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6

And now you have 2 of them.
/r/MensRights16/03/21 09:52 PM
2

Recommended app?
/r/MensRights29/10/19 07:01 PM
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I think the idea of the OP was that you want the camera to be visible, so that people see it, and therefore won't mess with you.
/r/MensRights29/10/19 06:59 PM
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I have a hard time believing that wasn't a troll post. Nobody could be that awful.
/r/MensRights14/07/19 03:58 PM
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Correct. Among an absolute shitshow of a line up, he's one of the worst. His lack of pro-feminist credentials being about his only plus.
/r/MensRights27/05/19 12:42 PM
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There are actually red pill therapists out there. Google it.
/r/MensRights12/03/19 04:48 PM
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This is nothing to do with being left or right - this is simply an encounter with a sociopathic woman taking advantage of a system that is set up in her favour.
/r/MensRights12/03/19 04:47 PM
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If you want to stay in that job, you need to act NOW to get her fired, before she gets you fired. Start talking to senior management, create a paper trail of her incompetence, and let her walk into her own demise.
/r/MensRights12/03/19 04:45 PM
1

I blame the manager here. Any sane manager would know not to heed the crazed babblings of a 23 year old.
/r/MensRights12/03/19 04:43 PM
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Thanks for the archive link - looks like I can't edit the original post though.
/r/MensRights22/06/18 06:16 PM
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Oh sorry, didn't know I should have archived. EDIT: Archive link https://archive.is/kagRW Can you point me to a good takedown of Patriarchy theory? I always find that a stumbling block when talking with feminists.
/r/MensRights22/06/18 05:31 PM
2

You know what's a real diversity goal that these companies are failing at? Age diversity. Basically you're fucked if you're over 40. Let's see some talk about this!
/r/MensRights11/01/18 05:54 PM
1

This is great, someone should sticky this, or add it to the wiki
/r/MensRights24/10/17 10:36 PM
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/u/throwaway2174651 Check out what the divorce laws are in your state (assuming you are in the US). This is a must read http://www.realworlddivorce.com/
/r/MensRights24/10/17 10:33 PM
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Great resource for this - has the breakdown by state http://www.realworlddivorce.com/
/r/MensRights24/10/17 10:32 PM
1

Funny how many women never seem to have their money ready on buses or at cash desks. I see it time and time again. Must be the Patriarchy doing its worst again.
/r/MensRights24/10/17 08:58 PM
1

Sure, I get that. But actually being in people's faces can actually actively put them off your cause. Look at what's happened to feminism.
/r/MensRights21/09/17 03:43 PM
1

But look, you don't want to be "that guy". In the same way that 99% of people don't want to listen to a vegan going on about the horrors of meat, most people don't want to be lectured to and pissed off. If there's a suitable opportunity for inserting a fact into a conversation, then fine, go ahead and do it. But believe me, you don't want to be known as "the MRA guy". Light touch is the way to go.
/r/MensRights21/09/17 02:51 PM
1

This is same NOW that gave Mattress Girl an award!
/r/MensRights21/09/17 02:00 PM
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As a left winger myself, I prefer to call these people the Regressive Left, or the Authoritarian left. Please don't conflate us with them!
/r/MensRights21/09/17 01:58 PM
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I've seen the argument (from women believe it or not) that being accused of rape is actually a worse event to occur than actually being raped. Not saying I agree with that argument, but I can see the point. Nobody gets 'victim points' for being falsely accused, in fact it hangs over them the rest of their life.
/r/MensRights21/09/17 01:57 PM
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Good bot.
/r/MensRights21/09/17 01:21 PM
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Really sorry to hear your story, man. You're in a really tough spot, and while I know you can get through it, it's going to take some fighting. You need to do this, as your daughter needs you. Regarding your daughter's mother, I'm not going to get all /r/TheRedPill on you, but it sounds like you have a touch of oneitis. I'm a lot older than you, and have been around the block, and witnessed a lot of relationships go sour. One thing that's clear from your post is that your ex is not good quality …
/r/MensRights13/09/17 11:29 AM
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The deplorable Jess Philips shows up again.
/r/MensRights13/09/17 11:14 AM
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Good to see your post getting stickied, and well done on turning your personal pain into a cause for good. Might I suggest a slight edit to your post to make it slightly clearer to busy readers what exactly it is you're looking for. Bullet points or a TLDR might help.
/r/MensRights13/09/17 11:07 AM
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My ex was BPD, so I'm very interested in this subject. Could you or /u/girlwriteswhat expand a little more on the link between BPD and feminism?
/r/MensRights13/09/17 09:08 AM
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Not going to get all /r/TheRedPill on you, but seriously, women who take 3rd wave feminism seriously are not good partners. She has demonstrated that she is not able to think analytically, is colored by her emotions and also shows misandric elements. Even is she physically attractive to you now, that will change over the years. Much better to find a woman who treats you with respect and actual equality. Sounds like you have a touch of oneitis.
/r/MensRights13/09/17 09:05 AM
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Try "amused mastery"
/r/MensRights13/09/17 08:11 AM
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Ok, thanks
/r/MensRights06/09/17 10:17 PM
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It's called the pussy pass. There's even a subreddit for it!
/r/MensRights06/09/17 06:00 PM
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I know of at least 2 guys whose wives have threatened this, in a "not joking at all way". One of them was even doing internet searches for hitmen. The other one already knew someone who would do the hit for her!
/r/MensRights06/09/17 05:57 PM
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The number of stories I've heard of women weaponizing their children... I'm sure it happens the other way too where men do, but how come I never hear those stories?? What kind of sickos do that to their own child?
/r/MensRights06/09/17 05:44 PM
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WHY ISN'T THIS ON THE FRONT PAGE??!!
/r/MensRights06/09/17 05:39 PM
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Man, that looks fantastic. No way to run it under Windows?
/r/MensRights06/09/17 05:04 PM
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C'mon, it's basically badger piss.
/r/MensRights31/08/17 01:40 PM
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Came here to say this. We get enough flack here about taunting feminists. This post has nothing to do with feminism. You just met an uptight woman.
/r/MensRights27/08/17 10:05 PM
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Maybe I'm old, but being on your phone at the drive through, and not acknowledging the human being who serves you, says a lot about what kind of human you are too.
/r/MensRights27/08/17 09:40 PM
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This is something I've actually argued with feminists over. I say something like "Has it ever occurred to you to think through the consequences of forcing other women to do STEM? Did you never think that you'll just end up making them unhappy?" I work in STEM and there are some super women there who are a pleasure to work with. Then you've got the "otherkin" brigade who want to set up "diversity committees", are on Twitter all day, and make everyone else's life a nightmare. Funnily enough it's r…
/r/MensRights27/08/17 04:28 PM
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Problem glasses? Check Blue hair? Check Piercings/body art? Check I'm starting to see a pattern here, Watson!
/r/MensRights27/08/17 12:57 PM
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Yes, you're right. In fact, this could be a nice detoxing exercise for node itself, rid itself of some of these parasites.
/r/MensRights25/08/17 08:18 PM
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I thought there was a wiki for all these sources?
/r/MensRights21/08/17 09:55 PM
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Sadly there are men out there who will put up with that shit for pity sex once a month. Or rather should I say 'there are doormats out there'.
/r/MensRights11/08/17 12:04 PM
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And a blue hair. There's got to be at least one blue hair.
/r/MensRights10/08/17 08:30 PM
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There's literally an Anita Sarkeesian!
/r/MensRights10/08/17 08:29 PM
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And you said: statistically significant biological differences Looks the same to me, bud. Anyway, I was just trying to give a hint of the article. Take it up with him, not me.
/r/MensRights08/08/17 11:17 PM
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Erm...that's what I said? Did you read my link?
/r/MensRights08/08/17 10:53 PM
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Wow that was fasciinating! Thanks for responding. Glad you enjoyed the article - Scott Alexander is absolutely my number one must-read writer these days. I'd recommend signing up to his blog, or the /r/slatestarcodex subreddit.
/r/MensRights08/08/17 08:34 PM
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It's hard to let them know they're crazy when they've already banned you before you even type a letter!
/r/MensRights08/08/17 08:18 PM
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Scott Alexander has written what should be the last word on this subject. All the science points to biological reasons why there are gender differences in tech. Please send this article to anyone who claims sexism. http://slatestarcodex.com/2017/08/07/contra-grant-on-exaggerated-differences/
/r/MensRights08/08/17 06:35 PM
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She's no lady!
/r/MensRights08/08/17 10:57 AM
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This is a tenet of the Red Pill - the amount of false rape accusations that turn to be the woman cheating on her partner is scarily high.
/r/MensRights20/07/17 06:46 PM
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The outrage from The Guardian etc over this is hysterical. Top enterainment industry salaries are completely subject to free market forces. I have actually heard of most of these men, and almost none of these women.
/r/MensRights20/07/17 11:50 AM
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Love your comments - they're always so wise. Thanks.
/r/MensRights22/06/17 11:14 AM
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You can always tell them to postpone the meeting, that you need to have your lawyer with you for such a serious matter. They can't stop you delaying the meeting, and it also shows them you're not going to take any shit.
/r/MensRights22/06/17 11:10 AM
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So you've had people fired yourself? Maybe you've made some enemies from that?
/r/MensRights22/06/17 11:08 AM
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I must be getting old, what is this? What is a "dank meme"? What is that red hand symbol? Seriously!
/r/MensRights22/06/17 10:58 AM
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Wow, this is really interesting. Well done for writing this up. Any idea what the justification is for allowing women to retire younger than men?
/r/MensRights21/06/17 04:10 PM
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Feminists have called men out on our attraction to slim women - how did that work out for them? Did one man suddenly finding chubby women more attractive? No, you can't legislate for this stuff. All you can do is improve your own chances, by making yourself more attractive. As I said, this is where I think the Red Pill guys have a good point.
/r/MensRights20/06/17 08:33 AM
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Red Pill guys are pretty good on this kind of stuff. It's simple - it's biology. Hypergamy. Very little they or you can do about it. Certainly no point criticising women for it.
/r/MensRights19/06/17 08:04 PM
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John Mayer: ideal height 6'3"
/r/MensRights19/06/17 02:56 PM
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Ok, thanks. So in practice it's impossible to enforce. Say, some marketing guy goes out on his own, and sets up a startup. First 3 employees are guys he has worked with before and who he feels would be a good fit. Everyone is "MRA aware", shall we say. Next few hires are through word of mouth. And so on. I think, seeing as most hiring is done this way anyway (at least in small companies), this is something we're probably going to see more and more of. Running a business is hard enough already wi…
/r/MensRights19/06/17 02:38 PM
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Yeah, it's a matter of changing peoples minds, one by one. The thing is, if you overdo it, you become "that guy". My girlfriend is pretty fed up with me, probably because I point out sexism against men way too often. I have to learn to bite my lip.
/r/MensRights19/06/17 01:22 PM
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But how does this work in practice? Is there a law that says a certain % of employees must be female?
/r/MensRights19/06/17 01:20 PM
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Sorry to hear that, man. Good luck to you, something has to be done.
/r/MensRights19/06/17 01:14 PM
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Can someone answer me this. What's stopping any man starting his own company, and only hiring other men? He wouldn't have to be blatant about it, he could interview all sorts of people, but in the end only hire men (or even only MRAs!) as he felt they were most suitable for the job. Is that actually illegal in any country?
/r/MensRights19/06/17 12:43 PM
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And people wonder why Trump got so many votes?
/r/MensRights19/06/17 12:38 PM
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I really don't know, man. Cynical as it sounds, I really think a lot of it is about money. Certainly for feminists like Anita Sarkeesian, Jessica Valenti and Lacy Green, it was about clickbait and bringing in the cash. I guess people like TYT got on the bandwagon after that. Lacy Green has already spotted the wind turning, and now is claiming she's waking up. Let's see - follow the money!
/r/MensRights19/06/17 12:32 PM
1

