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450k_crackparty/r/askTRP04/06/21 08:57 PM
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Poor choice of words. Yep have let shit slide far too long.
/r/askTRP04/06/21 11:59 PM
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Ha thanks. Nah he's never slept with a woman in his life. Gayer than gay.
/r/askTRP04/06/21 11:57 PM
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Just been stewing on shit that's all. Thanks.
/r/askTRP04/06/21 11:31 PM
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You have a boundary that doesn't exist as it's not really enforced, trying to keep an LTR that has a red flag that you're tolerating with an insecurity that doesn't really matter. Lol damn bro cutting deep. I guess I had some ill conceived notions about how setting boundaries works. I always just figured she would understand my feelings on things and fall in line. But when she does shit I don't like, all I end up doing is removing attention/affection, and taking it out on her in other ways. Inst…
/r/askTRP04/06/21 11:29 PM
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Interesting perspective. Appreciate it.
/r/askTRP04/06/21 10:37 PM
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Lol thanks dude. While all viewpoints are appreciated, some of the other comments make me think I'm a total doormat for letting her hang with a gay friend. I'm just trying to find a way to deal with, and find the root of my insecurities. I have let her know I don't really like him. But I try to keep a strong frame and not show weakness by whining if she wants to hang out with an old friend. If he ever says anything in front of me again I will pull him aside like another poster suggested and have…
/r/askTRP04/06/21 10:30 PM
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Yeah I def don't want to reveal insecurities. I will just try and be vigilant I guess and try and nip shit in the bud.
/r/askTRP04/06/21 10:22 PM
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Yeah. Like I said this incident wasn't graphic, but I wasn't happy with the way I handled it or that it happened at all (mark of disrespect). You're right. An aside would have helped set some boundaries. I was trying my hardest not to show insecurities.. but instead I looked worse for it.
/r/askTRP04/06/21 10:04 PM
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Man thanks for the reality check. She knows I don't like this guy. But they are damn near childhood friends so I have resisted overtly saying I don't want them hanging out together. And most of the time, if I am around we all hang together for drinks and it's totally cool. I only made my feelings clear a few months back (after that incident) when she was going over to his place for the evening and didn't invite me... I kind of blew up and said how would you feel if I was going out and hanging wi…
/r/askTRP04/06/21 09:27 PM
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They've been friends 15+ years. They are very close. It would be a tall order and seem controlling of me to tell her to never hang out with him again. But I see your point.
/r/askTRP04/06/21 09:10 PM
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It wasn't really that way. We were having a dinner/party with like 5 of us, all old friends, 2 of which were her friends from HS (gay guy and a girl), one was a partner of the friends. It was just a quick joke which I quickly shut down from the other end of the room. The graphic detail is mostly just what I assume they talk about in private. Due to me hearing him talk with other girls from their HS. Again, if you've ever been privy to a group of girls having 'girl talk', you'd know what I mean.
/r/askTRP04/06/21 09:07 PM
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The Irish call it 'the horrors'.
/r/askTRP21/12/19 08:22 PM
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Forgot to respond. The hostel is more to meet women that are also solo travelling. You establish a rapport by hanging out for the day, often with a group of other solo travellers then go to the next travel destination together and get a guesthouse. Typically everyone is taking the same routes in SE Asia. I found it was pretty easy to meet someone then spend a couple days together then go separate ways.
/r/askTRP25/11/19 04:19 PM
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You did the right thing. The thing you did especially right was how you broke up with her: swiftly, clinical, and non compromising. Every man has boundaries. Sometimes they need to be spelled out for a women, but a good one intuitively knows them. It's not that she's 'not allowed' to break these boundaries, it's that if she does then there will be consequences. It's a mindset that both parties in a relationship should have. These aren't 'rules'. Rules are made to be broken. Rules are things that…
/r/askTRP25/11/19 01:54 PM
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They will either be prostitutes or women looking for an arrangement that's similar to prostitution. Basically you pay for everything and they bang you. Not that there's anything wrong with this. Just be careful and don't catch the feels. Staying is hostels is an easy way to bang other travelers. Guesthouses I find are more difficult since you have a private room and sometimes they don't have much of a common area. Meet someone at a hostel, then travel together for a day or 3 and have a good time…
/r/askTRP20/11/19 01:38 PM
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Am I missing something or is this just a lot of words to say 'I found cheaper prostitutes'. Like I'm not judging the lifestyle but wtf is the point of all this.
