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Men still lust and fetishize obese/fat women. So men are worse off. Cuz fat women still hold value.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 07:53 PM
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For long term they like “safe” provider type. For “flings” they like masculine men
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 07:46 PM
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At least tall bald guys can ogremax. The worst is short and bald combo oh lord
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 06:31 AM
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Im just saying being short is worse than bald
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 05:18 AM
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Thats cutting it close. Also depends on facial aesthetics. A more better vs would be a 5’3 guy with good hair vs a 6’3 bald guy. Both with same facial aesthetics. Id say most girls would pick the 6’3 bald guy
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 04:50 AM
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Nothings wrong with that. But thats just not the way in real life it works
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 11:31 PM
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You dont understand what we are talking about. We arent saying be a asshole who doesnt even text back. We are saying dont have constant back and fourth long ass conversations over text. It kills the attraction for both. Basically being overly open and overly available is a red flag. Keep texting for light talk and to set up meet ups. Dont “hey how is your morning going? Hey how is your night going? Hey what did you do today?” Everyday right when you first meet LOL. ruins the attraction and excit…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 11:25 PM
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Of course it works lmao. Overtexting/overcommunication kills attraction. Especially in the beginning.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 11:18 PM
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This is about texting girls. Obviously you gotta already have her
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 11:04 PM
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it means theirs a higher chance she may have a shit personality cuz they are vetting on 100% optimal looks. ​ obviously its best to vet both looks and personality. but some are forced to take whatever they can get and dont have the luxury of vetting
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 10:04 PM
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yes. if ur too available it kills attraction, if you over text it kills attraction, if ur too needy it kills attraction. ​ gotta be unavailable, mysterious, and make her wonder and get excited for the next time you are available.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 09:41 PM
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thats cuz they have zero worry about actually meeting up so they are nicer lmao. has nothing to do with real life stuff. thats just a rando internet girl
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 09:41 PM
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Same with short guys. They have it even worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 08:56 PM
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Thats how all men are bald. Nobody is fully bald, they just shave it every day. It gets old after a while thats why some dudes dont give a fuck and let it grow. They arent “trying to hold onto it”, they are just naturally growing it and too much effort to shave every day
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 08:56 PM
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Same as “i find short guys cute! I would date you even tho ur 5’3. But it just so happens my bf is 6’6”
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 08:53 PM
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depends on your personality. if thats what said guy wants, then hell yeah he will be happy and feel rewarded.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 02:32 AM
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A lot of that is just older women who are jelly that a guy her age is getting with younger girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 10:28 PM
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i personally dont care, they do it for their own reasons. seems like 2 types of older female virgins. ​ they are a "niche" type of women and personally i dont like this type. they are uptight, and hold views that they must save it for the right man, who has to meet a ridiculous amount of checklists that no man can meet. they are very neurotic. i would stay the hell away from girls like that cuz it says a lot about them in other ways. and if the relationship isnt going 100% according to her plan,…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 08:22 PM
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lol the "nerdy internet girl" is just a niche girls use for status and money. ​ real internet nerdy girls dont go around advertising . they are simply invisible.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 08:14 PM
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bluepill is "virtue signaling", "feel good", generic feminist tier advice for men, and that doesnt work to make men a attractive partner. bluepill advice will make a man a good asexual friendzone guy for a girl. but not a partner lol. ​ redpill is pretty legit basic facts that can actually help you get a girl, if you have what it takes to even get that far. some of redpill is cringe tho and too tryhard. "hold frame bro!" lol cringe. ​ blackpill is the brutal truth that some guys, no matter how h…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 08:11 PM
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speak for yourself bro. dont project your daddy issue views onto every daddy lol. ​ hell, shitloads of kids grow up 100% fatherless. thats the issue. and also those "soy" type fathers who wear tshirts that are like "her body her rules" and let her run wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 10:30 PM
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you dont even know what snap city is, but is advocating for working out 7 days a week. LOL, in time you will learn, newbie. ​ again, 7 days a week is dumb. ask anybody whos been in the fitness world more than a few years or is educated on lifting/fitness.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 08:47 PM
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its called hypergamy/entitlement
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 08:30 PM
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they are in high levels but are still demanding men above them. ​ and its causing women to not find anybody because their is only a finite amount of high level men
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 08:29 PM
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i think your confused about the pills lol. "bluepill" is like feel good, virtue signal, generic advice that can result in CRINGE and EMBARRASSMENT of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 08:26 PM
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working out daily is dumb bro. thats how you enter snap city. bodybuilders dont even lift 7 days a week. and if ur natty thats even more dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 08:17 PM
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all people have egos... gay, straight, queer, bi, lgbtqia+. all people have egos to a degree. sexuality has nothing to do with it. it depends on personality. a lot of attractive people have less a ego cuz they are genuinely happy and dont have to worry, on the other hand ugly and fat people sometimes have massive ego's to hide their insecurities. but obviously it can go any way, some more, some less. both abuse can come from anyone and in many forms. i dont know why this is men only, it should b…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 08:11 PM
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most of the insecurity comes from women OBVIOUSLY. maybe since it doesnt effect you, you wouldn't know. ​ a large % of women will reject a man because he doesnt mean a certain height threshold. do you know how that would feel? no. ​ short men have it rough. for a 5'10 girl to claim otherwise is redonkulous lol. science and studys back it up too.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 06:06 AM
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the issue is men dont help other men, so you will have men shitting and calling out men who wear lifts. ​ women have more in group preference for women and to help each other. so they dont call each other out publicly etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 01:41 AM
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not all men want to be muscular jock looking lol. some men are cool with being naturally healthy and lean. also keep in mind some naturally ecto guys cant gain muscle and are naturally super small. it is what it is. ​ and also keep in mind a lot of those jacked guys you like are jacked because of other issues like self esteem. tons of bodybuilders are low confidence and have issues. thats why they gain muscle to cover it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 08:58 PM
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i think its easier for a girl to find a guy after 30, than it is for a man to find a girl after 30. ​ due to so many women having kids and divorce baggage. single men are more baggage free.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 08:54 PM
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most of those girls are toxic and have shit personalities on top of not being the most attractive. so if they work on both of those things, they will find a better man instead of doing all that weird toxic scheming bs.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 08:53 PM
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if "your going out with someone" that means ur not fucking others. unless your part of like a polygamist or super "liberal" activist feminist type who does weird stuff. ​ dating/going out for normal people means ur not shagging other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 08:52 PM
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yup. OP was asking why those communities exist. and my response was exactly why. because men for the last half century got told BS virtue signal advice that didnt work, so they decided to objectively look into it which today became the bluepill, redpill, and blackpill communities.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 08:49 PM
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im responding to your question about "why do those pill communities exist" ​ thats why. because for decades men got advice like that, and it never worked. so those men decided to look into it and see what the cold hard truth really is.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 08:48 PM
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could be a lot of things, and probably is a bunch of things in one. ​ like she has a shit personality, shes fat, shes unattractive, no prospects, no job, nothing going on in life. ​ basically he made a mistake cuz he was hyped up.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 01:36 AM