I think rg57's reply to your comment is exactly right - your skills could make a massive help to a lot of men really struggling at the moment. Just this weekend, I was trying to helpp a young guy who looks like he's not going to see his kid any more, and it's tearing him apart. Men desperately need champions who aren't afraid of these people.
/r/MensRights19/06/17 11:31 AM
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Correct, there's some really messed up terminology around here these days. Misuse of the words 'liberal, 'neo-liberal', 'leftist' - it's frustrating to have discussion when people don't even use terms correctly. By the classic definition of term, mens rights issues are a liberal issues. I wish more people would study the Political Compass https://politicalcompass.org/uselection2016
/r/MensRights19/06/17 11:27 AM
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Yeah, I've seen them called the Regressive Left. What's been disturbing over the past few years is the amount of mainstream support they have received and how terrified people are to stand up to them (case in point, OP's post). I hope you are right about the 'reasonable left'.
/r/MensRights19/06/17 11:13 AM
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Correct. My gf discovered (shortly after we started dating) that she earned quite significantly less than her male peers, despite her being widely regarded within the organisation as being one of the top performers. After going over the topic with her for a while, I discovered that she had never negotiated a payrise, and had just accepted whatever the basic offer was. Add that up over 10+ years and it leads to a significant pay gap. One of our first dates was me grilling her for 2 hours in prepa…
/r/MensRights18/06/17 03:26 PM
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I think larger companies are the worst, I have worked for some smaller companies where guys can still shoot the breeze. But once they get to a certain size, and have large HR departments, it's game over. What isn't spoken about here, is the amazing camaraderie and bonding that goes on between men when there are no women around. All it takes is the presence of a single woman to completely change that. And yes, some of it is 'locker room talk' and not appropriate for modern offices, but that feeli…
/r/MensRights15/06/17 05:39 PM
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Same here. My girlfriend describes herself as a feminist, but when you give her the facts about a particular topic, she is reasonable and rational enough to see the truth, and has no time for ideology. But she still calls herself a feminist, because she believes in equality. The day we met we actually had a long chat about my ex who falsely accused me, and she immediately believed me and took my side. She's a fantastic girlfriend. I guess she is what Karen Straughan calls the "coffee shop femini…
/r/MensRights15/06/17 03:25 PM
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Downvoted for use of the word 'liberal'. There are many of us left wingers here. The people you describe are called the Regressive Left, and most Progressives (or classic liberals in the European sense of the word) are appalled by them.
/r/MensRights15/06/17 11:07 AM
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Or just post a link from We Hunted The Mammoths
/r/MensRights15/06/17 11:04 AM
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Also, I have found there is often a gap between what women say they like and what actually turns them on. Case in point, my current girlfriend, who said she had no interest in muscular men. When I started hitting the weights, and bulking up, she couldn't keep her hands off me. It's happening on a sub-conscious level, they're not always aware of the disconnect between what they say and what they do.
/r/MensRights15/06/17 11:03 AM
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Come to Europe! Nobody gives a shit about that crap over here.
/r/MensRights08/06/17 05:17 PM
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I would normally vote Labour, but fuck me, I would love to see the back of Jess Phillips. She is one nasty piece of work.
/r/MensRights08/06/17 04:12 PM
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I think the guys over in the Red Pill are right about this one. When it comes to sex, Chad gets it for free, everyone else has to pay for it. The reality is that, in her eyes, OP isn't Chad. She genuinely believes that access to her vagina is a privilege to guys like OP.
/r/MensRights02/06/17 12:42 PM
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Dude, I don't think you're getting the message here. You need to run a mile from this woman. She's not just a shitty friend, she's an actual threat to your having a peaceful life. She could have your ass in jail in 5 minutes with one call. Just ghost her, don't even make a fuss about it. Never put your dick in crazy. Never.
/r/MensRights02/06/17 12:14 PM
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I did!
/r/MensRights01/06/17 11:18 AM
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Ok, my comment was harsh, sorry about that. But if you know even the faintest thing about MRAs, you'd know how inappropriate that comment was.
/r/MensRights01/06/17 09:34 AM
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Well, if Karen can't convince, I certainly can't. Funny that you mention Christianity - it's because of Patriarchy theory that many people here consider feminism like a religion. Patriarchy is like the devil in Christianity - it's the source of all evil, and can explain away everything.
/r/MensRights01/06/17 09:32 AM
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Conversations when he meets his Labour colleague, renowned man-hater Jess Phillips, must be interesting!
/r/MensRights01/06/17 09:03 AM
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You're actually here on /r/MensRights telling someone not to be a pussy? Seriously dude, go fuck yourself with that shotgun of yours.
/r/MensRights31/05/17 10:27 PM
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That woman in the disabled seat appears to be womanspreading!
/r/MensRights31/05/17 10:25 PM
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Yeah, hypergamy is real. The lesson (which I hope you've learned) is not to make women your goal in life - they won't bring you happiness. Instead make your own happiness your goal in life, and women will naturally come as a by-product of that. Then you need to ruthlessly filter them, know the red flags, and hold out for a good woman (or more than if you like). As you get older, your options just get better and better, so there's no need to hurry.
/r/MensRights31/05/17 09:36 PM
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No, I wasn't being sarcastic - why would you think that? I wish I had done half of what you've achieved at your age. Took me until my 30s to sort myself out.
/r/MensRights31/05/17 09:29 PM
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Of course they know they're wrong, at least the smart ones do, that's why they never engage with critics. It's all dollar signs these days. Laci Green has spotted the end is nigh though, so she's changing her tack.
/r/MensRights31/05/17 08:56 PM
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Ha, that's brilliant. I can't wait for your book, or even better, when things turn around, and you get elected to the National Council For Men and Boys.
/r/MensRights31/05/17 08:55 PM
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Well done you! That's inspirational stuff. You should set a remindme here on Reddit to come back and read that comment every year for the next 10 years. Future You will be so proud of yourself.
/r/MensRights31/05/17 08:29 PM
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Oh right, got you. I blame The Graun personally. I used really love that newspaper, but my word what have they become?
/r/MensRights31/05/17 08:02 PM
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Haha! Ok! Maybe create a new login?
/r/MensRights31/05/17 07:44 PM
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Yes, for all their failings, this is something that the Red Pills guys are correct on. I've had personal experience of it myself as I moved from a scrawny dorky 20 something to a muscular charming 30 something. Often I had to pinch myself as I saw womens reactions to me change so strongly.
/r/MensRights31/05/17 07:08 PM
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Thank you. I think you misunderstood me regarding the Red Pill - I wasn't suggesting that you ask on that forum. I was just saying that the subject of sexual attraction and biological differences isn't really a mens rights issue, (even though I think the more facts that MRAs have on their side, the stronger their arguments will be). Having said that, I'm sure if you asked nicely and promised to behave, they would let you post there. Alternative there is a Red Pill Women subreddit where you could…
/r/MensRights31/05/17 07:05 PM
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Yeah, the test is a great thing to do with friends and family, and see which issues you are actually informed on, and which you're just parroting received wisdom. I find it amazing how many people just buy the full "Team Blue" or "Team Red" package, without considering the individual issues. For example, I believe in free markets, but recognise that they occsionally need regulation. I also believe in social safety nets, ala European social democracies. I'm very liberal (i.e. anti-authoritarian) …
/r/MensRights31/05/17 06:19 PM
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Sorry, but which definition of the word liberal are you using? It's not clear from your message.
/r/MensRights31/05/17 04:18 PM
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Yes, I sometimes refer people to the Political Compass to get a better understanding of this https://politicalcompass.org/test . Liberal in the classical sense means the opposite of Authoritarian. Most political parties nowadays, and not just in the US, are extremely authoritarian. Most people, when they take the political compass test, are a bit shocked to see how little the politicians they vote for actually reflect their beliefs!
/r/MensRights31/05/17 02:39 PM
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Patriarchy doesn't exist - you need to go read some Karen Straughan. Once you understand that Patriarchy doesn't exist, everything else comes more easily.
/r/MensRights31/05/17 12:55 PM
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Also, given that where you are in the UK, one of the main political parties has the word Liberal in their name, you would think that people might get it a bit more, eh?! No chance.
/r/MensRights31/05/17 12:52 PM
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Thank you! I knew there were a few of us around, but like you I tend to let it slide, especially when dealing with Americans. Ironically, American liberals are the most illiberal of all (in the classic meaning of the term) - regressives indeed. I'd love to know what idiot decided to use a perfectly good word like liberal to describe progressive politics. I hate when words change meaning!
/r/MensRights31/05/17 12:51 PM
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Where exactly is the "feminism hate" in his comment? You're projecting, honey.
/r/MensRights31/05/17 12:07 PM
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Really interesting post - thank you!
/r/MensRights31/05/17 12:00 PM
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That's ridiculous. As Harari said in his TED talk, we have global problems that can only be solved on a global level. We need the UN, and more of it.
/r/MensRights31/05/17 12:00 PM
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I object to your conflating feminists and liberals (or progressives as I prefer to call them - here in Europe the word 'liberal' refers to classical liberalism, a very different concept to that which you refer to). Why do I object? Because I am a critic of feminism, but consider myself progressive on many issues. In reality, I'm more of classical liberal than the modern US concept of liberal, but me saying that probably just confuses matters more. :-) Anyway to answer your question, feminists ig…
/r/MensRights31/05/17 11:58 AM
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In fairness, she makes some good points - women's propensity to pair bond has been dismissed by feminists, which is incredibly detrimental to society. Of course, we have to remember that when women write about men, they always and only refer to Chad, the "apex fallacy". Most men are invisible to women, they not only don't see them, they don't even believe that they have problems. If they have sexual needs, they are creeps.
/r/MensRights31/05/17 11:49 AM
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It's what is known as the "apex fallacy" - men below a certain level are invisible to women. They literally don't even see them, and certainly don't want to have sex with them.
/r/MensRights31/05/17 11:47 AM
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Well, my answer is possibly more suited to /r/TheRedPill but I think that the more we learn about the biological differences between men and women, we can no longer ignore the fact that men and women are very different. I'm really talking here about the 97% cis-het part of the population - I'm not going to comment on the outliers, and I think this is one of the problems about these conversations, that the tiny proportion of outliers have dominated the discussion in recent times, to the detriment…
/r/MensRights31/05/17 10:50 AM
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First of all, I want you to understand that how you are feeling is normal. It's normal to feel depressed when under huge pressure and stress, and what you've gone through hasn't been easy. So give yourself a break. On the other hand, once you have had a little break, you need to take responsibility for your life, and build towards a better future. Check out this great video from Jordan Peterson https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QctT0Oc_uQQ Push yourself to break into new social circles - join club…
/r/MensRights31/05/17 09:30 AM
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Dude that speaks after her saying "we're not super interested in talking to you..." has got to be one of the stupidest human beings on the planet. I predict that he will show up here on day after getting fucked over by his feminist sidekicks.
/r/MensRights31/05/17 09:23 AM
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Yeah, maybe he was trolling us with some rage-porn. It certainly worked on me! Short version of it was that he was in the park with his kid when some women tried to grab his phone of him, calling him a pedo. Cops came and arrested him of course.
/r/MensRights31/05/17 09:08 AM
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It's not comparing like with like. Karen Straughan has written about this before when comparing so-called oppression of women with actual oppression of black people. As she pointed out, men and women lived together closely in communities for millenia, whereas black people and white people would rarely have seen each until a few hundred years ago. This closeness discounted the possibility of any real oppression between men and women, not so for black people. I think women-only and male-only event…
/r/MensRights31/05/17 08:44 AM
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I would call people out on the weird looks - not necessarily aggressively, but just to let them know that I see it, and that I won't tolerate it.
/r/MensRights30/05/17 05:25 PM
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Sure, but it's going in the wrong direction. I'm quite happy to see women only events, as long as men only events are permitted too. The female invasion of all male spaces over the past few decades has left men with no spaces of their own (despite feminist bullshit about every space being a male space), and I actually don't believe that's good for society.
/r/MensRights30/05/17 10:49 AM
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Holy shit, this is too much. This shit has got to be stopped. Fuck these people. This story makes me so angry.
/r/MensRights30/05/17 10:44 AM
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I have to say that I agree with him. I can't get excited about this ridiculous movie. Let's pick our battles I say. Making a fuss about this makes us look like a bunch of whiners.
/r/MensRights29/05/17 07:02 PM
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In fairness, r/feminism might have a lot more subscribers if they didn't ban anyone who tries to engage with them! LOL!
/r/MensRights29/05/17 09:04 AM
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Can someone explain to me the joke "alex" made?
/r/MensRights27/05/17 06:55 PM
2

Great video, thanks for sharing. That's a really powerful point that we don't hear mentioned enough: the flipside of rights is responsibility. And that responsibility gives the meaning to life.
/r/MensRights27/05/17 01:46 PM
2

Wasn't there a useful list somewhere of feminist shaming tactics, and good responses?
/r/MensRights26/05/17 09:14 PM
3

This is so true, thank you for reminding everyone. I would go so far as to say choose your battles - there's no point going into /r/feminism and starting an argument. You're just wasting your energy. However, anywhere there are neutrals (e.g. any of the mainstream subs, or on other websites), it really pays to argue with feminists, not to beat them, but to persuade the neutrals watching. By being the one who stays calm, and sticks to the facts, you will always win. After all, we know we're right…
/r/MensRights26/05/17 09:13 PM
9

At least it's not a 'male tears' mug.
/r/MensRights26/05/17 02:22 PM
2

I just gave you an upvote for getting banned from 2x. Welcome to the club!
/r/MensRights25/05/17 08:07 PM
5

If you ever get an opportunity to get some PTSD therapy, I recommend it. There have been some incredible breakthroughs with psychedelic therapy and PTSD. It changed my life.
/r/MensRights25/05/17 05:06 PM
17

I read every word you wrote, and I want you to know that it moved me deeply. I feel your pain, and I wish there was more that can be done to help. I urge you to continue fighting, you never know what good things are just round the corner, never give up hope.
/r/MensRights25/05/17 04:16 PM
1

