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Very sobering read. Thanks!
/r/seduction28/08/14 07:38 PM
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Its something we ALLL struggle with man... word of advice: Read/Listen to Brian Tracy's audio seminar on Self Discipline. After that 45minutes you will not want to have a comfort zone.
/r/seduction28/08/14 07:34 PM
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I agree, party's are great because its not a blind approach. If you know someone at the party, they likely know them too and you can use that as an easy approach: Try coming up, introducing yourself and asking "how do you know everyone here" and then you can easily bridge that into anecdotes/stories about your common contact. For some reason having the one friend in common makes things much more familiar.
/r/seduction28/08/14 07:29 PM
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In my limited experience hooking up with girls from class leads to some weirdness after. First girl became overly attached and extremely needy, which was a distraction.She would constantly invite me to "study", and would get jelouse of my talking to other girls in the class. Second girl was initially a fun new friend. But after we went out and hooked up she just pretended like it never happened and we became more distant as a result. If you can find a balance between the two then I would love to…
/r/seduction28/08/14 07:11 PM
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Ahh this is great! Cheesy K Closes are my favorite :)
/r/seduction28/08/14 06:45 PM
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This one usually works for me - focus on bouncing off of the last thing she says rather than trying to get "your word in" This is especially useful in any casual conversation. ALSO If she is a little nervous too, just ask a lot of simple questions: "have you been here before?" "what looks good on the menu?" etc.. BUT, try to make an anecdote out of everything. Keep a few funny stories under your sleeve related to food, outings, etc. Making her laugh and making her comfortable will make her more …
/r/seduction28/08/14 06:40 PM
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putting him down does little good my friend, even if its a poor FR
/r/seduction15/07/14 10:47 PM
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this is a support forum, the guys asking for advice
/r/seduction13/07/14 08:14 AM
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Not a big deal man, drugs change a person. once had a chick go for my friend after toking up, while she seemed so interested in me initially. seems like the date would've need well sans the drugs.
/r/seduction13/07/14 08:12 AM
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No, you definitely didn't ruin it. Seems like you do really like her, and you should definitely try to meet her in a more social situation (since it seems like SHE is more comfortable and open in those) I'm not sure what you mean by private lessons, but usually if its a forced situation its always less comfortable (which explains her lack of eye contact) basically just try to meet her out somewhere. If you are out at the bar with friends, invite her and her friends to join you. She will be more …
/r/seduction13/07/14 08:04 AM
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yea you guys are 100% spot on.
/r/seduction09/07/14 05:12 PM
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yea now that I think about it, its not really a trick - it was more of the first thing to pop into my head in terms of "how am I going to Kclose" I feel like its always better to be prepared because then you can focus on HOW you're going to do it rather than WHAT am I going to do. also ... she told me later that she really liked the spontaneity.
/r/seduction09/07/14 05:09 PM
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AHH good call, didn't think about that!
/r/seduction09/07/14 05:05 PM
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Relaxation is the key here. When you are tense the muscles in your diaphragm and around your larynx tend to be contracted causing you to speak with a slightly higher pitch. One thing that has worked for me is meditation. You learn how to intentionally relax your body. This has helped tremendously with the deepness and slowing down of speech -- give it a try!
/r/seduction01/06/14 03:54 AM
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yes definitely positive mindset. and if you are a bit of a downer like I am, fake it! also watch this it has helped me reshape my attitude tremendously.
/r/seduction01/06/14 03:28 AM
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This is great, love how you push your comfort zone!
/r/seduction01/06/14 03:25 AM
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this works well. gets a bit more complicated when a girl is involved, but from my experience girls love to be spun around.
/r/seduction01/06/14 03:20 AM
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As others have mentioned, expand your overall social circle, don't just focus on girls. Try to meet people outside of your major. I took an exercise medicine class last semester and met more girls in that class than I did my entire undergrad. Also don't be afraid to friend some low balls, chances are they have cute friends.
/r/seduction28/05/14 03:31 AM
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Great to hear! Keep that momentum up and that mindset going and nothing can stop you.
/r/seduction28/05/14 03:25 AM
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This has worked well for me when timed right: Right after you both laugh over something (especially something that increases sexual tension, like something awkward) look her straight in the eyes and take a a deeper breath. More often then not she will lean in.
/r/seduction22/05/14 04:32 AM
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Give this a read through if you haven't already. It has helped me understand what alpha means ALOT.
/r/seduction22/05/14 04:23 AM
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I always though hooking up was everything before f close.
/r/seduction22/05/14 04:18 AM
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It happens all the time. The girl you just described is obviously interested in you, especially since she was reacted to your flirting with another girl. My guess is that she rejected you just because, and is now reflecting on it and much more strongly considering you. The fact that you went for it before planted the idea in her. Heres what I would do: Don't be easy. Since you went for it before and she rejected you she assumes control. You need to reverse this and show her you can have any girl…
/r/seduction22/05/14 04:15 AM
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Brilliant! I feel this would be perfect teaser just before "fun-time"
/r/seduction05/02/14 01:29 AM
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Happens to the best of us man. I was in a similar situation a few months back, and let me tell you, too many drinks (and especially drugs) makes things feel much worse afterwards. I invited a girl over for drinks one night and soon after an old high school buddy of mine called saying was in town and invited us out. So we joined him and course he has a baggy of weed with him. Long story short the girl gets drunk/high -- the guy, in lieu of our intoxicated stupor starts feeling on my date and she …
/r/seduction05/02/14 01:26 AM
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can you elaborate on the HAT concept and some tips on how to remain confident despite it.
/r/seduction05/02/14 01:14 AM
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