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well... everything would just be "bluepilled" then. lol ​ "take a shower" "just write her a nice love letter" "wear a suit on the first date" "its not that you are ugly, its your bad personality" "it doesnt matter how good or bad you look, just go up to her and ask her out with confidence!" "awww thats so sweet to ask me out, but im not interested, but i do think your cute, maybe some other girl will like you" ​ oh lordy
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 01:31 AM
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Lol no about the first part. Roids are literally cheaper than supplements. Except legit hgh. 5k is a insane huge amount for a non professional bodybuilder
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 12:32 AM
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did you have 6'3 in ur bio? thats crazy you didnt even get any matches wtf. are you obese? did ur pics look fake as fuck/staged? cuz sometimes using "professional" pics gives off a creepy vibe. gotta make it look real and spontaneous looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 10:09 PM
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"A fancy suit is good too for dates" BRUH... lol its not 1950. and also LOL at anybody getting $5k worth of roids and isnt a pro bodybuilder. that is a insane amount.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 10:06 PM
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how many matches did you get? did you do ur 100 free swipes a day? did you use good pics?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 10:00 PM
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is that more gaslighting attempts? its not normal for average guys to have to go to the darkest corners of the earth and put in decades of "self improvement" just to get a ugly obese girl with a garbage personality lol. ​ back in the day it used to be a little more even. with "looksmatches" pairing off with each other. now you have 4/10 girls being gassed up into legitimately thinking they are 8/10's and deserve wealthy good looking men while brutally rejecting equivalent 4/10 men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 09:54 PM
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simps gonna simp
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 09:50 PM
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i think its a part of how normal life should be. its a life experience, and if you miss it, you missed it. if you never had it, you will want it. and if you had it, you might say "its not a big deal", but for those that never had it, it is a big deal. kind of a few, lasted couple months each, learned a lot about how relationships should work and basic teen experiences. and its not just the relationship, its all the social benefits that come along with it like partys, logistics, going to friends,…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 09:41 PM
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its low class/degenerate and says a lot about her.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 09:14 PM
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correlation does not imply causation. ​ those guys have to resort to watching pron because they get no real girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 09:11 PM
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yes but thats not normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 09:10 PM
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correlation does not imply causation. ​ many of those guys have to resort to living in vidya games because they get no girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 09:09 PM
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i mean baggage baggage LOL. like kids and being divorced. not little petty stuff lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 09:05 PM
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im talking about actual baggage like divorcee's, women with baby fever, and single moms. girls have way more baggage than guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 04:36 AM
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idk lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 04:23 AM
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i think a older guy dating a younger women and women getting jealous is equivalent to how guys get jelly when they see a ugly fat women with a "chad" male lol. ​ basically its jealous crabs in a bucket mentality.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 01:53 AM
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in my opinion you should go with who matches you maturity wise/baggage wise. women mature way faster than men, especially socially nowadays. seems like most 30 year old women are divorced with kids. men... most men at 30 are just starting out basically and dont have baggage. ​ so no biggie for a 30 something year old dude to date like a 20 something with minimal baggage too. ​ i do despise rich old men who date girls younger, but hey, they got the money and clout so thats life son. ​ i think gir…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 01:50 AM
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this sounds like it was written as if someone read a manual on human interaction but never did it in real life tho
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 09:38 PM
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female definitely bigger lol. and more guarded off because its more fragile. but wyes way bigger
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 09:37 PM
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welcome to the real world, enjoy ur stay
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 09:27 PM
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if hes good looking hes good to go. the issue arises when his actions dont fit his looks. like a ugly guy acting confident
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 09:24 PM
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ur generalizing. not all women/men on OLD are bad lol. ​ before you know it, you've mentally blocked off all forms of meeting women lol. "you cant talk to girls at work cuz its not right, you cant approach a girl in real life cuz she might think ur creepy, you cant talk to a girl at the bar cuz she might be there with friends and not wanna be hit on" etc. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 09:22 PM
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"just be happy" ​ told to the short ugly male. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 09:20 PM
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high iq. ​ its disgusting the difference. a no effort shit personality ugly fat women profile gets 1,000 matches in a week. a average 5'10 160lb male gets 1 match a week after perfecting everything
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 09:19 PM
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its garbage that you gotta use tho. otherwise ur cutting a large % of opportunity. ​ just like some say driving is garbage, but the destination is what makes it worth it sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 09:16 PM
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it can be anything. it can even be his ambition to go to the 24/7 store late at night to buy alcohol while nobody else at the house has the ambition to go and get it. ​ thats ambition/drive. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 09:18 PM
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since women are now a large part of the work force, that marginalized 50% of mens jobs that are now held by women. so to demand men to make more, is a double standard now that women are in the workforce too. ​ i find it funny how with women making more money now and fully supporting themselves and even more than enough to support a significant other, they require a man to make more tho. men don't do that and never did. ​ i think thats a huge reason why many of those career women types never find…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 09:17 PM
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average women, 5'3, 180lbs, brown hair, brown eyes, average nothing special face, boring personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 03:03 AM
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if the obesity rate wasnt so high, i think many problems would be solved. especially because the skinny girls know they can get away with more BS cuz they know they are a smaller commodity % and more rare in todays obesity epidemic
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 08:52 PM
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nothing has been done or made to stop the biological clock lol. womens fertility degrades after late 20's, with increase in infertility and birth defects. men stay fertile longer and as long as the women is young, the man can produce a healthy child, obviously the younger the man the better but mens fertility timeclock isnt even comparable to how fast a womens expires. i have seen men in their 70s father healthy children with no issues. one man was even 94 when he became a father.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 08:47 PM
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it was a experiment that failed.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 08:24 PM
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Men find 90% of women attractive. Women only find only the top 10% of men attractive. Circa + or - 5%
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 07:50 PM
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Lol people think they dont?!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 07:03 PM
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they got old, retired, moved on. also most aren't commercially viable because PC culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 02:24 AM
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because most are fake and use fake actors and fake testimonials. even the ones that people think are legit have paid actresses chilling in stores acting like they are shopping and the cringy PUA "cold approaches" etc lol. ​ basically beyond super basic social skills and some super basic "red pill" knowledge, nothing else matters and wont get you better skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 01:51 AM
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Filtering based on race, weight, height, eye color, hair color, etc on dating apps and sites have been canceled due to PC culture. Aint gonna happen
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 10:37 PM
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Yeah of course some guys do it. But i dont think renting a $100k car is the same as a girl wearing makeup
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 11:23 PM
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Renting expensive cars is a little crazy, but yeah i agree. I think its more equivalent to men wearing lifts, and low key lying about his wealth.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 11:18 PM
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Two main niches for guys. “Prettyboys” and “adult chads”. The prettyboys are youthful, skinny, good skin, feminine, full head of hair, and usually liked by younger girls because these guys are so pretty and also less intimidating and more relatable. Then the “manly adult chad” type are older, “experienced”, daddy vibes, masculine, and do better with older women like 30+. Its just different niches. And then you have sub niches. Like kpop, emo, etc, for pretty boy. And then daddys, macho type, bik…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 11:13 PM
