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1948e8q0wir/r/askTRP24/05/21 03:33 AM
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Of course not, didn't you get the memo? "Men bad women good".
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 06:05 PM
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porn can lead to men having unrealistic expectations of what an average woman should look like and behave like. This can lead to men being physically attracted to relatively few women. This is a joke right? Women consistently rate 80% percent of men as "below average". If anyone, it is women who have unrealistic expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 05:20 PM
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I can't find it right now but on the most recent public polls done on legalizing prostitution in America, the majority of women were against it while the majority of men were for it. Regardless of political affiliation. And keep in mind these surveys were done on the assumption that prostitution would be legalized and regulated to prevent abuse, human trafficking, etc. It all comes down to the pussy cartel. Women don't want to lose the power they have. I know it and you know it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 05:04 PM
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Just go to Thailand It's actually illegal there and from what I've heard the local police have recently stepped up their efforts to crack down on it. Prices have also shot up accordingly, it's close to American prices right now It's only really an option for white guys. From what I've heard from my Indian-American friends who went there, Thai prostitutes really don't want to service dark skinned guys (especially black or Indian). Colorism is a big thing in SEA, and extends even to prostitution. …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 04:55 PM
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The girls are probably having sex with older guys who have jobs and money What proof do you have of this? From my personal experience and from what I've seen it's mostly the girls having sex with the top 20% of attractive college guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 03:30 PM
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I don't know about FDS, but the blackpill and the incel movement is definitely growing rapidly among Gen Z and younger millennial men thanks to the rapid increase in male sexlessness over the past 10 years or so. Just go take a look at TikTok or Twitch or go listen to how young men in high school and college are talking about the dating world. Incel terminology like "simp, Chad, Stacy, cuck, soyboy", etc is commonplace among young men now.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 01:50 PM
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Only an option for white men unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 03:05 AM
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I wanted to finish with one last point. When 30-40 year old women complain that they can’t find a man to commit, very rarely will someone say “you’re not entitled to a relationship/man’s commitment” even though it’s equally applicable. So, why the difference in attitude in these two scenarios? Because according to modern society "men bad women good". Simple as. Women get support and sympathy, men get scorn and ridicule. Men are told they are not entitled to sex or relationships or love, or that …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 02:19 AM
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Prostitution is illegal for most of the world. In the few places where it is legal or decriminalized, it is still far too expensive ($150+ an hour) to be a long-term solution for men's sexlessness.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 05:47 AM
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Female sexuality is hypergamous, male sexuality is polygamous. It makes sense from the viewpoint of evolutionary psychology, since a man can impregnate many women at a time but a woman can only have one baby at a time, and pregnancy is a long and painful process. Also, women are as visual as men, if not more. Women have very strong preferences/requirements when it comes to factors like height, race, or hair - things which men have little control over. Women may say that they're not visual, sure,…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 11:27 PM
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Former beta orbiter here. I used to be the world's biggest beta orbiter back in college for this girl I had a huge crush on. Looking back, I was incredibly bluepilled back then and thought that if I just be myself, show her my unique personality, spend time with her, and further develop a friendship with her she would fall in love with me or something. Essentially I was a complete bluepilled idiot. I'm not sure if she knew how I felt but anyway I eventually confessed my feelings for her one day,…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 11:19 PM
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Starting from 2009 we've had: Financial crisis and economic downturn Smartphones become ubiquitous Social media becomes ubiquitous Rise in SJWs and 3rd wave feminism Dating apps like Tinder MeToo Cancel culture
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 06:39 PM
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For their behavior. Modern society does not go beyond "man bad woman good" when it comes to gender dynamics. Women are not held accountable for things like infidelity, paternity fraud, abuse, domestic violence, holding double standards, etc. Men are.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 06:00 PM
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I'm 38. I can safely say that things have gotten a LOT worse for men, especially after 2009. There is just so much working against average and below average men now. Dating apps like Tinder, social media, smartphones, and a failing economy. Add to that cancel culture and MeToo and you've got a generation of men afraid to approach or talk to women, and perhaps rightly so.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 05:54 PM
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Couple of points: 1) Your friend actually had to get plastic surgery to be able to get a woman, and that's actually a point in favor of what the incels have been saying. Plastic surgery to ascend is a big thing within incel circles. 2) 5'8 is not that short, it's literally average height for Gen X men in America. And being white gives you an advantage as well. If your friend was 5'1 and Indian, this would not be a success story, I guarantee you. 3) Online dating basically didn't exist at that ti…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 05:40 PM
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The redpill is not getting more popular among young men. The blackpill is. A lot of people tend to confuse the two.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 05:58 PM
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The entire modern discourse around gender relations and sexual dynamics can be summed up in four words: "men bad women good".
