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That won’t stop as long as you maintain your status. I’m 35 and my last two relationships, albeit short, were 23 and 24 year old women. Women love a man who has their shit together. And of course you have to follow rule 1: be attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 12:03 AM
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I had a more extreme procedure, L4-L5-S1 fusion. Mine started as a herniation and nothing helped until I got to where surgery was the last option. I deadlifted after recovery for about a year so until I worked back up to 405, but have ultimately stopped due to the fact that the risk to reward ratio isn't worth it. I don't need deadlifts to look good aesthetically or to be healthy.
/r/askMRP05/02/24 04:16 PM
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Can confirm. 2014-2016 I participated a lot here. It fucking changed me. I was raised by a single mother and she did the best she could, but fuck, this sub saved me from being a blue pill bitch for the rest of my life.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/23 01:48 AM
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Some advice on your second point that others can use. I use the schedule feature so I don't forget to text back. Just type out the text and set it to reply when you want and go about your day.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/21 02:21 PM
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Damn, I love clicking on a thread and seeing the top answer be exactly what was going through my head.
/r/askTRP28/04/21 09:33 PM
3

ahh... well knowing that info now, yes it's a big risk. That's 2 years of your career you have to put on hold.
/r/askTRP16/04/21 03:46 PM
3

I would make your intentions clear right now then so she knows that if you do move, it's only temporary. She should know your mission and support it.
/r/askTRP16/04/21 03:25 PM
3

How will moving to another state affect your mission overall? If you can work remote and continue your career I don't see it as that big of a risk. After she finishes school, you guys can move where you want to.
/r/askTRP16/04/21 03:14 PM
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"Misgendering" someone is such horseshit. If a guy is mentally ill and wants to be called she/her that's too fucking bad. I'm not going to play along and pretend I'm mentally ill as well. You get called what I call you.
/r/askTRP05/04/21 04:45 PM
3

It's only been 5 months. Demote her back to a plate.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 05:38 PM
4

Ultimatums never work. If you have to make one. It's over.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 05:37 PM
1

Truth right here. ^
/r/askTRP01/04/21 05:36 PM
5

You expectations for her actions should have been set before you gave her your commitment to be in an LTR. You should have vetted her better.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 05:29 PM
4

No. Single mothers are not LTR eligible. Keep her as a plate. I've been there. You will never important enough in the relationship. You will come in 3rd place at best behind herself and her child. 3rd place is not where you want to be.
/r/askTRP22/02/21 07:18 PM
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Maintain value Don't let the relationship become stagnant. Be spontaneous. Keep some mystery. She doesn't always need to know where you are/what you are doing. Reward good behavior, punish the bad behavior. Pass her shit/comfort tests.
/r/askTRP22/02/21 07:14 PM
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You need to step away from females and focus on yourself. Get your own shit in order first.
/r/askTRP22/02/21 07:10 PM
7

Insecurity/low self-esteem. You don't have prize mentality. Need to work on yourself before getting into another LTR.
/r/askTRP13/02/21 08:06 PM
1

I've been in an LTR for 2 years so here's my .02c Do not text her all day every day. Do not tell her what your doing 24/7. Do not answer her texts/snaps/DM's quickly. If she asks you why you don't communicate more, just say you are busy with lifting/reading/your mission You need to also compliment her on things she's done that you wanted done. Things with her career, errands/things you asked her to do, things that also help you with your mission. I see mine twice a week. It's works fine and help…
/r/askTRP09/02/21 04:52 PM
3

The last paragraph may be the most beta shit I've ever read on here.
/r/askTRP12/01/21 05:15 PM
34

High SMV males don't have to compromise. They can engage in an LTR on their terms.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 04:04 PM
3

Women love you for what you can provide.
/r/askTRP16/12/20 02:01 PM
10

Cohabitation with a female is a bad idea.
/r/askTRP14/12/20 08:13 PM
1

Need to work on your abundance mentality.
/r/askTRP13/12/20 04:48 PM
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I would never LTR a woman who is actively in therapy and taking medication for her mental health. Both huge red flags.
/r/askTRP12/12/20 03:34 AM
1

