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Newsflash: all the good ones are married by 25. You want to wait for the girls to get off the dick-carousel? What do you think your chances of landing a 30 year old virgin are?
/r/askRPC03/12/19 07:15 PM
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Where the virgins at? A good question as target rich environ helps. This study says quite a few church-goers are: https://ifstudies.org/blog/sex-and-the-single-evangelical I have seen other studies report that virginity is rising, so don’t despair. Though younger seems to be a better bet. Also I think 1 year of work experience is good to show her stability. But do a little work yourself, read sidebar. Glad you’ve been enjoying her company, now think to your self am I desperate or is she really a…
/r/askRPC03/12/19 03:46 AM
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Is she a debt-free virgin without tattoos? Is she fat? -Mental illness doesn’t fully present until age 25. +1 on relationship with Dad and parents still married. -consider how her mom looks Have you done anything 1:1 outside of church with her? Have you been able to attract other girls? Smelling Oneitis here and not abundance.
/r/askRPC02/12/19 09:30 PM
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Q: What’s the motivation for date night? A: Because I enjoy my wife and want to have 1:1 fun with her while exploring interesting or gratifying experiences. Such as a Restaurant I haven’t been to, or a hike or walk in a ice part of town I haven’t been to. Bedtime: if she gets up earlier, she’ll go to sleep earlier. Her mission is you and the kids, not Facebook.
/r/askRPC30/11/19 05:37 PM
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NMMNG helped me so much because I was totally ignorant of the concepts and it helped me identify the situations in real time, like seeing the matrix. Your comments reveal similar awareness which I hope will lead you to be more confident, assertive and eventually attractive. Case in point about your lifting 405 to motivate attracting your wife- great job recognizing that. I lift totally for me, and my family benefits. Also I chuckle at the quote “Women want the men that other women want to bang a…
/r/RPChristians28/11/19 07:10 AM
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Please read no more mister nice guy again. You’re ignoring your self care for sleep, fun, and family time. You are responsible for your happiness. Billions of people have figured out how to manage their time and stress, maybe you’re overstretched? Nobody care about your sacrifices and efforts and being a plow horse. You need to learn how to sell yourself and ideas. Why should your wife join you at conference? Covert contract for sex if she joins?
/r/RPChristians22/11/19 06:51 AM
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Dude you’re crushing it, very motivating!
/r/RPChristians15/11/19 06:37 AM
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Do. You. Even. Lift. Bro? Instead of playing games, read the sidebar and lift. There are billions of happy, satisfied, loving people, you can too if you do the work.
/r/RPChristians15/11/19 06:33 AM
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Step 1: pray to follow God’s will to help understand your mission. Did you read the sidebar yet??
/r/RPChristians15/11/19 06:29 AM
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I don’t think the OP was promoting communism intentionally, but naive to share as a positive example. Sort of like posting a picture of a swastika and saying it’s an interesting example of geometry. Are there not better examples of Christian zeal? Why tolerate a zeal for evil?
/r/RPChristians14/11/19 08:17 PM
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What is not clear to you?
/r/RPChristians13/11/19 07:20 PM
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I meant little results with sex- isn’t that why you’re here? Sex only 2x/mo is a sign something is wrong. I wouldn’t give up bad sex because I’d lose my mind going to nothing. What are you doing to improve your game? Try focusing on displays of anger/frustration and stress. You probably shouldn’t be feeling these. How can you eliminate these sources that are super unattractive? You wrote 10 different goals and missed all of them, try just 3, hit them, incorporate into your habits, then add a new…
/r/RPChristians13/11/19 07:16 PM
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Everything I read about lifting says recovery needs 8 hrs sleep. Also you have way too many goals, it’s going to be tough to give your attention and you’ll get discouraged. It’s been a year and you’ve seen little results - something is going on. You’re confusing activity with accomplishment. This is very needy and beta: “ this evening I'll give you a super hot and awesome massage with some big time strings attached." It’s not a transaction, that’s the important of outcome independence. The whole…
/r/RPChristians13/11/19 05:19 PM
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This is disgusting to see this view and toleration, let alone promoting this evil in a Christian forum. This screed should only be an example of the fanaticism of satanic influence. I pray the author repented of his choices and deeds and begged for the Lord’s mercy. There are endlessly better examples of mission, here is one: If God causes you to suffer much it is a sign that He has great designs for you and that He certainly intends to make you a saint. And if you wish to become a great saint, …
/r/RPChristians13/11/19 06:43 AM
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Hey- it’s not going to get better until you do the work. Whining and acting a victim won’t help. Write down your goals- finish studies, career etc. if you hate a job figure out a better option. Instead of playing video games, learn to quit porn. Don’t waste your hard earned money on trading/gambling.
