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11

This actually describes my current relationship perfectly lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/20 04:31 AM
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Lmao of course not. I’m taken and super pregnant. I do not have time for any of that 😂 We were only talking about the post and comments. Then I mentioned I was pregnant and he disappeared instantly. I’m sure that’s where he thought the conversation was headed though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 05:58 PM
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When I was a teenager I was groomed by several men into being a pickmeisha. I thought not going out and hanging with friends, being a bookworm, dressing very feminine and wanting to be a housewife right out of high school made me a good, more desirable woman. Now I realize those men didn’t deserve me then and most definitely don’t deserve me now. It took me several years to find myself after coming to the realization that I had changed myself so much for men who couldn’t even find a woman and ha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 04:46 PM
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Mkay, thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 02:37 PM
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Okay, go off. It’s whatever. Others were able to understand what I meant in the context I said it in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 02:35 PM
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I literally said some people. I’m well aware that there are people with these jobs who would like to be doing something else. Some even work these jobs while working on their degrees. You took that one sentence completely out of context.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 02:31 PM
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Funny that you mentioned that. A male lurker hopped in my chat discussing this tweet and the conversation was actually good until I mentioned I was 8 months pregnant and taken then he went poof, lol. It’s pretty hard to believe in genuine male allies but oh well. 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 01:44 PM
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Some people have jobs that don’t require them to be “professional” on social media. He could be a business owner, a trucker, an entertainer, etc. Then some people just have no ambition to do anything more than working at a grocery store, being a fast food worker or being a plant worker. If he has his job listed on his profile someone could always try to contact his employer (assuming he has one) but there was nothing inherently sexist/racist/xenophobic/etc. about his post so unless he’s a teache…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 06:49 AM
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The worst thing about it is a lot of women (obviously not all) who end up dating men who harm their children saw all the red flags but let these men into their children’s lives regardless. This is one of the many reasons being a Pickmeisha is so dangerous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 11:20 AM
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Apparently I’m a man because I have one pair of nikes for going out and a pair of flip flops for home. I might wear flats if I’m wearing a dress too long for my tennis shoes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 12:54 AM
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That’s my main concern. Who in their right mind would want their wife to have to take public transit when they have the means to prevent that? My dad always taught me that a real man will make sure his woman doesn’t go without even if he’s struggling himself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 06:02 AM
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That’s the sad part. They don’t know. And that’s why they’re quick to defend their buddies that have been accused of abuse. Because then that would make them abusers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 01:52 AM
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I agree. I don’t care about the stomach but I would be way too subconscious about my big ass titties being out like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 06:54 AM
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You don’t have a stomach? Are you in medical journals because I’m actually interested to know how you’re alive...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 05:33 AM
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She’s not out of shape though. She’s very curvy and stomachs are natural. Especially from the angle she was standing. You do realize that every one has a stomach in certain angles, right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 05:12 AM
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So to be a HVW you have to have a six pac? Lmao okay.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 05:08 AM
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This picture was shared on fb thousands of times so I highly doubt the OP of this is worried about it “coming back to them.” She’s also very gorgeous with no visible flaws. Having a stomach is natural. Wearing a waist trainer every day and editing every single picture you take is not natural or healthy at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 05:07 AM
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Sometimes you just have to let women like this suffer until they reach their breaking point. You can advise them all you want but they’ll always stay in their shitty situations because of “love.” This woman fails to realize that her bf not respecting her stance on not having kids is a part of a much bigger issue. He doesn’t respect her, period. He will make decisions against her wishes time and time again. If she wants to settle for a lifetime of unhappiness then that’s completely up to her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 07:27 PM
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In my experience men that are constantly paranoid like this are usually up to no good themselves. Men always have a way of rationalizing their dirty behavior. A cheating ex is a very common excuse I’ve heard in all of my exes that have cheated on me. I’m not saying you’re wrong for trusting, just remember to trust yourself and your instincts as well. Also, I had to learn the hard way that proving your loyalty to someone is beyond whack. They can either believe you’re loyal or not. It really has …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 04:08 AM
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Oh okay. I love how when you came to the realization that you were condoning Pickmeisha behavior you deleted all your shit and typed out this long ass essay about how you were being misunderstood. Nobody saw it that way because that wasn’t the point behind the status. The point was don’t go looking unless you want to get your feelings hurt. And I say hell no! We’re not turning a blind eye to suspicious behavior because he comes home at the end of the night over here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 03:55 AM