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Idk maybe Edward scissorhands
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 09:57 PM
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the thing is women dont approach men (unless famous/"chad") so wtf do you want men to do? sit in the corner like a wallflower and not meet anyone? ​ men HAVE to take initiative because women dont. facts
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 09:35 PM
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the amount abusive as in actually hits women, probably 2%-5%? ​ imo id say abusive women are higher because they can get away with it. probably 10-15%
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 09:31 PM
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LOL is this a joke?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 09:28 PM
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yeah i recognized that way back in the day. i remember a short guy with a slightly unattractive face, and he got more self confident, assertive and everyone started calling him arrogant, cocky, and negative shit like that. even tho he was cool and nothing wrong with him at all. he just changed from being a "wallflower" to being normal. BUT his short height and below average face held him back. basically for some people, no matter how you change or improve your "personality", your physical body m…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 08:51 PM
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imo the "more-fluid" women thing is probably because its seen as cute and silly for a girl to kiss another girl on the cheek. so they are more likely to do it. plus it gives social validation that shes "open" and a "protected class". basically more clout lol. ​ for guy to guy, not so much lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 08:40 PM
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they only "appreciate" it as something safe to go to when she wants to "settle down" from the "carousal" and live in a nice house, vacations, and stability. ​ but she will never respect him, find him attractive, or actually wanna be with him. its just for the "security" and stability. eventually she cheats and divorces him and takes money and house. always has been
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 08:38 PM
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its good to keep as many female acquaintances as possible tho. you dont have to be "friend", but be chill and acquaintances. it expands ur social circle and possibilities to meet other girls and options. ​ never be a emotional tampon friend tho
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 08:33 PM
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silly, america was actually built by indigenous women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 08:28 PM
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the reason is over the last century in the west things have gotten out of wack. due to women getting entitled, "wanting it all" but not wanting to deal with the negatives of "having it all", princess syndrome, misandry, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 08:25 PM
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i think your right. its always the women with nothing else to offer who claim "men only want sex", because in those womens case, yes that is true. ​ those girls have terrible personalities, nothing going on in life, and nothing productive going on. nothing else to offer lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 08:16 PM
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"under communism, everyone is equal! its just that some people are more equal than others" ​ for the more equal people, im sure they have better sex because they have all their needs met and are happy. but for all the regular "equal" people, they are suppressed as fuck and have garbage lives. ​ i would know, my ancestors lived under communist rule, and its terrible for the normal average people.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 08:13 PM
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doesnt matter, if you are trying, you gotta try it all. that means in real life, and online. no reason the shut yourself off from a % of possible women who may be good with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 01:51 AM
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im just showing you the flip side. how ridiculous some of these anti masculinity ideas are. sometimes you need to look at it from the other side too and compare if they all add up or if subjective agendas are at play
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 08:45 PM
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most of it is genetics. one person can take the best care but have shit skin. others can not do anything and have the best skin. ​ but you should avoid the sun, wear hats, good nutrition, occasional moisturize, and good sunscreen if you will be out for a long time. ​ one thing i've noticed is some girls think "more is better" and fall down the makeup rabbit hole and end up looking worse than if they didnt do anything at all. caking your face with makeup is the #1 way to get bad acne and skin iss…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 08:42 PM
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i agree. it validates the old "just go up to her and talk to her bro" mentality that good looking men have.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 08:36 PM
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let me explain. ​ girls have it "hard" because they have so many job offers, that its so difficult to pick the best one. ​ men have it hard because they apply to so many jobs but get zero offers back. ​ replace the word "job" with "bf/gf". now tell me, which one is really harder? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 08:35 PM
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tbh what exactly is this post asking or questioning? whats its point? i see a whole lotta paragraphs but zero substance? ​ cliffs?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 08:33 PM
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same can be said that a women subjugates all other men when she goes home with the masculine man instead of the dorky geeks. ​ it is what it is. ​ sometimes life isnt fair or equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 08:29 PM
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That says 39%… Anyways so what? Thats cool, but it doesnt make it inherently evil or “bad” to meet girls in public. In real life is the gold standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 11:14 PM
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Lol most people meet people in real life and social circle. And then online. Its prolly close. Just cuz one is small or bigger doesnt negate it. Thats removing so many options for yourself if you do that bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 11:02 PM
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he means if a 3/10 guy lifts weights, improves personality, takes a shower, gets a haircut, gets better clothes, takes care of himself, at best he will get like a 2/10 girl after trying super hard. ​ at the same time a 3/10 girl can improve herself, take a shower, style herself, and get a 5/10 guy. and brutally reject all 3/10 men even tho she herself is one.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 09:31 PM
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legit plumbers and electricians, and other trade union guys are middle class and make like $120k+ a year and live in nice suburban areas bro. and its even better than that cuz they have PENSIONS and retirement money on top of social security and good pay. ​ tired of people thinking tradesmen live in the ghetto and make like 20k a year working 80 hours a week lol. thats not reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 09:24 PM
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A lot of them are just beta soy boys trying to get pussy by being a male feminist. Its cringe and doesn’t work
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 06:21 PM
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Just because one thing means something doesnt mean it has to also mean everything else too. Hypergamy is definitely a issue with men not being able to match with roughly equal girls
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 12:05 AM
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It seems like from what i see they are “low value women” who have shit personalities and enjoy putting on a facade of “toxicity” to cope with not getting “high value males”. Like seriously what “high value male” would want to put up with a entitled low value female??? Kinda silly lmao. If they cut that bullshit and acted a little normal im sure those girls would do much better and be able to get and keep better guys
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 12:02 AM
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Being boring, “nice”, safe, is worse. And its not even a question. Those psychopathic/criminal types give girls butterfly’s because of the excitement and unknown
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 08:37 PM
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Na, you can. Thats how normal people meet. You just gotta know to read if they are receptive.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 08:27 PM
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the SMV bubble makes up for that tho. ​ a 3/10 women has 10x the SMV than a 4/10 man has.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 01:56 AM
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The bigger issue is that why is it even considered a “risk” to ask a girl out. That is literally ridiculous. It shouldn’t be. Metoo/feminism has ruin a lot of good men and potential for relationships that could have happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 12:20 AM
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Hypergamy/girls dont want a average guy, even the ugly obese girls reject regular guys lolz
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 05:41 PM
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No it describes females in nature. Even animals do it. Same thing with peacocking
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 03:47 AM
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They are working, staying home waiting for “chad”, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 09:11 PM
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The onus is on you. You are going against the grain, so back it up
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 07:46 PM
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Thats what happens when you write a book that sells a lot of copies.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 06:48 PM
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Lol is this gaslighting? I can tell youve never made a ugly obese female tinder and see how many super likes, likes, and guys flooding dm’s Cant say the same for ugly obese men, and even average looking men
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 06:14 PM
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He had a ex who looked like her too. Dude must be a player
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 06:05 PM
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Hypergamy is what women do. It doesnt apply to men. Although men are the victims of hypergamy
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 05:51 PM
1