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 10:56 PM
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You've got the cause and the effect mixed up. Zoomers and young men are depressed and addicted to porn because they are sexless, not the other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 10:43 PM
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For example, I think I would fall under that category (6'2'', muscular, decent face) but it doesn't mean anything in the end. 24, virgin and no end to that in sight. And how was your luck on online dating and Tinder then? With your stats, social skills are much less important than for average or below average guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 09:52 PM
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You are right, it is. But it is the black pill, not the blue pill, that is now taking its place.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 08:19 PM
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It's not the redpill but the blackpill that is becoming mainstream among teenage and Gen Z men. Take a look at TikTok or Twitter or go listen to how guys in high school and college are talking right now. Thanks to the rise of online dating apps like Tinder, women openly stating their their "must be at least 6'2" requirements on their dating profiles, and rapidly increasing rates of male sexlessness, more and more young men are becoming blackpilled. Notice how incel terminology like "simp", "Chad…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 08:17 PM
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Yes, I know. My Indian-American friends are all engineers and doctors making well into the six figures. They were still treated as trash when they tried dating and meeting women in Asia. Unfortunately Asia is a very racist place, and racism against darker skinned people like Indians is not only common but accepted.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 06:46 AM
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And what have you seen exactly? I've had several Indian-American friends who traveled around different places in Asia (Thailand, Taiwan, Korea, Japan, Philippines) in their early 30s and all had a very bad experience when it came to dating and meeting women. Most women, even hookers and bar girls, wanted nothing to do with them and were outright racist to them. Many told them in no uncertain terms that they want nothing to do with Indian men. Unfortunately, Asia has a big problem with colorism a…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 06:06 AM
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go to countries where women actually want to be women like Columbia, Eastern Europe, Thailand, East Asia etc. and have your fun. Western women are fatter, more masculine and more miserable than foreign girls but 10 times higher standards, why do more to smash uglier, less feminine women?? They are not the only women on earth. Date foreign chicks, yeah they'll still use you in a way (just female nature) but at least they will cook, clean, be grateful and know how to treat a man. Unfortunately thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 05:46 AM
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This only works for white men. OP is Indian. When it comes to dating European, South American, African, and Asian women are even more racist against Indian men than American women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 05:18 AM
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Watch what they do, not what they say.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 06:47 PM
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Hit the nail on the head
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 02:47 AM
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Google "race and dating". It's a pretty well studied phenomenon that Asian and Indian men struggle the most in dating, and white men struggle the least. Black and Hispanic men are somewhere in the middle. This is for the US, though studies done in Korea, Japan, and Hong Kong also came up with similar results: white men were preferred over local Asian men in East Asia as well. Also of note from these studies and surveys: most women have strong racial preferences, but most men do not; most ethnic …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 02:21 PM
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Being in a relationship with someone who's not attracted to you is a recipe for resentment, a dead bedroom, and eventually getting cheated on and divorced. At this point, if all you can suggest is using my money to buy a wife then why not just skip all the drama and use hookers? At least with hookers there's no chance of getting divorce raped. And sex is guaranteed, whereas with betabuxxing there is no such thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 05:17 AM
