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I know I would have grown up with a LOT less issues.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 12:33 AM
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The only thing I think you missed in this post is psychological power. Being strong is nothing if you crumple mentally and are ruled by fear. God this honestly deserves it's own thread, but you have to kinda know how to use your entire range of emotions soft and sweet to downright scary. There are SO many little things you do in your everyday life that betray what you're really about. Are you easy to prey on because you dont like conflict or saying no, or fail to let your voice and presence "tak…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 05:16 AM
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Yup I've been doing it too, wildly applaud your efforts. 😍 i want to turn trollxchromosomes back into what it was in the beginning. Every little post counts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 07:30 AM
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I dont get it. I dont get how this makes you feel like you have any worth. It would make me feel in conflict with myself as well. . So what do you think of yourself? Do you just deeply distrust yourself and hate yourself from the get go? It would make me feel like I'm attacking myself ngl....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 06:25 PM
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Other subs are starting to sound a bit fds in more ways than one actually I started noticing it too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 10:34 AM
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Fucking screw having children. It will NEVER happen to me for any reason, I'd rather induce an abortion with pills than live through that unholy one-sided shit. If a bf changed his mind at all about being cf.. I'd break it off so fast, I wouldn't bat an eye about it I'd straight up dissapear. I'm SO happy in solitude. Nothing compares to it. I can live without a guy, I CANNOT live with children being pushed on me by anyone. Such a colossal deal killer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 06:05 AM
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.. harnessing gravity for the next frontier... brain damage.🤪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 01:05 PM
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God I just love you all. Nothing compares to the way real discussion happens here. 😢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 05:40 AM
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Fuck all men I dont care to bother anymore with whatever the fuck they're about. I want to be on a planet where they're not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 03:12 PM
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I grew up in a hurricane of this, with a family of hoarders and it ruined my mind for decades. I come to fds because I agree with a ton of the things you guys say and want to discuss things here with raw intensity, because it's so great!! Though honestly I dont want to date anyone, because what you're describing makes me too disgusted to bother. I know its insidious I'm not stupid, like hell I'm gonna waste my time around anything like that. .. for ages I thought I was the one who was wicked and…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 06:36 AM
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It really frustrates me that I cant read this entire thread or get a link. Actually it really makes me angry wtf....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 01:19 PM
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You guys should learn krav maga!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 11:05 AM
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Thats exactly why you should live for your raw self, YOUR female gaze, you're nudity and you're fearlessness. They LIVE to look for a way to manipulate you, shame you //so don't give them any reason to think you are afraid of anything and can be controlled that way, through fear.// They will constantly look for ways to control your narrative, "ruin you softly with words" , if you're enraged, be enraged and honest but only by laughing at them. If you take anything too seriously they will use it a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 11:03 AM
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Though there isn't anything genuine to it. I know for a fact its a show they put on, to protect their egos. THEY know this just as much as we do, they can't actually leverage any single reason for their hate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 12:25 PM
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OH FUCK HOW DID YOU DO THAT MY BRAIN
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 12:24 PM
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But I mean... I don't hate all men I just //don't trust them// and hate what masculinity is designed for. I hate ALL of those things. We honestly have every reason to hate them, and I'm not obligated to like them/ trust them for any single reason, given the way they are. They need to just accept it and deal with it. I come to FDS because I like you're ideas, though I LOVE being single and wouldn't trade it for anything 90% of the time. If I hate men the first reason is because they're controllin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 12:20 PM
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Being single is more heavenly than literally most relationships. If you're a person who's main goal is to REALLY enjoy their life, you will start to feel at odds with almost everything in the average hetero relationship. I dont think they are natural. I think people like to settle in and wait in line. All along I thought people's goals were more like mine, that they couldn't do that. The older I get the more I realize people go after something VERY different. I'm really glad I never had kids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 02:58 PM
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Exactly!! Exactly !!!! Its like fucking babysitting!!!! And not only that, I feel like I would rather swallow a grenade than ever live to be plagued by the guilt they force on you. Because you're supposed to be their emotional world. Because they're too fucking stupid not to have one. They can take care of their fucking selves or go die as far as I care. The rage I feel for having my mind destroyed the way it was, the time I wasted when I was younger!! because of this bottomless cheap as fuck wa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 08:33 PM
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Christ on a sandwich, at least when you masterbate you know for sure it can go absolutely anywhere you want any way you want and /yes/ jane you'll orgasm. Funny idea that wow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 12:41 PM