Girls love the artsy, indie music, skinny, sad, decent looking type guy. Its a niche
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 11:14 PM
1

they just say that to remove the stigma of using online dating and to feel better. it doesnt mean anything. ​ slutty girls say that, average girls say it, good girls say it. some more, some less.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 02:16 AM
1

the easiest way is to make a tinder with realistic photos and see how many matches and girls actually wanna meet up.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 02:15 AM
23

it seems like the rates of guys "living at home"/unemployed will be rising drastically. due to the economy, inflation of costs, but also plus demoralization. as in nowadays the demoralization is put in their face overtly. how men are "dumb", goofy, awkward, and dirty. compared to smart girls who run the world! tehehe. ​ and of course average men now being considered as super low value men. clearly thats a big issue
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 02:09 AM
1

A girl can be a virgin and a “hoe” at the same time. It just means she doesnt do one thing
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 08:28 PM
2

R/femaledatingstrategy are low value women who want men way above them Who cares what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 08:25 PM
1

“Toxic masculinity” is a misandrist dog whistle. Dont even use that word
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 09:59 PM
1

Bots, scams, girls scouting for the best of the best men, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 09:27 PM
-1

As long as it’s equally socially ok to tell fat women to take better care of themselves and get healthier/stop eating Double standards
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 09:27 PM
1

You have a warped perspective. Probably from 5’11 men claiming 6’2.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 09:25 PM
0

Thats not how it works in real life lol. The 5’1 girl still considers the 5’7 guy short even tho he towers her.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 09:24 PM
3

Those weird new prostitution laws that make the hooker the victim and the “john” a dirty criminal are retarded and not logical. Thats like letting the drug dealer go and arresting the customer
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 05:21 PM
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Honestly the best way would be to make legit male friends and attend events thru/with them. That way it gives you social clout cuz ur not just some rando at a “meetup” event. You are actually a part of the party/event. That and online/app dating
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 06:20 AM
13

court/mediation all are towards the mother bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 03:00 AM
129

Because to be a single father youve gotta be one helluva guy to get full custody.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 12:54 AM
0

Those are two different age ranges bro. A girl next door is like in high school or college. A “handy man” good guy is like 40
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 11:20 PM
2

Those are actually opposites. The girl next door is more comparable to a average school athlete. A girl next door is considered above average and liked by everyone. A nice guy is usually below average and not liked.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 11:17 PM
2

A women having a better job wont get her a better man. What will is her interests, and looks. She focuses on those and she will have a better chance to meet the best man she likes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 11:14 PM
0

Cuz women are more privileged and entitled. Men got bigger things to worry about
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 11:10 PM
1

Post 2020. Actually many say post 2012 is when it went crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 05:39 PM
2

Unless shes a 10/10
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 11:29 PM
0

The issue is women abusing the law with the old “i had a sip of a wine cooler and regret it so now my ex bf goes to jail for 20 years” shtick.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 10:59 PM
11

Ummmm, most men do date below them Kinda hard for a man to get women above himself due to hypergamy
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 08:32 PM
1

because they arent BORING. ​ nice guys are boring af
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 09:40 PM
1

sort of. ​ jock/nerd is too cut and dry and only describes two phenotypes. but yeah its basically true for those 2 types tho. ​ jock and nerd are just 2 niches. alpha and beta encompasses all.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 09:39 PM
1

They ware wayy too entitled date down
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 05:16 PM
1

I think its more about the intent and power difference than the age. If the guy has lower power level and good intent, its 100% fine. If the guy has high power level and bad intents, then its not good. And can end manipulative and negative. When i say power level i mean his experience, money, and status.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 09:35 PM
1

Yes, and i think its a good thing. It gives you more potential friendships, people, skills, social, ect. Obviously not with people you find repulsive tho. But neutral people are good. And you might even find out that you do like them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 09:29 PM
2

I think its best to be with someone similar overall. If a super smart guy dates a super dumb girl he will get tired of her, and vice versa. The best relationships i had was with a girl who is “equal” in a lot of ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 09:26 PM
2

Tbh thats just 1 factor. Im not so black and white with determining if i would marry or not. Its a lot more to it than 1 subject like “potential”
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 09:24 PM
1

The biggest determination is how good looking you are and if she likes your looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 09:21 PM
2

thats not good. look at the stats. people with multiple wifes/husbands always are abused and child abuse. its not good stuff for a good family.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 04:59 PM
6

nope. its below average men are doomed to fail. average men who are blackpilled/lookspilled can use it to there advantage and actually get somewhere. ​ sadly for ugly guys no amount of knowledge can help.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 04:58 PM
5

anytime a country has wayyyyy more men than women, problems arise. and yeah, illegal immigration/"migrants" arent helping, they are like 98% fighting age males
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 04:56 PM
1

men cant marry "up". women refuse to date men "below" them
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 06:37 PM
1

DONT shave it. At most buzz it with a short guard. Shaving it will make you look “bro you look 30+ lol”. If ur like 18 and balding hard, it will be terrible for girls teens-30. Just the way it is. If ur gonna go on meds for hair loss make sure you consider the terrible side effects like penile shrinkage, sterilized, ball pain, weak erection, no drive, brain fog, some of which are permanent even if you stop finasteride. Minoxidil can cause wrinkles, dry skin, stopped collegen production, dark bag…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 09:47 PM
2

yes. especially for stuff like dating apps. ​ for girls, and guys who get girls. its a chore deciding who you wanna meet up with cuz you have multiple choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 07:32 PM
3

There is no magic solution. Either embrace the buzz cut, or go the anti hairloss route via finasteride/minoxidil/hair transplant, but note that those are very serious drugs and procedure that can have complications and side effects. Side note for young guys, full on shaving your head every day is not optimal and makes you look weird especially if young. just do a buzz cut every week.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 05:00 AM
1

Whats that about?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 09:58 PM
2

Generalized anecdote
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 11:42 PM
30

Every year people get pickier. And its the parents telling the kids thats the problem. “You only deserve the best” lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 11:40 PM
1

Mental gymnastics not even once
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 12:35 AM
23

female privilege is being paid a competent salary while being incompetent
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 10:41 PM
5

yeah but once she gets a bf she forgets about you, or she finds out you like her, its over and ends in cringe/fail. ​ lots of times its just toxic and cope
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 08:56 PM
1

i can tell you are only thinking about this without ever thinking of how men experience it. ​ think of it like this, for women dating is like having 1,000 job offers and not knowing which one to pick. ​ and for a man its like applying to 1,000 jobs and getting maybe 1 or 2 (maybe 0) of the worst job offers back. ​ which is easier? LOL yeah i thought so
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 08:36 PM
1

its a double edged sword lol. they wanna look good for the "chads", but get pissed when "ugly guys" look. ​ its a double standard, entitlement thing. basically they want all the benefits, and none of the negatives.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 08:32 PM
1

do you mean BP as in "blue pill" or "black pill"????
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 08:30 PM
4

being fat tells a lot about a person, that they dont care about themselves and prolly have mental problems causing the obesity. ​ a good looking guy can be unemployed and get girls. a unemployed man can just be down on his luck temporarily. ​ two totally different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 08:29 PM
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friendships with a variety of people is always good cuz it teaches you how to handle different situations and socially sharp. ​ but i can see how a awkward "loser" type guy being "platonic" friends with a girl to "try to be better with girls" can be a bad thing. because the awkward guy already is messed up, and he will learn even more bad habits on how to deal with women with a "female friend". he will probably end up treating every single female as a "platonic female friend" and never move forw…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 08:25 PM
2

Fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 12:21 AM
1

Na, a skinny guy is like a fat girl with big tits. Nothing special
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 01:45 AM
3

You just need to have a lot of bases covered. the more the merrier. ​ some common ones are: - height - face - muscle/perceived strength - hair - whatever race she wants you to be - decent width - voice - fitness/not fat - and more ​ lots of guys can have a mix of some REALLY GOOD traits and some really BAD traits, and still be considered very good looking. it just depends on your harmony and how it works for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 11:24 PM
5

wilding in the facts
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 08:11 PM
2

