 PM
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wow, a reddit comment. definitely an example of what all women are like
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 09:40 PM
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it’s pretty common on social media for men to say that
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 09:37 PM
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if it’s so common for women to be with bad men, isn’t it also common for men to be bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 09:37 PM
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every time i’ve told a man on this sub to pick better they’ve thrown a tantrum saying “but men are the beggars!! women are the choosers!!” and they say women don’t take accountability
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 09:35 PM
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so.. men want a good woman but she has to be young first? meaning that both genders are about equally shallow? wonderful, nothing left to argue over
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 09:32 PM
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why does it matter? she’d eventually look like this anyways, you wouldn’t be okay with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 09:31 PM
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ok
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 06:38 PM
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and not every man has that trade off, plenty of step dads are happy
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 05:50 PM
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when i was in middle school i used to hear kids complaining about how strict their stepdad was all the time also why are you comparing a man knowingly and willingly asking a woman with children to be his wife to slavery
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 04:45 PM
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this seems pretty desperate.. if even one person on this sub or elsewhere said that, it would be true for this person to say “i heard this quote by someone” and him repeating that quote multiple times wouldn’t make it any less true what would this person even have to gain from lying about that ??
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 04:38 PM
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k then go debate the mgtow and those kinda guys not me
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 02:49 PM
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?? men on this sub say women ruin men’s lives
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 03:45 AM
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ooh, the logic card. you are not forced to be in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 01:29 AM
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yeah the women YOU CHOOSE and if women are the choosers then staying single is a choice for women, yes. but it’s also a choice for a lot of guys too, according to this sub at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 12:46 AM
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accountability: nowhere to be found
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 11:38 PM
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you ignored the part of my comment that i was actually interested in you answering 😕
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 09:53 PM
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look up why facebook was first created. also look up “is anyone up? website”
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 09:21 PM
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men have been doing that for longer than the tea app has existed. men have also been spreading information about their ex, including revenge porn, for longer than the tea app has existed.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 09:20 PM
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if you are at a high end gym and in a decent area then don’t all the single good looking women also have good careers? how many of these women do you know personally are dating and whining a lot?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 09:12 PM
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everything you’re saying just proves how mad you are at getting the same advice men give to women lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 08:57 PM
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what am i supposed to read better? you just said “this is why” you didn’t specify anything else. my toxic attitude of repeating things men say to women back to men? what’s the attitude of men saying it to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 05:13 PM
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well, men are the ones who use whore as an insult, so you tell me who thinks sex workers are worse people. emotional security and connection is not super different from cash? wtf? would you be emotionally fulfilled if no one ever actually spoke to you, just gave you money? why are you using an example from a completely different context to prove that insincerity is not negative? stick to the actual situation we’re talking about, sexual/romantic desire. people generally expect sincerity in those …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 05:11 PM
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mass videos on tik tok, lol. men aren’t asking women out because we’re telling you to choose better, the exact same thing men tell women?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 04:53 PM
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i legit had a debate with a guy who compared women who want an emotional connection before sex to prostitutes, because both are transactional. the poster is the one saying it’s not sincere, is that not negative? he also accused women of being manipulative about this topic in another comment, if men don’t see transaction as bad then what exactly are women trying to manipulate, and is accusing women of being manipulative also not assigning intentions?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 04:52 PM
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you replied to me in a way that makes it seem like you agree with OP men use the word transactional as a negative most of the time, men are attributing intentions to something women are not doing intentionally. no woman thinks of responsive desire as transactional, it just happens, like if someone smiles at you in the street (and not in the extreme scenario you described) which is why i used the word pathologize
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 04:30 PM
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ah, so men are the transactional ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 04:27 PM
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so how does that make it non sincere? if you smile at someone and they smile back is it not sincere because you smiled first? you guys just want to pathologize everything women do