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Fantasy is infinitely better. Infinitely infinitely infinitely. Everytime I would date I would want to get out of it. I'm open to meeting someone nice but I definitely don't care. It is SOO much better to be unconstrained by these lies. I can't get over how deep society's the lies go. That's it for me personally. How different the life experience is, between men and women. The expression and freedom and humor their own MINDS being unconstrained by endless guilt/ the social danger of being your c…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 12:37 PM
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Its a state of mind, not a rule of law. I hate that this is assumed everywhere. Its half of the problem! If more women knew how to mock men, we'd have less of the one-sided bullshit because we're easy targets. You need to be unafraid to make certain types of people scared of you, because of the subtle things you do, that are difficult to react to. Laughter is impenetrable. I'm not saying all men should be mocked but some need to be skinned alive and then some and women need to realize, its their…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 10:49 AM
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I love the way this woman is dressed btw....god so cute
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 07:46 AM
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EXACTLY. Money requires the guy to have a certain kind of personality too. I know it's not all men but with the vast majority they start to take on this winner take all mentality, if they're preoccupied with wealth. Again I know I grew up with a father like that.. A person's philosophy is JUST as important as everything else. If you dont separate a guy from his philosophy and dont consider what he thinks of social issues you're out of your damn mind. It's a reflection of how he'll treat you. How…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 06:47 PM
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Well its easily taken the wrong way. Dont we want people to be OPEN to fds philosophy instead of potentially turning tons of people against it? It's hard enough to get people to discuss the bare minimum of what we discuss here. We shouldn't have that as a weakness or the philosophy gains no real traction. I dont care about money personally. I grew up around it and it taught me to just never rely on anyone but myself to get what I want. There are a million ways men will try to trap you and get yo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 06:33 PM
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It is amazing to be single. The time I've spent single has always been vastly vastly better than the time spent in a relationship .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 09:40 PM
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<333 All of you <333
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 01:07 PM
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Journaling and getting gangstalked/the way I grew up... Like having people constantly out to manipulate my insecurities. I wouldn't wish gangstalking on anyone though..... People are anal in my experience, if you deviate from their rigid "wholesome" familiarity. If you have a sense of humor or wild streak they cant ignore you . I grew up in a bad situation where I was taught to live in a stress fog. I had more than uptightness drilled into my brain. On the one hand I rejected it and rebelled, on…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 02:50 AM
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Haha I'm so used to being hated, but I am the most laid back person I know. Yes I have high standards but at the same time idgaf .. 99% I'm not thinking about relationships. If it happens it happens but I'm here to have a good time. That is my religion.. the second you start stressing they win, and you risk getting dragged into people's ugghhh. Be angry in this completely detached way that's 100% impenetrable.1000% goofing off. It is impossible for anyones hate to have any effect when your whole…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 07:54 PM
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For the love of god. So fucking typical of southern dramatics.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 08:18 PM
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And here I find over masculine men really repulsive honestly...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 06:55 PM
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God I love this sub! You're my favorite people, bless all of you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 03:37 PM
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EXACTLY!!! This comment right here. Although.. I dont think you'd see any politician doing that honestly. No one who actually has power. It is an act of desperation in a way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 07:43 AM
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Well let him have a grand old fucking time on disability, because that is going to be brutal when he's old and no job experience or effort to sustain himself whatsoever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 12:46 PM
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Also have her keep in mind, being single is superior to marrying about 80% of men. I LOVE being single and I wouldnt have it any other way. I really don't want to babysit anyone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 12:44 PM
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Be the most amazing person on earth and make them grovel and beg for your money and say.. no... :) Also laugh at your parents for calling you out for anything in your adult life, hell just cut off all contact with them. Jesus I would.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 12:39 PM
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Did you ever just straight up discuss the inequality, get angry about it.. I mean they would just straight up have to admit to caring about you less. Where are you from btw?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 12:37 PM
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Good god how is anyone just figuring this out now though? How is it a shock? I mean you knew it when you were a teen, that you could only feel insignificant and afraid of boys, unable to understand... thinking they understood something you didn't. Oh until you get older of course and you realize holy shit, they are such swine 80% of the time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 10:33 AM
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Thanks I am currently being stalked as we speak.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 10:40 AM
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One of the things that scares them straight is having to be compared to really attractive males, having to live through what we do. They relish that double standard that pits women against women. Its a lot more weaponized than you realize. But when you are really serious that you're visual as well, they'll assume it means you're exactly like them, even if you're nothing like them. It scares the hell out of them and reveals A LOT about who they really are/ what they're really about, what they're …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 07:21 AM
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..What...??? In the hell...?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 06:50 AM
