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3

You can PM me if you want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 03:24 AM
3

Welcome, this is just a great and safe space to be 💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 09:19 PM
6

Oh wow, is this done on an IPhone?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 02:41 PM
12

Some of you ladies are just too good with the comments 🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 03:36 AM
3

Can you kindly link the alarm you purchased?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 02:24 AM
3

This is brilliant 👏🏾
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 02:10 AM
5

A man’s wallet is shared, a woman’s wallet is private 👏🏾 👏🏾 👏🏾
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 04:18 AM
10

This is the energy I need before entering first dates. Saving this comment so I can read it each time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 02:40 AM
13

Omg I just scrolled through that sub 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 02:31 AM
8

That looks like a bomb house / apartment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 01:46 AM
10

I think you’ll need to read the handbook if you haven’t already. You are giving a lot of benefit of the doubt to this guy.. and we don’t give benefit of the doubt to men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 03:54 PM
13

I have the same requirements because I too travel almost 4x a year and treat myself to dinners 🤗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 05:06 PM
3

Thank you for clarifying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 04:58 PM
107

“If absolutely nothing changed in this relationship, would I still be happy years down the line.” You have to ask yourself this to keep yourself grounded and not give in to potential.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 03:27 PM
8

What was the purpose of this study? Was it to disqualify female applicants from getting a position on the basis of what they do outside of their profession? Or was it just supposed to be an expose..?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 03:15 PM
21

Next time, don’t write paragraphs to men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 03:05 AM
23

I think FDS’ stance on this is to not have male friends. Personally, I wouldn’t date a guy who is friendly with an ex of his.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 04:16 PM
17

Next time, don’t preface your boundaries with “sorry”. You have nothing to be sorry for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 03:13 PM
13

Someone needs a new hobby.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 01:19 PM
89

Read the handbook! Don’t pursue a man!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 04:27 AM
137

I got kind of emotional watching this. This was really well articulated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 03:53 AM
6

Same. I got a notification for one yesterday but it disappeared so I assumed mods removed it or blocked it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 01:14 PM
27

“I am so single, I can meet another man at my wedding” She’s great 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 02:34 AM
22

I am 30. I definitely do not want kids in any capacity (bio, adopted, step, etc.) Definitely would appreciate long term HVM in my life. Being married to someone forever terrifies me but I would still welcome it. I really value loyalty and commitment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 11:48 PM
75

More mindset and the amount of emotion to give to the man. Basically have one foot out the door if need be because you aren’t legally tied together in the same way as marriage and he can drop you quickly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 10:09 PM
15

Wow! 🤩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 07:20 PM
17

We are queens and add tax, so I think 4 months is a better standard 😉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 07:08 PM
55

Yes this behaviour is common, but it’s not acceptable. Block him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 03:56 AM
2

My eyes went straight to her 🤩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 03:06 AM
176

The whole “men can have kids whenever” narrative needs to die.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 02:24 AM
11

You are literally the only one apart of me that likes Aparna apparently. My friends are shitting on her but I thought she owned her personality well? Like she knew who she is and what she wanted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 02:19 AM
26

Thanks for the writeup and takeaways. I am sorry it happened to you but you are obviously on the right track to getting back to your old self.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 11:44 PM
13

Reminds me of the Ruth George murder. She turned a guy down, he followed her and murdered her in a parking lot. It was really tragic to read.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 06:17 PM
6

Haha!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 10:53 PM
15

Wow!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 09:06 PM
10

Noted 👏🏾👏🏾
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 06:48 PM
10

Omg 😮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 01:55 PM
38

I would respond with.. “oh wow, I am actually embarrassed for you. I’ve never had a guy ask me to split the bill before”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 02:01 AM
38

lol, no. I wouldn’t reciprocate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 01:02 AM
48

I think it equates casual = an easy throw on outfit which is generally a tee shirt and jeans for many people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 12:19 AM
4

Thank you! 🙏🏾
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 07:56 PM
18

When was FDS actually started? I tried to once scroll back to old posts but Reddit kept freezing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 05:29 PM
3

30!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 04:14 AM
51

Aww cute 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 10:01 PM
31

The person’s response to her comment was amazing! 🤩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 05:32 PM
58

This whole conversation is messy for both sides. Probably best to not engage after the first line.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 06:20 PM
3

I was thinking the same thing.. still can’t figure it out 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 04:39 PM
37

I don’t know why but your emojis and their placement is making me laugh so hard 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 12:17 AM
133