/r/RPChristians24/10/19 06:02 AM
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Careful not to confuse activity with accomplishment. I got my own squat rack in my house because the local fitness gym didn’t have them, I hear that PF is lacking too.
/r/RPChristians11/10/19 12:56 AM
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“Be attractive, don’t be unattractive.” This is the key principle, he’s not displaying a lot of attractive behavior. Going Rambo with finances where she’s done a good job. Where’s the fun? Where’s the partnership? She’s being a good teammate, had she done anything wrong other than decline his needy, covert-contract, bitter self? This is classic I work hard and provided and I’m a good boy so you should bang me behavior. That’s not how female attraction works. What has he done to improve his Game …
/r/RPChristians09/10/19 10:23 PM
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Wow - this is a great example of ignoring the rule that you can’t negotiate attraction. You’re like a scientist describing your life, detailing all the plants and trees but you can’t see the forest. Look at her words that you wrote, all feelings. She doesn’t care about the dollars, she’s feeling unlead, unloved, and dry as the Sahara. All these tools are about fixing feelings: AA, STFU, pressure flip- all about feelings dude! Your so caught up in process, you’re more interested in just banging a…
/r/RPChristians09/10/19 06:23 PM
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Why do you work 13-15 hours in a day? Are you being outgoing confident and fun with your wife? How many times do you make her laugh in a day? Why do you think you’re not having the frequency of sex you want?
/r/RPChristians26/09/19 08:40 PM
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Total money makeover -Dave Ramsey. Life changing.
/r/askMRP10/09/19 09:04 PM
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It’s a virtuous cycle when things are good, or a vortex of suck when it’s not. There’s a lot of good writing on being the leader. If you and her are “too tired” that lets you know something is wrong. You need to design your life in a way to make it happen. Is it too much on your plate? Not fun and attractive? You just in your head not initiating? Figure it out Captain. You made this vow to God too, do the work to make it great and fun. She’s the oldest teenage, she doesn’t know how to fix her fe…
/r/RPChristians07/09/19 04:06 AM
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So you gave sex a 3, the lowest score, but you say you’re spending less time pursing that area. If you’re not attractive to your wife, what makes you think you’d be attractive to other women? This area ties into others. When she’s attracted to you , she’s more relaxed with you taking the leading in other areas, trusting her future with you. The shit tests are a result of her level of attraction to you. Fix her feelz dude, practice game, be fun and attractive to others.
/r/RPChristians06/09/19 06:31 PM
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Re-read Total Money Makeover, best personal finance book I’ve ever read. If you want to make progress on the snowball, pay the debt first, then at end of month you won’t have money left to waste :)
/r/RPChristians06/06/19 04:41 AM
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No don’t join the Marines!! please go talk with the Air Force. No ROTC??? Why do 10x the work and misery for the same pay and less options? Call up the CIA recruiters and ask them who they hire, it ain’t Marines! Yes please get more perspectives
/r/RPChristians16/05/19 04:38 AM
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Here’s the good post on validation: https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/ab7vt5/validation_needs_that_can_poison_your_sex_life/ I’m married, that’s why I’m here, and since finding this about 8 mo ago it’s been so effective and inspirational. I want to give back to this community. They say 1 mo for every year married, but I saw huge improvements quickly. My lifts suck because it’s only been 8 mo, but after not lifting for 10+ years, I’ve haven’t missed more than a week since. For comm…
/r/RPChristians16/05/19 04:28 AM
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You are so deep in you’re head you can’t see you’re stepping on your dick. I can sense the anxiety and stress from just reading your writing. You are also not leading your family. Stop looking to your wife for permission. Stop looking to her for direction. Remember, captain/first officer. Be a leader. Captains don’t get stressed with life, it’s doesnt wash over them. She is sensing your lack of confidence. If you’re too busy that means you can’t handle it. Start cutting the nonsense out of your …
/r/RPChristians15/05/19 09:34 PM
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So still not getting laid? I can bench press about 40% more than my wife weighs, I think we should always be asking for the wife’s height/weight in these posts as overweight female is a clear sign of mental illness. You won’t progress without rejecting your ego. We’re all here because we’re trying to improve. we’re all sinners here, I’m not trying to shame you but if you’re too afraid to even write down reality on reddit, not sure you can confront and overcome your problems.