Keep lifting for sure. You need to keep great posture and also work on your voice. I don't care if you have to stand in front of the mirror to practice doing it. Start being the leader in your group of friends. Call the shots and make the plans. It just takes practice.
/r/askTRP03/12/20 06:24 PM
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The only thing you can do is apply some dread, but not so much as to where you seem butthurt. She has do decide herself whether she respects the relationship or not. I haven't had an issue talking crap about some of my LTR's girl friends. She has stopped associating with several of them after I talked bad about them/their behavior. You need to lead her in the right direction.
/r/askTRP03/12/20 06:20 PM
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Handled okay overall. When you end the soft next I would say less though. "I've been busy is all you need to say" Leave out anything else and let her hamster spin. She has too many red flags for an LTR. If she wants to act like a plate, treat her as one. If you were hoping for an LTR, I would just move on.
/r/askTRP19/10/20 01:17 PM
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Ask straight up if she wants to split. If she does, then just say ok and move on. Don't have a conversation about it because that conversation will take place 100% in her frame. She will try to rationalize it and explains her "feelings". At that point who gives a fuck?
/r/askTRP07/10/20 06:56 PM
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You caught her in lies and kept the LTR going? Bro, have some respect for yourself. Break up with her, hit the sidebar, and do better next time.
/r/askTRP01/10/20 08:06 PM
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She belongs to the streets, my guy.
/r/askTRP17/09/20 05:22 PM
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When a girl tells me that I usually smile and just say "okay" and proceed gaming them. It's a shit test in a way and also some girls just feel the need to pull back a bit so they don't feel slutty or whatever. Just act unfazed. Proceed on her actions/body language over what she says.
/r/askTRP05/08/20 03:45 AM
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Bold opening with the domestic abuse joke, but you know if they laugh you're off to a real good start lol.
/r/askTRP04/08/20 09:03 PM
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Bachelor party at a coastal town. The group hits up a local bar. We walk in and I notice a cute bartender (HB8, brunette, petite) and decide I'm gonna hangout near that bar and try my luck. We make eye contact throughout the night and I every time I get another drink I say a joke or make a comment that makes her laugh. Last call comes around she takes my phone and puts her number in there and asks me to text her the address of the house we are staying at. She comes to the house and we drink by t…
/r/askTRP04/08/20 09:00 PM
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Not surprised. Bitches have gotten used to simps doing whatever they want them to do and there is no shortage of simps in todays social media age.
/r/askTRP23/07/20 01:25 PM
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This is some shit you figure out before getting into an LTR.
/r/askTRP28/05/20 04:11 PM
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Yeah I'm not reading it. The energy and time OP put into typing this post could've been used to start getting some plates or hitting up some bros to head to the gym. Trying to make sense of it is a waste of time.
/r/askTRP28/05/20 04:10 PM
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With LTR's you gotta give them some comfort. Can't be a robot as much as you think you can. Just turn up the comfort a little bit. Maybe more than one date a month and be a little more spontaneous with random things that couples do.
/r/askTRP27/05/20 05:11 PM
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This. I have no idea what my GF likes on social media. I don't give a shit. OP needs to start giving less fucks and work on having abundance mentality.
/r/askTRP27/05/20 05:08 PM
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Is she a good mother? If so, she can be a good mother without you guys being together. If she's not a good mother you can find a better woman to raise your kid. As your son gets older, it'll be crucial for him to have a strong father. You want your son to see a good woman by your side or no woman at all. Just my .02 good luck, man.
/r/askMRP07/05/20 11:08 AM
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with a 1 year pause in between Yikes We live together, in her house. oof I listened, tried to give some advice the first times Women don't want advice. They just want to vent. Stop trying to fix her problems. I asked about the situation, she said all things were cool with him now, they talked it over. I then asked what was his problem then, and what did he say. She can sense the scarcity mindset every time you ask something about him. Start shutting the fuck up and start not giving a fuck. You s…
/r/askMRP06/05/20 06:39 PM
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You have to have have extremely high SMV to pull this off. It's easier just to avoid LTR's and stick to spinning plates.
/r/askTRP04/05/20 08:02 PM
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Sidebar
/r/askTRP22/04/20 11:36 AM
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Soft nexts work in LTR's. They are disciplinary measures for misbehavior. She either figures out her behavior won't be tolerated and changes or she doesn't and you demote. Soft nexting can work well combined with dread in my experience.
/r/askTRP15/04/20 11:32 AM
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If she thinks you’re too “controlling” then she’s not ready to be an LTR Wise advice as always, Vasiliy.
/r/askTRP15/04/20 11:23 AM
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Putting your home in a land trust is one way to do it. You need guidance from a lawyer to do so.
/r/askTRP07/04/20 02:45 PM
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I believe in mutual love This is a bluepill fantasy. that’s lowkey selfish Yes. This is applying RP strategy to LTR's. Your LTR should operate in your frame. You are the prize. With this attachment style it sounds like she’s just afraid/insecure So, like a normal female?
/r/askTRP06/04/20 08:22 PM
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Provide some RP literature to back up that dumbass statement.
/r/askTRP06/04/20 08:15 PM
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I treated her the same before she was promoted to LTR. Just proceed as usual. You want to keep the power in your favor. Try not to take it personal and think she's claiming you're not genuine. It's just their nature to be emotional with everything lol.
/r/askTRP06/04/20 05:27 PM
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Keep your frame and just give her some comfort every now and then. This is what I do in my current LTR. Every know and then I get, "Do you miss me when we're apart" or "Do you love me a lot? Because I love you a lot". She knows her feeling for me are stronger than mine to her. This is where you want to be regarding that. Most of the time I don't reply seriously to those questions but some comfort every now and then is good.
/r/askTRP06/04/20 05:15 PM
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Yes women to play that game also. I think at the point she's just low quality and I would move on. Vetting an LTR candidate is tedious.
/r/askMRP01/04/20 07:45 PM
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This is something you can say in casual conversation, but not as directly. If she asks you about an ex say, "I don't talk about past relationships. It's the past and stays there." If they don't get the hint from that... A lot of women think it's normal to stay in touch, but really they just want orbiters and to leave the door open in case they want to swing back to that branch.
/r/askMRP01/04/20 07:30 PM
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I'm turning 30 in a few months. Since RP I've mainly gamed girls in the 21-24 age range with pretty good success. A girl asking your age is a shit test. As for my friends who are married, stuck in shit relationships, and/or have kids... it sucks a bit. I like traveling and doing spontaneous shit. I don't have many friends that can hang with me much anymore.
/r/askTRP01/04/20 12:08 PM
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I'm busy at work I was working out I was reading My phone was in the other room You really don't have to explain yourself to her, bro. Tell her you're not glued to your phone. If you have been texting her a lot before this it's going to be hard to reverse it since she's comfortable with knowing every little detail of your day.
/r/askTRP31/03/20 03:13 PM
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As long as she doesn't find out he's been bumming on the couch watching netflix and playing video games all day I agree. He just has to maintain the illusion that he's busy.
/r/askTRP30/03/20 08:26 PM
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Try alternating first. Go a day without hitting her up first then hit her up the next. Don't let her figure out you're just quitting hitting her up first altogether. As for your questions: be unfazed. Hit her up on the 3rd day but act as if it's business as usual. Don't ask what she has been up to the past few days or anything like that. It might, but that will either be by your fault or just by her female nature. It depends on what you are doing with your time. If your bumming out posting on so…
/r/askTRP30/03/20 08:21 PM
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Why even bother. Demote her to plate or just break up altogether. You're trying to do something with a very low success rate. I also agree with /u/UEMcGill's post.
/r/askTRP30/03/20 08:10 PM
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I wouldn't have called her at all, but that's me. I would keep the texting to a minimum throughout the day. Mystery builds attraction.
/r/askTRP30/03/20 08:07 PM
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So she texted you then you immediately called her? To me, that makes you look pretty needy as if you were sitting there staring at your phone all day waiting for some attention from her. Instead of intentionally "not chasing her" how about you fill your time with actual things so you don't have to fake it.
/r/askTRP30/03/20 05:50 PM
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Hadn't seen this post before. That was good as fuck.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/20 03:25 PM
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Wrong move. Should have just not replied anything. After a couple of times of making excuses to not hangout you should have moved on.
/r/askTRP24/03/20 08:08 PM
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Why are you dating someone older than you? She's about to hit the wall.
/r/askTRP24/03/20 02:34 PM
0

Dread. Start pulling back attention. Talk to fitter chicks in front of her. Up the mystery of you whereabouts when you're not with her. She'll either do it or she won't. Move on if she won't if it's a deal-breaker for you.
/r/askTRP19/03/20 05:57 PM
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This is dread. Dread is good. Keeps her on her toes and makes her try harder.
/r/askTRP18/03/20 04:59 PM
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Wait a while before you hit her up. A day or 2. That's a easy way to start off not showing neediness. So DM her on IG, but get her number as quickly as possible and move the convo there. You don't want to turn into one her IG orbiters.
/r/askTRP16/03/20 03:51 PM
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Thanks for repeating what I wrote. 👍
/r/askTRP10/03/20 09:43 PM
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Dread starts with something simple as passing shit tests and lifting. Having hobbies that don't involve your LTR, limiting your availability to her, and holding your frame. Start dressing nicer and wearing clothes that fit you properly and can show off your athletic build. All these things will invoke emotions and remove comfort. Ideally she responds with going to the gym herself, giving you a couple of extra blowjobs, dressing sexier etc... making herself better for you.
/r/askTRP10/03/20 07:04 PM
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I see mine on Wednesdays and most weekends. She lives 45 minutes away. 1.5 years into it and it's not stale yet. You need to stay in shape, have abundance mentality, have hobbies, a social life, etc... We text daily, but I keep it to a minimum. We never talk on the phone. She needs to see you have a life outside of your relationship. You need to figure out to make her see that you don't need her while giving her some comfort now and then. It's a balance of comfort, dread, fucking her real good, …
/r/askTRP10/03/20 06:57 PM
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If you had options/abundance as you should, you would be outcome independent and would therefore not be feeling insecure. So go out with your bros, enjoy your hobbies, etc... business as usual. If you want to see her, tell her to meet you at X on Friday and just act normal.
/r/askTRP10/03/20 06:51 PM
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It's a book. Sex God Method. I also recommend No More Mr. Nice Guy if you haven't read that yet.
/r/askTRP07/03/20 08:22 PM
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A firearm and some training/practice is a good start. Looks like you're not from the US. I can't imagine a living in a country where I couldn't defend my property with a gun. Weapons are better than martial arts. Get a big dog that you can train Malinois, German Shepperd, Rottweiler, etc...
/r/askTRP07/03/20 05:03 PM
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Most of the time it's because they want orbiters for validation. Push for her phone number always. Send a few snaps maybe then push to meet and get her number.
/r/askTRP05/03/20 03:30 PM
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It's important enough to where you can't make the decision by yourself, as the leader in the relationship? You needed an answer right then at that exact second? I see very few instances where an answer to a text could be that important.
/r/askTRP03/03/20 08:43 PM
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I get annoyed at the fact that she can’t even send one text while she’s out with them. Today I mentioned that to her Yikes. Congrats you are now a little bitch in her mind. She can smell the lack of abundance.
/r/askTRP03/03/20 08:32 PM
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What you need to do is fuck and realize it's nothing special or magical.
/r/askTRP03/03/20 01:22 PM
3