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I am just done with caring lol. I'm fucking done.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 11:18 AM
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Another one of these moments where I don't understand how "I'M THE ONE who's "so fear-driven and bitchy" For not trusting men 90% of the time. Sure I can be civil, polite, generous, friendly, never talk about anything honestly at my job.. Or with anyone I know IRL ever accept my mom. I know good ones exist but I'm only going to interact with them in a fantasy in my own private fucking imagination most of the time.. 80% of them can go get fucked. I do not understand who or what the fuck I am talk…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 11:09 AM
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Yes I am a twit twit twit tweeeeeet🐦
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 05:52 PM
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It is not just that, its how men use their micro-impunity and "justified" confidence to get things they want, while you're left to wrestle with yours and question everything you do. If you were raised like that. Most are. Its more common and insidious than you think. Yes it STARTS with that nice wall you for "boundaries" which will be manipulated from every side. Then you'll be fearmongered from every side, or intimidated. Doesn't allow you to LEARN be bold or indifferent, or aggressive when you…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 10:58 AM
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Then maybe it comes down to being open-minded~ I mean thats what you're raised with, and told is acceptable to like. At the end of the day thats what it really comes down to. If gendered likes and dislikes keep us from understanding each other what is the point of them?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 09:25 AM
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I've never experienced femininity that wasn't adapted to male desires before. I think its like the quintessential visual appeal. It easily sounds like if you're not feminine enough you're not malleable enough mentally.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 09:19 AM
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Accept it costs a TON of money to look the feminine part and it comes with a ton of insecurity, eating disorders, shaming to fit this heartily diminished role that has a lasting effect on your quality of life. And its not so much femininity I have a problem with but what happens to your mind when you are socialized to always present perfection, avoid risk, boldness, and never know the full scope and purpose of your aggression so you always hide it. How do you /really/ protect yourself in all the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 10:32 AM
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If they want smoking hot they better fucking deliver too, they better be hot as hell. There are great ugly guys and there are great ugly women.. I know... who gets treated better in the long run though? Well I think it ought to be equal. When you think about it this is the most disgusting thing of all. I want to be average and I don't want male attention. There are too many I'm not in the least bit attracted too to have to put up with that. P:
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 10:29 AM
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Sure, and they're ridiculously rare. Either way porn is ubiquitous, the disrespect is unanimous in the kind of minds that consume it. You practically have to cut out one of your own eyes to keep saying you're fine with that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 03:50 AM
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Still doesn't mean it isn't universal and appalling. What's the point of recognizing there are small pockets where it doesn't exist? The whole point is that, the sort of guy who doesn't watch porn is exceedingly rare.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 08:09 AM
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Oh my god you should just set that douchebag on fire.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 08:05 AM
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And yet it fucking happens. People get doxxed and men stalk you and you just fucking adapt. What the hell are you supposed to do?????????? I'm not going to die or commit suicide for swine!! Why would I?????? You have no idea how bad the stalking thing really is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 08:03 AM
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FDS needs more publicity. Things like this need to be shared on the internet aggressively. I can't unsee the things I saw on the internet OP. You can't know what men are really like and what they really want. And yet people call me the crazy one for having absolutely no motivation to pursue 90%. I don't give a god damn. Why should I there is no incentive. I don't care how many decent ones there are, they can clearly take advantage of the way society is, and I wouldn't trust them even if they sai…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 08:00 AM
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I think about this constantly. Im so blessed to be able to escape with my MIND. As a species we've been on this planet for over 25k years and I was born in 1986. Do you REALLY realize how fucking lucky you are????? I know I would have burned at the stake. Without a doubt I would have. 🤪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 05:51 PM
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They are! but if you already have a ps4..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 04:38 AM
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Accept for yourself...? You should definitely still buy one for yourself if you have money!! Oh no wait ps4 still has better games right now and It's going to be that way for a loooong time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 09:49 PM
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I dont buy this, and I dont buy that men "will live in misery and objectification" all their lives if we have equality. I've known of guys who go years without looking at porn / masterbating .. so how is it not really entitlement? When they get bent out of shape about how it's so unfair I see children throwing tantrums and ignor If they live an empty hard existence,.. isnt it because they force themselves to? and reject and mock softer "feminine" existence.. self care.. therapy.. emotional intel…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 09:24 PM
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I will always blame the men doing the raping first ALWAYS. But in a way I think this is true. If you are good at putting on "psychotic" because you've had to before, or you learned it when you are young men will be afraid of you. I don't think all women know how to use this though, and I wouldn't wish knowing how to on anyone. But its true you can scare men the fuck off the right way. You don't even need a taser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 06:36 AM