And cash prizes.
/r/MensRights25/05/17 01:54 PM
6

You have to understand that at this stage, feminism is big money. It's business to these people. They've moved beyond mere ideology. They have zero interest in honest discussion. So by raising these questions, you're attacking their income. Of course, they're going to deal with you in a harsh manner.
/r/MensRights25/05/17 01:48 PM
1

The invisible male minions tending to their mistresses' every need!
/r/MensRights25/05/17 09:08 AM
3

"Top bloke"? Are you sure you're really Irish? ;-) Joking aside I think what you are doing is wonderful. I visit Ireland regularly and have good friends there, who tell me that while feminists in Ireland feel that the country is a 1950s backwater (mostly because of laws around abortion and sexual issues), in fact the reality is that it's as misandrist as the rest of western Europe, with fathers issues being particularly weak. I believe there is one particularly nasty lesbian feminist who has a r…
/r/MensRights25/05/17 09:02 AM
6

What a great video. Thanks for linking, hadn't heard of him before.
/r/MensRights24/05/17 03:53 PM
4

There was widespread coverage of his story e.g. https://www.independent.co.uk/news/people/news/007-sir-roger-moore-was-victim-of-domestic-violence-8130816.html
/r/MensRights24/05/17 11:53 AM
3

Yes that may be true, but I've found it a useful strategy to open people up to ideas of mens' issues. Once you've gotten people to accept the idea that it's unacceptable that young boys should be discriminated against, they are more open to accept the same for older boys, young men, and ultimately all men.
/r/MensRights29/11/16 10:03 AM
2

Indeed. But my heart is as strong as ever, I want the Left to succeed. It just seems they spend a lot of their energy on LGBT/etc issues instead of their core competency of class struggle.
/r/MensRights11/11/16 10:11 AM
3

This has happened in the UK. Twice! Labour kept bleating on about how sexist it was that they couldn't find a female leader, when the truth was their female candidates were awful. The Torys (who I hate, by the way), just turned around and elected Teresa May. And of course, they had Thatcher nearly 40 years ago. So 2-0 to the conservatives. Jesus, what's happening to me? It's like I'm becoming more conservative as I get older. Why can't the Left get it together, for fucks sake!
/r/MensRights10/11/16 02:37 PM
3

Came here to say this. If there's one thing I've picked up from the manosphere is to be very careful discussing this stuff in public, and absolutely avoid it at work. You have now put a big target on your back, and as principled as you may feel you are being, it is absolutely not worth it.
/r/MensRights10/11/16 02:32 PM
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Cucks like me? Good job, son, keep telling yourself you understand the world. Clueless.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/16 04:04 PM
2

Same here!
/r/MensRights09/11/16 04:01 PM
-1

TRP support for Trump? There are many here who despise Trump as much as Clinton. You don't speak for all us.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/16 03:32 PM
1

Yes, you can pick up some copies on Amazon or eBay, I believe.
/r/MensRights23/09/16 02:43 PM
14

Her name is usually one of the first to get mentioned when people discuss Borderline (BPD) women.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/16 11:15 PM
1

Dude, this is real. A guy I know got rear-ended by a car last week. This crazy chick jumps out of the car, and tells him she's claiming rape. Just like that, out of nowhere. Thank fuck when the cops arrived they laughed her out of it. Could have gone very differently.
/r/MensRights31/07/16 03:52 PM
1

I've got to say I know what you mean, but I think you may be unlucky with your choice of friends. Most of my good male friends have always been very supportive emotionally of me, and vice versa.
/r/MensRights30/07/16 04:32 PM
1

Nice convolution of what I wrote. The "evil cabal" you were referring to is clearly referring to the power structures within the womens movement. Surely NOW are at the peak of that power structure, given their influence?
/r/MensRights18/07/16 11:41 AM
1

I wish you were right, but Tinder gives women access to hot guys on their own terms, on tap, all day long. Laws like this are designed to keep the 'creepy' guys away. Women still want the hotties.
/r/MensRights15/07/16 01:10 PM
1

Would that minority include the world's largest feminist group, NOW, who just gave known false rape accuser and life destroyer, Emma Sulkowicz an award? https://news.artnet.com/art-world/national-organization-for-women-honors-emma-sulkowicz-527621
/r/MensRights15/07/16 01:08 PM
1

Ah but you see, that is actually what they want. They want total control over the male-female interaction, they want it on their terms, not ours. So they have Tinder and social media to gain access to the men that they find attractive, and laws like this new one to keep the 'creeps' away. You have to give them credit - they do have a devilish master-plan.
/r/MensRights15/07/16 01:03 PM
2

I actually don't know much about it myself, but I understood it was AVFM's conference, so any media failure has to be on them. It was hardly even mentioned here in Reddit, for hecks sake.
/r/MensRights12/07/16 03:47 PM
1

I think Milo cancelling his talk was definitely a blow.
/r/MensRights12/07/16 03:25 PM
2

I disagree. I regularly read The Guardian, and yes, for about 10 days after Brexit they were so busy with Brexit coverage they even stopped their usual spew of feminist nonsense, but about a week ago, it started up again, business as usual. I think AVFM have to take some blame for lack of media.
/r/MensRights12/07/16 03:24 PM
1

But why didn't the same people who ran it in Detroit run it again this year? Why was Mike even asked to run the media side? AVFM should have a central authority for this, not leave it up to the man on the ground in London.
/r/MensRights12/07/16 03:22 PM
2

Yeah, really disappointed with the lack of social media output from the conference.
/r/MensRights12/07/16 03:18 PM
1

You sound like you will be a great dad :-) I hear you. Believe me there's no better man than me for self improvement. I'm the guy everybody comes to for advice on you name it. I never stop believing that I shouldn't be constantly improving as a man, and will use all available means to do so. However, my experience with psychedelics was like finding new tools to reach something I wasn't able to access previously. And afterwards, I just had more mental and emotional space and energy to get on with…
/r/TheRedPill01/07/16 08:43 AM
1

I felt very safe and supported on ibogaine, but I think it's very important the space you're in, and person you have sitting with you. Good luck, I hope you find what you need.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/16 08:38 AM
1

I'm a little late here, but I really want to thank you /u/heathcliff-- for this posting. I've often thought of the overlap between the effects of psychedelics and the wisdom of the Red Pill. I've made a few comments throughout this thread relating my own positive experience with psychedelics (in particular iboga). I am a 180 degree convert from someone with a very strong anti-drugs stance, to a true believer in the power of psychedelics (I won't go so far as to say all "drugs", as that is far to…
/r/TheRedPill30/06/16 03:53 PM
1

I actually had this very same opinion for decades, and poured scorn on people I knew who smoked. However, an incredibly healing and educational experience with psychedelics changed my opinion, and I realised that drugs are a tool, and like all tools, can be used for many purposes. I still won't try most drugs, but psychedelics in particular can be really transformational, when taken in a safe, secure manner.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/16 03:42 PM
1

I think you need to distinguish between psychedelics and other drugs. Psychedelics are not addictive (good luck trying to get addicted to iboga - it's actually used as a cure for heroin and other addictions).
/r/TheRedPill30/06/16 03:37 PM
1

Same thing happened to me, which left me scarred for years. I had taken it in an extremely unsafe environment (people I didn't like, took too high a dose, no safe place to retreat to, very unpleasant). I finally cured it using another psychedelic, believe it or not, many years later. I really think everyone should try them in a safe, controlled manner - they are incredibly profound teachers.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/16 03:36 PM
1

Have to disagree, my friend. I thought the same for many years, particularly after a bad mushroom trip as a young student. Many years later I transformed myself, and dealt with some pretty crippling anxiety/trauma symptoms with the help of psychedelics. These are wonderfully powerful agents of change if used with the right attitude and approach.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/16 03:33 PM
1

I'd recommend iboga specially for the type of thing you describe. It's a very therapeutic experience, and you should do it with an experienced sitter. Can be life transforming.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/16 03:31 PM
1

Yes, there's a huge amount of research coming through about the use of psychedelics with PTSD, depression and anxiety. Just need to get governments to get the hell out of the way, and let people do the research!
/r/TheRedPill30/06/16 03:30 PM
2

Ever tried iboga/ibogaine? That's a whole other level again. Completely life transformative. It kills me that governments have stopped us from experiencing these glorious gifts from nature that are some of the most powerful educational tools available.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/16 03:25 PM
1

I think you have to distinguish between "drugs" and psychedelics specifically. Most people think of the stoner stereotype i.e. someone with no goals in life, who uses drugs as a form of escape. But psychedelics are the complete opposite of that, particularly something like iboga. It's like an encounter with the deepest, wisest, smartest, truest part of yourself. It has been described as years of therapy in one session. As OP said, these are things you take very sparingly, maybe once or twice a y…
/r/TheRedPill30/06/16 03:23 PM
1

I wonder if Heard's ex-girlfriend has spoken up in her defence, like Depp's ex has in his defence?
/r/MensRights08/06/16 01:37 PM
1

It's definitely being mentioned on The Guardian. NOT!
/r/MensRights08/06/16 01:34 PM
1

Sounds like she was Borderline (BPD)
/r/PussyPassDenied01/06/16 02:23 PM
1

Looks like the Science subreddit deleted that discussion. I don't suppose there's an archive around?
/r/TheRedPill23/05/16 01:47 PM
3

Unfortunately, Americans have taken the word "liberal" and completely tarnished its meaning from its original sense. As a European it enfuriates me every time I see it used on a forum, but I've given up questioning it. It's too far gone now.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/16 09:07 AM
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I'm a bit late to this, but here are a few more red flags I've learned over the years. Tattoos Deliberately dressing in an unfeminine manner - hacked hairstyle, masculine clothing Slutty clothing Feminist beliefs Party girl - smokes, drinks too much, does party drugs, can't keep her clothes on Daddy issues No interest in taking care of the people in her life - cooking is a big part of this, but it also extends to having a nurturing personality. Dislikes children - personally I don't want childre…
/r/TheRedPill16/05/16 06:12 PM
2

Agreed, lack of interest in taking care of the people in her life is a massive red flag to me.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/16 06:00 PM
2

No female friends is one I've noticed. Male orbiters will always be there of course.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/16 05:57 PM
1

It might not be a bad idea to re-edit your post and summarise all the extra ones listed in the comments. Your post is gold, and together with the extra suggestions from the comments, would be a RP classic.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/16 05:56 PM
1

It might not be a bad idea to re-edit your post and summarise all the extra ones listed in the comments. Your post is gold, and together with the extra suggestions from the comments, would be a RP classic.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/16 05:56 PM
2

You could add "has tattoos" to this list.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/16 05:54 PM
1

You need to understand that there are many people here on RP who are not conservatives, who vote Sanders (if they're in the US), or Jeremy Corbyn in the UK. Yes, there are a lot of conseratives and reactionary types here (not surprising given the subject matter), but don't for a second think they are the majority.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/16 05:10 PM
1

That white girl is the epitome of "entitled". I have to say though that the "moderate" white guy looks more homosexual than straight (or maybe that's just what young Australians look like nowadays.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/16 11:04 AM
1

I hear you, buddy. Thanks for your words. I wonder why you're getting downvoted. Maybe this post got brigaded by some BPDs!
/r/TheRedPill06/04/16 09:13 AM
1

Yeah, Fatal Attraction's bunny boiler is the most accurate realisation I've seen. For BPD, "Feels = reals" isn't just an analogy - it's their actual truth. They literally believe whatever they're feeling, and reality adjusts around them, in order to maintain the very thin veil of ego they are desperately trying to maintain. I had stopped sleeping with mine, as I found her so terrifying, so she created the story that I was gay, to explain why a man she desired didn't desire her. Because there cou…
/r/TheRedPill06/04/16 09:05 AM
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IF you HAVE dated someone with BPD long term, you almost CERTAINLY are also suffering from one or several personality disorders. Sorry, my friend, that's just not true, assuming you mean the technical term "personality disorder" (as in Cluster B etc). As I described in a comment, I lived 2 years with a BPD woman, and I'm one of the most pyschologically healthy people you'll ever meet. In my case it was a combination of naivety, and bad luck. I probably thought I could save her, and that kept me …
/r/TheRedPill06/04/16 08:48 AM
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Yeah, I feel you. I had no idea what was going on, couldn't put a name on, until actually admitted to me that she was BPD. I'll never forget that feeling when I went onto Google and typed it in, and the hairs started to rise on the bag of my neck. At first I was optimistic, "oh great, maybe I can find a solution for all these problems we've been having", but the more I read, it dawned on me, exactly as you described: "I AM FUCKED - this is going so badly". It really frightened me in ways that ar…
/r/TheRedPill06/04/16 08:43 AM
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Can confirm everything said here. I lived with a BPD woman for a few years. They are like the female archetype multiplied a thousand times. Bewitching and ultimately destructive - like the Sirens from Homer. She almost broke me, and I mean that literally - I wanted to die. I had the whole deal - violence (against me, I never laid a finger on her), false accusations, forced sex against my will (I guess that makes me a "rape victim" boohoo), financial abuse, overdoses, attempted elimination of all…
/r/TheRedPill05/04/16 05:31 PM
1

