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TRT protocols are not daily and are also not that small. You don’t microdose test and there’s very well documented severe side effects of even TRT level of doses
/r/TheRedPill11/07/22 01:40 PM
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Are you on a cocaine binge my guy?
/r/TheRedPill09/07/22 10:06 AM
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You’re missing the point. The problem is not hypergamy. The problem is society is currently shaped in a way that is maximizing hypergamy in women while simultaneously offering increasingly less opportunity to men The disparity of few men fucking most women has grown dramatically fast with the increase in social media use and increasingly more affordable travelling. Add to that lower (compared to buying power) salaries and women getting a bigger share of the good paying few positions and you get …
/r/TheRedPill09/07/22 09:56 AM
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“Holding himself to high standards” -> lists materialistic achievements as his only virtues Your logic is backwards friend
/r/TheRedPill04/07/22 11:30 AM
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Ofcourse he’s to blame. He didn’t adjust. You don’t adjust you die off. Figuratively The game is the game. It’s not easy, it’s very punishing but it is what it is. Red Pill teaches you the rules. You play or you don’t. You don’t get to change the rules. Michael wants to play a different game that no one else wants to or does play 120k in 2012 is by no means a failure. My personal opinion is that it is not as much as he thinks it is in Los Angeles
/r/TheRedPill04/07/22 09:11 AM
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God made him be attracted to young beautiful women… well god made those women be attracted to “bad boys” my guy. “You can’t negotiate desire” 32, 120k in LA (that’s not a lot for LA I’d argue), 60% of it to rent Never mentions how many women he approached with the intention to date in campus. I'd wager very few Wants to get a wife from Eastern Europe that is guaranteed to only get with him for his money
/r/TheRedPill04/07/22 08:39 AM
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Oh wow. Three women were vaguely insulting each other. Presumably competing for you Fantastic write up. Absolutely stunning results /s I’d argue men are at each other’s throat far far more often. If you look at the studies behind the “women are wonderful” effect you’ll see that the ingroup bias amongst women is 4.5 higher. That and the fact that men are generally speaking more competitive I’d say are enough to at least suspect the opposite of what you’re concluding is probably true. After all yo…
/r/TheRedPill24/05/22 06:20 AM
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I would argue that's it's very difficult for most men to "love women" as you put it. And not due to some sexist point of view but rather personal experiences that a lot of us seem to have in common Most men have mostly faced rejection, challenges and deception in the way of getting girls when their more attractive friends would sweep the floor with the same girls that wouldn't look at them twice I'd argue then a better goal is to deny and hopefully abolish resentment on the matter
/r/TheRedPill22/05/22 09:00 PM
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What a bunch of nonsense with not a shred of evidence to support it
/r/TheRedPill12/05/22 09:59 PM
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What a mess. You’re contradicting yourself So if “they” want more worker ants why would “they” want you not raising a family which would bring in more labor?
/r/TheRedPill11/05/22 02:19 PM
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Keeping her option, you, open while she fucks other guys
/r/seduction10/05/22 12:03 PM
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Because it’s less hurtful and you don’t feel as rejected
/r/seduction10/05/22 11:52 AM
1

It’s implied. A girl may say “I’m not looking to date right now” to soften it up when she rejects you What she really means is she’s not interested in dating (with) you
/r/seduction10/05/22 10:35 AM
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It’s the “with you” rule I’m not sure about dating… with you I don’t do hook ups… with you It’s the most typical of rejections Guys will wonder. Girls will think for sure he’ll get it without me having to be explicit about it
/r/seduction10/05/22 10:22 AM
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There’s no such thing as a definite no. Question is can you afford to waste energy on someone that can’t make up their mind
/r/TheRedPill02/05/22 12:35 PM
2

Valid point but she could be just posting non sexual pics. Advertising your sexual availability this way is disrespectful and clearly there’s something behind it
/r/seduction28/04/22 09:00 PM
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No nothing like that
/r/seduction28/04/22 08:31 PM
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I mean I would never put up with it if I was serious about the girl but he’s a bit of a dumb dumb
/r/seduction28/04/22 08:30 PM
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Dude are you an idiot? I take a psychological/ sociological interest to the situation. Stop white knighting and whining
/r/seduction28/04/22 08:26 PM
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Pretty good. Your mom says hi
/r/seduction28/04/22 08:21 PM
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Rally dude the girl is all over him. He’s definitely not reciprocating her feelings and she’s a lot more into him than he is into her I think she just craves the attention and validation from better dudes but knows they will play her so she does this in some kind of masturbatory way
/r/seduction28/04/22 08:20 PM
1