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Lmao, exactly!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 03:29 AM
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😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 12:48 AM
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Lmao so in your world trusting your intuition is being paranoid? The one time in my entire year 2+ year relationship I’ve only been suspicious of my partner once. Of course I asked him what he was up to and investigated when I wasn’t completely satisfied with the answer. Turns out he had a secret (not cheating related) and since then there has been no secrets between us and I’ve had no reason to raise any eyebrows. We’ve been much happier and healthier since this happened. He was actually reliev…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 12:41 AM
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Girl, chill. You edited your previous comment and I just haven’t gotten a chance to respond to the rest of it it. Obviously you’re living in Lalaland. The OP goes on to say that a lot of people go on to hurt their own feelings. She essentially shamed other women for investigating their suspicions if their partners are otherwise good to them. So it’s really you who missed the point that everyone else seemed to get.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 12:18 AM
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Oh wow, so you realize I just disapproved your theory that a cheater can still be a good partner with that one sentence, right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 11:55 PM
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Lmao exactly!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 11:53 PM
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Of course I wouldn’t do daily or weekly check ups for a GOOD partner. This cheater who spends ALL of his time with his partner simply does not exist. I don’t consider partners who go missing for hours/days with no explanation, hide their conversations, put me at risk for stds, or act secretive in general a good partner. You have this imaginary notion that a cheater can be as a good of a partner as a none cheater which is just impossible. No amount of gifts, trips, paid bills or just showing up i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 11:38 PM
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Men love Pickmeisha’s lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 09:29 PM
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Exactly. And that’s the reality these women fail to see. Of course he comes home every night when everything’s good. I don’t know one man who wouldn’t want to come home to someone who does everything for him and ignores his cheating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 09:20 PM
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Mkay, Pickmeisha. If a man doesn’t respect you enough to be honest with you and not cheat then what would make you think he respects your body enough to make sure you don’t get STDs? And the reality is a man that cheats is not putting everything he can into the relationship. Between work, hobbies, and cheating, what time does that even leave you with? I think you need to be honest with yourself and higher your expectations. It’s 2020 and staying with a cheating man just to say you have one is pa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 08:18 PM
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Although I agree with this article, I can’t get down with the cheating back. In my opinion, even though you found someone better you’d still be stooping down to the level of the cheater and selling yourself short. Cheating back only validates his cheating behavior. I’ve learned the hard way that the best way to get back at a cheater is to cut them off completely.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 08:05 PM
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I mean according to the OP of this, as long as he still messes with her she doesn’t care. That’s why Pickmeisha’s make the perfect side chicks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 07:58 PM
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Pickmeisha’s are always self righteous. To them, having a man is THE goal. Their man can lie, cheat, have poor hygiene, have warrants, be unemployed with multiple kids but as long as she has a man to validate her there is nothing anyone can tell her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 07:33 PM
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That’s exactly what this is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 07:15 PM
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In this culture it is. However, we need to get rid of this mindset. People always wonder why our grannies and grandpas have been married for 50+ years. This is why! Our grannies were taught to be submissive and not ask questions. So when grandpa came home late at night smelling like liquor and other women granny greeted him because he came home every night! Our grannies had to live with the man that beat her, had children by different women running around the neighborhood and disrespected her be…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 07:12 PM
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I’d also like to note that when you go through the comments there’s so many men agreeing and wondering where they can find a woman like that. In other words, men that just want to cheat in peace!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 07:03 PM
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This is very apparent!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 07:01 PM
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Exactly. I don’t understand these women who sit up and ignore the signs because he comes home every night. Them stds come home with him!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 07:00 PM
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Personally, I don’t give a flying fuck if my man comes home every night or not. If he gives me a reason to be suspicious and I speak to him about it and feel lied to, I’m investigating. There is too many STDs going around to be a “he come home every night” ass female. She better hope what happens in the dark don’t come to light in the form of positive STD results. It’s really a shame what some women will go through just to say she has a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 06:57 PM
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I’m not fighting over anyone’s attention but ESPECIALLY not over the attention of some video games and your dusty ass friends. Our time is our time and you will be attentive to me or I will be spending my time elsewhere.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 09:08 PM