Yeah, there are some great women out there. I've noticed the best women had strong father figures, something which is increasingly rarer these days.
/r/MensRights22/03/16 04:09 PM
1

Mature to women just means you better be "ready to give her those babies and Daddy-cash, that she was having too much fun up to now to get". Always ask yourself, "what's in it for me? What does she bring to the table?"
/r/MensRights22/03/16 03:16 PM
6

That's how good men end up over on the Red Pill - years of listening to abuse like that from women will do that to you.
/r/MensRights22/03/16 03:05 PM
3

Wow! That's an amazing site.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/16 11:52 AM
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Do you think so? I suppose he has a very public profile (Harvard, MIT etc), so he has to be careful what he says. But still he seems to be suggesting that these late 30s women deserve a well-educated man their same age. I'm not convinced he gets it.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/16 03:16 PM
2

Moving article and video. Thanks for sharing.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/16 03:08 PM
15

Yeah, the guy was a hero to a lot of tech people. At least he can afford those $865 a week payments.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/16 02:54 PM
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Yeah, he half gets it, but doesn't see what the real problem, or how to fix it.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/16 02:41 PM
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I wonder is he smart enough to avoid repeating the experience, i.e. marry again? Seriously though, this guy must have an IQ of 170, his resume is incredible, he's built successful businesses. You can see he knows something is wrong, but just can't grasp what it is.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/16 02:40 PM
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Well, he's a lot less rich now after his divorce! https://casetext.com/case/greenspun-v-greenspun-3
/r/TheRedPill20/03/16 02:07 PM
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She's basically the epitome of all that is wrong with young women today. Slut culture, trash culture etc. A terrible role model for young girls.
/r/MensRights26/02/16 05:22 PM
3

Thanks for filling in the knowledge gap!
/r/MensRights14/01/16 10:53 PM
2

This. It could well be someone else's child.
/r/MensRights14/01/16 02:40 PM
2

ah ok. Thanks for replying.
/r/MensRights14/01/16 02:33 PM
3

Sorry for my ignorance, but what's "the Milo situation"? Has he done something in particular?
/r/MensRights14/01/16 12:53 PM
6

Seriously dude, it's moronic comments like that that give MRAs a bad name. Never give your enemies ammunition to use against you!
/r/MensRights06/01/16 11:54 PM
4

Right! OP would be better off just blocking their site, and visiting some quality news outlets. They are the news equivalent of a troll, and best ignored.
/r/MensRights06/01/16 11:40 PM
1

I'm really wondering why Valenti was stupid enough to debate in public. Rad fems usually avoid debates for this very reason.
/r/MensRights12/12/15 05:06 PM
1

Karen, thought you'd be interested in what Ally responded to your comment with when I quoted it to him (over on that AMA). Would love to see some dialog between you two. I must admit that I simply cannot abide talking-head videos on Youtube and since that tends to be KS's medium I rarely pay her much attention. I find vlogs slow and boring at the best of times, and hers tend to drone on and on and on.... really not for me. Like most MRAs, my main political issue with her is that she either does …
/r/MensRights03/12/15 11:59 PM
3

Thanks for this. I still haven't seen a really good formal debunking of 'The Patriarchy'. I asked Karen Straughan about it before, but have still to come across one. As far as I can see, for feminists it serves the same purpose as Satan does for Christians, a bogeyman they can blame everything they don't like on.
/r/MensRights02/12/15 08:27 PM
1

It was in the videos subreddit. Title was "the best dumping video of a cheating girl you will ever see".
/r/TheRedPill01/12/15 03:25 PM
1

Huge red flag. Don't go near girls with tattoos.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/15 03:24 PM
1

I think it depends on how naturally alpha they are. There's a difference between alpha blue pill and beta blue pill. Alpha BP are still alpha and still having it easy with chicks despite their BP programming (quite a few friends of mine fit into this category, call themselves feminists, treat their GFs very well, and pretty much just accept things for what they are). It's the Beta and Omega BP guys who really suffer - they're getting a hard time, and no one gives a fuck about them.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/15 03:20 PM
1

Even hit her. In lots of Latino countries, the guys have murdered their women once they found her cheating. This guy handled it like a boss, and decided to make it entertaining. Most of all for himself, I suppose.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/15 03:13 PM
1

It's funny. You and I can see that straight away (I mean, the eyebrows alone!), but why is it so many other men can't see it? The guy seems like a typical British working class guy, so I guess he's grown up surrounded like girls like that. I don't know, I can't figure it out.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/15 03:09 PM
1

Thanks!
/r/MensRights29/11/15 07:16 PM
1

I think she probably is neutral and possibly even slightly sympathetic to MR, but I think the reason she named her documentary TRP was probably accidental. I don't think she intended to lump Red Pill in with MR. However, many other critics of MR do deliberately lump them together for the reasons I stated.
/r/MensRights29/11/15 07:15 PM
1

Hey Karen, I was just thinking of you, when I stumbled on this post. Did you see the AMA done by Ally Fogg on Menslib ? I was wondering what you think of him? He seems to nicely straddle that line between feminism and men's issues. Just curious if you've come across his work? His blog is called HetPat over on Free Thought Blogs (can't link anything here for some reason).
/r/MensRights28/11/15 05:46 PM
1

It's a deliberate attack by opponents - it makes it much easier to dismiss men's issues advocates by lumping them in with so-called misogynists.
/r/MensRights28/11/15 05:35 PM
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Sorry to be the one to tell you, but that guy is no friend. You need to keep him at arm's length from now on, and don't confide in him any more. The problem now is that he probably told the girl some bullshit about you, and her opinion of you has been changed. You need to pull back from her too for a few days. She doesn't sound as though she's worth any of your valuable time.
/r/askTRP28/11/15 03:10 PM
1

So wrong dude. Icelandic women are unbelievable.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/15 06:17 PM
1

Great comment, dude. Having suffered from the black dog myself at various times in my life, I've found that cognitive stuff only goes so far. What has been really effective for me is body based work, and ultimately ibogaine. Joe Rogan did a podcast on it a while back - you should check it out. It completely changed my life.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/15 09:29 AM
4

All good points. I think your point one is the salient one: They genuinely think it it's a sane proposition I've heard nothing from Cassie Jaye yet to indicate that she has a fundamental problem with mainstream feminism. I'm not convinced she's reached that Aha! moment when you realise mainstream feminism is a crock of shit, and that it has nothing to do with equality, and that the Patriarchy doesn't even exist. Let's see how it turns out. I hope you're right, I really do. If she gets this film …
/r/MensRights03/11/15 11:14 PM
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There's a lot of hopium in what you've written. As much as Cassie Jaye impresses me, I fear in the end she'll say something along the lines of "yes, men have issues, but feminism is the answer". TLDR: moar feminism!
/r/MensRights03/11/15 06:36 PM
3

Good comment. Thanks for reaching out.
/r/MensRights03/11/15 04:12 PM
1

Check out ibogaine. See my reply to the other PTSD guy for details.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/15 11:58 AM
1

Seriously man, you don't have to live like that. Check out ibogaine. It's a miracle cure for PTSD. Changed my life. You have to travel to Canada or Mexico, but it's the greatest investment you'll ever make in your own mental health. Ibogaine is so powerful that it's the only known substance that can break heroin addiction. There are minor risks if you have certain heart conditions, but as long as your blood pressure is being monitored, you'll be fine.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/15 11:57 AM
1

I'd take it further - guys, just don't date feminists. You'll only regret it.
/r/MensRights02/11/15 03:09 PM
3

So basically, fight hypergamy with hypertrophy.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/15 01:45 PM
1

WTF is wrong with atheists? They are probably the most intelligent, strongly ethical group in modern society. I get your point about religion is probably the only thing holding back the masses from savagery, but don't blame atheism for that.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/15 01:23 PM
1

Well, some people fall for the idea that 2 high incomes makes for a more comfortable family life, with the load being shared. Of course, in practice it doesn't always work out that way.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/15 01:06 PM
1

This confused BP me for years. I couldn't figure out why the women I should have been attracted to (intelligent, same values, goals in life) completely turned me off with their masculinity and hardness. There seemed to be nothing in between dumb but attractive women, and smart but unappealing ones. Horrible situation to be in.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/15 12:32 PM
2

Can confirm. A good friend is married to a doctor, who's a sweet girl, but completely uninteresting to talk to, once you go off the subject of medical issues. She tried to set me up on a few dates with a colleague of hers, another doctor. Again a nice girl, but nothing to say for herself. It's amazing - such social status because of a job.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/15 12:27 PM
1

Friend of mine's sister was a medical student. She used tell us that the girls in her class were all miserable "because no man was good enough". There was one girl who was hot as well as smart, who stayed single her entire time in college, because she preferred to be alone, rather than date down. Unbelievable.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/15 12:24 PM
1

This. One of the stupidest women I've ever known is now the "developers advocate" (whatever the fuck that is) for a major software company, probably earning more than me. I'll give her credit for one thing, she's a seriously good networker, and always involved in these types of conferences.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/15 12:58 PM
1

Yeah, I actually thought it took away a little from the joke given how 'triggering' that phrase is to post-feminism women.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/15 12:48 PM
2

I know so many guys who live like this, and they are all unhappy. I despise how they go sneaking around behind their wives backs to have a once a month beer with me or other pals. And they have become total flakes, we'll arrange a beer, and they'll drop me last minute, because wife. I've basically dumped them as friends, but I don't deny it hurts. They are good men, just blue pill. Even long before I took the red pill, I despised that behaviour in other men. So many of them just assume it's the …
/r/TheRedPill27/08/15 12:17 PM
1

This is all true. A good buddy of mine has been meditating for over 20 years, and the stuff he reports is amazing. Insights into the nature of reality, nature of mind, the self etc etc. For thousands of years, all this inner knowledge was wrapped up in religious fluff, but now with the internet, there are fantastic communities available where people share their ideas, experiences etc (just like the Red Pill!). Here are some, for example, where they discuess the stages the people have reported pa…
/r/TheRedPill24/08/15 04:00 PM
1

Haha, you're right. And of course they haven't even vaguely thought it through - so if you forced all the Chads to pair off with one woman each, what about the women who didn't get a Chad? They can't be expected to settle for a non-Chad. LOL!
/r/TheRedPill14/08/15 11:10 PM
1

Yes, what's needed is some Sexual Socialism - from each according to his ability, to each according to his needs! ;-)
/r/TheRedPill14/08/15 10:22 PM
1

I really worry about my nieces growing up in this society. The boys will be ok with some RP guidance, but the girls I'm not so sure about. Would love to see some good parenting advice here.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/15 10:08 PM
1

Or by being a woman yourself. Thank you /u/girlwriteswhat !
/r/TheRedPill14/08/15 06:30 PM
1

Yeah, you know you're getting old when you find you are repulsed by the heroes of the modern kids. Parasitic free-riders is a good way to put it.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/15 06:25 PM
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I actually donated money directly to /u/girlwriteswhat from her Youtube channel. I've noticed that people take a woman talking about mens rights far more seriously than a man, so the more women we can get onside, the better.
/r/MensRights03/08/15 12:17 PM
1

Absolutely. I firmly believe that, in private, many people think that much of feminist belief is crazy, but in public, they feel it's politically incorrect not to go along with the feminine imperative. Which is why when you have an election you get these unexpected results which go against the polls.
/r/MensRights03/08/15 08:33 AM
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Good point, I was just copying them from the article where I first saw his proposals listed. I might do some editing on it. Thanks for pointing that out.
/r/MensRights01/08/15 05:45 PM
2

Nothing particularly. I was just taking his paper as a whole.
/r/MensRights01/08/15 05:20 PM
2

Absolutely
/r/MensRights01/08/15 05:19 PM
3

Yes, it's clearly flawed thinking, but as I mentioned in the original post, it's almost political suicide nowadays not to agree with the feminist imperative, particularly for a left wing party.
/r/MensRights01/08/15 04:46 PM
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Yes, it is galling, particularly coming from a man who appears to be very genuine in his political stance.
/r/MensRights01/08/15 04:45 PM
2

You need to be more cunning on how you engage her. Don't use logic, instead use feelz, as in /u/BetterBadIdeas example above.
/r/MensRights01/08/15 03:15 PM
1

I don't know man, I actually like spending time and talking to women. Sex is only a part of it for me. I have no interest in prostitution or virtual reality sex. Do I have such an unusual perspective on male-female interaction?
/r/TheRedPill27/07/15 09:48 AM
2

While there are some good answers here, I think there could be another perspective. You remind me of my younger self. I always felt great when I was helping other people, solving their problems for them, or giving up precious time to do things for them. What I realised after years of hard work on my self, was that I enjoyed the attention I got from feeling needed, and told myself that these people liked me because they were using me. Of course, the reality of it was that some people were just us…
/r/askTRP03/07/15 12:51 PM
1

Yeah, he is. Amazing writer. Such a loss to the world when he died. Some great interviews with him on Youtube too.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/15 05:16 PM
1

Hi, do you happen to have a handy link to what they have banned?
/r/MensRights11/06/15 01:33 PM
3

