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Victim Puke40mullet/r/askMRP09/04/19 10:06 AM
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Do you watch lot of porn? If yes, do you search clips where woman visibly shows her desire toward man? Are you fueling your intrusive thoughts regularly somehow?
/r/ExRedPill14/01/24 06:50 PM
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Yeah, go sit in your car, great advice. That will show her! ​ Or, find your frame, where nothing from outside does not disturb your inner calmness. Practice this; She teases you, you start getting horny, she stops. Now there will be certain amount of time, when you will be back to your calm and collected self. Right now it is couple of days, maybe few posts online, couple of revenge fantasies, leaving home, calling her out later in the evening... Try to shorten this time frame. Do some deep brea…
/r/askMRP11/10/23 10:45 PM
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I meant attractive like good diet, exercise, hygiene, clothes, charisma, status. Not face asymmetry or height. Narcissistic people need to be better than others, looks are one way to achieve it. Are people with naturally good looks more prone to narcissism, I have no idea. Its possible, beautiful child may get praised too much and develope narcissistic traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 11:17 PM
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My experience is that in normal situations only people who "shit tests" are people with borderline personality disorder or narcissist. Rollo Tomassis first wife had BPD and to me it looks like his hole view of women is based on that. He likes to talk about shit tests. People with disorders are also usually attractive, that is why we all have pursued them some point in our lives and have experienced shit tests. But there is also one other situation, when normal people start shit testing and that …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 02:57 PM
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I was in similar situation, after 6 months daily complaining, finally when one day she called me after leaving office, hysterically crying, I took it seriously. Her new female boss had very narcissistic tendencies, there was no way my sweet submissive wife can handle this situation long term. I made her quit immediately, she found another job after 6 months. Till this day she tell me how grateful she is I helped her quit this nightmare, she could not have done it by herself. ​ This sub believes …
/r/askMRP05/07/22 12:02 PM
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I you are oak some period of time, about a year in my case, those outbursts and disrespect stop completely. I wonder why everybody answered like this behavior is normal for the rest of your life.
/r/askMRP14/01/21 11:38 PM
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This is your kids house too? Whatever, I just dont understand this part of the mrp. This is agreed by everyone here, that most guys here were faggots years and years, even decades. Their wives did not respect them. What about children? Did they respect their faggot father all this time? Why should they? Because he is stronger, can DEER effectively and discipline them? That is not respect, that is fear. ​ I asked why this "food in kids room" bothers OP. Is he cleaning this up after? Ants? Sticky …
/r/askMRP12/09/19 08:00 PM
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Why having food in kids room drive you nuts? Does your kids know why? Do you have food in your car, office? How this will play out when your daughter is 17? Do you think blue pilled fathers should change their parenting style after becoming red pill aware?
/r/askMRP12/09/19 06:14 AM
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After thinking about it, you are right. When taking any bold action, hidden fears also start to reveal.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/09/19 08:16 AM
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My experience is that actively seeking more (random) fear does not help you grow stronger facing your existing fears. At the same time identifying your existing fear and overcoming it makes you identifying and tackling your next existing fear easier and yourself stronger.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/09/19 06:33 AM
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Most career betas here are not lazy. Fear and addictions are the real problem.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/08/19 12:09 PM
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You are either trolling hard here in MRP, have serious TREN sideeffects or have full blown narcissistic personality disorder. If latter, then it explains everything you write here. I kind of like narcs, they are good entertainment value, get parties going and just fun to talk when you are figured them out. But there is one very big negative, no kid deserve parent with this disorder. So if your new found spiritual/meditation/get out of your head way of life is more deeper than impress your new ch…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/08/19 09:05 AM
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So the third captain DEERed? "Captain, captain, there's a huge storm coming, I trust you to make the best decision for us!"
/r/MarriedRedPill19/08/19 06:31 AM
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The feminine grows through praise. ...from masculine man. BP mans praise is usually covert contract.
/r/askMRP19/08/19 06:11 AM
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You cannot both workout and do snake diet. You can walk or ride bike slowly but not lift weights. Maybe right after your feed, but that is still too hard to your nervous system.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/08/19 11:47 AM
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You are glycogen depleted. You need more carbs to fuel so intensive workouts. Do one carb loading day (600+ grams of carbs) look in the mirror and if difference is big, do it more often.