/r/askTRP20/10/19 08:41 PM
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Agree with the other posters on travelling and enjoying your life. But one thing I can add is that if you are surrounded by decent people that are making decent money, you don't have to hide that you are in a good position financially. Like don't go giving out numbers or bragging but it's fine for people to know you've done well with yourself. I'm somewhat in your position (but not quite) and nobody 'mooches' from me or expects me to lend them money or anything. I just pick up the odd dinner bil…
/r/askTRP13/09/19 06:39 PM
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Best advice here, especially #3. Drunk people are annoying to sober people. It's a fact. No one wants to talk to judgey sober person. OP, if you want to hang in the bar with your friends till 2am, you basically have to be the biggest extrovert there is (and it;s obvious from your other posts that you aren't, and you are judging them). If you must go to the bar, enjoy yourself, enjoy your friends' company, meet as many new people as possible, get #s whatever. But peace out the second you stop hav…
/r/askTRP23/02/19 05:41 PM
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Jesus Christ this thread has some of the worst advice I've seen on asktrp. You can't 'fade' on a 3 yr LTR. That's the sound of someone that's never been in an LTR. And a huge pussy. You also don't demote a 3 year LTR to plate. Might work for a pro but proably not for you since you clearly aren't well versed in TRP. Plus she (probably) deserves more than that. There's also someone saying not to do it cause she's a good girl and their aren't many. You sound young, there will absolutely be many mor…
/r/askTRP11/02/19 12:59 AM
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Agree with the other posters, absolutely go for it. Don't let TRP get in the way of being with the girl of your dreams. The only warning I feel needs to be said: don't underestimate the fickleness of women's feelings. After a short fling like this, feelings are hot and heavy. Why do you think people get married in Vegas? But put distance and a few weeks between you, and you might find her texts get more and more spaced out. Long distance = loss of attraction. That said, I also believe short peri…
/r/askTRP14/01/19 10:20 PM
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Traveling solo is the most I got laid from different women at any point in my life. Traveling with friends you just end up trying to pick girls up at night in bars which was never my strong suit. The secret is to stay in hostels with communal areas (sleeping or otherwise). Main reason is that it forces you to interact with people. Mainer reason is that most of the other people there are like-minded and also traveling solo. In my experience, you show up at the joint in the afternoon. You get acqu…
/r/askTRP11/01/19 08:39 PM
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Yep. I will purposely say off-colour and outlandish shit right off the bat. Like, I will hold back on the worst stuff for the first few dates, but I try not to censor myself too much. This is for 2 reasons: the first is that it doesn't come as a surprise to her later, and you don't spend the rest of your life as a self-censored pussy. But the second reason is that it's an excellent gauge of attraction. You'll find that you can say the absolute craziest shit and she will laugh at it if she finds …
/r/askTRP05/11/18 06:33 PM
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I read this and your other thread. For starters, top post in this thread is bang on. You just have to accept that you're the man, and men do the driving. She's just along for the ride. That said, if you want to make an experience for her, you need to stop "suggesting" and start commanding. Instead of suggesting that she touch herself while you fuck her, command her to. This insinuates that her touching herself is not for her enjoyment, it's for your own. This in itself is a turn on for most girl…
/r/askTRP19/09/18 04:11 AM
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So you pulled aside multiple guys in one night to tell them to fuck off? Sounds unnecessary. Girls can typically take care of themselves in these situations, especially when there is a group of them. Don't get too caught up in playing bouncer for these girls when you should be enjoying yourself.