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All my friends got pregnant and stopped being close. :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 09:44 AM
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FUCKING PREACH <33
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 05:34 AM
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If you don't use your female gaze your crazy. You should die by your female gaze. I base every bit of my existence on my female gaze so can't feel preyed upon in the way you describe and it works extraordinarily. Its almost like their behavior doesn't even matter to me. Ever since I learned to do this I feel outrageously better. Just like in the wild, a guy's looks should be every bit as important as a woman's are. Yes there are decent guys that don't look great, but there are also amazing women…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 05:31 AM
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Sorry I didn't mean for it to sound contrary. Actually I think that's awesome but too many guys just dont know how to perform the most basic effing skills lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 05:47 PM
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Or you know just look after your own shit. Your dishes your laundry... if someone isnt capable of doing these basic things just forget it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 05:14 PM
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I am so instantly and automatically done with this. There is no point in even humoring the clown. Instant fail because I'm better off single all my life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 05:11 PM
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You have NO IDEA what you are missing!!! Men live with so much undeserved confidence and entitlement they just fucking cruise through life behaving this way. That they should enjoy the peak of their minds no matter what is burning down around them. This is especially true about how they think they can get away with looking. But femininity is the true thing that breaks your mind. If you feel like you have to perform anything at all it is a colossal boundary hole through which they will doggedly m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 05:08 PM
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Soft and smiley is how they mentally manipulate you into doing all the emotional labor and everything else. It's not a secret.. Femininity requires you to be clueless in excess. People who adhere to gender absolutes are so supremely unattractive to me. I would rather be in no relationship at all for years or forever even than waiting/hoping to be snatched up. Especially by someone who thinks that way crinnnge You will never evolve much or become bold if you sit in lukewarm water all your life be…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 02:58 PM
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Lol This is my life's ambition. I feel like I achieved what I wanted after being stalked. Hallelujah.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 10:12 AM
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I'm sorry for getting you wrong and sorry you went through these things. I wish you could learn something new and positive to replace what you had before eventually. I did, but I had to get stalked first which is no good. I'm sure nothing I can say would be helpful only annoying. Take it easy on yourself and have fun in between everything work related. Honestly to hell with work too much of it is a four letter word
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 06:52 PM
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I hope you threw the water in his face. ;<;
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 08:49 AM
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Lmao how festively untexas to go so small
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 08:47 AM
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They're never going to stop taking advantage while you play by the rules. I mean go ahead keep doing that see what it gets you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 11:15 PM
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Now you just have to learn to adore solitude. The more you focus on what you dont have the more you miss what you DO have. A way to massively enjoy your life. Solitude is the most potent drug on earth when its balanced. I honestly almost feel like this thread is from a troll account.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 12:47 AM
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no just HER
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 11:33 AM
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goats?? was there a death in the family cheesus
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 11:32 AM
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Yup yup yup~! Which is why i dont even... Wtf is love anyway... I think I like it better when its a fantasy. The big picture disturbs me. I think there are some really amazing men out there. Like 10%. But you're obviously better off expecting nothing and enjoying your life to the max!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 11:31 AM
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You can also just be chill for your entire life and choose not be in a relationship unless its one you profoundly like. If anything it makes you more chill.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 08:42 AM
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So that really is how it was? I thought there was something wrong with me because I didn't enjoy any of it. I turned guys down and retreated into myself. It actually made me feel invalid too but i hated the whole scene and the way guys were more than i hated feeling invalid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 10:20 AM
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In high school as much as now I didn't see how other girls couldn't sense this?? Why did they bother? It looked like such a tedious pain to put up with the arrogance alone, let alone everything else. I mean you have to really hate your life and give up on everything. No amount of 'well some men/ not all men are bad' changes this or improves the situation I dont fucking care how much so and so is pretending and miserable if I wanted to destroy half my mind through loyalty to any of this I could a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 12:34 AM
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Why would you bother for 10 seconds in a relationship that makes you feel miserable?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 10:56 PM
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I mean it's disgusting that shes got anorexia but the entitled slob thinks he deserves this too? It just proves to me how much they actually hate us. It's all for the sake of psychological breakdown. It's not unintentional, it's to make her feel desperate. It's also manipulation hes probably getting off to, it's a psychological game and he knows it. How long before he can criticize what she eats and go watch more porn??? If you dont see the real darkness under it all you're missing half of the p…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 10:51 PM