Yeah, what's interesting for me, as someone who has personally suffered from and overcome PTSD, is that the avoidance of potential triggers isn't a helpful approach to healing genuine trauma. I think that many of these people who claim to be getting triggered have no real interest in healing themselves and actually feeling ok.
/r/MensRights11/06/15 01:32 PM
1

Way to welcome a much needed supporter in the sub, man. /s
/r/MensRights09/06/15 10:22 AM
1

Seriously dude, why so angry? Can't you see the overall positive vibe the OP was trying to send? Can't you also see that the statement about wife-beating was made from ignorance and not malice? Give people a chance - assume ignorance before assuming malice. Trust, but verify.
/r/MensRights09/06/15 10:22 AM
1

That's part of her plan. She'll scoop up all those comments, and present them as more evidence for rape culture.
/r/MensRights08/06/15 09:37 AM
1

Yeah, how crazy was HE to agree to that? And how thirsty must he be that he would want to have sex with her after everything that happened?
/r/MensRights08/06/15 09:35 AM
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It's actually even worse than that. Watch "Your Brain On Porn" video. It's like heroin in terms of the effects on the brain. http://yourbrainonporn.com
/r/TheRedPill04/06/15 08:46 AM
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Great point. Porn is incredibly damaging to the brain. If you watch the video "Your Brain On Porn", he basically explains how it is equivalent to hardcore drugs in terms of the affects on the brain. http://yourbrainonporn.com
/r/TheRedPill04/06/15 08:44 AM
1

Hi Karen I'm a big supporter of your work, and have found it personally invaluable. I've even donated some cash to put my money where my mouth is! If there was one thing I could ask you, it is to, for once and for all, to come up with a concise, clear and articulate response to the feminist concept of Patriarchy Theory. Ideally I'm thinking of a short video or written text, that neutrals can be pointed to, that debunks the theory. I love all your videos, but most neutrals are not going to watch …
/r/TheRedPill01/06/15 11:45 AM
1

I would say that's a big claim. Any sources? Having personally done a lot of self work over the decades, I would say that the key to handling emotions successfully is allowing oneself to fully feel them while calmly observing their passage. The consequence of not doing this is a kind of a chronic body tension resulting in a kind of muscle "armour".
/r/TheRedPill23/03/15 10:09 AM
1

+1 Chris Hedges is absolutely brilliant, a Pulitzer Prize winner who was kicked out of the NYT for asking questions. A true people's champion. He's one of the few clear voices on the (true) Left these days.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/15 09:57 AM
1

I have to say that I find the comments here a bit too negative. We all know how important good male friendship is, and you shouldn't lightly let a 20 year friendship die like that. He's not a "little bitch" as other commenters say - he just hasn't taken the pill yet. The hate here towards Bluepillers is pointless and serves for nothing. My advice to you is to be understanding of his point of view, and to not shut the door on him. In fact, tell him that you were good friends before you discovered…
/r/TheRedPill13/03/15 01:39 PM
1

Again, I'm not disagreeing with you. There's no doubt that feminism's momentum has increased in that time period, but it still hasn't reached the critical mass you might think it has.
/r/MensRights20/01/15 06:54 PM
1

I actually worked with a guy who did that. They were practically lining up for their turn, saying "what's wrong with me? Why haven't you fucked me yet?". They're all gone and he's still there, so clearly he knew what he was doing.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/15 09:56 AM
1

Thanks for the thoughtful response. I have seen in my own social circles quite a few females cooling it back on their feminist beliefs, as more and more of the toxic stories come to light. I like to believe that, at heart, the vast majority of people are reasonable and egalitarian, which is why they fall for the feminism=equality bullshit, but which is equally why they will take a step back once they start to see the reality.
/r/MensRights20/01/15 09:37 AM
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Good point, and I suppose you could characterise Marcotte and Valenti as the extremists, which might explain their relatively low numbers of followers. But having said that, they are the loudest and most visible feminists out there at the moment, so it's not a huge leap to equate feminism with them. In other words, radfems = mainstream. Look at the comments on any article on The Guardian website, literally 100s of commenters saying "look we're essentially supportive of feminist ideals of equalit…
/r/MensRights20/01/15 09:33 AM
1

Good point.
/r/MensRights19/01/15 11:03 PM
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You're welcome. I'm just reporting the numbers. :-)
/r/MensRights19/01/15 10:37 PM
1

Yeah, I guess that's not exactly accurate. Matt_why's comment below explains it better than I could.
/r/MensRights19/01/15 10:26 PM
1

Thanks for saving me have to write that comment!
/r/MensRights19/01/15 10:25 PM
2

As in, by adding women to the workforce, where previously it was just men.
/r/MensRights19/01/15 09:53 PM
2

Red Pill is currently over 92k!! That is incredible, as I'm sure there isn't much support for feminism over there.
/r/MensRights19/01/15 08:51 PM
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As far as I can see, conservatives love much of feminism e.g. "Lean In" etc. Feminism has essentially doubled the workforce, something capitalists love. I think with Google, Apple etc offering to freeze women's eggs, that the reality is starting to hit many women, about what it actually means.
/r/MensRights19/01/15 08:48 PM
1

Great reply - thank you!
/r/MensRights19/01/15 07:33 PM
1

"ditto" is the perfect response to that!
/r/MensRights19/01/15 07:30 PM
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Agreed that they are incredibly powerful, but where is the support from the masses?
/r/MensRights19/01/15 07:17 PM
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That's precisely my point - given how much mainstream press and political support they get, you would think there would the social media numbers to back it up.
/r/MensRights19/01/15 07:09 PM
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Well said. Here's a quote from a Psychology Today article, which backs up your point. Marta Meana, a researcher at the University of Nevada, has argued provocatively that the organizing principle of female sexuality is the desire to be desired. In her view, the delicate, tentative guy who politely thinks about you and asks if this is okay or that is okay is a guy who may meet the expectations of your gender politics (treats me as an equal; is respectful of me; communicates with me) and your pare…
/r/MensRights17/01/15 11:10 PM
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It's a tricky one - therapy can be really useful for gaining insight into one's self, and recognising stuck patterns of behaviour. However, a lot of therapists would be very Blue Pill in their approach, so that be problematic. Maybe somebody should setup a Red Pill therapist?
/r/TheRedPill19/12/14 04:01 PM
1

Maybe he meant art literally, but I read it more as your work, your craft, your passion. I don't think it needs to literally mean art.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/14 09:27 AM
1

It's much easier to ignore women once you turn 40 and the libido isn't what it used to be. Quite refreshing actually!
/r/TheRedPill17/12/14 07:44 PM
1

I use a browser Add on called Noscript
/r/TheRedPill17/12/14 07:32 PM
1

Hadrian, one of the greatest Roman emperors, had plenty of male consorts.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/14 07:23 PM
1

This saddened me to read because the love of a good woman is a wondrous thing, and every man should experience it.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/14 07:22 PM
1

As someone who would consider myself on the Left in terms of economics, and the importance of promoting the interests of the working class etc, I have been shocked by how intersectionality has devastasted the Left in the past 30 years. Most leftwingers I know spend most of their time talking about womens, gays and racism and very little about class struggle. It's incredible.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/14 07:18 PM
1

Well there's "The Rules" https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Rules
/r/TheRedPill17/12/14 06:51 PM
1

As you say, it's impossible for all men to become superior by definition, as women's standard of expectation will simply rise with the tide.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/14 06:06 PM
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I would add bisexuality to this list. My ex was all you describe, plus bisexual. That could be more to do with her Borderline Personality Disorder, but for me it's now a red flag.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/14 02:44 PM
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Good comment. The disassociation thing is particularly scary - my ex would go full Hulk mode and a few hours later, would literally not remember a thing that had happened. During Hulk mode she was capable of anything. I used to hide all the knives in the house, but she found my razors in the bathroom :-(
/r/TheRedPill15/12/14 02:37 PM
1

Don't do it guys! False accusations, violence, drugs, suicide attempts, stuff nobody should have to deal with.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/14 02:33 PM
1

Can confirm - my ex was BPD. Avoid!
/r/TheRedPill15/12/14 02:31 PM
1

There are other answers here with suggestions for follow up programs, but what I can tell you is that Stronglifts program is for beginners, so probably not suitable for you.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/14 03:40 PM
2

The one thing about squats - if you get good at them, you will have trouble finding pants that fit. This is a real problem - finding pants that fit, and then getting rips in the seams of the crotch area after only a few months!
/r/TheRedPill26/11/14 03:18 PM
2

Can confirm that Pendlay row is a bitch to get the right form. I had to deload and basically start from scratch again with it.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/14 09:15 AM
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Believe me, you dodged a bullet. BPD is utter hell, and always ends in tears (or worse) from what I've seen.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/14 03:59 PM
1

Well done for coining a new phrase "commitment virgin". Well, at least it's my first time hearing that phrase. It perfectly describes some girls I know..
/r/TheRedPill21/11/14 10:15 PM
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She sounds very like my ex, who was diagnosed with Borderline Personality Disorder. If you haven't heard about it, you should look it up. It's like you're in love with a mannequin whose initial exterior seems perfect, but over time you realise that there is nothing inside her, just emptiness that allows her to shift-shape and behave chameleon-like to mirror and match whoever you are, and to give the appearance of the exact person you would most desire. Ultimately they can't sustain it, it falls …
/r/TheRedPill21/11/14 09:55 PM
2

So many engineers have bad posture. Saw a photo recently of the Ubuntu core team - these guys are top in the world in their game, probably earning huge money, and yet are most likely invisible to women. Amazes me....
/r/TheRedPill21/11/14 07:00 PM
1

Yeah, that question is actually a sign of an inexperienced interviewer - really stupid question.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/14 06:39 PM
1

We've all been there, my friend. Well done for rebuilding, and for sharing your story.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/14 03:17 PM
1

Any evidence for that? My ex used buy all those expensive make up brands because she claimed they protected her skin. LOL
/r/TheRedPill21/11/14 02:32 PM
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She revealed to me that they had broken up 2 days prior to us meeting. I wonder what boyfriend's version of that "break" is?
/r/TheRedPill21/11/14 12:36 AM
2

Look into body weight training, and calisthenics. There's some amazing videos on Youtube. You'd be astonished at what you can do without any equipment.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/14 12:27 AM
2

Agree. The 2012 election was Romney's to lose. Which he did, thankfully. "Wooden" is a compliment to the man - he has zero personality, and apparently zero scruples too. Not that I'm a fan of Obama - what a disappointment he turned out to be.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 11:57 PM
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I actually can't watch that show. Psychopaths make me feel physically sick to watch.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 11:55 PM
1

Is there a possibility of trp getting destroyed by admins? Has there been talk of that?
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 12:39 AM
1

How do you find it as you are getting older? Have you gone for older women, or can you still pull the young girls? How do you deal with the social disapproval of an older man with younger girls, e.g. if you have to meet the girl's parents etc?
/r/TheRedPill12/11/14 07:53 AM
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There is good quotes in the comments on that article: I'm definitely not a bombshell or even pretty per se. But I have dated many, many very objectively attractive men. Personality, it matters. Gold!
/r/TheRedPill11/11/14 12:54 PM
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For me, tattoos are a red flag, as are activities like smoking or recreational drug use. It's not an immediate disqualification, but just tilts the balance.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/14 04:43 PM
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Good to see another atheist here. There is too much talk on here of "church" for my taste.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/14 12:31 PM
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My ex had borderline personality disorder too. It's like playing Red Pill on Hard Mode! Good luck, man, I hope it works out for you.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/14 12:28 PM
1

They're drama right up to 40, my friend. They start to chill out a bit after that.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/14 12:05 AM
1

Yeah, I often think that Latina cultures are naturally more Red Pill than Anglo Saxon cultures. Of course, those macho mustachioed men have a bad name with modern feminists, but it seems they still give the ladies the tingles!
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 11:50 PM
2

This deserves its own post.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 11:40 PM
1

I completely agree with you, but in the victim mentality world we live in, the victim gets to decide their level of victimhood. I'm not saying I agree with it, I'm saying that's the reality we live in. If she says she was harassed, then the current view on that is that she must have been harassed. Any disagreement is labelled 'victim blaming', and is accompanied by shaming tactics. It's a scary future ahead of us if we continue down this road.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/14 01:30 PM
1

His account is gone too. Must have gotten all a bit too much for the poor guy.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/14 06:48 PM
1

Thanks for the reply! I think the key point here, that would undermine a lot of the feminist narrative, is whether this approach actually works for some guys. If it does, then that would strongly go against the feminist narrative of all women not welcoming these approaches. It would be good to get some input from the men who approach like this (or the women they approach). cheers
/r/TheRedPill29/10/14 06:46 PM
1

Can you explain what RES is to those of us who don't know?
/r/TheRedPill29/10/14 05:08 PM
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Not in Northern European cultures it doesn't. Maybe in those places with North African immigrants.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/14 12:31 PM
1