Yes this is oneitis. You need to withdraw attention from her. You're 21 and in college. There's 0 reason you should be a kissless virgin. Lift, be social, and practice talking to girls. You should be taking advantage of where you are. By the way, you don't have plates. Plates are girls in your rotation that you fuck.
/r/askTRP03/03/20 01:14 PM
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I was actually just thinking about this the other day. I agree on how it looks. It's a sad act of, "Your majesty, please accept this jewel. I hope it is worthy of your admiration and I hope I may be worthy of you." Fuck that. She ain't the prize, I am. If I ever take that plunge it's going to be brought up and decided in a 1-on-1 conversation.
/r/askTRP03/03/20 01:10 PM
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Boundaries should be set before you enter a LTR. Setting boundaries beyond "common sense" ones shouldn't need to be done. If she can't act right you shouldn't in a LTR with her.
/r/askTRP02/03/20 04:19 PM
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I wish these self pity posts would get banned. There's no question here. Take control of your life and take action instead of posting on public forums/social media about it like females do.
/r/askTRP28/02/20 08:17 PM
3

I've been in an LTR for 1.5yrs now. I've talked to her on the phone maybe 5 times. We share about 10 texts at most day when we're not together. But then again our relationship operates in my frame and not hers like your relationship clearly does.
/r/askMRP27/02/20 03:11 PM
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Stop answering her morning calls. Take hours to return texts (or at least double the amount of time it takes her to reply to you). When she complains about it, tell her you're busy. Start there.
/r/askMRP27/02/20 01:52 PM
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Agreed. Act how you want to act and own it. If you want to get some side action on a work trip then do it, but be aware of any consequences that could stem from it. TRP is amoral.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/20 06:00 PM
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If only OP could get it lol.
/r/askTRP25/02/20 03:13 PM
1

Agreed.
/r/askTRP23/02/20 03:14 AM
2

I agree. She probably has other (possibly better) options for V-day.
/r/askTRP12/02/20 09:16 PM
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Currently in an LTR. The day she stops adding positive things to my life. I will move on. We don't fight or argue at all. She supports my mission and my hobbies. She has a strong relationship with her parents (parents are still happily married), is nearly 7 years younger than me (I'm almost 30), and is not a party girl type. She puts me first before herself in nearly everything and it is shocking sometimes. I'm enjoying it while it lasts.
/r/askTRP12/02/20 09:15 PM
2

Break up. You're young. You need to mature more and find also find a more mature LTR candidate. You need to be high value to find a suitable female to enter in an LTR with.
/r/askTRP10/02/20 06:55 PM
2

Where's the question?
/r/askTRP10/02/20 06:08 PM
7

You LTR'd a girl knowing she does this. Your fault. Be single and LTR a girl who deserves your commitment next time.
/r/askTRP10/02/20 04:36 PM
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Give her affection. Enjoy your time with her. Knowing RP principles in the back of your head just prepares you for what can/will happen. You're in an LTR because you are choosing to be. Enjoy it while it lasts or what's the point?
/r/askTRP10/02/20 12:18 PM
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How does someone put up with that kind of behavior for 8 months? Have some respect for yourself.
/r/askTRP04/02/20 02:04 PM
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I'll take it easy on you since you're 16. You engaged in committed relationship almost immediately sounds like. You should enjoy your youth spinning plates and focusing on your mission. This is peak time as a young man to figure out that path you want to take. I wish I had found RP at your age. Break up with her, hit the gym, and focus on yourself.
/r/askTRP03/02/20 05:29 PM
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I've demoted an LTR to a plate before. Lasted about 4 or 5 months before we both just stopped contacting each other. No hard feelings either way. Do what you want to do.
/r/askTRP24/01/20 09:03 PM
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Usually try to escalate on the 2nd. If there isn't at least heavy making out/feeling up then there won't even be a third date.
/r/askTRP23/01/20 09:43 PM
1

lol exactly. I wish I could upvote this more than once.
/r/askTRP17/01/20 08:57 PM
1

Deny Deny Deny. What do you gain from telling her the truth? Be more careful next time. I've gotten pretty angry before from that and I've ghosted females trying to mark me. They do that shit on purpose.
/r/askTRP17/01/20 08:45 PM
1

Everyone's opinion will be different. TRP is amoral so it's up to you completely. Who cares about the opinion people have about it on here? Do you.
/r/askTRP17/01/20 08:39 PM
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Women will never tell you the truth. Whatever number she tells you, double it and then you might be halfway there.
/r/askTRP17/01/20 01:32 PM
1

Not all, but most yes. And riding the CC will damage their ability to pair bond. This really only matters if your ultimate goal is to be in an LTR. If you do. find a young girl with a low N count, but be prepared to let her go at any time.
/r/askTRP14/01/20 05:20 PM
1

I'll be 30 this year. I still have no interest in having a child. My advice would be to have one only if it's what you think about and dream about all day and night. Your fears are justified and very real. You still need to find a partner to help raise the child. Single parent households suck and the chances of the child being a failure are higher. If if you find someone to help raise it, what happens if your kid turns out to be a piece of shit? That's a lot of investment to risk. Most people wh…
/r/askTRP14/01/20 05:16 PM
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I went no contact. Good when I reply That's not what no contact means Do I lose frame by being indifferent and cold? You lost it by replying.
/r/askTRP20/12/19 06:49 PM
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This. Block her number/social media and move on.
/r/askTRP20/12/19 06:47 PM
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Why would you “like” to believe there is “some disappointment”? That sounds like something a bucket crab would say. Lifelong bluepill conditioning that men are supposed to marry, have kids, and support the family. Lack of passion, hobbies, and a lack of goals and aspirations.
/r/askTRP20/12/19 06:43 PM
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Chicken, rice, and green vegetables is my Mon-Fri. Oikos Triple Zero Greek Yogurt also along with daily protein shakes. Get an app to track your meals (MyFitnessPal, etc..)
/r/askTRP20/12/19 01:08 PM
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Doing what you want is RP, my guy. As long as the decisions are made in your frame that's what matters.
/r/askTRP17/12/19 09:32 PM
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You were good until this: “Im not interested in being in a relationship where my girlfriend disrespects me.” It didn't need to be said. I think she knew when she apologized for being rude. The next morning should have been just moving on and a new day. You just reintroduced drama first thing in the morning. More importantly though, how often is she disrespecting you? It should have been nipped in the bud from day 1.
/r/askTRP17/12/19 05:21 PM
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Just spoke to the chief and he said this is it right here. ^
/r/MensRights17/12/19 01:36 PM
1