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Our species is a fucking freakshow. No other animal does this. It's really in the last 20-25 years too. Human being have not ever been this lowly. It's only in the last 25 years that I've seen what animals men are thanks to porn. It's like they have no fucking self censor mode, it really speaks to their true intelligence. Well guess fucking what?? Neither do I maybe I'll just get off to gay romance or something all day because fuck this filthy shitshow I'm done with these internet cretins
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 10:46 PM
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Exactly the ONLY way you should react to them is by laughing at them or ignoring them. It's the only real way to get them to stop what they're doing. And sure as hell do not rely on them for anything either. That's their entire game. Then they try to make you think you have to be a certain set of qualities for them. Lambast you/ frame you awful if you dont. Meanwhile often at the same time they bring NOTHING of value into your life... They're slobs or do zero emotional labor, they try to bogart …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 10:38 PM
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True, but it doesn't make sense to automatically give a red flag to anything passionate either. People who get strung along easily don't know how to take things slow and keep strong boundaries. Personally I don't see the point of being in a relationship if I am bored. If I feel nothing I won't pursue it. I would much rather have my space. (I am rarely attracted to anybody) I don't want to get married at all or have children, to me its just living life to the fullest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 04:44 AM
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I'm so glad this subreddit attracts people from all over the world. I wish we could spread our message somehow to actively gain more followers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 06:19 AM
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God I love all of the women who post in fds so much!!💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 10:35 PM
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As for the institutionalizing and treatments... back then psychology was so spanking new.. people had to make a LOT of mistakes before they understood what they were really doing. The best mental health doctors opinion you could find would probably revile most of us today...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 10:34 PM
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Well definitely do what you enjoy. Be open/ optimistic. As long as you're enjoying life you're good . It's so true you dont need to get married to be happy, but especially if you have projects that are your "babies" I'm 34 and feel relieved everyday my life is so uncomplicated and peaceful. I really get a lot from creative writing. All the things I get from writing are better than anything in real life. the insanity of the current reality... as long as you keep feeling in that way it's hard to f…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 10:26 PM
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Yes it is a great film. I watched it many years ago. Birth control needs to be sold right next to the candy at every cash register imo. From 7/11 to hobby lobby it should given out like tictacs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 04:57 PM
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Well it's a cesspool. I'm not bringing children into a writhing cesspool.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 04:54 PM
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Yes but with radiant diabolical contempt you can laugh at the same time. :DDD I had the same kind of father. I never knew it was this bad until I read this post. Men like that only absorb and feed off your outrage when you try to make them feel shame. It's like a reflex. You never show them you're upset you only laugh at their mediocrity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 04:52 PM
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You should have :D
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 10:42 AM
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Fuck society and fuck pickmes and fuck this trash I cant I just cant
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 10:41 AM
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Never getting married. Never having children. THE END !! This wow this outrages me. I had no idea it was so bad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 10:40 AM
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I'm so sorry about your aunt. Please update us? Was her husband violent before?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 07:59 AM
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Good god I would have cut the mofo. Bonsai trees are hard to grow. No saving it whatsoever?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 09:01 PM
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Rofl food kitchen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 05:06 PM
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I am shallow though I'll admit it? It is impossible for me to be attracted to anybody. I say no to that. Hell no. Men manipulate you that way. If you dont expect what they expect they'll just take advantage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 03:34 PM
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Best wall of text I've ever read!! 😍💖 I'm so amazed at you and.. you give me faith in humanity!!💖💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 11:17 AM
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Ugh what happened to the pig?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 06:22 AM
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This explains sooo much if it's true. No wonder I felt bizarre as a teenager. I didn't want to do something. I didn't think much about what it was I should be doing but i just felt like it was really rare to be attracted to someone. I KNEW they were forcing themselves to find someone to be attracted to I knew it!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 06:25 PM
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Is this really how it is??? I can not even comprehend doing this. I'm more of a I'd rather be single than burdened person. So I'm hardly ever attracted to anybody and I go and say 'dont try to make promises you cant keep. " I'm afraid I would get lazy and move on. I never understood this for a long time. Additionally i felt really wierd for being this way. Especially when I was younger. Like for some reason i felt i should have to hide it and not give much explanation why i dont want to go out w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 06:20 PM
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And I never will be a mom !! D:<
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 04:45 AM
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I've honestly always assumed that it was like that on some level.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 10:59 AM
3