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Correction. They would love to spend their lives with the money and material comforts I could provide, not with me. In my view, if there is no genuine physical, romantic, or sexual attraction between the couple then the relationship is pointless. At this point might as well resort to escorts, at least they are more honest. Wifing up a woman who's physically not attracted to you (and quite possibly physically repulsed by you), only gives you obligation sex, and is only there for the money is not …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 04:13 AM
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I'm a 1/10. I'm 4'10, bald, Asian, and have an ugly face. I look like Jack Ma (the Ali Baba CEO), but bald and with uglier skin and a recessed jaw. I'm 38 years old and still a virgin. I work out regularly and am in good shape (visible abs, low body fat percentage). I've tried every dating app and website for the past 10 years and have not yet had a single date. I've approached close to 400 women in my life via cold approaches, meetups, fitness classes, friends groups, etc. I've been rejected ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 11:38 PM
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Right now a lot of these virgin sexless men are under the delusion that there is "someone for everyone" and that just around the corner their dream girl is waiting for them, someone who will genuinely love you and be sexually attracted to you and not just settle for you as a beta provider. Once this delusion finally dies out, and it is dying by the minute as more and more Zoomers get rapidly blackpilled, then we will see an actual societal collapse.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 05:08 PM
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Now that I think about it, I don't think we'll end up like Japan. I think the latter is more likely. Viable sex robots are several decades away, the tech is not even close to there yet. American culture is very different than Japan's - a homogeneous island nation on the other side of the world. America also has a very different concept of masculinity. And perhaps most importantly, guns are sadly very easily accessible in America. Every single one of these angry bitter suicidal young men with not…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 04:00 AM
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One of my friends has a severe porn addiction, has no career direction or life goals, is completely out of shape, and has terrible hygiene and showers maybe once a month. He works a $12/hr part-time job and spends most of his time inside playing video games or watching porn. Yet he is incredibly successful with women. Has had numerous one night stands and gets casual sex easily. He showed me his Tinder and the number of matches and likes he gets is insane. And he currently has a beautiful girlfr…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 03:33 AM
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It's more than face. Race, height, and build also play a huge role. Unfortunately men only have control over one of these factors (build).
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 11:54 PM
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Women don't prefer assholes. Women prefer attractive men. Whether you're an asshole or not is irrelevant. So women will prefer an abusive asshole who is 6'4 white handsome and well-built over a meek polite guy who happens to be a 5'1 balding ugly Indian.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 09:14 PM
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Maybe. But afaik even most millennial and Gen Z women are strongly against the idea of legalizing prostitution. Digital sex work like OnlyFans or amateur porn is one thing, but outright prostitution is something else altogether. Republicans will never push for legalization because they will alienate the conservative Christians, and the Democrats will never push for it because they will alienate the urban/suburban women and the feminists.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 09:08 PM
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Outright prostitution will never be legal in the USA, at least for the next 50 years or so. There is no political will for it, the Boomers and Gen X running the government are too out of touch, women are by and large against legalized prostitution, and no politician wants to go down as the guy who legalized prostitution
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 08:52 PM
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For sure, there is a huge difference between Japanese and American cultures. Expect mass suicides of men, widespread drug addition, widespread porn addiction, sharp increase in gun violence and violent crimes, a new crime epidemic, and more and more radical political ideologies coming to the mainstream.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 08:50 PM
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The wife is also Indian. Her previous boyfriends were white or Hispanic, according to what he tells me. She apparently told him that she "doesn't want to do anal or oral with him and he's not entitled to it".