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Ohhhh gotcha. Believe it or not it’s actually very common for adult married* men to not know what they’re doing at a grocery store. I see tons of screenshots (even from people I know personally) of women sending their SO’s to the market for a few items and them texting back in a panic because they have no idea what to get. It’s really appalling and I have no idea why these women would settle down for such a man child.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 09:06 PM
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I agree that my dialect is very teen girl. I still say things like “grody” and “barf city” and use acronyms when speaking IRL. But hopefully you still got the point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 10:06 AM
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They sure are. My bf actually does a majority of our shopping because he’s so much better at finding good values and good quality items. This is one of the many reasons I’m not letting him go anywhere.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 10:10 AM
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I know this is just a joke but guys who complain about being dragged along while their SO grocery shops are so gross. We need men who are going to grocery shop with us and help us find the best deals. Imagine being with someone who was such a man child that they just wander through the grocery store bored because they have no idea what items to search for 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 09:59 AM
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Possibly. Maybe it’s the extra effort. I think if dressing up works for you guys you should definitely then you should work it.
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/20 01:48 PM
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I really can’t relate to this because my man ravages me whether I’m in a nice dress or lounging around in my fuzzy Batman gown with my leopard print bonnet on. Getting some new lingerie and nice clothing really couldn’t hurt your situation though. If all else fails maybe a nice sit down to discuss why he hasn’t been interested is due. You never know, maybe the disinterest is caused by stress.
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/20 01:40 PM
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Taking care of yourself is always the best way to go when single. I would suggest keeping porn to a minimum because it can effect your sex drive. Personally, when I’m going to town on myself completely free of distractions I cum so much harder because my only focus is my body.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 02:29 AM
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That is one way to do things. I was told for years when I was searching for love (in all the wrong places) that I would never find it if I go looking for it. And just when I gave up on love, and marriage I found my forever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 02:23 AM
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I see that you’ve tried a lot of the dating sites out there. Do you live in a big city? It might be worth it to research some singles mixers or even speed dating. Personally I feel like men who are spending money and taking the time to actually get out there and find someone are going to be a lot higher value than men sitting on their computers/phones bored with nothing better to do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 02:04 AM
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Oh I’d definitely delete that shit if you’re looking for a high value man. Fetish is literally in the name.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 01:45 AM
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I absolutely hate this. An ex once told my little sister that she was naturally talented at guitar and could probably be better than him with a year of practice and she agreed. He later tried to make it seem like she told him she could be better than him in a year and complained about how bitchy that was. You can always tell how fragile a man’s ego is by how they view women who are confident in themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/19 10:08 PM
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No doubt. I can admit I was guilty of this mentality when I was a teenager. As I got older I started tolerating less. I guess I just expect these grown ass women to do better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/19 09:51 PM
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I used to be like this. I used to feel like asking meant begging and it took a combination of being fucked over by men and learning some self-worth to snap out of it. My current bf deserves a little credit too though. He showed me that men who will help you when you need/want it exist. Because of that I will never settle for a man who will lay up with me without making sure my basic needs are met again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/19 08:59 AM
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I know, right? What’s the point of even having a man around if he expects sex but you can’t even ask him for basic necessities like food. Might as well go get a vibrator at that point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/19 08:35 AM
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It’s really sad that I refuse to get in an Uber if I’m not accompanied by my boyfriend. He asked me to Uber by myself once when he was sick and we were out of town. I sat in the hospital all night to avoid having to take an Uber alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/19 07:36 AM
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I mean you say that and I agree but killing or seriously injuring someone just because they couldn’t get you from point A to point B is still a pretty stressful thing to deal with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/19 07:32 AM
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Although there’s no dispatcher there’s at least digital records if something goes wrong. You definitely have to have pretty expensive insurance to drive for Uber and they do background checks. Unfortunately, background checks just screen out criminals who’ve already offended though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/19 07:28 AM
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This guy once told me he doesn’t watch porn he just watched twerk videos... like that’s better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/19 09:38 PM
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There’s definitely a fine line. I don’t mind hearing stories about old girlfriends but I also don’t want to hear stories about him gang banging a bunch of girls. I’ve only asked my SO to not tell stories about one woman and that was because she practically begged him to leave me even though I tried to be friends.