Don’t be clownphobic bro
/r/seduction27/04/22 11:54 AM
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To be fair most of your matches are below average and barely fuckable With that said the more interesting part of this post is about guys being so surprised that an attractive dude gets as much attention as women do These are the same guys that will talk with great confidence about how women are not as promiscuous as men and are a lot more complicated creatures that value character above all and need to be won over
/r/seduction27/04/22 09:50 AM
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Maybe it’s the gyno. Makes you more relatable
/r/seduction27/04/22 09:47 AM
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Ding ding ding
/r/seduction25/04/22 01:43 PM
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Agee and amplify. Then ignore
/r/seduction22/04/22 07:38 PM
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What girls items do you keep in your bathroom bruh? Tampons?
/r/seduction21/04/22 06:44 PM
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This is the case with brand new acquaintances. If you’ve known someone for a while, friend or otherwise, and they ghost you it can be that they’ve lost interest in you. It can also be that they’re hurt, they’re intimidated, feel disappointed or rejected
/r/seduction21/04/22 06:38 PM
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It’s more often that I see good looking dudes with 5s to be honest
/r/seduction21/04/22 09:53 AM
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Plenty. STDs and infidelity are two with very sound research behind them
/r/seduction20/04/22 09:03 AM
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Feel free to look it up. There’s a plethora of evidence for women rating men as more attractive if they perceive other women attracted to them
/r/seduction19/04/22 12:49 PM
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You’re wrong. Studies have shown time again that men were rated as more attractive by women when they had attractive women next to them
/r/seduction19/04/22 12:07 PM
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Positive feedback from others like you’ve probably been getting your entire life because of your genetics, assuming you’re not a troll poster, usually means you’re playing life on easy mode and are not exactly qualified to be giving advice to the average joe. I’d bet my savings you’re also coming from money and quite a lot too Additionally you’re completely forgetting about short and long term mating strategies and how they differ in mate selection
/r/seduction16/04/22 11:20 AM
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Knowing what you want in life and not relying on or putting other people over yourself is not immature. It’s actually the opposite You’re right in your observation but you don’t need to change yourself any more than just finding what you want from life and taking it
/r/seduction16/04/22 11:02 AM
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But you’re not amplifying you’re sort of excusing yourself
/r/seduction14/04/22 02:49 PM
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You’re agreeing here. Not a great look when she’s disrespecting you like that Agreeing and amplifying is the way to go for no other reason than showing her she’s both wrong and you dgaf
/r/seduction14/04/22 02:28 PM
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Pay attention to what she does not what she says If you’re asking why she could be doing that it’s because she’s looking to replace you and/ or see other people concurrently If you’re asking what to do then you got a few options: a) If you want to be monogamous with her you can say goodbye to it. She’s past that and/ or was never interested to start with. Drop her b) if you don’t then all is good If you do want to confront her about it tell her you noticed she’s using Tinder and you’re not cool …
/r/seduction14/04/22 12:07 PM
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Take 10 minutes out of your day every day to imagine what successful and happy you looks like When you go out or do whatever social imagine you are that guy. Eventually it will click and you will act like him
/r/seduction14/04/22 11:54 AM
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You can if you think most people are dumb and will like you regardless of intelligent you knowing you’re really a piece of shit
/r/seduction14/04/22 11:52 AM
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It’s the novelty. My motivation is almost always wanting to see how this girl moans or cums or blows
/r/seduction10/04/22 08:59 AM
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Didn’t watch the whole thing but it’s definitely great to see a guy that is actually average in looks (average physique, average height, thinning hair) pick up successfully I don’t see any great game or anything but it doesn’t need to be I suppose One thing I would argue is the girl being hot. That’s a 6 at best in my book based on What I can see. Late 20s, narrow hips, fat rolls here and there. Just because she’s half naked doesn’t mean she’s hot. So not that big of a challenge really
/r/seduction10/04/22 08:54 AM
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That’s a flake. 100%
/r/seduction09/04/22 05:28 PM
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“You need English lessons”
/r/seduction08/04/22 01:49 PM
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Socially women are far more desirable by men and women alike. Men will very often be loners. Women rarely. Could be explained a few ways (hormonally perhaps) but at the end of the day it is what it is and you just have to live with the fact that as a guy you need to be providing something other than your looks and sexual availability to get similar reception
/r/seduction08/04/22 01:46 PM
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You don’t hold hands on a first date - that shit is creepy As for the rest simply never take dating or seduction advice from women. They may know what they like but like and respond to are totally different things and they’re clueless about the latter
/r/seduction07/04/22 09:29 AM
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promiscuity is in fact a good predictor of infidelity. Indeed, promiscuity among females accounted for almost twice as much variance in infidelity (r2 = .45) as it did for males (r2 = .25). Can you break this down? Doesn't a high variance just mean that it would be harder to predict?
/r/TheRedPill04/04/22 09:24 AM
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Similar story here. I’m currently sitting at 136 matches after a month of use. I think I had one date that went well. The rest were flakes and conversations the lead nowhere Interestingly enough a year or two ago I was getting consistently laid with girls of the same value that now flake
/r/seduction03/04/22 05:41 PM
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Approach at the gym with the intention to make friends so you don’t come off as a creep and essentially shit where you eat Approach literally anywhere you go if you see someone that catches your eye. You will fail. Miserably. But eventually once you start calibrating you’ll start winning Less thinking more doing
/r/seduction03/04/22 05:38 PM
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If you hanged out in any bodybuilding forums you’ll know how wrong you just were Not responding to any of my other points tells me you may know already
/r/TheRedPill02/04/22 01:30 PM
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Mystery was a very charismatic individual and he was mostly targeting naive and fairly unintelligent women An appealing physique don’t mean shit and most guys won’t get there before years and years of consistent lifting and will have to give up efforts on other aspects of their life to do so If you want pussy train to get pussy same as you train to make more money You mention Mystery but seem to be forgetting about Neil who I guess also did very well. It was because he trained his pussy getting …
/r/TheRedPill02/04/22 11:38 AM
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Yes. Look at all the hard working and highly paid engineers that haven’t had pussy in the last 10 years
/r/TheRedPill02/04/22 09:27 AM
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The emotional baggage single women at 30 or over carry is overbearing. So many insecurities after failed relationships and being single at that age most of them are worth no more than a fuck
/r/seduction31/03/22 07:18 PM
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That’s one dumb comment. What does being 7ft tall have to do with what you can contribute to society? Who’s to say if I or you or OP are contributing to society and producing value and at what level? Is an onlyfans creator producing value? Based on what metrics? If I am a software engineer leading the software lifecycle of the OnlyFans platform I get paid good probably. What value am I producing exactly? Is the word better off with OnlyFans than without? Are all those idiots that are stars in th…
/r/TheRedPill29/03/22 11:17 AM
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You need to open and lead at the start. That’s your investment. First quote talks about the start second about after getting intimate
/r/seduction29/03/22 08:47 AM
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Boosts are the way to go. Boosts and plus so you’ll have unlimited swipes
/r/seduction27/03/22 09:03 PM
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Carry a KFC bucket around and they’ll approach you
/r/seduction27/03/22 08:52 PM
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It wasn’t about the looks really with her. She was an attractive girl but It was more about the connection The connection I didn’t find as strong one again no. And it’s been 4 years now and I’ve gone through quite a few girls ever since You’re looking at her through rose tinted glasses. It’s fake. You lost someone that was providing you with dopamine hits and your brain is acting up. Same happens with drugs. Give it time and you’ll change your perception
/r/seduction21/03/22 08:34 PM
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I honestly don’t see push pull on most of those. What you consider to be a push is self directed in most of those cases whereas the push should be directed at the seducee making her doubt if you actually like her or not
/r/seduction21/03/22 03:04 PM
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Isolate and escalate. “Hey the music is too loud here let’s go outside for a bit” “Let’s go for a cigarette” “Let’s go sit down for a bit” “Let’s go somewhere else” take her somewhere where you can build a connection because the dance floor ain’t it
/r/seduction21/03/22 02:54 PM
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My first and only really oneitis told me when she broke up with me to go back to her ex, that even though she wanted children she would never want them with me. She also said that she would never be able to love me It hurt and guess what, a few months later it didn’t Accept the pain, work on yourself as much as you can and I can guarantee you 100% that a few months down the road if not earlier you will truly not give a fuck about it anymore
/r/seduction21/03/22 02:29 PM
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I like it. It’s very basic info and you’re not providing any resources (Pinterest is a goldmine for clothing inspiration) but it’s true nonetheless A few things: The STD part. It’s retarded Calisthenics. I wanted to kill myself last time I had to do it for 3 months because the gyms were closed. Except it being mind bogglingly boring it’s also not beginner friendly and not progressive overload friendly. You’re a lot better off just running a basic strength/ hyper trophy program with weights I fee…
/r/TheRedPill17/03/22 05:31 PM
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Life is literally about survival dude. That’s pretty much your purpose. You’re born to reproduce and protect the young and ensure your species survive and evolve
/r/TheRedPill17/03/22 05:23 PM
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Lol dude what the are you on? Just because “all girls do it” (which they don’t but the majority of them sure) it doesn’t make it any less wrong or immoral Sure OP didn’t play it right, she lost interest whatever. Even still that is not a pass for people to be shitty to him he didn’t hurt anyone Take off you’re rEdPiLl glasses for a second. This is a person being honest about his intentions. And another treating them like a doormat. She’s a bitch. He’s an idiot, that doesn’t mean he deserved any …
/r/TheRedPill17/03/22 06:06 AM
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They’re all hoes and you should be treating them as such regardless of what your emotional side is telling you OPs story is not new There was only one girl ever in my life that was as little of a hoe as possible I suppose and I was considering LTRing but that was about it Pump and dump, play the field, fuck em and leave ‘em The emotional toll a story like OPs has on a man can have catastrophic consequences. No hoe is worth it
/r/TheRedPill16/03/22 06:29 PM
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Nah bruh the girl was a deceiving cunt from the get go. Man was honest about his intentions and she kept leading him on and playing girlfriend while riding the cc There’s no way in the world the blame is on him
/r/TheRedPill16/03/22 06:24 PM
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The easiest thing to do is get some from within your social circle. Friends of friends and house parties are your best bets. Work environment can work as well as long you’re more or less sure it will not mess up anything if things go south Approaching at bars and clubs is far better than out in the street or stores or cafes. It’s expected and you won’t have to worry about anything other than the girl Approaching is best done with the motive to make friends rather than getting pussy. Go up to gir…
/r/seduction16/03/22 10:52 AM
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Just my personal opinion. I’d imagine other men would respect you more and I still find hard to believe that anyone could pull decent women (I.e. not pretty dumb and/ or naive) with the flashy shit
/r/seduction15/03/22 07:14 PM
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Mystery is one of the founders and top players in the old school pickup artist wave or whatever He’d wear and put on flashy shit to attract attention from women and it worked wonders. He’d paint his nails, wear hats, feathers and other bullshit
/r/seduction15/03/22 06:53 PM
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Yeah I can imagine. Part of the Mystery method. I personally don’t like it and I don’t think it’s needed but I see how it could work
/r/seduction15/03/22 06:50 PM
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You want a good fit and clothes with no flash White/ black T-shirt with a good fit complimenting your figure. Skinny or decent fitting jeans (blue, black, grey) with a rip or two or not. I like ripped. Now that the weather is getting better I personally wear a bomber jacket or denim one on top. Maybe throw on a hoodie in between if it’s chilly Accessory wise a nice watch (not smart) and a necklace and/ or simple bracelet That’s it. Fit is king for the most part
/r/seduction15/03/22 02:05 PM
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How did you get a house and a fancy car if you’re still on your first 6 figure earning year hotshot? Do they pay you a few years in advance?
/r/seduction14/03/22 10:24 PM
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Foolproof way is grab his dick see how he reacts
/r/seduction14/03/22 05:14 PM
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I have a lot of acne scars and what they call a hollow chest (it just looks very weird) No girl even as much as blinked when I took my top off Maybe they’d ask about it but I would make a joke, she’d laugh, we’d continue about our business I’ve had very pretty girls absolutely crave sex with me regardless of how weird my upper torso looks Have faith, give no fucks
/r/seduction14/03/22 03:22 PM
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This is an interesting one. A lot depends on what your lifestyle’s been like in the last few decades Whatever that may have been anyways your best bet is getting fit. Really hitting the gym on a program and working hard on your diet too. Skincare and so on you probably know a lot more about it than I do so I think you got this one You can get a lot of casual action on online dating apps I would imagine unless you’re disfigured or very much overweight Other than that I personally, and I’d imagine…
/r/seduction12/03/22 08:43 PM
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“So we going or not?” It’s a shit test. Don’t let it phase you
/r/seduction08/03/22 05:36 PM
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If you’re enjoying your job and are actually contributing to society (which you are) why would you feel like that? I imagine you’re also making pretty decent money
/r/TheRedPill06/03/22 11:28 AM
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It has so many comments because people want an excuse for being pussies
/r/seduction05/03/22 05:25 PM
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Work in with her. She’s bound to be working out on a machine at some point and it’s so easy to start talking with someone you’re literally sharing something
/r/seduction05/03/22 01:52 PM
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Typically most everyone at the gym have their headphones on throughout the entire time being there. It’s got nothing to do with being open to being approached or not Following your thinking a girl that is actually interested in being approached should go to the gym and do nothing but walk around not doing anything waiting for people to come up to her
/r/seduction05/03/22 01:39 PM
1