Sorta used to be. I think it also depends on the situation, the girl, and the overall vibe. and not just for girls, but a lot of things situations in general. you need to learn that doing nothing will get you nothing and is BORING, so you automatically lose and didnt even try. You also need to learn that taking chances is exciting, you dont know if you will win or fail, but either way it is alive and exciting, and if you do win at whatever you are taking a chance on, it will give you major confi…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 07:59 PM
1

women doing stuff like that can be very toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 07:48 PM
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i think its a similar cope as how "nice guys" cope about stuff about women. they know they just arent good enough but gotta come up with some reason why its the other persona fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 07:45 PM
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seems to be going the route of ancient Greece and Rome. women keep getting more and more power, messing things up, and it all collapses. ​ when things get too good, men hand it off to women to ruin lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 07:42 PM
2

im sure "nice guys" would still be perplexed why girls are going out with good looking guys who have super long rap sheets. ​ anyways, for a mainstream dating app it would never happen due to PC culture/SJW, plus dating privacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 01:34 AM
1

one things for sure you can tell if someone is compatible with you by instantly looking at them. if they are wearing lots of covid flair like "i'm vaccinated" stickers, face guard, masks, gloves, ect, you can get a idea if its gonna work or not. ​ same with online dating. you can notice the same things. ​ covid also allowed you to determine who in ur friends group is really on the same page.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 01:30 AM
4

Beggars cant be choosers. Basically a 4/10 males only choice is a ugly obese single mom lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 12:49 AM
5

yeah its crazy how the natural standards for men v women are so different. women have so much more leeway to have bad traits but still be regarded as not ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/21 10:50 PM
1

self reported stats are imo rough approximates cuz so many guys lie. i guarantee for men age 40+ its not as low as 0.3%, probably like 5.0% ​ because disabled people who cant do anything is more than 0.3% of the population. so that alone would make it way higher, and then add in all the bottom of the bottom men who never leave basement.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/21 10:45 PM
-1

i read a statistic that claimed 35% of men 18-35 are virgins.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/21 10:44 PM
1

tbh i dont even see of hear guys talk about wanting "virgin girls" at all. its not 1950 lol. stuff like that doesnt even exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/21 10:43 PM
2

the "average" person is below average in looks. yes i know sounds weird, but its true. basically the largest amount of people are not even baseline average looking, is what i am saying
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/21 10:42 PM
2

some guys might, but the reality is deep down all guys know when a girl is or isnt into them, and many times said guys can trick themselves into believing bullshit and chasing dreams that dont exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/21 01:31 AM
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“Educated” and “career” women refuse to date down. And they end up with not many options because the successful men that those kind of women lust for dont want old “educated” and “career” women
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 10:21 PM
1

its the best we have right now to describe male types. and its generally true/factual
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 07:28 PM
7

a "dad bod" is a wealthy tall man who used to be in great shape but is a little fluffy. ​ tehehe!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 07:28 PM
2

Women good, men dirty bad
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 05:54 PM
1

entitlement, hypergamy, double standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/21 08:09 PM
9

a "dad-bod" is for when celebrity male chads get a little soft between movies. not for ur average man LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/21 08:08 PM
17

high iq. its kept to the inner circle of friends due to pc culture/batshit crazy feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/21 08:07 PM
2

due to PC culture/batshit feminism, lots of guys just keep that talk to their inner circle of guy friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/21 08:07 PM
10

if she has a terrible selfish entitled shit rotten personality, is obese and doesnt care to attempt to lose weight, does lots of drugs, is a criminal and hangs out with criminals, lies, steals, cheats. ​ you can also have "successful" women who are losers who are just plain toxic to be around, selfish af, greedy, entitled, and scheme her way to the top while being extremely inconsiderate to everyone, loves drama.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/21 08:04 PM
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you will get de platformed and called a misogynist racist. ​ and also the top 10% of men will shun the idea to keep status quo
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/21 08:01 PM
1

i agree. it is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/21 07:58 PM
7

Women in high positions and high education refuse to “date down”. Which is sad. Men date date down all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 10:59 PM
1

Did you experience a HS romance/love? yes, and at the time, i put zero effort in, and it was still decent. and also basically everything else like having girls be into you, who you arent into, so you gotta deal with that, and also liking girls who may not be into you. the only thing i wish was different was putting effort in, but maybe thats a good thing i didnt because i didnt even worry about BS like "omg is my hair perfect" or stressing about "game", and it still worked out good. ​ I think th…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 08:09 PM
1

Most guys just want a normal traditional gender wife. Sadly people need to work now because of how bad everything is and how greedy the bankers and employers are.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 07:16 PM
1

Because it would make the whole woke feminist thing fall apart lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 07:13 PM
5

If you are above said persons threshold, then personality matters after that. You cant a be a ugly guy with amazing personality. That wont work. However a good looking guy with a shit personality will work
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 07:11 PM
2

Hypergamy is women wanting a man much richer and higher looking that herself
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 01:46 AM
6

female hypergamy is deff real lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 10:19 PM
1

i would say how women care about a mans height, is how men care about a womens body.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 07:46 PM
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imo i think boys around the age of 12 need to be told how things really work, and not to listen to what girls say, but to watch their true actions. you dont get a girl to like you by giving her a box of chocolate and trying to "woo" her.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 07:45 PM
10

women dont have to meet any standards to get a guy. she can be obese, ugly, with a rotten personality and get a man better than herself. ​ but for men to get a women? that is a really high bar. and due to hypergamy if he does work really hard and end up with something, she will be below him.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 10:40 PM
1

some have ego's and may try to make themselves think they are stronger cuz feminism and stuff like that, but deep down they know females are way weaker than men
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 10:38 PM
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tbh i would say on average a average shorter stocky guy is stronger than a average taller skinny guy. ​ height doesnt mean much for strength. unless you are talking a 6'8 man with massive bones. just because you are taller doesnt mean you are thicker/more sturdy, just longer ​ what matter more is bone thickness and how solid you are. TONS of tiny bone tall guys who are weak as hell. and vice versa. ​ and for sure, men are way stronger than women, even of the same size. has to due with HGH, testo…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 10:36 PM
2

resident evil village?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 01:29 AM
37

Nope. Looks come first. Then personality/behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 12:30 AM
5

not really. the feminist/sjw pendulum swung WAY too fucking far, so normal people had to swing back with facts. its not "hate" or "misogyny", its cold hard facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 10:37 PM
7

yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 10:09 PM
2

i cant speak for all of certain niches, but ive known a few and yeah they disliked crazy partying and disliked drugs. and i would agree the "average flip flop college girl" is way more wild than a "goth girl"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 09:45 PM
5

lmao e-girls do that dumb cross eye thing with tongue out. so cringe and attention seeking and wanting more "only fans" fans
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 09:43 PM
2

new romantic look is badass and original af. i wish that came back. the generic goth look of the 90s was cool for its time but i think it should not come back for some time.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 09:40 PM
2

um no. everybody can have a culture. we dont see white girls going around saying the current female rap culture is exclusionary to white girls, due to the big "ebony" WAP/Body ody ody ody ody culture going around right now. ​ having a specific style, culture, ect, is just that, a style or culture. its not exclusionary. ​ posts like your are why people are fed up with sjw's who are obsessed with race get over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 09:35 PM
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not really. lots of people have niches. look at the female rap industry right now with WAP and Body. all about being a "ebony" with a big body. so you think that is exclusionary to white people too? cuz ur saying the vice versa. ​ it is what it is. every group of people can have a specific culture bro. its not racist. it just is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 08:35 PM
2

you can try to be whatever you want. like a white kid dressing like a rapper. or a black girl dressing goth. but we are talking generally what goth is.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 07:44 PM
1

lol only a very small % of men has a "sex doll". probably less than 1%
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 07:42 PM
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the halo effect of good looks, plus the natural confidence/socialization that the good looking guy has makes everything smoother and just work better. ​ so in a lot of cases yes. but its also the halo effect of good looks too. ​ thats not to say good looking guys cant be creepy, they deff can. but they "get away" with it more cuz they have the looks to back it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 07:41 PM
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cuz if we said that about rap, people would flood in and call everyone racists. ​ just leave it be for what it is dude. rap is black history, goth is white history. obviously a small % can be outliers but doesnt change what it is
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 07:31 PM
5