I have a honest question for you, but first I'll give you some background so you can see where I'm coming from. In the mainly white Northern European country I come from, men don't talk to women on the street like that. It's understood that flirting should pretty much only be done in bars and clubs. So for me, this "complimenting" on the street is a strict cultural no-no, something I would never do, and frankly something that shocked me when I first saw an African guy do it in my town. My questi…
/r/TheRedPill29/10/14 12:29 PM
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Thank you for saying this! Of course those guys are harrassing her, because she's the one who gets to define it as harrassment. I can't believe people here are missing this.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/14 12:14 PM
1

She's pretty strong. 10 pushups is impressive from a woman!
/r/TheRedPill29/10/14 12:06 PM
1

As a white man, this was such a shock to me when I realised that they do it because it works. Nobody in my country (northern European massively white) would ever catcall a girl like that, so the first time I encountered an African doing it to a girl in front of me, I was completely shocked. You get used to seeing it after a while, but the girls still don't look happy about it.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/14 12:00 PM
1

Byron Katie has a great quote that's relevant: "When I argue with reality, I lose—but only 100% of the time."
/r/TheRedPill29/10/14 09:39 AM
2

Very interesting comment. I'd encourage you to expand it into a full post.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/14 10:24 AM
2

In fairness to the woman, she paid a grave price for what she did. She has never had a serious relationship or been able to find work (and she's clearly very bright), due to her reputation.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/14 09:04 AM
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Man, I hate those girls who parade around the gym in their tiny clothes, pretending to work out, just fishing for attention. I really think it's just attention seeking behaviour, as if they don't already have enough validation from every man on the street, now they have to remove as much clothes as possible in a heavily testosterone environment. I never give those kinds of girls the time of day. I can tell trouble when I see it.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/14 11:58 AM
2

One of the best pieces of advice I got was, that if your age bothers you, just subtract 5 years and tell yourself "this is my new age", and BELIEVE it. It's quite amazing how different you instantly feel. It really is just a number, and a totally irrelevant one. For me, the toughest age was actually turning 35, because suddenly you move into a whole new bracket (35-44), which is really quite a shock. Turning 40 was just a whole lot of fun, single and travelling.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/14 01:23 PM
2

Yeah, and when you actually look closely at her, the only thing she's got going for her is her youth. She's not that pretty.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/14 01:07 PM
1

Dude, I pray you to take the time to educate yourself on exactly what a Cluster B is, especially Borderline (mostly women). You don't want to find out the hard way what these people are like. They're something like 10% of the adult population, so you probably meet them every day without being aware of it. It's funny because once you experience people with mental illness, you never see the world the same way again. Where previously people were "quirky", "unusual" or "a bit edgy", now I just see "…
/r/TheRedPill15/10/14 11:27 AM
1

Yeah, the host was incredibly irritating, and also obnoxious to the co-host.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/14 04:07 PM
1

Yeah, it's more about using the guitar as accompaniment to whatever entertainment you're providing, usually singing something. There's a reason why lead singers get all the glory!
/r/TheRedPill12/10/14 05:19 PM
1

I've got to agree with the white collar thing. I've worked with some really impressive, smart and hard working women over the years, and had a few girlfriends who were reporting to boards. These girls were nobody's fools, and had to put up with their fair share of sexism.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/14 05:00 PM
1

r/Feminism has only 40 active users! That's hilarious! What's the source for these numbers, anyway?
/r/TheRedPill12/10/14 02:21 PM
1

Taleb is great. And he lifts!
/r/TheRedPill10/10/14 02:08 PM
2

I wonder if they learned some of this from Spain, where the feminists got into power, and set up a new Minster for 'Equality', who quickly introduced outrageous laws as you describe. This ultimately caused a situation where, every week thousands of men found themselves arrested and put in jail, unable to return to their homes, on the mere accusation of violence or even "insults" from a woman. It has torn Spain apart. I know of 3 guys who have been affected by this law (and I'm not Spanish and do…
/r/TheRedPill09/10/14 03:49 PM
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Yeah, with these new consent laws, LMR is now a real problem, because it basically forces women to acknowledge their own sexual desire (something not all women want to explicitly do, no matter how horny they are). It's a tricky one.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/14 03:17 PM
1

I've said this before too. If your income depends upon demanding a particular outcome, then logically once that outcome is achieved, your income should dry up. So, what the likes of Jessica Valenti do is to keep changing the goalposts, so that the outcome is always just out of sight.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/14 09:38 AM
1

You know, what I don't see mentioned enough here is that it's not just about sex. Humans actually need TOUCH as well (see the story of those Romanian orphans that had never been touched as babies). For a lot of us, touch is just as important as sex.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/14 11:16 PM
1

How can you tell if a comment has downvotes?
/r/TheRedPill06/10/14 10:38 PM
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Christ. Is that guy pretending to talk like that, or is that his actual voice? What the fuck is wrong with these guys? Single moms?
/r/TheRedPill06/10/14 09:36 PM
7

I worked in an office once where this one guy screwed every single girl in the office. They were actually queueing going "what's wrong with me? Why won't you fuck me?". I was totally blue pill at the time, and I had no clue how he was doing it. He wasn't even that charming. It was just that once he got the first one or two notches on his belt, the rest of the girls felt left out. Incredible example that has stuck with me over the years.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/14 09:08 AM
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I'm surprised that nobody else has commented on the current reality we men face, where we're now expected to look like fitness models or bodybuilders, to be considered attractive. If you look at sports stars, actors and models compared to how they looked a few decades ago, the difference is enormous. Whereas, although women have toned up slightly in those intervening years, a woman who looks like Sofia Loren is still worshiped today as much as 50 years ago. For us men, the standards have gone th…
/r/TheRedPill03/10/14 08:26 AM
2

Thank you for confirming this. I often regretted not studying medicine but knew that I don't have that kind of brain for memorising facts (I hated biology classes in school, it just seemed to be long lists of stuff to memorize). I have a few doctor friends and even went on a few dates with one, and I was amazed how dumb they were. It's almost like the work they do (which I respect very highly) soaks up all their brain power, and leaves nothing for anything else!
/r/TheRedPill03/10/14 08:14 AM
1

I'm not sure. They send a very vitriolic and idiotic young girl to cover the Mens Rights Conference earlier this year, and after they published her pathetic review, they got a bit of backlash. Maybe they've pulled their socks up? It's a bit strange, as most newspapers are all about getting the Likes, and clearly this negative publicity is going to hurt them. There were quite a few Facebook commenters saying they were goin to pull their support for TIME.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 03:02 PM
1

Yeah, my ex was BPD. The dream that turned into the nightmare. She loved horror movies - that should have been a warning sign! ;-)
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 12:05 PM
2

Were you never blue pill yourself, back in the day? Show some compassion for another man who is clearly in a bad place in his life.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 11:07 AM
2

He had Oneitis for this girl, really believed he was in love with her. Guys in that position don't see women as pussy.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 11:03 AM
1

Yeah, I'm guessing he's depressed for many reasons. The situation with this girl was just the final straw for him. Unfortunately, it's very difficult to rationalise clearly when you're depressed, and easy to lash out at obvious targets. Of course, in the longer term what he needs to do is to take a good long hard look at the reality of his life, and start to make it better. Maybe then he'll be ready for some Red Pill truths. But right now, this guy should be getting medical help to get him over …
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 11:01 AM
0

I see where you're coming from dude, but that's a real human being there, who is in suffering. Show some humanity.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 10:54 AM
1

He probably has a lot more in common with her than J does, but he hasn't grasped the fact that she gets the tingles from J, and not from him. She probably just sees R as a "friend". It's a fine example of putting women on a pedestal.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 10:51 AM
1

Yeah, but that won't make the news. You never hear about the guy who got saved and decided NOT to go postal.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 10:37 AM
1