Wait did you walk her to her car right after she rejected you kissing her?
/r/seduction05/03/22 11:59 AM
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Oh boy… she’s not into you dude. There’s probably 5 other guys competing for her attention and she’s already got a regular or two plowing her She didn’t think she wouldn’t be a good gf. She saw you being a lot more interested than she is and it killed off whatever attraction there may have been there to start with
/r/seduction04/03/22 11:29 AM
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Ask her out
/r/seduction03/03/22 09:39 PM
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Islam is a cancer upon this world a lot more than Christianity is With that said I understand how yours and a lot of other fellas' here only hope of intimacy from women is actually forcing them to do so instead of generating genuine attraction So I get your point
/r/TheRedPill03/03/22 06:26 PM
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Sounds like an incel. And an idiot too Don’t bring religious bullshit into this. They’ve done enough damage to society as is
/r/TheRedPill03/03/22 06:06 PM
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1 in 15 manifesting into something is a pretty good success ratio honestly. Good job
/r/seduction03/03/22 10:59 AM
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This reads like a shitty novel and it probably is one too
/r/TheRedPill03/03/22 07:36 AM
2

Minoxidil and finasteride and I think ketoconazole too are all FDA approved for hair loss Hair transplants don’t come with sides as far as I know however it’s a prerequisite you’re on finasteride before doing it and after
/r/seduction02/03/22 01:13 PM
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Obvious no but if you have random bald patches (in no particular pattern) it’s very likely. A dermatologist would be able to determine it Topical minoxidil should not increase hair growth anywhere else but all effective drugs come with side effects
/r/seduction02/03/22 10:11 AM
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It’s pretty important. More so for women. Hiding it with products however is a lot more acceptable for you You should take some blood tests first. Thyroid issues are very commonly behind hair loss. You could be suffering from telogen effluvium which is good because it just means your hair can grow back fast once the underlying issue is resolved Rosemary oil and minoxidil are used to grow back hair too. Friend of mine swears by the first and has seen noteable growth with the first. That and fixin…
/r/seduction02/03/22 07:33 AM
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Hard cringe
/r/seduction02/03/22 07:20 AM
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Going through my post and comment history says a lot more about you than it does me I’m afraid
/r/seduction01/03/22 11:23 PM
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Women don’t talk to strange men with hopes of being friends. Again, unless the guy is mentally retarded he’ll know what’s up. If he doesn’t take over the conversation but rather shuts it down as fast as possible then he’s not interested
/r/seduction01/03/22 10:52 PM
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Yeah yah. Thanks for the criticism little virgin
/r/seduction01/03/22 10:42 PM
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Well men mostly settle so your success with them doesn’t say much really Either way, like I said, don’t hit on him. Ask him about an exercise or the weather or his smartwatch or whatever the fuck Unless he’s an autist he’ll get the point
/r/seduction01/03/22 10:40 PM
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If the guy’s attractive don’t expect much. You sound like you look average and without makeup probably make no impression So: wear makeup, something a bit more revealing and next time you’re next to him ask him about something he does or owns or whatever. Doesn’t need to be sexual. If he’s into you he’ll take it from there
/r/seduction01/03/22 10:10 PM
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Girls dress like that to get hit on by guys they like which is a minority. Women live off attention. Water is wet There’s no “their reason” or whatever. They crave attention. Contesting that is like contesting the theory of evolution
/r/seduction01/03/22 10:08 PM
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I laughed way too hard at this. What country?
/r/seduction01/03/22 09:33 PM
1