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 04:17 PM
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the person i’m replying to is a man saying that long term relationships are not fun, if he’s talking about men in general then it doesn’t make sense for men to get remarried so often
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 03:55 PM
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women shouldn’t have rights because they don’t make it easier for men to date?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 03:50 PM
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calls something that is not an objective fact an objective fact, then accuses women of manipulation. you are 2/2 on the buzzwords here! next you just need to mention accountability and you’ll win the game!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 03:49 PM
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so how come men who get divorced or widowed are more likely to get remarried than women?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 03:37 PM
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https://rainn.org/statistics/scope-problem
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 02:37 PM
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it’s almost like rape is extremely common or something 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 02:23 PM
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why should i spend any time advocating for women to pay on dates or shovel the driveway if i have bigger problems to deal with, like rape and abortion rights?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 02:17 PM
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or maybe just choose better, yknow, the thing men tell women to do all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 02:15 PM
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the only people i’ve heard saying slut shaming doesn’t happen anymore or isn’t common are men lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 02:11 PM
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who’s “one of you gold diggers” ? if a woman is marrying a man in his 20s who doesn’t have much or any status yet, it’s pretty likely she’s not a gold digger.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 10:42 PM
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but you are making sure you aren’t getting a woman that’s marrying you for money and you’re still going for younger women. i don’t know why you tied men preferring young women without kids to women liking money, men would still like those women even if women didn’t care about money. i just asked because i figured it would be easier for you to find a woman who doesn’t care about status if you got married younger, since you would not have needed to prove status to her in the first place. sure, a y…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 10:40 PM
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if you want women who don’t care about status why didn’t you settle down earlier?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 10:27 PM
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i thought men didn’t like being settled for?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 09:10 PM
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women are never going to give a fuck about men complaining about shovelling the driveway or paying on dates when theyre dealing with problems like rape and abortion rights
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 09:10 PM
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why should a young woman get with you just because of your fitness? you don’t think men her age are more fit?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 08:12 PM
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you got any data on women being more sexist, racist, “lookist”? what do you even define those words as?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 01:04 AM
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you got any data on women being more manipulative or more likely to lie?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 01:03 AM
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the point you made is what the post is about, so do you agree with the post ?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 12:54 AM
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your first paragraph doesn’t refute anything i said, i said that in my comment. if i was reliant on another human beings body and had no thoughts and feelings of my own, then sure. i am not going to take anything you say seriously if you have previously advocated for women sleeping around. you’ve caused way more abortions than i have lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 03:33 PM
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the only thing embryos have in common with what we consider people is the DNA. but one of my skin cells also has human DNA. i don’t think if i go to a pedicure salon and they get rid off some of the cells on my feet it would be considered murder. abortion is usually not allowed after a fetus feels pain. do you seriously think the average woman who gets an abortion is the same as the average murderer? the intent is completely different. you’re only making these statements because you dont want to…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 11:20 PM
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men are violent, yes. abortion is a medical procedure, most of the time it’s just done with a pill. it’s not violence, especially when the human getting aborted can’t even feel pain. actual murder is pretty violent. you would also have to prove women getting abortions are doing it with bad intent the way a murderer does for your point to really make sense
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 10:16 PM
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that’s how most people meet anyways. or on dating apps. you guys act as if cold approaching was super successful before women complained about it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 07:24 PM
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you guys treat everything that’s more common in women as being bad. if there was a study that came out that said men tend to prefer pizza and women tend to prefer tacos, you guys would write think pieces about how liking tacos is a sign of low intelligence, and women arent taking enough accountability for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 06:01 PM
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and you know this how?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 05:56 PM
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if YOU said that, no man would disagree. if a woman says it in a tone that men don’t like, they’ll accuse her of not picking the right man, not all men are the same, ur a misandrist, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 05:51 PM