Gut instincts don’t lie. I found a weird mark on my ex’s sheets once right by the pillow (smudged eyeliner I guess or some type of makeup). It was weird because just the night before I was at his place and didn’t notice it. I didn’t think much of it though I felt it in my stomach.. but yep.. he was cheating. And I am a clown.. I didn’t say anything because it was his birthday and I didn’t want to ruin his night 🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 10:29 PM
10

Thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 08:42 PM
151

I think she’ll leave him soon enough. It seems like she’s about to explode.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 08:42 PM
22

Where is the original thread?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 08:39 PM
9

That spelling 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 08:37 PM
10

🙋🏾‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 07:14 PM
5

The first time around, he asked her if she wanted a lift and she got angry and started waking away. To me that means = no. But he tried again? I think that’s the part to me that isn’t very HV. The rest of the story is irrelevant after that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 06:35 PM
11

Something is off about this story. I don’t think it’s HVM behaviour at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 06:23 PM
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Do you think this is naturally who he is or do you think you did something to keep him expressing nice gestures? I know there’s a way to get men to buy the women they are courting nice things, I don’t think I have really grasped that idea yet or rather the HOW TO part of it. Regardless, beautiful flowers. Enjoy 🤗🤗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 05:09 PM
9

Can someone kindly explain to me where the mainstream use of “female” originated from? Was it through social media/pop culture or something?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 05:06 PM
32

He did good. Enjoy! 🤗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 04:08 PM
2

🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 09:36 PM
6

Damn, sorry you are going through this. That’s so violating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 07:59 PM
105

I am so sorry this happened to you 😞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 02:51 PM
17

Yes basically. Lots of cheaters use it for that exact reason.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 10:40 PM
21

I am assuming it refers to Snapchat. It’s an app in which messages and pictures can be sent and disappear after being viewed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 10:36 PM
18

I feel the same way. It’s cringey to me but I am a bit older so I assume it’s an age thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 05:28 PM
37

You ladies are too good 🙌🏾
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 10:26 PM
20

Wow, 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 10:25 PM
35

Especially with the Epstein / Maxwell crimes coming to light end of last year and this year.. She would have had more people “on her side”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 06:11 PM
9

I would love a Zoom thing! Need human interaction..!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 06:03 PM
6

Yes! Great idea!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 06:03 PM
5

🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 03:19 PM
4

It’s good but start slow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 12:54 PM
18

“Men are so weak.” Basically all roads lead back to this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 07:35 PM
29

What’s a good way to answer that question if it comes up later in conversation. I was thinking.. “yes but no one I have been impressed by.” Is this a good response?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 07:32 PM
58

I agree with you, I need all of them almost equally. I’ve taken the love language quizzes before and didn’t find the results very telling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 07:29 PM
10

Great analogy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 04:50 PM
4

Gotcha. Makes sense, especially the last part.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 01:51 AM
9

Yeah for sure! We are all just trying to learn and help each other 😘🤗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 01:25 AM
6

Nope! You are right! They went on one date and then no contact after.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 01:15 AM
6

Thanks for responding. Would you feel the same way if it was just one date vs. serious dates like you noted?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 01:12 AM
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Yeah I agree with what you are saying. I wasn’t sure if the guy in the text ghosted in the first place. Maybe I missed the context around it. Thanks for responding. Edit: re-read.. it seems like he did ghost!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 01:03 AM
8

Ah okay, yeah if it didn’t end it in a respectful way then for sure he should be ignored. I guess I didn’t read it that way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 01:01 AM
18

Please don’t come at me. I agree his approach is wrong and he could be lying.. but I mean it’s common and advised to date multiple people in the beginning right? Is it really justified to call yourself “second choice” when it’s possible he just had in fact formed a stronger connection with someone else by virtue of knowing them for a bit longer? I guess this would all depend on if he was a gentlemen in cutting things off with you the first time around. (If he ghosted and left you on read or some…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 12:11 AM
3

Thank you!! 🥰🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 12:03 AM
3

😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 10:26 PM
7

Any tips on how to get them to talk? I can be very chatty so I need to reel it in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 04:12 PM
4

Happy for you! 🥰🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 03:53 PM
45

Haha an old old ex popped up and texted hello last month. I replied “eww” and blocked him. It’s childish but that’s literally what came to my mind when I saw his text pop up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 03:52 PM
104

Omfg 😑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 01:25 AM
26

lol what an idiot
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 01:18 AM
19

Someone posted here last week about the reddit sub called /r/breakingmom. I had a peek and it solidified my decision to never have kids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 12:51 AM
70

Intuition is so underrated. It’s literally your body’s way of screaming and warning you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 03:31 PM
10

Omg 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 03:35 AM
30

Is the website active? Or is this sub still the primary touch point?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 12:42 AM
8