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/19 02:46 AM
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There’s very few reasons to ever get back with your ex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/19 05:22 AM
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The most disrespectful ones usually can’t stay hard but still cum quick. Idek how that’s anatomically possible but it happens.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/19 07:26 PM
1

That makes sense. Thanks for the info.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/19 07:25 PM
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Another popular lie men tell is they can’t stay hard with a condom. No, you can’t stay hard because you watch porn and jack off all day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/19 06:49 PM
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If he doesn’t care about his personal hygiene and health then he most likely doesn’t care about you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/19 05:56 PM
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My point is men think* they’re doing the same when in reality they are not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/19 05:17 PM
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Men really do believe their penises are their greatest gift to women. They’re like a cat who’s just killed a smaller animal. They believe women aren’t capable of taking care of themselves like a cat believes humans aren’t able to feed themselves. So they present us this tiny and gross thing that we don’t ever want to see or touch. Don’t get me wrong, I’m a very sexual person but this shit makes me drier than the Sahara.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/19 08:31 AM
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I wouldn’t beat yourself up for “making mistakes.” He just didn’t want what you wanted. People have sex on the first date and end up being happily married for a lifetime. Some women have a strict rule about having sex and being exclusive and end up with a habitual cheater. Although FDS helps weed out the worthless men, there’s really no science to this love and relationship thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/19 07:20 AM
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Believe it or not it actually turns some girls on a lot. Some women are sexual without being pressured to do so. The issue is letting a man pressure you into doing something you don’t want, not taking nudes itself. It’s hard to believe that there are men trustworthy enough but they do exist. It’s a rarity though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/19 07:04 AM
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Fb messenger. It has to be messenger.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/19 06:39 AM
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He’s in a friend group I’m in. Would never hang out with him solo. His wife does deserve to know but I don’t know her well enough to deliver news like that. Even though I have proof he tried to sleep with me it may not be well received.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/19 12:46 AM
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When you’re chatting with someone click on their name on the top and scroll down from there and you should see an option to send or request money under “more options”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/19 05:50 PM
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There’s no doubt in my mind that he is. From the way he treats his wife, to the way he tried to rationalize the way he treated me. He at first claimed it was just an ego stroke. However, he had seen me naked on accident once (it was actually my fault) and the way he looked at me then and the tone in his voice earlier that night suggests that if I was into cheating we would have fucked. It’s not just cheating on his wife, he also has an outrageous attitude about children despite the fact that bot…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/19 04:25 PM
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One of my male friends courted his wife for three months and did everything the “right way” (always travelled to her, paid for everything, didn’t pressure for sex) in the those three months until he asked her to marry him. Now he’s the most kind, considerate, and loving husband. He takes her out, has supported her since she lost her job this year, and even invests in her hobbies/freelance work (he just bought her a very expensive camera for example.) He also grinds on women in the bar, makes out…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/19 04:05 PM
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Ted in accounting will also cheat though...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/19 04:20 AM
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