Call it what you want, faggot. I'm just trying to keep the moralization out of this sub as it should be. TRP is amoral and there's a bunch of beta white knight fags in here trying to be captain save-a-ho.
/r/askTRP17/12/19 03:00 AM
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/u/TRPCops here's another moralizing simp that wants a temp ban.
/r/askTRP16/12/19 09:55 PM
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Please tell me you don't believe her when she said you're the only one she's been with lately. She fucked a random traveler (you). You really think she's not fucking another dudes with standards like that? The cynic in me says she runs this little scam to make a little money on the side. Step 1: Fuck a tourist Step 2: "I'm late" Step 3: I need abortion money Step 4: Profit At most I would offer to cover the abortion and take it as a lesson learned (wrap it the fuck up when you're traveling). If …
/r/askTRP16/12/19 07:54 PM
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Holy oneitis Get some abundance in your life and you wouldn't care about her. You also don't have "I am the prize" mentality. It's her loss. I suggest revisiting the sidebar. I'm not getting any vibes from anything in the post above to suggest you have been "RP for 3 years".
/r/askTRP16/12/19 05:14 PM
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When males say, "Happy wife happy life". It's so fucking cringe.
/r/askTRP13/12/19 01:38 PM
19

This is embarrassing. Just tell her "this isn't working out" and leave her. Don't argue with her about it. Don't sit there listing reasons. Don't fall into her frame.
/r/askTRP11/12/19 02:47 PM
4

Stand up straight. Talk clearly and concisely without stutters or saying "um". Make eye contact. Just those 3 things will make a big difference.
/r/askTRP10/12/19 01:36 PM
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I have this problem tbh which I think is a big part of my Tinder/Bumble/Hinge game not being good. I'm way better in person doing cold approaches and things of that sort. This sounds slightly gay, but if you have a good bro go out for a day and take pics of each other and also learn to edit pics in lightroom, snapseed, whatever photo editing app you prefer. If you have 10 minutes check this VIDEO out.
/r/askTRP10/12/19 01:34 PM
1

You haven't read the sidebar, but maybe you'll at least read THIS. Stop being so available. You should be busy on your mission.
/r/askTRP09/12/19 08:48 PM
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Don't LTR alpha widows. Move on and vet your plates better next time before you promote one.
/r/askTRP09/12/19 08:44 PM
18

I wasn't saying your response is wrong. /u/Adorable_FecalSpray is correct. Your GF had this masculine image of you which was shattered. She couldn't look at you the same way again. I can't find the post, but there was a good thread on the main RP sub about a couple who both fought MMA. She went to one of his fights and saw her BF get his ass beat. Seeing her boyfriend on the mat cowering ruined her image of him. She broke up with him shortly after for "losing and curling up like a bitch". I'm no…
/r/askTRP07/12/19 03:16 PM
18

Did you cry in front of her and talk about your emotions after your mom died? If you were emotional and she could see it, that's why she left you.
/r/askTRP07/12/19 02:56 PM
4

It's pretty bad, but at least he sounds young. I didn't find TRP until my mid-20's. He's got plenty of prime time to turn it around. OP needs to build abundance.
/r/askTRP06/12/19 08:09 PM
2

Hopefully you learned from your mistakes. Don't be the one to initiate a committed relationship. It should take many months for a girl to earn that from you. Let her be the one to try and tie you down. /u/imahoaxandacoach has the right response. You could also soft next her for a bit then then meet and try to escalate and for the love of god do not bring up relationship shit.
/r/askTRP06/12/19 08:07 PM
17

Oooof that was a cringy read. She is not LTR material. her history is filled with sending nudes to about 100-200 different guys on tinder over the course of about 3 years, she wanted to remain celibate so i guess this is how she got off (I let that slide but i'm not even sure if that's a red flag or not despite her being virgin). This is a borderline extreme red flag IMO. Attention whoring extremely narcissistic behavior.
/r/askTRP06/12/19 08:01 PM
1

Well you have 4 reasons numbered in your original post. Any single one of those would disqualify her as an LTR IMO.
/r/askTRP05/12/19 01:17 PM
4

Good for her, but why would you wait and waste more of your youth seeing if maybe she'll change (she won't). The better question is why are you so hung up on this specific female? Just move on. You owe yourself some time to be single in your 20's. You've managed to improve yourself with all the baggage of your current LTR. Imagine what you could do with more focus on yourself.
/r/askTRP04/12/19 03:42 AM
25

Incompatible now. It happens at that age range which is why you shouldn't be in an LTR in your 20's IMO. If you want to be in an LTR you need to find a woman who supports your mission and adds to your life in positive ways.
/r/askTRP03/12/19 08:57 PM
3

Lack of abundance, scared to be alone, you're a little bitch, etc... Those are the main reasons you can develop oneitis.
/r/askTRP03/12/19 02:31 PM
1

Basically, from what I've read is that the reverse is up to your boundaries and expectations. Only put up with what you want to put up with.
/r/askTRP20/11/19 01:11 PM
1

A. You shouldn't even consider B. It sounds autistic and beta. You are allowed to have hobbies and passions even when they involve other females. It's up to your LTR on how she handles that.
/r/askTRP19/11/19 07:13 PM
1

Who gives a shit if she finds out? That's free dread for you and if she sees you as high value she will compete for you and do more for you. Also, don't be the one to initiate the exclusivity. Let her do that. You are the prize.
/r/askTRP12/11/19 03:20 PM
2

Any single one of your cons is enough to make her ineligible for an LTR. If she's a good plate, keep her there.
/r/askTRP12/11/19 03:16 PM
2

No need to type up some long response. There's a reason he has the TRP endorsed badge. He is 100% right.
/r/askTRP06/11/19 08:49 PM
2

I agree with this. I wouldn't be caught dead wearing some of the stuff OP is wearing on his IG. Not hating, just personal preference and probably also depends on where you live. A well fitted t-shirt and pants is plenty enough to get a girls eyes on me.
/r/askTRP31/10/19 07:01 PM
2

Whatever number a girls tells you, double it and that's probably halfway.
/r/askTRP31/10/19 01:54 PM
1

I would introduce some dread and see how see reacts.
/r/askTRP30/10/19 06:41 PM
26

Disagree. Remaining stoic is an alpha trait. Let women be the emotional ones.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/19 03:06 PM
2

"I have a boyfriend" is a shit test. You could have passed it.
/r/askTRP15/10/19 12:11 PM
3

Yep. There's no guarantee. You just have to enjoy it while it lasts and be prepared to walk away at any time. I try not to think about "trust" at all.
/r/askTRP10/10/19 09:10 PM
2

The Rational Male piece on GNO is all you need to know about this my guy.
/r/askTRP10/10/19 05:39 PM
5

I verbally stated some boundaries early in my current LTR. I think of them more are standards than boundaries. I said, "I don't date girls that x" or "I could never see myself be with someone that x". If it's early enough in the relationship the girl will just withdraw interest if it's a big enough deal for her. That weeds out the shittier candidates early.
/r/askTRP10/10/19 05:38 PM
2

If you're going to demote to plate, you have to do it with 100% sureness you will never promote her back up to LTR status again. If you can't do that, then hard next her. There are other ones out there man. You are the prize.
/r/askTRP08/10/19 07:02 PM
1

Your friends are probably just jealous. Just ignore and keep doing what you're doing. I get the same thing. I'm nearly 30 and dating a 23yr old. Most of my friends are married with kids. They claim I must be "controlling her" because I tell them the same thing you have. I tell them she doesn't go out on girls nights or drink enough to get drunk in public without me being there. I've tried to simply tell my friends that she is free to act as she wants and all I've done is set boundaries right fro…
/r/askTRP07/10/19 01:32 PM
10

She is fucking other guys and at the ready to branch swing at a moments notice. Please tell me you have other plates and aren't actually being exclusive to her. Also, did you actually just say you would wife her up. After she broke up with you? Are you retarded?
/r/askTRP04/10/19 08:37 PM
2