/r/askMRP16/08/19 11:18 AM
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but very matter of fact and just two people that care about each other having a discussion on how to get our mutual needs met What are her needs and what have you done last 6 months to get them met?
/r/MarriedRedPill14/08/19 11:16 AM
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" A covert contract is an unwritten agreement that you believe you have with your spouse, friend or a coworker; the only issue is that the other person has no idea that a contract is in place. " ​ You made a low effort post, expecting likes and upvotes, did not get it from me, you got butthurt. You had covert contract. I didnt agree to like your post. ​ Your "do good for yourself " list is just weird.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/08/19 08:00 AM
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This is all wrong.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/08/19 06:53 PM
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You learned only to dodge bullets. You are nowhere near where you don´t have to.
/r/askMRP31/07/19 09:10 AM
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I was young and once after blowjob god knows why I said "thank you". She looked me straight in the eyes and calmly said "do not ever thank me again (after sex)". Also she has never sabotaged my efforts to better myself, job, gym... They have it in their blood. Unless they consciously choose beta bucks.
/r/askMRP31/07/19 09:03 AM
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I had same problems as you, not that extreme but similar enough to comment. First, everybody is right. If you become very high value man, you do not have a wife who you are not attracted to. If you do, you are not high value man. You will not become high value man learning some cheat code to make your wife lose weight. It does not work this way. If you have learned basics, you know how to become high value already. Covert contracts. Lose them all. Your wifes weight is not yours to change. Some p…
/r/askMRP20/07/19 11:11 AM
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You are fake alpha. There is no way you have put in any work. You read some theories and found your place in the world where you can call everybody retarded and faggot and nobody challenges you? Go ahead, keep posting your retarded stories, who the hell compares self improvement to sucking dick and swallowing cum? Or put in some real work and maybe someday you have something to give back to others.
/r/askMRP27/06/19 11:42 AM
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How to address when she wants to break your STFU by physically attacking you? What does that mean? You are giving her silent treatment?
/r/askMRP17/04/19 02:36 PM
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Edited.
/r/askMRP12/04/19 12:53 PM
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Your wife put on a few pounds and your no longer attracted to her? Yes. Any idea how to fix this? If wife loses attraction, its mans fault, I get that. But other way around? Still mans fault? Does it matter how many pounds yous spouse gains to become unattractive? For me its 6 pounds, to somebody else its 60. I write this long back round story that maybe somebody find something to analyze my behavior. ​ ​ So my question is, has anybody here, who was not attracted to his wife physically, turned t…
/r/askMRP09/04/19 01:39 PM
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I tried this caveman approach couple of times and did not like it. I did find one position, where it was visually arousing, but usually that is not for me. Same happens when wife gain weight. Sex frequency goes down. There is nothing manly or masculine to fuck everything that moves like everybody seems to suggest here. Have some standards and self respect. ​ ​
/r/askMRP26/02/19 10:59 PM
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Now picture this: You’re truly OYS. You are as close as you can be to the man you want to be right now. radiate positive warm energy with zero ego. When you come into a room, that room literally comes alive. People remember your energy from last time and greet you warmly. You’re a man of strength and impeccable truth. This mental state is very hard to achieve. No reading or acting or sidebar or dread will help here. Only doing. Its all inner game. Killing your ego, making peace with yourself, ze…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/02/19 07:08 AM
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I dont celebrate random american consumer holidays. Pressure is huge, 10 years ago nobody in my country cared about valentines day or halloween, today all stores are full of heart shaped crap. Thank god feminism is still a joke here, but this will too change eventually. ​ TBH wife gave me chocolate, same kind she got for kids.
/r/askMRP15/02/19 09:32 AM
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You use way too much your back muscles. Your legs go straight too early and then the lift is done by back. Probably because weak glutes and hamstrings. ​ Watch this: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jEy_czb3RKA
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/19 07:34 AM
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Feeling happy is result of happy thoughts. Or better jet, absence on unhappy thoughts. Your subconscious dictates what you think at any given moment, it is up to you how you react to those thoughts. I dont have good book recommendations about this subject but basically there is two things; Get rid of all unhappy thoughts in subconscious and choose to think happy thoughts. Cleaning your subconscious is hard, one way is to challenge every thought that comes in mind and replace this with "new truth…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/01/19 11:23 AM
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I introduced the new toy right at the end, but I got caught up in how she would respond to it. No doubt this bled through in my demeanour at this point. As a result her reaction wasn’t as positive as I had hoped. I lost my sex drive. I couldn’t perform. I was nervous about how she would take it. I wanted validation that I had done the right thing by getting this toy. And that need for validation controlled my sex drive. It wasn’t the need for sex to validate my attractiveness, but it was a need …
/r/MarriedRedPill08/01/19 10:04 AM
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What the fuck is meaningless sex?