BDC EDP is amazing but doesn’t last for shit unfortunately
/r/seduction26/02/22 01:55 PM
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This right here. Very powerful
/r/seduction25/02/22 12:29 PM
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Not all girls have flavors and smells. I guess it’s expected to a point but I personally much prefer the no flavor/ taste super combo
/r/seduction23/02/22 10:35 PM
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Don’t
/r/seduction22/02/22 11:00 PM
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But what if she’s got headphones on and I catch her looking at me and lock eyes multiple times then what? Literally happened to me a few hours ago
/r/seduction22/02/22 10:46 PM
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I’m not interested in being friends. See you
/r/seduction22/02/22 10:44 PM
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It’s not with the objective of sex is with the objective of attracting a high value male to lock him down. Sex and relationships are not one the same Most women operate that way. There’s a few exceptions and those are the women that operate with a short term mating mindset throughout their entire lives but those are the outliers
/r/TheRedPill22/02/22 08:14 PM
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Pay for drinks if she’s on a date with you not for dinner and not any more than once or twice unless you’re fucking
/r/seduction21/02/22 09:31 PM
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Yes
/r/seduction21/02/22 05:26 PM
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Polish women are very easy to bed and being a foreigner is quite the advantage assuming you’re not coming from a poorer country Very mentally unstable though so you got that one right
/r/seduction20/02/22 07:48 PM
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You’re making a point about how women dont want to have sex with men and they just use it as a tool which is completely wrong Hypergamy is not about the 20% it’s about dating higher in the hierarchy. You got the term wrong And yeah we don’t have sex to please our partners. Sure it’s great and all to do that but that’s definitely not the purpose or the driving motivation behind it edit: there was never a point in time where most people anywhere were slaves. In Ancient Rome and Greece slaves were …
/r/TheRedPill20/02/22 10:38 AM
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Growing your social circle can happen at any age if you so wish. The opinion that you can’t is just that: an opinion You seem to be worrying too much about things you shouldn’t be. You have to start approaching women and initiating conversation wherever that may be. You don’t necessarily have to go out to clubs or bars and wait for them to have loosened up. That’s dumb Stop putting imaginary limitations to your life if you really want to change it
/r/seduction20/02/22 09:23 AM
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For a significant amount of time in history, most people were slaves and had next to zero rights. They were born and died in chains. **Most** people? Are you sure about that? Born and died in chains? Are you sure about this one? Don't think that's true The idea that sex or making love is a way of letting your partner know that you care about them by giving them pleasure and comfort is long lost in the West and is getting worse by the minute That's not at all what sex is supposed to be or what it…
/r/TheRedPill20/02/22 09:00 AM
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You’re not fuck buddies. You’re dating. Theres nothing really to talk about. If you’re worried about exclusivity you can bring it up but other than it looks like you’re on your way to a fun and normal relationship
/r/seduction19/02/22 06:41 PM
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Yes. Stop doing what you’re biologically and chemically wired to do
/r/seduction17/02/22 08:20 PM
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If it bothers you be vocal about it and set your boundaries. It wouldn’t personally bother me because it sounds like she’s trying to make you jealous which is in itself a sign of interest. It would get old quite fast though at which point she cuts it out or you cut her
/r/seduction17/02/22 09:27 AM
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Depends on which city you go and what you’re looking for. Warsaw has everything. Other cities not so much
/r/seduction16/02/22 08:59 PM
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Man. It doesn’t matter. I find therapy to be a dishonest practice and I’m making my point. It’s not about OP. It’s about therapy
/r/seduction16/02/22 08:00 AM
-8

I know they go to therapy because they can’t get laid that’s more than enough to suggest dropping a practice that asks they keep charging you multiple times before maybe delivering but also maybe not
/r/seduction16/02/22 07:47 AM
-7

That’s copied straight out of stoicism. Stop paying your therapist. Go read the Enchiridion or something
/r/seduction16/02/22 07:41 AM
2

I am not sure I understand. You say at the top you’ve dated and hooked up. So what’s the issue here?
/r/seduction15/02/22 07:59 PM
1

You have to sacrifice some in order to gain some. At this moment there looks like there is a lot of uncertainty. M I’ll tell you what I’d do if I were you: keep doing what you like (traveling and so on) but make it a point to meet women wherever it is that you go to. Have a good few days with a woman here another there. Keep in touch with them. Establish abundance. There’ll come a point when you’ll find the girl that you want to settle down with and it will be the right choice because you’ll be …
/r/seduction14/02/22 11:13 PM
7

It just is what it is. Don’t try to look for any meaning to it other than just not being that attracted to her. There’ll be girls that you’ll get that from
/r/seduction14/02/22 12:07 PM
13

Yeah. You want her validation but once she gives it to you by agreeing to plans and showing up she has nothing more to offer you
/r/seduction14/02/22 11:49 AM
41

You see her and get the validation so there’s nothing more to desire
/r/seduction14/02/22 11:36 AM
3

Mad disrespectful. Toss her
/r/seduction13/02/22 11:43 PM
3

I’m not saying she’s not real. Not saying she’s a 200kg whale neither My experience with girls off socials that chase this hard has been they’re hiding something in their pictures. They all do but there’s levels. Not necessarily saying she’s hiding something horrendous. Just some level of insecurity coupled with perceiving you as out of her league paired with maybe a hint of masculinity more than the average gal
/r/seduction13/02/22 06:43 PM
1

Catfish
/r/seduction13/02/22 06:39 PM
1

If they’re big issues you don’t talk about them openly and as if they don’t bother you. That’d be hypocritical. Men are supposed to be stoics. With that said it follows if you have a solid partner you should be able to open up to them about things that trouble you. If their response is to drop you then they weren’t all that to start with no matter if they’re woman man or dog
/r/TheRedPill13/02/22 06:03 PM
1

It can work yes. Don’t go aggressive though. Crack a joke about her ghosting you. Don’t directly call it out It’s more of a matter of if you think it’s worth the effort Last girl that was flaking after we said we’d go out and ghosted me after asking her if a specific place and time works I ended up fucking on the first date. I made a joke about it
/r/seduction12/02/22 07:46 PM
1

Bruh nobody’s forbidding anyone to do anything. Men with a higher lay count brag about it because they earned it Women have to literally just say yes. There’s no skill there’s nothing involved. Look good and say yes. How can you even compare the two? High lay count as a woman means she’s not being selective. Selectiveness is a sought after quality. No selectiveness no standards no bueno There’s more. A woman risks getting pregnant every time she has sex. A man has a lot more control over putting…
/r/seduction12/02/22 02:35 PM
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>> Dating someone is a privilege that you earn by having your shit together No. People date people left and right and I assure you most of the actively dating people are not even close to "having their shit together". You don't need to in order to date neither it's a privilege to be doing so. It's just part of the average person's life >> Nobody is entitled to attention Define entitled. Better than average looking women get the lion's share and for a good reason >> The more heavily you rely on g…
/r/seduction12/02/22 11:00 AM
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It’s a maybe. You don’t want a maybe. You want a resounding yes Move on
/r/seduction12/02/22 09:41 AM
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You need to understand that not being conventionally attractive as a guy is not a limitation There’s so much you can do to make up for it it’s not even funny
/r/seduction12/02/22 09:39 AM
1