She can see that you have no abundance. She's too comfortable and you didn't put a stop to it from the beginning. Why is she not inviting you out with her friends? /u/McVaghunter's response hits the nail on the head.
/r/askTRP03/10/19 03:46 PM
3

no red flags On what planet is depression not a GIANT red flag?
/r/askTRP02/10/19 08:26 PM
2

This. She's too comfortable due to OP's lack of boundaries and lack of abundance.
/r/askTRP02/10/19 08:24 PM
2

The unemployment thing could have some effect to. We will always be held to the standard of being the providers. Her hamster probably started running thinking about your lack of employment.
/r/askTRP02/10/19 08:21 PM
2

Absolutely emotional. That's what women feed off of. She changed most likely due to loss of frame. As soon as she saw you get emotional, whatever view she had of you changed. You weren't the alpha she may have thought you were. Maintaining a level head at all times is truly difficult, but it is an alpha trait.
/r/askTRP02/10/19 06:59 PM
4

shes obviously interested in other men, so how do I go about this? Who cares. You have other plates don't you? If it bothers you drop her. but says she dont like fwb. Respond to her actions, not what she says. Lately shes been distant because I got pissed You got pissed = you lost frame. Can't be emotional.
/r/askTRP02/10/19 03:57 PM
14

Boundaries shouldn't be spelled out letter by letter to your LTR. Boundaries are for yourself and are there for you to uphold. You shouldn't ever tell your LTR, " I forbid X, X, and also X". You don't need to constantly remind your LTR she is below you either. I don't advise cheating unless you are absolutely stoic and can completely disassociate between plates and your LTR. Plenty of ways to give yourself the appearance of abundance which is all your LTR really needs to see.
/r/askTRP02/10/19 01:04 PM
4

She wants you as an orbiter still. If you have abundance, you shouldn't care. Maybe she'll hit you up in the future or maybe not. It doesn't matter.
/r/askTRP01/10/19 07:33 PM
2

trp.red is blocked here at work, but Reddit isn't. Shame I really won't be able to be active there.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/19 12:20 PM
-11

So instead of exercising your rights you left like a little bitch. We need more masculinity in this world. Should have held your ground.
/r/MensRights26/09/19 09:16 PM
2

It's called muscle belly length. It's purely genetics.
/r/askTRP24/09/19 07:15 PM
4

You told her - mistake You cried in front of her - mistake you got emotional - mistake Jesus. You need to read a bunch of RP literature. Are you new to RP? You have also lost her trust which diminishes your ability to lead. This won't last much longer. Learn and move on.
/r/askTRP24/09/19 07:12 PM
2

This is normal. You will make better friends as time goes by. Don't try hang on to friendships simply because of past experiences. You're not the same person anymore. You will bond with other people who see leadership traits in you or you will see that in others and make yourself better.
/r/askTRP19/09/19 08:36 PM
2

She got too comfortable once they started living together. He probably never gave off the vibe of having abundance either. She stopped trying due to lack of competition.
/r/askTRP10/09/19 01:17 PM
19

Demote her to plate if she's hot enough. I would have ended the LTR also. One lie snowballs into another and then another.
/r/askTRP03/09/19 06:07 PM
1

https://gfycat.com/zigzagperkydavidstiger
/r/askTRP27/08/19 06:12 PM
2

For how many times you've asked this question you should know by now.
/r/askTRP27/08/19 06:11 PM
1

If it was great and there's no hard feelings between the two of you since you last saw him, hit him back up.
/r/askTRP16/08/19 08:10 PM
64

A girl who clubs without you is not LTR material IMO. if you don't like it move on. You set the boundaries.
/r/askTRP16/08/19 08:07 PM
1

If she does it means she perceives you as high enough value where she would rather share you than lose you completely. Tread carefully. Don't let her take up too much of your free time now that will be spent on other females.
/r/askTRP15/08/19 08:06 PM
3

Shouldn't have allowed her to live with you. The fact the you're catching oneitis already is pretty pathetic (there's no nice way to say that) and it clearly shows a lack of abundance mentality.
/r/askTRP12/08/19 08:40 PM
4

You really just need to have the appearance of abundance. She needs to think you do. You do this by limiting your time/attention you give her. Have your own life/hobbies that you do without her. Keep your physical appearance high (stay in shape, keep your haircut nice, wear nice clothes).
/r/askTRP12/08/19 02:26 PM
1

You shouldn't even be getting into a committed relationship without fucking her first. You should be dating several women (plates) and promoting the one with the best traits/behavior.
/r/askTRP08/08/19 01:56 PM
2

I don't care. It's none of my business. Morality is depending on you. We all have different views of it.
/r/askTRP08/08/19 01:54 PM
1

She gatekeeps sex = you gatekeep commitment.
/r/askTRP06/08/19 07:00 PM
51

Lots of guy friends = orbiters
/r/askTRP31/07/19 08:36 PM
136

"GuYs hAve LeSs DrAma" I laugh hearing that line.
/r/askTRP31/07/19 07:02 PM
1

The thing I would try next is when she refuses sex is just leave and don't tell her where you're going. Let her hamster spin. If she refuses sex before bed, don't make her coffee in the morning or do anything else for her. Reward good behavior only. When you're out, openly flirt with other women then play it off innocently. Dread dread dread. If none of that works I would leave the LTR.
/r/askTRP31/07/19 02:03 PM
2

"Had a great time last night. I'll be at the same bar on X if you want to join me" It's not that hard.
/r/askTRP31/07/19 01:53 PM
5

I'm almost getting to the same point as you man. Gym 5-6 days in a row for 2.5 years is wearing me out. Tempted to go buy a mountain bike and get into trail riding. My local gym has a nice pool too, I've thought about trading some lifting days for swimming.
/r/askTRP30/07/19 07:13 PM
10

You could try a hobby with heavy physical activity. Sports, mountain biking, swimming, hiking, etc..
/r/askTRP30/07/19 07:04 PM
2

She withholds sex = you withholding commitment. /u/itiswr1tten nailed it with his comment. If you had plates/abundance you would have said "ok". I would soft next until her behavior becomes satisfactory and work on getting some other girls into the rotation. You should be dating several and promoting the best one to be vetted for an LTR.
/r/askTRP29/07/19 01:47 PM
1

The idea of AWALT being a part of TRP is so you don't get the stupid idea that you found a woman who is a "unicorn" and will never cheat on you and is perfect. AWALT doesn't mean they all will act shitty, just that they all have the ability to.
/r/askTRP29/07/19 01:43 PM
69

Give her less of your time. hangout with your boys more Get in better shape And my personal favorite, 'ol reliable
/r/askTRP26/07/19 12:16 PM
4

You need to just do it man. That's a big enough city to where there are plenty of girls you can practice on. Don't be afraid of failure. Embrace it and learn from it. You need to be comfortable with rejection.
/r/askTRP25/07/19 02:13 PM
7

IMO, there's a big difference between marriage and engaging in an LTR. Again IMO, Marriage is 100% a bad idea. And the only reason to engage in an LTR is if you want more than just a fuck buddy. If you enjoy spinning plates, do that as long as you enjoy that. If you crave a deeper connection with a woman, then you thoroughly vet and promote a plate. But your mission should always be your priority.
/r/askTRP17/07/19 09:06 PM
1

Ignore/act unfazed and keep gaming.
/r/askTRP17/07/19 01:08 PM
1

Wednesday evening and the weekend for me. If you're bored you need to find a passion/hobby to sink some time into.
/r/askTRP16/07/19 05:10 PM
2

Ghost
/r/askTRP16/07/19 01:34 PM
-1

This is the most pathetic yet hilarious post I've ever read in this sub. Congrats.
/r/askTRP11/07/19 07:54 PM
1