/r/askMRP07/01/19 09:44 AM
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You didnt blew anything. This is reality. Right now you are the guy who victim pukes to others. And a guy who needs online validation. Next step is to become a guy who says himself after fuckup "I am not there jet" and moves on. Just a remainder: You cannot negotiate desire, respect, following to your leadership. Every time you do not get those, you know where you stand and what needs to be changed.
/r/askMRP04/01/19 11:46 AM
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More personal opinion, though, if a man can't find a good woman, it's not worth it. But if he does have a good woman, then it can take him from a good guy to a king. But yes, it's risky in term of money and freedom for a man if he chooses the wrong woman, and he loses out on meaningless sex. It all hangs on the character of the woman. This is your personal well thought thru unique opinion? You should write to Cosmo. readers will be amazed. Ban.
/r/askMRP04/01/19 11:29 AM
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Stupid advice. Guy is 28% bodyfat, so lets get him to 35%. Eating maintenance will not build any muscle. Doing 5x5 when 13 yo is child abuse. Diet down to 10% BF, then bulk to 12%. Rinse and repeat. Who cares if you look skinny one year. And stop KETO, unless carbs make you overeat every time you touch them.
/r/askMRP05/12/18 07:00 AM
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I'm interested in hearing about different DHVs and DLVs that you guys do / have done and what has worked for you You mean like getting better sex/relationship? What has helped: got down to 10% body fat-wife starts touching when passing by removing all my expectations regarding her body (weight) - immersion in bed is way higher flirting with her friends/coworkers - wife starts initiating sex No butthurt after rejection - sex frequency goes way up. going to events when she can be better than other…
/r/askMRP29/11/18 07:36 AM
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Nice role reversal revenge porn. Hypothetical situation: There is group of guys, you are in the center of it, you tell this same story and everybody laughs. Everybody but me. I have been in similar situations all my life. I just stand there and think if I should at least smile to give your ego what it seems to need or not. My question is: I believe all this MRP stuff, I want to become self actualized man in all areas in my life, so when I am finally there, do I become a man who start liking thes…
/r/askMRP27/11/18 06:23 AM
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One more thing to consider: I dont know your diet plan, are you cutting and then bulking, but if you lost 10kg in a 10 months, this is steady 300 kcal under TDEE a day and this is very hard for your body, mind and hormonal system. I know guys who had their testosterone checked after 10 month diet and it was zero. No sex drive, no drive at all. If this is the case and you are not on drugs, consider 3 months bulking fallowed by 3 months cutting.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/11/18 06:53 AM
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OYS 3. 43yo, 6`3, 87 kg (-1), BF 15 range, DL 125 kg, Bench 75 kg, Squat 80 kg. Not max but 8x. Married 15y, 2 teen boys. Diet is going well, upper sixpack is showing, but overall very depleted look, if some day i eat maintenance, i look little bit better, but overall nothing to show. I have lost about six pounds of fat and wifes hands are suddenly all over my body (mostly waist). Shallow bitch:-) Weird thing is; over our marriage wife has gained some weight sometimes (6-8 pounds) and it has alw…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/11/18 10:35 AM
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OYS 2. 43yo, 6`3, 88 kg (-1), BF 15-17 range, DL 125 kg, Bench 75 kg, Squat 80 kg. Not max but 8x. Married 15y, 2 teen boys. DIET and LIFTING. (still 2/5 goal) GOALS: 3/5 BF under 10, toned muscles, healthy diet. 4/5 Clean diet, minimal junk food and alcohol, 90 kg weight when under 10% bf, 5/5 body is my temple, no junk food, hormonal balance is 100%, Testosteron is over 1000 naturally, muscle mass is max what is achievable naturally ( (Height in centimeters – 100) = Body weight in kilo (“shred…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/10/18 06:43 AM
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Thanks for the reply. "giving orders" is wrong wording, my English is not that good. I use too much "Should we do that?" and "Maybe this way is better?" kind of statements. Meant just to be more assertive. . Deadlift scares me shitless because old back injuries, If its deadlift day, I often wake up with back pain, some psychological shit, I still push through but yeah, this needs to be resolved. Bench press-had really shitty form, I was pushing mostly with my shoulders, elbows were too flared, m…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/10/18 05:54 AM