Go open a book
/r/seduction11/02/22 09:25 PM
1

Girls will have professional photo shoots and post that shit on social media and dating apps to attract dudes Mirroring them I’m not sure how good of a look it is. Personally when I see guys so occupied with social media and concerned about it it kinda makes me chuckle
/r/seduction11/02/22 09:24 PM
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Ignorant people like you that got lucky a few times in life fail to identify it it because of how insecure they feel about themselves “Do the work bro. Self made bro” fuck outta here with that bullshit
/r/seduction11/02/22 09:22 PM
0

You’re extremely ignorant for thinking most kids have the opportunity that you had then. Consider yourself lucky and let’s leave it at that
/r/seduction11/02/22 09:16 PM
-1

Are you serious? Were you climbing the corporate ladder when you were 22? Putting your back to it? Most 22 year olds don’t have shit to themselves. This kid comes from a wealthy family and still doesn’t Cmon
/r/seduction11/02/22 09:09 PM
5

2 months in -> 1 hour good night calls what? Look I’m not particularly experienced in LTRs. Basically almost not at all. That seems excessive though Did you actually feel like doing all those things for/ with her? Or were you operating from a position of scarcity? I don’t think what you call red flags meant the girl was not meant to be in an LTR I’d be more curious about how you feel you could have behaved differently and have this play out in your favor You or anyone else really because face it…
/r/TheRedPill11/02/22 06:44 PM
1

Congratulations on pulling up some bullshit articles about surveys (not studies) and one single study with n=150 Did you notice that on the CBS one men lied about drinking and women lied about… their feelings?
/r/seduction10/02/22 02:24 PM
3

Yeah next her. Pretty disrespectful bro
/r/seduction10/02/22 12:43 PM
3

Very common actually what OP is feeling He’s inexperienced and had a chance with a girl who he perceived to be out of his league He’ll get over it but what he’s feeling now is perfectly understandable Also people lie a lot when it comes to avoiding confrontation. Statistically women lie more but that’s a topic for another time If she’d told him yeah you should have done this and that he’ll try to do those and just put her in an awkward position when she knows it’s over for her So it’s perfectly …
/r/seduction10/02/22 12:02 AM
2

I don’t understand the reason you give for not being able to meet for another 2 weeks Anyways: ask her out and find out There’s a high possibility she’s being vindictive and somewhat resents you now for not responding to her back when. That can change
/r/seduction09/02/22 07:56 AM
1

That’s great for you and it follows. You’ve proven to yourself you’re not a bitch and you can take up challenges and live up to your standards When you say inverted sternum do you mean pectus excavatum?
/r/seduction08/02/22 11:26 PM
3

How did you come up with 44%? 1.44 * 0 is still 0
/r/seduction08/02/22 11:23 PM
1

That’s a sign of interest. Give her some space and go back to her again later. Or she will first Either way it’s a good sign
/r/seduction08/02/22 11:21 PM
2

Nah that ain’t it It’s a lot more complex than that and for every guy that got motivated and crushed it after getting turned down by a girl there’s a million that didn’t do jackshit about it
/r/seduction08/02/22 11:18 PM
1

I never heard that but I’ve heard that I look better in real life. Maybe she meant that? Whatever it was don’t bother too much. Girls are always 2 points below what they look like in their picture anyways
/r/seduction08/02/22 11:17 PM
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The good news is that it’s okay to be shy as a girl The bad news is what you’re describing sounds like low self esteem How do you feel about yourself? Are you happy with where you are? Do you have plans for where you’re going? Are you putting in the effort?
/r/seduction08/02/22 11:15 PM
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Establish your boundaries and if she steps on them like here then let her know about it. Don’t ask her to do or not do something specifically just let her know that this or that doesn’t work for you. Choice is hers after. Either she leaves or stops. Or keeps doing it and lies about it which is a lot more likely actually. Eventually you’ll find out and you will have to drop her after About the exact situation you seem to be overreacting a lot. Unless there was obvious flirting and they weren’t ju…
/r/seduction08/02/22 02:07 PM
3

It’s not black and white. She can be somewhat into you or mostly into you Passing the tests she subconsciously may put you under will raise that level
/r/seduction08/02/22 11:54 AM
2

You deleted your post so I don’t remember what your situation was Talk to more women apply for more opportunities pick up more interests compete more etc
/r/seduction08/02/22 08:29 AM
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Competition anxiety is a very valid “technique” (well, developing it) that all you have to do is to apply it to see how crazy good it works OP came off as needy and the girl wanted to avoid the awkwardness. It’s bright as day He could also be terribly unattractive but I am guessing if he was she would have excused herself pretty fast
/r/seduction07/02/22 10:24 PM
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You’re trying too much. Too many cold reads in my opinion and by the way you’re describing the interaction it definitely feels like you were feeling very insecure about whether she’d like you or not. That stuff shows Texting within 5 minutes just confirms it. You’re afraid that if you text her 10 days later she will have forgotten about you You want to hang out with the girl that remembers you 10 days after and after all why wouldn’t she?
/r/seduction07/02/22 10:19 PM
2

Absolutely not. That’s a terrible read By the same token shouldn’t she be smitten by a guy that’s so confident as to approach a woman that catches his eye on the street? Explaining your intentions with her or why you’re into her is a definite attraction killer Women respond great to not knowing and have to imagine and there’s no reason she couldn’t have been imagining great non creepy things about him
/r/seduction07/02/22 10:17 PM
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Women don’t crave sex as much as men do. Very few women masturbate as much as men If you’ve ever found yourself not being able to concentrate on the simplest task purely because of how horny you are you’d know
/r/seduction07/02/22 10:11 PM
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There's a video of some bald YouTuber, you know, the self improvement type, where he goes on about the subconscious. Can't be bothered to look him up right now but I stumbled on this video of his during a terrible period of my life and he said something that really resonated with me "Your subconscious is a separate person that's lurking in the shadows spying on you and looking over your every action and judging you for it". It wasn't exactly like that but you get the point An average girl will f…
/r/TheRedPill07/02/22 08:28 PM
1

Super happy for you but I doubt this is the end goal or way of life *most* men would be satisfied with First thing first your hormonal profile and genetics will heavily influence what you're looking for and what makes you happy. And when I say hormonal profile I do NOT mean "yeah high test bro". It's a balance between a lot of hormones and how sensitive you are to each one You want to retire early and chill I cannot see myself ever retiring. I like taking a vacation after a few months/ weeks of …
/r/TheRedPill07/02/22 08:18 PM
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Women in a relationship with you knowing about it (either you know her and know the boyfriend too or the boyfriend is actually present and it's obviously him) are a lot more comfortable in flirting with you Countless times I have noticed girls very obviously checking me out *while* holding their partners hand Girlfriend of a close acquaintance is very *very* handsy and flirty with me when he's not around I think they're just looking for the attention and satisfying their innate need to flirt whi…
/r/TheRedPill07/02/22 08:07 PM
0