😭😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 01:30 PM
33

🤢🤮🤢🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 01:18 AM
10

Rehab for ourselves! Yes! Totally agree.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 11:17 PM
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Yeah I was going to suggest the same. But I think people may not like having to enter the group using their personal pages.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 11:15 PM
13

Is the Twitter account the one with the cat as the banner? Asking because it says “inspired by FDS”. Not sure if that’s the right one or if it’s an offshoot account.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 11:13 PM
14

I just did before I saw your comment. I saved your old post but actually downloaded it this time. Thank you so much!! I hope everyone gets a chance to download it just in case.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 10:56 PM
37

If the sub gets banned, I am assuming all the resources like the Handbook will disappear as well? 🥺
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 10:40 PM
26

I read on here someone who makes it a point/personal rule to not see the same guy twice in a row. A date with Person A, then one with Person B and then with Person A again. It can be exhausting if you aren’t used to multi-dating but it’s the only way to protect your heart.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 04:58 PM
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I consider myself extremely emotional and get attached quickly. Honestly.. checking this sub daily and reading the posts has kept me in check. It’s almost like surrounding myself with a support system that has my best interest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 03:08 AM
28

👽
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 03:05 AM
5

How is Inner Circle by the way?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 10:44 PM
107

Damn, it’s painful to read but the appliance analogy is spot on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 10:34 PM
6

I am going to message you. Thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 04:31 AM
7

🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 04:50 PM
15

What is a “nontraditional payment plan”? Is this a sugar daddy?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 04:46 PM
21

For me, I grew up told/believing that love is supposed to be hard. I thought staying with your partner through everything and anything is the meaning of love. This basically made me a doormat and pathetic. I wish they don’t push this narrative.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 04:45 PM
6

People can’t give you more than they have. This is golden 👏🏾👏🏾
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 04:39 PM
8

It’s hard. I am in the same position as you. I take breaks here and there to keep sane.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 04:22 PM
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Block him. He will keep stringing you along otherwise. He’s keeping you as plan B and is vocal about it. You’ll need to see it for what it is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 04:15 PM
7

Never heard “sex trophy before” and hope to never hear it again. Wtf?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 01:31 PM
60

I am sad for her. I can’t imagine how low she feels.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 01:29 PM
57

He’s 28? Why get married in the first place, especially so young, when you don’t even respect marriage... 😠
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 01:27 PM
25

Dream more than one dream So beautifully said. Gave me the feels 😭😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 07:37 PM
17

Wow, you very well articulated my exact situation that I could never really put into words. Saving your comment to refer to!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 06:57 PM
20

OMFG! 🤬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 03:01 AM
145

I don’t think this specific incident was filmed but it does happen often and is so disgusting. By the way.. all the rapists of this incident were taken to the spot of the crime scene a few days later by the police under the guise of collecting more evidence and were shot dead. Rape cases under court in India take YEARS to sentence and are often humiliating for the family of the deceased since it’s sensationalised by the media. The police officers handling the case realised the family wouldn’t ge…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 08:44 PM
3

Ugh, I learned this the hard way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 11:57 PM
3

Nope.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 05:50 PM
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I was on the receiving end of this. My ex never mentioned having a girlfriend. We would meet up as friends but it always seemed like a date (he made reservations and paid.) I cut it off because I felt strung along... we were broken up but still too friendly. Came to later realise he was dating her for 5 months at that point. Feel bad for her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 11:20 PM
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Early 30’s and definitely do not want kids. In my early 20s I thought I would have kids because that is what I was supposed to do. But came to my senses and realised it is definitely not for me. I like my freedom, spending money on myself and the idea of a nomadic lifestyle.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 11:01 PM
12

Many thanks. Makes sense they would teach what they know. I will check her out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 05:46 PM
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I know Anna has a partner. Did she ever mention in her videos if she wants to get married? Just curious. I’ve watched her videos for a while and she mostly mentions tips and attitudes towards dating and being elegant but not marriage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 04:42 PM
7

Not OP, but I need #1 drilled into my head.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 02:44 AM
12

Wow, thank you for this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 01:36 AM
31

Treat it like a job interview. He needs to land the role. Do you have a job description in mind / a checklist? It helps to write it down before you even meet. If he doesn’t meet an item on your list.. next. It helps to remove emotions out of the equation in the beginning.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 03:30 PM
14

This post is just what I needed. Thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 11:05 PM
1

What YouTube channel?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 11:13 PM
2

This is so me. I need the harsh reality that he has moved on in order to let go of any fantasy or torch I am still holding.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 08:04 PM
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