Just a few random tips; things I've done in the past that I was told heavily contributed to a woman's interest in me... in no particular order.

Thought some of you might find these useful, or at the very least, entertaining.

Enjoy.

  • A good hug and/or kiss is in the hands. Massage her back, shoulders and neck while you kiss softly, yet passionately. Give a squeeze as the kiss ends. This will leave her feeling breathless and lightheaded.
  • Show her the friendzone during the first date. There's something about the words "We can just be friends" that make most women immediately desire you more.
  • Have a plan. Never invite someone out to just "chill".
  • If you don't have a concrete plan, have three options in mind; something casual, something romantic, and something intimate. Let the way she's dressed when you pick her up/she arrives determine the option.
  • Let her get comfortable with physical contact slowly. Don't force it or rush it. Start with a High-five (no one ever turns down a high-five), and escalate from there.
  • Never underestimate the power of a gentle kiss on the back of her hand.
  • Learn brainteasers. Challenge her to think outside the box.
  • Make texting interactive, not just greetings and responses. One of the ways I did this was downloading random pics: Locations, clothing, cars, homes, outfits (male and female), lingerie, shoes, etc.; four of each. Then I would send her the images and ask questions like "Which of these would you choose under (whatever circumstances), A, B, C, or D. This gets her more engaged.
  • Car Lipsync Battle: If I picked a woman up for an outing, I'd play a song and lipsync the lyrics. And I would go hard! Then I would challenge her to do a song. Eases the tension and is fun AF.
  • Show Emotional Vulnerability. Ask her if its okay if you vent to her about something (doesn't have to be anything major of earth shattering), but something that shows how something affects you emotionally.
  • Call her out. If you notice her checking you out, looking at your lips, etc., call her out. This is a great opportunity to increase the sexual tension. "Will you stop undressing me with your eyes? It's making me uncomfortable." said in a teasing tone will work wonders.
  • Once things get sensual (i.e., the kissing starts), put some space between you. Tell her "Go stand over there, since you can't seem to keep your hands off me." again... in a teasing tone.
  • Then, after a few moments, pull her back. Tell her to come closer and to close her eyes. Kiss her (remember the hands).
  • Something New: take her out to do something she's never done before. This creates a stable in her memory for you and the activity.
  • Want to know if she's ready for a kiss? Excuse yourself to go to the bathroom. Before leaving, pull her close and angle for a kiss on the cheek/forehead, and say "I'll be right back." If she doesn't recoil, proceed accordingly when you return.
  • Ask where her "spot" is. That region of her body that when kissed or touched turns her on.
  • Once you have past kissing, utilize that information, but don't escalate. (Make her WANT to).
  • A kiss on the neck/back of the neck is a spot for most women.
  • During the first sexual encounter, make sure to touch LITERALLY ever inch of her body. Go slow and take your time.
  • The second time you have a sexual encounter, fuck her like you hate her.
  • "I forgot something..."; if I'm went to her place for Secci Tymes, after we've played, chilled, and it's time to go, I'll text her from my car and say "I forgot something. Can I come back in?" Typically, she'll accept. When I get back inside, I'll tell her I forgot I wanted to have her again, and escalate to another round. The great thing about this is it'll let me know instantly what her feelings on our sexual compatibility are.
  • If this does lead to another round, I focus all on her.
  • The Two Way Street: typically, up to this point, I'm usually the one that did all the leg work; making plans, initiating dates, etc. Now, I'm going to step back and let her make an effort to spend time with me. I'm not going to make plans or invite her out until she at least offers to buy me a cup of coffee or something.
  • No sex the next time we spend time together.
  • But turn her on as much as possible.
  • Let her know where she stands. If a serious romantic relationship isn't in the cards, be upfront about it and give her the option to continue or not. Otherwise, enjoy the journey towards a LTR.
  • Ask for help. With cooking, with dishes, hell, with picking what to watch on Netflix. Let her know its a team effort.
  • Don't text "How was your day?", try "What's something that made you laugh or smile today?"
  • Have an actual phone call at least twice a week (three or more if you've been intimate)
  • Don't buy gifts. If you want to get her something, make it. Shows more effort and adds more value.

Again... random... and in no particular order. Just a few things that come to mind when talking to my younger brother about things he could do to make his girl crazy for him.

Cheers.