4hhsumm Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
11	Advice for non-infidelity situations	Getting Started	4hhsumm	/r/Divorce_Men	09/09/24 01:21 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Can’t drive myself to have a relationship with my kids after separation and divorce. Seconded.	/r/Divorce_Men	20/12/24 03:40 PM
4	Can’t drive myself to have a relationship with my kids after separation and divorce. What a sociopath. How long were you together? When did you find out?	/r/Divorce_Men	20/12/24 03:24 PM
3	Can’t drive myself to have a relationship with my kids after separation and divorce. Sorry man, that’s brutal. She was seeing this guy for 20 yrs?!?!	/r/Divorce_Men	20/12/24 03:18 PM
0	Leaving my pregnant wife …says the person who accused an active and proud papa of being a deadbeat dad. Nope, you clearly need to have your head surgically removed from your fourth point of contact.	/r/Divorce_Men	17/12/24 01:01 AM
5	Leaving my pregnant wife You’re not happy together and she made a selfish, shitty decision—that is going to impact this child for the rest of their life. You two do need to split.	/r/Divorce_Men	16/12/24 01:50 PM
6	Leaving my pregnant wife That’s funny, my three kids out in the living room, getting ready to leave for elementary school in a few minutes, are living proof of just how full of shit you are.	/r/Divorce_Men	16/12/24 01:46 PM
2	Leaving my pregnant wife Pssst…your judgmental asshole side is showing!!	/r/Divorce_Men	16/12/24 01:25 PM
-9	Wife suggesting we won’t make it as a married couple. All because of Trump. WRONG. The statement “more than half the country voted for Trump” is objectively incorrect in several ways: Voter turnout: Approximately 159,738,337 total ballots were cast out of a voting eligible population (VEP) of 242,077,783, representing about 65.99% of eligible voters[8]. This means that a significant portion of the country did not vote at all. Popular vote: Trump did not win the popular vote. He received nearly 73 million votes compared to Harris’s 68 million[7]. While this is a signific…	/r/Divorce_Men	08/11/24 05:39 PM
-4	Wife suggesting we won’t make it as a married couple. All because of Trump. Preach. Also, fuck all of you idiots that are downvoting this voice of reason. This is exactly why we can’t have nice things anymore.	/r/Divorce_Men	08/11/24 05:30 PM
2	Told wife I was leaving church, and she’s wanting divorce Damn man, so sorry this is happening. As an ex-mo myself—born into the cult and got out as a teenager, long story—I saw this mental and emotional abuse on a regular basis growing up. So glad for you that you now see it for what it is. Also, isn’t that notebook app just absolutely incredible?? I was just using it again moments ago with academic papers. The ‘audio overview’ feature is probably my favorite. And I got to hear Steven Johnson) a couple weeks ago—the guy that basically made that thing …	/r/Divorce_Men	08/11/24 02:53 AM
2	Wife had an affair So messed up! I’ll never understand the level of sociopathy—or perhaps sheer arrogance—it takes to do that to your partner of 25+ yrs.	/r/Divorce_Men	04/11/24 07:07 PM
2	Wife had an affair About a year is what you know so far? Damn, so sorry my man. Very glad you’ve got such good friends that wouldn’t tolerate that sh*t.	/r/Divorce_Men	04/11/24 06:58 PM
2	Wife had an affair Yeah, legal advice is the right place to start. Hell, she may even owe you alimony, but I have no idea. Make a plan and continue gathering information before you say anything else to her.	/r/Divorce_Men	04/11/24 06:49 PM
8	Caught my wife cheating and I'm gutted There’s some good advice in here. But don’t stay for the kids. She decided you and the family were expendable—believe her. Chump Lady, grey rock/180. Glad you’re starting a gym so soon too!!	/r/Divorce_Men	29/10/24 10:22 PM
4	Son, 5 yo Not doing well with divorce That’s the thing—she’s being a shitty parent and it’s not your responsibility to fix her mess. Kids are walking bullshit detectors, and she sounds absolutely chock full of it.	/r/Divorce_Men	02/10/24 09:13 PM
1	She wants me out but I do the majority of day to day care for our children, I work from home, and I have no one in the area UpdateMe	/r/Divorce_Men	29/09/24 05:05 PM
2	Divorced out of the blue Man, I love you so much for this—for trying to normalize the very real struggle. We do need support, yet we’re so often socialized to suck it up, stuff those feelings way down deep, and be “tough”. It’s fucking stupid, and toxic.	/r/Divorce_Men	28/09/24 12:16 AM
3	The First Night without at the Kids.... Feels bad man.	/r/Divorce_Men	10/09/24 11:29 PM
1	Advice for non-infidelity situations Thanks for sharing your story. That does sounds unhealthy, and I’m glad you were able to finally leave the emotional abuse. We do have kids, and they’re still young. So I don’t even know how to make a separation work if we did split.	/r/Divorce_Men	09/09/24 10:01 AM
2	Advice for non-infidelity situations That makes good sense. In our case, she never goes away for very long, at most a long weekend. I wonder what would happen if she did.	/r/Divorce_Men	09/09/24 09:58 AM
2	Advice for non-infidelity situations Thanks man.	/r/Divorce_Men	09/09/24 09:56 AM
1	Advice for non-infidelity situations Yeah, good point. I think there is a large amount of accumulated conflict that was never properly resolved. And part of me is wondering if it can be resolved now.	/r/Divorce_Men	09/09/24 09:55 AM
2	Advice for non-infidelity situations Thanks guys, this is helpful.	/r/Divorce_Men	09/09/24 09:52 AM