/r/RPChristians01/05/19 10:43 PM
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Mint is magic, does all the math and trends and you can see every transaction. Read Total money makeover by Dave Ramsey, that book as the answer to all your money problems.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/04/19 02:00 PM
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Read Total Money Makeover by Dave Ramsey to learn a comprehensive personal finance system. That book solves money problems/questions. And then you’ll know why you shouldn’t buy CDs at age 26... Where are your lift stats??? https://www.reddit.com/r/RPChristians/comments/9l4fij/lifting_is_not_a_suggestion/
/r/RPChristians26/04/19 06:49 PM
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Hmm no mention of lifting... /r/RPChristians/comments/9l4fij/lifting_is_not_a_suggestion/
/r/RPChristians26/04/19 06:32 PM
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Wow you have some awesome lifts, great work and hope it’s a quick recovery. No need to respond, but I have never seen your relationship/sex strategy recommended by anything I've read. Are you just making it up? Why? Why not try the advice that hundreds if not thousands of husbands here claim works?
/r/RPChristians20/04/19 01:57 AM
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My wife has made multiple comments about how much more calm and less stressed I am in the past 6 months, and This guy set me straight on why your feelz and moods are permanently DAMAGING your marriage: https://thefamilyalpha.com/married-red-pill-reinvention-podcast-with-adam-lane-smith/ Also: https://www.reddit.com/r/RPChristians/comments/9l4fij/lifting_is_not_a_suggestion/
/r/RPChristians18/04/19 06:45 PM
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Dude try and use Game. I really struggled with lacking that but you’ve got to get her laughing, tension, etc. She wants you to take charge and make it fun. Also, kill that negativity, so many times it held me back, and I can’t think of a time victim puking ever helped.
/r/RPChristians18/04/19 01:59 PM
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Vision on mission, abundance mentality, read the sidebar.
/r/RPChristians08/04/19 04:25 AM
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You need to lead, i.e. motivate her to a shared purpose. Motivation requires vision of a better situation. Don’t just give her abstract rules. The medium of her ignoring means she’s not committed. Get her motivated first, little steps, help her dream of the goal with you. Don’t go Rambo, don’t talk about rules. Don’t talk about trust because you both know those are your empty threats. She said she’s sorry, is that because you’re pissed or because she stepped off the path to reaching the goal? Re…
/r/RPChristians08/04/19 02:54 AM
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What about Lifting? Like the #1 thing in the sidebar. The first thing asked on the own your stuff threads... Like the 1 thing you should be doing but aren’t.. LIFTING IS NOT OPTIONAL It’s the price of admission, why should we spend our time helping you if you’re not doing any work?
/r/RPChristians05/04/19 09:38 PM
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Practically , I use the oldest teenager analogy, if your kid was sick would you not help? The use of “serve” her is a strange choice, and you probably said some other strange beta comments and that’s why you got that reaction. Now youre conflating God and servant with helping your sick wife? Overthinking it dude. Better thought is: my wife is sick, need to help her get better, did you go through a similar experience (share notes).
/r/RPChristians03/04/19 04:19 PM
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Dude please read No more mr nice guy. You and her need a lot of boundaries.