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don’t you think that changes your perception of women? if you’re very handsome then women who are interested in sex just based off how you look will approach you more. this is like a stripper saying all married men cheat with strippers
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 04:57 PM
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so why do men complain about divorce so much? you chose that woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 11:28 PM
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i really don’t understand what type of women you guys know who are dating ex convicts. all my friends are dating normal ass dudes
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 11:28 PM
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a big problem is that men mostly bring up their issue only when women bring up theirs. most of the problems that men have are caused by other men, especially when you just look at it from a first glance, and this is why “by other men” is such a common response from women. like no shit women don’t have sympathy for men getting murdered more often when most murderers are also men, especially when the only reason you brought that statistic up in the first place is because the woman was complaining …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 10:26 PM
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you know for certain hundreds of women who have had a whore phase? you attract 99% of women?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 03:49 PM
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maybe you just attract whores?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 03:26 PM
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don’t men complain about women not sleeping with them just because they paid for dinner?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 03:24 PM
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men already complain that richer men have access to more and better women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 07:48 PM
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ironically, men would still complain that richer men are able to afford better and more sex bots.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 07:06 PM
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that’s a whole lot of buzzwords to describe young beautiful women thinking they’re high value because that’s literally what men’s actions and words are telling them
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 06:47 PM
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what the fuck else is a sex bot supposed to be? you can only get so close to looking and acting human. do you expect robots to be perfect at something so intrinsically human as sex and love?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 06:41 PM
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even if that was true, what does that have to do with anything i said? men, who don’t benefit from marriage/are at an extreme disadvantage, enjoy getting remarried to one woman with no identity to the next?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 06:38 PM
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marriage doesn’t benefit men at all yet men who have been divorced or widowed are way more likely to get remarried than women 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 06:31 PM
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men always complain about how bad women are, mgtow, and similar subs have way more members than the female equivalent women don’t need to meet good men by getting cold approached. you’re acting as if cold approaching was a common way to get in a relationship before your example of men complaining about women not saying sorry sounds like men are bad at choosing women. i find it funny how when women complain about men it’s because they’re bad at vetting, but when men complain about women it’s beca…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 02:57 PM
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why are you accusing me of having poor reading comprehension when i was just laughing at the way you worded your first comment about cockroaches? also, you have poor reading comprehension or you didn’t actually read my post. because the last paragraph pretty heavily implies i’m a woman. first i say that women should approach men more, then i say that i myself have approached men before. did you think i was a gay man when you read that or did you not read that?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 05:19 PM
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so who’s the “her” you were referring to when you say “my wife approached me first. again, fuck her and everyone like her” if you wanted to be a bitter man then you should have put “fuck her and everyone like her” before you mentioned your wife 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 05:14 PM
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i don’t put in any effort to be more feminine than i naturally am. if im masculine, fine. men like my personality anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 05:09 PM
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i can vet someone for sexual interest in me by the way they look at me, i detailed this in another thread. i couldn’t vet for romantic interest based off one interaction even if it was the guy who approached me. i could vet off confidence depending on the situation, maybe i see a man being confident doing something else before i approach him. i do not think a man is interested in me just because of a smile, its all the other things that come with the smile. i dont even think most men realize the…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 03:47 PM
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why the hostility? who are you calling a cockroach, some random woman or your wife? “my wife approached me first. again, fuck her and everyone like her” 😂 this genuinely made me laugh
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 03:27 PM
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how would i know the first thing if a guy approaches me? i don’t need a guy to be a uber confident chad to be interested in him, when i think a guy is physically attractive i find it endearing if he’s a little shy. when i used to work at a cafe there was a construction worker who’d come in often who looked like a young christian bale. he had a shy demeanor, and i think you can gather that in was attracted to him based off the fact im talking about him right now. i regret not asking him out a lot…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 03:26 PM
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the two things you named, confidence and desiring sex vs a relationship, can be found out through vetting the first point isn’t really women’s problem, it’s men who are scared of approaching because of a minority of women