I hope she can inspire Rose Kalimba. I mean jesus that takes an iron spine. You know how many death threats she probably got? 😍💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 01:00 PM
14

They hate that there are some women who like to discuss having expectations. That's the bottom line. They're not used to having to feel so self conscious. The moment you make them feel self conscious with brutal honesty they feel like they're in a different country. They dont have any notions of mutual balance. The second they sense it coming it's like someone looking at all the skeletons in their closets.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 04:03 PM
13

This is why femininity is disgusting. "How much more like a 19 year old can you look" At the same time though, you all realize this is never going away right?? Men have these egos because they think they can/ are getting away with this manipulation trap set up to help them prey on the dumbest prettiest and screw over the women who cant be manipulated. They get to be attracted to someone young looking and you have to do all this work and settle for waaay less/ emotionally vacancy. Love is almost …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 03:39 PM
9

oh god its the exact same face rofl
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 04:45 AM
7

God I want to hug you all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 08:43 AM
2

Thank god we are this way 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 07:12 PM
3

They were set ablaze //en masse// ?! Well that's..I mean that sounds like a holocaust. I wish they had more discussions like this too. I thank god for fds. I just wish there was a way to distribute something like fliers or get people subscribed for really good newsletters. To share something hopeful. Because this sub really energizes me.. Good god honestly FDS could be a massive movement if it wanted to be. And there could be little cultural divisions to help women who deal with different things…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 10:49 PM
4

Correction it honestly looked miserable and I cant fathom why two people who hate each other so much would stay together for 36 years 😵
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 10:37 PM
2

And in the end they become listless and bored anyway. Well especially if they are spoiled. Like the bored kind of sadistic. Not just too lazy to do emotional labor, but trapped with the personality that always has to be defensive about not feeling anyone else's suffering. So they build this whooole philosophy about why they should be number one. Why social justice is garbage. I think it's the opposite with daughters a lot though for some reason if they are shown lots of love but expected to be a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 07:29 PM
6

This is my life philosophy. To never get married. Hell I'm in texas and my parents marriage looked no fun.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 07:21 PM
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Yeah but it's a flawed archetype isn't it??? Its not just selling yourself short. Its refusing to see //the price of spoiling someone, anyone// There is a horrible price. They never learn to care, appreciate or do emotional labor. That is the result of spoiling anyone. I think tough love is better, honesty, challenge have higher value. Existence can suck you dry yes, but it's better to be balanced and cautious. Not fatalistic or bitter but indifferent detached and cautious. No expectations becau…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 04:15 PM
7

Well peeing wouldn't do much to help that lol 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 03:59 PM
18

And how dare they say feminism is just for white women." Its a white woman's problem to need feminism/radfeminism." It is the seediest most backwards ignorance. You need something radical to take down these structures.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 07:19 AM
12

OH yeah right and live with what, someone like you??? Is this a joke you tell yourself everyday to live with it??? lmao Bitch I'm gone deal with it :,)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 07:18 AM
5

She won't be able to keep that up for long.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 09:27 PM
4

That is awesome 😻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 09:03 PM
7

"I go straight for the balls " 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 09:00 PM
30

Yeah I once read that in the very old days.. when/ if the Indian husband died the wife would have to throw herself on the funeral pyre fire and burnt to death so she'd be there with him in the afterlife.. Even now I think that part of culture exists. In many places/forms. Just in subtler ways. Where you are just supposed to follow the example of self- flagellating, self-annihilating sorts of women. That is so transparent though. ////that kind of female can have it sooo deeply embedded in her hea…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 08:49 PM
3

I'm honestly tremendously happy being single. It sounds like a crazy out of control adventure to get married... I am open to relationships if they form organically and naturally and feel right but marriage sounds like ... well there are tax incentives and that's nice? Marriage just scares me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 07:59 PM
1

I mean definitely not all of them but we need to talk about this really openly and put the convo in every women's mouth. It's better to be single than to live around that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 04:53 PM
15

Why would you want to make yourself more easy to pray on by performing for the male gaze? Doesn't it make women feel trapped with the extremely toxic / predatory side of it? What are women like that thinking and why dont they feel aversion to it? Even if you 'want to be chosen/loved' it doesn't erase the nasty side. It doesn't fix anything to be a pickme.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 01:54 PM
10

Oh my god this is all I've seen all my life. And this is also how society is structured. Men LOOK for weakness to prey on, I think women learn it from them. Whether its in a competition, relationship, business or ruthless predatory business. It goes so far beyond relationships. This is why I don't trust men to run the world. Look at the way its run. Tell me you don't see that too???? Most men are just naturally sadistic. And then they call it you being sadistic towards them when you demand respe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 11:33 AM
11

Post this everywhere until the internet explodes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 06:21 PM
3

I dont doubt you, you're probably right? But at my job they seem more laid back (I work a front desk). Isn't that crazy? There are some older men that are straight up nasty, you're right. Had this one guy call cali a shithole. But I am actually really laid back irl. I appreciate laid back men because my dad was the opposite and he drove me insane... Not that it has anything to do with that kind of nasty. I am appreciative of non-angry assholes The rest of the time I'm jusy like wtf do YOU want? …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 06:16 PM
11

It's an illusion and its built on fear and dread of losing their own illusions. The illusion of gender roles is actually sacred to some people like an easy comfort zone. I think we have no idea just how terrified people like this are. We underestimate it. They dont live in fear they live in terror because they build their identities around simple comfortable lies. They are terrified they're wrong and that it's not that simple and that they'll lose their status. Which has slowly been corroded for…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 03:29 PM
5