/r/RPChristians28/03/19 05:53 AM
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I’ll rephrase. You seem to me feeling guilt to lead her to clean up, or you’re afraid to enforce this boundary. You seem to have other boundaries, so it’s odd to me you identified multiple gaps in meeting expectations and dismissed their importance. She Got in a funk? That’s what children do because they lack impulse control, and that’s what adults do when they lack consequences for their actions. You’re the one that came here bringing concerns, yet you’re dismissing them. Read No more me nice g…
/r/RPChristians22/03/19 05:10 AM
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She aware of your expectations but ignores them? What example are you setting for your kids? Why should she take your boundaries seriously? You’re the head of the household, you have other expectations of her currently that I’m assuming she’s meeting, so why are some duties ok for her to ignore? It’s because you’re tricked by the “equal chores” feminist lie. You feel some sort of guilt holding her accountable/afraid for meeting your standards.
/r/RPChristians21/03/19 08:59 PM
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“She would be alot hotter if I came home to no dishes, no toys on the floor, no clothes on the steps, kids prepared to sleep at 7-9pm, ” This is because you are not leading her to your desired outcome. Hope is not a strategy, so don’t just silently wish she’d follow your unspoken instructions. Lead, raise the bar a bit on expectations. Also, what’s wrong with your lifts? Injured? Your bench and squat shouldn’t be equal. Why didn’t you address that?
/r/RPChristians21/03/19 05:14 AM
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LIFTING IS NOT OPTIONAL. What are your lifts? If you’re trying out churches, visit a Catholic mass. Guaranteed no women preachers!
/r/RPChristians21/03/19 05:07 AM
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Regarding dating divorced moms: https://dalrock.wordpress.com/2019/03/13/no-respect-for-men-who-marry/
/r/RPChristians15/03/19 05:24 AM
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Lol you are delusional. But you’ve been effective up to this point because you didn’t go beta, but now you’re sounding like you want to. Don’t go full beta. There is no friendship, she wants you to poop or get off the pot. Everyone kill the idea of “date.” You can either invite her to a fun activity in your awesome life (which you have been doing already, high five) or you can pedestal her and go to a lame boring dinner which she won’t be impressed by and never remember and drag down your progre…
/r/RPChristians11/03/19 04:27 AM
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Wow dude, hope this will help you: This guy set me straight on why your feelz and moods are permanently DAMAGING your marriage: https://thefamilyalpha.com/married-red-pill-reinvention-podcast-with-adam-lane-smith/
/r/RPChristians11/03/19 04:17 AM
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Can you post your lifting stats? Then you can manage what you measure. There’s a ton of lifting knowledge on the sidebar.
/r/RPChristians08/03/19 05:10 AM
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Great news that you’ve made the decision to be healthy! Obesity is an early death sentence. It’s physics: less calories = losing weight. Go all water immediately, and nothing else for the next 30 lbs. small salads no dressing only when eating out. Tons a good advice, but don’t overthink it, just stop eating as much. Post in own your stuff weekly for advice and encouragement
/r/RPChristians01/03/19 06:33 PM
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This is the time in your life to learn, study, grow, and have fun. You are only responsible for your self, take advantage of the free time. Lifting is not optional. You have the freedom to commit, to be disciplined and not distracted. Looking back, I never regretted a moment of rock climbing or lifting or running or skiing or hunting. I do have many regrets about video games, porn, and self-destructive behavior and a shitty attitude. The principle of choosing actions that reflect the man/father …
/r/RPChristians28/02/19 05:30 AM
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Therationalmale.com/2012/08/22/just-get-it/ Dude you can’t negotiate desire. Are you leading with all this mumbo-jumbo or are you letting her feel like you’re not the captain?