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 08:36 PM
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Sex robots that could possibly replace real women, or count close to it, are at the very least several decades away. Don't expect anything before 2100.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 08:34 PM
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The incel movement and the blackpill becoming mainstream among younger millennial and Gen Z men. As to how this will shift the market, I don't know. Maybe we'll end up like Japan, where young men have essentially dropped out of career and marriage and the population is slowly dying.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 08:26 PM
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Happened to one of my closest friends. He found out that his wife had done anal and oral in the past with previous boyfriends and hookups but it was off limits for him, even though he goes down on her regularly. To add insult to injury, he was a virgin when he met her. He tells me that the only thing keeping him from divorcing her ass is that he knows it will be very difficult for him to find another girl, being a short balding Indian guy. He is absolutely miserable as is.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 08:22 PM
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Just like everything else that impacts a large proportion of society, nothing will happen until it reaches critical mass.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 08:11 PM
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Given the statistics that show rising male sexlessness and women basically sharing the top 20% or so of men, I predict that the "incel movement" and the blackpill will basically become mainstream among younger millennials, Gen Z, and the next generation of men. If you look at TikTok a lot of the content by men is very "blackpilled" already. Basically we're looking at two and a half generations of disenfranchised and disaffected young men. Nothing good happens when you have millions of angry men …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 02:15 PM
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OK. Do you have any other advice for me then?
/r/askTRP24/05/21 05:04 PM
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Same situation there. I actually went to Thailand to get laid. The prostitutes turned me down and the cops came in and told me to fuck off. The prostitutes over there basically just cater to white sexpats.
/r/askTRP24/05/21 04:58 PM
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Prostitution is illegal in the Philippines. There are a few places where the authorities look the other way for white sexpats, but I am Asian and won't get that benefit.
/r/askTRP24/05/21 04:53 PM
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Done all that already. Now what?
/r/askTRP24/05/21 04:45 PM
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Not trolling. Take a look at my profile.
/r/askTRP24/05/21 01:56 PM
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I'm not trolling. Why do you think I am? Take a look at my profile.
/r/askTRP24/05/21 01:53 PM
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I've approached tons of short petite Asian women. Zero luck with them. Many have also told me straight up that they only date white men (at least when I was trying in the US). I've had similar luck in Asia (balding and being short is a huge deal there as well).
/r/askTRP24/05/21 01:51 PM
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I'm not physically attracted at all to girls with dwarfism though. My proportions are all normal, I'm just very short. I've approached tons of short women and not had any success though.
/r/askTRP24/05/21 01:47 PM
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Dunno what you meant by new accounts. I did hire professional photographers to take some good shots of me though.
/r/askTRP24/05/21 04:43 AM
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I already do all of that though. Tailored suits, tailored shirts, drive a Porsche 911, fancy restaurants, etc. My Tinder and OLD photos show off my wealth as well. I'm not interested in betabuxxing for some poor girl though. I want to be an alpha and spin plates.
/r/askTRP24/05/21 04:40 AM
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I've yet to have a single match or like on any dating app. I've been using Tinder, Bumble, Hinge, OkCupid, eHarmony, and Match.com for several years now.
/r/askTRP24/05/21 04:37 AM
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I've never had a date. If I could even get a date that would be a huge win for me at this point.
/r/askTRP24/05/21 04:28 AM
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When a girls says "youre not my type" i say yeah "I know but you're almost as cute as me so i'm helping out the community today." But they don't say "you're not my type". They literally say "ew" or they completely ignore me or they just turn around and walk away. What should I do exactly when a girl does that? I know the shortest dude at my gym puts me to shame in a physic sense. I know short dudes growing up that did get girls. They were as short as you. So you gotta do what you've have done be…
/r/askTRP24/05/21 04:26 AM
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Less than 2 inches erect.
/r/askTRP24/05/21 04:20 AM
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Due to TMJ issues I'm not a good candidate for surgery. Spoke to several surgeons about it already.
/r/askTRP24/05/21 04:20 AM
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Everything I can think of: Lifting hard and getting ripped. Eating healthy. Dressing well. Grooming myself well. Seeing therapists. Making money and focusing on my career. Reading the material. Learning and practicing social skills. Approaching women.
/r/askTRP24/05/21 04:19 AM
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I have a very recessed jaw.
/r/askTRP24/05/21 04:15 AM
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I don't want to brag but I'm actually in a very good position, financially. The question is how to translate my wealth to sexual success. Unless you meant that I should just spend it all on escorts and hookers?