Absolutely. I've got good friends in their 40s who STILL think like this. "Why should I have to change for anyone? One day I'll find a girl who'll love me exactly as I am? Then we can just cuddle up on the couch together for 6 months." I love the guy, he's a great buddy, but I've given up trying to point out to him that, clearly things aren't working out for him, and that there are other ways. It hurts to see a good man down...
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 10:36 AM
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I've got a good friend who's a feminist, but as others have mentioned here, he's a total natural alpha, so cleans up with ladies despite himself. He's a professsor in a liberal college, so clearly he's been inculcated. What I find funny is that, as a natural alpha, he has no idea what it's like for guys with low SMV. Not a clue.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/14 06:45 PM
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Well, Jessica Valenti's husband is, but at what price?! http://heartiste.wordpress.com/2009/04/03/march-2009-beta-of-the-month/
/r/TheRedPill01/10/14 04:05 PM
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Good link, but the data isn't divided per gender, and correlation doesn't imply causation. Those countries in the top 10 are among the wealthiest countries in the world, and gender equality is correlated with wealth too, so it may just be caused by wealth.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/14 03:36 PM
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Great point, which I have made repeatedly to female friends over the years. Equality and hypergamy just does not compute.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/14 09:12 AM
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This is something about modern Feminism that saddens me - that it's actually denying women the chance to experience the kind of happiness you've just described your girlfriend having.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 01:10 PM
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Can confirm, the "lose control" thing is a huge turn-on for many women I have known.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 01:07 PM
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Christ, I'm still pretty BP, but even I've never asked a woman for sex. I just initiate, and the woman responds. Every single time. PS this is what is so messed up about these consent laws - it breaks the age old dynamic of the man naturally initiating sex, and the woman following. Especially for women who are uncomfortable admitting to their sexual side. Lots of women are happy with that grey area where they can claim they're not sluts, but still have lots of sex.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 12:39 PM
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Wow, that sounds incredible. It'd be great if you took some time to write up a full post about your experiences there, and what you learned. I think some of us more 'innocent' readers here would appreciate it.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/14 08:45 AM
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Actually, it's a strange quote. Why wouldn't they compare like with like? i.e. employed men with employed women etc. I don't quite get it.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 03:30 PM
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If it's true, then someone needs to compile a big list of these incidents to link to at times like this.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/14 04:29 PM
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My ex was like that, but she had a DSM diagnosis: she was Borderline. I still don't think it's fair to say that all women are like that though.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/14 03:46 PM
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Sorry man, but that's just wrong.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/14 03:16 PM
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Actually, now that you mention it, you almost NEVER see women killed on screen. Interesting point.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/14 01:16 PM
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You're way off here dude. Feminists have implemented all sorts of insane laws in many jurisdictions. For example, in Europe, the socialist government brought in some domestic violence laws that ended up creating over 100,000 false accusations against men PER YEAR. A man could be picked up by the police and spend 2 nights in jail just based on the word of a woman, that he was violent or even just verbally abusive to her. In Sweden, a feminist party had some good success in recent elections. It's …
/r/TheRedPill23/09/14 04:50 PM
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Great suggestion. Could you give some examples or ideas how to start this?
/r/TheRedPill23/09/14 03:08 PM
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Dude, I'm 42. Believe me, you're just getting going. Go back and do whatever it is you really want to do. You're still a kid. Nobody else is judging you other than you.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/14 03:06 PM
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I'd actually encourage your to spend more time pursuing quality male friendships rather than looking for chicks to bang. Now is the time to build up your network of good buddies, and get that social approval. The chicks will come later.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/14 03:04 PM
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Good post. I find some Red Pill ideas very compatible with some Buddhist ideas (and more generally ideas of awakening to Reality e.g. the writings of Jed McKenna etc).
/r/TheRedPill23/09/14 02:31 PM
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This is correct. I actually decided a few years back to avoid women in the 28-35 range. One, as you say, they are a pain in the neck (but they don't have a lot of control over, it's biology). Two, I don't think it's fair to waste their time either, when it's clear we want different things. It's not good to string somebody along like that.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/14 04:00 PM
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You're reading this in class? Wow, I feel old now... there was no technology in classrooms when I was a student (unless you count the ballpoint pen).
/r/TheRedPill22/09/14 02:25 PM
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Psychology Today is a GREAT site. Generally their articles are evidence driven with a big emphasis on evolutionary psychology, with very little patience for ideology i.e. feminism.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/14 12:20 AM
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Wow, so a compliment from women about your looks is actually a big deal, right? It means you're automatically ahead of at least 80% of the other guys around.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 03:58 PM
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Yeah the comments were amazing. Wizard of Oz stuff.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/14 05:13 PM
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I'd like to think she will wake up one day and "get it", but she won't. Probably not, because there are still plenty of BP betas out there, and she is still a very attractive woman. She'll find her target.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/14 05:04 PM
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Interesting reading the comments over on 2X. Mostly reasonable. The worst are from a feminist called a_bra_that_fits. When you take a look at her comment history, there are dozens of comments of how she's into rape play and something I'd never heard of before called 'struggle fucking'. The cognitive dissonance is strong in this one. Just how twisted are the minds of some of these radfems?
/r/TheRedPill17/09/14 01:58 PM
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So she has drunken sex with a sports stud, and regrets it the next day. He doesn't pay her enough attention afterwards, so she feels bad. She discusses with a feminist professor (Danielle Dirks), who convinces her it was rape. Next thing we know the guy's name is dirt. This madness has got to end, before some really bad shit goes down.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/14 01:03 PM
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Agree. I used be like Cassial and always spoke my mind. It gets you nothing but trouble.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/14 05:20 PM
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But they already have Washington's ear. Obama came out with the 77c pay myth, and California just came out with the "Yes means yes" thing, so it has already started. This is what concerns me - at some point, someone has to be brave enough to stand up, and say enough.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/14 05:19 PM
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Because one day you will regret it.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/14 05:16 PM
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Wish I'd learned this 20 years ago! :-/
/r/TheRedPill16/09/14 05:13 PM
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Well, maybe it's time for us men to force our way back into helping and mentoring our children.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/14 10:33 PM
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Yes, it's literally the opposite of "Patriarchy hurts men too".
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 05:25 PM
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Yeah, it was a dick move by the guy, in fairness.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 05:18 PM
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I've seen it so many times now, that it's just entertaining. I don't get triggered any more. Big Red is just one of those fun characters in the whole MRA world! Anyone know what she's been up to lately? We need more videos!
/r/MensRights12/09/14 12:09 PM
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As a similarly left leaning individual on many issues, what saddens me the most about this, is that most left wing academics I know spend an inordinate amount of time and energy on bullshit like this, and meanwhile the REALLY important issues like inequality, the militarization of society and climate change are being increasingly ignored. The writer Chris Hedges wrote a book about it, Death of the Liberal Class.
/r/MensRights12/09/14 11:41 AM
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Good article, and well done to that brave man for speaking out.
/r/MensRights11/09/14 11:18 PM
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Sadly there are plenty of guys who there who would settle for that.
/r/MensRights11/09/14 04:20 PM
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legbeards Never heard legbeard before. I like it!
/r/MensRights11/09/14 03:52 PM
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This! It's exactly the same with feminist "journalists" like Jessica Valenti. If your pay packet is dependent upon the complaining about the status quo, then of course you don't actually want the status quo to change!
/r/MensRights11/09/14 02:30 PM
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I'm European, and most Swedish women I know are rabid feminists. They've just grown up with it, and take it completely for granted. Tough place to be a man. On the other hand, it's a very easy place to get laid!
/r/MensRights11/09/14 01:46 PM
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Brilliant comment. Very insightful.
/r/MensRights11/09/14 01:37 PM
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I'm sure it's crossed the minds of a few MRAs from time to time, to run some 'false flag' operations. Certainly the radfems are capable, and have done so, by all accounts.
/r/MensRights11/09/14 01:34 PM
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Same here. It was a mixture of stumbling across one of Karen's videos, while around the same time getting pissed off with Jessica Valenti's insane ramblings in The Guardian. Suddenly it all clicked. And to think that only a few years ago I would have called myself a feminist!
/r/MensRights11/09/14 01:22 PM
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You doxxed Lauren in the first post too, dude. Best delete it at this point.
/r/MensRights10/09/14 11:38 AM
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Very interesting thought. I'd never looked at it that way. Generally I'm in two minds about the mainstreaming of feminist thought - one is that right thinking people all over the world will see it for what it is, and reject it. But the second thought I have is that lots of less-than-right thinking people (younger people, easily led people, or just plain less smart people) will lap it up and accept it as truth. Look at how popular religion still is, for shits sakes. So, yeah in two minds here wha…
/r/MensRights10/09/14 11:28 AM
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Very little, I'm afraid, my friend. Very little. That's why many men are going red pill or MGTOW. These are difficult times we live in.
/r/MensRights10/09/14 11:19 AM
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Yeah, it should have come with a trigger warning (they're not just for feminists!)
/r/MensRights09/09/14 06:16 PM
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Yeah, but that doesn't stop them claiming it!
/r/MensRights09/09/14 04:06 PM
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I'm a bit late to the game here, but I notice that nobody else has suggested this. The sidebar has a lot of useful links, some of which will be able to help you. See "Men's help links: Domestic violence, divorce, false accusations" half way down the right hand side there. And can I just say that your story really moved me, and what saddens me further is that it seems to take stories like yours to wake people up to the reality of the modern world, and how men are treated in it. Your boyfriend is …
/r/MensRights09/09/14 03:32 PM
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It's absolutely incredible to me that people here are suggesting that, and yet it makes absolute sense given the insanity of the position this young couple find themselves in. God help us....
/r/MensRights09/09/14 03:26 PM
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You get to keep your 'male privilege'?
/r/MensRights09/09/14 03:24 PM
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That's horrific about your friend. Is there a way you can keep him working for you, and pay him in barter? It's so important for a men's mental health to keep doing work. If not, he should find a way to publicise his case. My heart goes out to him.
/r/MensRights09/09/14 03:22 PM
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There are ways. Look for healthy relationships with friends, family and even exes. One red flag for me is when someone claims all their exes were assholes. Generally, I've found that people who speak positively about their exes are psychologically fairly healthy. Also look out for a good work ethic, solid career path and life goals etc. I might get flamed for this one, but too many tatoos, piercings, horn rim glasses (general SJW look) is a no-no too. :-P
/r/MensRights09/09/14 03:17 PM
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But remember that Karen is a woman after all, so they have to be seen to be taking her somewhat seriously. If it was a man, that interview wouldn't even be happening....
/r/MensRights09/09/14 02:57 PM
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God man, that was beautiful. Tears in my eyes too. :-)
/r/MensRights09/09/14 02:53 PM
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That's funny, because they claim the opposite - that Reddit is run by neckbeard virgin MRAs (and atheists). :-)
/r/MensRights09/09/14 02:42 PM
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Yeah, Valenti is a horror (she bathes in male tears apparently). The Guardian has been hammering their feminist agenda down our throats since a new woman editor took over a few years back. She has just announced that she's moving on, and I have noticed more restraint in their articles recently. There were even a few about circumcision and violence against men! Drops of water compared to the river of feminist propaganda, but still. One thing I do like about The Guardian is that the commenters bel…
/r/MensRights08/09/14 07:12 PM
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Hey, thanks for taking the time to write this. Great thoughts, and I'll go and watch those clips to try to understand it better. As someone who is very concerned about inequality in the world (currently reading Piketty), your words struck a chord. I'm not convinced that some of the core RP tenets are incompatible with a compassionate and caring worldview. Certainly some of the louder voices here might dissuade you of that, but there is plenty of alternative voices here too. One concept I haven't…
/r/TheRedPill08/09/14 02:21 PM
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Hi, genuinely interested to hear your critique of The Red Pill. Always curious to learn from others.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/14 12:49 PM
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Good to hear you've decided to stay well clear of this woman. She sounds extremely unwell, and could really fuck things up for you.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/14 08:59 AM
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In my experience, it starts late 20s, after 27. It depends a lot on their culture and peer group (and how RP smart they are).
/r/TheRedPill28/08/14 08:54 AM
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I think the only thing they can realistically do, is to wake up, see their true SMV, and find a match. Who will probably turn out to be a much older guy (50+) or a low SMV guy closer to their own age. They'll hate their life, but eventually they'll get used to it. Or not. :-) It's a point that's been raised here before - when a woman has spent all of her 20's banging alphas, she's basically never going to be happy with anything else. She'll spend the rest of her life romanticising about the one …
/r/TheRedPill28/08/14 08:53 AM
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That's a massive point. Great comment!
/r/MensRights19/08/14 09:02 AM
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In fact, I would go so far as to say that feminist indoctrination has worked so well, that the only way anybody gets here is through direct experience with the reality. In my case, it was a friend who got falsly accused of domestic violence. I naively thought justice would be served - the reality shocked me into a new level of awareness.
/r/MensRights19/08/14 08:57 AM
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Wow, great post. Can't believe you're getting downvoted. The truth will make the community only stronger. Do you think the mods of this subreddit would agree with what you've written?
/r/MensRights18/08/14 08:48 AM
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This. Great post. It's like Harvey Two-Face from the Batman comics - the extremism that made the greatest crime fighter got turned into the extremism that made him a criminal. That's why most people in society aren't bothered one way or the other with feminism/men's rights - they don't feel that extremism. Those of us who are here have to be very careful not to get pulled into it. Always try to put yourself in the other side's shoes, always be your own toughest critic, always be pushing for Trut…
/r/MensRights18/08/14 08:39 AM
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Actually, that's exactly what this guy needs.
/r/MensRights18/08/14 12:08 AM
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That woman in the center of the photo wearing the t shirt is Jessica Valenti, possibly the most prominent feminist in the world right now. Not just any random person.
/r/MensRights17/08/14 06:58 PM
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No, that would be sexist and wrong.
/r/MensRights17/08/14 06:57 PM
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Again, as somebody commented on a similar video earlier this week, this isn't beta behaviour. This is abuse. That woman has Borderline Personality Disorder. If you've never come across someone with BPD, it's hard to grasp how impossible they are to deal with. Those guys actually dealt with her pretty well. I just hope he dumped her ass.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/14 11:49 PM
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Good find. Of course, it may not have occured to her to ponder what she herself is bringing to the relationship, and if she has anything to offer when she inevitably goes to look for the "upgrade". My experience is women rarely look at themselves objectively to see what they bring to the table.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/14 11:39 PM
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You said it. "Walking on eggshells" is actually the name of one of the classic texts on BPD. I hope your Dad is doing good now.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/14 11:14 PM
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Agreed. She's almost definitely got Borderline Personality Disorder
/r/TheRedPill16/08/14 11:28 AM
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Yeah, very disappointed with the comments here. This woman clearly has Borderline Personality Disorder (aka every guy's worse nightmare). If you don't know what this is, I recommend reading up on it, and doing everything in your power to avoid these women (some 4% of the population). I've been in that guy's shoes, and it's a very frightening place trying to reason with someone who is literally insane.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/14 11:05 AM
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Why do you say she's a RP woman? Does she go along with the whole captain/first-mate thing?
/r/TheRedPill15/08/14 06:47 PM