/r/RPChristians27/02/19 05:37 AM
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What’s more important? Becoming debt free or choosing between a 0.8% or .08% expense ratio fund? If a man comes here living paycheck to paycheck and in debt, that’s a fucking emergency for his entire family, and the stress, distraction, and anxiety is going to linger for years. That’s what Dave Ramsey gets and if a man needs help with personal finance, advice about portfolio mix and rebalancing ain’t gonna help. MRP is triage, and I’d like to think 40 years of excellent marriage is worth more th…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/02/19 05:34 AM
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How is the valuation for his ownership stake in the LLC known without valuing all the assets in the LLC
/r/askMRP22/02/19 04:57 PM
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Lol you just trying to AMOG? No one comes here looking for investment advice, and the difference between a .8% expense ratio and .08 isn’t going to breakup a marriage or derail retirement. That’s like complaining there isn’t good marathon training advice here.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/02/19 04:08 PM
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I recommend adding Total money make over or a condensed version to the sidebar, or basically mandatory when men post their finance struggles. Dave Ramsey is motivating, accessable, and If everyone followed the steps they would be free of financial stress and have a solid plan for retirement. The complexity and stress of finance in a marriage can inhibit the progress of the family and undermine the leadership.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/02/19 05:33 AM
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Lifting is not optional. Can we get a bot to post this as the first comment every time?
/r/RPChristians21/02/19 08:56 PM
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And is also the true Church so it doesn’t allow females to be ordained nor administer any sacraments. Doesn’t sound inherently feminine to me. Nor does the Catholic Church allow birth control, abortion, non-marital sex, divorce, or homosexual behavior. Basically everything contrary to feminism. Read Dalrock for a further investigation.
/r/RPChristians21/02/19 07:36 PM
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Value is subjective. Everyone’s assignment of value/SMV is different, and being jealous and judgemental is denying reality and boosting your ego, not advancing your mission. Sounds like your game is lame,
/r/RPChristians21/02/19 06:48 AM
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You’re not initiating because you’re afraid of rejection. You’re afraid because you’re seeking validation from her. Are you filling up your schedule so much to distract/escape from physical interaction? Shark week isn’t an excuse
/r/RPChristians20/02/19 03:26 PM
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What I like about the red pill, and why it’s gaining traction, is that it works. What I worry about is signal to noise - do we need another book/treatise on something that works so well? Red pill is about action. How can we more effectively onboard and improve lives?
/r/RPChristians19/02/19 11:05 PM
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Perception is reality, and if you went in 6 dates in 7 days, how is that not taking up tons of time and ingorning other things in your life? If soemkne said to you, I’m free 6 of the next 7 days to do whatever you want, wouldn’t you question why does this person have so much free time? Also I don’t see anything about bring her around your friends/family. 1:1 is too much intensity. Remember you are the prize and your inviting her into your awesome life, not seeking out a girl to fulfill you.
/r/RPChristians17/02/19 05:14 PM
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Dude what signal does it send if you abandon everything else in your life for a stranger you just met? You need to make sure this girl can live a biblical marriage before making serious decisions. Read more Dalrock and ignore the hormone crap.
/r/RPChristians16/02/19 11:45 PM
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Spend money to get physical training, weight loss, and babysitting. You’ve properly identified things are very wrong, you need help. Take some time off to just read. Throw away the sex toys, you’re just trying to negotiate desire. Stop trying to justify/negotiate her excuses,but do recognize that’s a SYMPTOM of what’s going wrong. This guy set me straight on why your feelz and moods are permanently damaging your marriage: https://thefamilyalpha.com/married-red-pill-reinvention-podcast-with-adam-…
/r/askMRP15/02/19 08:31 PM
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Think of all the work eliminated from women in the past 100 years: Refrigeration Taking care of 6 kids Washing machine Dishwasher Microwave Gas furnace instead of wood fire Public schools Automobile What the hell is there left to do?? Sweep the floor 5 mins and vacuum weekly? Cook food that would take just as much time for 1 person as for 3? Fold some laundry? Dude we are so fucking far from reality in this society that we think women have much of any housework to do. Red pill is about leading, …
/r/askMRP15/02/19 07:02 PM
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Your frame is she knows best for your family- but she doesn’t. She is probably more attentive to taking care of the kid, but would have no issue if that kid slept in the bed with you for years or she wanted to breastfeed till age 5. You need to step back and see the bigger picture that you’re responsible for the family and the child development, she’s just the oldest teenager executing your plan. You need to hold the line on crying it out to sleep, daycare, babysitters, dates, because I bet she’…
/r/askMRP15/02/19 02:18 AM
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HS counselor told my friend he might not be college material. Luckily friend went to college, got a math degree, worked as sell-side analyst on Wall Street, now is VP at consulting firm focused on multimillion dollar private company buyouts. By the age of 32.