/r/askTRP05/09/18 03:49 PM
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I fuckin despise these sayings. I have a boss that often says something similar (I need to make a decision, doesn't have to be the right one though) and proceed to make shitty decisions in the moment that bite us all in the ass down the line. It's not being indecisive. It's waiting for more information....
/r/TheRedPill02/08/18 05:32 AM
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Yeah hostels are the easiest place on earth to pick up. People who stay in them are usually travelling alone and are always game to meet new people. You show up, a group of all the randos sort of forms, you go out for the day, build rapport, hit the bar at night, smash.
/r/askTRP20/07/18 03:41 AM
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Like firewood to heat the house. Many people use woodstoves here.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/18 06:18 PM
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I live the the far north. A wise man once told me: when you want to get rid of a woman, stop chopping firewood.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/18 03:40 AM
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Yep. OP, I would suggest you are still in the anger phase despite your own claims. It just lasts longer for some. It will mellow out as you age and you just accept women for who they are and how they are wired. It's almost like it goes anger, disappointment, acceptance.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/18 06:42 AM
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BPD isn't worth it. You can't fix these girls. One of my buddies ended up with one and she is a fuckin nightmare. Consider yourself lucky. You lived and learned.
/r/askTRP22/05/18 03:16 PM
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Yes I am on this side of the coin, which in my opinion is the point of TRP. This whole thread belongs in men's rights because apparently not a fucking person here 'gets it'. TRP is about recognizing the double standard, and using that knowledge to our advantage. This guy was a bitch. Who gives a fuck that 'if the genders were reversed everyone would be defending him/her'. What, do people in this thread wish they were women so they could receive this kind of snowflake treatment they appear to des…
/r/TheRedPill18/05/18 11:45 PM
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Good post. I think one of the most important lessons learned here is that when a girl wants a certain d, she will stop at nothing to get it. I've seen girls fly across the country for a chance at a bang. So everyone wondering if she's into you or not, fuckin take heed. If you are alpha cock, you will know.
/r/askTRP20/04/18 02:06 PM
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Agreed this is the very definition of a shit test. RP101.
/r/askTRP14/04/18 12:41 AM
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Yeah as much as I've learned and benefitted from RP, this one sticks out so much. I agree with the sentiment, but you're deluding yourself if you think you'll find an attractive 5 counter in her 20s.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/18 07:04 PM
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Ya dude. Everyone else saying saying 'she's just a plate keeping banging her' has been reading too much RP theory. That's right disrespectful and both of you know it. You were at a party together going to hook up and she went off with another dude right under your nose. Put that bitch on ice. I know she's not your girlfriend but that's a hobag thing to do. Listen to your gut. Don't act salty about it, just move on for the time being and brush her off. Don't give her the satisfaction of a heart t…
/r/askTRP25/03/18 07:25 PM
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I respectfully disagree (sort of). There are true, natural alphas. Maybe they aren't born with it, but they are created at the early stages of their life. If you've met them, you know who they are. One can definitely strive for alpha status and embody alpha traits (which is what this board is all about) but never become a natural. And to answer OP question. Yes true alphas are narcissistic (its a necessary quality to some degree) but not text book narcissists. They have empathy. They help out th…
/r/askTRP25/03/18 07:10 PM
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Feel I need to say this because only one other poster has. Any girl that finds out will judge you for it. Maybe not verbally or conciously, but they will forever slot you into that category
/r/askTRP21/03/18 02:48 PM
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Good question. Tough to ask without coming axross insecure.