Chill dude. We both know 90% of your fans are still living with their mamas Dudes like Hamza get praise around here and the guys’s got more insecurities than a 20 yo Ukrainian chick coming from a broken home
/r/TheRedPill07/02/22 05:02 PM
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You’re not qualified to be offering such lessons my guy Neither are most coaches and self proclaimed gurus around here
/r/TheRedPill07/02/22 02:25 PM
2

See I don’t think you can. Your stories in this post paint you as a person who’s never really been in a situation any sane human being would panic. Not even close
/r/TheRedPill07/02/22 10:17 AM
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Well she blew you off to hang out with two of her girlfriends and instead of going your way you brought in two of yours to hang out with her That’s needy and communicates you don’t have your own life She texts you back 16 hours later and you still respond and chat her up after Again, needy Ask yourself this: would you give a shit if you had 2-3 other girls hitting you up to hang out?
/r/seduction07/02/22 12:52 AM
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A lot of what you did was “wrong” Simply put you came off as needy. Too nice, trying too much. Oldest story in the book I understand your disappointment though; we’ve all been there Your best bet is to pull all the way back and forget about contacting her ever again in hopes she’ll sense you have options and reach out If she does, which I don’t think she will, you have to stop being that nice and needy Ask her out if you want then. If she says she’s got plans or whatever and doesn’t offer anothe…
/r/seduction07/02/22 12:39 AM
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You have to let her know that she has to put out now You were not her first option and she clearly didn’t respect you at all How you respond is up to you but you can’t just say yeah let’s go I’d go for something like “Sure. Come over tomorrow evening” She has to know you’re just interested in fucking her now and not willing to play nice to get it (which you shouldn’t be doing anyways but that’s a different story)
/r/seduction07/02/22 12:19 AM
2

Put yourself out there. In every aspect You’re not going to feel better ever unless you get some wins in you Statistically the fails are going to be a lot more so the only way to get the wins is to fail and then fail some more Other option is to wait until you get lucky but that’s not the shortest path to the end goal not by any means
/r/seduction06/02/22 11:32 PM
1

Either way. Go talk to them. Playfully. “Noticed you girls checking me out”
/r/seduction06/02/22 11:20 PM
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Yeah that’s literally what I said. I don’t get it
/r/TheRedPill06/02/22 11:18 PM
2

Literally everyone would have taken that deal Not sure what the point of your story is other than bragging maybe Someone offers me 2 years of my life all expenses paid sign me the fuck up Stay level headed when you get a huge bill out of nowhere and then get fired and then let us know about panicking or not
/r/TheRedPill06/02/22 11:15 PM
1

do you get the feeling they’re into you or making fun of you?
/r/seduction06/02/22 11:09 PM
2

Super weird. You’re straight up telling her you’re insecure about her considering you sexually or not
/r/seduction06/02/22 11:05 PM
6

I don't get it. Did you get 2 years of salary when you left the corpo job or would you have if you hadn't left?
/r/TheRedPill06/02/22 10:43 PM
2

Wdym? Give it a couple days and hit her up to plan a date
/r/seduction06/02/22 12:21 PM
2

Have a main mission to which you devote 60% of your time The rest 40% should be half fitness meaning the gym or martial arts and nutrition and half women/ parties/ whatever
/r/seduction05/02/22 07:40 PM
1

Then straight up tell her she’s stepping on your boundaries dude. Let her know she’s about to lose you
/r/TheRedPill05/02/22 12:49 PM
2

I’m not saying be a complete dick all the time If she’s complaining about something then do something about it if you care for her definitely Just don’t overdo it. Don’t smother her. If she asks for compliments give her one once in a while. Not everyday. It will come off as needy and insecure There’s some truth to treating women like you would children. A child that constantly asks for treats you have to give it some once in a while. If you start giving in to its every request it will turn out s…
/r/TheRedPill05/02/22 10:33 AM
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You don’t kino by holding hands dude. Like if she says her hands are cold you can go like oh let me see and hold her hands for like a second sure. Kino is about taking the opportunity presented to get some physical intimacy going. Start lightly and go from there
/r/seduction04/02/22 08:55 PM
1

Never express direct interest. Never hold hands and do anything remotely boyfriend like unless you’ve fucked her a few times already Communicate your intentions with your actions and if she’s not responding leave
/r/seduction04/02/22 08:43 PM
1

So she rejects you and you respond with simping for her over SC not even in person Yeah. That’s a winner right there
/r/seduction04/02/22 08:26 AM
1

Should still be pretty much over You can slowly start showing more interest (with actions not words) and she if she responds but if she doesn’t stop
/r/seduction04/02/22 08:21 AM
2

Most likely over at that point Your best bet is to pull back and see if she gains any interest back. If not then you find another one Don’t confess anything. It will come off as desperate and she’ll resent you for it
/r/seduction03/02/22 10:38 PM
3

You’re way off. First off it’s not testosterone that makes you bald. It’s DHT. Not even DHT really but how sensitive your scalp is to it. Genetics define the latter. Technically high testosterone would result in high DHT but not necessarily plus there’s way to minimize the conversion (read below) Testosterone has nothing to do with your beard and if you can grow one. Again, it’s genetic. You can maybe probably grow a beard with minoxidil or fill it in anyways but it’s a hassle The solution, sort…
/r/seduction03/02/22 09:24 PM
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You can stop being a 31 year old man child Cease all contact and go meet new women
/r/seduction03/02/22 01:50 PM
3

Yeah well looks like the post has been removed so I'll go by what I remember. OP went on about how he gave her a lot of compliments, did this and that for her, made her cum a few times and so on All this attention he gave her (the incessant texting included) and how accommodating he was to her every need killed the attraction She got all his attention so what's left to be desired anymore? Women don't want you to treat them the way they say they do. They want to see you put yourself first and tak…
/r/seduction02/02/22 08:37 AM
2

Yeah pretty much
/r/seduction01/02/22 11:07 PM
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Yeah. Some girls have that next door girl look you know? They’re hot but they look all nice and fuzzy and instinctively you’re going to want to be super nice to them. Think of babies. You want to protect them and be there for them. You’d never be mean to them unless you’re some kind of psychopath. Whatever the case may be you should do as OP suggests. 99% of women will react very predictably and very similarly. It doesn’t matter how cute or girly or bossy or uptight or whatever they look like
/r/TheRedPill01/02/22 10:43 PM
2

It’s not that unheard of. I could have sort of seen it coming. I’m not sure if you’re looking for an explanation though but if so I’d be glad to elaborate For the record though you didn’t do everything seemingly correct. The response was good but there’s a reason she wanted no more of it
/r/seduction01/02/22 10:38 PM
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I’d add two things to this: a) Young innocent looking girls and not so young but still innocent looking ones it’s harder to be a dick to the way described here. Regardless the response is going to be the same b) A woman you’ve been seeing if she’s on her way out or plain shit testing you will bring up shit like you don’t talk to me nice etc. Don’t buy it. If you change it up even if she’s asking for it you will fail the test or accelerate her dropping you
/r/TheRedPill01/02/22 12:52 PM
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Totally agree but you can’t just say you do and have them buy it. You have to behave like it which is a lot harder
/r/seduction01/02/22 10:15 AM
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Stopped reading at “I bet our kids would look cute” If that doesn’t creep her out I don’t know what would
/r/seduction01/02/22 09:57 AM
2