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OYS 1. 43yo, 6`3, 89 kg, BF 15-17 range, DL 125 kg, Bench 75 kg, Squat 80 kg. Not max but 8x. Married 15y, 2 teen boys. Why here: Every indication in my life shows I am loser, I cannot think that myself, denial is strong. I am purple pill, it has burned me bad and probably will again, need to get over this shit. I am mentally white knight, but in real life too lazy for white knighting, thank god, Frame is shit when somebody challenges it. Delusional frame is strong. Did very successful cut, ende…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/10/18 07:47 AM
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This shit is very hard to believe, but when you finally do, you will be pain free. His book helped me 100% after shitload of money to chiropractors, physical therapy, massages, swimming, pillows, matresses, sitting on the fitness ball...painkillers, fuck them all. Useless shit. Last time I had suddenly terrible lower back pain, I could not move at all. Laying down in agony. Took me half an hour to get up, another half an hour to move 10 feet and so on. Later in the evening I was 80% ok, couple d…
/r/askMRP16/10/18 08:01 AM
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So you are taking steroids and injecting testosterone and giving advise here to normal people? This will happen: You eventually fell in love with somebody (this is nature, you cannot deny it) and because you are on steroids you will be 10 times more emotional than others, even most blue pill guys. Then you will do something stupid, probably self destructive, lose your kids or work or life. Have seen this happened several times.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/09/18 10:40 AM
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Was your Former Self different at work that New RP You? Women are naturally good at multitasking, men are good at fully focusing in current task in hand. Are you more focused now, have a career plan, mission, specific deadlines, shit to get done? What happens when oldest teenager in the house calls when you are really busy and focused? No male hamster spinning there ,am I right? When on lunch break when wife calls, be cocky funny like you were before the call with your hot coworker.
/r/askMRP25/04/18 05:24 AM
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I have same feeling sometimes and hate to say but you might be right. This sub makes us believe that living in a somebody elses frame is always living in dead bedroom with disrespectful nagging wife. Dont think it is always the case, You may have all the sex you want and submissive wife, but no frame of your own.
/r/askMRP20/04/18 06:20 PM
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If i understand correctly you are using steroids and "crying like a bitch " is very common side effect. Fix that first.
/r/askMRP15/04/18 07:17 AM
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Have you been on the other side? Have you tried to kill your ego? Lived ego free some time in your life?
/r/askMRP14/04/18 09:45 AM
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What is "very healthy lifestyle" to you? Vegan food and hipster beer till drunk? If so no surprise your libido is low. Are you calorie surplus or deficit?
/r/askMRP14/04/18 07:36 AM
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Get yourself at 10% bodyfat level first. then bulk to 15%. Rinse and repeat. You dont need more fat cells. If you start bulking at 23% bodyfat level, your body needs to store more fat it will make new fat cells. And when you try to lose that extra fat later, those cells still be there, just empty. Waiting to get full again. And they will very easily. Keto is for people who are addicted to carbs or insulin sencivity. Do not train fasted, get some protein shake in before or some BCAA. 39 y old, yo…
/r/askMRP12/03/18 07:36 PM
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Me: I might be stupid. Like very low IQ stupid. I dont get things anymore. Million different theories constantly in my head, one sounds good, other sounds better and contradicts first. And this goes on endlessly. One day MRP is full of geniuses, other days full of retards. Some day I see red pill truths everywhere, next day whole theory sounds stupid. Found red pill 2 years ago, been reading and implementing theories since. Got to 10% body fat, owned some of my shit, lifting and diet mostly, but…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/01/18 10:56 PM
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Stop taking steroids.
/r/askMRP07/01/18 06:08 AM
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You do you.
