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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
11	First Mate - Morale Officer Question	ADVICE	2000sgirl91	/r/RedPillWomen	11/07/23 01:16 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	What career do you have/ are pursuing? I’m a staff accountant!	/r/RedPillWomen	12/07/23 12:21 AM
1	First Mate - Morale Officer Question It’s not my job. I love my job and the company. I actually just came back to it after a few years because the crap manager I had before is gone and now a friend is my manager. Getting up and going downtown to the office each day actually is a highlight for me. It’s the rest of my life that feels like a mess.	/r/RedPillWomen	11/07/23 04:22 PM
3	First Mate - Morale Officer Question Currently in therapy. Started at the beginning of the year due to my parents issues that were affecting me. Honestly, no. I guess I’m not. I have no reason not to be, but I’m not. I just don’t know what would make me happy. I definitely feel crappy about myself, so I’m sure that’s part of it.	/r/RedPillWomen	11/07/23 03:13 PM
3	First Mate - Morale Officer Question Honestly, I feel like my bad mood is from feeling like my whole life is just a mess. I’m overwhelmed with life and can’t seem to catch a break long enough to get myself together. I know there will be no sympathy and I’m not expecting anything. Just sometimes I want to lay down and sleep for a few months.	/r/RedPillWomen	11/07/23 02:33 PM
3	First Mate - Morale Officer Question I try to workout when I get home. It’s the only time I really have to do it. Not exactly relaxing, but good for me. I feel like if I could get some sort of routine going, it could be manageable. I just can’t seem to stick with anything. Im quite frustrated with myself. I love my job, and the company I work for. There are so many perks to it. And I’ve mentioned being stay at home, but he wants me to work. We’ve grown accustomed to the lifestyle we’ve been able to afford and are both fighting to n…	/r/RedPillWomen	11/07/23 02:28 PM
1	First Mate - Morale Officer Question I’ve thought of doing something different, but I’m just afraid I won’t get me the results I want. So I usually suck it up and make myself do the more intense thing. I know that’s stupid.	/r/RedPillWomen	11/07/23 02:14 PM
4	First Mate - Morale Officer Question I hear you on the self care part. I feel like I do everything for everyone else and don’t have time for myself. I just have a problem saying no. If someone needs something, I do it. Begrudgingly or not. I know this will only get exponentially worse if/when we have kids.	/r/RedPillWomen	11/07/23 02:05 PM
2	First Mate - Morale Officer Question I try workout during that time. It’s not really my idea of relaxing or fun, but it’s the only time I have and I need to do it. Maybe once I start feeling better about myself, it won’t feel like so much of a chore and will put me in a better mood.	/r/RedPillWomen	11/07/23 02:00 PM
1	Should I buy him the hoodie? Have you read any of Laura Doyle’s books? They might be helpful. They definitely require an open mind.	/r/RedPillWomen	11/07/23 02:45 AM
1	Happily married women, did you JUST KNOW he was the one early on? Or did you marry out of convenience and it turned out great? I don’t know when I knew he was the one. It was more of just an over time I stopped being able to imagine anyone else and we just fit. I do know that I knew when my ex (2nd longest relationship to my husband) almost five years in and I was question if he was the one. He was so out going and social and it exhausted me. We didn’t click. I learned that if you question it, it’s probably not the one. At least for me.	/r/RedPillWomen	11/07/23 01:54 AM
1	A question about dating I met my husband on a dating app. You kind of have to feel out the guys to see if they are really in to you or just want to hookup. I talked to him via app, text, and phone for a couple weeks before agreeing to meet up in person. He didn’t get angry or impatient. He was understanding and sweet and waited for me to trust that he wasn’t a critter.	/r/RedPillWomen	11/07/23 01:32 AM
3	Do you offer to pay the bill? If it’s a date and he asked you, then he should pay. If you asked him, I would offer to pay. If your friends just hanging out and you want to stay friends, offer to split the bill…Not sure if it’s a popular opinion, but that’s how I would do it. Sex is not the how you pay for a date. If he invited you, then he wants your company and that’s your “pay” for the date. There should never be an expectation of sex after a date. All my opinions of course.	/r/RedPillWomen	11/07/23 01:27 AM