/r/RPChristians14/02/19 06:11 AM
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“Oh you’re like my grandma you don’t know how to text? Let me show you how (grab phone). But I do see you know how to take pictures (scroll to find the nudes)” YOUR FRAME IS TEXT, Game says to text, where does it say talk on phone like a beta LTR?? Game is about what works, do what works. Many men have already created the wheel for you, all you have to do it use it.
/r/RPChristians14/02/19 05:59 AM
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She’s trying to dimish you and elevate herself and try and justify her decision by making you chase her like a beta. She’s hamstering. Spin her as a plate if you want.
/r/RPChristians14/02/19 05:54 AM
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Your ability for self examination is outstanding. You posting this is an amazing example of strength and courage. I know it sucks to be wanting intimacy and a life partner, but your discipline is remarkable and will be rewarded. Keep reading, praying, and doing the hard work, it always pays off. PS: Lifitng is isn’t optional. PPS: I think she felt shame that you didn’t come back to her place, she showed her cards. That’s a start for her I suppose.
/r/RPChristians14/02/19 05:47 AM
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Why are you calling her??? Who taught you that? What advice from Game says to do that???
/r/RPChristians13/02/19 10:52 PM
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Dude your frame is whack if you can’t see how obsessed you are with this girl. I’m a fan of inviting girls with friends to see your social proof. What did this complete stranger do to earn your attention other than physical? Nothing. You have no idea who she is. Unearned attention and desperation are unattractive. If you have so many other girls, why would you ditch them to spend so much time and energy on this stranger?? That’s the importance of Frame. She can smell your incongruence a mile awa…
/r/RPChristians13/02/19 10:34 PM
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Ghosting is the best way to cut contact with someone. Sunk costs shouldn’t try to be saved. Prevents you from becoming a beta orbiter in her mind.
/r/RPChristians13/02/19 06:27 AM
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Behold the biggest male hamster ever seen in the wild.
/r/RPChristians13/02/19 06:25 AM
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That’s fair point about the apps, I never used them. it ain’t jiving how you’re dating many girls but then desperate for a text within a day? That’s can’t be your normal reaction after a date or else you’d be nuts. Plus that reaction is the opposite of anything you’ve been taught here or in the Bible. Mental abundance is mostly what matters, and I’ve been there. I don’t like bars or food for first dates, there’s nothing exciting about them, that’s the girls normal environment she’s prepped for. …
/r/RPChristians13/02/19 06:22 AM
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Ha +1000
/r/RPChristians13/02/19 05:44 AM
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Ghosting is the best! There’s no wasted time and awkwardness about how things are getting busy at work and I just got a new boss with her replying wow I can’t believe you’re dumping me over the phone. Ghosting is better than her calling you 7 years after your last communication asking for a job recommendation and intro to your customers.
/r/RPChristians13/02/19 05:43 AM
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Beginner game, good moves on the leading to venue change, kino, and kisses. But, pretty glaring you have no abundance. Plus theres a whole world of crazy going on with her in dental school. She’ll be comparing you to the alphas in that class, and why haven’t they scooped her up and if she’s so hot why does she need to use dating apps? Keep at it though, you’ve got a taste of quality and excitement. What’s wrong with the church girls? Should be easy pickings.
/r/RPChristians13/02/19 05:40 AM
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1) Lifting is not optional. What are your stats like height weight and squat? You cannot manage what you don’t measure. 2) You at least need to set the goals for finances, girls don’t know how to create goals and priorities. Maybe she’s a CPA, great so ask her about tax optimization strategies. 401k is not the sole retirement plan. IRAs, annuities, 3 fund portfolio etc. DONT let her scold you. Captains don’t show stress. Put your childish ways behind you.