Lol dude you didnt live in the usa in the 90’s did you? Goth was middle class white suburban life. Maybe “goth” started in the uk in the 70’s, but once it hit america and took over in the 90’s it solidified what it was.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 07:26 PM
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e-girls looks more like clowns. srs. but yeah they are deff a rip off of goth added in with some overly sexual gamer girl bs. like 99% of e-girls are gen z, thats why its so cringe. ​ most goth ended in like 2003, and was the biggest in the 90's
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 07:06 PM
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its just a niche. and its a whole hell of a lot better than the bull dyke buzzed head thats really popular right now with girls. ​ the "goth girl" niche seems more like shy outcast type girls. so i can see why tons of guys would like that cuz many guys are outcasts too. plus they look cool with the black clothes, white skin, black hair, and semi creepy look, its mysterious. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 07:01 PM
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we are talking in general. just like how hiphop is a black urban thing, and goth is more of a suburban white thing. ​ you dont have to interject PC cultures into everything lmao. it is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 07:00 PM
2

Feminism has always been a communist thing
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 06:27 PM
3

isnt a follower.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 04:55 PM
1

feminisation/pussification of men by the elite. to create a more pliable society with no pushback ​ even look at the rap industry now. they making rappers be effeminate scrawny 115lb skinny pant sagging too.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 04:54 PM
1

Two for men are not having to sit to piss. And not getting “catcalled” (unless ur a 10/10 male model)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 12:31 AM
0

Because a lock that is opened by every key is a shitty lock... but a key that opens every lock is a master key
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 12:30 AM
0

yes. men are the hunter/gatherer who deals with stuff, and women are the nurturer inside the cave. ​ sure you can try to break free from nature and defy it. but men have higher test, hgh, and other things that make them naturally more capable at their natural roles.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/21 01:24 AM
3

Gotta have the basics covered like looks tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 09:32 PM
37

good looking people/fame/wealth VS ugly broke ppl.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 01:42 AM
0

being short alone wont 100% ruin ur dating life, but it will deff drastically cut it down a large %. just like other undesirable traits. the more bad traits, the worse off.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 12:11 AM
6

women may say one thing... but do the other. ​ men just flat out say the truth. that short men are undesirable sadly.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 12:11 AM
5

i prefer my age, a little older, or a little younger. ​ a lot of guys prefer younger cuz younger girls are less fat, and better looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 02:12 AM
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SMV has gone so crazy and hypergamy lately that women dont really "hit a wall" anymore tbh. even a 45 year old fat women can have thousands of matches and way better looking guys willing to take her out
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 02:09 AM
3

looks, money, confidence/social skills/low inhib
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 02:07 AM
1

That the man is just a useful idiot and he has lots of money and prospects. Even way back i knew thats how it goes. The ugly fat rich kid who had a huge house, huge pool, no care in the world, trust fund, always had a 9/10 gf he would be with
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 07:39 PM
11

Life/reality isn’t fair or balanced. Sadly
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 07:36 PM
1

Tf we talking about india? We are talking about the west
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 06:07 PM
0

In shape ugly guys should be picky over fat girls tho. That is acceptable to reject fattys cuz ur not fat urself
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 06:03 PM
1

and even maybe free gov welfare money for ugly/disabled ppl to see legal escorts
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 11:27 PM
2

i mean as in the norm. with whore houses and stuff. in europe it seems wayyyyyy less stigmatized.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 11:15 PM
2

yeah. cant criticize women in any way in 2021 lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 08:40 PM
1

just because you saw a anecdote doesnt negate something else lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 08:39 PM
2

Probably making prostitution legalized and socially acceptable like in Europe. it would take women down a notch because now they know that a average or ugly man can easily get a girl much "hotter" than herself. and that may help lower womens overinflated egos.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 08:36 PM
9

women have a much easier life on the bottom/mid tier things in life. ​ men have a harder time at the bottom/mid tier things in life, but have the capability to succeed much farther than women can in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 08:32 PM
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Lots of things are "wrong" with fat girls. ​ - fat is objectively ugly and repulsive, it tells others something is wrong with said person (maybe except for guys who have some kinda obesity/feeder fetish) ​ - fat is extremely unhealthy, and tells others that said person also has self control issues and doesnt care about their health. ​ - being "pro fat" and HAES is a cope and toxic. and again, tells others that said person has issues. ​ basically all of those things are bad and aint nobody got ti…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 08:28 PM
2

it is the great equalizer that lets you see the truth of how you really feel without a sugar coated feeling. it can go either way. good or bad. ​ if you feel like shit, regret, disgust or whatever, it means u prolly dont really like her and are just a low standard man whore and lowered ur standards way too low and thought with ur dick. ​ if you feel happy, chill, content, "everythings ok", "love", not wanting to leave, then that means you actually like her as a person. ​ dont be a hater, im just…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 03:22 AM
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they wouldnt do that lol. it would be regulated the opposite. for male drone slave workers to do all the hard work. and less women
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 03:11 AM
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yeah people who do that are toxic and ignorant. its like they hear something that may be a legit fact that goes against what ideology they are or whatever views the hold, so they reject it and cope by saying "bro thats just incel shit" and "na, the numbers arent that bad, just take a shower and dont be misogynist", and possibly ban you lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 02:57 AM
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honestly i dont think i would change anything. right now i am really compatible with a lot of different "types", and like them. ​ so tbh me making things more "broader" would just be changing myself to like obese women and super ugly obese women. and i have more self respect than that to go that low.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 02:55 AM
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because those are surface level subs for "bluepilled normies". and are politically correct. so you cant criticize anybody except "straight white men"
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 02:53 AM
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hypergamy will fuck it up. first 6'8 will be "perfect tall", then girls will wanna one up each other. before you know it dudes are walking around at 16 feet tall.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 02:50 AM
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interesting theory. ​ but i also think fat women promote it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 02:48 AM
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Idk anything about those guys. But most “commercialized” redpill stuff is cringe and for suckers. The real legit info is for free and on forums for red/black pill
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 12:20 AM
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its just society denigrating men. as usual
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 08:24 PM
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the whole thing about banning "slut shaming" has a negative effect on society. ​ being a slut/slutty behavior isnt a good thing. and its toxic af for people growing up.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 08:22 PM
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yeah balding is deff a factor. id say obesity and "giving up" is even bigger tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 08:19 PM
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tanning/sun, cigarettes, alcohol, no nutrition, and fatness are things that ruin you. and specifically for women makeup abuse ruins their skin ​ i know some 40 year olds who could pass as 20 somethings. srs. men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 08:17 PM
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Really smart post. I bet “nice guys” will hate this post lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 11:09 PM
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It depends on ur looks. If ur ugly, fat, crap style, you wont get anything
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 08:12 PM
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Blackpill is facts on how life really be. Redpill is to help navigate life Black/red is legit
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 08:10 PM
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If you legit like the activity and arent gonna run “pua game” and “pick-up” on all the girls on day 1, then its cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 08:06 PM
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Cuz gay guys arent hypergamous like women
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 08:04 PM
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obviously hypergamy has gotten a little worse the past 5 years, but overall similar.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 01:39 AM
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"Any discussions about information that might paint women in a negative light" so facts may not be allowed if they arent the "correct" type? LOL wtf ​ WTF, why no new rule on the vice versa for misandry tho????
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 11:20 PM
1