/r/askMRP18/08/17 05:36 PM
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When you get HARD NO from your wife and are butthurt (yes, you are): From "the way of the superior man": "Imagine failing at a major project, lying to your woman and getting caught, or overhearing her joke about your shortcomings in bed. How do you react with your body, breath, and eyes? Notice if you react to a person or situation that hurts you by withdrawing, hiding, or closing in on yourself. Notice if there are times when you find it difficult to look into someone's eyes, or times when your…
/r/askMRP18/08/17 10:43 AM
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Wow, this story bring back memories...I was in very similar situation, when I was young. Sex was available always, but everything else... I did left and consider this by far a best decision in my life. And it is not your fault. You did not create that! Some women are just shitty and lazy, look at her family. Yeah, you can isolate her and improve yourself and pass huge shit tests all your life, but is it worth it? Own your mistake and live by your standards now on.
/r/askMRP31/07/17 09:23 AM
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Losing 25 pounds in one month is too much. You have typical overtraining symptoms. This got nothing to do with discipline. Same as trying to be awake 5 days in a row and blaming lack of discipline when falling a sleep.
/r/askMRP15/06/17 09:32 AM
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Yes I like helping people improve their lives. And I dont think anymore its some pathetic beta move, validation seeking.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/05/17 01:55 PM
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How are you doing on finishing? I did try MRP approach to just except that everyone are just lazy faggots who does not have their whole life in order (leading, lifting, appearence, finances, submissive wife). Got depression like symptoms from all this. For example, I Have never flirted with anybody. It´s just not me. But being yourself is here considered as stupidest idea. But it did help me most. Being yourself. After figuring out my Myers-Briggs personality type everything become clear. That t…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/05/17 01:10 PM
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If you haven´t been a nice guy, I would not recommend taking advice from here (except family alpha). I tried this almost a year and with bad results. I might write a story about it, but I don´t think it will be popular one.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/05/17 05:18 AM
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What if somebody tell you "you have a sexy girlfriend"? Do you answer "no, Im the sexy one"? And three times same answer? Like telling the same joke several times at the same party. One woman tell other "wow, this guy is confident, he told me his girlfriend is lucky to have him!" Other woman "Yeah, he told me exactly the same." Third woman " me too, thats little weird!" And maybe their hamster was spinning because they didnt see her to be lucky one? One more thing, if women like somebody´s new 2…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/04/17 04:55 AM
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First real improvement is when you don´t need to post your progress anymore.
/r/askMRP12/04/17 07:33 AM
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I do like all fit people do: eat several small meals a day consisting whole foods, count my calories and exercise. I am experienced enough to know this is only realistic way to lose weight. I quess Im 12% BF right now, my goal is to lose 6 lbs fat and it will take me 2 months, because I dont want to lose my hair and erection in the process. Edit: 2700 kcal a day, 0,5g fat and 1g protein for 1 lbs lean body mass, rest carbs (no sugar)
/r/MarriedRedPill12/04/17 07:01 AM
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your body can burn max 125 grams of fat a day. everything else is lost water. So it will take you 10 days to burn 2,5 lbs FAT. And that is when you have proper meal plan, good sleep, good hydration, muscle preserving exercise routine.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/04/17 06:51 AM
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You put down the book, close your eyes, imagine yourself like Leonardo DiCaprio crawling through the wilderness after bear attack, embracing cold air, feeling how tough you are. Then she comes to close the doors and you say "give me 5 minutes more." I was in classroom, one chick pulled this, I was right in front of the window. She closed after she was freezing and others started to complain. I said already? Fuck me eyes guaranteed.
/r/askMRP06/01/17 11:20 AM
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I am 6 3, started year ago with 22% fat and dadbod. decided to cut first. That meant I could not add any weight to the bar for 7 months. Started with 170 bench press (8 reps) and after 7 months did 5 reps. Guys who are in calorie deficit and their lifts goes up are on drugs or start with a very understimulated nervous system or something like that. Tried low carb for the third time in my life, this absolutely does not work in my case, 2 months I felt shittier every new day, eating 3000 kcal. I t…
/r/askMRP22/12/16 06:57 AM
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Been there, done that. You can turn her extremely on in your "beta'' days also, read Sex God Method for example. Second, this alfa sex will be also boring eventually, too much good thing is bad thing. Third, when you focus mostly self development in life, meditation, no porn, mindfulness, etc. sex can be very different experience, how much your woman dirty talks or screams during the act suddenly does not matter.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/11/16 01:40 PM
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Serious question, how tall are you?
/r/askMRP07/11/16 07:05 AM
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If your wife believes, that you are best he can get, her hypergamy is accomplished. Gain 50 pounds, lose your friends, spy after her and whine everyday, you see AWALT in a year. Biggest shittesters I know didnt have fathers and had feminist mothers.