/r/askTRP07/03/18 07:32 PM
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How did their relationship end? This plays a big part. If he cheated on her or was too much of a dick/lacked comfort/ minor beta qualities then you are wasting your time working towards an LTR. Read about 'alpha widows'. Basically once a girl has been with a top Chad, that shit is burned in her for life. She will forever return to him mentally even if she never speaks with him. The only chance for healthy LTR with her is if he was only outwardly alpha and actually really emotionally needy and be…
/r/askTRP06/03/18 06:32 PM
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Hey obviously you know what the problem is so your situation isn't that bad. Plus you've got a huge network of girls... so you're ahead of the game. Just keep working out, don't be a supplicating bitch to them and eventually you'll get laid out of it. If not by them then by the beauty of associating with hot girls. No need to abandon your friend group. But if you start playing some intramural sports or join some clubs you'll eventually make dude friends.
/r/askTRP01/03/18 04:43 PM
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Here's an easy one. Posture can affect others' perception of you right off the bat. Can also affect your own mental state. Stand up straight, shoulders back, chin up. Youll feel like you are ready to go talk to someone before you've left the house. Exercises like chin ups and pushups seem to help as they broaden and stretch your back.
/r/askTRP05/02/18 06:14 PM
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Yeah I know its easy to say just have fun and the pussy will present itself. It often doesn't if you're not crazy good looking. So yes you gotta approach. But don't let your night hinge on it. Be outcome independent. Try thinking of your approaches more in the frame of youre just doing it for a laugh. For your own entertainment, not to just get laid. That's what's worked for me anyway.
/r/askTRP20/01/18 07:46 AM
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Yeah this. The takeaway is that you are there to have fun. If you truly are in that state then people notice and open themselves to you. Have a round of shots with your mates and start cracking jokes with each other and the people around. Try and bring others into your circle. Avoid clubs that are too loud and packed to do it. Don't go out with some methodical determination. Leave that to the PUAs.
/r/askTRP19/01/18 07:51 PM
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Good luck man.
/r/askTRP14/01/18 08:04 AM
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That dude is not your friend and not even a wingman. You need to have some sense of self worth and confidence. Following some dickhead around town like a bitch. Find friends that aren't into pickup culture.
/r/askTRP13/01/18 09:25 PM
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Seriously. I think 5'5 might be the cutaway. Cause I know guys down to this height who slayed in college then ended up with solid LTRs. One was a dirt bag type dude the other a clean cut balding guy who shaved his head. Couldnt be more opposite people but both had great game. Below 5'5 you are a hard road ahead of you, but def not impossible. I'm 5'7. Height used to bother me sometimes, but then I realized the only thing bothering me is that it's not as easy as being tall. You can still accompli…
/r/askTRP31/12/17 09:11 PM
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Ya same I've only had women family and wives of friends tell I should settle down. Never had a dude say that to me. They all envy the freedom. No doubt there is happiness or some sense of completeness in raising children with someone you love but I'm doing just fine living my life on my terms.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/17 04:32 PM
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Apologize to her?? If I set up a date with someone I want to bang, I will be there on time. What's more, a woman will move mountains to get to someone they want to bang. Seriously I've seen girls fly across the country for a fuck. To text him after the the meeting time is, at best, a clear indication she is not interested and at worst, total disrespect for his time. Doesn't matter what the reason is. I wouldn't turn down if she pursued another meetup, but I wouldn't be expecting one nor would I …
/r/askTRP27/11/17 03:51 AM
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One of the hardest pills to swallow is that no matter how long you've been with a woman.. even if married 45 years... you can never show weakness. Ever. Women will say they want to hear your deepest emotions and feelings. Never give in. All it does is reveal chinks in your armor which will subconsciously lessen their opinion of you. Save the heart to hearts for your best guy friends. Unconditional love from a woman is a myth. Once you come to term with this, life is much better. The bitterness b…
/r/TheRedPill20/11/17 07:09 PM
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Hey I know that feel. I also have a good friend who is natural Chad. Basically the complete embodiment of TRP with no awareness of it. Honestly I just started to avoid going out with him if it was just the 2 of us hanging. No matter how good I am, how high energy, girls would see me as a pawn to get to him. It's eye opening and often hilarious to watch him effortlessly slay, but also kind of demoralizing. Really takes the wind out of your sails. I'm fine at picking up girls in most other situati…
/r/TheRedPill20/11/17 08:07 AM
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Lol let me guess. You were spanking it to your old posts and the responses and figured maybe you could get one last one in for the money shot.