Do you live together? If no, then just tell her, "ok, go have some space" and go about your life. If you do live together then I would just ask her to leave if it's your place and end it altogether.
/r/askTRP10/07/19 09:53 PM
5

It is much easier when a chick signals this. Fuck that. Be a man. Be a leader.
/r/askTRP10/07/19 09:02 PM
1

She probably cheated and is projecting. I would soft next or just move on all together. I wouldn't tolerate her behavior. Gotta keep your frame at all costs bro.
/r/askTRP10/07/19 08:58 PM
2

You need to find offline hobbies and use your free time doing those things and meeting friends through them. I would also put more effort into your studies. You need to find a passion between those two things (a hobby and kicking ass in school). You should absolutely quit porn cold turkey and also would strongly suggest quitting social media for a while (Facebook forever if you have one).
/r/askTRP09/07/19 05:51 PM
1

After the first time did you have any chance to employ some dread game? This might have also helped, but then again it falls back to the vetting needing to be better in the first place.
/r/askTRP02/07/19 08:55 PM
1

You lost your frame when she could tell you were visibly mad. It might have been a different outcome if you could have been completely stoic about it. Honestly though she sounds like a slut so it wouldn't have been guaranteed to work.
/r/askTRP02/07/19 08:33 PM
2

This is important also. You must maintain your own social life and keep some mystery.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/19 12:58 PM
1

You need to be outcome independent. This takes the pressure off you. Just enjoy the experience and learn what works better and what doesn't while being social.
/r/askTRP01/07/19 03:26 PM
1

Plenty of issues here... One that sticks out to me is why are you putting up with a female raising her voice and yelling at you? To me it sounds like you didn't find RP until you were already in this relationship.
/r/askTRP28/06/19 06:06 PM
2

Next her. Once she sees you as a pussy and low value. It's over. Read the sidebar and lift Be thankful you're only 20 and still have time to figure it out.
/r/askTRP28/06/19 03:48 PM
12

Go ahead and try to be cold 100% of the time in an LTR and it won't last long. She'll start obtaining beta orbiters that will listen to her vent.
/r/askTRP21/06/19 05:53 PM
19

Do not try and solve her problems. She just wants you to hear her vent.
/r/askTRP21/06/19 05:06 PM
1

My company matches up to 6%, but right now I'm contributing 11%. Should I be investing that 5% elsewhere or just leave it in my traditional 401k?
/r/askTRP20/06/19 12:17 PM
1

Even though your credit is good, remember you need good credit history to finance a lot of things. You might get denied a car loan or mortgage loan due to lack of enough credit history.
/r/askTRP20/06/19 12:16 PM
12

TRP is sexual strategy, my guy. Men are biologically driven to sleep with a many women as possible. To spread our seed so to speak. Cheating comes down to your morals. If you can do it and not let it affect your LTR, then you do you. You just need to be ready to walk away if you are caught or catch her.
/r/askTRP19/06/19 06:05 PM
1

I've listened to a few episodes... more for comedy than anything. They tell some funny stories at times. They do spill some red pill truths, but their also wrong on some things. /u/DadOnDabs is correct in his assessment.
/r/askTRP17/06/19 02:20 PM
3

That's really all you can do for now man. You can let some time pass and try again.
/r/askTRP14/06/19 09:21 PM
5

I have 2 friends fixing to through divorce. All I was planning to do was suggest them some red pill books and to start going to the gym with me. I wouldn't mention the words "red pill".
/r/askTRP14/06/19 09:02 PM
12

Pay attention to their actions, not their words. The girl doesn't look like some thot that would cheat on her BF AWALT
/r/askTRP14/06/19 05:27 PM
6

If you're SMV was higher than your ex's, it's quite easy to get over her. If not, you should focus on increasing your SMV, abundance, and "I'm the prize" mentality.
/r/askTRP13/06/19 09:29 PM
3

Girls are ok being the side chick if you are the side dude lol.
/r/askTRP11/06/19 07:23 PM
5

You set your boundaries and stick with them. You should know after 8 months what type of female she is. You either trust her or you don't. If you don't then proceed accordingly with demoting. AWALT doesn't mean she for sure will cheat.
/r/askTRP10/06/19 01:01 PM
1

Plates break man. It happens. If you don't want an LTR is just better to let them go. I do agree that letting them spend the night gives mixed signals. Just tell them you have to get up early or whatever and ask them to leave. Don't let them keep things at your place either.
/r/askTRP06/06/19 07:51 PM
3

This is correct. 22-23 is peak. Although they can stay at peak until 26 or so.
/r/askTRP31/05/19 01:27 PM
6

I'm currently feeling really negative about following the red pill advice as I think it hurts the people around me. Because the world and people around you are bluepilled. Any tips to cope up with this? Start plating women.
/r/askTRP30/05/19 03:53 PM
8

due to her depression and anxiety issues Next
/r/askTRP29/05/19 05:18 PM
1

Be careful with Snapchat. It's probably the easiest platform to get stringed along with females just wanting attention. If you really want to practice your game, do it in person. Plan trips with male friends to a nearby town for the weekend or at least somewhere in town where you and your girl are unlikely to visit.
/r/askTRP28/05/19 03:34 PM
3

Looks like you know how you fucked up. Make adjustments for next time. You can't become exclusive with a girl that quickly also. If you want an LTR, the process should be to have several plates and promote one based on how they act.
/r/askTRP28/05/19 11:28 AM
1

1.25mL of Test E and 1.25mL of EQ here weekly. I feel great. Have packed on muscle. I'm 9 weeks in. This is my first cycle. I will probably do Test E and Tren Ace next cycle and be done after that. I'm in the gym 6 days a week.
/r/askTRP24/05/19 06:10 PM
1

Basically you need to show that the shit tests and the other actions you don't like don't faze you at all. Showing indifference ties into abundance mentality. Don't get emotional or visibly angry. That's what she wants you to do. Once you're in private you can calmly state her actions were unacceptable.
/r/askTRP24/05/19 12:17 PM
3

/u/69weed420 has a great response. I would do the same as he suggested. No matter what you need to hold frame. I absolutely would introduce some dread (flirting with her friends or other girls in front of her). To me it sounds as if she's trying to seem like the one who's in control of the relationship while in a social setting. Be stoic and indifferent and maintain frame at all costs!
/r/askTRP23/05/19 07:44 PM
2

Don't lose frame again. If you had plates you would have brushed it off easy. Regain frame by just pretending it never happened and move on. If she turns you down again, I would suggest introducing some dread. You need to be dating several women and testing them until 1 is promoted to LTR if that's what you want.
/r/askTRP23/05/19 03:19 PM
15

You're still hung up on a message you sent to a girl TWO weeks ago!? Get to the sidebar asap.
/r/askTRP23/05/19 03:13 PM
1

Could be either. If she was a good lay I'd keep her as an option. But ideally you'd have plates to choose from and you wouldn't worry about one or the other not texting you back doing shit you don't like.
/r/askTRP22/05/19 01:35 PM
4

Oneitis. If you had abundance mentality you wouldn't be worried about any of this shit.
/r/askTRP22/05/19 01:31 PM
1

Lift, read the sidebar, and focus on abundance mentality. Fake it 'til you make it. Forget high school. Focus on the present and your mission. I'm 28 and didn't discover red pill until 3 or 4 years ago. I'd kill to have had this knowledge leaving high school. Take advantage of it.
/r/askTRP21/05/19 04:03 PM
1

I have 2. One set to private and one public. Plates know about the public one. Close friends and family get to follow my private one.
/r/askTRP21/05/19 01:04 PM
1