/r/askMRP03/11/16 11:26 AM
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Withdrawing attention didn´t work in my case. I wasn´t very affectionate and cuddly in the first place, so she didn´t feel the difference, i guess. What helped me, was articulating situations; After good sex I said " I have this weird feeling like taking you to fancy dinner tonight" and after NO I said "Damn, should have done "some project" instead of preparing my mind to fuck you". And next night started doing "some project".
/r/askMRP26/10/16 01:37 PM
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we shouldn't just do something hard for the sake of it being hard. Work smarter, nor harder That what my blue pill father taught me whole life, jet I experience every day this to be false. When I run in the treadmill vs in heavy snow/freezing cold, I feel much better after the latter. Or when I cook my own food. Or building furniture vs buying it. In my fathers case smartest way doing things is not to do anything at all. And DEER the shit out of every conversations.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/10/16 09:51 AM
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That is bad outcome what I was talking about. When I go fast, I dont have to deal with this lazy crap.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/10/16 06:07 AM
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Solid advice, but I am sure taking too slow has bad outcomes too. During our relationship my wife has always started exercising when I started, few months after usually, but not this time, almost year in. Shes fatter than ever (+10 punds) and it really turns me off. Anyway, My opinion is that this is because she got comfortable with my slow gains. At the beginning it was different, she was worried, shit tests, made plans to go to gym, whole deal. Then she saw that nothings gonna happen when she …
/r/MarriedRedPill13/10/16 10:09 AM
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To try to deprogram yourself to give absolutely zero fucks about external validation and approval is like trying to swim up Niagra Falls DEPROGRAM is perfect word for my actions! That is what my goal was. Every action I take or consider taking, if I will relate it someway to seeking outside validation, I think "fuck, I´m not there jet, still pussy faggot" and feel bad. Probably not going to take this action.´ I take frequency of those validation seeking thoughts as some kind of meter to know am …
/r/askMRP05/10/16 05:31 AM
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I woke up, wife had shark week and was drinking coffee in the living room, I went there wearing only underwear, put her hand on my stomach (sixpack), she pull down my pants and gave me blowjob. Week earlier I didn´t gave her a kiss whe I wanted because situation wasn´t just right. When you get it, you see the all situations more clearly and know when to act and when to hold you back. Anyway thats how I see things and OI should be your goal but when you are there its more like recognizing situati…
/r/askMRP01/10/16 09:04 PM
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This "no need for outside validation" and "you are alone in this world" is a concept that can be easily misunderstood. Everybody function much better when he has outside validation. Imagine most alpha masculine dude, this guy gets validated so much all the time. Respect from guys, IOI from random girls all the time. He may not NEED it like average Nice Guy, but he sure feels much better when interacting with other people. Humans are herd animals, being alone and getting all self esteem from own …
/r/MarriedRedPill13/08/16 09:31 AM
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cool story. Last time my wife fucked my brains out was when I visited her at work and her female coworker said later something good about me (tall, fit, handsome). I just said hello to her. TBH that kind of sex is not something I need or want. It´s usually her on top then, kind of "You are mine" sex, it is physically good of course, but does nothing to my ego. It´s much better when I decide to use some kind of SGM and make here extremely turned on, submissive way.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/08/16 09:40 PM
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I felt the same way, when my testosterone was high in my 20s and 30s. after 40 not so easy anymore. Need good sleep, proper exercises, good food, right mindset. I have days when Im king of the world, then I drink 4 beers and next day Im total pussy with all the estrogen in the body. It wasnt like that, when younger.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/07/16 07:14 PM
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I would say " That was the plan". If she needs to feel in charge, so be it. I don´t. I get shit done.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/06/16 05:14 AM
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From the "Book of Pook" p. 37 "Perfection is boring. To be Human is Beautiful. There was this guy who went to the gym almost all the time. His diet was PERFECT. His workout routines were PERFECT. His clothing was PERFECT. His six pack… no, EIGHT pack was PERFECT. He MODELED. He got involved in ACTING. He looked like a GREEK GOD. When he walked about, all the ladies noticed him. He used his flesh like a masculine dress. Aside from those that used and discarded him as a boy toy, the ladies always …
/r/MarriedRedPill29/06/16 05:42 AM
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Its not bad to have high values, being romantic, monogamous, wanting good family life. Every woman wants a guy like this. Being all that does not make you BP. Failing shit tests validating yourself thru woman does. You are owning your shit, you have mission, just implement this new information to your vision and you will be ok.