/r/askTRP26/10/17 08:31 AM
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If you follow the general advice on trp a lot of these issues will work themselves out. This post is no different than the ones asking how to be more assertive to women or how to get that boss off your back. The advice is all the same and it's directed at how to better yourself and to strive for alpha status. 99% of people on here will never be true alphas and that's fine. But the advice still makes you strive for it. Lift. Dress well. Fucking stand up straight is number 1. Shoulders back. Speak…
/r/askTRP08/10/17 03:06 PM
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Lol find out what? What does a late bloomer even mean. Nobody gives a fuck what you were. Just keep being awesome that's all that matters.
/r/askTRP11/09/17 10:19 PM
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Most of this story is irrelevant until the last paragraph. Did you want to fuck her or not? This is the only true question. Be honest with yourself. This whole story sounds like excuses/hamstering for not wanting to fuck her, but if that was true you wouldnt have made this post right?? Whole thing would be a non issue. So you wanted to fuck her. And you didn't. That dude out alpha'd you (despite this mate-guarding excuse). He got what he wanted and you didn't. That's OK. Sometimes the prize isn'…
/r/askTRP05/09/17 04:04 PM
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Doing something for a girl solely to get something in return is classic beta move. She sensed you paid her way with the expectation that she'd fuck you in return. Dries em right up. If a girl really wants to fuck you, she will do it and often go way out of her way to do it.
/r/askTRP05/09/17 05:50 AM
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I like how you took all the classic RP tenets and showed them through this lens of giving. Works well. I've been subbed here about 3 years and this is the first post in a lonnnnnng time that's actually made me think. All the best to you.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/17 05:34 AM
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It really does work. Not to be used in all situations but it has it's place. For example, came home 2 hrs later than I said I would after not seeing my ltr for 2 weeks. She was upset and I literally ignored her while I unpacked my shift until her demeanor changed to what I wanted it to be. When it did, I rewarded by sweeping her off her feet and fucking the shit out of her.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/17 07:38 PM
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I don't know much about UFC but doesn't he have a great record? I'd call that backing up his talk with action...
/r/TheRedPill21/08/17 07:36 PM
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This right here is all you need to know about TRP.
/r/askTRP14/08/17 05:29 AM
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Two possibilities. Either she wants to fuck or. ...she's just checking up and making sure her backup is still around. This is a classic move by exes. If you do decide to meet up heed this advice. Do not, under any cicumstance put any effort forth into meeting up. Don't drive out of your way, don't pick her up, don't dress up good. Make her put in the legwork. Have her come to your bar or coffee joint where you would be anyway. That way you will see her intentions. When a chick wants to bone, she…
/r/askTRP04/08/17 11:27 PM
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Classic branch swing. As soon as they find a chink in your armor, women will try to upgrade. Never show weakness to a women. Even if you've been married to her 30 years.
/r/askTRP04/08/17 11:15 PM
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Opposite of alpha widow. She's keeping you on tab as a future provider, a backup for down the line. Best to cut ties, fuck buddies don't end up well in these situations.
/r/askTRP26/05/17 07:58 AM
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Lol beat it. This isn't askscience. Half the posts on here are based on evo-psych nonsense and pure conjecture. Literally the current top post is titled 'Pet theories and new/unfinished ideas'. The only difference is I actually stated my post was based on nothing. On top of that, the comment I am replying to is an informal conversation about the concept of work. I'm not going to go reference a peer-review paper for a random idea I have while I'm on the shitter before work. I'd honestly rather ha…
/r/TheRedPill18/04/17 10:30 PM
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I have a theory (based on zero science). I think it's more hardwired than just cultural. Work = hunting = food. No other animal in the wild stops 'working'. They spend most of their day foraging or looking for a fuck. Which is likely what humans started out doing as well. Then we ordered ourselves into ranked structures where the guys at the top had some leisure time. But even they spend most of their day plotting and scheming. So 'leisure time' is a relatively new concept for humans, especially…
/r/TheRedPill18/04/17 04:01 PM
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Get out of the house. Change promotes growth. If you don't want to grow get off this sub.