/r/askTRP24/05/21 04:10 AM
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you have to become. How?
/r/askTRP24/05/21 04:06 AM
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You're gonna have to summon your inner chad when it comes to these bitches and never let a hoe disrespect you. So what should I say when a girl yells out "ew", or just ignores me, or smirks and turns around, or walks away if I approach? Same side as the alpha fucks, get fucking jacked. I dont care how you do it but you're gonna have to do it. I am already jacked. Looks in terms of outfits and style are a must here. Boots are essential as well. I dress well and wear clothes that fit my body well …
/r/askTRP24/05/21 04:06 AM
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Are you happy? Women love happy men. PEOPLE love happy people. Fake it til you make it if you aren’t. Smile, but not in a creepy way. Almost a confident smirk. I'm not happy with the cards I've been dealt and the way my life is right now, so I have been faking it until I make it. I smile and act confident best I can. All that being said, what would you suggest I do? Insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results; I've yet to have any different results.
/r/askTRP24/05/21 03:58 AM
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East Asian men may face a hard time in Europe but they do ok almost everywhere else. Lol this is just not true. Even in Asia the racial hierarchy for dating is white foreigner men > local Asian men > foreign Asian men. Indian men can do ok in the Caribbean, India and other south asian countries. The Indians who do well in the Caribbean are local Indians who've been there for generations, not your average Indian expat. India and other South Asian countries don't really have a substantial dating o…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 05:34 PM
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white women in the west love black men. Some definitely do, but overall most white women overwhelmingly still prefer white men. There were a ton of studies and surveys done about racial preferences in dating by dating websites like OkCupid as well as sociologists. IIRC something like 95% of white women had strict racial preference for white men. Also of note was that the majority of Asian women both in the West and in Asia actually preferred white guys to Asian guys. White privilege is definitel…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 05:24 PM
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Tbf the OP did mention Asia. But even that is only really viable for white guys. Asian women are notoriously racist against Black people and dark-skinned ethnics.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 04:11 PM
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Depends on the country and region. There is a big difference between the average young woman in Seattle, WA and the average young woman in rural Afghanistan when it comes to attitude towards sex, marriage, dating, gender roles, and femininity.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 03:56 PM
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This only really works for white men tbh. People, and especially women, in places like Asia, Eastern Europe, South America, etc are very racist against Black, Asian, and dark-skinned ethnic men. If you're a short average-looking Indian or Asian guy in the West who's having trouble getting dates or sex, you're not going to have much luck in Asia or Eastern Europe or even South America. Also, my Black friends who have followed your advice have had a horrible experience and have told me a lot of ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 03:50 PM
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motivated to do shit, that's their fault. What about those who are motivated and have done all the shit they can do but are still held back by genetic factors out of there control like height, race, physical features, disabilities, deformities, etc?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 11:00 PM
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Ok. We're not talking about career or health though. This is PPD, we're talking about sex, dating, and gender dynamics. Self-improvement is good, but don't think it will be enough for finding sex, love, intimacy, or companionship. Many men are condemned to die sexless and alone for losing the genetic lottery, despite herculean efforts on their part.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 01:15 AM
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Nailed it. Society, and especially women, punish men for being vulnerable. The same women then turn around and complain about men not "opening up". It's a sick joke, and we're the punchline.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 12:59 AM
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Normally I would agree but in OP's case her boyfriend literally lost his dad less than 2 months prior. People should be allowed to grieve. I don't think her boyfriend was being "weak" - it's called being human. I honestly think OP and her friends were terrible people for blaming a grieving person like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 12:47 AM
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his dad did die 2 months ago... So his dad died two months ago, he is already struggling with depression, and you and your friends are saying "you deserve better!!"? What the fuck. Are people really this cruel?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 12:36 AM
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The problem is that some men are genuinely unable to pursue and achieve what they desire, despite putting in massive amounts of effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 01:37 AM
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What the hell did she do to make that much money? Investment banking? OnlyFans?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/21 10:21 PM
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