/r/askMRP23/05/16 05:55 AM
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People in deadbedrooms tell their SO-s to go fuck somebody else and not bother them, they are not usually spying and not trusting. You look like a decent guy who does not really need help from this sub, most of the answers here come from the guys who aint getting any sex and their solution for everything is sidebar and NEXT. You kind of described my wife and I have never regret marrying her. Yes, I went nuclear in the beginning also, there were crazy events couple of time in year, but eventually…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/05/16 05:28 AM
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Only one of my closest friends gets surprise parties from his wife. On the other hand, he has sex once a week last 15 years. (thats dead in my book) My wife never buys me anything, when I ask about it (I dont really care), I see she genuinely do not know what to buy, do I like it, can we afford it, usually hamsters her away from buying gifts. Our 8 y wedding anniversary is coming, I honestly don´t know the right date, maybe thats why I aint getting any gifts.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/05/16 06:17 AM
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Letting her know when you will be back is completely normal behavior in marriage. Then your wife acted like a child. So you say ok and leave. Next time you obviously leave without telling here when you return.
/r/askMRP02/05/16 03:16 PM
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Strong words. Time to post pics from your 6-pack abs, mods. Lets see Acta Non Verba.
/r/askMRP02/05/16 07:05 AM
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Very well written. You may think you're a poker face but women are very attuned to your emotions. Your body is betraying you, showing your cards to your woman. My thoughts exactly every time I read "fake it till you make it". Maybe when you are using PUA techniques in some bar, where nobody knows you, but with your wife you cannot fake.
/r/askMRP02/05/16 06:42 AM
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DO NOT put up with bad behavior or it will increase. Let your kid get away with X and tomorrow he will take 2X. Let a wife get away with X and tomorrow she will take X2 So you believe that people are fundamentally bad and we have to teach them to be good? I don´t.
/r/askMRP02/05/16 06:25 AM
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Some women are shittier than others. It is not always reflection of you. If decent woman turns into shitty woman, then it´s you.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/04/16 03:44 PM
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Read NMMNG and you will understand why you always need to have the last word.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/04/16 03:35 PM
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I don´t know your backround, but this is overtraining. Why the hell you are doing pushups and pullups on your recovery days? And P90x and interval running too? And people recommend keto and less than 50g carbs to him? Stick to your SL, do maybe light cardio on offdays twice a week and eat at least 2000 kcal. 180g proein, 90g fat and rest carbs.
/r/askMRP12/04/16 08:36 AM
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Was she afraid of you initiating sex? She should have just said "I have a headache".
/r/askMRP12/04/16 08:20 AM
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Didn´t you guys read books when you were young? I read plenty and there were always masculine men doing masculine stuff. Winnetou, Tarzan, Jules Verne books...There were always special woman and some white knight stuff, but male characters were masculine guys. My father was very beta, but that was just one piece of the puzzle. Uncle was pretty tough guy, Movies like "karate kid" and Van Damme in every movie gave another piece. All this combined gave pretty normal world view how to act like a man…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/04/16 06:21 AM
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7 yo hurting 2 yo is not the problem that needs fixing. It is the result of the problem, that needs fixing.
/r/askMRP06/04/16 06:00 AM
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Do me a favor and think for a second, that maybe there is somewhere a sidebar for parenting like there is for fixing marriage. And maybe parenting 101 is like deadbedroom advice. Have you read any parenting books? Have you tried those techniques in real life? So you are captain and your wife is first officer but only when children are not around? Without children you listen your wife advice and when it makes sense you change your mind. That´s what masculine men do, right? But in front of the chi…
/r/askMRP06/04/16 05:42 AM
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I don´t think daughters shit tests their fathers. They might act like their mothers, but they are not testing their fathers ability to lead. They usually love their fathers. Yes, LOVE, not AWALT. RP is not answer to all relationship problems.
/r/askMRP05/04/16 02:22 PM
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"Parent Effectiveness Training: The Proven Program for Raising Responsible Children", Thomas Gordon Thank god I found this book 12 years ago, Haven´t Disciplined my sons a single time. No need. This Nanny 911 is awful. Fear is not respect.