Haha fucking true. Guys that brag about how many they’ve bagged it’s always 70% tramps too
/r/seduction01/02/22 09:55 AM
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Nice. The high five one I’ve been doing for a long time now and it absolutely helps in helping her open up and relax. Plus it’s a start to the more intimate contact to come One thing I’d argue with is you seem, on the first few bullet points anyway, to be placing a lot of focus on what she would enjoy I think it should be the other way round. Propose doing what you would be enjoying and let her come along for the ride
/r/seduction31/01/22 09:32 PM
2

I swear I’ve seen posts like the one you’re linking a million times already It’s always the same vague bullshit about expressing your intentions to fuck her but without really talking to her like a normal person. Ok. Examples then If she’s fucking you without previously having talked to her like a normal person there’s a few things going on: a) You’re genetically blessed and she’s into you and doesn’t care what comes out your trap b) She’s desperate and low value which results to a
/r/TheRedPill31/01/22 07:54 PM
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You’re forgetting about one thing In this trip the one leading you and being the expert so to speak was the 39 year old dude Women are attracted to leaders, masters and so on I’m not sure if at your age you have to forget about the 20 year olds. There’s a lot of young girls out there into older dudes and some don’t even know it Whatever it is your best bet is to keep fit and play your strengths whatever those may be. Also approach obviously young or old doesn’t matter
/r/seduction31/01/22 01:09 PM
1

Yeah read my reply to OP The higher the attractiveness the lower the effort Just so happens a lot more women are attractive to most men than the other way around which is why it’s mostly guys putting in the effort initially
/r/seduction30/01/22 12:44 PM
1

Yeah boring and other options is my best guess I don't know which platform you're on but on Tinder I barely ever see an attractive girl have anything other than a blank bio I make assumptions or point out something weird in their pictures or come up with a scenario we play out (imaginary trip or bank heist or something silly like that)
/r/seduction30/01/22 12:28 PM
2

Girls will get away with pretty much everything since they're mostly valued for their beauty/ attractiveness If you wanna get your dick wet you'll give her a pass on most everything and if you don't someone else will As a result she doesn't have to or rarely will go through the self calibration and growth process we as guys have to experience first before we get somewhere tl;dr if you're attractive enough (most women are to most men - see okcupid survey) you can get away with being bad at anythi…
/r/seduction30/01/22 12:24 PM
1

Could be a coincidence but if by normal conversation you mean asking about careers, hobbies etc that stuff can be boring yeah. I’ll personally go with it since I get it some girls want see if you’re “normal” but if I’m having a fun conversation with some other girl at the same time I might give up on the first Your opener would have turned me off personally too
/r/seduction30/01/22 12:14 PM
0

Nah that’s bullshit. The whole work on yourself before you start going for the girls mantra is ass. Just go for the girls. Priority #1 if it’s really affecting your mental health (not getting them that is). Lower priority if not
/r/seduction29/01/22 06:04 PM
4

Either extremely good looking or extremely low standards. Observations wouldn’t apply to anyone else
/r/seduction28/01/22 08:17 AM
1

Is it possible, since all 8 dates that ghosted you after the first time you met them, that they might have felt that you misrepresented yourself in your pictures? Like older pictures, or very specific angles hiding imperfections and so on? It's the last thing I can think about that may not be about how you carry yourself. Again the good thing is that the sample is very small. The problem is it's a blow to your confidence and that's only making matters worse. I'd start by approaching girls and ma…
/r/seduction25/01/22 09:04 PM
2

That’s a very small sample but I am not going to pretend I don’t understand your frustration. It’s still a 100% failure ratio Online dating is not it. Not worth the bother. I’d personally get a few good matches a year or two back but now especially it’s a shitshow. Unless you’re willing to really really lower your standards it’s just not going to happen You need to work on your social life. If not for the girls do it for your mental well being. I made friends with friends of friends. Hang out wi…
/r/seduction25/01/22 06:00 PM
1

Really hard to say without actually meeting you and talking to you in person What’s your sample size? Have many women have you been rejected by? What’s your social life dating aside look like? What do your other social interactions look like? Do people look at you or treat you any different than most folks? If you have been consistently working out for the past 10 years and have the physique to match then there must be something you’re doing very very wrong. About the question you’re asking abou…
/r/seduction25/01/22 04:28 PM
2

Don’t do that. Way way over the top
/r/seduction25/01/22 10:40 AM
2

L’homme is my absolute favorite and have gotten a lot of compliments on it but the performance is horrific. I’ve heard the same about la nuit unfortunately
/r/TheRedPill25/01/22 10:17 AM
2

English. Don’t know what it’s like in Germany (heard good things about Berlin) but where I am speaking English can actually make you stand out and earn some extra points
/r/seduction24/01/22 02:46 PM
2

Wait didn’t you have a husband just two weeks ago?
/r/seduction24/01/22 08:35 AM
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I can interpret pretty much everything a woman says or does with a certainty rate of about 90%. Tested and tried All stories of rejection share the same traits it’s not even funny If you’re experienced you can see the signs a mile away I’m really surprised about how you could say “stop trying to understand them” - 25 years in the field I’d expect you’d be even more certain of things than I personally feel Not trying to be cocky or anything but I hardly ever wonder anymore about what does this gi…
/r/seduction23/01/22 04:46 PM
24

The red pill community has a tendency to idolize military people to which I would respond: “stop it… get some help” Military people are some of the most ignorant miseducated people in the planet. The fact that they’re giving themselves up as fodder for corporation wars should be proof enough yet somehow it slips the average persons mind focusing instead on the machoism and the men they could never be In short: stop idolizing military people, go get history lessons
/r/TheRedPill23/01/22 10:31 AM
1

You forgot desperate although it may sound a bit too dramatic. Older women with a shot self confidence will approach no problem
/r/seduction22/01/22 02:19 PM
0

Yes, do what this lady tells you and you’ll get her eventually. What a joke 99% of all women went the exact same thing in terms of looks and personality. Obviously personality takes a second place once looks are good enough For really good looking women you either have to be lucky enough for her to be in the mood and dtf (assuming you look presentable and can get through a conversation in an adult manner) or just be genetically blessed. The second works a lot better. Be tall, full head of hair, …
/r/seduction22/01/22 01:56 PM
5

Right got ya Agree on the choosing signals ofcourse but sometimes that translates to lowering your standards enough to act on them
/r/TheRedPill20/01/22 09:07 PM
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First off sorry for your loss. I can't even begin imagining what that could feel like Couple of questions though: a) You said you were fucking other women before the divorce and your wife was not faithful. Were you both cheating on one another? I can't find your old post so just asking for clarity b) How old are you and where do you meet women? I am inclined to think your looks play a huge role in your experience in the field based on other comments and your post
/r/TheRedPill20/01/22 07:20 PM
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You’re wrong. It’s not the absence of hobbies. You don’t need hobbies to seem fun or to show a woman a good time I can’t even begin to describe what pity I feel for people that do all that shit like skiing skydiving paintball (pretty nerdy btw) only to be slightly amused one day and have whatever equipment they got gather dust in a closet somewhere for the rest of their lives. Not to mention being horribly bad at whichever Yes to the hobbies but stick with one you enjoy and get good at it You ca…
/r/TheRedPill19/01/22 11:17 PM
1