in developed nations it would be female privileged.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 11:19 PM
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its not about "cuz he cant get women his own age", its cuz men and women age differently, including mentally. ​ a guy whos been working hard, no kids, no baggage, and is say 35 for example is a lot different than a 35 year old women whos been divorced, 2 kids, and dead end job. those are two extremes but you get the idea. the man shouldnt settle for the used up women when he himself is still fresh. ​ basically the younger you go, like 21 VS 35 , the less baggage and issues. ​ plus generally men …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 11:17 PM
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i think that is a extremely accurate write up.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 11:12 PM
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if you are talking about cringy guys going out like some kind of ladies man/"pickup artist", yeah that is a thing of the past. ​ but being a normal person meeting people in real life is the normal and baseline for everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 08:06 PM
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lmao so true. this is a good post. high iq
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 07:58 PM
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of course its important. its nearly as important as having food, water, air. we are human beings.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 07:55 PM
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fds seem like entitled demanding volcel females who want cake ​ thats not a good thing lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 07:54 PM
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you need to have all boxes checked for "love". and lust is one box to check off.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 08:12 PM
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what is a "pickmeisha"? a ugly girl who wants a chad?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 07:39 PM
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if ur wrists are sub 7 inches around
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 07:38 PM
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a male virgin is a lot different than a female virgin. two totally different beasts
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 07:34 PM
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Incels are wayyyyy too diverse to be white supremacists lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 01:33 AM
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Linking incels to being “nazis” is whats toxic. Like 35% of all men 18-35 are incels. Thats a large generalization dont ya think?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 12:35 AM
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its not that anyone cares. its just sharing information and acknowledging that some people are more well off than others.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 11:03 PM
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i think everyone has a range, not just a single specific number. cuz like you said, u have a gf now who looks way better than girls in the past who rejected you. ​ leagues definitely exist, and people who deny it are dumb or just ignorant about in depth factors like leagues. ratings/leagues ARE fluid tho. they can change from day to day, week to week, and also vary a little by others perceptions and niches.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 11:02 PM
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whats with these topics? this exact topic was posted yesterday too. ​ "homeless people should be happy they dont have food, cuz sometimes food gives you a stomach ache" ​ wtf.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 10:57 PM
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i dont think high value men date those female dating strategy girls lol. most of those girls are bitter and low value
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 10:56 PM
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Online dating is tough for men because the ratio is 100 men fighting for every 1 female. And the opposite for women. And also hypergamy. Which in turn means the low end girls are rejecting their looksmatches, leaving lots of men with nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 03:56 PM
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basically it means dont be her bitch. dont suck up to her, dont treat her like shes better than you, ect. ​ its really simple. basically just dont be a "nice guy"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 05:15 AM
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some people might not understand cuz they are still in the "bluepilled" mode. and any talk about men/women outside of that bluepilled bubble is considered "toxic" to them lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 05:12 AM
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as you say yourself you just discovered it. you have a lot to learn. its not all "toxic misogynist incel" stuff bro. ​ most of it is founded in facts and the truth. what do you mean "sharing incorrect data", from what i've seen its all truths generally.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 02:32 AM
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tbh seems like ur looking at it from the incel angle. ​ but for normal people, that redpill/blackpill stuff is good to know as it exposes you to the reality of how things work and if you understand that you can make better choices to be successful in life/women
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 02:18 AM
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no its not a good thing lol. ​ teen and young adult men shouldn't have to "put in decades of time to reflect and self improve" lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 01:35 AM
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high value can mean a mix of things. height, face, race, wealth, status, clout, how many followers you have, ect. ​ it depends on what said person values in others.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 01:33 AM
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Its my opinion. Obesity is ugly, and it is a choice
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 09:59 PM
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A lot of goth/alt type girls like me. And then also shy girls. Sometimes drug/lowlife girls like me a lot too. A few latino and black girls liked me too I guess im versatile lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 08:28 PM
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I disregard whatever redpill youtubers say. Its all about money with them. Ur better off on forums getting advice from people with no agendas or motives to make money
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 08:25 PM
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Men date equivalent and lower. Its women who date equivalent and higher exclusively
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 08:24 PM
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Yeah, the op is like opposite lol. Men always date equivalent and lower. Its women who date equivalent and higher.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 08:15 PM
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Plus size women are ugly lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 08:14 PM
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Im only on tinder, am i missing out with bumble and hinge?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 11:29 PM
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i think everyone (men and women) should strive for someone slightly better than themselves, while also improving themselves at the same time. and for the most part everyone would end up with someone similar to them. some getting better luck, some getting slightly worse luck. ​ the whole socially acceptable culture with fat ugly rotten personality girls demanding tall rich "chads" is ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 08:57 PM
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yes
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 08:55 PM
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i would get the facts and act accordingly/logically. dont start drama, but if its legit, then get her away from the guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 08:48 PM
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balding and being bald is a CURSE. You don't understand until it has happened to you. ​ Here is my experience: When i was a teen i would say i did above average with girls, I was very tall, lean(zero muscle tho), and had decent hair. when i was in my late teens i started male pattern baldness(norwood reaper) aggressively. it sucked, because everyone else looked 19, and i looked "like 30" according to my peers. ​ So what i did to try and "even it out" was to gain muscle, even tho it never can mak…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 08:40 PM
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No no no! Lol i was saying that was a high iq post. Like the poster was smart for what he/she said. Girls dont care about iq lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 12:42 AM
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i agree. but i will say the larger the difference, the higher the chances of it being "toxic" tho. but not all are.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 09:13 PM
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With single fat ugly girls, i have my pick. but i chose not to. i have had fat average face girls saying "wtf is wrong with you?" "you should ask me for my number" "arent we going to go on a date?". but tbh i dont want fat/ugly girls. and my choice is reasonable because i am not fat and i am not ugly. (not saying im hot shit, but definitely multiple points above these girls) ​ The lowest i will go is like 4/10. it seems the demands from girls above 4/10 skyrockets, with those girls all wanting a…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 09:08 PM
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thanks for being honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 09:01 PM
1