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Thanks for sharing - that was a very reasonable discussion. As many people here point out, unfortunately many of the more powerful feminists aren't that reasonable (Jessica Valenti etc). I still haven't heard a really good criticism of Patriarchy Theory yet though. I mean, intuitively I know it's bullshit, but I'd actually like to see some serious studies that have critiqued it properly. Maybe /u/girlwriteswhat has written something?
/r/MensRights13/08/14 11:04 PM
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That sounds wonderful. Lucky you!
/r/TheRedPill13/08/14 08:01 PM
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I'm so sorry to hear that man. Try some of the links down the right side of this page: "Men's help links: Domestic violence, divorce, false accusations"
/r/MensRights13/08/14 08:00 PM
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By the way, was it helpful trying to meet girls having a twin sister when you were growing up? I almost imagined that you would get all sorts of insights from having such a close female relationship, but after discovering Red Pill, now I'm starting to wonder if that's true.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/14 12:10 AM
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Impressive analysis indeed. There's more to it than that though. This guy http://ccgi.newbery1.plus.com/blog/?p=337 has actually done some research as to how the moderation worked, and he claimed that it wasn't Guardian staff, but actually other readers who drive the comment deletion. There is a 'report abuse' link beside each comment, and anyone can click it. Once it's clicked, a moderator is supposed to read the comment and the context, and make a decision based on the Community Standards. In …
/r/MensRights12/08/14 09:51 AM
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Impressive analysis indeed. There's more to it than that though. This guy http://ccgi.newbery1.plus.com/blog/?p=337 has actually done some research as to how the moderation worked, and he claimed that it wasn't Guardian staff, but actually other readers who drive the comment deletion. There is a 'report abuse' link beside each comment, and anyone can click it. Once it's clicked, a moderator is supposed to read the comment and the context, and make a decision based on the Community Standards. In …
/r/MensRights12/08/14 09:51 AM
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This. They are actually way ahead of other newspapers because they stepped up their online game years ago. It's the top 140 ranked website in the world. http://www.alexa.com/siteinfo/theguardian.com
/r/MensRights12/08/14 09:47 AM
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Not at all. I actually support The Guardian's stance on almost every other issue. I started reading it regularly during the Edward Snowden revelations, and enjoy their coverage of almost everything, EXCEPT gender issues, where I think they have become almost a caricature of un-thinking political correctness. It's actually a fantastic newspaper, and their website is one of the best in the world.
/r/MensRights12/08/14 09:43 AM
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You know, you sharing your story here has been massively healing for many many of the men (and women) who hang out here. Thank you again for who you are, and how you have comported yourself. I have a feeling that once you've fully gotten past this episode, that both you and your boyfriend are going to be much stronger and happier people. Experience can be a real gift, and you will find yourself feeling more and more gratitude with each passing day.
/r/MensRights11/08/14 11:47 PM
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What sickens me about these cases is how far the prosecutors are willing to go with them, when clearly the accuser is lying. A normal human being would just drop the case and tell her to GTFO, but these state prosecutors will push it out for months until every last drop is squeezed out of it. I really wonder how they can sleep at night, knowing they are ruining innocent people's lives.
/r/MensRights11/08/14 11:38 PM
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Check the hamstering from "because_zelda". Her poor husband. It happens. I have some one like that I met when I was 19. Years later and already married every time I know he's in town it drives me crazy and I want to fuck his brains out... I see him once a year during the month of October because he's friends with a comowner of a haunt I used to own. He provided us with the majority of the props through out the years. Every time I see him I go crazy because he is a total ass hole but the sex is a…
/r/TheRedPill10/08/14 08:46 PM
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Here you go https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3uc2EtMhoKU
/r/TheRedPill10/08/14 12:31 AM
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Didn't you get the memo from our feminist overlords? We live in a "rape culture". It's a jungle out there!
/r/TheRedPill09/08/14 04:25 PM
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There was a Dutch version of the Survivor TV show, where they did just that: men on one island, women on the other. It went as you would expect. :-)
/r/TheRedPill09/08/14 03:55 PM
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I thought A Voice For Men had a resources list of lawyers and therapists that were "man friendly", but couldn't find it on their site. Does anyone have such a list? I know the OP is reading this thread. Edit: found it here on Reddit in MensRights/wiki/support Edit 2: not allowed link to Reddit!
/r/TheRedPill09/08/14 02:28 PM
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Only ones for men. For women, they're a source of celebration of their independence. There was a good post here a few weeks ago, showing Jezebel's hypocrisy on the subject when they had 2 artilcles on sex toys, one shaming men and the other celebrating women.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/14 01:51 PM
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if you can be nonchalant about it the whole time and keep them laughing while you basically walk them straight to your room and fuck them. Also, never even mention fucking them before you're actually doing it or they'll feel like sluts. It just has to magically happen. This is the total opposite of feminist's "enthusiastic consent"!
/r/TheRedPill07/08/14 09:35 PM
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I actually feel sorry for women in this position. It's only human nature to think you're something special if you're regularly getting high SMV males, and to still reject lesser guys, even when you're not getting the 9's any more. I've got a single female friend in her early 40's who regularly rejects anyone who isn't in an 8. Yet she's probably a 5 herself at best. And she can't understand why does 8+ guys aren't interested in her. I genuinely feel sorry for her, and wish there was a nice way t…
/r/TheRedPill07/08/14 03:22 PM
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Sweden is the ultimate in this, where a woman can raise a child on her own, from its birth right through to adulthood, with every need met and paid for by the state. This allows Swedish women to date whoever the hell they want with much less regard for material resources. Many Swedish women I know love dating artists and musicians for this exact reason. If you compare this with the US, where the cost of raising a child to adulthood has been estimated at over $500,000, it helps explain why women …
/r/TheRedPill07/08/14 12:58 PM
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Or borderline personality disorder. Any of the cluster B ones actually.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/14 11:33 PM
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There are some great comments further down. One guys Pulsar, talks about the pressure on men to stay masculine and dominant, and a girl replies: "I often see the constant competitiveness among guys and think it must be exhausting to maintain, but I like it so much (I personally am attracted to basically the most dominant, "masculine" guy in the room, any room, and I like power struggles) that I don't usually spare much emotional energy for empathizing with the guys who are under that pressure." …
/r/TheRedPill06/08/14 05:49 PM
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I would LOVE to hear the husband's version of the story! If you're reading, husband, please tell us your side.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/14 05:41 PM
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I mostly agree with you. If you study developmental psychology (Ken Wilber, Spiral Dynamics etc), you'll see that change is extremely difficult for humans. Shame and rational attempts to change people rarely work. Leading by example often does though.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/14 11:31 AM
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Well said, I was over 40 years old when I discovered RP. He's a very lucky boy.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/14 02:10 PM
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Pyschology Today had an article about this. Take-away quote: "In her view, the delicate, tentative guy who politely thinks about you and asks if this is okay or that is okay is a guy who may meet the expectations of your gender politics (treats me as an equal; is respectful of me; communicates with me) and your parents’ preferences, but he may also put you into a sexual coma—not despite these qualities, but because of them."
/r/TheRedPill10/07/14 06:49 PM
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I think you've nailed it there. It's not just that she's probably not LTR material for most younger guys; it's that she sounds like she's a bit of a pain in the ass. She's just like that person in the queue in front of you in the show arguing with the cashier over some shit coupon or something for 20 minutes, when everyone else in the building knows they're in the wrong, but they just don't GET it, and just keep on wrecking everybodies heads. I'd say this woman is probably not that bad looking f…
/r/TheRedPill10/07/14 05:10 PM
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Good post. I've noticed that many men get lost into the fold of relationships and marriage, and isolated from their male friends. Usually the wife/girlfriend puts a lot of pressure on them to achieve this. One married friend I had would meet up with me for a beer about twice a year (if he was lucky). During these meetings he would so relieved to get out of the house, but inevitably the wife would call his phone 2 or 3 times during the meeting, and eventually start to ask him when was he "coming …
/r/TheRedPill09/07/14 11:57 AM
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Ah, good. Thanks for clarifying. I wasn't aware of any of that. I guess I better start reading that sidebar. :-)
/r/TheRedPill08/07/14 12:48 PM
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Why is everyone down-voting this guy? He's only trying to understand, and asking some questions. Since when are questions a problem?
/r/TheRedPill07/07/14 10:36 PM
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It's a pity his comment was deleted, I would have liked to read it. The more debate we have, the more we progress towards truth.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/14 10:23 PM
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Good comment. Good to see other men here getting the importance of processing and dealing with our emotions, to become better men.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/14 02:37 PM
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Sorry, that was TheRedPill, not MensRights. My mistake.
/r/MensRights04/07/14 05:25 PM
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Absolutely. I was engaging with this user http://www.reddit.com/user/agirlsomewhere and she sent me a message saying she couldn't reply as she had been banned. You can see the conversation here http://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/28hzfr/important_life_lessons_from_working_in_a_nightclub/cibhpcm?context=3
/r/MensRights03/07/14 10:45 AM
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The really big one is The Guardian. It's like a machine pumping out these feminist articles. Jessica Valentia alone has a daily column, plus dozens of other writers.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/14 10:35 AM
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Jezebel is huge! Look at its page on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/Jezebel Almost half a million likes. Half my female friends follow it (and even one or two of my feminist male friends).
/r/TheRedPill03/07/14 10:34 AM
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This sub bans people too unfortunately (hope I don't get banned for saying that!)
/r/MensRights02/07/14 02:44 PM
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Thanks. Wow, this really is controversial stuff. Do you ever feel like chucking it in, and becoming politically correct on every subject, just to avoid having to deal with the shit?
/r/TheRedPill01/07/14 03:56 PM
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Can you explain that a bit more? What does "shadow ban" mean? Do people actually spend time looking at other people's postings? I've been on Reddit a while, but still don't know how things work around here.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/14 12:37 PM
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Yeah, that's a good answer. The thing is that once these women have experienced the 'alpha fucks', can they really go back to betas? Surely, they've basically been 'ruined' for other men, and will spend much of their time reminiscing on those alphas, and comparing their beta? So, I guess what you would advise a daughter is to avoid the cock carousel in the first place? In fairness to young women, that must be very difficult - they get the opportunities to fuck alphas; why wouldn't they want to t…
/r/TheRedPill01/07/14 10:30 AM
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In all honesty though, what advice would a Red Piller give a woman like that? Tell her to aim for beta bux, or just give up? "Too late honey, you blew it"? Seriously, I don't know enough about RP to answer that. If it was your daughter, what would you tell her?
/r/TheRedPill30/06/14 11:37 AM
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Well, given that very religious groups like Muslims and (some) Catholics breed like rabbits, I'd say you're right.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/14 11:32 AM
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Check out Carnell Smith's amazing talk on Paternity fraud at the AVFM conference last weekend. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eNNpmMTxt8o Around the 3:00 hour mark.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/14 11:17 AM
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I think it's perceived as contempt for women by many people because it's so different from the 'norm' (or as the previous commenter put it: "defacto women centered dating game"). It completely inverts all the accepted norms of how women are providing a scarce resource which men have to battle to find and woo. The earlier comment about a Red Pill TV show really got me thinking what such a show would be like, and it occurred to me how upsetting it would be to the current narrative in society, espe…
/r/TheRedPill30/06/14 09:18 AM
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That's why he put the quotes around the word, to show the different interpretations of it.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/14 09:13 AM
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Thanks. I just heard Anne Cools talk - wonderful! This is supposedly the video stream, but it's not working (yet). https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Bzim6hQUoC8
/r/MensRights27/06/14 03:36 PM
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The absolute maximum possible - that's a sickening crime.
/r/MensRights27/06/14 10:51 AM
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You know I was thinking the exact same thing. They all have a similar "look" (apart from Jessica Valenti, who is the like the glamorous "front"). This is the woman who organised the protests against the men's conference in Detroit. http://jaredpadasexme.tumblr.com/post/89868484822/im-kinda-cute-cuz-my-hair-is-like-a-fluffy
/r/MensRights27/06/14 08:56 AM
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Dude, they're just tools. Free of morality. The morality is yours in how you choose to use them.
/r/MensRights26/06/14 05:20 PM
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Another link here http://www.dailymail.co.uk/sciencetech/article-2669408/Rise-female-relationship-terrorists-Study-finds-women-controlling-aggressive-partners-men.html
/r/MensRights25/06/14 04:06 PM
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This is the author of the study. Seems like a good 'un! "My PhD examined intimate partner violence (IPV), aggression and a number of personality variables (e.g. attachment, psychopathic traits) and correlates. My particular interest lies with examining women’s use of IPV and male victims." http://www.cumbria.ac.uk/Courses/SubjectAreas/LawSocialScience/Meetthestaff/ElizabethBates.aspx
/r/MensRights25/06/14 04:04 PM
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Here's a better link from Cosmopolitan of all people! Apparently the study was done by the University of Cumbria, by a woman called Elizabeth Bates. The sisterhood will not be pleased! http://www.cosmopolitan.co.uk/lifestyle/big-issue/cosmo-reports/men-suffer-domestic-violence
/r/MensRights25/06/14 04:02 PM
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Looks like she got banned anyway, so there won't be any more dialog. Do mods not understand, that when you ban dissenting voices, that you end up with an echo chamber? There has to be open discussion between all points of view.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 11:39 AM
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Damn, the original comment has been deleted. What did it say?
/r/TheRedPill22/06/14 01:20 PM
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Actually, your story sounds interesting. I hope you stick around. I agree there is often a divisive tone, but show me somewhere on the internet that there isn't?
/r/TheRedPill22/06/14 01:17 PM
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Hey, thanks a lot. That makes so much sense. In fact, I don't even think it's a woman-only specific thing. Both men and women have masculine and feminine sides to their personalities, and both sidesrespond differently to the different styles of encouragement/criticism. I see that in my self and in friends of mine.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/14 11:36 AM
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There is actually a flip side of this too, whereby when the girl actually has a lot to offer, her sense of entitlement can go off the radar. Sister of a friend of mine was studying to be a doctor. She told us about a girl in her medical school class who was a real beauty, 8+, and also one of the smartest people in the class. So, a rare combination of beauty and brains. The thing was, this girl never dated anyone. When we asked why, my friend's sister says "because no guy has ever been good enoug…
/r/TheRedPill20/06/14 02:40 PM
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Hi, good comment. Would you mind expanding a little more on Deida's method where "praised her qualities that aren't yet praiseworthy". I'm not quite following you there.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/14 02:33 PM
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All you can do is stonewall her, dude. Anything else is asking for trouble. Why do you think she will want to talk to you though?
/r/MensRights11/06/14 04:52 PM
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I presume people here have seen the shocking documentary about false accusations in Spain as a result of the feminist takeover of the government. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GjgBfklmYj8
/r/MensRights11/06/14 11:20 AM
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Yeah, the smartest things the feminists could do is to just ignore the conference completely. The more attention they draw to it, well, the more attention it gets. Personally, I want to see these issues getting mainstream coverage. I just hope it's not as part of some crazy mass shooting in Detroit!
/r/MensRights10/06/14 08:19 AM
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We really need some good data to be able to respond to these figures quoted in the article.
/r/MensRights13/02/14 08:11 PM
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Thank you so much!
/r/MensRights07/01/14 06:19 PM
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I think that's harsh. She's probably just been brainwashed (as most people have) by a system. As I said below, we have to reach out to people, not just write them off as stupid.
/r/MensRights06/01/14 06:59 PM
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Thank you! I actually just posted yesterday looking for some concise definitions like you just used. You should publish all your ideas somewhere!
/r/MensRights06/01/14 06:58 PM
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You know, I agree that she sounds stupid, but can't you see that she's just been brainwashed (as most people have) by a system? We have to reach out to people, not just write them off as stupid.
/r/MensRights06/01/14 06:54 PM
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Thank you, that looks fantastic. However, what I'm actually looking for is something more like the FAQ, which someone can very quickly read and see the key points both for and against. So, for example when someone starts blaming the "patriarchy", I can quickly point to a well sourced reference that explains what is problematic with the concept of the patriarchy etc. Your average internet warrior isn't going to watch a 15 minute Youtube video, or buy a book. The Wikipedia article on patriarchy is…
/r/MensRights06/01/14 06:47 PM
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