/r/askMRP05/04/16 12:51 PM
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You can memorize the sidebar, get best answers from vets here, but real self improvement can happen only in real situations. You need those confrontations, that´s the only way to improve. You say no, get anxious, then just keep doing what you were planning to do, trust your RP knowledge, don´t let male hamster in the wheel, and observe your body (racing heart, sweaty hands, breathing). Your anxiety will pass, If you keep going with your previous plan. And next time you get less anxious. Finally …
/r/askMRP05/04/16 07:17 AM
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A woman is a reflection of her man Agreed 100% thinking my current wife, cannot see any truth remembering my last LTR with a BPD girlfriend. I didn´t change, some women are just fucked up.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/04/16 12:46 AM
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I have always seen this all "believing in god" thing like trying to avoid responsibility (had my first christmas when 15 yo, maybe this explains it). Do it for yourself, don´t do it for your wife, for god or for gym. If you are atheist and have frequent epiphanys, that means you are thinking too much. You should meditate.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/04/16 06:36 AM
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There is a guy somewhere, to who this SILSSV is all smiles and giggles. So your SMV wasn´t high enough in her eyes to treat you with respect. Dont feel bad, read the sidebar:-)
/r/MarriedRedPill01/04/16 06:21 AM
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Is this subreddit for americans only? You have just really fucked up laws there. Being married is not the same in every part of the world. If I divorce tomorrow, I will pay about 150$ a month per kid and that is all. All property accumulated during marriage will be split, things before marriage and gifts (even houses) will not be split, don´t see how that is not fair. I have been married 10 years and I don´t regret any of this. Great sex, nice family life...since I let myself really go. Wife dri…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/03/16 09:46 PM
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You don´t have to think every thought that comes in your mind. Just focus on presents, observe surroundings and let your thought wander away. No need to let male hamster in the wheel. Easier said than done, I know, I´m struggling with this too.
/r/askMRP23/03/16 08:38 AM
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I get called an asshole at least twice a day for the last couple of days This is third. Asshole. Now go and confiscate her vagina. That is the alpha way.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/03/16 07:24 AM
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has "severe emotional wounds" that she says she doesn't know how to get over from my darker days. She still says that she can't deeply kiss me and "trust" me again When she says these things? Just out of the blue or after long conversation? You are not having the "TALK", are you?
/r/askMRP15/03/16 07:42 AM
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I was looking for answer to exact same situation. I am not very good at recognizing shit tests, mostly because at home she goes radio silence when shit testing and that´s all. But at the parties its all different game. Last drink fetch request I was not ready and just said something like "come on ...". She tried again and I said annoyed "really?" and then " Cannot do right now, I´m in the middle of .....)" She went herself and that was it. Later when I though about it, all the right answers woul…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/03/16 06:23 AM
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After I read E. Tolle "Power of now" and implemented techniques described there I had no problem talking to everybody. Very good experience, lasted about 3 months, got lazy and ego took me over again.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/03/16 07:31 PM
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Nice FR. Dont get the hatred in comments, obviously OP is not beta trying to become alfa, but alfa, who got too comfortable. Every brag is not validation seeking. No monthly anal is deal breaker for me, maybe thats why I like the story.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/03/16 07:26 PM
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because becoming MRP guy is like any other new years resolution, only few will succeed. Other 90% act tough couple of months, gets his wife´s hopes up, and eventually turn back to their old habits. Real work begins after sidebar and does not end with first anal.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/03/16 09:53 AM
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Ironwood described beta male thinking, oneitis and stuff. My love towards my wife is definitely conditional. I have eyes only for one woman, add 10 pounds, I suddenly see there is other women too.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/03/16 06:40 AM
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This is some nice guy stuff here. Trying to look tough when actually in pain....All hard core orbiters I knew acted this way. I don´t think you should whine about it, but smiling and acting all tough is seeking woman validation as much as crying. Just tell what happened, what are consequences. limp as long as you need and fuck her in spoon position.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/02/16 11:03 AM
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I am/was in a similar situation and what helps: Set your pornstar sex as a future goal, like benching 250. Do MRP to get there. Like in SEX GOD METHOD, learn Immersion. Try to be in this state as often as you can during sex, don´t think what you are missing. Make this vanilla or bj session as intense as you can. Don´t think about the topic too much during the day, male hamster is strong in this one. Lift, nofap and proper sleep to raise testosterone, let your hormones make decisions, not your he…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/01/16 11:06 AM
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