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 01:58 PM
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it think it’s more realistic for women to apparoch men but they would have to approach guys other than chad
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 11:57 AM
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i asked what problems you had with western women, not the ones you made up in your head. other men in this thread have no problem approaching
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 11:49 AM
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men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 11:18 AM
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women don’t like being objectified. men say they would love to be objectified. different genders are different. do you think some guy i would’ve approached would be happy if i told him “hey i think you’re really cute, but i wont date you because some guy on reddit told me it would make me a hypocrite”
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 11:05 AM
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ya this is something i should’ve mentioned in my post, the amount of women complaining about getting approached is completely blown out of proportion. i don’t even think 50% of women complained in the first place. but the overall point was that it doesn’t matter if it was blown out of proportion, women can still benefit from the situation
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 11:01 AM
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what problems have you had with western women?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 10:59 AM
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what’s wrong with the first paragraph? makes sense to me. how are most women bad at vetting men? congratulations, women shooting themsleves in the foot by being scared to approach was mentioned in the post, you refuted nothing. the last paragraph is just whining.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 10:58 AM
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is it hypocritical when i’m making my families tea and i put more sugar in mine than in my dads because he doesn’t like it very sweet?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 10:50 AM
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how is it hypocritical if i approach a man who looks good if that’s what men want?? if men didn’t want it i wouldn’t do it! this is a very weird hill to die on. if doing that makes me a hypocrite then fine
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 10:48 AM
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then do it respectfully. it’s not like every woman has a problem with it, i don’t even think most do. men just like to blow things out of proportion
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 06:14 AM
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well then how was cold approaching gonna help them?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 06:07 AM
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okay, i will actively go against what men say they want out of principle to avoid being a hypocrite. happy?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 05:41 AM
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and in reality, men say they would love to be approached just based on how they look.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 05:32 AM
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so then it’s still a problem with the man she chooses? she could easily approach a guy who’s not chad but still a good man
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 03:19 AM
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if a woman is sharing chad with other women that’s not a problem of cold approaching, since chad is more likely to have success with cold approaching too. it’s a problem with the man she chooses
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 02:46 AM
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so what? this isn’t even what the debate is about.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 02:37 AM
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you literally used a strawman argument. the discussion is about cold approaching in a sexual/romantic way, you’re the one who made it about “well sometimes i just talk to women about the weather, stop thinking every guy who approaches you is up to no good!!”
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 02:34 AM
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here you guys go again with the concern trolling..
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 02:27 AM
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like what? do you think it’s unreasonable ?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 02:12 AM
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i didn’t go on any dates because the 3 guys who actually asked me ended up being assholes or lied about something
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 02:03 AM
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i’ve only ever used dating apps for a short period of time (never actually went on a date) but the pics of guys i matched with were usually a pic of them just standing somewhere random and smiling. you can see their outfit/body and their smile. maybe you just aren’t photogenic
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 01:55 AM
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do you think it’s due to politics or due to religion?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 01:53 AM
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people get married later on in life
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 01:49 AM
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how? in a cold approach a woman only sees how you look and smooth you are. on a dating app she can immediately see your hobbies, job, pets etc along with how you look. and on a dating app you have more leeway if you don’t know what to say immediately, you can just respond later. and if you’re talking to a woman, you already matched with her which means you at least have a chance, with cold approaching tou may not be as sure on if you really have a chance
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 01:47 AM
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your rant has nothing to do with my post.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 01:45 AM
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well it depends on how you look at it, if women choose not to have children due to climate change, bad economy, etc then you could say that it’s because of women or it’s because of the external factors.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 01:36 AM