20 is too many for an LTR.
/r/askTRP21/05/19 12:57 PM
5

All good points here. I like to remain mysterious also. That makes makes girls attracted to you in the first place. You need to keep some mystery in an LTR. Keep her curious.
/r/askTRP17/05/19 09:35 PM
1

Next.
/r/askTRP13/05/19 07:45 PM
59

A girl who goes to clubs isn't LTR material. She would be better suited as a plate.
/r/askTRP18/04/19 01:04 PM
1

Keto + intermittent fasting worked wonders for me. Started at 248 and now down to 195. What you're doing will work, but I think keto and or intermittent fasting is better. Lift heavy in the evenings while fed and perform cardio in the mornings while in a fasted state.
/r/askTRP01/04/19 07:20 PM
3

You should quit all mind altering drugs/alcohol until you get your head straight. They're not doing you any favors.
/r/askTRP06/03/19 03:19 PM
20

He knows this, but the beta in him hasn't let him do it yet.
/r/askTRP18/02/19 04:44 PM
2

her daughter See... right here is where you fucked up.
/r/askTRP14/02/19 09:16 PM
7

No gifts except Chrismas because I fucking love Christmas. For Valentines I'm making us dinner then giving her some good dick.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/19 05:49 PM
1

145/265/360/380 are my current training maxes. I can do 2-5 reps of each. I still play a little bit of video games in limited amounts. It's more of what could you be doing instead? I enjoy cooking, working on my vehicles, camping/hiking, going out and being social, etc..
/r/TheRedPill13/02/19 05:47 PM
1

Escalate and try to meet up. If she doesn't want to or says no without proposing another time she is just trying to to get attention.
/r/askTRP18/01/19 01:01 PM
1

It took about a year. You could do it quicker with a stricter diet. I ate what I wanted and drank on the weekends. I'll PM you some pics this weekend.
/r/askTRP05/01/19 02:19 PM
2

I'm 6'1" and started out at 248. I'm 200 exactly as of this morning. There's a big difference. Maybe even more than I realize. I get compliments from girls and guys alike. I do IF with a deficit and have been in the gym 4 days a week for the last year. I still am holding a bit of fat on my sides and gut. Just started keto + IF to cut.
/r/askTRP04/01/19 07:44 PM
6

She has to be at least physically attractive or else what's the point!
/r/askTRP04/01/19 06:06 PM
2

Wow, you fucked up. First of all you should be verifying discreetly without her knowing. Now you lost her trust since you thought it was a good idea not to give her your phone. You aren't very smart.
/r/askTRP19/12/18 09:49 PM
7

Another thing to consider with singles moms is that you will at best, be the 3rd most important person in her life. That is not the kind of woman you want in an LTR.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/18 12:56 PM
0

I currently just started dating a woman who ticks all the above boxes and more. The only negative thing about her is she doesn't cook that much and I do enjoy a woman cooking for me.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/18 12:53 PM
13

Ultimatums are a waste of time. She shouldn't have acted the way she did to where it even gets to the point of an ultimatum. You don't owe her anything at that point and the relationship is over.
/r/askTRP14/12/18 06:03 PM
2

For someone who claims to be banging other girls you sure do seem stuck on this one girl.
/r/askTRP07/12/18 09:14 PM
2

-Gym 4-5 days a week and every week (lost 30lbs and gained good muscle) -Focusing on my mission -Greatly reduced alcohol consumption
/r/askTRP07/12/18 03:31 PM
28

Women don't want you to find solutions. They just want you to listen. Let her problems be hers. You're just there for her to vent. She doesn't want a captain save-a-ho.
/r/askTRP05/12/18 07:25 PM
6

A woman saying telling you you're a player, or "only want sex" is at most times just a shit test. Who cares if she wanted to meet up at a cafe. Meet her there then lead her to the next place. It's not that fucking hard.
/r/askTRP03/12/18 12:37 PM
2

Call the police and have her hospitalized. You need to get out. You have no obligation to be with her or be around the situation. You have your own mission in life. Find a partner who will help you achieve your mission and add positive things in your life.
/r/askTRP02/12/18 04:20 PM
3

Good advice right here. It's not easy. I've done it once, but the girl has to be more invested than you in the relationship.
/r/askTRP01/12/18 03:16 PM
2

Never mate guard. It's not your responsibility to. Your mate should know how to act. I would never intervene. You reaction to it should be to start flirting with other girls, apply dread, and possibly soft next.
/r/askTRP01/12/18 03:14 PM
0

Gotcha. If you take it without getting enough sleep then you wake up feeling tired as fuck. I take ZMA before bed, but if I get at least 7.5 hrs of sleep I wake up feeling great.
/r/askTRP29/11/18 09:04 PM
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How much sleep are you getting? Don't take ZMA unless you can get a full 8 hours.
/r/askTRP29/11/18 08:40 PM
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Your response to his comment paints a perfect picture of why you're in the place you are. No one here is going to have the perfect answer the make you do what needs to be done. It's up to you and you only. You either will or will not be a bitch.
/r/askTRP29/11/18 01:02 AM
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6'1" 205lbs- I started lifting at the beginning of the year but previously lifted in high school and lifted for about a year 4 years ago. I'm 28 now. I look decent. Bench- 255 Squat- 335 Deadlift- 365 OHP- 155
/r/askTRP17/11/18 05:00 PM
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Blue pill is what I meant it to be.
/r/askTRP16/11/18 07:50 PM
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I plated an Ex for a while. The important thing is setting boundaries which you failed to do. You have to keep things strictly physical. You failed at that also. You only speak to her when you want to have sex. I never let my ex talk about feelings, emotions, or anything going on her personal life. She would show up with food usually (I would tell her, "Come over tonight and bring me dinner") and we'd eat, watch some TV and bang, then she would leave. You weren't RP enough to do it succesfully. …
/r/askTRP16/11/18 06:34 PM
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Agree and Amplify. oh, it's like when you did X with your girlfriend "Yeah, I'll never forget that night. The sex on X was amazing."
/r/askTRP06/11/18 03:51 AM
2

This is some next level Captain Save-A-Ho material right here. What the fuck are you doing? NEXT!!
/r/askTRP31/10/18 07:44 PM
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You have to become mentally strong enough to get past it. No one here is going to give you the magical answer on how to do it. Man the fuck up and make it happen.
/r/askTRP31/10/18 03:39 PM
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I'd go with a humorous reply.
/r/askTRP10/10/18 07:31 PM
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Thanks for the reply. This is what I needed to hear. I wasn't looking at it this way exactly. I definitely haven't skipped any gym time for her, but I need to do more things that affect my self improvement.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/18 08:50 PM
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You could try going Monk Mode and NoFap for a bit. You will want women again after sometime while also improving yourself. I have been through this somewhat before and just cutting contact with women helped some spark return. Your mindset of, "if it gets cancelled I wouldn’t even mind" isn't really negative IMO. You should have a IDGAF attitude because you're a man and have other shit to do anyways.
/r/askTRP04/10/18 02:15 PM
2

lmao
/r/askTRP04/10/18 01:54 PM
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You shouldn't have to talk to her about things like this. She should respect you enough to not even think about it.
/r/askTRP03/10/18 05:14 PM
2