/r/askTRP14/04/17 04:49 PM
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50% is probably the right amount. It's your money, his vehicle. BUT, do not even go this far. The fact that your friend said 2% to begin with tells me that he is absolutely retarded and has either zero concept of money or zero respect for your intelligence. I am guessing it is more of the former. So do you want to trust 20k to someone that has that little understanding of finance? I really am serious, to even suggest 2% is just so, SO dumb. And what's more, that you are coming to this board to a…
/r/askTRP22/02/17 04:43 PM
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"women are NOT men and shouldn't be judged as such" This, in my mind, is the entire thesis of red pill. Men have expectations of women cultivated from their personal experience and mindset. When these expectations aren't met, the relations fail and the man hits anger stage. Its this fucking simple: Learn about women's behaviour and mindset (sidebar). Expect them to do woman things (AWALT) Profit.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/17 05:27 PM
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Try viewing them as a challenge instead.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/17 05:20 PM
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Without that last line I'd say move on. But when she gives you an alternative that's a good sign. The more specific the alternative, the better. I'd say her interest is lukewarm. A girl that's really into you will MAKE time to see you. Respond with something along the lines of what you've been doing. 'might be able to squeeze you in Saturday after my dance recital'.
/r/askTRP01/02/17 03:31 AM
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The part about her dropping that line about having fun... woman can be infinitely, almost comically cold when it comes to breakups. The shit that comes out of their mouths will leave you wondering if they were secretly a serial killer the entire time. They can turn their empathy off like a switch if it suits them.
/r/askTRP17/01/17 09:48 AM
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There's lots of good advice here. But I just want to add one piece of all around advice for the workplace. It was given to me by my uncle a long time ago, a blue collar 1st gen immigrant. Always be the guy working the hardest, especially if you are in charge. No one can fuck with you if you work harder than them and its obvious. If this guy is talking shit about you and you are doing a better job, that is your trump card. Next time he starts that shit, just interrupt him with a smile and say 'he…
/r/askTRP30/10/16 07:27 PM
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Yeah I made an edit after I posted that. Has to be it. Just seemed like an awkward way to make that joke since they're the same brand.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/16 05:19 AM
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Lol what? Skidoo is most definitely a snowmobile brand. The name is practically a synonym for snowmobile (like kleenex, saran wrap). Not only that, but Bombardier aka BRP is the producer of the Skidoo brand. The man is an RP legend, but if you don't know that Skidoo makes fucking skidoos.... edit: maybe I missed the joke that he thinks Bombardier makes shitty sleds.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/16 05:02 AM
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Sure but it's not going to crash overnight. Unless everything crashes. Then no stock is safe.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/16 08:59 PM
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Altria is awesome. Had it for the last 5 years. It's the gift that keeps on giving! Solid dividends. Few other safe blue-chip stocks and you got a nice tidy portfolio. Conagra foods (CAG) is another gooder. Just picked up some John Deere as well but I didn't really research it.. To complement the Altria I have a funeral homes and cemetary management company. Always safe to bet on death!
/r/TheRedPill17/07/16 08:58 PM
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I have never heard this before. Any source on that?
/r/askTRP19/05/16 07:11 PM
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You think you can only be one or the other? Here is the motto of every successful alpha I've ever met, young or old: "work hard, play hard."
/r/askTRP23/03/16 12:54 AM
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Agree. I don't encourage the guy. But his LTR is semi aware of some transgressions. And, as I've seen and read many times on here, if you're alpha enough you get away with it. They like the drama and knowing other girls are after you.
/r/askTRP27/12/15 07:30 PM
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After proofreading my post I knew I was going to get this comment.