10 matches are nothing if ur male
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 09:00 PM
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power, status, aesthetics, money. ​ thats basically it. and they are all intertwined.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 08:58 PM
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men and women can be friends. but for it to work they both need to legitimately want nothing out of it. otherwise yeah, they cant be friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 08:29 PM
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na. the dynamic is way different. ​ a lot of guys dont realize that, and end up perma friendzoned and dont know how to be a partner
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 08:28 PM
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high iq. ​ women are attracted to less men now cuz tons of men arent really men anymore, they are girls "gay best friend" who happens to be straight. that is how men act nowadays and are personality wise. girls like those guys are friends, but not as a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 08:25 PM
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it can only help so much. and if you overplay ur hand, you might end up looking cringe.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 01:44 AM
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no, hes just being honest. and in some cases confidence , better clothes, swag, style isnt even enough to make any girls like you. just like he said. ​ but to further add to his post, ima say the parents who move to completely different cultures like moving from india to europe, that is soooo messed up for the children. because they wont fit in unless they grow up to be model tier looks, famous, or rich. otherwise they will be what the other guy said, out of place and undesirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 01:36 AM
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seems like ur just arguing semantics. ​ a lot of the redpill/blackpill needs to be said for others to learn. especially young guys so they dont fall into the bluepill clown friendzone trap. ​ obviously its dumb to sit around for decades learning about redpill/blackpill and not actually use that knowledge to improve. ​ the best case scenario for men is to spend some time learning redpill/blackpill and use that knowledge to play whatever hand they got dealt the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 07:39 PM
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People still stuck in the bluepill would call you a “nice guy” cuz ur pointing out good looking guys with shit personality get girls lol They dont wanna leave the bluepill. The blackpill is the truth
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 05:37 PM
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google promiscuity divorce rate ​ tons of studys
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 05:06 AM
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i have seen a study before that showed promiscuous women with higher number counts means the higher the rate she will not be satisfied in marriage and have a higher divorce rate.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 04:52 AM
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yes. i actually have multiple anecdotes of real life alpha/beta females. ​ two girl-friends that i know. they are decent friends. but one is clearly a natural alpha female leader and the other is a follower/beta female. you can tell right away who is who, by everything. looks, body language, speech, demeanor, attitude, ect. ​ it kind of is what it is. some things dont even need to be explained.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 07:17 PM
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most women end up with a guy a few years older it seems.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 07:13 PM
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even low value females get hit up by tons of low value men, and also maybe some average level men. ​ so they arent comparable to low value men. ​ a low value women would be, fat, ugly, doesnt take care of herself, shit personality, does lots of drugs, ect.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 07:11 PM
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nope. and hell no for the second one lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 07:10 PM
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i would say 5/10 is "above average" looks, because most people are like a 4/10 to 4.5/10 ​ used to browse truerateme so i know about ratings lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 06:35 PM
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basically. but even then you can do everything right and max ur stats out in every category and it still may not be enough to attract any women and you will have to try extremely hard to get a undesirable women. just the way it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 02:02 AM
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Many are confused between looksmatch and SMV match. (Sexual Market Value) ​ both exist, but are vastly different things. ​ a 4/10 male and a 4/10 female are looksmatched, but not SMV matched. a SMV match would be a 4/10 female with a 6/10 male because of hypergamy. or a rich 4/10 male with a 6/10 female. ​ ur SMV is determined on a variety of factors like money, status, fame, height, face, race, looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 01:56 AM
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"cold approach" is the default way to meet people. absolutely fine. the only issue is if you mean some fat ugly guy wearing a anime t-shirt spam approaching hundreds of women in a short amount of time. thats social ineptitude and cringe. ​ ur mileage will vary based on how good looking you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 01:52 AM
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i dont know what any of those guys are. but i will say from all the pua/redpill guys ive seen, most are cringe and feeding BS. its all about making money too, that comes first. so they over complicate, and gotta up sell. lol to make it seem like they have all these complex tricks and secrets to get girls. ​ i like blackpill stuff better. its more grounded in what real life is all about.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 01:40 AM
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who doesnt. common sense. maybe some people suck at reading people, idk
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 05:55 AM
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i think stuff like that is mainly a virtue signal or "advertisement" of what kinda girl she is. usually girls like that are into freaky stuff. so i mean if thats what you want its fine, but if you are a square she might be a problem for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 01:49 AM
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i've seen that subreddit and what they say is true to an extent, but a lot of it is just copied incel lingo geared for women. a lot of them are just bitter toxic girls trying to "one up" male incels lol. ​ what was the other female sub like that was banned? i forgot what it was called. i think those subs should be allowed, just like male oriented equivlent subs. if you have one, you gotta have them all.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 01:47 AM
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being friendzoned never works. never hide ur intentions. from the beginning make it known you wanna be partners with her, not her friend. if she rejects thats ok, at least you saved time instead of doing the friendzoned crap. ​ some guys are afraid of getting rejected so they would rather take the "safe" route and be friends with her just to be around her, and then later on being let down when he finds out she sees him as a a-sexual male friend emotional tampon.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 01:42 AM
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thats just one aspect to many parts of it. but yeah thats true. ​ the whole thing with making women compete with men is toxic. the gender roles need to be more natural. also its cringe af having women working just to spend $20k a year on daycare for the kid, a couple thousand a year on work clothes/outfits, couple grand on daily coffees before work/lunch/on way home from work. before you know it, it costs more for a women to work than what she makes lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 01:38 AM
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being fat is basically a choice unless you are mentally deficient, or have a rare illness. ​ comparing being fat to being short isnt comparable. cuz one is a lifestyle choice, and the other is genetics that you cant change.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 01:33 AM
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oh yeah. i dont mean lots of people do it. a very small % of guys do it. but im saying basically everyone can remember back in time some dude getting picked on for no reason. happens everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 01:32 AM
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some go full blown femnazi and embrace that toxic ideology and never get married/never have kids. and some get desperate and marry the first half decent guy once she starts to worry shes getting old (like age 30+), but then those end in divorce cuz hes not good enough or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 01:29 AM
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what are we talking about again? lol i was just saying its common everywhere where bullys randomly punch someone cuz "they dont like them" for no reason other than looks. and that a lot of those people learn to stop that after like age 18, and the ones that dont end up in jail cuz they are dumb and do crimes
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 01:25 AM
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it doesnt happen to everyone. but to some people it does sadly.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 02:08 AM
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whoever has the most traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 10:55 PM
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i think its a wide variety. some are good looking but have toxic rotten personalities, and some are ugly looking for a easy way out with tips/tricks. also a lot of self hating people of all races. ​ overall seems super toxic
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 09:50 PM
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Of course improving helps. but your end result can vary alot. some may get more mileage based on pre determined genetic factors, and you can only "self improve" so much till you hit the limit. ​ Being tall and muscular are a huge bonus. it makes guys wanna be ur friend automatically, and makes more girls be into you automatically. ​ When i was young, tall and lean i did decently without much effort or thought at all. i wish back then i knew about self improvement/lifting cuz i would have done 10…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 09:48 PM
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its common everywhere. its just when you get older those people end up in jail.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 09:38 PM
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i agree. you can only fake as much confidence as you can LOOK it. otherwise you look creepy af or weird, and thats even worse than a ugly short guy whos humble.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 09:14 PM
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for women: ​ for casual hes gotta be: - tall - dimorphic - aggressive - low inhib - attractive ​ for long term marriage: - status - "security" - tall - money - job - prospects - seems like would be good father
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 09:06 PM
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