Well its inevitable that something's gotta give.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 03:19 PM
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It ruined sex and society for me. Period. I cannot help but see dubious shitheels when I interact with men, especially younger men. I tend to just wait to be proven wrong but idgaf in the mean time, whether hes decent or not. Prove me wrong is my rule. In the mean time welcome to hell bitch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 03:14 PM
11

I think those are plush penguins.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 07:10 AM
15

I want to see the sweaters on the little penguins. I want to see a penguin runway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 07:10 AM
1

I always feel so alone in this. If things were balanced in that way and men had to do the equal share of emotional labor it would be nothing like that. I know men who do emotional labor it's not a fantasy I've seen it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 12:42 PM
11

Unattractive men are exhasperating to me. I mean that is the single worst double standard we're dealt. Its really rapey. I have to have insecurity and self loathing while dieting and beat myself up constantly because i don't "look the part" meanwhile you dont have to give an f because you're "masculine" you can just look as ugly as you want. You wanna call me "shallow" but I'm really just about feeling and not feeling empty. I don't want to become negative/ bitter because I'm numb and sex is one…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 08:46 AM
4

Well //yeah// that is not how the real world operates. Of course people are going to take advantage of it when they know you stay in 'the right lane'. It's unfortunate. You have to know how to push boundaries sometimes. Or you always sort of get walked over. Honestly that is what I learned growing up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 12:22 AM
6

For me it's the most offensive revolting cherry on the cake. // Not only are the good who contribute equally to a relationship extremely rare ///but they all end up looking really bad while expecting us to look amazing// Why is that so hard to understand? It's honestly the rapiest thing of all to me. That is coupled with the fact that we "shouldn't ever feel anything" or it's a source of outrage for them. This is what really makes my skin crawl. Most women I know live half an existence and have …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 12:19 AM
15

The state of the world makes it unthinkable to me. You cant pretend to be wholesome when you really dont pay attention to anything that's going on, and all the millions of ways they screw everything. Its slash and burn capitalism too. Its not just men being sleaze bags, it's how they ruin the world and all the porn in it. It is an unthinkable place to raise children
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 09:29 PM
18

I mean really look at the men running this country and what they accomplish. It's a degenerate joke all of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 09:20 PM
22

Okay well these trashy women can stop pretending they have any social pull then. They can stop pretending they speak for everybody or anything decent really and admit what they are. The world is going down the tubes and they've actually got the gall to pretend to have this wholesome girl card??? Its throwing more kindling on the human bonfire that is this planet...while they sell their souls for cheap scraps, garbage arrangements..These human parasite lvms would sell it all and throw them and th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 09:18 PM
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Every single female I know who got married has been dealt the shittiest hand. Every single one. No exceptions. It's not a gray area for anybody anymore it's just a fast track to hell. It's even worse if you have kids though. Were beyond just deluding ourselves. I dont believe you didn't see it coming when you met the guy/ decided to have kids. Its just a given nowadays if we all live on the same effing planet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 09:11 PM
5

No way not if you describe what happens if you DO get married in india... You'd get 90% support save a few trolls which are ignorable. Hold back none of the abusive/ entrapment details. If the relationship is abusive 80% of what you get is a supportive response on most of reddit. Even in relationship advice!! That's human slavery. Period.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 01:50 PM
3

You should write a whole topic here for other Indian ladies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 12:16 PM
4

Seriously would defending yourself from your son be such a huge gamble? Is it a taboo to fight back if they are attacking their mother?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 12:36 PM
13

South Korea for anyone interested. Unsurprising but I AM surprised it's not somewhere in the middle east.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 12:34 PM
10

Jeeesus.. I wonder where its highest?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 12:30 PM
51

I would poison all of them. I'd become the black widow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 08:16 AM
16

I would commit suicide. Or poison my MIL. None of this sounds even remotely tolerable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 08:14 AM
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After reading some of these things.. Why in the fuck would any young indian woman want to get married.I'm sorry but Jesus fucking christ.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 08:11 AM
3

Good looord the planets aligned!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 08:00 PM
20

Pffft they need us we don't need them.. xD
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 09:03 AM
1

Ahh thanks I hope you have a maxed out life !!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 10:41 PM
33

take that pork topping to court if I have to tho 🤬 FEAR NOTHING
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 03:37 PM
65