Thanks, I'll just do it and gauge her reaction and attraction levels. Good luck to you too, man.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/18 04:34 PM
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Just the fact that I truly enjoy her company and she acts sane. I'm stuck between giving her too much time (with the intentions of just finding out more about her and maybe trying to find a red flag) and intentionally ignoring texts and creating space so I can do other things. So yes, I can "just do it". But I want to do it for the right reasons without coming across as an asshole because she hasn't given me a reason to.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/18 03:47 PM
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oh wow, I hadn't thought of that. /s
/r/TheRedPill01/10/18 03:36 PM
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Looking forward to your guide. I'm currently 1 month into vetting a girl. Having trouble with giving her too much attention and time. I like her a lot so far and haven't seen any red flags yet. But I know i need to do more to properly vet her.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/18 03:01 PM
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She can tell your insecure about it. She probably enjoys that. Sounds like she's in complete control of the relationship and gets her way. You need to apply some dread back and start flirting with other women in front of her for starters. Although, honestly I don't think your relationship is going to get better. Don't let yourself be a cuck. Remember, you are the prize.
/r/askTRP26/09/18 07:38 PM
1

Single moms are plates at best.
/r/askTRP26/09/18 07:04 PM
0

This post makes you sound pretty beta tbh. She's already shown you she isn't LTR material (fucked on the first date). Sounds like you have oneitis which is dangerous because that also goes hand in hand with being in her frame. You should take a step back from this relationship and evaluate yourself and re-red pill yourself.
/r/askTRP25/09/18 06:08 PM
1

Next She seems very annoying.
/r/askTRP14/09/18 02:55 PM
2

Just keep at it man. Practice TRP principles daily. You can always slip back to BP tendencies if you're not on your game.
/r/askTRP11/09/18 11:46 AM
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She's not yours. It's just your turn.
/r/askTRP10/09/18 06:18 PM
1

I would go on the date and game both girls.
/r/askTRP07/09/18 06:17 PM
1

I would keep approaching her at the gym. Don't orbit though. Keep her on friendly terms. She seems like plate material.
/r/askTRP29/08/18 05:36 PM
1

You need a real workout plan, brother. I have been doing nSuns for 2 months now. Check out r/nSuns
/r/askTRP23/08/18 03:00 PM
1

I've had success mixing both. I've gone out to a bar with buddies who danced and talked to girls all night while I sat at the bar quietly and just drank. Took the bartender home that night and I maybe said ten words to her. Other nights I've really gone out of my way social and had to run game to get laid. Either way, you need confidence and some charisma.
/r/askTRP17/08/18 12:26 PM
2

Bingo
/r/askTRP16/08/18 03:49 PM
1

Well if you're in the same boat as OP then you leave her since she's fat. You shouldn't tolerate that. You are the prize.
/r/askTRP01/08/18 12:08 PM
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You could try further levels of dread. Look at other women when you are out in public. Wear nicer clothes when you go out that compliment your physique. Show your LTR that you are capable of talking to other women. Start with a waitress for example. Flirt a little bit. It will either trigger your current LTR to get her ass in gear or it won't.
/r/askTRP31/07/18 05:10 PM
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Yes. You need to focus on yourself and self-improvement.
/r/askTRP26/07/18 03:56 PM
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The fact that you don't know your ex's reaction is a good thing bro. You are on your way to being a new man. Who gives a shit what your ex thought or if she even saw it. You are focusing on you. Keep up the good work and start plating some of these women.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/18 01:26 PM
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Yep. This is why it's so important to maintain frame ALL OF THE TIME. Any time you slip, she will notice and take advantage of it.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/18 06:36 PM
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I like this response.
/r/askTRP15/06/18 11:02 PM
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I'm going to go against the tide a bit here and say it's possible, but you kind of already messed up by losing frame and entertaining her need for emotional conversation. I have an Ex who is a level 0 plate (I don't socialize in public with level 0's). I never ask her how things are going in her life or entertain her when she tries to ask me. I text her, she shows up, and we bang. She leaves and I see her again when I want. You need to be in 100% control. I have zero emotional investment in her …
/r/askTRP09/05/18 03:37 PM
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Be more assertive. Make group decisions. Be useful (intelligent, handy, reliable).
/r/askTRP20/04/18 07:00 PM
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Holy red flags. You need frame, man. Telling her to cut him off is mate guarding and a beta trait. You shouldn't have to tell her to do that. You need to employ dread and work on your abundance mentality.
/r/askTRP19/04/18 07:04 PM
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No. If you message her you lose your frame. If she never messages you then you just managed to end an LTR without any drama which is nice.
/r/askTRP17/04/18 03:43 PM
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27 here. No LTR's Lift, care about your appearance, dress well Develop skills, hobbies, activities Develop your confidence and frame Basically, make yourself desirable to women by being a fucking man. Be Alpha. I wish I would have found RP at 20 instead of 25.
/r/askTRP13/04/18 08:24 PM
2

Shit, man that's definitely clingy. Sounds like you held your frame though.
/r/askTRP11/04/18 06:55 PM
1

Solid post. Shutting my mouth has done wonders for my game. When you speak less you also need to learn to choose what you do say more wisely. Make your words mean more and be direct.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/18 06:39 PM
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Try the nsuns program out. I've had great results with it. I do that mixed with some HIIT. /r/nSuns
/r/askTRP09/04/18 07:20 PM
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You should have asked her to leave after she didn't put out. You didn't maintain frame. She would have either come back and fucked you or she wouldn't have. So, you could have fucked or watched her soft next herself. You gotta maintain frame.
/r/askTRP09/04/18 02:16 PM
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I always just let them talk and then steer the direction somewhere else. Don't fall into their frame.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/18 08:00 PM
2

Do you believe she was being fake apologetic to you or that she was lying to her friend for whatever reason? If you believe she was being fake apologetic to you I would next her. Do not tolerate disrespect or lies.
/r/askTRP17/03/18 10:37 PM
1

The relationship is over bud. Let her go, hit the gym, and focus on yourself.
/r/askTRP06/03/18 06:11 PM
2

This should have been tagged as a blue-pill example instead. This is beta as fuck.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/18 06:22 PM
2

Solid post. I agree. I had mixed feelings about the post you are referencing and was confused why it was so upvoted. Then I see the mixed feelings on this post. I thought this was /r/TheRedPill...
/r/TheRedPill05/01/18 05:02 PM
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Swallowing the red pill is journey. You will still fight BP tendencies for a while. Read and re-read all the sidebar stuff. Edit: a letter
/r/TheRedPill22/08/17 04:04 PM
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I agree. Every woman could be like that. It depends on the male in question. If the man has what the woman wants, he can do what he wants.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/17 03:54 AM
1

I think social media can be used as a tool and not affect RP mentality. You just have to keep your frame while using it. I've gotten in the habit of asking girls for their Snapchat before their phone number. They are a lot more willing to give that out sooner.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/17 08:52 PM
1

I would try to find bars close to your apt. The techniques you need are all in the sidebar.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/17 02:55 PM
1

I've been lurking a few months. Lots of good info. Finally got the courage to cut off a toxic LTR last night. Deleted my Facebook as well. It's time to focus on me and what I want. I've read about half the sidebar. My question is where do you guys have luck talking to women? I'm not a clubber and I don't frequent bars all that much. My workplace is not an option. I've done the Tinder thing and it's not really my style. Do you guys have luck approaching women pretty much anywhere as long as your …
/r/TheRedPill13/04/17 04:28 PM
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Damn Big Dick EFR guy over here. I'm still beta stock turbo on my Focus ST. Need to step my game up.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/16 09:17 PM
1

Thank you for this. I've been lurking for a for weeks wanting to start making the journey to being red-pilled. There is such great info on this sub... It's a little overwhelming going through all the stuff on the sidebar.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/16 04:31 PM
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