127bratty Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
9	Moving in together before proposal?	ADVICE	127bratty	/r/RedPillWomen	26/06/24 11:09 AM

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7	Should I (21F) continue my relationship with my “almost perfect” boyfriend (23M)? If he treats you right maybe you could try to overcome this insecurity. I'm sure there is research and podcasts about ways to accept this and not resent a good man because of something that wasn't in his control. I dated a guy my height and he was one of the most genuine and kindest people I ever met. We didn't work out because of external reasons and now I am dating someone who is 6'4, also great but he has clearly never been brought down a peg or two or made fun of so he carries himself differ…	/r/RedPillWomen	26/07/24 07:38 AM
1	Moving in together before proposal? About 2/3 of the time in the past two years or so. For a while it was great as we were able to save up almost our entire paychecks, but later on I started to resent his mother for the way she was treating us. So without influencing him or talking badly about his parents I slowly moved out and let him to figure out for himself that it's not worth to save up all that money and paying for it with mental health.	/r/RedPillWomen	27/06/24 07:09 AM
2	Moving in together before proposal? We have not yet lived together alone exept for vacations. So in a way this is something he wants to sort out before we commit to marriage I guess. His mother is a huge nagger so I can sort of see he is afraid of falling into the same pattern as I also like things tidy.	/r/RedPillWomen	27/06/24 06:32 AM
2	Moving in together before proposal? It's a lose lose situation unfortunatley. It was naive of me to think he would come to the conclusion himself.	/r/RedPillWomen	26/06/24 05:50 PM
4	Moving in together before proposal? Honestly that's a really good point and the reason I wanted to be engaged. He has a very demanding and time consuming job, with worldwide travel. The majority of the housework will without doubt be on me even if he cuntributes more financially. He will not be getting wife treatment without the commitment.	/r/RedPillWomen	26/06/24 04:52 PM
5	Moving in together before proposal? I was clear that I am dating with the intent to marry, which he knows and has seemingly agreed to. He always says we will get around to it, that there is no hurry. All the responses have really helped me put things into perspective and have also made me incredibly sad. Best of luck to you and ur bf tho!	/r/RedPillWomen	26/06/24 04:47 PM
3	Moving in together before proposal? No nothing like that we each have our own accounts. I actually expressed that I am dating with the intent to marry very early on and he said that while that is not something that he envisions for himself he is willing to do it for the sake of keeping me. So I guess it's really me ignoring a red flag.	/r/RedPillWomen	26/06/24 04:34 PM
4	Moving in together before proposal? I actually can't come up with an answer to that because everything I want to say are excuses for why he thinks it's not the right time. Our life is on track except not living together everything is going great.	/r/RedPillWomen	26/06/24 04:25 PM
2	Moving in together before proposal? Will be trying this, thank you.	/r/RedPillWomen	26/06/24 04:12 PM
2	Moving in together before proposal? Thank you, for a second there I was thinking I am asking for too much from him. I try to regularly check in with him about our future and I have been dropping subtle hints for the last year or so and it seemed he might be catching on, even asking me what kind of rings do I like and sizing. I honestly don't know how to go on about our relationship since his "I'm not ready type of comment". It feels wrong to beg him to do it, but it also doesn't sit right with me to just let it be and wait.	/r/RedPillWomen	26/06/24 01:47 PM
2	Do you consider yourself attractive? I would say I (23f) am a bit above average. Tall-ish, athletic with long vavy blond hair. A little flat chested, but I can live with that. A few years ago I realized that the type of men I would like to attract go for the "sporty" girls. So I leaned into that. My hobbies are skiing, snowbording, mountain biking, road cycling, climbing, hiking,... It helps me stay in great shape, nicely tanned and never out of date ideas. Just calculate in an occasional hospital visit if you are a daredevil or yo…	/r/RedPillWomen	03/07/23 04:29 PM