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why would a guy be confused that looking for an answer for men? <image> i’m debating against the point like the comment i screenshotted, this is what i saw that prompted me to make this post. men are upset that women complain about cold approaching so they frame their complaints in a way that makes it sound like they care about women and that women are incapable of thinking more than one step ahead. nothing in my post says looking for an answer for men. but in another comment i said what i would…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 01:32 AM
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those societies are usually also highly patriarchal, religious and don’t have access to birth control, at least the same amount that the average woman in a first world country has. when women actually have the choice to have children, they have less.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 01:27 AM
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i agree with you somewhat. i disagree on the resentment part. plenty of average people are happy together.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 01:22 AM
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how would cold approaching be any better?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 01:22 AM
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makes sense. women wouldn’t have had as many children as they did in the past if they had the choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 01:19 AM
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even if the amount of men unwilling to get married is higher than it was 50 years ago, the amount of men with this mentality is pretty low. you guys are just the loudest.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 01:18 AM
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how is it hypocritical if men complain all the time about being used for their resources ? shouldn’t they be happy i like them for their looks? i literally had a debate with a guy about this yesterday
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 01:13 AM
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i think climate change and a bad economy are more effective recipes but sure
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 01:02 AM
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if a guy is cold approaching then he’s just doing it with any woman he finds attractive. he’s probably not looking for a relationship, just playing a numbers game. if i was a guy looking for a relationship id be more likely to find one in a religious setting if i was religious, at university, or through friends and family. i wouldn’t bother with cold approaching since if i was a guy id probably be short, but maybe handsome in the face since my dad is pretty good looking. also because women compl…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 12:29 AM
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i literally said women should approach more in my post. you refuted nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 12:12 AM
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so what, women are just gonna live in a house with a bunch of other women sharing one guy? edit: just realized i misread your comment, but either way i don’t think that’s realistic either, at least for the majority
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 12:11 AM
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some men do it very obviously, when they see me they smirk and nod their head. some men will be expressionless, but very obviously scanning my face. one time a guy was stuttering while speaking to me (i was the cashier at a cafe) and then when he walked away i heard his friends making fun of him, not gonna lie that kinda boosted my ego most of the time it’s just a shifting of the eyes and a small smirk that rarely ever happened when i was fat. i can’t really describe it, maybe if i ever start wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 12:09 AM
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it could be either one, i’ve never asked. maybe some men think i look good and notice my flirting but don’t flirt back because they are already in a relationship. i can tell by a man’s eyes and facial expressions when he thinks i look good. i woildnt start flirting with a guy unless i noticed these “signals”, which im putting in quotes because i dont think these guys are sending signals intentionally.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 11:57 PM
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don’t you think it’s unreasonable to expect ALL women to agree on something?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 11:53 PM
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cold approaching is also the easiest for chads. if women are only going for a chad who won’t commit to them on dating apps, they aren’t shooting themselves in the foot by complaining about approaching, they’re doing it by being bad at choosing the right man.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 11:48 PM
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you need the prolonged eye contact AND smiling, if someone is just staring at you it might be because you have something on your face, and if someone just smiles at you and looks away they’re just being friendly. either way, if a woman is just spacing out and accidentally makes prolonged eye contact with a guy in a public setting like chipotle, if the guy approaches respectfully she probably won’t be creeped out. if she is creeped out you have witnesses (the employees and other customers) and ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 11:44 PM
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most women probably want to get married and have children, do you think they’d be willing to do that sharing a guy with other women?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 11:40 PM
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yes, this is true. unattractive women probably didn’t notice a shift in dating dynamics either, but for the opposite reason. i’m guessing most plain jane average women weren’t getting approached much either, but they can still meet men. probably just have to be more willing to make the first move than they would have before.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 11:32 PM
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why do you like being approached by men? not trying to invalidate your feelings, just curious. i would prefer not to be cold approached, since its very likely he’s just doing that to any woman he finds attractive and is not looking for a relationship. but its different if i give a guy signals first. i have been pretty successful doing that. also out of curiosity, are you against approaching a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 11:28 PM
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most couples meet on dating apps nowadays. you can also meet a woman through friends and family, and it’s unlikely she’ll see you as creepy if her friends and family already know you. also, if a woman is giving you signals such as prolonged eye contact and smiling, she probably won’t see you as a creep if you approach respectfully. especially if you approach in a place where she can reasonably feel safe, such as a cafe or outside in broad daylight.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 11:20 PM