Enjoy your life and dont wait to feel anything. Sex isn't even half of it. Dont walk around numb all the time mostly. Whatever that means for you. For me it means writing, and all the immense detail that goes into creating things. Dont stress over things or worry about what will happen live in the moment. Only work on mazing things. Have really high standards and feel the high of creation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 02:01 AM
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So that's why you indulge in fantasy half the time. For whatever reason it REALLY fucks with their heads. Even after they consume tons of porn. It makes you so happy to feel all the time without needing a reason. And if people tell you not to, not to feel, its because they wasted half their life feeling empty giving it all away WAITING to feel in return for mediocre scraps. It's because they never learned how to enjoy themselves. 😏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 12:41 AM
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Exactly this. Perfect. Also how he treats animals .. nature. Is he conscientious about little things that damage in a big way and add up? Is he thoughtful / passionate in this way.. really big heart factor for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 08:05 PM
8

The little precursors to major cruelty.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 06:46 PM
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The Indian caste system is notoriously gnarly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 06:38 PM
25

Wow. You're so right but it's also easy to tell when a guy uses subtle cruelty. Any guy who uses subtle cruelty/ arrogance in ANY way is already marked for ignore by me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 06:35 PM
25

I won't I'll just enjoy being single. People are crazy if they dont know how to enjoy solitude.. Yeesh I can wait anything out in solitude for as long as it takes. Solitude is absolute heaven for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 06:30 PM
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We need to read more male on male fanfiction!! Not just erotica. I won't look at a guy unless he's super attractive. I mean that can mean a lot of things and personality is a huge part of it but I dont do this one way masculinity thing at all. It feels so wrong to me. It literally makes me feel UNCLEAN. Although I am only attracted to really strong people, men and women, I think sexual fluidity is really important. Its not disingenuous and one sided it means you cant be entitled and expect to ge…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 06:22 PM
3

I'm a capricorn and the antichrist send him to meee <33
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 04:48 AM
5

I love you FDS <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 10:59 AM
3

PLEASE create an account for the website / forum too though! We don't know when they could take this sub down. We need our entire community online, we need everyone there. For knowledge of it to spread by word of mouth. I don't want to find this place is gone one day and half the subscribers we have here are god knows where. We need other ways of sharing FDS and spreading messages about it that are /positive/. People need to know the value of this place. Lets grow the forum community so we can h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 09:40 AM
2

Well you just tell her thats ridiculous you can't stop staring at you're brothers now. Start complaining and laughing about it all the time. :O!!!!!! How could you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 11:58 AM
8

If you are enjoying yourself its worth it. Enjoy your life to the max. When its not fun anymore, change plans. If its not worth it to you after all.. why? Maybe you love what you have. Maybe its time for that. Don't let bad news make you negative either though. Focus on good things happening, focus on why hes great and it will be great. You are what you focus on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 08:10 AM
7

Well you must not be afraid of them. That is what they want. That is what masculinity is designed for. To frighten, harrass, intimidate, force females to capitulate into sex. Why are men so obsessed with power and being muscular..?? Being ugly and unattractive? Why should women be expected to be weak and feminine? Afraid all the time of not looking the part? So they can keep you mentally insecure, afraid, easy to manipulate. Why can't we just talk about THIS????? We know what its all really abou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 08:01 AM
5

We should honestly admire male beauty to even things out. Not be creepy about it, But only look at something beautiful and self-aware as we are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 04:49 AM
8

" It's new and at first unpleasant to become self aware and turn inwards to examine your unconscious or internalized misogyny and privilege " ​ BAHAHAHA!!!!!! Do they understand how completely self-annihilating / self-concious we become as women with the constant negative feedback we get for everything!? WHAT A JOKE!!!!! Being self-concious still makes you better. You shouldn't expect anything in return for doing emotional labor you should just do it. This is basically all women are raised to be…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 04:48 AM
4

It is the most beautiful feeling. I think we honestly need a sub dedicated to this philosophy right here for ladies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 04:43 AM
12

Don't talk about it just disappear. His goal in life is to manipulate you and keep you mentally broken down to get what he wants. Is he making you feel like a bad person for hating that??? Is that why you change your mind? Well duh.. why do you think that is? It ought to tell you a lot. I would torch his things and leave him a suicidal mess probably, from the sound of it, but at least I'd be out of there. He sounds like a real prize. Personally, that is just me. I would not care how much he crie…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 09:46 AM
11

Who posted this to twitter so i can follow them ~
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 09:21 AM
1

god i love this subreddit <33 pleaseee grow your website community!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 04:33 AM
1

I have a hard time believing it. She covers her feminism up so she won't get shit for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 03:12 PM
1

I LOVE Lily Allen!!!😍 is she still too busy to make records? When will her hiatus be over?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 03:09 PM
1

Has anyone used one?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 10:21 AM
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