Lviv, Ukraine and Poland, city doesn’t matter that much Forget about the food though Maybe Prague too but I haven’t been myself
/r/seduction19/01/22 10:06 PM
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Don’t know man I feel like I’m missing direction in life and my looks seem to be degrading fast (see balding) so I’m not so sure If I was 20 yeah it would seem stupid to worry but 30 hit hard and that reflects on one’s dating life quite a bit is my experience
/r/seduction19/01/22 09:36 PM
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Coke is your answer my guy. No calories, all the fun
/r/seduction19/01/22 09:33 PM
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Are you considering Eastern Europe at all? Read: consider Eastern Europe
/r/seduction19/01/22 09:24 PM
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Well I’m really glad I was wrong about the first part then. If anything it’s giving me hope. That someday I’ll be doing as good I’ve had some good times but as I’m getting older (30 now) it feels like I might have to settle for the memories
/r/seduction18/01/22 10:45 PM
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Nah that’s bad advice. Dude I met sometime ago pulled this on me and my buddies and it very soon became obvious that he was lying. Lost any respect I had for him. Be honest with people they’ll respect you for it
/r/seduction16/01/22 03:07 PM
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She’s not into you. Women will come up with all sorts of stupid crap to soften the rejection like, in your case, not answering phone calls because “she doesn’t do that” or telling you she felt you didn’t want to get to know her. She’s avoiding directly rejecting you using excuses Let me ask you this. If she was really into a guy (like actually attracted sexually as you’d want her to be to you) would she not answer his phone calls? Would she, assuming that was the case to start with, care about w…
/r/seduction15/01/22 05:06 PM
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Good post and personally agree with most of it. Sounds to me like the 27 year old in the story was an exception though and the novelty of this experience inspired you to write this post You also seem to be taking literally what comes out of womens mouths which in my experience is rarely ever the case. The “oh I never do this” after they fuck you within 10 minutes of meeting you is an extremely common thing to say and they most likely say it to qualify in your eyes and also convince themselves th…
/r/seduction15/01/22 03:30 PM
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The writing is complete ass no offense. Go read some classics or anything really
/r/TheRedPill15/01/22 08:53 AM
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I have had this question for a while myself and still do honestly so would also like to see if there's any good advice out there. I will give you mine though from the perspective of 30 year old living in Europe and mostly hanging out with dudes your age or even older. The Europe part may be important. I think the US scene is quite different. Either way: Way I see it there's two options: a) This one applies if you're actually good looking and/ or can afford travelling. Build an instagram profile.…
/r/seduction09/01/22 01:45 PM
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Your entire post is about basing your confidence and self esteem around how others (including the girl that dumped you) perceive you. You're literally advising people move to places where they will be more liked or admired just so they can avoid what? Having a girl dump them? Are you hearing yourself? Does that sound like a healthy mentality to have and navigate life with?
/r/TheRedPill03/01/22 08:59 PM
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It may sound harsh, and I guess you've thought about it, but it's extremely easy to just make arrangements with some other guy they perceive of higher value for whatever reason and just cancel on you. Having said that I have been on both sides quite a few times and I still have a hard time figuring it out. Best off become resilient to rejection and try to not get bothered too much by it
/r/TheRedPill03/01/22 08:52 PM
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Story hits home man. Glad to hear you got over it and it didn't hurt you as much. Went a bit different for me unfortunately even though all the signs were there and it was fairly obvious what had happened Rejection creates obsession either way but even knowing that we're all humans and can't be completely devoid of feelings
/r/TheRedPill03/01/22 08:48 PM
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Pump or doms (delayed onset muscle soreness) does not necessarily indicate you’re doing better in terms of hypertropy. Doms especially happens when you’re not used to the intensity/ volume or the exercise is just new to you (or it’s been a while since you performed it). Not bashing on your results, not one bit, but you could have gotten that in a year or less with proper research and/ or a good trainer. Friendly advice: if you like the pump try some l citruline as a preworkout (provided you dose…
/r/TheRedPill24/12/21 03:10 PM
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Would be great if we could hear a bit more about your journey. I’m sure a lot of guys here would benefit from that
/r/TheRedPill15/12/21 12:29 PM
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What? Did you blood test them? There’s other androgenic hormones in the body. There’s also a testosterone/ estrogen ratio that males need to keep to be masculine. There’s men that were born without the 5ar enzyme and couldn’t produce DHT while growing up leading to them having micropenises but developing more muscle mass since they had more testosterone. Did they too get all the pussy?
/r/TheRedPill19/11/21 01:58 PM
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Thats why TRP is mostly successful with people of low education. Testosterone by itself doesn’t control jack shit. Does it have an influence on libido and motivation? Sure. Is it the only factor? Absolutely fucking not Even if testosterone was the deciding factor, people will have a lot higher testosterone based on genetics purely. So there’s not much nice guy can do in your story anyways: read, it’s a bad story
/r/TheRedPill19/11/21 10:10 AM
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Good skin comes down to genetics too. Anyways: good face, good build, ability to actually grow a beard and being taller than average will help you pull younger girls easy balding or not Also "weak wrists"? You probably mean thin (which doesn't translate to weak btw and it's obviously genetic). If so totally agree Genetics play a huge role in pulling girls and there's no denying that. If you do as you say with the younger girls you probably have a genetic advantage here and there
/r/TheRedPill23/10/21 07:08 PM
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Problem is nobody really cares what you've been through. You could have gone through hell and come back but whether it's a prospective employee or a prospective fuck they just care about what you have to offer at that given time. There's stuff that realistically a lot if not most of us will not be able to offer ever. Genetics, upbringing etc. have made sure of that. Motivation plummets once you come to that realisation or at least it does for me
/r/TheRedPill14/10/21 07:19 PM
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It's a personal struggle. It's really difficult to find the motivation for any work when you realise (as you get older or more experienced or whatever) that there's things you'll most likely never achieve or have access to and there's dudes out there younger that have had them already. Be that the girls or the material stuff
/r/TheRedPill14/10/21 07:17 PM
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Now tell me how to feel okay when I’m in my early 30s and see so many kids a lot younger than me being more ripped, wealthier, have (maybe as a byproduct maybe not) higher confidence and so on. It’s a serious question that I struggle a shit ton to not have make me feel awful and completely kill my motivation
/r/TheRedPill13/10/21 02:20 PM
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You're mixing up strength progress and hypertrophy. Ideally you train for both but you don't *need* to do singles or triples at RPE9-10 for hypertrophy. Rep ranges of 6-30 are good for hypertrophy. Anything below that, unless you're a new lifter 0-1.5 years of lifting, you will not see hypertrophy gains and you might even atrophy while getting stronger. I agree progress is key and that's where you need to focus. But you could be progressing in strength and not gaining muscle. Another thing I wou…
/r/TheRedPill08/09/20 08:47 AM
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