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shouldn’t it be “no misandry or misogyny”?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 04:09 PM
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yeah, like the original comment i replied to.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 06:17 AM
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yeah and if my grandma had wheels she’d be a bicycle
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 06:03 AM
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what is “women are the hysterical sex” then?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 05:38 AM
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then you know how much shit they talk about women, to the point that the mgtow2 subreddit had (has?) a rule that said “keep the misogyny to a minimum”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 05:32 AM
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probably because no female incel has ever been radicalized online and committed a mass shooting due to their misandry. even if you ignore that, online misandry does not hold a candle to online misogyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 05:21 AM
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dming other women is one thing. i don’t want some guy who just shoots his shot at any woman he finds attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 11:05 PM
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men are the violent, hateful sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 09:32 PM
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do you think the stats on divorce rates of couples with large age gaps are meaningless?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 06:31 PM
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why are you mad at a woman for trying to maximize her attributes to get the best man possible? is that not what red pill men tell women to do on this sub whenever they ask? like seriously, you can search on this subreddit and find some posts of women asking “what’s the point of settling down if my husband won’t be attracted to me as i get older” and men will tell her to just settle down as soon as possible with the best man she can get because wife goggles or some shit
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 06:30 PM
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if a guy doesn’t know me well and is just shooting his shot with every woman he finds attractive i don’t want him
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 06:20 PM
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mgtow is banned? i thought it was just quarantined or whatever it’s called. reddit admins don’t ban things because they oppose the feminist state. plenty of anti feminist or pro men’s right subreddits that are against feminism are still around. mgtow was banned for being hateful. last time i visited the mgtow subreddit i came across a guy saying that if women didn’t have vaginas, men would hunt them for sport. and he had dozens of upvotes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 02:51 PM
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yes, i’m sure young men are very happy to be adult virgins with no feminine comfort in their lives. that is usually something men are content with.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 02:26 PM
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have you seen the mgtow subreddit?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 02:25 PM
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ok, then dont call beautiful young women entitled for thinking they’re high value when that’s what men’s words and actions are telling them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 12:30 AM
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but instead of being happy with their robots and ai girlfriends they just complain about women not giving them any attention
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 06:51 PM
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never said it was
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 02:13 PM
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east asian men have been stereotyped in the west for a long time as being effeminate and having small penises. of course, these types of stereotypes would not negatively affect east asian women’s attractiveness. its not fair to say women are the fickle ones for not realizing east asian men are attractive when it’s mostly american men pushing negative stereotypes about east asians. men’s attraction to different races of women is definitely also affected by racial stereotypes. a woman could tell t…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 02:01 PM
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they already exist. and men still complain about loneliness, gee i wonder why the reason you guys keep saying “just wait until sex robots!!” even though they already exist is because you thought there was going to be some kind of overnight revolution where men turn against giving women attention forever. but they already exist. and men haven’t done that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 01:47 PM
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yet young pretty bitchy women will get their bills paid and receive plenty of “love” from men compared to an average woman with a nice personality, even if the average woman is still young. a woman could have a completely mediocre personality and do fine in dating if she’s pretty. and you can see this with the fact that men complain a lot about beautiful women’s personalities. they complain, but still give them attention, which is why they never change their personalities. for men, “love” is lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 01:40 PM
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is it not true that the red pill thinks women are incapable of loyalty and love? that women don’t have enough drive? is it not in the side bar that women are just overgrown children/the oldest teenager in the room? since when do red pill guys want long term relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 01:36 PM
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it’s sad that i’m repeating what red pill men say? you also completely ignored the point of my comment. if women without good personalities but look good get all the benefits of male attention, but women who could have good personalities but don’t look good never get a chance, then what’s the point?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 01:34 PM
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ok so why have i heard the phrase “i can’t fuck your personality” from red pill guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 01:31 PM
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