/r/RPChristians08/02/19 03:57 AM
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Comfort the afflicted, afflict the comfortable (with facts, examples) Take a sales class. Don’t think of this as your one shot. Sales and referrals is a statistical game: pipeline, pitch, close ratio etc. Why is this client buying? Worried about church attendance ? Actually want to help their flock? Show the stats from Dalrock: 50% unwed by age 30, 40% divorce rate, less than 2 kids on average. Getting worse by the day. That’s not way God wants. Their own kids aren’t exempt from this especially …
/r/RPChristians04/02/19 11:16 PM
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This guy set me straight on why your feelz and moods are permanently damaging your marriage: https://thefamilyalpha.com/married-red-pill-reinvention-podcast-with-adam-lane-smith/ Read the Total Money makeover book, it gave me the foundation of my personal finance.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/01/19 10:41 PM
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Dude awesome lifts! She’s your capable FO, lead her, inspire her with your vision, don’t snap at her for little things, that shows your weakness. Think about your boss or CEO micro managing you or bitching at you, same thing. Have you read Total Money Makeover by Dave Ramsey?
/r/MarriedRedPill30/01/19 08:28 PM
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Yes you are the prize and can be while looking out for others’ well-being. It says look not only to your own interests, but consider the interests of others. The command is NOT disregard your own interests solely for others. Did Jesus just follow the interests of others? No. But he was concerned for their well-being which is commonly at odds with people’s self proclaimed interests.
/r/RPChristians30/01/19 05:16 PM
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1) Lifting is not optional. 2) who taught you to invite girls to your house for a meal?? I have never ever heard that as a date suggestion. The answers are here, just read and apply dude! You need to excite these girls. Invite her to do something with your friends that’s fun. You’re so thirsty you can’t fathom she might be a loser and cutting her loose in your fantasy world- when in reality she doesn’t want to see you! Read the sidebar, kill your beta fantasy/delusions.
/r/RPChristians29/01/19 12:00 AM
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This guy set me straight on why your feelz and moods are permanently damaging your marriage: https://thefamilyalpha.com/married-red-pill-reinvention-podcast-with-adam-lane-smith/ Don’t hide behind killing it at work etc, because years ago you were way poorer and dumber, yet you were dating her and attracted her to you.
/r/RPChristians28/01/19 11:46 PM
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What brought you here. That’s your real challenge. Let’s ignore the “follow directions” , you’re the leader, you set the course Captain.
/r/RPChristians26/01/19 05:56 AM
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If you have Frame, and lead, the worthy will follow. You need to abandon your ignorance and explore the abundance. And read the entire sidebar and lift.
/r/RPChristians25/01/19 10:17 PM
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She attends mass devoutly yet keeps her heart away from God? And you think you could do better? She doesn’t have different political views, she has different morals than God. No where does the Bible say to murder your unborn child or that women are head of house. Hopefully you will screen for a worthy wife and look back on this question with disgust and thank the Lord for his mercy you avoided misery and divorce-rape.
/r/RPChristians25/01/19 10:11 PM
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Dude, own your words. Everyone stop with the lukewarm here, doesn’t help. You say you initiate but she’s stressed,tired, shark, etc but then you write she says shes crying for more time/attention? That’s some rationalization there. You got a long way to go in the most important area of keeping your marriage together, and that’s your responsibility. She ain’t the leader here. Don’t sugar coat this, the world is trying to destroy marriage, don’t let your guard down. Read this: And maybe reread rat…
/r/RPChristians25/01/19 09:49 PM
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Dude you sound pretty thirsty if you’re asking out girls and getting shot down. There’s a major disconnect with you, so focus some time reading because if you’re not called to be single, you’re called to be married and you’re way in danger of being used and abused by post-wall girl. Watch some YouTube videos with the red man group or something. God wants you to be happy, not a plowhorse raising someone else’s kids who will be divorce-raped.
/r/RPChristians25/01/19 07:36 PM
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What is she doing to increase the attention she wants from you?? There’s a recent post in MRP about rewarding good behavior, and NOT rewarding poor behavior and validation. You’re butthurt because she didn’t validate you. Also, you need to lead her in resolving this this, not be her girlfriend and cry about it with her.
/r/RPChristians25/01/19 07:20 PM
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Dalrock has some great coverage, but it’s another result of attacks on family, marriage, and children. The economic incentives of Frivorce enabling hypergamy can only lead to destruction on marriage and subsequent social infertility. Govt hates the competition of family and church so it does all it can to destroy those institutions.