/r/askTRP27/12/15 07:17 PM
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Other than the community aspect and social connections, its waste of time. I don't think it really matters whether you believe in god or not (to me that's a philosophical, or even a scientific question, one for pondering while standing in a field staring at the night sky). But organized religion is a man made construct for weak people that need to lean on a belief system to make themselves whole. Even atheism gets used this way (see r/atheism). Some people simply cannot go through life without s…
/r/askTRP10/09/15 02:57 AM
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Once you've established that she's down to hang, another route you can go is "what days are you free". This is a much easier gauge of interest: "I'm free Mondays, Wednesday and weekends" - green light. "great, wednesday 830 at xx bring your drinking shoes" or whatever "Umm Thursday might work" - she's leaving herself the option to flake out, but not completely disinterested "This week's super busy for me" - If she doesn't give an alternate date, don't waste your time.
/r/askTRP06/09/15 02:49 AM
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Seriously. No 'social experiment' is worth spending your night with people like this. I'd be noping the fuck out the second I walked in.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/15 01:36 AM
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Think about this. Have you ever seen people touching at the gym? No, because everyone is sweaty and hot and doing their own thing. On top of that, I wouldn't use the gym as a place to build attraction. Unless you're the biggest guy there.
/r/askTRP28/05/15 11:31 PM
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For sure. And do it the second you walk in the door. Bring the energy. Don't do a round around the house and then try introducing yourself because at that point you'll look and feel awkward. Edit. Couple other tips. Find a beer pong game or any other type of activity. Much easier to make friends through competition. Or try bringing a bottle of something interesting to offer out shots (something easy going like fireball or goldslager. This is college afterall).
/r/askTRP24/04/15 11:30 PM
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Nothing makes me lose respect for a man more than seeing his wife or LTR inputting what she thinks he should be doing at his job. Keep your career and relationships completely separate.
/r/askTRP24/04/15 04:29 PM
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There's a lot of good responses here. But I think they are missing one fundamental point. This wasn't a 'date' and you shouldn't have treated it as such. You guys were sexting before even meeting? This is the kind of situation where you meet a girl for a drink and flirt/ physically escalate right away. Don't try and tell her about yourself and find some deep conversation. Joke, tease laugh, touch her arm, put your arm around her, lead her to another venue then suggest going back to her place. Do…
/r/askTRP24/04/15 08:05 AM
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For some reason I have an automatic distrust of anyone that drinks a lot of milk. It's just weird for a grown man.
/r/askTRP24/04/15 07:28 AM
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Yeah nothing worse than worrying what your girl is up to 1000 miles away when she doesn't return your texts at night. Lesson learned, never again.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/15 09:11 PM
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Hey man just came back to this because I got told this again tonight. Was genuine though and by and older lady (small town redneck bar, she tapped me on the back). I used this line and got huge laughs across the table. I'm trying to remember what the other comment said though. He deleted it. Anyway thanks again. Doesn't matter if you're trying to hook up, a funny line is always appreciated.
/r/askTRP21/04/15 05:46 AM
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Check out this documentary. It will answer all your questions: http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0762107/
/r/askTRP16/04/15 08:54 PM
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Damn I wish I had this board attached to my brain when I'm at the bar.
/r/askTRP10/04/15 09:05 PM
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NOICE
/r/askTRP10/04/15 07:51 PM
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Get your shit back. Maintain an aloof demeanor like she's just some random girl, make sure you have an engagement of some kind you have to be at to keep the interaction short. Act like nothing happened, I guarantee it will throw her for a loop. Whatever you do, DO NOT act like a sad sack to try and gain sympathy. If you do that, she will turn around and be the aloof one. As for the concert, is it something you really want to see? You have to think about #1 now. If this is important to you, go se…
/r/askTRP10/04/15 07:23 PM
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Popular opinion would be to next, go radio silent and move the fuck on. You started alpha, went beta in the relationship, and she lost attraction. There's no getting it back. To keep attraction, you have to stay alpha in the relationship. Spend some time reading the sidebar in the main sub. Here's an easy start: https://heartiste.wordpress.com/the-sixteen-commandments-of-poon/ That said, do you have the feels for this girl aka oneitis? Or are you safely over her? In the unlikely event you are to…
/r/askTRP10/04/15 06:47 PM
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Boy did you fuck this up. So last night ~11:30, she texted me and said her roommate was gone and wanted to know if I was available =come over and fuck me. Where did you get the idea that you 'hurt' her? She wanted a FWB and instead you just straight up went relationship on her before you even banged.
