And yeah. You know yourself. If you know you are not a psycho stalker but have a feeling of NEED to check his phone then it's basically a cert you're gonna find something awful. You may as well cut to the chase and leave without checking. When I was 21 I had a boyfriend who went on my laptop and left his Facebook logged in. I discovered this hours later and felt the need to check. So I did. I found streams of disrespectful messages about me in a group chat with his friends. God it was awful all …