/r/RPChristians24/01/19 06:39 AM
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Yup, she’s looking for any sign of weakness 24/7. Just like we’re always aware of surroundings and potential threats, or aware of her interactions with competing males.
/r/askMRP24/01/19 06:21 AM
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This guy set me straight on why your feelz and moods are permanently damaging your marriage: https://thefamilyalpha.com/married-red-pill-reinvention-podcast-with-adam-lane-smith/
/r/askMRP24/01/19 06:18 AM
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Motivating progress! What about seeing physical therapist for your shoulder? Any signs of weight loss for her?
/r/MarriedRedPill23/01/19 04:33 PM
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First 6 months are the hardest. Don’t waste your time with anything that doesn’t focus on the first 6mo at this point. Sleep will be your biggest challenge. Get the kid out of your room as soon as reasonable, like when it starts to sleep 4hrs+ straight. More milk/food =better sleep. Give wife a break to sleep from 8-11pm and tend to baby sometimes. Don’t get up at night, let her do that and you only as last resort. Someone needs to be fresh. You want RP family? Read the Bible.
/r/askMRP18/01/19 06:01 AM
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This guy set me straight on why your feelz and moods are permanently damaging your marriage: https://thefamilyalpha.com/married-red-pill-reinvention-podcast-with-adam-lane-smith/ Your whining weakness and victim hood are a perceived threat to the safety of your family, not to mention totally unattractive
/r/MarriedRedPill17/01/19 09:35 PM
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Your ego is showing your fear, fear that you haven’t put in the work or fear that you aren’t the man you think you are. BTW I waited 2wks for PIV because she was still bleeding after each kid, even though she wanted to ride sooner. Stop being a sensitive bitch and you might absorb some great advice to get your dick wet. Pro-tip: infant in bassinet day 1 in the room until about 3mo then out of the room. No kids in the bed ever. Then cut off the breastfeed by 1 yr. Do whatever you can to get the k…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/01/19 06:11 AM
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Why is that cruel?? He’s saying your about to run off a cliff ahead, that’s just reality not an insult.
/r/askMRP05/01/19 05:51 AM
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Dude wow, you basically just wrote 10 points about why she doesn’t need you. “Cleans the toilet” what a fucking skill there. Get your head out of your ass about financial power, sounds like a fool and money are about to be separated. Since your wife has no need for you, might be a good time to consult a professional about how you can keep some of this scratch. Maybe you’ll be fine with the terms her lawyer emails you. Sounds like you got something you didn’t earn and have no clue what to do.
/r/askMRP05/01/19 05:47 AM
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This guy set me straight on why your feelz and moods are permanently damaging your marriage: https://thefamilyalpha.com/married-red-pill-reinvention-podcast-with-adam-lane-smith/
/r/MarriedRedPill04/01/19 06:02 AM
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Were you born a fat, slimy, scumbag peice of shit or did you have to work on it? https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/a1zbip/reminder_no_one_cares/
/r/MarriedRedPill04/01/19 05:34 AM
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Yea I had trouble with butt hurt too, it’s helps me to think of good manager and leaders I had at work that would always try and motivate during bad times and not get down. It’s just isn’t the wife’s role to lead and I felt it’s “unfair” I’m alone with the responsibility. Such a puss is me. Weird you got a climber girl pregnant, I can think of 10 girls I used to climb with and none of me have kids. Boulder gyms were great dates, tons of kino teaching them, even more after... tons of single fit h…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/01/19 02:15 AM
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You should read kill the beta, if there was one thing that was easy and impactful for me to do it was STFU, don’t get mad/bitchy when woman does and stop complaining. Works wonders. Then, don’t DEER, just STFU. Also, why bring a 1yo climbing? Does your wife climb too? How will they be contributing to this event or do you just feel guilty leaving her at home?
/r/MarriedRedPill03/01/19 11:16 PM
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If there’s anyone who doesn’t have 6 months of spending saved in cash, you need to radically change your habits. Total Money Makeover by Dave Ramsey will get you there- its like The red pill for personal finance. Wealth begins with behavior, saving is the key to investing
/r/MarriedRedPill16/12/18 07:22 PM
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