/r/askTRP10/04/15 12:14 AM
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I laughed out loud at your response. I might end up using that, even though it had a bad reaction... I see two possibilities: she wanted your lunch to be a date. You should have agreed and amplified, something like "hey slow down, next you'll be asking for a ring on your finger..." But you nuked her with what you said and hurt her confidence. She had you placed firmly in friendzone/orbiter territory. Your alpha player response shook her frame and she reacted badly. Women hate seeing betas trying…
/r/askTRP09/04/15 06:24 PM
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For meat, there is no greater feeling than eating well prepared game meat from an animal you shot. No hormones, nice and lean, and you feel fulfilled eating the fruits of your labours. I eat a hunk of deer, bird or fish I caught pretty much every night. Just eating it makes you feel manly.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/15 09:08 PM
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I'm pretty sure this goes for all humans.
/r/askTRP31/12/14 07:38 PM
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One of my favorite expressions is "would you ask a fish how to catch it?". Never asked for relationship advice from a woman since I heard that. They will tell you what they think they SHOULD want, but that never equals what they actually want.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/14 11:37 PM
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Agreed. Some douche awhile back started their post with "I'm a bit of a dark triad so...". Fuck off, sounds like you're playing dress up.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/14 08:05 PM
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Part of male friendship is shit talking each other. This isn't really the same as a shit test, but it's kind of close. If you fail to come up with a comeback, the other guy generally 'wins' but not much is lost, as friends are friends. This is NOT like losing a shit test to a girl, as that generally has worse consequences. It sounds as if your relationship with these guys lacks this? If my buddy told me to grab something that was closer to him, I'd tell him to get off his lazy ass and do it hims…
/r/askTRP24/11/14 03:56 AM
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I would argue that 99% of the people in this sub are not true alphas. Everyone here is either beta or alpha-in-training. Not that that makes the advice and posts in here any less true. I only know a few true alphas in my age group (late 20s). And I couldn't picture a single one browsing this kind of forum. In fact, they mostly use the internet for practical purposes (buy/sell, email, entertainment, and some learning).
/r/TheRedPill24/11/14 03:03 AM
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You're fine, don't sweat it. That said, this board really pushes the 'texting for logistics only'. But I think some people take it a bit too literally. If its a girl you just met and only had a short convo with, it's kind of weird to just blaze ahead and text, 'hey it's that complete stranger you met, pick you up at 9'. Not sure if you're omitting it, but if you've never texted her I'd at least open up with an introduction and greeting, joke, or how's it going before you start making plans. Just…
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That's probably more sleep than necessary. Adults only need 6-8. Perhaps you're groggy cause you're getting too much sleep or waking up at the wrong point of REM cycle. Another thing I saw by that Tim Ferris guy is eat 15g of protein within half hr of waking up.
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I like this comment. I don't think people appreciated the tongue and cheek.
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I find myself moving towards this. It's kind of dead weight on your life. I wish I could be less sentimental but I keep all kinds of shit.
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I have 2 natural alpha friends, but the one is just about the personification of natural TRP Chadness. I've known him from 22-30 (current age). Bold, brash, confident, has a cool hot long term TRP gf that is absolutely wrapped around his finger without any effort on his part. Like, we go out fishing then come back and crush beers. She comes home from 12 hours at work and asks him what he wants her to make for dinner. She'll then proceed to make us a 3 course meal complete with desert. Somehow wh…
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